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Speaker 1: My dumb husband feels threatened by my IQ, so I

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Speaker 2: Finally we are divorcing dumb men. Yeah, it has been

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Speaker 2: a long time coming. Deserve to spread their dumb ass

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Speaker 2: genes into the gene pool. How are you going to

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Speaker 2: have a race of very smart, enlightened humans if we

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Speaker 1: Could we just I think we should just go all female.

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Speaker 1: Are you really you're trying to just kill yourself?

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Speaker 2: Let's go? What am I adding to society? This podcast?

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Speaker 2: And this is the best thing we could add to society.

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Speaker 2: This is our best shot, I think something to society.

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Speaker 2: And the Nobel Peace Prize goes to the Reddit podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hey, don't sell ourselves short, fair enough, fair enough, no bell,

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Speaker 1: We're coming after you. Oh yeah, all right, here we go. Also,

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Speaker 1: if you see that, uh, please pointed out and be

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Speaker 1: to me. As the title says, he came home one

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Speaker 1: day and gave me logins to some IQ test and

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Speaker 1: I scored higher than him. Yis, First he was in disbelief,

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Speaker 1: then a bit sulky. I thought the whole thing was stupid,

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Speaker 1: I never understood the logic of these tests. If you

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Speaker 1: as you can see here. Yes, come on, look at us,

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Speaker 1: very very apparent. Look at us. You know you can

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Speaker 1: one of one one IQ, one IQ. Anyway, since then,

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Speaker 1: he has changed. He doesn't want to cuddle or kiss

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Speaker 2: Someone's lives, Like, finally someone dumb enough for me to

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Speaker 1: I know, imagine an iqan Imagine realizing that your wife

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Speaker 2: Yeah, your sister's kind of hot and she's pretty stupid,

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Speaker 2: So that sounds like a great situation. I want to

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Speaker 2: make a trade for a beautyful brands. Can he introduce

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Speaker 2: me to your mom, can you get a little bottomies?

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Speaker 2: He take out half that thing at the same good.

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Speaker 1: When we got home, I had just had it up

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Speaker 1: t hair with him and started crying because he ignored

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Speaker 1: me for the last three weeks. Three weeks now he's

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Speaker 1: flirting with other people. Oh my god. He denied everything,

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Speaker 1: him that I wasn't stupid obviously IQ test, Yeah, look

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Speaker 1: I haven't changed. I'm still me. He apologized and said

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Speaker 1: I want to know, like, how important is being smart

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Speaker 1: I mean they're easy to get along with. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: You know, Golden retriever energy, Gotta love it, gotta love it.

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Speaker 1: But John, what do you think about this? What? Sam?

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Speaker 1: What do we always say on this show? There's got

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, there's no way like this IQ test

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So, I mean, if your ego is so desperately

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Speaker 1: Online IQ test, it's not like mensa, give it up,

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Speaker 1: you know, dummy? Yeah, you're so stupid. You can't process

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Speaker 1: since he already acknowledged his mistake and is working towards

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Speaker 1: In one of the texts, he complained that I was

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Speaker 1: Now she's emotionally abusing me. How ironic to pretend that

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Speaker 1: No, baby, he didn't know what he was trying to

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Speaker 2: Oh no, oh no, that changes things, changes things that

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Speaker 1: faced with adversity and going through rough patches is inevitable

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Speaker 1: I'm too intelligent to put up with this, damn bro

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Speaker 1: How was it? And you say, you know, my life

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Speaker 2: you weren't in it. Oh, let's get some dinner.

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Speaker 1: Oh dude, raise master, come on, Riley. Okay, he's given

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Speaker 1: I think that's enough, okay, like darling, Yeah, Dara, that's cute,

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Speaker 1: I said, Haha, almost died. Rocks came out of nowhere.

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Speaker 1: Want to get drinks right now?

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Speaker 2: That is the funniest way you could have possibly phrased

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Speaker 2: that wow, and.

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Speaker 1: She said, yeah, yeah, lovely day. We went running this morning.

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Speaker 1: She's cool. There you go, Ashley.

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Speaker 2: So it's also potential we're gonna have a lot of

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Speaker 2: Bally episodes. So this is this the reintroduction we'll see

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Speaker 2: to Sam's love chronicles. I'm not gonna push anything, but if.

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Speaker 1: You know, hey, you know we could be down. Time

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Speaker 1: will tell, Time will tell. But you know what else

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Speaker 1: we gotta tell Ooh, this next story we do.

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Speaker 2: My wife tried to make me babysit on my day off,

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Speaker 2: so I told her that's your job.

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Speaker 1: So I walked out on her. Am I the a

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Speaker 1: whole Yeah, walk out on her and the baby. Wow?

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Speaker 1: You know what this happened for itself.

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Speaker 2: This baby doesn't respect my boundaries of not needing to

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Speaker 2: watch it. So I thirty five male, have been married

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Speaker 2: to my wife thirty two female for seven years. We

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 2: She takes care of the house and baby sits the

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Speaker 2: weekends when I get home from work. My wife is

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Speaker 2: much more social than I am. We moved to her

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Speaker 2: lot more social than I am. She goes on three

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Speaker 2: to four girls trips a year. I'm happy to babysit

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Speaker 2: the kids full time in her absence. Three to four

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, a quarter for three month trips? Yes, honey.

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Speaker 2: When I'm home for my four days a year, I

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Speaker 2: do not want to see these children. I'm exhausted. I'm

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Speaker 2: I don't really take time off work unless we do

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Speaker 2: I was very busy on a major project at work.

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Speaker 2: I've been working sixty hour weeks, and frankly, I'm exhausted

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Speaker 2: with the stress. I kind of feel like, with all

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Speaker 2: this extra time he's spending at work, is there something else.

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Speaker 1: That she's doing or he's doing. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: We're hearing about a lot of girls trips We're hearing

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Speaker 1: Right now, it feels like the work stuff is independent

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Speaker 2: But what about sloppy conspiracy theories? That's true, that's what

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Speaker 1: Is the trip he's taking to the receptionist Vagina?

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Speaker 2: Wow, you know I was thinking the other way, But

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Speaker 2: now we have two conspiracy theories. So when the project

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Speaker 2: I'm taking a day off and I won't be doing

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Speaker 2: her that two weeks in advance, and she agreed Man's

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Speaker 2: asking for one day. How dare he twenty four hours?

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Speaker 2: How many seconds is that? At least more than three?

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Speaker 2: I also reminded her three days before. Man really wants

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Speaker 2: when that day came, my wife just forgot about the agreement.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: I was in the painting room and my wife interrupted me,

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Speaker 2: telling me that she needed me to give our daughter

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Speaker 1: It was annoying, but whatever, it happens.

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Speaker 2: Later on, while I was playing video games, my wife

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Speaker 2: tells me our son needs help for his math homework.

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Speaker 2: I asked her, why can't she help him herself. She

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Speaker 2: said it's because she has some work to do. This

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Speaker 1: For an hour. Man wanted one day, you know, one

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Speaker 1: measley day. You know. This really pissed me off.

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Speaker 2: So after I helped my son and the best friend left,

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Speaker 2: I told my wife I'm leaving the house for four

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Speaker 2: I told her I'm just going to chill in the

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Speaker 2: told her that today was my day off from all work,

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Speaker 2: on this.

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Speaker 1: Day before I left the house.

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Speaker 2: When I came back, she was acting cold and calling

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Speaker 2: me an a hole for just abandoning her and the kids.

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Speaker 1: He asked her one day, He asked multiple times, two

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Speaker 1: of like, and he's getting shit for it.

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Speaker 2: Still, I think she's being dramatic. But when I spoke

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Speaker 2: to my sister, she said parenting is a twenty four

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Speaker 1: So am I the a hole is a twenty four

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Speaker 1: parenting can be mentally exhausted one hundred percent. As a parent,

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Speaker 1: I totally know, yeah, but I say it's eleven children

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Speaker 1: You can ask for a day off if you feel

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Speaker 2: like if he is like wakes up one day, he's like,

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Speaker 2: you mind it? Like, I think that could be fine

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Speaker 2: as well, But that's not what he did.

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Speaker 1: It was crazy overkill what he did to prepare for

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Speaker 1: this single day. Yes, I don't know. I think I

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Speaker 1: think the wife is a little bit of the ahole,

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Speaker 1: But I would love to know what everyone else thinks,

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Speaker 1: oh one hundred percent, what would you do? And also like,

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Speaker 1: if you have kids, what's your parenting style? How do

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Speaker 1: you do breaks you know? Or do you do breaks

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Speaker 1: to know what your parenting styles are and how you

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Speaker 1: would approach the situation. Put your answers in the comments.

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Speaker 2: But Sam, you know what, I never want to break

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Speaker 2: from what your sweet lips reading me this next story.

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Speaker 1: I will put my sweet lips to this next story.

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Speaker 1: Oh God,