1
00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,320
Speaker 1: I'm doing as fine as twenty twenty two will allow,

2
00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:05,480
Speaker 1: and I really which is not great.

3
00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:06,960
Speaker 2: But I love doing this show with you.

4
00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,000
Speaker 3: Michelle, Oh, that's nice. Is that something you're saying for

5
00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:11,879
Speaker 3: the show. You're actually telling me both?

6
00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,760
Speaker 2: Can it be both? Can't two things be true at once?

7
00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,000
Speaker 3: Content? Content content?

8
00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,280
Speaker 2: Never be content with your content.

9
00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:23,360
Speaker 1: But I am really excited to say that because I

10
00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:23,880
Speaker 1: thought it up.

11
00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,560
Speaker 3: Well, my content is more like content. Do you know

12
00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:31,400
Speaker 3: what I mean? Come on? Come on, everyone, come on,

13
00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,600
Speaker 3: don't you expect Come on, America, I do battle, bitch. Also,

14
00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,080
Speaker 3: happy birthday. You're starting to look old, bitche just showing

15
00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,880
Speaker 3: you ass America.

16
00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:40,800
Speaker 2: Get some work done, get some fillers.

17
00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:44,239
Speaker 3: We're shaming America into botox. Don't shame me, shame you.

18
00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:47,600
Speaker 2: We're just falling apart, Rose, fall apart.

19
00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,240
Speaker 3: I know then, like the FBI's outside my fucking house.

20
00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:53,360
Speaker 3: And then I started to ugly cry, like carrying Homeland.

21
00:00:53,800 --> 00:01:05,560
Speaker 3: We should get to the next episode. What's up?

22
00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:06,080
Speaker 4: Everybody?

23
00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,279
Speaker 3: Welcome to adulting. I'm a Shelby Toe with my friend

24
00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,200
Speaker 3: Jordan carlos al.

25
00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,840
Speaker 2: Ow on the ones and twos, Hi friend.

26
00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:17,960
Speaker 3: Hey on the threes and fours. What's going on? What's

27
00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:18,360
Speaker 3: going on.

28
00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna send the energy back to you because I

29
00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:21,520
Speaker 1: know you had a heck of a weekend.

30
00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:23,319
Speaker 2: I know that you were out in these streets partying.

31
00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:23,840
Speaker 4: I have.

32
00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,720
Speaker 3: I have been touching my toes, drinking that gatorade, putting

33
00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,360
Speaker 3: the sunblock on the freckles, just trying to keep it safe.

34
00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:31,959
Speaker 3: I did find a pencil in my hair, That's okay,

35
00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:33,839
Speaker 3: I needed it.

36
00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,160
Speaker 2: Would he be like a golf pencil, like one of

37
00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:36,880
Speaker 2: the little ones.

38
00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,240
Speaker 3: No, it was a big one. I love those little

39
00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,280
Speaker 3: pencils from dim Sum. But anyways, I had a great weekend.

40
00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:46,320
Speaker 3: Took the kids to Pride Pride parade. Yes, I got

41
00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:49,639
Speaker 3: little rainbow two twos, and I found really cute Pride

42
00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,320
Speaker 3: shirts with like a dinosaur holding a rainbow flag. We

43
00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,160
Speaker 3: didn't have that shit growing up. You know, you just

44
00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,320
Speaker 3: had the uncle. Nobody talked about this is so much better.

45
00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,360
Speaker 2: Right right, Yeah, you had the musical.

46
00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:01,919
Speaker 3: This is so much better.

47
00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:04,680
Speaker 2: I had the church musical director exactly.

48
00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,120
Speaker 3: That looked a little bit too, like his eyebrows were

49
00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,200
Speaker 3: like better than your mom's. And you're like, how yes,

50
00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:16,160
Speaker 3: you know, yes, And you know, took my kids to Pride,

51
00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:20,040
Speaker 3: just taking them in general, outside in the open, like

52
00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,240
Speaker 3: an episode of Hunger Games. Three and a half year

53
00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:27,280
Speaker 3: old twins feels crazy. It feels like all seven seasons

54
00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,040
Speaker 3: of Alone but you are not alone, and it feels

55
00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,920
Speaker 3: like naked and afraid, but just with diapers, which they

56
00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,680
Speaker 3: should really consider because that poor editor that has to

57
00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,600
Speaker 3: like blow out people's buttholes. But the point is I

58
00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:42,040
Speaker 3: want to take my kids out and show them what

59
00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,120
Speaker 3: the world is. I want them to get used to it.

60
00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,840
Speaker 3: I have thought about bringing them to protests, but I

61
00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,640
Speaker 3: don't think we're there yet, and if we do, it

62
00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:52,919
Speaker 3: should be a family friendly first thing in the morning,

63
00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:55,280
Speaker 3: like this is the first hour of the protests situation.

64
00:02:56,000 --> 00:03:00,560
Speaker 3: But you know, I don't know what America will look

65
00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,560
Speaker 3: like by the time they're teenagers. But what I want

66
00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:05,920
Speaker 3: to do is show them what it should look like.

67
00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:10,240
Speaker 3: And so I am proud to take my kids to

68
00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,720
Speaker 3: Pride and to show people that yes, you can be

69
00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,959
Speaker 3: a mother and not a fucking asshole. Everyone deserves love.

70
00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,760
Speaker 3: How fucking dare you give more rights to a gun

71
00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:25,560
Speaker 3: than to humankind and love and respect? How dare you

72
00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,000
Speaker 3: judge people on their gender or their skin or whatever?

73
00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:34,320
Speaker 3: Like pronoun love is love, and I can't stand these

74
00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:39,000
Speaker 3: people that always use religion as a platform for hate

75
00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:46,040
Speaker 3: and control, and so voting, donating, protesting is important, but

76
00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:49,400
Speaker 3: the most important is leaving the world better how you

77
00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,160
Speaker 3: fucking found it, and that is with your children. So

78
00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:55,640
Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask everybody out there who doesn't like they

79
00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,320
Speaker 3: don't like kids, that's okay. You don't need kids if

80
00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,440
Speaker 3: you don't like them. But when you take your kids

81
00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:03,240
Speaker 3: in public, it is a fifty to fifty split. Okay,

82
00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:08,360
Speaker 3: it is polar razing people like love you and your

83
00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,720
Speaker 3: kids immediately, or just like why the fuck do you

84
00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:15,560
Speaker 3: do this? Listen, I'm trying to raise cool people, good people,

85
00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,080
Speaker 3: so I'm gonna need you to help. I'm gonna call on

86
00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,400
Speaker 3: the village that I don't know, Okay, so be cool

87
00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:21,840
Speaker 3: about it.

88
00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,159
Speaker 2: And that's why you took them to the West Village. Yeah,

89
00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:25,520
Speaker 2: I feel you, East West.

90
00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,360
Speaker 3: Yes, that just took a turn. I just went from

91
00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,120
Speaker 3: like be you be proud to like I'm gonna tired.

92
00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:31,440
Speaker 5: Mom.

93
00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,360
Speaker 3: Don't fucking judge me if one of them is crying,

94
00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,119
Speaker 3: because you would be crying too if you could.

95
00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,080
Speaker 2: Okay, No, yeah, I mean toddlers.

96
00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:39,520
Speaker 1: They only illustrate how we actually feel inside, but we

97
00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,840
Speaker 1: repress all our feelings. They're just like they're at the surface.

98
00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:43,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just cry this out. In three minutes, I'll

99
00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:44,159
Speaker 1: be better.

100
00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:45,440
Speaker 2: You know what. I think.

