1 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:08,399 Speaker 1: Second d of date. Some heroes don't wear cakes? What 2 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: do they wear? Some heroes wear size eleven new balanced sneakers. 3 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: Oh dad, superhero and nothing else. Not a good look. Well, 4 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: apparently one of our listeners, Ryan, met a woman the 5 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 1: other day thanks to his quick thinking shoe heroics. So, Ryan, 6 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: is it cool if we call you sneaker boy? Sure? Okay, 7 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: all right? So wait? Are you the naked one in 8 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: the story or is she? Or maybe you're both naked. 9 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if it was a good date. I 10 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 1: think I just made up the naked stuffing. But apparently 11 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 1: shoes come into how they met each other. What's the 12 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 1: name of the girl that you want us to call? 13 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 1: Her name is Trinity? Trinity sounds like a superhero name, 14 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: boy that you use? Right? How did shoes bring you 15 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: guys together? I use my shoe to kill a spider? 16 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:07,839 Speaker 1: You are there? We go? So how did that happen? 17 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: Set the scene for us? Where were you in a 18 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: coffee shot? Okay, okay, okay. I was working on my laptop, 19 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: just working on a project for work, and there's a booth, 20 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: you know, run across from me, and I saw this 21 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,839 Speaker 1: spider crawling up towards this woman, like up the side 22 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: of the booth, get ready to go into it, and 23 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: it was like a big one. It's a juicy one, 24 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: and you scream, not today, evil do her? I approached 25 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 1: silent but deadley. I did, Hey, and you got a 26 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: cute girls attention on top of it. Yeah. I didn't 27 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: know that's what was happening at the time until yeah, 28 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: and then I realized that, Yeah, she's an attractive woman 29 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:49,919 Speaker 1: who I just saved, take a life, get a number. 30 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: So how did you end up turning that into a date? 31 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: We talked when she thanked me for what I did, 32 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: and then I sat back down. Then she came over 33 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: and asked me if she could buy me a coffee. 34 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: But I had coffee. I was sitting there working, right, 35 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: So so I said, well, how about you know, some 36 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: time in the future. Okay, check like you because she 37 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: gave me her number. Yeah, okay, pretty smooth. That's sweet. 38 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: So where did you guys end up going together? We 39 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: went out to my favorite tie place. Oh you guys dinner? Yeah. Yeah, 40 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: we didn't do coffee, that was just the end, you know, 41 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, so we went out for dinner. That's awesome 42 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: and It's always key to take someone to like your 43 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: favorite place. Yeah, if you know the food's good, you 44 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: know the service is good, exactly. No, the atmosphere it's fun, 45 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 1: it's it's a nice place, but it's you know, yeah, 46 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: a good place to talk. Um. Yeah, and it was. 47 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 1: It was really good. So why is the only thing 48 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 1: I can think of is that I love this place 49 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: so much. And I'm a pretty big guy, and I 50 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: eat a lot of food, and you know, tie food, 51 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 1: I mean chop sticks. Sometimes it can be a little 52 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: or you're eating soup like tom yam or something you know, 53 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: can splash back and you can kind of make a 54 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: little bit of a mess of yourself, even if you're 55 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: you know, being you know. Yeah, I wanted to eat 56 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: so I could like have a full meal before she came, 57 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: so I would be like pre gamed and then order 58 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: something light with her and just sort of pick at 59 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 1: it while we talked. Actually get that strategy. You ate 60 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: your entire meal before she even got there. I ate 61 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 1: an entire meal the first course. I can put back 62 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: a lot of Thai food. Yeah, me too, right, I 63 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: like that soup like that a rice dish noodle dis 64 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: But like with her I just had that, you know, 65 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: put by a salad, so I was just like eating 66 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: something light. But when she arrived, was your table all 67 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: cleaned off? Yeah? Yeah, I had asked the guys to 68 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: reset it. I didn't want it to be weird. I 69 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: came from work, you know, so I was like hungry. 70 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: It might be kind of awkward for her, though, if 71 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: she's eating this big thie meal and you're not eating anything, 72 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: You're just watching her eat the entire time. Yeah, I 73 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: could make her feel like she's being a glutton. So yeah, 74 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: I mean maybe that's it. That's I think I could 75 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: think of. It might have been weird, she mentioned she 76 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: she was like, why you really don't eat much? To you? 77 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: You know, You're like, it seemed weird that a guy 78 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: in my size wasn't eating anything but like a green 79 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: Papi salad. And how did you respond to that? Would 80 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: you say? When she said that, I'll just say that's 81 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: how I roll, you know, That's just how I felt 82 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 1: like you, fatty, that might be a deal breaker for 83 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: me because I feel like I eat a lot. I 84 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: suppised with a guy who wasn't eating I don't think, 85 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: looking back, I should just have an appetizer and then 86 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: I eat like a to start with. So yeah, so 87 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: how did dinner end? Was there like a kiss? Was 88 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: there any romance? I'm not a kiss, but there was 89 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: some romance. We went for a walk afterwards, and you know, 90 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 1: we were holding hands from part of it. You know, 91 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 1: it was like a fun kind of very easy going 92 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 