1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: Kiki. You you told us yesterday that, and I guess 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: we talked about We spoke earlier this morning about it too, 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: about you were signed up to MC of Swords. Yes, 4 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: your nephew's eighth grade dance. Yes, I was volunteerd and 5 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,319 Speaker 1: you wound up doing it, and you were talking about 6 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 1: not going. But I knew you would do it, because 7 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: that's you know, you would not not do something for 8 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: your your nephews. You have nieces too, don't you. No, 9 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: just nephews, Just nephews. How many are there? 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 2: Four? 11 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: Oh? Six? Six of them? Sorry about the other two, right, 12 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: they don't matter, They don't know. Are there two that 13 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: you like less than the others? 14 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 2: No? 15 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 1: I actually love all of them in their own special way. 16 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 3: And I know we've had that talk where you think 17 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 3: that if Polly gets a sibling, you're not gonna care 18 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 3: as much. 19 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: But I promise you will. They all have a special 20 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: place in my arms. Yes, Polly's my friend and no 21 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: one else could be my friend. Polly's my little friend. 22 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 3: The little ones come along, and I'm telling you it's 23 00:00:59,360 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: gonna shame. 24 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna change. And now I'm Bubby Radio and 25 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: Polly Radio two is what she talks to. 26 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 4: Polly Radio. Yes, you got to get her Instagram. Yeah. 27 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 4: Now we get on I get on the phone, Bubby Radio. Yes, 28 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 4: Bubby Radio. And then she goes Polly Radio. No, no, 29 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 4: Bubby's doing radio, so Polly doesn't have to do radio quiet. Yeah, exactly. 30 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 4: Bubby gets up at three, so Polly doesn't have to 31 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 4: get up at three. 32 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: How about that. I'm walking so you can run, little girls, 33 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: That's what I'm doing. However, it got us talking this 34 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: morning about I mean, eighth grade dance is not a prom. 35 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: But they were, like I saw your Instagram video. I 36 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,199 Speaker 1: mean they were decked out. Yes, there was some suggestive 37 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: dancing going on. He was a star. 38 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 3: You never have a star, prow sean. If you're up listening, 39 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 3: he's going to the Great America today. But I was 40 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 3: so proud when I tell you this kid was the 41 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 3: star of the day, the entire night, the entire night. 42 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 3: Didn't I com fire? Yes, he had the suit, like 43 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 3: the hair I saw Versace, that Versachi on the feet, 44 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 3: Gucci on the mill. 45 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Sue custom it was crazy and you bought all that. No, 46 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: I can't take all for an eighth grader. Yes, it's 47 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: ridiculous for it. 48 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 3: It's these eighth graders were pulling up in Tesla's and Vince's. 49 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: And so I get it. Yeah, they had a red carpet. 50 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 1: I think his mom wanted to have this dance. 51 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 5: He's like, I bought this custom suit, I bought this 52 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 5: Gucci shoes and the Gucci but he's only. 53 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: Going to be able to wear for twenty minutes. A 54 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: great America today, hopefully right tent four hours for him though. 55 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 1: I remember those trips too. 56 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 3: Yes, they have great America today. They have a picnic 57 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 3: tomorrow this time for that. 58 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: It's great. They're having a blast. I want to talk 59 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 1: about the changes though. And you can always call the 60 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: Shield by the way, eight five five five nine one 61 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: three five to get text the same number we were discussing. 62 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: And we're a little older than your eighth grade nephew. 63 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: I can, I can. I can say that. But because 64 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: old Fred, don't talk about your age. I'm like, dude, 65 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: I'm not that old. 66 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 6: Don't talk about. 67 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 1: Hi Friand you know, I'm like I've been I've lived 68 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: in Chicago for thirteen years. I've been on the radio 69 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: for twenty, Like do the math. I wasn't four when 70 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: I started. I'm sorry, but I'm anyway, but it has 71 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: changed so much since we did this. Okay, So for example, 72 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: and again this wasn't prom, but it looked like proms. Yes, yes, 73 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: but we when we went to prom it was a tux. 74 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: We had to rent a tucks Yep. We had to 75 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: match our dates dress in some way. That was a 76 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: mandate with a tie. We had to get a corsage. 77 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: She had to get a boutineer. Yep, that was tradition. 78 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: They got on the thing. I didn't miss that one. 79 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: But guess we're not having those at your wedding. 80 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 5: You know what it is? The lady goes on the 81 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 5: wrist and then you find the boodenre on the guy. 82 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: Did you never do that? You never goes on a 83 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: guy pretty much just without Wait, you didn't have the 84 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: thing out on your risk. You didn't have that. 85 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 3: Hate it though, though I felt like they're not necessary, 86 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 3: they're so eighties. 87 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I don't know we were required to do it. 88 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: It wasn't even the apes spray it and put it 89 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: in the fridge, you know, to say it what your 90 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: hair spray it? Your hairspray like fl Like, why don't 91 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: you pick it up right before? No, like w you 92 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: want to save it SA for posterity? Yes, that sentimental. Sorry, 93 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: lost a lot of things. I'm proud except before except 94 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: for me, I didn't. Did you try? No, I just 95 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: don't even talk to me about what did you take 96 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: to prom? I want to know how many did you 97 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: go to? 98 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 7: Well? 99 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: Four proms? So I went to a small private school. Uh. 100 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: My parents thought that was best, and I appreciate them 101 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 1: for that. It wasn't. But but they were all I 102 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: graduate of forty two people, so they were only whatever 103 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: that is, two hundred and fifty people in the whole 104 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: high school. So everybody got to go all four years 105 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: and I went all four years year. Yeah, you got 106 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: to go well because otherwise there would there be seven 107 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: people there, you know, if it were only the seniors 108 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: and juniors, I mean literally there would be you know, 109 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: because not everybody goes even then. And then I went 110 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 1: to a couple of the public school proms too, and 111 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 1: some of their dances, No, they were just bigger. But 112 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: I went a bunch of times, and I still didn't. 113 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: I was still a twenty one year old virgin, So 114 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: it's fine. Did you like sleep at a friend's house. 