WEBVTT - Love to the Honeymoon and Back

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<v Speaker 1>Help We Suck At Being Newlywed?

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<v Speaker 2>Wit Dean Aunglert, Kaylen Miller Keys, and Jared haven An

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<v Speaker 2>iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>What is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody? Welcome to an all new episode of Help We

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<v Speaker 1>Suck At Being Newlyweds? My name is Dean Bell, joined

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<v Speaker 1>here live in studio from our house in Las Vegas

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<v Speaker 1>by Kaylin Bell. Welcome to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>Kaalen, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I'm quite jet locked and been waking up

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<v Speaker 2>at three am every morning, and when I couldn't sleep

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<v Speaker 2>this morning and was wide awake, I was thinking, isn't

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<v Speaker 2>it crazy that I'll never call myself KAILN Miller Keys

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<v Speaker 2>ever again? And you'll never be An Unglert ever again.

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<v Speaker 3>It's crazy?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, hows that hate you?

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<v Speaker 1>It has hit me because on my Instagram I have

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<v Speaker 1>Dean Michael Bell and we get a lot, not a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>but we get brand deals through Instagram, and so I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get brands sending me contracts for deals that say Dean

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Bell on them, and I'm like, well no, wait, wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait, it's got to say Dean Unglert on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if I go to the bank with the check

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<v Speaker 1>that says Dean Bell they're going to be like, what

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<v Speaker 1>the heck is this? So in a way it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of nice to like test the waters a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>and feel it out and like understand how it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to feel. But I you know, I'm still Denungler and

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<v Speaker 1>you're still keeling other keys.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but like you said, instagram wise, it's official.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, but I guess I'm saying it's just a

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a tedious experience to have to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the brand and be like, now we need to

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<v Speaker 1>put Dean Angler down it instead of Dean Bell.

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<v Speaker 3>So so right now it.

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<v Speaker 2>Still gets checks though well, like a contract depositive.

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<v Speaker 1>Contract, I don't know if it would work if my

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<v Speaker 1>name was different than the name on the account on

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<v Speaker 1>the contract. But all that to say, as of now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's only been a nuisance the name.

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<v Speaker 4>Change, and we haven't even done it yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, once we do it, it'll be no longer a newsance,

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<v Speaker 3>I know, but I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think the doing it is going to be a nuisance

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<v Speaker 2>as well, as we've heard from several people.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like moving into a new house due can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>thout doing it of it that stinks.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's really fun because it's an opportunity to purge.

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<v Speaker 2>Now to moving, it's an opportunity to purge, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>an opportunity to get organized. So you purge when you're packing,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you organize when you unpack. It is my dream,

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<v Speaker 2>Perge pack, Perge pack.

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<v Speaker 3>How many square feet is our new house?

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty eight hundred?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 4>No way, maybe twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, that's kind of big, kind of parent

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<v Speaker 1>has nineteen hundred.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was twenty.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess no, you're right, it's got to be twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five because we have the same amount of bedrooms, but

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<v Speaker 1>then we also have that office, and then we also

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<v Speaker 1>have that upstairs like room.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was looking at it this morning while I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>So I guess all that to say is we're probably

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to end up buying more for sure? Nice,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we've wor adding a bedroom or an office, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Because right now we just use one bedroom as an office.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I was thinking about this. I've been thinking

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<v Speaker 2>a lot because I've been up since three A. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>let's here when this airs. People don't typically listen on

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<v Speaker 2>a Sunday night. Let's say airs Monday morning. That'll be

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<v Speaker 2>our closing day of the house. Wow, so it will

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<v Speaker 2>be official. I don't know if it's like by five

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<v Speaker 2>pm or what.

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<v Speaker 3>But happy closing day.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm pumped.

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<v Speaker 6>Yay.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't freaking wait.

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<v Speaker 3>We have a house.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, on Monday, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was looking at rental rates in our neighborhood now in Vegas,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's a house down the street that's renting for

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<v Speaker 1>not as much as I would be hoping to get

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<v Speaker 1>for this house.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it?

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<v Speaker 4>Does it have a pool?

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<v Speaker 5>Is basic?

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty basic?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>But still if I was looking at rent a house

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<v Speaker 1>in this neighborhood and I saw their house and then

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<v Speaker 1>our house, which was a couple hundred bucks more, I'd probably, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that house is cheaper.

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<v Speaker 4>Who doesn't want to pull? You have to have a pool?

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<v Speaker 4>And I guess, I guess, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right. And there's a beautiful deck in the backyard garden.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a lot we have done.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was wondering too, if we rent out

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<v Speaker 1>our house and the deck collapses and someone breaks their leg,

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<v Speaker 1>do I get sued?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe, I mean it's up to code and everything, but

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<v Speaker 1>like you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Then that's on them for breaking the plank.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, then I charged them counter suit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. So should we talk about our honeymoon?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, our honeymoon that we just got back from. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to talk about it? Feel free? I need

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<v Speaker 1>to take a sip of my coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It was amazing, And I know it doesn't sound like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very enthusiastic, but I'm just a little exhausted. It

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<v Speaker 2>was amazing, It was great. It was the best trip

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<v Speaker 2>of my entire life. It was the coolest trip of

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<v Speaker 2>my entire life. Thank you nat Geo for inviting Dean

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<v Speaker 2>and also inviting me. It was exactly what we wanted

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<v Speaker 2>for our honeymoon, and if I were to plan it,

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<v Speaker 2>I would not have planned it as well as what

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<v Speaker 2>Nagio did. What was really cool about our trip, and

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<v Speaker 2>something that we wouldn't have gotten if we had planned

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<v Speaker 2>it ourselves, is that we had Chloe and Sophie on

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<v Speaker 2>our trip. And Chloe is a showrunner for Queens, which

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<v Speaker 2>is a nat Geo show that comes out in March.

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<v Speaker 2>Sophie is a very talented cinematographer who's also on Queen's.

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<v Speaker 2>So we are going on safaris every day and we

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<v Speaker 2>have these two nat Geo professionals who have been in

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<v Speaker 2>the business for years, doing this for years, just learning

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<v Speaker 2>from them and having them narrate every situation, like a

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<v Speaker 2>lion is about is hunting an antelope?

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<v Speaker 4>What was that they hunt?

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks? Yeah, so long while?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, anyways, it's hunting, and Sophie is narrating exactly what's happening,

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<v Speaker 2>and every time an animal pops up, she can predict

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<v Speaker 2>its move, which was so cool. It was so wild

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<v Speaker 2>also to get behind the scenes of nat Geo. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like everyone watches those shows or those documentaries and

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, okay, but like, how long are they there?

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<v Speaker 2>What is the how did they fly their drone behind

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<v Speaker 2>this bug?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, and we got the answers to all those questions,

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<v Speaker 2>which was so so cool. And I have such a

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<v Speaker 2>greater appreciation for everyone that works for nat Geo and

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<v Speaker 2>Cretzy shows because it takes a lot of work and

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<v Speaker 2>Queens took was it four years? Four years to make?

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<v Speaker 2>Four years? Also one of the episodes in Queens, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>super obsessed with the show. I can't wait for everyone

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<v Speaker 2>to watch it. Well, one is about lines and hyenas,

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<v Speaker 2>that is incredible, but one's about elephants and they said

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<v Speaker 2>they were there with the elephants for fourteen days waiting

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<v Speaker 2>for an elephant to give birth, left and.

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<v Speaker 4>That day it gave birth.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was just like, you can't predict nature, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't predict wildlife. And oh, they're just the coolest people,

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<v Speaker 2>chloeing Sophie, I'm very obsessed with them.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your favorite moment?

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<v Speaker 4>Ooh, oh, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Just it sounds so basic now because everyone said it,

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<v Speaker 2>but seeing the lion cubs was the coolest thing ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, our first day on safari, we got really spoiled.

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<v Speaker 1>We were there's probably about twelve of us, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we're kind of rolling deep players like four cars that

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<v Speaker 1>would kind of like go out on their own and

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<v Speaker 1>then if anything interesting came along, they're drivers would radio

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<v Speaker 1>the other drivers for them to come see what we

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<v Speaker 1>were seeing. And so that very first safari we did

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<v Speaker 1>in the Serengetti, it was amazing. And by the time

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<v Speaker 1>sunset came around, you know, after I think we had

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<v Speaker 1>just had a half day that day because we had

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<v Speaker 1>gotten in earlier that day. By the time sunset came around,

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<v Speaker 1>we pulled up on these three lions and they are

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<v Speaker 1>two baby cubs, and it was one of the cutest

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<v Speaker 1>things ever. These cubs must have only been a few

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<v Speaker 1>months old. They're running around snarling at.

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<v Speaker 4>It like picture Simba and knowledge.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Simba and all.

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<v Speaker 4>It was crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>They were like playing with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like tackling each other, and then like the

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<v Speaker 1>parents were just like over there, not really paying attention

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<v Speaker 1>and not caring, and it was just very very cute.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like the kids would go up and try

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<v Speaker 1>to mess with their parents and they would like, just

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<v Speaker 1>like a regular parent, what they would like just shrug

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<v Speaker 1>them off and be like, get away from me.

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<v Speaker 2>And the cubs would come up to our cars, and

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<v Speaker 2>someone on our trip got a video of the cubs

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<v Speaker 2>chewing on the tires like they were super super close

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<v Speaker 2>to us, and Sophie again, great to have her there.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, that was a mom that's had a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of babies because she was totally fine letting her

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<v Speaker 2>babies go and be free, and like a newer parent

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't give their cub that much freedom. And so the

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<v Speaker 2>next day we're looking for the same cubs and we

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<v Speaker 2>see a little leg hanging down from a tree. So

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<v Speaker 2>the cubs had climbed up into a tree and Sophie says, yep,

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<v Speaker 2>the mom's hunting there, that the cubs go into the

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<v Speaker 2>tree when the mom's hunting, and then lo and behold.

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<v Speaker 2>We pull up like four hundred feet and the mom's hunting,

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<v Speaker 2>and she narrated the whole thing and she's like, everyone,

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<v Speaker 2>get down, nobody moved, nobody talk. She is in hunting mode.

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<v Speaker 2>If you, you know, put any body parts out of

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<v Speaker 2>the car, it might still startle her. She might come

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<v Speaker 2>after you. And then we got to watch her hunt,

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<v Speaker 2>but she didn't kill anything. And I kind of wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to see an animal kill another animal because that's part

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<v Speaker 2>of the experience.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a circle of life.

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<v Speaker 1>YadA YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA YadA.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually people say that, but in hindsight, I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 2>happy we didn't see it because it really would discover you.

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<v Speaker 3>You would have enjoyed seeing it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's the sounds that I wouldn't be able to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with, like like an animal crying out and help.

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<v Speaker 6>You would have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's a lot, but I think that you would

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<v Speaker 1>have appreciated it more than you would have been upset

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<v Speaker 1>about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess we'll never know until we go back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of the one thing that I wish we

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<v Speaker 1>would have seen, and like you kind of nailed on

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<v Speaker 1>the head. You know, we saw those things except for the.

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<v Speaker 3>Kill and it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, these animals are hunting in the morning and

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<v Speaker 1>in the afternoons, and we didn't really get to see

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<v Speaker 1>any real interaction in that manner when we were there,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a big bummer. But we were only there

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<v Speaker 1>for three days on Safari, and we still saw so much.

