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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl likes Pete and it's

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Speaker 2: Call and you're tuned into another episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: Oh lord, y'all, we gotta get into it today. Like

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Speaker 2: I'm just go ahead and go ahead and get into

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Speaker 2: it because I know y'all have been waiting for us

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Speaker 2: to comment on this and talk about this Aisha Curry situation,

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Speaker 2: like it's been a lot of back and forth.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows what's going on if you don't.

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Speaker 2: Basically, Aisha Curry went on Red Table Talk with Jada

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Speaker 2: Pickott Smith and she was basically saying, how.

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Speaker 1: Steph Curry gets all the attention.

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Speaker 2: It's always women throwing themselves at him, and she just

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Speaker 1: Doesn't happen to her.

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Speaker 2: And she was saying, you know, not necessarily that she

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Speaker 1: Was she right or was she wrong right? How do

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Speaker 2: For feeling that way, But I do think that it

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Speaker 2: But I don't think it's a weird emotion or it's

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Speaker 2: it's like everybody wants to feel like, Okay, yeah this

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Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship, but like.

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Speaker 1: You still want to feel like you that being got

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you still want to feel like you that beach.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like, you know, maybe she just feels like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: nobody tries to holler at her, But I also feel

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Speaker 2: I definitely agree because it was just like last year

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Speaker 1: I only like that for my husband.

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Speaker 2: So first of all, niggas know that you ain't about

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Speaker 2: nothing unless it's about Steph, which is understandable because you

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Speaker 2: you're not married to any man you're married to Steph Curry. Bruh,

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Speaker 2: So nobody's gonna want to step to Steph Curry's wife.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: And another thing, now, I don't invalidate anybody's feelings because

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Speaker 1: It's okay to feel that way.

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Speaker 2: We all want to be wanted, we all want to

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Speaker 2: So this was her way of opening that door to talk.

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Speaker 2: Because let me tell you something, when I'm with the man,

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Speaker 1: Man, I know niggas won't me.

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Speaker 2: You can go on you can go on our Easter's

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Speaker 2: Instagram right now to old pictures. It's hell and niggas

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Speaker 2: in her comments being like da you find Steph is lucky?

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Speaker 2: This is that The reason that she did this, in

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Speaker 2: I do. I saw that she doesn't feel one anybody,

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Speaker 2: I don't really feel like she does, though not in

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Speaker 2: But I don't feel like it's that with her because

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Speaker 2: But I feel like it's more so she's having an

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Speaker 1: I need some attention.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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Speaker 2: Steph is not doing what he's supposed to do as

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Speaker 2: If you was getting the attention that you needed from

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Speaker 2: different people craving different things. I feel like that's you,

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Speaker 2: I feel like niggas don't be not hollering at Cardi B. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but that's different, that's not getting that's a huge, hugely publicized.

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Speaker 2: But then you say, but it's how she presents herself.

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Speaker 2: You present yourself like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm a wife, I cook got clean, I stayed

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Speaker 2: Cardy like, I'm about to go nick offset buttho, y'all,

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Speaker 2: So niggas feel like they can try Cardi, but I

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Speaker 2: Nowhere, And at the end of the day, Carti is

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Speaker 1: Cardi B gonna be Cardi B regardless.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Cardi BAL gonna be so So that wasn't a

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Speaker 2: good necessary ex necessary. It's a good example though, because

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Speaker 2: why would a nigga want to talk to you you're

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Speaker 2: not approachable, right, You're not approachable. Like, I'm not trying

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Speaker 1: They're gonna come up to us and speak to us.

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Speaker 2: But it's like when you portray yourself like you're a

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Speaker 2: So it's like, because niggas people do probably be feeling

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Speaker 2: like I would live Cardi B. And if stay break

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Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying, Like I feel not a regular nigga,

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Speaker 2: If and stuff, like you know, got an divorce or something,

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Speaker 2: And I'm not trying to be funny, but no, I

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Speaker 2: niggas probably would swear. Niggas probably would, But that's what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. She portrays herself as boring. I'm not trying

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Speaker 1: How she portrayed herself. I think that she is.

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Speaker 2: That's her personality. And I will say this as well.

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Speaker 2: This is why, honestly, ladies, that's why I say, do

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Speaker 2: what the fuck you wanna do.

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Speaker 1: Cause just yesterday these niggas was talking about we.

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Speaker 2: Need to be a laur in London and last year

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Speaker 2: they was talking about we need to be an Aisha.

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Speaker 2: But now all of a sudden, when Aisha kind of

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Speaker 2: like a Cardi b and just be yourself, niggas like,

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Speaker 2: all fuck that, I'm not fucking on Aisha.

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Speaker 1: If I have to choose between Aisha and Cardi, I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, people, I mean I but I've always been an

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Speaker 1: So now it's just like girl and I E should let.

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Speaker 1: You got what you want, the bitch, We can trade

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Speaker 2: Maybe we can trade any moment now, because I'll take

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Speaker 2: So I'm sure after three kids you start looking at

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Speaker 1: So it's like, maybe she should get a mommy makeover.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she need no makeover. I think they

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Speaker 2: But I don't mean a makeover like that. I just

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Speaker 1: I think she needs some girls up.

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Speaker 2: I feel like she's definitely very consistent. I mean, there's

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Speaker 2: I feel like she needs some girlfriends too. You don't

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't never see you know, you'll see

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Speaker 2: Solange in the club, turning up and having a good time.

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Speaker 2: But she's married, you know what I'm saying. But I

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Speaker 1: Solons. You just told me Solnge in the clubs working

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Speaker 1: one life, that don't necessarily mean you sucking his dick.

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Speaker 2: it is kind of different, but like I different standards

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Speaker 1: Honestly, it is different. Solange is slunge, but her nigga is.

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Speaker 2: But but what I'm saying is, like you said earlier,

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Speaker 1: We're all humans at the end of the day.

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Speaker 2: So if you feel like you're unhappy because you're trying

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Speaker 1: As long as you're happy and your man is happy,

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Speaker 2: If you want to go out and have a good

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Speaker 2: You gotta be the reason for her divorced. You don't

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Speaker 2: Outside of our party, and she don't have to have

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like what you're saying with her girlfriends, Yes,

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Speaker 1: No, yes, go out with your girls and have a life.

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Speaker 2: And let me tell you something, I should if you walk,

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Speaker 2: I just feel like they just need It's just definitely

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Speaker 1: Absolutely on table talking said I'm embarrassed for him? Are you?

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Speaker 2: That's the number one problem I feel like have been

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Speaker 1: So I feel like outside of.

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Speaker 2: Everybody, you know, including us as our little two cents

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Speaker 2: Why she feels that way so she can feel comfortable

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's a conversation she could have with

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Speaker 2: But then let's look at it like this too, How

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Speaker 1: She still ain't getting no mother a fucking attention, bitch, Stephan.

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Speaker 2: That's why exactly. So my personal opinion, I don't think

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Speaker 1: I definitely understand that that.

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Speaker 2: I feel like everybody wants to be wanted. Everybody wants

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Speaker 2: to somebody. And I also feel like Steph needs to

436
00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,280
Speaker 2: just make her feel a little better about herself.

437
00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:50,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I mean his mom was there too,

438
00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,240
Speaker 1: and she was kind of in agreeing.

439
00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:54,359
Speaker 2: So I mean, shit, they all, I mean, even how

440
00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:56,880
Speaker 2: a little sister about Yeah, they was all in agreeance. Bitch,

441
00:18:56,920 --> 00:19:00,560
Speaker 2: because like you're in the shadow of a major athlete.

442
00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:02,680
Speaker 1: Like, all she is not to me.

443
00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,440
Speaker 2: I you know, I respect her as I used to carry,

444
00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,520
Speaker 2: but all she is to a lot of these niggas

445
00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:09,160
Speaker 2: who watch sports.

446
00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:09,840
Speaker 1: Is Steph's wife.

447
00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm pretty sure she's tired of that, you know,

448
00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,880
Speaker 2: because at the day, nobody says Offset's wife everybody say

449
00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,320
Speaker 2: Carti is fucking Cardi b So that's why I say

450
00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,959
Speaker 2: it's a little different for Carti because she came up

451
00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,080
Speaker 2: on her own name, and you know, Ice.

452
00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:24,280
Speaker 1: Has always been connected to him.

453
00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's a little deeper than just

454
00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:29,679
Speaker 2: old wanting outside attention. I feel like she was probably

455
00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:31,880
Speaker 2: happy that she even got booked to do red table talking.

456
00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,240
Speaker 2: They're like, oh shit, somebody wants to talk to me. Bench.

457
00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 2: I don't feel that way because at this point she

458
00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:38,000
Speaker 2: used to get interviewed and stuff like that.

459
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,720
Speaker 1: Not that much, bitch, not that much. But I'm saying,

460
00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:41,760
Speaker 1: at this point.

461
00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:43,800
Speaker 2: In her marriage and with who her husband is, I

462
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,240
Speaker 2: don't think she be like geek that people want to interview.

463
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:51,119
Speaker 1: She be geeks for any attention. The girls for the

464
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:52,600
Speaker 1: girl is crying for help.

465
00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,399
Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel about the II

466
00:19:55,600 --> 00:20:01,320
Speaker 2: Sha and Steph Curry's situation. So, oh, I wanted to

467
00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:05,280
Speaker 2: talk about this next topic because I was having a

468
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:09,280
Speaker 2: conversation with somebody and we were basically talking about you know,

469
00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:13,160
Speaker 2: like dating a guy and them courting you, which everybody

470
00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:16,440
Speaker 2: knows me and dreal like and you know, when.

471
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 1: They're like doing a lot going out of your way, going.

472
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 2: Out of their way to take you one date, picking

473
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 2: you up, treating you, you know, maybe even take you

474
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,879
Speaker 2: on a trip or two. Yeah, and y'all ain't fucking

475
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 2: and the nigga's like, bitch, it's time to give that

476
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:29,119
Speaker 2: pussy up.

477
00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take you on about five or six days

478
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:32,120
Speaker 1: time to took you out of town.

479
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,680
Speaker 2: Like, So, do you ever feel pressure or when do

480
00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 2: you feel like, bitch, Okay, it's time to get that

481
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:37,199
Speaker 2: pussy up.

482
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,720
Speaker 1: I rarely ever feel that way. I rarely ever feel

483
00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:42,239
Speaker 1: pressure to give the pussy up.

484
00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:43,879
Speaker 2: I be feeling like, shit, I'm gonna give you this

485
00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 2: sheet when I'm good and motherfucking ready. It's probably only

486
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,320
Speaker 2: been like maybe two times in my life that a

487
00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 2: nigga had just did an overwhelming amount of things for me,

488
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 2: or we was fucking with each other for a significant

489
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,359
Speaker 2: amount of time and I'm like, okay, it's time for

490
00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,200
Speaker 2: me to go here and give it up. But otherwise

491
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 2: I feel like you give a niggas a pussy when

492
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:03,399
Speaker 2: you ready. It's shaw pussy you an't need.

493
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 1: True, I do agree with that. I do, but you

494
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:09,880
Speaker 1: know I always got a butt, bitch.

495
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,440
Speaker 2: I know I just feel like sometimes now me, I'm

496
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 2: a type of person. I'm a fuck you when I'm ready.

497
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 2: I'm the same way I am gonna fuck you when

498
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 2: I'm ready. But sometimes I feel like, now, let me

499
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 2: say this, I don't ever give a nigga a pussy

500
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 2: when I'm not ready, but I do be in the

501
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 2: back of my mind thinking like, Okay, nigga, like you've

502
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 2: done a lot, You've earned the pussy. I feel like

503
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 2: sometimes niggas have definitely earned the pussy, and I'd be like, Okay,

504
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 2: it's time for me to give it up, like you've

505
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 2: earned it, So what are the requirements for earning the pussy? Though,

506
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 2: different niggas get different shit. Some niggas, do you know

507
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,360
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Some niggas don't even want nothing from them.

508
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 2: I just be wanting the fuck, you know. But some niggas,

509
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, I know how you be moving and

510
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: you I know what you've been doing for other bitches

511
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 2: and stuff, So nigga, you're gonna have to come the

512
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 2: fuck on with it, you know what I'm saying. So

513
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 2: I think it just depends on the person. It depends

514
00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,159
Speaker 2: on the vibe as well. But I've definitely feel like

515
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 2: sometimes i'd be like, okay, bitch, he's definitely it's time

516
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 2: to give up the pussy. Bitch. Yeah, I don't know

517
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 2: because with me, like niggas, niggas will take you on

518
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 2: a day and feel like take you on one day

519
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,159
Speaker 2: and feel like you're supposed to get him.

520
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. You ain't about to get no

521
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 1: pussy for me for taking me on a day. But

522
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,120
Speaker 1: what if he applies you to Like, what if y'all

523
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,880
Speaker 1: fly to I don't know, London and he takes you shopping?

524
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:24,800
Speaker 2: Mm hmm?

525
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 1: Did he earn the pussy yet? First date London shopping?

526
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 2: It depends on how we vibe even still, because I

527
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 2: don't have niggas do nice shit for me. Done bought

528
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 2: me sheet, then flew me somewhere, not never to London

529
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 2: or no shit like that. But I don't have niggas

530
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 2: fly me somewhere and we had fun and they bought

531
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 2: me she and I still didn't get him no pussy

532
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 2: because I was not motherfucking ready.

533
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck you not and you can

534
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: do all that you want to do.

535
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 2: You're not about to pressure me and to give you

536
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 2: no because I might not even like you like that,

537
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 2: and if you decided to get that bad, I don't

538
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 2: give I didn't ask you to buy you because one

539
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,440
Speaker 2: nigga buy me too. I don't really ask niggas to

540
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 2: buy me sheep. Majority of the material things that I've

541
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 2: gotten from men, I've never asked him to buy it

542
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: and shit like that. So it's like, if you bought

543
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 2: me something, you bought it because you thought that because

544
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:11,919
Speaker 2: you bought this shit, you was about to get some pussy.

545
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 2: And that's one thing.

546
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: So you just got this out of two thousand dollars

547
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: and you ain't getting no.

548
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,479
Speaker 2: Pussy because I don't do things for me because you're thinking, oh,

549
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 2: it's gonna get me some pussy, and that all about

550
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 2: the niggas do. So that's why I never feel pressured

551
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 2: to give them something. And I say this all the time,

552
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 2: especially if you fucking with a nigga who has money.

553
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 2: A nigga buying you some shit and doing shit for

554
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 2: you is a very small price to pay to get

555
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 2: some ass from you. Him giving you ten thousand dollars,

556
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 2: even twenty thousand dollars if he has a bank account

557
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 2: with another eighty million in it.

558
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 1: What is giving you twenty.

559
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 2: Thousand dollars to get some ass and he might not

560
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 2: even talk to you next week because it's not nothing right.

561
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 2: So you should never give up no pussy until you're ready,

562
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 2: because all you gonna you gonna feel you even if

563
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 2: he give you ten thousand dollars or whatever, and say

564
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 2: you really liked the nigga. You like, oh he gave

565
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 2: me ten thousand dollars and you give him some you

566
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 2: thinking in your head, Oh he's about to go somewhere,

567
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 2: were about to fuck around, But he only did think

568
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: because he wanted to fuck and he noticed what he

569
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: needed to do.

570
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 1: He not gonna be fucking with you.

