Speaker 1: Second date updated.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you can plan the perfect date, but then some
Speaker 2: outside force that you can't control comes into play and
Speaker 2: changes everything, like a hurricane. Okay, yeah, I shouldn't be
Speaker 2: going on a date if there's an eminent hurricane about
Speaker 2: to bear down on you.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you just need love.
Speaker 2: I guess I was thinking more like when Brooke was
Speaker 2: on a date eating her potato salad and a bird
Speaker 2: pooped on it, but it didn't stop her though. Brooke
Speaker 2: kept on eating, holding eye.
Speaker 1: Contact with that dude the entire time.
Speaker 3: Okay, I can usually go along with these, but that
Speaker 3: one is too far eat the potato salad. I would
Speaker 3: then steal his food and eat whatever.
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if our listener, Marshall has quite the
Speaker 2: same resilience says Brooke does. Let's find out, though, Marshall,
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show man.
Speaker 4: Hey, how's every one doing?
Speaker 5: It?
Speaker 3: Sounds like better than you. It sounds like you had
Speaker 3: something terrible happened on your date.
Speaker 1: We don't know how terrible. Before before we get to them.
Speaker 3: There set up.
Speaker 2: Maybe few bird poop doesn't sound that horrible on your food.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: But before we get to the crazy whateverthing that happened
Speaker 2: that derailed the date.
Speaker 1: Let's start with the girl that you met. Who's she?
Speaker 4: Yes? So, her name is Julia. We met online. She's
Speaker 4: super cute, okay.
Speaker 3: Was there something about her that stood out from everybody else?
Speaker 4: Well, other than her beautiful smile and beautiful hair. Of course,
Speaker 4: she had this beautiful dragon tattoo on her shoulder, and like,
Speaker 4: you know, I'm really into like tattoos, and it was
Speaker 4: it was super hot and just it was it was
Speaker 4: just beautiful. It was beautiful.
Speaker 3: That's awesome.
Speaker 1: That's a good like conversation point to come up on it.
Speaker 5: No, I mean, people are so proud of their tattoos.
Speaker 5: I bet she would love to have a compliment about it.
Speaker 2: Some girls get annoyed because guys always say the same thing.
Speaker 1: I like your tattoo, Did it hurt?
Speaker 4: You know?
Speaker 3: I don't think that's when you ask what the meaning is?
Speaker 5: Should because Alexis hates meanings.
Speaker 1: I was drunk, Okay.
Speaker 2: Well, at least the initial attraction was there for you.
Speaker 2: What did you and Julia do for your date?
Speaker 4: Well? I wanted to do something different, right, So I
Speaker 4: didn't want to be like every other guy that was
Speaker 4: hitting her up online. So I was like, well, let's
Speaker 4: do something somewhat romantic and city scooters and right around
Speaker 4: the city. I love that, go to some of my
Speaker 4: favorite spots.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like you know, like the scooters that are you
Speaker 5: can like use your app on and yeah, my husband
Speaker 5: and I do that.
Speaker 1: Sometimes that doesn't bode well for you.
Speaker 3: Oh no, we bring helmets though, because there.
Speaker 5: Are a lot of people you don't not worried helmets
Speaker 5: and I've never seen helmet on.
Speaker 3: Oh, I definitely. Do you go twenty twenty five miles
Speaker 3: an hour Alexis?
Speaker 4: Ye?
Speaker 1: Did you? Did you go helmets or no helmets? Marshall?
Speaker 4: No helmets? No, all right, But you know it's funny
Speaker 4: that you say, because everything was going well. We got
Speaker 4: ice cream, we got coffee and everything. But then we're
Speaker 4: at a crosswalk and this woman comes up. She says, like,
Speaker 4: you know, she's an er doctor, and she's like, listen,
Speaker 4: I've been doing this for over twenty years and most
Speaker 4: of the injuries I've seen have come from those scooters
Speaker 4: right there. Oh oh my god.
Speaker 2: Right, that sucks though, Well, like what a mood killer
Speaker 2: to happen in the middle of the.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you walk off and walk the scooter.
Speaker 4: So you're saying, well, you know, I'm sitting there and
Speaker 4: I'm like, come on, lady, I'm obviously on a date here,
Speaker 4: so you know, I kind of laugh at off. Okay,
Speaker 4: and so I'm like, let me get out of this
Speaker 4: situation as quick as possible.
Speaker 3: So great injuries.
Speaker 4: As I was pulling away, you wouldn't believe it. I
Speaker 4: ran over this lady's foot. The irony, I felt horrible,
Speaker 4: and she's yelling even louder.
Speaker 1: So you got a gun it and get away from
Speaker 1: the screens.
Speaker 4: After that point, I was like, I just want to
Speaker 4: be as far away from this lady as possible. She
Speaker 4: was okay. I took the tongue lashing, and I'm like,
Speaker 4: all right, let's just go. And Julie's not really wanting
Speaker 4: to ride these scooters anymore.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, weird.
Speaker 3: Time to park up.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, did you guys just find a bar
Speaker 5: or something or a restaurant to go to?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Actually we did. I was like, let's just go over here.
Speaker 4: This is a nice spot. We got a couple of
Speaker 4: drinks and good everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah you read what she wanted right like that.
Speaker 1: I mean it's good.
Speaker 5: Like some some people will be like let's just keep
Speaker 5: going and ignore the other person's feelings.
Speaker 3: Why are you laughing every time?
Speaker 2: It's like any drink comes into playbooks like Okay, good god,
Speaker 2: thank god, I means dangerous heavy drinking, thumbs up.
Speaker 3: Good helment. Yeah, I wear a helmet to whine night.
Speaker 5: No. I mean it's good that you read she wanted
Speaker 5: and needed and salvage.
Speaker 1: I mean, did you salvage it from that point? Did
Speaker 1: it feel good from that point on?
Speaker 4: Well? I thought so. I mean we had a great time,
Speaker 4: We shared it, laughed, we got a couple of drinks,
Speaker 4: and everything was fine. But well, I've been trying to
Speaker 4: get in contact with her and have another date for
Speaker 4: the last two weeks, and she's just always had some
Speaker 4: other excuse, you know. And she even told me that
Speaker 4: she's been going out on dates, which is cool, don't
Speaker 4: get me wrong. Like I get it.
Speaker 3: She's to say that. You say that to each other,
Speaker 3: don't want to go out with them.
Speaker 2: She's telling you, I'm seeing other guys. I can't meet
Speaker 2: up with you.
Speaker 3: I got a date Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
Speaker 4: Well she did say, let's pick another night, but it
Speaker 4: just seems like every night I picked. There's always something Okay, yeah.
Speaker 5: Okay, she was just saying that because she felt bad
Speaker 5: about that whole being real honest, you know it is.
Speaker 2: Maybe not though, but it might be a good sign
Speaker 2: that she's being totally transparent and telling you what's going.
Speaker 1: On in her life.
Speaker 2: But also it's hard to reject people, so maybe she's
Speaker 2: hoping he figures it out.
Speaker 3: Like, how about we just find out we.
Speaker 1: Need to figure it out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're we're all gonna have helmets before we make
Speaker 2: the calls, just because we don't know what disaster might
Speaker 2: be waiting on the other end.
Speaker 6: Always has five.
Speaker 1: In her car.
Speaker 3: You should wear a helmet on those things, all right.
Speaker 2: Second Dates an extra safe edition of your Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: Right after this Second Date Update. Oh, can you guys
Speaker 1: picture it right now?
Speaker 3: Picture what?
Speaker 2: This is the background music I have in my head
Speaker 2: as Marshall navigates through the busy city sidewalks, cruising it
Speaker 2: three miles per hour without a helmet on.
Speaker 1: Well, it's like frogger, Oh.
Speaker 2: Dodge the fire hydrant, Marshall, jump the manhole.
Speaker 3: It's all funny games until somebody gets hurt.
Speaker 2: That's right, because he's an adrenaline juke riding without a
Speaker 2: helmet on. That's probably why he called into the show
Speaker 2: this morning, just for the high of being on the
Speaker 2: radio coming up, isn't that.
Speaker 1: John Marshall?
Speaker 2: You got your adrenaline fixed just talking to us, didn't you.
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I did see right through you.
Speaker 5: This sounds like the theme song of an eighties like
Speaker 5: video game.
Speaker 1: We've all been there, the dangerous streets.
Speaker 2: But the worst part of the date was when Marshall
Speaker 2: accidentally ran over a lady's foot who warned him that
Speaker 2: scooters are very dangerous and end up causing a lot
Speaker 2: of er visits. And of course it ended up happening
Speaker 2: during his date and Brookes upset he wasn't wearing a helmet.
Speaker 3: Well, that's not about me, I mean, it's about his date.
Speaker 3: Like he was able to rescue the night they went out,
Speaker 3: got some drinks, calm down.
Speaker 1: At least we thought he rescued it.
Speaker 2: But it's been two weeks and she still hasn't agreed
Speaker 2: to another date. Even told him that she's seeing another
Speaker 2: guy on one of the nights. Kind of harsh, but
Speaker 2: but honest, brutally honest.
Speaker 1: You know, And maybe that's a good sign. Marsh You
Speaker 1: ready to call her here.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, hopefully we can get to the bottom of this.
Speaker 5: I mean, you don't sound like a dangerous guy, so
Speaker 5: I think that it's probably not the scooter mishap.
Speaker 2: That's what they say about all the most dangerous people
Speaker 2: in the world. I never would have suspected you to
Speaker 2: be the killer.
Speaker 6: Nice All right, mars let's just do this. I'm gonna
Speaker 6: call Julia for you.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Julia? Yes, you
Speaker 1: may have we are a question.
Speaker 7: We're a radio number.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we we have to protect our number because we're
Speaker 2: a radio show.
Speaker 7: Okay, what is this about?
Speaker 2: This is about a segment we do on Brook Jeffrey
Speaker 2: in the Morning. That's what this show is. It's called
Speaker 2: Second Date Update.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, and who is it you're looking for for you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, will start me.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: We heard about you through one of our listeners named Marshall.
Speaker 2: That apparently you went on a date with a couple
Speaker 2: of weeks ago.
Speaker 7: Oh Marshall.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh yeah, okay, I think that sounded good.
Speaker 1: There was a smile on her face when she said
Speaker 1: his name.
Speaker 7: Sure, why would he have the radio calling me?
Speaker 3: Though?
Speaker 7: It's just a little confusing because he has my numbers. Yeah,
Speaker 7: well pilling up.
Speaker 2: He's been using that number to try and ask you out,
Speaker 2: but you keep brushing him off for being busy, or.
Speaker 3: Maybe you're not brushing him off. He doesn't know. He
Speaker 3: felt like, maybe.
Speaker 1: That's why, maybe you don't like him that much, that's
Speaker 1: why he's going through us. He's trying to get some clarity.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 7: It just how do I explain this? And there's nothing
Speaker 7: wrong with him per se. But I'm looking for a
Speaker 7: partner in life. I want my ride or.
Speaker 2: Die Because we heard you guys rode city scooters.
Speaker 7: Oh my goodness, teacher.
Speaker 2: Yeah, apparently this is the background music that was playing
Speaker 2: the entire time because you two are rebels who ride
Speaker 2: without helmets off.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it's it's really honestly, ride or die
Speaker 5: in that situation, because you should be protecting your head.
Speaker 7: No, absolutely, Honestly, it didn't occur to me until after
Speaker 7: that woman, like she's sort of a cost to us,
Speaker 7: but I didn't really think about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we heard there was an old lady that like
Speaker 2: approached you and said riding scooters causes a lot of
Speaker 2: er visits.
Speaker 3: I think she's an er doctor.
Speaker 7: She could have maybe been like a little more pleasant
Speaker 7: about it. She's sort of just like started shouting at us,
Speaker 7: and I think Marshall handled it all right. He got
Speaker 7: a little panicky.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds fun though, and I think Marshall even
Speaker 2: admitted that it was kind of an awkward moment in
Speaker 2: the date. But overall, when you look at Marshall as
Speaker 2: a person, we're not sure why you wouldn't want to
Speaker 2: see him one more time.
