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Speaker 1: I can't wait, I can't wait. It's so freaking cue.

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Speaker 1: Susan, how do they write questions? Where do they go?

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Speaker 2: Okay, y'all just heard that in unison. Next time we're

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Speaker 2: going to have blaring trumpets so you can find us.

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Speaker 3: We have some great questions today to our special guest.

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Speaker 1: Our fan favorite from gen season of The Bachelorette and

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Speaker 1: another future and handsome handsome How many times can we

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Speaker 1: say it?

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Speaker 2: Paradise star Hakeem hi Hick, Thanks so much for joining us.

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Speaker 2: We are so excited to be chatting with you. We're

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Speaker 2: both looking for dates and we're thinking we might be

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Speaker 2: able to help us out.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I would love to take both guys.

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Speaker 3: It's a whole new shine, a romance or a perfect date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we want to know before we decided we're going

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Speaker 1: with you.

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Speaker 5: M Yeah, I mean so I would have a little

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Speaker 5: you know, a little well, I would say, mattress, not

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Speaker 5: a mattress, a little.

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Speaker 4: Hold.

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Speaker 3: No, no, not with us, not with us for real?

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Speaker 3: Like your idea, if you want to impress someone and

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Speaker 3: take someone on a romantic date, what does that look like?

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Speaker 5: The most romantic date I've ever taken a woman on

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Speaker 5: was going to the beach late at night kind of

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Speaker 5: looking at the stars, you know, when on the beach,

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Speaker 5: and also with the.

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Speaker 3: Wine, not trying to get her to the lifeguard stand

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Speaker 3: or anything.

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Speaker 2: Right, you know, why how came you know why Susan

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Speaker 2: knows that she knows every lifeguard stand on the East coast.

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Speaker 1: Apparently that was love. That was really love, even for you.

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Speaker 1: That was love. Welcome about Okay, it was Kathy joking.

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Speaker 1: Susan is a nun.

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Speaker 3: I don't know the generation today probably doesn't maybe do

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Speaker 3: things like that, but that's the first thing that came

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Speaker 1: It's romantic. Oh, we're gonna all right, so wait, we

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Speaker 1: got to go.

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Speaker 2: Since we're talking about dating and Paradise, congrats to you

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Speaker 2: on getting a ticket to Paradise.

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Speaker 1: Well you already know. What are your thoughts? What do

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Speaker 1: you what do you think about this your journey? What

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I'm so excited.

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Speaker 5: Like when I say so excited, I don't know what

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Speaker 5: to anticipate because I thought I knew what I was

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Speaker 5: going to anticipate going into you know, Jen's journey, And

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Speaker 5: let me tell you, I did not know what I

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Speaker 5: was getting myself in too, So I'm really just trying

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Speaker 5: to have no expectations going there with the open mind.

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Speaker 1: How would you feel Susan and I show up.

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Speaker 3: We already asked them, do you have anybody that you know,

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Speaker 1: That you want there? Who do you want you would

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, because we can help me that with that.

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Speaker 2: And no one's no one's listening. This is not going

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Speaker 2: publics and just spill, spill your guts to us.

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Speaker 5: No, no, there's no be doing at all. So there

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Speaker 5: was this lady by the name of Olivia. She was

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Speaker 5: on the last season The Bachelor in Paradise. Actually, yeah,

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Speaker 5: she's the light skin, curly hair.

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Speaker 1: Are you chatting with her?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: Chatted with her because I don't know if I'm able

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Speaker 1: Don't know if she's on the show yet. Right, is

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Speaker 3: It's called the d M.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know you just said how hips is in

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Speaker 3: Because they told us that was going to happen.

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Speaker 1: However it has.

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Speaker 2: If you're waiting, listen, if you're waiting for the girls

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Speaker 2: to come knock, as handsome as you are, if you're

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Speaker 2: door and say, how came, where have you been on

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Speaker 2: my life?

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Speaker 1: That's not happening.

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Speaker 2: So get get your computer, tablet out and start doing

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Speaker 2: what you need to do.

