1 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: Advice shooters. It's nice. 2 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: Lovel lovel lo loo welcome to the notty. But I 3 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: show up your house, drump shooter, and it is Wednesday, 4 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 2: which means I doar. Friend. Donny matrim joins us, Hey, Donnie, 5 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 2: are you there? Hello? 6 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,319 Speaker 1: Little I'm glad to be back. I missed you guys 7 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: last week. 8 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 2: We missed. We talked about you behind your back. 9 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: Did you listen? 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 2: Good? 11 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: There's so much to say. I mean, they're good, there's bad, 12 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: there's ugly, there's all lit. No, I'm back home, and yeah, 13 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: I know it's weird because we're a happy podcast and 14 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: we're just we like makee people laugh. But people don't 15 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: talk enough about when you go home. It's the feelings 16 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 1: you have and the feelings you leave with. And so 17 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 1: that's where I was for an entire one. 18 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tricky. I have a really pleasant experience with 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 2: my family, but nevertheless, when I go back home, divert 20 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: into that box, that role that I was assigned to play, 21 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: and you played for the first what sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, 22 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: maybe nineteen twenty years of your life, and then you 23 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 2: leave and you spread your wings. But then whenever I 24 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 2: go back, I'm back to being that little boy. You're like, I. 25 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: Don't have to play this game anymore. I don't play 26 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: it with my friends. This is who I am. I'm 27 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: going to be this person. I'm sorry. 28 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:24,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard, isn't it. Families can be really hard. 29 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 2: But we're lucky enough that we've made our own little 30 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 2: family here on the Naughty but Nice Show. Naughties, you 31 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 2: are so kind to us. Thank you for that. Let's 32 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 2: jump into the show and see if we can cheer 33 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 2: up at Onie. What time is it, my friends? 34 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: It is pea time. 35 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 2: So I got a few notes about yesterday show, particularly 36 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: from my friend Robbie, who listens Hello Robbie, Yllo lelo. 37 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: She said it sounded like I was whispering because I 38 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,919 Speaker 2: didn't want to wake up Bruce. Actually, you are onto 39 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: something you Noughti's known me very well. I was whispering 40 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: a little bit, but it had nothing to do with 41 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: me being a considerate husband. I had a sore throat. 42 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 2: We were out late on Monday night and I was talking, talking, talking, 43 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 2: and by one o'clock I'd practically lost my voice. And 44 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: so that's probably why yesterday's show might have been a 45 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 2: little bit more soft, but don't worry, it's back today. Okay. 46 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: Big story at the top of the show. Meghan Marckle 47 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 2: and Harry their allies are mucking Kate Middleton's photoshop mishap. 48 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 2: This is not helping. So in the midst of Kate's 49 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 2: photoshop debarcles, sources close to Meghan and Harry have weighed 50 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: in asserting that this missstep would never have happened to 51 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: Megan or Harry, not on their watch. So, according to insiders, 52 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 2: the exiled British Royals but believe that they would face 53 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: severe backlash if they had done this, So we're all 54 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: being very supportive of Kate, almost sympathetic. 55 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: Now. 56 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 2: Harry and Meghan's friends are saying, had Harry and Meghan 57 00:02:56,120 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 2: photoshopped a picture, the response would have been different. So 58 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 2: they're comparing what they think the response would have been 59 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: to them to what the response has been to Meghan. 60 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: They also added that despite her apology for any confusion caused, 61 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 2: sauces say that Harry and Meghan would never have made 62 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: this mistake. Say Megan, it's quite meticulous. She notices every 63 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 2: single detail. This isn't a mistake. Meghan would have made 64 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: a couple of questions here. One should these sauces these 65 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: friends shut up? And two are they right? Meghan might 66 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 2: not have made this mistake? What do you think? 67 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: Well, okay, you know I'm all the time using team Meghan. 