1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: All right, guys, time for us the clo. This one 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: is from Anonymous and Indiana. 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 2: Anonymous rites. 4 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: I'm engaged to a beautiful woman that I have known 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: for most of my life. This will be a second 6 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: marriage for the both of us, and we reconnected after 7 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: we both got divorced. I'm fifty seven, she's fifty six, 8 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: and she's old fashioned. She wants to wait until we 9 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: are married to have sex, and I don't want to 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: make that mistake. I haven't even seen her in her underwear. 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: I would hate to marry a woman that isn't on 12 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: my level sexually. Should I press the issue? 13 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 3: Oh? 14 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 4: Man, full of court press? Yeah, we got to see. 15 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 3: But then one thing about it, man, women control the situation. 16 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 3: If they don't let you, you can't do nothing. So 17 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 3: you know, that's it. I mean, you can press the issue, 18 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 3: but if that's her wish, bro, it's nothing you can 19 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 3: do about it. 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 4: And let me tell you something. 21 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: Pressing the issue and forcing the issues to different things. 22 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 3: True we're talking about You can have a conversation about 23 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 3: it if you choose to. You know, you can try 24 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 3: to use conversation, but that's all you can do. That's 25 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 3: all you can do. Matter of fact, No honor her wishes. 26 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 3: Just go somewhere and honor her damn wishes. And you 27 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 3: don't want it, just go somewhere else. Plenty women out 28 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 3: here ain't got that rule. They don't even do the 29 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 3: ninety day rules. Sometimes find you somebody else. Leave that 30 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 3: good little lady alone. 31 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 2: They're engaged. 32 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 4: They're engaged. 33 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 3: Somebody asked somebody to marry. 34 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: You know, beautiful woman. 35 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 4: Can I get a picture of something? Can I at 36 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 4: least get a picture? Can I see him? Can he 37 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 4: ask somebody she been with? Can he ask him. 38 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 2: Like her husband? We need a referral, and we need something. 39 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 4: Super not a reference. 40 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 2: We're moving on. LaToya and Baltimore says. 41 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm twenty seven and my boyfriend is twenty five, and 42 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: he's so inconsiderate. He drives me crazy. It drives me crazy. 43 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: We just got a place together, and his mother came 44 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 1: over to see her rental house, and she brought my 45 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: boyfriend's ex girlfriend with her. He welcomed them in, and 46 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: I went to my bedroom after I barely spoke to them. 47 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 1: Even though his ex is married now, I don't think 48 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: it's appropriate for him to allow her into our home. 49 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,519 Speaker 2: He called me immature and rude. Was I being rude? 50 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 4: Hell no? And I think his mama out of line. 51 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, you'll brain this dude's ex over the house with 52 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 3: his carred woman living that rind his mama. 53 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:47,959 Speaker 4: Rude, he's stupid? Yeah, all dog? Immature? What the hell? 54 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 3: Immature mama? Man's wrong with your mama? 55 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 2: That was disrespectful. She can't say anything now. 56 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 3: That's disrespectful on so many levels. How would your mama 57 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 3: like it? 58 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: Right? 59 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 3: If somebody bought her husband was ex over to her house. 60 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't matter if she's married now, so what. 61 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 4: I don't give a damn what she is. Yeah? 62 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 2: Right, that's wrong on every level? 63 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: All right, Joanne and Tennessee says, I think my husband 64 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: is interested in a lady at our church. I had 65 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: choir practice Saturday and he's on the clean up committee, 66 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: so we rode together. When I got out of practice, 67 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: he was nowhere to be found. I went back into 68 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: the church to look for him, and I called his 69 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: cell phone. He answered it and said he was outside. 70 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: He didn't know I could see him getting out of 71 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: a car with a woman that is fairly new at church. 72 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: I told him what I saw with my own eyes. 73 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: And he denied it. Should I have a talk with 74 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: this woman? 75 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know what you're talking with the woman for. 76 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 3: She saw you, dude, he said, he didn't get out 77 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 3: the car. 78 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 4: That right there is the. 79 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 3: Boy boy, and you got to stick with that. As 80 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 3: you know, it wasn't me. He lying on church down, 81 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 3: he on the clean up committee. He getting out the 82 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 3: car with a woman that's knew at the church. I 83 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 3: don't know what y'all talking about me. But should you 84 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 3: talk to the woman? Hell no, it's you. The woman 85 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: ain't took no vial. You're married to your husband. That's 86 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 3: your whole conversations with him. But if he gonna stick 87 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 3: with his story, see what you see. What you know 88 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 3: is your husband fit stay with that story, and you 89 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 3: fit to go to her to get another story. But 90 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 3: his commitment to that story is so resident loop and 91 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 3: she got to go somewhere else to get this information. 92 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 2: That's how I knew you were proud of him. 93 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 4: A blue hank. 94 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 2: That's what he's saying. That's what he's saying to her, 95 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 2: all right. 96 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: Moving on, Shara and Delaware says, my seventy two year 97 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: old grandmother has a bunch of younger friends that hang 98 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: out at our house. She and my granddad used to 99 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: have house parties a lot when my granddad was alive, 100 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: but now she does not know all of the people 101 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 1: that hang out there. Her house smelled like weed recently, 102 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 1: and she said the smell was from the night before. 103 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: I will be very upset as she is smoking weed 104 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: all of a sudden. How can I get my grandmother 105 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: to be a bit more cautious? 106 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 3: Well, you got to slow down now because your grandma 107 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: might have black home. 108 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 4: Oh you know. 109 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, and their new friends could be her plug. You 110 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 3: don't know how this is going, so you got to 111 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 3: let this thing happen. 112 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 4: You know, this c. B. D. 113 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 3: Din went everywhere this whole She down at the clinic, 114 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 3: She probably all these new friends she probably met down 115 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 3: at the shopping center. You know, you know pleasant what 116 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 3: the new uh you know Green Roots company open up. 117 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 4: You know they always have you know, you know green Leaf, 118 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 4: you know, yeah, True Earth. They always name they cannabis 119 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 4: stores like it's that's a true Earth. 120 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 3: You know, herbal God's juice, you know, Low and Behold, 121 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 3: you know, blessed, Blessed is heat. 122 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 4: You know they're trying to. 123 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 3: Every trying to make the names that they cannabis thole 124 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 3: sound real heavily eitherough, I walk. 125 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 2: Thank you, fellow, you're listening. Hardy Morning Show