Speaker 1: Are you five second day? Outside of nightclubs? Where are
Speaker 1: the hottest places to meet colligible singles? Question? Yoga class? Oh,
Speaker 1: that's good and hot often kidney cafes, definitely sacred people.
Speaker 1: I don't know what about hot cat yoga. Oh, it
Speaker 1: just sounds like a lot of hair sticking to me.
Speaker 1: It looks like someone's really been working those glutes. Oh now, dude,
Speaker 1: downward cat please? There is there is a cat post. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not in this class. Yeah, okay. One of our listeners, Sean,
Speaker 1: met a girl named Catherine recently at an unconventional place
Speaker 1: to find a love interest. We'll find out where that
Speaker 1: is in just a second, but first let's meet Sean.
Speaker 1: How's it going, man? Good? Thanks for having me on.
Speaker 1: How are you We're doing good? Yeah? I've been doing
Speaker 1: a lot of feline yoga. Shot or you're talking about
Speaker 1: somewhere else? No, I try to avoid selne yoga. That's
Speaker 1: so two years ago. Yeah, okay, So we'll get to
Speaker 1: where you met this girl in just a second. But
Speaker 1: tell us what's her name? First? Her name's Catherine. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I heard it. Yeah, So where did you end up
Speaker 1: meeting Catherine? I actually met her at an animal shelter.
Speaker 1: We both volunteer there. Oh that's so cute. What a
Speaker 1: great way to meet someone, right. I originally started doing
Speaker 1: it just because I moved to the area and I
Speaker 1: knew absolutely nobody, and I just wanted to kind of get,
Speaker 1: you know, the neighborhood. It wasn't necessarily a ploy to
Speaker 1: like meet a girl, but just kind of meet people. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you're going to be meeting a
Speaker 1: lot of people at the animal shelter, never necessarily you know,
Speaker 1: date well, but you do meet good people. Yeah. So wait,
Speaker 1: did you get to spend a lot of time with
Speaker 1: Katherine or was this the first time you had met
Speaker 1: her when you guys decided to go out. Well, no,
Speaker 1: we we actually ended up on the same schedule, so
Speaker 1: we were always together on it, and I was like
Speaker 1: trying to impress her at one point because there's this
Speaker 1: like kind of rascally dog named Barnaby. Who Barnaby, Yeah,
Speaker 1: Barnaby was kind of we got him off to kill
Speaker 1: shelter list. But honestly, maybe you should have stayed on it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Wait, you can't say that. I don't
Speaker 1: think he's blind. I'm very very glad that he's not.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, oh, I get it. So wait, what
Speaker 1: does Barnaby have to do with you? Impressing Catherine? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean most dogs to know to like go outside
Speaker 1: or go to the lawn or something like anywhere in
Speaker 1: the world is the toilet for Barnaby. And so it's
Speaker 1: a lot of responsibility and so I have, you know,
Speaker 1: if chivalry is not dead, I end up have volunteered.
Speaker 1: Every time she has Barnaby or I have Barnaby, I
Speaker 1: clean up after him. It sounds very romantic for you guys.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't believe it. This guy cleaned up after Barnaby. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So what did you guys end up doing? Like did
Speaker 1: you ever go out on a date together? Yeah? We
Speaker 1: started like kind of hanging out after our like shift
Speaker 1: was up, and then just kind of chatting, and then
Speaker 1: we went out. Like the first time was just for
Speaker 1: a drink, but we hung out a lot after and
Speaker 1: then we went out a second time kind of like
Speaker 1: I guess it didn't totally counts like dinner and drinks,
Speaker 1: but it was like we ordered some naptizers or whatever.
Speaker 1: Did it feel like a date? Yeah, I feel like
Speaker 1: we had some chemistry and I also feel like I've
Speaker 1: got a decent gauge for this kind of stuff, Like
Speaker 1: I know, and a five fallen in a friend zone
Speaker 1: or something. I'm like, all right, Yeah, what happened was
Speaker 1: is that she stopped volunteering. Oh and then so I
Speaker 1: just didn't see her on the next shift. And then
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I can't really be like, where
Speaker 1: are you, I'm not in that territory yet. And so
Speaker 1: some days go by and I called her, but then
Speaker 1: I like didn't leave a message. I'm like, what am
Speaker 1: I in eighth grade? I just like hung up after
Speaker 1: I don't know, but yeah, so I like called and
Speaker 1: then nothing from her. So it's like I'm one and
Speaker 1: I'm like, did something happen to her? Or I'm just
Speaker 1: kind of scratching my head. So she didn't never tell you, like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm really busy, I'm not going to be able to
Speaker 1: volunteer for the next couple of minutes. There was no nothing.
Speaker 1: It's just nothing that's interesting. What was the last interaction
Speaker 1: you guys had together? Um, it was after the second
Speaker 1: state and we were like in the parking lot, like
Speaker 1: we both met there in our car, so we left
Speaker 1: separately as well. And we planned on doing it again
Speaker 1: and I'll see you at the shelter. And it felt
Speaker 1: like there was going to be a continuous Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: So you've tried calling her, you've tried texting her and nothing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: have you checked any of the local hot cat yoga classes?
Speaker 1: She may have signed up for one. Okay, I might
Speaker 1: result to that if we could don't get anywhere to
Speaker 1: don Okay, Well, let's try this first. We're gonna play
Speaker 1: a song, we'll come back, we'll call Katherine for you,
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get your second day update. All right,
Speaker 1: all right, cool, thank Okay, hold on if you're just
Speaker 1: tuning in. This is a little different than the traditional
Speaker 1: second date updates that we do because one of our listeners, Sean,
Speaker 1: wants to call a girl named Katherine, who he met
Speaker 1: while they volunteered together at an animal shelter and they
Speaker 1: never went out on an official date, but they have
Speaker 1: hung out a couple times after their shift. They've had
Speaker 1: a few flirtatious moments together too, no kisses or anything
Speaker 1: like that. But lately Catherine stopped showing up to the
Speaker 1: animal shelter altogether and stopped responding to Sean too. And
Speaker 1: he does not know why, so he's emailed us in
Speaker 1: the hopes that we can help. Sean. Over the last
Speaker 1: few days, you must have been thinking about explanations for
Speaker 1: Katherine's behavior, Like what's going through your mind? I guess
Speaker 1: anything from like something completely outside of me happened is
Speaker 1: like a natural idea, Okay, or I did something that
Speaker 1: I'm completely unaware of. You think that maybe that dog
Speaker 1: Barnaby got jealous, he moved in with her and told
Speaker 1: her some lies about you. That's where the term dirty
Speaker 1: dog comes from. Barnaby, Did you dirty Barnaby? Yeah? Well,
Speaker 1: maybe we can figure this out for you. I mean,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you're a really nice guy and you
Speaker 1: guys had something. I think we did, but something something
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily a love connection, but it was something
Speaker 1: trainsfer shelters. Sticking with hope right now, Jeffrey, Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm ready to call her. Are you ready to do this, Sean?
Speaker 1: I am, okay, all right, I'm dialing her number right now.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Catherine. This
Speaker 1: is Katherine. Who is this? Hi Katherine. My name is
Speaker 1: Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: Hi Brooke and Jeffrey. Hi Catherine, we're all on the phone.
Speaker 1: You're a listener. Um, not really, so I'm not well confuse.
Speaker 1: What's happening right now? Well, you're very friendly. Appreciate that
Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show called a second
Speaker 1: Date Update. Are you familiar with that at all? Um?
Speaker 1: I feel like I've heard about it. It okay, but
Speaker 1: we'll take that well, just to freshen up your memory.
Speaker 1: It's a segment that we do where if you go
Speaker 1: out with someone and afterwards, if that person doesn't call
Speaker 1: you back, then you can email our show to reach
Speaker 1: out to that person for you to help you figure
Speaker 1: out the reason why. I really haven't been on any dates.
Speaker 1: So the guy who emailed us admits that you didn't
Speaker 1: necessarily ever go on an official date, but you have
Speaker 1: spent a lot of time together with him at the
Speaker 1: animal shelter. Oh talking about Sean. Yeah, yeah, Sean emailed
Speaker 1: us because he said that he's had a really nice
Speaker 1: time getting to know you over the last few weeks
Speaker 1: when you've been volunteering together and you've had a couple
Speaker 1: of nice hangouts, but you've kind of ghosted from the
Speaker 1: shelter and from Sean, and he doesn't understand why it's
Speaker 1: so weird that he contacted you about this. Well, to
Speaker 1: be fair, he tried to call you, but you didn't
Speaker 1: answer a returnity of his text messages. Yeah, I know
Speaker 1: to say, I mean, look, there's no pressure here. We're
Speaker 1: not trying to grill you or anything. But Sean felt
Speaker 1: like he had a connection with you. And I don't
Speaker 1: know if you ever got the vibe from hanging out
Speaker 1: with him that he kind of likes you, But that's
Speaker 1: what he feels. And he was hoping to see you
Speaker 1: again and you haven't shown up. Yeah, I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna show up again. But it's not Sean who
Speaker 1: did anything in particular. Um, it's okay. Are you in
Speaker 1: a relationship and maybe you know it wasn't cheating. You
Speaker 1: guys didn't do anything together. I mean, maybe you didn't
Speaker 1: realize that he was expecting more of a romantic connection
Speaker 1: or something. No, I'm single. Oh is it Barnaby? Did
Speaker 1: you move in with Barnaby? How do you know about Barnaby?
Speaker 1: Who doesn't know about Barnaby? Everybody knows Barnaby, naughty dog.
Speaker 1: I guess that's he's true, he's infamous. Yeah, it's just
Speaker 1: like a little embarrassing on my part, Like this whole situation.
Speaker 1: I've been going to therapy and I've been really trying
Speaker 1: to own everything in my life and my choices. Part
Speaker 1: of doing this segment is it's a judgment free zone,
Speaker 1: like you can tell us whatever. Well, okay, in serious
Speaker 1: a judgment free zone. Sometimes the judgment slips through, but
Speaker 1: you should feel comfortable telling us and that we won't
Speaker 1: treat you like you're a bad person. I mean, I
Speaker 1: think the thing is is that you are. You sound delightful.
Speaker 1: Sean sounds really nice and respectful, and he just wants
Speaker 1: to know why you're not calling him back. All right. Um,
Speaker 1: it's just that I went to court the other day
Speaker 1: and I don't have to do my community theories anymore.
Speaker 1: But that's why I haven't been at the animals out
Speaker 1: there because it was court man, David, Oh you're a criminal. Okay, sorry, sorry,
Speaker 1: judgment judgment free zone has been before. What did you
Speaker 1: get in trouble for? It's not like super serious. I mean,
Speaker 1: they call it stalking more or less call it stalking. Okay.
Speaker 1: I think Sean was probably hoping for shoplifting, but who
Speaker 1: are you stalking? It was like an ex boyfriend. We
Speaker 1: kind of had it falling out. He kind of went
Speaker 1: a little crazy, thinking I was trying to stalk him.
Speaker 1: Oh he went crazy. I mean it's in the path.
Speaker 1: They're still restraining her against me, but you know, I've
Speaker 1: moved past it. I don't really see it as anything like,
Speaker 1: I don't plan to come within six hundred feet of him.
Speaker 1: So I'm here moving out of my life. I'd serve
Speaker 1: my community. So yeah, that's good. I think it's commendable.
Speaker 1: You're willing to change. Yeah, And I think you know
Speaker 1: who else hopefully thinks it's commendable is Sean. Because Sean's
Speaker 1: been on the other line listening and he heard everything
Speaker 1: that you just said. Sean. You there, um, yeah, yeah, okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's everything's fine. What do you think, Sean, I just
Speaker 1: didn't pegger. But she's going to therapy, so that's maybe
Speaker 1: something she doesn't do anything more. It sounds it sounds
Speaker 1: like you're processing out loud right now. That's good. His
Speaker 1: reaction is, yeah, yeah, something's happening, Catherine. There's like, oh,
Speaker 1: Sean that you reached out this way, like, this is awesome.
Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't realize how much you like me,
Speaker 1: and I mean I like you too. Oh good? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: she might even show up at your work later uninvited. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not just something I wanted to you know,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to weird you out. But I mean
Speaker 1: maybe since, like I said, my therapist is really saying
Speaker 1: I need to own everything and own my life and
Speaker 1: my choices, and I'm working past it. So this is
Speaker 1: really helping. I mean, I don't know why you didn't
Speaker 1: open with this information. It seems like there might be
Speaker 1: kind of like an on switch or an off switch,
Speaker 1: like you either don't return anyone's calls or the exact
Speaker 1: opposite hers sitting outside. I mean, I'm not like a
Speaker 1: murderer or anything. I mean I feel like, hell night, yeah,
Speaker 1: before you pass out, dude, come on you guys, and
Speaker 1: Katherine's defend and so you know, we've all been in
Speaker 1: relationships where you're just in the relationship with the wrong
Speaker 1: person and it brings out the worst in most women people.
Speaker 1: Not everyone just gets caught. Okay, well, Alexis has a
Speaker 1: different opinion, but but I think the thing is you've
Speaker 1: been in an unhealthy relationship before, right, Sean, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: understand the few months of after mass where you have
Speaker 1: a little bit to drink and you check up on
Speaker 1: them on Instagram or something um of court ordered community service. Huh,
Speaker 1: And I didn't. I didn't run out on it. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's no warrants for my arrest, so good. That's good.
Speaker 1: No warrants, and you're not going to murder anyone. Check
Speaker 1: check all often done. I mean, I know, like you
Speaker 1: feel like I go see you, but like if you
Speaker 1: want to hang out again or go on like a
Speaker 1: real date. Um, I can't really go on like a
Speaker 1: date right now. I'm on house arrest. But I mean
Speaker 1: if you want, you just come from my house and
Speaker 1: have dinner at my house. You can order take out
Speaker 1: or I can cook. That's great information. But let's circle
Speaker 1: back to the house arrest. Yeah, why are you on
Speaker 1: house arrest? I thought you served your time. Hi, dude,
Speaker 1: it's for like another misdemeanor. D they're giving me like
Speaker 1: more hassle. I don't think you get house arrest for misdemeanors.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like a little bit above a misdemeanor, but
Speaker 1: it's really just more of a hassle. It's like really
Speaker 1: an inconvenience for me. And I mean it's almost over,
Speaker 1: so it's like not a big deal again, Like I'm
Speaker 1: moving past everything, all right. Well, we're on the up
Speaker 1: and up. Something is happening. And that's something is me
Speaker 1: asking Katherine. I know this is just a formality since
Speaker 1: you already asked Sean, but I need to ask you first.
Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with him one more
Speaker 1: time and we'll pay for it? Stay in with him
Speaker 1: and we'll pay for it. Oh that's right, Stay in
Speaker 1: your house and we'll have something delivered to you. I
Speaker 1: would love to you know, yeah, Like I don't think
Speaker 1: really a lot of great takeout spots around me. So
Speaker 1: I love this? All right? You gotta yes, Sean? Are
Speaker 1: you still up for this? The house arrest thing puts
Speaker 1: like an interesting little wrinkle in this. I was just
Speaker 1: getting over the community service and that took a few minutes,
Speaker 1: and now there's another layer. I do like that if
Speaker 1: I came over that I could leave and you couldn't
Speaker 1: follow me. I mean, she's allowed conjugal visits, so that's
Speaker 1: a positive. Is it weird that the thing that I'm
Speaker 1: most scared about is that the ankle bracelet is temporary.
Speaker 1: You want it to be a permanent I mean, if
Speaker 1: you're into kinky things like that. I mean I couldn't
Speaker 1: get in the rain. It sounds like you're gonna have
Speaker 1: a fun night, Sean. Yeah, I mean I guess in
Speaker 1: the past i'd been a little bit more excited to
Speaker 1: be invited over to a girl's place. Okay, you're waffling
Speaker 1: a lot here, Sean, Yes or no? Answer the question. John,
Speaker 1: It'd either yes or no. There's like no one between.
Speaker 1: All right, don't make her man come on like I
Speaker 1: have all the time in the world to kill guys,
Speaker 1: park Cast I'm kidding, I mean kind of, but like
Speaker 1: I'm a wild card. Let's roll the dice and see
Speaker 1: what happens, all right, and I believe you all right,
Speaker 1: So that sounds like it's a yes to me. It does. Yeah,
Speaker 1: as close as we've gotten, I want you guys to
Speaker 1: call me at a certain point, okay, and if I
Speaker 1: don't snit up, then police over Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning,