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Speaker 2: I don't like to call people out, but I am

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Speaker 2: disappointed in each and every one of us.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we go through this on a daily basis. Jeff,

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you say you don't like to

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Speaker 4: More disappointed in us than usual today?

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Speaker 3: Becaukay, that's the difference.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we're not doing a good job of

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Speaker 2: getting to know our listeners. Okay, we're just rushing right

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Speaker 2: into the details of the date.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that kind of what the segment? We just want

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Speaker 3: to know what's wrong with them?

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Speaker 5: Really?

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Speaker 2: But we need to be like getting to know them more,

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Speaker 2: not just going like, okay, we get it. You're a person.

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Speaker 2: Tell us where you went. Did you make out with

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Speaker 2: one lip or two? That's selfish of us, How do

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Speaker 2: you do with one?

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Speaker 6: All?

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Speaker 3: Right, let's go, what do you want to know?

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Speaker 2: I want to like, get a chance to really get

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Speaker 2: their side, really be pulling for them and understand where

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Speaker 2: they're coming from.

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Speaker 3: Right, let's go, Yeah, we like that.

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Speaker 4: So let's try that out with Lance today.

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Speaker 2: Lance, in three seconds or less, give us a snapshot

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Speaker 2: of your life.

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Speaker 4: Going, give us wait, a minute.

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Speaker 5: I've divorced, I got no kids and I Okay, Lance.

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Speaker 4: We don't need to hear every single detail about your

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Speaker 4: entire existence. I think you wanted a snapshot.

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Speaker 3: I think he said, teacher. Have you interrupted him?

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Speaker 4: Jeff, I was on and I divorced?

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's all you call? That's not all that defines you.

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Speaker 5: Lance, No, I mean there's there's more than that.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: I'm just messing around with you, dude, So tell us more.

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Speaker 5: All right? Cool? So you did get the right thing.

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Speaker 5: I am divorced, all right.

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Speaker 6: Are you new to the dating scene then, or have

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Speaker 6: you been out there for a minute?

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Speaker 5: Have been out there for a minute, but you know,

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Speaker 5: it's been interesting, a lot of trial and error.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm hearing mostly error from your voice.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, I've been trying really hard not to get shanked.

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Speaker 5: Like online dating?

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Speaker 3: Is that a concern of me?

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Speaker 4: Well, you're meeting strangers online? I mean exactly, So where'd

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Speaker 4: you meet her?

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Speaker 5: I actually met her off of Instagram and her name

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Speaker 5: is Jessica.

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Speaker 6: Is she like a friend of a friend? Like, how

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Speaker 6: did you come across your profile?

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Speaker 5: I just kind of started looking and stuff in my area.

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Speaker 5: I'm an it guy. You know, I'm not gonna reveal

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Speaker 5: my secrets. Everybody would do it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you're just trolling Instagram to find a hot.

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Speaker 5: Got in a creepy way.

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Speaker 2: That sounds very So my friends see people in dating

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Speaker 2: It's not any different than going to a bar like

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Speaker 4: To find someone.

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Speaker 5: Doing it in a nicer way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're just doing it online.

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Speaker 6: And if you don't want if you don't want people

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Speaker 3: So Jessica's probably.

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Speaker 5: Open to this, right it seemed like she was. I mean,

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Speaker 5: at least she didn't block me after I first messenger

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Speaker 5: big win.

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Speaker 3: What was that first message?

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Speaker 5: Well, it was like, hi, cutie buye. I love your energy.

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Speaker 5: I'm kind of new to the dating single.

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Speaker 4: W a ming golf is the cuti pie real cutie

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean I don't want to come across

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Speaker 6: She responded, She liked it? Yeah, okay, how'd you turn

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Speaker 8: Well, I I just kind of told her that I

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Speaker 3: Did she agree to that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she did, and we had a really good time.

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Speaker 5: We did a lot of talking. I got to know her.

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Speaker 5: She's into some pretty interesting stuff. She likes ice fishing.

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Speaker 5: each their own, okay, oh yeah, But I kind of

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Rick does that to me all the time in

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Speaker 5: I mean, I've lived through four years of that. That's

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Speaker 3: Oh you didn't say that, right.

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Speaker 5: But I kind of started getting the same feeling again.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's interesting.

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Speaker 2: Then, if that's how she treated you and you felt

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean part of it is just the insecurity

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Speaker 1: Scene, and initially over Instagram, it seemed like we had

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Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, yeah, where your like upper body doesn't touch

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Speaker 6: Well, I don't blame you, because if this keeps happening

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Speaker 6: with different women in your life, there're maybe one common

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Speaker 2: Yeah, were you calling her cutie patuity to her face

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I mean.