571
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 2: And yeah, you got your little bag up, but you

572
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 2: still gonna feel used, and you gonna feel a certain

573
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 2: type of way. No, I definitely now, definitely do agree

574
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 2: with that because, like I said, going back to what

575
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 2: you said kind of earlier, it's like niggas do things

576
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 2: with not necessarily good intentions. Like I guess, once I

577
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 2: feel like you're spending time with me because you just

578
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 2: like being around me, you know what I'm saying, I'll

579
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,639
Speaker 2: be like, Okay, bitch, this nigga really fucking with you,

580
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 2: like it's time to get a pussy up. But it's

581
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 2: like when niggas like, you never really know, bro, cause

582
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 2: niggas will fuck with you. Like I've been in the

583
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 2: situation where I made a nigga wait a long ass time,

584
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 2: and it's like we had sex, but it was just

585
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 2: like as soon as we had sex, things changed, not

586
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: on just his end but on my end as well,

587
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 2: but just because the nigg wasn't good. But I would say,

588
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 2: it's like you never you never freaking know, because like

589
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 2: if a nigga got other holes that he fucking with

590
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 2: at one point, he might just get well, I just

591
00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 2: want to conquer this bitch just to say I did

592
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 2: it because you're playing hard to get and it's like, right,

593
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,160
Speaker 2: a nigga wnna do that shit for three four months,

594
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 2: then he finally get the pussy.

595
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: And he stopped fucking with your ass. Amen.

596
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 2: And it's again why you should never feel pressed to

597
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 2: give a niggas some pussy, because it's like, just do

598
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: that shit when it feels natural and it feels organic,

599
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 2: Like stop putting pressure on yourself to give a man

600
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 2: something because he gave you something. That's one thing I

601
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,719
Speaker 2: feel like I can say and I'm always honestly speaking

602
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,680
Speaker 2: from a real place when I say it, because I

603
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 2: don't never feel pressure to give no nigga shit. I

604
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 2: done had niggas do shit for me, and they never

605
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 2: get no pussy, right, because you don't deserve it, and

606
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 2: I'm not feeling you like that. And nine times out

607
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 2: of ten, I didn't ask you for what you gave me.

608
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 2: You just gave it to me because that's what you

609
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:44,199
Speaker 2: wanted to do, because you was doing it in pursuit

610
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 2: of getting what you wanted, and you didn't get what

611
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: you want. So now you feel played because a lot

612
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,360
Speaker 2: of the same niggas they'll you'll stop fucking with them

613
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 2: like they'll do some shit for you, you don't give

614
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 2: them no pussy, they get mad and you don't be

615
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 2: fucking with them no more. Then they always try to

616
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 2: come back, because one thing about a nigga, if he

617
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 2: don't get no, he gonna keep coming back until he

618
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: eat this shy.

619
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: He gonna keep coming back until he get this shye, right.

620
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 1: I definitely, And that's just seriod. Like I said, I'm

621
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 1: being one hundred percent honest in my opinion.

622
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: I agree with rayon one hundred percent, but I will

623
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 2: say I have felt pressure to give a niggas a

624
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 2: pussy before, and I know I have, and I'm I'm

625
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 2: gonna be real with y'all. I keep it real with

626
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 2: my poor mind's family. I have given in because I

627
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 2: feel like, damn, okay, well he's done this and he's

628
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 2: done that, and sometimes it blossoms into something great, and

629
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 2: sometimes it doesn't, you know what I'm saying.

630
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 1: But as I do get.

631
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 2: Older and I learn, I'm gonna do that shit whenever

632
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 2: I am ready. Yeah, just do it whenever you ready,

633
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: because I don't know. I just feel like it's really

634
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 2: not no politics when he comes to this sheep. He's

635
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 2: just doing when you're fucking ready. And if you do

636
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: any because you feel pressured, it ain't even I don't

637
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 2: feel like it's even gonna be a good experience because

638
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 2: the time that I did have sex would do because

639
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 2: I felt pressured, it wasn't good. It wasn't because you

640
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 2: wasn't and I wasn't ready, right, But it was good

641
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 2: after that, you know what I mean. But it wasn't

642
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: good at that time because I felt pressure and I

643
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 2: was doing it to make the nigga happy. And that's

644
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 2: one thing hopefully the guys listening y'all will take in

645
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: as well. Please stop pressuring these ladies to have sex

646
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: when they're not ready.

647
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: Just because you feel like.

648
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 2: Just because you feel like, oh, I've done this and

649
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 2: I've done that for her, and it's time for you

650
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 2: to give up that ass they feel that pressure.

651
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 1: The sex is not gonna be great. Let it be organic.

652
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 2: If you fucking with her like that, keep fucking with

653
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: her until she's ready, and if she's not ever.

654
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: Ready, then just move move around.

655
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 2: And ladies gotta stop feeling so fucking impressed by small

656
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 2: she like a nigga.

657
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,239
Speaker 1: Take you on a date. Say you're not somebody who

658
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: go to Ruth Chris all the time? Are you not

659
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 1: used to eating that? There? She got just got Ruth Chris,

660
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 1: pussy bitch, what you mean?

661
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 2: I'm just laughing at somebody going to Ruth Chris for

662
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 2: dinner and be like, oh, bitch, I gotta give up.

663
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 2: But it's bitches, I felt like that because he's I

664
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 2: don't really I believe it, because I mean, well, I

665
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know what type of beaches you'll

666
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 2: be running into and them been around. I don't been

667
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 2: around some beaches, who'll be impressed by going to.

668
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: Ruth Creper.

669
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 2: Having a five hundred dollars tab because they don't normally

670
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 2: eat at places like that. Or a nigga taking somebody's shot,

671
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 2: taking a girl's shopping and he buy you a bag

672
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 2: and you like, oh, I'm not maybe your first designer

673
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 2: bag or whatever.

674
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: You're not used to getting that shit.

675
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 2: Girls be feeling impressed and they'd be like, Oh, I'm

676
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 2: gonna give him some pussy, bitch. She did that for

677
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: two other holls last week because he got money and

678
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 2: he got some pussy from them to he gonna be okay.

679
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: Bit you better speak to him.

680
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: Girl. I'm just saying that nigga gonna be okay. Ladies,

681
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: understand if just because you ain't giving a nigga no pussy,

682
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 2: he's still getting somebody giving him, believe and honestly less

683
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: or more. And that's what I'm saying. Honestly, that's why

684
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 2: I'm That's what the point I'm at right now. It

685
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: is kind of like I know, if I'm not giving

686
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 2: you no pussy, nigga, you still getting some pussy, So

687
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 2: you'll be a okay as long as we're still good

688
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 2: and we can still go at my pace and having

689
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 2: fun and join each other company. Could You probably just

690
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 2: had your dquit so you got on these motherfucking days.

691
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 2: You probably went home and took a quick shower.

692
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: Girl. I swear, it's just niggas.

693
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: Be so funny, like you never know you but it's

694
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 2: like you never know, but you can kind of tell,

695
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 2: Like when a nigga has a certain pattern of how

696
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 2: y'all fucking around and all of a.

697
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: Sudden, like he'll disappear for a day or something.

698
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 2: A bitch like me already be knowing, like you already know,

699
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,479
Speaker 2: because these niggas be sneaky, but they really not. They

700
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 2: think they sneak. Dumb bitch is way smarter than niggas.

701
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 2: That's why I always be stressing. Like ladies, we have

702
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 2: the upper head and pussy run everything. You are the

703
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 2: fucking prize. These niggas want the pussy. Make that nigga

704
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 2: wait if that's what you want to do. If he's

705
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 2: being twenty bands, make him white sees well, twenty bands.

706
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: Not mean I feeling okay? So what what else we

707
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 1: got up next?

708
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 2: Little dry Okay, I'll get on before I go, just

709
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 2: let us know what y'all think about if ladies have

710
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 2: y'all ever felt the pressure to give up the pussy

711
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 2: and feelas do y'all feel like, after I'm done a

712
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: certain amount bit, you owe me some pussy, right, Okay,

713
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: so go ahead?

714
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 1: Okay.

715
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 2: So I seen a tweet earlier and the tweet basically

716
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 2: has said like I'm not about to date. It was

717
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 2: from a female and she was like, I'm not about

718
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: to date. No nigga for more than five years and

719
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: he haven't proposed at this point. I just feel like

720
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 2: it's to waste your time. I'm done. So I want

721
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: to know y'all opinions. What y'all opinion obviously on how

722
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 2: long do you think you should be dating somebody before

723
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 2: y'all take it to the next step, Whether it be

724
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 2: being like y'all dating casually and you ready to take

725
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 2: it to an exclusive relationship. Are y'all being in a

726
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 2: relationship for a certain amount of time and you ready

727
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 2: to get married, or y'all been in a relationship and

728
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 2: you ready to have a kid, or whatever the case

729
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,719
Speaker 2: may be, Like when is it? When is it too

730
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 2: long and you ready to take it to the next step?

731
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: Are you gone? Okay?

732
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be fair, and I'll say I'm gonna

733
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 2: say this from two point of views because from my

734
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: point of view at this age, being what I want personally,

735
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 2: I'm not necessarily pressure to have kids or to get married.

736
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: So I don't really look at things like that.

737
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 2: But for like women like in their thirties and their

738
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 2: early thirties, I feel like, if that's what you want,

739
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 2: you don't need expect you don't need to waste more

740
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 2: than a year or two. Like, honestly being your one

741
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 2: hundred percent, if you're.

742
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 1: In your early thirties, late twins and your goal is.

743
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 2: To get married and have kids after two years, it

744
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 2: needs to be a discussion. Again, we had, but from

745
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: the men's point of view, now we just said, don't

746
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: let no nigga pressure you.

747
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 1: Out no pussy.

748
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 2: Well these niggas not letting these women pressure them out

749
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 2: of a ring. Well they're out of a baby, so

750
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 2: it's the same shit. No, but let me give y'all

751
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 2: some game, because I done had a conversation with more

752
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 2: than a few men who have told me within the

753
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 2: first year of dating a woman, you know whether a

754
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 2: night you want to marry hood or you want to

755
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 2: have kids with her. Are you are you see yourself

756
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 2: having something and having like a long relationship or whatever

757
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 2: with the person. Like niggas always tell me that you know,

758
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 2: and I never dien agree because I done meant a

759
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 2: few niggas who within the first couple of months, I

760
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: want you to have my baby, right, But I'm saying

761
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 2: you can know, but not necessarily be ready. Like me,

762
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 2: I know, I'm gonna give a niggas some pussy.

763
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 1: I'm just not ready.

764
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 2: If a nigga say he ready to marry you, if

765
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 2: he says it and you're not pressing him, or if

766
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 2: he say I want you to have my baby and

767
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: you're not pressing him, he's ready. Not necessarily a nigga

768
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: can Okay, a nigga can know it's probably gonna be

769
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 2: my wife, but he's not ready to get married. But

770
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: I don't and I don't and honestly, I don't feel

771
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: like he's gonna say that until he's ready.

772
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: Most men are not even going.

773
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 2: To I'm not saying that he's saying it to her,

774
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 2: but I'm saying, you said, niggas know within the first year,

775
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: So a nigga can.

776
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: Know in the back of his mind. Yeah, it's gonna

777
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: be my wife, but I'm not ready yet, so I'm

778
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: not wait till I'm ready.

779
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 2: Right, But I'm saying, ladies, keep in mind that after

780
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 2: a year, he probably know. So I'm saying that's something

781
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 2: for you to keep in the back of yo, right,

782
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 2: that after a year or two I didn't and he

783
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 2: might just be stringing you along. One of my homegirls

784
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 2: was dating somebody like well, she just stopped talking to

785
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 2: the guy. He's kind of like I guess you could say,

786
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 2: a high profile person, but he's not as really being

787
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 2: as he used to be. He was in a relationship

788
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 2: with somebody else that's very high profile for four years

789
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 2: and she wanted to have a kid with him, and

790
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 2: he wasn't ready to have a kid with her, And

791
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 2: my friend asked him, well, why didn't you And then

792
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 2: she got out of the relationship, maybe like six to

793
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 2: eight months later, had a baby with her new nigga,

794
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 2: and my friend was like, well, why wasn't you ready

795
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 2: to have a kid with her? And he was like, well,

796
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 2: I already knew after the first year of dating hood

797
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 2: that that's not what I wanted, So.

798
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: What's the point.

799
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 2: And so she was like, well, what's the point in

800
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 2: like dragging somebody along in a relationship if you know

801
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 2: that you don't see yourself being with him? And he

802
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 2: was like, well, because, I mean, I loved her and

803
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 2: I wasn't just ready to start fucking with somebody else yet.

804
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 2: But I knew that I was never gonna marry her

805
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: and have a kid with her. So at the end

806
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 2: of the day, we're knowing it, and that's fucked up.

807
00:33:58,600 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 2: These niggas gonna waste show.

808
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:00,719
Speaker 1: Time if you allowed him.

809
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: But I mean there's also people like I know somebody

810
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 2: that I went to high school with. They were he's

811
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 2: a high profile athlete, and they were dating for eight

812
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 2: years and nobody ever thought they were.

813
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: Gonna get married, and he actually married her and they're

814
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: still together.

815
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: My thing is, though I don't have eight years to

816
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 2: wait to see whether or not you're gonna marry me

817
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 2: or not. I just feel like it's also dependent on

818
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: if it's important to you, Like, if it's important to you,

819
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,439
Speaker 2: no bitch that I mean, that's cool that that worked

820
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 2: out for her, But being having kids number one is

821
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 2: important to me. Marriage is more secondary to me. But

822
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 2: if I'm with a nigga and after a certain amount

823
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 2: of time you not trying to have a baby.

824
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: I'm gone.

825
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 2: I don't have time to be waiting around hoping that

826
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 2: in two three more years you're gonna be ready to

827
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 2: have a kid, Because then what if you not?

828
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 1: What if you decide to.

829
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 2: Break up with me in another year because you're like, Okay,

830
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 2: I'm tired of these beach and you ready to break

831
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 2: up with me. I just wasted two three years in

832
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 2: a relationship with you when I could have been doing

833
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 2: some other sheep and in a situation now this, So.

834
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 1: What if you're dating somebody for a year you finally like, okay,

835
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 1: so I kind of want to have a baby. Now

836
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are we doing?

837
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 2: He's like, I definitely want to have your baby, but

838
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 2: not right now. Well, I would never say that to

839
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 2: no guy. I'm not.

840
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 1: I'm not. We're talking hypothetically. Okay.

841
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 2: If you had a conversation with a nigga and you

842
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 2: told himnigg and he said he lets you know, like, yeah,

843
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 2: I want to I want to marry you. I want

844
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,439
Speaker 2: to have your kid, but not right now, like maybe

845
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 2: in like three or four years, I would be like, Okay,

846
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 2: that's cool.

847
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: So this has been real thank you for your time,

848
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: and I wish you the best. I'm fucking dead or

849
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: why I mean secret.

850
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 2: It shouldn't been no secret to you as my best friend,

851
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 2: and should have been no secret to our listeners at

852
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 2: the points that I am not a woman who is

853
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: afraid to let a nigga know what I want.

854
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: It's not be afraid. It's not being afraid, and I

855
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: don't like wasting my time.

856
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 2: But I just feel like it's kind of like the same.

857
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 2: You don't feel like that kind of puts pressure on people.

858
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 2: Why would it put pressure on you because I'm not

859
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 2: about to tell you that I'm not about to get

860
00:35:59,920 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 2: it to a relationship with a nigga and be like, oh,

861
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 2: I want to have a kid in the next year. Oh,

862
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 2: I feel like we needed someone married. Even day's a

863
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 2: god for a year, he never brings up kids. You're

864
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,479
Speaker 2: just never gonna bring it up. I feel like, within

865
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: the first year, we need to have a baby already.

866
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 2: But what if he doesn't bring it up and he's like, no,

867
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 2: how we I mean, if we if we trying and

868
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 2: I'm letting you nutting me, I mean, why wouldn't we?

869
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm just saying like what and then okay, say you

870
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:23,879
Speaker 2: get pregnant, he's like, I'm not ready for a kid,

871
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 2: Like I don't want this baby. I'm still about to

872
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 2: have my baby. But that's what It don't matter. If

873
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 2: you're already happy, you shouldn't been shooting my club. But

874
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: what I'm saying is it's a conversation that needs to

875
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,320
Speaker 2: be had. I don't feel like it's a conversation that

876
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 2: needs to be had because you know what type of

877
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 2: time niggas is. I Do'm been in situations when niggas

878
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 2: would they then never talk to me about having a kid.

