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Speaker 1: Do Toxic people tend to swarm to you like moths

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Speaker 1: to a flame.

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Speaker 2: It's the Jewbile show.

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Speaker 1: They just want to fly around you and shield the

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Speaker 1: all the oxygen in the room until your flame becomes

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Speaker 1: small and limp, and then you once can't heat up

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Speaker 1: things like you used to be there, yep, and then

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Speaker 1: the moths leave and you're just onto the next flame.

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Speaker 1: What that they can exploit for their own personal gain

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Speaker 1: if you said, yes, I'm sorry about your flame, and

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Speaker 1: there's pills for that. But also it might be because

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Speaker 1: you're a magnet for toxic relationships. And why do I

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Speaker 1: say that Because scientists just did a study on the

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Speaker 1: traits that people have that make them a magnet for

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Speaker 1: toxic relationships. And if you have a certain number of

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Speaker 1: these specific traits, it guarantees that, even if you don't

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Speaker 1: want them to, toxic people will find you or you

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Speaker 1: could be the toxic one as well.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 4: I feel like when you assume that you are, if

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Speaker 4: you're a magnet for it, yes, common denominator, it's possible.

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Speaker 1: Well, we'll go over the traits and keep count in

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Speaker 1: your head, because once we go through all of them.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you the magic number of how many of

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Speaker 1: these traits will guarantee that you're a magnet for.

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Speaker 4: Toxic relations Everybody, get your hands up, let's go.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: They yelled, ignored you or cross the boundary, and you

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Speaker 1: said I'm sorry, just to end the fight.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I would say sorry, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I have this one percent, done this a

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Speaker 2: lot in my life, and I also tend to be

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Speaker 2: a little bit of a magnet. So we're going over.

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Speaker 1: Science has just released what traits you have that make

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Speaker 1: you a magnet for toxic relationships. You have a certain

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Speaker 1: number of these, then it guarantees that toxicity will find you.

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Speaker 1: You tell people that you are not quote, relationship material,

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Speaker 1: but then date them anyways. So you date someone who

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Speaker 1: then you still date them.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, yeah, yeah, they're time wasters.

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Speaker 1: But remember to keep count of how many of these

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Speaker 1: you might have, because I'll tell you the end of

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Speaker 1: this what the magic number is, and if you have

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Speaker 1: this year definitely a magnet for toxicity. You say you

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Speaker 4: Oh, do y'all think I would do that? Who needs

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Speaker 4: the space? They say they need space?

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Speaker 1: You tell you say you need space, and then you

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Speaker 1: out on it. No, yeah, you tell them to wear

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Speaker 4: Have suggested that you.

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Speaker 2: A certain color.

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Speaker 4: Try to help you look for an event of it.

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Speaker 4: I did. I did.

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Speaker 1: Science released traits that can make you a magnet for

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Speaker 1: toxic relationships. If you have a certain number of these traits,

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Speaker 1: then you definitely attract toxic relationships in your life. You

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Speaker 4: Uh yeah, protecting your peace.

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Speaker 2: Their friends don't like you, period.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I can tell you from experience that is a

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Speaker 1: big warning sign. If none of your friends like the

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Speaker 1: person that you're with. I know you want to be

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Speaker 1: they'll just go God, my friends are such jerks.

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Speaker 2: They just hate them. I don't understand why.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you think.

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Speaker 3: It's like more minds, there's more minds involved. In that

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Speaker 3: side of the equation, you should find out why. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: letting me loyal to your friends, Like I don't know,

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Speaker 3: say no no.

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Speaker 4: But is this about the person's friends not liking you their.

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Speaker 2: Friends don't like you period, or your friends don't like them.

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Speaker 2: It could go either way.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: These are traits that you have that if you have

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Speaker 1: a certain number of these, you're a magnet for toxic relationships.

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Speaker 1: Will tell you what the number of these is, so

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Speaker 1: keep track at the end of this. But you often

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Speaker 2: Of talking about it, another one of those traits.

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Speaker 3: I'll just be like, you know what, never mind, I'm

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Speaker 3: going to correct jokes instead. Right, those jokes are going

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Speaker 1: I'm almost so opposite of this because I just want

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Speaker 1: Maybe don't do this, yeah, but then we just talk

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Speaker 1: about it, Like I know you said you need the space,

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Speaker 1: but can I follow you around for four.

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Speaker 4: Hours and ask you about it?

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Speaker 2: Like, I know you need space, but I want to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, come on, all they would have to do

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Speaker 4: happily give them space. I get that. I just like that.

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Speaker 1: Here's another trait. They got jealous when you went out

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that happens.

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Speaker 1: We're going over a list of traits that people have

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Speaker 1: that if you have a certain number of these, it

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Speaker 1: proves scientifically. They say that you are a magnet for

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Speaker 1: toxic relationship. When they told you that they got a promotion,

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Speaker 2: Or the oppositieve if you.

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Speaker 1: Told someone that you got a promotion, they have a

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Speaker 3: There's someone in my life that anything that happens to

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Speaker 3: me that's good, it gets questioned, right why yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, why huh? What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Tell me more? Right?

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Speaker 4: Can you just be like, oh, that's cool.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: I've been in a lot of those situations too, where

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so weird. Yeah, I wanted a word in.

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Speaker 4: My boyfriend was like I gotta go.

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Speaker 3: I was like, what my ceremony?

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Speaker 1: One time I got some items sent to me from

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Speaker 1: a company because I talk about mental health and stuff

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Speaker 1: like withal for mental health.

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Speaker 2: It's called Stay.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, they sent me a bunch of stuff just

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Speaker 1: that's cool, and then I got yelled at because they

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Speaker 1: didn't ask for it them. Yes, that's a big warning

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Speaker 1: sign if somebody will not clap for you. Here's another

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Speaker 1: trait that can prove that you're a magnet for toxic relationships.

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Speaker 1: You break up, get back together, break up, get back

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Speaker 3: I've been there, seriously, Yeah, like take the hint, like

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Speaker 3: it's just not going to go anyway.

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Speaker 4: You just keep hoping and then you're in the stick

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Speaker 4: cycle and you're the only one that can break it. Dang.

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Speaker 1: Well, here's another trait and this is the last one,

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Speaker 1: and then we'll tell you how many of these. If

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Speaker 1: you had them, then you're definitely a magnet for toxic relationships.

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Speaker 1: You've stayed in the relationship with the thought that someday

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Speaker 1: they will change.

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Speaker 4: Everybody get their fingers.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Captain Sabah is retired.

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Speaker 1: Wake up and I will have said the right thing

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Speaker 2: Be skipping a tiptoe. Now the entire childhood would have

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Speaker 2: been fixed. Yeah, by me, because I'm a savior. I

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Speaker 1: If you have twelve of those traits, then you are

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Speaker 1: definitely a magnet for toxics.

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Speaker 2: Twelve twelve, that's okay.

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Speaker 4: I don't have that many.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I was kind of surprising myself too. I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: don't have that you have.

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Speaker 4: I had six.

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Speaker 3: I landed at seven.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you're almost there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, text us your phone bray happens every single hour

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