101
00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,919
Speaker 1: The course that America is on right now, it's almost

102
00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,480
Speaker 1: like a dollar general, like after a fire sale. It's

103
00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,839
Speaker 1: just picked over. It looks bad out there on this course.

104
00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,000
Speaker 1: It's looking really bleak. And to what you said, I

105
00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,040
Speaker 1: will just elaborate by saying this. I grew up in

106
00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:00,840
Speaker 1: the South, and and I grew up around in a

107
00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,000
Speaker 1: lot of pro life people, or they would call themselves

108
00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,360
Speaker 1: pro life, but where they pro for all of life.

109
00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,760
Speaker 1: Because once the baby's born, it seemed like, okay, the unborn,

110
00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,080
Speaker 1: that's okay, they're safe.

111
00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:11,600
Speaker 2: But once no pre k.

112
00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:13,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, No universal pre k,

113
00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,960
Speaker 1: no universal this or that, no school programs, no after

114
00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:21,280
Speaker 1: school programs, no jobs programs, no nothing. Right, you're on

115
00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:25,760
Speaker 1: your own. I mean, it's kind of convenient and cherry picked.

116
00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:27,480
Speaker 1: That's what really gets me. If you're going to be

117
00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,479
Speaker 1: pro life, you've got to be pro all of life. Yes, yes,

118
00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,120
Speaker 1: and I just I don't see it. And if you're

119
00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,320
Speaker 1: going to be pro religion, which we saw another Supreme

120
00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,160
Speaker 1: Court decision handed down this is for prayer on the

121
00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:41,040
Speaker 1: fifty yard line. Now, as a Christian, I have certain

122
00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,960
Speaker 1: sentiments towards it, but I understand the Constitution and the

123
00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,440
Speaker 1: separation of church and state. Now, the coach said he

124
00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,520
Speaker 1: wanted to pray on the fifty yard line, Supreme Court said, sure, no,

125
00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,360
Speaker 1: prob you know the five. But that same five denied

126
00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,320
Speaker 1: the right to any mom for someone on death row

127
00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,200
Speaker 1: who wanted to die with every mom. They did not

128
00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,160
Speaker 1: say that he could have any mom and that, oh,

129
00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:02,200
Speaker 1: you can only get a pastor.

130
00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,480
Speaker 3: So let me just yes, the white Christian, white Christian,

131
00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:06,080
Speaker 3: white Christian.

132
00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, white Christian gotta be white Christian. Then the Constitution

133
00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:10,520
Speaker 2: protects you. Yes.

134
00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,599
Speaker 1: If not, then you know, just take a big step

135
00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:16,480
Speaker 1: back and you know, fall through your own butthole. But

136
00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,880
Speaker 1: that's kind of what I'm getting from this court right now.

137
00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,080
Speaker 1: And this court is hostile. And you know what I

138
00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,520
Speaker 1: feel once again that we've had a two year reprieve, right,

139
00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,280
Speaker 1: a two year reprieve where I didn't have to check

140
00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,640
Speaker 1: my phone to see how chaotic the world was, and

141
00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:29,200
Speaker 1: now it's.

142
00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,640
Speaker 2: Just ally every day I gotta check.

143
00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,159
Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing you think you're safe for. Not

144
00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,520
Speaker 3: This is just the quiet before the storm. This is

145
00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,320
Speaker 3: just because we don't have a loud asshole on Twitter,

146
00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:42,520
Speaker 3: and there are dark areas of the web where people

147
00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,800
Speaker 3: are still trying to get together and do a whole

148
00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,560
Speaker 3: other insurrection somewhere, Like there's.

149
00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:48,520
Speaker 2: Every day and every way.

150
00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,640
Speaker 3: Every day, everyway, you know, and you know when Oprah

151
00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:55,159
Speaker 3: is just like, listen to someone when they tell you

152
00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,400
Speaker 3: who they are, they will show you who they are,

153
00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,520
Speaker 3: for better or for worse. I feel like a Maraica

154
00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,279
Speaker 3: is showing me who the fuck she is.

155
00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,400
Speaker 2: And I need to let you, you know.

156
00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,080
Speaker 3: Because you know, like you hold onto that one time

157
00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:10,520
Speaker 3: you had a good ass year when you were seventeen

158
00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,320
Speaker 3: or twenty four or thirty four, And I'm holding on

159
00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:18,440
Speaker 3: whatever whatever year you had in America that was great

160
00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,880
Speaker 3: or every time. So I'm holding on to that because

161
00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, I have like a pretty good fucking life.

162
00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:28,120
Speaker 3: But what the fuck is the point of a beautiful

163
00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:32,200
Speaker 3: life and a shit stain of a fucking place, right

164
00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,280
Speaker 3: And you can call me antime whatever the fuck you

165
00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,240
Speaker 3: want to call me, go ahead, because that's what this

166
00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:44,960
Speaker 3: country is too a bully name calling. Come on, it's

167
00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:50,520
Speaker 3: so gross and it's so toxic, and it's so dangerous.

168
00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,240
Speaker 3: I don't know how I can stay. And as a

169
00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:58,080
Speaker 3: black woman, I am tired of voting for these motherfuckers

170
00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,800
Speaker 3: that ain't doing shit. Please don't ask me for my

171
00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:05,120
Speaker 3: three to fifteen dollars every other day. I've been acting

172
00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,600
Speaker 3: blue since I was in the womb, bitch.

173
00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,440
Speaker 2: I know they're like, not blue enough.

174
00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,240
Speaker 3: I'm done. I'm done. I'm so sorry. But you know what,

175
00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:16,360
Speaker 3: we got a great show for you, guys. We got

176
00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:20,480
Speaker 3: a great show for you, guys. Don't worry about it.

177
00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:25,760
Speaker 3: It will transport you to a better Yes.

178
00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:29,120
Speaker 1: Absolutely, we have somebody who I think, you know, these

179
00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,280
Speaker 1: times demand that you can't be brittle, and I think one.

180
00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,320
Speaker 2: Of the most courageous people in comedy that I know of.

181
00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:40,440
Speaker 1: That's our guest today, Story Davis Noriy Davis is so funny.

182
00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:42,920
Speaker 1: He's been on my mind a lot lately. You know,

183
00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,599
Speaker 1: not only has he put forth his latest album, I

184
00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,280
Speaker 1: think it's like his fifth one. Yeah, he's more than

185
00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:52,840
Speaker 1: anything an artist first, and I just love his takes

186
00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,680
Speaker 1: on material and his takes on life, his pov yes

187
00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:00,160
Speaker 1: and what he does despite everything that the world just

188
00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,560
Speaker 1: thrown at him, mainly his sickle cell and being a

189
00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:04,079
Speaker 1: single dad.

190
00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,000
Speaker 3: That's why he's got so many albums because he's got

191
00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,480
Speaker 3: a lot of shit to talk about. And I can't

192
00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,720
Speaker 3: wait for you guys. If you don't know him, oh

193
00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:13,080
Speaker 3: you gotta love him. You welcome, bitch. It's an early Kwanza.

194
00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:21,560
Speaker 3: Please help us. Welcome Nori Davis. But like what, Hi, everybody,

195
00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:23,080
Speaker 3: this is a Dulton.

196
00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:25,679
Speaker 4: On time.

197
00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:26,040
Speaker 5: Mom.

198
00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:27,960
Speaker 3: You motherfucking did it on a set. I haven't got

199
00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,760
Speaker 3: to the show before. Oh you look familiar as fuck.

200
00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:34,240
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. I am living my best. This is

201
00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:35,520
Speaker 3: a sold out show.