68 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm not team Meghan here because the thing is as though, 69 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: is I don't think Kate's got off easy here. There 70 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: are a lot of people like making fun of her. 71 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: If you go on Twitter or x is what it's 72 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: called now, you know formally noticed Twitter, everybody is making 73 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: fun of Kate Middleton and they're making fun of the 74 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: photoshop fail. But if you think of it, Kim Kardashian 75 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: has done it. Remember Chloe Kardashian did it recently with 76 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: her hands in the car. And that's the thing. It's like, 77 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: I get it. Yes, people photoshop photos all the time, 78 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: but not everybody is the future Queen of England and 79 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: has been missing for weeks. I think that is where 80 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,119 Speaker 1: this all stems from. If she wouldn't have been missing 81 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: for weeks and she would have just did a photoshop fail, 82 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: people have been like, oh ha haha, photo yeah fail. 83 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the added experience, isn't it. One little knock nah, 84 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: two knocks, three knocks four knocks and they start to 85 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: add up, and I think that's what's going on here 86 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 2: with Kate. We've not seen her since Christmas Day, and 87 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: so now add to this this photo, and now we're suspicious. 88 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: Is she trying to mislead us? What is really going on? 89 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,359 Speaker 2: Why the dickens have we not seen Kate? But going 90 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 2: back to Harry and Meghan here, I've done this. I've 91 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 2: been the friend who has laughed or made fun of 92 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 2: a common enemy, somebody that we don't like, thinking I'm 93 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: helping Donnie. If something happen to somebody that you didn't like, 94 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 2: I'd be like, it wouldn't happen to Donnie. But that 95 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 2: actually doesn't help. It brings Harry and Meghan into a 96 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 2: story that they have no business being in. Do I 97 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: think Harry and Meghan are sitting in California paying attention 98 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 2: to this? Yes? I do. I think they're googling. 99 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: She's seventy in laughing the sitting. 100 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: Yes, But the friends shouldn't tell us if they're real friends, 101 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: zip it don't bring Meghan and Harry into this. What 102 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: do you think though about the idea that this wouldn't 103 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: have happened to Meghan? That she's much more hands on 104 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 2: that she's more meticulous. What do you think about that? 105 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: I mean, we say that, but then again, I go 106 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 1: back to what I said before it happened to Kim 107 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: Kardashian did one of the most crafted, handmade celebrities in 108 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 1: the world. Somebody would have a team of I would 109 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: almost argue that the Kardashians have a team bigger than 110 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: Cap Middleton's team, or bigger than Megan Markles team, and 111 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 1: they've made these fails. So I think it's like Meghan 112 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 1: says this, but also, Meghan, you've done a lot of 113 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: dumb things. Remember you went to that restaurant called the 114 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: Duchess or whatever right after you wanted to not be 115 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: called the Duchess. This is the thing. Meghan makes mistakes 116 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: too in this It just it's ar coming across a 117 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 1: little petty. 118 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 2: Isn't it. Just? No, you're right, and part of me 119 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 2: wants to be like, oh, let's leave Kate alone and 120 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 2: let let Kate recover, Let's leave her in peace. I 121 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 2: hate that this forced mistake is making us talk about 122 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 2: it because we were talking about Kate. Although it started 123 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 2: to die down a little bit after we saw the 124 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 2: picture of her with her mom, Carol. But now this 125 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 2: this photoshop, Oh my goodness, that's why we're all talking 126 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 2: about let's leave Kate alone, which brings us to our 127 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 2: whole question of the day. Meghan and Harry's friends are 128 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 2: mocking Kate Middleton's photos sharp disaster. They're saying that this 129 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 2: would never this mistake would never have happened to Megan. 130 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 2: Do you agree? Do you think Meghan would have made 131 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 2: a mistake like this? It could happen to anybody, couldn't it. 132 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: What do you think? Go vote on our Twitter page 133 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 2: naughty nice rabat Facebook pages naughty gossip. But I'm be 134 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 2: sure to check back tomorrow hour to hear your results. 135 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 2: Hey Donny, what are you working on? 136 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: But I will say I'm excited to listen tomorrow and 137 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: I want to hear what the results are of this poll. 138 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: That poem actually excites me because I think more people 139 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: will agree with me. But that's okay. Anyways, Matthew Perry 140 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: his will has come out and he's revealed the executors 141 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,679 Speaker 1: and surprising trust name. So you know, Matthew Perry passed 142 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: away the friends. According to documents, he appointed Lisa Ferguson 143 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: and Robin Ruzan as co executors of his one billion 144 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: dollar estate within the Alvi Singer Living Trust, a nod 145 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: to Woody Allen's character from Annie Hall. Oh that's right. Yes, 146 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 1: so with the beneficiaries which he made it in two 147 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: thousand and nine, his father, his mother, his half siblings, 148 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: and his ex girlfriend. Funny, weird, funny, I say funny, 149 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: but because it is a little funny, but it's also weird. 150 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: He's specified although he doesn't have any kids, that if 151 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: he did have any kids, none of his kids would 152 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: benefit from his estate. So, Rob, this is where I 153 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: need a little clarification on this. He has a one 154 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: million dollar estate. I just I are that friends money? 155 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 1: Is that saying that's all he had was one million left? 156 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 2: No, he has a million dollars in certain assets. He's 157 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: a state he's worth tens of millions, if not hundreds 158 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: of millions. Now, he did not die with a million 159 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 2: dollar here. I think that this million dollars is how 160 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: much money he had in the bank or how much 161 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 2: cass he had on hand. No, there are tens, if 162 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 2: not hundreds of millions of dollars here, which is why 163 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 2: it's really important for him to have executors. Now, an 164 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 2: executor just puts whatever you want in your will into place, 165 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 2: So an executor doesn't really have as much power as 166 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 2: you think. Your will is the ultimate documentaryar and that's 167 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 2: what he has. So he has a will. He's been 168 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,439 Speaker 2: quite clear about where he wants his money to go. 169 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 2: His family are the people he trusts them most, so 170 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 2: that's why his mother, his father, his half siblings, his 171 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 2: ex girlfriend too, are in charge of this and also 172 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 2: benefacts of it. So they will be getting a lot 173 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 2: of money. I'm told to a massive amount of his 174 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 2: money's going to charity. He's going to give a lot 175 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: of it to a foundation that he's going to start up. 176 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 2: You're right, it's a little bit confusing here. You're going 177 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 2: to see reports of this million dollars in the press. No, 178 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 2: that is a red herring. There's hundreds of millions of 179 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:35,199 Speaker 2: dollars here. Friends alone earned every cast member between twenty 180 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 2: and thirty million dollars a year, and it's been on 181 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 2: for many, many years. It's been off for a lot 182 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 2: of years too, but it's always on TV playing, so 183 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 2: that's why they are worth so much money. But it 184 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 2: is interesting too what he says about children. He doesn't 185 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,559 Speaker 2: have any children, but he did say in the will. 186 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 2: In the will that any potential children that he might 187 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 2: have would inherit nothing. Although he did have no offspring. 188 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 2: Although maybe there might be a baby out there that 189 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 2: we don't know about. Matthew was a red blooded chap 190 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 2: He enjoyed the ladies, so potentially, Donnie, there could be 191 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 2: a kid. But if you are Matthew Perry's son a daughter, 192 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 2: bad luck, because here you're getting nothing from the esseect nothing. 193 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: I don't put that in your will. I mean, it's 194 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 2: very clear he does not want any children getting any money. 195 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: I think about this in a very personal question. But 196 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: do you have a will? 197 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 2: I do not. 198 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 1: I probably should you should? 199 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? Can I be the executor of your will? Please? 200 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: I mean I have not much to offer, but I 201 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: do have something, Darling. 202 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 2: You have a regular slot every Wednesday on the Naughty 203 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 2: but Nice podcast. Now that alone you should leave a 204 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 2: million dollar trust. Okay, this story is quite serious. So 205 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 2: Raquel Lewis is really rebuking Lisa van der Pump for 206 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 2: victims shaming in the Revenge Paul lawsuit. Sir Raquel, who's 207 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 2: now Rachel. It gets confusing, so Raquel. Rachel is firing 208 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:06,599 Speaker 2: back at Lisa vander Pump accusing her former boss a 209 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 2: victims shaving amid her revenge porn lawsuit against Tom and Adriana. 210 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 2: So she is saying that the former boss is dismissing 211 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 2: her legal action as quote ridiculous. That's what Lisa said, 212 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 2: It's ridiculous. But she's saying, hang on a minute, Lisa, 213 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 2: did you even read the brief? I doubt you did, 214 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 2: because she's saying these comments would not have been made. 215 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 2: And then Rachel Raquel is clarifying that the lawsuit resolves 216 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 2: around a FaceTime video that was recorded without her knowledge 217 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 2: or her consent and allegedly shared amongst the cast members. 218 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 2: And she said this video should never have been filmed, 219 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 2: it shouldn't have been shared. I think she's implying here 220 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 2: that it's pornographic in nature. Don't record people without their permission, 221 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: and if you're stupid, mean enough to do that, don't 222 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 2: share it. I think Rachel Raquel is right here, and Lisa, 223 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 2: be careful what you say here because call and get 224 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 2: ridiculous and not knowing all the facts is only gonna 225 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 2: make Lisa look terrible. But all the details do come out. Yeah. 226 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: The thing is that though I think people out there 227 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 1: need to know this. This is even if you film 228 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: something on your phone, you send it to somebody, you're 229 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: a consenting adult. They are consenting adult. If that person 230 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: turns around and post it online, if that person turns 231 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:32,559 Speaker 1: around shows it to other people, they are liable. So 232 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: that's where the revenge porn lawsuit comes into effect, because 233 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: you know, it's it's just gross. It's a gross thing 234 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: to do. Because I don't shame people send voto photos, 235 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: send you know, be proud of your body, but if 236 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: you receive something, don't go around showing everybody. It's not 237 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: cool and it's illegal. It's a legal for people to 238 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: know that. 239 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's illegal. And that's what Rachel Raquel here is 240 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,560 Speaker 2: really got on her side. There's laws against this. This 241 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 2: isn't a brother law. And can't decide which way to 242 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,960 Speaker 2: go on this equation, right or wrong. He can't do 243 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 2: a poll and watch what happens lime and make the decision. 244 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 2: There's there's a law here. There's there's so many many 245 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 2: laws here. And it sounds as if Rachel Raquel of 246 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 2: what she's saying is true, people are really as serious 247 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 2: there's trouble here, a million, absolutely, And Lisa, you put 248 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 2: yourself at risk here. You said something dumb. Don't say 249 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 2: anything until you know all the facts. Okay, we were 250 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 2: all talking on this show, certainly maybe everywhere else too, 251 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 2: about John Cena being naked at the Oscars. Now, Jimmy 252 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 2: Kimmel's revealing that ABC you were not quite a supportive. 253 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: Delicious. So Jimmy Kimmel, he came out and he says 254 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: that the ABC execs were actually a little nervous about 255 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: the whole John Cena's git. He goes, they were terrified 256 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 1: over the unconventional idea. And I think about him, like, 257 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: there's nothing really unconventional about that, because if you've seen 258 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: it came out now that he was actually wearing like 259 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 1: a manchini, he was covered with whatever undernea he's covered up, 260 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: weren't fully naked. But he goes, there were extensive meetings, emails, 261 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 1: phone calls, anxiety among ABC executives. But this is the thing. 262 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 1: I think that people don't realize we're in the business 263 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,439 Speaker 1: and they think that's funny, and that the executives have 264 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: just been like, hah, that's funny. No, I can imagine 265 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 1: there was month long about yes one what three minutes 266 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: get yeah? 267 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Oh. There was meetings, days of meetings, weeks 268 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 2: of meetings about this. And remember too, in life, you 269 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: very rarely get told thank you for taking a risk, 270 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 2: but if something goes wrong, you always get blamed. And 271 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 2: so if you're not going to get praised, but you're 272 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 2: going to get blamed, it's easy to be risk adverse. 273 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 2: And that's why so many TV shows, podcasts, things you 274 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 2: watch movies are a little bit duller because it's easier 275 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 2: to be safe. Now, I think there's a balance here. 276 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 2: You want to be alive and fun and have some joy, 277 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 2: but at the same time, she don't want to be reckless, 278 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 2: and I think that's what Jimmy did here. It's a 279 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 2: wild idea to have somebody walk out naked at the Oscars. 280 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 2: That's a wild idea. However, then they had precautions cover 281 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 2: him up if something does drop, if he does drop 282 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 2: the envelope, he is covered, make sure we cut straight 283 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 2: to commercial break. And so I think that they really 284 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 2: planned this out here and ultimately paid off because it 285 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 2: was the highest rated Oscars in many many years. Okay, 286 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 2: we're going to take a quick break and we will 287 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 2: be right back. Welcome back to the naughty but I 288 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: share am your hairs. We're on the shooter with idear 289 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 2: friend Donnie Meeta made Donnie. Let's get to the polls 290 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 2: to guess the day. We talked about how we spotted 291 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 2: Kate leaving Windsor Castle with Prince William after her photoshop fail. 292 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 2: Our question was, should we see more Kate? Can they 293 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 2: just put this to rest? If we see more Kate, 294 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 2: let's have a look. Oh, seventy five percent said yes, 295 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 2: we should see more Kate. I think I'm with you. 296 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 2: Maybe not photo shoots, maybe not on the balcony of 297 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 2: the Alice, but they could drive around London, sit in 298 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 2: the back of the car, do some waves. At this point, 299 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 2: the rumors are so loud and they have not helped themselves. 300 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 2: This photoshop has just made it even worse. I think 301 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 2: now they've got to the point where somebody, a pr 302 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 2: person has to walk in and say, Kate, we either 303 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 2: tell everybody the truth or you get out there in 304 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 2: your wave or maybe a combination of bothything. 305 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 1: Do an Instagram live. I mean, there's not a lot 306 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 1: of Instagram, but something like that. Just put a selfie 307 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: out there with the kids of you and the kids 308 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: hanging out. Just put the rumors to rest. By doing nothing, 309 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: you're making it bigger. 310 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, worse, much worse. Absolutely, don't forget to vote on 311 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 2: today's Paul got a Twitter page, I'd notty nice rather, 312 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 2: but her Facebook page is Natyscome and be sure to 313 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 2: check back to mor Rowood to hear your results. And 314 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 2: now it's time for the nicest of the day. 315 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: Well, you know, we're still talking about the keep Middleton. 316 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: But wood Be Goldberg, who I'm obsessed with. I love 317 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: will Be. She's usually the voice of reason on the View, 318 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: and she came out defending Kate and she was like, look, 319 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: everyone does it, Yes, everyone does it. These interviews I 320 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 1: do with you know, Selena Gomez or you know, Livia 321 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: Rodrigo whatever, I'm wearing concealer. But then guess what we're doing. 322 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 1: We're editing the video to make us look a little 323 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:21,199 Speaker 1: softer alone or more alive. Everyone does it. But I 324 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: do laugh because me and Whoopee have in common. She goes, 325 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 1: she may be the future queen and she's still an 326 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: amateur photographer. 327 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 2: Good for you. I love Whoope. I do love Whoopee. 328 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 2: The nicest the day and now I noticed the day naughty, naughty, naughty. 