WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Failure To Launch

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<v Speaker 1>The second date updated.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, back in the swinging nineties they had as

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<v Speaker 2>saying you can drink with your bartender, you can cry

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<v Speaker 2>with your bartender. Sure you can even laugh with your bartender,

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<v Speaker 2>but never ever hook up with your bartender. What unless

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have any money at the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's considered the tip o.

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<v Speaker 3>God, if only I had been drinking ages in the nineties,

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<v Speaker 3>I know this well.

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<v Speaker 2>One of our listeners desperately wants to break that old

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<v Speaker 2>nineties rule because she is interested in the hunk who

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<v Speaker 2>was pouring out the libations.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh how did she.

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<v Speaker 2>Get to that point? We're about to find out. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>talk to Tiffany. Tiffany, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, thank you for having me.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh goodness.

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<v Speaker 3>Bartenders just kind of notorious on the dating scene.

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<v Speaker 6>That makes you want them more, I know, God, and

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<v Speaker 6>you've had a couple, so they look even cuter.

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<v Speaker 2>All the girls seem to know what you're talking about, Tiffany,

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<v Speaker 2>But fill the rest of us in what happened with

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<v Speaker 2>you and this guy that you met?

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name?

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<v Speaker 4>Think Kevin?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>And is he like the bartender at a place you

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<v Speaker 3>go to or did you guys meet on an app.

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<v Speaker 4>No, so I was actually at this charity event. It

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<v Speaker 4>was at a hotel like in weather big ballroom.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, look at you. Fancy going to hotels and giving

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<v Speaker 2>back to society.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, you can get a ticket.

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<v Speaker 5>I host a lot of these events. You're more than

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<v Speaker 5>welcome becoming a Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>They just don't sound as fun when brook hosts.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, I bet, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Bet you went to a really cool one, Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 4>It was really cool, and I think Brooks would be cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Too, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>But was he the bartender there?

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<v Speaker 4>He was. I was a catered event, so they had

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<v Speaker 4>him as a bartender.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh cool, that's OK. But I always feel so bad

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<v Speaker 3>for the bartenders during those things because the lines get

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<v Speaker 3>so backed up, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, maybe the events that you host. But I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>this one was actually well organized.

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<v Speaker 8>Usually they have like one bargain right the whole place.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, how did you find time to like strike

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<v Speaker 3>up a conversation with him?

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<v Speaker 4>I made time. I kept going.

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<v Speaker 2>Back attention to the charity event, so you'd like get

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<v Speaker 2>your drink and just go right back to the back

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<v Speaker 2>of the line.

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<v Speaker 4>I would give it a solid three minutes and okay,

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<v Speaker 4>make him, wait.

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<v Speaker 5>A little bit, like I love a raging alcoholics.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you're doing it every three minutes, you must

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<v Speaker 2>have gotten kind of toasted.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, one would think, But no, I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 4>be sloppy, so I would just take the drink and

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<v Speaker 4>like pour it into a planter or just set it

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<v Speaker 4>on someone's table.

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<v Speaker 8>Two SIPs of it and then discard it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>Always, I think it's Genius's good.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, because you don't want to get sloppy.

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<v Speaker 3>Drunk, and you're like, I got to get another drink

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<v Speaker 3>for my friend.

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<v Speaker 2>We're able to strike up like a flirtation with him

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<v Speaker 2>when you were ordering.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and it got better every time. That's why I

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<v Speaker 4>kept going back.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, so were you able to turn this into something more?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, he actually is the one that took the initiative

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<v Speaker 4>in my who knows how many times, ninth time whatever

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<v Speaker 4>that I went up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>He asked if I was doing anything after the event.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm totally free, but I actually, I like literally had

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<v Speaker 4>friends waiting for me. I had plans afterwards, but I

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<v Speaker 4>just canceled them.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it does. It makes sense he favored for.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, So he initiated a date that same night?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah did you did you read it as a date

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<v Speaker 3>or just like a hookup?

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I always feel like if it's like the same night.

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<v Speaker 2>And you never said anything about them being intimate with

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<v Speaker 2>each other, I don't know why you.

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<v Speaker 6>Jumped straight to the invite. Is like, it's late at night,

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<v Speaker 6>let's hang out now.

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<v Speaker 8>I know you've been drinking, yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And what that means that they have to get together

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<v Speaker 2>down that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the odds are high, and that's what his intention is.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, No, we didn't hook up or anything like that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't get that vibe either. I just got that

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<v Speaker 4>we were flirting and interested in each other, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's all good that he's not trying to take advantage.

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<v Speaker 8>Of you or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, like, yeah, so that's good.

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<v Speaker 8>You guys just hung out.

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<v Speaker 2>Where'd you guys go?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh gosh, we went to a bar.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, he hasn't had any drinks yet.

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<v Speaker 5>Problems Yeah, yeah, unless he's a bad bartender.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how is that?

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<v Speaker 4>I think one thing that was sweet was like, I

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<v Speaker 4>personally really like video games. I've always liked video games.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a big switch player, and so He just seemed

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<v Speaker 4>kind of surprised by that because he likes video games too,

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<v Speaker 4>but I think he plays a lot with his guy friends,

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<v Speaker 4>and so that was sweet. He seemed genuinely taken aback

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<v Speaker 4>by that.

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<v Speaker 3>And it seems like like an easy transition into the

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<v Speaker 3>next date, like the next day, wouldn't you just then

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<v Speaker 3>play video games together?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a good idea because you could put the

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<v Speaker 2>switch on the TV or have an handheld.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we get to the next day. How did this

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<v Speaker 1>one end?

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<v Speaker 4>We had a nice hug and no, like I said, like,

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<v Speaker 4>no kissing, no hooking up, nothing like that. But I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of at this point waiting on him make

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<v Speaker 4>a move.

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<v Speaker 3>But he made the first move.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe he's waiting on you.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I didn't really think about it that way.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 8>Does this count as your move? Like we could this

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<v Speaker 8>could be your move? Pull. Hey, I got a radio

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<v Speaker 8>station to call you big boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Those exact words when that came out weird.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm sorry use.

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<v Speaker 2>It talking to guys, but this will be our chance

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<v Speaker 2>to reach out. Like how long has it been since

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<v Speaker 2>you last hung out with him?

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<v Speaker 4>It's been like four or five days?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>And has there been like texts or calls exchange between

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<v Speaker 2>you two.

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<v Speaker 4>No, nothing crazy. I have other guys that I can

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<v Speaker 4>spend time with, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>That he needed to brag right there, but yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't tell him that I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>That because I know, like four or five days doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>sound like a long time. But I'm kind of holding

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<v Speaker 4>out for him.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I see everybody else is on pause.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, Yer and I just want to make sure

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<v Speaker 2>that we get this straight. So you haven't reached out

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<v Speaker 2>to him at all. He hasn't reached out to you.

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<v Speaker 2>This is going to be the first time that you

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<v Speaker 2>guys have talked since then.

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<v Speaker 9>Right.

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<v Speaker 8>Also, it's not like he's ghosting, you're not answering.

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<v Speaker 7>Huh.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a bold move. Yeah, it's a bold move, Jeb

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<v Speaker 5>and I like.

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<v Speaker 2>It puts all the pressure on us, which I don't

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily like.

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<v Speaker 5>But we can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we signed up for.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to be a bartender. He's used to weird things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sure, we'll see how how cool with it he

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<v Speaker 2>is when we come back, call him and try and

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<v Speaker 2>get you a second date with Kevin the bartender coming up?

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<v Speaker 1>Right, after this second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just tuning in, I'm not sure the word

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<v Speaker 2>bar could have been mentioned more. During the meetup with

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<v Speaker 2>one of our listeners, Tiffany as she had with a

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<v Speaker 2>guy because she was at a catered event with an

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<v Speaker 2>open bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Met the bar tend under Kevin.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, they had some sidebar conversation. Later left that bar

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<v Speaker 2>and bar hopped to a different bar.

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<v Speaker 3>The bar was set high, Jeffrey, really very.

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<v Speaker 2>High and barring anything bad that happened that night. She

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<v Speaker 2>wants to get back together with him. And while I

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<v Speaker 2>was thinking about all that, I had a Hershey bar

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<v Speaker 2>in the other Okay, So the weird part is this

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<v Speaker 2>is going to be the very first contact the two

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<v Speaker 2>of them have had since that night. There's been no

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<v Speaker 2>missed calls, no text, no snap chats, nothing weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I spent five days.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you feeling okay about us being the first people

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<v Speaker 3>to call?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I mean I asked you to.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you talked to us.

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<v Speaker 2>For five or six minutes. You could have some regrets

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<v Speaker 2>by now.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it'll be cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, he's either going to be impressed or he

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<v Speaker 3>is gonna be kind of overwhelmed.

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<v Speaker 5>Why didn't you just text me. Yeah, we can handle

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<v Speaker 5>both of those situations.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we'll let Brook handle it. Are just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>sit back.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, bartenders usually don't know our show because they

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<v Speaker 3>work late.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm not gonna ask that question. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>gonna call him and we'll see if he first answers

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<v Speaker 2>the phone and then see if he has anything to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, are you ready? Yeah, already, here we go.

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<v Speaker 7>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Kevin?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and my name is jeff from a radio show

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<v Speaker 2>you probably have never heard of before called Brook and

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, we do a podcast too, so maybe you've heard

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<v Speaker 3>of that Kevin.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh no, I can't say I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for crushing our dreams.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, what are you doing on my phone? Uh? Well,

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<v Speaker 7>we were.

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<v Speaker 2>The there's a whole show here. Really, four of us

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<v Speaker 2>are in the room. We're doing a segment right now

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<v Speaker 2>called a second Date Update, and that's where we try

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<v Speaker 2>and help our listeners reconnect with someone that they met

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<v Speaker 2>or when out with recently and aren't getting another date yet.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, and I'm involved in this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, somebody likes you.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh okay, shocking dude.

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<v Speaker 1>The people that like you, because.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I get a lot of attention, but nothing

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<v Speaker 7>really sticks around very longship.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's a pleasant surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>I would assume somebody does want to stick around for

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<v Speaker 2>a while.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 3>He made he made me more.

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<v Speaker 5>He meets a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, when you met her at a charity event, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I know exactly who you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, Oh you do.

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<v Speaker 8>I was like, I don't think we know her last name.

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<v Speaker 8>So this means, okay, good you remember her?

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<v Speaker 7>I yeah, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>What'd you think?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I don't. I don't think it's for men.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he means a relationship means like the connection.

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<v Speaker 7>That came out really wrong. Yeah, that came up. She

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<v Speaker 7>was great. I was really into her. I got excited thinking,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, maybe we could start dating casually.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wow, Oh, I mean you had those thoughts like

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<v Speaker 6>that same night you're hanging out having drinks at a bar.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, we had a really great time, and I kind

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<v Speaker 7>of got a little invested a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>And I why don't understand because you, according to her,

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<v Speaker 2>at least there, you haven't called her or texted her

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<v Speaker 2>or reached out at all in the last few days.

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<v Speaker 7>No, that's because I Okay, So we had a good

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<v Speaker 7>time and then we said our goodbyes, and as I'm

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<v Speaker 7>sitting in the parking lot in my car, I was

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<v Speaker 7>you see who this girl is? So I hopped on

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<v Speaker 7>social media and I looked her up. Okay, and she's

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<v Speaker 7>in a relationship. Like what she's got like a serious guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you sure you have the right Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, it's yeah, yes, they're very recent some guy named

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<v Speaker 9>Dirt and Dirt like all the comments are very supportive

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<v Speaker 9>of their relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>But it just doesn't make sense, like why, Like, if

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<v Speaker 6>you're trying to cheat, you wouldn't call a radio show

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<v Speaker 6>and have them do a second date.

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<v Speaker 8>You know what I mean, You're gonna get discovered.

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<v Speaker 7>I have no idea what's going on with her. You'll

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<v Speaker 7>have to ask her because I'm just as confused.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well that is kind of crazy your request.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just ask her right now because she is on

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<v Speaker 2>the other line as we speak, wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, don't tell her boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, excuse me. In this so called relationship post that

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<v Speaker 4>you saw, did you see his face? And then you

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<v Speaker 4>have the pictures?

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<v Speaker 7>What I really don't even know. I can't remember. All

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<v Speaker 7>I know is you were, you know, hugging on some guy.

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<v Speaker 7>And there were a dozen or more comments under it.

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<v Speaker 7>They were like, oh, congratulations, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Well you're in a new relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>This is a week ago, I know.

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<v Speaker 8>But if people are.

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<v Speaker 6>Saying congratulations, that means you've just got a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>Also, who calls congrats about a relationship?

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<v Speaker 8>Everybody does, what do you mean? I'm in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>Just no one to like the relationships?

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<v Speaker 3>Weird down. Alexis is just coming on her friends with

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<v Speaker 3>one of the puke emojis.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, look what's going on with this post with you

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<v Speaker 2>and Dirk?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a thing?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>You guys got something to conclusions? That's okay, it's not

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<v Speaker 4>an official relationship. We are just soft launching it right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 7>What what is she doing?

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<v Speaker 6>You don't have thought launching soft launching That still means

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<v Speaker 6>you're in a relationship. It means that you just don't

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<v Speaker 6>want to announce it yet, like you're not ready to

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<v Speaker 6>like reveal who it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, she announced it on social media.

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<v Speaker 4>His face is not in the photos. There's no start

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<v Speaker 4>date to it. It's just a thought launch it's not official.

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<v Speaker 7>Is she your boyfriend or like a DJ going on tour.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>She's actually seen a restaurant that hasn't opened officially yet.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't like, I don't understand this, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people are confused, Tiffany, can

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<v Speaker 2>you like explain talk to Kevin a little bit, tell

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<v Speaker 2>them what's going on.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, Hi, it's a good signay Hi.

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<v Speaker 4>What you saw is not an official relationship. I would

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<v Speaker 4>not be pursuing you if I was in an official relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>We are just soft launching right now. It's very casual,

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<v Speaker 4>and I would prefer to maybe like two three weeks

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<v Speaker 4>or something soft launched with you. You're at the top

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<v Speaker 4>of my.

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<v Speaker 5>Well.

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<v Speaker 6>If you never show their face, you can replace it

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<v Speaker 6>with anybody.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess. I don't have no idea what she's talking about.

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<v Speaker 7>It's how are you in a relationship and not in one? Well.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like when a movie does like a pre screening

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<v Speaker 2>to like a small audience before they officially release it

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<v Speaker 2>to the world.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not actually released.

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<v Speaker 8>I did see a girl.

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<v Speaker 9>Aley on social media almost a heart over a guy's face,

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<v Speaker 9>and then the day they hard launched.

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<v Speaker 8>Or whatever it's called. Weeks later, then she released his face.

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<v Speaker 3>What happens with too many people take marketing classes at college?

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<v Speaker 2>You are coming up next week, Timmy, I have a question.

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<v Speaker 2>Does Dirk know he's been soft launched and not actually

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<v Speaker 2>in a relationship that.

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<v Speaker 5>You're talking to other dudes?

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<v Speaker 4>That's not a Dirk business.

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<v Speaker 8>Wait, yes it is. He's in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>No, he is not in a relationship. He's in a

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<v Speaker 4>soft launch face.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she's using it right.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's how dating works now. And Kevin, I'm honestly surprised.

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<v Speaker 4>You're a bartender, like this is your world?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Kevin, who knew that Tiffany would be the red frog?

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<v Speaker 2>So but what you're saying is between Kevin and Dirk,

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<v Speaker 2>you would prefer to be with Kevin.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think so. I think it was it kind

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<v Speaker 4>of how the soft launch with Kevin goes. And just

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<v Speaker 4>like the feedback I get on it.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, you're so many are on your instagration

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<v Speaker 5>you follow you.

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<v Speaker 2>Might get one more soft launch if Kevin, you'll agree

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<v Speaker 2>to go out with Tiffany one more time, and we

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<v Speaker 2>would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's almost a competition.

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<v Speaker 3>Kevin, can you get more likes than Dirk.

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<v Speaker 7>That's what she was, you know. I don't know. I'm

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<v Speaker 7>gonna have to think about this. Maybe she could send

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<v Speaker 7>me her business plan so I can evaluate it.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that a joke or are you being serious?

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's Okay, this sounds insane to me. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I'm sorry, Tiffany. Kevin doesn't want to soft

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<v Speaker 2>launch with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but you.

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<v Speaker 3>Still have Dirk.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know I'm gonna unveil his elbow

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<v Speaker 4>and his foot next week.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh freaking Jeffrey in the morning.