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Speaker 5: That's like a third date thing, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you don't move put out until.

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Speaker 4: Later, Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you know I think that that's good.

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Speaker 6: That's like good growth for you to figure out what's

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Speaker 5: Maybe.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I just kind of kind of like to find out why.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's what our job is. Yeah, you guys ready

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Speaker 3: I feel like I know him so well.

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Speaker 6: Lance, my new best friend, let's help him out, but

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Speaker 6: that three seconds really changed my life.

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Speaker 4: The sarcasm.

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Speaker 3: I've tried to be enthusiastic.

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Speaker 4: No, we got it right.

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Speaker 2: So what we're gonna do is we're gonna come back.

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Speaker 2: We'll call Jessica from Instagram for you, and we'll try

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Speaker 2: and get you your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Lance, beautiful?

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Speaker 5: Thank you? All right? Man?

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Speaker 4: Hold on second date update.

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Speaker 2: I feel like at this point we're closer to our listener,

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Speaker 2: Lance than we are to our own family relase.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, because in the.

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Speaker 2: Last break we learned he was divorced, he's on Instagram,

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Speaker 2: he likes Steak. Don't know what else there is to

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Speaker 4: Lance?

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Speaker 2: Is there anything else about you that we don't already know?

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Speaker 2: What more could we possibly learn? Isn't that all of

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Speaker 2: us in this room we like and have an Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Nobody's been divorced, but Lance yet?

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I do you can get her stuff?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 3: Told us that I already knew you were in it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess we already do know every single thing

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Speaker 6: Well, well, no, wonder the date got boring real quick.

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Speaker 4: And then she soul.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you did meet a woman named Jessica online,

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Speaker 2: took her out for dinner and noticed her energy change

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Speaker 2: during the date, where she seemed to lose interest as

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Speaker 4: And that doesn't feel good no matter who you are.

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Speaker 3: Totally and it reminded him of his ex wife, even.

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Speaker 4: Which we are not gonna take.

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Speaker 2: But he does want to know what happened, see if

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Speaker 2: he did any thing wrong, and hopefully get another date here.

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Speaker 4: So let's give her a call. What do you think, Lance, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: let's do it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we think you're very interesting, so let's go.

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Speaker 5: Thanks. And I would appreciate it if you guys didn't

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Speaker 5: mention the whole ex wife thing too.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, yes, we weren't going to do it, but

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Speaker 4: Stick with it, jeff we're holding one over on you.

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Speaker 4: But here we go. We're gonna call Jessica.

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Speaker 7: Let's hello, Hey, we're looking for Jessica.

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Speaker 9: This is Jessica.

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Speaker 4: Hey Jessica. Okay, sound a little nervous.

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Speaker 9: Who is this?

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Speaker 4: Good question? This is Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, and and that means.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we know it means.

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Speaker 6: We are the number one rated morning show for the moment.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, you're on the radio right now.

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Speaker 9: Okay, and why you have.

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Speaker 2: All the good questions, Jessica, I appreciate that. But we're

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Speaker 2: doing a segment called a second Date Update. That's where

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Speaker 2: we try and help out our listeners. We're having a

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Speaker 2: little bit of trouble setting up a second date, okay.

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Speaker 6: And I mean one of our listeners is basically our

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like a bestie.

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Speaker 9: What can you tell me who we're talking about?

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Speaker 4: Are you sure? You just don't want to guess a

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Speaker 4: bunch of names until we tell you?

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Speaker 3: Okay, she's laughing, Jessica, We're yeah, no.

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Speaker 4: I guess we'll just tell you. His name is Lance.

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Speaker 3: Oh it's funny.

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Speaker 4: You guys went to like a steak dinner.

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Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, did you not?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 9: I mean yeah, sure, I mean so yeah, yeah that happened.

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Speaker 3: What did you think of him? He said that he

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Speaker 3: hit you up on DM on Instagram?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, you know, and that's I mean, it's hard not

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Speaker 9: to be flattered, especially when it's not a catfish situation

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Speaker 9: right like he was. He was a real person, and

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Speaker 9: I did a little you know, research homework exactly. Homework

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Speaker 9: DMS and so and so he's expecting a bad boy

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Speaker 9: and you know, like a rich taker. Well, because that's

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Speaker 3: Guess what you've got?

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Speaker 9: No, he I mean he genuinely misrepresented himself, Like, oh really.

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Speaker 6: He told us that his opening line was cutie patuti

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Speaker 3: Is that what it was?

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Speaker 9: It was all very I don't know, like fun until

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Speaker 4: What what, Oh you got a divorce? I think she

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, so he mentioned to us that he was

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Speaker 4: Been trying to get back out to the dating, but

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Speaker 9: Like, no, but I actually genuinely prefer to date married men.

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Speaker 3: What are you're joking?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 9: Don't actually shocked? I cannot be the person who's ever

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Speaker 2: No, No, not a lot of listeners have come on

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Speaker 9: Oh, absolutely, you refer to date married men. I'm not

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Speaker 3: So there is plenty of people that will hook up

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Speaker 2: Well, hold on a second, because I don't understand he

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Speaker 4: Why do you think he was married?

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Speaker 9: Because when I was doing my homework, his Facebook relationship

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, my husband's relationship status on Facebook still says engaged.

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Speaker 9: You're right, it is messed up that he lied to

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Speaker 5: Oh, why are you saying that I lied? And what

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Speaker 9: Your Facebook relationships? Is you're married? And I was looking forward.

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Speaker 9: Well, you should update it because otherwise you're going out

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Speaker 4: You could probably get more dates changing a single.

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Speaker 3: Are you not mad? You're not mad that she just

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Speaker 5: No, I'm not mad. Like everybody's got one life to live,

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Speaker 9: It was fun.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's amazing.

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Speaker 3: Than I mean, I feel like you have a catch

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Speaker 2: I mean he's saying that he's into you, regardless of red.

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Speaker 6: Flags controversial likes.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I do think it's a little bit weird,

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Speaker 6: Too, Okay, ID men and I work in it very similar.

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Speaker 4: Look at that, Jessica.

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Speaker 2: Wow, he's brushing aside a lot of stuff just because

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Speaker 4: And he thinks that you're cool. Chemistry. That's got to

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Speaker 3: If he still has his ring, he could just wear

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Speaker 4: Would that work, Jessica? Would that do it for you?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 9: I like the way you think. But I'm just not

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Speaker 3: He's he's too available, too faithful.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, he's both available and faithful. That's way too easy.

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Speaker 5: It's not okay. I could go out of town and

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Speaker 4: That makes them unavailable.

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Speaker 6: I think she's saying, call me when you get into

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's not exactly what I'm saying at all. I'm

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Speaker 9: not looking for a cheater. I'm looking for someone who's

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Speaker 3: In a stale already.

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Speaker 6: So she doesn't want you to be in a happy

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Speaker 5: I mean, well I could be bad. Oh bad. I've

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Speaker 2: I don't know if she's into that stuff. I think

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Speaker 5: I mean, you're better off, Lance, I mean, am I

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Speaker 5: really better off? Though I've already said I'm trying not

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Speaker 5: to get shanked on dates next time, I think I

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Speaker 3: Guys, that seems a little over dramatic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah to this call isn't going like we thought it

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Speaker 2: would go at all, But is there anything else you

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Speaker 9: I couldn't believe he could be any lamer than what

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, she just twisted. She twisted it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, look, I don't know about you guys, but

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, my god, it's rookie Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: You know, we rarely do this.

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Speaker 2: But after we recorded that segment, I got back on

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Speaker 6: Thinks, you're going to act like her therapist.

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Speaker 2: For I'm not going to try and tell her what

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Speaker 2: to do. It's just because we've never had anyone ever

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Speaker 2: say that on our show before and be so unashamed

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Speaker 2: about it. But she had two main points, and the're

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Speaker 4: For when they're going for Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: So it's actually less complicated to date a married guy

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Speaker 6: I will tell you right now, you come up and

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Speaker 4: But your husband, it's going to be a great time.

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Speaker 2: Plus point number two, She says, married guys are more

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Speaker 2: fun when they go out because married men never get

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Speaker 2: to have fun at all. So it is around stereotype.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm monitor my husband at all time.

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Speaker 7: Say that.

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Speaker 3: I did not say that marriage is fun. It really is.

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Speaker 3: And like this lady sucks. This lady sucks. I hate her.

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of people are with you. Broke

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Speaker 2: no seriously, and no one, no one in this room

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Speaker 4: But it is interesting to hear.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy logic, right, there's no logic.

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Speaker 4: Hashtag single girl logic.

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Speaker 3: How about that?

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Speaker 2: Anyway, We can't say we're always going to agree with

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Speaker 2: you or be on your side, but we will give

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Speaker 3: Jeff will listen. I'm not very good at that.

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Speaker 4: It's broken. Jeffrey in the morning,