202
00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:40,360
Speaker 6: Sure not spiritually not spiritually we're all.

203
00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,920
Speaker 3: Here, my goodness. No Candon Soe is over here. I

204
00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:46,720
Speaker 3: have a plus size fucking button down jeans one with

205
00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:51,680
Speaker 3: the white shirt with no stains. Huge, it's like beer

206
00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:52,440
Speaker 3: own fucking hero.

207
00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:56,080
Speaker 6: Also with two kids, you have no stains on a

208
00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:56,679
Speaker 6: white shirt?

209
00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:02,200
Speaker 3: No, you know. I was just like, don't touch mama. Also,

210
00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,520
Speaker 3: I got vacation hair with no vacation.

211
00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,480
Speaker 4: It's it's true.

212
00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:08,160
Speaker 6: You're giving.

213
00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,120
Speaker 4: What are you giving? Is are you giving?

214
00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:17,439
Speaker 3: I am giving? I bought a Folox on Amazon realness.

215
00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:18,240
Speaker 6: You can do it.

216
00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:19,880
Speaker 4: I am giving.

217
00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,840
Speaker 3: Plus size chic predator realness.

218
00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:29,280
Speaker 1: Arnold Swartz your predator. Okay, oh my god, you're not.

219
00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,280
Speaker 3: A mess MBC bitch.

220
00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,199
Speaker 4: Oh I I didn't know what you're talking about.

221
00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:37,000
Speaker 6: Yea that that.

222
00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:38,199
Speaker 3: Brother giving you have?

223
00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:39,240
Speaker 4: Does that check it?

224
00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:40,040
Speaker 3: Zip?

225
00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:41,960
Speaker 4: Or fun Dad? Fun Dad?

226
00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:42,360
Speaker 5: Yes?

227
00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,679
Speaker 1: Fun Dad at the playgrounds, like one hand pushing the

228
00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:47,319
Speaker 1: swing and I'm saying the other hand.

229
00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:52,200
Speaker 3: You're giving organic cheddar bunnies at the soccer game realness.

230
00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:52,719
Speaker 2: That's right.

231
00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,400
Speaker 4: Still got it in me though, still got it in me.

232
00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,240
Speaker 3: He's definitely giving, Like he goes to Whole Foods and no,

233
00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:02,679
Speaker 3: you know all the exotic ve's I do.

234
00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:06,200
Speaker 6: I know what's in season right now. It's fiddlehead Fern.

235
00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:07,400
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

236
00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,320
Speaker 4: It's like I still got it, still got it fern.

237
00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:13,600
Speaker 3: That sounds like like a drag queen.

238
00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:14,120
Speaker 4: I love that.

239
00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,559
Speaker 3: I do love a good drag name. I mean, I'm dyslexic,

240
00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:23,280
Speaker 3: so my drag name would be dick Lexia. Yeah, I

241
00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,360
Speaker 3: thought about it. You got to think about it. So

242
00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:30,800
Speaker 3: I grew up like learning how to defend myself between

243
00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,360
Speaker 3: Caribbean family in Brooklyn and then growing up in Central Jersey.

244
00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,959
Speaker 3: That's the only fuck away. My husband really doesn't get

245
00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:41,200
Speaker 3: into fight. He's just such a nice, passive virgo. But

246
00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:44,679
Speaker 3: you know he's got a little ticky ticky boom. He's

247
00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:47,480
Speaker 3: not like Will. He'll like, you know, he understands, like

248
00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:54,560
Speaker 3: he still is logical and not as rich. So when

249
00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,080
Speaker 3: we were long distance New York to Amsterdam, we had

250
00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:00,120
Speaker 3: just gotten engaged. I was there celebrating our engagement and

251
00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:02,360
Speaker 3: we went to this place called Club Up because it

252
00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,880
Speaker 3: was on the top floor. I was like Dutch people,

253
00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,959
Speaker 3: so he so clever, that's good, and there was a

254
00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,480
Speaker 3: huge the coat line. I fucking hate, like, I hate

255
00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,640
Speaker 3: a coat line. I hate lines at the airport for security.

256
00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,040
Speaker 3: I like I want to I don't like lines. And

257
00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,160
Speaker 3: so I got our coats right away. I was with

258
00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,160
Speaker 3: like four of his friends. I'm like, I'm gonna go

259
00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,440
Speaker 3: get the coats. I'll see ya because I turned into

260
00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:27,040
Speaker 3: like fucking den Mava, and I get the coats, but

261
00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:30,360
Speaker 3: then I forget someone's hat or scarf, and so I

262
00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,400
Speaker 3: just kind of cut the line. I go, excuse me,

263
00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,360
Speaker 3: I was just here. Can I get like this is

264
00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,800
Speaker 3: my ticket number? Can I get the scarf? And they're like, yeah,

265
00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,560
Speaker 3: no problem. And this dude that looked like a low

266
00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:50,559
Speaker 3: budget Kevin Feddel line. Wow, he's looking like Kevin Federline

267
00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:51,840
Speaker 3: without the alimony.

268
00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:54,240
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

269
00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:59,680
Speaker 1: His backup dancers, No, just a backup.

270
00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:03,200
Speaker 3: So he looked at me and started saying some shit

271
00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:04,800
Speaker 3: in Dutch. I don't know what he said, but I

272
00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:08,720
Speaker 3: know I didn't like it. And I was like, look,

273
00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,480
Speaker 3: I was just here. I'm coming to get this one thing,

274
00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:13,640
Speaker 3: don't worry about it. And then he starts to step

275
00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:17,160
Speaker 3: to me. And the thing is, even though I'm light

276
00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:20,160
Speaker 3: and have freckles and big tits, crazy doesn't have a color.

277
00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,120
Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, let's go out what you

278
00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,800
Speaker 3: want to do? You want to go right now and

279
00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:31,560
Speaker 3: this will be fun. I haven't done it in another language.

280
00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:34,599
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

281
00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,560
Speaker 3: So ray, I have never seen this dude get mad. Ever,

282
00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,120
Speaker 3: right he comes over, he's like, what's going on? I

283
00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:42,600
Speaker 3: was like, baby, I was just here for this and

284
00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,800
Speaker 3: then that, and then a guy like goes to Heist

285
00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,240
Speaker 3: and he's just like in Heist's face and they're arguing

286
00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,600
Speaker 3: in Dutch. I'm like, I am angry and turned on.

287
00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:55,680
Speaker 3: This is confusing. Yeah, and so the dude flinches like

288
00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,520
Speaker 3: he goes like this rais and I was like.

289
00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:03,040
Speaker 4: That's all I need. Wait a minute, and then I flew.

290
00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,160
Speaker 3: Like a powerpuff girl and like punched him in the dick.

291
00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,440
Speaker 3: And then I just pushed him and I was like,

292
00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:16,440
Speaker 3: what you gotta do, motherfucker, what you gonna do? And

293
00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,760
Speaker 3: then he got up and he got he got really mound, like, look,

294
00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:20,000
Speaker 3: do I condone violence?

295
00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,880
Speaker 4: No? No, this crowd just did.

296
00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:25,600
Speaker 2: No.

297
00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:27,720
Speaker 3: But I think there is something to like sticking up

298
00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:30,400
Speaker 3: for yourself for fucking sure, because this guy was ready

299
00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:32,400
Speaker 3: to go, and I'm like, what you're not gonna do

300
00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:34,920
Speaker 3: is that it was a gentle job to let, you know,

301
00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:42,800
Speaker 3: keep my family's name out of your mouth. And then

302
00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:45,280
Speaker 3: heyst and I just like fucking walked out of that

303
00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:49,320
Speaker 3: club like George Jefferson, and I was like, I'm gonna

304
00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:50,400
Speaker 3: suck your dick for.

305
00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:51,160
Speaker 4: All the time.

306
00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:14,040
Speaker 3: All right, I think it's time to bring our guest show.

307
00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,760
Speaker 3: Let's do it, please, shall Let's get him up here

308
00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,160
Speaker 3: so you can see him so excited to bring our

309
00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,359
Speaker 3: first guest down. He's a good friend, good friend, hilarious,

310
00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:24,160
Speaker 3: so talented.

311
00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:25,320
Speaker 4: Please give it.

312
00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:28,400
Speaker 3: Up for a most talented friend norwy Day.

313
00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:41,480
Speaker 1: Story, Norrick Norris, Norris, you have a see all right,

314
00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,960
Speaker 1: say hello to him?

315
00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:52,080
Speaker 5: Yes, Oh my god, honey, hello gang Gang Gang looking great. Man.

316
00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:52,600
Speaker 6: I love the fit.

317
00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,840
Speaker 4: Thank you, man, Yeah, thank you. I got this from

318
00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:57,040
Speaker 4: Times Square.

319
00:15:58,600 --> 00:15:59,800
Speaker 7: The I am is the.

320
00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:05,120
Speaker 4: Shops in the hood that shot right behind Caroline's on Broadway.

321
00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:07,360
Speaker 6: I love that shit.

322
00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:10,320
Speaker 3: When's the last time you've been in a fight. Oh,

323
00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:11,400
Speaker 3: we talk about.

324
00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:14,359
Speaker 4: It really, Yeah, that's time we've been in a fight emotional?

325
00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,760
Speaker 5: Uh oh man, probably like twenty eighteen out here.

326
00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:23,240
Speaker 3: Oh shit said at this corner right here by a warehouse.

327
00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:28,240
Speaker 4: Two blocks over. Man, toxic girlfriend got drunk. Oh no,

328
00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:28,960
Speaker 4: So the.

329
00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,200
Speaker 3: Last time Nori was on adult tang he you were

330
00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:33,119
Speaker 3: just engaged.

331
00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:38,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was her, yup toxic shit.

332
00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,720
Speaker 3: When did you know you were in a toxic relationship?

333
00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:45,120
Speaker 5: Oh when all my friends were going, like everybody just going,

334
00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:50,600
Speaker 5: You just by yourself, You isolated, even your mama like, yeah,

335
00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:51,280
Speaker 5: fuck her too.

336
00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:53,480
Speaker 4: You're right, I don't like how my mom be talking

337
00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:53,680
Speaker 4: to you.

338
00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,400
Speaker 6: I'm right she did say that.

339
00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,040
Speaker 5: Shit, my mama, I ain't say anything that is so

340
00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:02,320
Speaker 5: just gone. And y'all should be writing the ship down. Oh, Yeah,

341
00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:04,840
Speaker 5: that's gonna be my next hobum man talk about her

342
00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:05,720
Speaker 5: and talk to.

343
00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:08,879
Speaker 4: Relationships and you know that whole ship. Hell yeah, how

344
00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,840
Speaker 4: did you get out of that? Did you say yourself

345
00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:11,840
Speaker 4: and escaped?

346
00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:12,600
Speaker 2: Yeah?

347
00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:16,840
Speaker 5: Like I escaped, like literally escaped, like ran out the door.

348
00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,639
Speaker 5: She was chasing me. And it's a funny story and

349
00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,840
Speaker 5: young because I ran down the steps and I like,

350
00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:25,879
Speaker 5: I'm a good I'm a sprinter, you know what I'm saying,

351
00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,800
Speaker 5: Like you have that look at those names. I'm a sprinter, yeah,

352
00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,600
Speaker 5: boom boom, But not longevity because that's when my sickle

353
00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,840
Speaker 5: cell kicks in. Like you got sickle cell, nigga, you

354
00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:40,159
Speaker 5: tripping your oxygen going Okay, it's a joke, y'all, Like

355
00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,200
Speaker 5: where can I thrown it?

356
00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,920
Speaker 4: It's just a joke. It's cool. You got cute white

357
00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:50,439
Speaker 4: fans all the race to Ukraine.

358
00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:56,440
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, So yeah, I get I get to the building,

359
00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,320
Speaker 5: I get to the lobby and I left her probably

360
00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:02,520
Speaker 5: on the fifteen floor. And then I'm going to the

361
00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,920
Speaker 5: car my dad's car could my car was in the shop.

362
00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:08,439
Speaker 4: I get in the car. She's and then like I

363
00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,080
Speaker 4: look behind me, she's running at me like.

364
00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:14,800
Speaker 5: Determinator no, So I hop in the car.

365
00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:23,399
Speaker 4: She jumps on the hood. You're lying. So I'm driving

366
00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:24,600
Speaker 4: the car. I'm like, get off.

367
00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:26,480
Speaker 5: I'm trying to shake the car to get her off,

368
00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:29,359
Speaker 5: and she falls to the side and I and I

369
00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:33,639
Speaker 5: look back. She and I look in the rearview mirror

370
00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,280
Speaker 5: and I'm like, nah, fuck that, and I drive off

371
00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:40,000
Speaker 5: and I got arrested later on for domestic and run.

372
00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,960
Speaker 4: What was the second time? Wow?

373
00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:48,800
Speaker 3: That is like fucking j Loo's movie enough, like save yourself.

374
00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,600
Speaker 4: But it was my little black guy alone.

375
00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:54,679
Speaker 1: So what was Can I ask this, like, what was

376
00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,240
Speaker 1: the what compelled you? Because it was like, it seems

377
00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:04,719
Speaker 1: like the promising peril of a Yeah, ask it serious, seriously,

378
00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,040
Speaker 1: He gets his oprah on.

379
00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,119
Speaker 4: Let him.

380
00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,720
Speaker 1: It feels like you were both attracted and repelled to

381
00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:10,880
Speaker 1: this person at the same time.

382
00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:12,920
Speaker 3: Is just serious? Is that a good question?

383
00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,040
Speaker 5: I'm doing the New York Times. I know what he's

384
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:18,240
Speaker 5: trying to say. Yeah, I know he was the breaking point.

385
00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:21,160
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that was the attraction. Though it's the attraction

386
00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:22,520
Speaker 5: attraction well.

387
00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:26,080
Speaker 4: Ship, Well, since therapy, I discovered like, yeah, she was

388
00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:27,280
Speaker 4: a resemblance of my mom.

389
00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:32,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, that emotional narcissistic abuse yes, I saw.

390
00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,159
Speaker 3: I kept looking for can you say that again? For

391
00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 3: the people in the back and at the bar.

392
00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:40,000
Speaker 4: My mama who was narcissistic, And you know.

393
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:43,200
Speaker 3: It's so important. You said you went to therarapy, went.

394
00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:44,520
Speaker 4: To therapy and discovered that.

395
00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:55,160
Speaker 6: Yeah. Network and network, Oh no, that's the greatest language.

396
00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 3: I think. I think more black and brown folks need

397
00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:02,280
Speaker 3: to talk about therapy.

398
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:02,600
Speaker 7: Yo.

399
00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I know nigga's out there that be trying

400
00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:06,880
Speaker 5: to be like I couldn't find nobody.

401
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:10,360
Speaker 4: Keep looking. It's like it's like find the pokemon. You'll

402
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:10,840
Speaker 4: find them.