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Speaker 3: All right, fill us in on your own.

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Speaker 4: I can't think I'm a shooter. I'm a straight shooter.

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Speaker 4: I'm not a person that's gonna sit around a way.

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Speaker 1: That's why I can't.

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to rush.

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Speaker 5: The process because I feel like it's a process. I

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Speaker 5: really want everyone to see that I do have compatibility

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Speaker 2: Listen, I'm more the competitive Why would you want to

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Speaker 2: risk Olivia meeting ten other guys? Go grab her now,

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Speaker 2: take you know, go for the wind now, for the

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Speaker 4: But you don't know I follow her right now. I'll

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Speaker 4: follow her right now.

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Speaker 1: Right now, follow her. Hackem. We're going to rewind this

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Speaker 1: whole thing.

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Speaker 2: Hackem three. Two what hakeem? Do not reach out to her,

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Speaker 2: go to paradise. Let what's going to happen?

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Speaker 1: Happen? Disagree? Let fall in love or don't fall in love.

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Speaker 1: But we all know the process works, you know, fall

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Speaker 1: in love under the stars in a beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Blah blah blah reach out reach that let her know.

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Speaker 1: Well, now you've seen it all.

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Speaker 3: Right, tell me about your life. What's happening now?

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Speaker 5: Besides, I'm I'm very much focusing about myself right now.

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Speaker 5: I'm not really dating really traditionally. Would you say, uh,

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Speaker 5: you know, the process of getting to know gen and

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Speaker 5: my castmates, it really allowed me to find out more

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Speaker 1: What did you find out? What I put.

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Speaker 5: A I think I put everybody above myself, like my mother,

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Speaker 5: my best friends, my family, anybody like really I put

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Speaker 4: Yeah, big difference. Big so like it's exactly me as

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you know what it all in.

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Speaker 4: I'll give you all you want.

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Speaker 3: I don't think we'll ever change. That's our nature. However,

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Speaker 3: what I've gotten out of it, Like you're saying, I

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Speaker 3: fell in love with who I am. I'm good people,

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Speaker 3: as you fell in love with yourself.

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Speaker 1: We're worth it.

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Speaker 3: Let people, do you know you don't have to put

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Speaker 4: You're good I appreciate that.

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Speaker 5: No, it's uh yeah, it's been a it's been an

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Speaker 5: interesting journey for myself in journaling, you know, talking to

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Speaker 1: You come from a large family, Hakeem.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I would say I have. I have six siblings.

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Speaker 1: I would say that's a large family. What you hesitated?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just it's just complicated.

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Speaker 3: Where do you come in on the family. I'm in

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Speaker 4: Child, a middle child, so I got no.

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Speaker 3: Love, always eager to please.

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Speaker 2: Well, so what I want to know. I was the youngest,

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Speaker 2: so you know, different different places the oldest, but I

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Speaker 2: was not spoiled. Okay, I have a question. We heard

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Speaker 2: that you had went to a dating coach, five thousand

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Speaker 1: I want to know. First, we gotta talk. We gotta talk.

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Speaker 3: I did it too clearly.

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Speaker 4: You're hilarious.

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Speaker 1: I spent so much damn money and look at me.

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Speaker 4: Now, you're beautiful. I'm looking at you.

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Speaker 1: God bless you. But tell me what did it do

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Speaker 4: Like I didn't do excuse my friends, a damn thing

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Speaker 5: So for me, I was so heartbroken because my ex

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Speaker 5: girlfriend at the time broke up with me over text. Next,

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Speaker 5: I think, but I take the responsibility of why we

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Speaker 5: why I didn't see things in other people's point of view, right,

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Speaker 5: So you kind of communicate with somebody and then you

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Speaker 5: And you know, at that time, I was a young,

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Speaker 4: I wish she would have broke up with be in person,

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Speaker 4: but she broke up with Melber.

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Speaker 1: How long did you dated her?

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Speaker 4: Just about a year?

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Speaker 1: Well, see, I think that's that's a long time. And

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Speaker 1: I know you at thirty.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you learned something from every relationship, right, and

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Speaker 2: that's and that's the value.

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Speaker 1: Even if your her heart's broken, you learn.

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Speaker 3: So tell me you've paid all this money for some

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Speaker 3: dating advice or a site that's yes, tell me to.

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Speaker 5: Tell So she broke up with me over text message,

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Speaker 5: and I wanted to get this woman back, and I

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Speaker 5: was so desperate because I felt like I screwed up

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Speaker 5: so bad.

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Speaker 4: I need help.

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Speaker 5: So then I looked up on YouTube how do you

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Speaker 5: get my ex back? And there was like if we're

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Speaker 5: if you want to get your installed midst of one

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Speaker 5: thousand dollars and I'll get your girl back.

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, I'm crying. I'm crying.

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Speaker 5: I got from my credit card and my credit card love,

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Speaker 5: I made my credit card and.

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Speaker 1: Old we'd be fighting over you. We would be fighting

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Speaker 1: over you. So what did they tell you? Anything? The

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Speaker 1: right thing? Come on?

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Speaker 5: They well, first of all, I didn't get this woman back,

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Speaker 5: but he literally told me. He said, give her thirty

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Speaker 5: But so then I asked her on a date. He's like,

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Speaker 4: They were.

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Speaker 3: Second date. I had already gone out with that guy

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Speaker 4: Shout out to that farmer though he's holding it down.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not joking the thirty five thousand and you

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Speaker 1: Uh no, no, I can't.

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Speaker 2: Killed had something to do with, you know, pain kidding me? Well, no,

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Speaker 2: I didn't say that, but we want to cleaning up

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Speaker 1: And how do I feel about that? I said, I

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Speaker 2: She goes, well, there is the matter of pain, and

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Speaker 2: I said, are you for real? I said, I am

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Speaker 2: I'll have to see if he's willing, And I said,

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Speaker 2: you know what I just I mean, we're done. We're

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Speaker 3: All right on behalf of the dating sites. I can't

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Speaker 4: You can ask a question. Yes, Susan, I heard your

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Speaker 3: We get a dinner from time to time. He doesn't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so now it was Dayton, look like we all

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Speaker 2: Right, now it's how came you? You want to hear

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Speaker 4: I'm with you, though I'm rocking with you. I'm crickets too.

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Speaker 1: I get I don't.

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Speaker 3: However, I live in our best life.

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Speaker 2: We are living our best life, and that's the thing

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Speaker 1: It's going to happen, howey, when the time is right,

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Speaker 3: I did get a little chit chat phone call. We'll

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Speaker 1: I haven't met him yet, but yeah, okay, all right.

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Speaker 4: So a random call. Hold on, wait, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 3: I can't somebody that's been in the same bachelor world. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: And you're from the Golden Bachelorette. Hold we got to

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Speaker 3: So as we're moving along here, Hakim, So we do

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Speaker 2: Let me go here Ki, Kathy and Susan and Hakim.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure what to do, and I really need

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Speaker 1: Thanks? Lady, love you, What do you think, what do

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Speaker 4: To be honest with you, it seems like is her

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Speaker 5: Yes, and then her boyfriend is kind of Rob.

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Speaker 2: Rob was in a long term relationship when she and

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Speaker 1: Her boyfriend's jealous something. It's jealous, That's.

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Speaker 5: Because I'm just I think she should absolutely be there

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Speaker 2: And you have two new best friends right here, and

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Speaker 5: Know, So I think with Rob, I think she actually

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Speaker 1: He goes through with without the lovers. You know, he's

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Speaker 3: She should say something to her boyfriend like there's something

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Speaker 3: up your butt?

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Speaker 1: I mean, what what's your.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's I call communicating trust. There's obviously a trust

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Speaker 3: Could it be you know some guys you just don't

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Speaker 3: rub right with another guy. I'm sure there's people in

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Speaker 3: He's fine, but I'm not going to choose to hang

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Speaker 2: It's it's it's like love hate and the worst one

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Speaker 1: It could be.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what advice would you have communicate I

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Speaker 3: let it go, let.

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Speaker 1: It move on, go to a beach and go swimming.

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Speaker 3: Well, honey, if we ever get married, Rob is my

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Speaker 5: You know, I mean yeah, I mean if you asked me.

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Speaker 5: I'm with you, ladies. He needs to get over him,

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Speaker 5: so honestly, but she should have a communication. She'd be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and if he says nothing so bad, it's nothing.

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Speaker 1: Move on, right? Yeah? I think this is like Shakespeare

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Speaker 3: This one's from Mary. Okay, Hi, all three of us.

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Speaker 3: I have a problem with one of my best friends

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Speaker 3: Her name is and I found out that she's recently

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Speaker 3: The guy is her dad's employee. He's been married for

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Speaker 3: God that's a crazy age gap, if you ask me.

447
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 3: I feel like her dad will absolutely flip out if.

448
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:19,640
Speaker 1: He finds out.

449
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 3: I recently went to parents' anniversary party and the guy

450
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 3: was there. Apparently her dad invited a bunch of his employees.

451
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 3: It was so awkward being there and being the only

452
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,200
Speaker 3: person that knew. I just feel like dating him is

453
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 3: a really bad idea, isn't it Like the biggest red

454
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:43,639
Speaker 3: flag in the world that he's fourteen years older than

455
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 3: us and not even filed for a divorce.

456
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 1: Am I crazy?

457
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,359
Speaker 3: I can't tell if I'm just too young for this stuff,

458
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,320
Speaker 3: but to me this seems insane.

459
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 1: What do I do? Thank you?

460
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 4: Elli?

461
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,959
Speaker 2: Wait, I just before hockey, I just got to say

462
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:04,679
Speaker 2: the teen years pales in comparison to the guy is

463
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 2: stepping out of his marriage. What she thinks, Oh, he's

464
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 2: found the right one if he's come on, like really, hello, No,

465
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 2: what do you think?

466
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 5: I can No, I'm so against this, Mary, you are

467
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 5: in a very awkward situation.

468
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 4: And I hear you on this.

469
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 5: First of all, I'm not a big person that's like, oh,

470
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,959
Speaker 5: in fourteen years. So like, if you're thirty five, you're

471
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 5: doting a forty nine year old, that's all right. But

472
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 5: if you're twenty two fresh to college, yeah, being a

473
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 5: thirty six year old man.

474
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 1: That's called daddy, that's called daddy.

475
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 3: That all doesn't go into effect until you're thirty or not.

476
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 1: No wait, wait, listen, I came. Here's the truth.

477
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: When you are twenty two and the other person thirty six,

478
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 2: that's fourteen years.

479
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 1: You have a lot of growing to do.

480
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 2: Yes, at my age, you know I would dat years

481
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 2: for I would date something ten or twelve years younger,

482
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 2: not older, because they'd be six feet under. But I'm

483
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: saying it's it's different at that young age.

484
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 1: It's very different.

485
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, I feel like this girl is going to get

486
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,719
Speaker 3: hurt because he's banging her. And that's about what it is.

487
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 3: He's not getting a divorce, and she's going to be

488
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 3: the one to try.

489
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: He's filed. Are you sure? Yeah, I gotta be honest.

490
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,439
Speaker 4: With But she who's been messing with him before he

491
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 4: bowed that divorce.

492
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 2: That's why I'm telling you, so she thinks he won't

493
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 2: necessarily do it again. On top of everything else.

494
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 4: I'm one, I'm one now. A cheater is always a cheater.

495
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 4: I'm not hearing that you think of cheaters.

496
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 1: I was a cheater. On Wait a minute, you think

497
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: of cheaters. I was a cheater.

498
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 4: Absolutely? They cheating once? Absolutely?

499
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 1: I don't I agree with that.

500
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 3: Right, if you fall hard in love, you're never cheating.

501
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: I think ninety percent of the time, you're right, Hakim,

502
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 2: But I think there are a few exceptions.

503
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 1: I think there's a few exceptions.

504
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 4: What where's the other ten percent going?

505
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 1: They cheated once? And they're never cheating again.

506
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 4: Mm hmmmm.

507
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: I think you're right for the most part. I mean,

508
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: it's a big thing. It's a big can act.

509
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 5: I can agree with that you're married. If you're married,

510
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 5: it's a different level. It's just different level. You literally

511
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 5: said to death therestpart, like you know what I mean?

512
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 5: So like if you're cheated while you're married, Dad is

513
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 5: like yo, Like, m h.

514
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 3: That's cool though that I love. I respect the marriage now.

515
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love. I love your honesty and your respect

516
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: for era.

517
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 3: Do you want to get married?

518
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, my My my goal is to get rid. I think, like, uh,

519
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 4: I really look forward a marriage.

520
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 5: I mean my unfortunately my older brother is divorced, my

521
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 5: older sister's divorced, my mother's divorce. So it's like, uh,

522
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 5: I'm I really have a lot of pressure on my

523
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 5: shoulders and I got to get this right. But that

524
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 5: makes any sense because I don't want to just fall

525
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 5: into another marriage exactly. And then just like with my father,

526
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 5: like you probably like, why is he so like against cheat?

527
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 5: My dad was a serial cheat, so like for me,

528
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 5: like for me, like cheating is a no go, especially

529
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 5: if you have a family and if you have like

530
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 5: you know, a whole marriage.

531
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 4: That's like something that's like a big, like a big

532
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 4: like no note for.

533
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 1: Me, beautiful, that's beautiful.

534
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 5: But that being said, like for me, it's just I

535
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 5: need to, you know, make sure whoever I'm going to

536
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 5: get down on the knee for is that she's locked

537
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 5: in with me as well, like she seems us being

538
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 5: together forever. So like, I take this so seriously. Hence

539
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 5: while I'm still single in trying to find my further person,

540
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 5: because you.

541
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 2: Know, a lot of time's right, you will absolutely you

542
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 2: gotta kiss a lot of frogs. That whole thing, like

543
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 2: you know, it's gonna hit you when you least expect it.

544
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 4: Kiss a lot of frogs. I don't know about all that,

545
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 4: but I don't know.

546
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: A frog at you know, because a lot of them

547
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: don't not kiss. Uh, that's a big red flash. We're

548
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: moving on.

549
00:25:55,720 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 2: We are moving on, Okay, Serena asks, Hi, lady, I

550
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 2: need you to tell me if I need to come

551
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: back down to huh oh, I'm sorry, Oh, Serena, Okay.

552
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 4: I mean grocery store. Joe's name.

553
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 2: That's okay, Sirtain. If you're single, we've got how came here.

554
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 2: But let's go back. Okay, Hi, ladies, I need you

555
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:18,360
Speaker 2: to tell me if I need to come back down

556
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 2: to earth. I've been with my boyfriend for about seven

557
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,400
Speaker 2: months now. How came you're out?

558
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: Which is a hot minute.

559
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 2: We're both twenty six and I really love him. Everything

560
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 2: has been perfect, but the other day my world turned

561
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 2: upside down. I found out he got his dream job

562
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,679
Speaker 2: with a crazy pay raise and it's halfway across the world.

563
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 2: I was absolutely devastated. He has to take it. It's

564
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,439
Speaker 2: a non negotiable. But what do we do now? It

565
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 2: just happens, so we haven't even gotten to the point

566
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 2: of talking about us. Is it crazy if I want

567
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 2: to move with him? Is it too soon? I just

568
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 2: really feel like he's the one and I love him.

569
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: Should I ask him or wait for him to bring

570
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 2: it up? I just want to get this figured out

571
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 2: because if we end up taking up I'm going to

572
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 2: be totally crushed. What do you think I should do?

573
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 2: Thank you, and I really appreciate you, ladies. What do

574
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 2: you think I came? That's a no brainer for me too.

575
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, for me, I'm going to say sendy. I think

576
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 4: you've got to just go with it. I mean time

577
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 4: is very, very precious.

578
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 5: If you love the man and you want to go

579
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 5: have that conversation with him, don't hold back.

580
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: So you don't think she should wait and see if

581
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: he brings it up.

582
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 3: Well, what I hear what I'm reading and hearing you say,

583
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 3: she's really really in love with him. She says nothing

584
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 3: about how he feels. That's what I was That's where

585
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 3: I was going. That's where I was going to find

586
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 3: that up.

587
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: We don't.

588
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 2: Let's find out how hot and heavy he is. They've

589
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: been dating seven months.

590
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: He might be like, oh, hell yeah, I'll see you.

591
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: Wait, howkeem you put yourself in this position? You're dating,

592
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 2: Oh I don't.

593
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: Know Susan or May and we're in love, and we're

594
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 1: in love and we've been dating seven months. You're going

595
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: to quit your job, leave your family, whatever your surroundings,

596
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: and go move with this person halfway around world world.

597
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 5: I wouldn't say that's crazy in my opinion, because like, okay,

598
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 5: what happens if you don't do it?

599
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 2: And no, but what if what if the woman hasn't

600
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 2: said to you, please you know she's got the job,

601
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 2: transfer please come, I love you.

602
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: I can't imagine life for that if she.

603
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 3: Hasn't said that, it just happened. So we haven't even

604
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 3: gotten to the point of talking about.

605
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: And she's already trying to figure out how to broach

606
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 2: the sun. I think, you know what, I think. I

607
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 2: think she's very insecure and afraid.

608
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 3: Oh that's big cat, that's big.

609
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 4: I don't know about that.

610
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 3: Feels like she loves him, She's anxious.

611
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: You know what. You gotta let things happen in due course.

612
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: You can't rush things.

613
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 6: Look's talking missus patient over here. I'm talking about dating,

614
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 6: not getting dressed.

615
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 3: To go while So Kathy, okay, put yourself there, my Rea,

616
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 3: you fell in love with this guy. It's been about

617
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 3: seventh Things are going great.

618
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: At my age. It's different at my age. I would

619
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 2: move and keep my house and go back and forth. Okay,

620
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 2: but not at thirty, but you would go why what

621
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 2: does she have?

622
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: What? What does she have?

623
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 3: There's nothing holding her back to go with this man.

624
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 3: That's wait, but that's he's going to have a crazy praise?

625
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: What is yeah?

626
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 2: What is her career? What is she she's telling? Yees see,

627
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 2: I don't like this. I would want an independent woman,

628
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: not a hanger on. It's just me, I don't she

629
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: sounds needy.

630
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 3: I would go with him, rock that new place, get

631
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 3: a job there, maybe.

632
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 2: Start a new career. I mean, this is why Susan

633
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 2: I love each other. We can never agree.

634
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 5: I think she just a conversation. I think she doesn't

635
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 5: beat that for sure, have to lead with him. I

636
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 5: think she had that conversation to see where he's.

637
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: At, and she would I agree that I can't ask

638
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 2: where he's at. But but she's saying, you know, I

639
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 2: don't think I can. I'll be crushed to believes I can't.

640
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: I can't stand at that to me sounds like a

641
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 2: desk girl.

642
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,719
Speaker 3: Who I mean the words my world turns my world

643
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 3: when I fell out, I.

644
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 1: Will be crushed. I mean these are he found a

645
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: dream job.

646
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: I mean like breaking champagne.

647
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: Yes, let's celebrate.

648
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, that's miss Casside.

649
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 5: Every person is subject to have their own feelings, and

650
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 5: I feel like if she feels like her world's going

651
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 5: to be crushed, I feel like she has every audacity

652
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 5: to say, my world's going to be crushed.

653
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 4: No matter what.

654
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 3: That's how she feels.

655
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: No, no, no, she isn't, no.

656
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 5: Matter what, Like even though it might see last nine

657
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 5: to you, but like, oh my goodness, But if she

658
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 5: really loves this guy, then let her absolutely go and

659
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 5: see where this is.

