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Speaker 1: the Dad's Your Boy Willie one show. If I am

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Speaker 1: out in San Francisco right now, super Bowl week, sure

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Speaker 1: he is rocking from the bus. I hope the trash

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Speaker 1: is taken out. I hope everybody in Nashville. I hope

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Speaker 1: your power is back on right now ours. I think

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Speaker 1: we're on day I don't even know what day run anymore?

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Speaker 1: Day eight, Day nine, yeah, day ten, No power. Big news,

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Speaker 1: big news from for the Dads.

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Twenty thousand subscribers on YouTube, twenty thousand subscribers on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: If you're watching right now, which honestly I hope listen.

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Speaker 1: We have video video format obviously on YouTube, but also

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Speaker 3: Part of me hoping is hoping nobody's.

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Speaker 1: Tuned in right now because I have like a like

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Speaker 1: a red eye situation going on, like a little scratch

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Speaker 3: And good good, I don't have any contacts.

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Speaker 1: I don't have any leftover contacts that I brought with me,

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have to I'm gonna have to get

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Speaker 1: got some saline solution. Get him out, get him in

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Speaker 3: Again. We just hit twenty thousand on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: I cannot begin to tell you, guys how big that

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Speaker 2: Feeling good? I do have an update for you as

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Speaker 2: far as Spotify goes, too. We actually hit a number

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Speaker 2: today this morning, thirty thousand subs on No shit. Yeah

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Speaker 2: is that rude?

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Speaker 3: Is that right? There's no way that so that's you right?

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Speaker 4: You might be wrong, technically I have right now, we

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Speaker 4: have broke three hundred and twenty two thousand total plays

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Speaker 4: on Spotify specifically, and we have nine thousand, four hundred

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Speaker 3: Hey hey, hey, let's it take cake.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: You know what he's talking about. Well, we hit thirty

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Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, TikTok.

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Speaker 1: I'm so spotif Spotify thirty thousand following me Like what dude?

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Speaker 3: How much?

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Speaker 2: Just now hearing about it, I swear my brain short

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Speaker 2: circuited and I was like, I completely just made up that.

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Speaker 3: But hey, we're at nine thousand. Let's get to ten.

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Speaker 3: Come on, get the tent.

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Speaker 1: If you're listening on Spotify, hit the follow button. If

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Speaker 3: Come on, there's a reddit. There's a Reddit page out there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's building an empire, building an empire on Reddit.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to those boys. Didn't you say, Derek, you

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Speaker 1: got in contact, You made contact. It's Ethan.

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Speaker 3: He is the leader, the PT six leader out there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so right now they have one hundred and seven

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Speaker 4: easy z As. It's Ethan. We've been in contact. This

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Speaker 4: up right now saying trash day. What does the big

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Speaker 4: Dads and you get to pick the day your trash

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Speaker 2: Come on, good, good pole. I just a dip in

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Speaker 2: will because this was a really great question, and it

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Speaker 2: comes from our reddit. This is like a fastball right

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Speaker 2: down the middle as far as a Will Compton question goes.

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Speaker 3: I hope my brain's operating right now.

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Speaker 2: Oh you brother, you got this one. This comes from

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Speaker 2: CPA Ginger on Reddit titled crib Transition. Hello, fellow PT sixers.

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Speaker 2: Have a one year old who has unfortunately slept in

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Speaker 2: his head off. He has never used a passy, and

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Speaker 2: What suggestions do y'all have or book recommendations. I know

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Speaker 2: the boys have too that they recommend, but I feel

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Speaker 2: like that's more geared towards the early days.

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Speaker 3: What's the fastball down the middle.

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Speaker 2: That the twelve hours by twelve weeks? Well, I know

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Speaker 2: the Mom's on call book does longer than just like

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Speaker 2: it would cover the first year essentially.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, just because when you when you read that

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Speaker 1: like we didn't do any We didn't do any any

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Speaker 1: of the co sleeping. And I'm not saying that co

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Speaker 3: A lot of people do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but I personally, we don't have. I don't

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Speaker 1: have that's not in my jurisdiction. So and when he says,

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Speaker 1: I know you recommended a couple books, but it seems

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Speaker 1: he's right. In my brain, I would say it's more

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Speaker 1: I would say you can get to whatever the starting

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Speaker 1: incorporate that from the book. But again, that is that

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Speaker 3: Maybe there's some dads in the shatter and the comments that.

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Speaker 1: Could throw a book recommendation out there, for if you're

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Speaker 3: There's probably a lot of good literature out there on it.

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Speaker 2: And I could be mistaken, but I do believe that

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Speaker 2: the Mom's on Call book goes to maybe even a

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Speaker 2: which is what they're saying, on here, check that out.

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Speaker 2: As far as it gives like a good it goes

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Speaker 2: and then you know six to nine months increases, so

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Speaker 2: check that out. I did short circuit yet again in

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Speaker 2: I need to drink more lollipop and wake up a

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Speaker 2: little bit, and didn't realize it was twelve hours by

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Speaker 2: twelve weeks. So the keep off on that book would.

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Speaker 1: If this child, if this young child is one year

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Speaker 1: old already, I'm thinking, yeah, I would have to google

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Speaker 1: a couple of times see what books.

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Speaker 3: Are out there. That's all. That's all being chat Willie C.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one hey, one year. I mean they were like

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Speaker 2: what twelve weeks old?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's say good reminder for the new dads tuned in.

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Speaker 3: We are not experts by any means. We love to

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Speaker 3: talk about our experiences in paradhood.

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Speaker 1: Bust some balls talk dads talking the milk Team sixers, which,

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Speaker 1: by the way, these are in store, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes they are, and they look so good.

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Speaker 3: I'm just at the rock beat because these are slick. Bro.

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Speaker 2: It looked nice when you were at the media day yesterday,

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Speaker 2: then yeah, looked filthy.

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Speaker 4: Did you get any comments?

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Speaker 3: Will?

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Speaker 1: Yes, gotta come, just like walking by, walking the past

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Speaker 1: and hey, what's that?

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Speaker 3: What's that hat? Say? Oh? Milk Team six?

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Speaker 2: Oh what's that about?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Well, you gotta kid, you got a kid? You

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Speaker 3: pumping your own Milk Team six? Dude, I have speaking

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Speaker 3: of dead life, I.

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Speaker 1: Have a dude, it's I missed the family right now.

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Speaker 1: It was hard for your boy to leave for San Francisco, not.

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Speaker 3: Like hard is like the powers out. There's a lot

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Speaker 1: I know there's times where you're like you feel like

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Speaker 1: you've just been on fumes and you got a trip

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Speaker 1: see it as like, Okay, this will be a breath

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Speaker 1: of fresh air or it'll be nice to get out, YadA, YadA, YadA.

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Speaker 1: But being in San Francisco, we're going essentially all week,

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Speaker 1: as it was coming up, I tell Rue on Sunday

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Speaker 1: So I am just rocking with Scott in Rue. Scotty's

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Speaker 3: To start setting I'm going to start anchoring Rue the

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Speaker 3: hey Dada is going to be gone.

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Speaker 2: And literally cut out as he said gone that that

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Speaker 2: could have been maybe it was a sign more perfectly timed.

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Speaker 2: So while we're waiting to get Will back.

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Speaker 4: It's a good time to do that song. We practice,

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Speaker 4: It is.

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Speaker 2: A good time to do that song. We practice and practice. Well,

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Speaker 2: we didn't, we didn't have a song. But what I

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Speaker 2: will say while we're still waiting for Will is what

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Speaker 2: he's about to talk about with Rue is one of

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Speaker 2: my biggest fears as far as development with Scarlett of

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Speaker 2: like when she starts to become.

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Speaker 5: Wait, do you think he knows that he's cut out?

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Speaker 4: No, he's still talking.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Like do you think he knows that he's cut

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Speaker 2: out from the pot?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 4: There he goes, there he goes.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, while we while we still are getting him back,

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Speaker 2: like Scarlett basically getting to the age where she realizes that, oh,

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Speaker 2: Dad's leaving. Like I think it was both Taylor Will

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Speaker 2: and then we had somebody on Busting with the Boys

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Speaker 2: where they were like, is Daddy going on an airplane?

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Speaker 4: Luke, Yeah, he's righted up a couple of times.

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Speaker 3: Can you guys hear me?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Oh boys, I'm sorry. No, you're fine, you you said.

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Speaker 2: Rue was saying that, dad, dads, are you going to

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Speaker 2: be gone?

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, sorry, I think the the WiFi ran out

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Speaker 1: of the twenty four hours. I think I logged on yesterday.

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Speaker 1: At this time, my twenty four hours was up. So

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Speaker 1: then I just reconnected it to the Wi fi. But

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Speaker 1: Wi Fi WILLI we are back online?

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Speaker 3: I'm sweet. Out of course you can have a cookie.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to hear what we can do while

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll give you a kiss, three squeezes, all of it,

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Speaker 1: Even when I left, Charli texted me like when I

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Speaker 1: I was like, let's talk about what we love about

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Speaker 1: And then she says, this morning she wanted to sing

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Speaker 3: Of course you're not doing it right. You're sing correctly.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, Dad, I love that. No,

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Speaker 2: That's the greatest.

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Speaker 1: But in that story, dad hack the sweatshirt or T

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Speaker 1: is this smell like?

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Speaker 3: She's like nod in her head. Yes, she has no clue.

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Speaker 1: Any maybe she does, but dad hack, use a T shirt,

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Speaker 2: Dude. There's nothing that has brought tears in my eyes

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Speaker 2: I just felt like I wasn't doing a good job

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the old raccoon, the old.

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Speaker 2: I talk about how much we love you all the

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Speaker 2: thought of that conversation being carried out without me there

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Speaker 3: Oh man, how do you want to? Uh what were

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Speaker 2: How would the FaceTime spen? Have you been facetiming?

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Speaker 2: Really have the capability of like if she wind a

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Speaker 2: Charro's almost called your church are good Lord, Charles phone

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Speaker 3: No, she would need Troy to do it. Yeah, she

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Speaker 2: That's that's the one thing that makes me laugh over

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Speaker 1: They'll have nothing to say, yeah, hey that I just

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Speaker 3: Dad, Dad, watch me, watch me draw, And it'll just

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Speaker 2: It just the Jill's cousin has a son that does

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Speaker 3: Hey, dad, that watched me jaw, Oh my gosh, that

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Speaker 2: It's like everything is just the best, like taking the

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Speaker 2: She's just sitting there sucking on that straw And after

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Speaker 1: to the bag and just get right back to it. Dude,

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Speaker 1: Hey do you mane?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got it? Do it?

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Speaker 3: Do it?

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00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,320
Speaker 2: We want to do some new dad comments. I got

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Speaker 2: some new dat comments.

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Speaker 3: Here, dude, let's do it.

447
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:10,119
Speaker 2: I got one from our good friend Marlon Morris on Spotify.

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00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 2: He said, p T six ers new dad here. Name

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Speaker 2: my son after me, but nicknamed him Gator. He's fifteen

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Speaker 2: days old. Do he keep the nickname as he gets

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Speaker 2: into school or transition him into his rightful namesake, which

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Speaker 2: would be Marlon. Also, my wife didn't touch a diaper

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Speaker 2: for the first ten days. Good Marlin Senior.

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Speaker 3: I love Gator. Can you get that nickname like Gator?

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Speaker 3: What is it is? It's uh the other guys Gater

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Speaker 3: don't play Gator. Yeah, Geter, don't take no shit. Whose

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Speaker 3: baby's that? Gater?

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Speaker 2: Caater's bitches be wearing Jimmy's.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Gator's bitches better be wearing Jimmy's. Oh, Getter never

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Speaker 3: been about that. I never have a bit about that great,

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Speaker 3: great comedy.

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Speaker 1: I got one here from my Ryan Sanita Sure Papa

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Speaker 1: Team six member OG listener, first time contributor. I want

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Speaker 1: to shout out Ryan jeff Jeffries, Jeff Reds. Jeffries don't

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Speaker 1: know rising through the ranks and getting promoted to Papa

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Speaker 1: Team six.

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Speaker 3: I believe he also has a dad lost a moment

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Speaker 3: he may be entering. Thank you for all you boys do.

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Speaker 2: Shout out Ryan Jeffrey or Ryan Jeff Reds.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, shout out either one.

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Speaker 2: Dude.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Papa Team six, the best dad community in

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Speaker 1: all the sports right now.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sir bro. Also, also, I have to take it

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Speaker 2: back to Marlin really quick with the wild stray through

476
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Speaker 2: his wife at the end when it's feeling confident. Dude. Also,

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Speaker 2: my wife didn't touch a diaper for the first ten days.

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Speaker 3: Good good. What do I get Merrior change, I'll change

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Speaker 3: Gator the.

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Speaker 2: Gator Ray in Rockney on Spotify, I said. First time listener,

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Speaker 2: first time commenter, first time dad. Love the pod adding

482
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Speaker 2: it to my rotation. Just found out yesterday my wife

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Speaker 2: and I are having a baby girl in August. Congratulations Aiden.

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Speaker 2: What advice would you have for someone who grew up

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Speaker 2: in an all boy household as the biggest shell shock

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Speaker 2: of now being outnumbered?

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Speaker 1: Buddy, this is the ball, that's the wheelhouse right here.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the boys, Welcome to the show. Willie c

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Speaker 1: oldest of there were three of us boys. My mom

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Speaker 1: had a lot of boy energy too. It felt like

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Speaker 1: she just knew how to operate with the men around

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Speaker 1: the house or the young boys around the house.

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Speaker 3: Dude, just brace yourself.

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Speaker 1: Man. Yeah, having a girl, it's one of those things

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Speaker 1: like you just feel clueless because again, you grew up

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Speaker 1: in a household where you're.

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Speaker 3: One of the brothers, or you're one of a few.

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Speaker 1: Brothers, whatever whatever number it was, and you're gonna be

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Speaker 1: way softer than you think.

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Speaker 3: You think.

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Speaker 1: He might be a little tough, he might be a

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Speaker 1: little hard. No, she's gonna break you down. She's gonna

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Speaker 1: be wrapped around your finger. You're gonna be such You're

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Speaker 1: going to unlock a side of sweetheartness that you've never

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Speaker 1: understood or imagined.

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Speaker 3: That you could have.

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Speaker 1: And it's honestly, it is the greatest thing in the world.

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Speaker 2: I could not agree with you more. And something that

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Speaker 2: I find myself saying more and more to Jill is

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Speaker 2: how happy I am that we have a daughter, or

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Speaker 2: that we have a daughter and I do not have

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Speaker 2: a son. Obviously, I don't know what that's like. I

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Speaker 2: grew up similar to will a household boys, a lot

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Speaker 2: of boy energy. There's just my brother and I and

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Speaker 2: so far, so good with being out numbered, and I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm honestly kind of looking forward to the you know,

517
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Speaker 2: being the dad that makes a joke and it's like dad,

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Speaker 2: what are we doing? Like yeah, you fall dad. That

519
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 2: sometimes is a little awkward. And I'm already seeing the

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Speaker 2: riding on the wall with all the ribbons and all

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Speaker 2: the outfits, and if a boy is in the future,

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Speaker 2: I would be very very happy. But I like, weirdly,

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Speaker 2: it was a shell shock for a couple of seconds,

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Speaker 2: but then I just kind of sat nicely into my

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Speaker 2: job as being the man of the house. I guess

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, do not feel alone.

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Speaker 1: That was honestly a conversation that I would have with

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Speaker 1: myself all the time. It's like, man, am I going

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Speaker 1: to have any clue what to do with the girl?

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Speaker 1: Because again I haven't known, I don't have a sister,

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Speaker 1: I don't none of it. Again, we talk about we

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Speaker 1: quote Dan Gable every week like we were like.

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Speaker 3: A wrestling football. We were all sports.

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Speaker 1: Like it was a boy household through and through, and

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Speaker 1: so I had all the same fears.

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Speaker 3: When a girl was coming into my world. The only

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Speaker 3: things I like, I would stop and hit pause on.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately my wife we were kind of eye to eye

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Speaker 1: with it. But anything with like.

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Speaker 3: That's like like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Man, I was about to say too girly, and now

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking of room dressing and princess dresses all the time,

544
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Speaker 1: but like the dolls are anything that seems like it's

545
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Speaker 1: like too pink.

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Speaker 3: At first, I don't know, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know what it was, but it's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: we need we need to molder some way with some grit.

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00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: I say grit right now, thinking that Queen ELSI is

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Speaker 1: the number one princess or queen in her mind. But

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Speaker 1: you think all of these sayings, you think where you

552
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Speaker 1: might be a little resistant.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna know how to you know, change the diaper.

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Speaker 3: It looks a little bit like I'm just I'm not

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Speaker 3: in the.

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Speaker 1: World of being around like women I do. I wasn't

557
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Speaker 1: around women like that when I grew up. But it

558
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Speaker 1: is it's one where you are, you are stoked to

559
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Speaker 1: be a girl dad. And it's come from a guy

560
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: who would love to have some offspring, love would.

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Speaker 3: Love to have somebody carry be the heir to the throne.

