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Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, via fam, Welcome back to the show. I'm

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Speaker 1: taking you from Harlem to Hollywood today, y'all with today's guest,

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Speaker 1: the beautiful and brilliant, talented Edwina Finley, is on the show.

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Speaker 1: You may recognize her from so many incredible iconic shows

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Speaker 1: from The Wire to Netflix's The Residence. All Hail Shonda Rhimes,

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Speaker 1: Uzu Aduba and Edwin Finley. She is a powerhouse performer,

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Speaker 1: but even more than that, she is a loving wife,

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Speaker 1: a mother, and now the published author of one of

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Speaker 1: those little inspirational books that is going to make the

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Speaker 1: best like holiday gift, birthday gift. Just someone who you

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Speaker 1: need to you know, someone who needs a little lifting up.

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Speaker 1: I think you just slipped this book in there in

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Speaker 1: their pocketbook, and that's, you know, the perfect gift. The

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Speaker 1: book is called The World is Waiting for You. Embrace

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Speaker 1: your calling and manifest the God dream over your life.

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Speaker 1: And I was just saying a little bit back vertu stage,

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Speaker 1: how I genuinely think this is a book that the

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Speaker 1: girls need today.

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Speaker 2: We need a.

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Speaker 1: Little take us back to church, honey, take us back

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Speaker 1: old fashion. I'm like, get your three ninety nine journals

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Speaker 1: from the Marshall's recks out, get your poster board and

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Speaker 1: your vision boards out, because we need to just reset

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Speaker 1: and feel inspired. So today Aduena's here so generously to

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Speaker 1: talk about her new book again. It's called The World

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Speaker 1: Is Waiting for You. It's a faithful guide with a

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Speaker 1: forward by Viola was it?

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Speaker 2: How do you pronounce this again? Is it? Viola Davis?

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Speaker 1: Up and coming up and comer. One of the joys

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Speaker 1: of reading the book is getting to peel the curtain

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Speaker 1: back a little bit and just like understand how your

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Speaker 1: relationship with Viola, you know, blossomed over the years. And

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Speaker 1: I just A'm so grateful to have you here. A Duena,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Brown Ambition.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: I'm excited to be here.

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Speaker 1: Oh lordie, So tell me a little bit about yourself. So,

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously for those who don't know much about

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Speaker 1: your personal story, you can get a bit of that

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Speaker 1: in the book.

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Speaker 2: But where did you grow up? What was it?

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Speaker 1: Do we not as a little girl, like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I grew up in Washington, d C. Funny enough though,

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Speaker 3: prior to that, my parents were in Liberia, West Africa.

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Speaker 3: So so I'm literally African American Liberian American There was

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Speaker 3: a big coup that broke out in Liberia when when

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Speaker 3: country and that's how I ended up being born in DC.

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Speaker 3: And it's kind of funny now doing the Residents. It's

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Speaker 3: set in the White House, and so much of that

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Speaker 3: the White House, and you know, growing up it was interesting.

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Speaker 3: I felt like it was in some ways it toggled

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Speaker 3: between two worlds. And I think you're listeners will understand,

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Speaker 3: especially since you are rooted in finance and that kind

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Speaker 3: of thing. Right, It's like, on one hand there was

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Speaker 3: Then it was also an extremely urban you know aspect too.

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Speaker 3: You know, I remember growing up and hearing gunshots and

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Speaker 3: you know, seeing crack vials right like in Washington as well,

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Speaker 3: and so and even the city kind of breeds that

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Speaker 3: I did come from a family though, that was very,

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Speaker 3: very very much focused on education, very focused on achievement,

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Speaker 3: my journey has been about bringing those two aspects together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you write about being very precocious and always

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Speaker 1: wanted to sing and dance and perform, and I mean

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Speaker 3: And then there were other parts of my family that

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Speaker 3: One of the things like, now that I'm a mom,

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Speaker 3: I just kind of encourage parents now, like listen for

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Speaker 3: the gifts that are in your children. Discern what the

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Speaker 3: whatever it is. But sometimes your children are manifesting gifts

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Speaker 3: that if you give them a little time, you'll realize that, oh,

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Speaker 3: this actually is meant to bless a lot of people,

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Speaker 2: You have two girls, right I do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah Victoria in London? Six and four now well six

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Speaker 1: I have a five he's almost six. I have an

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Speaker 1: year olds. He'll be six in November, and then I

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Speaker 1: is he? He's so I'm like, is he going to

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to do them. I'm not gonna be

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Speaker 1: One I feel like I'm getting to watch a one

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, what are we?

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Speaker 1: What are we giving tonight? Are we giving like you know,

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Speaker 3: Isn't that fantastic? I mean that, you know, I speak

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Speaker 3: so much about that in the book, right, like how

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Speaker 3: we're born with our superpower, We're born with our gifts,

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Speaker 3: and a lot of life is about unwrapping this gift

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Speaker 3: recognize the depth to which we've been gifted, right in

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Speaker 3: all the many ways that we can use that to

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Speaker 3: bless the world as well as to game prosperity.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I'm sure they're really lucky to have you

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Speaker 1: as a mom, because, like curiously, you were born to

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Speaker 1: little nuggets you shared about your mom's fascination with Black

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Speaker 1: history and how she would take y'all on like what

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Speaker 3: You know, oh field trips. I mean those were you know,

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Speaker 3: North Carolina. We went to plantations that owned us, you know,

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Speaker 1: Well, I want to get into the season of your

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Speaker 1: of different things, the three year season of waiting, and

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Speaker 1: then I also saw you said the three year season

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Speaker 1: during those well, first, describe those few years you had

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Speaker 2: Where did you find hope during that time?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and thank you for asking and also acknowledging that

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Speaker 3: people have a vision board. I told Oprah, I have

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Speaker 3: a vision book, right, and I had just I filled

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Speaker 3: that book up on every page, marriage, motherhood, career, you know,

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Speaker 3: just went down affirmations, finance, you know, just went down

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Speaker 3: these things I even help people create in the world,

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: But then what do you do when you when you

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Speaker 3: And so for me, I was faced with a huge contract.

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Speaker 3: There was so much money attached to it, and I thought, Wow,

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Speaker 3: it was a prerequisite as far as this contract. And

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Speaker 3: that made it very very difficult for me, because, yes,

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, I wanted to be in

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Speaker 3: Absolutely absolutely. I mean even in our industry, you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you know, earlier on, I didn't realize

437
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Speaker 3: the pattern. Now that I'm you know, further along in

438
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Speaker 3: this in this life, in this manifestation life, you know,

439
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 3: I realized that one of the techniques that I kind

440
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Speaker 3: of implement is taking is taking pictures and actually marking,

441
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Speaker 3: marking a moment, marking this day. There's something about this

442
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Speaker 3: moment that I'm supposed to lean into and pay attention to.

443
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Speaker 3: There's something about this moment that I'm supposed to clock

444
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 3: that I don't may not understand right now, but that's

445
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 3: gonna come to me. So literally, yeah. So, So she

446
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 3: had her Tony Award and Julie supposed to beside her,

447
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 3: and they were out in front of Radio City Music Hall.

448
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 3: I was on my way to the subway, and I

449
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 3: turned around. I'm like, and so I make a B

450
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Speaker 3: line for them and congratulations. I'm so happy for you.

451
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Speaker 3: I'm so inspired by you because at that time, as

452
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Speaker 3: a student. Many of the August Wilson plays that I

453
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 3: was performing in, you'd open up the front of the

454
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Speaker 3: book or the front of the play and it would

455
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Speaker 3: say role originated by Viola Davis. And so I said,

456
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Speaker 3: you know, can I just take a picture of you?

457
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Speaker 3: This is before selfie's and like, let me get in

458
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Speaker 3: it right. It was like, can I take a picture

459
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Speaker 3: of you? And so I took that picture of the

460
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Speaker 3: two of them with that Tony Award. And it's funny

461
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Speaker 3: because you know, just a few years later, I ended

462
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Speaker 3: up writing a play for them, I end up living

463
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Speaker 3: with them, and what picture was right there in their

464
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Speaker 3: home framed but that picture that I had taken all

465
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Speaker 3: those years, Oh, I go. Yeah, So many things come

466
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Speaker 3: full circle. And I think, you know, taking pictures, whether

467
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Speaker 3: it was my camera taking the picture by itself, you know,

468
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 3: or me going to the Oprah Winfrey Network and believing

469
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Speaker 3: that hey, one day I'm going to work here and

470
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Speaker 3: intentionally taking a picture of myself in front of the sign.

471
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Speaker 3: I posted it to Facebook that day with a scripture

472
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Speaker 3: Joshua one to three, wheresoever the soul of your foot

473
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Speaker 3: show tread God will give you? That was nine to nine,

474
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Speaker 3: twenty eleven, the first year own ever opened by not

475
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Speaker 3: not even by. On nine nine, twenty fourteen, exactly three

476
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Speaker 3: years later, my new show was premiering on the Oprah

477
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Speaker 3: Winfrey Network, you know. And so that's why I say

478
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Speaker 3: some of these things, as far as you know, when

479
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Speaker 3: there's economic downturn or when we don't have a job

480
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Speaker 3: where you know, there's so many things that can impact us,

481
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Speaker 3: and if we only see them through natural eyes, we

482
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Speaker 3: may not see a way out. We just may not

483
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Speaker 3: see a way out. But if we allow ourselves to

484
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Speaker 3: elevate and see through spiritualize, then we may be able

485
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Speaker 3: to start claiming things spiritually or by faith. That yeah,

486
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Speaker 3: that that realistically or practically, that's not how it works, right,

487
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Speaker 3: that's not how it works. But spiritually you can begin

488
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 3: to open up places for yourself. The same thing happened

489
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Speaker 3: with me at shondaland the same thing happened with me

490
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Speaker 3: at Tyler Perry Studios, you know. And so and these

491
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Speaker 3: were all in times where a lot of people were struggling,

492
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Speaker 3: including myself, right, And so I know what that feeling

493
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 3: is to feel defeated, but also to be wrestling in

494
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Speaker 3: faith and saying, oh, but I believe. Right, I feel defeated,

495
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 3: but I believe. And there's something about the power of

496
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Speaker 3: belief that really is directly connected to manifesting your God dream.

497
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Speaker 1: That's so true and for anyone. Again, the book is

498
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Speaker 1: the world is waiting for you.

499
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Speaker 2: You have to pick it up.

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Speaker 1: I think it's it's almost inviting me. I feel like

501
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm in the season right now. You know, I mentioned

502
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Speaker 1: how these two kids, it's so hard being a mom.

503
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Speaker 1: I live with I don't live near my family. You know,

504
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,719
Speaker 1: I'm an entrepreneur and I'm doing all the things. I'm

505
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: working on my first book as well. I thank some

506
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Speaker 1: in my like third manuscript. It's it's so it's wild,

507
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 1: it's a gift, but it's also it's just a.

508
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Speaker 2: Lot, you know.

509
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Speaker 1: And I think I had to delete Instagram off my

510
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Speaker 1: phone for the.

511
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Speaker 2: First time this week.

512
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Speaker 1: It's a crushing amount of like challenging imagery and news

513
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: and all of that. And one of the things I

514
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Speaker 1: keep going back to, and and I'll touch on what

515
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Speaker 1: you cover in the book too, is like this embracing

516
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Speaker 1: of like your peers, not as competition, but as like

517
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Speaker 1: your compete, like your companions on the journey and I

518
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Speaker 1: wanted you to talk a bit about how you embraced

519
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Speaker 1: your peers because it's extremely I mean, any industry is competitive,

520
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 1: but Hollywood of course has this like reputation for pitting

521
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Speaker 1: women against each other and all that. But I mean,

522
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Speaker 1: you were in LA and you're hosting these what kind

523
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Speaker 1: of like spiritual like gatherings are you hosting? And like, yeah, profits,

524
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Speaker 1: which I didn't even know was a job, but like

525
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 1: apparently you can be a profit and you bring them

526
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Speaker 1: together and you're like crazy in this community. How did

527
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Speaker 1: you start that and how important did that become to

528
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Speaker 1: you in your own career journey?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know early on when I was in college. Actually,

530
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Speaker 3: I just felt this calling to start a spiritual community

531
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Speaker 3: for artists while in college, and so I didn't at

532
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Speaker 3: the time feel like I could start anything, you know,

533
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Speaker 3: like I'm pretty much a kid, right, like, God, what

534
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 3: are you asking me to do? But when I just

535
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 3: follow the voice and put it out there, so many

536
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 3: students came, So many students came, and I realized that

537
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Speaker 3: oh this you know, this kind of gap that I'm

538
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Speaker 3: feeling right where I'm pursuing the arts. But also I'm

539
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 3: a person of faith, and I don't necessarily have a

540
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Speaker 3: community for that. Suddenly I found all these people who

541
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Speaker 3: were feeling the same way, and so I didn't know

542
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Speaker 3: that that was just the beginning of this journey that

543
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 3: I was going to go on even into my professional life.

544
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Speaker 3: But yeah, now we're bringing hundreds of directors, writers, producers, actors,

545
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Speaker 3: you know, various celebrities, musical artists, all of that together

546
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Speaker 3: in these spiritual gatherings. And so a lot of times

547
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Speaker 3: I will bring in, like you said, a profit or

548
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Speaker 3: you know, someone who is able to minister to the

549
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Speaker 3: entertainment community on on a level that we can receive, right,

550
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 3: not only receive, but need in addition to creating community

551
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 3: amongst ourselves that is encouraging, that is not competitive, That

552
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 3: is really about seeing one another succeed, helping one another succeed.

553
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Speaker 3: You know, tomorrow night, Viola Davis and I are doing

554
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Speaker 3: an event at the Grove, and so many of you know,

555
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 3: artists and entertainm and publicists and you know, people who

556
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Speaker 3: have been a part of that community like yes, I'm coming.

557
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Speaker 3: You know, they're the first ones buying the tickets, they're

558
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Speaker 3: the first ones there, and I just I feel like

559
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 3: that's what it's really supposed to be about, right, Like,

560
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Speaker 3: one of the things I say in the book is

561
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Speaker 3: that we're each born to brighten our corner of the world,

562
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Speaker 3: and sometimes we can compare ourselves one another. Are talking

563
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 3: the book about the curse of comparison, you know, how

564
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 3: comparison makes us feel small that oh, this person's doing

565
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Speaker 3: that and that person's doing that, will little o me

566
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Speaker 3: not realizing that, No, you have a wonderful, beautiful gift

567
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 3: as well that needs to be shared. There is a

568
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:50,479
Speaker 3: sense of urgency around what we all have that needs

569
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Speaker 3: to be shared in this world, especially now.

570
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Speaker 1: Yeah, in your career, can you talk a little bit

571
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Speaker 1: about how you've approached it, because you have a lot

572
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Speaker 1: of different things going on. I mean, obviously you're an

573
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Speaker 1: actor and you're an artist and all of that. But

574
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Speaker 1: when did you start to decide, Okay, I'm gonna weave

575
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: in these other streams of revenue, these other business ideas.

576
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Speaker 1: I think you you had you had a vision of

577
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: yourself owning real estate someday. So can we make it

578
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: about money for a second and just kind of talk

579
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Speaker 1: about how you was it strategic or has it been

580
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: out of necessity? You know that you've brought in these

581
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: other you know, business models into your into your career path.

582
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I'm going to be very honest with you,

583
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 3: and I'm sure that your listeners and certainly people that

584
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 3: read the book will see a through line of faith

585
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 3: right throughout it. A lot of things I did not

586
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 3: know to do, it was God telling me to do them.

587
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 3: It was really an act of obedience, even this book.

588
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 3: It was not now, I'm going to write a book

589
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 3: and now I'm going to open up a whole new

590
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Speaker 3: stream of income for myself. And actually I'm going to

591
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 3: time it to come out right now because that'll be

592
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 3: exact time when there's a downturn in the entertainment industry.

593
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Speaker 3: But I'm going to be traveling all over the world

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00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 3: with the book, right like I did not I wasn't

595
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Speaker 3: that smart to put that all together. But it was

596
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 3: literally me responding to each instruction that I was given.

597
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 3: So when it was time to begin an organization, I

598
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 3: received the literally God spoke to me begin Abundant Life University,

599
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 3: just like I did when I was nineteen years old

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Speaker 3: with that spiritual community at at the school. It was

601
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Speaker 3: just it's been things I have to think, do this

602
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 3: and That's why in the book, I say, embrace your calling,

603
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 3: because you're being called to do something right And a

604
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Speaker 3: lot of times we wrestle with and I have a

605
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 3: whole chapter about the things that hold us back, the

606
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 3: things that hold us back from manifesting our God dream.

607
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 3: But if we can if we can connect it with

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Speaker 3: a sin of timing right, like if you're feeling called

609
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 3: to do something, like you feel called to write your book,

610
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 3: if you're feeling called to do something. A lot of

611
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 3: us we procrastinate, we delay, we talk ourselves out of things,

612
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 3: We get fearful, all of these things that hold us back,

613
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 3: and so it takes years and years in the years

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Speaker 3: for us to bring something to completion, many of us.

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Speaker 3: But what I've seen now is that when you say yes,

616
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 3: when you say yes to the calling, you may not

617
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 3: realize that that yes is designed to bless many others,

618
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 3: but also designed to bless you. I'll give you an example.

619
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Speaker 3: During the pandemic, again, I felt this calling and my

620
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 3: husband felt it too, to begin this nonprofit initiative. Right,

621
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 3: This was not paid It was us actually putting our

622
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 3: resources together to bless other people during the pandemic, and

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Speaker 3: we created this series called twenty one Days of Happy.

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00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 3: We brought together celebrities, mental health professionals, faith leaders, you know,

625
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:12,919
Speaker 3: and for twenty one straight days, we just blessed people, right,

626
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 3: helping them to get through the pandemic. Well, at the

627
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Speaker 3: end of the twenty first day, I get a phone call.

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Speaker 3: Who do you think is on the other line? Oprah

629
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Speaker 3: Winfrey turns out that she's been following twenty one Days

630
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Speaker 3: of Happy and now she's inviting me to come and

631
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Speaker 3: host on the network and try to create a model

632
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 3: like that for Oprah Winfrey Network. Now did I see

633
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 3: that coming? Did I see this revenue stream coming as

634
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 3: a result of doing this thing where where it was

635
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 3: just about blessing people. No, But by answering the call,

636
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 3: It's funny, but God can back you into tremendous abundance

637
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 3: and income streams and revenue streams that you may not

638
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 3: have even known were a part of the abundant life

639
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 3: that you're meant to live. So you know, there's there

640
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 3: are different you know, I'm definitely an entrepreneur. I'm definitely

641
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 3: someone who is brown and ambitious, right as this grenaudience is,

642
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 3: as this community is, you know, but just also saying

643
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 3: like Hey, one one aspect of you know, there's one

644
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 3: aspect of ambition that's like hustling, right and grinding and

645
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 3: like about my business and getting my paper and all

646
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 3: these things right. And listen as someone who lived in

647
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 3: New York for fifteen years, like, I am no stranger

648
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 3: to the grind or the hustle. But when I moved here, interestingly,

649
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 3: I received a prophecy and this woman came to me.

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Speaker 3: She said, sweet and simple. She said, you've been striving

651
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Speaker 3: and straining to reach you know, your next level. She's like,

652
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 3: but God is saying, if you say in a sweet

653
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 3: and simple place, He's going to take it from here.

654
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 3: And that was hard for me to embrace because that

655
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Speaker 3: was not my normal tempo.

656
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 2: That was not my worldview.

657
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 3: But when I began to settle into another level of faith,

658
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 3: I started seeing doors open for me that I knew

659
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 3: I could not have opened for myself.

660
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 1: Hey, ba, fam, we're going to take a quick break,

661
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:28,879
Speaker 1: pay some bills, and we'll be right back. So I'm

662
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: trying to understand. So, when you had the opportunity to

663
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 1: come to La, your housing falls through. Julius Viola's husband

664
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Speaker 1: happens to call you. You just can't you mentioned? He's like, well,

665
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 1: come live with us. Was that your door to LA

666
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,959
Speaker 1: at that point? Was that what enabled you to come

667
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: to LA and not have that like housing insecurity kind

668
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: of weighing on you and give you the space to

669
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Speaker 1: build that career out.

670
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 3: So what you know, I talked about Harlem to Hollywood, right,

671
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 3: and that and that supernatural sign. So after that, literally

672
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 3: the day and I talk about in the book, the

673
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 3: day after my camera took this Harlem the Hollywood you're

674
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 3: a star, congratulations, my agency dropped me. So it's too

675
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 3: again these dichotomies of what's happening in the spirit and

676
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 3: what's happening in reality. In the spirit God saying you're

677
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 3: a star. I'm gonna take you to Hollywood. In the natural,

678
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 3: it's literally the very next day, my agencys you're a

679
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:34,919
Speaker 3: small actress, You're only destined for small roles. You'll never

680
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 3: make it in Hollywood, and you need to find a

681
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 3: small agency and drops me. So now I'm confronted with

682
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 3: two different realities, right, And I had to make a

683
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 3: choice what voice am I going to believe? Whose report

684
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 3: am I going to believe? And I chose to believe

685
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 3: I'm a star. I'm going to Hollywood. God has a.

686
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 2: Plan for me.

687
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,800
Speaker 3: I don't exactly know what it looks like. But God,

688
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 3: if you're sending me to Hollywood, I'm open to go.

689
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 3: I just need you to My prayer was I need

690
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 3: you to open the door. That was my prayer. I'm

691
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 3: willing I surrender. I hear you. I don't know how

692
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 3: to do that by myself. I need you to open

693
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 3: the door. The instruction that I received was to go.

694
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Speaker 3: And this is again, I'm not living a fabulous life, right.

695
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 3: I don't have a car, I don't have a get

696
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 3: on the bus, get on the train, walk across town

697
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 3: to a Bible study. What does that have to do

698
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 3: with an open door? Nothing? But I do it. Follow

699
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 3: the instruction. Pray over a woman that's there, and turns

700
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Speaker 3: out that this is a big, big creator, big writer, producer.

701
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 2: Did not know.

702
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 3: I'm just praying over her. She's crying. Finally we exchange names.

703
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 3: I recognized her name and was like, wait, are you

704
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 3: are you? Are you a writer? Did you create this show?

705
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 3: I said, I've been trying for three months to get

706
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 3: an audition for your show. She said no, really, and

707
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 3: that's the show that brought me to Hollywood. That's the

708
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 3: show that brought me to Hollywood because I was willing

709
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 3: to do at church, to step out on fact. You know.

710
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 3: So it's like I for three but I will tell

711
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 3: you for three months, I did literally everything in my

712
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 3: power to try to be cast on that one show.

713
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 3: I never even got an audition. I mean I called,

714
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 3: I texted, I emailed, I physically mailed. I went to

715
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 3: the post office and mailed materials to them. I did

716
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 3: everything I could think of for that one show. But

717
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 3: yet I hear I get these spiritual instructions to do

718
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,399
Speaker 3: something that seems so you know, far fetched, like why

719
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 3: would I do that? And then it backed me directly

720
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 3: into what I had been struggling to do the whole time.

721
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Speaker 1: You couldn't be describing more the experience of trying to

722
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 1: find like trying to be like a senior mid to

723
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: senior level you know, career woman today, woman of color,

724
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: and like trying to find work because it is so

725
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: hard just to break through because a lot of these

726
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: big companies, the dream jobs they're not hiring. They're so competitive.

727
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 1: They post the job even though they've already promised it

728
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: to an internal candidate, like and it can.

729
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 2: Feel like you're doing everything right. You got the right,

730
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 2: you've got the coach, you got the.

731
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 1: Cover letter, you got your you got your all your

732
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: skills on paper, you're doing your on LinkedIn, You're doing

733
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: the thing.

734
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 2: But that secret like.

735
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Speaker 1: That, that going a little bit, you know, to the

736
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: in a different direction, following a little path, a little

737
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: side quest. I love that so much because it really is.

738
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: It's the power of going a little bit off the

739
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 1: beaten trail and just letting a little bit of opportunity,

740
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 1: you know, not not luck, but chance, like you know,

741
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: lead you and trust and faith and the unknown. That

742
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 1: just like going off a little bit. It's hard to articulate.

743
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: You do a beautiful job in the book. That's why

744
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: you've wrote it, not me.

745
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 3: I mean, listen, That's why chapter five is called the

746
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 3: secret power of hearing God's voice, because God can can

747
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 3: lead you in a way that you would not. You know,

748
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 3: everybody's going this way, everybody's on LinkedIn, everybody's on this,

749
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 3: everybody's on that, everybody's networking. Everybody's doing all the things

750
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 3: that we know how to do, and we can do

751
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 3: them with our eyes closed. But you know, one of

752
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 3: the one of the kind of business strategies my husband

753
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 3: likes to say is when when when you zig, you

754
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 3: know when they zig, you zag right, but you may

755
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 3: not even know, like well, where's the zag? Where's the zag?

756
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 3: But God can call you? Ay, yeah, like like you know. So,

757
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 3: so we were doing all the things we know how

758
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 3: to do. But that's why I call this manifesting your

759
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 3: God dream. The world is waiting for you. Embrace your calling,

760
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 3: manifest your goddream because if you're just trying to manifest

761
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:59,479
Speaker 3: your own dream, then you're limited by whatever outcome you

762
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 3: yourself can manifest. But if you're partnering with God to

763
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 3: manifest a God dream, which is higher, then you have help.

764
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 3: I listen when when my show and owned ended, if

765
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 3: loving you is wrong? I was pregnant. I felt this

766
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 3: internal clock of like, okay, I need another job. I

767
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 3: need another job, and I had a time frame because

768
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm having this baby by May, so somewhere

769
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 3: in here before May, I need my next job. Well,

770
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 3: for months and months and months, I tried and tried

771
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 3: and try. It was not working.

772
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 2: Well.

773
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 3: While I'm pregnant. You know, my husband received, we're gonna

774
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 3: name our baby Brooklyn because We met in Brooklyn, got

775
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,399
Speaker 3: married in Brooklyn. My husband says, God is saying, name

776
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 3: our baby London, London. Why will we name the baby London.

777
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 3: God is saying, Brooklyn is our past, London is our future.

778
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 3: He's gonna open the door for us in London. By faith,

779
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 3: we're supposed to name our baby London Joy. By faith,

780
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 3: we name the baby London Joy. Do you know when

781
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:00,760
Speaker 3: London Joy is four months old, I received a huge

782
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 3: contract to move our entire family to London to begin

783
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 3: a whole new television series. My children had British accent.

784
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 3: You know, it's like this whole the world is waiting

785
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,240
Speaker 3: for you. The world opened up for us, not because

786
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 3: of all the things, you know, It's like, yes, you

787
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 3: lay that groundwork of the work right, Like that's the groundwork,

788
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 3: that's the seed. But sometimes the harvest, sometimes the manifestation

789
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 3: is spiritual, and sometimes the instruction is simple. Sometimes the

790
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 3: instruction is more simple than we think that will open

791
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 3: the door even wider than we dreamed.

792
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: I keep thinking, as you're speaking of how much we

793
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: need to turn off social media and just let our

794
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 1: own intuition, our own well, our own intuition. And then

795
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: also God or whatever someone else would call it the universe.

796
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: But let that spiritual energy come in because it is

797
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: all we need. Sometimes we don't need the noise or

798
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:05,879
Speaker 1: to see what everyone else is doing. And I think

799
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: about man and this, like especially during the pandemic and

800
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: this finance world, it was like all the crypto bros.

801
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: And like, you know, should I get a trucking company?

802
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 1: Should I get should I do drop shipping?

803
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 2: Do I need?

804
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: You know, do I need to start an online business?

805
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 1: And all this stuff because everyone was doing an online

806
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 1: or I want to be an influencer, I want to

807
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: do makeup tutorials, blah blah blah.

808
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,879
Speaker 2: No shade, but we're kind of looking.

809
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 1: To these We're looking to social media, and that's like

810
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: the limit of our dream are our own expectations for ourselves,

811
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 1: Like if you see it, you can dream it. But

812
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 1: I think we're seeing so much outside noise, which is making,

813
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: you know, making a lot of us pivot in directions

814
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: just based on what we're seeing, like, oh, maybe I

815
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: should be doing that, Maybe I should be doing this

816
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: instead of just like turning everything off and just bringing

817
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 1: it back to basics, like you have, you know, a journal,

818
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,720
Speaker 1: some deep thinking and just like almost like open hands,

819
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: open ears, eyes to like what the possibility could be

820
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: from the higher power that voice.

821
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 3: I mean, that's that's what it's all about, you know.

822
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 3: That's what this book is all about. The world is

823
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 3: waiting for you. No matter what your circumstances are in

824
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 3: life right now. You must believe that. You must believe

825
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 3: that the world is opening up for you in new ways,

826
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 3: is calling you forward, and you're this is just a season.

827
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 3: It's just a season. And that's the thing. You know,

828
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 3: when I talk about the waiting season, it can feel

829
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 3: long when you're in the middle of it because I

830
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 3: don't know when it's going to end.

831
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 2: But the tears is that long time, you know.

832
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 3: But that's the thing. But I was still sustained, you

833
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 3: know what I mean. It's like you don't always know.

834
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's it's it's spiritual, like you don't know how

835
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 3: how did I get through that month? And how did

836
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 3: I get through the next month? You know, And then

837
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 3: you turn around and look like, wow, you know what,

838
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 3: I got so much out of that season. It felt

839
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 3: so painful, But you get to the end of it

840
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 3: and it's like, wow, I wouldn't be who I am

841
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 3: without the season I came out of. I would not

842
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 3: have the book that I have without that season. So

843
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 3: it's all working together for our good. It's all working

844
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 3: together for our good, and if we can just hold on,

845
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 3: we will see the manifestation of our god dream, of

846
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 3: our abundant life on the other side.

847
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: And on that journey. I think it's so important to

848
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 1: have voices like yours in the mix and just know

849
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 1: that you don't always have to be your like even

850
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: there's times when you have doubt, you don't always have

851
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: to be your own voice of inspiration. You need to

852
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: surround yourself by people who can lift you up and

853
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: remind you, you know, of that positive And so you

854
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 1: mentioned a couple of ways to connect with you and

855
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 1: join your community. Do you want to talk about that briefly?

856
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 1: Just around sure everyone comes?

857
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,760
Speaker 3: Is it? The world is waiting dot Org. There there's

858
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 3: a page called the God Dreamers Academy, and it's for

859
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 3: anyone who's like, listen, I want to dream much bigger

860
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 3: than I have been. I need to take the limits

861
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 3: off of my vision of my imagination, you know. And

862
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 3: there are things in life that I am looking to manifest,

863
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 3: to bring into fruition. But I feel, like, you know,

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Speaker 3: Abundant Life University is really all about that, right, is

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Speaker 3: about people experiencing prosperity in each level of life. There's

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Speaker 3: a contact me page. You can contact me on that

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Speaker 3: I'm active on Instagram at Edwina Finley. Come on, the

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Speaker 3: more the merrier, This is a great journey, and of

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Speaker 3: course pick up the book right like, there's so many

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Speaker 3: gems and the world is waiting fetching on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: Here it is, which I hope you are so glad

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Speaker 3: I got that goal to remind that gold, to remind

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Speaker 1: Ever we knew it was going to be a best

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Speaker 1: they said, spring for the gold, given the shine, We

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Speaker 3: We need reminders, even visual reminders. We need reminders of

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Speaker 3: our royalty, you know, and who were called to be

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Speaker 3: in this world.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for sharing your positive message

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Speaker 1: and your story with Brown Ambition. I'm going to put

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Speaker 1: all the links. Don't know we got you bea family.

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Speaker 1: Put all the links to Edwina's work and where you

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Speaker 1: can find the Abundance, the Abundant University and all your

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Speaker 1: other great initiatives in our show notes. Please go check

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Speaker 1: them out. And can I just say I'm so pissed

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Speaker 1: that they canceled the Residence.

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Speaker 2: That was such a good show.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sure it's the bigger plan, but damn, that was.

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Speaker 2: Such a good show. I'm so glad it exists.

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Speaker 1: But you were brilliant as you were. Thank you with

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Speaker 1: that amazing asymmetrical bob like listen. Yeah, I appreciate your

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Speaker 1: time and thank you so so much. You take care

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Speaker 1: and best of luck with everything. Okay va fam, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for listening to this week's show. I

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Speaker 1: want to shout out to our production team, Courtney, our editor, Carla,

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Speaker 1: our fearless leader for idea to launch productions. I want

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Speaker 1: to shout out my assistant Lauda Escalante and Cameron McNair

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Speaker 1: for helping me put the show together. It is not

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Speaker 1: a one person project, as much as I have tried

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Speaker 1: to make it so these past ten years, I need help, y'all,

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Speaker 1: and thank goodness I've been able to put this team

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Speaker 1: around me to support me on this journey and to

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Speaker 1: y'all be a fam I love you so so so

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Speaker 1: so much. Please rate, review, subscribe, Make sure you sign

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Speaker 1: on upcoming episodes, our tenth year anniversary celebrations to come,

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