WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sneaker Boy

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<v Speaker 1>Second d of date. Some heroes don't wear cakes? What

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<v Speaker 1>do they wear? Some heroes wear size eleven new balanced sneakers.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh dad, superhero and nothing else. Not a good look. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>apparently one of our listeners, Ryan, met a woman the

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<v Speaker 1>other day thanks to his quick thinking shoe heroics. So, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>is it cool if we call you sneaker boy? Sure? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? So wait? Are you the naked one in

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<v Speaker 1>the story or is she? Or maybe you're both naked.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it was a good date. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I just made up the naked stuffing. But apparently

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<v Speaker 1>shoes come into how they met each other. What's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the girl that you want us to call?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Trinity? Trinity sounds like a superhero name,

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<v Speaker 1>boy that you use? Right? How did shoes bring you

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<v Speaker 1>guys together? I use my shoe to kill a spider?

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<v Speaker 1>You are there? We go? So how did that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>Set the scene for us? Where were you in a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shot? Okay, okay, okay. I was working on my laptop,

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<v Speaker 1>just working on a project for work, and there's a booth,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, run across from me, and I saw this

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<v Speaker 1>spider crawling up towards this woman, like up the side

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<v Speaker 1>of the booth, get ready to go into it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a big one. It's a juicy one,

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<v Speaker 1>and you scream, not today, evil do her? I approached

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<v Speaker 1>silent but deadley. I did, Hey, and you got a

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<v Speaker 1>cute girls attention on top of it. Yeah. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know that's what was happening at the time until yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I realized that, Yeah, she's an attractive woman

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<v Speaker 1>who I just saved, take a life, get a number.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you end up turning that into a date?

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<v Speaker 1>We talked when she thanked me for what I did,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I sat back down. Then she came over

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<v Speaker 1>and asked me if she could buy me a coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had coffee. I was sitting there working, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So so I said, well, how about you know, some

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<v Speaker 1>time in the future. Okay, check like you because she

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<v Speaker 1>gave me her number. Yeah, okay, pretty smooth. That's sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>So where did you guys end up going together? We

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<v Speaker 1>went out to my favorite tie place. Oh you guys dinner? Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't do coffee, that was just the end, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so we went out for dinner. That's awesome

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<v Speaker 1>and It's always key to take someone to like your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite place. Yeah, if you know the food's good, you

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<v Speaker 1>know the service is good, exactly. No, the atmosphere it's fun,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a nice place, but it's you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a good place to talk. Um. Yeah, and it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really good. So why is the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>I can think of is that I love this place

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<v Speaker 1>so much. And I'm a pretty big guy, and I

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<v Speaker 1>eat a lot of food, and you know, tie food,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean chop sticks. Sometimes it can be a little

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<v Speaker 1>or you're eating soup like tom yam or something you know,

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<v Speaker 1>can splash back and you can kind of make a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a mess of yourself, even if you're

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<v Speaker 1>you know, being you know. Yeah, I wanted to eat

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<v Speaker 1>so I could like have a full meal before she came,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would be like pre gamed and then order

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<v Speaker 1>something light with her and just sort of pick at

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<v Speaker 1>it while we talked. Actually get that strategy. You ate

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<v Speaker 1>your entire meal before she even got there. I ate

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<v Speaker 1>an entire meal the first course. I can put back

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of Thai food. Yeah, me too, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>like that soup like that a rice dish noodle dis

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<v Speaker 1>But like with her I just had that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>put by a salad, so I was just like eating

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<v Speaker 1>something light. But when she arrived, was your table all

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<v Speaker 1>cleaned off? Yeah? Yeah, I had asked the guys to

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<v Speaker 1>reset it. I didn't want it to be weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>came from work, you know, so I was like hungry.

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<v Speaker 1>It might be kind of awkward for her, though, if

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<v Speaker 1>she's eating this big thie meal and you're not eating anything,

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<v Speaker 1>You're just watching her eat the entire time. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>could make her feel like she's being a glutton. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe that's it. That's I think I could

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<v Speaker 1>think of. It might have been weird, she mentioned she

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, why you really don't eat much? To you?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, You're like, it seemed weird that a guy

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<v Speaker 1>in my size wasn't eating anything but like a green

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<v Speaker 1>Papi salad. And how did you respond to that? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you say? When she said that, I'll just say that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I roll, you know, That's just how I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like you, fatty, that might be a deal breaker for

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<v Speaker 1>me because I feel like I eat a lot. I

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<v Speaker 1>suppised with a guy who wasn't eating I don't think,

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<v Speaker 1>looking back, I should just have an appetizer and then

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<v Speaker 1>I eat like a to start with. So yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>how did dinner end? Was there like a kiss? Was

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<v Speaker 1>there any romance? I'm not a kiss, but there was

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<v Speaker 1>some romance. We went for a walk afterwards, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we were holding hands from part of it. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a fun kind of very easy going

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<v Speaker 1>into the evening. So when you left, you had full

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<v Speaker 1>thought that you guys were going to hang out again. Oh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. And what did she say? Do? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what was her last words? Uh? I don't remember her

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<v Speaker 1>exact lass words, but she definitely was like, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this again, you know, like a weird way

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<v Speaker 1>to ask that. Though I don't know what her last

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<v Speaker 1>words for her fighting breath, you guys know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we left it on that tone of like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to do this again. Let's you know, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And so how long has it been since you last

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<v Speaker 1>spoke to her? Oh that's the last time I spoke

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<v Speaker 1>to her. And I texted her and I called once,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not going to call more than one time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But I've texted to so I covered both

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<v Speaker 1>the channels, you know, Okay, But I mean like, is

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<v Speaker 1>that a day ago? Is that a week ago? We

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<v Speaker 1>can ask yeah and nothing nothing, it's true. Or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that spider's family came back and finished the job, took

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<v Speaker 1>her we okay check. Maybe she just remembered me killing

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<v Speaker 1>it and was like, this guy's that kill I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like this day. Well, let's find out. We're gonna play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, we'll come back, we'll call Trinity for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll try and get your second day update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys. Okay, hold on, what good love story

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't start with a little murder, all of them. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how one of our listeners, Ryan met a woman named

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<v Speaker 1>Trinity by murdering a spider you're making it sound crawling

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<v Speaker 1>up the booth in the coffee shop where she was sitting.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why they call him the eight Legged Assassin.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened to the super super Guy? They also call

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<v Speaker 1>him Sneaker Boys during the day. At night? Is the

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<v Speaker 1>eight legged Assassin? I see, it's like I only have

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<v Speaker 1>two legs. The spider at a yeah, that's why he's

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<v Speaker 1>the assassin, and the chopped off his own six legs

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<v Speaker 1>in a rage. That's how they eight Legged Assassin rolls

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<v Speaker 1>in surprise he's not getting a callback. Ryan wants us

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<v Speaker 1>to call a woman named Trinity who he met at

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee shop. They had a nice day together, but

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<v Speaker 1>afterwards she's completely ghosted and it's been a little over

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<v Speaker 1>a week. So we're going to try and help him out. Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>how you feeling feeling good? Are you feeling because you

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<v Speaker 1>know your theory is that because you pregamed with the

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<v Speaker 1>whole meal before she arrived, that she felt like a

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<v Speaker 1>pig eating in front of you. Are you gonna come

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<v Speaker 1>clean and tell her the truth of what you did? Yeah? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's the issue, of course, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>say it though they legged assassin. I'll come out and

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<v Speaker 1>say it for you, all right, man. So I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we're ready to call Trinity. Are you feeling ready?

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<v Speaker 1>I am okay excited. Well, if we can get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the line, I'm hoping that we'll hear what she

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<v Speaker 1>has to say. All right, here we go. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell her number right now. Hello. Hey, is this Trinity? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it is hey, Trinity. My name's Jeff from the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hoping you have

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<v Speaker 1>a second to talk with us. Okay, Yeah, what is

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<v Speaker 1>about her? This is about a date that you went

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<v Speaker 1>on recently with a guy who's known by many names.

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<v Speaker 1>Some call him some call him Sneaker Boys, some call

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<v Speaker 1>him the Legged Assassin, but Layman's people would know him

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<v Speaker 1>as Ryan. How many people are on the phone right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I don't know. I can't count. Yeah, somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>between three and eight. There's four of us. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show, Okay, Okay. The reason why we're calling

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<v Speaker 1>is because Ryan told us that he went out with

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<v Speaker 1>you the other night and said he had a great time,

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<v Speaker 1>but afterwards, you haven't been responding to him, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit confused about why he called you guys

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<v Speaker 1>about this. Yeah, I mean he emailed us and then

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<v Speaker 1>we spoke to him about you guys hanging out, and

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<v Speaker 1>from our end, it sounded really nice. Is that okay

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<v Speaker 1>that he did. I mean, he's just really excited about you,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said that you hadn't gotten back to him

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<v Speaker 1>in like over a week. Yeah, okay, So he just

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<v Speaker 1>wants a little bit of clarity about why you ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden. Oh this is like a little awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just weird to talk about. We went on one.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't even I don't know if I would call

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<v Speaker 1>it even like a date. Oh why wouldn't you call

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<v Speaker 1>it a date? You went to dinner and you held hands. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think he should be talking to you guys

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<v Speaker 1>about that, Like this was a casual thing between two people.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of weird. Are you in a relationship or something?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm engaged? Oh okay, well that's it. Okay, are you

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<v Speaker 1>happily engaged? Because it is kind of a weird thing

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<v Speaker 1>to say yes to dinner with. I mean, I understand

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying your intentions were pretty innocent, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to buy him a cup of coffee. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>this like huge dinner plan. And then he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'll take your number, So I was like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't think that much of it. And then

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<v Speaker 1>like he would like want to grab a bite to eat,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like sure, and then like you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>became like a sit down dinner. Like I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know We're gonna like sit anywhere. So it wasn't that formal.

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<v Speaker 1>But how did your feel how did your fiance not

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<v Speaker 1>come up during conversation. I've had a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a rough time. We've had a rough time. Um, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been engaged for a little over a year now, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's just been like an awkward time, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>did not want my ring that night. Okay, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>get this, Like sometimes you just you want to be

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<v Speaker 1>friends with guys and then they always take it too far,

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<v Speaker 1>interpreted it wrong. Maybe, yeah, yeah, maybe. I mean even

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<v Speaker 1>if that is the case, Trinity, why didn't you just

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<v Speaker 1>tell Ryan that, like you didn't have to ghost him? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I can understand too. How you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of didn't know that it was happening that way.

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<v Speaker 1>She was thinking it was just a friendship. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I never it wasn't like a date,

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<v Speaker 1>like we didn't kiss, It wasn't like romantic. That's true. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And traumatic experiences do bring people together. And this might

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<v Speaker 1>also be kind of a traumatic experience, because Ryan, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to let you know, Trinity has been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening this whole time and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah, I'm afraid so,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan you there, Yeah, I'm here, Ryan. What are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling like really disappointed because that was like the

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<v Speaker 1>best date I've been on in a really long time.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was a date. I mean, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>dinner date. I mean, yeah, not stranger friends, not with

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<v Speaker 1>the world. You want to be able to do that

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<v Speaker 1>with dinner with friends that you know totally. And I mean, like, Trinity,

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<v Speaker 1>did you tell your fiance that you were going out

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<v Speaker 1>with Ryan? Not before? Hi? Ryan, not beforehand, but after

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we had just I'm not going to say date,

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<v Speaker 1>after we had this dinner. I did talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>with my fiance. Yes, Oh what did he have to say? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What're you happy about that? Not? This was a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a rough patch. We're okay, it's a little awkward

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Like its just you know, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>bad timing. We've been fighting about how you know, long

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<v Speaker 1>we've been engaged, and yeah, so maybe there's I was

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<v Speaker 1>feeling some things in the back of my mind, like

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted someone to talk to and you know, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you were there. So I apologize for giving you mixed messages.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you just like testing it, like let me see

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<v Speaker 1>what it feels like to be out with another guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you realize you didn't like it? And went

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<v Speaker 1>right back to your engagement. No, I mean I did

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<v Speaker 1>not enjoy it. Yeah, I enjoyed it at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just had a guilty conscience after. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed it. So if you were engaged, do you

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Ryan again? Yeah? What are you trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do? What you doing? I don't know, Like you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going through a rough patch. You've got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of thinking to do right now and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>reevaluating where you're at with your relationship. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that has anything to do with Ryan. Yeah, that's your

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<v Speaker 1>own thing. Yeah, I agree. I mean Trinity is your fiance,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that you live with currently. No, we don't live together.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh okay, where does he live? We don't live

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<v Speaker 1>in the same city. We're doing a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a long distance right now. That makes way more sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Why this all happens. When are you guys moving to

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<v Speaker 1>be with each other? Um, it's a good question. So

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<v Speaker 1>I feel to delete your phone number any time soon. Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a tough situation where it's like you feel

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<v Speaker 1>the connection between these two, but you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>break up an engagement. Absolutely, they're both okay with it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the fiance doesn't have to know what show Alexa.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we can't really send you guys out on

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<v Speaker 1>a romantic date, not officially, but we could send you

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<v Speaker 1>out saying yeah, I don't think I'm feeling that well,

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<v Speaker 1>what about this ron? What? What if? Would it be okay?

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<v Speaker 1>If Trinity calls you, if she needs somebody to talk to.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say that was okay, but I would say

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<v Speaker 1>if we saw each other in the coffee shop, it

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<v Speaker 1>would be nice. If she said hello, I'd like, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>If there's a spider inside her apartment, is it okay?

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<v Speaker 1>If she calls you, if it's a poisonous spider, I

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<v Speaker 1>will help her. Yes, there, we all right. I'll bring

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<v Speaker 1>the shoe sho Okay, look at you with your good boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just this one because this literally first date I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on that wasn't on an app in forever, rarely

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<v Speaker 1>that happened. After this, we're just gonna be killing in

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<v Speaker 1>sex everywhere. He goes, hoping to snag a diner broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning,