1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: All right, FJ and Steve Harvey FM says. Out of 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: high school, I went to a good college, but got 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: sick of it after two years, so I dropped out 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: and went to a technical school for welding. I really 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 1: like that, but after six months of working for a 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:19,319 Speaker 1: local welding shop, I was over it. I found a 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: job in medical equipment sales and it paid pretty well, 8 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: but in less than a year I was tired of 9 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: all the travel and visiting doctors' offices, so I switched 10 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: to a job selling pool accessories that's close to my house. 11 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: So now it's been over five years since I graduated 12 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: high school, and I've had five totally different jobs, none 13 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: of which I've been happy with, and I'm ready to 14 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: move on to something new. Is there something wrong with me? 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: Why can't I wrong? 16 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: It's nothing wrong with you. Just not live in your passion. 17 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 2: You're not living your dream. 18 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: You had a lot of jobs, right, Steve. 19 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, and none of them I was happy with, 20 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 2: none of them. Until you find out the two most 21 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: important days of your life. For the day you're born, 22 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 2: in the day you discover why. Until you discover that day, man, 23 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 2: you're gonna be swimming you're just gonna be swimming and 24 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: you're gonna feel like you're drown me. You're gonna go 25 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: from job after job after job because you keep going 26 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 2: after the job for the wrong reason. Closer to your house, 27 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 2: medical sales, pool sales. What do either one of them 28 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 2: had to do with anything? Then? You was a welder. 29 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 2: I used to work on the Symbily line. I sold 30 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 2: Shacklee products. I sold Dick Gregory Bohemian died. I sold Amway. 31 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 2: I worked for Commonwealth Insurance Company. I worked for gener Electric. 32 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: I worked for Lincoln Electric. I worked for Ford Motor Company. 33 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: I was in a struggle man, just boun because I 34 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: was not. I had a corpet cleaning company on the 35 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: re of joint look man, and until you obey your 36 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 2: God given gift, until you do what you are gifted 37 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 2: to do, you will never ever be. You will forever 38 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: be in search of it. You have got to discover 39 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 2: your gift and get involved in it. Now, what you 40 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 2: do with your for a living is it should be 41 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 2: tied to your gift. If your gift is teaching, and 42 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 2: you become a teacher, you'll be satisfied as a teacher, 43 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 2: not just saying it won't be challenging as a teacher, 44 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 2: and it will be. It's been challenging being in an 45 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: entertainment It's been also challenging. Had a guy the other 46 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,399 Speaker 2: day tell me he'll never forget the day I fired him. 47 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 2: He'll never forgive me for that. Look, man, you know 48 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 2: how many shows I have had counseling. You fired me. 49 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: You ain't even give me a good reason you got fired. Dog, 50 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 2: I ain't won't pay you no more. I sure read dog? 51 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: What what what? 52 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: What? What? What? What? 53 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 2: Now? You're gonna you go? I'm standing on that one. 54 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 2: Stay there, don't stay there. Working for me wasn't in 55 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 2: your best interest. I just saw interview somebody sent me 56 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 2: eighty five South and they was talking to Carlos and 57 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: he was talking about how they used my studio for 58 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: two years without me knowing, and when I found out, man, 59 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 2: I let him keep using it. He said, it was 60 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 2: a big start for them. You know, they found they purposed, 61 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 2: they gift. That's what you gotta do, man. So bruh, 62 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 2: it ain't nothing wrong with you. It's just you're not 63 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: pursuing what God created you to be. And until you 64 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 2: do that, you will forever be miserable brother. 65 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 1: That's great. 66 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 2: Sad thing is so many people live their entire lives 67 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: that way. 68 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one. This is 69 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: from Terry on Facebook. He says, my dad and I 70 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: weren't close and he was actually not a good person. 71 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: But he passed away a few months ago, and I 72 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: just heard from an uncle that I've never met that 73 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: he left me property in Kentucky. I have no desire 74 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: to live in Kentucky, and knowing what I know about 75 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: my dad, i'm a little that I've heard about his family. 76 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm highly skeptical about this gift. I don't have much 77 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: money or time to travel to Kentucky or any money 78 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: to hire a lawyer. How can I make the most 79 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: of the situation without it costing me or risking getting 80 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: myself caught up into some scam? 81 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 2: Hey, bro, listen to me without it costing you. That's 82 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 2: now what's going to happen. Everything cost I don't care 83 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: what you choose to do, that's going to be a 84 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 2: cost with it. Get out your comfort zone. Man. You 85 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 2: may discover something that your father did something decent for you. 86 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 2: Stop speculating that everything is wrong. You need to research 87 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 2: your property, your father might have tried to do one 88 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 2: right thing and left you something very valuable. Don't be stupid, all. 89 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: Right, We'll have more of this of the Steve Harvey 90 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. 91 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show