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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex p And it's your grongery and

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Speaker 2: the cold and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 2: of Poor Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: We gotta guest today, We gotta guess today. I'm really

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Speaker 2: excited because this is at all No, this is the

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Speaker 2: second time.

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Speaker 1: The first god that did a podcast was Mouse. Now

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Speaker 1: we got finest today. So give us an introduction.

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Speaker 2: Let us know who you are when you came, because

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Speaker 2: you came out of nowhere in the podcasting world. You

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Speaker 2: decided to pop up take niggas spots, So give an introduction. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I'm Finess.

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Speaker 3: My real name Jonathan Dupatan. I'm from Atlanta. I've been

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Speaker 3: podcasting about a year and a half. No, I'm sorry

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Speaker 3: a year. It's called Richard Unemployed, known as Vanessa's only

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Speaker 3: on Instagram. Mmm, and I just be talking about real ship,

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Speaker 3: talking strippers, talking to women, talking real niggas, saying real ship.

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Speaker 2: Okay, now I'm letting you know right now, the poor

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Speaker 2: crew is different over here. First of all, they about

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Speaker 2: to be in a DM, so just be prepared. The

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Speaker 2: girls are coming ready, So we have.

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Speaker 1: Because I know what you're about to ask.

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Speaker 2: I want to ask and what made him so? Like,

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Speaker 2: what made you want to start a podcast?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Shit?

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 3: I was talking sh it on my phone and I

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Speaker 3: was just posting videos on Instagram and people was working

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Speaker 3: with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so he was like, I might as well get

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Speaker 2: paid for the ship.

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Speaker 4: Well, I already had an idea of a podcast. I

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Speaker 4: just never started.

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Speaker 1: Like I was.

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Speaker 3: I was in prison and I was like, yea, I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna start the podcast when I got and then when

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Speaker 3: I got out.

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Speaker 1: Now, can I ask you what you went to jail for?

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Speaker 4: My name?

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Speaker 1: For this?

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Speaker 3: I went to I went to prison form.

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Speaker 5: Like for god.

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Speaker 2: To Okay, So we have a time on the show

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Speaker 2: called a bd B a big big Baller.

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Speaker 1: So a bd B is.

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Speaker 5: A man who don't mind, you know, spend a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit b.

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Speaker 1: dB.

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Speaker 2: So a BDB is a guy who you know, he

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Speaker 2: likes beautiful women, doesn't mind you know, spending money and

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Speaker 2: letting her know whatever you need.

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Speaker 1: I got you, baby. Are you a BDB? Do you

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Speaker 1: like to spend and give them? Un? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So, like what's the stipulation because it must got to

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Speaker 2: be like some type of rules, like you knock on

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Speaker 2: somebody before.

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Speaker 3: Of course I don't tricked, but I mean I got

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Speaker 3: a lot of women. I can't trick on all of everybody, all.

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Speaker 1: Of them in line. If you got a lot and

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Speaker 1: you ain't.

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Speaker 4: Spending me, I think they's just like my personality.

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Speaker 1: Ak, that's what he gotta be.

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Speaker 2: Look, this is a dangerous man. I can already see

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Speaker 2: where this episode is going.

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Speaker 3: Like, I will spend some money though, right, Like I

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Speaker 3: had a girlfriend like Aye and a half ago. M

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Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, I'm dumb fish. I

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Speaker 3: bought her for the neers, bought the titties.

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Speaker 1: That's a good man something.

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Speaker 4: I was like, Man, I can't keep doing this shit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what made her like what?

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Speaker 2: What was it about her that made you feel like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna spend some money on her to make her

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Speaker 2: my girlfriend. Because you say you got a lot of girls,

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Speaker 2: so they mean you probably don't be always having a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: You'd be dating around.

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Speaker 4: I had.

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Speaker 3: We just got together as soon as I got out

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Speaker 3: she could be my wife. So that's why I really wasn't.

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Speaker 3: I didn't care about spending. And then when we broke

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Speaker 3: I can't do this with every girl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, I mean that makes it I think you

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Speaker 2: have to make I think honestly, spending on woman it's

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Speaker 2: like an investment, it really is. So if you find

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Speaker 2: was it ulnarialistic things?

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Speaker 3: We didn't get to that point. Okay, I would have. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you just never got.

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Speaker 4: To that point. She didn't. I don't. We just never

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Speaker 1: She wanted to see what you gonna shay, y'all, mother,

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Speaker 1: get on his ass.

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Speaker 5: Girl.

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Speaker 2: So when you say you have a lot of women,

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Speaker 2: how many women are you dating right now?

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't call it dating. Just friends. Yeah I can't.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: That's that you don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's just friends like something I don't have

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Speaker 4: sex with somebodd Are you a.

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Speaker 2: Guy that's like, oh, I got a lot of homegirls,

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Speaker 2: But I don't consider dating unless y'all know.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's like potential, like I can to day,

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Speaker 3: but I just haven't crossed that line.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, I know.

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Speaker 4: They'll want to call me all the time, and no,

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Speaker 4: I don't know how.

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Speaker 1: I don't do that.

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Speaker 4: Oh goy.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like this though, because if you fucking

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Speaker 2: nigga and then you know you fucked them too early,

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Speaker 2: you can't show your week side like you gotta.

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Speaker 1: You gotta play it. So no, I definitely cannot relate though.

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Speaker 2: You gotta be playing you have Yeah, like you already

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Speaker 2: too early, too early before exactly before you.

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Speaker 1: Do something before he becomes a BDB.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, before he spent money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So if you fuck before, you done before he

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Speaker 2: showed real genuin entry, right, because taking me out to dinner,

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Speaker 2: and that's like to me, that's not showing real genuine entry.

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Speaker 2: I feel like niggas go on dates all the time

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Speaker 2: with interest.

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Speaker 4: I don't say that, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Not saying that it shows entries, but I feel like

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Speaker 4: So a nigga with But I'm not saying I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna give you no pussy just because you spend some money,

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Speaker 2: but it will make me feel like you're trying to

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Speaker 3: Invested a nigga with an amount of money they don't get,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna spend it just so I can get some plizzy.

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Speaker 4: This this little three Thousand'm gonna send up.

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Speaker 2: And that's why I said, I might still not give you,

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Speaker 2: but it's about effort for me. It's about you showing

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Speaker 2: really trying to Yes, the nigga taking me to Ruth Chris,

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Speaker 2: when he take everybody there, it's not showing me. Okay, No,

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Speaker 2: we don't have to up anything though, because we're talking

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Speaker 2: about obviously.

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Speaker 1: This is what we do. They not, but this is

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Speaker 2: Not what we would like. But we're talking to the

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So for the average girl or the average guy and

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Speaker 2: working America, taking a woman to Ruth Chris, he's doing

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Speaker 2: a lot, you know, he's spending his money.

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I've never been somewhere nice before.

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Speaker 2: But like I said to me, taking a woman to dinner,

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Speaker 2: whether it's Chili's, Ruth Chris or Steak Market, to me

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Speaker 2: that it's just dinner because you gotta eat anyway. So

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Speaker 2: what so what else what else. I want to see

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Speaker 2: some activity outside of your normal behavior spending, because that's

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Speaker 2: usually that is outside of guy's be having when I

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Speaker 2: say to do different on this part, because no, we do.

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Speaker 2: We've always said this because to me, I just want

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Speaker 2: to see I just want to see effort.

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Speaker 1: I want to see that you pay attention.

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Speaker 2: So if I say like, oh my god, these roses

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Speaker 2: I love romance. I want passion. I want to see that.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I'm really trying to impress this girl.

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Speaker 2: I want a thought out date. I want a thought

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Speaker 2: out vacation. I don't want to just show up in

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Speaker 2: the vacation that's just there. I want to walk in

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Speaker 2: the room and there's rose fellows everywhere in balloons.

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Speaker 1: I'm that type of girl. You paid intension.

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Speaker 4: So with so what I like, Yeah, with you, it's

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Speaker 4: about how much they spending.

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Speaker 5: It's a little.

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Speaker 2: It's not even so much about what they mean. And

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Speaker 2: I just think at this point I'm just used to

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Speaker 2: that's why you mean if you got.

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Speaker 4: Three niggas you're talking to.

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Speaker 3: If all of them spending money, how do you separate

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Speaker 3: if all of them are show you the same thing

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Speaker 3: by spending a check.

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm gonna buy your bag you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's when it gets down to the conversation, And

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Speaker 2: that's when it gets down to you being your true

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Speaker 2: authentic self. Like I like niggas that be vulnerable and

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Speaker 2: raw with me. Most niggas ain't gonna do that if

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Speaker 2: they're not fucking with you for real. And so that's

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Speaker 2: what separates because all the niggas meaning money, right, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean, But that's what separates who I'm

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Speaker 2: you do this all the time. You gotta really be

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Speaker 2: real and rah and be authentic. I feel like niggas,

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Speaker 2: especially these days, everybody is so about you know, for

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Speaker 2: just playing, but like for real, all of us, I

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Speaker 2: feel like everybody be being a little manipulative and be

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Speaker 2: playing a game to a certain extent. So like that's

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Speaker 2: just the generation that we in. So I feel like

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Speaker 2: people who are raw and authentic and vulnerable it can

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Speaker 2: keep it one, honey, and let you.

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Speaker 1: Know what it is and let you know what they.

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Speaker 2: Want out the situation, and just be transparent, Like those

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Speaker 2: are the people that I'm just drawing to that you

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Speaker 2: gravitate that I gravitate towards because he's something real but you.

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Speaker 2: But I think that's the thing though, because I feel

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Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna lie though, and I always say this,

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Speaker 2: we have contributed to this mentality of he has to

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Speaker 2: do this and X y Z. Now it has been

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Speaker 2: taken too far because girls expect to go on a

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Speaker 2: first day and they want a negat to show up

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Speaker 2: with a bark in like be realistic, Like we're not.

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Speaker 2: That's not the stuff we're talking about. And I'm not

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Speaker 2: saying that a man has y'all go on first dates asking.

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Speaker 1: For y'all rent to be paid. This is not what

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Speaker 1: this is. Like.

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Speaker 2: We always talk about being a boss, making your own

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Speaker 1: What are we here for? You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: What else is there? You know what I'm saying? Oh

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Speaker 5: Get a rover? Never mind what.

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Speaker 1: No, he wasn't. M M. You know, have you ever

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Speaker 4: My sister queen?

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Speaker 2: That Okay, I get it. That's why your name. We're

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Speaker 1: I hate the word finess I hate it.

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Speaker 2: I I think when you have to finesse somebody, that

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Speaker 2: I feel like when you're finessing somebody, you're tricking somebody.

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Speaker 2: I've always hated the word for next because I feel like,

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Speaker 1: I don't like the word for this.

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Speaker 3: I don't it's levels to it some people, but not me.

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Speaker 3: You know, I got to give a gap. I fine situations,

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Speaker 4: I just learned. I just learned how to not use people.

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Speaker 1: But you're manipulating me right now.

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Speaker 4: No no, no, not no, no not.

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Speaker 3: I just learned how to, uh just take a certain situations,

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Speaker 3: I know you, we're friends and depending on who you know,

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Speaker 1: That's that's more so networking. Yeah, but working to what

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Speaker 2: Not a finest though, because a finest networking is because

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Speaker 2: we're using each other. We're in this together. Hey I

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Speaker 2: sells wine. Let me put this on this and we're

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Speaker 2: working together. Network is working together. Finessing is I'm getting

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Speaker 1: I finessed you. When you finesse somebody, you essentially tricked them. Okay,

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Speaker 1: look up, look.

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Speaker 2: Because that's what she always want to look up the

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Speaker 2: definition I mean, and an attempt to win a trick.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, this is for a game which one should

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Speaker 2: you say manner? Okay, but we're gonna it says okay,

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Speaker 2: it says what does the slang finesse mean? And it

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Speaker 2: says if you finess something, you handle it, are doing

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Speaker 2: skillfully and cleverly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think okay.

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Speaker 2: And I think people always mistake being clever for like some.

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Speaker 1: Evil sheet and it's dog got. It doesn't have to

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Speaker 1: be evil, Okay, it doesn't.

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Speaker 2: I think in order to finest people, you have to

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Speaker 2: be smarter than the people that you encounter, most of them.

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Speaker 2: But I guess when the word for ness is always used,

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Speaker 2: finished that, nigga.

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Speaker 1: I mean I finess, you know, like it be on someone.

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Speaker 2: I got over on them. I've never heard fess using

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Speaker 2: a positive manner. It's always like I got over on

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Speaker 1: Come on, y'all, we can keep it real.