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<v Speaker 1>We saw a jaguar in a tree, a leopard in

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<v Speaker 1>a tree, and Chloe, the showrunner, had never seen a

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<v Speaker 1>leopard before, and so we pull up. It's just hanging

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<v Speaker 1>in the tree. It's pretty hot, so it's panting really hard,

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<v Speaker 1>not moving at all, and Chloe like gets up and

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<v Speaker 1>sees it. You know, you're fifty feet away, and she

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<v Speaker 1>just starts breaking down into tears because she's spent so

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<v Speaker 1>much time out there filming and working and she's never

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<v Speaker 1>seen a leopard before. So we were so lucky in

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<v Speaker 1>so many ways to see the cubs the first night,

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<v Speaker 1>to see the leopard the second day. On the third

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<v Speaker 1>day of Safari, our third and last day, we saw

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<v Speaker 1>r We saw a rhino not very close, which is unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 1>But we saw like a a little serval.

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<v Speaker 4>I looked it up yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice. I was never gonna get that so good stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm looking that up. We saw a little servil

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<v Speaker 1>and the driver of the Safari car was like, we

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<v Speaker 1>never see these. This is like once every few months occasion.

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<v Speaker 1>So we did get to see a lot of really

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<v Speaker 1>cool animals.

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<v Speaker 2>And he pulled out his book and it says, if

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<v Speaker 2>you see a server, consider yourself extremely, extremely lucky.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it was great all around.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept equating it back to when I was in

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<v Speaker 1>Patagonia and doing the puma tracking, and when I was there,

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<v Speaker 1>the only time you'd really see pumas is when they

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<v Speaker 1>were feeding. And so you know, you see a giant

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<v Speaker 1>cat standing over at Guanaco eating, it's ripping its guts out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's cool because there's a lot going on, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot like it's very really dynamic, as like if

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<v Speaker 1>someone that's taking pictures or videos. And so that's just

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of my one bummer about Africas. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really get to see any of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and what was cool. So it was a big group.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there were nineteen of us is what they said.

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<v Speaker 2>At one point the last day, we had the option

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<v Speaker 2>to go back, go to the hotel rest. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>everyone's pretty jet lagged, go into the town. They give

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<v Speaker 2>us a few different options. We had been on safari

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<v Speaker 2>since six am, and we ended up staying with another couple.

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<v Speaker 2>It was lovely and a person who wrote for I

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<v Speaker 2>was going to say a person from the press Dalton

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<v Speaker 2>who yes, a journalist, thank you, Gosh's servial.

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<v Speaker 1>But you couldn't get journalists, I guess not.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was the five of us who all really

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<v Speaker 2>cared about taking photos, who all really cared about Safari,

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<v Speaker 2>like enough to be there for twelve hours. And so

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<v Speaker 2>we sat and waited for it because the other thing

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't get to see. We saw lions. But in

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<v Speaker 2>the Gore and Goro crater there are black main lions.

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<v Speaker 1>You got in Gordon Goro, but you didn't get journalists.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know. I can to say I'm dumb.

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<v Speaker 3>It's impressive.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like your brain is so sharp it can only

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<v Speaker 1>remember the really challenging things, and it's like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even need to remember the easy words journalists.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh So in the crater there are black main lions

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<v Speaker 2>and that's something we also really wanted to see. And

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<v Speaker 2>so another Safari truck let our guide know that a

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<v Speaker 2>black main lion just went into the bushes he was hunting.

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<v Speaker 2>So we all waited, and it was nice to have

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<v Speaker 2>people who are patient and willing to wait. We waited

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<v Speaker 2>for like thirty minutes, just sitting there. Nothing's happening, like

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely nothing's happening. But we got like this smallest little

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<v Speaker 2>sliver into what being a now geo cinematographer is.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, because out of downtime, oh.

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<v Speaker 4>My gosh, they just sit there for hours and hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I was really impressed by your ability to be patient.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that that was going to be an issue

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<v Speaker 1>that we were going to be faced with where I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be. I wanted to like sit there for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time and wait for something to develop. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I thought that you were going to get bored

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<v Speaker 1>and over it.

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<v Speaker 2>Really no, I wanted to, but I also, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we're with three strangers, essentially, I didn't want to pressure them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but we're out there for that, right, So.

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<v Speaker 2>It was cool that we all had it similar interests.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, we saw so this bug landed on me and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like you know, I hate bugs, but one

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<v Speaker 2>of the shows in now Geo is a real bugs life,

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<v Speaker 2>and it did give me a new appreciation for bugs.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say the pretty one.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, this bug landed on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Earlier in the same day, another bug landed on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe not quite as an aesthetically please bug, but it

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<v Speaker 1>landed on you, and you were like, flicked it off

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<v Speaker 1>and punched me in the stomach because you're because.

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<v Speaker 3>You're flicking it off so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's not go ahead and say that you had

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<v Speaker 1>some big, profound moment where you now you're okay.

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<v Speaker 4>If it's got stingers, I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to stingers. How do you know the cute

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<v Speaker 3>bug didn't have stingers.

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<v Speaker 4>I looked closely at it before.

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<v Speaker 3>I before you freaked out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like you look closely at the one that

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<v Speaker 1>you flicked me and punched me in theyways.

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<v Speaker 2>Progress was made, Yes, progress was made, and there was

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<v Speaker 2>This bug is the most beautiful bug I've ever seen

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<v Speaker 2>in my entire life. I will post it closer to

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<v Speaker 2>a real Bug's Life premiere, but I guess I could

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<v Speaker 2>just tell you what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>It's called a poocasso bug. If you want to look

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<v Speaker 4>it up. It is gorgeous. It's correct.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you do for this podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you're getting all these words nailed right on the head.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I swear I remember everything except common knowledge. I

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<v Speaker 2>retained a lot of information. You asked me about hyenas.

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<v Speaker 2>Hyenas are the strongest and biggest. I mean sorry, female

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<v Speaker 2>hyenas are stronger and bigger than the males. They have

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<v Speaker 2>something called.

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<v Speaker 3>A say it, say it, we'll bleep it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Say it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I know the old term is pseudo penis.

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<v Speaker 3>We want the new term, new age term, something megic.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyways, the hyenas is jaredy Hey, Jed, welcome.

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<v Speaker 3>To the Mega conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>Just wanted to make sure I inserted myself with mega.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, hyenas are so fascinating. What so scientists used

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<v Speaker 2>to believe? I'm sorry that I'm going to pour people.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a pseudo penis. They have this it looks

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<v Speaker 2>like a penis and it's not. It's called a mega.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if we have to bleep out

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<v Speaker 1>that word. But' it's it's a like a biological.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean maybe something google of female hyena.

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<v Speaker 1>But then they have to but also maybe don't unless

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<v Speaker 1>you're willing to see what that looks.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, or just watch Queens twenty four.

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<v Speaker 3>It's nature, so it can't be offensive, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess, so yeah, but I mean, I was even telling

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<v Speaker 2>Dean this yesterday. I was editing photos of an elephant,

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<v Speaker 2>and the female elephants love them, but the male elephants,

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<v Speaker 2>the photos of them are something else because they've got.

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<v Speaker 1>Some dregs, one on the front, one of the back,

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<v Speaker 1>things going on.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, hey, I'm so sorry, I'm late.

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<v Speaker 5>So we got slammed at Audrey's, which of course is

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<v Speaker 5>a great thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Who the heck is going into a coffee shop at

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<v Speaker 1>noon to order food?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly. So I went to the gym this morning. I've

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<v Speaker 5>been going to the gym in the morning when I

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<v Speaker 5>wake up. I began up early, like seven am, and

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<v Speaker 5>I just get out of bed and I go to

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<v Speaker 5>the gym. And I've been doing it for like a

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<v Speaker 5>week and a half. If I'm able to, if I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not working the night before. I know they say that

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<v Speaker 5>you should go to the gym early in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never really believed in it, and now I'm addicted

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<v Speaker 5>because I swear to God, I've had lower back pain

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<v Speaker 5>for months, been killing me, hindering me, and it's like gone,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm not doing anything differently. The only thing I'm

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<v Speaker 5>doing differently is as soon as I get up, I

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<v Speaker 5>go directly the gym and I work out for like

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<v Speaker 5>forty five and it's and then I swear to God,

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<v Speaker 5>it's just like, oh my, I don't know, it's really

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<v Speaker 5>highly recommend it anyway. Point is, So then I went

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<v Speaker 5>into Audrews afterwards to get coffee make sure they're doing

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<v Speaker 5>okay because I'm going in later at tonight because we

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<v Speaker 5>have a party. And then there was like a party

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<v Speaker 5>of fifteen women coming in at ten, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>let make sure they're all set up ready to go,

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<v Speaker 5>and then they were pretty busy when I walked in

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<v Speaker 5>at like eight forty five, and then so I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>all right, I'll stay to make sure you know you

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<v Speaker 5>get through it. And then dude, it just did not stop.

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<v Speaker 5>Of course, a great thing, but I haven't seen it

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<v Speaker 5>this busy in a while, and all of us were like,

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<v Speaker 5>what did we get promoted on TV? And I have

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<v Speaker 5>no idea this happened because it was Banana Land. It

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<v Speaker 5>was great.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it's your first look exposure that you're getting.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe, I mean, that's definitely plausible because there's I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>or maybe just everybody's shopping today. I don't really know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a great story, man. We were just recapping our honeymoon.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so, how so all right? I followed long on

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<v Speaker 5>social media obviously, Kitlin, you did a great job posting

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<v Speaker 5>dian As always did nothing. But so you went to Tanzania.

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<v Speaker 4>Tanzania, Yes, it is okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Was that the only stop?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we went to So we started in Kilimanjaros where

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<v Speaker 2>we flew into, drove to Arusha, It's like an hour

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<v Speaker 2>and a half, and then took a small plane to

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<v Speaker 2>the Serengetti and then took another small plane.

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<v Speaker 5>To all small of these planes are we're talking about

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<v Speaker 5>ten people?

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<v Speaker 4>Ten people? Yeah, hello, so scary? Did it three times?

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<v Speaker 2>The third time was super cloudy and flying to those

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<v Speaker 2>clouds is absolutely terrifying.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought the second time was the scariest. So they're

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<v Speaker 1>short flights. They're about an hour flight and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>slow plane. It probably only goes like one hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>fifty miles an hour. But the second flight from the

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<v Speaker 1>Serengetti to Gorongo Crater, it was really cloudy, and these planes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, I'm no plane guy, but they

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<v Speaker 1>seemed a little older, so they're probably on mostly analog

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<v Speaker 1>flight systems. And we're flying through these clouds, look out

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<v Speaker 1>the window, no visibility whatsoever. And I was like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of running through my head. You know, it's probably like

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<v Speaker 1>almost infintesibly small for you to run thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>you to crash into another airplane, Like even if you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have navigation systems, the chances of like hitting another

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<v Speaker 1>airplane in the air are probably so so small, but

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<v Speaker 1>you always think there's gonna be that one time.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad I wasn't alone in that too.

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<v Speaker 1>But my fallo up theory to that, not theory, but

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<v Speaker 1>my outlook is what am I going to do?

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<v Speaker 3>Sitting in the plane.

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<v Speaker 1>I can either be scared or not scared, because there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing I can change that might as well just not

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<v Speaker 1>be scared. But so we're flying through the clouds, descending

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<v Speaker 1>towards our landing strip, can't see anything, and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>these pilots they got it, they're professionals. And then the landing,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it felt like we were landing on

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<v Speaker 1>a Colombian airport. In the middle of the Amazon with

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<v Speaker 1>fifty kiloads of drugs, just because it was like this

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<v Speaker 1>long dirt runway and there was like travel It was

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<v Speaker 1>a short right, but it was like just a very

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<v Speaker 1>prominent dirt runway. I guess what I'm trying to say,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing around it, just a dirt runway surrounded by like

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<v Speaker 1>the like it wasn't Amazon obviously, but like rainforest type

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<v Speaker 1>setting with this like really lush and it just felt

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<v Speaker 1>like we were about to jump out and there was

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<v Speaker 1>going to be like the federal drug agents were going

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<v Speaker 1>to be there waiting for us to be arrested or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, that was really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And then yeah, and then we took another flight back

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<v Speaker 1>down to the airport and.

