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Listen to Trapped and Treatment on 21 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you 22 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: get your podcasts. Good morning, This is Laura. Welcome to 23 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 1: the New Corner Office, the podcast where we share strategies 24 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: for thriving in the new world of work, where location 25 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: and ours are more flexible than in the past. Today's 26 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: tip is about how to set goals for the week. 27 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: When you have the right goals for the week, you 28 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: can make challenging but sustainable progress, manage your energy, and 29 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: wind up feeling quite accomplished. Long time listeners know that 30 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: I like to plan my weeks on Friday's. I think 31 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: through the upcoming week. I think about what I have 32 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: to do, and I also think about what I would 33 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: like to do. As part of this process us I 34 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: imagine what would make a really good week. When I 35 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: get to next Friday. What would I like to be 36 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 1: able to say I've done. I want to set challenging 37 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: but realistic goals. I Am not going to write a 38 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: book by next Friday, but I might be able to 39 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: write five thousand words. A key part of this is 40 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,639 Speaker 1: that I set goals in multiple spheres of life. There 41 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: are the professional ones, for sure, but also relationship goals 42 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: and personal goals. Many times, these goals are things that 43 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 1: are probably going to happen anyway in the course of events, 44 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: but listing them allows me to treat them with the 45 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: gravity they deserve. I acknowledge that they are big things 46 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: and deserve my attention, and that I should try to 47 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 1: do a good job on them. So, for instance, a 48 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: few weeks ago, my kids started school. The older three 49 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: began school virtually. I listed their first day of school 50 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: as a major priority for the week. Knowing that I 51 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: wanted to treat this as an important allowed me to 52 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: do things such as make pancakes for breakfast and be 53 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: available for tech support without feeling like it was taking 54 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: me away from other things. This was my major priority, 55 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: so every time a kid burst into my office to 56 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: report that he or she had dropped a zoom call, 57 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: I could deal with it. I have learned through hard 58 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: experience that it's hard to set more than one to 59 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: two professional goals beyond the basic stuff. Each week. I'm 60 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: writing three podcasts right now, this one before Breakfast and 61 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 1: Best of Both Worlds. I'm writing a weekly column managing 62 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: general book promotion. I might also be able to lead 63 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: a webinar, or do a major edit of another article, 64 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: or do my taxes. But I can't do all of 65 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: these things in any given week. But the good news 66 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: is that I don't have to do all of these things. 67 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: Setting one to two challenging professional goals beyond the basic 68 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: job description each week will allow you to make forward 69 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: progress on speculative things one at a time. If you 70 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: choose one challenging goal beyond your daily to do list 71 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: and all three spheres of life, work relationships, self, then 72 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: you can focus your energies on that. Indeed, if one 73 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: sphere needs a really big goal for the week, then 74 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: you can dial down all the other stuff. I purposefully 75 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 1: did not set a major work goal during the first 76 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: week of school for precisely that reason. But when you 77 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: focus your energy, then you can make progress. 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