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Speaker 1: And it's like if it never happens, I just think

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Speaker 1: about the two little girls that I have and how

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Speaker 1: I'm just absolutely obsessed with them.

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Speaker 3: And there's also a part of.

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Speaker 1: Me too because I love to get all dad's feedback

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Speaker 1: or parent feedback really from the dads where they have

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Speaker 1: both a boy and a girl. Because any any dad

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Speaker 1: that I talk to and they say that they have

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Speaker 1: a girl on the way, or they just had a

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Speaker 1: girl recently, or they are currently have a girl, Like

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Speaker 1: my first question is how much is daughter number one

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Speaker 1: in your eyes? And the answer across the board is

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Speaker 1: always yes, like the girl is. It's like the opposites attracting,

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Speaker 1: Like the girl becomes your favorite thing in life.

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Speaker 3: Period.

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Speaker 2: That makes all the sense in the world. And to

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Speaker 2: make him feel at ease, our friend the asked how

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Speaker 2: I put the card away? Sorry, I think it was aiden,

580
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 2: but aiden to make you feel at ease, I by

581
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 2: no means have mastered being a girl dad. Like, I

582
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 2: know that this is a continuation of being out of

583
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 2: my element for the rest of my life. But there

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Speaker 2: it's just like this weird, comfortable feeling that you kind

585
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Speaker 2: of have about it. I don't know if that makes sense.

586
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 3: Like it was the right thing for your life.

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00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, like yeah, like I have no idea what the

588
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 2: future is going to look like as far as being

589
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Speaker 2: a girl dad, and but like I'm just so excited

590
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 2: for it. And dude, Scarlett's hair is just sprouting like

591
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 2: a weed right now, like truly to the point where

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Speaker 2: the daycare people that see her every other day each

593
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 2: time I come in, they're like, her hair, it's wild.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I know it is, like it's the cutest

595
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 2: thing in the entire world, but it infuriates me because

596
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, you're growing, like stop growing.

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00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 3: I know, dude, there was a.

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Speaker 1: Here, I got a I'm gonna shout out another new

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Speaker 1: dad here on Spotify. Drew Underscore Williamson wife, He and

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00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: I welcomed our firstborn Emmy Kate to the world today.

601
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: Was rocking the PT six Operation Grill and Grill and

602
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: Chill shirt the entire time. Mama crushed it and when

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Speaker 1: twelve hours from start to finish, thank you boys for

604
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Speaker 1: the pod. Yeah, and looking forward to up in the

605
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 1: PT six merch and joining the girl Dad gang. By

606
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: the way, all the Papa Team six for the Dad's

607
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: merch that is on BWTV dot com. So if you're

608
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: looking at yourself in the Poppa Team six permanently in

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Speaker 1: the unit BWTV dot com, that's where you get the

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00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: PT six merch.

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00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 3: But what I was going to say.

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00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: Right here too, new baby girl. So Drew Williamson, he's

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00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 1: a he's a girl dad as well. So all the

614
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Speaker 1: fellow girl dad's out there.

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00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 3: I was, I forget.

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00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 1: We're at a restaurant and a gentleman was was observing

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Speaker 1: the fan. We're kind of like having fun, like Scotty's

618
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: being a menace, you know, Rue, I'm sitting there talking

619
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Speaker 1: with rue. I started talking to this gentleman and he's like,

620
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: both girls, Like you just have two girls.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, girl, Day's like, I got a couple.

622
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 1: Of girls too, but they're they're long, they're they're much older,

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Speaker 1: like they're out of the house now. And uh, I

624
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: just asked this veteran PT sixer. I was like, hey,

625
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: just cut it to me straight. I say, how long

626
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: do I have with my girls before I am you know,

627
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Speaker 1: before they start not liking me? And he's like he

628
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: looked over at me, got a little smirk on his

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Speaker 1: face and he says, you got about eleven years. You

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Speaker 1: got about eleven years, man.

631
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Speaker 3: And I llowed.

632
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: I go, oh man, we can't even get to thirteen.

633
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: We can't even get to the teenage years. He said,

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Speaker 1: it was eleven for me, eleven for me. They hate

635
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: your guts, they.

636
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 3: Don't want nothing to do with you.

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00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: And then as he tells me, it's like again the

638
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: noise gets quieter. I'm just looking at ruined Scotty and

639
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, how do these little human beings that they

640
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: love mom and dad right now, we love them, how

641
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: do they get to eleven or how do they get

642
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: to an age, were these two little things that are

643
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Speaker 1: obsessed with me.

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00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 3: Right now they just stop wanting anything to do with me.

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00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 2: And then, but thankfully, like the light at the end

646
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 2: of the tunnel for me is the comments that we've

647
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: gotten from int six ers that are, like, my dad

648
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: is my best friend. I talked to them every day,

649
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: you know, blah blah blah. Like there's a I feel

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00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 2: like there's a point in a girl's life where then

651
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 2: dad is cool again and we're coming back to dad.

652
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 2: But it's a different kind of relationship. It's like a

653
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 2: different condo.

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00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 1: You bring up a good you bring up a good

655
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: point here too, and I would love again Milk Team six,

656
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: Oh love an empty six or that's out there right

657
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: now listen because we know.

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Speaker 3: It's it's hormones and things happening with the body. Dada, YadA, YadA.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if they can break down certain stages, please forr

660
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: us PT six girl dead fathers out there on why

661
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: it happens. Is there anything that we can look out for,

662
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: try to do you.

663
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 3: Know what I mean, to try to pump the ball, keep.

664
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 1: Kicking the can down the road, or try to have

665
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 1: as less friction as possible.

666
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 2: And hey, I'm okay with you hate me. Is there

667
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 2: steps that I can take where you will hate me less?

668
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: That's all?

669
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, looking for kind of throw a theory out there.

670
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 5: Perhaps when it comes back around and all of a sudden,

671
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,479
Speaker 5: it's no longer like I hate dad. It's no longer

672
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 5: that dad is cool or not. It doesn't matter if

673
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 5: Dad or cool or not. He's just dad.

674
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 4: Does that make sense?

675
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like it stops becoming so important like oh, you're

676
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 5: so uncool.

677
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 4: It's like, oh you're you're my father.

678
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: And then yeah, and I love you and you help

679
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 2: guide me.

680
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 3: I can you got any crushes at school? You know

681
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Then you get these combos and they

682
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 3: ain't gonna want to tell you nothing.

683
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: Man.

684
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: By the way, I just I just got a picture

685
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 2: from the daycare. They're putting all the kiddos and these

686
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 2: are all one and a half and younger in Scarlet's class, yea,

687
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 2: And they put them in this uh stroller that's like

688
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 2: a six seater, so it's like two three rows of two.

689
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 2: Scarlet's in the front and they put him next to

690
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,959
Speaker 2: the only boy in the class. And the daycare has

691
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 2: a messaging system that they could have very easily reached

692
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 2: out to me and been like, hey, okay if we partner.

693
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 2: Scarlet up at the front seat next to the only

694
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 2: boy in the class. I was like, what's going on here?

695
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 3: Hey? What are we doing in your mind? Sending me

696
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 3: a screenshot of his ID?

697
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 2: Let's go ahead and get his parents info too.

698
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 3: Yeah kind of milk? What kind of milk is he drinking?

699
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 2: You're looking at the picture? What's going on? What's going

700
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 2: on with his face?

701
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 4: What's going on with that?

702
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, always he in there. Yeah, he looks like

703
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 3: he's mad at her? What's he mad at her?

704
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:39,719
Speaker 2: But it's already it's already starting. It's already starting. And

705
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 2: Scarlett looked like she was having way too much fun

706
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 2: with them in the front row.

707
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, here we go, dude, I'll shout this

708
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 1: book out.

709
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 3: I'll shut this book out again. But strong Father, Strong Daughters.

710
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: There's a lot of some of these breakdowns to what

711
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: you know, the ladies that your girls are going through,

712
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: like when they're getting through high school and the stuff

713
00:33:59,240 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: that they deal with.

714
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 3: It is a.

715
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: Fascinating, eye opening, mind opening read that I strongly recommend

716
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: to any girl that out there. But I would also

717
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: love the perspective from just an empty six route right

718
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: out there right now that's listening to you know what,

719
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: Let me let me put the fingers to the keyboard

720
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: for these boys, give them some game a little bit.

721
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 2: Absolutely, while we're speaking to the empty sixers, I did

722
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 2: have a thought the other day and this isn't so

723
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 2: much a challenge as more so it would just be unreal.

724
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 2: Our pt siko community has blessed us enough and grace

725
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 2: us enough with these photos of them, you know, carrying

726
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 2: out like those Duna strollers after they've had their first

727
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 2: boor and they're wearing our PT six merch. Yeah, bro,

728
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 2: a Milk Team sixer in the hospital with the empty

729
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 2: six hat on post delivery and of course ready for

730
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 2: the camera, you.

731
00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 3: Know, empty six this one.

732
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like, oh no I received one yet, I'm saying.

733
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 3: Oh, he's telling me that we were Oh.

734
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: Dude, okay, yeah, yeah, you're talking about like the one

735
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: we read twelve hours start to finish, grinding it out.

736
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: She's got twelve hours and she's walking the Milk Team six.

737
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 2: That is a sick Oh dude, that's a sick.

738
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 6: Oh.

739
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: I'm envisioning, uh beat these exert dad out there. They're

740
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: about to go into labor, and he just, hey, I

741
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 1: know you asked me if there's anything that I wanted

742
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,439
Speaker 1: to do with the with the with the birth plan

743
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: or anything.

744
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 3: All I got. He just he's got his he off.

745
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 3: He just pulls out. He's like, can you wear this?

746
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 3: Why you deliver?

747
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: He's coming out, He's on the leg.

748
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 3: Put that on, get this. Just let me get the picture.

749
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 2: Let me get the picture right now, Willie, what's so?

750
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 2: Look at us? Good?

751
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 3: I just yeah, I just gotta tweet the boys. That's

752
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 3: he just tweeted.

753
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: I actually got a wifey shout out right here from

754
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: Colin Krigger on Spotify. Colin Krigger, I'm sure that was

755
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: a fun name growing up. Fellas love the pod and

756
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: never miss aesode. Just wanted to hop on here and

757
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: say shout out to my beautiful empty sicko of a

758
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: wife with the emoji dash oh empty sicco of a wife,

759
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: Mikayla as it's her birthday on the fourth of February

760
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: right now it is third, so when this drops, hey,

761
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: happy birth birthday, Mickayla.

762
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 3: Ps.

763
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 1: No free shout outs, but love but the love to

764
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: dream sleep Sack is the best and it makes your

765
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: baby look like a flying squirrel.

766
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 2: Whoa hold the phone, Love.

767
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 1: Hold the phone, little dad hack in there with the

768
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 1: wifey shout out to Michayla.

769
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Nayla, Hey love to dream sleepsack. We gotta

770
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,720
Speaker 2: we gotta pull up an image of that in the pod.

771
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 2: Oh that is cute and it does look like a

772
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 2: flying squirreld. That's a perfect description, dude. We have a

773
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 2: really awesome shout out as well. This one came to

774
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 2: us from Instagram. This came from Jake Perfurio. Uh. He

775
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 2: wrote to us and said, what's up, boys, just wanted

776
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 2: to share my crack a cold one. He's got to

777
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 2: crack a cold one. My sweet baby girl. Frankie, who

778
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 2: was born with clubfoot, finally graduated to boot and Bar

779
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 2: and could not be more proud of you boys who

780
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 2: inspired me to be a good father. Keep it up

781
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 2: hashtag PT six And he provided this adorable photo.

782
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 3: Feed at two in the email right now and shout

783
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:54,280
Speaker 3: out to you, Jake. That is that is awesome.

784
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: Frank for you, Frankie, I know you can't hear so

785
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: understand this right now, but Frankie, we love you.

786
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 3: We are far enough for you.

787
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 2: We love you, girl. I love the I love the bow.

788
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 2: I love the little pink padding that she has for

789
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 2: the boots.

790
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:13,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god, adorable. How do you just not smile?

791
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 3: Oh dude, seeing that little cute photo, she's so stoked. Yeah,

792
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 3: with a little certification right next to.

793
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,399
Speaker 2: Her in the heart over the eye too.

794
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's awesome. Man. Shout out Frankie, Shout out Jake,

795
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 3: shout out the family.

796
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 2: Willie see not to rush us through, but speaking, I

797
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 2: got to keep it under an hour. Speaking of crack

798
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 2: of cold ones, do you have a crack of cold one?

799
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 3: Sir?

800
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 2: Brought to us by ollipop?

801
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: My crack a cold one. I look, I'm going to

802
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: keep it a buck. My crack of cold one is

803
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,280
Speaker 1: just going to my wife. I know it is shitty

804
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 1: that I am out of the house all week long

805
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: for five nights when the power is out.

806
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,479
Speaker 3: Power still out, were still running on the generator. Thank god.

807
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 1: Power got brought back to Paddock Place, one of her

808
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: bar three studios.

809
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 3: Good but again new house. She's her and the girls.

810
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 3: She does get it help in the daytime.

811
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 1: But I know how strenuous and stressful it is when

812
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 1: you know whether it's any foot like whether mom's out

813
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: of town or just your spouse, your partner in crime

814
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: is out for an entire week for a work thing.

815
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 3: I know that sucks. I know it is like it's

816
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 3: like a what can you do? Situation?

817
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: Because you know you're one you want your other to

818
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: go do their thing and work and have fun. And

819
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: she hopes I'm having the best time right now, but

820
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: I know that she's just she's trying to wear all

821
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: the hats at home, and I know that sucks, and

822
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: I know that's hard, and I've had little to no

823
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: complaining on my phone, but so my shutout goes to

824
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: my wife, Charles. I. I just know she's holding it

825
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 1: down right now. I just know she's in a gutter with.

826
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 7: Some of it being mom, being the owner of a business,

827
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,800
Speaker 7: being you know, the parent for Rue, the parent for Scottie,

828
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 7: the needs of both of them, dinner, bedtime, changing diapers,

829
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 7: picking up.

830
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 3: The house, organizing that, organizing the house. Hey, there's a

831
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 3: yellow back light happening right now with the generator.

832
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Going and checking the oil? Like

833
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: just doing all the things being a certified badass. I

834
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: know it sucks and it's not ideal. So that is

835
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: where my crack of cole One goes. It goes to

836
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 1: my wife, Charro, and I know what we got. I

837
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: think across the hall in the other suite where we're

838
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: doing busting with the boys, I saw I saw a

839
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: case of Chris Bapple in there. So I need to

840
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: get my paws on.

841
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 2: Say hey, yo, they sent Ollipop to San Francisco.

842
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: Yes, a big bag, big bag with a lot of variety.

843
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 1: Come on, I saw Chris Bapple sitting there at the top.

844
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:51,919
Speaker 1: It was looking at me in the face last night.

845
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 2: Come on, A huge shout out to Charo. There is

846
00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 2: nothing more impressive than seeing your partner operate like that,

847
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 2: and there's nothing more. I don't think humbling is the

848
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,720
Speaker 2: right word, but like it's you're so thankful.

849
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, because again, when when you're gone for periods of time,

850
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,240
Speaker 1: like as a parent, there is guilt that just kind.

851
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 3: Of sits on you. Yes, because you know, like I'm.

852
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: Out here in San Francisco, I know, from from far

853
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,879
Speaker 1: away in the cold weather in Nashville where there's still

854
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: like stuff going on and everything else happening.

855
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 3: You see the photos, the videos.

856
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: We're out doing stuff around the Super Bowl, like one

857
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 1: of the most popular events in the world right here

858
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 1: in the sunshine.

859
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 3: You're seeing all the photos. I'm sure there's some not

860
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 3: like intentional.

861
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: Resentment, but you probably should probably watched it from afar, Like, well,

862
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 1: at least Will's having fun. Yeah, and it's not like

863
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: a comment she brings to any energy when we get

864
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 1: on the phone. I'm just assuming that some of these

865
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: things probably go on as a parent.

866
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. It that honestly bleeds right into my crack, a

867
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 2: cold one, like the being a good teammate. I came

868
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 2: home the other night and Jill pre she meal preps

869
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 2: for Scarlet, who is starting solids. I come home last

870
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 2: night with Scarlet and Jill's it was her ten o'clock

871
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 2: shift that she does every other Monday, and I open

872
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 2: up the fridge and there are no pre made meals.

873
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 2: And I'm about to start calling Jill, texting her asking

874
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 2: her what do I do while she's at work, And

875
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,280
Speaker 2: I just start telling myself internally, be a good teammate,

876
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 2: Be a good teammate, like step up, we got a

877
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 2: problem solve. Where are we doing All of our groceries

878
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 2: from the week before we had to throw them out

879
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 2: and now We did go visit Costco, but we didn't

880
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: get like the fruits and veggies at Costco. We're still

881
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:48,720
Speaker 2: a little weak in that department. So I'm shopping through

882
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: all of our drawers. I find one apple and I

883
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 2: was like, hey, Scarlet's done apple sauce with mom. You know,

884
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,240
Speaker 2: I skin it, I'll chop it, I'll put some water

885
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:01,240
Speaker 2: and blend it. That's apple sauce.