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Speaker 2: When people use the word for ness is because they

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Speaker 3: In the streets, though, you know it's in the streets. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but I'm working my move a different way, like, okay,

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Speaker 3: certain situations. I know how to dress. I ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: judge you, Yeah, don't judge me. I know how to

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Speaker 3: I know how to dress. I know how to like

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Speaker 3: know how to finesse women out.

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Speaker 1: They drag waiting for you to say it.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, it's it's just it's just a way

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Speaker 2: When you finess a woman out her draws, the fine

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Speaker 2: that because you had to do some things that you

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Speaker 2: didn't mean say some things. So how do you finesse

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Speaker 2: a person out there draws?

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Speaker 1: Define what that means? Man?

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Speaker 3: When I finish them out their draws, right, it's first,

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Speaker 3: it's the style of how I got them right, how

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Speaker 1: And this is the real you.

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Speaker 5: This is me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is real me. But I mean, I can't say,

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Speaker 3: like when I'm around a female when we're together, like

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Speaker 3: you might feel like I love you, but because that's

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Speaker 3: just the way I am. But it's just because I'm

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Speaker 3: real affectionate, right And I'm shaking already.

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Speaker 4: I'm real affectionate and that's who I am.

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Speaker 3: But like, once you walk out that doors, it's a

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Speaker 1: Where's the next one?

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Speaker 2: But I don't disagree with that because I feel like

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Speaker 4: You don't mean no.

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Speaker 2: I agree that I am the person that's an advocate

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Speaker 2: for that. What I always say, I'll tell a nigga

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Speaker 2: I love him and I don't.

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Speaker 1: Mean it because you always because I have the time

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Speaker 1: I say, I didn't say I never did it before.

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Speaker 2: But you don't like like the it's like you, I'm

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Speaker 2: holding nasty nigga as long as we don't call it

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Speaker 1: No, I did not say that. What I'm saying is

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Speaker 1: have I done it in the past? Absolutely? Have I

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Speaker 1: played victim. I'm gonna hold accountability. Have I grown? Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: What I tell a nigga right now in twenty twenty two,

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Speaker 4: I'm not on that no more, skimmer.

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Speaker 1: I'm worse. I'm barrel. I have scammed. I have scammed.

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Speaker 1: I have definitely scammed. And you know what, but I've learned,

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Speaker 1: I've grown. I'm a new woman. I'm a new part

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Speaker 1: tell niggas I love him no more. That was three months.

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Speaker 2: into these motherfucking topics.

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Speaker 1: We haven't even started the show.

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Speaker 2: I'm the skimmern likely you know what that's gonna say?

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Speaker 7: What I call?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we're gonna get into the first topic today.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about cheating today. Have you ever

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Speaker 2: cheated before?

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Speaker 1: Be honest?

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Speaker 4: Cheat?

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Speaker 1: All right, you're a liar?

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Speaker 2: So people who cheat while consistently telling their partner I

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Speaker 2: love you.

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Speaker 1: Do you believe a person can really be in love

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Speaker 1: and cheat? First of all?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think men can.

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Speaker 1: So you don't think a woman can cheat and be

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Speaker 1: in love? Let me ask you this.

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Speaker 2: I actually asked a good question. I gotta ask a

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Speaker 2: very good question the other day. I'm gonna ask you first. Well, no,

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Speaker 2: let me ask him first, because I already know what

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Speaker 2: you're gonna say. If you're dating, Yes, I do.

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Speaker 1: I know what you're gonna say.

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Speaker 2: If you're dating a woman and she cheats on you,

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Speaker 2: would you rather be Would you rather be emotionally or physically?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather get rammed fucking dick? Or would you

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Speaker 1: rather her be I love you, I miss you? Which

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Speaker 1: one would you rather? But not fucking emotionally cheating or

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Speaker 1: physically cheating?

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00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 4: Emotionally? I don't want no dick going inside? What would you.

444
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:51,639
Speaker 2: Every time, every time met emotions, it's always.

445
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 8: That, you know what.

446
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 2: I had a conversation with Ana, he said, every time

447
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 2: a nigga is never gonna pick the physical, cheating women

448
00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,400
Speaker 2: always picked the For me, it's the thoughts, the thought

449
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 2: of somebody else touching you. It's the thought of somebody

450
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 2: else having.

451
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:03,960
Speaker 5: You in a way.

452
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:08,040
Speaker 4: So yeah, you can say whatever you wanted.

453
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 5: As Ye, men are crazy.

454
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 1: I don't think any crazy. I just think we wired differently.

455
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 2: I throw women because we're such affectionate people and we

456
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:24,880
Speaker 2: are so emotional. For us, the emotions is what really

457
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,800
Speaker 2: be having us like, oh hell, now you got me

458
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 2: fucked up. And then it also becomes like a okay

459
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,160
Speaker 2: because kind of like he said, when he first gotut

460
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 2: in jail and he was in a relationship with his girl,

461
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 2: he was spending money on her because he fucked with her.

462
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 2: So then it's almost the thing like, okay, your nega

463
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 2: spending money.

464
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: On the beach, are you really fuck with this? So

465
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 1: cause thenas don't just be sending money on beaches that

466
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 1: they don't period aout.

467
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 2: But that's what I said, I mean, but even still

468
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 2: a trigger spend a little money on you.

469
00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 6: But he ain't gonna be like doing no life alternation.

470
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 4: About your car.

471
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 1: But I'm not trying to be funny, but let's keep

472
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 1: it won. The dre is not the average girl. And

473
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 1: I did not bought that man either. She did not

474
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 1: fuck him, and he bought her car.

475
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 2: But that car wasn't life changing for her because either

476
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 2: if he was gonna buy the car she was gonna get,

477
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 2: that wasn't life changing for her.

478
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 1: That's why we talked about it and laugh about it.

479
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 2: And I already had a car, so it was like

480
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 2: my sacred Yeah, so it wasn't life changing for her.

481
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 2: So you feel like a woman can't love you and

482
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 2: go suck another dick, but you can love her and

483
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 2: go eat some other pussy. I will say, I'm I

484
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 2: don't think that if you really love a nigga, you

485
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 2: cannot go soik none other nigga.

486
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 4: That's true.

487
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 1: I can't go.

488
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 2: If I pause one at a time, I'm just saying

489
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:47,919
Speaker 2: if I love like if I'm saying I'm saying, if

490
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 2: I really love my nigga, like if I'm saying I

491
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 2: love you, I'm devoted to you, I'm committed to you.

492
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 1: I cannot go sick. None other nigga. But what Let

493
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 1: me just ask you, even if now I am not,

494
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: you know what, Like I said, I gonna stay with you.

495
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 1: Is I have I cheated before? Absolutely?

496
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 4: I have.

497
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 2: I have.

498
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie in my younger in my younger.

499
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 4: Days, yes I have.

500
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: What's the younger one?

501
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:10,959
Speaker 4: How?

502
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: First?

503
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 4: On how young?

504
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 1: When I was twenty eight, I got a horrible relationship.

505
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 1: Did I cheat on that nigga? Absolutely?

506
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 2: And if I he tried to come to me and

507
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 2: get back with me, I do it again. But my

508
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 2: relationship this year.

509
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't never cheat on a nigga. I wouldn't.

510
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:36,479
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I'm not gonna lie to you she had

511
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 1: what if he cheated on me in the pins? It

512
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,400
Speaker 1: depends what happened.

513
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:42,720
Speaker 4: What doesn't matter.

514
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 5: It does matter you cheated, how you.

515
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: Cheated, and do you love the bitch? Did you just

516
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 1: fuck the bitch? Exactly? That's what I'm saying.

517
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 4: A lot a lot.

518
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 2: So this is what I'm saying a lot of times.

519
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be one hundred percent honest with you. When

520
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 2: I moved to Atlanta and I got in that relationship

521
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 2: and I cheated on that men, I was not satisfied sexually.

522
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: So when I cheated on him, did I still care

523
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 1: for him?

524
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 8: Now?

525
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: I was never in love with him. Did I have

526
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: love for him?

527
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 2: Yes, But when I cheated on him, it wasn't me

528
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 2: thinking about him or how I felt about him. I

529
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 2: was being selfish and trying to satisfy myself, just like

530
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 2: men do.

531
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 4: Y'all.

532
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 2: Don't be thinking about y'all girlfriend or y'all wife or

533
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 2: y'all fiance. It just be I'm trying to be satisfied

534
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 2: in this moment, and I was doing the same thing.

535
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 1: So why is it that men can cheat physically but

536
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 1: women can't.

537
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 4: We be stressed out.

538
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,160
Speaker 1: I was stressed too. Brent was due and he wasn't

539
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 1: paying it.

540
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 4: I feel that.

541
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 2: Hello, well, so that's what I'm saying. What's the difference.

542
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,199
Speaker 2: I'm really asking you, what's the difference?

543
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 3: I mean, And your situation is different, Like you was

544
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 3: definitely like on the way out the door, Yeah, satisfied.

545
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 3: But if you're in a full relationship and you're in

546
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 3: love and then you step out, that's a whole different dynamic.

547
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 3: You in love with this nigga and you step out

548
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 3: and fuck another nigga, It's not the same, because you

549
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 3: have to really be emotionally connected with this nigga to

550
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 3: go get your body to another nigga to come back

551
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 3: home to sleep in.

552
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 2: And let me tell you something, That's what I was

553
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 2: about to get it, because the question was, do you

554
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 2: think something has to be fundamentally wrong with people who

555
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 2: can and even go home until their partners that they

556
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: love fundamentally means like it's something wrong, a chemical imbalance,

557
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 2: like you're a little throat off. For everybody, anybody, anybody, women, men,

558
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 2: I think so.

559
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 4: I think. I think for men we are naturally supposed.

560
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: To, suppose to supposed to.

561
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 5: Because you quoted.

562
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 4: I just know. I just know.

563
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 3: And for for me being around multiple niggas, you know

564
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 3: how we think, it's just all across the world like

565
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 3: everything this And.

566
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie because and this is why I'm

567
00:25:58,520 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 2: going to kind of agree with you when you say

568
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 2: in love, when me and my last situation, like when

569
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 2: we broke up, I still haven't been with anybody else

570
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 2: because we really, like I'm saying, I haven't been with

571
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:13,199
Speaker 2: anybody else since we were together since we have broken up,

572
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 2: because I know we still might get back together or whatever.

573
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: The situation might be, and I'm not. I'm not doing that,

574
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 1: but I'm still in.

575
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 2: But I'm saying, but it makes sense though, because I

576
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 2: get being in tune with somebody my body, it's sex

577
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 2: is more than just physical to me.

578
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,399
Speaker 1: Now, I could cheat back then because it was just

579
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: I wasn't into it.

580
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: Cheating or giving my body to somebody is different now

581
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,120
Speaker 2: literally for right now, whatever reason, Like, I'm in tune

582
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 2: with this person right now. I think that's you have

583
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 2: that level of six though, But everybody hasn't had that

584
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 2: level of sick. Yeah, everybody hasn't had six with somebody that.

585
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: They were really in tune with, in love with. Yeah,

586
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: maybe that is what it is like. Yeah, so I guess.

587
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it, but I feel like a

588
00:26:58,359 --> 00:26:59,719
Speaker 1: man should feel that same way too.

589
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 2: So how can a man be in love and go

590
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 2: cheat because people, I think for men it's more of

591
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 2: a physical thing. Though.

592
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 4: I hated here that's just not here on earth. Hated that.

593
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: Men are because it's an excuse for everything y'all get,

594
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: y'all get to do whatever y'all want.

595
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 2: I truly don't feel like it be an excuse though,

596
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 2: and it is not even me taking up for me, and.

597
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: I don't think it's going down, buddy, I don't think

598
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: it's an.

599
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.

600
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 1: How much in a comment. No, I don't think it's

601
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 1: an excuse. I just think men and.

602
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: Women are really wired differently, and we're gonna, we're gonna

603
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 2: forever look at things completely different. Women don't understand how

604
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 2: men think. Men don't understand how women think. It don't

605
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 2: matter how much a woman want to be, like, oh,

606
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm like a nigga. I'm kind of

607
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 2: like a nigga. Wom you not like a nigga. It

608
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: don't matter how much a nigga be Like, oh, I

609
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 2: feel like I be in torn with women, and I

610
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 2: know women, and I know how they feel.

611
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 5: You don't.

612
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 1: You don't know women, You don't.

613
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 3: I feel like women are brainwashed by this Western civilization. Right,

614
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 3: just real quick, before we got to America and we

615
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 3: was back, let's just say when I was back, when

616
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 3: I was a king, back in my past, like, no,

617
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 3: that's right, I.

618
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 4: Wasn't chasing women. I was im courtant women. Women would

619
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 4: come to my doorstep.

620
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 3: I would have ten of y'all right, right, the people

621
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 3: what your dad would come give you to me, here's

622
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 3: my here's my doing this. She yeah, okay, But so

623
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like the people that could afford it,

624
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 3: the people that were high in the ranks, right, they

625
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 3: had options, they could do what they want. And it's

626
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 3: like now that we came to America and these white

627
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 3: people came with this marriage one on one thing and

628
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 3: they brainwashed out and now y'all are selfish.

629
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 4: Y'all, Y don't know how to share it's that have a.

630
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 2: Different I don't know how to share it either, because

631
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 2: guess what, when the man had ten wives, everyone was

632
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 2: taken care of.

633
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: Y'all can't even take care of one. I can't.

634
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm not talking about you for the most part,

635
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 2: you know, And I'm not even mine right now. I

636
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 2: was watching Housewives of Zuba the other day and literally

637
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 2: one lady, she's a black woman, I can't even remember

638
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 2: her name, but she has been living out there for

639
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 2: twelve years, and she was saying, how like if you

640
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 2: meet and I don't want to say it wrong, so

641
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna say it. So there's a certain

642
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 2: religion out there. They're allowed to have multiple wives, but

643
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 2: the rule is the first.

644
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: Wife must agree every time you want to get married again,

645
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: she must agree to it.

646
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 2: And the rule is when you bring a new wife in,

647
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 2: you have to treat her the same. So as much

648
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 2: as you take care of the new wife, you have

649
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: to take care of the new one. This was happening

650
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 2: when you're talking about way back then, when me and

651
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 2: they were getting brought to their door, because you know what,

652
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 2: the dad was taking care.

653
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 5: Of this girl.

654
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 2: And you know what, it's not my job anymore, so

655
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: now it's your turn to take care of her. Niggas

656
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 2: is not taking care of nothing. Niggas is not taking

657
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: care of nothing. So yes, guess what it would still

658
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 2: be like that. It's all right now, you know what.

659
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: It would still very much be like that. But niggas

660
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 2: don't want to be men.

661
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 4: I mean two girlfriends, I would if I had three,

662
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 4: I would take care of you.

663
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: Feel like three for you. You're a polygamist, give me

664
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: I would.

665
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Speaker 4: I could do both. I ain't gonna say.

666
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Speaker 2: I'm just seeing a.

667
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Speaker 1: Tweet and I'm gonna mad fire in the community.

668
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Speaker 2: I see the tweet the other day he said polygamy

669
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Speaker 2: for ugly people, ugly women.

670
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I tried man too well well.

671
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Speaker 2: The tweet was neared women, but that I never seen

672
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Speaker 2: a nigga with five beaches and all five babies.

673
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Speaker 1: And there was a video to a company the tweet.

674
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Speaker 5: And I seen it.

675
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Speaker 1: It wasn't the man dusty to the one driving as

676
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Speaker 1: a man don't.

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Speaker 2: Really as a man, doesn't really matter if you if

678
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Speaker 2: you could provide listen, I'm not saying for us, I'm

679
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 2: staying for the for the averagerson. As a man, you

680
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 2: cannot be the most attractive. You cannot meet be the

681
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 2: most well groomed, well kept nigga that's able to dress

682
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Speaker 2: on this type of shit. If you could do what

683
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 2: you need to do for a woman, bitches do not

684
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: here because at the end of the day, to me

685
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Speaker 2: as a woman, I don't want to say you're lowering

686
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 2: your value. But it's like you the one who fucking

687
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Speaker 2: with a nigga who got five bitches. He the nigga

688
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Speaker 2: with five bitches, but you only with that one nigga.

689
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Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. You sharing your nigga with

690
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Speaker 1: all these women. It's giving dust all around. Yes, it

691
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Speaker 1: is facts. I don't like, I don't like, I don't like,

692
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: but I won't even But.

693
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Speaker 2: But I thought that was an interesting presipit. So do

694
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 2: you feel that way to do Like, do you feel

695
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 2: like women who share, like who cool with sharing a nigga?

696
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: Do you feel like it's not bad?

697
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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess you could say, like the the

698
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 3: women that's less attractive, I want to say a lesser

699
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 3: they would probably settle for that quicker than a pretty woman,

700
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 3: because pretty women they just feel like they, you know,

701
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 3: high on the pedal storre. It is like, I'm not

702
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: doing this shit, I'm not deserve better when in reality,

703
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 3: like in reality you have to say, none of you

704
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 3: hold in reality. I feel like, you know, how long

705
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 3: is gonna take y'all to really meet this this perfect

706
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 3: man that you're trying to find and if you was

707
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 3: to just you know, like find a good man, even

708
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 3: if he is into polygamy, even if whatever he's into,

709
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 3: Like you're trying to find this perfect guy.

710
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Speaker 4: Oh, I want a nigga out on cheap. I want this.

711
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 4: I want that, Like be forty five years old, still

712
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 4: chasing this nigga.

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Speaker 1: I rather be honestly. Let me tell you something.

743
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Speaker 2: What I've learned. I find peace and happiness within myself.

744
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Speaker 2: So until you can add to that, I'm cool.

745
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Speaker 4: But you ain't. I'm cool, I ain't gonna be ain't

746
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 4: gonna stay single.

747
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm not.

748
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Speaker 2: Maybe ya will, maybe I won't, but whatever it is,

749
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Speaker 2: I'm cool. I'm up here, so until you up here

750
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Speaker 2: with me.

751
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Speaker 4: So I me and you.

752
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Speaker 1: Okay.

753
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Speaker 3: If I was that nigga, okay, and I was like listen,

754
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Speaker 3: I need a number two, all right, you wouldn't.

755
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,879
Speaker 1: No, I'm not number two. First of all, that's.

756
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Speaker 4: Number two.

757
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Speaker 1: Like okay, like a second girl.

758
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Speaker 4: This is the thing I am perfect for you.

759
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Speaker 2: That's not perfect for me because you already got a

760
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Speaker 2: number one. You see what I'm saying. She was there first,

761
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 2: which is cool. I'm just that's not mine. I don't

762
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 2: like it because you know what it is.

763
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Speaker 1: It's not about you, because I got it. I'm coming

764
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Speaker 1: into situation.

765
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 2: So she already feel like she got no, you're the girl,

766
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: oh like and you saying you need a number two?

767
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 1: I mean that's a little that's a little different. That's

768
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,800
Speaker 1: a little different. But first of all, I'm gonna answer it.

769
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest. First of all, I actually had

770
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:17,280
Speaker 1: a conversation with somebody.

771
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Speaker 2: About this literally last night, because first of all, a

772
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 2: lot of women we're already doing that and we don't

773
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 2: even realize it. Let me just say that, would it

774
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Speaker 2: be something that I would totally just be like mad

775
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 2: and angry about? No, but I would want to know

776
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 2: why is this number two needed? That's what I want

777
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 2: to know, because I.

778
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Speaker 1: Feel like, if I'm with my perfect person, all I really.

779
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Speaker 2: Need is you.

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00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 1: I don't need two niggas.

781
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Speaker 5: Oh you need me right right.

782
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Speaker 2: But I'm trying to figure out why all you don't

783
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 2: need is just me? Because if I feel this way,

784
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: why don't we feel the same? And if I know

785
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 2: I'm feeling this way, I can find somebody who will

786
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:54,399
Speaker 2: feel this way.

787
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Speaker 1: So I just what is the number two for? What

788
00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: is the number two for? Believe it?

789
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 2: Then that ship though, because they be believing in like

790
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 2: building families and legacies, the.

791
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Speaker 1: Legacies and these oars right here.

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Speaker 2: Baby, Yeah, I'm six, just thirty, yall, little Lebron on

793
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Speaker 2: the way.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I've got god trying that as fun. The legacies

795
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Speaker 1: is white trying to give a little person. There's no

796
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Speaker 1: This is how I feel about myself. There's plan that's

797
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Speaker 1: better than me.

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Speaker 4: That's really I feel like some things that you don't

799
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:25,720
Speaker 4: do sexually.

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Speaker 3: It might be some things that let's do it when

801
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 3: it comes to like, you know, like feeding me energy,

802
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 3: like if you're not you're not affirming me.

803
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 4: It's some things I just can't do everything.

804
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 2: You might say that you fucked up because you will

805
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 2: be listening to Shaka gun.

806
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: You are not everyone.

807
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 4: That's the problem that you are.

808
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: I am. I'm every man for the right man for me.

809
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 2: Maybe I feel a little different, so you'n be over

810
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 2: to now I'm not.

811
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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not into I'm not into pollagamy at all.

812
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 2: But as a woman who formerly used to day be chies, right,

813
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 2: I am not totally against women, like I like women.

814
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: I think women are bailing pool, like I fuck with

815
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Speaker 1: women on my own.

816
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Speaker 2: I've had a girlfriend before, like, so I'm not completely

817
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 2: against it, but it would definitely have to be a

818
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 2: situation where it's like it's our beach, like not just

819
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 2: yo beach.

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Speaker 4: That's that's when you're trying to run sh This.

821
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Speaker 1: Is exactly just see now you're not ringing you.

822
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Speaker 4: Let me ask you this though.

823
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Speaker 3: Would you rather Nigga lie to you right, cheat on

824
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,839
Speaker 3: you behind your back and don't tell you nothing right,

825
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 3: having a whole side bitch or two right? Or just

826
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 3: keep it real with you and like, listen, I got

827
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 3: another girlfriend. I love you, I do love you. I

828
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 3: want you to be here with me. Would you would

829
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Speaker 3: you rather have because nigga cheats not every I know,

830
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 3: I know one or two guys out of the thousand people.

831
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Speaker 1: I know what you thought?

832
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 4: You ate that? Yeah?

833
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, now you What you're not about to do is

834
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 2: have a whole separate relationship outside of me, with another

835
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 2: world anything.

836
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 3: But that's what I would be together that I'm gonna

837
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 3: pull up both ya, were gonna go on the dates,

838
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 3: we're gonna.

839
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Speaker 4: Family.

840
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: Don't like it, don't want it? Yeah, that's cool And

841
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: until I don't want her around me, she gotta go.

842
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: It worked like that in my world.

843
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 2: But that's why I said I sometimes so let me

844
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 2: tell you about me and and a guy got into

845
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:35,399
Speaker 2: it because it was your fault. Your fault, yeah, because

846
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 2: he had tweets something And I was like, is you

847
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 2: subbing me?

848
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: Is you subbing me? He was like, oh, I don't

849
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Speaker 1: be because he really don't world.

850
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 2: He was like, no, I was referring to this, And

851
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 2: this is what I want to talk about because you

852
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 2: said you were like basically saying like.

853
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Speaker 1: I'm a god, I'm one of one.

854
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 2: There's a thousand of yous and it's one of me.

855
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 2: What makes you feel like.

856
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: You ain't came across a woman that you can't replace.

857
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 3: Well, the thing is, hm, it's it's a lot of

858
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 3: you women. Don't say me because no, no, no, no, you.

859
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, it's the ratio on this planet. Okay,

860
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:21,399
Speaker 3: I you you, You will run out of men. If

861
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 3: every woman was to grab a man today, I'm gonna.

862
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: Be left out.

863
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 4: You're gonna be left out.

864
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: I can dump niggas. Ain't leaving me behind. Go ahead.

865
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, Wow, that's the cross here.

866
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 3: So like let's just say God, right, this bring God

867
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,399
Speaker 3: into the question why did God made it this way?

868
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 3: Let's just God would have made it even like every person.

869
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: Should want his niggas be dying because they stupid.

870
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 4: Niggas be dying.

871
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: Niggas be dying in jail. Niggas be dead in jail.

872
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 4: Okay, niggas be dying.

873
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 5: Got free you.

874
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 4: I was on the phone, kids me through the phone.

875
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 4: Lets pull it down for I get out. I'm on

876
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 4: the way, baby, Okay.

877
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 1: So you feel like, because the ratio is off, that

878
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 1: this was God ordained.

879
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 3: I'm not saying, but you can have the same situation.

880
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 3: Like it's a thousand men out there, it's only one

881
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:12,439
Speaker 3: of you. You're a unique person. I'm not saying it's

882
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 3: just for Men's saying for me, for anyone like you

883
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 3: gotta just have that mindset like show listen. I know,

884
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 3: like I'm a one of a kind. I am him,

885
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 3: I'm her, And that's just how you gotta think. Like,

886
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 3: don't sell it for shit, Like if you don't want

887
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 3: a nigga that's gonna got them, have two bitches, three bitches.

888
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 4: Don't sell it for that shit. It's just how long

889
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:30,760
Speaker 4: you fueling the way you find this nigga.

890
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: So you feel like I'm gonna be forty five, I'm.

891
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 2: Asking you, I'm asking you, friend a friend. Because my

892
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 2: cousin as the scammer. Okay, yeah, do you think I'm

893
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 2: gonna be forty five on a loan? No?

894
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 3: No, no, no, because my cousin she found somebody. My

895
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 3: sister found somebody, okay, and I really didn't think it

896
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 3: was possible. And then both of the niggas a Nigerians,

897
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 3: both of these niggas shout out.

898
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: To do so basically, I'm an end up.

899
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 2: Yes, get your Nigerians, uncol shit, I have I love

900
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 2: the Nigerians.

901
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: That's where it's that big. I've never done a Haitian man.

902
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm here okay period. But you you have forty I

903
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: don't have forty. He got three.

904
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 4: I have friends, hmm, I don't.

905
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 1: That's a red flag for me. That's a red flag.

906
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 2: What is it about Nigerian man that women who have

907
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 2: super high standards can find solace and being with them?

908
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 4: I would say about my sister, like she found her

909
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 4: a Nigerian.

910
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 3: He's not, he's not from Nigeria, but his traditions are

911
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 3: Nigerian and he's just like he's not like the typical guy.

912
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 3: He ain't like on the street team, like the cool guy.

913
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 3: Like he's she didn't have two kids by this Nigga

914
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 3: in a year and a half, two years.

915
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 2: And let me honestly, I'll say this, it's about the

916
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 2: security because I was jelling, yeah, the I will say

917
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 2: this the situation because I'm not even gonna lie. I

918
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: had a situation and first of all, we all know

919
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 2: how Nigerian man to get down. They never with one person.

920
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 2: And I just and this man was very honest with

921
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 2: me up front and let me know like whatever his

922
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 2: situation has and I still continued. I chose to still

923
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 2: talk to him. But it was because of the security

924
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 2: listen Covid was going on. This was before port Monts

925
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 2: had taken off. I need a ship and he was

926
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:18,760
Speaker 2: making sure I was straight.

927
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 1: So it was the security of it.

928
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 2: But also I didn't mind being around him. He was smart,

929
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 2: you know, I was attracted him like everything. It made

930
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 2: sense at the time, you know what I'm saying. So

931
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 2: I feel like it just depends on the situation. Maybe

932
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:35,240
Speaker 2: he had the finesse game, maybe he finessed me. Whatever

933
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 2: it was, it was a cool situation for me at

934
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 2: the time, you know what I'm saying. So I feel like,

935
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 2: you know now that I think about it, because I

936
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 2: forgot about that.

937
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: But so that's a polygamy type of situation. Desperate times,

938
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: desperate you was cool, you will.

939
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 2: But also it was because of the situation I was in,

940
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: because I needed him in the moment, didn't use him,

941
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 2: but he was doing what he had to do. I

942
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 2: think we've all had to fuck with niggas because we

943
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: necessarily I think.

944
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, not.

945
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 2: Niggas who our girlfriends are wife.

946
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 5: I mean, I feel, no, not that.

947
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 2: But in the situation, this is the opportunity that presented me,

948
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: and you know, I did what needed to be done.

949
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 2: So you was cool with being in a polygamy type

950
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 2: of situation because you needed the money.

951
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 1: That's what I know.

952
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna stay. I knew that wasn't about to

953
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 2: be my man. I knew that wasn't about to be

954
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 2: somebody I ended up with for the rest of my life.

955
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 2: It was temporary. Scamming, scamming, scamming, damn scamming. No, I

956
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 2: didn't finished.

957
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 5: I scam.

958
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:42,280
Speaker 1: I scam scam You know what I'm taking in accountability?

959
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I if you cool, if you was cool

960
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 2: with that, then like I don't understand what would be

961
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 2: the issue with because.

962
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 1: I did y'all love him? If I if I'm in

963
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: this when I got to get into my Bible bag

964
00:43:55,200 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 1: because it was unto others, to you getting fucked first

965
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: of all? Did I ever?

966
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:14,279
Speaker 2: Now I cannot remember exactly where they came from, but

967
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 2: it did come from the Book of Christ.

968
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: Hellelah, Yeah, so okay, I feel you on that.

969
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 2: But like I said, for me, like I just like

970
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,720
Speaker 2: I said, and this is the This is the beautiful

971
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 2: thing about growth. I changed so much, so often, and

972
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 2: that's why when people say things like, oh, Lex, but

973
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: last year you said this, people were literally quote things

974
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 2: that I said last year on the show.

975
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk what I said last year.

976
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: This is how I feel right now. So the thing is,

977
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: this is about growth.

978
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 5: Yes, I did that.

979
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 1: I don't feel the same way now. Whatever, Matthew, I

980
00:44:55,200 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: know she was over that. Come on Dragon with passion.

981
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 2: Okay, But since we're talking about having multiple women, I

982
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 2: want to move on to another topic though, because I

983
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,760
Speaker 2: feel like, do men have commitment issues?

984
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,439
Speaker 1: Like, do y'all really y'all really need all these women

985
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: because y'all have commitment issues.

986
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 3: I don't think it's commitment because we could commit well,

987
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 3: I could commit.

988
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 4: But I I think when I get a relationship like this,

989
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 4: I get scared, like, damn, I got to be stuck

990
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 4: with this person?

991
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:35,240
Speaker 1: Ever you really got I mean you're young.

992
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 3: I'ma be fifty, A poppy thing like this. Hopefully not

993
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 3: let me not say that because I don't want my future.

994
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 4: Wife to see this. Oh she's gonna see it maybe

995
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 4: maybe just now.

996
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 3: But when I get a relationships, I have like this

997
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 3: fear thing like damn, like I'm gonna be stuck with

998
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 3: this person?

999
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 4: And is this the person? Because it's always better out there?

1000
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 4: Right that that?

1001
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 2: But how do you know you can meet your person

1002
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 2: and you're always gonna think there's out there better you.

1003
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: Comparison is the thief of joy.

1004
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 2: That I agree with you though, because that's my biggest

1005
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:11,800
Speaker 2: Probabip is settling down. I'm like, it's a better nigga,

1006
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 2: but you feel like you got that confidence. When the

1007
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,919
Speaker 2: nigga meet you, I'll be feeling like you can't get

1008
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 2: better than this. Like that's really how I be feeling.

1009
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 2: I really be feeling that way.

1010
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,280
Speaker 1: That's your first stage.

1011
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 4: It's not my folk.

1012
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: I'll say this, you can't get better.

1013
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 2: I feel like, no, no, no, people can always because

1014
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 2: one person's idea of better is not the next person's

1015
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 2: idea of better. Right, you think that a nigga can't

1016
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 2: get better than you, but whatever he feels like his

1017
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 2: idea of better, well.

1018
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: This is why he probably could find it.

1019
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 2: Right now, what I'm saying is, well, like it's like,

1020
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: say me and you were dating, and if you break

1021
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: up with me and leave me, you like, I don't

1022
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 2: want you, lex, I don't want to do this more.

1023
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 1: And you go get a girlfriend the next day.

1024
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 2: That's not going to make me feel like less of

1025
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 2: a woman because I know what I bring to the table.

1026
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 2: So when I say the best, I feel like I

1027
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 2: am the best for my person. So you don't make

1028
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 2: me feelings. So let me correct what I was saying

1029
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 2: and so I can clarify what I was saying, so.

1030
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 1: They can't get.

1031
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 2: Back right right, So when I say that, I just

1032
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 2: more so mean of then it doesn't make me feel

1033
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,399
Speaker 2: no type of way towards you, because a lot of women,

1034
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 2: they feel like a man move on what they do,

1035
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 2: go to the girl page.

1036
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 1: Oh she techy her teeth, she still yeah, everything, and.

1037
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 2: It's like that doesn't make you stop it because there's

1038
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 2: something about that woman that he likes. That doesn't make

1039
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 2: you less of a woman, that doesn't make you less better.

1040
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 2: That's just that person for him. So when I say, oh,

1041
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 2: you can't get better than me, I don't, And let

1042
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 2: me take it back.

1043
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I don't mean that that person

1044
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: can't get better for them.

1045
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 2: I just feel like, for my person, he gonna know,

1046
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 2: he gonna know what the fuck is up like as

1047
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 2: soon as he gonna realize, like.

1048
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: I'm not losing I can't lose her. So that's why

1049
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: I be like, I don't be worried.

1050
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 4: You shouldn't be worried.

1051
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: I don't be worried about a damn thing I used

1052
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: to be. I used to be a worried ass bitch

1053
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: for you, y, I never really been liked it.

1054
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 5: I don't be worried.

1055
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's for you is for you. These nig niggas

1056
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 1: is one thing about niggas. Niggas gonna be niggas.

1057
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 4: Niggas realize niggas.

1058
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 3: Had it got as fucked up right now because you

1059
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 3: can't just get on Instagram. You got a girlfriend and

1060
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,399
Speaker 3: you scroll and you see something better, You see something

1061
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 3: that look better.

1062
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 4: You got a better? Ask like, damn I.

1063
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 1: Need that, and you say, fatter ass. That's why everybody

1064
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: gonna get.

1065
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 5: A little b B.

1066
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,760
Speaker 3: And I hate the bb ERA because it's like everybody

1067
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 3: can get one. That's like the pro chicks get one.

1068
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 3: Why am I high level chicks getting one?

1069
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 4: It's like, why am I in need?

1070
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm just going I kill Yeah. I don't hate the

1071
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: BBL No, not necessarily.

1072
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 2: It's natural, is.

1073
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 4: Okay? I get I get it. You just moved the

1074
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 4: natural to another spot. I got you.

1075
00:48:58,360 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: Either way. It doesn't matter.

1076
00:48:59,440 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 5: We look good.

1077
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.

1078
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:01,879
Speaker 5: Bitches look good.

1079
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 1: Enhance me.

1080
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 3: Let me ask you this, right, y'all get bbs and ship.

1081
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 3: All niggas can do is like I can get my

1082
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 3: teeth done.

1083
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 4: I can go get it.

1084
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 1: Your hair transplants. Now, you could wear a motherfucking lace

1085
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 1: frame and a bitch won't know.

1086
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 3: Okay, But if I had a lace frint and you

1087
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 3: found that it was a lace front, how would you

1088
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 3: look at me at that?

1089
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: I mean honestly, I would look at you like, why

1090
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 1: are you me?

1091
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 4: Who?

1092
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 2: Bit? You like this?

1093
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:41,720
Speaker 1: Whatever? You don't like? What's the problem?

1094
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: You know? Get? I do think it's you know I

1095
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 2: do think you should enhance you can, and if you

1096
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 2: have the money.

1097
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 4: I got a enhancement.

1098
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: If if vibrate were talking about it.

1099
00:49:56,200 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 2: Controlling this, because then I can control you, cheating to you,

1100
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 2: about to fuck another bit.

1101
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make me vibration like.

1102
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 7: What the going on?

1103
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 3: I want to control control. I'm talking about if to

1104
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,760
Speaker 3: get like, if I want to know, that's possible.

1105
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 1: But if you don't like something, what's the wrong with

1106
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: what's wrong with fixing it? I'll say this though, I

1107
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 1: do feel like, you know, back in the day, it

1108
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: was either fine or.

1109
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 4: It was not.

1110
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 1: But either way, it's not even no. But it's not

1111
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 1: even about that. If you look good, you look good.

1112
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if it was back

1113
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: in the day. Now, it don't matter. If you like

1114
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: somebody no matter, how does that?

1115
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 4: How does that?

1116
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,800
Speaker 1: Okay? Go ahead, and I'm gonna say what I gotta say.

1117
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 3: Because if I go if I meet you right and

1118
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,320
Speaker 3: you give me an Instagram and I scrolled down to

1119
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 3: the bottom, or I go on your Facebook and I

1120
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 3: see the old.

1121
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 4: You, and it's a that's different, completely different person. The

1122
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 4: body is different.

1123
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 3: It's like, damn like you you got this mindset like, oh,

1124
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,879
Speaker 3: I'm a bad bitch now, but two years ago you wasn't.

1125
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 4: It's bad. It's like you can't mean you can't, you can't.

1126
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 4: I can treat you.

1127
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 3: Let me say this the wrong way. You can't treat

1128
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 3: me like you a bad bitch because you really was,

1129
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 3: because you not.

1130
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: But but it's all about.

1131
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 2: But let me say this somebody there, but what but everybody,

1132
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 2: but everybody always says, oh, you're not ugly.

1133
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: You just got money, so you got your teeth done.

1134
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: That's so why can you do that?

1135
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 4: But before I had? But how do you can't?

1136
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: How can you say somebody had low self esteem because

1137
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 1: you did?

1138
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 4: If you?

1139
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: Okay, let me go ahead. And I just want to

1140
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,880
Speaker 1: say this. Somebody that we're both actually very cool with.

1141
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, both of use he and it's a guy and

1142
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 2: he be fucking with babbechees and he had posted on

1143
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,760
Speaker 2: his story he was like, I hate the newbie Beell

1144
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 2: girls because they be having the worst fucking attitudes ever.

