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Speaker 1: Am I the asshole for not visiting a childhood friend

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Speaker 2: Yikes? Yikes.

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Speaker 1: Basically, I had been in dance school with this girl

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Speaker 1: that I've known for like the past thirteen or fourteen years.

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Speaker 1: When she turned twenty four, she started messing around and

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Speaker 1: she was a fucking her cousin. I told her that

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Speaker 1: I thought ancestor was wrong, and she do that because

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Speaker 1: he was in the army a lot older than her,

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Speaker 1: and also he was grooming her. She called me a

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Speaker 1: fucking bitch, decided to not meet my friend quote unquote

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Speaker 1: any longer. And then later on, at twenty six years old,

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Speaker 1: she gets diagnosed with cancer. Everybody you know parades around her.

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Speaker 1: They're trying to show her support and all this shit.

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Speaker 1: She's still fucking her cousin while she's a boyfriend on

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Speaker 1: the side, mind you, And my mother goes because I'm

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Speaker 1: a baker, to donate cakes, cutcakes off of her honor

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Speaker 1: or whatever. I said no, because I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: dedicate my time or money to help someone I don't

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Speaker 1: even like, isn't my friend and who I find morally reprehensible.

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Speaker 1: So am I the asshole for not visiting a childhood

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Speaker 1: friend who got cancer. If I get picked, I want

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Speaker 1: to remain anonymous because this story might have showed up

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Speaker 1: in the news, the news, her whole fucking her cousin

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Speaker 1: and cheating on her boyfriend, saying if I do get called,

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Speaker 1: I'll go by the moniker the Nasty with Z instead

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Speaker 1: of an S. You guys are awesome, love your.

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Speaker 2: Show The Nasty. Oh that is a nasty story. Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, I gotta call you. I gotta call you.

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Speaker 1: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is Sam from the Okop Show. O. Hey,

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Speaker 2: what's up is this? Uh? You said you wanted to

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Speaker 2: go by the pseudonym the Nasty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my gamer tag and my kind of my

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Speaker 1: other accounts. They don't want to be all right, you

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Speaker 1: want to want to be recognized.

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Speaker 2: Well, keep you anonymous. So the first question I got

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Speaker 2: to ask is was it her first.

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Speaker 1: I'm Spanish, so we call everybody like cousin, but like

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Speaker 1: her mom's brother's kid.

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Speaker 2: Okay, her mom's brother's kid. So that's that's a that's

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Speaker 2: a first cousin. That's a first cousin. Yeah, yuck. How

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Speaker 2: did did you like see that relationship developing from the beginning?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, so I knew I knew it was

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Speaker 1: a weirdo since I was like nine, Like our parents

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Speaker 1: are immigrants and we all met up with this like

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Speaker 1: cultural dance thing. So we had been like dancing in

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Speaker 1: the same troup for like eleven years. But I've known

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Speaker 1: her for like thirteen. Well now I'm thirty, so I've

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Speaker 1: found her for like over twenty years now. But like

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Speaker 1: we need to try to We were diapers, so her

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Speaker 1: cousin used to be like kind of like shy, and

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Speaker 1: he would try to like hit on other girls in

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Speaker 1: the group, and every time he got rejected, she'd be like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, it's okay, and give her a hug,

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Speaker 1: give him a hug and whatever. And then she just

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Speaker 1: then like, oh my goodness, one day when they're so cringe,

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Speaker 1: it's so so and then it's so fucking like I

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Speaker 1: She's like cool, she's an only child. Maybe she like

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Speaker 2: And I was like, your brother, like that, no fucking gloss,

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Speaker 2: and oh my god.

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Speaker 1: And then when she was like I think like sixteen

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Speaker 1: or seventeen. At this point, She's like, if my virginity

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Speaker 1: and we were all like okay, why was okay, We're

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Speaker 1: not that close. We're just in the same dance group.

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Speaker 3: But whatever.

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Speaker 2: She's like announcing it on a manner, tweeting it out,

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Speaker 2: making a cake grow.

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Speaker 3: She put it on Facebook.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, I was joking. Yikes.

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Speaker 4: Yea.

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Speaker 1: Then we did like not add our parents to our

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Speaker 1: She had like I don't know, she had all of

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, whatever. And then we find out

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Speaker 2: I was like, did she brag about that happened?

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Speaker 3: I told my mom?

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Speaker 2: Was she like, yeah, my cousin's pretty hot. Is she

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Speaker 3: I don't know he is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I don't think he well, he was twenty

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Speaker 1: A lot of people say that, yeah he was twenty

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Speaker 1: the Armed Forces. He was like in the Air Force too,

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Speaker 1: so I guess you could say he was like built.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's because I personally know him.

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Speaker 3: I don't find him hot.

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Speaker 1: But other people say that he is so typically attractive.

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Speaker 2: has it's still weird. It's still weird. And also the

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Speaker 3: He really is.

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Speaker 1: And so once I found that out, I went straight

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Speaker 1: I don't feel safe.

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Speaker 2: So this is when you cut it off with that friend.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I was just like, I to fuck that, I'm out,

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Speaker 1: And I was just like, that sucks that she has cancer.

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Speaker 2: And did any of the other boyfriends know.

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Speaker 1: Like everyone in dance class knew, And everyone just shut

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Speaker 1: We find out she has cancer. So now everybody is like, oh, no,

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Speaker 1: we have to supporter her. Like everyone's being fake nice

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Speaker 1: to her, like, oh yeah, it was always her friend.

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Speaker 1: I'm a childhood friend or whatever. My mother comes out

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Speaker 1: all like, oh yeah, you should really support her, she's

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Speaker 2: Did she Was she ever like mean to you? Like

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Speaker 2: obviously weird, but was she ever mean to you? Because like,

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Speaker 2: did she ever like like do anything? Gosh?

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Speaker 1: Never, Like we were forced to go to each other's

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Speaker 1: I don't like that she like cheated on my friends

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not good moral character. Have you so questions? So

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Speaker 2: like since she you found out she has had cancer,

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Speaker 2: have you like reached out to her at all?

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Speaker 3: No, that's weird.

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Speaker 1: Every time my mom was like, you should go visit her,

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Speaker 1: you should go to a fund raiser, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I hope she's okay, but no, I don't want anything

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Speaker 3: That's weird.

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Speaker 1: I'm not No, I'm not down with that.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Do you want your verdict of whether you're the asshole?

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Speaker 1: Or not, but for give me my verdict. She did

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Speaker 1: be cancer, so oh.

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Speaker 2: She'd be cancer cancer. Okay, it does not change the verdict.

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Speaker 2: I do not think you're the asshole as long as

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Speaker 3: As long as you wait for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as long as you're just like, I don't want

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Speaker 1: She did when her mom found out because I obviously

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so she was mad that she got found out.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just like, okay, yeah, okay, call me a bitch,

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Speaker 1: but I'm at least I'm not fucking my cousin.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean I do. I do not think

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Speaker 2: not to post to fuck your cousin. You're not an adult, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't think you're the asshole, and I am sorry

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Speaker 1: Oh, like, I can't even like give the state because

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Speaker 1: this is like a story in our newspaper, in our towel.

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Speaker 2: Like woman with cancer cousin.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like the whole cancer story because they had

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, did she get better with

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Speaker 2: that she was really close to.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just because everyone felt bad that she had.

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Speaker 2: Cancer, right, yeah, fair, fair, fair, like her.

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Speaker 1: Mom her mom was like so nice, so like everybody

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Speaker 1: knew her since you were in diapersening And I was like, okay,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess, you know, I guess cancer might cancel

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Speaker 2: out fucking her cousin. It's like a little reverse who know,

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Speaker 2: get out of fucking your cousin free card? Well, uh,

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Speaker 2: the nasty. Thank you so much for calling it and

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Speaker 2: sharing your story. I really appreciate it, and if you

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Your show is like amazing.

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Speaker 1: I love watching you guys have a great Halloween.

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Speaker 3: Hope you guys are proud of me for pretending to

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Speaker 2: I mean it's a mean spirit, it's a little beads

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Speaker 3: Show Shut the Front Door.

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Speaker 2: How's it going.

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Speaker 3: Really well? I was like, I cannot believe I'm hearing

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Speaker 2: So my big question is do you still have the Xbox?

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Speaker 2: Why did you want him?

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Speaker 3: Like I didn't expect this from you, and then told

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Speaker 2: Why did you want him back? Like? Like, were you

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Speaker 2: You're in the distortion field, like you don't you don't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, uh, I mean this kid would lie

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's probably telling you like a half.

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Speaker 3: Oh for sure for her, maybe even a porter who knows.