403
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,560
Speaker 5: Just you gotta find your pocket mind. You gotta find

404
00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,640
Speaker 5: your bulbozos out there. He out there, they then they

405
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 5: out there, you know what I'm saying. So yeah, but

406
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,960
Speaker 5: like so going through therapy, like yeah, I was looking

407
00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:23,760
Speaker 5: for my mom, looking for that emotional abuse.

408
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 4: You know, grew up through that.

409
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,879
Speaker 5: Yelling at you, cursing you out, and you see that

410
00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,159
Speaker 5: as love, you know.

411
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:33,760
Speaker 1: So it's trauma kind of like perverted into into I mean,

412
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,680
Speaker 1: that's my love language, is trauma.

413
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,680
Speaker 5: Like that's what I yelling at me, She don't love

414
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:39,480
Speaker 5: me exactly.

415
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 3: I mean to know, a lot of people think jealousy

416
00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,240
Speaker 3: is a form of love and attention, and it is not.

417
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 3: It's insecurity and anxiety. So fucking stop. It's it's a

418
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,880
Speaker 3: toxic relationship and when you're nobody to do better. I'm

419
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 3: sorry to sound like a fucking magnet, but no, but

420
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,000
Speaker 3: it's fucking true. And I feel like nobody really realizes

421
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 3: the why. They never get to the root. They're just

422
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,719
Speaker 3: like that person was crazy, yes, and then move on

423
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 3: to somebody else. That's crazy because that's like the culture

424
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,400
Speaker 3: we live in where you just swipe right and see

425
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 3: the next fucking.

426
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 5: With trauma just a it's like ups, but they drive

427
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,680
Speaker 5: around and drop off no packages, just got trauma on

428
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 5: the back.

429
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 4: Trauma that So what's dating like now?

430
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:31,320
Speaker 2: For you?

431
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 4: What do you do? Dana's good? Right now? I got

432
00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:38,160
Speaker 4: a girlfriend now, she's cool. You know she's serial monogamous.

433
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 4: What's that mean?

434
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 3: Because every time I talk to relationship.

435
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 4: Well, well, I mean you know, I got boundaries.

436
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 3: Now, okay, So what's the longest you ever been alone?

437
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 4: Alone?

438
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 3: Single?

439
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 5: Oh, that's a good one because it's been a while.

440
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 5: Yeah a year and a half.

441
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 4: Year and a half.

442
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, so after the toxic relationship, yeah, like a year

443
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 5: and a half. Yet yeah, I just sat on myself.

444
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,720
Speaker 5: I went to Mexico by myself and that ship was sad,

445
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 5: but I did it.

446
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 4: No, he just a nigga just wandering on the island.

447
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 4: I did. I got out of there, sir. Would you

448
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,199
Speaker 4: like a dream? No? No, I just need to wander.

449
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 4: He just wandering.

450
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 5: Bro.

451
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

452
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 3: Do you bring up your ex girlfriend a lot? No

453
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,199
Speaker 3: in your new relationship.

454
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:36,119
Speaker 4: Hell no, I just know.

455
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 5: I just talk about like what I went through. But

456
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 5: I don't like bring him up. Hell no, that's that's trash.

457
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 3: Okay.

458
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 5: People people do that, like keep talking about the ex.

459
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 5: I'm not that person that. Yeah, my ex is my friend,

460
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 5: Like nigga, what.

461
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 4: Your next reason?

462
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 3: And how hard was it to get rid of them?

463
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 3: On Instagram and all socials?

464
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I had that block everything because we're.

465
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 3: Like intertwined in a way now we were never before

466
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 3: before you just go off. It's like the notebook. You're like,

467
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 3: I sent you a letter. I never got it. I

468
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 3: had a whole ass life. Yeah you know you were

469
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 3: still available now. It's just like you know, they see your.

470
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 4: Stories all right there? Yeah the Instagram that's a dating

471
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 4: it right.

472
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 1: Was it hard to let go to Did you ever

473
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 1: feel like you had issues with like codependency?

474
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 4: Uh, I had issues with code dependency. What's that mean?

475
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 4: You couldn't It's all good that you couldn't just.

476
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 3: Let well welcome to every conversation.

477
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 5: Did you did you feel yourself negotiating with the with

478
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 5: the issues surrounding codependency.

479
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 6: I know how to talk to people, all right, give me.

480
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 4: The mark.

481
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,199
Speaker 1: And an attachment, like an attachment to them that you

482
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 1: just couldn't like go of, like a fear of letting go,

483
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: a fear of being alone.

484
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because you want to feel loved and

485
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 5: appreciate it.

486
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:58,640
Speaker 4: You know, you're in a child.

487
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 5: I learned about the in the child in her child

488
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 5: is real. They in there, that little seven year old,

489
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 5: little niggas in you. They always in Like you walk

490
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 5: about asking sores, that little kinn's like, we can't have that.

491
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 4: We have a dit You always have a diet one crepy.

492
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,640
Speaker 3: I'm looking at all the white people's faces to see

493
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 3: if they know they have seven year old.

494
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 4: Definitely, my gosh, But you have a child yourself now?

495
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 8: Yes, yes, the night because that was a segway, sir,

496
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:44,439
Speaker 8: I did a thing brown.

497
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, next house of the Oscar transition. Yeah, move over,

498
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 4: Wanda s Kight.

499
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 3: We got a new pair of brown.

500
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 4: Teddy my man sense skirts car. Yeah, we got we

501
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 4: all got kids.

502
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 3: We all got a little species. I had a party

503
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 3: fourth of July at me poor party. You came with

504
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 3: your brother and his wife and your kid.

505
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 5: You are the.

506
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 3: Motherfucker that brought the illegal fireworks.

507
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 6: Where did you get those?

508
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:17,679
Speaker 4: Oh, Trump County? You know, I can't talk about that. Yeah, I.

509
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: Almost got him. He's like, let.

510
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:25,360
Speaker 5: Me's trying to get me, not at the border. Yeah,

511
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 5: so you yeah there rather on your beach right on,

512
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 5: and yeah I almost got you kicked out that neighborhood

513
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 5: cause you got like you got white neighbors.

514
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 4: Right yeah.

515
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 5: But I love it because white people don't like they

516
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 5: don't like noise. That that's they don't that's the sign

517
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 5: of the poor. Yeah, they just want to hear.

518
00:25:45,280 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 4: Like that's a lawnmower anything else. Michelle went, I'm that

519
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 4: type of friend, like not really cool. But all keep

520
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 4: him in wraps because hen.

521
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 3: It was without warning. You know, I just moved from

522
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 3: best guy. So I was like everybody dunk.

523
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 4: I did not know.

524
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 3: I was like, you just let me know, and go

525
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 3: to the baby on your show and you rush at

526
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: me like what are you doing?

527
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:21,439
Speaker 9: What did you have?

528
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:21,719
Speaker 4: Like?

529
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 6: What did you do? Like black Cat's bottle rockets?

530
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 4: Would you do? What's the black cat come on.

531
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 5: To?

532
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 3: Trying to be a cool daddy always sounds like Obama.

533
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 5: I do not.

534
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 6: Know does anybody knowing what an eight black cat is?

535
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 5: You know?

536
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 6: Chef thrown in the water, right, spray, good time?

537
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 3: Say it was so awesome for all of us to

538
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 3: get together fourth of July and be parents and be

539
00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 3: adulting together.

540
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,719
Speaker 4: Babies there and then I'll never remember.

541
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 3: And your daughter is dynamic, honey. Both of y'all's daughters,

542
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 3: daughters are like little adults. Yes, like I'm going to

543
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 3: ask them before I ask you.

544
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, you were trying to figure out some algebra with her, right,

545
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 5: some what algebra?

546
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, we're doing algebra.

547
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 6: Algebra.

548
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 3: It was so out of nowhere, but I love it.

549
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 3: Algebra out of nowhere. Yeah, yeah, we're doing math.

550
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 5: Like because she's still homeschool her mom is scared to put.

551
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:28,679
Speaker 3: In school, So why is she scared to put her

552
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 3: in school?

553
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 4: COVID she's still like hels that anxiety over. It's like

554
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 4: all right, no, doubt, but like she's the only nigga

555
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 4: that's not in school.

556
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 5: And and she's kind of like home mom is like

557
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 5: that girl from Colder, Like that's her, Like she's she's

558
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 5: a translator for her deaf parents and she also works,

559
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 5: so she's not home. So my daughter is like in

560
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 5: the room just doing YouTube and TikTok. So I'm like,

561
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 5: fuck it, let me go get her. Because I asked

562
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 5: her one there and say, hey, what coats do you

563
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 5: think you live on? She was like I live on

564
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 5: the West Coast. I was like, oh, my baby dumb.

565
00:27:58,520 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 6: I had a little help.

566
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 3: Hall you ain't got no geography.

567
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 4: She's like, yeah, I don't know nigga all right. So

568
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 4: I took her to Lake Shore, which is like a teacher.

569
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 5: You have to go to those teacher like you find

570
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 5: out where your teachers be shopping, Like oh this is

571
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 5: would they be getting the apples and the stickers and

572
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 5: the poetry boards?

573
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 4: We have that in Yonkers, right, So.

574
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: How stand up comedy helped you become at home teacher

575
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 3: for your daughter?

576
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 4: Did stand? No? Just my baby being dumb, that's what

577
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 4: helped me be Uh.

578
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 5: I was like I don't want her to like not know,

579
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 5: like what the capital of like like New York is.

580
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want her to know that stuff. So geography,

581
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 4: I got math.

582
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 5: Uh, we do science. Yeah, so I have her from

583
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 5: eleven o'clock to six, and you know.

584
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 3: Are you like taking edibles? Like how do you get

585
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 3: through this?

586
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 4: Oh God, I don't know.

587
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 5: Like I get to like teacher and I guess teach

588
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 5: her how to do like math and ship.

589
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 4: And it's kind of cool because we both don't know, right,

590
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 4: Like you.

591
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 5: Have to go back you have like yo, my dad

592
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 5: asked my nigger, like look at the fourth grade.

593
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 6: But you're like, how you spelled.

594
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 4: Decision time all the time time c C. I I

595
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 4: has what so.

596
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 2: Just a proper now?

597
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 4: That was a proper now. But I'm like I know,

598
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 4: like yeah Washington d C. So yeah, it's cool.

599
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 5: Like so she's trying to she's seeing that too, like

600
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 5: be both learning at the same time.

601
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 3: So are there any challenges because and this is to me,

602
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 3: this is an important question. I know everyone like assumes

603
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 3: it's okay, and it is because love is love. But

604
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 3: she's biracial. Her mom is white. Yeah yeah, with her

605
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 3: mom and her mom's parents and her grandparents. Yes to

606
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 3: even being in school hours out of the day and

607
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 3: be the only black person. Yeah, you don't forget that

608
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 3: ship for the rest of your life. So what's it

609
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 3: like being at home with the white.

610
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 4: Family for her? Like, I'm not there.

611
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 3: That's not really an answer, but I'll take it.

612
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 4: No, but I'll try to figure what you as she

613
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 4: talks to you.

614
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, she talks to and uh and then yeah, I

615
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 5: just I'm her her hairstylist because her hair is mad

616
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 5: at you know, they don't know about black hair, so

617
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 5: she's discovering that her hair is black. You know, she's

618
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,239
Speaker 5: I have four a and I got I didn't get

619
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 5: to her soon though, because I take it to the

620
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 5: Dominicans to get it like just a washing set.

621
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 4: Yes, so it's not And then when there was one week,

622
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 4: I didn't get.

623
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 5: To it soon enough, and she got so frustrated she

624
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 5: took on mother's raizor because her hair was so mad

625
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 5: that she cut a chunk out.

626
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 4: Oh no, I was like, I should have got there.

627
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 3: That happens to every child at least once. Sisters of

628
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 3: the razor. They think they don't know that I can't

629
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 3: grow back right away.

630
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 5: They don't understand, and it's so madest, so she doesn't understand,

631
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 5: like why is her hair madden?

632
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 4: You know, like it needs moisture.

633
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 5: Like all we're doing with black hair is just trying

634
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 5: to like moisturize it so it doesn't yeah, dry out.

635
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 3: No, girls have a lot of responsibility. You know, we're

636
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 3: always thought to have long hairs. So we gotta take

637
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 3: that's responsibility. Like before, like fucking we learn the alphabet. Yeah,

638
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 3: then we get our period, and then we gotta take

639
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 3: have our lunchbox, homework and our fucking tambon.

640
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 4: Like that's a lot. So that's truly.

641
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 3: I'm just like when motherfuckers are like a woman can

642
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 3: never be president, I'm like, motherfucker, we've been doing everything

643
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 3: all the time. Anyway, we're out here doing shit.

644
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, with the.

645
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 3: Smile because some fucking random dude on the street told

646
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 3: us to smile. Fucking tired, just math, breathing and shit,

647
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 3: don't worry about it.

648
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 5: Well, you know, I gotta teach my daughter of the

649
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 5: States first before she could be that.

650
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 4: She'd be president. Where's DC? I don't know, I.

651
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: Don't know, but if you go to the Chesapeake the

652
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: Potomac River, you're gonna go down. You're gonna see Virgin

653
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna see the protomin We learned about Esa the

654
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: appolition that's out.

655
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. If you watch All Dark you can

656
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 3: learn about the trail. So before before we get to

657
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 3: the questions, we always ask our guess, what's the most

658
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 3: adult thing you've done for yourself? But it feels like

659
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 3: you are just fucking you're adulting, like you have a

660
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 3: little immune disease, you have a fresh fade, you have

661
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 3: can you have a white fucking sweatshirt with those days?

662
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 3: And a kid? So what's the most adult thing you

663
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 3: would love to see for your daughter this year?

664
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 4: Oh?

665
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, to love herself and love her hair and just

666
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 5: understand like it's a process.

667
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 4: And yes, so I.

668
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 5: Got her, like I took her to the hood to

669
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 5: get the you know, Carol's daughter.

670
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 4: And all that shit. She was like eighty ninety dollars,

671
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 4: but look it's worth it. She got it.

672
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 5: So she understands that and know it's a process. So

673
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 5: she knows how to take care her own hair. And

674
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 5: plus she's fitting into that like being nine, like looking

675
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 5: in the mirror like why do I look like? So

676
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 5: she likes braids, like she wants your braids to look.

677
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 3: You can bring her over anytime, and I would love

678
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 3: to love on her and tell her how beautiful she.

679
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 4: Yes, that's it.

680
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 5: That's why I bring around like black women. Yeah, a

681
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 5: lot more women that have luck. Yeah, I won't bring

682
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 5: the fireworks.

683
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 4: I know. I won't bring fireworks. Is let me not

684
00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 4: keep them in the trunk. We don't use them all.

685
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 4: We keep them the ships in the trunk. Nigga, I

686
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 4: got the right the trunk. Yeah, and bring a black

687
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 4: cat to Bell House real quick.

688
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 6: Bring a black cat. It's a lot of fun.

689
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 3: Ask some questions that the Whodians had asked, and it's

690
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 3: very exciting owning property underrated or overrated. Don't you want

691
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 3: that generational wealthfitch?

692
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 4: We just can't get to it because of rent.

693
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, who owns property in the house, I get them?

694
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 4: Get them?

695
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 6: Those are the rich people. Get the Okay?

696
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 3: Can I just say so? My parents are from Jamaica

697
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 3: and Haiti and they came here with nothing, just a

698
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 3: hope and a motherfucking dream and ambition like nobody business.

699
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 3: And so my mom learned quickly don't put your money

700
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 3: down a black hole called rent. And so I was

701
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 3: like I could never buy anything in New York ever,

702
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 3: and she was like, save your money, don't do this,

703
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 3: don't do that. No birthdays, No this like a Jilli

704
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 3: and Michael's with the fucking wallet. And then put something down,

705
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,959
Speaker 3: like in a less desirable neighborhood, like in Watertown, New York.

706
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 3: No offensive, you're from there.

707
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 4: It's a nice river town.

708
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 3: You always start like a tour guide whose feelings got hurt.

709
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 1: Yo.

710
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 3: But like, if you get something outside of the five burroughs,

711
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 3: you can build your credit and then you know you

712
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 3: can look good on paper and find something that you

713
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 3: want later. You welcome.

714
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 4: Damn, this is a good one.

715
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: What's the best hack to seem like you have your

716
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 1: ship together?

717
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 4: Oh? Ship?

718
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 3: I put everything in a laundry basket and in the closet.

719
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

720
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 7: When people come over, I'm like, yeah, what about you

721
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 7: got chair in the corner?

722
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:57,280
Speaker 4: You just have all your clothes.

723
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: H I've got a pile in the room. I got

724
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: a pile, I got, I got a pile. I maintained

725
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 1: a nice pile. I broke my wife's spirit from this pile.

726
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: She's like, fine, you're just gonna have a fucking pile.

727
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

728
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 6: It's almost sentient at this point. Ahead a good had

729
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 6: to make it seem like we have your ship together.

730
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,240
Speaker 4: It's kind of a long shot.

731
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: But have a plant.

732
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 6: Take care of a plant.

733
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 9: If you can keep a plan alive and the rest

734
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 9: of your life is falling apart, people think your shit

735
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 9: is tight.

736
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 4: Ah, that's true. Yeah, my plants is fire. One is dying,

737
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 4: a sucking one one is fired.

738
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 3: It's orchid orchard, thank you so much, orchard or or.

739
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 4: A pine tree.

740
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 5: Them palms cannot survive in New York. Like why you

741
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 5: got me older?

742
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 3: Did give you a question? Oh you want me to

743
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 3: I want you to read it?

744
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 4: Okay, do it all right?

745
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 5: How can I be more comfortable in social situations with

746
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 5: social anxiety?

747
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 4: Oh, perf, don't go, Just stay so much programming.

748
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 6: Stay home.

749
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, and when you're ready to come out, come out.

750
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 4: But don't do yourself like this.

751
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 5: Oh my god, somebody and your friend come out, Linda,

752
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 5: I want to go.

753
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 4: I'll not talk to people. I'm weird.

754
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 3: Let me you sure, like, Look, if you have to go,

755
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 3: definitely wear or bring something that's a conversation piece, because

756
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 3: then people will talk to you first, and now I'll

757
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 3: make you feel more relaxed.

758
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 4: Absolutely.

759
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 3: Also, just be in a corner. You will be the

760
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 3: queen that they come up to you, believe it or not.

761
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 3: I do have social anxiety with so yeah, with parties,

762
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 3: Let's yeah.

763
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 4: Me too, unless I'm hosting it.

764
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 3: I don't feel safe in someone else's situation because my

765
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 3: inner child I was always a new person at school

766
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 3: and I went to like a lot of different schools,

767
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 3: and I always had to introduce myself. And I'm fucking

768
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 3: tired of it. And honestly, I don't know y'all, but

769
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 3: I do, and I love y'all.

770
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean?

771
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,760
Speaker 3: Like, I feel like y'all are.

772
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 4: My people, and I'm I saw you at a party

773
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 4: that'd be different. Let's move on.

774
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: I did not know that you have that you battle

775
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: with that. This is a night of revelations.

776
00:36:59,360 --> 00:36:59,959
Speaker 4: This is.

777
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 3: Why are you doing the game?

778
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 4: Show boy?

779
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:14,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god, now I know how Kelly Riffa feels. Okay,

780
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 3: what's the weirdest object you've ever had inside your body?

781
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god, my husband is here.

782
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 1: The weirdest object I've ever had inside my body?

783
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 6: Your turn?

784
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: What's you had that thing in your back? I did

785
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: have an alien in my back, Yes, I had. I

786
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 1: had a rod in my back because I have SCOLIOSI.

787
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 1: I had like a hairing rock.

788
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 4: Everybody so empathetic. No I had, I had a hering

789
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 4: rod in my back.

790
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 1: Anybody else, any scholies, any scholies out there?

791
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 4: Schullly, I see you skullly. That's not a thing.

792
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: So when I was, yes, it is, that's what we

793
00:37:55,960 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 1: call each other. I know why this from the man

794
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 1: with sickle cell fucking dunking all right, So then this

795
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: is a child and I'd have backstorgery. I had to

796
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 1: like have opened like they had to open me up,

797
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: break my back, fuse it, and then put in a

798
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: herring rod.

799
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 5: Now the rod actually came out when I yes, yes,

800
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 5: oh it gets deeper.

801
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 4: The rod came out, It slid down my spine.

802
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have the strength of ten thousand cobras. And

803
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 1: I was on I was on a flight and it

804
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: was like I could I had to do. I had

805
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 1: to do what it's called a table read, right, So

806
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: I had I get to this table read and I

807
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: had to read like three scripts where I had to

808
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 1: be like fun and funny and black guy, you know.

809
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 4: And then I was sweating bullets.

810
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: I was sweating like a runaway slave and like people,

811
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: I was like dying. I had this severe pain and

812
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 1: ins and I was like I didn't have any like

813
00:38:55,440 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: I didn't have any healthcare, right, So I basically like.

814
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:07,240
Speaker 4: I dropped the link niggas.

815
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: So I asked, so I thought I had appendicitis, and

816
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: this guy was like, if you had a pendicitis, you

817
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: couldn't you know, you couldn't like talk, breathe, move whatever.

818
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 1: So it's like, I guess I don't have that. So

819
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 1: then anyway, I passed out of my hotel room. I

820
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 1: wake up and I'm fine, Uh like, go back to

821
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 1: New York and tell my wife what's happened. She's like,

822
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: go to the doctor. Go to the doctor. This is

823
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 1: not what you want to hear from a doctor. He

824
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 1: x rays it and he goes, what's that? And I

825
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: was like, I came to you for answers, right, But

826
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,399
Speaker 1: it was my rod. I was like, that's my hairing rod.

827
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, I can take it out. All

828
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: I have to do is dislocate your femur. I was like,

829
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: we're good.

830
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 6: So, so, yeah, it's this.

831
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 5: Little thing in my hid, but it's actually it's fine

832
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 5: because I can fucking take it.

833
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 3: Oh boy, that's the weirdest thing.

834
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 4: Wow is it still in there? Is out? It's in there?

835
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 6: It says hi.

836
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 4: Every once in a while, I get some weird radio

837
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 4: radio station. There's a little like a boomerang.

838
00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 6: I'm like, it looks like it.

839
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's I don't know what.

840
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 1: I think it was a guy named Herring or lady

841
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: that invented it. But it's a metal rod with just

842
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 1: like classes. It almost looks like a staple. So it

843
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: just comes to like a big staple and it's slid down.

844
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 4: Move on.

845
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

846
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, has a follow up? Yes?

847
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 9: Yeah, So like going through the airport security how how

848
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 9: how was it for you the detectors?

849
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 4: No, I don't. I don't set off the detectors.

850
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: Everything's I think it's just because like I have chunky

851
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: thighs and okay, yeah, I.

852
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:43,720
Speaker 4: Don't get do you want to be thank you? Thank nigga?

853
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:48,959
Speaker 3: Can't we can't check can think like a wedding's chain.

854
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm a hippie man.

855
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 2: I don't care question.

856
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 4: What you got, all right?

857
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 5: I cannot have more comfortable saying knowed things to just

858
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 5: say another thing, say nother things.

859
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 4: How to stop people? Please it?

860
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So you got to like go to a

861
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 5: restaurant and practice, you know what I'm saying, Like, go

862
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 5: to like places, have people ask you what you want,

863
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 5: like no, no, just say you work up the courage

864
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 5: to say no.

865
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 4: The bigger things.

866
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what, people wow or at the end

867
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 5: of it, asks for money.

868
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 3: Scammer for a long line of people. Pleases people pleases

869
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 3: you would not know but and what it is. It's

870
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 3: sort of like I sort of liking it. Just follow

871
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:39,919
Speaker 3: me to my friends who are gay who only date

872
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 3: straight people because they're like, it's my type, and I'm like,

873
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 3: is it? Or maybe you just don't You're so guarded

874
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 3: you don't want anyone to ever see you. So it's

875
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 3: always someone else's fault. And so that's the same thing

876
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 3: with people pleasing. It's just like.

877
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 4: Real deep.

878
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 3: Someone goes it's getting indeed. Yeah, yeah, I got a

879
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 3: babysitter and a white shirt.

880
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 4: We go in there.

881
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:08,280
Speaker 3: Baby shit, let's do one more question.

882
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 4: Okay, my hands too, bid I got you? I got you.

883
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 4: I mean I realized this.

884
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 3: I used to call them man hands, like what in

885
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 3: the bossy pants, but now it's the grandma's hands, Like

886
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 3: feel this?

887
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that is. That's a grandma's I feel like

888
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 4: you better discipline me. Get over here, I tell your

889
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 4: stuff to me the church?

890
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 6: Oh my, what is it?

891
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 5: What is the upper age limit to try to be

892
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 5: a sugar baby slash seek out a sugar daddy? Or

893
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 5: can you try to be a sugar baby at any age?

894
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 4: Oh? Shu, sugar baby? Goddamn y'allay y'all, God, do y'all

895
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 4: know what about? Anybody know what the sugar baby?

896
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 6: Y'all know what a sugar baby is?

897
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 3: I don't everybody it's broke and so all y'all sugar babies.

898
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, nobody is sugar daddy here except for maybe Jordan.

899
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 4: Thank you.

900
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. Oh, I think any age you could

901
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 3: be a sugar baby, right, so you just get money

902
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 3: from somebody older, even if you don't get moist fucking sucket.

903
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 4: Oh was that too much, sugar baby? I mean, I

904
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 4: can't hate. There's no hate on my plate. If you try,

905
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 4: no hate on my plate. Oh, I can't stay cool.

906
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 2: Shit.

907
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 5: So but if it's New York City, you know, if

908
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 5: you try it, then do it.

909
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

910
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 1: There's so many different kind of situations. And things like

911
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: that that people.

912
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,320
Speaker 3: Have, you know, trying to be a sugar baby. But

913
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 3: I was too independent. I'm like, you're not gonna tell

914
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 3: me what to wear, but like, I don't want to

915
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 3: wear heels and jean shorts every fucking day. I'm gonna go.

916
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 3: But it was nice. I was like, look at all

917
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 3: this fucking these seafood towels. It's very fancy. You know

918
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 3: what you would if you seafood baby, if you.

919
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 4: Because a seahorse Baby album coming out.

920
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. Okay, so we gotta wrap this up.

921
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 3: Why don't you tell us the most adult thing you

922
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:14,879
Speaker 3: want to do for yourself. You told us your daughter,

923
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 3: but tell us yourself.

924
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 5: Most adults take a vacation, like sit the fuck down,

925
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 5: book some ship and go yeah, or like use those

926
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 5: voucher use those vouchers.

927
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 4: Yeah you know what I'm saying, use those miles and

928
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 4: not stop ordering.

929
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 5: Tell anybody about your album album My fifth stand up

930
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 5: coming albums called Nori n O r I.

931
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 4: This jacket will be available.

932
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 3: And plus size will fit city, just.

933
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 4: Fit everybody everything.

934
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's gonna be Remember I will release party

935
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 5: and everything in Brooklyn, so right, yeah, yeah.

936
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:08,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was really great, so funny.

937
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 2: If that was a type of food, the show's to

938
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 2: food that you want to eat right now? What would

939
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 2: be for right now?

940
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 3: I kind of want like a salmon sashimi and like

941
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 3: a spicy Tunes with a little crunchy crunch on top,

942
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 3: a little panco and like extra w snobbi because I

943
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 3: wanted to hurt so good. Look, don't ask me a

944
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:24,919
Speaker 3: question lest you really want the fucking answer.

945
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

946
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 3: And I'm being like, no, I'm not. I've never been

947
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,439
Speaker 3: into Leachi Martini. My mom loves lee cheese. But I'm

948
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 3: just like the way people feel about oysters is the

949
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 3: way I feel about Lea Chi. I feel like I'm

950
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 3: going down on a fish or maybe it's like a fetus.

951
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know if I want this. We're

952
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 3: just like a big old piece of snot not the point.

953
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 3: What a beautiful show. Thank you so much, you guys.

954
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 2: A great show.

955
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 1: No, it was a really fun show. Good to hear

956
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 1: from Nori. Davis didn't know that's how his relationship ended.

957
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: But that's Yonker style.

958
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 2: Baby.

959
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 4: Oh.

960
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 3: The great thing about comedy is that it really is

961
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 3: like Sarah that you get paid for so the fact

962
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 3: that he could turn his pain into something funny and

963
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 3: then also an educational teachable moment for other brothers going

964
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,760
Speaker 3: through some shit because fights do get toxic, but please

965
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 3: do not get fucking arrested type shit is amazing. And

966
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 3: any black person taking care of their mental health right now, anybody,

967
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 3: not just black fucking anybody. Exclamation point, good on you,

968
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:28,439
Speaker 3: good on you. Anyways, what a great show, everybody, Thank

969
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 3: you so much for listening. I'm doing just fine.

970
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 1: Uh Michelle, what a quote you We've let me tell

971
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 1: you something. I gotta go pick up my kids, and

972
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 1: I said, by oh I E bye.

973
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 2: This has been an exactly right production.

974
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 3: Our senior producer is Natalie Wrinn.

975
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,720
Speaker 2: Senior managing producer is Hannah Kyle Krachton.

976
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 3: This episode was sound designed and mixed by Andrew.

977
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 2: Eapen and engineered by Ryo Bomb.

978
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 3: Our guest booker is Patrick Cottner.

979
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: Our theme song in live show DJing is by DJ

980
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:01,360
Speaker 2: don Will. This bill House is produced by Christian Banda.

981
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 3: Photography by Chrais vander.

982
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 2: Most, artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

983
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 3: Executive produced by Karen Kilgarriff, Georgia Harstark and Danielle Kramer.

984
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 2: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pot.

985
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:15,800
Speaker 3: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com

986
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 3: mm HM