115 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 1: After Yeah, we had we had the equivalent of the 116 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: prom house, which you know how I feel about prom house, 117 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: which I don't know if that's a Midwestern thing or 118 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if they do that on the East 119 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 1: Coast or wherever else. But like the idea of my 120 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: kids going to some sort of lake house or remote 121 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 1: location with the person they went to prom with it 122 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: a bunch of other people that's barely supervised. That is 123 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: absolutely frightening, paralyzingly frightening to me. I don't even have kids, 124 00:05:55,960 --> 00:06:00,559 Speaker 1: and I'm sure it was, but I'm paralyzed the idea 125 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: of that, like no, no, there will be no, there 126 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 1: will be no prom house for little my niece Polly. 127 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 1: There will no no, no, no, no, no sleepover after I 128 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 1: hope that she is Honestly, I hope that Polly is 129 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: ugly until she's don't you put that on her? And 130 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: then at thirty I hope she spawns into a beautiful 131 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: young lady and then she can do whatever she wants 132 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: after that. But I can't handle it. But by the way, 133 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 1: she's not going to be because she's not now, So 134 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: she's going to be gorgeous and look like my mom 135 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: and my sister, and that's not okay with me. I 136 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: need her to I would appreciate it if like, maybe 137 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: her teeth are like perpendicular or whatever, they won't be, 138 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: They're already straight. I'm saying these things. It's too late. 139 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: The baby's been made. It's too late. I just don't. 140 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: I can't. As a as a protect I was protective 141 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: over my sister. I'm protective over my mother and my 142 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: niece cannot get into anything. I can't have it. She 143 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 1: can't be treated the way that weed as little boys 144 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 1: treated girl. I'm not saying it was bad, but we 145 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: were all little perves. Yeah, we're all a little little 146 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: you know, hormonal perves anyway. But the promise changed so 147 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: much that there was a limo involved. We had to 148 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: rent a limo. Everybody had to chip in. There were 149 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: like thirty people in the limos so we can afford it. So, yeah, 150 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: the tucks to limo, that the corsage. There was dinner. 151 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: We had to plan dinner as a group, pay for that. 152 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: And none of that stuff is happening now. The guys 153 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: bought the tickets the pH Yeah, we had to buy 154 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: the prom tickets. Yeah, and none of this stuff is 155 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: happening now. 156 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 8: Did you guys ask people in cute ways? Because that started. 157 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: We didn't really do that, but yeah, that that became 158 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: that became really popular when people could take videos and 159 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: pictures of it for us. Oh yeah, yeah you too. 160 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And there's a whole other level of planning 161 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: that you had to do. Yeah, the pressure there was 162 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: like themes. There's no themes anymore. 163 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, I am the problem. Two weeks ago, these kids 164 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 5: are wearing just suits. They're just buying their own suits. 165 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 5: They're not there's no corsage, there's no booteneers. No, they're 166 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 5: buying their own tickets. And they're not even dancing with 167 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 5: the girls. These dudes think through like a Travis Scott concert, 168 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 5: just jumping up and down the. 169 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: In the eighth grade video too, that your nephew was 170 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: dancing with with other boys. Yeah, they like hype each 171 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: other as if they're at a concert. 172 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 3: And I really love it because it's like, yes, like 173 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 3: cheering your friend on as they're dancing. 174 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 1: So it's really cute. 175 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 3: But I did feel bad for the girls because they 176 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 3: just kind of like stand on the side and like 177 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 3: take selfie, you know, the dancing. No, they did play 178 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 3: one like bad Bunny song. Probably no, I don't know, 179 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 3: but they did a little salsa and then that was 180 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 3: it and. 181 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: It was really just like the girls dancing with the 182 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: girls for the Yeah, I was grinding the whole night 183 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 1: away what I mean same but what everyone did. Yeah, 184 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: grinding was was a big thing. Yes, I remember we 185 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: had like an eighth grade like a thing in eighth grade. 186 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if it was dance. I guess it 187 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: was a dance at something. It was a Friday night 188 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: at the school. And of course I was like little 189 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 1: radio DJ nerd guy, like I wanted to be on 190 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: the radio the worst, So I had all the equipment. 191 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: So they were like, well, come and DJ the thing. 192 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: So I DJ the thing. Yeah, and I remember I 193 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 1: played red Hot Chili Peppers, which what the song? Am 194 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: I thinking to give it away? And give it away? 195 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 2: Oh? 196 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I played that and one of the teachers comes 197 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: over was like, I need you to change the song because, 198 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: like I guess, we didn't know what it like, we 199 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 1: didn't know what it meant. Like when I got to 200 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: get to get, I was playing song so like I 201 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 1: don't know what else I was playing, but it was 202 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: like can we see the songs you're gonna play before 203 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: you play him, and I'm like no, And I had 204 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 1: my like CD book, you know, I was you. 205 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 3: Look like that DJ. Yeah he's yesterday. Shout out to 206 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 3: DJ Chicken Scratch. I don't even know what that man 207 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 3: didn't have a microphone. He was pulling up songs on YouTube. 208 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: I don't even know. You know, like he did well, 209 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: he did well, he did good. We didn't have that 210 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: kind of technology back then. We had the case logic, 211 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 1: the black book with the CDs and you you had 212 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: the one with the handle. Then you were you were, 213 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:04,599 Speaker 1: you were a little dojo. You had to have the 214 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,080 Speaker 1: the pamphlet behind the. 215 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, that was a new story of dance. 216 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: You are here, DJ. You guys, No, I thought I 217 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: had all the stuff. I thought I was a little radio. 