886
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:01,919
Speaker 3: Will be good.

887
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, you got it, some apple sauce because apple.

888
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,720
Speaker 2: Sauce going And I uh, I get it all done,

889
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 2: and Jill goes, hey, what'd you end up feeding Scarlet,

890
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 2: probably remembering oh, I didn't pre make anything. And I

891
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 2: was like, oh, she's loving the apple sauce. And her

892
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 2: first replies, just where did you get that, knowing we

893
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 2: had no apple sauce, And I was like, I made it.

894
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 2: Dad has made it. And I got a look at

895
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: Dad as with the eyes of eye emoji, and I.

896
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: Was like, yeahbuddy, let's go dudeyh buddy.

897
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 2: But the real krack of cole one in that situation

898
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 2: then goes to the absolute domination that my daughter performed

899
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 2: on the bowl of said apple sauce. Scarlet destroyed it. Dude,

900
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 2: like she she's truly starting to like consume the food.

901
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: And when I scoop it, the mouth is already. First off,

902
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 2: she does a little and then the mouth gut. She's ready.

903
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: You play with her a little bit to where it's

904
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,879
Speaker 1: close and you kind of pull it away.

905
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 2: No, no, no, and then she starts grabbing and she's like,

906
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 2: this is a this is not a game.

907
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want my apple, but yeah, my.

908
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 2: Crack at cole one goes to that. I don't think

909
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,720
Speaker 2: I touched on it earlier, so I'll touch on it now.

910
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914
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917
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918
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Speaker 5: Willie see, oh, chef, I've got a question for you.

919
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 5: I meant to ask this while we're on the topic

920
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 5: of like sacrifice and everything else. I saw a tweet

921
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 5: from you responding to the situation with the Minnesota Vikings

922
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 5: GM talking about how he took paternity leave. Oh yeah,

923
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 5: a really profound statement on that, and I wanted you

924
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 5: to talk about, like.

925
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 4: Give yourself a little cup.

926
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 5: You got flack for it, which kind of caught me

927
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 5: off guard on Twitter, talking about like the amount of

928
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 5: sacrifice it takes to be an NFL player play at

929
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 5: high level of any professional sport, and I thought that

930
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 5: was just super interesting if you wanted to kind of

931
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 5: touch on it.

932
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 3: What, yeah, let me let me.

933
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: Answer by asking you a question first, because there's there's

934
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 1: just it's so nuanced and there's different angles to go

935
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: about it. Like when I'm responding to that tweet that

936
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: went out, it's almost like a shell shock or a

937
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,280
Speaker 1: you know, morality police is trying to partake and like, hey,

938
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: we should judge this like this says more about the

939
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 1: ENFL culture than it does, you know, it says a

940
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 1: lot about you know, the culture of the NFL, which

941
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: is catches people off guard.

942
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 3: And my take was more of like.

943
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:15,839
Speaker 1: My take was more from the angle of this is

944
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: the business of the NFL, Like I don't envy.

945
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:27,879
Speaker 3: Coaches, gms, even now since I've had kids and became

946
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 3: a dad.

947
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: Fortunately, after I'm done playing, I think to myself, knowing

948
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: like what we pour into our kiddos, knowing how involved

949
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: I get to be, how attached I am to them,

950
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 1: I think myself, Man, it's got to be so hard

951
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 1: for you know, dads that are in the NFL profession,

952
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 1: because that world.

953
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 3: You have to prioritize that world.

954
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: Essentially, if you're looking at hours put in, you have

955
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 1: to prioritize your.

956
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 3: Work in the NFL more than you do your family.

957
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 3: And that's just like the way it is, like people

958
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:05,720
Speaker 3: are going back.

959
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: And forth saying, you know, he was granted paternity leave

960
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: for two weeks. They were completely okay with it, so

961
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: he should be afforded to have that luxury. Well, you

962
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: have that luxury until you have a bad season. So

963
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 1: the fact that he's having a bad season and then

964
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:26,919
Speaker 1: he gets fired probably for much bigger reasons than paternity leave.

965
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: But knowing those conversations happen inside the building and now

966
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 1: they're getting leaked to the public, it's not surprising to

967
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: me because that is essentially it's honorable and admirable. All

968
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 1: the sacrifices that everybody makes you know to play, to

969
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: play and participate in the NFL because it's big business.

970
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 3: It's all performance, it's all about winning.

971
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: And you got guys who you do nothing but identify

972
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: with the NFL logo essentially your entire life because you

973
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 1: identify with playing football. Because I had another I had

974
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: somebody come after me, and I'm like, you know, being

975
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: becoming a father after playing. In retrospect, I'm now happy

976
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: that I look back and I'm now glad that I

977
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: didn't have.

978
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 3: Kids while I was playing. Because you're so wrapped.

979
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: Up in your own world, in your own game, you

980
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: gotta remember you got to think. And I'm not trying

981
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,720
Speaker 1: to put it as hey the NFL, playing in the NFL,

982
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: it's the biggest sacrifice out there in the world.

983
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 3: I'm not saying any of that. I'm just trying to

984
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 3: tell people.

985
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: That this is none of it is surprising to me

986
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 1: that this is how stuff goes down because that is

987
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: the world of the NFL.

988
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 3: Like just to.

989
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 1: Remind people, like when you are when you do nothing

990
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: but play football, since for myself it was second grade,

991
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 1: so I did nothing but identify with.

992
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 3: Any time it is hey, what is your dream job?

993
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 3: What do you want your dream job to be when

994
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 3: you grow up?

995
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: In grade school, whenever I'm answering that question for like,

996
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 1: you know, what's your future, what do you want when

997
00:48:58,400 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: you grow up? What do you want to be when

998
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 1: you grow up? It was always NFL player, not password.

999
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 1: But like when they ask you what's your dream job

1000
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 1: on you know, if I had it on any of

1001
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: my accounts, it would be NFL player. Like I identified with

1002
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 1: football my entire life. So when I get scholarship ball

1003
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 1: first coming out of high school, there's a sensu They

1004
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: get so wrapped up in it to where you have

1005
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 1: to You're making all these decisions based around yourself. I

1006
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: need to go to the best school. I can't worry

1007
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 1: about this. I can't worry about my family or people

1008
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: asking for tickets. I got to keep the main thing

1009
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 1: the main thing at all times because I'm trying to

1010
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: become a professional football player.

1011
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 3: Then you finally become a professional football player.

1012
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: In our brains and how we've operated essentially our entire

1013
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 1: life to get to this point is the entire world

1014
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: is about us and about our dream and about what

1015
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: we want to do. And any football player, anybody in

1016
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,320
Speaker 1: that profession who has a family or has a wife

1017
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: that wife. That's why you have guys like Joe Brady

1018
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: up there, and again, massive fan of Joe Brady.

1019
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 3: But it's like, I just.

1020
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 1: Don't envy being in that spot because I just now

1021
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 1: that I've tasted this other side of it, now that

1022
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: i have kids in a family.

1023
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 3: And I'm out of the football world.

1024
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm just like, man, it has got to

1025
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: be so hard to where the entire world is still

1026
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: around him being, you know, chasing this goal, this dream

1027
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: to win a championship, when mom has just got to

1028
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:25,359
Speaker 1: essentially sacrifice everything all around this their partner because they're

1029
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 1: off chasing their dream, chasing their goal. Because you know,

1030
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 1: as a dad, how much work it is at home

1031
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: when you're at home with the kiddos with your partner,

1032
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: or when they're out of town and you're taking care

1033
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: of them solo. Then I'm reminding myself, like, yo, this

1034
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 1: is every day for these moms that have to stay

1035
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: at home and we're off doing practice or you know,

1036
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,800
Speaker 1: you might come home and have an Oh, dude, sweetheart,

1037
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: it was a long day. Coach got in my ass.

1038
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,359
Speaker 1: I have to watch film for tomorrow. You have your

1039
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: little few minutes with the kids to check in with

1040
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: your kiddos. But then it's like, you know, hey, can

1041
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: somebody else put them to sleep, or hey, I'll do bedtime.

1042
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: But the minute I do bedtime, I got to get

1043
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 1: back to studying because I go to get ready for

1044
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 1: the next day tomorrow.

1045
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 3: Then the next day tomorrow, you're out of the house

1046
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 3: before wake.

1047
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: Up time even happens for everybody else, and you're going

1048
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 1: all day long. But in that cycle, that is just

1049
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: you don't know any different. That's why I said, it's like,

1050
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 1: it's hard to explain I'm not able to have this

1051
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 1: perspective now on it unless I got out of it.

1052
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:23,760
Speaker 3: Because when we had Rue, when year ten was happening,

1053
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 3: the whole Falcons going off to the Falcons, and when

1054
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 3: I was.

1055
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: Going to sign with Atlanta, Rue was about seven or

1056
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: eight weeks old, and a part of me struggled wanting

1057
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: to go to Atlanta when I knew my heart wasn't

1058
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: all the way in on wanting to play football anymore.

1059
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 3: I was just doing it to get that tenth year.

1060
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm on, I'm playing with house money now, so

1061
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: why not finish out this dream that I've always had

1062
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: my wife.

1063
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 3: Is super supportive of it. But part of me was like, man,

1064
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 3: that kind of sucks.

1065
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 1: That I have to leave and go to Atlanta and

1066
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to stay in Atlanta solo, because that's another thing.

1067
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: Some of these guys that are on one year deals,

1068
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 1: they just go to the city and they're living in

1069
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 1: the city while the family stays back at home at

1070
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 1: ground zero year or where the family's gonna be, or

1071
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 1: where the kids go to school or where they're used

1072
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: to their everyday life. They're just gonna go travel to

1073
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: the city of football for six seven months out of

1074
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: the year.

1075
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:10,479
Speaker 3: And that's just how it's gonna be because you guys

1076
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 3: have just agreed upon it. Hey, this is how we're

1077
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:12,720
Speaker 3: going to do things.

1078
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 1: But I was going to be in Atlanta the last

1079
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 1: let's call it seven weeks.

1080
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 3: It's gonna be Atlanta in the last seven weeks. But

1081
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 3: part of me is like.

1082
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: Sad, and also, damn it sucks for my wife that

1083
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: she's going to be solo dolo with Rue and I'm

1084
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 1: just gonna be playing football the rest of the year,

1085
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: doing this thing and just checking in and everything else.

1086
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,760
Speaker 3: Like it's just super hard.

1087
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: I know, I said, what angle do you want me

1088
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 1: to go on if we're on a complete tangent in.

1089
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 3: Rant right, there is. It's just it's very nuanced. It's

1090
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 3: hard to explain.

1091
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:52,760
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that there's internal disagreement with that GM

1092
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: leaving for two weeks in the middle of training camp because.

1093
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 3: You are the leader.

1094
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: Trickles from GM down the head coach, staff, players, everything else,

1095
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 1: and you might get afforded to miss a game or

1096
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: miss a day of practice to go see the birth

1097
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:09,840
Speaker 1: of your child.

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00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 3: And be there with them that day. Maybe you get

1099
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:12,439
Speaker 3: an extra day.

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00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:16,760
Speaker 1: It all depends what you can afford based on how

1101
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 1: essentially valuable you are to that organization.

1102
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:21,879
Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

1103
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of sense. Thank you for the part

1104
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 2: that I think would be easy or like easier for

1105
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 2: the people on Twitter, like the general public that just

1106
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 2: like attacked your opinion essentially on being like, hey, this

1107
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 2: is just the way the NFL is. And I am

1108
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 2: not comparing the NFL to serving overseas in the military

1109
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 2: or like working on right an oil rig, you know,

1110
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 2: out in Midland, but like those are universal truths that

1111
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 2: of like if I'm going to serve in the military,

1112
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 2: if I'm going to be abroad, like I will most

1113
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 2: likely miss a funeral, I will most likely miss the

1114
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,320
Speaker 2: birth of my child. If I'm working on an oil

1115
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 2: rig out in Midland to make that money and afford

1116
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 2: opportunities for my family, I will be four weeks on

1117
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 2: in one week off. And that's just the way she goes.

1118
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 2: And so it's like with the NFL, whether you like

1119
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 2: it or not, it's just kind of the way she goes.

1120
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:24,240
Speaker 2: That's just the universal truth of the NFL.

1121
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 3: You know it in that world too. It's what you

1122
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 3: sign up for to participate in. Yeah, like that's like

1123
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 3: that is that game. I'm not saying I agree with

1124
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 3: that game. Yeah, I'm just all of these different variables.

1125
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: I understand the head coaches and the players that you

1126
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: know they give all the love to their wife when

1127
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: they do have that moment in the spotlight or on

1128
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: the podium, because you know, sitting back, I'm like, it

1129
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: doesn't feel like the flex he probably thinks it is

1130
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 1: now that I'm sitting on this side of it. Again,

1131
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 1: that's where it comes from. I just don't envy that.

1132
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:02,240
Speaker 1: It's honestly, outside of having the bust with the boys

1133
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 1: and podcasting. But if I didn't have podcasting, like coaching

1134
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: would be what I wanted to do. Coaching was what

1135
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,840
Speaker 1: I wanted to do, But now that I have a family,

1136
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: it's more of like, dude, if I want to get

1137
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 1: into coaching in football in the NFL, college doesn't matter.

1138
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 3: It's such a it's an ego thing to where I

1139
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 3: am anybody who enters it. I'm not saying I'm many

1140
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 3: different than.

1141
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: Anybody else, but your competitive nature. What it takes to

1142
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 1: be great in that industry is total fully fully committing

1143
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: yourself to winning a championship.

1144
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 3: You don't go in half ass, you don't.

1145
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:42,319
Speaker 1: Do any of that, and to do so, you have

1146
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 1: to put in insane hours because you never feel like

1147
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:48,800
Speaker 1: the hay is in the barn. Yeah, so I always

1148
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 1: it's like when those moments do come up and you've

1149
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: got coach McDonald talking about how you practice gets done

1150
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 1: sooner on Thursday so you can get home and spend

1151
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 1: thirty to thirty minutes with the sun. And there's some

1152
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 1: guys who are able to rework the strategy at times.

1153
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:03,240
Speaker 3: Like that is awesome.

1154
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: The more time you can spend time with your family,

1155
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: I think that is unbelievable. The GM who got fired

1156
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: him taking two weeks. I'm all about.

1157
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 3: Him being able to do that.

1158
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 1: But then when you start losing, you're like, that's a

1159
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: crazy move because a party who's always going to sit

1160
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: there and like, hey, these are the hours that I'm

1161
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 1: going to work in the moment you feel behind the

1162
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 1: competition or anybody else, And then the story comes out

1163
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 1: about their greatness and how much their success is that

1164
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: they give flowers to the work that they put in

1165
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: around the clock. This that the other part of you

1166
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: is like, I've got to beat that, dude, because you're

1167
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,280
Speaker 1: so wrapped up in the ego of it to where

1168
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 1: I know I would get lost in that sauce if

1169
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 1: I was in the coaching world. Yeah, and if you're

1170
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 1: getting in it, it depends on what the head coach wants,

1171
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,239
Speaker 1: like does he want you does he expect you there

1172
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 1: all the time like an available There's several coaches at

1173
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,359
Speaker 1: their Bruce Arians, but Poline he was always like, hey,

1174
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 1: if you ever missed this and that on the weekends

1175
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 1: when we don't have a game, like I'll you know, I'll.

1176
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:56,799
Speaker 3: Fire you, or you should not do that. You need

1177
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 3: to be at all this stuff.

1178
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 1: You can with your family it's just a world where

1179
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 1: you have to fully sacrifice everything for winning a championship,

1180
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: just like in the military you have to sacrifice everything

1181
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:06,800
Speaker 1: for your country.

1182
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 3: If you have a business, any business.

1183
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,720
Speaker 1: Owner out there, anybody in like a startup career, anything

1184
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: to where they are obsessed with their career. They're obsessed

1185
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 1: with their career and they want to be the best.

1186
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: There's going to be certain things you have to do

1187
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 1: selfishly to.

1188
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 3: Get to that level.

1189
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 1: It's going to be sacrificed away from family time because hey,

1190
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: I'm operating a business. I have twenty employees right now.

1191
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: I haven't been able to delegate anything or bring in

1192
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: the CEO. I'm running everything at all. I have to

1193
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 1: be at the shop. I have to do X, Y

1194
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: and Z. I got to be on the calls and

1195
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 1: make sales. I have to do all these things because

1196
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 1: that's what puts food on the table for the family.

1197
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 1: And you hope that one day you get successful enough,

1198
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 1: or achieve enough, or acquire enough wealth to where then

1199
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: you can delegate and have a team around you so

1200
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 1: that way you have the freedom to spend all the

1201
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: time in the world with their family. Because any sick

1202
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: of successful person that you admire. When they get closer

1203
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: to their deathbed or they reflect on their life, the

1204
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: one thing that they.

1205
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 3: Always talk about is they wish they spent more time

1206
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 3: with their family.

1207
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 2: That's true.