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Speaker 2: How did you give back the Xbox? Or like, like,

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Speaker 3: Well? His sister is my best friend and she has continued.

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Speaker 2: Complicated.

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Speaker 3: Sorry I forgot to mention that after we broke up,

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Speaker 3: prove to me that our friendship was stronger than that

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Speaker 3: and we would never not be friends. Wow, it's been

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Speaker 3: seven years and we're still we're still best friends.

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Speaker 3: This happened seven years ago?

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Speaker 2: Yes, wow, and really, like do you see your ex

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Speaker 3: The only time I see him is her son's Oh sorry,

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Speaker 3: So I do see him once a year. Yeah, how

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Speaker 3: is that? And he is? He is still a pos

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Speaker 3: So I win, you win.

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Speaker 2: You got out of the relationship just in time. But

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Speaker 2: I am sorry for the sorry sap that picked him

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Speaker 2: up off the street that you dumped him. So you asked, no, no, no, I've.

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Speaker 3: Got a story about her. She deserves him. She reached

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Speaker 3: out to me and told me, and we kind of

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Speaker 3: and then then she took him back again, said some

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Speaker 2: Wait, so she was the other woman.

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Speaker 3: She wasn't the other woman, but she was the other woman.

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Speaker 3: He had two rebounds and this was the second one. Wow,

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Speaker 3: then when he was with this chicki's with now called

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Speaker 3: I was very vulnerable. This was only a few months

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to do, and I was why

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Speaker 2: This is so, I am glad that you've exited that relationship.

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Speaker 2: So uh, you asked me if I'm proud of you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I'm petty to a fault, but I'm not

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Speaker 3: I'm not mean.

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Speaker 2: Well, I appreciate you calling in, and I'm I'm glad

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Speaker 3: Why thank you? I mean, my life has been a

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Speaker 2: Wow, that was a roller coaster of a sentence. How

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Speaker 2: are you doing?

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Speaker 3: I'm good. I'm banging a bodybuilder. It really helps you

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Speaker 2: Oh man? Is it? Is it?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 2: Can he like hold a hot dog?

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Speaker 3: Can I hold a hot dog?

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Speaker 2: And he hold a hot dog? Because you know, like

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Speaker 2: like bodybuilders can get so big where they just can't

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Speaker 3: He can't scratch his back.

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Speaker 2: You can't scratch Wow, he's huge, like.

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Speaker 3: Like beans, Like he's like a bear. You know what

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad you're doing well. Keep working out with

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Speaker 2: that bodybuilder, give him the cardio he needs, and thanks

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Speaker 2: for calling it it. Please call in a guy with

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Speaker 2: more stories if you have them, and I will talk

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Speaker 2: to you soon.

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Speaker 3: Oh, thank you, guys. I can't appre I can't say

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Speaker 2: Well, I appreciate you call it. Talk soon.

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Speaker 3: Love you guys, Love you too.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I am.

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Speaker 4: Because he cheated with my best friend after she'd moved

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Speaker 4: bedroom together on my bed, on my cheek, and I

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00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,959
Speaker 4: lost it. I called my family, and my uncle, my sister,

441
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 4: my mom, my cousin, and my other uncle all pulled up.

442
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 4: We packed everything from the toilet paper I bought, to

443
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,679
Speaker 4: the tooth brushes to the food in the kitchen. I

444
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 4: even took the microwave. His mom showed up freaking out.

445
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 4: It was a big hold situation. And then I had

446
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 4: gotten him a dog and she was on my service note,

447
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 4: but the dog was for him, so I allowed him

448
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 4: to keep her. And my property management called me and said,

449
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 4: you've got to come get this dog or I'm gonna

450
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,760
Speaker 4: have to report you to animal control because the conditions

451
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 4: he's leaving this dog in is unhealthy. So I rush

452
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 4: over there. She lets me in the apartment. I go in,

453
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 4: I get my all, my non German shepherd. She was

454
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,400
Speaker 4: a beautiful dog. I have pictures if you want one.

455
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 4: And I get her and I and I pull her out.

456
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 4: The kennel's filled with diarrhea. It's all horrible conditions, and.

457
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 3: I freak out and I was like, what the fuck

458
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:42,920
Speaker 3: is wrong with you?

459
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,199
Speaker 4: And yeah, so let me know if you want to

460
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 4: do a story time on it or react to it.

461
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 3: I don't know, all right, Hi?

462
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 2: What an absolute piece of shit? Also, who does that

463
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 2: do a dog? Great present? Bad owner? Oh okay, Like

464
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 2: someone who takes care of a dog like that has

465
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: got to have red flags, right like? Well, as we

466
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 2: always say, there show like there must have been red

467
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 2: flags before this moment. So I'm gonna call and see

468
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 2: if there were red flags. Hello, Hey, this is Sam

469
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 2: from the Okop Show. Oh hey, how's it going? Very well?

470
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: My question is, so I listened to your voicemail and

471
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 2: was listening to the conditions that he left your gift

472
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 2: dog to him in and someone who like treats a

473
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 2: dog like that, Like there has to be red flags

474
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 2: before that point, and so what were the red flags?

475
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 2: Like now out of the reality disorce and field of

476
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 2: the relationship, Like do you look back, You're like, oh shit,

477
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 2: I totally ignored that thing. Were there any red flags

478
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 2: that you saw before that or you didn't see before that?

479
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 2: You see? Now?

480
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 4: My red flags with it was we were in a

481
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,360
Speaker 4: relationship for seven years, yeah, and it was like kind

482
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 4: of sketchy the whole time, like like, you know, I

483
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 4: made mistakes in the beginning and I cheated while he

484
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 4: was at a job court and we kind of like

485
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 4: moved past it after a while. Yeah, and then it

486
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 4: just like happened all over again with his end with

487
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 4: the female and so like I didn't really I had

488
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 4: my dog, so like I didn't see any like aggression

489
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 4: towards animals. So yeah, it was just like person to person,

490
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 4: you know. Yeah, but it's hard.

491
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 2: For me to really like, yeah, to like see that

492
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 2: like that he would do that, So there was no

493
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 2: other beforehand there besides like uh like like like it

494
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: doesn't we were there any red flags beforehand or no.

495
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 4: When I first met him, he was completely normal really

496
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 4: like I didn't have really yeah, like it didn't really

497
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 4: like show like the craziness until like we moved in

498
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 4: together and I kind of just like started to watching

499
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 4: everything unfold and everything, And.

500
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 2: I feel like moving in together is like one of

501
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 2: those steps where you get to really see like who

502
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: someone is. Because if you're going on dates and stuff,

503
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: it's like you're seeing like the best of them. But

504
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 2: when you are living with them like many hours of

505
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 2: the day like now now now they can't really like hide,

506
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 2: like you get to see, like, all right, who is

507
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: this person? Actually? What? What were some of the things

508
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 2: that came up when you started living together? Besides obviously

509
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 2: the big thing.

510
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 4: Just a lot, honestly, there was the screaming matches, and

511
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 4: then like the wall smashing and on tom night, because

512
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 4: I was still in high.

513
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 2: School, what he smashed walls?

514
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, well not smashing, but like punching holes in them, you.

515
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,639
Speaker 2: Know that's smashing.

516
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, I mean I'm thinking like floodgehammer smashing, you know,

517
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 4: like taking it down tide thing. I guess, well, if.

518
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 2: He was doing that, but it'd be like a job

519
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 2: or it would be like a working man. But no,

520
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 2: this is with his fence. That's crazy.

521
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, So like there was that, and then like I

522
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 4: was still in high school when we first got together,

523
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 4: so like well and all the way up until like

524
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 4: so we moved in on our own into an apartment

525
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 4: and uh, because I left my house at seventeen, my parents'

526
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 4: house and moved in and so we were like Tom Knight, right,

527
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 4: him and his brother are getting into a fight. His

528
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 4: brother is younger than them, and he's bigger than him.

529
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 4: They like pinned him against the wall and I like

530
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 4: trying to pull him off, and he like punched me

531
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 4: right in my mouth broke.

532
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

533
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 4: It was bad. Yeah, but it was just like in

534
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 4: the heat of the moment, he didn't realize and I'm

535
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 4: not trying to like make an excuse for him, but

536
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 4: like I could understand it, you know, like it just

537
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 4: got that tunnel vision when you're in those moments. Yeah,

538
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 4: it was still intense.

539
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, that feels that feels red flagging

540
00:26:56,320 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 2: to me, Well, I also was curious, you said, he

541
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: just like looked at you and it was like we're done.

542
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 2: Was there any follow up or did he just leave?

543
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 4: No? No, not at all, not at all. Like he

544
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 4: literally like walked into the house, I'm breaking up with you,

545
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 4: walked to the room, and I like followed him. I

546
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 4: was like, what the fuck? And did he locked the

547
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 4: bedroom door? And it's not like one of those ones

548
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 4: like hows the keyhole or anything like, it's like one

549
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 4: of those pinhole locks, you know, like you have to

550
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 4: like get a bobby pin to like poke at it

551
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 4: to try and break it open or use a credit

552
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 4: card and just stupid. So I just like left on

553
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 4: the couch with my dog. Is like twenty minutes later,

554
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 4: he walked out started up his jeep, and then she

555
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 4: walked out of her room right behind him. They both

556
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 4: went and got in the car.

557
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,479
Speaker 2: That's such a way I found out that they went

558
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 2: to the bar and could not like say anything to you,

559
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 2: Like honestly, it's super coward like like have the fucking conversation,

560
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: you know, like at the very least.

561
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 4: And like and like he didn't have a job for

562
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 4: multiple years, Like I got like help from the state

563
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 4: because I wasn't mine, and I did like my my parents' household,

564
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 4: you know, like I got help from the state, so

565
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 4: like our rint was guaranteed like every month. And then

566
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 4: I also got child sports. Like I said, I'm a

567
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 4: miner at the time, so I was collecting my dad's

568
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 4: child sport I was getting, you know, So I had

569
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 4: money and I was working, so like he had didn't work.

570
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 4: And then when I lost my help from the government

571
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 4: because I start in age, he didn't start working. And

572
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 4: when he did, he'd only keep a job for like

573
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 4: two months and then like the ball right there, So

574
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 4: I had to fix that, you know, like he wouldn't

575
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 4: even pick me up from work at night, Like I

576
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 4: would still take the bus brote like walk from the

577
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 4: bus stop like fifteen minutes down this creepy dark road.

578
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 2: Oh, he wouldn't even be and he didn't have a job.

579
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 2: What is he doing all day?

580
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 4: Battlefield one?

581
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 2: Okay, great game though, Oh great game. I'm so sorry.

582
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 2: So are they still together?

583
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 4: So after I found it out, I literally so like

584
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 4: obviously I wake up in the next morning and find

585
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 4: them in the room together, and so like I'm screaming

586
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 4: at this point, like I'm full blown hysterical, and I'm like,

587
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 4: fuck you too, pump chump, and I was like, fuck

588
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 4: you, you splind me home, you fucking men together, And I

589
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 4: guess I had brought over another friend in the house,

590
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 4: and I didn't realize that was sleeping on the couch

591
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 4: until I woke up, obviously, but so like within ten minutes,

592
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 4: my other roommate because this is right when he was

593
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 4: leaving the house, so he's like sleeping on the couch

594
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 4: for the last few days because she had taken over

595
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 4: his room and so he was there another friend, and

596
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 4: those two were there. So our other roommate that was

597
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 4: still living there was in her room once sleeping on

598
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 4: her bed, and the friend was on the couch. And

599
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 4: then I'm on the couch, and so like I get

600
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 4: up within fifteen minutes of meeting up and seeing the

601
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 4: situation being unfold, everybody's outside and I'm still screaming, like

602
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 4: called my mom. She comes over, brings my uncle, my cousin,

603
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 4: my other uncle, my sister, and the truck and we

604
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 4: load everything up, everything from the toaster to the tole

605
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 4: of paper, like everything I had bought and everything.

606
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 3: Obviously, I left.

607
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 4: The mattress and the sheets and everything in the coffee table,

608
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 4: in the couch because I don't want anything you could

609
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 4: you probably fucked on, like I'm fucking disgusted at this point.

610
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

611
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 3: Oh, and I just left.

612
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 2: But you didn't take anything that was his or hers? Right, Okay, No.

613
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 4: I wouldn't do that. No, I didn't even take the

614
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 4: gifts I bought him because I don't want I don't

615
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 4: want any remembrance.

616
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:25,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I think only took your stuff. It's not

617
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 2: an asshole move at all.

618
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 4: Yeah. No, I didn't think I was an asshole for that,

619
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 4: you know, like I just he thought I was the

620
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 4: asshole for coming to take the dog.

621
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 2: But he was the condition, the condition he left.

622
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 4: It right because he said he said that she had

623
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 4: gotten into something spicy on the counter, and I was

624
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 4: like what, and that's why she had explosive diarrhea.

625
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 2: And then I like to try. So why wouldn't you

626
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 2: just stay.

627
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 4: Home instead of doing whatever else you were doing out

628
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 4: and not taking care of her, Like there's a dog,

629
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 4: Come on now, you don't got someone to just let

630
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 4: herself out to take a ship.

631
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 2: So where is everyone?

632
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 4: I don't want to leave my dog?

633
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 2: Yeah? So like where is everyone now?

634
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 4: After she found out that I found out and everything,

635
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 4: she didn't want nothing to do with him. Yeah, and

636
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 4: so he pretty much just like lost it.

637
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 2: And then now because of the dog thing, what was that?

638
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 2: Why did she why did she not want anything to

639
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 2: do with him?

640
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 4: Uh? From my personal opinion, probably because of the big

641
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 4: old scene I caused. Right, everybody in the whole block

642
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 4: carried me screaming that day, like blow Joe down the

643
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 4: road herd you. Yeah, because like I'm so I'm first

644
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 4: on in taekwondo, so I'm legally a deadly weapon in

645
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 4: the state of Oregon where we're at. So like I

646
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 4: had no choice but to not lay a finger on

647
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 4: anybody because if I go, if they call the costs

648
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 4: and I go to jail, it's over. I'm gritting attemptive murder,

649
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 4: assault with the deadly weapon everything because of my training. Yeah,

650
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 4: So it's really hard to be able to set that boundary,

651
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 4: and so like I just get really verbally aggressive, you know,

652
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 4: because like I had no other exert you know, like

653
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 4: if I even if I hit a wall, that stuff

654
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 4: that could be considered domestic violence. Because of my training,

655
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 4: you know, it's no an option for me.

656
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I'm glad you didn't resort to that option.

657
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 2: And so at the end she ended up leaving him too.

658
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

659
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 4: They weren't even into like an established relationship or anything

660
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 4: where they were just like a flinging thing. You know,

661
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 4: I haven't no, but I'm not sure if she has. Honestly,

662
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 4: I'm not. I stopped.

663
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 3: I cut it all off.

664
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 4: You know, I do know now that he is with

665
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 4: another lady and has a uh marriage. Actually that's why

666
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 4: one time after we broke up, one time I did

667
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 4: meet up with him because he was like blowing me

668
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 4: up for like weeks and I finally just answered and

669
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 4: I was like, what what do you want? He's like,

670
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 4: can we just meet and talk? And I was like,

671
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 4: this is the last time I'm ever seeing your face? Right,

672
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 4: And I get in there, He's like, I got spinal cancer.

673
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 4: And I was like, why do I care? What does

674
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 4: your girlfriend think you're at? Like what are you doing here?

675
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 4: Like do you expect pity from me? You got what

676
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 4: you deserved. My dad he has spinal can I walked

677
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 4: away pal cancer, so like they had to go, he

678
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 4: had to go and get like a bunch of spinal

679
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 4: taps and do like some chemo I guess or something.

680
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 4: I don't know. He was like explaining it to me,

681
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 4: but I was trying to just drink my drink and leave.

682
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh yeah, crazy.

683
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 4: And now he's got a baby with another chick and

684
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 4: they're still in the same apartment that everything went down in.

685
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Speaker 2: Ah, that apartment has some some bad spirits in it. Okay. Yeah,

686
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 2: you may be the asshole for saying you deserve cancer

687
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 2: a little bit a little bit. He's he does, he

688
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 2: deserves at a little bit a little bit there. But

689
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 2: I am so glad you exited that relationship. He sounds

690
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 2: like a piece of poop. And I feel sorry for

691
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 2: uh whoever us he he is with right now and

692
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 2: the kid. The kid, Yeah, feel bad for the kid.

693
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I told him a nice Stepdaddy cars two

694
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 4: on the wad By when I left. Oh my god,

695
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 4: we've gotten a new car because the Slazer took a

696
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 4: shit on him.

697
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Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad that you are out of that spot,

698
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 2: and I really appreciate you calling it and uh telling

699
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Speaker 2: your story. Thank you so much. This has been awesome

700
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Speaker 2: and uh, talk really soon.

701
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Speaker 4: By all right, talk to you bye.

702
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Speaker 2: That was a whirlwind of a call session. Thank you

703
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