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<v Speaker 4>That was one of five.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that just sounds like the complete opposite of what

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<v Speaker 5>I would want to do on my honeymoon. But that's

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<v Speaker 5>so amazing for you both, I mean so sweet that

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<v Speaker 5>you guys had that experience together.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a dream honeymoon for us because I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>playing so side, I do have very bad flight anxiety,

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<v Speaker 2>but we have done trips like to the Maldives, and

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<v Speaker 2>it just gets you know, more so Dean than me

0:19:47.359 --> 0:19:49.119
<v Speaker 2>Dean gets bored quicker than I do.

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<v Speaker 4>But just to you know, this isn't for everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>But waking up at six am each morning, going on safari,

0:19:54.760 --> 0:19:59.040
<v Speaker 2>seeing animals, taking photos, eating amazing food, like it really was,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the perfect honeymoon for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, GEO did a great job of the accommodations.

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<v Speaker 1>While we were there. The first day or the first

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<v Speaker 1>we said at three different hotels. The first hotel was

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<v Speaker 1>like this really nice coffee lodge in Arishow, which is

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<v Speaker 1>which is okay. But then we went and said the

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<v Speaker 1>four seasons in the Serengetti, which was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>And in dry season, so they have a man made

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<v Speaker 2>watering hole.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, a man made watering hole.

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<v Speaker 2>And in the dry season there's no water, so all

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<v Speaker 2>of the elephants flocked to the pool. So you're like

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<v Speaker 2>waiting by the pool and all these elephants are coming.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was it was that's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 4>What season?

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<v Speaker 2>So they have plenty of water plenty which is good

0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:40.119
<v Speaker 2>because we learned there with climate change, a lot of

0:20:40.119 --> 0:20:42.520
<v Speaker 2>elephants are dying, a lot of animals are dying because

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<v Speaker 2>there's very little water.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I'm happy that it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so we stayed the four seasons. That was nice,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously it's the four seasons, and then we stayed. After that,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to an even more incredible hotel, Gorongo Crater

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<v Speaker 1>Lodge at the Gorongo Crater and yeah, there's an at

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning, but I don't believe you pronounce it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, go On Goro.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's funny because if you take the end

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<v Speaker 1>at the front of the world and put it at

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<v Speaker 1>the back of the word, it would just be gore On.

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<v Speaker 3>Gore On, and gore On is a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a species, like a race from my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>video game, Legend of Zelda. So it's just it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a funny. Every time I saw it, I was

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<v Speaker 1>like goro on. Anyways, so we go to the Goro

0:21:23.359 --> 0:21:26.000
<v Speaker 1>and Goro Creator and.

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<v Speaker 3>We stay at this lodge and so what the crater is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a creator that was created three and a half million,

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<v Speaker 1>four million years ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Seventh Wonder of the World.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's just that's just the thing people say about

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<v Speaker 1>everything that's amazing that qualify as wonder.

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<v Speaker 5>One of the seven Wonders of the world.

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<v Speaker 3>They called it the eighth Wonder of the World.

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<v Speaker 1>As you do about amazing things that don't quite It

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing and it should have been. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it was classified as an official wonder of the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if there are official classifications of

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<v Speaker 1>wonders of the world.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think there is. I think it's a subjective list.

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<v Speaker 5>They changed them, right, because aren't there like the Seven

0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:01.639
<v Speaker 5>Ancients or the seventh Wonders of the Ancient World, and

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<v Speaker 5>now there's the Seven Wonders of the New World or

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<v Speaker 5>something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's also still subjective, like people are like, well,

0:22:07.240 --> 0:22:08.760
<v Speaker 1>this is what we think the seven Wonders are.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyways, that's beside the point.

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<v Speaker 1>So the crater was created four million years ago, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's this it's a crater obviously, and it's two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>feet down from the top of the crater ridge into

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<v Speaker 1>the crater. Is this like this twenty what would it

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<v Speaker 1>be like forty square acre forty square kilometers.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was like twenty eight kilometers twenty kilometers.

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<v Speaker 5>Bro, there's a lot of numbers being thrown at me

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<v Speaker 5>right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's ten kilometers.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a deep hole.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just basically like this really great biodome micro climate

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<v Speaker 1>for wildlife to thrive, and so you stay the hotel

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<v Speaker 1>that we stayed, it was right on the very top

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<v Speaker 1>of the ridge, and so you can look over the

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<v Speaker 1>ridge into this crater.

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<v Speaker 3>And the hotel itself was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like really bohemian boutique style where it felt like you

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<v Speaker 1>were walking into like a lion witch in the wardrobe

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<v Speaker 1>setting or like a what did you call it.

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<v Speaker 2>It reminded me of a series of unfortunate event, series

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<v Speaker 2>of unfortunate events.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of thought it was like Jumanji vibes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a little Jumanji as well.

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<v Speaker 1>It was amazing, that's nice, and the staff there was incredible,

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<v Speaker 1>and so just the accommodations, that's the whole point of

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<v Speaker 1>my story is the accommodations alone were worth the trip.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in that place, what it was just like, it

0:23:16.160 --> 0:23:18.960
<v Speaker 2>was so romantic, it was so beautiful. If we were

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<v Speaker 2>to travel back to a place like, that's where I

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<v Speaker 2>want to go back to. It was very hard to

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<v Speaker 2>get to, very long flight, but one hundred percent worth it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think everyone should go to Tanzany if they

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<v Speaker 2>have the opportunity to, because it is truly magical, just

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<v Speaker 2>like being surrounded by incredible people, incredible animals and everyone

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<v Speaker 2>really who you know, are guides, Like they really do

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<v Speaker 2>care for the animals and they want the best for

0:23:44.320 --> 0:23:45.720
<v Speaker 2>the animals, but they also want you to have a

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<v Speaker 2>good experience, but at no cost to the animals, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like respect to the animals comes first, which I think

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<v Speaker 2>is great.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what's so great about this trip and that

0:23:53.160 --> 0:23:55.359
<v Speaker 1>trip that I was talking about earlier in Patagonia. It

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<v Speaker 1>was more of like you're there to watch them live

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<v Speaker 1>their lives rather than and like you're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>watch them in an enclosure or anything like that. You're like,

0:24:03.359 --> 0:24:05.000
<v Speaker 1>they're living their lives and we're just lucky enough to

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<v Speaker 1>be there to watch for a little bit, you know.

0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:10.000
<v Speaker 2>And they're so close, like a lioness was, oh my gosh,

0:24:10.000 --> 0:24:13.160
<v Speaker 2>she walked maybe like a foot from us, maybe closer.

0:24:13.720 --> 0:24:15.520
<v Speaker 2>I was taking a photo and they're like get in,

0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:18.080
<v Speaker 2>like you know, my lens is out, and they're like

0:24:18.080 --> 0:24:19.840
<v Speaker 2>get in right now. And I was like about to

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<v Speaker 2>pee myself. Yeah, we were fine, we were safe.

0:24:23.280 --> 0:24:24.800
<v Speaker 1>I was a little frustrated because I was getting an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing shout with my Instant three sixty and everyone is

0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:30.600
<v Speaker 1>yelling at me to pull my Instan three sixty into the.

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<v Speaker 3>Car fullly so and no it would the shot was

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<v Speaker 3>still good.

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<v Speaker 4>If she looked up and she saw that, we don't

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<v Speaker 4>know what would happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thank you nat Geo for helping me get the

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:42.800
<v Speaker 1>shot of a lifetime while at Lion's was on Anti

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<v Speaker 1>sixty out of my hands. Oh sorry, it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>nikon zf. Yeah. The worst part about it was just

0:24:49.520 --> 0:24:50.880
<v Speaker 1>getting there so challenging.

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<v Speaker 2>Getting there wasn't so bad, it was the flight home

0:24:53.680 --> 0:24:58.000
<v Speaker 2>was just brutal, because I mean the jet, the jet lag.

0:24:58.040 --> 0:25:00.679
<v Speaker 2>We finally were getting over the last day, but we

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<v Speaker 2>had five flights to get home.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yes, but also get I don't think one was

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<v Speaker 1>worse than the other. But getting there we missed our

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:08.760
<v Speaker 1>connecting flight and as right, I forgot, which is brutal.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So in order to even get to kill the Manjara airport, well,

0:25:13.240 --> 0:25:15.040
<v Speaker 1>let's even just say, in order to get to the Serengetti,

0:25:15.080 --> 0:25:17.440
<v Speaker 1>you have to fly. We flew from Vegas to La

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:20.359
<v Speaker 1>La to Amsterdam. Missed our connection in Amsterdam, so we

0:25:20.359 --> 0:25:22.880
<v Speaker 1>had to fly to Doha, Doha to kill him Anjarro,

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<v Speaker 1>kill him Anjarro to the Sengetti. It was just it's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of work. And then the way back was

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<v Speaker 1>very much the same way. You know, Serenghetti to kill

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<v Speaker 1>him Anjara, kill him Anjara to Ethiopia, Ethiopia to Dohat

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<v Speaker 1>Doha to La La to Vegas.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, it was a lot.

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:41.800
<v Speaker 2>But the Amsterdam flight was frustrating because we had an

0:25:41.840 --> 0:25:44.720
<v Speaker 2>hour layover to get to our connection. We had a

0:25:44.720 --> 0:25:47.520
<v Speaker 2>forty minute delay and we get off the plane. We

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:49.840
<v Speaker 2>sprint as fast as we can and it's like you're

0:25:49.840 --> 0:25:51.840
<v Speaker 2>sitting on a bus and you're sitting on a bus

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<v Speaker 2>just stopped, like you dplane sitting on a bus. It's

0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:57.560
<v Speaker 2>not moving, and you're like, if we could just move.

0:25:57.480 --> 0:25:59.120
<v Speaker 1>When you're to make it, when you're in a rush

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<v Speaker 1>and you have to use some sort of like mass

0:26:01.000 --> 0:26:03.840
<v Speaker 1>transit to get somewhere, and they don't share your urgency,

0:26:04.000 --> 0:26:06.159
<v Speaker 1>like they're just driving. They don't know that you're in

0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:07.240
<v Speaker 1>an amazing rush.

0:26:07.400 --> 0:26:10.320
<v Speaker 2>If we sat at a standstill for fifteen minutes, right,

0:26:10.359 --> 0:26:10.680
<v Speaker 2>But I'm.

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Saying it's so frustrating when you know that you need

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<v Speaker 1>to be somewhere and they don't. It's something they don't care.

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they sort of care, but they They're just

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<v Speaker 1>going about their day, doing what they need to do.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why I hate relying on public transportation, because it's

0:26:22.359 --> 0:26:24.080
<v Speaker 5>like I just want to draw anywhere we go. I

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:25.919
<v Speaker 5>always want to drive myself. I want to take my

0:26:25.960 --> 0:26:29.040
<v Speaker 5>own car because like I want to come and go

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<v Speaker 5>as I please. I'm just too old for that. Like

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<v Speaker 5>we got places to go, things to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Same with like elevators. If I'm in a rush, i

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<v Speaker 1>am not taking the elevator, even if the run up

0:26:39.080 --> 0:26:40.920
<v Speaker 1>those things. Even if I get to the top of

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<v Speaker 1>the stairs the same time as the elevator, I feel

0:26:43.200 --> 0:26:45.400
<v Speaker 1>like I'm doing more by running up the stairs.

0:26:45.560 --> 0:26:46.000
<v Speaker 4>That's fair.

0:26:46.480 --> 0:26:49.919
<v Speaker 2>But back to Amsterdam, we're sprinting. We arrive at the

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:52.840
<v Speaker 2>gate plane still there. There are two people there trying

0:26:53.000 --> 0:26:54.879
<v Speaker 2>to get on the plane as well. The doors are closed,

0:26:54.920 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 2>but people they let two people on. This was the

0:26:57.520 --> 0:27:00.240
<v Speaker 2>most frustrating thing ever. They let two people on. The

0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:02.520
<v Speaker 2>door was closed and we're like, we're here, like what

0:27:02.720 --> 0:27:04.800
<v Speaker 2>is the deal And they were like, sorry, we already

0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:07.160
<v Speaker 2>rebooked you, so we can't. And I'm like, but our

0:27:07.160 --> 0:27:09.600
<v Speaker 2>seats are empty. We have the tickets on our phone,

0:27:09.640 --> 0:27:11.879
<v Speaker 2>Like this is absolutely crazy, and they're like, sorry, you

0:27:11.880 --> 0:27:13.560
<v Speaker 2>have to wait eight hours for your next flight.

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:16.919
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Oh, it was very frustrating, but it was like

0:27:16.960 --> 0:27:17.920
<v Speaker 1>they just were doing what.

0:27:17.920 --> 0:27:19.520
<v Speaker 3>They i know, taught to do.

0:27:19.800 --> 0:27:20.160
<v Speaker 4>For sure.

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:21.920
<v Speaker 2>It's not their fault by any means, but it's just

0:27:21.960 --> 0:27:24.159
<v Speaker 2>so frustrating when you're literally there, you can see the

0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:27.000
<v Speaker 2>plane they're letting people on, yeah, and they won't let

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:27.280
<v Speaker 2>you on.

0:27:27.920 --> 0:27:29.280
<v Speaker 1>And all have to say, we did, we made it

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:31.120
<v Speaker 1>to a destination. On the way there, we were twelve

0:27:31.160 --> 0:27:33.040
<v Speaker 1>hours late. We didn't miss anything, but it would have

0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:34.920
<v Speaker 1>been nice to have that extra night to adjust more

0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:37.040
<v Speaker 1>to the time. Like you know, we got there, so

0:27:37.520 --> 0:27:40.560
<v Speaker 1>Tanzania or and Kilimanjaro I think is thirteen hours ahead or

0:27:40.600 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 1>eleven hours ahead of West Coast time, so it's literally

0:27:44.560 --> 0:27:46.680
<v Speaker 1>just a complete flip on the other side. If it's

0:27:46.680 --> 0:27:49.000
<v Speaker 1>four pm there, it's four am here. And so just

0:27:49.000 --> 0:27:51.200
<v Speaker 1>the adjustment, it took us three to four days to

0:27:51.240 --> 0:27:53.240
<v Speaker 1>even start to kind of get a normal sleep schedule.

0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:55.240
<v Speaker 1>So the next day there would have been nice. And

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:58.520
<v Speaker 1>then I'm ranting. I guess that's why we have a podcast,

0:27:58.560 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 1>so we can rant. And then it's like by the

0:28:00.560 --> 0:28:03.520
<v Speaker 1>time you start feeling normal with your body and the

0:28:03.560 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 1>time and everything, it's time to leave and go home,

0:28:06.400 --> 0:28:08.919
<v Speaker 1>and now we're still paying for the price on this

0:28:09.040 --> 0:28:10.560
<v Speaker 1>end of it where we're trying to just back to

0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:12.640
<v Speaker 1>this time because we're still on Tanzania time, right.

0:28:12.760 --> 0:28:15.040
<v Speaker 5>That's why anytime we travel overseas, it's like we have

0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:18.200
<v Speaker 5>to be there for at least a week.

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:21.160
<v Speaker 1>A week, yeah, and the further you like, well they

0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:23.239
<v Speaker 1>say this is the rule of them that I've been

0:28:23.240 --> 0:28:25.840
<v Speaker 1>taught for every time zone change, like for every one

0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:28.120
<v Speaker 1>hour difference, you need to spend a day there. So

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:28.720
<v Speaker 1>like if you.

0:28:28.760 --> 0:28:30.880
<v Speaker 5>Think you guys should have been there for fifteen days exactly.

0:28:31.080 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 1>So if we travel to London, I think that's like

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<v Speaker 1>seven hours or something, we have to spend a week

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:37.400
<v Speaker 1>there before we're fully adjusted.

0:28:37.560 --> 0:28:39.640
<v Speaker 2>And we're going to Australia next month for three days,

0:28:39.640 --> 0:28:40.920
<v Speaker 2>so that's going to be a little brutal.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, maybe world travels you Yeah, there're I mean,

0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:48.640
<v Speaker 7>we're yeah, we've kind of made a commitment to not

0:28:48.720 --> 0:28:52.000
<v Speaker 7>travel personally, like to not travel for fun as much.

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<v Speaker 3>But these are all kind of like work quote.

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Unquote work things.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but there's still.

0:28:56.000 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys aren't moving like, yeah, well, that's why we

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:03.200
<v Speaker 1>made the commitment to not like take leisure travel right,

0:29:03.240 --> 0:29:04.000
<v Speaker 1>which we still will.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm gonna do like one trip a year.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we do need to slow down. But if it's

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<v Speaker 2>you know, this was we can call it work. Australia,

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 2>we can call it work.

0:29:11.920 --> 0:29:13.240
<v Speaker 3>This was not to you always definitely work.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, so work trips only it was the trip

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 2>of a lifetime.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you feel safe on the safaris because this is

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<v Speaker 5>like listen, of course, safaris are so much better than zoos,

0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 5>it's not even comparable. But I saw some of your

0:29:37.960 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 5>videos Kalin, and like you said, you're just describing the

0:29:40.160 --> 0:29:42.960
<v Speaker 5>lin one s walking right next to you. So are

0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:47.360
<v Speaker 5>you guys in these shuttles or these buses that have cages?

0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:51.440
<v Speaker 1>No there, Well, so they're land cruisers. They're modified land cruisers.

0:29:51.680 --> 0:29:54.000
<v Speaker 1>So they're not like buses or shuttles like you probably

0:29:54.040 --> 0:29:57.160
<v Speaker 1>are thinking they're there. They're modified land cruises, cruisers with

0:29:57.200 --> 0:29:59.320
<v Speaker 1>like a pop top and sliding windows, and so you

0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 1>can stick your hand out the side and take pictures.

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:03.080
<v Speaker 1>You can stick your head out the roof and take pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>But the car only seats eight people.

0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:09.160
<v Speaker 2>But the rule that we have learned is animals think

0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:11.680
<v Speaker 2>that the car is just one thing, Like they don't

0:30:11.680 --> 0:30:13.680
<v Speaker 2>know that there's a bunch of humans in there that

0:30:13.720 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 2>they can kill. So unless you're like hanging out of

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:18.800
<v Speaker 2>the side of the car, they're not going to come

0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:19.080
<v Speaker 2>at you.

0:30:19.360 --> 0:30:21.920
<v Speaker 1>Kind of a lot of similar psychology to road rage. People

0:30:21.960 --> 0:30:24.320
<v Speaker 1>get road rage because they're getting mad at the car,

0:30:24.600 --> 0:30:26.680
<v Speaker 1>not the person inside the car. If they were getting

0:30:26.680 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 1>if they knew or if they could better associate the

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:31.320
<v Speaker 1>person into the car, there'd be a lot less road

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:33.080
<v Speaker 1>rage because they just see a car cut them off

0:30:33.120 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 1>and they're like, screw that car. Yeah, it's kind of

0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:36.240
<v Speaker 1>like animals.

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 4>I can I can see where you're coming from.

0:30:38.080 --> 0:30:39.280
<v Speaker 1>I think I heard that once, so I don't know

0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:40.040
<v Speaker 1>if I'm making it up.

0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:42.320
<v Speaker 5>So what was the coolest animal that you guys saw?

0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:44.320
<v Speaker 5>What was your favorite? What was your favorite moment?

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<v Speaker 2>We touched on this a little bit were the lion cubs.

0:30:48.680 --> 0:30:51.920
<v Speaker 2>But I also really fell in love with hyenas. Again,

0:30:52.000 --> 0:30:55.479
<v Speaker 2>going back to the nat Geo show, they have an

0:30:55.520 --> 0:30:59.240
<v Speaker 2>episode on lions and hyenas. So the show is called

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<v Speaker 2>Queen's and it's all about female animals and just the

0:31:02.760 --> 0:31:06.280
<v Speaker 2>way that they are amazing creatures.

0:31:07.000 --> 0:31:09.280
<v Speaker 4>And the lionesses are absolutely incredible.

0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:12.760
<v Speaker 2>That female hyenas are just so cool and they are

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:15.440
<v Speaker 2>they rule the pack like the men cower behind them.

0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:17.000
<v Speaker 2>They're like kind of afraid to have sex with them

0:31:17.040 --> 0:31:20.160
<v Speaker 2>because the females can overpower them and.

0:31:20.200 --> 0:31:21.120
<v Speaker 4>Kill them, and.

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:27.880
<v Speaker 2>They're just like, Yeah, lions and hyenas were just so

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 2>cool to watch. And then obviously elephants are amazing, and

0:31:31.080 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 2>what was.

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<v Speaker 5>It about hyenas that made them so cool? Because I

0:31:34.320 --> 0:31:37.360
<v Speaker 5>gotta be honest, when I go on a safari, I'm

0:31:37.360 --> 0:31:38.600
<v Speaker 5>not thinking about hyaenas well.

0:31:38.640 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to give away the show, but when

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:44.640
<v Speaker 2>you watch the episode, you just have like such a

0:31:44.640 --> 0:31:48.120
<v Speaker 2>greater appreciation for hyenas and how strong they are and

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:51.880
<v Speaker 2>the way that they're like they can take over their

0:31:51.960 --> 0:31:53.720
<v Speaker 2>hierarchy is just it's wild.

0:31:53.840 --> 0:31:54.640
<v Speaker 3>They get a bad rap.

0:31:54.640 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 1>They are villainized in every piece of literature that we

0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:01.880
<v Speaker 1>have absorbed. Moved these lion king, the.

0:32:01.840 --> 0:32:05.000
<v Speaker 5>Lion king, I mean, really, let's just get to the

0:32:05.040 --> 0:32:08.160
<v Speaker 5>root cause of it. The lion King villainized hya for sure,

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 5>and they are.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of, I guess like the villains of this but

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:13.880
<v Speaker 1>they're so cool and they're so sweet that we saw

0:32:13.880 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of.

0:32:14.200 --> 0:32:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Little Hyaena that male lions are worse.

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:19.160
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. They're just as bad as hyena.

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:23.480
<v Speaker 5>Like that, Okay, more like scot slander against Ufossa.

0:32:23.840 --> 0:32:25.920
<v Speaker 2>I can tell you off airs some sick things that

0:32:25.960 --> 0:32:26.680
<v Speaker 2>male lions do.

0:32:26.760 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 1>They are not let's just say it on air.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't know why.

0:32:31.080 --> 0:32:32.600
<v Speaker 5>It's a lion. It's not a human.

0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:34.680
<v Speaker 3>You can't spoil the ending.

0:32:35.120 --> 0:32:36.760
<v Speaker 4>Right, I just I don't want to. I don't know.

0:32:36.960 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 4>If there's something in the show, I'll just share it.

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 4>Then what are you saying?

