WEBVTT - Episode 71: Ft. No Panty 0:00:01.760 --> 0:00:04.160 What's up? What's up? Is Angela? Ye, it's web service 0:00:04.240 --> 0:00:08.840 and we're here. Guess who's background Paris. I'm Stephanie Santiago. Hi, 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:14.640 welcome back years kind of times. And gis here also, 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:17.040 I'm G. G. Maguire and we have a new group 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:19.079 in the building. Now you know all of them individually, 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:23.320 but no panties, no, no panti. You are to stay 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:31.520 with the accent. Okay, no panti. Yeah, I'm trying, but 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.599 I know I'm familiar with all of you. Just met 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:37.800 Bojaco bands for the first time today, Okay, but I 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:40.800 know Neddy Scott and of course I know Joel Arti 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:43.360 is also all right, how you doing? Tell me about 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:47.120 the name of the group? How did that happen? So 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:50.920 like it started off with like a conversation he was 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:55.920 having with Salon Remy and some boss mom um and 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:58.040 he had, you know, we were just talking about how 0:00:58.080 --> 0:01:00.240 they used to just be like places in New York 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:02.280 City where you could get a certain experience, you know, 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:06.240 Copacabana Ship like that, and how that doesn't really exist anymore, 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:08.560 and just kind of talking about like what would it 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:10.680 be like if there was like a Noe Ponty Tuesdays 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:11.959 in the city, you know what I'm saying, where you 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:15.200 could come and get that that dose of culture. Um, 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:17.959 and it kind of just evolved from there. Then we 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:20.800 kind of ended up like being the ones to create 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:24.319 that experience and create the soundtrack and what that would 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:26.759 sound like if there was a Noe Ponty Tuesdays, which 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:29.440 we have brought to life and does go down that list. 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.600 So now, so that's kind of where it started. It's 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:35.759 just really funny, like, yeah, that is um, some people 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:41.759 need to wear ponties. I have to say what people 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:44.920 We don't for them. I only wear them when I 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:50.680 need to wear them, which is period. Yeah, that's when 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:53.360 I wear That's the only time I wear. Yeah, short 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:55.840 dress like time short and I noticed if I sit 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:57.920 down you can see up my dress. Then I'll wear 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:00.320 a nice little thought. I mean, I debated today, got 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:05.280 a little slit. Yeah, that's still something. Yeah, like when 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:08.600 I'm when I'm gonna go get sucked it it's different 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:10.799 like you would think you're gonna wear no panties to 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:16.119 get I would wear like a nice wasn't where Yeah, Yeah, 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.800 personally more for the mind to think about, like I'm 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:20.600 not the thong fan. I like the boy shorts. You 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:24.440 like that like guys, guys guys hate Guys want girls 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:29.040 to wear panties. They like when girls are wearing panties. Yeah, yeah, 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.840 so they can take them more, but ultimately not, I 0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:33.760 don't know. I feel like guys feel like that's a 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:37.040 hygiene thing. Like you know that's true. You're a clean girl, 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:41.600 so you wear panties. She's yeah, do you see that? 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:44.800 Like me personally, box must be clean. She has panties 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:49.639 a right, as long as the panties. Yeah, yeah, because 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.920 I don't panties, no, no, none that. I don't wear 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:56.560 panties myself. I don't wear panties either. The most I 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:59.040 would say a dude was not dirty, I was. I 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:01.120 could see a dude saying it's like dottie. You know, 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.400 I can see a dotty and like, oh you were ready. 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:09.080 I can being like a dottie dirty, you know. Like 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:12.200 when I'm when I'm in a relationship, I'm always wearing underwear. 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:14.680 I always have panties on. That's that's single ship. To 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:17.920 never wear panties, that's like single ship. I kind of 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:22.200 I always wear underwear. Seeing Angela wear panties I'm a nerd. 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:24.959 I'm not You're weird if I don't put anything, like 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:28.799 do you wear underwear like under leggings? Yeah? Please, no, 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:33.600 I do? I learn you all right, that's cool. Sometimes 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:39.440 I always there's no penny line commando. Sometimes guys are 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:48.240 never freeman. I'm gonna be honest. I stick it to 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:50.200 your leg and ship like it's a lot and your 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:53.200 bosting to your leg when it's hot, n that wings 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:58.400 like lift your balls up because it gets real underneath. Yeah, 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:02.480 story is that's dear bos stick to your leg. No, man, 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:12.720 if it's a hot day, if it's hot, But even 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:15.600 I feel like a guy wearing like big boxers, that's 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:18.360 just you might as well wear nothing, you know what 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:23.200 I mean? I feel like God should wear like the boxer. Yeah, 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:27.880 you know what you know? It keeps everything together. They're 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:33.480 growing in sexy? Do guys um ever? Like we're sexy underwear? 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:36.600 Is this such a thing for men? Yeah? We spent 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:40.560 I might spend a few dollars on some nice drawers, man, Yeah, 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:43.200 like what's nice drawers for a man? Though? It's I 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:44.599 mean when I was coming up, when I was a 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:47.120 young nigga, if you had Bulberry jewels when you was 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:50.840 the man. But yeah, you used the little head a 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:52.560 little strap right there. Forget about what was on the 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:54.600 popping and what I'm saying. So yeah, it's like spending 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:56.799 like a stead of spending five dollars on some jewels, 0:04:56.839 --> 0:05:01.600 you might spend a hunting so you're like designer h everybody. 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:05.159 I know what I did time on time because I 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:09.119 was going at the counter and he's matched the shirt 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:12.679 just pack. But anytime I was trying to do something 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:15.600 like underwear, it was always like some funny ship. I 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:18.680 would do something funny, like comic, like a super Superman joy. 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:21.360 So you get the ask near the dick or something comical, 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:26.560 pointing there and saying it's saying to something sadly have boxers. Yeah, okay, 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:28.159 I was just making sure I didn't got the joint 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:31.400 that you're just about some reason. Yeah, because I always 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:37.240 actually like very year old, they're really tight. You gotta 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:40.680 go to you, They're they're really fine. They're really fine. 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:43.560 I've seen guys were your buzz can't breathe. But I 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:45.440 think like the Hook guys, it was it was like 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:48.280 sexy far Guyn wear, like the Ralph Laura the polo. 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:52.480 We care about men underwear, like if you see a 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:59.680 guy and he has unlike some jaw about exactly name 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:01.760 brand mattered to women if you were with a guy 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:05.480 in his undergell not to me, just keep on clean women. 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:09.960 To women, you got you got name brand underwear with 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:18.520 no frills, dick underwear. We don't really care about like 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:20.640 the label, but I didn't really care about the type. 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:23.680 Like so take your jeans off and had on some 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:30.200 big overside ninth grade. Now what if he has a 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:33.760 little tight ones though, because this happened to me one time, 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:36.720 like Tidy White he No, they wasn't he he had 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:44.800 on like Leopard, Um, oh my whatever, I promise you. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:52.200 But in Offenesse he also had a water bed. He 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:55.520 had a water bed and he had Leopard like little tiny, 0:06:56.120 --> 0:07:00.400 tight little I think that a guy has a really 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.960 fit body, it doesn't matter, like if the underword is 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:06.680 a little smaller like a bunty you know what I mean. 0:07:07.320 --> 0:07:11.600 I don't mean he's really fit. Yeah, like it's really 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:15.600 like us or anything. Big guy is supposed to like 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:23.240 just the po yeah yeah, I mean now still him No, 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:27.880 that was yeah. I was on Barry Spading at a 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:33.880 leopard sling shot here and he do it was sexy 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:38.480 like I'm going to like somebody lays on the bed, 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:44.240 Oh my god, like and I was. I was still 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:46.680 in college. I was kind of like, not really, I 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:48.920 was like, what is going on? He's older than me? Though, 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:55.240 that was crazy. They still make those. I mean, I've 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:57.560 been on the water bed. I recently was on a 0:07:57.600 --> 0:07:59.880 weater bed only because it was at the roof to 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:01.720 pool in l A and they have what a best. 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:04.200 It actually was a nice experience, like outside at the pool. 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:09.000 I enjoyed it. But then it sprung a leak. Had 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:11.360 defeats the purpose. I know. I was like, I could 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:13.080 kind of feel the bottom of this. But it was 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:15.880 a cool experience, all right. Now, we always normally started 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:17.200 with the question of the day. I know, we've already 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:19.920 started and kept it rolling and kept it moving. Were 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:23.000 gonna correct this Tennessee, Why did they bring our cups? 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:30.920 I noticed Bodacoba's again answering that they got to bring 0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:34.199 your side. They think because we closed the door, no 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:38.120 one could come in here or something. All right, But anyway, 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:40.880 today's question of the day is what do you do 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:43.120 if you're dating somebody and you don't like their friends. 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:45.199 How can you handle a situation like that? And this 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:47.200 is for the men and for the women in the room. 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.000 If you're dating Bodaco Bams. If you're dating a woman 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:53.080 and you don't like her friends, they dotty, you don't 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:56.000 like her being around him, and they whack? How do 0:08:56.080 --> 0:09:07.319 you handle that situation? How do I handle up? I 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:10.599 mean that's a good question. You know, it's kind of 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:13.520 hard because you know, like when it's a girl like 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:16.080 her friends are very important, like she with the niggers, 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:18.160 So you gotta get them on a good side. So 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:20.880 I don't you just gotta I don't know, maybe gotta 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:23.839 played to that. So will you be around them even 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:26.400 if you don't like them to her? Yeah? Hell yeah, 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.320 hell yeah? What if they like So you're not gonna 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:32.200 buy all of us drinks? I bought them drinks, Okay, Okay, 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:34.520 no reason for them not to like you. Yeah, don't 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:37.080 give them the m O. But if you cheated on her, 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:38.880 something happened and she told her friends, and now they 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:41.360 don't like you and they treat you like shit, Well 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.559 that makes sense. Then way I can't be around that 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:47.320 because I'm gonna end up treating them like ship ship, 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:51.640 even though it's your fault. Yeah, what about your Joe. 0:09:51.679 --> 0:09:54.040 I'd be dating a women and you don't like her friends. 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:57.840 I always tell them, like, you know, I'm cool with shorty, 0:09:57.880 --> 0:09:59.800 shorty shorty, but yeo, that one I don't really like. 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:02.280 And just see how she responds to me telling her 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:04.520 that what should she do? I don't know what she 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:06.760 should do. But the minute that her man alerts her 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:09.360 that you don't like, she has to do something about it. 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:11.160 I mean, she's gonna ask me what don't I like? 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:13.320 I'll probably say, you ain't gonna front. Like I've seen 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:15.240 her type before. She's definitely a thought. I don't want 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.599 you out and about with her. You know, we go 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:20.800 out together. Yeah, I mean, I get I get it, 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:22.800 But I mean I'm not asking her to do anything 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:24.480 at that point. I'm just letting her know I don't 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:27.040 like her, because that turns into an argument. But your 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:29.959 friends at that maybe it depends. It depends on just 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:32.080 how much she loves you, you know what I'm saying, 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:33.679 how much she into you, like, you know, I mean, 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:35.920 she'd be like, maybe I could, you know, just chill 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:37.880 on her for a little bit, because that's the hard 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:40.000 day to choose between your man and your friends. Sometimes 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:43.080 you don't know about it though, like me as a girl, 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:45.360 if you're about the way Joel did, like on something 0:10:45.400 --> 0:10:47.160 like I just want to express myself, not trying to 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:50.040 like put your foot down or nothing, because you you 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:52.760 always gotta respect to who was in somebody's life before 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:54.520 you were. You know what I'm saying. You can't come 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.760 through just changing ship, so you know, but just you 0:10:57.840 --> 0:10:59.839 just gotta communicate. You gotta let him know what it 0:10:59.920 --> 0:11:02.120 is is and maybe you could even be on like 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:05.000 a basis of like yo, like that's your life with 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:07.839 her over there, this is us over here, right, and 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:10.400 agree to be mature when you're talking about I just 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:13.920 don't like to protect the protective friend. That's just like damn, 0:11:14.000 --> 0:11:16.360 she really digging son that he's gonna take up a 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:19.040 lot of my time. Yeah, I mean that's the friend 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:20.280 I don't like. Come on, why are you doing that? 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:23.000 Though he's only saying yeah, because I'm coming out, he 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:29.280 would not agree with you. Yeah, thank you. Don't don't 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:32.320 look for the mega meg the four little small things 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.520 and pulling out of proportion because she'd be with me 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:37.280 on Saturday now, I mean like Andy used to do 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:40.840 Saturday's Single Saturdays because sometimes as friends we do got 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:43.480 to step away from home. Girls like when they get 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:48.599 a man drinking. Yeah yeah, well like I thought she 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:50.400 said she was having my shot, you know what I'm saying, Like, 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:52.959 typically I have a shot, but not right now. Oh 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:59.000 my god. Yeah, let's get it. Whenever I got whenever 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:02.400 I got serious with somebody for whatever reason, they ended 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:05.360 up kind of like Guessan and themselves from their friends. 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:08.199 Though every time on me on my end, like you know, 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:13.880 I've seen you know bit so I never really had 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:15.000 to be like yo, you know what I mean, the 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:22.319 kind of that should naturally. Okay, he's alive. What about you? 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:24.559 So for Scott, if you're getting a guy and you 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:27.120 don't like his friends, let's just say they out here, 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:31.319 they hose they smashing mad chicks. They encouraging him to do. 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:34.040 They want to take guys trips. What do you do? 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:38.079 I don't know. I'm not really I'm not really with it, 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:41.000 but like it said, I'm we're gonna have to just 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:44.840 have a conversation about it and see see how that goes. 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:47.840 It's kind of like I would leave it though at 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.719 my own I would leave it at my feelings, like 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:52.559 I will leave it at like this is how I feel. 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:56.920 The minute something that I actually suspect or it actually 0:12:57.000 --> 0:13:00.520 like materialized into like some bullshit and it's a rat. 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:01.959 Know what I'm saying that, I'll just put it in 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:03.760 the air, Like I don't like this nigga. But as 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:06.720 long as you're not getting into trouble, then I'm gonna 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.800 let you rock. The minute you get in trouble with 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:12.959 these niggas, it's a problem something you gotta like. The 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:14.839 minute that you don't like one of their friends, you 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:16.880 gotta address that because if you let it rock, you 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:19.319 can't bring it up later, right right, be extra tight, 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:21.360 like you blow up, like you it's been bothering you 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:23.360 or whatever. So he's like, I'll put it in the air, like, listen, 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:25.280 I don't really fuck this nigga, don't you know what 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:28.199 I'm saying. Who y'all be on? But as of right now, 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:30.480 if nothing has gone down, then nothing has gone down 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.120 as far as far as your friends go, Like I 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:35.160 could even I could even deal with them. I know 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:36.880 what she's trying to do. She's trying to throw it 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:39.400 a little light dirt or not dirt, but like expose 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:42.080 little things so that you know she could spend more 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.760 time with you. I know that friend. What the friend 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:46.720 I don't like is the one I know I could suck. 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:54.480 That's because how do you tell your girl you know 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:56.880 I could fuck? She's gonna look at you like you 0:13:57.000 --> 0:14:00.840 was looking at her, right, Guys know like I can 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.480 take that down. But so what if you really feel 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:05.160 like that? What if she even said something to you 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:09.680 that was a little sideways? Would you tell your girl? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:12.280 I mean you're supposed to because she might not believe you, 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:19.240 but find out another way, And it looks worse if 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:21.080 you find out another way and it just looks like 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:24.600 you're not being transparent because she might be like, what 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:27.000 I never said, nothing like that, nothing like And then 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:29.320 now it is you against him? And who do you believe? 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:32.560 Your man or your best friend? That's your call. Because 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:33.960 if if I'm coming to you and I'm telling you 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:36.240 that you know what I'm saying, and you and you're 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:40.480 choosing to believe her, I mean, I know what I'm jeopardizing, right, 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:42.960 I know I know what that is. What that means. 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.360 You're supposed to see that too, yo, He knows this 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:47.880 could be problems. He's got to be dead serious about 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:49.280 this and what I'm saying. So if you're ride with that, 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:50.760 I mean, I might not want to deal with you 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:54.240 like that? What about you, Steph. Well, if um, if 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:56.760 I'm serious with somebody and I don't like his friends, 0:14:56.840 --> 0:14:59.360 the only thing you can do, and there's no way 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:01.320 around it, is you have to get rid of them. 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:07.000 That's it. They can't And if you're serious, if somebody 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:09.920 is serious about you, they're not gonna ever be like, well, 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:12.120 you know what, that's my friend, and I gotta still 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:15.240 hang out with them. If you're serious with somebody, you're 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:17.000 going to be like, you know what, baby, You're right, 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.400 I'm not gonna hang out with them right now, you 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:21.440 know what I'm saying. So that's the only way when 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:23.680 you don't like your man's friends, get rid of them. 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:25.920 If he still hangs out with them, that's that's probably 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:27.920 not gonna be your man for that long. I've had 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:32.160 that situation with like exes, where you you with somebody, 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:34.440 you'll break up and then you'll become friends. For me, 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:38.280 every time I'm serious to all and his friends are gone, 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:46.600 it's just me and him that's it. I'm not calling 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:48.320 none of my dude exes, but I got a lot 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:52.600 of female exes, so they're my home girls, now you 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:54.760 know what I'm saying. So it's kind of a weird 0:15:54.800 --> 0:15:58.600 situation when it's like that chapter of our ship been 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:01.480 a rap and now I'm just friends friend. I would 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:07.720 never accept I'm cool with my ex though me doesn't matter. Yes, 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:11.680 you just can't be cool with somebody, I mean men 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:15.320 and women. Yeah, absolutely, I never knew that yet her 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:25.520 shirt says pussy. I was like, I feel about the 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:27.760 cool with the X though you feel like the only 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:29.560 time you could be cool with your axes and when 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:33.000 you have children with let's clarify cool because it doesn't 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:37.120 mean like even in this industry, like an entertainment, you know, 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:40.600 it's not it's it's it's just as it seems like 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:42.720 a lot of people. But it's really not. And you 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:45.240 know what I mean, even when you have friends and entertainment, 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:47.160 if you dated one, you can't be hanging out with 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:49.040 the other. Just me and y'all used to day. It 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:52.600 doesn't hang like that. Yeah it's hanging out. Yeah you 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:59.560 can't if you're like I know, Angel, give y'all liking 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:04.320 each other pictures, like like, what's the loving pictures? I 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:07.160 don't notice when, um, somebody I'm dating is liking other 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:10.879 people's people because I don't look at that. If somebody 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:14.000 dad has a friend just because you used to when 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:18.919 you break up like this, still probably you can't be time. 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:22.119 I think it depends on things. One, how about how 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:25.040 long ago did y'all break up? How my exit? I'm 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:30.399 time we broke up like eight years ago? Right? Is that? 0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:35.760 How things? How are you? Yes? Like like when I 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:38.400 opening my juice by he hit me like, yo, congratulations 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:41.320 on everything. I gotta come through, and like if I 0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:44.040 have a birthday party, he'll come to it. It's like 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:47.480 and you know my birthday parties be like people like cool, 0:17:47.680 --> 0:17:52.480 like the vehicles everything we don't. That's what I'm saying. 