1208
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: So I'm like, it's all of these things where I'm

1209
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: just always thinking about it. I'm conscious about it, and

1210
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 1: the whole NFL thing when people were kind of shocked

1211
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 1: that that was maybe a part of him being fired

1212
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 1: or shocked that hey, people in the building were kind

1213
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: of like shitting on this idea that he was going

1214
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 1: for two weeks.

1215
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 3: It's like not any surprising at all, Like that is

1216
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 3: the nature of the Beasts.

1217
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 2: If you're going to sign up to play that game

1218
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 2: you were, do you add some gravity to it? You

1219
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 2: were brought to tears when Taylor attended your mother's funeral

1220
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 2: of like what, like what a huge decision that was

1221
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 2: by Taylor, And like what what that not only meant

1222
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 2: to you, but what that also what he means? Did

1223
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 2: what you mean to him? Sorry?

1224
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they had a Thursday night game and I

1225
00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 1: want to say Taylor might have been out with a

1226
00:58:58,720 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: back or a.

1227
00:58:59,200 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 3: Knee or something like that.

1228
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: Then he asked Ray's blessing, like, hey, can I fly

1229
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: to Missouri, miss a couple of days and spend a

1230
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: couple of days for Will, with Will and his family

1231
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 1: when my mom passed away. So yeah, you know when

1232
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 1: when I saw Walcane, like you just know what that

1233
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: what that takes, It's like, thank God he's good enough

1234
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 1: of a player to have that luxury of missing that,

1235
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like if you're if you're

1236
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: a first year n drafted guy and you make the

1237
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,360
Speaker 1: team and you're all out of the fifty three guys

1238
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 1: on the roster, you might be rated forty through fifty three.

1239
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 1: Nobody at forty through fifty three is making a decision

1240
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: like that. I can't leave the building now. I'm not

1241
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 1: gonna leave two days to go see my child being born,

1242
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:38,959
Speaker 1: Like this is my dream, this.

1243
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 3: Is my first year. I can't. I can't afford it.

1244
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: But if it's a cat like you got Taylor, maybe

1245
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 1: it's JJ Watt, some of these superstars and they would

1246
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: have missed a couple of days they have, they're able

1247
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: to afford it because they ain't gonna nothing's gonna happen

1248
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: to them.

1249
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 3: They won't kind of get side.

1250
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: I like, dude, this dude that's ranked thirty eighth right

1251
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 1: now on our football team is taken off because he

1252
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,240
Speaker 1: needs to go be with the his family. Like clearly

1253
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: he doesn't want it bad enough. That's just that's the

1254
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 1: nature of the culture in a profession like the NFL.

1255
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:10,200
Speaker 2: Well, and Chef, I mean, it's funny, like the double

1256
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 2: edged sword that is the public opinion on stuff like this,

1257
01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 2: and Chef will probably know the answer to this. But

1258
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:18,960
Speaker 2: somebody recently just won the US Open on the same

1259
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 2: day that their son was born, Oh chors, and he

1260
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 2: was like, I gotta get the hell out of here.

1261
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 2: I gotta go meet my son. And it's nobody's sitting

1262
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 2: there going, hey, dude, what the heck are you doing

1263
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 2: playing in this tournament? You just missed the birth of

1264
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 2: your son. Like what a pos dad.

1265
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 5: As urban Meyer once said, I'll treat my superstars like

1266
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 5: superstars and my shit like shit.

1267
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 4: I think that's the quote.

1268
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 2: Well, there you go, there you go.

1269
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 1: And everybody knows this game, like it's not surprising to me,

1270
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 1: like when I am seeing the negative comments about it

1271
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: or people like, oh, thanks for telling us, you're a

1272
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 1: piece of shit. Dad, Oh this is a guy that's

1273
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 1: a girl dead by the way, or he has a

1274
01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:57,480
Speaker 1: dad podcast.

1275
01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you ain't gonna sit there and make everybody happy.

1276
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 3: I'm more so telling you like this. That was my

1277
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 3: experience seeing it all in the NFL.

1278
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 1: And even when I'm like, hey, thankfully I became a

1279
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 1: dead after the fact, in retrospect, I'm happy didn't happen.

1280
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:12,919
Speaker 1: Somebody was like, oh, so you're telling us you would

1281
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:14,919
Speaker 1: have been a piece of shit father. Then like, you're

1282
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 1: still probably pretty much the same, And I'm just thinking

1283
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: to myself, in what world is that like when I

1284
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: or one day when your daughter reads this, It's like, okay,

1285
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: when she if she were to read or come across this,

1286
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: then natural, Hey, your old man wasn't ready to be

1287
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 1: a father at that time. So when I was thinking

1288
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:34,919
Speaker 1: back on it, I'm glad it didn't happen. I'm sure

1289
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 1: that's gonna be an awfully hard conversation to have.

1290
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 2: I well, now I feel even worse that I didn't

1291
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 2: jump in to your defense on Twitter and say, hey,

1292
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:50,520
Speaker 2: just recently had my firstbor girl. Will and Taylor provided

1293
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 2: a great paternity leave for me, and for the days

1294
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:57,000
Speaker 2: I had to come in, what was it totally? Was

1295
01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 2: it like two months? It was like a month and

1296
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 2: a half. I don't know, but the days I came in,

1297
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 2: they provided a night nurse for Jill and I that

1298
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 2: night so we could get some sleep. And for somebody

1299
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 2: so like I should I should have come to your defense.

1300
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 3: Now, you dude, you're fine. It was truly one of

1301
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 3: those ones. I just didn't know how.

1302
01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: It'd land because I know it's like you got this

1303
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 1: softer generation on the people hate understanding what the truth

1304
01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 1: actually is. And I'm sitting there and giving you, like, hey,

1305
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if you agree with me or not,

1306
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: because the majority of people whatever they're saying, I'm like,

1307
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 1: hey man, I don't disagree with you.

1308
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 3: I'm just giving you an inside look on what this

1309
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 3: is like.

1310
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: And if you do want to be the best or

1311
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 1: in the top one percent or make it to the NFL,

1312
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 1: like there's gonna be, everyone knows that's the sacrifice that

1313
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: goes into it. Everybody knows that, Like, sure you got

1314
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: I met one of your buddies.

1315
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 3: I was at the Pro Bowl this week.

1316
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 1: Like anybody that you had, any any one of your

1317
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:55,240
Speaker 1: buddies that you've had that's.

1318
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 3: Played college sports or they're chasing their dream.

1319
01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 1: The world is kind of there world is kind of

1320
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 1: just shaped around them absolutely.

1321
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 3: Like, Hey, I'm coming up to watch you in a game.

1322
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 3: What do you want me to do this week when

1323
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 3: I get there? Are you sure you want me to

1324
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 3: stay at your house? Like?

1325
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: Are you sure I can get a couple of tickets.

1326
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be I'm not trying to be

1327
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: a nuisance. I don't want to annoy you. Let me

1328
01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 1: know what the best rudder like everything is around that

1329
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 1: human being because.

1330
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 3: They play the sport, they're chasing their dream.

1331
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:22,280
Speaker 1: I'm not a getting I'm not saying that's that how,

1332
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 1: that's how it has to be. I'm just saying, naturally,

1333
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: like that is just what it is now.

1334
01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 2: That is I lived with college football Ross mapsik is

1335
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 2: who he's referring to, who's Pro Bowl long snapper for

1336
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:39,600
Speaker 2: Jacksonville Jaguars. But I lived with one of his good bodies,

1337
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 2: Harson Fox, who is also on Baylor's football team. And yeah,

1338
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 2: Fox's daily schedule at college sucked. Ass.

1339
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 3: Dude.

1340
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 2: That guy was first one out of the house, last

1341
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 2: one into it, covered in sweat. Whenever he's coming in

1342
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 2: the door, He's like physically having to force feed himself.

1343
01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 2: Chick multiple Chick fil A Sandwiches because he's got to

1344
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 2: maintain a weight. He was an offensive lineman, like you

1345
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:09,360
Speaker 2: are signing up for something bigger than yourself when you're

1346
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 2: this is not a call center where you know you're

1347
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 2: doing customer service calls, which I'm not dogging it. I

1348
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 2: did it for like four years where I could very

1349
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:23,520
Speaker 2: easily take two months a PTO and nobody's gonna blink

1350
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:25,560
Speaker 2: an eye, right.

1351
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 1: And like you said, like when you were talking about

1352
01:04:27,680 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 1: the the package that you had with bus, and it's like, dude,

1353
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:34,280
Speaker 1: if anybody had a kid, like it's just man, you

1354
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 1: hope that everybody achieves what they need to achieve.

1355
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 3: Oh for sure, so that way they're in the world

1356
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 3: to where they can operate with some freedom.

1357
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: Because I'm it's like I'm this pot. We're all about

1358
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,160
Speaker 1: dad being at home. We're all about dad being intentional.

1359
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 1: We're all about dad mix it up up and not being.

1360
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 3: So stuck in gender roles. And you just go on

1361
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 3: and work.

1362
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 1: You're nine to five and food's expected to be on

1363
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:58,120
Speaker 1: the table when you get home, and you're the obviously

1364
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:00,240
Speaker 1: we shout out taking out the trash like you're only

1365
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: chores taking out the trash or fixing things around the house,

1366
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 1: really want you or in the dog We Yeah, we

1367
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: embrace partnership marriage like good balance with each other. It's tough, man,

1368
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 1: it's such a it's such a nuanced topic. And again

1369
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 1: I said in there AA, you know it's hard to explain,

1370
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: but nobody you know how the internet is.

1371
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:25,400
Speaker 2: Hey, and we're we're not going to make anybody or

1372
01:05:25,440 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 2: everybody happy with this is our truth that we live in,

1373
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 2: and we're sorry. We both have full time working wives,

1374
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 2: like we're this, this is our truth that we live in,

1375
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 2: and we're sorry. If you disagree, we're very sorry.

1376
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's you're right.

1377
01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 1: It is a That was a fun one, though. I

1378
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: appreciate you bringing that up, Chef. I honestly I forgotten

1379
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 1: about that, but it was going there was somewhere I'm like,

1380
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: damn people, it just feels like all they want to

1381
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 1: do right here is argue or say something taking shots

1382
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 1: at the forour the Dad's podcast, just like, buddy, you

1383
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: clearly don't listen to anything.

1384
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 2: Obviously.

1385
01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was raising through fact. But the best was

1386
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 4: Will's response to the one guy that said, uh, what

1387
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 4: are you gonna do when your daughter reads this, and

1388
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:23,680
Speaker 4: Will said, she's gonna have a lot to read, buddy.

1389
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 1: Because I'm just as I'm sitting there and I'm looking

1390
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 1: at that. I respond to a couple of people and

1391
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:26,920
Speaker 1: somebody's like, oh, you haven't won anything and tries to

1392
01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 1: show that I didn't win a championship in high school,

1393
01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: college or NFL.

1394
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:32,160
Speaker 3: And then I'm like, funny, how they forgot you.

1395
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 1: Know, grades four through seven or whatever I supposted to

1396
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 1: be funny. So and then somebody's upset with that. He's like,

1397
01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 1: is this supposed to be funny? I feel like I

1398
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: follow you. You get serious every now and then. You're

1399
01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: usually trying to be the funny guy, and I'm just like, man,

1400
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 1: I just tweet bro, like it's never that serious to

1401
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 1: where I'm trying to get upset or prove something to you.

1402
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: When you just you understand the nature of like social

1403
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: media now, like you sit there and spend your energy

1404
01:06:57,320 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 1: on it, You're just gonna be on your phone all

1405
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 1: day long, worked up about because you just want to

1406
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 1: be understood so badly. It's like, look, I can't help

1407
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 1: you if you're I'm trying to use the words to

1408
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: the best of my ability and letting you know. Hey,

1409
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 1: I don't disagree with you. I'm just this is my experience.

1410
01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 1: It's not surprising. Well he went fourteen to two the

1411
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 1: year before. Hey, I'm with you. When you're fourteen and two,

1412
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: it's a little easier back. Yeah, you're gonna take two weeks,

1413
01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:22,880
Speaker 1: you can work from home.

1414
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 3: Oh, that'll be awesome.

1415
01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 1: But then you have a season like you do, they

1416
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 1: find other decisions you might have made. They hold it

1417
01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:30,720
Speaker 1: against you and fire you. They leaked this internal stuff,

1418
01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: and it's like, that's.

1419
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 3: That's the game.

1420
01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 2: That's the game. Maybe that's the game and it sucks.

1421
01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 2: They call it the league for a reason. Also, I

1422
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 2: don't think you've ever sounded more like a father than

1423
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 2: when you said this generation, man's generation's so soft.

1424
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 3: Here you got you know how it is?

1425
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 1: Man? I, Oh, what do you think is gonna happen

1426
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 1: when your daughter reads this?

1427
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 3: Yank yank, buddy.

1428
01:07:57,640 --> 01:07:59,720
Speaker 1: I promise you we're gonna have some journals. She's gonna

1429
01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:02,920
Speaker 1: have a lot to read. See scan watch on YouTube

1430
01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 1: of her old man. She can form her own opinion,

1431
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 1: and I'm pretty sure, knock on wood, she's gonna have

1432
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 1: a good one, because we're gonna have a great relationship.

1433
01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 1: I'll be able to teach her a ball her old

1434
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 1: man not being ready to because there's always a part

1435
01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 1: of me that wanted to have the photos with my

1436
01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:21,960
Speaker 1: kiddos or with my with a child of mine in

1437
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:24,760
Speaker 1: full uniform, because I always thought that was awesome.

1438
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 3: Like be a football player. Yeah, they get to watch

1439
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 3: me from them all that stuff. Uh, that didn't happen.

1440
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 1: But again I'm I feel like I'm fortunate that father

1441
01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:35,400
Speaker 1: had happened after football, because I just feel like the

1442
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 1: way I was committed to football when I was in

1443
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 1: the thick of it, family would have.

1444
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 3: Just naturally, subconsciously whatever, not.

1445
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 1: Intentionally, but in just my movie, they would have been

1446
01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:48,639
Speaker 1: like second fiddle to.

1447
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 3: What was going on in the NFL. Always you want

1448
01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 3: to be the best when you're playing.

1449
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:55,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, all we were missing when you called this generation

1450
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:59,320
Speaker 2: soft is us standing on my back patio next to

1451
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 2: the smoker, some hollipops in our hands, and where you

1452
01:09:02,520 --> 01:09:05,680
Speaker 2: just you're in in the long monologue you go this

1453
01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 2: generation man, then just generation.

1454
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 1: Still with a bunch of pussies dad, Because I'm telling her,

1455
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 1: I think I was telling uh whenever I reacted to

1456
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 1: one where I'm like, uh, she's gonna have a lot

1457
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:21,719
Speaker 1: to read.

1458
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 3: Hey, if your daughter reads this, well, she's gonna have

1459
01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 3: a lot to read.

1460
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:26,720
Speaker 1: And it'll be after the conversation where I'm like, hey,

1461
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 1: your old man he wasn't you know what a hard

1462
01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:30,800
Speaker 1: conversation I have. Hey, your dad wasn't ready at this

1463
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,439
Speaker 1: age to be a father, Thank god, because if I

1464
01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 1: would have, it probably wouldn't have been you rue standing

1465
01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:37,479
Speaker 1: here in front of me. And then I'll talk to

1466
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 1: her about that while also talking to her about Hey,

1467
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 1: if you do want to be great in any lane,

1468
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 1: this is what it takes.

1469
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:47,599
Speaker 3: Nick Saban's famous quote, it takes what it takes. Yeah,

1470
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:48,479
Speaker 3: and you want to be the.

1471
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: Absolute best, there's gonna have to be a lot of

1472
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:54,640
Speaker 1: sacrifices and selfishness that you have to have because.

1473
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:55,679
Speaker 3: You want to be in this world.

1474
01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's your life and you making your own decisions,

1475
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: and they'll be a lot of good stuff that you

1476
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:04,960
Speaker 1: were able to talk about where you know it again,

1477
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,519
Speaker 1: it's nuanced, bro, it's a journey. It's a process. It

1478
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 1: never stops.

1479
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:11,640
Speaker 2: Well, you just quoted somebody that that in fact retired

1480
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:14,599
Speaker 2: to spend more time with family was his exact quote

1481
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 2: Nick Saban. So that proves the point even more of like, hey,

1482
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 2: you know I've made these sacrifices and now I want

1483
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 2: to move on and get back to the fam. I

1484
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:30,680
Speaker 2: have a potential dad hack, non dad hack, this might

1485
01:10:30,720 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 2: be a sherman. What the hell are you doing? Stop

1486
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 2: doing that? So I wanted to run it by you

1487
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 2: will to see if you have ever done this. But

1488
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:43,519
Speaker 2: I know you got your back issues. I am fighting.

1489
01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:45,720
Speaker 2: I am in the trenches right now with my back.

1490
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:50,600
Speaker 2: It is not good. I currently have four strands of

1491
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 2: KT tape on my bod right now, and it's been

1492
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:57,519
Speaker 2: hard to bend down and pick up Scarlet. And so

1493
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 2: what I have been doing is when she's laying on

1494
01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 2: her tummy and a onesie. And again, we might have

1495
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 2: to cut this from the episode, or you can say

1496
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 2: this is totally fine to do. I've been grabbing by

1497
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 2: the back of the onesie to pick her up, like

1498
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 2: grab a handful of the onesie. And it's a nice

1499
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 2: little like it's almost like grabbing a puppy dog by

1500
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:25,439
Speaker 2: its you know, its neck. But she's like fine, her

1501
01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 2: her head isn't dangling or anything. She kind of like

1502
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 2: Superman's up and then I put her into my arms.

1503
01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 2: Is that a dad hack? Or is that a no go.

1504
01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 3: Meaning like you shouldn't do that. Yeah, Oh, you shouldn't

1505
01:11:38,439 --> 01:11:40,400
Speaker 3: do that. It's news to me. I'll be out there swinging.

1506
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 3: I'll be out there swinging. There we go.

1507
01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 2: Okay, so it is a dad hack?

1508
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay?

1509
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:47,719
Speaker 2: Cool?

1510
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 1: A you want an easy way to pick up your

1511
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: kidd or I feel like you learn that on your

1512
01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:52,400
Speaker 1: own because you're kind of like you're kind of chuckling, like,

1513
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:53,960
Speaker 1: let me just pick them up here by the back

1514
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 1: and see what happened.

1515
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 2: Yes, that's what I did, especially when the guy.

1516
01:11:57,280 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 1: Like their overalls on and you kind of bring them

1517
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:00,799
Speaker 1: together and then it's eas.

1518
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:03,640
Speaker 4: Yes, I handed you sher. There's an EMO from a

1519
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 4: guy that was a huge dad hack ice skating with

1520
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 4: his one year old and there's a picture he has

1521
01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 4: her will picked up as if like from hockey pants

1522
01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 4: on the side, and so this was one that was

1523
01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:18,080
Speaker 4: meant for our first guest whenever that episode drops. But

1524
01:12:18,320 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 4: you could see he has her by some hind quarter

1525
01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:24,679
Speaker 4: device figure skating with his daughter and that's his dad hack.

1526
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:27,439
Speaker 4: So to your point, there are people doing this out

1527
01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:29,240
Speaker 4: in the wild and sending it to us.

1528
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:31,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's I mean, that's like kind of the

1529
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:35,839
Speaker 2: same principle, except for like she Scarlet's like, it's almost

1530
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:39,120
Speaker 2: like those laying on your stomach roller coasters, if y'all

1531
01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:41,599
Speaker 2: have ever done those that, Like Will was saying, where

1532
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:45,200
Speaker 2: you're swinging her around, I haven't run it by Jill

1533
01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:47,200
Speaker 2: yet because I'm a little nervous. I feel like she's

1534
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 2: gonna tell me not to pick her up like that.

1535
01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 2: But I just couldn't get down that extra couple inches.

1536
01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 2: So I was like, I'll just instead of having to

1537
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:58,519
Speaker 2: go two hands underneath, I'll just pinch the onesie on

1538
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:01,519
Speaker 2: the back and pick her up that way. It felt good.

1539
01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:02,599
Speaker 2: It felt like a dad hack.

1540
01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:06,720
Speaker 1: It feels great when it happens. It feels great when

1541
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: it happened.

1542
01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 3: I got a uh, I got a dad hack here

1543
01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 3: from because my again my dad hack earlier earlier. Oh

1544
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:18,640
Speaker 3: the T shirt and the sweatshirt my dad ack earlier. Yeah,

1545
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:19,920
Speaker 3: I got a dad.

1546
01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 1: Act here from Colton Ross Moosen on Spotify against Spotify comments.

1547
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 3: You guys know I love the Spotify comments. Will it

1548
01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:30,520
Speaker 3: Willie red eye.

1549
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: Hashtag dipe dad, diaper hack, dad of two soon to

1550
01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 1: be three. Congratulations Colton. This is something I learned from

1551
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:38,719
Speaker 1: a coworker of mine that I have never heard anyone

1552
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,680
Speaker 1: else do. But I'll never do it any other way. So,

1553
01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 1: once the kids start getting mobile mobile poopy diapers lately,

1554
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:52,759
Speaker 1: So once the kids start getting mobile mobile poopy diapers,

1555
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:57,839
Speaker 1: lay the baby on the floor, diaper towards your dominant hand,

1556
01:13:59,040 --> 01:14:03,880
Speaker 1: leg opposite. Your dominant hand goes over baby just enough

1557
01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:08,840
Speaker 1: to keep them from rolling, and your leg blocks their hands.

1558
01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:13,920
Speaker 1: Getting messy. Maybe unnecessary, but have never gone back. Hashtag

1559
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 1: moji siico. I'll be honest, I read that out loud,

1560
01:14:20,280 --> 01:14:22,559
Speaker 1: but I have no clue how to visualize this.

1561
01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 2: I'm okay, So this is this is what I'm intening.

1562
01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:28,800
Speaker 3: Mobile poopy diapers.

1563
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,720
Speaker 2: Mobile poopy diapers. He has will check me out, can

1564
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 2: you see me? Yeah, here's uh, here's baby's head, here's

1565
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 2: poopy diaper. And I think he's on his knees, so

1566
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 2: he kind of has torso buckled up against the knees

1567
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 2: right here, and he's reaching overbody like this, so he's

1568
01:14:47,960 --> 01:14:51,639
Speaker 2: operating down here. So then baby can't really roll because

1569
01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:54,040
Speaker 2: we got an arm on the torso. And then the

1570
01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:56,760
Speaker 2: legs are kind of pinched right there too. Is that

1571
01:14:56,840 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 2: does that sound?

1572
01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:02,680
Speaker 3: Diaper towards your dominant hand.

1573
01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 4: Sounds as good as possibly can be good. You'd have

1574
01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 4: to try it, I guess.

1575
01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:06,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1576
01:15:08,800 --> 01:15:11,120
Speaker 2: We might have to have him follow up with a

1577
01:15:11,240 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 2: video demonstration.

1578
01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 4: I'll reply right now.

1579
01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we need a video demonstration because we're our

1580
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:18,720
Speaker 2: brain is in knots.

1581
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:21,599
Speaker 3: On the phone. Gotta have video. No, no, no. Are

1582
01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 3: we talking.

1583
01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: Babies laying on the changing table and trying to be mobile?

1584
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:29,520
Speaker 2: Are they on their stomach? Are they on their back.

1585
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 3: Like mobile poopy diapers? I'm thinking they're running around the house.

1586
01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:35,040
Speaker 3: They got a poopy diaper. Maybe the poop's laying out. Hey,

1587
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 3: get them on the floor right away.

1588
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, well we might be talking about a

1589
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:40,200
Speaker 1: changing table operation.

1590
01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, which I would love.

1591
01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:46,040
Speaker 1: To heard it back when Scotty was in her prime

1592
01:15:46,120 --> 01:15:47,719
Speaker 1: with being mobile and trying to wrestle.

1593
01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 3: And they get so good at bridging, You get so

1594
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:53,200
Speaker 3: good at bridging with their head bro to where they're

1595
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 3: basically vertical in the air as you're trying to like

1596
01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:59,320
Speaker 3: wipe yes, and then you're kind of just like Scotty,

1597
01:15:59,439 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 3: just like.

1598
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 2: Down I have on our changing table. I have a

1599
01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:07,599
Speaker 2: lamp on either end of the changing table. And this

1600
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:11,600
Speaker 2: lamp right here is the one where I put Scarlet's

1601
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:15,760
Speaker 2: head is over here. Scarlet's mission in life is to

1602
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,080
Speaker 2: destroy that lamp, like that lamp needs to die in

1603
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:22,519
Speaker 2: her in her mind. And she's been doing that, dude,

1604
01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 2: just arching her back and she's just grabbing the lamp

1605
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 2: shade and just she wants to rip that thing apart.

1606
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:36,040
Speaker 2: I also, I have another dad hack here. It says

1607
01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:40,200
Speaker 2: if you don't like Will Compton's tweets, unfollow them. I

1608
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:43,080
Speaker 2: thought that was a great.

1609
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 1: Somebody wrote that inn say hey, let me you know

1610
01:16:49,840 --> 01:16:52,280
Speaker 1: what and send me replying under his tweet.

1611
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:54,640
Speaker 3: Let me go into the Spotify comments and drop it.

1612
01:16:54,640 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 3: It'll see it there.

1613
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 2: No, but we did reply to to our friend that

1614
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:05,479
Speaker 2: submitted the mobile poopy diaper. Derek just got on there

1615
01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:08,080
Speaker 2: on Spotify and said, we need a video demonstration.

1616
01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:09,320
Speaker 3: Colton Rich there we go.

1617
01:17:09,400 --> 01:17:11,360
Speaker 4: We said, can you email us a video demonstration because

1618
01:17:11,360 --> 01:17:12,800
Speaker 4: you put us in a blender trying to do this

1619
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 4: on air.

1620
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:17,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we do need that.

1621
01:17:18,160 --> 01:17:22,000
Speaker 2: And our friend that emailed in, Zachary, I'm sorry that

1622
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:26,720
Speaker 2: we didn't read your email aloud on the pod, but

1623
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 2: that was from Zachary Green, So that's him and his

1624
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:34,400
Speaker 2: kiddo and they are Canadian. They're from Toronto, so shout

1625
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:38,640
Speaker 2: out Zachary and his fam and his little dad hack of.

1626
01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:43,760
Speaker 2: It's called a jolly jumper seat. So if you go

1627
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,720
Speaker 2: ice skating with your kiddo, a little dad hack for you,

1628
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:50,559
Speaker 2: bring along a jolly jumper seat and you can skate

1629
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:51,400
Speaker 2: along with your kiddo.

1630
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:56,480
Speaker 3: Oh I love that. Who would have thunk it?

1631
01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:59,519
Speaker 2: Do we want to go into Collins? Do we want

1632
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:04,640
Speaker 2: to do voice? Am I missing anything? I feel like?

1633
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:08,679
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, I do actually have a cool dad act

1634
01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:12,599
Speaker 1: here from Henry Torrez the third on Spotify that I

1635
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:14,880
Speaker 1: saw that I thought was interesting. My six year old,

1636
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:17,000
Speaker 1: My six year old has been wanting some iPad time.

1637
01:18:17,040 --> 01:18:20,800
Speaker 1: Negotiated a deal with him for every minute he trains,

1638
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:27,000
Speaker 1: he gets a minute on his iPad. Bodyweight exercises, speed

1639
01:18:27,080 --> 01:18:31,080
Speaker 1: ladder boxing. He's playing basketball now, so we do ball

1640
01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:33,120
Speaker 1: handling and passing the kicker.

1641
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:34,599
Speaker 3: I do all the drills with him.

1642
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 1: He doesn't know it, but there's nothing I look forward

1643
01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 1: to after the days of worked in training with my boy. Hey,

1644
01:18:40,439 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 1: that's that's look key, that last sentence right there almost

1645
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:46,240
Speaker 1: shot up. I'm feeling a frizziness in my nose right

1646
01:18:46,280 --> 01:18:48,680
Speaker 1: now from him, and joined that so much because I

1647
01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:49,639
Speaker 1: also think it's hilarious.

1648
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:52,080
Speaker 3: He's got a six year old. And hey, every minute you.

1649
01:18:52,120 --> 01:18:58,840
Speaker 1: Train, whether it be sprints, waits, basketball, every minute you train,

1650
01:18:58,960 --> 01:18:59,960
Speaker 1: you get some screen time.

1651
01:19:00,240 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 2: And you know that Stopwatch is just running a little

1652
01:19:02,840 --> 01:19:05,000
Speaker 2: bit slower than usual for some reason.

1653
01:19:05,120 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that when you're in the middle of training

1654
01:19:07,600 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 1: instead of just a minute of training.

1655
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:11,559
Speaker 3: Eventually, he's gonna have to earn it. Hey, did you

1656
01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:13,760
Speaker 3: earn the training? Earn the minutes in the training?

1657
01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:16,160
Speaker 1: Because I got you about thirty minutes, but only fifteen

1658
01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:17,160
Speaker 1: of them were productive.

1659
01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 3: That's it.

1660
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 2: That's what I Only saw two good minutes in that one.

1661
01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:28,120
Speaker 2: Did you get two minutes on the iPad? That's so true.

1662
01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:29,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1663
01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:33,680
Speaker 3: Oh, let's get into some let's get into some voicemause.

1664
01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1665
01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:34,600
Speaker 3: Six and one of the.

1666
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:37,720
Speaker 4: Dads, this first one is called cloth diapers.

1667
01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 6: Oh God, Willie Shirm names Hayden the high school football

1668
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 6: coach up here in northern Kentucky. Uh said to become

1669
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:51,920
Speaker 6: a PT sixer here in May. Girl Dad I'm super

1670
01:19:51,960 --> 01:19:55,559
Speaker 6: stoked about it. Recently found out about the pod about

1671
01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 6: a few weeks ago, and I've been going back listening

1672
01:19:58,080 --> 01:20:00,759
Speaker 6: to every episode. So I'm not sure if this topic

1673
01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:05,920
Speaker 6: has been covered. But my wife is dead set on

1674
01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:10,840
Speaker 6: us doing cloth diapers. I'm not quite sure how to

1675
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:14,880
Speaker 6: feel about it. All the PT six veterans aren't super

1676
01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:18,400
Speaker 6: encouraging either, making it seem like I'm gonna be in

1677
01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:23,559
Speaker 6: the trenches of Normandy Beach here pretty soon. You got

1678
01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:27,800
Speaker 6: any tips or advice or know anybody who has gone

1679
01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:32,559
Speaker 6: through this process, feel free to uh send them this way.

1680
01:20:33,360 --> 01:20:35,439
Speaker 3: Uh love love the work you guys are doing.

1681
01:20:35,520 --> 01:20:38,120
Speaker 6: Man, got me stoked to go on this journey with

1682
01:20:38,280 --> 01:20:41,559
Speaker 6: my wife and my future daughter and keep up the

1683
01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 6: good work.

1684
01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:44,160
Speaker 3: Brother.

1685
01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 1: Congratulations Man, sure them if we can, if we can

1686
01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:49,720
Speaker 1: get some googling happening right now, I only got one

1687
01:20:49,720 --> 01:20:50,599
Speaker 1: percent battery on.

1688
01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:52,080
Speaker 3: My phone, so I'm not able to do it.

1689
01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:54,880
Speaker 1: But cloth diapers, I don't know if I've experienced anybody

1690
01:20:55,000 --> 01:20:56,120
Speaker 1: does cloth diapers yet.

1691
01:20:56,200 --> 01:21:00,960
Speaker 2: I have about this much experience with cloth diapers through

1692
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 2: talking with Jill on it.

1693
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:05,400
Speaker 3: Okay, so you might have some game.

1694
01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:09,519
Speaker 2: I have a little bit of game essentially, is the game?

1695
01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 1: Is it gonna land with him like he needs to

1696
01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:13,680
Speaker 1: talk his wife off of it? Or is it some

1697
01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:15,480
Speaker 1: game orhere there's some Optimus.

1698
01:21:15,479 --> 01:21:20,200
Speaker 2: Oh no, and I don't like Hayden is what's his name?

1699
01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:20,599
Speaker 3: Yes?

1700
01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:23,679
Speaker 2: First off, Hayden, thank you for your service of being

1701
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:26,799
Speaker 2: a high school football coach. You sound like a legend.

1702
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:31,720
Speaker 2: Your empty sixer sounds like a goddess. She sounds incredible,

1703
01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:34,280
Speaker 2: And best of luck to y'all. May is a great

1704
01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:39,000
Speaker 2: month for a baby to be born. Congratulations, I will

1705
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:42,040
Speaker 2: say this, no, no, now, yeah, I'm doing one of

1706
01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:50,599
Speaker 2: those whatever the sandwich sandwich now, I will go as

1707
01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:54,120
Speaker 2: as Derek is showing me a Reddit page for Clode

1708
01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:56,160
Speaker 2: diapers where it looks like just a bunch of people

1709
01:21:57,160 --> 01:22:01,760
Speaker 2: submitting their whoor stories of clothe They call them poop dozers.

1710
01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:05,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, it's uh, dude, a ton of hand washing.

1711
01:22:06,080 --> 01:22:08,960
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to buy a lot. First off, it's

1712
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:11,640
Speaker 2: just you're constantly gonna have to be cleaning these guys.

1713
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:13,960
Speaker 2: And you got to think when you're when your baby

1714
01:22:14,040 --> 01:22:16,360
Speaker 2: is first born, So when you have your your newborn,

1715
01:22:16,720 --> 01:22:19,839
Speaker 2: it's pretty much every two hours you're doing your feeds.

1716
01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:23,040
Speaker 2: Correct me if I'm wrong on that will but I

1717
01:22:23,080 --> 01:22:25,479
Speaker 2: think it's every two hours, and think about.

1718
01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:27,240
Speaker 1: It, two three hours. You're trying to push for a

1719
01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:31,680
Speaker 1: three hour window. But think about changes.

1720
01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:35,400
Speaker 2: All think about all those diaper changes, dude, that you

1721
01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:39,840
Speaker 2: had to do in those two hour intervals. You're not

1722
01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:42,759
Speaker 2: just throwing it away. You are then you are adding

1723
01:22:42,760 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 2: an extra step of I got clean this sucker and

1724
01:22:46,840 --> 01:22:49,439
Speaker 2: then I got dry this sucker to be ready to

1725
01:22:49,479 --> 01:22:53,280
Speaker 2: be worn again. It's just it is an extra step.

1726
01:22:53,439 --> 01:22:56,679
Speaker 2: It's it's gonna be a lot of work they leave,

1727
01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:58,280
Speaker 2: so it's it's doable.

1728
01:22:58,360 --> 01:23:01,839
Speaker 1: You just have to show rolle cloth diapers on rotation

1729
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:03,760
Speaker 1: to where you got to clean one coming in, but

1730
01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:06,400
Speaker 1: the minute you change the old one, that one's going

1731
01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:07,879
Speaker 1: into now the washing process.

1732
01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 2: Okay, I have an analogy that I think might land

1733
01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:14,880
Speaker 2: with our golfing dats. This would be my analogy is

1734
01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:18,400
Speaker 2: he is starting to learn how to play golf playing

1735
01:23:18,439 --> 01:23:21,320
Speaker 2: with blades like blade irons.

1736
01:23:20,880 --> 01:23:21,719
Speaker 3: O's a good.

1737
01:23:21,560 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 2: One, which is like that's what the pros are using.

1738
01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:28,400
Speaker 2: They're using blades all the newbies. They got that little

1739
01:23:28,400 --> 01:23:30,680
Speaker 2: added weight on the back of it. It helps your

1740
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:33,880
Speaker 2: iron shots to go further. And straight, or it's a

1741
01:23:33,960 --> 01:23:37,719
Speaker 2: nice little handicap because you're new to this. He's starting

1742
01:23:37,720 --> 01:23:40,160
Speaker 2: off his golfing journey with the hardest clubs he could

1743
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:44,400
Speaker 2: be possibly hitting, and there's nothing Hey, there ain't nothing

1744
01:23:44,400 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 2: wrong with it. Because if you start with blades in golf,

1745
01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:51,120
Speaker 2: you're gonna learn ball control real fast, and you're gonna

1746
01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna learn what a bad golf swing looks like

1747
01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 2: really fast. Same with cloth diapers. There's probably gonna be

1748
01:23:57,320 --> 01:24:02,360
Speaker 2: shitting pissed everywhere. So honestly, Hayden, you're you're signing up for,

1749
01:24:02,960 --> 01:24:06,559
Speaker 2: you know, a challenging next few months. But if hey,

1750
01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:11,000
Speaker 2: if empty sixer is saying that, that's all I'm saying, man,

1751
01:24:11,680 --> 01:24:13,920
Speaker 2: you just you keep that gap.

1752
01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:15,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1753
01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 1: Hey, you know the quote, man, happy wife, happy life, brother. Yeah, man,

1754
01:24:20,280 --> 01:24:22,680
Speaker 1: and mom was pushing it and you gotta find you

1755
01:24:22,680 --> 01:24:26,240
Speaker 1: know what, Then you got to switch into stoic philosophy.

1756
01:24:26,479 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 1: You gotta start telling yourself the obstacle is the way. Yeah,

1757
01:24:32,000 --> 01:24:38,560
Speaker 1: you're choosing the path of most resistance, the road less traveled.

1758
01:24:38,640 --> 01:24:41,280
Speaker 2: I got a four letter word with one syllable and

1759
01:24:41,320 --> 01:24:42,760
Speaker 2: it just rolls.

1760
01:24:42,439 --> 01:24:46,920
Speaker 3: Off the dog. It's good. Yeah, it's good.

1761
01:24:46,960 --> 01:24:49,320
Speaker 1: A lot of good, a lot of good in his future,

1762
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:50,519
Speaker 1: A lot of good. It.

1763
01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:54,559
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, dude, keep hey, keep the wifey happy, all right,

1764
01:24:54,640 --> 01:24:56,759
Speaker 2: tell her it's the best idea in the entire world.

1765
01:24:57,040 --> 01:25:00,160
Speaker 2: But tell her you heard from a friend. You I

1766
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:02,160
Speaker 2: be signing up for a lot of extra work. And

1767
01:25:02,200 --> 01:25:04,200
Speaker 2: if it is a if it is a budget thing,

1768
01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:08,200
Speaker 2: if that is the reason, dude it, then obviously it

1769
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:12,479
Speaker 2: is a you will save so much money that way,

1770
01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:16,200
Speaker 2: so much money that way. So if it's for financial reasons,

1771
01:25:16,200 --> 01:25:19,360
Speaker 2: totally get that. To get that to you, And.

1772
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:23,200
Speaker 1: Hayden being a ball coach brings me back to the

1773
01:25:23,240 --> 01:25:24,440
Speaker 1: Minnesota conversation.

1774
01:25:24,640 --> 01:25:28,240
Speaker 2: Come on, man, come on man, Oh no.

1775
01:25:28,760 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, what what do you what do you assuming that?

1776
01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:36,160
Speaker 2: He I mean late nights, Mama is gonna be.

1777
01:25:36,439 --> 01:25:39,719
Speaker 3: Having to Yeah, yeah, it's gonna be hard.

1778
01:25:40,200 --> 01:25:44,920
Speaker 1: And that that's another reason why I did jump into it,

1779
01:25:44,920 --> 01:25:45,839
Speaker 1: and I talk about.

1780
01:25:45,640 --> 01:25:49,080
Speaker 3: How it's such a hard explanation because.

1781
01:25:48,840 --> 01:25:52,559
Speaker 1: As I am explaining it, it's not like I'm feeling

1782
01:25:52,640 --> 01:25:55,600
Speaker 1: like being a coach or being in that world is

1783
01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:57,240
Speaker 1: like I'm like, oh, that's not the way to do

1784
01:25:57,280 --> 01:25:58,519
Speaker 1: it if you want to be a great dad.

1785
01:25:58,680 --> 01:26:00,599
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I just don't.

1786
01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:03,360
Speaker 1: I don't envy that as much as I used to

1787
01:26:03,479 --> 01:26:05,680
Speaker 1: because of the work and the time you have to

1788
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:09,200
Speaker 1: put into it. When my man is they're using the

1789
01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:12,639
Speaker 1: two week praternity to leave as a variable hate than

1790
01:26:12,760 --> 01:26:16,200
Speaker 1: any coach, anybody trying to be you know, a dog

1791
01:26:16,280 --> 01:26:19,760
Speaker 1: at anything knows you never give them a reason them

1792
01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:21,000
Speaker 1: as in the higher ups.

1793
01:26:21,080 --> 01:26:23,599
Speaker 3: You never give them a reason to get you out

1794
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:24,000
Speaker 3: the door.

1795
01:26:24,200 --> 01:26:24,439
Speaker 2: Yep.

1796
01:26:25,160 --> 01:26:27,479
Speaker 3: And that just happens to be an extra variable part

1797
01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:28,200
Speaker 3: of me. You know.

1798
01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 1: I hear Hayden and I hear that he's a ball coach.

1799
01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:31,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, I kind of hate that. I feel like

1800
01:26:31,800 --> 01:26:34,240
Speaker 1: I'm I'm saying it's a bad thing to be in

1801
01:26:34,280 --> 01:26:37,280
Speaker 1: that world. It's more of just you know, I'm doing

1802
01:26:37,320 --> 01:26:40,000
Speaker 1: my best to talk to when chef brings that up.

1803
01:26:39,960 --> 01:26:42,160
Speaker 2: And it's not a bit, it's not a bad thing.

1804
01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:45,840
Speaker 2: It also, hey, we aren't taking this isn't like we're

1805
01:26:45,840 --> 01:26:51,360
Speaker 2: talking vaccinate, don't vaccinate and once vaccinated, now it's too late.

1806
01:26:51,400 --> 01:26:53,320
Speaker 2: We're talking clock dipis.

1807
01:26:53,760 --> 01:26:55,240
Speaker 3: They can We're talking club dice.

1808
01:26:55,280 --> 01:26:58,200
Speaker 2: It can switch the regular dippies whenever they want. If

1809
01:26:58,240 --> 01:27:01,320
Speaker 2: the clock dipis don't work out, switched to regular.

1810
01:27:01,520 --> 01:27:04,120
Speaker 4: I am finding so that entire time. I'm so sorry

1811
01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:07,040
Speaker 4: Arizona that I've just been going through Reddit cloth diaper threads.

1812
01:27:07,080 --> 01:27:10,320
Speaker 4: A lot of people are doing hybrid so longer journeys

1813
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:13,280
Speaker 4: with a nanny or something, anything in which you don't

1814
01:27:13,320 --> 01:27:16,000
Speaker 4: want it to be the cloth one. They're using regular diapers,

1815
01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:18,920
Speaker 4: but at nights, short trips or whenever you're just around

1816
01:27:18,960 --> 01:27:20,800
Speaker 4: the house and you know both parents can be there

1817
01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:22,800
Speaker 4: and you're okay with it, they're using cloth and a

1818
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:24,320
Speaker 4: lot of people have saved a lot of money with that.

1819
01:27:24,360 --> 01:27:27,880
Speaker 4: So the hybrid approach seems to be the most kind

1820
01:27:27,920 --> 01:27:30,640
Speaker 4: of cost effective and it doesn't leave you out and

1821
01:27:30,680 --> 01:27:31,960
Speaker 4: about with the cloth diaper.

1822
01:27:32,080 --> 01:27:37,320
Speaker 1: So well done, breve breakdown, Well done, Deeke, great breakdown.

1823
01:27:37,439 --> 01:27:37,840
Speaker 3: Shut out.

1824
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 2: Hayden comes shout out, Hayden. Maybe I love that. Now

1825
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:43,120
Speaker 2: we're providing a little bit of help to Hayden. Maybe

1826
01:27:43,120 --> 01:27:44,680
Speaker 2: go to the hybrid route. Thank you.

1827
01:27:45,120 --> 01:27:49,040
Speaker 1: Not only is he protecting the egg gap, protect the

1828
01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:51,160
Speaker 1: cloth diaper, Yeah, he's protecting the wall.

1829
01:27:51,560 --> 01:27:55,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's protecting the wallet, the the BB's behind and

1830
01:27:57,120 --> 01:27:57,559
Speaker 2: the team.

1831
01:27:58,479 --> 01:28:02,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, happy happy wife. I'd be live, I'd be.

1832
01:28:02,120 --> 01:28:02,840
Speaker 4: Wife, I'd be live.

1833
01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:05,240
Speaker 2: How are you doing on time? Will Compton? Do you

1834
01:28:05,240 --> 01:28:06,880
Speaker 2: want to hit another voicemail?

1835
01:28:08,240 --> 01:28:10,160
Speaker 3: Sure, let's sen in another voicemail.

1836
01:28:10,320 --> 01:28:15,479
Speaker 2: Let's do it. That was a great call in by

1837
01:28:15,479 --> 01:28:16,599
Speaker 2: the way, Hayden, thank you.

1838
01:28:17,080 --> 01:28:20,439
Speaker 5: Number two voicemail is cans are effing gone.

1839
01:28:22,479 --> 01:28:26,080
Speaker 8: What's up? Boys? This is John from Erie Pa. I

1840
01:28:26,080 --> 01:28:29,000
Speaker 8: got a little Dad hack for you. Last week I

1841
01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:31,360
Speaker 8: put the trash out thanks to Willie one Sholf's advice.

1842
01:28:31,479 --> 01:28:33,680
Speaker 8: I have forgotten a few times, but since I've been

1843
01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:35,880
Speaker 8: listening to the pod, I've not forgotten, So thank you

1844
01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:40,000
Speaker 8: will for that. But Dad Hack here, just throw your

1845
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:43,759
Speaker 8: trash on the street, not in cans, just like loose

1846
01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:46,640
Speaker 8: trash or in bag. Just throw it out there for

1847
01:28:46,720 --> 01:28:48,759
Speaker 8: the wind to take it forever.

1848
01:28:49,120 --> 01:28:49,920
Speaker 3: Because if you put.

1849
01:28:49,800 --> 01:28:53,280
Speaker 8: It in cans, the garbage men take your cans and

1850
01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:57,559
Speaker 8: then they just the wind takes the cans and forever

1851
01:28:57,720 --> 01:29:01,839
Speaker 8: they're gone. So now I'm down cans, I have nowhere

1852
01:29:01,880 --> 01:29:05,559
Speaker 8: to put my trash, and I'm screwed. So we're just

1853
01:29:05,560 --> 01:29:07,720
Speaker 8: gonna leave the trash inside of the road and just

1854
01:29:07,800 --> 01:29:10,120
Speaker 8: let it be and we'll see what happens. But yeah,

1855
01:29:10,200 --> 01:29:11,080
Speaker 8: cans are fucking gone.

1856
01:29:11,120 --> 01:29:11,639
Speaker 3: It's awesome.

1857
01:29:11,680 --> 01:29:14,559
Speaker 8: So anyway, I love the boys, love the pod, keep

1858
01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:16,280
Speaker 8: it up, keep doing the Lord's work.

1859
01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:21,839
Speaker 3: Six out cans.

1860
01:29:23,200 --> 01:29:25,840
Speaker 2: He said he was in PA. I was like, are

1861
01:29:25,840 --> 01:29:28,160
Speaker 2: you in Oklahoma? Like where what's going on?

1862
01:29:28,479 --> 01:29:32,559
Speaker 1: Is a tornado happening outside the way it blows forever?

1863
01:29:32,640 --> 01:29:33,320
Speaker 3: They're gone.

1864
01:29:33,600 --> 01:29:35,519
Speaker 2: I think I think the issue might be with the

1865
01:29:35,560 --> 01:29:36,240
Speaker 2: garbage men.

1866
01:29:37,040 --> 01:29:39,360
Speaker 4: We don't get cans in Pennsylvania like you guys. There's

1867
01:29:39,400 --> 01:29:40,840
Speaker 4: house cans here. I don't know if that's an over

1868
01:29:40,880 --> 01:29:44,040
Speaker 4: thing you get. Yeah, you buy your own trash cans

1869
01:29:44,040 --> 01:29:46,840
Speaker 4: in Pennsylvania. And so I know for a fact what

1870
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:48,360
Speaker 4: this guy is going through. But the other thing is

1871
01:29:48,400 --> 01:29:51,960
Speaker 4: this guy has been in the call Q like I've

1872
01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:54,439
Speaker 4: moved him every episode. It's been a little bit because

1873
01:29:54,479 --> 01:29:57,360
Speaker 4: I just love that guy. Sounds so defeated. He said,

1874
01:29:57,400 --> 01:29:58,960
Speaker 4: you can put him in the can, but the garbagemen

1875
01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:00,639
Speaker 4: take the can and then they're gone, and the wind

1876
01:30:00,640 --> 01:30:02,879
Speaker 4: took the other ones, and now I have no fucking cans.

1877
01:30:03,280 --> 01:30:04,240
Speaker 4: I loved this guy.

1878
01:30:04,360 --> 01:30:08,960
Speaker 2: What a crazy I just can't wrap my mind around that.

1879
01:30:09,320 --> 01:30:09,639
Speaker 3: Derek.

1880
01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:11,759
Speaker 1: Is that a vibe where people just put their trash

1881
01:30:11,800 --> 01:30:15,760
Speaker 1: like just on this there's cans.

1882
01:30:15,400 --> 01:30:19,640
Speaker 4: Like you you. I would assume that there are situations

1883
01:30:19,680 --> 01:30:21,559
Speaker 4: in which your can is full, so you put it there.

1884
01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:25,800
Speaker 4: I've never seen somebody just like leave their trash outside

1885
01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:30,360
Speaker 4: the house. I would very much though, stand in unison

1886
01:30:30,400 --> 01:30:33,880
Speaker 4: with this guy that if your cans are just gone, bro, dude,

1887
01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:35,000
Speaker 4: you gotta do I guess.

1888
01:30:35,160 --> 01:30:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if.

1889
01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:39,559
Speaker 3: That's more of a dad that's that's more of a

1890
01:30:39,960 --> 01:30:42,080
Speaker 3: that's more of a fuck the system. Yes, this is

1891
01:30:42,120 --> 01:30:42,720
Speaker 3: a dad hack.

1892
01:30:42,960 --> 01:30:43,360
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1893
01:30:44,000 --> 01:30:46,760
Speaker 2: I was just about to say, is this something that

1894
01:30:46,880 --> 01:30:49,679
Speaker 2: we militarize the PT six kids?

1895
01:30:49,720 --> 01:30:52,320
Speaker 3: So kids show that you just pretend you heard a

1896
01:30:52,360 --> 01:30:54,479
Speaker 3: belief that one. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1897
01:30:54,760 --> 01:30:58,880
Speaker 2: Do we militarize the PT six community and try and

1898
01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:03,519
Speaker 2: get some legislation in past in PA for the for

1899
01:31:03,560 --> 01:31:06,439
Speaker 2: the cans to be provided. I've lived only in four

1900
01:31:06,920 --> 01:31:10,720
Speaker 2: like states where like I lived in every single in

1901
01:31:10,760 --> 01:31:12,280
Speaker 2: those states provided cans.