0:32:42.400 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 1>Just like give a like a quick so so, Jared,

0:32:45.440 --> 0:32:47.120
<v Speaker 1>you missed this part. But we were hanging out with

0:32:47.720 --> 0:32:51.360
<v Speaker 1>two like pretty highly esteemed that Geo film people that

0:32:51.400 --> 0:32:54.400
<v Speaker 1>were answering a lot of questions about their experiences filming

0:32:54.400 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 1>and everything. So one of them was like a showrunner

0:32:56.840 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 1>and one of them was like a head of uh

0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:01.520
<v Speaker 1>of videography cinematography.

0:33:01.560 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 4>He's just a very very well known cinematographer.

0:33:03.520 --> 0:33:07.040
<v Speaker 1>So talented, so highly esteemed. She was saying that there

0:33:07.080 --> 0:33:09.480
<v Speaker 1>was one night they filmed stuff that they couldn't even

0:33:09.520 --> 0:33:11.600
<v Speaker 1>put in in the show, the Geo Show, because it

0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:12.320
<v Speaker 1>was that graphic.

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:12.720
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:33:12.720 --> 0:33:14.600
<v Speaker 2>I asked him what the grossest thing they've seen in

0:33:14.640 --> 0:33:16.760
<v Speaker 2>They're like this what you're about to watch? But we

0:33:16.760 --> 0:33:18.720
<v Speaker 2>didn't actually air what the gross thing?

0:33:18.800 --> 0:33:20.320
<v Speaker 5>But they have spoiling the show?

0:33:20.600 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 3>No, well, no, I won't spoil anything.

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 1>So they have to watch all the footage obviously to

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:26.160
<v Speaker 1>see what they should and shouldn't use. And there's this

0:33:26.160 --> 0:33:29.400
<v Speaker 1>one scene they were filming at night in the gore

0:33:29.480 --> 0:33:30.640
<v Speaker 1>on Goro Crater.

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:32.880
<v Speaker 5>And set the scene for me, Dean, I'm going to

0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:35.240
<v Speaker 5>close my eyes and try to They were they were.

0:33:35.080 --> 0:33:36.680
<v Speaker 1>The first ever film crew to get in there to

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<v Speaker 1>film at night in the history of what we were,

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>no at least.

0:33:41.680 --> 0:33:45.360
<v Speaker 3>And there was this this male lion.

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<v Speaker 1>There's these three sisters that kind of like run the

0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:49.400
<v Speaker 1>show out there, and there's this male lion that came

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 1>in and wanted to like establish dominance in.

0:33:52.600 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 5>The three The three sisters are lions. These are not humans.

0:33:55.520 --> 0:33:57.560
<v Speaker 3>Three lion sisters. That's right, got it.

0:33:57.520 --> 0:33:59.360
<v Speaker 5>Three line sisters, one male lion.

0:33:59.440 --> 0:34:02.280
<v Speaker 2>But typically the male lions won't stick around, so they

0:34:02.400 --> 0:34:05.040
<v Speaker 2>like impregnate and then they leave. But a good male

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 2>will stick by their side and raise the babies.

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:09.439
<v Speaker 3>Which is so typical to hims as well.

0:34:09.600 --> 0:34:14.480
<v Speaker 2>That this this lioness, the dad left, so she has

0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:18.640
<v Speaker 2>these babies and this mail comes in and he wants

0:34:18.920 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 2>then so in order to come into the pack with

0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:23.440
<v Speaker 2>these lionesses, he has to kill the babies.

0:34:23.640 --> 0:34:25.239
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was telling the story because you're too

0:34:25.320 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 1>straight too, thank you.

0:34:29.440 --> 0:34:29.800
<v Speaker 3>Anyway.

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:31.839
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so that one of the three sisters has

0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:34.399
<v Speaker 1>five cubs, a litter of cubs, and this male comes

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:36.400
<v Speaker 1>in from out of the crater, so he's an outsider,

0:34:36.440 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 1>comes in, wants to start his reign I guess within

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:43.360
<v Speaker 1>the crater. And so what the male line has to

0:34:43.400 --> 0:34:46.200
<v Speaker 1>do or like he's threatened by the babies because if

0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 1>any of those babies are boys, which I'm sure a

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:49.920
<v Speaker 1>few of them more, then they would grow up to

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 1>be the king of the crater.

0:34:51.440 --> 0:34:53.000
<v Speaker 4>I didn't think that's so, I don't know.

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:55.360
<v Speaker 1>The king of Pride Rock the King of Pride Rock essentially,

0:34:55.360 --> 0:34:58.920
<v Speaker 1>which is really and so the male line comes in

0:34:58.960 --> 0:35:02.400
<v Speaker 1>and he essentially really threatens the lives of the of

0:35:02.440 --> 0:35:05.520
<v Speaker 1>the cubs. And what they recorded one night was the

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 1>male lion, adult lion ripping the head up of a

0:35:09.320 --> 0:35:10.080
<v Speaker 1>baby lion.

0:35:10.400 --> 0:35:12.719
<v Speaker 2>First, he played with him for five days. He took

0:35:12.760 --> 0:35:15.880
<v Speaker 2>the cub, played with him for five days, pretended to

0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 2>be his dad. Male lions suck. I've learned they're evil.

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:24.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but they but they don't get the evil rip because.

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:26.080
<v Speaker 5>There's gonna be some good male lions you know that

0:35:26.160 --> 0:35:29.680
<v Speaker 5>stick around, raise the kids killed the beforehand, get.

0:35:29.480 --> 0:35:30.920
<v Speaker 3>Trampled by wildebeasts.

0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:34.120
<v Speaker 3>So anyways, that was our honeymoon.

0:35:35.280 --> 0:35:37.000
<v Speaker 4>Super romantic, super.

0:35:36.760 --> 0:35:39.200
<v Speaker 5>Romantic, very cool, very cool.

0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 1>It was definitely the trip of a lifetime. Could have

0:35:41.120 --> 0:35:44.080
<v Speaker 1>asked for a better honeymoon. We got a little home sick,

0:35:44.120 --> 0:35:49.960
<v Speaker 1>We missed alistair dearly, but we it was nice to

0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:51.759
<v Speaker 1>go to La and spend time with you guys, and

0:35:51.800 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 1>then we went straight there, So it was it was

0:35:53.800 --> 0:35:55.560
<v Speaker 1>a fun filled week and a half for us.

0:35:56.320 --> 0:35:56.840
<v Speaker 4>Definitely.

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:00.719
<v Speaker 5>Are you Are you sad that, like it's your honeymoon's over,

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:05.680
<v Speaker 5>wedding's over, honeymoon's over all this time spent thinking about it.

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:10.840
<v Speaker 5>It's only just in your relationship, but your lives, like, oh, wedding, honeymoon, wedding, honeymoon.

0:36:11.200 --> 0:36:16.000
<v Speaker 2>Really I feel like invigorated after that trip because we

0:36:16.000 --> 0:36:18.600
<v Speaker 2>were with such talented people. It makes me want to

0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:22.520
<v Speaker 2>be a better photographer and videographer and just keep learning

0:36:22.560 --> 0:36:25.320
<v Speaker 2>from these people, like hopefully we get invited on another

0:36:25.360 --> 0:36:29.040
<v Speaker 2>trip because learning from them was the most incredible thing.

0:36:29.080 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 1>It's great to hear you say that, because those are

0:36:30.440 --> 0:36:32.920
<v Speaker 1>the trips that I've always liked so much. Yeah, and

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:35.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you've had as many opportunities to go

0:36:35.200 --> 0:36:36.120
<v Speaker 1>on those types of trips.

0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:37.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was best trip of my life.

0:36:37.760 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Not that I've done many many of those trips, but

0:36:39.480 --> 0:36:41.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, like the type of thing where you're going

0:36:41.719 --> 0:36:44.240
<v Speaker 1>on an adventure versus going on a relaxing vacation.

0:36:44.560 --> 0:36:44.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:36:44.920 --> 0:36:47.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean, just like I keep saying about getting to

0:36:47.560 --> 0:36:50.400
<v Speaker 2>talk to Chloe and Sophie was so cool and getting

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:51.960
<v Speaker 2>to be with them on the Safaris and just like

0:36:52.000 --> 0:36:55.799
<v Speaker 2>hear their knowledge and wisdom, and they're so they're doing

0:36:55.840 --> 0:36:58.080
<v Speaker 2>the show Queens and it's all about women empowerment and

0:36:58.120 --> 0:37:00.640
<v Speaker 2>they are just like so willing to lift up women

0:37:00.719 --> 0:37:03.120
<v Speaker 2>and share their knowledge and just help in any way

0:37:03.160 --> 0:37:03.520
<v Speaker 2>they can.

0:37:03.719 --> 0:37:04.360
<v Speaker 1>They're queens.

0:37:04.680 --> 0:37:05.480
<v Speaker 4>They're so cool.

0:37:05.840 --> 0:37:09.520
<v Speaker 5>They're so so if you guys your next like big vacation,

0:37:09.680 --> 0:37:14.719
<v Speaker 5>would you rather do the resorts no Ah? Or would

0:37:14.760 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 5>you rather go back to the safar Safari.

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:19.040
<v Speaker 1>Well, not necessarily back to the Safari, but in the

0:37:19.080 --> 0:37:19.920
<v Speaker 1>same vein as that.

0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:22.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I really do like the adventure trips, just like

0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:24.719
<v Speaker 2>staying at a hotel isn't really.

0:37:25.040 --> 0:37:28.440
<v Speaker 1>Every adventure trip we've done together Nepali. You come back

0:37:28.440 --> 0:37:31.600
<v Speaker 1>from those trips and you are like, I can't get

0:37:31.600 --> 0:37:33.200
<v Speaker 1>you to shut up right now because of how excited

0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:33.719
<v Speaker 1>you are about the.

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:36.479
<v Speaker 2>Trip, that which is awesome, Yeah, versus going and staying

0:37:36.480 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 2>at a resort and feeling like crap and feeling bloated

0:37:38.880 --> 0:37:40.040
<v Speaker 2>from alcohol and food.

0:37:40.239 --> 0:37:43.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we did feel a little bloated from alcohol. Yeah,

0:37:43.560 --> 0:37:44.040
<v Speaker 1>it's tough.

0:37:44.080 --> 0:37:45.879
<v Speaker 3>It's tough going to an all inclusive trip.

0:37:45.920 --> 0:37:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't drink for the first like three days, and

0:37:48.200 --> 0:37:50.479
<v Speaker 1>then I was like, well, it's free, so I guess

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:51.920
<v Speaker 1>I might as well have a beer, And then one

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:54.360
<v Speaker 1>beer turns into four beers, and then I'm like, Okay,

0:37:54.400 --> 0:37:55.920
<v Speaker 1>well I guess I'll have a glass of wine at dinner.

0:37:56.520 --> 0:38:01.000
<v Speaker 5>And then he's thrown up. Well that's awesome. I'm glad

0:38:01.040 --> 0:38:03.359
<v Speaker 5>you guys had fun. Yeah, I mean, I would love

0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:07.719
<v Speaker 5>to do Safari. What hinders me from doing it is

0:38:07.840 --> 0:38:10.680
<v Speaker 5>I'm more adventurous than Ashley, so I would like to

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:13.319
<v Speaker 5>do things like that. But I'm also very open to

0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:16.920
<v Speaker 5>getting bloated at a resort because that is just it

0:38:17.000 --> 0:38:17.719
<v Speaker 5>is nice.

0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:20.880
<v Speaker 3>And it's a shame. That's a great experience in and

0:38:20.920 --> 0:38:21.440
<v Speaker 3>of itself.

0:38:21.520 --> 0:38:22.080
<v Speaker 5>Shame away.

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:25.120
<v Speaker 1>There's there's a place, there's a place in time for

0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:27.719
<v Speaker 1>those like there. I think a good mixture of the

0:38:27.719 --> 0:38:29.600
<v Speaker 1>two is a really healthy way to go about traveling.