0:17:52.520 --> 0:17:56.440 That's where stuff like spending quality time with these people 0:17:56.640 --> 0:18:03.960 were just having a like and I feel like you're doing. 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:06.639 You'd be like, hey, I'm going to meet what you 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:11.720 call it? No? No? Yeah, like I mean like I 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:13.399 mean like we had a party and this is somebody 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:15.200 who I used to date and it's not like that. No, 0:18:15.520 --> 0:18:20.080 that's good. You should be able to be like what 0:18:20.200 --> 0:18:24.520 you call it, got an extra Giants game ticket. My 0:18:24.680 --> 0:18:27.879 friend actually works. She works with her ex, so not 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:31.600 with him, but like like she does work things with him, 0:18:32.200 --> 0:18:34.600 so she still communicates with him. And his girl actually 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:37.640 broke up with him because of it. Wow, I understand 0:18:37.760 --> 0:18:39.719 he had a girlfriend, but he was like, you can 0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:42.160 see all of our messages, like whenever she calls, it's 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:44.639 all work related and we're making money. And like we 0:18:44.720 --> 0:18:46.399 broke up, but we still have these things that are 0:18:46.440 --> 0:18:51.280 intertwined that make money. So you felt for somebody, I'm 0:18:51.320 --> 0:18:53.440 keeping the book. Once you felt for somebody, it could 0:18:53.440 --> 0:18:56.439 be ninety nine percent gone, but there's always something lingering, 0:18:56.520 --> 0:18:59.879 the right stuff set over a dinner and drinks exactly, 0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:05.919 And I don't like I'm just telling you you might 0:19:06.000 --> 0:19:10.199 not not for people out there. But that's the thing 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:12.440 you don't, especially as a woman. We don't have to 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:15.240 like our acts to make a mistake. You know. What 0:19:15.320 --> 0:19:21.040 I'm saying is that they're already there's history, that's familiarity, 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:26.760 that is that one thing you getting that one in 0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:30.159 one environment, and it might be alcohol. You might go 0:19:30.359 --> 0:19:33.000 back to the things you liked about that man. I mean, 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:35.160 you have no I'm saying that right now, you're saying 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:37.440 eight years ago, I don't really or how she saying like, 0:19:37.480 --> 0:19:39.600 I don't really, but there was a part of him 0:19:39.640 --> 0:19:41.680 that you was like, damn, this is my guy, Like 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:45.000 what if he reintroduces that for t keep it all 0:19:45.040 --> 0:19:47.640 the way real? If your ex was great and bad, 0:19:47.720 --> 0:19:49.520 you might suck him again, if he was just okay, 0:19:49.840 --> 0:19:53.680 we ain't missing ship. That's another thing. I agree that 0:19:55.160 --> 0:19:58.080 you know that you had some guarantee bomb sex with 0:19:58.119 --> 0:20:00.040 this nigga and he did so happy. You might and 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:01.840 you want some sex, you might just slip on it. 0:20:01.960 --> 0:20:04.080 You're it's different for it because I definitely have double 0:20:04.160 --> 0:20:06.399 back and was like, oh yeah, but the sex was trash. 0:20:07.200 --> 0:20:10.320 Ah yeah, see we don't double black trash. We're gonna 0:20:10.320 --> 0:20:14.480 remember that and we ain't gonna go back. So you 0:20:14.520 --> 0:20:20.400 already want to say anyway you can trash pussy with Yeah, 0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:26.359 if the tom calls for absolutely exactly, there's a different 0:20:26.800 --> 0:20:29.639 cold because I feel like I have no business in 0:20:29.680 --> 0:20:32.399 a one on one situation where alcohol with somebody I 0:20:32.560 --> 0:20:34.119 used to rockaway like I'm not going to be in 0:20:34.200 --> 0:20:43.560 that position. So, but what's the trash pussy anyway? Yeahs trash. Yeah, 0:20:43.680 --> 0:20:46.000 Like it's like it could be the experience of like 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:48.560 the actual sex, like like she can't fuck, you know 0:20:48.600 --> 0:20:50.480 what I'm saying, But then I heard it can also 0:20:50.560 --> 0:20:55.480 be like her actual vagina, like different vagina's trash. Yeah, 0:20:55.640 --> 0:20:59.360 that's I've definitely been with a one pussy that can't fight, 0:20:59.520 --> 0:21:02.159 can't to deal with that as opposed to garbage pussy 0:21:02.200 --> 0:21:05.600 with rhythm? What's wrong with your it's not wet? Is 0:21:05.680 --> 0:21:09.119 it too big? Like? What what makes it trash? Like 0:21:09.480 --> 0:21:12.119 when think of the last time you slept with with 0:21:12.400 --> 0:21:17.720 trash characteristics of said trash pussy? Yeah, like what it 0:21:17.760 --> 0:21:20.359 makes it? Just the pussy is just trash? Were the 0:21:20.440 --> 0:21:22.480 only why I could compared to when you go on 0:21:22.560 --> 0:21:26.400 the road, like pussy on the road is trash? Why? 0:21:27.080 --> 0:21:29.520 Because it's just it's just like on the road pussy 0:21:30.080 --> 0:21:33.439 saying feelings. Yeah. So it's like you either you're sucking 0:21:33.560 --> 0:21:35.199 on the bus, you know what I'm saying, or you're 0:21:35.240 --> 0:21:37.480 sucking in the back. It's never like, you know, I 0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:39.480 funk with this girldmaa fun the shoot out of it. 0:21:39.680 --> 0:21:43.760 It's just like I'm gonna get this, so you just 0:21:43.880 --> 0:21:48.720 never know. Hell, I ain't gonna get my nut. They're 0:21:48.800 --> 0:21:52.159 usually nut. The minute you start caring about their nut, 0:21:52.280 --> 0:21:54.119 you don't make them not. That's how I think. Okay, 0:21:54.359 --> 0:21:56.080 you know what I'm saying. So it feels great to me. 0:21:56.160 --> 0:21:58.520 There's no way it can't feel great. You can be great. 0:21:58.720 --> 0:22:01.600 But that's just me. I agree, I disagree. I feel 0:22:01.640 --> 0:22:04.600 like there's a big disconnect with that where literally because 0:22:04.640 --> 0:22:08.639 of the way our genitalia works, like some women have 0:22:08.800 --> 0:22:14.320 an orgasm from like clitoral stimulation only and some women 0:22:14.400 --> 0:22:22.080