879
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 2: I don't been in situations when niggas whul they told

880
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 2: me within the first three or four months, like yeah,

881
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 2: I will want you to have my baby or I

882
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 2: want you to have my baby. Right, And so I

883
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 2: already knew what type of time they are.

884
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: But you can't expect every.

885
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 2: Guy to be like I expect niggas that I fuck

886
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 2: with to be that way. I'm only speaking for me, right,

887
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 2: So what.

888
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,240
Speaker 1: I'm saying is, what if you meet somebody he doesn't

889
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: talk about kids at all.

890
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna meet nobody like that because I haven't

891
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 2: yeggs And maybe that's just the type of niggas that

892
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 2: eye a track, but they just always let me know

893
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: what the fuck they want within the beginning of the

894
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 2: situation or within the first year or so, and then

895
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 2: I make the decision to consciously keep fucking with him

896
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 2: or not period.

897
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,919
Speaker 1: But that's just my personal experience.

898
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,320
Speaker 2: Right well, I just feel like this. I feel like

899
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 2: I agree with you as far as not wasting your time. Definitely,

900
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 2: don't waste your time. But at the same time, if

901
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 2: somebody tells you, if you decide to have a conversation

902
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 2: with somebody about marriage or kids and they tell you

903
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 2: that they're not ready, just take that for what it

904
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 2: is and do as you want. They leave or stay

905
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 2: and wait it out or whatever you want to do.

906
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 2: But if somebody tells.

907
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: You they're not ready, do not put that pressure on.

908
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,280
Speaker 2: I don't run yet, because you can't be mad, because

909
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 2: I feel like that'll run people off. Because if a

910
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 2: nigga tell me I've had a niggas tell me, you know,

911
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 2: I don't want kids. I had a nigga, I would

912
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 2: love to talk with this nigga I used to talk

913
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 2: to this weekend.

914
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: He just was calling me all week He was.

915
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: Like, lix I swear to God, I put this on

916
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 2: my daddy, my daddy grave bitch, I put this on

917
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 2: my mess you this nigga was like, you need to

918
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 2: have my fucking baby. Do you know how much money

919
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 2: you would have? You would be set for life. You

920
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 2: know how much money I made just last in the

921
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 2: last three months, just telling me, just you know, just

922
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:24,919
Speaker 2: talking all that shit. But it's just like, I don't

923
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 2: want kids. There's nothing you can do to convince me that.

924
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: And I'm not gonna waste your time and be like, oh,

925
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 2: I'll think about it. Just yeah, I don't want no

926
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 2: fucking kids. So it actually makes me mad, makes me

927
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 2: mad when I talk to this person because it's like,

928
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 2: why are you always trying to pressure me about having

929
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 2: a baby. This makes me and as cool as we are,

930
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 2: it makes me not want to talk to you at

931
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 2: all because every time you talk to me, you're like,

932
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 2: why don't we just have a baby. Why I'm ready

933
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 2: for kids, And you're the person that I talk like,

934
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 2: I'm the chosen one.

935
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: I don't want your baby, gonna choose another one.

936
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: So for vice versa for men, I feel like that

937
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 2: can run men off as well, because I feel like

938
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 2: this situation. It's not really common, but it does happen

939
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 2: for niggas to be like, give me my give me

940
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 2: my fucking child, give me my fucking child. But for

941
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 2: the most time, for the most part, it is women

942
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 2: asking for the marriage and asking for the bank. Yes,

943
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 2: And I feel like you never need to push your

944
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 2: only like I said, you're going to know.

945
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,439
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's just how I feel.

946
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,399
Speaker 2: I feel like you're gonna know if a nigga wants

947
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 2: that from you, because if that's what he wants, trust

948
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 2: and believe, when a man know what he wants, he

949
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 2: don't have no problem letting it be known what he wants.

950
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 2: That's one thing about men. When they want something, they

951
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 2: gonna say. If they don't want it, they not gonna say.

952
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 2: That's just it's very simple when it comes to them

953
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,760
Speaker 2: in that aspect. So if a man is not talking

954
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 2: to you about those type of things, are y'all two

955
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 2: three years into a relationship and he has not started

956
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 2: He hasn't said anything about.

957
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 1: Brig So that's different two three years.

958
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: I do feel like, like you said, I do agree

959
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 2: with what you said as far as okay, if that's

960
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: something that you really want and you get into a

961
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,439
Speaker 2: situation where a dude, then you feel like it's about

962
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 2: to be seen. But I feel like you don't even

963
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 2: need to have a conversation like that with a man

964
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 2: until y'all it's like exclusively dating us.

965
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: Well, how like y'all going on a date or two,

966
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 1: you can ask him do you have kids? Do you

967
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: want to have kids? But to have like an in

968
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: depth conversation about it, I feel like that's kind of strange.

969
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:14,360
Speaker 2: No, I have in depth conversations and I'll ask like,

970
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 2: do you have kids or do you want to have kids?

971
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 2: That's definitely a conversation I have. And sometimes like if

972
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 2: we if we're in a good conversation, it does get

973
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 2: into a deep conversation like, oh, I grew up in

974
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 2: this type of family, so this is what I want.

975
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 2: This is the type of dad, or this is the

976
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 2: type of mother I'm gonna be. I don't think there's

977
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: anything weird with that, but it lets me know your goals,

978
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 2: not necessarily with me, but it knows what you want

979
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 2: out of relationships.

980
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: So I can let you know right now with Bebbe, that.

981
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: Ain't me not if a nigga, stay shit, I want

982
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 2: a girl, I can get money with I can you know,

983
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 2: travel the world with like shit, and I'm your big right,

984
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 2: But if you're talking about like marriage and babies, I mean,

985
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 2: it's not necessarily.

986
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: Out the door. It's possible, but it's sad.

987
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 2: That we got to handle before we even think about

988
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,800
Speaker 2: marriage and babies. It's shit that I want to do

989
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 2: before I even think about putting a ring like that. Yeah, yeah,

990
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,280
Speaker 2: so I feel like but that is a good conversation

991
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 2: to start off with.

992
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: I think that it's cool.

993
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 2: It's like I said, because when you go on a

994
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 2: first date with somebody, you're trying to get to know them,

995
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, you picking their brain because

996
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 2: you want to see if I even want to waste

997
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 2: my time going on the second.

998
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 1: Day, right, because some people don't have good comforts. Because

999
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1000
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 2: If I went on a date with a dude on

1001
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 2: the first day and I asked him, do you have

1002
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 2: kids and he was like, yeah, but I don't want

1003
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 2: no more or no I don't want to have kids, Well,

1004
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 2: I know I'm not going on another day with you

1005
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 2: because I'm not about to try to convince you to

1006
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 2: have nobody, because I know that's what I want, and

1007
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 2: you already have told me that that's not what you want.

1008
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 2: So I do think it's important to maybe say something

1009
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 2: about it in the beginning, if that's something that's important

1010
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 2: to you, But to pressure a dude no, And if

1011
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 2: y'all two years into a relationship and he's vocalized that

1012
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: he does want to get married and that he does

1013
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 2: want to have kids, and you don't feel like y'all

1014
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 2: moving towards that beach, I'm out right here. I'm not

1015
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 2: about to waste my time here. I guess what me,

1016
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,439
Speaker 2: it's a little different because I feel like, because maybe

1017
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 2: he just don't want to have kids with you are married, you,

1018
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 2: if he says that that's what he wants, but he

1019
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 2: hadn't tried to make no progression to that point, I

1020
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 2: feel like for me, it's a little different because I

1021
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 2: might tell somebody, but I always I'm vocal about that.

1022
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,320
Speaker 2: I say no, I don't want kids. Marriage is not

1023
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 2: necessarily something I'm pressured to do. But if the right

1024
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 2: person came along, I definitely would consider marriage and kids. Right.

1025
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 2: It's not something like, bitch, I gotta get married before

1026
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 2: I turn thirty three and I have kids before I

1027
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 2: turn thirty two.

1028
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: It ain't something, but could I be convinced? And could

1029
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: a nigga like change?

1030
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 2: A nigga could come tomorrow and sweep me on my

1031
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 2: feet and I'd be like, Drea bitch, i'all moving to

1032
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 2: tim Buck two.

1033
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: When I'm having three kids, I'm gone. I'm excited for

1034
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 1: the junior hit like that.

1035
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 2: I mean, not necessarily that it does happen, but it can.

1036
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 2: I'm very open minded when it put stuff like that.

1037
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 2: I'm not just stuck on no, but I just feel

1038
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: like the way my dating life is and the way

1039
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 2: these niggas are, it's not happening right.

1040
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 1: So let us know how y'all feel.

1041
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:55,959
Speaker 2: Y'all put like a time stamp on, you know, having

1042
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 2: kids and you know, getting married. Do you feel like

1043
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 2: you can change a nigga or do you feel like

1044
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 2: you can change a person's mind?

1045
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: Or are you just kind of like shit? They tell

1046
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: me I'm out the door one year and you got

1047
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: one year they increase me. So the next thing I

1048
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: want to talk about is a problem that I have.

1049
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 2: I have this really really big problem. I think this

1050
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 2: is why I kind of used to Serial Day. I

1051
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 2: kind of steal Serial Day. I'm really not right now

1052
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 2: at the moment, Like I really just be chilling right now.

1053
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 2: I think it's because I'm just so focused on everything

1054
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: I have going on. But usually when I am in

1055
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 2: my dating mood, bitch, bitch, I'm fucking dating okay, And

1056
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 2: the reason being is because I get turned off.

1057
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: So easily, like so easily.

1058
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 2: But as I'm getting older, the pickings are getting fucking slim,

1059
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 2: bitch absolute. So do you think as the older we get,

1060
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 2: we don't need to be so picky and getting turned

1061
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 2: off so easily?

1062
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,319
Speaker 1: You know, I'm did.

1063
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: So what is something that turns you off? Like, what's

1064
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: the most pettiest thing you've talked stopped talking to somebody for?

1065
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 1: Oh, you wanna know what the pitiest thing?

1066
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1067
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 1: Like cause sometimes it be petty shit.

1068
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,359
Speaker 2: While I stopped fucking with a nigga, I told y'all before,

1069
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 2: like I stopped saying, I went on one day with

1070
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:13,240
Speaker 2: a nigga.

1071
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: He was laughing too hard at my jokes, so I

1072
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: never saw me.

1073
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 2: And then you say you don't like niggas who wear

1074
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 2: open toe shoes, so you would stop dating a nigga

1075
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 2: for that? Bro?

1076
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: I told y'all, I went on a date a blind date.

1077
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: You didn't sell that, dim nick.

1078
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 2: I don't think well if I didn't tell y'all this

1079
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 2: story my homegirl, killer fuck you set me up on

1080
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,439
Speaker 2: a blind fucking date, Nigga. She was like, bitch, get

1081
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 2: dressed up. He's this, he's dad. He's gonna take you

1082
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 2: here and there. Nigga showed up in some Gucci sandals. Bitch,

1083
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 2: no sign, but he was also NIGERI bitch, I don't

1084
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 2: give a fuck. I hate first of all, you know me,

1085
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 2: you know I fucking hate feet. I don't want to

1086
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 2: see y'all fucking toes. Me and Kellen talks about this

1087
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 2: shot to low Killen. I said, a nigga showing me

1088
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 2: his toes in the beginning of our relationship is the

1089
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 2: equivalent of me showing you my booty hole on the

1090
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 2: first day. What, Yes, you're so personal, I do not

1091
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 2: want to see your fucking feed. Im did, no, bitch,

1092
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 2: I hate feet and I don't want to see them. Shit,

1093
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 2: So on a first day, on the first day, your

1094
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 2: toes is out, and y'all know niggas be having that

1095
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 2: big tone to be crusty in the corner. It's I

1096
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,280
Speaker 2: don't want to see your feet why.

1097
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 1: I actually preferred it.

1098
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: If I if I went on a date with a

1099
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 2: guy and he had on some Gucci slides, I would

1100
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 2: actually be like happy because I get to see what

1101
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 2: your feet looks like.

1102
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: Because I don't like niggas who got ugly ass feed.

1103
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 2: I want to see your feet before I started liking you,

1104
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: if you always got on socksy shoes, bitch, something wrong.

1105
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: I just feel like, I don't know. I mean, I

1106
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,879
Speaker 1: don't want to be like but you know, like because

1107
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 1: I like to rub my niggas feeding.

1108
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 2: I guess one of my most serious boyfriends was like

1109
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 2: he was an athlete, so bitch, his feet was fucked up,

1110
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 2: like fucked up, but it didn't bother me because I

1111
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 2: don't like it bothers me. I don't want to see

1112
00:45:59,480 --> 00:45:59,959
Speaker 2: your feet.

1113
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to. But honestly, I never talked to

1114
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: him after that because I'm like, why is your toes out?

1115
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 2: Nigga have some shame, But it wasn't me because I

1116
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 2: just be thinking about laying in the bed with you.

1117
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 2: We could Lenny, you ain't got no socks on, and

1118
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 2: if your foot touched me beach, I'm not either you

1119
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 2: you would be okay.

1120
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: With the black to nails. I don't care. Oh baby,

1121
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 1: I'm not looking at it. I'm not looking. I do

1122
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: not want to see yo.

1123
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:22,479
Speaker 2: See.

1124
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it's okay, but I.

1125
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 2: Mean, if I love you, I'm gonna deal with it,

1126
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 2: cause bitch, my teddies hanging to the floor.

1127
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: You're gonna deal with that ship. And I don't. Everybody

1128
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 1: has their flaws, is what I'm saying. Fucking stupid, But

1129
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 1: I just feel like that's petty.

1130
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm trying to think, what's the pettiest

1131
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 2: reason that I stopped talking to somebody.

1132
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I stopped talking to guys for

1133
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 1: petty reason. I don't know, Sister.

1134
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 2: I stopped talking to niggas for reasons like all we

1135
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 2: go on to day, then I find out you don't

1136
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 2: got a call.

1137
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 1: I know that. What I'm saying I Atlanta. You cannot

1138
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 1: be in Atlanta without a car, right.

1139
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 2: I stopped talking to niggas for reasons like that, or

1140
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: like I come to your place and I live in

1141
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:05,240
Speaker 2: a place that's better than yours. I stopped talking to God,

1142
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 2: or I find out I'll make money. Okay, I stopped

1143
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,800
Speaker 2: talking like that, But I'm about to stop dating you

1144
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:20,439
Speaker 2: for stuffy man, right, I don't think no woman does.

1145
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 2: So I would stop dating guys for ship like that.

1146
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,959
Speaker 2: But I don't really have like petty ass reasons, because

1147
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 2: all the reasons that I would stop dating somebody like physically,

1148
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 2: like as far as like your teeth, your feet being

1149
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 2: fucked up, that sheep that I can already see the fakirs.

1150
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 2: You ain't got no swag. I can see that sheep.

1151
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 2: Your hairline fucked up, I can see. So I'm not

1152
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 2: gonna stop talking to you for that because I can

1153
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 2: see that on the first day, and I'm just not

1154
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 2: gonna I'm like, I was baking this guy one time.

1155
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 1: He took his pants off. He had a fatter ass to.

1156
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: Me, but you couldn't see that through the pin because

1157
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 2: it was wearing like pants. I was like, he looked

1158
00:47:58,600 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 2: like buffing the body.

1159
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 1: I was so mad, not buffy. He hitting it from

1160
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: the back of my ass, clapping y'all. There was a

1161
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: lot of clappy. It was disturbing, Like, but that's what

1162
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying is some things I wish I wasn't like that.

1163
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:18,479
Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes I'll be like I might pass

1164
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:21,760
Speaker 2: up on a good guy because I'm so fucking why.

1165
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 1: Definitely think that is a reason why you would passed

1166
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:30,919
Speaker 1: up on a good guy. That's ridiculous. No beach, the shoes, yes,

1167
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 1: this child, that's no. The shoes were okay, But why

1168
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: do you have your toes out on the first day?

1169
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: Why can't he not?

1170
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 2: Didn't you have yours? I wasn't in summertime. I mean

1171
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 2: I have, but I had on some heels. Let show

1172
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,399
Speaker 2: toes breathe. But I'm a woman, so you could let show.

1173
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: I could see if he had heels.

1174
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 2: On, and then that would be an issue because the

1175
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 2: thing is, I'm a woman. We wear open toe heels.

1176
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 2: I don't want to see my digga and flip flops,

1177
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 2: period unless on the beach.

1178
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 1: First of all, they were not flip flops, y'all. They

1179
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 1: were sly shoes.

1180
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 2: If you will, are we in the house, My nigga

1181
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: noll was about to go back to no bitch, I

1182
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:10,879
Speaker 2: got my food, tug, but order like three hookahs, two bottles, bitch,

1183
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 2: and I got my food not built out dead. I

1184
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,439
Speaker 2: just feel like, but back to your question, the question

1185
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 2: the hand like, I definitely don't feel like just because

1186
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 2: you're getting older, you need to settle. At the end

1187
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 2: of the day, you know what you want and not settle.

1188
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 2: I say, not be so picky about But if you're

1189
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 2: not being picky, you're not really getting.

1190
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 1: What you want. That's settling, so I should.

1191
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,439
Speaker 2: So you're saying that if a nigga works his toes,

1192
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 2: I have the right to leave, absolutely. But I'm telling you,

1193
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 2: as your friend, if that's a petty asked reason to

1194
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 2: stop fucking with a nigga. But if that's what, if

1195
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 2: that's how you feel, if you don't like niggas they

1196
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 2: showing their feet and the nigga always showing his feet,

1197
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 2: nigga boy, right, I feel.

1198
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: Like it's okay. We're in the house, Like if we're

1199
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 1: in the house, like wait no, let me take that back.

1200
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 2: Though, as long as he got some money, he could

1201
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,839
Speaker 2: wear his toes like all, he fucking won't if we're

1202
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 2: in the house chilling. I think it needs to be

1203
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 2: like at least a few weeks we've been before I

1204
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 2: see the feed. I gotta see yo feet. I want

1205
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,240
Speaker 2: to see yo feet with him. I'll be asking niggas

1206
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 2: to see their feet Like I hung out with this

1207
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,439
Speaker 2: dude this past week.

1208
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: We was chilling. I said, can I see y'all feet? Alway?

1209
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,280
Speaker 1: And it wasn't his feet ugly? No, that was neighbor

1210
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 1: bad that.

1211
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: I can't believe he showed you his feet when he

1212
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: knew he had terrible But I mean because he lived,

1213
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 2: he living in his truthy you know, they ugly. And

1214
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 2: I guess he felt like, well, bitch, you won't see

1215
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 2: him and either you won't still fuck with me or

1216
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 2: you not. And I did, but now I don't, so

1217
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 2: so see, I asked, thought this was last week? Though,

1218
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 2: I asked the dude, I said, can I see y'all?

1219
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 2: Because I had on open toe shoes, so he was like,

1220
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: you have nice feet. I was like, thank you. I

1221
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 2: was like, can I see yo feet? And he took

1222
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 2: his socks off and showed them to me.

1223
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like because that's a deal breaker for me.

1224
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 2: I don't like niggas too, because I feel like, if

1225
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 2: you don't take care of y'all feet, like what you

1226
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 2: take care of I'm dead. Nah. I felt like, like

1227
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 2: I said, it's not that I don't have I don't discriminate.

1228
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 2: I just don't want to see your feet. I'm just

1229
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 2: not a person. So no, that's understanding, Like you, once

1230
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 2: you see my booty hole, then it's okay for me

1231
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 2: to see your feet. So what's a major deal breaker

1232
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 2: for you like that? You feel like, okay, so let's

1233
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 2: not talk about like petty reasons why you feel like

1234
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 2: you're getting older, and maybe you need to stop being

1235
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 2: so peaky, like what's the real reason that you feel like? Okay,

1236
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 2: maybe I'm being a little peaky with these, but I

1237
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 2: feel like it's valid because that kind of that's not valid.

1238
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't want to invalidate your feelings, like

1239
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 2: you said, you know, that's not what we about.

1240
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: However, I feel like, what is a deal breaker?

1241
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 2: Yes, something that's huge, but you still kind of feel

1242
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 2: like okay, maybe I can being a little on this honestly, Well,

1243
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 2: I'll say this, it's for me. I'm doing things off

1244
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:55,279
Speaker 2: of first impressions. So like when it's two things that

1245
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:57,919
Speaker 2: I'll start to look past hype, I let that shit

1246
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 2: go because I'm a big bitch. Not that someone shor no,

1247
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 2: not shorter than me. I used to you have to

1248
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 2: be like if you wasn't over like six three, you

1249
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 2: weren't taking me on a date.

1250
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: Now I'm past that like you could be my height

1251
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:10,280
Speaker 1: or taller.

1252
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 2: Haven't noticed a chance? No, no, no, So I that's

1253
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 2: something I got over because I ain't nobody taller beighood exactly.

1254
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 2: I'm a big bitch like I used to, like you

1255
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 2: had to be at least sixty three, but I look

1256
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 2: past that. So that's something that I've worked past. But no,

1257
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 2: but that's still like I'm talking, that's Patty's not Patty,

1258
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 2: but that's something physical.

1259
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 1: That's all my shit is is physical.

1260
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 2: Oh okay, because I feel like, no matter what kind

1261
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 2: of personality you got, bitch, I can talk to a

1262
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:43,399
Speaker 2: brick wall. So I mean, well not I can't date

1263
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 2: a niggahoo, like we don't vibe on something. That's if

1264
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 2: we're going to date, and I'm the one doing all

1265
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 2: the talking.

1266
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,320
Speaker 1: Well of course that like that's obvious.

1267
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 2: But I mean like I feel, if somebody is shy,

1268
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 2: I can bring that out, Like if somebody is shy,

1269
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 2: I can bring their personality out, like I have a

1270
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 2: good if you really don't want to, oh no, but

1271
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. But sometimes I bring people's personality

1272
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 2: out and I see, you know what, you cool as fuck,

1273
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 2: Like you're cool and sometimes you bring them out and

1274
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 2: you're like, Okay, hold on, but there's something about me.

1275
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 2: I've told you this from the beginning of time. It's

1276
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 2: something about my personality. People just feel super comfortable around me,

1277
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:16,880
Speaker 2: and they feel like they can be themselves because I

1278
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 2: know I'm weird and I have my moments, so I

1279
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,879
Speaker 2: don't judge people. So I do feel like it's never

1280
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 2: really a personality problem because I pretty much know if

1281
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 2: I'm ana mess with you on the first date or not.

1282
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 2: But it's like physically, like when a nigga come up

1283
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,439
Speaker 2: and holler at me, there's some things that I will

1284
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 2: turn you around. I'll be like, no, like this is

1285
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 2: not gonna work like. And the thing is, I don't

1286
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 2: I don't like niggas. I don't like flashy dressers. I

1287
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 2: don't like niggas that be trying to I like my niggas.

1288
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 2: A nice little Nike tech fleet.

1289
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 1: I love a flashy I like. But I come on

1290
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: these day with their Gibanci I mean, I love Jabonci shirt.

1291
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 2: It's cool.

1292
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You can have on some

1293
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:55,959
Speaker 1: little Yeezies or some shit.

1294
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Some little that I come

1295
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 2: on the day with all your chain the the Natis.

1296
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,720
Speaker 2: I love a nigga in my head when he's trained

1297
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 2: while we fucking missionary.

1298
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:12,240
Speaker 1: Bitch, you remember the Sonatis the Donatis? Remember? No, I don't. Okay,

1299
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 1: we'll talk later about this, Okay. Can you can tell

1300
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:15,760
Speaker 1: the story?

1301
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 2: No I can.

1302
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: Oh you don't remember the Sonatis. You was like the

1303
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 1: clown shoes. Oh yes, I didn't know. Yes, I told

1304
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: you they were the Nati. Sorry, y'all, we just had

1305
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:29,479
Speaker 1: a moment. But that's what I'm saying.

1306
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 2: I don't like. I don't care if you have on

1307
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,439
Speaker 2: name brands of it. I just like something that looks

1308
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 2: good because I'm not a flashy dresser. Job. That's what

1309
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I dressed really, really plain. I dressed what

1310
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,440
Speaker 2: compliments my body. So I just like my nigga, like

1311
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:45,320
Speaker 2: and some shit that looked like he swagged up, Like

1312
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 2: you can have your little Nike on, your little Nike short,

1313
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 2: your Nike little pants and you know, something cute and

1314
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 2: some nice ass tennis shoes. Like that's good. That's all

1315
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 2: I need you in Okay. I don't need you and

1316
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 2: all that extra shit, Like I don't like this ship,

1317
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 2: didn't you say you dated a nigga the k trees

1318
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 2: I have, No, I definitely have I beated a nigga.

1319
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 2: He would have on a Gucci had a Javanci shirt.

1320
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 2: Uh some freaking the Nati boots bitch. But he just

1321
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,800
Speaker 2: thought because he was designed out, he was that nigga

1322
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 2: used to be tacky. Yeah, so that's why I say

1323
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:24,359
Speaker 2: I like my niggas with simple style, Nike, Nike tech.

1324
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: Please, that's all I need you, And.

1325
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 2: Yes see, with me, it's more so personality things is

1326
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 2: the reason why, reasons why at this point in my life,

1327
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 2: I'll be like, no, I can't fuck with you like personality,

1328
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 2: mentality and then financial stability.

1329
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 1: Bitch with me the three bitch. The financial thing is

1330
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 1: first for you. I'm saying my top three.

1331
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't never say would come first.

1332
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 1: I said the top three. Okay. So that's what I

1333
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:56,320
Speaker 1: do feel like. And I can't be in no nose.

1334
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: I'm dead. So I don't feel like I'm being peaky.

1335
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what I well.

1336
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,360
Speaker 2: I do feel like I get turned off easy, but

1337
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 2: as I get older, I do feel like some of

1338
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 2: the things that I turn get turned off about. I

1339
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 2: need to stop doing that, like the guy laughing at

1340
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 2: my jokes. You know, sometimes I do crack a funny

1341
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 2: jay or two, but that's fucking lame. Yeah, at every joke,

1342
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'm a bigger He was like

1343
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 2: a big good.

1344
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 1: I swear. I was like, oh my, I couldn't do that.

1345
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and see with me, like cause I think we

1346
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:38,319
Speaker 2: have like opposities like physical I don't really care because

1347
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:39,719
Speaker 2: I physically don't have a type.

1348
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:43,439
Speaker 1: Anyone that knows people tell y'all that I physically don't

1349
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:44,959
Speaker 1: have a type. Like I dated.

1350
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 2: I've dated fine niggas. I've dated some ug mugs. I

1351
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 2: mean to me, they wasn't ugly, but I mean to

1352
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 2: society they probably would be.

1353
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 1: So I mean, I don't really have a time. Y'all

1354
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 1: have dated somebody that society thought was trash. Yeah, that's

1355
00:56:59,360 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 1: what I'm said.

1356
00:56:59,920 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 2: I've dated all type of guys, So physically, I don't

1357
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 2: have a type.

1358
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: Like I'll give anybody a chance.

1359
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 2: As long as you not some money, Yeah, long as

1360
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 2: you got and you funny, long as you got some

1361
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 2: money you could make me laugh, my nigga, we can

1362
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 2: make this work. And your birth don't sting. Yeah, and

1363
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 2: oh and your teething yellow and your tols ain't looked up.

1364
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 2: But anything else we could work around. I feel like

1365
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 2: at this point I'm trying to work around everything, and yo, deep, well,

1366
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 2: if you got some money, that money gonna make your

1367
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 2: dick a little better.

1368
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 1: To y'all, don't listen to what she's about to say,

1369
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 1: not not if it's long and skinny. I'm dead.

1370
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 2: I'll say this though. I think I do get turned

1371
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 2: off too easy. The lot of stuff is childish. So

1372
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 2: as I get older, I don't necessarily look at it

1373
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 2: like I'm settling. I just look at it like I

1374
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 2: need to give more people a chance and date outside

1375
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 2: the box, because obviously what I've been dating, you know,

1376
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 2: hasn't worked out. So sometimes I feel like I passed

1377
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 2: up on good guys because I'm being so fucking petty

1378
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: with you know. Well, definitely, if you see a nigga

1379
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 2: with some open toe shoes and you like, I'm not

1380
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 2: gonna him because he I don't hope his house shoes,

1381
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 2: that's something I don't have to work on. Yeah, I

1382
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 2: don't know, because I'm not there yet. I'm there yet,

1383
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 2: with like the like dressing, I'm there, I can like

1384
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 2: look past a little something because that you know, as

1385
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:15,600
Speaker 2: long as you're not tacky.

1386
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: Would you date a nigga who had on some moccasines.

1387
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 2: Though, why not his tongs covered, which I would rather

1388
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 2: have on. Flip some moccasins, bitch, the I look like berries?

1389
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 2: Oh wear you niggas out there wearing don't.

1390
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 1: Even look Toms? What about Tom? No? Fuck no, I

1391
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 1: need my niggas in some Nike, some Adida. I like

1392
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: tennis shoes, like some Gucci.

1393
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 2: No, I just need you to I like the little

1394
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 2: kind of I don't know. I just like my nigga chill.

1395
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 2: I like niggas that wear chill shit. You know, some

1396
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 2: cute little Ja's or something. You know what I'm saying.

1397
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, some fitted pants, I feel nice little fitted shirt.

1398
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: That's all I need you to wear.

1399
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 2: Like.

1400
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: I don't need that all the extra shit.

1401
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 2: I don't like this. So put you on some Jay's, nigga,

1402
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 2: some nice fitting pants, plain jeans and a nice little shirt,

1403
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 2: get your little ear rings in and let's go.

1404
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, you know what I'm saying. But like I said,

1405
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: for the other shit, I'll started to look past that.

1406
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 1: You know, hight stuff. You know little stuff. It's just

1407
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: baby stuff. But the toes, I don't need to see

1408
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 1: your feet. I don't care what they look like. I

1409
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 1: don't need to see him.

1410
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 2: I indeed, I like seeing people feed and let me

1411
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 2: know how much you take care of Y'ALLTLF y'all. Feeding

1412
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 2: your teeth tells me everything I need to know.

1413
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: Okay, so we gonna get into the bed. The bed, babe.

1414
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 1: So this kind of goes into something that happened to

1415
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: me this past weekend. I got really really really really

1416
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 1: fucked up, like really really really really really good. Well,

1417
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 1: let me take that back, you got really really fucked up. Yeah,

1418
00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: I got really really fucked up.

1419
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 2: And I was at friend's house. It was like a

1420
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 2: whole bunch of us shout out to Little Jazz on

1421
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 2: Naka Minion, Like we was all over there fucked up,

1422
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 2: and it was some niggas over there and ship and like, bitch,

1423
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 2: I had to throw up, and like everybody was there,

1424
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 2: and this kind of I just want to talk about

1425
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 2: when you have to throw up in front of people.

1426
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 2: It just made me think about like having drunk sex

1427
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 2: or if you ever chilling with a nigga and you

1428
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 2: have to throw up, like what do you do?

1429
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 1: How do you are you still fucking like?

1430
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 2: Cause you know, when you have when you've been drinking

1431
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 2: and you gotta throw up, your gag reflexes are very

1432
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 2: very very short. You just set the dick on your

1433
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 2: tongue and you're like, yeah, So have you ever had

1434
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 2: to throw up in the middle of sex or yes?

1435
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 2: Because I have happened to me one time. Okay, so

1436
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 2: what happened. I was sucking dick and I threw you

1437
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 2: threw up on his deck. Yeah, but it was like

1438
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 2: only a little bit.

1439
01:00:53,240 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 1: What did he say, because I just like different type.

1440
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: I felt, He's like, damn that mouth where it probably

1441
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: had tacos and all that. But it wasn't like that.

1442
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 2: Obviously, because no, it was regular. It was regular, but

1443
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 2: it wasn't a lie. It wasn't to the point that

1444
01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 2: it like caused the scene and he just really noticed,

1445
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

1446
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 1: But it is no because it wasn't that much.

1447
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:27,080
Speaker 2: But you and you trying to act like you don't

1448
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 2: know what I'm talking about. You know what, you know

1449
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 2: what I'm talking about when you throw up a little bit,

1450
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 2: like it's a little Yes, it was just a little

1451
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 2: bit of throw up. But I knew that I threw up,

1452
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh shit, okay, now I'm in

1453
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 2: the situations where but it was still like embarrassing, and

1454
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 2: I just hurried hurried.

1455
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: Up and like did he for like another two minutes.

1456
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:49,480
Speaker 2: Then I just got on top of road with the

1457
01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 2: deep because I was not because I knew if I

1458
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:54,919
Speaker 2: kept doing it or tried to deep throw the ship,

1459
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 2: I was going to for real throw up.

1460
01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1461
01:01:57,840 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 2: First of all, like I said, we talked about this

1462
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 2: for a deep throating is a fucking skill.

1463
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 1: It's a sport.

1464
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:06,040
Speaker 2: It is a fucking skill that There's been times where

1465
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 2: I've been completely sober and I'm deep throating my dick

1466
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 2: and I'm like, bitch.

1467
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm about to throw up. Yeah, even regular to be.

1468
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:14,800
Speaker 2: Deep throating while you drunk, ladies, that's a fucking no. No,

1469
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 2: don't do it unless you're a fucking expert at it.

1470
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: I can't do it.

1471
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 2: But I've never thrown up while having sex, thank god.

1472
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 2: But I'm like, stay the night at somebody house before

1473
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 2: and I'm like, damn, I gotta throw up. And that's

1474
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 2: kind of embarrassing.

1475
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 1: I really, yes, it is. No you just run to

1476
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 1: the restaurant.

1477
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 2: What do you do?

1478
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: I just get up out the bed and act like

1479
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: I got a fucking pee or a boo boo boo boo.

1480
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: I'm the same bitch. You can't go boobo at a

1481
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 1: nigga crib. You cand if he got seven bathrooms? Now,

1482
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I just snuck up and downstairs

1483
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: to the guest rooms. Took a little long.

1484
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 2: Nah, if you got one bathroom, we got a pride

1485
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 2: got one bathroom. You gotta go home cause it ain't

1486
01:02:57,080 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 2: no way to escape this because what if what if

1487
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 2: right after you booo, he gotta go in there, want

1488
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 2: a toilet?

1489
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: Don't flusdh bitch, Oh stop up? Give you gotta go?

1490
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: Tell him no, I'm just leaving. I don't leave the

1491
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 1: turn floating.

1492
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 2: Know what I would do the toilet overflow, bitch, just

1493
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 2: kill me. I'm probably gonna commit suicide right in there.

1494
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:21,480
Speaker 2: I would never booboo at a dude house though, who

1495
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 2: only have one bathroom?

1496
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean because so many things that Mike

1497
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 1: could go. I had to throw up, go throw up.

1498
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 1: But I like turn the water on, so it's not like.

1499
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:33,439
Speaker 2: I'm washing my hands or doing something. Because I don't

1500
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:36,840
Speaker 2: need you to hear yeah, but I don't know I'd

1501
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 2: be real smooth with that ship. But I also feel like,

1502
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 2: if y'all both been drinking and you have to throw

1503
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 2: up to me, that's not embarrassing. I feel like she

1504
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you are a lady.

1505
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 2: Nine times out of ten, you wag less than him,

1506
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 2: you shorter than him. Oh, I'm not bitch, even you know.

1507
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,560
Speaker 2: I just feel like Nissa's understands theF like that. And

1508
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 2: even I even threw up in front of a guy before,

1509
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 2: like threw up on the side of the ball. I

1510
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 2: threw up in front of before I threw up on

1511
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 2: the side of the bed, and he took care of

1512
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 2: me for the rest of the night. Like, I don't

1513
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 2: feel like that's embarrassing if we've been drinking a lot,

1514
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:15,439
Speaker 2: and especially if you're with a nigga who like, hey,

1515
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 2: let's take another shot another at the end of the day,

1516
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 2: niggas y'all thought, I'm fucked up like this because I

1517
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 2: was trying to keep up with you.

1518
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 1: We was in my car and I was driving. I

1519
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:24,800
Speaker 1: had to get out.

1520
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 2: I started throwing up, and he like made sure he

1521
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 2: got put me in the passenger seat and I was

1522
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 2: just throwing up and he was like.

1523
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 1: Holding my hair bag. Bitch, I was so fucked up,

1524
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: But he did take care of me. Yeah, a real

1525
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: nigga gonna take care of you.

1526
01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 2: He not about to judge you off the fact that

1527
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 2: you threw up and y'all was out together getting drunk,

1528
01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 2: turning up or hell, even if you wasn't out with him,

1529
01:04:43,160 --> 01:04:44,920
Speaker 2: and you gotta throw up, like like you said, make

1530
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 2: a little smooth little transition, go to.

1531
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: The baths for me, Comparson.

1532
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 2: No, I hate bodily functions like reach the mouth with

1533
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 2: some mouthwives.

1534
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 1: I definitely gotta have a mountain. That's ain't like letting

1535
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 1: at everybody.

1536
01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 2: You always gotta have a mouth wash at the crib,

1537
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 2: always always having ladies over.

1538
01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 1: And if you always over there, you need to have

1539
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 1: a toothbrush. Hold on, no bitch you trying to move in.

1540
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 1: You know a type of bitch that to bring us

1541
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 1: a piece of panty?

1542
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 2: Any niggay I ever been fucking we consistently. I always

1543
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 2: had mouth wash at they house, a toothbrush, makeup whites

1544
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 2: and facial cleansers.

1545
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: Mm. I know that's right, Quean and I and it

1546
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 1: stays there. Yeah, I get it.

1547
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 2: I mean, and I remember one time I went to

1548
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 2: a nigga house. I said, somebody be using my philosophy.

1549
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 2: Face wash, bitch, you are so annoying. I swear I

1550
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 2: know it wasn't me.

1551
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 1: It was probably his other bit, cause he damn sure

1552
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't he.

1553
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 2: I'm bid why you say that he could have been

1554
01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 2: cared about his poor He has his own Okay, Okay,

1555
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 2: So let us know.

1556
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 1: Have y'all ever had some experiences with drunk sex? And

1557
01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:48,320
Speaker 1: have you ever threw up on a dick? Now that's

1558
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 1: something a little different. So you have, So you threw

1559
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 1: up in front of a guy, but you never threw

1560
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 1: up on the dep I've never thrown up on the dick.

1561
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 1: I know my limits. I'm on d throat when I'm drunk.

1562
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 1: I barely even sub dick when I'm drunk. Mm well,

1563
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 1: let me not lie line in. Okay.

1564
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:05,439
Speaker 2: So next, y'all know that we've been doing a ask

1565
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 2: four minds segments. Okay, so I have to read this

1566
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:13,960
Speaker 2: like three times before I understood it. Said, So we're

1567
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 2: gonna girl, it's a lot. Okay, So we've honestly, we've

1568
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:22,280
Speaker 2: been getting a lot of emails and stuff. So we're

1569
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 2: gonna do all of them, trust me. But for now

1570
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:26,440
Speaker 2: we're just gonna do once a week. Next week we're

1571
01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 2: probably gonna do two since we've had so much many

1572
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 2: come in. Okay, Okay, So I don't know if I

1573
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 2: should say her name or not. I'm gonna just leap.

1574
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 1: Shall leave out what what did?

1575
01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 2: Well, let me read it first, Lena hear it first.

1576
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 2: We gonna read it then were on the side. We're

1577
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 2: gonna out right. Okay, So it says, Hey, lex Andrea,

1578
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:49,520
Speaker 2: I tune in to y'all every week from Fort Worth.

1579
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 1: Y'all have the best podcast. Thank you girl, Thanks book.

1580
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 2: I'd kay if it's a Texas thing, but I feel

1581
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 2: like I'm talking to my homegirls. Y'all keep it all

1582
01:06:57,760 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 2: the way real. Okay, So let me get I know.

1583
01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 2: I know y'all should see dress face right now. Okay,

1584
01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna read my last nigga had an open

1585
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 2: to eat.

1586
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:08,920
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna read this really slowly. Y'all can understand.

1587
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 2: Like I said, I have to read this a few

1588
01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:12,479
Speaker 2: times for me to really understand, and I'm gonna stop

1589
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 2: and kind of.

1590
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:15,520
Speaker 1: Really explain it to y'all as I read, Okay, but

1591
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 1: it's a lot. Okay.

1592
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 2: My baby daddy has eight kids by eight different women.

1593
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 2: I'm number seven, but that's another story. So the girl

1594
01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 2: that's writing, she's baby mama number seven out of eight.

1595
01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:28,720
Speaker 1: Okay. There is one.

1596
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 2: Baby mama of his that I became close to being

1597
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 2: that my six year old daughter. So she has another

1598
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 2: kid that okay, right, Her six year old daughter is

1599
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 2: the same age with his daughter from someone else by

1600
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 2: the baby mama that she's close with.

1601
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 1: So their kids are friends. Okay. Following me, I gied it.

1602
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 2: Okay, they have little play dates here and there. So

1603
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 2: she invited her to run track with my daughter as

1604
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 2: a way for you know, their kids to bond. So

1605
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 2: and she said, let me say that my baby daddy

1606
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:05,919
Speaker 2: and I are on great terms and getting along very well.

1607
01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:09,480
Speaker 1: He provides and spend time with my baby and I

1608
01:08:09,640 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 1: have no complaints.

1609
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 2: One day, on the way home from practice, the baby mama,

1610
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 2: the other baby mama which is her friend, was sad,

1611
01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 2: hold on, I lost my place. Was sad that he

1612
01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 2: doesn't spend time with her and her kid. So she

1613
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 2: the girl that's writing the letter, she invited him to

1614
01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:30,599
Speaker 2: practice to see both of do both of the babies.

1615
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 2: She thought that she was doing something good. She thought

1616
01:08:32,439 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 2: that she would appreciate it, being that he barely sees

1617
01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 2: that their child. She thought she was doing something good.

1618
01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 2: Bitch wrong, mind you. This is the first time she

1619
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:45,439
Speaker 2: seeing him and I interact with each other. Like I said,

1620
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:48,759
Speaker 2: I have no beef with him, so we chopping it up, joking,

1621
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 2: doing what we do. And he didn't speak to her

1622
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 2: at all, and speak to the other baby mama at all.

1623
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:57,640
Speaker 2: She made sly remarks about him playing stepdaddy to my

1624
01:08:57,840 --> 01:09:02,800
Speaker 2: oldest and not even acknowledging their daughter. Then tells me

1625
01:09:02,960 --> 01:09:05,559
Speaker 2: my two year old is the favorite and ever since

1626
01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:08,200
Speaker 2: she came along that he doesn't fuck.

1627
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:09,280
Speaker 1: With her and her daughter no more.

1628
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 2: So She's like saying, little slower, more marks in front

1629
01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:15,160
Speaker 2: of everybody, which she does get more attention.

1630
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying it's right, but hey, which I

1631
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:20,599
Speaker 1: mean if just reading, keep reading.

1632
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 2: I text her later that night and told her she

1633
01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 2: seemed uncomfortable and I didn't think that she was gonna

1634
01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:28,680
Speaker 2: act that way with him being there. She says she

1635
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 2: wasn't uncomfortable, but she was pissed, So I left it alone.

1636
01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:33,880
Speaker 1: Her issue was with him, not with me.

1637
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 2: The very next morning, she went on Facebook talking shit

1638
01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:41,360
Speaker 2: about me with my baby daddy. Wait, talking shit about

1639
01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:43,080
Speaker 2: me and my baby daddy, even.

1640
01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:46,840
Speaker 1: Though talking shit about medaddy, even.

1641
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 2: Though I told her I don't. So she went on

1642
01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 2: Facebook saying that no I was saying because I stuttered

1643
01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:55,040
Speaker 2: over it. So I'm trying to let them understand what

1644
01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 2: I was saying. So the very next morning, she went

1645
01:09:57,160 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 2: on Facebook talking shit about me, fucking with my baby daddy,

1646
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 2: even though so I told her I don't.

1647
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 1: I'm a young dumb hoe.

1648
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:06,639
Speaker 2: That's for me. I'm twenty six day thirty four. Wait,

1649
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 2: this is a girl said she was a young dumb hoe.

1650
01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 2: I act like he acts like father of the year.

1651
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 1: We get into it.

1652
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:15,640
Speaker 2: Basically, they get into a huge argument on Facebook, and

1653
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:17,160
Speaker 2: after this she wants to be cool.

1654
01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 1: I'm not fake.

1655
01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 2: I can't be cool with someone knowing that not only

1656
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:23,840
Speaker 2: is she jealous of me, she's jealous of my innocent kids.

1657
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:26,600
Speaker 2: That I overstep my boundary by trying to keep the

1658
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:29,400
Speaker 2: kids close. I thought that her being older, she would

1659
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 2: be more more mature. Or is it that she's just

1660
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 2: being bitter that I have a close relationship with him

1661
01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:38,000
Speaker 2: and his family. Maybe she want to fuck with him? Still,

1662
01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 2: should I not interact with any of his kids anymore?

1663
01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:43,559
Speaker 2: His twelve year old daughter loves me and always wants

1664
01:10:43,600 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 2: to come over. But now I don't want to seem

1665
01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 2: like I'm doing too much. Please help wood Child, Wood Child. Okay,

1666
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,400
Speaker 2: so this is what I have to say. Now, I'm

1667
01:10:55,439 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 2: not gonna get on you about having being the seventh

1668
01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 2: baby mama because, like you said, that's another story.

1669
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:02,400
Speaker 1: Abouts that's another story.

1670
01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 2: He's show business. I'm gonna I They niggas with kids too,

1671
01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:07,719
Speaker 2: so he's cool.

1672
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:13,240
Speaker 1: So my thing is absolutely you, You you did too much.

1673
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:16,560
Speaker 2: That's not your position to feel like you need to

1674
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 2: bring a baby daddy and his baby mama closer together.

1675
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 2: That's their business and you need to leave it at

1676
01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 2: that because you don't know what type of relationship that

1677
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 2: they had. Just like she never saw y'all interact with

1678
01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 2: each other, you don't know how they interacted with each other.

1679
01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 1: So that's that should have been your.

1680
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 2: Cue to be like, you know what, maybe this is

1681
01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:35,920
Speaker 2: not a good idea because it's probably some deeper under

1682
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 2: comes behind why he don't why don't sup with her?

1683
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:41,439
Speaker 2: And I feel like when you and I think we've

1684
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 2: seen why after she went on fucking Facebook, right, So

1685
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 2: I feel like, at the end of the day, y'all

1686
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:49,519
Speaker 2: share a baby daddy, so as close as y'all think

1687
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:52,320
Speaker 2: y'all are, shit can get ugly. As soon as one

1688
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:54,760
Speaker 2: person's kid is getting more than the other person's kid.

1689
01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:57,559
Speaker 2: That's a friendship. I think you need to keep at

1690
01:11:57,960 --> 01:11:58,639
Speaker 2: with the kids.

1691
01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:01,519
Speaker 1: We can be cool and cordial when the kids are around,

1692
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:03,479
Speaker 1: but y'all need to be hanging out outside of the

1693
01:12:03,600 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 1: kid being buddy buddy. That is not gonna work, sister,

1694
01:12:07,280 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1695
01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 2: And then the fact that you're twenty six and she's

1696
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:12,200
Speaker 2: thirty four, why y'all hanging out anyway?

1697
01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a.

1698
01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:15,040
Speaker 2: Thirty four year old woman hanging out with a twenty

1699
01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 2: six year old. She's just trying to see what the

1700
01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:20,719
Speaker 2: fuck you be up to. Honestly, why are you thirty

1701
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 2: four hanging out with a twenty six year old?

1702
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:23,639
Speaker 1: I don't feel that way.

1703
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:27,720
Speaker 2: I just feel like people like that the way she reacted,

1704
01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 2: she has offterior motives for being around you, because as

1705
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 2: soon as something happened, the first thing that she did

1706
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 2: was go online and talk shit about you, y'all have

1707
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 2: never had a genuine relationship in my opinion, for her,

1708
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 2: because if somebody gets mad at me, I expect you

1709
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:45,439
Speaker 2: to talk to me about it, and I talk to

1710
01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 2: Facebook about it.

1711
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I will say that.

1712
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:51,000
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say I don't necessarily feel like the

1713
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:55,879
Speaker 2: relationship was genuine, But I feel like she's obviously always

1714
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:59,200
Speaker 2: had feeling some type of been feeling some type of

1715
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:02,160
Speaker 2: way of you and your kid because for her to

1716
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 2: get on Facebook, well, for her to tell your baby

1717
01:13:04,360 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 2: daddy that, oh, your child is the favorite and ever

1718
01:13:09,600 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 2: since your child came along, he don't treat her child

1719
01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 2: the same no more, and he playing.

1720
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:16,920
Speaker 1: Stepdaddy to your older child.

1721
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 2: Like she's always had those feelings, but she was being

1722
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 2: fake cool with you and acting like she didn't have

1723
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:25,320
Speaker 2: that problem and kei ky key and all loping your

1724
01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 2: mother fucking face. But really and truly, she felt some

1725
01:13:28,360 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 2: type of way the whole time. And I feel like, yeah,

1726
01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:32,560
Speaker 2: that's why I do feel like you overstepped your boundaries

1727
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 2: by inviting the baby daddy to the game, because at

1728
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 2: the end of the day, they need to if they're

1729
01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:40,839
Speaker 2: not getting along and the ain't not having a relationship.

1730
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 2: That's something that they need to work out on your

1731
01:13:42,520 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 2: on their own. That's not your business. But when she

1732
01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 2: came to the game and seeing how he and her,

1733
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 2: because she probably already had felt like your child was

1734
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 2: the favorite, but then when she came and seen how

1735
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:55,240
Speaker 2: he was interacting with your kids and not interacting with

1736
01:13:55,360 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 2: Hoo and hook kids, it made her feel some type

1737
01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:00,599
Speaker 2: of way even more. But as a grown up a woman,

1738
01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 2: that beach wrong too, And that's why you don't need

1739
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 2: That's why I'm saying you don't need to be cool. Well,

1740
01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 2: I understand what Leck's saying as far as like, oh,

1741
01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:10,680
Speaker 2: y'all have kids together, what type of relationship or y'all

1742
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 2: ever really gonna be able to have because y'all share

1743
01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:15,160
Speaker 2: a baby daddy, It could be ugly.

1744
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 1: But the issue at hand for me is.

1745
01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:19,760
Speaker 2: That as a grown ass woman, she should have been

1746
01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:21,640
Speaker 2: able to come to you and say some shit to

1747
01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 2: you and not get on the whole fucking public platform

1748
01:14:24,520 --> 01:14:26,720
Speaker 2: talking shit about your baby daddy and then talking shit

1749
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:28,439
Speaker 2: about you because what did you do wrong?

1750
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 1: Right?

1751
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:31,760
Speaker 2: And I will say I think that you did it

1752
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:34,080
Speaker 2: out the goodness of your heart, But at the same time,

1753
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 2: you don't want to jeopardize your kids' relationship with their

1754
01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 2: father over mess because at the end of the day,

1755
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:42,479
Speaker 2: this woman is thirty four. She ain't no spring chicken.

1756
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:45,320
Speaker 2: She know what the fuck going on. And honestly, I

1757
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:47,479
Speaker 2: feel like it's a little bit of jealousy there. She's

1758
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 2: twenty six, she's thirty four. The fact that you said

1759
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:53,240
Speaker 2: that your baby daddy was interacting with you and y'all

1760
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:56,400
Speaker 2: laughing and playing and joking around, the bitch is hating. Yep.

1761
01:14:56,640 --> 01:14:59,360
Speaker 2: Honestly that's how I feel. So I feel like you

1762
01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:01,959
Speaker 2: need to nip that relationship in the bud. Any friendship

1763
01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:05,240
Speaker 2: that y'all have, but be cordial. But y'all need to

1764
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 2: be hanging out now. Y'all can still be cool as

1765
01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:10,760
Speaker 2: far as I mean necessary, I feel like, yeah, And

1766
01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 2: that's why I feel like it does get messy, because

1767
01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 2: when you have a kid with somebody who has other

1768
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:20,600
Speaker 2: baby mama's, you have to keep it cute to a

1769
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:23,280
Speaker 2: certain extent for the sake of the child. Right, even

1770
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:25,880
Speaker 2: as petty as you might want to be in certain situations,

1771
01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 2: you have to think of the kids first. And you

1772
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 2: and that lady still need to get along to some

1773
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:32,559
Speaker 2: extent for the sake of y'all, And that's what I'm saying,

1774
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:35,240
Speaker 2: y'all kids do deserve to have a relationship and be

1775
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 2: and have a relationship with they siblings, grow up with

1776
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:40,000
Speaker 2: they That's why I said, I definitely think that y'all

1777
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:42,120
Speaker 2: need to be cordial and get along, still have the

1778
01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 2: kids for play days. But as far as y'all being

1779
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 2: buddy buddy and texting each other and hanging out, I

1780
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 2: don't know if y'all do hang.

1781
01:15:48,840 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 1: Out, but it seems like y'all are friends. I don't

1782
01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:52,200
Speaker 1: think that that's a good idea.

1783
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:55,639
Speaker 2: So how do you suggest she go about still being

1784
01:15:55,720 --> 01:15:57,840
Speaker 2: cool with her but not being as friendly and not

1785
01:15:57,920 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 2: making the girl feel some type of way and being

1786
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 2: even more pity. I mean, I just the other girl

1787
01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:04,640
Speaker 2: will being more pity, right. I just feel like you

1788
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:06,960
Speaker 2: can you can't control how other people react.

1789
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 1: So as far as anytime you text her, it.

1790
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:12,720
Speaker 2: Just needs to be like, Hey, what are you and

1791
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 2: the kids doing today? We're going to the park if

1792
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:16,400
Speaker 2: y'all want to come, keep things regular.

1793
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 1: But if it's not about the kids hanging out, y'all

1794
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:19,679
Speaker 1: don't need to be texting.

1795
01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 2: But obviously, in my personal opinion, though, I feel like

1796
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:25,639
Speaker 2: it's a conversation that needs to be had between them

1797
01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 2: before that can happen. Yeah, and it was me, Me

1798
01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:30,640
Speaker 2: and sis gonna have to have a conversation before my

1799
01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:33,719
Speaker 2: kid can come around, before my kid can be coming

1800
01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:36,960
Speaker 2: around and hanging with your kid again, because at this point,

1801
01:16:37,080 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 2: by how you reacted now, I kind of feel a

1802
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 2: little bit uncomfortable. I don't know if your son or

1803
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:46,639
Speaker 2: because was the two year old the son? Okay, well, well,

1804
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:49,560
Speaker 2: well if my two before my because I don't know

1805
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 2: if your child or your children be going to her

1806
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:53,720
Speaker 2: house and hanging out at her house, because I know

1807
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:56,519
Speaker 2: you do, because I'm saying because I know she mentioned

1808
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 2: that one of his other kids that's twelve, likes to

1809
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:00,760
Speaker 2: come over to her house. So I don't know if

1810
01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:03,200
Speaker 2: your kids be going over to her house. But at

1811
01:17:03,240 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 2: this point, after that happening, my kids not coming over

1812
01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:08,760
Speaker 2: to your house because you signed a little jealous, and

1813
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:11,360
Speaker 2: I'm kind of afraid and unsure of what you might

1814
01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:14,600
Speaker 2: do to my kids because of your problem with the

1815
01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 2: relationship that I have with my baby dad. And also

1816
01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:18,599
Speaker 2: some women are petty and we'll take things out on y'all.

1817
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, absolutely, one hundred percent agree. But I also

1818
01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:23,439
Speaker 2: think that you need to talk to your baby daddy

1819
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:26,920
Speaker 2: as well, and he needs to have everybody un control.

1820
01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:29,760
Speaker 2: It's eighty y'all, bitch, not all of y'all gonna get along.

1821
01:17:29,840 --> 01:17:30,599
Speaker 2: It's eight of y'all.

1822
01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, not all of y'all are gonna get along.

1823
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 2: But I feel like it sounds like she hasn't moved

1824
01:17:35,640 --> 01:17:37,360
Speaker 2: on from the baby daddy, kind of the fact that

1825
01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 2: she was kind of like looking at y'all or y'all joking,

1826
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:41,760
Speaker 2: and she's like, oh, they still fucking around. Even if

1827
01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:43,800
Speaker 2: you and your baby daddy were still fucking around, I

1828
01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 2: don't understand why she would care.

1829
01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:47,920
Speaker 1: That's not her unless she still has feeling for them.

1830
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:50,959
Speaker 1: So I would say, you need to have a conversation

1831
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 1: with your baby daddy.

1832
01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:54,720
Speaker 2: It needs to be a conversation for I don't know

1833
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 2: how all of y'all get alonger all of y'all don't

1834
01:17:57,800 --> 01:17:59,640
Speaker 2: get along, But I don't feel like y'all should just

1835
01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:02,240
Speaker 2: be happy a friendship. I think that's weird, but I

1836
01:18:02,360 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 2: do think that they need to have a conversation. Maybe

1837
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:07,519
Speaker 2: that's just me because we got a problem. I'm gonna

1838
01:18:07,640 --> 01:18:09,439
Speaker 2: dress you because I don't like the face.

1839
01:18:09,520 --> 01:18:09,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1840
01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that she needs, but it's ways to

1841
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 2: have a conversation with somebody. I do think that it's necessary.

1842
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 2: If y'all and y'all they was hanging out, it's necessary

1843
01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:22,639
Speaker 2: to have a conversation, But not with somebody who's clearly

1844
01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:26,639
Speaker 2: not rational, somebody who hops on Facebook and doesn't think

1845
01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:28,760
Speaker 2: you know what, let me call her and talk to her.

1846
01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 2: She ain't never wanted to talk. She ain't never As

1847
01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 2: soon as this girl tries to approach her and be like, hey,

1848
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 2: let's talk, she gonna this bitch texting my phone. She's

1849
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:41,200
Speaker 2: gonna hop on Facebook and start doing the same thing.

1850
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:43,680
Speaker 2: This lady is thirty four years old. She has been

1851
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 2: around the block and know how it is.

1852
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't teach an old dog new tricks. Yeah,

1853
01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 1: but I'm getting the bars from this lady. Is that Okay.

1854
01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:53,160
Speaker 1: I see we can't be friends. I see we can't

1855
01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:56,000
Speaker 1: be you know whatever we were, But we can be

1856
01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:58,599
Speaker 1: cordial for the kids. Do it for the kids. Card

1857
01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 1: do it for the kids. What another kids be? So

1858
01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:02,759
Speaker 1: for the kids.

1859
01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:06,240
Speaker 2: I will say every time you talk to her, it

1860
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 2: needs to be about the kids hanging out, y'all both

1861
01:19:08,360 --> 01:19:09,160
Speaker 2: need to be present.

1862
01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:11,160
Speaker 1: I don't think her kids need to be at your

1863
01:19:11,280 --> 01:19:14,400
Speaker 1: house unless she knows or I don't.

1864
01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:16,320
Speaker 2: I don't think you should have your kids at her

1865
01:19:16,360 --> 01:19:19,360
Speaker 2: house without you being there or the baby daddy being there.

1866
01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 1: That's just my personal thing. Yeah, I feel like all

1867
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:24,559
Speaker 1: that she is done. As far as you trying to.

1868
01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:27,559
Speaker 2: Be the peacemaker and mend and other people with girls,

1869
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:30,759
Speaker 2: fuck them. That ain't your business. Take care of your kids.

1870
01:19:30,920 --> 01:19:35,760
Speaker 2: Make sure your kids are straight and your only concern. Wo.

1871
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:38,280
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. I do think that the kids

1872
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 2: should be the only concern. But see, I don't like

1873
01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:42,360
Speaker 2: I don't like having drama with people.

1874
01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:44,280
Speaker 1: That's just me. I don't like having drama.

1875
01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:46,280
Speaker 2: And I feel like if it's an issue and it's

1876
01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:48,799
Speaker 2: something that needs if it's something that needs to be addressed,

1877
01:19:48,880 --> 01:19:49,720
Speaker 2: I don't never want it to be.

1878
01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:52,800
Speaker 1: No, but we don't have to be cool at this point.

1879
01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:55,599
Speaker 2: No, bitch, I'm gonna address the fact that you got

1880
01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:59,120
Speaker 2: on fucking Facebook talking shit about mine because I still

1881
01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:01,679
Speaker 2: have to interact with you and bring okay you talking

1882
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:03,960
Speaker 2: about still having eight kids around each other.

1883
01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 1: If I still have to have my kid around you.

1884
01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:07,479
Speaker 1: I have to still interact with.

1885
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 2: You, and I cannot coexist with you and act like

1886
01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:14,599
Speaker 2: that she didn't happen without having a conversation about minions.

1887
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:17,120
Speaker 1: I have conversations with people who I know who can

1888
01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:17,600
Speaker 1: handle it.

1889
01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:20,080
Speaker 2: This girl is not this com If you have a

1890
01:20:20,160 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 2: conversation where I were like, Okay, why did you write

1891
01:20:22,560 --> 01:20:23,439
Speaker 2: on Facebook about me?

1892
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:25,240
Speaker 1: How do you say that to somebody with them not

1893
01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:26,880
Speaker 1: getting defensive because I wanted to.

1894
01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:29,800
Speaker 2: Bitch it's my motherfucker because I'm not saying but and

1895
01:20:29,920 --> 01:20:31,720
Speaker 2: look at how you said it. You don't have to

1896
01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 2: say something. You don't have to say it like that.

1897
01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:35,639
Speaker 2: It's nice ways to say.

1898
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:36,200
Speaker 1: Things to people.

1899
01:20:36,360 --> 01:20:38,880
Speaker 2: And if she acts irrational while you're trying to talk

1900
01:20:38,920 --> 01:20:40,280
Speaker 2: to her, okay, then cool.

1901
01:20:40,360 --> 01:20:43,880
Speaker 1: Now you know Okay, well bach we' though she's proved

1902
01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:45,599
Speaker 1: that she's irrational. Okay, that's fine.

1903
01:20:45,640 --> 01:20:48,680
Speaker 2: But sometimes people do things out of emotion, which we

1904
01:20:48,800 --> 01:20:51,479
Speaker 2: all know because we all have done that before. We

1905
01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:54,640
Speaker 2: have all thought irrationally because of emotions and did some

1906
01:20:54,720 --> 01:20:57,479
Speaker 2: shit and then later down the line might have realized, well, damn,

1907
01:20:57,520 --> 01:21:00,000
Speaker 2: I didn't handle that the proper way. So you don't

1908
01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 2: know whether or not if she comes to this lady

1909
01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 2: as a woman, Come to her as a woman and

1910
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:06,360
Speaker 2: tell her how she feels.

1911
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:08,519
Speaker 1: You don't know how the lady is gonna react.

1912
01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:10,560
Speaker 2: Now, That's why I'm saying that if she does that

1913
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:14,559
Speaker 2: and then the beach still acting irrational. But the reason

1914
01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:17,760
Speaker 2: I'm saying is because this lady still I feel like

1915
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:20,439
Speaker 2: the lady has some jealousy in her. So that's what

1916
01:21:20,520 --> 01:21:23,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying. No matter what you tell this lady, her

1917
01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:26,519
Speaker 2: feelings are still there. She still feels some type of

1918
01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:29,400
Speaker 2: way because your kids are the favorite. She still feels

1919
01:21:29,400 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 2: some type of way because the baby daddy be And

1920
01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 2: that's fine, but let me finish, she still feels a

1921
01:21:34,120 --> 01:21:36,280
Speaker 2: certain type of way because the baby daddy be flirting

1922
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 2: with you and treating you a certain type of way.

1923
01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:41,760
Speaker 2: So no matter how nice you ask her, or no

1924
01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:43,920
Speaker 2: matter how I mean, you gotta be a judge of

1925
01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:45,720
Speaker 2: character because we just going off with what you what

1926
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:48,439
Speaker 2: you're saying to us about this lady. But sometimes I

1927
01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:52,559
Speaker 2: feel like some things are better left unsaid. And if

1928
01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:54,600
Speaker 2: we're not gonna be friends, and I don't have to

1929
01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:56,599
Speaker 2: be around you all the time. As long as I'm

1930
01:21:56,600 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 2: around when my kids are together, with y'all. I can coexist.

1931
01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:01,200
Speaker 2: There's people I work with every day that I don't

1932
01:22:01,240 --> 01:22:03,240
Speaker 2: fucking like, but I know how to coax this and

1933
01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:05,880
Speaker 2: keep my mouth shut for the betterment because I need

1934
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 2: my job, so for the betterment of your kids, I

1935
01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:11,479
Speaker 2: believe you some things are just better left unstead. I

1936
01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 2: don't know, because I just feel like we ain't worried

1937
01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:15,720
Speaker 2: about her feelings, her feelings about how she feel about

1938
01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:17,640
Speaker 2: the baby daddy and her That's not her issue. My

1939
01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:19,479
Speaker 2: issue is to think that you decided to get on

1940
01:22:19,560 --> 01:22:21,920
Speaker 2: a public platform instead of talking to me, and our

1941
01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 2: kids been hanging out and theyven you know. That just

1942
01:22:25,040 --> 01:22:26,439
Speaker 2: lets me know that you're not the type of person

1943
01:22:26,520 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 2: I need to be around. So I've already made it

1944
01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 2: in my mind it ain't about you, right, So I've

1945
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:33,680
Speaker 2: already made it up in my mind that me and

1946
01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:36,439
Speaker 2: you aren't friends anymore. So for the children's sake, I'm

1947
01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:38,639
Speaker 2: gonna be cordial with you. We don't have to talk

1948
01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:41,759
Speaker 2: about this shit. You already showing me you a whole ass, nigga.

1949
01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:43,559
Speaker 2: Why are we gonna talk about it so you can

1950
01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:46,400
Speaker 2: tell me some bullshit? How can you explain you getting

1951
01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:49,599
Speaker 2: on Facebook talking shit, how you can't you did.

1952
01:22:49,560 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 1: Some who she can apologize?

1953
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:56,800
Speaker 2: She could be like, I'm not saying that if she apologized,

1954
01:22:57,240 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 2: you shouldn't have to ask for an apology. She wants

1955
01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:02,640
Speaker 2: to tell apology, she would apologize. I'm not saying that

1956
01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 2: she asked for an apology. I never said she needs

1957
01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 2: to ask for an apology. I said I feel like

1958
01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:09,439
Speaker 2: it's a conversation that needs to be had and it

1959
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:12,560
Speaker 2: needs to be addressed. So if anybody needs to address it,

1960
01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 2: it's her. She needs to reach out to you and apologize,

1961
01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:17,080
Speaker 2: because you didn't do nothing wrong. You did something out

1962
01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:19,280
Speaker 2: the goodness of your heart. Don't reach out to her.

1963
01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:21,200
Speaker 2: In my opinion, if she wants to own up to

1964
01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 2: what she did and realized that she she fucked up,

1965
01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:26,880
Speaker 2: she needs to reach out to you. I don't agree

1966
01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:28,760
Speaker 2: because I feel like when kids are involved, you got

1967
01:23:28,880 --> 01:23:31,439
Speaker 2: to take your own personal feelings.

1968
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 1: Yes, you have to take the horrow.

1969
01:23:34,640 --> 01:23:37,120
Speaker 2: So taking the horrow would be being the person to

1970
01:23:37,280 --> 01:23:40,200
Speaker 2: initiate the conversation, even if you're not the one that's wrong.

1971
01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:43,880
Speaker 2: It's kids involved with this. It's not about your feelings.

1972
01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:46,679
Speaker 2: It's not like not you, but it's not about her feelings.

1973
01:23:46,720 --> 01:23:50,439
Speaker 2: It's not about that bitch feeling about this lady just

1974
01:23:50,520 --> 01:23:53,720
Speaker 2: sounds like she real confrontational, and I just feel like, y'all,

1975
01:23:53,960 --> 01:23:57,240
Speaker 2: she obviously not that confrontational if she got on Facebook, well,

1976
01:23:57,280 --> 01:24:00,000
Speaker 2: I'm just saying she's in direct but that's what I'm saying.

1977
01:24:00,840 --> 01:24:02,720
Speaker 1: So I gonna bring it to your front door and

1978
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:03,560
Speaker 1: be direct.

1979
01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:05,760
Speaker 2: Since you couldn't be. But it's like, for what though,

1980
01:24:06,479 --> 01:24:10,360
Speaker 2: so that our kids can still coexist? Our kids can coexist?

1981
01:24:10,880 --> 01:24:14,720
Speaker 2: How if y'all it's not gonna be I'm just like, hey,

1982
01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:16,479
Speaker 2: we're going to the park that you want to come.

1983
01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 1: We don't have to be like, oh hey girl, let's

1984
01:24:19,000 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 1: go to the mall. Say but I can't be fake

1985
01:24:21,040 --> 01:24:21,200
Speaker 1: like that.

1986
01:24:21,320 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 2: And maybe that's why so me that is being said,

1987
01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:26,519
Speaker 2: and I never say nothing about the thing, about the

1988
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:28,560
Speaker 2: whole situation and then just invite.

1989
01:24:28,360 --> 01:24:31,920
Speaker 1: You kids and choose your battles. I just feel like

1990
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:34,440
Speaker 1: that's not a battle though, We just gonna have a conversation.

1991
01:24:34,640 --> 01:24:37,320
Speaker 2: And if you take it to that level exactly, you're

1992
01:24:37,360 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 2: taking that chance though you're taking.

1993
01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:41,719
Speaker 1: That's fine, So then okay, and that's fine.

1994
01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:43,680
Speaker 2: But if it gets taken to that level, then now

1995
01:24:43,800 --> 01:24:46,840
Speaker 2: I know that what I was trying to do it

1996
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:49,439
Speaker 2: can't be done, and then I'm done that well now,

1997
01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:50,120
Speaker 2: but we know it.

1998
01:24:50,160 --> 01:24:53,000
Speaker 1: Can't be done no more already just from this situation happening.

1999
01:24:54,400 --> 01:24:56,360
Speaker 2: I don't feel that way because again, you don't never

2000
01:24:56,439 --> 01:24:58,479
Speaker 2: know how somebody else feel. That girl probably feel like

2001
01:24:58,520 --> 01:25:00,880
Speaker 2: she said what she said, but kids still gonna be

2002
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:02,600
Speaker 2: cool because she feels like my issue not with her,

2003
01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:05,759
Speaker 2: my issue with the baby daddy that might be looking.

2004
01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:08,160
Speaker 1: I'll say this then, because we're both torn on what

2005
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:09,960
Speaker 1: you should do. I'm not torn.

2006
01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:13,479
Speaker 2: I feel like I said torn, like maybe you should

2007
01:25:13,520 --> 01:25:15,320
Speaker 2: talk to your baby daddy and see how your baby

2008
01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:17,639
Speaker 2: daddy feel about the situation, because maybe y'all don't.

2009
01:25:17,439 --> 01:25:19,720
Speaker 1: Need to be talking to anyway, and maybe he just

2010
01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:21,880
Speaker 1: needs to handle that, and you should and I'm not

2011
01:25:21,960 --> 01:25:22,439
Speaker 1: gonna lie.

2012
01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:25,120
Speaker 2: You should respect his wishes because at the end of

2013
01:25:25,160 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 2: the day, that is his kids, right, that's not your kids.

2014
01:25:29,640 --> 01:25:32,280
Speaker 2: And if he wants his kids to grow up together,

2015
01:25:32,360 --> 01:25:34,880
Speaker 2: that's kind of his responsibility, right, it's not on you.

2016
01:25:35,240 --> 01:25:38,559
Speaker 2: I do feel like, as one of his baby mama's

2017
01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:42,120
Speaker 2: and that being your child, you should absolutely want your

2018
01:25:42,240 --> 01:25:44,960
Speaker 2: kids to have a relationship with his or her he believes.

2019
01:25:45,439 --> 01:25:48,160
Speaker 2: But at the same time, that's not your responsibility because

2020
01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:50,080
Speaker 2: you not the one that brought those of the sibling

2021
01:25:50,160 --> 01:25:52,400
Speaker 2: children into the world. Right, If he want all his

2022
01:25:52,560 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 2: kids to hang out and be together, he needs to

2023
01:25:55,240 --> 01:25:58,000
Speaker 2: be the one to initiate those play days and initiate

2024
01:25:58,120 --> 01:26:01,240
Speaker 2: getting them together. Because I'm not gonna lie. Guys that

2025
01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:03,439
Speaker 2: I have dated in the past that have had children,

2026
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:06,679
Speaker 2: they don't necessarily be having all they baby mamas around

2027
01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:09,439
Speaker 2: the children. They gonna get their kids and they spend

2028
01:26:09,520 --> 01:26:11,640
Speaker 2: time with they they bring all they kids together and

2029
01:26:11,720 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 2: spend time with all of their kids, so they don't

2030
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:17,280
Speaker 2: have all the baby mamas together. So I'll agree with

2031
01:26:17,479 --> 01:26:19,880
Speaker 2: Dre on that. So Dre thinks that you should reach

2032
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:23,000
Speaker 2: out to old girl, I think that you shouldn't. But

2033
01:26:23,439 --> 01:26:26,599
Speaker 2: we both agree that before anything happens, whether you talk

2034
01:26:26,680 --> 01:26:28,560
Speaker 2: to her, you don't talk to her. You need to

2035
01:26:28,600 --> 01:26:30,840
Speaker 2: talk to your baby daddy first, no matter what. You

2036
01:26:30,920 --> 01:26:33,559
Speaker 2: need to talk to him and see how he wants

2037
01:26:33,600 --> 01:26:36,040
Speaker 2: to move forward. Does he even want y'all interacting? And

2038
01:26:36,160 --> 01:26:40,000
Speaker 2: if he doesn't want y'all interacting, I think that all

2039
01:26:40,080 --> 01:26:42,960
Speaker 2: your respect that and let him be responsible for bringing

2040
01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:44,760
Speaker 2: y'all kids, because you don't want to. You don't want

2041
01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:47,160
Speaker 2: to step on his toes and fuck up what he

2042
01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:49,280
Speaker 2: doing for you and your child. You know what I

2043
01:26:49,360 --> 01:26:51,200
Speaker 2: mean by trying to get up in his business with

2044
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:54,519
Speaker 2: his other situations. So just gotta stay in your lane.

2045
01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:56,680
Speaker 1: See. So the best thing we can tell you, a

2046
01:26:56,720 --> 01:26:59,080
Speaker 1: bitch is just talk to your baby daddy. Talk to y'all.

2047
01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:01,640
Speaker 1: I don't mean to call you a you know. We

2048
01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:04,519
Speaker 1: mean that again, y'all know at this point we mean

2049
01:27:04,560 --> 01:27:06,400
Speaker 1: it as a term of endear meat.

2050
01:27:06,479 --> 01:27:08,560
Speaker 2: So I mean, I know, if you want, but you

2051
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:10,479
Speaker 2: didn't say keep your name cigarette. But that was from

2052
01:27:10,560 --> 01:27:13,400
Speaker 2: That question was from Aja, So shout out to Aza.

2053
01:27:13,600 --> 01:27:15,439
Speaker 1: Thank you for the question. That was a good one.

2054
01:27:15,840 --> 01:27:16,719
Speaker 1: That was a good question.

2055
01:27:16,800 --> 01:27:19,240
Speaker 2: That was some hot tea bitch, and please give us

2056
01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:21,960
Speaker 2: an update. Yeah, we want to know, We want to

2057
01:27:22,040 --> 01:27:23,720
Speaker 2: know what goes down. Yeah.

2058
01:27:23,880 --> 01:27:28,200
Speaker 1: So up next we have the bop A the bop

2059
01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:29,639
Speaker 1: A THEO.

2060
01:27:30,840 --> 01:27:35,000
Speaker 2: So we don't have one this week, actually, bach, I've

2061
01:27:35,000 --> 01:27:37,600
Speaker 2: been having about for the past months. I don't have

2062
01:27:37,720 --> 01:27:40,080
Speaker 2: one this week, so you can go ahead and take

2063
01:27:40,120 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 2: it away a little le Okay, So my Bop of

2064
01:27:42,560 --> 01:27:45,000
Speaker 2: the week is actually tubop. Well, actually it's like a

2065
01:27:45,080 --> 01:27:46,439
Speaker 2: bop and then like an album.

2066
01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:50,120
Speaker 1: So there's this artist. His name is Cautious Clay and

2067
01:27:50,400 --> 01:27:52,320
Speaker 1: he's super super dope.

2068
01:27:52,360 --> 01:27:54,120
Speaker 2: So if you like the kind of music that's really

2069
01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:57,200
Speaker 2: like on some chill shit, drink some wine.

2070
01:27:57,360 --> 01:27:59,360
Speaker 1: Roll up a little bit, and smoke some hookah at

2071
01:27:59,439 --> 01:28:02,040
Speaker 1: the crib with the lights low, this is the artist

2072
01:28:02,120 --> 01:28:05,519
Speaker 1: for you. So y'all might have heard his song on

2073
01:28:05,720 --> 01:28:09,519
Speaker 1: Insecure a few years ago. It's called Cold War.

2074
01:28:09,920 --> 01:28:12,680
Speaker 2: It's like an amazing song, like I've literally never heard

2075
01:28:12,760 --> 01:28:14,560
Speaker 2: one person listen to this song and I fuck with it.

2076
01:28:14,880 --> 01:28:16,600
Speaker 2: So that's my first little BAP of the week. Just

2077
01:28:16,760 --> 01:28:18,800
Speaker 2: I feel like that's a good song to introduce you

2078
01:28:18,960 --> 01:28:21,840
Speaker 2: to who he is as an artist. So this year

2079
01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:26,320
Speaker 2: he came out with an EP called Table of Context,

2080
01:28:26,800 --> 01:28:29,240
Speaker 2: and y'all know me, I love short EPs.

2081
01:28:29,320 --> 01:28:31,760
Speaker 1: I love when the ship it's short and straight to

2082
01:28:31,840 --> 01:28:34,160
Speaker 1: the point. So he has a song.

2083
01:28:34,080 --> 01:28:38,120
Speaker 2: Called Saturday Morning Cartoons and it's on the album is

2084
01:28:38,160 --> 01:28:41,439
Speaker 2: only six tracks. All the tracks go hard, but Saturday

2085
01:28:41,479 --> 01:28:42,760
Speaker 2: Morning Cartoons.

2086
01:28:42,320 --> 01:28:43,160
Speaker 1: Is like my bop.

2087
01:28:43,400 --> 01:28:45,840
Speaker 2: So, okay, my bop of the week is Cold War,

2088
01:28:45,960 --> 01:28:49,080
Speaker 2: y'all to listen to that one first by Cassius Cautius

2089
01:28:49,160 --> 01:28:52,720
Speaker 2: Clay and then listen to his EP table of context.

2090
01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:57,360
Speaker 2: Shout out to Cautious Clay, we fu to you booth

2091
01:28:57,800 --> 01:29:01,400
Speaker 2: what you got a little dram anything? I guess you know,

2092
01:29:01,560 --> 01:29:06,320
Speaker 2: since you pressing me about a vibe, I guess I

2093
01:29:06,360 --> 01:29:09,479
Speaker 2: could come up with something. So actually, I have been

2094
01:29:09,560 --> 01:29:12,719
Speaker 2: listening to Kolanie's like last little album and I love her.

2095
01:29:12,680 --> 01:29:16,000
Speaker 1: Song Nights like This. Okay, so shout out to Killane.

2096
01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:18,200
Speaker 1: I love her song. It's like a good little vibe.

2097
01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:22,840
Speaker 1: And actually I was listening to janea Eko's new song

2098
01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:24,000
Speaker 1: earlier as well.

2099
01:29:24,600 --> 01:29:27,000
Speaker 2: I gotta remember the name of it, and I like

2100
01:29:27,120 --> 01:29:30,960
Speaker 2: it because I feel like it's so relatable because I

2101
01:29:31,040 --> 01:29:34,000
Speaker 2: feel especially being a woman, because I feel like sometimes

2102
01:29:34,160 --> 01:29:36,200
Speaker 2: again like when we were talking about earlier, we just

2103
01:29:36,280 --> 01:29:37,200
Speaker 2: act off of emotion.

2104
01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:39,000
Speaker 1: I gotta look the song up because I forgot the

2105
01:29:39,080 --> 01:29:41,120
Speaker 1: name of it because it just came out. Yeah, I

2106
01:29:41,280 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 1: like Janko.

2107
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,080
Speaker 2: I feel like she She's not the best, like you know,

2108
01:29:45,400 --> 01:29:48,560
Speaker 2: vocal powerhouse, but her lyrics definitely, I really think she

2109
01:29:48,640 --> 01:29:50,720
Speaker 2: could sing, I do.

2110
01:29:50,960 --> 01:29:53,920
Speaker 1: I think she has a nice voice, but I think

2111
01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:55,559
Speaker 1: she has a very beautiful voice.

2112
01:29:55,640 --> 01:29:55,800
Speaker 2: I do.

2113
01:29:56,760 --> 01:29:57,639
Speaker 1: It's called Trigger.

2114
01:29:57,800 --> 01:30:00,200
Speaker 2: The song is called Trigger, and I think it's a

2115
01:30:00,240 --> 01:30:02,840
Speaker 2: good song because it's just like she basically just talking

2116
01:30:02,840 --> 01:30:05,760
Speaker 2: about like how she fucking with a nigga and he

2117
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:06,920
Speaker 2: got her fucked up, and.

2118
01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:09,519
Speaker 1: It just triggered out, Oh the new crazy shit, you know.

2119
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:11,160
Speaker 2: So I feel like it's a relatable song. And then

2120
01:30:11,200 --> 01:30:13,160
Speaker 2: I look like I just said I love her boys. Yeah,

2121
01:30:13,200 --> 01:30:14,680
Speaker 2: I think she had a nice voice, but she's not

2122
01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:17,320
Speaker 2: like a vocal powerhouse, is what I'm saying. Like, she's

2123
01:30:17,400 --> 01:30:19,559
Speaker 2: not known for her vocals. She's known for her lyrics

2124
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:21,880
Speaker 2: and also too. But the things about Jane I echo.

2125
01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:24,800
Speaker 2: As much as I love her, she's very emotionally unstable.

2126
01:30:24,840 --> 01:30:26,800
Speaker 2: So she's not somebody that you need to be leastening

2127
01:30:26,880 --> 01:30:28,840
Speaker 2: to all the time. I'm dead, but I feel like if.

2128
01:30:29,920 --> 01:30:32,400
Speaker 2: But I feel like it is because it's relatable because

2129
01:30:32,439 --> 01:30:34,760
Speaker 2: a lot of us aren't emotionally stable, like a lot

2130
01:30:34,840 --> 01:30:36,280
Speaker 2: of us out there, and I feel like that's what's

2131
01:30:36,280 --> 01:30:37,680
Speaker 2: wrong with a lot of people. They don't like to

2132
01:30:37,720 --> 01:30:39,800
Speaker 2: admit that, and they like to keep it in and

2133
01:30:39,880 --> 01:30:42,200
Speaker 2: that's what causes a lot of depression in people. Sometimes

2134
01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:44,080
Speaker 2: I feel like she's found a way to channel that

2135
01:30:44,560 --> 01:30:46,200
Speaker 2: and kind of help her with it. But it's a

2136
01:30:46,200 --> 01:30:48,599
Speaker 2: struggle for everybody, no matter what you do for a living.

2137
01:30:49,000 --> 01:30:50,400
Speaker 1: So I feel like stuff like that as well.

2138
01:30:50,439 --> 01:30:51,880
Speaker 2: If you a type of beach that's about to go

2139
01:30:52,240 --> 01:30:54,599
Speaker 2: bust the nigga windows, you don't need to be leastening

2140
01:30:54,640 --> 01:30:55,439
Speaker 2: to Jane, That's.

2141
01:30:55,360 --> 01:30:55,800
Speaker 1: What I mean.

2142
01:30:56,080 --> 01:30:58,240
Speaker 2: I mean, shit, we all have felt that way before.

2143
01:30:58,400 --> 01:31:01,800
Speaker 2: So you have you done any used to Free I'm dead?

2144
01:31:02,240 --> 01:31:06,599
Speaker 1: I feel like it can bring maybe listening to her songs,

2145
01:31:06,640 --> 01:31:07,200
Speaker 1: it gonna make you.

2146
01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:12,000
Speaker 2: Want to bust the nigga windows. Sometimes did get his

2147
01:31:12,120 --> 01:31:17,920
Speaker 2: name arguet his face tattooed. But oh, fucking brother, let

2148
01:31:17,960 --> 01:31:21,640
Speaker 2: me speaking of getting sat Oh, oh you so j

2149
01:31:22,040 --> 01:31:25,719
Speaker 2: ohsow Jade, you're about dumb? Oh you so fucking dumb.

2150
01:31:25,880 --> 01:31:28,519
Speaker 2: Oh i'mna start doing an old fucking brother.

2151
01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:32,639
Speaker 1: H I start doing an old fucking brother. Oh fucking

2152
01:31:32,760 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 1: brother ja wow.

2153
01:31:34,400 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 2: Tattoo of Takashi six nine on her fucking body. Yeah,

2154
01:31:38,120 --> 01:31:41,799
Speaker 2: y'all really, CARDI I feel you y'all really do anything

2155
01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:42,720
Speaker 2: for Clout.

2156
01:31:43,000 --> 01:31:46,960
Speaker 1: And you know she don't like them anyways. They they

2157
01:31:47,120 --> 01:31:51,760
Speaker 1: suing her. I don't Oh yeah they are. Yeah the irony, Yes,

2158
01:31:52,080 --> 01:31:53,560
Speaker 1: you are very lame for that.

2159
01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:57,000
Speaker 2: My good sis, You're too young and too beautiful to

2160
01:31:57,120 --> 01:31:59,760
Speaker 2: be getting a nigga's face taded all over. You really

2161
01:31:59,800 --> 01:32:01,360
Speaker 2: want to go through the rest of your life being

2162
01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:03,920
Speaker 2: known as the girl who got Takashi six', nine who's

2163
01:32:03,960 --> 01:32:05,360
Speaker 2: not even made hisself.

2164
01:32:05,520 --> 01:32:09,639
Speaker 1: Relevant Three he probably won't even be relevant in five five.

2165
01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:12,160
Speaker 2: Years just for for right, now like, STOP i want

2166
01:32:12,200 --> 01:32:14,040
Speaker 2: you ladies to stop doing that and put more pride

2167
01:32:14,040 --> 01:32:16,519
Speaker 2: in yourself and things that you have going. On you

2168
01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:18,880
Speaker 2: and your sister were doing, good y'all had y'all little wig,

2169
01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:21,040
Speaker 2: line y'all are bartending making.

2170
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:22,760
Speaker 1: Man stop doing.

2171
01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:24,560
Speaker 2: That stop trying TO i really want you ladies to

2172
01:32:24,560 --> 01:32:26,640
Speaker 2: stop trying to attach yourself to a nigga for some.

2173
01:32:26,840 --> 01:32:28,000
Speaker 1: CLOUT i, mean AND i.

2174
01:32:28,080 --> 01:32:30,040
Speaker 2: Also just feel like, too you, know at the end

2175
01:32:30,040 --> 01:32:32,000
Speaker 2: of the, day if that's show ema and you want

2176
01:32:32,040 --> 01:32:34,320
Speaker 2: to day industry niggas or, whatever it's like you kind

2177
01:32:34,360 --> 01:32:36,479
Speaker 2: of really just fucked that, up because nobody who worked

2178
01:32:36,560 --> 01:32:40,000
Speaker 2: anything in the music industry or the entertainment industry at

2179
01:32:40,040 --> 01:32:42,320
Speaker 2: this point is going Too, SERIOUSLY i, mean take you,

2180
01:32:42,439 --> 01:32:45,880
Speaker 2: serious having this man's face tattooed on you and his

2181
01:32:46,040 --> 01:32:46,960
Speaker 2: set number.

2182
01:32:46,920 --> 01:32:49,439
Speaker 1: On the other, side and he's a snack and he's

2183
01:32:49,479 --> 01:32:50,200
Speaker 1: in prison.

2184
01:32:50,080 --> 01:32:52,479
Speaker 2: And he's a rag like and so the way all

2185
01:32:52,520 --> 01:32:56,559
Speaker 2: of these other, nigga, so the way all of these

2186
01:32:56,640 --> 01:32:58,479
Speaker 2: other niggas is looking at you now is like you

2187
01:32:58,720 --> 01:33:01,040
Speaker 2: just a cloud chaser and you'll do anything for some.

2188
01:33:01,200 --> 01:33:03,559
Speaker 1: Attention it's, like that was not a smart. Move, see

2189
01:33:03,880 --> 01:33:06,400
Speaker 1: it really. Wasn't and we say that from a loving,

2190
01:33:06,479 --> 01:33:08,960
Speaker 1: place but we just GOTTA i.

2191
01:33:09,080 --> 01:33:11,080
Speaker 2: Do i'm saying it from a loving place BECAUSE i

2192
01:33:11,120 --> 01:33:13,840
Speaker 2: don't never want to bash nobody because some people didn't

2193
01:33:13,840 --> 01:33:16,040
Speaker 2: grow up with good guidance and. Stuff i'm just being

2194
01:33:16,120 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 2: honest because obviously if you, did you wouldn't do something like.

2195
01:33:19,120 --> 01:33:21,519
Speaker 2: That SO i just feel like sometimes we can't be

2196
01:33:21,680 --> 01:33:24,360
Speaker 2: hard on people because you, know they didn't grow up

2197
01:33:24,720 --> 01:33:26,960
Speaker 2: with people telling THEM i don't care how you grew.

2198
01:33:27,080 --> 01:33:30,160
Speaker 2: Up AND i was under the picture putting fire emojis and,

2199
01:33:30,200 --> 01:33:34,640
Speaker 2: SHIT i don't Have that's What but that's WHAT i

2200
01:33:34,720 --> 01:33:36,680
Speaker 2: was about to. Say IF i went and did something like,

2201
01:33:36,760 --> 01:33:38,560
Speaker 2: that it's no way in hell that you would be

2202
01:33:38,680 --> 01:33:41,320
Speaker 2: On instagram clapping me and cheering me on for doing

2203
01:33:41,439 --> 01:33:44,439
Speaker 2: something like. That, Yeah so shout out to oh so

2204
01:33:44,640 --> 01:33:46,120
Speaker 2: jy whatever your, name what is?

2205
01:33:46,160 --> 01:33:49,400
Speaker 1: IT i saw, You oh saw you J you're.

2206
01:33:49,400 --> 01:33:55,120
Speaker 2: The old fucking brok bing fucking goddamn Week and that's

2207
01:33:55,200 --> 01:33:57,880
Speaker 2: it for this episode was yah walk you About European Wax.

2208
01:33:57,960 --> 01:34:00,200
Speaker 2: Center y'all make sure y'all will get y'all. Wax it's

2209
01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:02,400
Speaker 2: how all Mil Or edgewood Mentioned.

2210
01:34:02,120 --> 01:34:04,840
Speaker 1: Poor minds Or drea And lex and you'll get a

2211
01:34:04,880 --> 01:34:07,519
Speaker 1: discount on services at. Summertime. Y'all make sure y'all go

2212
01:34:07,600 --> 01:34:10,759
Speaker 1: get Those brazilians and make sure you get your up alop.

2213
01:34:10,800 --> 01:34:11,360
Speaker 1: Way yes.

2214
01:34:11,920 --> 01:34:14,880
Speaker 2: Too and for anybody else that wants their questions. Answered

2215
01:34:14,960 --> 01:34:16,559
Speaker 2: LIKE i, said we're gonna do two next week because

2216
01:34:16,560 --> 01:34:17,560
Speaker 2: we kind of have a lot in the.

2217
01:34:17,600 --> 01:34:18,519
Speaker 1: Email don't.

2218
01:34:18,560 --> 01:34:21,120
Speaker 2: WORRY i swear one. THING i promise y'all we're going

2219
01:34:21,200 --> 01:34:23,320
Speaker 2: to answer. Everything nobody is gonna get skipped.

2220
01:34:23,360 --> 01:34:25,800
Speaker 1: OVER i don't care. How no question left, Behind no

2221
01:34:26,000 --> 01:34:28,040
Speaker 1: question is left. Behind so next week we're gonna do.

2222
01:34:28,120 --> 01:34:30,720
Speaker 1: Two this week we just. HAD i can only do

2223
01:34:30,800 --> 01:34:32,200
Speaker 1: one BECAUSE i knew it was gonna start a deep.

2224
01:34:32,200 --> 01:34:36,000
Speaker 2: Conversation so if you want anything, answered any topics or,

2225
01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:39,439
Speaker 2: anything you can email us at ask Poor minds at

2226
01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:40,160
Speaker 2: gmail dot.

2227
01:34:40,240 --> 01:34:44,160
Speaker 1: Com that's a S K P o YOU R M

2228
01:34:44,320 --> 01:34:47,760
Speaker 1: I N D s at gmail dot. Com and the

2229
01:34:47,880 --> 01:34:50,760
Speaker 1: girls got your Big we always got your, back and

2230
01:34:50,920 --> 01:34:53,840
Speaker 1: once again this has been another episode of poor. Minds

2231
01:34:53,880 --> 01:34:56,599
Speaker 1: it's your, Girl lexp and it's your Girl dre and The. Cold.

2232
01:34:57,120 --> 01:35:01,720
Speaker 2: Oh speaking, of while we did our radio, voices we

2233
01:35:01,880 --> 01:35:05,800
Speaker 2: have a, really, really really big announcement coming for y'all next.

2234
01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:10,599
Speaker 1: Week so just, y'all y'all gonna love, this especially people

2235
01:35:10,600 --> 01:35:11,760
Speaker 1: who are At.

2236
01:35:12,320 --> 01:35:15,479
Speaker 2: Atlanta y'all Gonna, Lovelanta. Georgia we got a big announcement

2237
01:35:15,479 --> 01:35:19,439
Speaker 2: next week And i'm so. Excited so we'll see y'all next.

2238
01:35:19,520 --> 01:35:21,000
Speaker 1: Week, bye yay, bye