1: into the evening. So when you left, you had full 93 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 1: thought that you guys were going to hang out again. Oh? Yeah, 94 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: for sure. And what did she say? Do? I mean, 95 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: what was her last words? Uh? I don't remember her 96 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: exact lass words, but she definitely was like, yeah, okay, 97 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: let's do this again, you know, like a weird way 98 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,799 Speaker 1: to ask that. Though I don't know what her last 99 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: words for her fighting breath, you guys know what I mean. 100 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: I mean, we left it on that tone of like, 101 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: we're going to do this again. Let's you know, okay? 102 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: And so how long has it been since you last 103 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 1: spoke to her? Oh that's the last time I spoke 104 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: to her. And I texted her and I called once, 105 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: but I'm not going to call more than one time, 106 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 1: you know. But I've texted to so I covered both 107 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: the channels, you know, Okay, But I mean like, is 108 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: that a day ago? Is that a week ago? We 109 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: can ask yeah and nothing nothing, it's true. Or maybe 110 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: that spider's family came back and finished the job, took 111 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: her we okay check. Maybe she just remembered me killing 112 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: it and was like, this guy's that kill I don't 113 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: like this day. Well, let's find out. We're gonna play 114 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 1: a song, we'll come back, we'll call Trinity for you, 115 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: and we'll try and get your second day update. All right, 116 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: thank you guys. Okay, hold on, what good love story 117 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: doesn't start with a little murder, all of them. That's 118 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: how one of our listeners, Ryan met a woman named 119 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 1: Trinity by murdering a spider you're making it sound crawling 120 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 1: up the booth in the coffee shop where she was sitting. 121 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: And that's why they call him the eight Legged Assassin. 122 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: What happened to the super super Guy? They also call 123 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: him Sneaker Boys during the day. At night? Is the 124 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 1: eight legged Assassin? I see, it's like I only have 125 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: two legs. The spider at a yeah, that's why he's 126 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: the assassin, and the chopped off his own six legs 127 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 1: in a rage. That's how they eight Legged Assassin rolls 128 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: in surprise he's not getting a callback. Ryan wants us 129 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: to call a woman named Trinity who he met at 130 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 1: a coffee shop. They had a nice day together, but 131 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: afterwards she's completely ghosted and it's been a little over 132 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: a week. So we're going to try and help him out. Ryan, 133 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: how you feeling feeling good? Are you feeling because you 134 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: know your theory is that because you pregamed with the 135 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: whole meal before she arrived, that she felt like a 136 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: pig eating in front of you. Are you gonna come 137 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: clean and tell her the truth of what you did? Yeah? Well, 138 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: if that's the issue, of course, I'm not going to 139 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 1: say it though they legged assassin. I'll come out and 140 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: say it for you, all right, man. So I feel 141 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: like we're ready to call Trinity. Are you feeling ready? 142 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: I am okay excited. Well, if we can get her 143 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: on the line, I'm hoping that we'll hear what she 144 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: has to say. All right, here we go. I'm gonna 145 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: tell her number right now. Hello. Hey, is this Trinity? Yes, 146 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: it is hey, Trinity. My name's Jeff from the radio 147 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hoping you have 148 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: a second to talk with us. Okay, Yeah, what is 149 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: about her? This is about a date that you went 150 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: on recently with a guy who's known by many names. 151 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: Some call him some call him Sneaker Boys, some call 152 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: him the Legged Assassin, but Layman's people would know him 153 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: as Ryan. How many people are on the phone right now, 154 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't know. I can't count. Yeah, somewhere 155 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: between three and eight. There's four of us. Okay, it's 156 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 1: a radio show, Okay, Okay. The reason why we're calling 157 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: is because Ryan told us that he went out with 158 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 1: you the other night and said he had a great time, 159 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 1: but afterwards, you haven't been responding to him, and he's 160 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: a little bit confused about why he called you guys 161 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: about this. Yeah, I mean he emailed us and then 162 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: we spoke to him about you guys hanging out, and 163 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 1: from our end, it sounded really nice. Is that okay 164 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: that he did. I mean, he's just really excited about you, 165 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: and he said that you hadn't gotten back to him 166 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: in like over a week. Yeah, okay, So he just 167 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 1: wants a little bit of clarity about why you ghosted 168 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: all of a sudden. Oh this is like a little awkward. 169 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: It's just weird to talk about. We went on one. 170 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: It wasn't even I don't know if I would call 171 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: it even like a date. Oh why wouldn't you call 172 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: it a date? You went to dinner and you held hands. Honestly, 173 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: I don't think he should be talking to you guys 174 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: about that, Like this was a casual thing between two people. 175 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: I'm kind of weird. Are you in a relationship or something? 176 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 1: I'm engaged? Oh okay, well that's it. Okay, are you 177 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: happily engaged? Because it is kind of a weird thing 178 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,479 Speaker 1: to say yes to dinner with. I mean, I understand 179 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: you're saying your intentions were pretty innocent, but I just 180 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: wanted to buy him a cup of coffee. It wasn't 181 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: this like huge dinner plan. And then he was like, 182 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: you know, I'll take your number, So I was like okay, 183 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: and I didn't think that much of it. And then 184 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: like he would like want to grab a bite to eat, 185 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: and I'm like sure, and then like you know, it 186 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: became like a sit down dinner. Like I didn't even 187 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: know We're gonna like sit anywhere. So it wasn't that formal. 