218 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: This is all I ever wanted to do. And I 219 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: can remember all the people that were like, this guy 220 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:26,959 Speaker 1: is whatever, he's obsessed with it. I'm like, yeah, I 221 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: am obsessed with it. And look what happened. I'm basically 222 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: still djaying in eighth grade dances. Some things just really changed. 223 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: Trending stories after Taylor back in two minutes, Fred. 224 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 9: Show, Red Show, is on. It's stay or Go. 225 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: So what do we have here? We have a Hunter. 226 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:47,959 Speaker 1: Hunter is here. Good morning Hunter, Good morning, Good morning Hunter. 227 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. So we get we get a 228 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: bunch of emails. Fred show radio dot com, fredshiw Radio 229 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: on Instagram. People want to be on this segment. They 230 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 1: want to be on Kieky's court, they want to be 231 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 1: on stair Go. They've got relationship issues. They've already talked 232 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 1: to all their friends, they've gotten their opinions, and now 233 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: they want the opinion of the thirteen people who listen 234 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: to this show. And so please, if you would share, 235 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 1: share your scenario, what's going on with you, and then 236 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 1: we'll talk about you behind your back, Go ahead right away. 237 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 2: Well it's it's I appreciate the honesty, but it's it's 238 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 2: about my girlfriend. Yeah, I really really really like her. 239 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 2: Things have been going really well and I see a 240 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 2: future with her. But something she told me recently has 241 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 2: just been throwing me off. 242 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: Okay, she told, okay, how long have you been with her? 243 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: A while? Okay, two years? And she reveals something to 244 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: you of late that you after two years, that you 245 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 1: shook it to the core. 246 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 2: You say, it's stirred me off quite considerably because. 247 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: I added to the core. I made that part up. 248 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: I just trying to make it more dramatic. But okay, 249 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: go ahead. So what did she tell you? 250 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 2: Well, the other day she told me that she was 251 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 2: a she was a virgin when we met, but she 252 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 2: never told me that because she didn't want to ruin things. 253 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 2: And I think it's because she might have been embarrassed initially. 254 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: Okay, finally told me. 255 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 2: You finally told me because it had been such a 256 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 2: long time, and she thought that I wouldn't I wouldn't 257 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 2: think that it was a big deal. 258 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: But but you think, although so you've been you guys 259 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: have so you were her first. Basically, it's what you're saying, 260 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 1: you didn't know it. 261 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 2: I was. I was there first, and I had no idea. 262 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: Okay, so what's the problem. You guys have been together 263 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: for two years. It turns out you were her first. Okay. 264 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 1: I mean, all's well, that ends well, right. 265 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 2: Well, well that ends well. Yes, However, I saw me 266 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 2: out for teuradons because everything's fine where you know, we 267 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 2: have sex better reguly and things are pretty healthy. But 268 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 2: I think what bothers me is that she did lie 269 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 2: by omission because she didn't she didn't tell me directly, 270 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 2: And I would handled things a little bit differently if 271 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: I knew that I was her cursed, you know, I 272 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,719 Speaker 2: think I would have handled things like a little bit 273 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 2: more healthy, you know, a little bit more with more respect, 274 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 2: I think, as far as well. 275 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 1: But I mean she doesn't feel disrespected because you guys 276 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,079 Speaker 1: are still together after two years. So I mean, I 277 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying, but maybe you would have overthought it. 278 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: I might have overthought it if somebody tells me something 279 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 1: like that early on, and then the fact that you 280 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: didn't know means you were none the wiser, And then 281 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: you know, perhaps now two years later, it's better that 282 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 1: you didn't know because you didn't overthink. And and everything 283 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: up until this point has been fine, right, I mean 284 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: you you haven't second guessed any aspect of this relationship. 285 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: Doesn't sound like. 286 00:13:56,920 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 10: No, I mean, I think it's mainly I think it's 287 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 10: mainly me thinking, and I just was trying to be 288 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 10: a little more respectful about it. But I can I 289 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 10: can get around it, Okay. 290 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 1: So lied to you, and and you wish you had known, 291 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: because you would have handled things differently Okay, that's one. 292 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: What's your second issue? You said you had two? 293 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 10: Well, I was, you know, considering marriage and you know, 294 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 10: get in the house and possibly some shapes and all 295 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 10: that kod stuff. I was thinking about a future with her. 296 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 10: But it's really hard for me to believe that someone 297 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 10: can be with one person, just. 298 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: One person, for their wome life. 299 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: I've lived my life. 300 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 2: No, I'm sorry, that's been a dumpster behind my building. 301 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: Strike. Yeah, so you're okay, So now you have insecurity 302 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: about the notion that you're the only person she's ever 303 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: been with. 304 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 6: Yes, that's it's it's empty because I've lived my life 305 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 6: and I've dated lots of women, And this is how 306 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 6: I knew that I wanted to get a partner to 307 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 6: settle down with, you know, because there's plenty of options 308 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 6: out there, but you want to go with you want 309 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 6: to go with what makes you happy. 310 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, well you need hunter. You needed a bunch 311 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: of options, I guess to figure it out. She didn't. 312 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: Because before you knew this, did you have any suspicion 313 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: that she was unhappy intimately or otherwise. 314 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 2: Not not not necessarily no, no, no, uh no real 315 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 2: indication of that. 316 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: Huh. All right, eight five three five. You can also 317 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: text the same number. I want to know what people 318 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: think about this, Hunter. I'm gonna let you go. You 319 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: can have the radio one and then you know, hopefully 320 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: we can follow up with you and figure out what 321 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: happens with this uh, based on what people tell you 322 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: to do with your life that don't know you. So okay, bye, Hunter, 323 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 1: have a nice day, good luck. So this guy, let 324 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: me just sum this up here. If you're just tuning 325 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: in to the Frame show, this guy has been with 326 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: the woman for two years that he likes a lot, 327 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: and only recently has he found out that she had 328 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 1: only been with him intimately, had no idea. So now 329 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: it's you lied to me, And I don't really know 330 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 1: why that matters. I don't know that it was a lie. 331 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: He didn't ask her and she lied. She just didn't 332 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: say anything, and he didn't know somehow, So fine, he 333 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: didn't know. And had he not known this piece of information, 334 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: then there wouldn't then we wouldn't even be having this conversation. 335 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: There would be no issue whatsoever. 336 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 2: I know. 337 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 8: But now that he does, I mean, honestly, that would 338 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 8: scare me too. It would be very scary. For me 339 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 8: to want to settle down with someone who's only been 340 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 8: with one partner. 341 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: Really, yes, very very very much. 342 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 8: So, I just I just would be very scared that 343 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 8: down the line they would get curious or wonder what 344 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 8: else is out there? I I that has something for 345 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 8: me personally. I would want a partner who has really 346 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 8: explored everything. 347 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: Wow, I know, I know, it's just my personal preference. 348 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: I guess if this person's happy, I mean you could, yes, 349 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: I guess I could drive myself crazy thinking about that. 350 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 1: But if this person's happy and there's been no issue 351 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 1: up until this point, then I guess I don't see 352 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 1: what the problem is. She doesn't seem dissatisfied. 353 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 8: So I would feel the same way about a guy 354 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 8: with a low number. It's just my personal feelings and preference. 355 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,639 Speaker 1: But what if you never knew then and there were 356 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: never an issue, then you'd never know you had nothing 357 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:20,640 Speaker 1: to worry about. Yeah, then I wouldn't. 358 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 8: But but if I did know, I couldn't unknow that information. 359 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: Why are we discussing that? Yeah, like the numbers game 360 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: with our partners, you know what I mean? Or like 361 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: I don't. 362 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 8: Discuss numbers, but I definitely talk about sexual experiences what 363 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 8: you're into. I mean, there should be open communication and 364 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 8: you can tell, like if somebody's dated a ton of 365 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 8: people or you know. 366 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 1: I also don't think it's fair to project onto her 367 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 1: the insecurity that just because she's only been with one 368 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 1: person that she's definitely going to wake up one day 369 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: and say what else is out there? 370 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 6: Right? 371 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if it has to be that way. No, 372 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 1: it's not definitely, but it's just my opinion. Well, I 373 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 1: was attacking your opinion. I was just in general. Yeah, 374 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 1: I'm attacking him. Actually, Yesni Hi, Yes, Ennis. He called 375 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 1: us from a dumpster because he's afraid she's going to 376 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: hear it. I bek. Yeah, he's truly incognito on this. 377 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 1: What do you think, stare Go? 378 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 11: I think she needs to go because I don't know. 379 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 12: I'm not sure why he's so confused about staying with her. 380 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 13: Why is this such a big deal. 381 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: It's if if she would have. 382 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 13: Been with ten guys before him, I'm pretty sure he 383 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 13: would have he would have had a problem with it. 384 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 13: I've been with I've been with my husband for twenty years, 385 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 13: Like we've been together. We haven't been married for twenty years, 386 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 13: but we've been together for twenty years, and it's I've 387 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 13: only been with him. I'm not sure why it's such 388 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 13: a big deal for other people to have to have 389 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 13: multiple sex partners. 390 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: Wait, imagine that's what I was just saying, Pauline. You 391 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: think dudes would judge a woman for having sex with 392 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: ten people? Absolutely? Oh my god. I would never date 393 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: a guy who would do that. Majority dudes. I hate 394 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 1: to say it, but majority I think judge. And I'll 395 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:00,159 Speaker 1: be honest with you. And there's a about this. We 396 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: can get to it later. There's a horror article about this. 397 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 1: It's actually, according to some people, it's going the other way. 398 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: Women are now judging men for having too many partners, 399 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 1: as opposed to the idea that men are judging women. 400 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,119 Speaker 1: I don't want to know, and I don't care, literally 401 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 1: do not care never. Okay, but you can't say that 402 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: every man cares because every man doesn't care. Yeah, but 403 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: like I don't. I don't think it's men or women, nobody. 404 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: I don't think anybody really wants to know that information. 405 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: I don't think it's a male female thing. But if 406 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: you told me you've been with a thousand people and 407 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:34,400 Speaker 1: you don't have anything and whatever, and I love you. Yeah, 408 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 1: it really shouldn't. It doesn't. I don't agree with you. 409 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:38,679 Speaker 1: I don't agree so you, Cennia, thank you so much 410 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: for calling. Have a good day. 411 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 7: Thank you too. 412 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 1: I think women are judging men just as much for 413 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 1: the number as men are judging women. But men do 414 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: it too, I. 415 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 9: Said, Kendall, Hi, Hi, good morning. 416 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: Hi Kendall. What did you want to say? The stare gor? 417 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 7: I'm like, would it be any worse if she slept 418 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 7: with two hundred guys or no guys? 419 00:19:59,760 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 2: Like? 420 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 7: I mean, okay, some people save themselves for marriage. 421 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 8: It's not that biggest deal. 422 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, neither scenario is great. It doesn't. Neither scenario helps me, 423 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, neither situation, no number 424 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: helps me. Okay, so you've been with one person before me? 425 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 1: What if that? I guess I could go my whole 426 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 1: life thinking maybe he was better than me, you know, 427 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: but what's the point in doing that. She's with me exactly. 