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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera. Judge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and

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Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Eddy Mellencamp and and.

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Speaker 3: They recently wrapped Tamra.

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Speaker 1: Judge, how does it feel, tam God?

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Speaker 4: I woke up with pupping my stuff and no stress,

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Speaker 4: and it seemed like the longest I don't know what

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Speaker 4: it was, three three and a half months of my life.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad to officially have you back back.

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Speaker 3: Yes, full time back, full time back.

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Speaker 1: I did see some things online.

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Speaker 2: I know that you can't necessarily comment on them, but

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Speaker 2: I feel like I have eyes and I.

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Speaker 1: Can read on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, something that I saw this morning, and this is

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Speaker 2: just something I'm This is not me talking shit about Vicky.

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Speaker 2: She is putting things in writing and I don't understand

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Speaker 2: this portion. So somebody writes this is going to be

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Speaker 2: the worst season ever, and Vicky responds, I agree, take

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Speaker 2: it from me. Why I'm trying to think in the

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Speaker 2: history of any friend of or housewife or wherever.

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Speaker 1: But then, why should talk a show that you're on,

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Speaker 1: and why if you want to be back more?

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Speaker 2: Why should talk like she's trying to get herself back

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Speaker 2: on it.

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Speaker 3: Probably probably that.

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Speaker 2: This is where I get confused, And it's not like

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Speaker 2: I'm fine with Vicky in a general sense. I just

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Speaker 2: don't understand what the intention is of putting this on

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Speaker 2: social media.

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Speaker 4: I think it's because I'm friends with Alexis. She is,

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Speaker 4: you know, kind of sticking up for her little you know, posse,

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Speaker 4: So whatever, whatever, All right, he wants to be nasty,

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Speaker 4: be nasty, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna do that.

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Speaker 2: In return, Well, while we're on the topic of Alexis,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna be talking about Tama and Eddie's wedding kickoff.

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Speaker 2: This aired in September twenty thirteen. We see little bits

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Speaker 2: of Alexis at your wedding.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, So Eddie and I got up at six

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Speaker 4: am this morning and we watched it together. I had

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Speaker 4: not seen Taraa's OC wedding since it aired originally Eric,

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Speaker 4: so it was so good.

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Speaker 1: It was I mean it was it had drama.

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Speaker 3: I was thinking in my head it was cheesy. This

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Speaker 3: is cheesy, and I don't like watching myself. I'd have

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Speaker 3: to say I actually enjoyed watching myself on this show.

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Speaker 2: Because there's relatable things, there's also like ridiculous things. There's

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Speaker 2: also things that like can clearly not be said anymore

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Speaker 2: or done. So it's just like, oh, clearly, like it's

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Speaker 2: turn back time and always.

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Speaker 1: But can you walk me back for one second?

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Speaker 2: So if this aired in twenty thirteen, what season was

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Speaker 2: currently airing of Orange County?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm only on season season eight? Oh, season eight?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so I have a long time to

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Speaker 2: go before I get to season eight because what did

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Speaker 2: we just recap season two?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Two?

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Speaker 3: Keep in mind me and Simon were together season.

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Speaker 1: Three, four and five, okay, And when does Eddie come

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Speaker 4: He comes in season six, I believe, okay, after me

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Speaker 4: and Simon separate and then six seven and then eight

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Speaker 4: after eight, so we were engaged for three years and

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Speaker 4: then we got married.

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Speaker 2: And then the current cast during your wedding, which did

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Speaker 2: this air after season eight?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I believe?

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Speaker 1: So okay.

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Speaker 2: So it was Lydia, Heather, Alexis, Gretchen, Tamra, and Vicki.

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Speaker 3: That was the entire cast, and Laurie was a friend

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Speaker 3: of Laurie. Wasn't there at the wedding?

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Speaker 4: Was she?

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Speaker 1: Huh?

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Speaker 2: I never saw her, but I barely saw Alexis, so

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming in real life you and Alexis must have

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Speaker 2: been having drama at this point.

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Speaker 4: Alexis and I went up and down because she was

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Speaker 4: in a different relationship that was difficult for her and

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Speaker 3: That's all I'm gonna say about that. But you know,

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Speaker 3: we would go up and down.

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Speaker 4: But at the end when I invited her, we were

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Speaker 1: But also Eddie was like pretty outspoken that he was.

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Speaker 3: I was shocked. We were laughing our ass off, like

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Speaker 3: the comments were made and things that were said.

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Speaker 4: Now keep in mind, if I'm not mistaken. After my wedding,

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Speaker 4: going into season nine, Lydia, Gretchen, and Alexis were all fired.

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Speaker 2: Oh they were all fired, Lydia, Gretchen, and Alection.

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Speaker 1: So then who came in there?

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Speaker 3: Shannon and Lizzie joined.

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Speaker 1: Do I know Lizzie?

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Speaker 4: No, probably not. She was on one season and then

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Speaker 4: I think they brought about the next season and then

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Speaker 4: she got fired in Shannon's garage in her garage, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: very nice garage in Newport Coast.

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Speaker 3: Why underground garage?

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Speaker 4: It was towards the end of the season and she

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Speaker 4: just really hadn't done anything, and the rest of us

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Speaker 4: girls went to Mastros and we were like partying and

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Speaker 4: taking pictures and all this, and She's like, how can

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Speaker 3: She text us, how can you be partying when I

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Speaker 3: just got fired?

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Speaker 1: We had no idea.

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Speaker 3: We're like, where's Lizzie. Where's Lizzy?

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Speaker 2: Go?

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Speaker 1: Oh well, now I'm more curious about Lizzie. All right,

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Speaker 1: so we'll get into the wedding. It's five weeks away.

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Speaker 2: Tamra is starting to plan her dream wedding while Eddie

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Speaker 2: is off working on their gym and feels that a

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Speaker 2: minimalistic wedding will do. Tamra plans a co ed weekend

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Speaker 2: in Las Vegas that ends up testing the couple's trusts

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Speaker 2: once pictures from Eddie's bachelor party are sent to Heather's iPhone.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: So Eddie and I when they asked us to do

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Speaker 4: the wedding special, you know, neither one of us were

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Speaker 4: So our plan was to do a TV wedding and

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Speaker 4: then afterwards we would go to Cabo or something with

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Speaker 4: and we totally forgot the cameras were there that were.

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Speaker 3: Like, nop, we're good, this is good. We don't need

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, well I loved it. It was beautiful, but

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Speaker 2: I have to break down some questions. Oh, first question,

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Speaker 2: who is Ricky?

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Speaker 3: So Ricky was somebody that he was married to Diego.

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Speaker 4: Diego was my attorney for a while, and our kids

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Speaker 4: In real life, and I also kind of felt like

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Speaker 4: So I didn't invite him to my baptism.

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Speaker 3: And mostly because.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, am I going to get to watch

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Speaker 1: that too?

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Speaker 1: Is that a special or that's just during the season.

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Speaker 4: Yes, And if you notice, he was when he talked

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Speaker 4: about Gretchen on the episode one of these episodes, he

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Speaker 3: So anyways, so he was invited to my baptism that night.

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Speaker 4: By the time I got home, he sent me really

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Speaker 3: And then he proceeded to.

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Speaker 4: Call and text each one of my cast members, and

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Speaker 4: so I just went, I'm done.

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Speaker 3: I don't have any.

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Speaker 1: Did any of the cast members bite and engage with him.

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Speaker 4: No, But then he decided he was going to get

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Speaker 3: I don't think they're friends anymore. But it was just

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Speaker 4: And then later on you'll see he spearheaded this whole

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Speaker 4: want to say I hope you're okay or something like that.

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Speaker 4: I'm paraphrasing, and I want you to know that I

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Speaker 4: didn't say any of that. They twisted my words and

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Speaker 4: put that together and I never said that you were

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Speaker 4: responding back to him.

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Speaker 2: Well, Eddie, can you respond to this, because when you

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Speaker 2: were in Vegas and you were wearing trains and boy

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Speaker 3: Like twenty five hundred dollars.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know it was bought start any rumors it

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Speaker 4: prior in our friends Jen and Matt bought it for

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Speaker 4: Eddie as like an engagement present, and he just to

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Speaker 3: He still has it to this day and often we'll

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Speaker 3: whip it out on New Year's Eve.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to see it. I need to borrow it.

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Speaker 2: I hope you wear it to the reunion camera.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that would be great with heels.

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Speaker 2: You could wear that to the reunion with one of

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Speaker 2: the Statement necklaces you sported.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, don't be ragging on my striped hair, my

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Speaker 4: statement necklaces, and my skinny eyebrows.

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Speaker 3: Okay, hold on.

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Speaker 1: You also had underneath I remember this trend, but underneath had.

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Speaker 4: Black black hair was like almost like a reddish brown

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Speaker 3: Isn't that pretty?

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Speaker 1: You also were really preppy?

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Speaker 2: Was I Yes, Like I was watching you and I

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Speaker 2: was like, is tam kind of preppy?

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Speaker 1: And I don't know, it's just funny to.

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Speaker 4: See it, like I went her most phases, but I all,

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Speaker 4: I could, I mean, Eddie reallying bed and I go,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, how young we looked? Look how long young?

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Speaker 4: It was eleven and a half years ago when we

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Speaker 1: Well you look beautiful.

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Speaker 2: But I love when Eddie's like, Tamora, I just want

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Speaker 2: a small wedding, not this big old production. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 2: because you got a three episode spin off, Eddie, it's

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Speaker 2: probably going to be a pretty's probably.

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Speaker 3: Going to be big. Yeah, and you know we didn't

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Speaker 1: Well that's my next question. Yeah, did you pay for

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Speaker 1: the food the hotel? No? Nothing, nothing. Did you pay

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Speaker 1: for the moonshine your brother bro?

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Speaker 2: Before we get into the wedding, we'll get back to

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Speaker 2: the planning in the Vegas. But Heather Deubreau tells Tamar

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Speaker 2: knows what goes into wedding planning, which I'm convinced Heather

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Speaker 2: has discovered the Fountain of Youth. Or she's a robot

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Speaker 2: because she looks exactly.

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Speaker 2: Then you go to the cake store with Vicky and

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Speaker 4: That was Diane Valentine's idea to have them, you know,

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Speaker 3: She was just she was so good and she was

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Speaker 2: Like even when she said, Tamar, you have to bring

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Speaker 1: I was like, that's such a tamer thing, I know, right,

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Speaker 3: She's like, so what kind of food? I don't know

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Speaker 2: I got nothing, but you did want to make sure

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Speaker 4: I think that the restaurant or the cake place was

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Speaker 3: I think it's called in Dana Point.

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Speaker 4: And I used to get all my cakes made by them,

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Speaker 2: Well, this one you didn't pay for, so didn't really

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Speaker 4: Know what I think I did. I think I did

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Speaker 3: I didn't get the I didn't get those, but my

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Speaker 2: I saw you switched into your favorites for the rehearsal

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Speaker 1: Don't worry. I was like, oh, old faith Wells are

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Which ones were those?

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Speaker 1: The ones I always tease you about the ysls you

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, those were dance shoes.

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Speaker 4: Oh those were actually dance shoes. Yeah, those were good,

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Speaker 4: I feel like I overthink dancing and I love when

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Speaker 3: When do we not act so robotic? And she's like,

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Speaker 2: So never until I have a couple of drinks. All right,

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Speaker 2: but before that, let's talk a little bit about Vegas.

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Speaker 2: You guys all go to Vegas. I had a couple

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Speaker 2: jump scares there by like all the people that I

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Speaker 2: know that were there that they aren't in Heather Dubro's

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Speaker 2: how did it come up that Heather. I'm sure there's

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Speaker 4: Just started talking about it, and I'm like, stop stop,

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Speaker 3: He wasn't happy about it.

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Speaker 4: But she was bringing it up again and basically saying like,

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Speaker 4: I think they might have done flat.

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, they did flashback.

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Speaker 4: I think they did footage that was never maybe seen.

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Speaker 4: Oh is what it happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean Heather and Terry definitely came to make

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Speaker 1: I think he was annoyed.

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Speaker 3: He was annoyed to this day. He brings it up.

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Speaker 4: Remember when you had that strip of your ear and

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Speaker 4: I said, okay, enough enough, that's not really what happened.

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Speaker 3: I'm like this trying to hide from him. And yeah,

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Speaker 1: Mean it wasn't.

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Speaker 2: Neither of your experiences with the strippers that I saw

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Speaker 2: see I can see Eddie's eyes like Edwin can kind

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Speaker 2: of get the same way when he's like it almost.

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Speaker 1: Looks like a threat, but it's not a threat. It's

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Speaker 1: just like, okay, yeah, do you think that's fine?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can I can do that too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And then he did I.

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Speaker 3: Know boner and all?

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Speaker 1: Did he really have a boner? I couldn't see it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally no, yes, no, I mean he has some

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Speaker 1: What hold on?

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Speaker 2: But also once they went into the private room and

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Speaker 4: Get a better look what the girl sits on him,

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Speaker 4: and Terry puts her his glasses on, and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, when you put your readers on to

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Speaker 4: look closer, I'm like, stop, Well, how long between when

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Speaker 4: you got that photograph of what was happening with Eddie and.

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Speaker 2: All of you guys deciding to get in the limo

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Speaker 1: Was was that time frame?

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Speaker 4: Well, we were at the Palms and they were at Sapphires,

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Speaker 2: And then you get it. You and Eddie have a

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Speaker 1: He's clearly doing it to get back at you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, these are things that happen oftentimes at bachelor,

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Speaker 2: bachelor and bachelorette parties with Edwin and I did not

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Speaker 2: for because this kind of shit always happens. But you

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Speaker 2: this now? And like not the wedding, Like he's like,

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Speaker 1: And I.

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Speaker 3: Was calling truth, calling truth, Okay, I'm thinking of a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, well either way, it was kind of

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Speaker 2: the same thing. But then you go, I'm going home,

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Speaker 2: But now I need to know how long.

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Speaker 1: Until Eddie came home.

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Speaker 3: We went together. I'm pretty sure.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it was really stressing me.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I want to know who went with

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Speaker 2: Tamra home and how a scale of one to ten,

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Speaker 1: I know it did. I mean it did end abruptly,

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Speaker 1: So it did.

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Speaker 4: How about my ex tweeting the entire time I'm there?

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Speaker 4: He really wanted He really went out of his way

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Speaker 4: from the time we separated to label me monster mom.

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Speaker 4: He was working with a guy that was an editor

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Speaker 4: at the Inquirer. I don't even know if they're around

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Speaker 3: Oh, it was great.

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Speaker 1: It was It was a really it was a good time.

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Speaker 3: It was a great It was a good time in

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Speaker 2: Then you guys get back from Vegas. You guys are

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Speaker 2: you didn't even grab I love that. This is your

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Speaker 2: fight back. You don't even you didn't grab my ass

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Speaker 2: like that when I put my ass on your lap.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But all's well, that ends well because then we get

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Speaker 2: to episode two, Decisions Decisions, Tamra confides to Eddie that

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Speaker 2: she feels pressured to impress his family the trip to

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Speaker 2: choose bride'smaid's dresses turns bad once drama erupts. Eddie and

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Speaker 1: I just want to know.

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Speaker 2: If you and Ricky went to the same place to

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Speaker 2: get your hair highlighted.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Ricky.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know back then two thousands, the striped hair,

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Speaker 2: Then not everybody was there for the bridesmaid's dresses, so

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Speaker 4: Well, we drove to Pasadena. So we went all the

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Speaker 3: And we got there.

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Speaker 4: It was horrible and I'm like, I'm not even going

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Speaker 3: Like no.

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Speaker 1: So then they shipped a bunch to one of y'all's houses.

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Speaker 4: So what happened was is we all went together to

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Speaker 4: David's bridle okay, and we got all the dresses together,

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Speaker 4: but they wouldn't let us film there, I believe, So

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Speaker 4: they Diane. We tried them on, got them all sized everything,

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Speaker 1: But everybody looked beautiful.

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Speaker 2: So shout out to David's bridle because all the bridesmaids,

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Speaker 3: Now my kids were in the wedding.

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Speaker 4: You'll see Sydney on one end and Spence around the

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Speaker 2: Oh I didn't even Yeah, yeah, I was like, I

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Speaker 3: The flower girl, but I don't even know if they

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Speaker 2: But it was a really sweet moment, like there's just

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Speaker 2: even though some of it felt a little bit like

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, like when Eddie's like, you need to

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Speaker 1: Eddie, I know, I know this ain't happening.

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Speaker 3: Well, I really thought like, oh shit, because he did

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Speaker 1: Them.

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Speaker 3: He did not like that, especially the husband.

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Speaker 4: you do that? Sorry, you're not invited? Is that something

452
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 4: production can do.

453
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, well, what do you mean, I'm gonna say,

454
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 2: we don't have enough room for you.

455
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 1: We already paid you to be here.

456
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 2: But then you're getting ready for the dinner party because

457
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 2: it's the first time that your families are meeting.

458
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, what actually starts this argument?

459
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 3: My brother? My brother, It can be a real asshole.

460
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm watching it and I'm like, we're not

461
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 4: even speaking right now, because.

462
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 2: Your mom didn't seem upset when you said, you know,

463
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 2: and they even flashed. They did you that favor of

464
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 2: giving the flashback where you said you didn't say like

465
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: you weren't a family to say I love you.

466
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 3: No, we weren't. We weren't a loving family at all

467
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:29,360
Speaker 3: at all.

468
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,439
Speaker 2: But then why was your brother giving such pushback on that?

469
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 2: Was he like trying to make you look like an asshole?

470
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 4: I'm mad at he got mad at me because I

471
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 4: did that scene with my mom and so he was

472
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,159
Speaker 4: trying to stick up for her, and and he's like,

473
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 4: you're an asshole for doing that and saying that she

474
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 4: was never there for you, And I'm like, it's not exactly.

475
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 3: What I said. I said. We grew up in a

476
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 3: very loveless family. Yes we did things together, but we

477
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,959
Speaker 3: were just a family that were non emotional. You swept

478
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,920
Speaker 3: everything under the rug. I think it was the times

479
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,719
Speaker 3: as well. No hugging, no touching.