Speaker 7: It's not that I don't want to see him. He's
Speaker 7: not like giving me like that wow factor at least,
Speaker 7: you know.
Speaker 4: Not in a good way.
Speaker 7: Like I mean, yeah, he's texted me, but has he
Speaker 7: called me you know voice the voice and asked me
Speaker 7: out again?
Speaker 3: A lot of people don't like that these days.
Speaker 7: You're looking for hasn't called me or like texted been
Speaker 7: like let's do this at this time on this date.
Speaker 7: He's just like, hey, I had a good time, and
Speaker 7: I'm like that's nice, But a lot of guys have
Speaker 7: had a good time with me. I'm looking for the
Speaker 7: guy that's going to put that extra effort into it
Speaker 7: and make me feel like I'm one in a million.
Speaker 1: What if he's not trying.
Speaker 2: To come off like some though, Like what if he
Speaker 2: just wants to have a conversation throughout the day and
Speaker 2: then naturally bring up a date.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he's trying to be respectful of you.
Speaker 4: It is.
Speaker 3: That's what I was trying to really good to me.
Speaker 7: A text is nothing. I want flowers. I want gestures.
Speaker 3: So you're not even no, No, she's saying that she
Speaker 3: needs more. She knows that he likes.
Speaker 2: Her, but enough gesture.
Speaker 3: And in life, she's looking for somebody whos going to
Speaker 3: put the work in.
Speaker 7: Absolutely so, I mean, if you guys could actually just
Speaker 7: let him know that I'm not interested, that would okay.
Speaker 3: So you know what you want and you don't think
Speaker 3: it's Marshall.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you want us to tell him no, we could,
Speaker 2: or honestly, you could just do it yourself, because he's
Speaker 2: actually on the phone right now.
Speaker 7: But I didn't want to laughing and smiling.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's finally on the phone.
Speaker 4: That's what you wanted, Marcia there, man, hey, Julia, Sorry,
Speaker 4: this is a little awkward. I apologize about that.
Speaker 2: Marsh I don't know if you heard all that, but
Speaker 2: she's trying to tell you that she's not that interested,
Speaker 2: and it's probably not going to happen.
Speaker 4: You know what. That's okay. I got the clarity that
Speaker 4: I needed.
Speaker 3: He's going to give up.
Speaker 4: I appreciate you being honest. Wait seriously, well, I mean
Speaker 4: I texted you and.
Speaker 7: Oh everybody texted me? Are you kidding me? Not be
Speaker 7: a jerk here, but like you went through all this
Speaker 7: trouble and you like you have me on the radio
Speaker 7: and everything, and I'm like, oh, no, thanks, and you're
Speaker 7: just like, hey bye, Like where's the gesture.
Speaker 1: He's listening to what you're saying.
Speaker 7: He's listening to me saying he's a great guy. He's
Speaker 7: not showing up enthusiast. I'm like, what, it's like, it's fine.
Speaker 3: Situations we learned.
Speaker 2: Don't take no for an answer is not an acceptable
Speaker 2: thing anymore.
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, that's not allowed. Girls like never call
Speaker 1: me again.
Speaker 4: You go, okay, I'll respect that, and she's like, oh.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I mean it, sometimes we need it.
Speaker 7: I didn't say never call me again. I said, oh,
Speaker 7: he's really really sweet, but I'm not that interested. That's
Speaker 7: like a far cry from never call me again.
Speaker 3: I don't say, Marshall, I want.
Speaker 1: Him to call you even though you're not interested.
Speaker 5: Marshall, I'm just kind of surprised that you're not putting
Speaker 5: up more of a fight either.
Speaker 4: Okay, well, you know what. I'm sorry. I guess I
Speaker 4: was just trying to fill out the situation. I didn't
Speaker 4: want to bother you, but I really wanted to see
Speaker 4: you again. So do you want to go out with me?
Speaker 4: I would love to take you out again. Oh?
Speaker 7: Man, I appreciate the offer, but I'm I'm not interested.
Speaker 3: I love you just set him to turn him down?
Speaker 6: Are you kidding?
Speaker 4: Mom?
Speaker 3: Come, I give him a chance like he would the
Speaker 3: extra mile. He planned a unique date.
Speaker 4: You don't want a chance with this girl, bro, Julie,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry about the scooters. We can wear helmet, you
Speaker 4: do whatever you want. We can go to a bar. Marshall,
Speaker 4: Oh my.
Speaker 7: God, just stop seriously. I already said no, you're embarrassing yourself.
Speaker 3: Oh that's what you want?
Speaker 7: Oh God, you probably don't understand how any of this
Speaker 7: It's only like eight notes. Yeah, how many notes does
Speaker 7: it take I said no to a guy like fifteen
Speaker 7: to twenty times before I need yet?
Speaker 4: Like, this guy's still got a way to go.
Speaker 5: Oh, you're just gonna end up attracting red flag men that.
Speaker 1: From here on out, Guys, do we just forever ask
Speaker 1: girls out.
Speaker 3: Never take?
Speaker 2: Well, we have to at least ask one more time
Speaker 2: officially for the rules.
Speaker 1: Julia, would you like to go out with Marshall again?
Speaker 1: One more time? We would pay for it. We have to.
Speaker 1: We have to get the no.
Speaker 7: I think he's so sweet, but I know you like
Speaker 7: to go out with Marshall.
Speaker 1: One more time?
Speaker 3: You pay?
Speaker 1: Okay up, all right, that's too much.
Speaker 7: Just knock that into him.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's that's what I could have said that.
Speaker 3: We could have just ended it as soon as we
Speaker 3: got marsh Sorry.
Speaker 4: Marshall, Marshall, it's okay. I guess I wish I would
Speaker 4: have know him sooner. But I mean I wish you
Speaker 4: the best text word that would.
Speaker 1: Like your number.
Speaker 5: Just so.
Speaker 1: I have a feeling that we're not done with Marshall yet.
Speaker 2: We're gonna have to do seven more second data.
Speaker 1: We'll eventually get her to say yes. One of these days, Bro.
Speaker 3: You'll teach him.
Speaker 2: Roller on the city by himself, fading off into the
Speaker 2: sunset at a brisk four miles per hour.
Speaker 1: One day you'll come back get that date, buddy, all right?
Speaker 4: All right, I appreciate you guys rooking Jeffrey in the
Speaker 4: morning man.
Speaker 2: That really was just like an old school arcade game
Speaker 2: Sidewalk Scooter X, and we tried to help Marshall beat
Speaker 2: that final boss level and get him a second date.
Speaker 3: Wait, you're making her the big monster at the end
Speaker 3: of the video.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that what you're doing. She's like the gorilla,
Speaker 1: that's like. But we tried and tried until ran out
Speaker 1: of live buses.
Speaker 2: He can always pop in another quarter and try again
Speaker 2: eventually beat that game. I guess I would ask people
Speaker 2: to text in to seven eight, five, nine two. Should
Speaker 2: Marshall keep trying to get another date? But I know
Speaker 2: ninety nine percent are going to say no.
Speaker 5: No. It's like she was saying what she wanted and
Speaker 5: then when he gave it to her, then she didn't
Speaker 5: want it anymore.
Speaker 3: I think she I think she just didn't want him,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like, I think I think
Speaker 3: she could have had him.
Speaker 2: I think in general, I'm just gonna speak for all
Speaker 2: of the people out there, for all the women listening,
Speaker 2: and Brooke would agree with.
Speaker 1: Me on this.
Speaker 5: They wouldn't continue whatever you're about.
Speaker 2: Ladies, if you have certain rules and expectations about dating you.
Speaker 2: Please let us know what they are, all right, guess
Speaker 2: what it is you want and don't want.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sure if you guess right, you move up
Speaker 3: in the rains. I'm actually with Jeff on that one.
Speaker 5: I mean, like a little handbook for everyone, men and
Speaker 5: women would be really nice.
Speaker 2: Even if you don't know what you want, you can
Speaker 2: always email us. We'll call that person who wasn't calling
Speaker 2: you back. Go check out all of our second day
Speaker 2: podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning