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Speaker 1: Advice, sugar, it's never lovell Welcome to the Naughty but

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Speaker 1: Night Show. I'm your host, Rob Shooter, and it it's Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: which means a dear friend. Delana Dixon joins us, Hey,

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Speaker 1: mis d are you there?

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Speaker 2: I am, and it seems we finally got snow here

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Speaker 3: It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's lovely, isn't it. I love looking at I'm quite

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Speaker 1: high up. I'm on the fifteenth floor and so it

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Speaker 1: feels like I'm in a snow globe bibe upstairs, and

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Speaker 1: the snow's whishing, whishing around my windows. It's beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, I was in Kentucky for a few days and

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Speaker 2: it actually snow there, So that was the first place

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Speaker 2: it's just been a snowy weekend into the snowy week

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Speaker 1: Good for you, you're bringing it with you. Okay, let's

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Speaker 1: jump into our show. What time is it, my friends?

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Speaker 1: It is tea time massive story today is Rob Reiner

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Speaker 1: and his wife Michelle. Most of the show today, in fact,

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Speaker 1: all the show is going to focus on this tragedy

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Speaker 1: it's an absolute tragedy. I want to make sure we

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Speaker 1: get the tone right here. Delana and I are devastated.

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Speaker 1: Let's just put that upfront. This is something that is unimaginable,

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Speaker 1: not only the death, but who may have indeed murdered them.

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Speaker 1: We're going to try and bring you as all the

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Speaker 1: information today so you won't have to go anywhere else

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Speaker 1: for this story. So Rob Reiner and his wife would

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Speaker 1: want us to forgive their sile It's controversial. I wanted

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Speaker 1: to do this as the lead story. I've known this

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Speaker 1: family for a while. Rob was always very very kind

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Speaker 1: to me. Well. I spoke to family friends yesterday and

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Speaker 1: they said forgiveness was a huge deal for Rob and

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Speaker 1: his wife Michelle, and they would want us in their opinion,

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Speaker 1: this is a family insider. They would want us to

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Speaker 1: forgive him for this one hundred percent without question. He

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Speaker 1: was a very, very troubled, not so young man. We

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Speaker 1: was in his thirties. He had struggled all his life

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Speaker 1: mental health issues, substance issues, but he also too had

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Speaker 1: this incredible life of privilege. He never really had to

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Speaker 1: work a day in his life. He didn't pay really

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Speaker 1: any of his bills, all his medication, all his many

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Speaker 1: many trips to rehab were covered by his parents fortune.

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Speaker 1: And if indeed it turns out and everything, let's be honest,

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Speaker 1: looks as if it was him. All the indications are

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Speaker 1: is so easy to be angry. I'm angry. I'm really

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Speaker 1: angry about this. But when I spoke to this family source, Delena,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting this, and it stopped me in my tracks.

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Speaker 1: Rob has been an outspoken advocate of people with mental

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Speaker 1: health issues. He's always talked about love. If you watch

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Speaker 1: any of his movies, that's his body of work. People

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Speaker 1: always say to us, Delna, what's this celebrity really like?

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Speaker 1: What they're like when they're not on TV, when they're

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Speaker 1: it in the present tense, just for a few weeks.

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Speaker 1: If you want to know this man, watch his body

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Speaker 1: of work. It's full of optimism. Originally, the opening of

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Speaker 1: And then during the filming of the movie, he met Michelle,

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Speaker 1: He was no longer single, he was in love. And

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Speaker 1: you watched his films The Princess Briane, they were full

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Speaker 2: I mean, Rob, I think you've said it all. And

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Speaker 2: and the regret and the shame must be just overwhelming.

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Speaker 2: But my heart just goes out. I mean when my sister,

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Speaker 3: You know this has touched people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's touched people. I think it's a combination.

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Speaker 1: I was on CNN last night talking about my experiences

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Speaker 1: method in which he died. It wasn't a heart attack.

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Speaker 1: He was murdered. He was murdered along with his wife, Michelle.

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Speaker 1: They were slaughtered. There was one one killer. This means

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Speaker 1: Once again, we try so hard to be a positive,

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Speaker 1: And none of this is excusing what this young man did.

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Speaker 1: the world. What could they do? And that's what friends

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Speaker 2: I mean that is such a challenging question. It's so complex.

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Speaker 2: I mean we think, oh, my goodness, I would never

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Speaker 2: have this person in my house. I'd make them, you know,

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Speaker 2: a place where they deal with it. But this is

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Speaker 2: your child. And I've heard from family friends who are

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Speaker 2: is battling a drug addiction that even though they see

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Speaker 2: it that way, the parents of their of their child,

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Speaker 2: or the parents that they know can't let go of

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Speaker 2: gives them the phone, because their biggest fear is that

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Speaker 2: phone call and it will be somebody telling them that

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Speaker 2: their child is.

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Speaker 3: No longer with them.

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Speaker 2: And we always know that there's and I don't have children.

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Speaker 2: But from what I've heard, there's nothing more heartbreaking than

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Speaker 2: losing your child. Having your child go before you.

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Speaker 3: Is something that's just so hard to imagine.

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Speaker 2: So I think they thought, you know, we're gonna give him,

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Speaker 2: you know, we've locked him in this in this house

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Speaker 2: so he can deal with it. But at a certain point,

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Speaker 2: I think when it gets when it's when he's shown

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Speaker 2: violence and he's shown what he's done. And they were

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Speaker 2: older people. At a certain point you have to seek

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Speaker 2: outside help, and you know, you're a celebrity. You don't

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Speaker 2: want the world knowing about your troubles. But now we

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Speaker 2: do know, and it's just so horrific and horrible how

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Speaker 2: it ended. But I think it's just the love of

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Speaker 2: their son. They just wanted to give them whatever they

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Speaker 2: could try to help him, and it just it just never.

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Speaker 1: Rasio donalds struggling with this at the moment. Rosio donald

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Speaker 1: daughter has been in the night to rehab. Now she's

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Speaker 1: in jail, and so it is not as unusual as

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Speaker 1: I wish it was. We're finding out too that just

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Speaker 1: hours before the tragic passing, there was a huge fight

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Speaker 1: to blow up at Conan O'Brien's holiday party. So Conan

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Speaker 1: at that party and they said there was a huge confrontation.

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Speaker 1: Rob Ryaner and his wife Michelle left. It was a

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Speaker 1: huge argument with Nick. Everybody was very, very uncomfortable. But

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Speaker 1: once again, what do you do? This thirty two year

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Speaker 1: he's thirty two years old. This thirty two year old

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Speaker 1: Robert Michelle were beside themselves. I also hear too that

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Speaker 1: Conan is feeling lots of guilt today too. Everybody's asking,

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Speaker 1: everybody is asking, what could I have done different? I mean, okay,

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Speaker 1: we're going to take a quick, great mistake and we

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Speaker 1: will be right back. Welcome back to the Naughty but Nisha.

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Speaker 1: I'm your host, Rob Shooter with I dear friend, mister, hey, mister,

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Speaker 1: let's quickly get to the polls. DA Da Lasher revealed

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Speaker 1: a great exclusive that Blake Lively did reach out to

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift to wish her a happy birthday. It was

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Speaker 1: Taylor's birthday over the weekend. I hear it was a

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Speaker 1: small email or a text. She didn't expect any return.

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Speaker 1: We don't know if Taylor answered. I like this even people, mister.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking, I don't fall out with that many people.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people fall out with me because of

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Speaker 1: what I said. But I really don't fall out with

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Speaker 1: that many people. But I do wish people even that.

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Speaker 1: I've got a little bit of drama with happy birthday.

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Speaker 1: I reach out if there's it's been a big event

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Speaker 1: and you just say happy birthday, and so you know

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Speaker 1: you're not expecting to be best friends again or go

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Speaker 1: for coffee. But a friend of mine, her father died,

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Speaker 1: and I sent her a text. I think technically we

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Speaker 1: were not speaking or would fell out, but a dad

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Speaker 1: I just heard the news. She didn't respond perfectly fine,

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Speaker 1: but I think this was a nice thing for Blake

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Speaker 1: to do. Here. A question was simple, would you reach

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Speaker 1: out if you were having beef with a friend. If

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Speaker 1: you'd fell out with a friend and it was their birthday,

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Speaker 1: don't you just reach out and say happy birthday. What

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Speaker 1: do you think here? Eighty percent said, yes, you would,

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Speaker 1: you would reach out me too, naughty, He's okay, don't

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Speaker 1: forget to vote, although actually this part of the show

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Speaker 1: is voyage. Do forget to vote? There is no poll today, mystery,

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Speaker 1: There is no poll. It just didn't feel right.

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Speaker 3: What my question? I ask?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it just didn't feel right. So let's go

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Speaker 1: straight And this is tricky, but I think we found

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Speaker 1: one here. Let's go straight to nicest, a difficult one,

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Speaker 1: but it's still a nicest of the day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is our nicest.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about Maria Shreiver because once she

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Speaker 2: had heard this news, of course, she gave an emotional

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Speaker 2: tribute and just talking about how loving, how good Rob

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Speaker 3: Were as parents.

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Speaker 2: She stated, they love their kids so much and they

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Speaker 2: never stopped trying to be really good parents. She's devastated, gutted, shocked,

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Speaker 2: and stunned by the laws. She recalled raising their children together,

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Speaker 2: meaning her and that family sharing decades of laughter, tears

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Speaker 2: and milestones. And she actually told us that she just

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Speaker 2: had dinner with Robin Michelle about a week before their death.

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Speaker 3: The couple.

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Speaker 2: At that time, we were in a joyful chapter in

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Speaker 2: their life. They were deeply in love, proud of their family,

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Speaker 2: she ended it by saying that their friendship was a

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Speaker 2: gift and something that she'll just remember and cherish and

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Speaker 2: remember them as kind and fun and patriotic and deeply loving,

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Speaker 2: even to the point of loving their son, even he

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Speaker 2: took their lives as.

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Speaker 1: Deep, deep, deep, deep, deep deep. Maria Shreiver nicest that day,

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Speaker 1: and I not he is the day, naughty, naughty, naughty,

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Speaker 1: I know, dear stuff the day. And I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to give out any names here, but it's people who

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Speaker 1: are saying awful things online. A man has died, his

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Speaker 1: wife has died, They were slaughtered in their home by

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Speaker 1: their son. If you think this is a moment to

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Speaker 1: make fun of them, to make fun of their political views,

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Speaker 1: to make fun of them as who they are as parents,

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Speaker 1: to blame them, then shame on you. I don't care

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Speaker 1: if you're talking about Rob Reiner or Charlie Kirk. These

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Speaker 1: are people from opposite ends of the political spectrum. We

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Speaker 1: are not a political show. But if you can't find

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Speaker 1: a little grace, a little kindness in your heart during

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Speaker 1: a moment like this, than shame on you. That's how

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Speaker 1: an autous to the day. I'm going to go no

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Speaker 1: deeper than that. Okay, let's end with a moment of Rob.

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Speaker 1: You gotta Rob. Today's moment of Rob is from Rob

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Speaker 1: Reiner himself. He said the following. Everyone talks about wanting

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Speaker 1: to change things, to help and fix, but ultimately, all

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Speaker 1: you can do is fix yourself. And that's a lot

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Speaker 1: because if you fix yourself, it has a ripple effect.

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Speaker 1: Work on yourself today, make yourself a little happier, a

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Speaker 1: little better, a little writer. Hey, that is it for today.

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Speaker 1: A tricky show, Misty, I think we handled the tone well.

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Speaker 1: I'm happy with what we've accomplished today. Lots of new

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Speaker 1: us put in a way that I hope it is

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Speaker 1: tragic but hopeful. So thank you, mister. I can't imagine

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Speaker 1: anybody else that I could have done this show with today,

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Speaker 1: So thank you for always being there, and thank you

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Speaker 1: naughty for listening to The Naughty but Nice with Rob

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Speaker 1: have a little bit of optimism in our voices, mystery.

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Speaker 1: Remember if you're going to be, you've got to be.

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