1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: Trying to ask the CLO Steve Harvey, all right, Steve 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: Valerie in Birmingham, she said, I went to the bathroom 3 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,239 Speaker 1: while I was out with my husband. I saw a 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: coworker and talked to him briefly. On my way back 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: to the table. My husband said I disrespected him. Am 6 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: I not supposed to greet a coworker just because he's 7 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: a male? 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: Well, I don't think that was disrespectful. 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 3: You just spoke. Now, if you was standing up there 10 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:33,319 Speaker 3: laughing and key kid to stay with your husband, then 11 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 3: that's a whole nother thing. So I don't know if 12 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 3: you're leaving that part out. If he was over there 13 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 3: laughing and key kidding, child boy, you're so crazy, and 14 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 3: they're touching him with laughing, all that that is disrespectful. 15 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 3: We can't cause your husband's sitting there and you over 16 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 3: there laughing with another man, and you're supposed to be 17 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 3: having dinner with your husband. But you could have spoke 18 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 3: to him and just say, hey, how you doing. I'm 19 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 3: here with my husband. If you bought him over there, 20 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 3: introduce your husband, you just nixed the whole thing. But 21 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,959 Speaker 3: you probably didn't do that. Hey, my husband is here, 22 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 3: Come and meet my husband. Your husband would have felt 23 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 3: better about it, but you probably didn't do that. And 24 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 3: then you just walked back over there. Oh that was so, 25 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 3: he said, So who is that? Oh this hair from 26 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 3: my job? Who is her coworker? He from my job? 27 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 3: So what was you standing over there all that time 28 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 3: for you? Just sawing that work? Yeah, now you ain't speak. 29 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 2: You was over that key kid. 30 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: I saw you, And that's the problem, Valerie, if you 31 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: were keeping them right. The next Christy and Richmond, I 32 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: won't allow my boyfriend to stay overnight at my house, 33 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: and I don't stay at his house, he says, he 34 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,639 Speaker 1: feels trashy going home after sex. 35 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 4: I feel like that's his problem, not mine. 36 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: What is so wrong about wanting my whole bed to 37 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: myself every night? 38 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 4: Yes, true, Christy, shame that's for him. 39 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, he feels like trash though, And you don't stay 40 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 3: in his house. 41 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 4: That's a switch, right, that's a new one. 42 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. I always wanted you to go home. I never Yeah, 43 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 2: we gotta go working more. These engines is calling me 44 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: for more to come. 45 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: He who. 46 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: I got to go forward? 47 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 4: Did it work? 48 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: Did it work? Yeah? Yeah, I've never been that guy. 49 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 3: You never wanted ladies days to spend the night, Steve, No. 50 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 2: Man, you know we ain't. This ain't finna go nowhere. 51 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 4: This wasn't wasn't he as we cutting in for. 52 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 3: I don't want to see you without your hair on 53 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 3: it and all this gone. Keep the losion lid on, 54 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 3: don't take nothing off, put all. 55 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 2: That back on. 56 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 4: Go you're doing wrong for that. 57 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't need all that. This ain't going nowhere, 58 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:12,399 Speaker 2: you know what? I know it? 59 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 4: So uh so Christy and Richmond. 60 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: She shouldn't feel bad for wanting to have her bed 61 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: for herself, right. 62 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 2: That's what. 63 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 3: Why don't she just tell the man that's what I do. 64 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 3: I don't want to spend the night. Yeah, you know, 65 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 3: and then go ahead. You gonna find out you ain't 66 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 3: gonna hand no man in a minute. He gonna go 67 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 3: somewhere where he can get what he wants. He won't 68 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 3: spend the night with somebody you don't cool. I'll leave 69 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 3: your house and go to her house. 70 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 2: How about that? 71 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 3: M Wow, I could do it when I was in 72 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 3: the twenties. 73 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 4: Wool I could do it. But not today. 74 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 3: Oh hell, not that right, I'm badly gonna be I 75 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 3: ain't Sometimes I can't even get up and go to 76 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: the bathroom. 77 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 4: I be so wu. Okay, over sharing, Let's move on. 78 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: Hoppyer in Orlando, my wife changed her past code on 79 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: her phone and her email passwords. 80 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 4: I asked her, why did she do that? She asked me? 81 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 4: Why I care? 82 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: Is she trying to get back at me because I 83 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: use past codes on my devices? 84 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 4: Or is she possibly talking to another man? 85 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: Well, bro, you got you got past codes on yours? 86 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 2: Do you give them to her? Now? 87 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 3: If you give them her yours, she should give you hers. 88 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 3: But if you ain't giving her yours, then what you 89 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: what you want her to do. 90 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,799 Speaker 2: Ain't no fun? When the rabbit got the gun? 91 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 4: No, it is right to Way Street with that? 92 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 2: Why else? 93 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 3: What's in that? 94 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 4: So I only read my own email? Why don't go 95 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 4: go in heare and read yours? What's in them? 96 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 2: This boy right here han't been married no time. Don't 97 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 2: take me that your call? 98 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 4: Okay about emails? 99 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 3: You don't worry about no emails. You need to try 100 00:04:58,800 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: to figure out how to get this friend. 101 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 1: Leave Junior alone by that fist. All right, Let's move 102 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: on Raina and Montclair. Our twenty one year old son 103 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: needs the air conditioning fixed. 104 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 4: In his car. My husband said the. 105 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 1: Heat will build character and teach him not to take 106 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: things for granted. 107 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 4: It will be a hot summer. 108 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: So should I go against my husband's decision and get. 109 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 2: Me no air fixed? 110 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 3: No, stop getting in the way of these men who 111 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 3: are raising these boys. 112 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 2: No, don't go behind your husband's back. 113 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 4: But it's hot out there. 114 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 3: The baby got a it's all right, that's all right. 115 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 3: He gonna be just puying. He'd be switching twenty one. 116 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 3: He ain't no baby. Let that window down. He ain't 117 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 3: stupid enough. Keep the windows rolled up till he die? 118 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 3: Is he crack your window and get you some boy. 119 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 3: By four fifty ax conditions, four windows down, fifty miles 120 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 3: an hour, you're gonna get some air blow on in that. 121 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 2: That's that folk fit here now. 122 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 4: So you guys agreed with the dass decision? 123 00:05:58,240 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? 124 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 3: Absolutely one, absolutely wow, And don't call when you get 125 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 3: a flat. 126 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: He's been taking you all, Yeah, you've been. 127 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 3: You've been taking money, going to the club, buying drinks. 128 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 2: Take all that drink money, fix your air condition. Wow? 129 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 4: But next in an air condition? The car is expensive, y'all. 130 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 2: He got to get his hustle on. 131 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: Car sold Okay, he still got a car. 132 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 133 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 2: Hell, my first car, I ain't even. 134 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: Have air I didn't either to keep it one hundred 135 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: live upstairs. 136 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 2: He probably lived on. You could actually buy a car 137 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 2: that didn't have air condition. 138 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I didn't have any either. All right. 139 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 1: So the dads on the show say this is building character, 140 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: and y'all agree. 141 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 4: Well, Rainer, your son. 142 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 3: Punk, let him last. He gonna be hot, you know 143 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 3: what I mean. Times I've been hot as hell. I 144 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 3: didn't run the air condition because I need to save 145 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 3: my gas in my car. 146 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: How about that. 147 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 3: I done rolled around in my shirt off and had 148 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 3: it hanging in the back and put it on what 149 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: I got where I was going. He gonna be just fine, 150 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 3: all right. That's how dry cleaned my clothes. When I 151 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 3: was homeless. I would wear a shirt and gets sweaty, 152 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 3: put it on the coat hanger, put it on that 153 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 3: little loop, tape it to that loop, and hanging out 154 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 3: that window, button it up. Go down the highway about 155 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 3: seventy yeah. Now had the air blow all that funk 156 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 3: out that shirt. Yeah, about seventy seventy miles an hour 157 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 3: for three hours. 158 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 2: That shirt is nature. 159 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 4: Fresh, yeah, literally. 160 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 2: Full start the Jam. 161 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 4: Come on, you're listening Morning show