Speaker 1: The second date updated.
Speaker 2: You know, back in the swinging nineties they had as
Speaker 2: saying you can drink with your bartender, you can cry
Speaker 2: with your bartender. Sure you can even laugh with your bartender,
Speaker 2: but never ever hook up with your bartender. What unless
Speaker 2: you don't have any money at the end of the night,
Speaker 2: and that's considered the tip o.
Speaker 3: God, if only I had been drinking ages in the nineties,
Speaker 3: I know this well.
Speaker 2: One of our listeners desperately wants to break that old
Speaker 2: nineties rule because she is interested in the hunk who
Speaker 2: was pouring out the libations.
Speaker 1: Oh how did she.
Speaker 2: Get to that point? We're about to find out. Let's
Speaker 2: talk to Tiffany. Tiffany, welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Hi, thank you for having me.
Speaker 5: Oh goodness.
Speaker 3: Bartenders just kind of notorious on the dating scene.
Speaker 6: That makes you want them more, I know, God, and
Speaker 6: you've had a couple, so they look even cuter.
Speaker 2: All the girls seem to know what you're talking about, Tiffany,
Speaker 2: But fill the rest of us in what happened with
Speaker 2: you and this guy that you met?
Speaker 1: What's his name?
Speaker 4: Think Kevin?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 7: Okay?
Speaker 3: And is he like the bartender at a place you
Speaker 3: go to or did you guys meet on an app.
Speaker 4: No, so I was actually at this charity event. It
Speaker 4: was at a hotel like in weather big ballroom.
Speaker 2: Okay, look at you. Fancy going to hotels and giving
Speaker 2: back to society.
Speaker 3: Wow, you can get a ticket.
Speaker 5: I host a lot of these events. You're more than
Speaker 5: welcome becoming a Jeff.
Speaker 2: They just don't sound as fun when brook hosts.
Speaker 1: Anyway, I bet, I.
Speaker 2: Bet you went to a really cool one, Tiffany.
Speaker 4: It was really cool, and I think Brooks would be cool.
Speaker 3: Too, Thank you.
Speaker 5: But was he the bartender there?
Speaker 4: He was. I was a catered event, so they had
Speaker 4: him as a bartender.
Speaker 3: Oh cool, that's OK. But I always feel so bad
Speaker 3: for the bartenders during those things because the lines get
Speaker 3: so backed up, you.
Speaker 2: Know, maybe the events that you host. But I'm sure
Speaker 2: this one was actually well organized.
Speaker 8: Usually they have like one bargain right the whole place.
Speaker 3: I mean, how did you find time to like strike
Speaker 3: up a conversation with him?
Speaker 4: I made time. I kept going.
Speaker 2: Back attention to the charity event, so you'd like get
Speaker 2: your drink and just go right back to the back
Speaker 2: of the line.
Speaker 4: I would give it a solid three minutes and okay,
Speaker 4: make him, wait.
Speaker 5: A little bit, like I love a raging alcoholics.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're doing it every three minutes, you must
Speaker 2: have gotten kind of toasted.
Speaker 4: Yeah, one would think, But no, I didn't want to
Speaker 4: be sloppy, so I would just take the drink and
Speaker 4: like pour it into a planter or just set it
Speaker 4: on someone's table.
Speaker 8: Two SIPs of it and then discard it.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 5: Always, I think it's Genius's good.
Speaker 8: Yeah, because you don't want to get sloppy.
Speaker 3: Drunk, and you're like, I got to get another drink
Speaker 3: for my friend.
Speaker 2: We're able to strike up like a flirtation with him
Speaker 2: when you were ordering.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it got better every time. That's why I
Speaker 4: kept going back.
Speaker 3: Oh, so were you able to turn this into something more?
Speaker 4: Well, he actually is the one that took the initiative
Speaker 4: in my who knows how many times, ninth time whatever
Speaker 4: that I went up.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 6: Oh.
Speaker 4: He asked if I was doing anything after the event.
Speaker 4: I'm totally free, but I actually, I like literally had
Speaker 4: friends waiting for me. I had plans afterwards, but I
Speaker 4: just canceled them.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it does. It makes sense he favored for.
Speaker 1: Me, Yeah for sure.
Speaker 2: Wow, So he initiated a date that same night?
Speaker 3: Yeah did you did you read it as a date
Speaker 3: or just like a hookup?
Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like, I always feel like if it's like the same night.
Speaker 2: And you never said anything about them being intimate with
Speaker 2: each other, I don't know why you.
Speaker 6: Jumped straight to the invite. Is like, it's late at night,
Speaker 6: let's hang out now.
Speaker 8: I know you've been drinking, yes, exactly.
Speaker 2: And what that means that they have to get together
Speaker 2: down that's.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the odds are high, and that's what his intention is.
Speaker 4: Well, No, we didn't hook up or anything like that. Okay,
Speaker 4: I didn't get that vibe either. I just got that
Speaker 4: we were flirting and interested in each other, you know.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's all good that he's not trying to take advantage.
Speaker 8: Of you or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like, yeah, so that's good.
Speaker 8: You guys just hung out.
Speaker 2: Where'd you guys go?
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, we went to a bar.
Speaker 8: Well, he hasn't had any drinks yet.
Speaker 5: Problems Yeah, yeah, unless he's a bad bartender.
Speaker 1: Okay, how is that?
Speaker 4: I think one thing that was sweet was like, I
Speaker 4: personally really like video games. I've always liked video games.
Speaker 4: I'm a big switch player, and so He just seemed
Speaker 4: kind of surprised by that because he likes video games too,
Speaker 4: but I think he plays a lot with his guy friends,
Speaker 4: and so that was sweet. He seemed genuinely taken aback
Speaker 4: by that.
Speaker 3: And it seems like like an easy transition into the
Speaker 3: next date, like the next day, wouldn't you just then
Speaker 3: play video games together?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good idea because you could put the
Speaker 2: switch on the TV or have an handheld.
Speaker 1: Before we get to the next day. How did this
Speaker 1: one end?
Speaker 4: We had a nice hug and no, like I said, like,
Speaker 4: no kissing, no hooking up, nothing like that. But I'm
Speaker 4: just kind of at this point waiting on him make
Speaker 4: a move.
Speaker 3: But he made the first move.
Speaker 5: Maybe he's waiting on you.
Speaker 4: I guess I didn't really think about it that way.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 8: Does this count as your move? Like we could this
Speaker 8: could be your move? Pull. Hey, I got a radio
Speaker 8: station to call you big boy.
Speaker 1: Those exact words when that came out weird.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry use.
Speaker 2: It talking to guys, but this will be our chance
Speaker 2: to reach out. Like how long has it been since
Speaker 2: you last hung out with him?
Speaker 4: It's been like four or five days?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: And has there been like texts or calls exchange between
Speaker 2: you two.
Speaker 4: No, nothing crazy. I have other guys that I can
Speaker 4: spend time with, you know.
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 3: That he needed to brag right there, but yeah, I
Speaker 3: don't tell him that I'm saying.
Speaker 4: That because I know, like four or five days doesn't
Speaker 4: sound like a long time. But I'm kind of holding
Speaker 4: out for him.
Speaker 3: Oh, I see everybody else is on pause.
Speaker 2: So okay, Yer and I just want to make sure
Speaker 2: that we get this straight. So you haven't reached out
Speaker 2: to him at all. He hasn't reached out to you.
Speaker 2: This is going to be the first time that you
Speaker 2: guys have talked since then.
Speaker 9: Right.
Speaker 8: Also, it's not like he's ghosting, you're not answering.
Speaker 7: Huh.
Speaker 5: It's a bold move. Yeah, it's a bold move, Jeb
Speaker 5: and I like.
Speaker 2: It puts all the pressure on us, which I don't
Speaker 2: necessarily like.
Speaker 5: But we can do it.
Speaker 1: That's what we signed up for.
Speaker 3: We're going to be a bartender. He's used to weird things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, we'll see how how cool with it he
Speaker 2: is when we come back, call him and try and
Speaker 2: get you a second date with Kevin the bartender coming up?
Speaker 1: Right, after this second date update.
Speaker 2: If you're just tuning in, I'm not sure the word
Speaker 2: bar could have been mentioned more. During the meetup with
Speaker 2: one of our listeners, Tiffany as she had with a
Speaker 2: guy because she was at a catered event with an
Speaker 2: open bar.
Speaker 1: Met the bar tend under Kevin.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, they had some sidebar conversation. Later left that bar
Speaker 2: and bar hopped to a different bar.
Speaker 3: The bar was set high, Jeffrey, really very.
Speaker 2: High and barring anything bad that happened that night. She
Speaker 2: wants to get back together with him. And while I
Speaker 2: was thinking about all that, I had a Hershey bar
Speaker 2: in the other Okay, So the weird part is this
Speaker 2: is going to be the very first contact the two
Speaker 2: of them have had since that night. There's been no
Speaker 2: missed calls, no text, no snap chats, nothing weird.
Speaker 1: I spent five days.
Speaker 3: Are you feeling okay about us being the first people
Speaker 3: to call?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean I asked you to.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you talked to us.
Speaker 2: For five or six minutes. You could have some regrets
Speaker 2: by now.
Speaker 4: I think it'll be cool.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, he's either going to be impressed or he
Speaker 3: is gonna be kind of overwhelmed.
Speaker 5: Why didn't you just text me. Yeah, we can handle
Speaker 5: both of those situations.
Speaker 1: You know, we'll let Brook handle it. Are just gonna
Speaker 1: sit back.
Speaker 3: I mean, bartenders usually don't know our show because they
Speaker 3: work late.
Speaker 8: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm not gonna ask that question. I'm just
Speaker 2: gonna call him and we'll see if he first answers
Speaker 2: the phone and then see if he has anything to say.
Speaker 1: Okay, are you ready? Yeah, already, here we go.
Speaker 7: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey is this Kevin?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and my name is jeff from a radio show
Speaker 2: you probably have never heard of before called Brook and
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Hey, we do a podcast too, so maybe you've heard
Speaker 3: of that Kevin.
Speaker 7: Uh no, I can't say I have.
Speaker 1: Thanks for crushing our dreams.
Speaker 7: Okay, what are you doing on my phone? Uh? Well,
Speaker 7: we were.
Speaker 2: The there's a whole show here. Really, four of us
Speaker 2: are in the room. We're doing a segment right now
Speaker 2: called a second Date Update, and that's where we try
Speaker 2: and help our listeners reconnect with someone that they met
Speaker 2: or when out with recently and aren't getting another date yet.
Speaker 7: Okay, and I'm involved in this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, somebody likes you.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, shocking dude.
Speaker 1: The people that like you, because.
Speaker 7: I mean, I get a lot of attention, but nothing
Speaker 7: really sticks around very longship.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's a pleasant surprise.
Speaker 2: I would assume somebody does want to stick around for
Speaker 2: a while.
Speaker 1: Her name is Tiffany.
Speaker 3: He made he made me more.
Speaker 5: He meets a lot of people.
Speaker 2: Sorry, when you met her at a charity event, No,
Speaker 2: I know exactly who you're talking about.
Speaker 1: Okay, good, Oh you do.
Speaker 8: I was like, I don't think we know her last name.
Speaker 8: So this means, okay, good you remember her?
Speaker 7: I yeah, I do.
Speaker 1: What'd you think?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't. I don't think it's for men.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he means a relationship means like the connection.
Speaker 7: That came out really wrong. Yeah, that came up. She
Speaker 7: was great. I was really into her. I got excited thinking,
Speaker 7: you know, maybe we could start dating casually.
Speaker 6: Oh wow, Oh, I mean you had those thoughts like
Speaker 6: that same night you're hanging out having drinks at a bar.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we had a really great time, and I kind
Speaker 7: of got a little invested a little bit.
Speaker 2: And I why don't understand because you, according to her,
Speaker 2: at least there, you haven't called her or texted her
Speaker 2: or reached out at all in the last few days.
Speaker 7: No, that's because I Okay, So we had a good
Speaker 7: time and then we said our goodbyes, and as I'm
Speaker 7: sitting in the parking lot in my car, I was
Speaker 7: you see who this girl is? So I hopped on
Speaker 7: social media and I looked her up. Okay, and she's
Speaker 7: in a relationship. Like what she's got like a serious guy.
Speaker 3: Are you sure you have the right Tiffany.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's yeah, yes, they're very recent some guy named
Speaker 9: Dirt and Dirt like all the comments are very supportive
Speaker 9: of their relationship.
Speaker 6: But it just doesn't make sense, like why, Like, if
Speaker 6: you're trying to cheat, you wouldn't call a radio show
Speaker 6: and have them do a second date.
Speaker 8: You know what I mean, You're gonna get discovered.
Speaker 7: I have no idea what's going on with her. You'll
Speaker 7: have to ask her because I'm just as confused.
Speaker 3: Okay, well that is kind of crazy your request.
Speaker 2: Let's just ask her right now because she is on
Speaker 2: the other line as we speak, wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 7: Oh, don't tell her boyfriend?
Speaker 4: Yeah, excuse me. In this so called relationship post that
Speaker 4: you saw, did you see his face? And then you
Speaker 4: have the pictures?
Speaker 7: What I really don't even know. I can't remember. All
Speaker 7: I know is you were, you know, hugging on some guy.
Speaker 7: And there were a dozen or more comments under it.
Speaker 7: They were like, oh, congratulations, and.
Speaker 3: Well you're in a new relationship.
Speaker 7: This is a week ago, I know.
Speaker 8: But if people are.
Speaker 6: Saying congratulations, that means you've just got a boyfriend.
Speaker 5: Also, who calls congrats about a relationship?
Speaker 8: Everybody does, what do you mean? I'm in a relationship?
Speaker 1: Just no one to like the relationships?
Speaker 3: Weird down. Alexis is just coming on her friends with
Speaker 3: one of the puke emojis.
Speaker 2: Sorry, look what's going on with this post with you
Speaker 2: and Dirk?
Speaker 1: Is that a thing?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 4: You guys got something to conclusions? That's okay, it's not
Speaker 4: an official relationship. We are just soft launching it right now.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I don't understand.
Speaker 7: What what is she doing?
Speaker 6: You don't have thought launching soft launching That still means
Speaker 6: you're in a relationship. It means that you just don't
Speaker 6: want to announce it yet, like you're not ready to
Speaker 6: like reveal who it is.
Speaker 2: Well, she announced it on social media.
Speaker 4: His face is not in the photos. There's no start
Speaker 4: date to it. It's just a thought launch it's not official.
Speaker 7: Is she your boyfriend or like a DJ going on tour.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 6: She's actually seen a restaurant that hasn't opened officially yet.
Speaker 7: I don't like, I don't understand this, Okay.
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people are confused, Tiffany, can
Speaker 2: you like explain talk to Kevin a little bit, tell
Speaker 2: them what's going on.
Speaker 7: Okay, Hi, it's a good signay Hi.
Speaker 4: What you saw is not an official relationship. I would
Speaker 4: not be pursuing you if I was in an official relationship.
Speaker 4: We are just soft launching right now. It's very casual,
Speaker 4: and I would prefer to maybe like two three weeks
Speaker 4: or something soft launched with you. You're at the top
Speaker 4: of my.
Speaker 5: Well.
Speaker 6: If you never show their face, you can replace it
Speaker 6: with anybody.
Speaker 7: I guess. I don't have no idea what she's talking about.
Speaker 7: It's how are you in a relationship and not in one? Well.
Speaker 2: It's like when a movie does like a pre screening
Speaker 2: to like a small audience before they officially release it
Speaker 2: to the world.
Speaker 1: It's not actually released.
Speaker 8: I did see a girl.
Speaker 9: Aley on social media almost a heart over a guy's face,
Speaker 9: and then the day they hard launched.
Speaker 8: Or whatever it's called. Weeks later, then she released his face.
Speaker 3: What happens with too many people take marketing classes at college?
Speaker 2: You are coming up next week, Timmy, I have a question.
Speaker 2: Does Dirk know he's been soft launched and not actually
Speaker 2: in a relationship that.
Speaker 5: You're talking to other dudes?
Speaker 4: That's not a Dirk business.
Speaker 8: Wait, yes it is. He's in a relationship.
Speaker 4: No, he is not in a relationship. He's in a
Speaker 4: soft launch face.
Speaker 2: Okay, she's using it right.
Speaker 4: Well, that's how dating works now. And Kevin, I'm honestly surprised.
Speaker 4: You're a bartender, like this is your world?
Speaker 5: Yeah, Kevin, who knew that Tiffany would be the red frog?
Speaker 2: So but what you're saying is between Kevin and Dirk,
Speaker 2: you would prefer to be with Kevin.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so. I think it was it kind
Speaker 4: of how the soft launch with Kevin goes. And just
Speaker 4: like the feedback I get on it.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, you're so many are on your instagration
Speaker 5: you follow you.
Speaker 2: Might get one more soft launch if Kevin, you'll agree
Speaker 2: to go out with Tiffany one more time, and we
Speaker 2: would pay for it.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's almost a competition.
Speaker 3: Kevin, can you get more likes than Dirk.
Speaker 7: That's what she was, you know. I don't know. I'm
Speaker 7: gonna have to think about this. Maybe she could send
Speaker 7: me her business plan so I can evaluate it.
Speaker 5: Is that a joke or are you being serious?
Speaker 2: I think he's Okay, this sounds insane to me. Okay, well,
Speaker 2: I guess I'm sorry, Tiffany. Kevin doesn't want to soft
Speaker 2: launch with you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you.
Speaker 3: Still have Dirk.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know I'm gonna unveil his elbow
Speaker 4: and his foot next week.
Speaker 9: Oh freaking Jeffrey in the morning.