WEBVTT - The Bumble Rumble 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:05.359 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:10.039 Hi Catherine, Hi, how you doing. 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:10.840 I'm good, Harry. 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:12.720 Let me tell you what. I'm ready for school to start. 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:15.920 You're I've never heard you say that ever, Like. 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:18.479 Well, I think it's because I'm doing the movie and 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:23.160 there's just we're we're filming Saturday Sundays, and so it's 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:25.400 I don't Everyone's like, oh, we can't. So we have 0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:27.400 Monday Tuesdays off. Everyone's like, oh, I can't wait for 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:29.520 our weekend. I'm like, I don't get a weekend. Yeah, 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:32.640 you know, you got the kids. I got you know, 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:36.239 we got a podcast. I gotta do content stuff. So 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:39.680 it's been it's been a little bit harder. As lovely 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:42.960 as it is to come home to my bed at night, it's, 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:44.800 you know, things don't stop here, right. 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:46.920 It always seems I could be easier to not be here, 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:51.960 uh huh, yeah, because then itoni. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:53.840 For the riding, because there's just so much responsibility here 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:55.400 in the house. It's like, you know, you gotta got 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:58.360 to handle all the things, right, and it's it doesn't 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:02.280 that doesn't stop. Yeah, you know. So it's it's been, 0:01:02.360 --> 0:01:03.920 you know, and then Alan's in that town. So it's 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:06.000 just it's a lot. It's been a lot, and then 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:09.280 it's you know, on weekends, it's it's it's hard to. 0:01:09.440 --> 0:01:11.000 Find help too. Right. 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:11.679 Oh yeah, that's so. 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:13.759 I had he was gone and I had like three 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:16.880 different people come over like our you're from this time 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:18.720 of this time and this hand of and I'm just like, 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:21.199 I don't want to be dealing with this while I'm like, yeah, 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:23.800 working too, And that's just again it's the load that 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:27.080 we carry, which is right, It's all good again. I 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:30.600 love being able to come home to my bed and 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:32.080 I look forward to my next. 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:32.600 On set location. 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:35.160 Right, Remind me this when I'm crying about missing the 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:38.119 kids on location, it's like that that push and pull, 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:40.880 you know, it's like you, I'm so much better when 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:43.440 the kids are there with me, but I don't have 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:44.959 the responsibility of everything here. 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:45.840 Right. 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:50.559 Well, And it's I think important to note you got 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:53.440 you really have never had to go like into an 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:57.840 office or I mean, which going on set is probably 0:01:57.920 --> 0:01:59.560 longer because it's like a. 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:00.240 Twelve hour day. 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:02.360 I mean, some people surely go into an office for 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:03.800 twelve hours. I won't say that they don't. 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:05.880 It's technically at like a fourteen hour day because we 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:08.160 have two hours of hair and makeup. 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:10.400 Before, right, Okay, so that's to not because I know 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.720 a lot of people go into an office every day, 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:14.480 have to come home and deal with the kids and 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:17.600 do all of that. But generally it's more like an 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.200 eight to five type situation and you're doing like a 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:21.360 fourteen hour day. 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:26.680 That's tough, like yeah, and you know, yeah, yeah, I. 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:28.680 Mean again, I'm sure some people do go into an 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:29.920 office for fourteen hours. 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:33.959 Sure, and that's hard, but that's just that's a lot. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:34.919 It is. 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:38.760 And then on the weekends now are our Monday Tuesdays, 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:41.320 and so it's it's tough. And then you know at 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:45.600 with Alan also gone, it's it's challenging. Yeah, yeah, for sure. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:49.200 But yay the movie so is going. Really, I'm enjoying 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:50.040 the movie so much. 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:50.720 Good. 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.160 We do have a heat and dex of like one 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:54.080 hundred and ten. 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:55.280 That's gonna be my next question. 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:58.160 And we were filming outside the other day. I remember 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:01.280 I looked at Ben and I was just like, it 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:03.040 feels like we're in my sauna. 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:07.400 Yeah. I think that there's like an actual like warning today. 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:10.520 Today, tomorrow, tomorrow, Wednesday. Yeah, yeah, and we're outside on Wednesday, 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:11.959 yeah until Yeah. 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:15.120 Do they like live by like a rule if it 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:16.680 gets too hot you can't. 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:19.400 They've moved a couple scenes inside, but I mean the 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:22.359 scene we have on Wednesday, you can't really move inside. 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:25.120 But what they have done is we Ben and I 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:28.079 have a cooling car, so like the second day, yell cut, 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:29.480 we're like like. 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:30.320 Racing into this car. 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:34.200 Yeah, and then we have I will say too, like 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:37.960 before you know, the sticks come out, which is the 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:42.040 thing that you know, starts the all the things. I 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.640 won't put my jacket on until then. Yeah, Like well, 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:46.800 I mean, I'm not putting on until we go. 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:52.400 But how do they keep y'all from sweat like showing sweat? Well, 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:54.680 because especially with the humidity, there's not much you can 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:55.440 do about all the time. 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:57.560 Reason the weird thing is I don't really sweat that 0:03:57.560 --> 0:04:01.080 that's good. And that's what I did the other night though, 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:03.200 oh my goodness, I did. And then it was one 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.160 of those scenes where I had this moment, you know 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:08.920 how like when you're I don't know if you felt 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:13.040 this way maybe, but when I I self deprecate myself 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:16.720 so much sometimes where I'm sitting in the scene, and 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:19.320 it's one thousand degrees because you can't have the AC 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:23.760 on inside because the sound so the acs shut off 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:26.840 were inside. It's so hot outside, so imagine what it's 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:29.320 like inside this hot box, right yeah, and then you 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:31.560 got the lights on you and the cameras right in 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:33.680 your face, and it's supposed to be this emotional scene, 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:35.640 and all I could think about was like, I'm going 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:39.880 to pass out, like I am hot, and then and 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:41.600 then it's like, you know, I got a cute I 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:44.440 gotta whip up some emotion here, like real quick, you know. 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:46.240 But it was one of those moments. 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:48.599 It was like eleven forty five at night, and I 0:04:48.640 --> 0:04:52.480 was like, I don't have any emotion. I can cry 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:54.560 with the best of them, and I am blank, I 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:55.719 have no emotion. 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:57.760 Is that what you're asking if I feel like that 0:04:57.760 --> 0:04:58.200 at times? 0:04:58.279 --> 0:04:59.920 Well no, but what I do is so what I started, 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:01.040 I was like, I suck. 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:03.440 I am the tech character as ever. 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:05.040 I was like Ben is and he was Ben was 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:06.479 looking man like he probably thinks I suck right now. 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:08.400 He's like, oh my goodness, this girl is like the 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:11.000 worst ever and so and then they're like action and 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:11.760 I was like I got an O. 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:15.760 Then I got Evan. You're gonna to give me a 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:17.560 second and a fan stat. 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.000 If you want a motion, give me a fan But 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:22.599 I mean I did get there. I mean I guess 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:25.240 everybody kind of. I mean I've never had that kind 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:27.719 of situation, right, You're so good at what you do. No, 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:30.480 because I've never done that. But but yes, like if 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:32.280 I have to speak, and like when I used to 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:33.760 be in an office and I'd have to speak in 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:37.400 like a conference room with people, oh yeah, oh yeah, hey, 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.240 I hated it would be oh yeah, you just like 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:39.880 attack yourself. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.000 You're terrible to stop talking? 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:41.960 Why are you still talking? 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:46.159 That is my inner monologue in the scene we're at dinner. 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:47.599 That was what I was thinking. I was like, you 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:48.400 suck creamer. 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:50.640 The problem is. 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:55.200 Heard again, this is your last movie so much for like. 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:57.880 Right sucks. 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:02.400 The problem is I cry. Then I like get like mad, 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:03.480 and then I cry. 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.400 Yeah, and then mind you, I did, like I did 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:09.040 get there. I did start like massively crying, and then 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:11.280 of course when it's on his scene, I'm like weeping. 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:12.960 Like I'm there. 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:16.960 I How has it been with your co stars? 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:21.720 I just love them. Kelsey Grammar was fantastic. He's so sweet. 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:25.960 Ben is just a joy, Like he's so great. And 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:31.200 what's really cool is like last night we him, his wife, 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:34.360 and Alan and I went out to dinner and it's 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:37.840 just it's like we've been old friends. It almost feels 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:40.560 like he was a friend from high school. That's that's 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:44.680 how like it feels. And then she's awesome, and yeah, 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:46.720 we just had a really nice dinner last night. And 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:50.919 he's so good that it's been really great to do 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:53.240 scenes with. And obviously Karen's a dream. Everyone is a 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:56.840 dream on set. It's really fun. Good. Yeah, I love that, 0:06:56.960 --> 0:07:01.400 really enjoying it. I just need school to I was like, 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:02.119 school to start. 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:04.680 I haven't gotmen there too. I'm ready. 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:06.279 Yeah, it's it's time. 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:10.760 It's just hot, like you know, I do cover start. 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:13.320 Yeah, sure, I know. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:15.160 I was fighting with my daughter earlier today and I 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:16.040 was like, it's time to. 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:16.600 Go to school. 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:18.400 Yeah. 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:23.120 So I did tell you this, and I'll i'll explain 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:25.480 it to you on the podcast. But I had this 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:29.120 moment the other day with Jolie. Remember when I told 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:31.360 you in my car? Yeah, and so I just want 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.760 to talk about that because let's talk about it. I 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:38.080 guess it's my I wouldn't say it's my wine about it, 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:41.440 but it was Jollie. On top of all of this, 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:43.960 my kids have been sick, so I've been, you know, 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:46.040 taking care of them. The night before we filmed one 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:49.120 of the days, Jace came in at one, two, three, 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:51.560 Joy came in at four, and I was like, but 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:53.320 of course, you know, you've got to mother them, and 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:55.840 you know, I that was another reason why I was 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:59.040 like so tired that day. I'm seah, but uh so 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:02.880 they've been kind of sick. And so when I on Sunday, 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:04.480 I went up there and I'm like, okay. I was like, 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:06.440 I knocked on the door because really was watching TV 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:10.680 and I said I knocked and she's like yeah, I go, 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:12.880 oh hello. I was like, are you Jolie. I was like, 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:17.400 I'm I'm doctor mom. Uh and she's like mom and 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:19.119 I said, oh, that's so sweet. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:19.880 I'm not your mom. 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:21.280 And I was like, but that's so sweet that you 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.440 think that. I was like, so, what are your symptoms? 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.400 And she's like, you know my symptoms and I'm like no, 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.520 but I don't know your symptoms, Like what are you feeling? 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.520 I'm like, I've got to rolla dex of supplements like 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:35.200 gets like a little turned thing, and she goes, you're 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:38.960 so annoying. But the way she said it, yeah, like 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:43.760 really it hurts. And I turned around and go, oh, 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:45.840 oh okay. 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:46.560 Yeah it's fine. 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:48.120 Yeah, here's your remote tren. 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:51.520 And she kind of like looked at me like I'm sorry. 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:53.559 I was like, no, no, no, it's fine, Like it's fine. 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:55.840 Oh good, And I came downstairs and I started crying 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:57.320 and I was like, what's wrong. I was like, I'm 0:08:57.320 --> 0:09:00.800 officially the annoying mom and it sucks. 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:01.480 It sucks. 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:04.240 I want to play make believe doctor and patient. 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:06.000 They don't want to do that anymore. 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:08.840 Like she's in fourth grade, and Pam and you guys 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:11.280 were all saying fourth grade is when it when it starts. 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:15.800 Yeah, Like it's not. They're not like little kids anymore. 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:18.280 Yeah. I feel like Ramsey's already kind of been a 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:20.280 little bit. I said something to her yesterday. I tried 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:21.760 to say a word that, you know, like one of 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:24.200 the cool words, and she just like looked at me 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:26.640 and just stared and I was like not cool. 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.600 And she's like I was like, okay, got it. 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:32.640 So I mean it's tough, but I mean. 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:35.840 Any tips because you have the older kids, so I do. 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:39.000 I feel almost kind of removed from it in an 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:40.960 odd way. And I think just because Ramsey has an 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:44.960 older sister, we haven't really had that like make believe, 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:48.520 like play like we don't really do that as much anymore. 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.040 Yeah, so I feel a little removed from it. 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:54.400 But I mean it's just the first time, and then 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:56.600 you'll learn that it's like funny, you know what I mean, 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.160 Like when they're like, Mom, that's so annoying. 0:09:58.160 --> 0:09:59.720 You're like, I know, I'm so annoying, Like you just 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:00.880 up going with it. 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:02.120 It wasn't it so annoying? 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:03.640 You're so annoying? 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:04.840 That's what I think. 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:07.400 Hurt Yeah, yeah, And I don't know if anyone, I 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:08.440 don't know if they've said that to me. 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:09.560 It's the eye roll for me. 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:12.760 Yeah, it's and at first it's like funny and at 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:15.480 first it's like, oh, it's like hurt full at times, 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:18.840 but then it's like I'm roll your eyes one more time, 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:19.880 and oh it makes me. 0:10:19.840 --> 0:10:21.880 So mad, yeah, because I'm like, do not roll your 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:22.320 eyes at me. 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:24.040 I wonder how if. 0:10:23.880 --> 0:10:27.920 My response was wrong though what I did was, and 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:30.800 maybe I shouldn't have done this, so how I don't 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:32.520 help me out and maybe I'll bring it to Amy, 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:34.560 but I don't know. The next day, I said, hey, 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:36.480 you know what, baby girl, I said, it did actually 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:38.880 hurt mommy's feeling when you called me annoying. I said, 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:40.200 I was just really just trying to have fun with 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:42.560 your baby girl. And she's like, I know, I'm sorry, mom, 0:10:42.559 --> 0:10:43.960 but I also don't want her to feel like she 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:48.360 has to like watch my emotions. Yeah, but I don't 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.880 want to be like a reaction like what you said 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:53.160 actually did hurt mommy. So I'm like, I don't know. 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:54.320 But then I'm like, well, I don't want her to 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:56.720 feel so I And then I was like, oh, maybe 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:57.640 I shouldn't have said that. 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:58.400 That's I don't want her to. 0:10:58.400 --> 0:10:59.760 Be like I don't want her to people please me 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:01.760 or make me happy because it's not about making me happy. 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:05.679 But maybe it was just instead of saying And then 0:11:05.760 --> 0:11:07.520 I'm like, if you don't like that, say you know, 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:10.360 I don't want to play make right, make believe, and okay, 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:11.200 I can respect that. 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:14.040 Yeah, I would like to know what people think about this. 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:17.120 I again, right or wrong, I don't know. I'm a 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:19.400 big proponent. And again, I was just arguing with my 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:22.400 daughter earlier, and I am a big proponent of saying, hey, 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:23.040 that hurt me. 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:25.120 Okay, I do that now. 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:28.640 That might be wrong, and maybe that is, but I 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:31.360 like for them to know, like, I'm not mad at you, 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:34.480 I love you, but that hurt my feelings or it 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:36.640 hurts me when I ask you to do X, Y 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:40.440 and Z, but you don't respect my wishes and you 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:41.600 don't do what I've asked. 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:43.520 I like to say that that's hurtful. 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:47.240 So I agree, But my devil's advocate is that then 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.720 are they going to make people pleasing because they're going 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:52.080 to be so worried about hurting our feelings? 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:56.400 Yeah, and maybe yeah, maybe take it to the DM. 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:59.920 But at the same time, you know, I would say 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:01.920 that the one that that comes up the most with 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:06.760 for me is Emmy, and she does worry about people's 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:08.800 feelings a lot, and she is but she I wouldn't 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:11.240 call her a people pleaser if her feelings are hurt. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:13.920 She's not afraid to tell people that her feelings are hurt. 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:16.319 So but that might just be her personality, right, I 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:18.679 don't know. That's hard to I would love to hear 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:20.200 that too, because again, at the end of the day, 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:22.679 we're just doing what feels right in the moment for us. 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:23.920 And I don't know for sure. 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:26.880 Maybe it's good for them to then for them to 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:29.920 turn it on a situation like Emmy and going to 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:32.559 either a friend or to me, maybe because because maybe 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:35.400 you know, I've laughed at jokes that ended up not 0:12:35.480 --> 0:12:36.959 being funny to the kids, and so for her to 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:38.640 be like, hey, mom, that hurt my feelings, I would 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:40.480 want her to invite that exactly to me. 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:42.920 Yeah, absolutely, And that's kind of I think my thought 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:46.920 process behind it same is not just I'm mad at you, 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:48.560 you know, or you're in trouble. 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:50.920 It's just like it actually hurts me when you. 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:53.640 Do that, Like it actually like and I just again 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:55.960 I had told her earlier, like I don't want to 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:58.080 get you in trouble. I don't want to punish you. 0:12:58.160 --> 0:13:00.440 I want you to go and have fun and all 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:03.200 the things, but there has to be repercussions when you 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:06.280 don't do what I've asked, and that actually hurts me, 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:07.120 It makes me sad. 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:08.439 I tell her that all the time. 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:09.200 Yeah. 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:11.600 So again, I don't know, Amy may tell you otherwise 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:13.120 they were doing it all wrong, and I need to 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:13.559 start over. 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:14.880 I'm I tell you, it's gonna tell me I'm doing 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:16.160 it wrong our comment box. 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:18.680 Yeah, well, I can't really start over at this point, 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:21.239 and so it is what it is, and I can recorrect. 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:22.920 I can write, yeah, that's true. 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:26.240 But that's about it. Do we have a whine about it? Oh? 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:31.240 Man, I not really know. I'm just kind of the 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:33.200 same what we were talking about. I'm ready for school 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:35.839 to start. I will say, Oh, this isn't even really 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:37.920 a whine, but it's kind of sad, like, you know, 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:41.400 we just got all our teachers last night, and literally, 0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:46.000 somehow every single one of Ramsey's friends are all in 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.640 the same class. I don't even know how, Like I've 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:49.920 never had this happen before. 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:50.360 Wow. 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:53.600 And she's got not one person that she knows. And 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:56.120 it's just been a struggle because she's like, man, fourth 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:57.920 grade's going to be so bad, and I'm like, no, 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:00.480 you're going to make new friends and she's like, man, 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.120 really like one, Like we couldn't have one kid, you know. 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:05.200 So that's been a little bit of what we've been 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:08.240 dealing with the last couple of days. But yeah, I 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:10.800 mean really It's just, you know, all the back to 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:13.679 school stuff just makes me like, what about you? 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:14.600 You gotta wine about it? 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:15.360 I really don't. 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:17.720 Besides you're annoying. 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:35.280 Yeah, I saw a headline Jessica Simpson peede her pants 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:36.400 live on the Today Show. 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:37.560 I saw that, so. 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:41.320 She accidentally let loose in the Today Show. On Wednesday, 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:42.960 the pop singer performed a medley as part of the 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:45.200 NBC Breakfast Show Summer Concert series. 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:48.880 But Page six years that after. 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:52.800 The newlywed star returned backstage after her performance, She's spilled 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:53.760 to people in the green room. 0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:54.440 It's pretty common. 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:59.200 In fact, guests including Patti LaBelle, Fergie, Joe Jonahs, Ed Sheeran, 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:02.920 and Hugh Jackman all have had on stage bathroom mishaps. 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:08.800 She goes, I go down to the stage getting ready 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:10.960 for my first number, and I'm like, I really need. 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:12.200 To go again. 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:16.560 But she stopped singing right in the moment she realized, 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.400 the muscles you need to release order sing are the 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.640 ones you do not want to release if you need 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:21.000 to go. 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:26.720 So I didn't realize that the muscles that you need 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:28.840 to sing to release. 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:31.000 To sing are not the ones if you need to go. 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:34.760 I am not like a trained Have you ever had this? 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:38.560 I personally never peed on stage. 0:15:38.800 --> 0:15:43.120 I might have maybe. 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:42.440 Trickled a little. 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.160 No, but I don't. 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:45.120 Again, I don't. 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:49.080 I can jump, I can jump, I can run, I can. 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:51.520 I think it's because I've I had c sections. 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:55.240 Well yeah, I don't. Yeah, I mean stage. 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:59.040 But also like I've never singing wise again, I'm not like. 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:03.440 The vocal like she her range is insane, so I 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:07.600 don't push like that. I might have barted by accident 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:09.000 maybe one time, but like. 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:11.600 I you know what I mean, that's pretty common. 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.840 I mean, listen, I have had a bandmate that has 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:16.040 farted on stage and I've. 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:18.280 Gone, that's we can smell it. 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:19.520 Yeah, that's funny. 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:23.160 I mean I've puked on stage, but that was pregnant. Yeah, 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:26.680 you know, I remember, Oh I was on remember yeah 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:27.760 the morning show we. 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:28.840 Did Yeah, uh huh? 0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:30.040 Whoof? Yeah? 0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:34.240 I mean I feel could they tell, like could people 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:35.320 see that she peede? 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:36.400 I didn't see that part. 0:16:36.520 --> 0:16:38.040 Yeah, I don't know. I mean I feel so bad 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:38.240 for it. 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:41.560 But again, I think that women know, especially ones that 0:16:41.640 --> 0:16:46.520 have had babies vaginally, that it's very common when you're laughing, 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:48.760 when you know all the things to accidentally pee, but 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:50.400