480
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 4: I remember my dad telling me he loved me for

481
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 4: the first time when I was twenty one.

482
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: What happened at twenty one? I got that big.

483
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 3: I was twenty one.

484
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 4: I was going to New York and I've never really no,

485
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 4: I wasn't twenty one because I didn't have Ryan.

486
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 3: I was.

487
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 4: I think I was still in high school and I

488
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 4: was my neighbors across the street, Italian family. They had

489
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 4: a house in Rochester, New York, and they had this

490
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 4: cottage out in the woods, and they were going to

491
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 4: take me. And it's one of those things like, oh,

492
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 4: she's getting on airplane. I hadn't been on many airplanes,

493
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 4: and it was like, I love you, and I literally

494
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,959
Speaker 4: choked up. I was walking out the door. I'm like, well, well,

495
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 4: where did that come from?

496
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh town, I know. So it was, you know,

497
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:45,199
Speaker 3: it was just how it was.

498
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 4: And then when you have your own children, you know

499
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 4: you don't want to carry that forward, and so you know,

500
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 4: I always made sure I told my kids. I love

501
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,680
Speaker 4: them all the time, and then it makes you wonder,

502
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 4: like why didn't you tell me that?

503
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 3: Like why did I grow up like that?

504
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:03,160
Speaker 4: And my mom and dad just came from very dysfunctional families.

505
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 4: My dad came from you know, alcohol abuse and physical abuse,

506
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:12,239
Speaker 4: and my mom, my grandmother was very, very sick. She

507
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 4: was schizophrenic, so she was very sick, in in and

508
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 4: out of hospitals, and she was raised by her sister,

509
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 4: and so they weren't didn't have the perfect family.

510
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 3: I mean, not too many people do, but so they

511
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 3: didn't know any different.

512
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 2: Where I did really kind of because remember I hadn't

513
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 2: watched past seasons of you and Eddie kind of getting together,

514
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: So I'm just watching kind of the drama at the

515
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 2: start of this, and I'm like, what is happening?

516
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, But where you see how.

517
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 2: Much you guys really love each other and how he

518
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: is able to diffuse the situation between the two families

519
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 2: and also make you feel loved in that moment and

520
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 2: also not make you feel bad or that make it

521
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 2: feel like his family is disapproving.

522
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: Of any of this.

523
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 2: I think that's where you really see, like how kind

524
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:08,959
Speaker 2: his heart is.

525
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 3: Oh, Eddie's the kindest guy in the world.

526
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 4: Even if somebody he can't stand like talks to him

527
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 4: in a nice way, he will be very kind back,

528
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 4: even if he doesn't like the person. But he you know,

529
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 4: he's somebody that wants to take.

530
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 3: Care of everybody. Yeah, I love seeing grandma. So Eddie's grandma.

531
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 4: Yeah she is now ninety nine years old. Wow, still

532
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 4: walking around still, you know, joking laughing.

533
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, she's gonna live to onunr and five.

534
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, And Eddie's like, I go, you are too, You're

535
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 4: going to live to And He's like, I don't want

536
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 4: to live that long. No, I'm like, if you keep

537
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 4: working out and keep because she would always walk, even

538
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 4: in her eighties, she would have breakfast, put on her lipstick,

539
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 4: and go walk the neighborhood out there in Fullerton.

540
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 2: But I think you guys have real conversations here because

541
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 2: you're like, you're saying you're worried because your family's crazy,

542
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 2: and Eddie's family is more conservative yep. And He's just like, no,

543
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 2: everyone loves you and I love you and I'm here

544
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 2: for you.

545
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 1: And I want to support you. And who cares, you know, Like, yeah,

546
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: families do this shit. It's family. Like I just in

547
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: that moment, I was like, Okay, Eddie.

548
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 3: Doesn't have a big family. He's got He was brought

549
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 3: over from Mexico by his grandmother. No mom, no dad

550
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,239
Speaker 3: in his life. His aunt. He was raised with his

551
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 3: aunt like she was his sister.

552
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 1: So all he has is.

553
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 3: Is Grandma, his aunt, and his aunt's family.

554
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 4: So and then he lived in some foster homes as

555
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 4: he was growing up because you know, Grandma didn't have

556
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,119
Speaker 4: money and they were living in a garage, so he

557
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 4: would go live with He's got a lot of people

558
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 4: that he calls mom even to this day because they

559
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 4: took him in when he was going through you know,

560
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 4: school age years.

561
00:26:56,320 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 2: Well, if you guys want more story on like Eddie's backstore,

562
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 2: you guys have to go listen to the Eds, because

563
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 2: they really break down they have very similar upbringings and

564
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 2: they really break down their story and it's pretty incredible.

565
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 2: And also, I mean, it's it's a wonder how they

566
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 2: both ended up with such assholes like us.

567
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 4: I know, I know two I got assholes. You know, what,

568
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 4: have you ever had moonshine?

569
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know if I've ever had moon.

570
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 2: Maybe one time I've had moonshine, but I think I

571
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 2: was scared, so I like took like a babysit.

572
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 1: Did you drink it?

573
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 2: No?

574
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 4: The moonshim brother brought to the rehearsal dinner was literally

575
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,360
Speaker 4: moonshine that was made in a baptop.

576
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

577
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 4: And then the moonshine he brought to somewhere else I

578
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 4: can't remember. It was moonshine bought from you know a

579
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 4: Oh no, No, the moonshine he brought to my backyard was homemade.

580
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 4: The stuff he brought to the rehearsal dinner was stuff

581
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 4: from the grocery store. And I've tasted that before, but

582
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 4: it's flavored. It tastes like apple pie and you know,

583
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,959
Speaker 4: but it's not really well.

584
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 2: I have a question, after this aired, or after the

585
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 2: conversations with your mom, did things shift with the sharing

586
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 2: of I love you and yeah?

587
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 4: I think after you know that, when I did that

588
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 4: woman's conference and talked about it, I think things shifted then. Yeah,

589
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 4: but to this day that my mom's not warm and fuzzy. Yeah,

590
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 4: she loves us, we know she loves us. But my

591
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 4: mom likes to do the Irish exit. So when she's

592
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 4: done she is Litha. Yeah, no, there's no goodbyes. I

593
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 4: think she's uh not. She doesn't like to deal with emotion.

594
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 3: She's like me, I don't want to do I was

595
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 3: gonna say.

596
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: Just shouting a little bit familiar to a person I know,

597
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: but I'm not sure.

598
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 4: So my brother was labeled the asshole drunk oh during

599
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 4: the wedding well after the show aired, Oh, because I

600
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 4: guess I said, you're an asshole drunk, so he changed

601
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 4: his Instagram handled to asshole drunk.

602
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: That is so good. Well, at least you can laugh

603
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,239
Speaker 1: at himself, you know. I always appreciate someone that can

604
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: do that.

605
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: I also appreciate when you and Gretchen go for a

606
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 2: walk and I hear the quote I don't want to

607
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 2: look at my wedding pictures ten years from now and say,

608
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 2: where's Gretchen.

609
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 4: I not do even feel about that statement now, Honestly,

610
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 4: like just watching the show and her being in us,

611
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 4: being in a good place, you know, it took me

612
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 4: back to that good place, not the place where she's

613
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 4: been trying to trash me for ten years or eleven

614
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 4: years at this point. So I was like, it made

615
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 4: me happy to see that, you know, friendship that we

616
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 4: had way back then, not what we you know, we

617
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 4: don't have any friendship.

618
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 3: Now.

619
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: I need to ask you a question.

620
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 2: I need you to say one nice thing about Gretchen,

621
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 2: she has beautiful hair. One nice thing about Slade, who

622
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: I felt looked handsome at your wedding, just saying he

623
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: didn't say any I didn't hear him say any words,

624
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 2: and just as an aesthetic, I thought looked handsome aut

625
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 2: your wedding.

626
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 3: I don't know that I have anything nice. Yeah, I

627
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 3: lost four wards, all right, well lost four wards.

628
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 2: Then you know, we just we're still working about who

629
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:21,959
Speaker 2: we're going to invite. We know what happens with Ricky.

630
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 2: But then there's a new person that comes in, CJ.

631
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, what's what's her deal?

632
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 4: CJ's another girl that you know, you know when your

633
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 4: kids go to school and you meet people, and she's

634
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 4: another person that I met through the kids school and

635
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 4: was pretty much a neighbor, lived close and she was.

636
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 3: Friends with Ricky and we we still like.

637
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 4: She moved out of state, so she lives in I

638
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 4: think Oklahoma right now, so we will text once in

639
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 4: a while, but I haven't seen her in quite a while.

640
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 4: But she's she's sweet, her and her husband, she's got

641
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 4: a son that's going to college, so it was only

642
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 4: natural for me to have her.

643
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 3: And she was one of my best friends back then.

644
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then we get to episode three, Tamra and

645
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 2: Eddie's Big OC wedding air date September sixteenth, twenty thirteen.

646
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: Tamar and Eddie host a final pre wedding dinner with

647
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 2: their closest friend. Later, the wedding day finally arrives.

648
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: Finally, Diane asked.

649
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 2: Tamra about her dresses and says they are coming the

650
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 2: day of the wedding, which makes Diane's jaw drop.

651
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm also confused why Diane didn't get an orange the

652
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: next season.

653
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 3: Right, she was so good. I'm so glad that I

654
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 3: chose her as my wedding planner because she really made

655
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 3: the show. Another person I'm really glad that we chose is.

656
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: The person Pretty Kitty, not the Pretty.

657
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 4: Kitty, the woman that performed the service, because she had

658
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 4: that British accent and I think it just made it

659
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 4: sound so elegant.

660
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was great. I also.

661
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: Seeing the wax at the Pretty Kitty with Ricky being

662
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: towards your bottom half.

663
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 3: How about the camera guy, like like all of it?

664
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 3: Like who took pictures of that?

665
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 2: Like? I just want to know, Like, have you checked

666
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,479
Speaker 2: off all your like Housewives things you need to do?

667
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 2: You're like badge wax check, wine toss check check, sexy

668
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 2: bats tubscene check.

669
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, throwing baptism baptism baptism check. Yeah, Oh yeah I

670
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 4: did them all. I have done everything I possibly could.

671
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 3: Do on reality TV.

672
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 4: Have you got married grand No, and I will never

673
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 4: do that again. Ever, that was the most painful thing

674
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 4: I have ever experienced in my life.

675
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

676
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: I don't actually particularly like to get waxed either.

677
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 2: Then where I rehearsal dinner, Kenny brought the moonshine again,

678
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 2: takes a swig of it. Tamra, you go over to

679
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 2: your brother and say, no moonshine tomorrow. He's not having it,

680
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: but he does seem to be in a more likable

681
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 2: spear That nice. Then Vicky gives a toast to Tamra,

682
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 2: saying Eddie is Tamra's soulmate. Vicky says she's been through

683
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 2: it all with Tamra. Do you have any regrets about

684
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 2: any of your bridal party?

685
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 4: Probably just Ricky because of what he did to Eddie

686
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 4: and started that whole fuel. Yeah, oh he's gay and

687
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 4: all that stuff. That's really I mean, that was just nasty, nasty.

688
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 2: Then they shoot you arriving to the Saint Regis for

689
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 2: the wedding day, you get into your dress, you listen,

690
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 2: and I'm not the biggest complimenter ever, but like, you

691
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 2: looked so beautiful and stunning and happy in the moment

692
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 2: between you and your son where you guys don't know

693
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 2: if you should break off or walk together on the

694
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:55,959
Speaker 2: same side.

695
00:33:56,000 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: I mean, all of it is just it's it really

696
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: makes you happy, and.

697
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 4: It is and it's such a beautiful setting, like the

698
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:09,479
Speaker 4: I forgot how beautiful. Like Since then, they the Saint

699
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 4: Regis has changed names twice, they've taken the gazebo down

700
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 4: all it looks like a helicopter pad.

701
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 3: Now, yeah, it's you know, it was just such a

702
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 3: beautiful place to have the wedding.

703
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: And I'm just curious. We see Eddie start to tear up.

704
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: But then I feel.

705
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 2: Like I saw him shoot an air kiss, Like I

706
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 2: feel like he was like and I.

707
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: Just see that, Oh god, I just see it.

708
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 4: Probably probably you're like I was like waiting for you

709
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:38,760
Speaker 4: to be like God.

710
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

711
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 4: A little cheesy, but I'll tell you I really thought

712
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:47,399
Speaker 4: it was going to be cheesier than that.

713
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: It wasn't. It was really great. I have a question

714
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 1: for you now, if you and Eddie were to renew

715
00:34:52,360 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 1: your vows tomorrow, who would be your bridesmaids? You? I

716
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: didn't do that for reasons.

717
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking, like how your life has changed since whatever.

718
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 3: You Heather, Emily, I don't know. I mean, that's something

719
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 3: I think if you renew your vows at this age,

720
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 3: like you don't need brides You don't need bridesmaids and

721
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 3: flower girls. Yeah, oh you know, I often.

722
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,280
Speaker 1: Would be who would be your man of honor?

723
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,439
Speaker 2: Kayden, I was gonna say, you'd better answer, yeah, point,

724
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 2: it's going to.

725
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 1: Be a lot, a lot.

726
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 3: It wasn't. It was a TV wedding, you know, and

727
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 3: it was made for TV.

728
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 4: And you know, uh, later in the I don't know,

729
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 4: I don't know, season ten, something like that.

730
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 3: Eleven.

731
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 4: I think it is Shannon tries to turn Heather against

732
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 4: me by saying I didn't want to earn my wedding.

733
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 3: I had a conversation with him.

734
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 4: I said, if I didn't have a TV wedding, you know,

735
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 4: off camera, had this conversation, I wouldn't have had anybody

736
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 4: in the wedding.

737
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 3: I would have went to Mexico and got married on

738
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 3: the beach. Yeah, you know, it would have been something

739
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 3: very simple like that.

740
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 4: So she used that like she often does, and twisted

741
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 4: and made it sound like, you know, made Heather and

742
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 4: everybody mad at me. That's the year I was at

743
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 4: Bally and I was ganged up on and I left.

744
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

745
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 2: Well, there is a moment where Gretchen says her and

746
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 2: Vicky didn't talk and she was keeping her distance, but

747
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, Vicky comes over and starts

748
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 2: dancing with her.

749
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: And then I'm like, did Vicky get into the moonshine?

750
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,359
Speaker 1: Like the thing with.

751
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 4: Vicky it's like she can be nice to you and

752
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 4: then she's mean to you, and then she's nice.

753
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 3: To you again. Did you tear up at all watching?

754
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 1: Yeah? I did.

755
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 3: I did too, I mean obviously I did.

756
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: I there was a moment I think, especially when I

757
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 2: saw you coming out, and then when I saw Eddie

758
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 2: start to tear up yep, and then actually at the

759
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: dance because I know how nervous you were to do

760
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 2: that dance? Yes, yes, and I just and you guys

761
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 2: just look so happy and it looked effortless and it

762
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 2: didn't look for and I was like, I felt I

763
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 2: know it's gonna sound crazy, but I felt proud of you.

764
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 3: Oh thank you. I didn't know how I was going

765
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 3: to do that dance.

766
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 4: Like we rehearsed at our gym, like with the with

767
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 4: the instructor a few times a week, like for weeks,

768
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 4: five weeks, we kept doing it.

769
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 3: So I'm like, that's why I'm always like dancing.

770
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 1: The stars now.

771
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 4: But it was weird looking at the guest at my wedding,

772
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 4: I'm like, who's that? Oh shit, I didn't know she

773
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:29,720
Speaker 4: was at my wedding.

774
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 3: Like it was crazy.

775
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 2: I feel like it's in such big moments like that,

776
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 2: like you kind of really only remember your person sometimes

777
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 2: unless someone does something annoying. Lynn Curtin was there, right, yep.

778
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 3: Lynn was there.

779
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,359
Speaker 2: And then you guys like as it ends, they make

780
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 2: a train for Eddie and Tamra and they run through

781
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 2: it off as newlyweds and everybody's happy and you know

782
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 2: that Moore is coming. But I have to say, you

783
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 2: gave us amazing reality television. Like, I really was shocked

784
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 2: because I haven't seen that many wedding specials.

785
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: I think I've only.

786
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 3: Well, there's a few out there, maybe we should recap them.

787
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 4: There's Candy's wedding, there's uh, Cynthia Bailey's wedding, there's Kim

788
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 4: zozie wedding. They all have they all have specials. It

789
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 4: was it was a thing that they did.

790
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: Did they have three episodes specials? Is this like a reunion?

791
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 3: Like?

792
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: Did you get two reunions?

793
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 4: I don't remember, honestly, Kim had ten Kim had ten, Yeah,

794
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 4: but that went in that ran into her. But they

795
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 4: were only twenty minute episodes.

796
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: So was that on like a different streaming site or

797
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: was that on Bravo?

798
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,720
Speaker 3: So that's like really three in one yeah.

799
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 2: Oh and then Cynthia got married on the season finale.

800
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: But all in all, tam I was very impressed.

801
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 2: I kind of I was like, how am I going

802
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 2: to watch three episodes of somebody getting married?

803
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: And I loved it. I loved all three seconds was good.

804
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 4: They really did a great job producing it and editing

805
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 4: it and giving it the perfect amount of everything, like

806
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:19,319
Speaker 4: you know, the family life, the getting ready the actual wedding.

807
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 2: The highs, the lows, fights, but also making up resolution,

808
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 2: budget conversation.

809
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: And something that I realized.

810
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 2: The only two OC housewives that have ever gotten spin

811
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 2: offs are Joe and me.

812
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 1: I know, well, I love you, Tam and I'm really happy.

813
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 2: I hope you guys all tune in to Tama's Oca

814
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 2: wedding because it will give you all the feel.

815
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 3: It is airing on Peacock now, so it's streaming. You

816
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 3: can just watch all three of them.

817
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 4: Also, the other housewife weddings are airing on Peacock as well.

818
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 2: Let us know if you want us to recap the

819
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 2: other housewife weddings, because we'll go down that deep dive.

820
00:39:56,400 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: We're not now the Tamra is not filming. We can watch.

821
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we got a lot to do.

822
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: Thanks guys, Bye,