1145
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 2: They be soul rude, entitled, No, he said, soul rude,

1146
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 2: so entitled, so mean. The bitches that been find since

1147
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,839
Speaker 2: high school, been fine since college. They do not act

1148
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 2: like these like it'd be the ones who got the

1149
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 2: new bodies, like all of a sudden, they just be rude.

1150
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,919
Speaker 1: And now I agree with that. The mean girl shit

1151
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 1: is yeah I.

1152
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 5: Can, I can.

1153
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 2: I do be feeling that way sometimes, Like it just

1154
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 2: be like people be trying to create a divide and

1155
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 2: I don't feel like girls who being fine just don't

1156
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 2: even care about.

1157
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: But to me, it's not even about being fine.

1158
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 2: It's been fine lighting attention period because you know what,

1159
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 2: let me say this is, yes, I'm super fine, I

1160
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 2: look super good.

1161
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: But guess what I know. Beauty is very fickle. People

1162
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 1: can pick and choose what they decide is beautiful whatever.

1163
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, I like being known,

1164
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 2: Like like for us, we have built you can be

1165
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:46,879
Speaker 2: fine as you won't start a podcast have people really

1166
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 2: fuck with you for who you are as a person.

1167
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 2: So guess what, Me Andrey look good as fuck on

1168
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 2: the outside, but guess what, we have built this platform

1169
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 2: off for who we are.

1170
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: So it doesn't matter how good you look, how befine

1171
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: you being, what about you as a as a person

1172
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:00,320
Speaker 1: and you're soul for you?

1173
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:00,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't.

1174
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like to me, it's just more so about

1175
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: being a nice person.

1176
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 2: Ye, starting a podcast and all of that, just be

1177
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 2: a good person, to be nice, and they don't.

1178
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 4: They don't know how to the attention.

1179
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:13,800
Speaker 3: Never they never had attention, so like all this attentions

1180
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 3: that again, they they just forced themself to be mean

1181
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 3: because they don't know how to control it. Damn, Like

1182
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 3: they're getting all these niggas coming down, like damn, I

1183
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:22,720
Speaker 3: never had this before. Let me just tell all yours

1184
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:23,359
Speaker 3: about y'all.

1185
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 2: Are you know what somebody else said to me too,

1186
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 2: They said they feel like they be mean because they

1187
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 2: feel like the girls who been like like being looking

1188
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 2: like that are having any way with niggas.

1189
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 1: That's how they treat niggas.

1190
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 2: So then that's what they be mean, and that's why

1191
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 2: they be rude because they think that that's what those

1192
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 2: girls do to get well.

1193
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:41,959
Speaker 4: And I also saw the need to get them friends

1194
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:43,479
Speaker 4: then because they ain't they.

1195
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 1: Know it to me, yeah, no, yeah, I feel like girls. Honestly.

1196
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:50,439
Speaker 2: The thing is, this is what the divide that I've seen,

1197
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 2: it being a vibe between the girls who have gotten

1198
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:55,320
Speaker 2: surgery the girls who haven't gotten surgery. Then it be

1199
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 2: the girls who have been fine, but like, oh, this

1200
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 2: ain't no BBO. I've never gotten surgery. I'm one hundred

1201
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 2: percent now, it doesn't matter. Can we all just like

1202
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 2: being fine? And I had some That's what I'm.

1203
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 5: Saying, does it?

1204
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: But at the day, like it really don't matter. It

1205
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: really doesn't matter, you know what I'm saying. Like, I'm

1206
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 1: not saying it. Man, No, I'm not saying that. You

1207
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,919
Speaker 1: said that. But the girl, Like, there's this one girl

1208
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 1: that I thought, I'm not being missy. This is one

1209
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,759
Speaker 1: girl I thought she just love to talk about how

1210
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:25,280
Speaker 1: natural her body is. I mean, and that's fine.

1211
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 2: You're a beautiful woman, literally beautiful, But you don't have

1212
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 2: to like try to separate yourself because at the end

1213
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 2: of the day, niggas don't care.

1214
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something.

1215
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 2: I got a very natural BBL And I won't even

1216
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 2: say I'm a new BBL girl cuz.

1217
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't.

1218
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: But honestly, I've never put everything into my body and

1219
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:49,760
Speaker 2: how I look. I've always been like, oh, my personality first.

1220
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:53,319
Speaker 2: So for me, it's more so of like, okay, now

1221
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 2: you self praised yourself, You're natural?

1222
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 4: What else?

1223
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:58,839
Speaker 1: This is what I always say when it comes down

1224
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: and looks Okay, you're you're natural. What else? Why does

1225
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:03,959
Speaker 1: that really matter?

1226
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 3: And I think that's why a lot of girls are

1227
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 3: like getting played because like we'll get with these BBO

1228
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 3: girls and it's like once we get past text, once

1229
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,879
Speaker 3: you get past that fat ass, it's nothing else, it's

1230
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:14,879
Speaker 3: nothing else under that layer.

1231
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: It's like nothing else up here.

1232
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 4: I'm done and let me know.

1233
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: And they be like that when natural girls too.

1234
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 2: But they be like that when niggas soon because you

1235
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 2: didn't you don't got your teeth done.

1236
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 1: The girl like, oh girl, he got vinia.

1237
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:26,479
Speaker 4: I've been him before they.

1238
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 1: Got they got the you know, okay, and a lot

1239
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: of girls been that too.

1240
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 4: We're gonna say that.

1241
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 2: You can you can disagree, you can disagree, but what

1242
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 2: I'm saying is confidence is confidence.

1243
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:40,359
Speaker 1: A person gonna love who they are. I love who

1244
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 1: they are. You know you're supposed to get some money

1245
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 1: because I think that a.

1246
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 2: Lot of these people were not confident prior to getting surgery.

1247
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:51,320
Speaker 2: Like I really do all the time on social media,

1248
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 2: like people will put that outward.

1249
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: And be like oh yeah, like I've been bad, I've

1250
00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: been this and I've been there.

1251
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 2: But it's like you could just read between the lines

1252
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:02,839
Speaker 2: like that's not But even if they weren't, what's wrong

1253
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 2: with like the upgrade of them?

1254
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:06,399
Speaker 1: Like, you know what, I wasn't confident before and I'm

1255
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: confident now. That's fine.

1256
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,320
Speaker 2: But your confidence don't have to be you being rude.

1257
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 5: And now I agree with that.

1258
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: Now I agree with that, and then and then I

1259
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: ask confidence also.

1260
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 2: It's like if you confident your confidence, you don't got

1261
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 2: to but yeah, but like it's just like losing weight

1262
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 2: or gaining weight. You know, some girls are super skinny.

1263
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 2: They'd be like, oh, I feel insecure about myself.

1264
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:27,319
Speaker 1: And they gain a little weight and they feel better.

1265
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 2: It's just if you want to fix yourself because you

1266
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:32,839
Speaker 2: were confident before you got your teeth done, but then

1267
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:33,839
Speaker 2: you feel a little bit more.

1268
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: You I bet you were smiling more. Yeah, me too,

1269
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Well, I mean, I don't know

1270
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:45,400
Speaker 1: how your teeth looked before, but I know how your

1271
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 1: teeth's looked before. Beautiful smile. Always had a beautiful smile.

1272
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: Do you smile more now?

1273
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:50,240
Speaker 5: Of course?

1274
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 1: But as you said, I smile the same. But what

1275
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying, you do on talking about. So what I'm

1276
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:57,400
Speaker 1: saying when you got your teeth done? Was you not

1277
00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: smiling more? Come on, keep it real, exactly, stop it,

1278
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: so stop it.

1279
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 4: Stop doing that.

1280
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: You can't picking chunes like, come on, now you got

1281
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:08,839
Speaker 1: your teeth done and you started smiling more.

1282
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 4: But I'm still the same person.

1283
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 1: It's still the same person. Now. I agree as far

1284
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 1: as the mean girl shit, I do not like mean girls.

1285
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is it's okay if somebody wants to,

1286
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 2: you know, upgrade a little one two when they get

1287
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 2: a little more confidence, as long as you don't be

1288
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 2: treating people.

1289
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 1: Nasty, and that can like you better than nobody because

1290
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 1: you still not shit. You just got a fatter ass.

1291
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 2: I approach you, you still and you just got strate teeth.

1292
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about you, but I'm just saying, look,

1293
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 2: when I approach you, man, don't be on the bullshit.

1294
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 2: I'm trying to show me attitude. And just because you

1295
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 2: think you bad or ten niggas will approach you, listen

1296
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 2: is an honor.

1297
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 4: I want to talk to you.

1298
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: So what makes you feel like you're a king? Let

1299
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: the girls know because they're coming for you.

1300
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 4: Because I'm him?

1301
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:49,960
Speaker 5: What is I'm him? Mean?

1302
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 3: I feel like who I am as a person how

1303
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 3: to treat people, and I see like where I'm going

1304
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 3: in life.

1305
00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 4: Like I mean in another year from now like that, nigga,

1306
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 4: for real? For real?

1307
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 5: Do you have kids?

1308
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:02,960
Speaker 9: No?

1309
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:04,320
Speaker 4: Ooh I'm a unicorn?

1310
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: Okay you did you ate the girls up with that one?

1311
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a unicorn. Okay you know what I'm saying,

1312
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 3: Like I know, I fucked good. I'm just them like

1313
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 3: on all levels, Like there's no woman that can say

1314
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 3: like anything negative about me, right, I don't believe that,

1315
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 3: but I'm take the.

1316
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 4: Only thing they can say is probably like im selfish,

1317
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 4: but on anything else, like no, they can't sign Leo.

1318
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: What's your birthday?

1319
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 4: July thirtieth?

1320
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 1: Okay, how long? At seventeen? I'm a Leo. That's why

1321
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 1: when you was like, oh I love to make a

1322
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: woman feel like I love her, she loves me or

1323
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 1: whatever you said, it was giving me. It was giving

1324
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 1: me Leo vibes.

1325
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 5: It really was.

1326
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 1: And I'm not even into astrology like that, but when

1327
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 1: you said that, I was.

1328
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 5: Like, is he a Leo?

1329
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 3: Becuz just imagine if you knew, like you're gonna be

1330
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,439
Speaker 3: like Beyonce motherfucking a year or two down.

1331
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 4: Like you go. You have to act like that. You

1332
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 4: have to walk in that that light.

1333
00:58:57,880 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: And you know what, I went through a lot this year.

1334
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 5: I did.

1335
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: I went through a lot of growth. I've changed a lot.

1336
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 1: My mom passed earlier this year. So for me, I

1337
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 1: feel like.

1338
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 2: I have to realize what I give my energy to,

1339
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 2: who I give my energy to, and you know, understanding

1340
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 2: my purpose.

1341
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: And that's the phase that I'm in right now.

1342
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 2: I'm starting to understand a lot more and see and

1343
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 2: understand things a little bit more.

1344
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 1: So I feel you on that like you know, when

1345
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: you feel like you know you that bitch is okay,

1346
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 1: but you still don't treat people nasty and rude. Period.

1347
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into.

1348
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 1: The ball ballot. We're getting into the band. The sex

1349
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 1: topic is not real nasty. I like him nasty, nasty

1350
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: what he saying he's a I thought I had.

1351
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 4: To get nat I don't know, this is.

1352
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: Why I had look for the band topic. This week

1353
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna be talking about I don't see what he's

1354
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: about to say, what he about to say?

1355
01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 2: This week we're gonna be talking about can it be

1356
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 2: too sloppy? Because personally, personally, go ahead, come on, talk

1357
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 2: to him.

1358
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 4: I believe it can and can get too sloppy.

1359
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: You surprised me.

1360
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 4: Is that a good thing? You mean?

1361
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 2: Like, I think it could be like too like too nasty,

1362
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 2: doing too much? Yeah, too nastiness the better like I

1363
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 2: don't know, and I like speak. Yeah, so you know

1364
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 2: it can still get a little too wild sometimes.

1365
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 1: Okay. So what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna so

1366
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you what is too much for it?

1367
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 2: When you're giving head? Do you feel like or have

1368
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 2: you ever seen a porn or seen a video where

1369
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 2: you're like coming through your nostrils? That's too sloppy.

1370
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 4: Okay, I can agree with that.

1371
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:58,040
Speaker 2: If it's not it's coming through your nostrils, if you vomiting,

1372
01:00:58,720 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 2: that is too sloppy.

1373
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 1: Like you, you're doing too much. You're doing too much.

1374
01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: And as a woman like, I don't want like stuff

1375
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 1: coming down my booty crag what Yeah, I don't know, mask.

1376
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 4: Giving me.

1377
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 5: I don't want like coming down.

1378
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: About you giving head. We were talking about you giving here.

1379
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:26,919
Speaker 1: That's what I was, y'all.

1380
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 2: I was giving my I was giving my point of

1381
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 2: view from each percise okay, from giving head, Like I

1382
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 2: think if it's coming through your nostrils. If you vomiting

1383
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 2: on the dick, that's too much as a woman getting

1384
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 2: head from a man. If it's like so much speed,

1385
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 2: it's like yeah, but maybe because I squirted on you.

1386
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 2: But n he's getting too long, but not because you

1387
01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 2: like got so much speak like coming down my booty,

1388
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 2: Craig like, I don't like, I'm not going okay so

1389
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 2: for me, And then that's why I said I'm gonna

1390
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 2: let us in a person, and I want you to

1391
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 2: answer because for me one thing, I feel like heads

1392
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 2: should be sloppy, but it can be too sloppy. But

1393
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 2: I feel like the problem with a lot of girls

1394
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:12,840
Speaker 2: is y'all been trying to be cute while giving head.

1395
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:16,200
Speaker 1: It's not about being cute. It's like you're supposed to

1396
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: go in when you're giving head, right, I feel like,

1397
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: and you're supposed to pay attention to that.

1398
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 2: You're supposed to be on demon time, like you're supposed

1399
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:28,440
Speaker 2: to hair needs to be back, you're not supposed to be,

1400
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:28,840
Speaker 2: you know, and.

1401
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 1: Getting the hair, tie the hair up, girl, go to work.

1402
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: You're supposed to go to work.

1403
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 4: Now.

1404
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 1: As far as like the nose running, look sometimes shit happened.

1405
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 2: It gets too wild. Can't help that nigga might got

1406
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 2: allergies a little bit, you know what I'm saying, can't

1407
01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 2: ell those run now throwing up that's a little that's

1408
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 2: a little bit too far. But I feel like it

1409
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 2: should be a lot of spit. That's why i'd be

1410
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 2: like to me, sloppy is when you know, you start

1411
01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 2: throwing up, you being nasty.

1412
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: But it should be a lot of fucking spit, like

1413
01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 1: it should be a lot like you should be damn

1414
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 1: near like I can't breathe. You know, you should be

1415
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: seeing the light. I like to see the light. If

1416
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: you don't see the light when you give it a head,

1417
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: you're not getting here right, It ain't so with that

1418
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 1: being said to me, slop what head gets too sloppy?

1419
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 2: And even for like the man's side, if it's like

1420
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 2: you don't know what you're doing, like sometimes men be

1421
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 2: trying to like go too crazy and do too much.

1422
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,560
Speaker 1: Women are very simple. Our bodies are very They're a

1423
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 1: lot more simple than men. They place staying in the

1424
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 1: same place. So if you see, if you're giving head

1425
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:35,280
Speaker 1: to a woman and she starts, you know, moving a

1426
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: little more moaning a little more. Stay in that area,

1427
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 1: stay in that region, okay to move.

1428
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 2: But see, niggas are more complex when it comes to

1429
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 2: head personally, and I'm gonna let you talking to Mini,

1430
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 2: I feel like women hit that spot with good. Niggas

1431
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 2: want the double hands, no hand, turn it up, the

1432
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 2: sad and they wanted.

1433
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: All the tricks whatever.

1434
01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. But I feel like

1435
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 2: women are very simple when it comes to head.

1436
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:04,960
Speaker 1: But give ahead to a man. You need to see

1437
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 1: the light.

1438
01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 4: Go ahead head.

1439
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 3: When it comes to being sloppy, it definitely gotta have

1440
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 3: the most amount of spit, like it needs to be there.

1441
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 2: Now.

1442
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 4: I ain't with all the like to throw up ship.

1443
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 1: Yeah that's too much.

1444
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 4: It's not in tears and shit like that.

1445
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 3: Maybe tears, but like if you like god damn pooring

1446
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 3: and it's like everything is just coming down like I

1447
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 3: don't know, I just like I really slippy head though,

1448
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 3: like my best head giver, like she.

1449
01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 1: She are y'all still friends?

1450
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 4: Yeah good? Yeah? She she like top two only fans

1451
01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 4: type shit.

1452
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 1: I know she is too man anyway, I am weak,

1453
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:52,479
Speaker 1: I am fucking weak. But did you make only fans

1454
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 1: with her?

1455
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 4: I do got a table with her man I fucked up.

1456
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 5: Only fans I did.

1457
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 3: It's on Twitter and everything. We're gonna viral, she said,

1458
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 3: we like six hundred thousand views. Everybody seen it too.

1459
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 3: I have my ankle monitor in that motherfucking air. That

1460
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 3: crazy anyway, you know, head, you know about to get

1461
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:17,480
Speaker 3: good head when they when they put their hair back

1462
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 3: and they tied up, like you know, like that's it's

1463
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 3: going down, just the one you know what's about to do, right, Okay,

1464
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:25,400
Speaker 3: and then you have to be really passionate about here

1465
01:05:25,440 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 3: because if you're not really into it, if you just

1466
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 3: get me head just to get head, like you have

1467
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 3: to be really passionate into getting like you have to,

1468
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:33,960
Speaker 3: because when I get here, I'm passionate, like I'm really

1469
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 3: trying to.

1470
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: That's that, Leo.

1471
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 4: You feel me? So I don't know like when some

1472
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 4: women like they got their teeth in it, they forget

1473
01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 4: to like you know what I'm saying.

1474
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 3: You gotta be real like you said, like we need

1475
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 3: we just don't need one thing, we need it all

1476
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 3: like you two hands. I need you to deep throat.

1477
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 3: I need you to got them put it in your throat.

1478
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like I need whole TikTok

1479
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 3: oh that ah that.

1480
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 1: And it's a trick that you could do co tea period.

1481
01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 4: What's the trick?

1482
01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: The real girls know, hey trying gay.

1483
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 4: Pat patron dot uh.

1484
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 1: Giving out tricks. But so the head can be too

1485
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 1: sloppy when you're doing too much.

1486
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 4: I never had that.

1487
01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:16,880
Speaker 3: I never had a girl throw for me. I never

1488
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 3: had not come out. But I had some bad head

1489
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:24,440
Speaker 3: like some just I had a lot of bad. Like

1490
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 3: it's a lot of a lot like some women. Just

1491
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is. It's like if you're

1492
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 3: not doing good, it's bad. It's no in between.

1493
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 4: It's like great this is the great or.

1494
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 3: Bad ship because it's in between like it was no,

1495
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 3: it was bad. It's like some niggas are still tell

1496
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 3: you like damn like but no, it's like I need really.

1497
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:51,960
Speaker 4: Like this. Let me let me.

1498
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 3: Real quick, now real real. Some of some women, some

1499
01:06:57,920 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 3: women they had so good. I don't even eat the

1500
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 3: fuck I don't need to fuck, thank you, let me

1501
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 3: get that.

1502
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 4: I'm fucking week. So that's the way to a man's soul.

1503
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 4: When I cook and cleaning all that head. Oh so

1504
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 4: that's the secret head, thank you. When I come home, please.

1505
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 3: You don't put the girls on some game me man,

1506
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 3: oh that you don't know how to do it. Listen,

1507
01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 3: good with your homegirls.

1508
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:22,680
Speaker 4: I go to a class, go fucking poor hub dot

1509
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 4: com talk about figuring.

1510
01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 3: Shit out and but you niggas need to figure it

1511
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 3: out too, because I'm not I'm not even gonna I'm

1512
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 3: not even gonna get in the relationship.

1513
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 4: I'm not going to marry someone that does not give

1514
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 4: the proper head because I can't.

1515
01:07:34,120 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 5: Go twenty years.

1516
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 4: I can't go. I can't go a year. A year, okay, no, bro, bro.

1517
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 2: So looking at women's lips like if I approached Drey

1518
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 2: and I was a man, I'll be like, man, I'm

1519
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 2: trying to see what them lips about.

1520
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, but them lists don't even mean nothing because you

1521
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:51,920
Speaker 3: might have them good lips and don't know how they

1522
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:52,440
Speaker 3: work them.

1523
01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: Really, this is why I can nefinite be.

1524
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 3: Niggas don't like and I got your them took you

1525
01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 3: out of din and you give out sorry head. M hm,

1526
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:04,720
Speaker 3: that's that's capping that brown.

1527
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 1: You are.

1528
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:09,479
Speaker 5: What is wrong?

1529
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: You are a very beautiful young.

1530
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 4: Lady girl might like girls too, she loll keep you

1531
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 4: wanting Michael g.

1532
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:20,680
Speaker 1: Y'alling to get into our favorite part of this.

1533
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 7: No, we gotta get to the ball.

1534
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 1: This is my favorite word.

1535
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:30,800
Speaker 10: No the okay, the bob, the bob, the ball, my Lord,

1536
01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:37,640
Speaker 10: for we're gonna get into the bop about.

1537
01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:41,360
Speaker 1: Bow bow about about.

1538
01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:45,680
Speaker 4: Like you have.

1539
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: You having a ball right now?

1540
01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:47,560
Speaker 4: Love it.

1541
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 1: You're trying to keep it cool, you having a ball? Okay.

1542
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:58,360
Speaker 1: So my bop of the week is by Bella.

1543
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:00,840
Speaker 2: Somebody actually just sent this to me, and I really

1544
01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 2: want to shout them out because I would have never

1545
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 2: heard of her.

1546
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: Somebody and send this to me.

1547
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 2: I love when y'all send me music because a lot

1548
01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 2: of times it be hit or miss more times it

1549
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 2: be missed, but it really do So shout out to.

1550
01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:17,719
Speaker 1: Gar con Maron on Twitter.

1551
01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 4: That's his name.

1552
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 1: He sent me this artist.

1553
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 2: Her name is Bella b E L l A H.

1554
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 2: She has a song called Prototype, and I was really impressed.

1555
01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:31,920
Speaker 2: I love hearing something just a little bit different. And

1556
01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:34,759
Speaker 2: the song is basically about how she's working on herself

1557
01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 2: and the nigga that she's fucking with fell in love

1558
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 2: with her Prototype, like lucky you you caught me when

1559
01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 2: I'm working on myself.

1560
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:43,720
Speaker 1: So that's the vibe. I'm on right now.

1561
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 4: Lucky you, Lucky you give me a surgery post surgery.

1562
01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 4: Shut up?

1563
01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 1: What's y'all about?

1564
01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:54,759
Speaker 5: Little Joy?

1565
01:09:55,160 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 6: So I have gab y'all alone breaks. I gave y'all along.

1566
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: I know it a long intermission. Little Baby just came

1567
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 1: out with an album, and y'all know I love Little

1568
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 1: Baby like you was the first person that was for him.

1569
01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:27,080
Speaker 1: No facts, So y'all know I love Little Baby. He

1570
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,680
Speaker 1: liked my favorite rapper. That's right now.

1571
01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 2: You said, other than who Danks your favorite rapper?

1572
01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:36,640
Speaker 1: Jay Z is my favorite rapper? Well you know you

1573
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:41,479
Speaker 1: know me, it's Draking. Your top three is jay Z,

1574
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 1: Draking's baby.

1575
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:43,719
Speaker 4: What about Wayne?

1576
01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 5: Shows how much you know me?

1577
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: Back to what I was saying, you had more Drake

1578
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 1: songs as your bop of the week? Came out with

1579
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: recent music.

1580
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 2: In the past, he's done a lot of feats, He's

1581
01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:59,439
Speaker 2: done a lot of features, a lot of features they

1582
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 2: just haven't been and like how he used to be

1583
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 2: old Wayne, He's done a lot of features exactly.

1584
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 1: So that's what I was saying.

1585
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 2: So a Little Baby just came out with a new

1586
01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 2: album called It's Only Me.

1587
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:12,320
Speaker 1: I love this album.

1588
01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:15,680
Speaker 2: Y'all like it's so hard, I'm gonna listen to him.

1589
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 1: So, what's the favorite? What's the good song on that

1590
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:18,600
Speaker 1: that I need to listen to?

1591
01:11:19,479 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 2: Real Spill, California Breeze, perfect timing, forever, never hating this?

1592
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:29,559
Speaker 1: What's not? What's tug on that song?

1593
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 2: Order his features on the album The features is young Though,

1594
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:38,519
Speaker 2: Future Rowez, Jeremiah.

1595
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 1: Jeremiah, Yeah baby, Yes, TJ No, it's your birthday and

1596
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:45,120
Speaker 1: I know you want to ride.

1597
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:50,200
Speaker 4: No me neither.

1598
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 2: But she asked what was what was the feature? TV

1599
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 2: poolshisty okay, So he got preferably, I like Little Baby

1600
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:01,600
Speaker 2: when he be by himself.

1601
01:12:02,560 --> 01:12:05,880
Speaker 1: That's the songs I always liked. So for me, it's

1602
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 1: the songs that he's solo. Dola, I love that album.

1603
01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 1: I always when he's twenty three songs, I don't.

1604
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 2: This is what I will say that my listener to

1605
01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 2: I'm this is what I will say when people be

1606
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:21,759
Speaker 2: the only person they could come out with an album

1607
01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:25,759
Speaker 2: with like fifty songs is Chris Brown, and I'm listen.

1608
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna listen to every song.

1609
01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 2: I can tell you what so ever, anybody else come

1610
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:32,800
Speaker 2: out with albums that's more than like I say, for me,

1611
01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:34,880
Speaker 2: thirteen songs.

1612
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:37,280
Speaker 1: I'll be skipping songs and you know why that's fucked up?

1613
01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 2: Though about Chris Brown, do you know how old when

1614
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 2: I won't even say how old? Influence is like a

1615
01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:45,439
Speaker 2: year and a half, almost two years old. That wasn't

1616
01:12:45,439 --> 01:12:47,679
Speaker 2: even on the ground. No, yeah, it was on Indigo.

1617
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:50,200
Speaker 2: You're talking about you talking about the album Indgo, you're

1618
01:12:50,200 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 2: talking about the song Influence year the yeah under the

1619
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 2: Influence that was that's from nineteen And that's what I'm saying.

1620
01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 2: It's so crazy because it's still it just start popping

1621
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 2: though I know it is this crazy because that's how

1622
01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 2: you know, people don't listen to albums. People don't listen

1623
01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:09,280
Speaker 2: to albums my Mom because that was a bop when

1624
01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 2: it first came out. But that's a lot a lot

1625
01:13:11,439 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 2: of times people listen to albums. They'd be like, damn,

1626
01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 2: I wonder to why this song it and pop? But

1627
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:15,599
Speaker 2: people just don't be paying attention.

1628
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, album fire good? Good? What you've been what

1629
01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:23,560
Speaker 1: you've been listening to?

1630
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:27,800
Speaker 4: I haven't listening to a Little Baby, but I can't

1631
01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 4: say the album is fire, it's street.

1632
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:32,400
Speaker 3: I do listen to a couple of songs like Real

1633
01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:34,040
Speaker 3: Speed I probably listened to twice on the Wet Head,

1634
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:36,720
Speaker 3: but I still got to get in the group of

1635
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 3: a Little baby.

1636
01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 4: Like no, no, no, just that album, like it just

1637
01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:44,360
Speaker 4: ain't hitting me, Like, OK, got you, but.

1638
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 3: Real Spill definitely not that album. I got another guy

1639
01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 3: he named I key the line bro like he just

1640
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 3: dropped yeah.

1641
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:54,040
Speaker 1: A K.

1642
01:13:57,640 --> 01:14:01,680
Speaker 3: A L y K E b U l A N

1643
01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 3: I'll keep it lying. He'un drop the mix tape called

1644
01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:09,200
Speaker 3: Atlanta Red, but his mixtape fire straight up. And you

1645
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 3: got a song called Smooth Criminal with a guy you know.

1646
01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:13,719
Speaker 3: That's like I've been listening to that ship too, okay.

1647
01:14:13,880 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 3: And another one is uh, what's shorty name?

1648
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 4: But the Fine Glow that Tomorrow with Cardi B.

1649
01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:24,919
Speaker 5: Yeah hard.

1650
01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 4: I don't listen to veryl music, but that's right there.

1651
01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 4: That's it harder for just want my car went crazy on.

1652
01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 1: That ship Cardi with Cardi that was, yeah, listen I got.

1653
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 4: I got in the car with my partner and I

1654
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:38,599
Speaker 4: played that. She's like, why ain't playing this ship? I said,

1655
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 4: think that's hard. I hated. I see this Niga on

1656
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:45,920
Speaker 4: the side, like that's up shouts the.

1657
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:48,120
Speaker 2: Glow realer because we you know, we actually come out

1658
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:51,479
Speaker 2: to her song on every live show.

1659
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:53,639
Speaker 1: We come out to f n F every live show.

1660
01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 1: But yeah, we're about to drop the new tour dates soon.

1661
01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 1: Stay tuned, all right, So we got.

1662
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:03,519
Speaker 2: To see into our favorite segment of the week, the

1663
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 2: poor your Heart Out segment. If you want your question

1664
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 2: answer on the show, make sure you email us at

1665
01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:11,000
Speaker 2: ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. If you're a

1666
01:15:11,240 --> 01:15:13,600
Speaker 2: Patreon member, you get to skip the line. Just make

1667
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:15,760
Speaker 2: sure you put in the heading that you're a Patreon member.

1668
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 1: Period. You want me sorry, you wanna start?

1669
01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm careding, Okay, Hey, lex Andrea. I started watching y'all

1670
01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:24,800
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty one. I'm a Patreon member and have

1671
01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:27,880
Speaker 2: been tuned in ever since. Had a great time at

1672
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:31,280
Speaker 2: the Atlanta show, and I loved meeting y'all period. I

1673
01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:33,840
Speaker 2: wanted to propose to my girlfriend, but I don't know how.

1674
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 2: I was going to propose to my girl at her

1675
01:15:36,400 --> 01:15:39,600
Speaker 2: master's degree graduation party, but her parents don't approve of

1676
01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 2: our relation relationship because we are two women. I think

1677
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 2: this will be the perfect opportunity because her family and

1678
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 2: friends will be at the party, but I don't want

1679
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 2: any negative eyes.

1680
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:48,799
Speaker 1: From her parents.

1681
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 2: Should I say fuck with her parents, think and propose

1682
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:53,560
Speaker 2: at the party, or do a little private situation and

1683
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:55,240
Speaker 2: have my girl pop out engaged.

1684
01:15:55,400 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 1: I need y'all's help. I think that a situation like this,

1685
01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:02,040
Speaker 1: maybe you.

1686
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:05,240
Speaker 2: Should drop do a like a private party with her

1687
01:16:05,400 --> 01:16:09,160
Speaker 2: friends and just kind of like exclude the parents, cause

1688
01:16:09,520 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 2: you don't want them to make a scene walk out.

1689
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 2: She gonna be crying trying to chase her parents out

1690
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:16,720
Speaker 2: the door. Maybe throw a party, like a secret party

1691
01:16:16,840 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 2: or something.

1692
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:20,840
Speaker 3: Right, No, yes, I would say do it with the

1693
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 3: parents there, Bro, you gotta accept me for who I am.

1694
01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 4: Have you gonna feel about this? But if they ruin it, well,

1695
01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 4: shit ruin it. I mean they gotta come to the.

1696
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 1: Wedding, right, No, they don't know, they don't.

1697
01:16:34,800 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 5: They don't.

1698
01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 4: They really don't.

1699
01:16:36,040 --> 01:16:37,639
Speaker 1: So no I'm saying they don't.

1700
01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, okay, well, sosey do a private party.

1701
01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:43,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want my.

1702
01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 2: Y'all y'all know how I be like, I don't give

1703
01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:49,200
Speaker 2: a fuck who the fuck it is. I don't give

1704
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 2: a fucking feast to my granny. I don't give a

1705
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 2: fuck if it's my mama. I don't give a fucking

1706
01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 2: fist to my daddy. I don't care who it is.

1707
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 2: If you don't support my lifestyle and you don't support

1708
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:02,000
Speaker 2: what I want to do, you don't gotta be a

1709
01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 2: part of nothing. So they mean you don't gotta be

1710
01:17:04,439 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 2: a part of my engagement. You don't have to be

1711
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 2: a part of my wedding, you don't have to be

1712
01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:10,960
Speaker 2: a part of my children's births. You don't have to

1713
01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 2: hear around it, none of this shit, because it's too

1714
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 2: many other people around me and my wife who are

1715
01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 2: going to love us and accept us for who we are. Like,

1716
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:22,080
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. I'm not living my life

1717
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:25,320
Speaker 2: to please you. I think that be the problem with parents.

1718
01:17:25,520 --> 01:17:29,439
Speaker 2: Parents be bringing children into this world having an idea

1719
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:30,840
Speaker 2: of who they want them to be.

1720
01:17:31,840 --> 01:17:33,840
Speaker 1: Whenever I have a child, I don't want to be

1721
01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:34,759
Speaker 1: that type of period.

1722
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 5: I want my child to.

1723
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:39,160
Speaker 2: Be exactly who the fuck they supposed to be, who

1724
01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:41,800
Speaker 2: God created them to be, not who I have in

1725
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:43,920
Speaker 2: my mind that you're supposed to be.

1726
01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:45,920
Speaker 1: And if you gay, then you gay.

1727
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:48,639
Speaker 2: I'm still gonna fuck with you the same way. Honestly,

1728
01:17:48,680 --> 01:17:50,280
Speaker 2: I feel like that's just me up.

1729
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't care about the sexual orientation of my child.

1730
01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 5: Neither.

1731
01:17:54,040 --> 01:17:56,600
Speaker 2: That's not a thought that's crossing my mind. So I

1732
01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,960
Speaker 2: feel like, you know what, they're not gonna change their mind.

1733
01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 2: You can't teach the old dog new tricks. And that's

1734
01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 2: something that I learned a long time ago. So yeah,

1735
01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:07,240
Speaker 2: so I feel like, throw your own party.

1736
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:09,280
Speaker 4: And at some point they gonna have to accept it

1737
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 4: at some point. And but.

1738
01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 1: A part of exactly because you don't want to wait

1739
01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 1: what she gonna do? Wait?

1740
01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:18,599
Speaker 3: I would, I would do it with the parents. I'm

1741
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:21,799
Speaker 3: not excluding it from nothing. You exclude yourself, Okay.

1742
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:23,880
Speaker 1: I mean that's because if you walk out, Okay, you

1743
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 1: see how they really feel.

1744
01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:29,360
Speaker 2: Now you're not coming to the wedding question number two.

1745
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 2: On the last podcast, you guys talked about not putting

1746
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:35,599
Speaker 2: your friend off whenever she or he asks for money

1747
01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:36,759
Speaker 2: instead of their partner.

1748
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:38,720
Speaker 1: So I'm kind of dealing with that.

1749
01:18:39,160 --> 01:18:41,839
Speaker 2: It's not that I mind when she needs it. However,

1750
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:44,519
Speaker 2: why do I see your partner posting stacks of money?

1751
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:47,720
Speaker 2: But I'm always the one being asked if I ask, so,

1752
01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 2: why doesn't she ask them?

1753
01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:52,960
Speaker 1: What if I ask her? Why doesn't she ask them?

1754
01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:55,920
Speaker 2: I know she might get upset, but I don't have

1755
01:18:56,040 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 2: the luxury of extra help, so I feel like she

1756
01:18:58,400 --> 01:18:59,840
Speaker 2: should take that into consider it.

1757
01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:01,800
Speaker 1: Am I wrong? No, you're not wrong.

1758
01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 2: Her partner is her best Like, okay, so save me

1759
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:07,679
Speaker 2: and Dre are friends. I keep asking Drea for money,

1760
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 2: but my nigga, Oh you, my nigga. You over here

1761
01:19:10,040 --> 01:19:13,880
Speaker 2: posting money and I'm asking her for money. Oh yeah,

1762
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:16,760
Speaker 2: some motherfucking problem. Be like, Okay, what's going on? Says

1763
01:19:16,840 --> 01:19:19,160
Speaker 2: because I don't have money like this. This is why

1764
01:19:19,240 --> 01:19:22,519
Speaker 2: communication with your friends, with your partner, with everything should

1765
01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 2: be open. Stop being scared to talk to people that

1766
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:27,360
Speaker 2: you love, because if they really love you, a conversation

1767
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:28,639
Speaker 2: is not gonna change anything.

1768
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:33,639
Speaker 1: So tell her, bitch, can you please ask your man?

1769
01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:38,560
Speaker 1: Maybe it's cap, It's always cap. He's definitely cappen. He

1770
01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:39,240
Speaker 1: doesn't have it.

1771
01:19:39,280 --> 01:19:41,519
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you feel comfortable asking your man for some money?

1772
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:45,760
Speaker 1: It's definitely he don't got it. He don't got it.

1773
01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 2: But that also shows you that you would a lame

1774
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:50,040
Speaker 2: ass your friends with a lame ass nigga.

1775
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:52,080
Speaker 1: You need to probably help her get away.

1776
01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:53,720
Speaker 4: That's the device you need to give.

1777
01:19:54,439 --> 01:19:59,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, lead that it's the truth. How would you feel Drea.

1778
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:07,080
Speaker 4: No money? She going.

1779
01:20:09,840 --> 01:20:10,360
Speaker 1: Anyway?

1780
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 2: You're not asking my friend for no money when I'm

1781
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:16,840
Speaker 2: fucking the fuck type of sense student made. And then

1782
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:20,000
Speaker 2: it's like you imagine me asking you for money and

1783
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:23,320
Speaker 2: I'm calling you every day like grow his big fires.

1784
01:20:24,520 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 5: What that sound like?

1785
01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:31,679
Speaker 2: Car is goofy, goofy yuck, that's what sounds Sorry, Okay,

1786
01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:33,720
Speaker 2: So let the people know where they can find you

1787
01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:36,240
Speaker 2: when your episodes drop all that good stuff.

1788
01:20:36,640 --> 01:20:39,760
Speaker 3: You can find me on Instagram richid no sorry, And

1789
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:42,640
Speaker 3: it's the only club YouTube rich you u employed f

1790
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:45,000
Speaker 3: and that's sound club whichever one you talk.

1791
01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:48,880
Speaker 1: Too fast rich, rich and unemployed, rich and unemployed on

1792
01:20:49,040 --> 01:20:50,599
Speaker 1: YouTube country around here.

1793
01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:54,840
Speaker 3: So I drop about three times a week. I got

1794
01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:58,200
Speaker 3: like five different podcasts and one so whatever. Like I

1795
01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:00,960
Speaker 3: try to cater everybody you want to type, I mean

1796
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:03,519
Speaker 3: check into like the the aspect when I talk to women.

1797
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:05,280
Speaker 3: One don't want that you want to tap into, like

1798
01:21:05,320 --> 01:21:06,679
Speaker 3: when I talk to this rat ship with a group

1799
01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 3: of women, strippers, models, bottle girls. If you want to

1800
01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 3: tap into the real ship, I post that every Thursday

1801
01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:18,960
Speaker 3: at nine p m. Mondays is more educational entrepreneurship, So

1802
01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:20,679
Speaker 3: you just tap into the YouTube.

1803
01:21:21,560 --> 01:21:22,559
Speaker 4: I got bigger things coming.

1804
01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:26,640
Speaker 1: The girls, they're gonna be looking for you now.

1805
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:28,599
Speaker 4: Letting you know my phone number is three ones.

1806
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:36,799
Speaker 5: Okay, all one, Yes, the show.

1807
01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:41,360
Speaker 1: Now, that's Mike Jones. He's on the South, so we're

1808
01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 1: gonna get now. He would't know that song was he would.

1809
01:21:48,920 --> 01:21:51,519
Speaker 1: It's no, but it's we're gonna give you a past now.

1810
01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:53,120
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Y'all ready to see?

1811
01:21:54,360 --> 01:21:54,519
Speaker 4: Uh?

1812
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:56,040
Speaker 1: Can I ask the question?

1813
01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:57,080
Speaker 5: Go ahead? Girl?

1814
01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 2: Why on the intro they said always there when you

1815
01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 2: call book ship. I've never heard that version. It's okay.

1816
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:09,599
Speaker 2: I don't know what that means, but it's okay. Ain't

1817
01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 2: talking about b B B.

1818
01:22:13,600 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 4: Dreia.

1819
01:22:14,320 --> 01:22:17,040
Speaker 1: You've been in time all day. You know you're about

1820
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:19,200
Speaker 1: to get a program. Mar used to call Pam bb

1821
01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:25,200
Speaker 1: bete be alady already we got a snap.

1822
01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:32,560
Speaker 7: Always that when you call, always on time, gave you

1823
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:41,240
Speaker 7: my baby mine always that when you call, always on time.

1824
01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 5: Gave you my.

1825
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:45,799
Speaker 1: Baby baby.

1826
01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:49,360
Speaker 8: I'm not always there when you call call it, I'm

1827
01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:55,040
Speaker 8: always on time, and I gave you my my baby,

1828
01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:58,040
Speaker 8: my man, I'm not always then when.

1829
01:22:57,920 --> 01:23:01,640
Speaker 1: You call, you call it all ways on time, and

1830
01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 1: I gave you my baby.

1831
01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 3: Come on, get a piece of like you know when

1832
01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:12,280
Speaker 3: to swing did like no other you know, I know

1833
01:23:12,400 --> 01:23:13,959
Speaker 3: a love the things that explained.

1834
01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 4: But baby, I got a name and he loves about paint.

1835
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:21,960
Speaker 1: Yes, like's not the thank I came.

1836
01:23:23,640 --> 01:23:24,760
Speaker 4: It's a quarterback.

1837
01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:32,680
Speaker 5: I love to see a.

1838
01:23:34,720 --> 01:23:38,360
Speaker 1: Fan while I'm taking bread. I never thought I make

1839
01:23:38,400 --> 01:23:40,920
Speaker 1: it file when I'm just taking as all.

1840
01:23:41,040 --> 01:23:48,400
Speaker 9: Wow, So home cast you call, baby, I'm not always

1841
01:23:48,479 --> 01:23:52,080
Speaker 9: them when you call, but always on time.

1842
01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:54,120
Speaker 1: And I gave you my.

1843
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:59,320
Speaker 5: Dad man, I always know when you.

1844
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:04,400
Speaker 4: Call always all the time. Gave you my.

1845
01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:13,400
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, all.

1846
01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:17,280
Speaker 3: Time the way, all times heavy walktime.

1847
01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:20,000
Speaker 9: You and I got about your mind together and get

1848
01:24:20,040 --> 01:24:23,840
Speaker 9: out In the Coulay you played the.

1849
01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:27,280
Speaker 4: Same game you played the baby You're crazy and the.

1850
01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:29,000
Speaker 1: Baby you don't really was.

1851
01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:34,000
Speaker 3: It the mine?

1852
01:24:34,040 --> 01:24:37,000
Speaker 1: If he's an leave me the game is very religious.

1853
01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:37,960
Speaker 1: Then I'm about to done.

1854
01:24:38,040 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 5: Be don't get this.

1855
01:24:42,680 --> 01:24:45,960
Speaker 2: Let me say this, John Roland Shanty had the game

1856
01:24:46,040 --> 01:24:48,240
Speaker 2: over lock and you did what needed to be done.

1857
01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:52,040
Speaker 1: That is a great karaoke song. Ten out of ten.

1858
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:55,000
Speaker 1: You know, shut up to you for participating.

1859
01:24:58,880 --> 01:24:59,920
Speaker 5: With the ninety kids.

1860
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:01,280
Speaker 4: What did you say with nineteen keys?

1861
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:03,360
Speaker 1: You think we can't hold the conversation.

1862
01:25:03,400 --> 01:25:04,000
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? What?

1863
01:25:04,320 --> 01:25:04,360
Speaker 8: What?

1864
01:25:04,560 --> 01:25:04,600
Speaker 2: What?

1865
01:25:07,040 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 1: We didn't sing with those did? I don't think nineteen

1866
01:25:09,400 --> 01:25:13,280
Speaker 1: keys saying up? He was like this, I'm always seen

1867
01:25:13,360 --> 01:25:17,200
Speaker 1: and I'm hopeful to tell you, hopeful for today.

1868
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:19,720
Speaker 4: I want to sing either. I know.

1869
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:22,920
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy?

1870
01:25:22,960 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 5: Though a lot of people what I can't remember?

1871
01:25:26,400 --> 01:25:28,840
Speaker 1: He didn't see what the did he did it? You

1872
01:25:28,920 --> 01:25:31,360
Speaker 1: know what's crazy? Carlos didn't see with us either.

1873
01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:34,519
Speaker 2: He let us Bob Carls was like, okay, you we're

1874
01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:35,559
Speaker 2: gonna start doing a hereyo.

1875
01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:40,000
Speaker 1: Okay, not in a Lana Miller. We're not hearing this.

1876
01:25:40,560 --> 01:25:42,320
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, my bad homie.

1877
01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:43,640
Speaker 5: How did it?

1878
01:25:43,680 --> 01:25:44,639
Speaker 4: How do you feel bad?

1879
01:25:44,760 --> 01:25:46,280
Speaker 1: Do you feel better about your Darros?

1880
01:25:46,320 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 4: Your It could have been a lot of carlos Is

1881
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:49,759
Speaker 4: in the world.

1882
01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:53,040
Speaker 1: There's only one Carlos that matters bad.

1883
01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:54,760
Speaker 4: That's the one that gave me this ship.

1884
01:25:55,000 --> 01:26:01,200
Speaker 1: Don't blame it on us, We ain't. Don't Carlos Carlos here,

1885
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:06,479
Speaker 1: since that's what everybody the air. You see how they're

1886
01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:08,240
Speaker 1: tripping their name.

1887
01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 4: Come on now, do.

1888
01:26:12,400 --> 01:26:17,640
Speaker 1: Come on mine? You used to watch How long were

1889
01:26:17,680 --> 01:26:19,000
Speaker 1: you in? How long were you in there.

1890
01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:20,719
Speaker 4: Three years.

1891
01:26:21,200 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 1: Oh you ain't that long. Three years a long time.

1892
01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:28,720
Speaker 1: You're looking up? What are we saying with? We don't know?

1893
01:26:28,880 --> 01:26:30,760
Speaker 2: We say I always sang with nineteen kids.

1894
01:26:30,920 --> 01:26:33,000
Speaker 1: Thank y'all so much for tuning in. This was a

1895
01:26:33,120 --> 01:26:35,040
Speaker 1: fun episode. This was really fun.

1896
01:26:35,520 --> 01:26:39,080
Speaker 4: Why just look half my DM. I'm not gonna respond,

1897
01:26:39,120 --> 01:26:39,680
Speaker 4: but just happened in.

1898
01:26:39,680 --> 01:26:42,639
Speaker 1: It anyway, He's not gonna respond.

1899
01:26:42,760 --> 01:26:44,439
Speaker 4: Everybody, everybody got a chance.

1900
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:46,040
Speaker 1: Oh whatever, we'll se y'all.

1901
01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:48,320
Speaker 2: Look, wait, I really want to answer this because they're

1902
01:26:48,320 --> 01:26:49,960
Speaker 2: gonna be wondering conversations.

1903
01:26:51,240 --> 01:26:54,000
Speaker 1: Girl, come on, get it, get to it. Because we

1904
01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:55,160
Speaker 1: were singing. He didn't sing.

1905
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:57,560
Speaker 4: You can't get it?

1906
01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:00,760
Speaker 2: What was it?

1907
01:27:02,240 --> 01:27:06,160
Speaker 1: One twenty nine? O, fine, it's not weird.

1908
01:27:06,880 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 4: Oh I won't d nice.

1909
01:27:10,200 --> 01:27:13,960
Speaker 1: I wants hobby had probably dooming because he wasn't doing nothing.

1910
01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:15,519
Speaker 1: Shout out to nineteen keys on.

1911
01:27:15,800 --> 01:27:16,000
Speaker 4: Damn.

1912
01:27:16,720 --> 01:27:22,120
Speaker 1: We was cutting up money, lying everywhere. We won't go.

1913
01:27:24,240 --> 01:27:25,960
Speaker 4: I want to I want to song that either would

1914
01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:26,720
Speaker 4: have been like I.

1915
01:27:26,880 --> 01:27:37,280
Speaker 1: Won't I won't up slipping. That's about he was liked

1916
01:27:38,400 --> 01:27:41,200
Speaker 1: spend my money. Yeah you didn't, so you didn't like that?

1917
01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:44,000
Speaker 4: If you are, somebody got him jay Z God damn.

1918
01:27:44,680 --> 01:27:47,880
Speaker 2: I don't know all right, but shout out to nineteen Keys.

1919
01:27:47,920 --> 01:27:49,680
Speaker 2: That was an actually amazing episode. It's one of our

1920
01:27:49,720 --> 01:27:50,719
Speaker 2: highest watch episodes.

1921
01:27:50,880 --> 01:27:54,200
Speaker 4: That I got a nice party element like he'd been

1922
01:27:54,200 --> 01:27:58,040
Speaker 4: talking about his high ship was still no, no, no, no.

1923
01:27:58,600 --> 01:28:00,720
Speaker 1: Y'all got him out of his element. He talking how

1924
01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:03,599
Speaker 1: he usually be talking high levels. Don't just get all

1925
01:28:03,640 --> 01:28:06,280
Speaker 1: over our vibrations. Tell us how you really.

1926
01:28:07,800 --> 01:28:11,360
Speaker 4: What I see the clip right, I was seeing with

1927
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:14,439
Speaker 4: the clip of the of the I don't know what I.

1928
01:28:14,479 --> 01:28:19,040
Speaker 1: Was talking about. What we can't we don't get played.

1929
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:22,639
Speaker 1: Be's really not ship anyways. Thank y'all so much between

1930
01:28:22,640 --> 01:28:24,920
Speaker 1: then we'll see y'all next week. Bye y'all