1902
01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:15,560
Speaker 3: What a stick flex, Bro, you've lived in four states?

1903
01:31:17,080 --> 01:31:31,479
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I'm just having fun. He's having fun that way.

1904
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:33,960
Speaker 3: Oh sick, you've lived in four states?

1905
01:31:34,040 --> 01:31:36,599
Speaker 2: Lived in Missouri? Did they provide cans?

1906
01:31:37,520 --> 01:31:39,439
Speaker 3: No? You got to You got to buy your own.

1907
01:31:40,280 --> 01:31:42,599
Speaker 2: Really, that blows my mind?

1908
01:31:42,920 --> 01:31:45,919
Speaker 3: Got options or or I bonti Missouri.

1909
01:31:47,120 --> 01:31:49,880
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's actually a really good point too. Maybe

1910
01:31:49,960 --> 01:31:54,120
Speaker 2: if you're more rural then they wouldn't provide cans. But

1911
01:31:54,240 --> 01:31:57,720
Speaker 2: this poor guy, I mean that that just blows my

1912
01:31:57,760 --> 01:32:00,320
Speaker 2: mind that you wouldn't have like your nice gar garbage

1913
01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:01,679
Speaker 2: bind that you'd roll to the street.

1914
01:32:02,360 --> 01:32:04,960
Speaker 3: I know, I know, man, No bad idea is in

1915
01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:05,640
Speaker 3: a brainstorm.

1916
01:32:05,760 --> 01:32:07,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, we should buy this pet sixer.

1917
01:32:08,800 --> 01:32:11,280
Speaker 5: I can we should.

1918
01:32:11,000 --> 01:32:16,760
Speaker 3: Buy chefs should like because I'm thinking two lights. Yeah sure,

1919
01:32:16,840 --> 01:32:19,559
Speaker 3: let's let's just say that that's a dad hack. It's

1920
01:32:19,600 --> 01:32:21,960
Speaker 3: not a dad hack. We can actually get behind.

1921
01:32:23,720 --> 01:32:27,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, you know next week we hit you know,

1922
01:32:28,479 --> 01:32:31,160
Speaker 1: Shay this morning as this episode comes out and shure them.

1923
01:32:31,160 --> 01:32:33,200
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, reminder, trash day and it's just a

1924
01:32:33,200 --> 01:32:35,840
Speaker 1: photo of your trash on the side of the road.

1925
01:32:36,920 --> 01:32:39,400
Speaker 4: I think he was using dad hack facetiously. He was

1926
01:32:39,479 --> 01:32:41,240
Speaker 4: using it as like, here's a Dad hack. Ause my

1927
01:32:41,360 --> 01:32:46,080
Speaker 4: fucking kid, Sorry, my cans are gone. Yeah, I'm with you,

1928
01:32:46,160 --> 01:32:48,360
Speaker 4: will I think that there, I mean, chef, I'll hunt

1929
01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:51,240
Speaker 4: I'll hunt it down if we get this guy. But

1930
01:32:51,280 --> 01:32:53,759
Speaker 4: you know what he needs. He needs those like two

1931
01:32:53,800 --> 01:32:57,439
Speaker 4: by four wooden containers that Dad sometimes build that you

1932
01:32:57,479 --> 01:32:59,759
Speaker 4: put your trash cans in so it won't go away,

1933
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:02,800
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. Yeah, like those things are

1934
01:33:02,880 --> 01:33:05,800
Speaker 4: cool that you know it hopefully won't fly away.

1935
01:33:05,840 --> 01:33:08,519
Speaker 2: That's what he needs, is one of those.

1936
01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:10,840
Speaker 3: I'm done to get him set up. I'm done to

1937
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:12,080
Speaker 3: get help with the can.

1938
01:33:12,840 --> 01:33:13,679
Speaker 4: I'll do some digging.

1939
01:33:13,880 --> 01:33:16,840
Speaker 2: I would. I would be down to help him out

1940
01:33:16,840 --> 01:33:18,880
Speaker 2: as well, because I just feel like the answer is

1941
01:33:18,880 --> 01:33:22,400
Speaker 2: not leaving your trash on the side of the road.

1942
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:24,720
Speaker 2: But I feel for him.

1943
01:33:25,280 --> 01:33:28,479
Speaker 3: Too, Yeah, I feel for him as well.

1944
01:33:29,280 --> 01:33:30,920
Speaker 1: He could be laughing, be like, damn it, the boys

1945
01:33:30,960 --> 01:33:32,280
Speaker 1: aren't taking this joke too well.

1946
01:33:32,800 --> 01:33:33,360
Speaker 3: They're taking me.

1947
01:33:33,400 --> 01:33:35,200
Speaker 1: They're taking me serious. They're taking it as I got.

1948
01:33:35,200 --> 01:33:36,679
Speaker 1: I'm putting the trash on the side of the way.

1949
01:33:37,240 --> 01:33:37,760
Speaker 3: I just wanted to.

1950
01:33:37,960 --> 01:33:40,920
Speaker 2: I just wanted to call an event. He sit there

1951
01:33:41,000 --> 01:33:43,960
Speaker 2: like will after the cool you lived in forest States

1952
01:33:43,720 --> 01:33:45,040
Speaker 2: and I'm joking.

1953
01:33:48,840 --> 01:33:53,400
Speaker 4: Oh, there's there's robotic garbage cans nowadays too. They sit

1954
01:33:53,439 --> 01:33:56,040
Speaker 4: at your house and you track them like a little rumba.

1955
01:33:56,640 --> 01:33:58,479
Speaker 4: Oh yo's out to the curve and comes he.

1956
01:33:59,240 --> 01:34:02,360
Speaker 1: Tell the government it can start tracking.

1957
01:34:02,520 --> 01:34:04,720
Speaker 3: I'm to be I'm trying to be off the grid

1958
01:34:04,840 --> 01:34:05,759
Speaker 3: with my trash cans.

1959
01:34:07,840 --> 01:34:10,240
Speaker 2: Honey, I think the trash bins are listening to us

1960
01:34:10,280 --> 01:34:13,400
Speaker 2: because I was thinking the trash job and I was

1961
01:34:13,479 --> 01:34:15,479
Speaker 2: talking about burger King, and now I'm getting all these

1962
01:34:15,520 --> 01:34:17,680
Speaker 2: burger King ads on my burger k rappers in the

1963
01:34:18,360 --> 01:34:23,920
Speaker 2: It's crazy, hey, that there's something there? All right?

1964
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Speaker 3: Uh?

1965
01:34:25,120 --> 01:34:27,200
Speaker 2: Lesson of the Week quote of the week.

1966
01:34:28,800 --> 01:34:30,280
Speaker 3: Do you have it? My phone's dead?

1967
01:34:30,600 --> 01:34:34,080
Speaker 2: Oh yes, okay, in that case, I have a very

1968
01:34:34,160 --> 01:34:37,240
Speaker 2: quick I thought it would be fun to update on

1969
01:34:37,479 --> 01:34:40,439
Speaker 2: my lesson of the week. I think three weeks ago

1970
01:34:40,760 --> 01:34:46,639
Speaker 2: was calling friends on my drive to daycare to pick

1971
01:34:46,680 --> 01:34:49,680
Speaker 2: up Scarlett. So I have a nice little If this

1972
01:34:49,720 --> 01:34:52,000
Speaker 2: is your first time listening to the show. A couple

1973
01:34:52,040 --> 01:34:54,519
Speaker 2: of weeks ago, my lesson of the week was I

1974
01:34:54,600 --> 01:34:56,799
Speaker 2: was going to try and reach out to loved ones,

1975
01:34:57,320 --> 01:35:01,679
Speaker 2: friends and have meaningful conversations during my car time when

1976
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:05,400
Speaker 2: I'm driving to pick up my daughter Scarlet from daycare.

1977
01:35:06,160 --> 01:35:12,200
Speaker 2: And it's just been absolutely incredible getting to get back

1978
01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:17,000
Speaker 2: into my friends' lives, getting to talk with my mom

1979
01:35:17,080 --> 01:35:20,320
Speaker 2: and dad. I've been talking with them more so and

1980
01:35:20,400 --> 01:35:25,519
Speaker 2: it is turned into than facetiming them. Once I get

1981
01:35:25,560 --> 01:35:28,160
Speaker 2: home with Scarlet and I'm out of the car, and

1982
01:35:28,200 --> 01:35:32,160
Speaker 2: it's turning into these like forty five minute FaceTime conversations

1983
01:35:34,200 --> 01:35:37,120
Speaker 2: where I'm basically just sitting the phone on our dinner

1984
01:35:37,160 --> 01:35:39,479
Speaker 2: table and they're getting to watch me feed Scarlet. And

1985
01:35:39,520 --> 01:35:42,320
Speaker 2: now I'm taking the phone to the changing table and

1986
01:35:42,360 --> 01:35:48,320
Speaker 2: they're watching me change her for bedtime, And just a

1987
01:35:48,360 --> 01:35:51,920
Speaker 2: ton of really awesome stuff has come out of me

1988
01:35:52,400 --> 01:35:55,040
Speaker 2: having these phone calls. And so I would just say

1989
01:35:55,400 --> 01:35:57,120
Speaker 2: for anybody that spends a lot of time in the

1990
01:35:57,120 --> 01:35:59,240
Speaker 2: car and you love your friends and family and you

1991
01:35:59,360 --> 01:36:06,400
Speaker 2: love just feeding meaningful relationships in your lives, do it.

1992
01:36:06,600 --> 01:36:09,360
Speaker 2: Because it's been awesome so far. It's been a really

1993
01:36:09,400 --> 01:36:11,599
Speaker 2: great start to twenty six.

1994
01:36:13,400 --> 01:36:15,040
Speaker 3: I love that there was.

1995
01:36:15,439 --> 01:36:18,880
Speaker 1: The one that I had was gonna be like book recommendations.

1996
01:36:19,200 --> 01:36:23,400
Speaker 1: If you have a great follow for some like whether

1997
01:36:23,439 --> 01:36:27,360
Speaker 1: it's stoicism, you're into old parenthood, Ryan Holiday, can you

1998
01:36:27,400 --> 01:36:28,120
Speaker 1: guys still see me?

1999
01:36:28,560 --> 01:36:30,960
Speaker 2: I can still hear you. And then it's a nice

2000
01:36:30,960 --> 01:36:34,000
Speaker 2: little frozen blows You're blowing a kiss.

2001
01:36:34,560 --> 01:36:37,920
Speaker 1: Okay, Charlie's trying to FaceTime me, could see any see

2002
01:36:38,240 --> 01:36:42,080
Speaker 1: the fan was trying to FaceTime me. But it was

2003
01:36:42,160 --> 01:36:44,960
Speaker 1: like some of the books that Ryan posted he was like, oh,

2004
01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:47,000
Speaker 1: some good reads for parents. It was one of his

2005
01:36:47,080 --> 01:36:48,880
Speaker 1: recent posts. I want to say there was a book

2006
01:36:48,920 --> 01:36:52,000
Speaker 1: called Range that I've heard about before, how to raise

2007
01:36:52,040 --> 01:36:56,640
Speaker 1: your kid to not be assholes? The Conscious I want

2008
01:36:56,680 --> 01:36:59,600
Speaker 1: to say it was The Conscious Parent. But just a

2009
01:36:59,600 --> 01:37:02,360
Speaker 1: few recommendations out there that I saw that I kind

2010
01:37:02,360 --> 01:37:06,080
Speaker 1: of favorited or saved on Instagram that I want to

2011
01:37:06,479 --> 01:37:08,719
Speaker 1: that I want to get to and order those books.

2012
01:37:10,600 --> 01:37:14,000
Speaker 3: So something that some proof for thoughts, something I'm diving into.

2013
01:37:14,320 --> 01:37:16,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that could even be a really great uh for

2014
01:37:16,800 --> 01:37:19,360
Speaker 2: next week if any PT sixers want to put in

2015
01:37:19,520 --> 01:37:24,519
Speaker 2: some of their favorite reads parenting reads, that could be

2016
01:37:24,560 --> 01:37:28,840
Speaker 2: really fun to kind of dive into that. I'm still

2017
01:37:28,840 --> 01:37:33,600
Speaker 2: only like thirty pages into Strong Father's Strong Daughters.

2018
01:37:34,040 --> 01:37:35,240
Speaker 3: You're gonna love that book to.

2019
01:37:35,240 --> 01:37:40,680
Speaker 2: Finish that one. But yeah, any PT sixers listening, let

2020
01:37:40,760 --> 01:37:46,639
Speaker 2: us know on like some really great parenting reads. And oh, Chef,

2021
01:37:46,800 --> 01:37:49,960
Speaker 2: just chef just had a great reminder for a Valentine's

2022
01:37:50,040 --> 01:37:54,160
Speaker 2: Day episode next week, Will and I will be recording

2023
01:37:54,200 --> 01:37:59,440
Speaker 2: on Monday. Make sure to get your Valentine's Day emails

2024
01:37:59,520 --> 01:38:04,360
Speaker 2: and all ins in before this Friday. That's the cutoff.

2025
01:38:04,439 --> 01:38:06,080
Speaker 2: We're going to have all of our call ins and

2026
01:38:06,120 --> 01:38:10,240
Speaker 2: emails for our Valentine's Day episode by this Friday, So

2027
01:38:10,280 --> 01:38:10,799
Speaker 2: make sure.

2028
01:38:10,800 --> 01:38:13,000
Speaker 3: Man, I am nervous that we did not do that.

2029
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:15,040
Speaker 3: At the top of the episode.

2030
01:38:15,600 --> 01:38:18,519
Speaker 2: We'll film a nice little thing and we'll throw it

2031
01:38:18,560 --> 01:38:23,480
Speaker 2: in anybody.

2032
01:38:21,160 --> 01:38:23,680
Speaker 1: Who's listened to the end of this when we do

2033
01:38:23,760 --> 01:38:26,360
Speaker 1: the emojis, Yeah, share what's the emoji this week?

2034
01:38:26,760 --> 01:38:30,720
Speaker 2: Oh, pink cats go pink carts for Valentine's.

2035
01:38:31,400 --> 01:38:31,920
Speaker 3: What is it?

2036
01:38:32,080 --> 01:38:34,400
Speaker 2: Pink carts for Valentine's.

2037
01:38:34,160 --> 01:38:38,120
Speaker 3: Pink carts for Valentine's Day. But that the message, get

2038
01:38:38,200 --> 01:38:39,959
Speaker 3: your submissions in by Friday.

2039
01:38:40,439 --> 01:38:42,240
Speaker 2: Gotta get them in by Friday.

2040
01:38:41,960 --> 01:38:47,479
Speaker 3: Dude, voicemails, emails, whatever it is. Yeah, get it, get it, get.

2041
01:38:47,280 --> 01:38:49,400
Speaker 1: In your content, you're engagement with the boys, Get it

2042
01:38:49,439 --> 01:38:50,240
Speaker 1: in by Friday.

2043
01:38:50,840 --> 01:38:52,960
Speaker 3: So that way we can we can talk Valentine's Day

2044
01:38:52,960 --> 01:38:53,320
Speaker 3: next week.

2045
01:38:53,320 --> 01:38:55,880
Speaker 2: And just a little teaser, we have a mom loss

2046
01:38:55,920 --> 01:38:58,559
Speaker 2: that will be a call in from my mom that

2047
01:38:58,600 --> 01:39:01,840
Speaker 2: features the story on Valentine and today. That's just a

2048
01:39:01,840 --> 01:39:02,920
Speaker 2: little teaser.

2049
01:39:03,439 --> 01:39:05,080
Speaker 3: Just a little teaser, little thase.

2050
01:39:05,280 --> 01:39:07,040
Speaker 2: And then I have a little I got a Dan

2051
01:39:07,080 --> 01:39:12,840
Speaker 2: Gable quote for you. Really see, my mind is never

2052
01:39:12,960 --> 01:39:16,640
Speaker 2: gone very far away from what I wanted to accomplish.

2053
01:39:18,600 --> 01:39:23,759
Speaker 1: Dan Gable, there's there's a Since I am on my iPad,

2054
01:39:23,800 --> 01:39:25,120
Speaker 1: I typed in Dan Gable quote.

2055
01:39:25,160 --> 01:39:29,280
Speaker 3: This one's on sacrifice. You ready for some dan Gable?

2056
01:39:29,479 --> 01:39:32,759
Speaker 2: Hold on one second, all right, Yeah, I'm ready.

2057
01:39:33,880 --> 01:39:39,120
Speaker 1: The amount you're willing to sacrifice is directly proportional to

2058
01:39:39,200 --> 01:39:41,760
Speaker 1: your desire for success.

2059
01:39:42,640 --> 01:39:43,000
Speaker 3: Fitting.

2060
01:39:44,040 --> 01:39:46,559
Speaker 2: Well, I hate to make you read that one again,

2061
01:39:47,280 --> 01:39:49,120
Speaker 2: but I have to hear it. I have to hear

2062
01:39:49,160 --> 01:39:49,559
Speaker 2: it twice.

2063
01:39:49,560 --> 01:39:51,439
Speaker 3: It's that good, all right?

2064
01:39:52,520 --> 01:39:54,240
Speaker 1: If you think you if you're thinking about two weeks

2065
01:39:54,240 --> 01:39:59,360
Speaker 1: of maternity leave, the amount you're willing to sacrifice is

2066
01:39:59,439 --> 01:40:02,840
Speaker 1: directly proportional to your desire for success.

2067
01:40:04,920 --> 01:40:06,799
Speaker 2: Amen. Amen.

2068
01:40:07,000 --> 01:40:09,400
Speaker 3: And I don't know who I'm talking to there, the

2069
01:40:09,520 --> 01:40:11,000
Speaker 3: career people out there.

2070
01:40:13,040 --> 01:40:16,200
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe some athletes that are listening to us, maybe

2071
01:40:16,240 --> 01:40:22,519
Speaker 2: a po rizzo sitting there snapping. Dan Gable knows what

2072
01:40:22,560 --> 01:40:23,400
Speaker 2: he's talking about.

2073
01:40:23,400 --> 01:40:29,599
Speaker 3: Man. Yeah, it's a it's a double edged sword, double edged.

2074
01:40:29,479 --> 01:40:32,559
Speaker 2: Sword, insurance insurance.

2075
01:40:33,840 --> 01:40:37,760
Speaker 1: A Derek or Chef like, what was your guys's what

2076
01:40:37,840 --> 01:40:38,720
Speaker 1: was your guys'.

2077
01:40:38,520 --> 01:40:39,439
Speaker 3: Opinion on the whole.

2078
01:40:39,520 --> 01:40:40,680
Speaker 1: Now that we're at the end of this can be

2079
01:40:40,760 --> 01:40:44,680
Speaker 1: like the post credits post credits conversation on.

2080
01:40:45,080 --> 01:40:48,880
Speaker 3: The Whole, On the Whole, the Minnesota Vikings GM.

2081
01:40:49,439 --> 01:40:51,400
Speaker 5: I think you put it pretty perfectly, like at the

2082
01:40:51,520 --> 01:40:55,000
Speaker 5: end of the day, your you're subject to your results,

2083
01:40:55,520 --> 01:40:59,800
Speaker 5: and like it's like the same thing like any other job.

2084
01:40:59,840 --> 01:41:02,559
Speaker 5: It's like if you're taking time off, but it's like

2085
01:41:02,640 --> 01:41:06,160
Speaker 5: in a way where like if you take let's pretend

2086
01:41:06,200 --> 01:41:08,679
Speaker 5: that NFL season is like one of our big weeks

2087
01:41:08,680 --> 01:41:11,080
Speaker 5: at busting right, Like we'll probably have like a big

2088
01:41:11,080 --> 01:41:13,519
Speaker 5: week once a month, you know, where it's a huge

2089
01:41:13,520 --> 01:41:15,840
Speaker 5: thing and everyone knows. Like if I went and said, hey,

2090
01:41:16,280 --> 01:41:18,360
Speaker 5: during the super Bowl, you know, super Bowl week is

2091
01:41:18,360 --> 01:41:20,400
Speaker 5: the week I'm gonna take off, everyone.

2092
01:41:20,160 --> 01:41:22,160
Speaker 4: Would be like, why are you doing that?

2093
01:41:22,280 --> 01:41:24,040
Speaker 5: And I feel like the NFL, the difference is just

2094
01:41:24,120 --> 01:41:27,040
Speaker 5: every week is the biggest week ever, you know, like

2095
01:41:27,120 --> 01:41:30,439
Speaker 5: that's that's the approach. And so yeah, you have a

2096
01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:33,880
Speaker 5: shit season, Like so what JJ McCarthy's a quarterback, Like

2097
01:41:34,439 --> 01:41:36,840
Speaker 5: tough shit. You know, it comes back to invite you.

2098
01:41:38,760 --> 01:41:41,880
Speaker 4: I think I'm a big fan of like you guys know,

2099
01:41:41,880 --> 01:41:43,559
Speaker 4: but like a big fan of like you choose exactly

2100
01:41:43,680 --> 01:41:45,479
Speaker 4: where you want to be, what you're doing, how you

2101
01:41:45,520 --> 01:41:48,800
Speaker 4: want to be and you choose every aspect of your life,

2102
01:41:48,800 --> 01:41:50,160
Speaker 4: and like, you have to accept the fact, and so

2103
01:41:50,200 --> 01:41:51,960
Speaker 4: if he's going to take those two weeks off, that's

2104
01:41:52,000 --> 01:41:53,920
Speaker 4: totally fine. You have to also choose the fact that

2105
01:41:53,920 --> 01:41:56,519
Speaker 4: there's repercussions in that world. Because guess what I think.

2106
01:41:56,520 --> 01:42:00,719
Speaker 4: I've said this to Sherman and Chef. We have at Bustin.

2107
01:42:01,040 --> 01:42:04,240
Speaker 4: We have a job that there are so few of

2108
01:42:04,520 --> 01:42:07,240
Speaker 4: in the world. There are so few people that get

2109
01:42:07,280 --> 01:42:09,080
Speaker 4: to be in the position that I'm in currently, and

2110
01:42:09,120 --> 01:42:12,320
Speaker 4: I have to understand that with this position and the

2111
01:42:12,320 --> 01:42:13,760
Speaker 4: things that I want to do with my life, there

2112
01:42:13,800 --> 01:42:16,880
Speaker 4: are sacrifices I have to make. That gentleman has one

2113
01:42:16,920 --> 01:42:20,400
Speaker 4: of thirty two positions in the world for what he does.

2114
01:42:20,479 --> 01:42:23,160
Speaker 4: If you love football and love that thing, there are

2115
01:42:23,320 --> 01:42:28,320
Speaker 4: thirty one people he can call colleagues in the world.

2116
01:42:28,360 --> 01:42:30,680
Speaker 4: And to be at that level, to make what you make,

2117
01:42:30,800 --> 01:42:32,439
Speaker 4: to do what you do, and to love the game

2118
01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:36,360
Speaker 4: that you love it, there are sacrifices. And for anyone

2119
01:42:36,400 --> 01:42:37,840
Speaker 4: to come at you on Twitter and be like this

2120
01:42:37,880 --> 01:42:40,520
Speaker 4: guy is a dad podcast, You're just kind of maronic

2121
01:42:40,640 --> 01:42:44,000
Speaker 4: because you have a job that just requires different sacrifices

2122
01:42:44,000 --> 01:42:47,080
Speaker 4: and different things and different expectations, and moronic in the

2123
01:42:47,120 --> 01:42:49,200
Speaker 4: sense that you can't take the blinders off and see

2124
01:42:49,200 --> 01:42:51,559
Speaker 4: it because I am exactly where I want to be

2125
01:42:51,560 --> 01:42:53,439
Speaker 4: in life, because I do get to spend time with

2126
01:42:53,479 --> 01:42:55,559
Speaker 4: my fiance and her family, and I get to spend

2127
01:42:55,600 --> 01:42:57,760
Speaker 4: time with my friends and things like that. And sure

2128
01:42:58,040 --> 01:43:00,880
Speaker 4: there's things I could have done that maybe I gave

2129
01:43:01,000 --> 01:43:03,760
Speaker 4: up professionally to have more of a personal life. But

2130
01:43:03,800 --> 01:43:05,640
Speaker 4: you own up and you make those decisions. And at

2131
01:43:05,640 --> 01:43:07,599
Speaker 4: the end of the day, if you want to do

2132
01:43:07,800 --> 01:43:11,120
Speaker 4: excellent things, it does take sacrifices. You're saying no to

2133
01:43:11,160 --> 01:43:12,759
Speaker 4: things by saying yes to other things.

2134
01:43:13,960 --> 01:43:17,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, well said, well well said, and again and again.

2135
01:43:18,040 --> 01:43:21,040
Speaker 1: If you're if you're flipping like the whole, you know,

2136
01:43:21,400 --> 01:43:25,080
Speaker 1: the sacrifices you make is directly, you know, indicative of

2137
01:43:25,120 --> 01:43:26,280
Speaker 1: your desire for success.

2138
01:43:26,280 --> 01:43:27,320
Speaker 3: That Dan Gable says.

2139
01:43:27,600 --> 01:43:30,000
Speaker 1: If in that mind like you make the decision and

2140
01:43:30,040 --> 01:43:32,799
Speaker 1: you know whatever repercussions come with it you are completely

2141
01:43:32,840 --> 01:43:35,760
Speaker 1: fine with, then booble net is how you have prioritized

2142
01:43:36,160 --> 01:43:38,880
Speaker 1: the value and energy you're putting in your life. But

2143
01:43:39,200 --> 01:43:41,640
Speaker 1: to me, it's like the outside noise that comes in

2144
01:43:41,680 --> 01:43:43,799
Speaker 1: and tries to separate, Like I can't believe this culture

2145
01:43:43,800 --> 01:43:46,480
Speaker 1: in the NFL, like all this masculine bullshit.

2146
01:43:46,160 --> 01:43:48,920
Speaker 3: Got say, yo, that's just the way it is.

2147
01:43:48,960 --> 01:43:51,599
Speaker 1: And if you accept the terms of the game knowing

2148
01:43:51,640 --> 01:43:53,680
Speaker 1: that stuff like this can happen, which they all we

2149
01:43:53,760 --> 01:43:56,240
Speaker 1: all do, we all whatever line of work we want

2150
01:43:56,240 --> 01:43:58,680
Speaker 1: to get or however you want to prioritize everything in

2151
01:43:58,680 --> 01:44:00,720
Speaker 1: our life. You know what you're saying up for what

2152
01:44:00,840 --> 01:44:02,920
Speaker 1: could be at risk if you make certain decisions.

2153
01:44:04,320 --> 01:44:06,600
Speaker 3: But no, I thought that was I thought that was

2154
01:44:06,600 --> 01:44:07,240
Speaker 3: well said there.

2155
01:44:07,960 --> 01:44:12,040
Speaker 9: Yeah, well that works one that it's one that just

2156
01:44:12,120 --> 01:44:16,920
Speaker 9: works you up because the moronic opinion that gets involved

2157
01:44:18,000 --> 01:44:21,320
Speaker 9: and not compartmentalizing exactly what's being talked about.

2158
01:44:22,040 --> 01:44:26,360
Speaker 2: Well, and it's uh, it's funny that like the masculinity

2159
01:44:26,640 --> 01:44:28,880
Speaker 2: word was being thrown around as far as the NFL

2160
01:44:28,960 --> 01:44:33,960
Speaker 2: goes it, Like find any industry where you basically any industry,

2161
01:44:34,400 --> 01:44:36,400
Speaker 2: like if you're in fashion and you're like, hey, can

2162
01:44:36,439 --> 01:44:38,000
Speaker 2: I take off for these two weeks? I know that

2163
01:44:38,120 --> 01:44:42,559
Speaker 2: it's like the met Galla ball is that week, but yeah,

2164
01:44:43,160 --> 01:44:46,040
Speaker 2: they'd be like, you're a psychopath, Like this is our

2165
01:44:46,160 --> 01:44:47,479
Speaker 2: super Bowl? What are you doing?

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Speaker 4: I think waiting for that Yeah.

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Speaker 5: What I love about how you explained that all, and

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Speaker 5: I think it's so true is that whether you like

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Speaker 5: it or not, that is just the way it goes.

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Speaker 5: And that's like, I think that's what you're almost f

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Speaker 5: and against in the Twitter comments is a lot of

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Speaker 5: people go and kind of like playing it with the

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Speaker 5: idea already that it's unfair, and that's what they're trying

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Speaker 5: to argue, and you're not even trying to argue that,

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Speaker 5: You're trying to tell them like, this is just how

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Speaker 5: it goes exactly.

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Speaker 1: You're right, It's not like I'm not trying to tell

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to argue that it's like, yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: fucking life's unfair.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it depends on what game you're playing.

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Speaker 1: The game I played is all I can speak to

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Speaker 1: and speak on in that culture. But when it comes

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Speaker 1: to there's many industries, many jobs, many careers, many businesses

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Speaker 1: that those types of decisions happen and results like that

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Speaker 1: happen all the time.

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Speaker 3: Do I think it's fair? Fair is all subjective.

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Speaker 2: If you want responsibilities, you're gonna have to give up luxuries,

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Speaker 2: and that is across the board or whatever you're working

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Speaker 2: in masculine, feminine. I don't care like arts, blue collar,

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Speaker 2: white collar. It doesn't matter, Like if you're going to

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Speaker 2: be this guy up here, like, there's gonna be a

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Speaker 2: lot of stuff that you're gonna have to say. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 2: I have to give up some luxuries there.

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Speaker 4: We're kind of obviously just chatting out. But well, one

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Speaker 4: of the things that I see on social and I

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Speaker 4: never like to highlight the negative a social unless it's

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Speaker 4: like a hater mail stuff, but it does makes my

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Speaker 4: skin crawl, bro, when people go, oh, so the rich

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Speaker 4: guy has dad problems, Like, oh, you're so upset, bro,

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Speaker 4: because you're you gotta do this. Well, guess what you

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Speaker 4: have money? And I've seen so many people I will

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Speaker 4: say in this community that I haven't seen before come

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Speaker 4: in and be like, you're just it. You're just not

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Speaker 4: a good person if you think money solves the fact

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Speaker 4: that Rue wants to sing a song about her dad

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Speaker 4: going away like that is just such a like an

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Speaker 4: unfathomable part of the position that people are in at

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Speaker 4: times where it's like, well, they're rich, so why does

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Speaker 4: it matter if they're struggling as a dad, Because my

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Speaker 4: and they turn it, bro, And it's just like one

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Speaker 4: of those things where like that guy he can take

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Speaker 4: those two weeks, that's totally fine, Like that's okay, but

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Speaker 4: also there's stuff that comes with it.

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Speaker 3: And that means he's human. Bro.

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Speaker 4: We're all human, we say at the top of it.

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Speaker 4: We're figuring it out.

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Speaker 3: Bro.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did a great a great dude to listen to

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Speaker 1: on some subjects like whether it be career, whatever it is, philosophy, whatever.

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Speaker 1: But Naval Ravacan He's got a podcast. It's like three

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Speaker 1: or four hours long. It's called how to Get Rich.

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Speaker 1: It's like a tagline he uses because it's an attractive tagline,

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Speaker 1: but his whole premise is like wanting to get people

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Speaker 1: rich first because then once you're rich, like everybody, once

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Speaker 1: you get money, everybody realize, Okay, it solves a lot

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Speaker 1: of money problems that goes on. But there's all these

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Speaker 1: other cycles and he breaks down things in business and

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Speaker 1: life and personal ambitions and all these things.

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Speaker 3: That is like a very insightful.

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Speaker 1: Listen But in that he talks about, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: like game theory stuff. When you're choosing to participate in

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Speaker 1: the game of social media, like it's a zero sum game.

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Speaker 3: It's like people are punching up.

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Speaker 1: People are trying to, you know, make themselves feel better

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Speaker 1: because they feel like there's a sense of meeting, a

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Speaker 1: sense of meaning, because they feel like they're being a

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Speaker 1: morality police by being like, oh no, you should think

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Speaker 1: this way, or oh you're dumb, or just trying to

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Speaker 1: project that nonsense unto you. But in the social media stuff,

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Speaker 1: it's always a slippery slope. That's It's like when I

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Speaker 1: know I'm commenting on something and I know it's getting

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Speaker 1: some kind of mixture views like that, it's almost like

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Speaker 1: you got to look at some of this stuff and

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Speaker 1: then compartmentalize yourself, Like, Okay, before I get caught up

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Speaker 1: in trying to be understood by everybody, I need to

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Speaker 1: just know that this is something to where you're not

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Speaker 1: gonna make everybody think the way that I think about it.

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Speaker 3: So then you just try to flip it, all right,

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Speaker 3: how can I not? How can I be light about this? Brother?

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Speaker 3: I don't disagree with you post the thing about you know,

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Speaker 3: fourth grade to sixth grade or seventh grade, and then

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Speaker 3: the guy's like, well, are you sore? You being serious?

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01:48:38,800 --> 01:48:39,679
Speaker 3: Are you trying to be funny?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: You being a funny? Guy or a serious guy like man,

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Speaker 3: I'm just tweeting.

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Speaker 2: I'm just tweet I'm just being more confident man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like bro, because that that particular subject was definitely

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Speaker 1: making it, uh making waves around, just like the social community.

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Speaker 2: Have one on the show. In the back.

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Speaker 1: He goes, all right, do what you gotta do, fellas,

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Speaker 1: I gotta FaceTime with the family.

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Speaker 2: Sounds good, great, so great, so great, so great, so

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Speaker 2: sign off, mum. Yeah, pink hearts in the chat. Take

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Speaker 2: your trash out and uh put it in a can,

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Speaker 2: put it in

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Speaker 3: Put it in the cann