428 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 7: He's overreacting. I think he should just let it go, 429 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 7: move on. If he really loves the woman, then he 430 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 7: can look aft it and love the woman and continue 431 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,479 Speaker 7: to move forward and get married. Because I mean, if 432 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 7: you're happy, then be happy. You know, there's no reason 433 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 7: to nitpick at Okay, you're. 434 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 1: Her first, so he probably would have overthought it, as 435 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 1: I would have more than likely if I meet a 436 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 1: woman in my adult life and she says you're going 437 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: to be my first, I might overthink that. And if 438 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 1: I overthink it, it might the relationship might never happen. Instead, 439 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 1: he's been with it for two years. She didn't lie 440 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: to him, she just didn't tell him. And it doesn't 441 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,679 Speaker 1: really matter because it turns out they've been again it 442 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 1: for two years. He's thinking about marrying her. So it 443 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: worked out exactly the way it's supposed to for her. 444 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 1: There isn't this added pressure because well, she wanted to 445 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 1: be with not a lot of people and she hasn't been, 446 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: and now she's with someone she likes and he was 447 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: thinking about marrying her. So now all of a sudden 448 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 1: he's questioning all this for It's really for nothing. Kendall, 449 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Thank you. I love you too, 450 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening, Thank you for calling. Hey, Robin, 451 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: good morning, welcome. 452 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 2: Yes, how are you hi, Robin? 453 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 1: I'm great, Thanks for Colin, thanks for listening. What do 454 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 1: you want to say? 455 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 12: I just want to say. 456 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,120 Speaker 8: That I've been with my husband. 457 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 12: Since we're sixteen and eighteen. We've been married twenty for years. 458 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 12: Where are each other's first and I have no regrets. 459 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 13: Like we have a beautiful I love that wonderful marriage. 460 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 12: I don't think we all need to try all thirty one. 461 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: Favorite right right? Just thirty one? 462 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 2: Thank you. 463 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 12: Joe. 464 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 1: Whatever works for you. So if that works for you, 465 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:57,479 Speaker 1: that's perfect, no judgement day. 466 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 12: I think I think he's afraid that that she may 467 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,199 Speaker 12: want to explore later. And girls are so much more 468 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 12: emotional that as long as he's engaged with her for 469 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 12: the next fifty years, just loving on her, she's not 470 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 12: gonna want anything. 471 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: Robin, I have to ask, seeing as you've only been 472 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 1: with one person. His concern is that she might think about, 473 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 1: you know, what else is out there? Have you ever 474 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,400 Speaker 1: had that thought? Have you ever been like, I wonder 475 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 1: if someone else can do something that you know the 476 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 1: only man I've been with, Kant, Have you ever thought 477 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: of that? 478 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 6: Who? 479 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 12: If I want something else to say to my hustle, 480 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:30,120 Speaker 12: let's try this quick. 481 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 1: There you go. That's right, girl, Thanks road tonight. Yeah, exactly. 482 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 1: I think there's. 483 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 12: Something sweet about that and she's really given him a gift, 484 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 12: and maybe it was a surprise gift for him, but 485 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 12: he never has to worry about if he's doing something 486 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 12: that maybe she likes something else better that he's not. 487 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, you could see it the other way. You could. 488 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 1: You could flip it and be like she hadn't know 489 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,199 Speaker 1: anything other than me. So pressure is off, you know, 490 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 1: as far as she consider I'm putting it different right right. 491 00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 1: Thank you, Robin, have a good day. 492 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 12: You're welcome. 493 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,360 Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. Chris. Hi, Chris, how you doing. 494 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 14: I'm doing great. 495 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: How are you doing great? Man, Welcome to the show, 496 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. So just to recap here, 497 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,399 Speaker 1: this dude is upset because he found out his girlfriend 498 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 1: of two years so he was going to propose to 499 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: he says, admittedly, he found out that he was her first. 500 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 1: And now he says, one, she lied to me, and two, 501 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 1: how can he marry a woman who will probably, in 502 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 1: his opinion, have a desire someday to explore other things. 503 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: He has no way of knowing that. By the way, 504 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: it's just his insecurity. But now he's thinking about throwing 505 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 1: the whole thing. 506 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 14: Away exactly you hit the nail on the head. I 507 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 14: think it's his insecurity that's the problem. I mean this, 508 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,120 Speaker 14: this guy hit the jackpot. I mean, if he wants 509 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 14: to get married and have kids. It's just like, the 510 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 14: more the less partners you have, the bigger and better 511 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 14: bond you have with. 512 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 2: It's simple that. 513 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: I have to very much disagree with that. So you 514 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 1: don't think you can be with a bunch of people 515 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 1: and then realize that you know, one person was is 516 00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 1: more significant than the rest. 517 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 14: I'm not saying that, but I'm saying statistically, the less 518 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,919 Speaker 14: partners you have, the longer your marriage and your relationship. 519 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: He's making this up. I don't like the word sure. 520 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 1: I don't like sure. You are to my point though, 521 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: but no, you're wrong. I think he's wrong. Why why 522 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 1: is that your points He's not specifying a gender here. 523 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 15: No, But I'm saying, like, I feel like men can 524 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 15: be very judgmental. I do feel like it comes more 525 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,719 Speaker 15: from men than women. Like you said, women also judgment now, 526 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 15: which Queen's okay, it's our time. But I also feel like, 527 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 15: but it's wrong, it's wrong. I'm not saying it's right, 528 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 15: that's wrong. 529 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:32,439 Speaker 1: That's your feeling. 530 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 2: You just that was your. 531 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 1: Feeling, and you're trying to statistics out. 532 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 14: I'm just telling you what the data is. 533 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:40,239 Speaker 1: I'd love to see it. 534 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 2: I will. 535 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 14: I will absolutely do that. 536 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: Thank Chris, you just walked into the virus. I mean 537 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 1: you just you just. 538 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 14: Right, Yeah, no word. 539 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: Chris appreciates then, thanks for calling. Have a good day. 540 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,919 Speaker 14: I'm one of your thirteen listeners and I will continue listening. 541 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: I love that good. I'm afraid we were down to 542 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 1: twelve momentarily, but now we're back to thirteen. Thank you. 543 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you right now though, I'm gonna 544 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 1: tell you right now. If I meet a woman and 545 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 1: and we're starting to date, if I tell her my 546 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 1: real number, I guarantee she will judge me. It's not 547 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: a great number. So I don't think it's a real 548 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 1: conversation because it doesn't really matter. I wouldn't, but I 549 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 1: know there are a lot of women that would. Yeah, 550 00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: I don't think it matters me because if I, like again, 551 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: if I come into this healthy and and and I'd 552 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 1: never met you, and that was the best. So who's 553 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: to say that if i'd met you know, the next 554 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 1: person I meet, Who's to say if I had met 555 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: them twenty years ago, that I wouldn't have ever been 556 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 1: with anyone else. I don't know. There's no one. There's 557 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: no way to say that you didn't know me, I 558 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: didn't know you. I don't think that it matters. I 559 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 1: don't know about what he's saying. I've not seen that before. 560 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: But if it's you know whatever, I don't know where 561 00:25:54,760 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: he's coming from. Hey, Gina, Gina, Okay, Gina, turn your 562 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 1: radio down please, Hi, what do you want to say? 563 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the Fred Show. 564 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 16: Well, he's had all this experience, and maybe he's so good. 565 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:14,120 Speaker 11: In bed that she has no need to go look 566 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 11: for anyone else. I mean, he said he had all 567 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 11: these experiences and all of these women, and maybe you 568 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 11: know now, I mean, she probably knew that. 569 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 1: In the back of her head. 570 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 11: I'm sure she. 571 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 16: Maybe knew something about him, and maybe he's so I mean, 572 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 16: he's probably so good assuming and he should congratulate himself. 573 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 16: I had all these experiences and now this woman is 574 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 16: so satisfied. 575 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 11: She doesn't want anybody else. 576 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and that's very impossible him. Yeah, no, no, no, 577 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,640 Speaker 1: I hear you, Gena. Unless she said to him like boy, 578 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 1: I wonder what else is out there? Then I don't 579 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 1: you know, then that's in his head and probably not 580 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,439 Speaker 1: in hers, because we've already heard from people, you know, 581 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 1: the one woman who called him minute ago and said, 582 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: only been with one guy. I've never thought twice about it. 583 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: It's very well possible she's just happy and she doesn't 584 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,200 Speaker 1: have to sleep with a bunch of men, and she 585 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: can marry him and be done with it. Right. 586 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 11: If he's that good and bad and have all those experiences, 587 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 11: then maybe he doesn't need anything. 588 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 1: Maybe he's terrible. She just doesn't know. It could be. 589 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: It sound like he is well. 590 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 11: But if I'd be more insecure if he had had 591 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,360 Speaker 11: like maybe one or two, and then maybe he would 592 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 11: be worried that she would want someone else. I mean, 593 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,880 Speaker 11: I know the other end that you don't. You don't 594 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 11: have any experience and you don't know any better. 595 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 2: But I mean I would just if I. 596 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 12: Were him, I just tell myself, I'm so good. 597 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 11: She doesn't need anybody else. I have all these experiences 598 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 11: and now this. 599 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 14: Is for my special lady or something like that. 600 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: And there you go, there you go, Thank you so much. 601 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 1: Have a great day, Okay, great glad you called Gina, 602 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 1: thank you. What's Fred's number? Gotta go started? Unbelievable. We 603 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: got I don't know what happened. They played me off. 604 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:49,959 Speaker 1: We got to move on, even though I'm the one 605 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: who pushes the buttons. The enter Samer reports. Next after 606 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: Live Your Rego, Fred's Show, Fred's Show is on. It 607 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,680 Speaker 1: feels good, good news, happy stories every day on the 608 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 1: show and put you in a good mood as you 609 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: roll into school or work or whatever you're doing. People 610 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: still going to score? Is it over? Get all over? 611 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 1: Every Yeah? Okay, good. We're hanging on to our listeners 612 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 1: for another couple of weeks and then, oh the desperate, 613 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: desolate days of summer. I expect all thirteen listeners of 614 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 1: our show to set their alarm and wake up and 615 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: listen to us anyway. Please scream all summer, please, even 616 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,640 Speaker 1: if you're still sleeping. Just have it on. It doesn't matter. 617 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: I hard radio, ab doesn't matter. Hey, I'll wear whatever 618 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 1: T shirt you want me to. You know what, Take 619 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: her up on that if you would. What she got calm. 620 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 8: A mom woke up last week to find her apartment 621 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 8: was on fire in Phoenix, Arizona, with the front door 622 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 8: blocked by the fire. 623 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: She and her two daughters were trapped. 624 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 8: All she could do was call for help, but before 625 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 8: the firefighters got there, a homeless man and his wife 626 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 8: were camped out near the apartment and ran to help 627 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 8: when they heard the screams. The man got under the 628 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 8: woman and told her to drop her kids, and he 629 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 8: caught them both and the family's two dogs. When it 630 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 8: was the mom's turn, she was scared she was going 631 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 8: to fall. He told her not to worry. He jumped, 632 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 8: and this homeless man got her safely in his arms. 633 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 8: I mean he caught her. The fire department soon arrived 634 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 8: to put out the fire. The mom said her family, 635 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 8: Oh though, that man their entire lives, and he wouldn't 636 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 8: even take the praise. 637 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: He said, anyone would do the same. It's a rufio. 638 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: He probably wouldn't. 639 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 2: Correct. 640 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 1: He'd probably catch you and then ask you for money, 641 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 1: correct for saving your life, ask you for Taylor Swift 642 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: tickets so he could then sell one of those things 643 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 1: on my phone. 644 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 5: Is like Tip fifteen, Just a quick question for you. 645 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 1: A North Carolina man who is planning to use his 646 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars lottery price to help build classrooms 647 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: for children in his hometown in Molly. I grew up 648 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 1: in a tough way, he said. It's a thirty nine 649 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: year old man who was a dance instructor and lives 650 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,239 Speaker 1: in Newbern, North Carolina. That's part of what drove him 651 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 1: to purchase the thirty million are thirty dollars millionaire maker ticket. 652 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 1: I never buy the really expensive scratch offs, the really 653 00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 1: big ones that are really expensive, right, not only buy 654 00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 1: the cheap ones, and then when I win, I just 655 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 1: give him back and get more, and then I lose, 656 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 1: which is what they're hoping for. I think exactly now. 657 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: He wants to use his winnings, which is about seventy 658 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 1: one thousand dollars after tax, to help children who are 659 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: growing up in similar circumstances to him in his West 660 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: African nation. They don't even have a desk to sit at, 661 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: he said. They have to walk miles and miles even 662 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 1: to go to school. And so there you go. He's 663 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 1: going to give people some hope with the money that 664 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 1: he won from the lottery, something else that Ruvia wouldn't do. 665 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 2: So. 666 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: In fact, I think you guys are still upset about 667 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 1: yesterday changed in the tangent it got worse than the 668 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 1: tangent on the iHeartRadio app as well search for the 669 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 1: Fread Show Waiting by the phone after Rema. 670 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 9: Carolyn's entertainment report is on the Fread Show. 671 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 8: Fret told you yesterday about that security guard who went 672 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 8: viral for being an undercover Swifty. He says it was 673 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 8: a simple process to get the job working for the 674 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 8: Era's tour, but he does admit that things didn't go 675 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,240 Speaker 8: as he originally planned. 676 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: So Davis Harrigo Perigo, I. 677 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,640 Speaker 8: Don't know how to say it, whose day job is accounting, 678 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 8: said yesterday that he just had to fill out a 679 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 8: form in order to work security at Nashville's Niece On 680 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 8: Stadium for Taylor's concert, which is a little scary to me. 681 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 8: And he even did a test run by working at 682 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 8: Luke Colmb's concert at the same venue the week before 683 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 8: so he could get the lay of the land. 684 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 1: This man was committed this. 685 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 8: Right, So once he was in the stadium, he figured 686 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 8: out how to get himself as close to Taylor as possible, 687 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 8: and as we saw in the videos, he ended up 688 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 8: having the time of his life. You know, Taylor's right 689 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 8: here behind his shoulders and he's just bopping along. But 690 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 8: his original plan was and Rufio, you mentioned this, and 691 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 8: this would have not worked. Is he was going to 692 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 8: ditch his uniform altogether when she got inside and have 693 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 8: fun with the audience, which he would have been tackled 694 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 8: and taken out so quickly. 695 00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: I mean, that would not have worked. 696 00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 8: But he ended up obviously just vibing with her singing 697 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 8: behind him as he looked out into the crowd. The 698 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 8: swiftiest loved him, but he did say a fellow security guard. 699 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 1: Had to tell him to tone it down. 700 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 8: And I said this yesterday, But I would rather not 701 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 8: go than have the tortuous experience of not being able 702 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 8: to look at her while she's performing, You know what 703 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 8: I mean? 704 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: Because yeah, because if you were up there, unless you 705 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 1: were in one of the positions that face the stage, 706 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: then you would have to have your back to it. Right, 707 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 1: are any of the positions facing the seat? 708 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 8: Because I think they have to stay looking at the 709 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 8: audience at all the times? 710 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:29,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, their security though everywhere. 711 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 8: Maybe like or something yeah like that would be fine, 712 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 8: but that would be torture for me. And speaking of Taylor, 713 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 8: the American Heart Association took to Instagram to share the 714 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 8: importance of hands only CPR. 715 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 1: Can any of you guys do CEPR just in case 716 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: a girl scouts? That was like when I was five, 717 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 1: But I say I can save you. 718 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 17: All right, you're our best. But hang out with you then, okay, 719 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 17: how pay you're going to beat? I'm just going to 720 00:32:59,000 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 17: go through your wallet. 721 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 1: Oh yes, look for your medical car. 722 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 3: G car. 723 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 1: I think my mom wrote out my blood tyda, my 724 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: medical card. You know, your life alert. 725 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 2: We don't know. 726 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 1: I don't know, so we don't know. 727 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:17,360 Speaker 2: Well. 728 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 8: The right tempo for the technique can be remembered by 729 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 8: pushing down to the rhythm of a song with one 730 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 8: hundred to one hundred and twenty beats per minute, like 731 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 8: they did on the Office, but this time the example 732 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 8: they used is Taylor Swift the Man of her twenty 733 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 8: nineteen album Lover, which has one hundred and ten beats 734 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 8: per minute. 735 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: And lastly, this is pretty spicy. 736 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 8: Joaquin Phoenix is planning to start in an NC seventeen 737 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 8: rated gay romance movie. According to director Todd Haynes, it's 738 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 8: a gay love story set in the nineteen thirties in 739 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 8: la and he said Joaquin was kind of pushing him 740 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 8: to go further and further. So that's why it's an 741 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 8: NC seventeen film. More to check out online today. The 742 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 8: video of Ed Sheeran surprising these students. You have to 743 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 8: see it. It's on Fred Show Radio dot com. 744 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: It's it's amazing. It's really cool, fun fact trending stories. 745 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 1: If we have time. Both on the way next on 746 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Good morning, glad you're here. 747 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 9: So these are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. 748 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 1: I feel like it's been a minute since I did 749 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 1: a blog. I feel like everyone else has been doing 750 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: the blog. So I'm going to do a blog, okay, 751 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: and I'm going to brag up myself in my blog. 752 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 1: I I just want to say, dear blog, recently someone 753 00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 1: did me dirty. Tell me more, Hey did me dirty? 