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:29.799
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:38:30.600 --> 0:38:34.440
<v Speaker 5>I think shame is something that we should all feel sometimes.

0:38:34.640 --> 0:38:38.200
<v Speaker 5>I think it's an emotion that like is kind of necessary. Yeah,

0:38:38.600 --> 0:38:41.680
<v Speaker 5>you know, I always am like is it worth? Is

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:46.360
<v Speaker 5>it worth? Like the seventeen hour travel day, four different

0:38:46.360 --> 0:38:49.800
<v Speaker 5>planes going on these small planes, which for an hour,

0:38:49.920 --> 0:38:51.920
<v Speaker 5>I'm going to have a heart attack because I'm going

0:38:52.000 --> 0:38:54.040
<v Speaker 5>to be just up in the air trying not to

0:38:54.120 --> 0:38:56.120
<v Speaker 5>think of that I'm going to die.

0:38:56.320 --> 0:38:57.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:38:57.840 --> 0:38:58.480
<v Speaker 5>So that's where my.

0:38:58.960 --> 0:39:01.520
<v Speaker 1>Similar out to that g because they fell this business

0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:03.400
<v Speaker 1>and if it wasn't business, it would have been a

0:39:03.400 --> 0:39:04.200
<v Speaker 1>brutal experience.

0:39:04.400 --> 0:39:07.279
<v Speaker 2>The layd down beds, we slept like babies, we had.

0:39:07.840 --> 0:39:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Our flight from Doha to Lax was sixteen and a

0:39:10.840 --> 0:39:11.440
<v Speaker 2>half hours.

0:39:11.520 --> 0:39:13.520
<v Speaker 1>It's so long. You go into that flight thinking like, oh,

0:39:13.520 --> 0:39:15.320
<v Speaker 1>I'll just watch a couple of movies, maybe play on

0:39:15.360 --> 0:39:16.960
<v Speaker 1>my phone for a little bit. But by the time

0:39:17.000 --> 0:39:18.560
<v Speaker 1>you're done doing all that stuff, you look at the

0:39:18.560 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 1>time and you solve ten hours to go and you're like,

0:39:21.080 --> 0:39:21.640
<v Speaker 1>oh my god.

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 3>And there's no Wi Fi on the flight.

0:39:23.280 --> 0:39:23.520
<v Speaker 5>Right.

0:39:23.800 --> 0:39:24.440
<v Speaker 4>But I slept.

0:39:24.520 --> 0:39:27.920
<v Speaker 2>I slept for about eight hours, woke up, ate some food,

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:29.440
<v Speaker 2>fell back asleep for a few hours.

0:39:29.440 --> 0:39:32.240
<v Speaker 4>It wasn't bad. No, the beds our. Life changing.

0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:34.600
<v Speaker 3>I watched the movie Smile. Have you ever seen that movie, Jared?

0:39:35.320 --> 0:39:36.520
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I saw it in theaters.

0:39:36.600 --> 0:39:38.319
<v Speaker 1>I watched it on the plane. It might be the

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:41.479
<v Speaker 1>best horror movie I've ever seen in my life. Hell,

0:39:42.200 --> 0:39:43.200
<v Speaker 1>you're going to react that way.

0:39:43.600 --> 0:39:46.880
<v Speaker 5>It's so because people really liked this movie, and I

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:50.080
<v Speaker 5>liked it. I liked it. I'm not but people love

0:39:50.239 --> 0:39:52.560
<v Speaker 5>this movie. Smy. They're making a sequel right now because

0:39:52.560 --> 0:39:53.640
<v Speaker 5>it did so well at boxing.

0:39:54.000 --> 0:39:54.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm not surprised.

0:39:54.880 --> 0:39:55.200
<v Speaker 5>I was.

0:39:55.719 --> 0:39:58.400
<v Speaker 1>I hate horror movies. There was only there. It was

0:39:58.440 --> 0:40:00.600
<v Speaker 1>a perfect number of jump scares. There was like, it

0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:03.439
<v Speaker 1>wasn't they weren't using jump scares to scare you. Yeah

0:40:03.480 --> 0:40:05.279
<v Speaker 1>they did scare you, but there's only a few of them.

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:07.719
<v Speaker 1>But this the whole movie as a whole was like

0:40:07.800 --> 0:40:10.520
<v Speaker 1>creepy and eerie, and I was like, literally, I had

0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 1>no idea what was gonna happen next. It was the

0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:13.600
<v Speaker 1>best horror move I've ever seen in my entire life.

0:40:13.640 --> 0:40:18.320
<v Speaker 5>The ending, I won't spoil it, but the ending, there

0:40:18.440 --> 0:40:21.879
<v Speaker 5>is some there's like certain visuals and I'm sure teens

0:40:21.880 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 5>will know what I'm talking. Yeah, that are very jarring,

0:40:25.760 --> 0:40:28.240
<v Speaker 5>super creepy. It starts so creepy.

0:40:28.320 --> 0:40:30.680
<v Speaker 1>It starts out being really scary, and then by the

0:40:30.760 --> 0:40:32.360
<v Speaker 1>visual last like five minutes. By the end of the

0:40:32.400 --> 0:40:34.200
<v Speaker 1>visual I was kind of like laughing a little bit

0:40:34.400 --> 0:40:35.600
<v Speaker 1>at the way that it looked.

0:40:35.600 --> 0:40:36.799
<v Speaker 3>But it was so good.

0:40:36.920 --> 0:40:39.240
<v Speaker 1>If you haven't seen Smile and you don't like horror movies,

0:40:39.280 --> 0:40:41.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't like horror movies. I thought it was really good.

0:40:41.440 --> 0:40:43.600
<v Speaker 1>It is a little tricky to watch a horror movie

0:40:43.600 --> 0:40:45.320
<v Speaker 1>on a flight because because then you hit like a

0:40:45.320 --> 0:40:46.800
<v Speaker 1>little bit of turbulence and you're already like on the

0:40:46.840 --> 0:40:48.479
<v Speaker 1>edge of your seat, and so you got like even

0:40:48.520 --> 0:40:56.200
<v Speaker 1>more freaked out.

0:41:01.080 --> 0:41:03.040
<v Speaker 2>Wait, this reminded me. I wanted to talk about this

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:05.680
<v Speaker 2>before we end this episode. Do you guys know about

0:41:05.680 --> 0:41:08.320
<v Speaker 2>the Bachelor in Paradise endings?

0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:11.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everyone broke upone broke up.

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:13.919
<v Speaker 2>What do you guys think this is the first time

0:41:14.000 --> 0:41:15.400
<v Speaker 2>there's no successful couples.

0:41:15.520 --> 0:41:17.080
<v Speaker 3>There's not a single one nothing.

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:22.080
<v Speaker 5>Well, this is there was no successful couple last year either, right.

0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:25.520
<v Speaker 1>No, it wasn't.

0:41:25.520 --> 0:41:27.799
<v Speaker 5>There was one couple that got engaged but they broke up.

0:41:27.840 --> 0:41:29.880
<v Speaker 5>It was, oh my god, what was.

0:41:29.920 --> 0:41:33.759
<v Speaker 2>That like Brendan and Piper season? Yes, I thought that

0:41:33.760 --> 0:41:35.359
<v Speaker 2>was Marian Kenney. That must have been two years ago.

0:41:35.400 --> 0:41:37.799
<v Speaker 5>I also thought that was two years ago. Last year

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:41.000
<v Speaker 5>was like Michael A and Danielle. They broke up and

0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:41.399
<v Speaker 5>then it.

0:41:41.400 --> 0:41:44.400
<v Speaker 2>Was well, at least they like had lasting relationships for

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:46.760
<v Speaker 2>a bit. This is like, yeah, this was the gated

0:41:46.840 --> 0:41:48.399
<v Speaker 2>for what three months and broke up.

0:41:49.040 --> 0:41:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Then they all announced it within like a couple of

0:41:51.480 --> 0:41:54.280
<v Speaker 1>days of the finale. Yeah, it really makes you wonder,

0:41:54.360 --> 0:41:57.839
<v Speaker 1>like they definitely probably definitely probably. I hate when people

0:41:57.880 --> 0:42:00.680
<v Speaker 1>say that they definitely probably broke up before the finale,

0:42:00.719 --> 0:42:03.080
<v Speaker 1>but they just like waited till the finale to announce it, you.

0:42:03.000 --> 0:42:05.440
<v Speaker 4>Know, yeah, yeah for sure.

0:42:06.120 --> 0:42:10.600
<v Speaker 2>Well yeah yeah, and they couldn't be like, okay, so

0:42:10.680 --> 0:42:11.520
<v Speaker 2>we got engaged.

0:42:12.360 --> 0:42:15.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, people don't even know that makes sense.

0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:18.040
<v Speaker 4>It's just such a bummer. I mean, something needs to change.

0:42:18.080 --> 0:42:22.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's like older castmates or or what,

0:42:22.239 --> 0:42:24.280
<v Speaker 2>but we need successful couples.

0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 3>Did you watch Paradise this here, Jared?

0:42:27.640 --> 0:42:30.719
<v Speaker 1>I watched most of it, so same, and it's you know,

0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:32.560
<v Speaker 1>it's not normally what I would sit downe and watch,

0:42:32.600 --> 0:42:34.800
<v Speaker 1>but sometimes I can at least like get a little

0:42:34.800 --> 0:42:36.880
<v Speaker 1>interested throughout the season. Like last year, I was a

0:42:36.920 --> 0:42:40.040
<v Speaker 1>little more interested occasionally throughout the season. This year, I

0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:42.160
<v Speaker 1>watched like two episodes and I just I couldn't find

0:42:42.160 --> 0:42:44.680
<v Speaker 1>any interest. So maybe it is the cast, but they

0:42:44.719 --> 0:42:46.440
<v Speaker 1>all seem like nice people for the most part. Like

0:42:46.440 --> 0:42:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to I don't want to rag on

0:42:47.520 --> 0:42:49.120
<v Speaker 1>the cast because I don't really know anything about them,

0:42:49.120 --> 0:42:52.279
<v Speaker 1>but something is something was off about this season for

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:52.720
<v Speaker 1>some reason.

0:42:52.840 --> 0:42:56.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I think. Uh. First of all, let me

0:42:56.760 --> 0:43:00.359
<v Speaker 5>say this, obviously, all three of us love the show,

0:43:00.400 --> 0:43:04.960
<v Speaker 5>immensely support the show. Without the show, I would certainly

0:43:04.960 --> 0:43:06.840
<v Speaker 5>not be where I'm at it life, So let me

0:43:06.880 --> 0:43:08.440
<v Speaker 5>just say that. But the idea that we're not allowed

0:43:08.440 --> 0:43:12.080
<v Speaker 5>to criticize the show has always been also ridiculous because

0:43:13.360 --> 0:43:16.080
<v Speaker 5>I would never take anybody's opinion seriously if they only

0:43:16.120 --> 0:43:18.880
<v Speaker 5>praised the show and gave no criticism to either. And

0:43:18.960 --> 0:43:21.719
<v Speaker 5>I do think, unfortunately, this season of Paradise was a

0:43:21.760 --> 0:43:24.960
<v Speaker 5>little bit of a dud. I mean it just like

0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:30.359
<v Speaker 5>nothing really cool happened, Like nothing crazy happened, and no

0:43:30.560 --> 0:43:32.960
<v Speaker 5>couples lasted from it. There was no investment level in

0:43:33.000 --> 0:43:37.399
<v Speaker 5>any of the couples. Yeah, it just felt I don't

0:43:37.400 --> 0:43:39.279
<v Speaker 5>know if it had to do with Golden Bachelor and

0:43:39.280 --> 0:43:42.920
<v Speaker 5>how that took a lot of the attention off of Paradise,

0:43:43.000 --> 0:43:45.000
<v Speaker 5>but it just felt like there was really nobody talking

0:43:45.000 --> 0:43:47.279
<v Speaker 5>about it and it kind of just happened, and then

0:43:47.320 --> 0:43:48.879
<v Speaker 5>couples came out of it, and then a day later

0:43:48.920 --> 0:43:50.239
<v Speaker 5>they all broke up and it was like all right,

0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:54.720
<v Speaker 5>well that that, unfortunately, was just kind of crappy.

0:43:55.160 --> 0:43:57.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it used to be my favorite show from the franchise,

0:43:57.880 --> 0:44:01.360
<v Speaker 2>but it's just it just wasn't entertaining, Like it didn't

0:44:02.200 --> 0:44:04.480
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't excited to watch it every week.

0:44:04.840 --> 0:44:06.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, why is that? Do you think?

0:44:06.680 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I'm trying to put my finger on it,

0:44:08.160 --> 0:44:11.680
<v Speaker 2>like what was it? And I don't know, don't have

0:44:11.680 --> 0:44:12.160
<v Speaker 2>an answer.

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:16.080
<v Speaker 5>I think Yeah, I mean I think the cast does

0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 5>have something to do with it there it. You know,

0:44:20.640 --> 0:44:24.600
<v Speaker 5>we always talk about how social media has changed everything

0:44:24.760 --> 0:44:28.400
<v Speaker 5>with reality TV and of course with Bachelor as well,

0:44:29.000 --> 0:44:31.439
<v Speaker 5>And I don't know what the correct solution is because

0:44:31.440 --> 0:44:33.279
<v Speaker 5>there's still couples that come out of it during the

0:44:33.280 --> 0:44:35.399
<v Speaker 5>social media age. I mean, Kenny and Mary just got

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:37.319
<v Speaker 5>married and they were on the show three years ago,

0:44:37.360 --> 0:44:39.880
<v Speaker 5>and I would say social media was more prevalent with

0:44:39.880 --> 0:44:43.440
<v Speaker 5>the show back then than it is now. Right, So I.

0:44:43.360 --> 0:44:45.520
<v Speaker 2>Just people just need to let loose, like and not

0:44:45.640 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 2>think easier said than done, but not think so much

0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:50.560
<v Speaker 2>about what people are going to say about you online.

0:44:50.840 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 2>You know, people are so concerned about that. Also, it

0:44:54.040 --> 0:44:56.680
<v Speaker 2>just felt like people were so concerned with staying and

0:44:56.680 --> 0:44:59.239
<v Speaker 2>getting as much TV time as possible, but not in

0:44:59.440 --> 0:45:03.799
<v Speaker 2>an entertain what I think for me, everyone wants to

0:45:04.000 --> 0:45:05.320
<v Speaker 2>like fly under the radar.

0:45:05.680 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 1>For me. Why I was less interested this year, I

0:45:08.600 --> 0:45:11.839
<v Speaker 1>think is because every year that we get further away

0:45:11.840 --> 0:45:13.960
<v Speaker 1>from us being on the show, or like our friends

0:45:13.960 --> 0:45:16.480
<v Speaker 1>being on the show, I get less interested because like

0:45:16.560 --> 0:45:18.920
<v Speaker 1>last year, I was interested because I know Danielle Maltby

0:45:19.000 --> 0:45:21.279
<v Speaker 1>and so I want to see her story unfold. This year,

0:45:21.320 --> 0:45:26.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I knew a single person. I love Blake, Yeah,

0:45:26.080 --> 0:45:27.839
<v Speaker 1>I actually do. I do like Blake a lot. I've

0:45:27.840 --> 0:45:30.040
<v Speaker 1>never met him in a person, but we message on Instagram occasionally.

0:45:30.040 --> 0:45:32.480
<v Speaker 1>He seems really sweet. I know Rachel, I've met her

0:45:32.520 --> 0:45:34.840
<v Speaker 1>a few times, but like, they're not my friends for

0:45:34.960 --> 0:45:37.160
<v Speaker 1>lack of a better word, you know, like Danielle, I

0:45:37.160 --> 0:45:38.480
<v Speaker 1>would say, is more of a friend than any of

0:45:38.480 --> 0:45:42.120
<v Speaker 1>those people. So I just find I'm less invested in

0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:44.600
<v Speaker 1>their personal stories, and so if it's harder for me

0:45:44.640 --> 0:45:47.480
<v Speaker 1>to connect with them watching the show, I guess.

0:45:48.320 --> 0:45:51.520
<v Speaker 5>I agree with Kaylin. I also think that there's too

0:45:51.560 --> 0:45:55.600
<v Speaker 5>many contestants, and I understand, but also it's it's hard

0:45:55.640 --> 0:45:57.960
<v Speaker 5>because I want the franchise to thrive as much as possible,

0:45:58.480 --> 0:46:02.600
<v Speaker 5>that contestants are are far too concerned about what will

0:46:02.640 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 5>be said about them or how they'll edit, you know,

0:46:06.200 --> 0:46:10.399
<v Speaker 5>will be shown on the show. Because obviously I talk

0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:12.080
<v Speaker 5>to her every day, so I always think of Ashley

0:46:12.120 --> 0:46:17.360
<v Speaker 5>in these circumstances. But Ashley was just so unhinged but

0:46:17.600 --> 0:46:21.799
<v Speaker 5>completely herself like she That's I think why people were

0:46:21.840 --> 0:46:24.200
<v Speaker 5>attracted to her so much, you know, in terms of

0:46:24.280 --> 0:46:27.040
<v Speaker 5>just rooting for her or rooting against her. Was the

0:46:27.040 --> 0:46:30.640
<v Speaker 5>fact that she's just always on a pod apologetically herself.

0:46:30.640 --> 0:46:32.640
<v Speaker 5>And Dean, I think you're also like that as well.

0:46:33.040 --> 0:46:35.800
<v Speaker 5>Where Dean, yes, you messed up on your season Paradise

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:38.080
<v Speaker 5>before you met Cayln on many years ago, but like

0:46:39.160 --> 0:46:42.200
<v Speaker 5>you were so polarizing and so popular because of it,

0:46:42.239 --> 0:46:47.440
<v Speaker 5>because you were just so authentically yourself for better and

0:46:47.480 --> 0:46:49.640
<v Speaker 5>for worse. But I think people are just drawn to

0:46:49.680 --> 0:46:53.319
<v Speaker 5>that because people watching the show understand that they're not

0:46:53.360 --> 0:46:55.600
<v Speaker 5>perfect either, So I think they relate to people who

0:46:55.680 --> 0:47:00.120
<v Speaker 5>do make mistakes and are funny and are you know,

0:47:00.239 --> 0:47:02.600
<v Speaker 5>themselves and you know, also try to be the best

0:47:02.680 --> 0:47:05.000
<v Speaker 5>version of theseelves, but just also you know, become vulnerable.

0:47:05.000 --> 0:47:06.719
<v Speaker 5>I'm trying to think of other Yeah, I.

0:47:06.800 --> 0:47:09.080
<v Speaker 2>Was thinking about last season Lace was on and Lace

0:47:10.200 --> 0:47:12.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't know whose season she was on originally, but

0:47:12.280 --> 0:47:13.600
<v Speaker 2>like years and years.

0:47:13.360 --> 0:47:17.000
<v Speaker 5>Ago Ben's Ben season, which is bananas.

0:47:17.239 --> 0:47:20.960
<v Speaker 2>So like she was on and she was probably like

0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:23.239
<v Speaker 2>the most herself out of anyone last season and was

0:47:23.360 --> 0:47:25.680
<v Speaker 2>entertaining and wasn't It didn't seem like she was concerned

0:47:25.680 --> 0:47:27.520
<v Speaker 2>at all about what people were going to say about her.

0:47:27.520 --> 0:47:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I think that kind of comes with experience though, Like

0:47:29.400 --> 0:47:32.080
<v Speaker 1>she's been around since Ben's season, which is what like

0:47:32.160 --> 0:47:33.680
<v Speaker 1>seven or eight years ago, and so you just kind

0:47:33.680 --> 0:47:35.279
<v Speaker 1>of get to a point where you're either burnt out

0:47:35.280 --> 0:47:39.120
<v Speaker 1>from caring or to Ashley's credit and to Jared, what

0:47:39.120 --> 0:47:40.680
<v Speaker 1>you were just saying too, Like I do think Ashley

0:47:40.719 --> 0:47:42.440
<v Speaker 1>cares about what people think about her, but she's not

0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:44.520
<v Speaker 1>going to let it affect the way that she acts.

0:47:44.560 --> 0:47:45.719
<v Speaker 3>And I think that's kind of course.

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:48.400
<v Speaker 1>That's the perfect balance, is like be aware of how

0:47:48.400 --> 0:47:49.759
<v Speaker 1>people are going to react to the things that you

0:47:49.760 --> 0:47:53.000
<v Speaker 1>were doing, but like, don't necessarily let it up a

0:47:53.120 --> 0:47:54.359
<v Speaker 1>change what you're going to do. You know.

0:47:54.719 --> 0:47:56.239
<v Speaker 2>Well, I was almost going to say, like lack of

0:47:56.280 --> 0:47:59.759
<v Speaker 2>experience because when Lace was on, she probably didn't have

0:47:59.800 --> 0:48:03.080
<v Speaker 2>that same amount of scrutiny. Like social media wasn't as

0:48:03.120 --> 0:48:05.800
<v Speaker 2>big as it is now, so people went on to

0:48:05.920 --> 0:48:07.440
<v Speaker 2>The Bachelor like season prior.

0:48:07.640 --> 0:48:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I have to disagree with you.

0:48:09.080 --> 0:48:09.480
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:48:09.640 --> 0:48:14.400
<v Speaker 1>Ben's season of Bachelor was maybe the beginning of the

0:48:14.440 --> 0:48:18.600
<v Speaker 1>social media are era for Bachelor contestants. Like, I don't

0:48:18.600 --> 0:48:20.160
<v Speaker 1>think anyone's coming off the show now with the same

0:48:20.200 --> 0:48:22.839
<v Speaker 1>amount of interest that Ben's seasons cast had.

0:48:23.480 --> 0:48:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I feel like it just like snowballed and

0:48:25.880 --> 0:48:28.040
<v Speaker 2>people got more and more invested in more and more mean.

0:48:28.200 --> 0:48:29.959
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't know if they were necessarily as mean.

0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:31.120
<v Speaker 4>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 2>But also I think the problem with these newer people,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've talked to them, is they're like obsessed with

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<v Speaker 2>Reddit and obsessed with reading negative things about themselves, where

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, of course you're going to go on and

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<v Speaker 2>be super guarded when all your reading is negative things,

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<v Speaker 2>and that just like wasn't a thing when when I

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<v Speaker 2>was on my season, we didn't read into those things.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like very very image conscious and they need to

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<v Speaker 2>stop so it's a better show, which is.

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<v Speaker 3>Funny because it's kind of a catch twenty two.

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<v Speaker 1>The more image conscious you are, the worse your image

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<v Speaker 1>comes across, and so you're just like kind of shooting

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<v Speaker 1>yourself on the foot with that.

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<v Speaker 2>So new castmates who are about to go on your season,

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<v Speaker 2>don't read anything about yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>That's my advice.

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<v Speaker 5>And if you do, I know it's impossible, and everybody

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<v Speaker 5>can relate to this. It's hard not to read something

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<v Speaker 5>about yourself, especially negative, and not have it kind of

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<v Speaker 5>seep into your brain. You know, thinking is that what like,

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<v Speaker 5>is this what other people are thinking to a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of people not like me. I mean, it's just it

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<v Speaker 5>casts out in your head, of course it does. But

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<v Speaker 5>you know it is also what we sign up for.

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<v Speaker 5>And you know the show is not all great. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>there's part I would say for our personal experiences, ninety

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<v Speaker 5>seven percent of it is fantastic. But of course there

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<v Speaker 5>are times where you have to deal with people saying

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<v Speaker 5>crap about you and saying like terrible things about you

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<v Speaker 5>and your character or your looks.

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<v Speaker 1>You can talk rap about my character all day long,

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<v Speaker 1>but just when you start talking about people's looks.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think anybody had said anything negative about Dean's looks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my looks. No, there have been times where people.

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<v Speaker 4>What can anyone say about you?

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<v Speaker 5>There's in rare instances.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember on my one on one day with Rachel

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<v Speaker 1>way back when it was like I was opening up

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<v Speaker 1>about my mom and how her passing affected me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember reading an article I think it was like

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<v Speaker 1>reality Steve, And this is why I just don't like

0:50:19.280 --> 0:50:21.960
<v Speaker 1>Reality Steve, because he was like talking about how I

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<v Speaker 1>grew my facial hair out a little too much and

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<v Speaker 1>how I'm not a man because I can't grow facial hair. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on screen crying about my mom's passing affecting me,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, you can disparage my character all you want,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm making those choices of how I act, but

0:50:32.840 --> 0:50:35.360
<v Speaker 1>you can't choose how you look in any sense of

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<v Speaker 1>the man, Like, sure I could have shaved that day

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe he wouldn't have said that crap about me,

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<v Speaker 1>But like, you can't change the way you look, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you can't make fun of people for the way

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<v Speaker 1>they look. You can make fun of people for the

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<v Speaker 1>way they act, because you can change the way you act,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 5>But full circle moment here to go back earlier to

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<v Speaker 5>the podcast. I think this works with your analogy of

0:50:52.360 --> 0:50:55.040
<v Speaker 5>road rage because when people look at us on TV screens,

0:50:55.080 --> 0:50:59.480
<v Speaker 5>we're not humans. We're characters, you know, we're just they

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<v Speaker 5>think of us as these of course were real, but

0:51:02.080 --> 0:51:06.680
<v Speaker 5>they think of us and our stories as fictional, and

0:51:06.800 --> 0:51:10.239
<v Speaker 5>obviously they're not. So I think they yees say things

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<v Speaker 5>that they just you know, they don't think twice about

0:51:13.480 --> 0:51:15.200
<v Speaker 5>it because it's like, oh, it's just you know, it's TV.

0:51:15.480 --> 0:51:17.319
<v Speaker 5>It's kind of all fake, and you're like, well, it's

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<v Speaker 5>not really.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I could never imagine like talking crap about someone

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<v Speaker 1>on the Internet with my name attached to it. Anonymity, sure,

0:51:23.360 --> 0:51:26.279
<v Speaker 1>but like obviously, if I'm on Twitter with my name

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<v Speaker 1>attached to my handle and I'm talking crap about people

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<v Speaker 1>I see on TV, I just can't imagine ever doing that.

0:51:30.280 --> 0:51:33.400
<v Speaker 4>You would talk crap about someone anonymously more.

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<v Speaker 5>More, he'll he'll talk crap on the pseudonym like boobs McGee.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, I'm I'm more keen to do that than

0:51:39.680 --> 0:51:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I would be. Like, I don't know, people are just

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<v Speaker 1>so really like unabashful with the way that they talk

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<v Speaker 1>about other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes, Yeah, just goes back to unhappiness. You know, it's

0:51:50.440 --> 0:51:53.000
<v Speaker 2>a cliche, but they're just unhappy.

0:51:53.000 --> 0:51:54.560
<v Speaker 3>But that's not to say that they maybe don't deserve

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<v Speaker 3>some of it.

0:51:55.040 --> 0:51:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Like I think maybe one of the issues with Bachelor

0:51:56.640 --> 0:51:58.640
<v Speaker 1>in Paradise this season was they focused a lot more

0:51:58.680 --> 0:52:01.400
<v Speaker 1>on like the Caddy negative behavior more so than they

0:52:01.440 --> 0:52:03.440
<v Speaker 1>did the positive like love story behavior that we want

0:52:03.480 --> 0:52:04.960
<v Speaker 1>to see on that show, Like you want to see

0:52:04.960 --> 0:52:07.360
<v Speaker 1>people who in love. You want to see the stories

0:52:07.400 --> 0:52:10.120
<v Speaker 1>of people like becoming enamored with each other, and you don't.

0:52:10.320 --> 0:52:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, sure, put some cattiness into the show,

0:52:12.640 --> 0:52:14.319
<v Speaker 1>and like we wanted to watch for some drama as well,

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<v Speaker 1>but don't focus entirely on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there weren't really strong relationship. I guess there was

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<v Speaker 2>Eliza or Kylie.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Kylie.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw I saw a video on TikTok that he

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<v Speaker 1>was accused of cheating.

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<v Speaker 4>That's crazy, and he kind of owned up.

0:52:29.880 --> 0:52:33.440
<v Speaker 5>He admitted to it. Yeah, because he said in like

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<v Speaker 5>an apology. He seemed to like he apologized for his actions.

0:52:36.719 --> 0:52:38.880
<v Speaker 3>He's very handsome, and so I was very sad to

0:52:38.880 --> 0:52:39.200
<v Speaker 3>see that.

0:52:40.480 --> 0:52:43.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it sucks. I mean that's part of it too,

0:52:43.440 --> 0:52:45.959
<v Speaker 2>is these guys are so young.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think, uh yeah, I don't know

0:52:51.800 --> 0:52:53.880
<v Speaker 5>what the correct answer is. But yeah, of course, like

0:52:53.920 --> 0:52:56.040
<v Speaker 5>you guys said, we want real we want love stories.

0:52:56.040 --> 0:52:58.640
<v Speaker 5>Because here's the thing. Of course we want drama as well.

0:52:58.920 --> 0:53:01.400
<v Speaker 5>But I do think that what the audience wants is

0:53:01.480 --> 0:53:04.960
<v Speaker 5>authentic drama, you know, drama that comes from the people

0:53:05.040 --> 0:53:09.560
<v Speaker 5>on that island and not like they don't want manufactured drama.

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:13.439
<v Speaker 5>And sometimes you can see that, you know that there's

0:53:13.520 --> 0:53:16.600
<v Speaker 5>definitely like parts where maybe there's lulls and it's like,

0:53:17.560 --> 0:53:21.640
<v Speaker 5>you know, I remember what was it. It was like

0:53:21.680 --> 0:53:26.160
<v Speaker 5>the truth Box or something like that, and it was like, well,

0:53:26.160 --> 0:53:28.719
<v Speaker 5>obviously we all know what this is doing, like just

0:53:28.760 --> 0:53:30.399
<v Speaker 5>trying to stir the pod a little bit.

0:53:30.480 --> 0:53:30.680
<v Speaker 6>You know.

0:53:30.840 --> 0:53:33.280
<v Speaker 5>It wasn't like there was this you know, there's drama

0:53:33.360 --> 0:53:37.520
<v Speaker 5>about like Kaylin having to choose between Dean and whoever

0:53:37.520 --> 0:53:39.200
<v Speaker 5>the other guy was. I can't even remember when Dean

0:53:39.280 --> 0:53:42.360
<v Speaker 5>came back, like that is like, oh shit, you know,

0:53:42.520 --> 0:53:44.319
<v Speaker 5>like that is a moment, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, or like actually having to pick between Wells and Jarried.

0:53:47.360 --> 0:53:50.200
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that was a moment so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't remember much from watching the show before

0:53:52.080 --> 0:53:53.719
<v Speaker 1>I went on it, but I do remember Ashley's date

0:53:53.760 --> 0:53:56.520
<v Speaker 1>with Wells. For some weird reason, he had no idea

0:53:56.520 --> 0:53:57.920
<v Speaker 1>they went on a Z Yeah.

0:53:57.960 --> 0:54:01.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, talk about it, talk about it.

0:54:02.280 --> 0:54:04.440
<v Speaker 1>We can talk about Kaylen and Connor, but we can't

0:54:04.440 --> 0:54:06.560
<v Speaker 1>talk about Ashley in a Wow. I'm just I'm just

0:54:06.600 --> 0:54:08.720
<v Speaker 1>giving you a taste of John medicine over here, Jared. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna do it, obvious, that's gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 3>For this week's episode.

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<v Speaker 5>It was your moment, that was your prince moment. You know,

0:54:13.719 --> 0:54:17.279
<v Speaker 5>you walk down the stairs looking fabulous to shave the mustache,

0:54:17.360 --> 0:54:20.160
<v Speaker 5>but you were there to get you were Tom Cruise

0:54:20.200 --> 0:54:22.560
<v Speaker 5>and Jerem m MacGuire. And you walk down those stairs

0:54:22.719 --> 0:54:25.000
<v Speaker 5>and you looked at everybody in paradise and you said,

0:54:25.040 --> 0:54:27.880
<v Speaker 5>excuse me, I'm looking for my wife.

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<v Speaker 1>We can talk about it now because that was also

0:54:30.840 --> 0:54:32.880
<v Speaker 1>your moment. You know, I can talk about Ashley's date

0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:34.840
<v Speaker 1>with Wells because you're married to Ashley now, just like

0:54:34.880 --> 0:54:36.680
<v Speaker 1>we can talk about Kaylen state with Connor because I'm

0:54:36.680 --> 0:54:40.120
<v Speaker 1>married to Ken. But all of our happy yeah but

0:54:40.200 --> 0:54:42.000
<v Speaker 1>still happy endings, so at least we can have that

0:54:42.040 --> 0:54:43.960
<v Speaker 1>to hold on too. That's gonna do it for this

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<v Speaker 1>week's episode of Help We Suck At Being newlyweds. Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for joining us, Kaylan, thanks for joining us. Dean,

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome for joining us. Oh yeah, the best. One

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<v Speaker 1>of the funniest things in Tanzania was there's the locals

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<v Speaker 1>in Tanzania are so polite that they always have to

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<v Speaker 1>get the last word in, and so there's like this

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<v Speaker 1>local like the dialect they basically say like hey, an

0:55:06.600 --> 0:55:08.480
<v Speaker 1>other prison says hey, how are you? The person says, hey,

0:55:08.480 --> 0:55:10.000
<v Speaker 1>how are you? I'm good, how are you? And it

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<v Speaker 1>just goes and goes and goes and goes and goes

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<v Speaker 1>in sweely, in sweet, right in their local language. And

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<v Speaker 1>when they're speaking English, which they're all very good at English,

0:55:18.480 --> 0:55:22.440
<v Speaker 1>they they'll can you explain it? They'll like, do anything

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<v Speaker 1>they do, they'll always say you're welcome, or like, if you.

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<v Speaker 4>Are doing do you even say thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>If you're doing something for them and they should be

0:55:28.560 --> 0:55:30.200
<v Speaker 1>saying thank you. Instead of saying thank you, they say

0:55:30.200 --> 0:55:32.640
<v Speaker 1>you're welcome because they're like just they're trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>as polite as possible, and everything that they did that

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<v Speaker 1>always ended with you're welcome, no matter what the situation was.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was just really funny to think.

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<v Speaker 2>Diana and I say you're welcome after everything that doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to thank you anyways.

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<v Speaker 1>Be sure to tune in next week, where maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>suck just a little bit less.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for listening. Follow us on Instagram Matt help we

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<v Speaker 3>suck at.

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<v Speaker 2>Being newlyweds, and email us at Newlyweds at iHeartRadio dot com.

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