660
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 4: Going to take her.

661
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 2: So wait, wait, I'm not disagreeming with you. I think

662
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 2: you're misreading what I'm saying. If he has not brought

663
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 2: up the subject, if he I know it just happened.

664
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: If he does not bring up the subject.

665
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 2: If he's just like you know, susi Q, I think

666
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 2: you're great, you know, plan for you to come over

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Speaker 2: next month.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's a whole difference I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: If he is not saying come with me, and she

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Speaker 2: doesn't have a career, and she doesn't have anything but

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Speaker 2: wanted to be with this guy, I think. And they've

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Speaker 2: only been dating for seven months, I think is a

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Speaker 2: red If I were the guy, I would see it

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Speaker 2: as a red flag. Here's the question I have, Since

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Speaker 2: we disagree with it over between us.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I think you can always agree to disagree. Why

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Speaker 5: can't we be homies and not agree on something?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: Well, were you born? Are you a March baby?

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Speaker 4: I'm a June baby, a jew baby. My mom's a

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Speaker 4: March baby. Actually is she March? What March first?

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Speaker 3: I'm the second.

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Speaker 4: Oh really.

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Speaker 1: Good people right there?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: When is your birthday? Hockey? He's a jew baby, Oh

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Speaker 1: that's my birthday.

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Speaker 2: And I got him interested for a minute. Oh, I

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Speaker 2: was like, wait, what you might find this surprising? Archem,

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Speaker 2: I am tourist the bully.

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Speaker 1: Are you surprised? May not say, though, to astrology either,

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Speaker 1: I just knows, that's all. Oh wow, that was so much.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I Serena.

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Speaker 2: I I'm just going to say one more time, wait

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Speaker 2: and see if if the feeling's mutual, see if he

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Speaker 2: feels crushed, just.

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Speaker 1: Give it some time.

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Speaker 2: And half way across what she says again we don't

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Speaker 2: know because she says I want to move in with him,

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Speaker 2: I'll be crushed.

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Speaker 1: I want to know how he feels. Do we need

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Speaker 1: more information here how it came or not?

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Speaker 5: I mean I think, I mean, there's a lot of

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Speaker 5: things that she probably could tell us. Yeah, because she

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Speaker 5: did not tell you her situation when he's leaving all that,

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Speaker 5: and third, because you're not gonna have to get up

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Speaker 5: and leave right away.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, you know what we agree to disagree,

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Speaker 1: we have, we do. But what really sucked though?

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Speaker 3: If she does present this to him and he's not

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Speaker 3: wanting her to come.

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Speaker 2: That's going to but yeah, well better to find out

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Speaker 2: now than moving half far around the world.

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Speaker 3: We wish you a ton of luck, Luna.

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Speaker 1: Let us know if you move, let us know, and

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Speaker 1: in the meantime that is going to do it. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: already I know it's over.

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Speaker 2: But for Bachelor I was Golden Hour with our fabulous

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Speaker 2: new friend Hakeem. Thank you, thank you for joining us,

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Speaker 2: and your advice is great. Except for Serena, I didn't agree.

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Speaker 3: But we're excited, very excited to see you in Paradise.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate that at least we'll know somebody when we

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Speaker 3: get there.

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Speaker 2: And bring your uncles with you, you know, bring bring

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Speaker 2: your older friends with you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank everybody for joining us, and I hope you

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Speaker 3: all had cheme as much as we did. As you know,

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Speaker 3: there's new episodes coming out every week. Just follow us

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Speaker 3: on Bachelor Happy Hour and we are Golden.

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Speaker 2: Hour and make sure because if you love the questions

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Speaker 2: that we talked about today, submit your own.

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Speaker 1: It's really easy to do.

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Speaker 2: Just go to bachelornation dot com, slash Golden Hour, or

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Speaker 2: hit us up on social at Bachelor Happy Hour.

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Speaker 3: Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio

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Speaker 3: app or wherever you listen to your podcast.

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Speaker 1: This was fun, so much fun. You see in paradise.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe,