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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Nila.

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Speaker 2: Happy Wednesday, Happy hum Day, y'all.

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Speaker 3: How you doing. I'm tipsy, me too, bitch. I'm literally

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Speaker 3: I'm drinking. What are we drinking? Glenn Livid?

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Speaker 2: This is I don't know where you got, Glenn Livid,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: This is gived it to me by someone. And actually

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Speaker 3: Sebastian came over and was.

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Speaker 1: Like, Sis, I'm so sorry, but like I took a

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Speaker 1: shot out of your Glenn Livid. I was like, Nia,

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Speaker 1: you could take this ship like what, Glenn Livid, I

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Speaker 1: don't even know I had this.

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Speaker 3: In my cabinet.

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Speaker 4: As much as I've been up over your house, up

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Speaker 4: in all your cabinets, I've never seen the twelve, the

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Speaker 4: Glenn Lovett twelve year old because mostly old men drink it.

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Speaker 2: But tonight, so are my Scotch Whiskey's single mall.

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Speaker 1: I mean it tastes great. I actually had a ginger beer.

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Speaker 1: My poetry Bay brought some ginger beers.

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Speaker 5: Thank god.

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Speaker 1: And I would never have these fine you know, chasers

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Speaker 1: in my home, but here they.

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Speaker 2: Are what he bought Glenn love it too.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he probably did. He's like a refined

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Speaker 1: as type of that's a new drink that's been here.

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Speaker 3: But because I would never drink Glen Living, you know,

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Speaker 3: metequila type of girl.

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Speaker 2: The only whisky you had is your dad's old school and.

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Speaker 3: I've literally had that maybe since twenty twelve.

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Speaker 1: In my liquor cabinet. He had a liquor company. I

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Speaker 1: think it's expired now, it doesn't even exist anymore.

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Speaker 3: Actually it was in partnership with Ludacris.

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Speaker 6: So random.

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Speaker 2: But your dad and Ludacrous, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: They're both country ass motherfuckers.

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Speaker 1: They I had a thing at some point my dad

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Speaker 1: attached himself from Gamy bottles and then they were done.

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Speaker 4: Those are amazing country It was a country something, country something.

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Speaker 4: I took a bottle once. And also it's like that's

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Speaker 4: great bragging rights. I wish like my dad had a

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Speaker 4: whiskey with Ludacrous.

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Speaker 3: It failed. Well, it's so cool, still like that a tidbit.

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Speaker 3: Nobody else's well.

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Speaker 1: God shouts my dad. Shout out to daddy. You know,

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Speaker 1: you know you get first, you don't succeed, get to

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Speaker 1: back up and try again. The great words of a

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Speaker 1: Leiah I'm just saying, it's just the really thing you

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Speaker 1: should live by, those those words.

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Speaker 3: I can't be liable for anything. I'm saying. This is

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Speaker 3: leave me alone.

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Speaker 6: Okay, dicycle.

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Speaker 3: So we're drunk, but our guests are not, thank God.

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Speaker 4: Yet We're joined tonight by very special guests the Clit

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Speaker 4: Talk Podcast, Lindsey Sugar and Katie.

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Speaker 3: Hey, ladies, Hello.

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Speaker 5: Thanks for having us.

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Speaker 2: You guys are hilarious.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for joining us. Sorry we're not sober, but you know,

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Speaker 3: this is what happens when you do remote work. It's quarantined.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, is it Saturday or Tuesday? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: My daughter's been gone all. My daughter's gone till next Friday.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, I got all.

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Speaker 3: My daughter has not.

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Speaker 2: Been gone since last Okay, well but I've been gone.

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Speaker 3: I haven't seen her in a week. And my baby

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Speaker 3: guy is saying so much, cursing out, and I you know,

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Speaker 3: I just feel like the man in the situation. I

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Speaker 3: just feel like, shut the fuck up, like I mostly

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Speaker 3: have her all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I'm doing work over here, So I hope

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Speaker 2: this never comes back to haunt me in court like.

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Speaker 3: Podcast talking about you didn't see her for a.

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Speaker 6: Week, she's fine and she dead. Also, you have her

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Speaker 6: most of.

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Speaker 3: The time, right and the majority of the time.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so tell us because we're obviously talking about a momhood.

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Speaker 3: I know, Katie your mom. What about you guys, Lindsay

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Speaker 3: and Sugar.

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Speaker 2: So I am I am a not a mom.

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Speaker 7: I have been a step mom in past relationships, and

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Speaker 7: I'm an auntie but no no kids yet for me,

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Speaker 7: but really want them.

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Speaker 8: Take your time, honestly and truly, here's where Here's where

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Speaker 8: I'm at. This is where I'm at.

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Speaker 6: I realized, I'm like, fuck, you.

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Speaker 8: Know, if I have a kid, like I have to

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Speaker 8: have it like when Lindsay has it, like like it'll

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Speaker 8: be close to child like age to Katie. Like I'm

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Speaker 8: I'm decline to raising a child by myself and noting

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Speaker 8: with my friends like I'm not trying to like like

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Speaker 8: I already was saying, but I'm like, god, damn if

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Speaker 8: like Lindsay gets pregnant, like what am I gonna do

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Speaker 8: for a year? And then I was like, all right,

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Speaker 8: clearly I gotta be pretocative and like time it correctly

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Speaker 8: in time with Katie.

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Speaker 2: So Katie's second baby.

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Speaker 8: But actually, as I'm sitting here sipping on my supporo beer.

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Speaker 6: I really just want to say that I'm open to it.

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Speaker 3: In the past.

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Speaker 5: Katie until she met Cooper.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's true. This child's.

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Speaker 2: Baby, Cooper's Katie's baby.

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Speaker 6: That's her little baby.

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Speaker 2: Cooper is my son.

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Speaker 6: He just one.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But but Sugar, you wouldn't you might be.

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Speaker 1: But did you see how Sugar just took a drink

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Speaker 1: of that when she you mentioned your son, she was like,

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Speaker 1: I like him.

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Speaker 8: But that was.

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Speaker 2: The other thing is is Sugar sitting here saying like

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Speaker 2: I don't want to do it alone, like you do

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Speaker 2: have a husband, Sugar, you're married, really be doing it alone.

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Speaker 5: Let me tell you something from what I can see.

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Speaker 8: From what I can see, this man's about to fall

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Speaker 8: into the patriarchal world order bothering. I can see it now,

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Speaker 8: I can see it. This ain't going to be no

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Speaker 8: modern family. Like I'm like, and I'm just you know,

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Speaker 8: I don't know, and we'll go into it probably, but

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Speaker 8: I really do just around the whole gender identity conversation,

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Speaker 8: like I I know, like I'm like a fem boss

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Speaker 6: But but like on a lot of ways.

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Speaker 8: Like sometimes I like, you know, just don't fully connect

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Speaker 8: with the idea of like being a mom, and I

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Speaker 8: in my uh like femininity of like what does it

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Speaker 8: mean like if I'm like a woman that doesn't want kids,

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Speaker 1: Like, right, that's fine, you know, I think I too,

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Speaker 1: Like we're constantly fed this information or this idea that

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Speaker 1: like our our initiation into womanhood begins with motherhood.

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Speaker 3: And it's just not the truth.

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Speaker 1: It's not the truth, and it's not this like civic

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Speaker 9: So my husband married me knowing that I may never

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Speaker 9: want kids, and I waited up until I was almost

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Speaker 9: thirty five before I decided that I did, and I

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Speaker 9: was lucky enough to get pregnant right away. So mad's

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Speaker 9: I think you're sitting pretty at like twenty six?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you fine, You're good.

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Speaker 6: I'm I'm twenty one years old, and.

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Speaker 7: I'm I'm thirty four, and I just left a four

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Speaker 7: year relationship about a year ago because four years and

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Speaker 7: he decided he changed his mind about wanting to have kids.

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Speaker 2: So I was like thanks for wasting my early thirties,

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Speaker 3: What area he decided he didn't want to have kids

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Speaker 3: and that was the deal breaker in your relationship? Then?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah? And that remember me talking about being a stepmom.

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Speaker 7: That was the relationship where he had three kids that

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Speaker 7: was freaking three years old when I met her, And

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Speaker 7: so that was the most devastating part of that breakup

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Speaker 2: Being a stepmom is such a weird thing.

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Speaker 6: I can only imagine.

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Speaker 3: I can imagine that it would be really hurtful that

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Speaker 2: This and like hello, I'm like, just give me one

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Speaker 2: right yeah, yeah, yeah, And that was like the.

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Speaker 7: Promise that from the beginning of the relationship, and he

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Speaker 2: I was like, fuck you, I'm out. Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's a lot.

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Speaker 4: I mean in his defense, not in his defense, but

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Speaker 4: not in his defense only because I'm the one with

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Speaker 4: the vagina. I can see for me like I have

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Speaker 4: I'm dating someone and they're like really want kids, They're older,

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Speaker 4: significantly older than me, and I'm like, yeah, I want

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Speaker 4: to have another kid. But then, like I can see

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Speaker 4: you being like, oh yeah, but like I did it,

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Speaker 4: Like you've had three what's one more? You've been with

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Speaker 4: this person for the last three four years saying this

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Speaker 4: is what you're going to do, like and you don't

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Speaker 3: But I think it's not really about the persons. It

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Speaker 3: is about like do I really want to go?

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Speaker 4: I think it's I think it's the we call it

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Speaker 4: for us, we call it post traumatic baby daddy disorder.

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Speaker 2: But maybe he's experiencing it the other way.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't traumatic baby disorder.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm that defense.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think he basically started having a

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Speaker 2: midlife crisis.

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Speaker 7: And look, I think it's super valid if you have

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Speaker 7: three kids and you don't want to have more, Just

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Speaker 7: don't waste four years of my life figuring it out when.

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Speaker 2: I definitely want kids and you've known that from day one.

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Speaker 2: Fat Yeah, yeah, my clit.

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Speaker 1: But speaking of clits, can you tell our listeners a

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Speaker 1: little bit about clip talk what you guys lady are

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Speaker 1: doing over there, how you guys met, how this came.

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Speaker 5: To be.

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Speaker 3: So met?

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Speaker 7: Speaking of Sugar's marriage, we met, We all, well, we did,

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Speaker 7: we met, we were friends before, but the whole.

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Speaker 2: Idea of this came at Sugar's bachelorette party, right, yeah.

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Speaker 2: And our cast originally was like nine women.

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Speaker 7: Originally, and it was really it was like conversations amongst

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Speaker 7: nine women. And then you know they've all moved on

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Speaker 7: to their lives in different ways and gone off to

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Speaker 7: do great things and it's just.

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Speaker 6: The last three standing.

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Speaker 3: Now, were those all the women at the bachelor party? No,

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Speaker 3: pretty much, pretty much kind of kind of talking to

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Speaker 3: nine bitches every week.

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Speaker 5: It was like it was a lo on steroids.

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Speaker 3: Actually, I don't care about your problem.

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Speaker 9: In the beginning, it really did work because we were

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Speaker 9: a book club and we were reading this book called

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Speaker 9: Pussy a Reclamation, and we are conversations. We'd call in

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Speaker 9: and they'd be recorded, and we were like, oh, if

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Speaker 9: could resonate for other people. So everyone had a really

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Speaker 9: The ky jelly is great, and really you kind of

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00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:35,159
Speaker 9: want to you start slow, So what's the question, how

448
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:36,639
Speaker 9: do you warm warm up?

449
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Speaker 1: Any tips on when it comes to doing anal with

450
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,120
Speaker 1: a toy to open your whole before the real thing.

451
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Speaker 3: Basically, just how do you prepare for anal sex?

452
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 1: What's the best way to prepare with a toy with

453
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: the toy, because I've heard people like some people will

454
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Speaker 1: put in the toy all day to like get ready.

455
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 6: For the act.

456
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Speaker 9: Well, Riley talks about that in the episode how she

457
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Speaker 9: like warms it up. But it really I remember what

458
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 9: she said, and what I've done is really taking your

459
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 9: time and having the good lube and allowing your asshole

460
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 9: to basically open naturally. So you go really slow in,

461
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 9: really slow out, and then incrementally make it deeper and

462
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 9: deeper until you I'm imagining an anal plug until you

463
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 9: it pops in at the end and that's when you

464
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 9: really kind of get the most sensation. But it it's

465
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Speaker 9: like big at the end, and then it's kind of

466
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Speaker 9: narrower and that's how it stays in.

467
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Speaker 11: It's like.

468
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Speaker 3: Shaped right.

469
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Speaker 2: Well, she's kind of like yeah, and then they have yeah,

470
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Speaker 2: I can, I can bust.

471
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Speaker 8: I do too.

472
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Speaker 2: Hold on, let me grab my sextura.

473
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Speaker 7: So Riley talks about like instead of putting like pushing

474
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Speaker 7: it in, she talks about like almost like allowing your

475
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,199
Speaker 7: asshole to pull the toy in, like almost like your

476
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 7: asshole is swallowing the toy instead of shoving in there,

477
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 7: like let your asshole pull it in. And then she

478
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 7: talked about how she would literally before a shoot, she

479
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 7: would like wear it the night before and like watch

480
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 7: Netflix like like like yeah and Rock and kind of

481
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 7: stretch and she would start with a small toy and

482
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 7: work her way up to the big one because she

483
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 7: was doing like corn.

484
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Speaker 2: Rock.

485
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 7: She would like rock with it inside of her and

486
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Speaker 7: like moving around to like get it used to like

487
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Speaker 7: the shape.

488
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 8: Instead of Netflix, and so it's like, you know, anal

489
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Speaker 8: stretching and like also.

490
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Speaker 2: Like turning around like I think I like this one.

491
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Speaker 4: No the other way because like if you're with your

492
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 4: partner and it's in that's like I've seen shipper is

493
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Speaker 4: just wearthise.

494
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 2: It's like kind of cute to have in your butthole.

495
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 6: Little spo.

496
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Speaker 8: Actually have a glass butt plug that's palladium and it

497
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 8: has a beautiful crystal at the end as well.

498
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 6: It's hot. It's sparkly back there.

499
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 2: Partner, have someone I want to squirrel tail on it.

500
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 3: We done it the squirrel tals.

501
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 6: I put it in this week my man tonight, so

502
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 6: maybe surprise.

503
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 8: Yeah, butthole got to enjoy a little squirrel butthole plug.

504
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 3: The squirrel butt.

505
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 8: Like it's like, you know, it was like a little

506
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 8: butt plug and then it has like this entire like

507
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 8: squirrel tail on.

508
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 1: You and this furry chair and then imagining this, she's like,

509
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 1: what do they call the furry babies?

510
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 6: Or like the first tell me.

511
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 3: You cosplay and you go to these conventions with like

512
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 3: latex and furry.

513
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 2: She's in a kitty play, you guys, she really is.

514
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 8: He's guess, you know, like on a little chain and

515
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 8: a leash, and like, well.

516
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 2: Yeah she does. Ok, we have to be real for

517
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Speaker 2: a second.

518
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Speaker 6: There is another prep here we haven't talked about.

519
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Speaker 8: Okay, we have terminology for how to avoid the poop situation,

520
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 8: and like the distinction poopsicle is really important what Katie

521
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 8: Katie coined this term poopsicle. So a poopsicle is exactly

522
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 8: what it sounds like. It's when ship goes wrong.

523
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 5: You're anal and you've got a poopsicle.

524
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 2: Like like there's poop all over the day.

525
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 9: Come on, all right, It's like an involuntary thing, to

526
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,479
Speaker 9: be honest, because No one's actually ever shitting on someone.

527
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 6: Yeah.

528
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Speaker 8: No.

529
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Speaker 1: When I've tried anal though, like and not been comfortable,

530
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 1: it has felt like I'm pooping.

531
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 3: Like I'm like I'm pooping.

532
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 5: You're like, for sure, Ship, there's you have to relax,

533
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 5: you can't.

534
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 7: Well, sugar has a way of avoiding this, Yeah, sugar,

535
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 7: how's what's your way of avoiding this?

536
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 6: All right?

537
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 8: Look, just from experience a solid enema the day of,

538
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 8: you know, just like get a out, just just shout out.

539
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 8: I never have anal if I didn't poop that day.

540
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to.

541
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 8: I'm not trying to, like you know, like think about

542
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 8: like a plunger, you know, I'm not trying to, like

543
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 8: not like you're if you're constipated as a great wine.

544
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 5: Roto root me please, Oh my god, I trying that you.

545
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 8: Can do an enema or like just like a laxative

546
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 8: the day before, so like I really recommend that because

547
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 8: one time I was with my friend and we were

548
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 8: doing anal play and you know, he just really casually

549
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 8: was like he's like, oh, I need to get up

550
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 8: and go to the bathroom, And I was like, what's

551
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 8: going on? He's like just a little apparently, yeah, baby, okay,

552
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 8: So like he goes, he goes, there's just a little poop.

553
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 3: And he's an anal experts.

554
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 8: So he comes back and I'm just like mortified, All right,

555
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 8: let me go.

556
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 3: I don't know who should go, but I'm confused, like yeah.

557
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 8: Exactly, and he's like he's like, Chica is normal, Like.

558
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: He starts educating me.

559
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 6: Here's epic.

560
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 9: So the one thing that I do want to say

561
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 9: with anal sex is aftercare is very important. So it's

562
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 9: actually very because once you're done and you just have

563
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 9: like all this come and it's your butt. I so

564
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 9: my husband we finish an anal every time we have sex.

565
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 9: So our whole routine is going into the shower and

566
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 9: he like we make out and he puts his fingers

567
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 9: on my butt and gets the come out and washes me.

568
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 9: And I think it's a really important part of doing anal,

569
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 9: especially if it's not something that you do all the time,

570
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 9: to really leave your partner feeling valued and not like

571
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 9: you know who experience.

572
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: It comes back unless that's your thing and you want

573
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 2: to be a dirty cut like you know what.

574
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: But it's funny you say that because the last time

575
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: that I did have anal it was with someone who

576
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: was there. It was I was it was actually like

577
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: I was impressed with myself that I could even handle

578
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: this person because he was very large, and I was like,

579
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:21,199
Speaker 1: maybe I meant for porn.

580
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 6: I should have been porn start.

581
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 3: But after that, I when he left, I did.

582
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: There was so much air in my body, like I

583
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: just felt I was farting with so much girl like every.

584
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 9: Time I pee, it was like just like Lucy after that,

585
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 9: and that is that is that's like.

586
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 2: There was so much air. It was just air.

587
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: And also that and also that I had to poop

588
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 1: so much, but like it was just it was my

589
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: poops were different after that.

590
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 3: Day and a half, Yeah, what do you mean?

591
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 8: Gets pusched in so then when like you, I don't know,

592
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 8: I feel this pain Like the next day when I poop,

593
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 8: it's like trying to go the other direction, even though

594
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 8: just it had all this other direction inward. And so.

595
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, so good example, That's exactly what it felt like.

596
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 3: And I was like what I was like, And then

597
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 3: I thought it was did he damage me?

598
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 6: I fucking damaged for life?

599
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 3: Like I did too much. I was trying to like

600
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: I was trying to Like I wasn't gonna say no,

601
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 3: I was in pain, but it was sort of good.

602
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 3: It's like a plain and pleasure thing, right, Well, they're.

603
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 8: The same coin, the side of the same coin, like

604
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 8: you know, like they're on the same side of the coin.

605
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 6: Like one side is pain, the other side is pleasure.

606
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 8: And it's about like being able to transmute pain into

607
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 8: pleasure and place and that's like.

608
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 3: My favorite place to be. Like that's like, yeah, what

609
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 3: I love the most.

610
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 5: And can I get one more tip?

611
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 4: Yeah?

612
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 5: That is really marking is two pillows.

613
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 9: You lay on your stomach, get your hot tachie vibrator

614
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 9: and lay on it so your clip's getting it, and

615
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 9: then do the anal sex.

616
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 6: And damn, really really that might be girl.

617
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 8: I would score it so hard there'd be no end,

618
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 8: like the.

619
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Speaker 5: Howel over the pill I'm so glad.

620
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you mentioned squirting. I'm so glad you

621
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: mentioned that because we obviously we had a question about that.

622
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: I am the squirre obviously obviously, girl.

623
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Speaker 2: What's up, lindsay, teach me so hard?

624
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: I kind of I started squirting at like around the

625
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: age of nineteen. I had watched porn, and I was like,

626
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: what the fuck?

627
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 8: What is this?

628
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Speaker 3: Are they painting? What's going on?

629
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: And then I always felt like during sex. I don't

630
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: know about you, but like I always felt like I

631
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: was holding back because I felt that sensation and I

632
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: would be.

633
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Speaker 3: Like, I don't know. And then like one day my

634
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 3: man just like made me.

635
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: My man at the time felt me, made me feel

636
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: so comfortable and he was just like relax, just lt

637
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: it flow, and.

638
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 6: Then it flowed, and then there's no there was no

639
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 6: going back from that.

640
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: But we've we've talked about this on our podcast and

641
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: we've had people write in and ask us what is

642
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 1: squirting and why does it feel like you're peeing when

643
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: it happens? And so I've done my research on this.

644
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 1: You know, as a squirter, initially I'd be like, I'm

645
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: not peeing, It's just not pee no way, this is

646
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 1: something different. So what is your what are you guys'

647
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: conclusions on squirting?

648
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 8: All right, here's the real po though like it is

649
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 8: a little bit of pee, it's a lot of bit of.

650
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 7: The Actually there's actually there's two different there's two different

651
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 7: things that can happen. So first of all, you mentioned porn,

652
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 7: and one of my porn star friends cued me in

653
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 7: on this, don't compare your squirting to porn because what

654
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 7: they actually do is they inject water in so that

655
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 7: it looks like this crazy thing. So don't compare yourself

656
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 7: to that. There's there can be that that kind of

657
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 7: skirting for a woman. There can also be something called

658
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 7: like gushing, which is like a release of a milky

659
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 7: white liquid that is not does not have a high

660
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 7: con tent of urine in it. Then there is the

661
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 7: more what you're used to kind of seeing in porn,

662
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 7: which is like the squirting motion.

663
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 2: There is some p in there, and that's.

664
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 7: Why it feels like that because it's it's but the

665
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 7: the white creamy liquid actually comes out of a different

666
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 7: part and that's not necessarily have a high urine count

667
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 7: in it. And that's more of if someone's like rubbing

668
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 7: your g spot and releases that pocket inside of you, right, And.

669
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Speaker 9: What that pocket is is actually there are two skiing

670
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 9: there's two glands around your your eth throw where your

671
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 9: pea comes out. They're called skien glands, and they're filled

672
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 9: with fluid that is not pee, but it is about

673
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 9: two ounces of fluid which is about like a shot glass,

674
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 9: which is actually a lot if you like throw it

675
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 9: on a bed.

676
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 5: So that's mostly what it is.

677
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 9: If as long as you've emptied your bladder out before,

678
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 9: it's mostly liquid from there.

679
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 3: And see, that's what I was telling her, is that

680
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 3: mine usually pee.

681
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, if I can if, I'm like, if it's

682
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: not like the heat of the moment, But I always

683
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: try to pee before I actually because I know that

684
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: this is a possibility for me, and I find that obviously,

685
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 1: like once a man knows that you have this capability,

686
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: it's like their fucking life mission to make it happen,

687
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: and to the point where you're like, chill the fuck out,

688
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: like stop, my clip is not a fucking DJ both.

689
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 7: Relaxed well, but technically every woman can squirt, like every

690
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 7: woman can be taught to squirre, Like it's physically possible

691
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 7: for pretty much every woman to do.

692
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 8: I have taught several women who have never scirted a

693
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 8: word to squirt with in the moment coaching, we're gonna

694
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 8: have to get together.

695
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: It's a lot of relaxing, just kind of like clearly

696
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: let go whatever that feeling is that I think most

697
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: women feel like they feel that moment where they're like,

698
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: it's that that that defining moment where it's like I'm

699
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 1: gonna hold back and I'm gonna orgasm because I'm holding

700
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: back and it feels good, or I'm just gonna fully

701
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: released and I'm gonna orgasm that way. I think a

702
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: lot of times we've been trained to not fully release

703
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: and accept the orgasm the other way, and that's why

704
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: we don't squirt.

705
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 8: This is true, true, Go ahead and go ahead, sugar, Yeah, oh,

706
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 8: thank you, this is true true. I want to bring

707
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 8: it kind of full circle to the pooping conversation. I

708
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 8: found that because we have we have twelve orgasms as women,

709
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 8: twelve and squirting is one of them.

710
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 2: Twelve different types of orgasms.

711
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:25,399
Speaker 6: Yes, thank you for the clarification.

712
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, twelve and twelve in a row if you're really lucky.

713
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 6: Definitely.

714
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 8: And one of the ways that I connected to my

715
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 8: squirt queen power was through different type of breathing and

716
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 8: a different kind of contracting of the muscles in my vagina.

717
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 1: And so.

718
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 8: It's actually it was the opposite of what I was

719
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 8: used to with like a standard orgasm, you know, like

720
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 8: I'm more of like a full body orgasm of clatoral

721
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 8: orgasm or involve me breathe. How I connect to it

722
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,320
Speaker 8: is I started breathing and pushing out like I was

723
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 8: gonna poop. So that's the connection to the whole pooping

724
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 8: anal conversation we had is like literally pushing until I

725
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:11,720
Speaker 8: feel my like rectum expanding and breathing into that space,

726
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 8: so like breathing from my really from my chest all

727
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 8: the way down, all the way down, eve until I

728
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 8: fill it in my button pushing out.

729
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 6: So when I when I coach people during a session, uh,

730
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 6: I'll be like, I want to push like you're pooping.

731
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 8: Come on ah, read out and it's hot.

732
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:33,439
Speaker 3: I mean it's no, it's true.

733
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 6: And you might even fart.

734
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 2: You might, you might.

735
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 6: Fart, Yeah, you might.

736
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 8: Like well, I have shot during I have shot like

737
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 8: a couple of times during scorting, which then brought me

738
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 8: to the like, I really need an enema even if

739
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 8: I'm not doing as.

740
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,800
Speaker 6: That part of you was engaged, like butt.

741
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 7: Before you go to a sex party A basically yeah, wait, okay,

742
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 7: so you're.

743
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 2: At a sex party when you shot sugar?

744
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 6: All right, I've been to many sex parties.

745
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 2: We've all been to sex parties together it we have.

746
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 9: I've been a one sex party and the one that

747
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 9: I went to was with them and I got pregnant there.

748
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:17,879
Speaker 2: Oh wow, oh yeah part nice.

749
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 3: Nice.

750
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 8: What we've done, though, is we've got like if we've

751
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 8: created a community as you know, as leaders to really

752
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 8: educate the you know, kind of non monogamous community, and

753
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 8: we've really rallied up really wonderful people that are aligned,

754
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 8: like we've we've actually created a new paradigm for relationships.

755
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 8: So I want to be response when we say like

756
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 8: sex party before season three, like, yeah, we were in

757
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 8: the sex party conversation and I wasn't even at this

758
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,879
Speaker 8: level of like pussy consciousness that even fucking be able

759
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:53,919
Speaker 8: to score. Okay, post season three though, it shifted from

760
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 8: like the sex party distinction to play party, which I

761
00:36:56,640 --> 00:37:00,800
Speaker 8: would say polyamory versus polly fuckery really about the intimacy

762
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 8: and the connection and the friendship and like maybe some

763
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 8: sex and so like from in that journey, then you

764
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 8: actually develop friendships, right, You make friends and you have

765
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 8: friends who are girlfriends, like friend girls who are like

766
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 8: I've never squirted, Like how do you do that? And

767
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 8: it's like next time you hang out as adults and

768
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 8: you have like an adult play date, like you like

769
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 8: as friends fucking support each other and it's like, all right,

770
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 8: we're gonna make her squirt tonight, like we knew everything

771
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 8: we can and so in the name, it's like really,

772
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 8: I'm It's like it's like a new way of relationships

773
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,280
Speaker 8: where sex can happen, but it's more about like sexual

774
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:39,439
Speaker 8: empowerment and vulnerability and intimacy. And that's where it gets

775
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 8: interesting to be able to actually even discover that one

776
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 8: of your friends is like I want to.

777
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 5: Learn how to squirt and you're like, fucking them, what

778
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 5: we could happen?

779
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 8: And it's not I gonna show you, I know how

780
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:50,360
Speaker 8: do it?

781
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 3: We need to make me a little squirt. We gotta

782
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:52,959
Speaker 3: make this happen.

783
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 2: Well yeah, you're like you're like, can you teach me?

784
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 5: And the answer is like yeah, we like act like real,

785
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 5: we got you, we're your friend.

786
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 2: Of course.

787
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 4: I feel like there should be more friendships like this.

788
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 4: I think so too, because I mean, like why do

789
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 4: we separate everything? You know, like something like it's just

790
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 4: love and intimacy and squirting.

791
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 2: And you're having sex, and I just I want to

792
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 2: be a part of your.

793
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 3: Sexual exploration to more pleasure.

794
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

795
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 4: If eric I taught me, could teach me how to

796
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 4: square in lifetime our friendship.

797
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 2: We need to do your friendship.

798
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 3: We share everything else. I think you've inspired something. After

799
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 3: we get off this call, you have a real talk.

800
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 8: Talk okay, exactly, You're gonna have a clip redefine our

801
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 8: agreements of our friendship.

802
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 9: Oh my god, it's all about setting the boundaries and

803
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 9: pushing your edges.

804
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 3: I agree. I agree.

805
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 4: In fact, me and Erica both got these anal plugs

806
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 4: from Doc Johnson, and she used hers first during masturbation

807
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 4: and she was like, oh.

808
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 11: It's so amazing, Like I used this toy plus this toy,

809
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 11: and then when I was gonna come, I pulled the

810
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 11: anal plug out of my butt and it was just

811
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 11: heightened my my orgasms so much.

812
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 4: So then I was like, oh, that sounds cool, girl,

813
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 4: Let me try, you know. So I went to try

814
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 4: the same technique, but then I forgot to pull the

815
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 4: anal plug out at climax. So after I was like,

816
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 4: oh no, like this just seems in there it was stuck.

817
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 4: I was just like, oh my god, what has she

818
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 4: told me to do? I'm calling her like you call

819
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 4: me just like I can't get it out of her.

820
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 2: I mean, eventually it came out. It just wasn't fun.

821
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 3: Yeah.

822
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 6: Oh my goddess, Oh my goddess.

823
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 7: So hey, So, just so you guys know, we've been

824
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 7: rolling for about forty minutes. I don't know if you

825
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 7: want to keep going or wrap it up or what's.

826
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 3: Your I think we can ask one more question and

827
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 3: then we'll wrap it up.

828
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: Okay, it's great, Okay, let's see. Okay, Okay, this is

829
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: a good one. So we have one last question for

830
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: you guys, and it's.

831
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 4: What I'm going over.

832
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, we have one yes, one.

833
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: Last question for you ladies, and okay, here it is.

834
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:30,479
Speaker 1: How can I tell my partner I'd like more?

835
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 3: No, this is not this is not I thought it was.

836
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 6: Hold on, this is.

837
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 3: These ones. I'm just reading past. We're not going to read.

838
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,879
Speaker 3: My partner hates four play hell?

839
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 5: I get that? Actually?

840
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 6: Oh no?

841
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 4: How do I go from back actually attracting to my

842
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 4: husband without being faded us?

843
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:54,800
Speaker 2: No? Divorce?

844
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:55,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

845
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:57,360
Speaker 2: Okay, wait, go to a play party?

846
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 6: Reclamation?

847
00:40:59,280 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: Wait?

848
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 3: Are you guys a field? Are you guys? I feel

849
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 3: like you guys are on the field. I have been

850
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 3: on field of okay, because me and my me and

851
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 3: my boyfriend are on field. I don't know if you

852
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 3: guys have had any success on that.

853
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 1: I've seen people post like parties and stuff, but I've

854
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 1: just joined during COVID, so it's still.

855
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 6: A bit different.

856
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 3: They don't have They're not like promoting parties or whatever.

857
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 3: But I was just interested what your experiences.

858
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: You don't have to answer this right now, but I'm

859
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 1: interested to know later what your experiences on that app.

860
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 3: I have questions now that we're talking about the app.

861
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 2: Have you guys do you want to not okay, this

862
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 2: is not about me.

863
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 6: Have you guys had okay?

864
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 4: Because you've had now attended or hosted, I don't know

865
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 4: what you're doing over there many play parties. Have you

866
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 4: guys had any play people who are like kind of

867
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 4: like vanilla generally and.

868
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 3: New to that world.

869
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 6: Because I feel like I want to take my boyfriend,

870
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 6: but he's so in his head.

871
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:54,839
Speaker 4: I wonder, like, I just want to know what your

872
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 4: experience was with like new people in that environment and

873
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 4: was it successful or was it like way too much?

874
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 1: Well?

875
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 2: I think that I think that like Sugar had a

876
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 2: really great distinction.

877
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,799
Speaker 7: There's sex parties and then there's like communities and friends and.

878
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 2: Like play parties that you can become a part of.

879
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 7: Like at a sex party, I would say yes, I

880
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 7: felt pressure to have sex at a play party. And

881
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 7: the way that we create our parties is really just

882
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 7: with an intention of like choose your an adventure. If

883
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 7: you just want to watch tonight, if you just want to,

884
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 7: you know, kiss, if you want to do nothing, if

885
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,360
Speaker 7: you want to leave twenty minutes, and like it's all okay,

886
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 7: like wherever you're at, and if you want to have

887
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 7: your boyfriend come into this sort of thing, like just

888
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 7: be be gentle, you know, and find a tribe of

889
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 7: people that supports like your philosophy around it.

890
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 2: Okay, well, can we all get in the group chat?

891
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 11: Yeah?

892
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 8: Wait where do you guys live?

893
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 6: Where do you guys live? We're in the valley. Wow, Yeah,

894
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 6: everybody's in the valley. The valley.

895
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 2: Ye, I'm in Venezuela. We're in the valley.

896
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 3: Nice.

897
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, we're right here.

898
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 5: Oh my god, she's really nice.

899
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 8: I'm in North Hills, just like ten minutes from Vanna's okay,

900
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 8: like quarantine, let's like, you.

901
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 6: Know, COVID test and prove it new STD.

902
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 8: Conversation and like actually, like something that Lindsay and I

903
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 8: have done is like we are with like like veterans,

904
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 8: but then we also end up being like we have

905
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 8: monogamous friends who are like want to be around us

906
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 8: and just be around like not eve because they want

907
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 8: to be normal, just because it's like eye opening.

908
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 2: They just want to be a part of the conversation.

909
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 2: It's like they're you know, they're there.

910
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 6: Guy can be friends with girls like.

911
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 8: In our in our circle, we always say it's kind

912
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 8: of funny. Like in the past, like when you text

913
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 8: the opposite sex, it's like super taboo, but like in

914
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 8: our community, it's like you'd be like texting like all

915
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 8: your homies guys or girls.

916
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 6: Like it's just how you be. Like it's not weird.

917
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 2: It's like it's very much women supporting women.

918
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, women guide conversation.

919
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 8: And what we've done is like you're like just coming out.

920
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 8: We have like little dinner parties and hangouts and like

921
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 8: funnel like psychedelic Vibes or like Wigan and Palm Springs

922
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 8: or like whatever, and like you know, see like what

923
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 8: a community looks like since you guys are fucking in

924
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 8: the valley. I mean, I think if we can do

925
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 8: it COVID responsibly, it could be like actually for you

926
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,320
Speaker 8: to just dip your ches and see what that looks like.

927
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 8: Without community, it's it's so hard. And the thing about

928
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 8: the field and like it's great to like start to

929
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 8: build and like start to aggregate people.

930
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 2: That there's if you're in.

931
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 8: Like the world where you're just kind of dating and

932
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 8: you don't start to build a community. And it took

933
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 8: us like a year, it really did. It like took

934
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 8: time to progress for our creative community. You know that

935
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 8: you could very well like make friends and all that jazz,

936
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 8: all that jizz and stuff.

937
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,240
Speaker 6: But really want all that jizz.

938
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 8: Think about that mindset of like for sustainability, like having

939
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 8: people who know each other, that know you, that are

940
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 8: going to be accountable, that know what's going on with

941
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 8: your relationships, that know what you want, that are going

942
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 8: to hold you to account, that are going to be

943
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:57,800
Speaker 8: able to be there in the room with you, and

944
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 8: like if something goes down, like put their needs and

945
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,720
Speaker 8: sexual desires aside and actually like be your friend right right.

946
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 3: Right, right, No, that's that's so important.

947
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 1: And I think it's a conversation that doesn't get had

948
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 1: when they're talking about like being open and sharing within

949
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: your relationship, and like it's always this like either it's

950
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 1: like this like hyper sexualized, secretive thing. It's not about

951
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: like in support of your relationship, it's how do I

952
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 1: enhance your relationship?

953
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 3: Or like how are we saving your relationship?

954
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: Versus like how are we gonna Like like you're like,

955
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: let's I want you guys to be the best relationship

956
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: you can.

957
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 2: Be yea, And I feel like how can I how

958
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 2: can I help you?

959
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 4: Right?

960
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 2: How can we exactly sure?

961
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,760
Speaker 7: And I were like literally having this conversation this weekend

962
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 7: Like for me, I really like you know, they have

963
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 7: this saying like it takes a village to raise a child.

964
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 2: I really think it takes a village to have a relationship.

965
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 2: I agree with that. If you're trying to.

966
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 3: Feel better, it would definitely feel better. It would definitely

967
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 3: feel better.

968
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, the feeling isolated on an island where like you

969
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: can't share and talk about things because you've talked about

970
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 1: them too much, or you're worried what somebody's gonna say,

971
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 1: like they're gonna say.

972
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's weird.

973
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 3: You shouldn't be with that person or you know.

974
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 7: Like Matt, like Sugar will be having like a breakdown

975
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 7: with her husband and then I'll be like have my

976
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 7: boyfriend like go secretly, like all right, go talk to him.

977
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 2: Like like like on her Beth like together. Yeah, yeah,

978
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 2: but like man to man.

979
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean you think that you can have every

980
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 8: conversation with your partner and not need like a third

981
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 8: person or another perspective, Like, you're crazy.

982
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 5: We bring our partners often, Oh, we do.

983
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 2: Partner you're in a relationship to now, yep. I have

984
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 2: around my friend.

985
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 6: Her boyfriend's like wizard O. This man liked being like.

986
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 8: All my nasty, all my fucking intensity, all my life

987
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 8: and sometime I feel beautiful at the end of conversation

988
00:46:59,400 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 8: with him.

989
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 6: Why are you an act? I'm at the ministry of

990
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 6: month fucking magic right now.

991
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:06,760
Speaker 3: That's amazing.

992
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 2: That's amazing.

993
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 7: No, we all, we all have really incredible partners, and

994
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 7: we brought them on the show and we've been we've

995
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 7: been really vulnerable about the break Like when the when

996
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 7: clip Talk first started, I was with the other guy

997
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 7: that I told you guys about, and so my whole

998
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,959
Speaker 7: breakthrough and everything is like out there for the world

999
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 7: to know because of clip talk, and you know, we've

1000
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 7: all shared about the breakdowns and the and the breakthroughs

1001
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 7: of our relationships and we have the guys on to

1002
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,359
Speaker 7: do cok talk episodes regularly as well.

1003
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 8: He has been has been mixing our show the entire time.

1004
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 8: We just released an episode one hundred and twenty one today,

1005
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 8: and so he is like, he's our boo, like we

1006
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 8: love Ethan. Ethan is just, he's incredible, he's just and

1007
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 8: he doesn't get paid. He doesn't and he genuinely likes

1008
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 8: our show. Like if he didn't like our show, he'd

1009
00:47:56,080 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 8: be like, like this wife, he loves to talk about you.

1010
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 8: I think he loves his wife if I loved talk.

1011
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: Her last question is okay, best way to coach or

1012
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:15,880
Speaker 1: guide someone's head game during or should it not be.

1013
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 6: During the pretzels?

1014
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 2: Though sorry, my answer would be both.

1015
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 7: Actually, I think there are subtle things I would not say,

1016
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:27,399
Speaker 7: so I've learned this the hard way.

1017
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 2: Don't say too a guy.

1018
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 7: That's too hard, that doesn't feel goad like, that's just

1019
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 7: going to totally emasculate a guy. So I would say, like,

1020
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 7: definitely have the conversation like outside of the bedroom.

1021
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 2: I really like it when you do it this way,

1022
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 2: or you can make request, but like do it way

1023
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 2: like more gentle please. Oh yeah, that's perfect, just like that.

1024
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 2: So I would say, both.

1025
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 8: Kiss it like you're kissing me.

1026
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 3: I think we get a lot of questions like this.

1027
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: I really struggled with this in a previous relationship about

1028
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: like how to talk to my partner about my needs

1029
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: and what I wanted because I always felt like were

1030
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 1: met it was really him, but like it was they

1031
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 1: were always met with such like.

1032
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:08,720
Speaker 3: Eye rolls or like emissiveness defensiveness.

1033
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: So then I became super like I don't know how

1034
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: to have this conversation with anyone, Like how the fuck

1035
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: does this happen? Like is it better to do it

1036
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: during or should we like should I, like you know,

1037
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: massage him before and like make him feel all fucking

1038
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:23,839
Speaker 1: gooey and shit so that I can be like you're

1039
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: eat pussy eating eating game as wat mega.

1040
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 8: I for the.

1041
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: So, so you guys would say that it's a it's

1042
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 1: a combination of I mean, well, Lindsay would say it's

1043
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 1: a combination of both.

1044
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 7: During Yeah, well, because I can really relate like I

1045
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 7: have been I feel like almost shamed by guys like

1046
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 7: tell me I'm too bossy in bed and all this.

1047
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 7: I do have to be honest though, like my current boyfriend,

1048
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 7: I can't say that's too hard, and he does not

1049
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 7: have a fucking problem with it. He's like it's useful information,

1050
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,879
Speaker 7: Like how mad about that? There's no ego in there

1051
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 7: for him. So I would also say, like if a

1052
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 7: guy's really being a jerk about it, that's maybe a

1053
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 7: red flag.

1054
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 3: I would Yeah, I sud I should have done that.

1055
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1056
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 8: Another thing too, like during a real big believer in

1057
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 8: positive reinforcement, so you always have like conversations outside the

1058
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 8: bedroom when there's like a change you're wanting to see,

1059
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 8: you know, and have it be a collaborative conversation and

1060
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 8: more like, you know, talking about what what you guys like,

1061
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 8: you know, what your fantasies are, what your desires are,

1062
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 8: what what you enjoy in the bedroom. Though, a great

1063
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 8: tactic I've found is actually applying positive reinforcement. So like

1064
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,320
Speaker 8: as your whatever your whatever stage of sex you're in,

1065
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 8: and whatever whatever stage of sex you're in, you can

1066
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 8: say when it's good, when there's something that feels good,

1067
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 8: you can say, oh, I like it just like that,

1068
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 8: Oh my god, what you're doing.

1069
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 6: Feels so good. Oh my god, I love the way

1070
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 6: you're stroking my clip right now.

1071
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,320
Speaker 8: Like so actually so that they can then it triggers

1072
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 8: them to in their subconscious to be like, oh, she

1073
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,879
Speaker 8: likes that. Now if the partner does ends up doing something,

1074
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 8: you know, here's you say that and then switches it

1075
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 8: up and I don't know what.

1076
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: The fas like what i'd literally just said, exted, praise

1077
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 1: your work right exactly.

1078
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 2: Now you're changing it well.

1079
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 9: And the other thing to consider is if your needs

1080
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 9: aren't being met, potentially theirs aren't either, So getting curious

1081
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 9: about what.

1082
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 5: New things that you'd like to.

1083
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,359
Speaker 9: Try, or asking, you know, is there anything that you've

1084
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 9: seen that you've always wanted to do because I'd like to,

1085
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:35,359
Speaker 9: you know, make sure that you're getting what you need.

1086
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 9: It really creates space for you to also ask for

1087
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 9: what you want, so not as a manipulation, but just

1088
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 9: so that both of you are needs are getting met

1089
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 9: in a way that's positive. Instead of being like, no,

1090
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 9: I don't like that, it's like, what, what is there

1091
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 9: anything new that you want to try? Because I'd like

1092
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 9: to try this, you know, or yeah, positive reinforcement.

1093
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 7: Yeah, there's also like sometimes for for people men or women,

1094
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 7: whoever's going down on you or non binary, it actual

1095
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 7: talking is too much for them, So you can also

1096
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 7: communicate with your body and with your moaning, you know,

1097
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 7: and just like like lean into it with your body

1098
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 7: or moan a little bit harder to let them know

1099
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 7: because sometimes I found like talking cand of overwhelm people

1100
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 7: when they're trying to concentrate. So maybe it's a more

1101
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 7: subtle communication that they can pick up on as well.

1102
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 6: You know what I like to do when I'm not

1103
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 6: enjoying it, just be dead silent.

1104
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 2: Literally you're just like it's like no, I'm just.

1105
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 7: Like bored, Like baby, what's wrong? Well you made that

1106
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 7: clip go numb and I don't feel.

1107
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're put your deck in my butt. You better

1108
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 5: be ready to come.

1109
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:00,800
Speaker 3: They're all great, great advices.

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Speaker 1: Okay, ladies, before we guys let Before we let you

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Speaker 1: guys go, we only have time for one horror story.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know if you want to like pull

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Speaker 1: and see which which one of you guys want to share,

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Speaker 1: but we have a we have a segment on our

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Speaker 1: show called horror Stories, which is basically a highly horrific

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Speaker 1: tale that's either just unbelievable, funny, maybe a little creepy,

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Speaker 1: but levete wus.

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Speaker 3: That you feel comfortable sharing.

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Speaker 6: So I'm gang banger. I'm gang bang ready. So okay,

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Speaker 6: come on, sugar, let's go all right. Cool.

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Speaker 8: So I'm hosting a play party. It's called Winter Wanderlust.

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00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 8: The house is decked the fuck out like this already.

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Speaker 3: It's a costume party and it's a play party.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, always COVID, COVID like this before COVID.

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Speaker 2: We were, we're figuring it out.

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Speaker 6: Still, we're like keeping in mind.

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Speaker 8: We'll keep us on the loop absolutely, my Valley girls.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, So where was I?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, so it's it.

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Speaker 8: We're in the North Pole and I'm like all my

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00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 8: guy friends. So I'm in a committed, no monogamous relationship.

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00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 8: We're married, We're very open. We create everything, so conversation.

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Speaker 8: We're super into like our community, friendship, intimacy, and like

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Speaker 8: not always about sex. I mean we actually really had sex,

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Speaker 8: and a lot of recent gatherings that we've had it's

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Speaker 8: just we love our friends and you know. But this

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00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 8: was this was a particular play party where like it

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00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 8: was going down, and I was like, I have one

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Speaker 8: final thing I need to do this here. And so

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00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 8: I'm with I'm at the party and like a bunch

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00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 8: of my guy friends are there, and I had this

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00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 8: moment where they're all not occupied, and I enrolled them

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00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,760
Speaker 8: all and my husband in let's go to my bedroom

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00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 8: and not to have the five of you and me

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00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 8: in my king bed and I wanted to just be

1147
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,400
Speaker 8: like a doored Okay, so this is my ultimate fantasy.

1148
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:52,840
Speaker 8: It just to have like multiple guys having on me.

1149
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:54,439
Speaker 8: I got one of my friends mastage on my feet,

1150
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:56,919
Speaker 8: I got one of my other friends dick in my mouth.

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00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 8: I got other people giving me like our massages right,

1152
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 8: my friends on after side, my husband's finger blasting me. Okay,

1153
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 8: and like remember what we talked about, let's go full

1154
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 8: circle at the beginning of the episode. Okay, So like

1155
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:09,800
Speaker 8: I didn't know that. I didn't know that, like I

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00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:11,359
Speaker 8: should be taking enemas.

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Speaker 6: Before play parties.

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00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 5: Okay, So here I am.

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00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 8: I'm in my ultimate fucking fantasy, right, ultimate fantasy. I

1160
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 8: got all these men on me, these beautiful men, and

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00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 8: my m s finger blasphemy, and I'm I just knew

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00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:27,279
Speaker 8: like squirting was about to happen, and I also could

1163
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 8: feel that there was some shit that was about to

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00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:31,280
Speaker 8: go down.

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00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 6: Come out, literal shit.

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Speaker 2: So I proceed.

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00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 8: I'm like, you know, I'm embracing the fantasy, and I just,

1168
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 8: with so much grace, slide my hand.

1169
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 6: I likely under my buttthole. I cupped it, and I'm

1170
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 6: were like the Vegas Belagio water found.

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Speaker 8: Simultaneously, a turd pops into my little hand, and I

1172
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 8: was mortified because here I am my biggest fantasy and

1173
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 8: then my ultimate fear at the same time, like.

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Speaker 2: Second jeez.

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Speaker 8: And so I'm just like I'm square, and I'm like

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00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 8: I'm good, Like this fantasy is fulfilled.

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Speaker 6: I now have.

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Speaker 8: So I look at my husband and I'm like, my friends,

1179
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:23,800
Speaker 8: all the guys are still like on me, and my

1180
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 8: husband comes next me and I'm.

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00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 6: Like, I just ship in my RD Can you clear

1182
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 6: the room? And with no reaction, this man, he's a

1183
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 6: god man.

1184
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 8: He literally is like, all right, everybody, let's give her

1185
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 8: some space, Let's clear the room.

1186
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 6: He clears the room. I'm there alone.

1187
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 8: I then kind of, you know, with my cup under

1188
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 8: my butt, like I'm roll out of it, okay, steal

1189
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 8: and I can start now. I can start to smell

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00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 8: what happened, right, I'm like, this was like on my

1191
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:56,280
Speaker 8: side there.

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Speaker 2: And I got I love that.

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00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 4: Man.

1194
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 6: I went to the bathroom.

1195
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 8: I had to wash my hands like five times, and

1196
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 8: then like, I'm not even kidding you, Like I went

1197
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 8: up to each of my guy friends at the end,

1198
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:08,720
Speaker 8: and I like totally told.

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Speaker 6: Them what happened, and they loved me so much more.

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Speaker 8: They're like the fact that you told us that and

1201
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 8: that that happened makes that twenty million times better.

1202
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 6: And I was like, I love my friends.

1203
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 3: I'm your friend now, because friends, this is good.

1204
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 2: I don't even know either.

1205
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 3: We haven't given him the chance. Got to give them

1206
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 3: a chance?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, my friend.

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00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 3: Unless I could ship in my hand and during a

1209
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 3: play session with my husband, I can ship in my

1210
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 3: hand and talk about it, you're not my friend.

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Speaker 1: And if my father listening right now, if you are cringing,

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00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: fuck you, you're my friend.

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Speaker 3: Fuck you, guys. None, unless I can shit in my hand.

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Speaker 4: After my boyfriend cold, oh my goodness, going to work out,

1215
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 4: cry and.

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00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 2: You can handle this and get the fuck out.

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00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 6: I don't become red with me.

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Speaker 1: With Sugar and with Lindsay and with fucking Katie and

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Speaker 1: Sugar is amazing fucking husban.

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Speaker 3: Then just sign off. Then I feel like.

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Speaker 6: Scene like thank you.

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Speaker 3: So that's like probably the best hoorri we've ever gotten.

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Speaker 2: That might be like the best of all twenty twenty

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Speaker 2: and twenty nineteen.

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Speaker 1: And like I said, friends, fuck you if you have

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Speaker 1: a problem with me shitting in my hand, if you

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Speaker 1: have if you're a problem with any of it, and

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Speaker 1: at this point, if you're not helping me, squirt, then

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Speaker 1: what are we doing?

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Speaker 3: After we got disconnected, me and Erica literally had a

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Speaker 3: heart to heart like on.

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Speaker 6: Oh, we need to go over there. You're coming out.

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Speaker 3: There are type of people. It's my tribe.

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Speaker 6: Clearly they are my tribe.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to get over there.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, you guys, thank you so much for coming on.

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