754 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: And I'm not surprised that I was done dirty by 755 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,839 Speaker 1: said individual, not the least bit surprised. So so far 756 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,359 Speaker 1: for the course on the petty level. And as you know, 757 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: I am a grudge holder. I am a chip possessor 758 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 1: in that I don't forget when people do things to me, 759 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: and usually I will consume myself with how I will 760 00:34:55,640 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 1: return the favor. But in this case, amazing growth, I 761 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 1: have decided I'm not gonna do anything what I went 762 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:08,320 Speaker 1: to therapy yesterday. We discussed it in therapy and major growth. 763 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let it go. Look at guys, I'll do 764 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 1: I'll do it for you. I'm gonna I'm gonna let 765 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 1: it go. And this is this is major growth for 766 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 1: me because normally it would consume me. I'd be annoyed 767 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 1: and then I would I would win because I always win. 768 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,320 Speaker 1: I never I never lose. I never lose. Well, I 769 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: do lose sometimes, but then I win something else. So 770 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,399 Speaker 1: it's fun, you know what I mean. Like I take 771 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 1: the L and I move on. You know something else 772 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,399 Speaker 1: I've had to learn how to do in therapy, take 773 00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 1: the L and move on. It's hard money, but I 774 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 1: just I you know, it was a very long hour 775 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 1: and we we talked through it and and we talked about, 776 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 1: you know, the winds and the sort of the the 777 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: benefits in the in the in the demerits of taking action, 778 00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,720 Speaker 1: and I decided I'm just gonna let it go. Therapy 779 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 1: is working. I know you're so disappointed. 780 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:02,960 Speaker 2: I know. 781 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,839 Speaker 1: Do you always seek revenge? Yes, you always seek revenge. Yeah, 782 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 1: I'm like you. I get a chip on my shoulder whatever. Yeah, 783 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:15,399 Speaker 1: I hope, just work with I'm scared. Here's the thing. 784 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: I don't feel bad about carrying a ship. People will 785 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,240 Speaker 1: say like that, that's not good for you, it's not healthy. 786 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 1: You should let everything go. But I can't tell you 787 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,760 Speaker 1: how much motivation it has brought me, uh to remember 788 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 1: the people that tried to get in my way, especially 789 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: especially when I know I did the right thing. That's 790 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:40,720 Speaker 1: another thing, especially when what I what I did wasn't wrong. 791 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 1: And I'll admit that the times I was wrong, I 792 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 1: can back down. I try not to double down when 793 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,320 Speaker 1: I'm wrong. I try to just walk away and pretelling 794 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 1: it in the hamb right right. But I'm motivated by 795 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: the like I remember sometimes when I'm like, I don't 796 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,560 Speaker 1: feel like it today, and then I remember the people 797 00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 1: that were like, you're not good at this, and I'm like, 798 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,799 Speaker 1: or the people that try to stand in my way, 799 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 1: or the people that are doing mean things to me 800 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 1: thinking that they're the winner. Oh no, they shall not win. 801 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 1: They shall not win. And the other thing I've noticed 802 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:16,839 Speaker 1: is that you don't do me thinks to me, but 803 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 1: what thinks to me? And really the point is the 804 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,920 Speaker 1: point is where do you find motivation. A lot of 805 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,400 Speaker 1: people when someone wrongs them, they're able to let it go. 806 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 1: Typically I'm not, but I don't. I don't think it's 807 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: a bad thing. I'm usually able to convert it into 808 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: energy that is positive for me, while a lot of 809 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: people have not found that lot And I think the 810 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: traditional logic is let it go. And I'm doing that 811 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 1: this time, filing it away. It's in the cabinet, it's 812 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: in the card catalog. 813 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:49,319 Speaker 5: But that person's winning now for that person's let me 814 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 5: assure you they are not. 815 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,080 Speaker 1: This is so funny. 816 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 8: Yesterday I posted on Instagram the best revenge is nothing. 817 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 8: Heal and move on and don't be calm like the 818 00:37:58,640 --> 00:37:59,600 Speaker 8: people that wronged you. 819 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,479 Speaker 1: I didn't see that, but that's that's what I'm trying 820 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,160 Speaker 1: to do. I'm trying to grow and and that's that. 821 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 1: The other thing that I've noticed, though, in this particular example, 822 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 1: is sometimes that here's the thing. If you want to 823 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 1: go after somebody, you need to think about it a 824 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:19,400 Speaker 1: little more than like oftentimes the instant gratification is doesn't 825 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,280 Speaker 1: quite work the way you were hoping. 826 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, I get think like things like seventy two hours 827 00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,359 Speaker 8: to think about and then if I still think it's 828 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 8: a good idea, then I do it. 829 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,960 Speaker 1: Like this particular example that I'm thinking of of someone 830 00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 1: who was was did something dirty towards me. They did 831 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 1: not think this one through right, because yes, momentarily you 832 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: may feel like you won. Oh but the ripple effect, oh, 833 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 1: the waves they are crashing a scenario if I was 834 00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,880 Speaker 1: talking about we all know what he's talking about. I 835 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,440 Speaker 1: agree with what you're doing for it. I will agree 836 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,920 Speaker 1: with this one. Do you want him? Do you agree 837 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,640 Speaker 1: with what you should grab him? Usually sound I sound mind. 838 00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 8: I will say it's never good to make a decision 839 00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,040 Speaker 8: based in emotion. So when you feel any type of 840 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,400 Speaker 8: big emotion, you really need to wait to make a decision. 841 00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 8: It's very hard, and it feels good to do it. 842 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 1: When I sat on it all weekend and then I 843 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,879 Speaker 1: met with my therapist and then I decided that this 844 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 1: was this was the right path of the course of action. 845 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,840 Speaker 1: And I'm proud of myself and I'm bragging on myself, 846 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,960 Speaker 1: and I understand that. And someone's like, are you sure 847 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 1: because you're talking about it. I'm not talking about it. 848 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,279 Speaker 1: No one knows what I'm talking about. No one knows 849 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 1: any it doesn't matter what I'm talking about. What matters 850 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,240 Speaker 1: is how I went through the process, and I encourage 851 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:41,040 Speaker 1: it's so much more fun to get immediate retribution. But 852 00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 1: I am encouraging everyone to just yes, yes, give you 853 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,240 Speaker 1: a hug. But I have spray tan and I smell 854 00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,080 Speaker 1: so well to rub off on me. Will I get 855 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 1: a tand to because you could use a little less, 856 00:39:52,280 --> 00:40:01,239 Speaker 1: I could. I can't wait the showers. A strong emotion said, 857 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 1: you never said a wrong to me. Caleb, No, it wasn't. Caylee, 858 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,919 Speaker 1: it wasn't. Don't worry about it. Post my own friend 859 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 1: show