329 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 2: Ol Pacino is saying that their remarks about him presenting 330 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 2: Best Picture at the Oscars were offensive and hurtful. So 331 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 2: al Pacino is addressing the controversy. He presented Best Picture 332 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 2: at the Oscars, and he clarified that it wasn't his 333 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 2: intention to admit the other nominees, but rather a decision 334 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 2: that was made by producers, not him, to just announce 335 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 2: the winners. If you remember, he came out and he 336 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 2: didn't announced all ten movies. He just opened the envelope 337 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 2: and announced Oppenheimer. And people are saying that he messed up. 338 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: He was confused. Some people were saying it was his age. 339 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 2: He went on to say that this is really hurtful 340 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 2: and it's offensive, and he said, and it's wrong. They decided, 341 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 2: the producers that rather than have him list all ten, 342 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 2: which they had been doing throughout the evening, they didn't 343 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 2: need to repeat themselves. He was just going to come 344 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 2: out and announce the winner. Producers have backed him up 345 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,159 Speaker 2: on this too and said it was their mistake. It 346 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 2: was their their faultyer, So it had nothing to do 347 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: with al Pacina. What do you think the show. 348 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,439 Speaker 1: Was probably running a little long? And that's what happens 349 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 1: on the fly. It's a live you got to do it, Yes, 350 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: cut it out. 351 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 2: Yes, nothing to do with him? Were then autistic of 352 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 2: the day, And let's end with a moment of rub, 353 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 2: you rob, you get a get a rub. There's new 354 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 2: research act that shows a direct connection between the joy, 355 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 2: the happy that you allow in your life and your 356 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 2: ability to move on from trauma. If you want to 357 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 2: get past the trauma in your life. We might have 358 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 2: big traumas in our lives, we might have micro traumas 359 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 2: in our lives, but we all have trauma. If you 360 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 2: want to move on from it, the best way to 361 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 2: move on is to allow joy, to allow happiness into 362 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 2: your life. I never say I want to be happy. 363 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: I always say I want to be happier. I just 364 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:27,239 Speaker 2: want to be five six seven two percent happier and 365 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 2: to know how you get there by letting joy into 366 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:34,639 Speaker 2: your life. Some days there is happiness, There is joy 367 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:36,959 Speaker 2: all around me, Donnie, and I don't let it in. 368 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 2: And I've decided that is not how I'm going to 369 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 2: live anymore. When I see a cute doggie walk down 370 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 2: the street, I'm going to let that joy into my life. 371 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 2: When I see a beautiful bunch of flowers growing in 372 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,159 Speaker 2: the garden on the street, on the sidewalk we live 373 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 2: in New York City, I'm going to stop and smell 374 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:58,400 Speaker 2: the roses. Donnie, do you let joy into your life? 375 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 1: I really do. I think you know. It's funny because 376 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: you know, I'm very snarky and very like you know, 377 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 1: stay a bunch of like snarky things. But in life 378 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: in general, I don't surround myself with drama. No drama 379 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: in my life. I keep everything positive and happy. And 380 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: if you're bringing drama into me, you're not gonna be 381 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 1: a part of my life. 382 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 2: Absolutely. I think we all have the DNA inside us 383 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 2: to enjoy life. We have that joy DNA. So my 384 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 2: question is at what point did you stop playing? At 385 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 2: what point? How old were you when you stopped having fun? 386 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 2: Children have fun. If you put a bunch of kids 387 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 2: together in a room with a cardboard box, they figure 388 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 2: out a way to have fun. I go back to 389 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,879 Speaker 2: doing that. Then the world will not fall apart. My friends, 390 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 2: if you stop and let in the joy, let it in, 391 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 2: it's all around you. Just let it in. Hey, that 392 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 2: is it for today? Thank you so much for listening. 393 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 2: They Naughty Bit Nice with Rob and Donnie Show, a 394 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: production of iHeart Radio. Don't Forget a subscrime on the 395 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:56,439 Speaker 2: iHeartRadio app Apple podcast. Wherever you listen, leave us a 396 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 2: review if you can. They do help, They really do, 397 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 2: and they're altogether. Now, if you're going to be naughty, 398 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 2: you've got to be nicer. Take care of everybody, Pip 399 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: It's not even nice with Bro