188 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: But how did your feel how did your fiance not 189 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: come up during conversation. I've had a little bit of 190 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 1: a rough time. We've had a rough time. Um, we've 191 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: been engaged for a little over a year now, so 192 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:26,319 Speaker 1: it's just been like an awkward time, and so I 193 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: did not want my ring that night. Okay, No, I 194 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: get this, Like sometimes you just you want to be 195 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: friends with guys and then they always take it too far, 196 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: interpreted it wrong. Maybe, yeah, yeah, maybe. I mean even 197 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 1: if that is the case, Trinity, why didn't you just 198 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: tell Ryan that, like you didn't have to ghost him? Well, 199 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 1: I mean I can understand too. How you know, she 200 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: kind of didn't know that it was happening that way. 201 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: She was thinking it was just a friendship. Yeah. Yeah, 202 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 1: And you know, I never it wasn't like a date, 203 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: like we didn't kiss, It wasn't like romantic. That's true. Yeah, 204 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: And traumatic experiences do bring people together. And this might 205 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 1: also be kind of a traumatic experience, because Ryan, I 206 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: need to let you know, Trinity has been on the 207 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 1: other line listening this whole time and he wants to 208 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 1: talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah, I'm afraid so, 209 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: Ryan you there, Yeah, I'm here, Ryan. What are you feeling? 210 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: I'm feeling like really disappointed because that was like the 211 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: best date I've been on in a really long time. 212 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: But it was a date. I mean, it was a 213 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: dinner date. I mean, yeah, not stranger friends, not with 214 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 1: the world. You want to be able to do that 215 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 1: with dinner with friends that you know totally. And I mean, like, Trinity, 216 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 1: did you tell your fiance that you were going out 217 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: with Ryan? Not before? Hi? Ryan, not beforehand, but after 218 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: you know, we had just I'm not going to say date, 219 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: after we had this dinner. I did talk about it 220 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: with my fiance. Yes, Oh what did he have to say? Yeah? 221 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: What're you happy about that? Not? This was a bit 222 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: of a rough patch. We're okay, it's a little awkward 223 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: right now, Like its just you know, it was a 224 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,959 Speaker 1: bad timing. We've been fighting about how you know, long 225 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 1: we've been engaged, and yeah, so maybe there's I was 226 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: feeling some things in the back of my mind, like 227 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: I just wanted someone to talk to and you know, Ryan, 228 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: you were there. So I apologize for giving you mixed messages. 229 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 1: Were you just like testing it, like let me see 230 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: what it feels like to be out with another guy, 231 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 1: and then you realize you didn't like it? And went 232 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: right back to your engagement. No, I mean I did 233 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: not enjoy it. Yeah, I enjoyed it at the time, 234 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: and I just had a guilty conscience after. But yeah, 235 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. So if you were engaged, do you 236 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: go out with Ryan again? Yeah? What are you trying 237 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: to do? What you doing? I don't know, Like you're not. 238 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 1: You're going through a rough patch. You've got a lot 239 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,839 Speaker 1: of thinking to do right now and a lot of 240 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 1: reevaluating where you're at with your relationship. I don't think 241 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: that has anything to do with Ryan. Yeah, that's your 242 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,439 Speaker 1: own thing. Yeah, I agree. I mean Trinity is your fiance, 243 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: somebody that you live with currently. No, we don't live together. 244 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: Oh oh okay, where does he live? We don't live 245 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: in the same city. We're doing a little bit of 246 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: a long distance right now. That makes way more sense. 247 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: Why this all happens. When are you guys moving to 248 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: be with each other? Um, it's a good question. So 249 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 1: I feel to delete your phone number any time soon. Ryan. 250 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: This is a tough situation where it's like you feel 251 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 1: the connection between these two, but you don't want to 252 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:52,079 Speaker 1: break up an engagement. Absolutely, they're both okay with it. 253 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 1: You know, the fiance doesn't have to know what show Alexa. 254 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: I mean, we can't really send you guys out on 255 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:06,560 Speaker 1: a romantic date, not officially, but we could send you 256 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: out saying yeah, I don't think I'm feeling that well, 257 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 1: what about this ron? What? What if? Would it be okay? 258 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 1: If Trinity calls you, if she needs somebody to talk to. 259 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that was okay, but I would say 260 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: if we saw each other in the coffee shop, it 261 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: would be nice. If she said hello, I'd like, okay, okay. 262 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: If there's a spider inside her apartment, is it okay? 263 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 1: If she calls you, if it's a poisonous spider, I 264 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: will help her. Yes, there, we all right. I'll bring 265 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: the shoe sho Okay, look at you with your good boundaries. 266 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: It's just this one because this literally first date I've 267 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: been on that wasn't on an app in forever, rarely 268 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 1: that happened. After this, we're just gonna be killing in 269 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 1: sex everywhere. He goes, hoping to snag a diner broken 270 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning,