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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time of

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Speaker 1: y'all don't know y'all back a suit, looking back to

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Speaker 1: it's not good to Steve Hart to move together. For Steve,

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Speaker 1: please don't join joining me. You gotta use that turning them.

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Speaker 1: on your thing, daddy. Uh huh, I show will a

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Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now. But it only Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 1: radio show man. Instead of trying to be about the

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Speaker 1: business to y'all, I'm I'm I'm doing all I can.

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Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy in the efforts that I make.

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Speaker 1: I can do more. And my father used to tell

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Speaker 1: me something when I was growing up. He says, son,

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Speaker 1: when you've done your best, and you've done all you can,

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Speaker 1: sit still for a second and just do a little

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Speaker 1: bit more. Always remember that, he said, When you've done

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Speaker 1: can think of, he say, sit still for a minute

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Speaker 1: and do some more. And you know what I've discovered

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Speaker 1: in my life. Always have a little more. I ain't

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Speaker 1: ever just out out out completely. I can't take another step.

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Speaker 1: There ain't another breath in me, There ain't there ain't

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Speaker 1: another thought I can produce. I'm never completely out, man.

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Speaker 1: Just take a rest for a minute, man, and then

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Speaker 1: just do a little bit more. And that that. I

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Speaker 1: can't tell you how many times that's helped me get

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Speaker 1: over the top. You know. I was watching a documentary

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Speaker 1: about people climbing Mount Everest and how difficult climbing Mount

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Speaker 1: majority of people run out of oxygen and they have

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Speaker 1: to turn back. Well, what's crazy is it's right in

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Speaker 1: view of the summit. You can actually see the top

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Speaker 1: of Mount Everest from there. But it's but it's that

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Speaker 1: little bit that's left that's the most difficult. Now that

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Speaker 1: I forgot all the reasons why they said most people

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Speaker 1: don't make it from there, and more people have lost

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Speaker 1: their lives in that area. I don't know what it is,

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Speaker 1: but the people that make it to the top of

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Speaker 1: Mount efforts, they all had to go through that same

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Speaker 1: bit more that allowed them to get to the top.

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Speaker 1: You know a lot of people have had accidents up

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Speaker 1: there trying that, So I'm not even really sure if

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Speaker 1: Mount Everest analogy is a good one. But let's just

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Speaker 1: break it down a little bit more. Let's just talk

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Speaker 1: about life. There's a poem I learned back when I

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Speaker 1: host Pledge in its called don't Quit. It goes like this,

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Speaker 1: if I'm make a mistake, I'm just trying to drum

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Speaker 1: it up, So here we go. It says when things

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Speaker 1: go wrong, as they sometimes will, when the road you're

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Speaker 1: trudging seems all uphill, when your funds are low and

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Speaker 1: your debts are high, when you want to smile, but

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Speaker 1: life is queer with his twist and turns, as every

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Speaker 1: one of us must sometimes learn, And many a fellow

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Speaker 1: has turned about when he might have won had he

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Speaker 1: gold is nearer than it seems to a faint and

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Speaker 1: when he might have captured the Victor's cup, and he

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Speaker 1: may be kneel when it seems afar, so stick to

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Speaker 1: But I remember it at that point. My dad has

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Speaker 1: kept me. You know, we often talk about scripture and everything,

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Speaker 1: and then I don't see how I could live without it.

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Speaker 1: But every now and then, man, somebody has a writing.

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Speaker 1: best husband I can be. I've done a lot of

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Speaker 1: changing over the years, and so have you. But change

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Speaker 1: is necessary in order to grow. If you don't make changes, folks,

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Speaker 1: young man, kept talking to him, and I said, hey, man,

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Speaker 1: what you are, but all I see is your hair. Now,

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Speaker 1: all that hair. Man, Now you can feel how you

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Speaker 1: want to feel. But I'm like an employer. I employed people.

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Speaker 1: So when I'm walking through the hallway and I try

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Speaker 1: in your suit sitting there talking business with me. And so,

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Speaker 1: just like other employers are, I'm just having a real

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Speaker 1: consider cutting your hair. He said, man, mister Harvey, I've

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Speaker 1: What does it do for you? He's a man, it's

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Speaker 1: just who I am. It's I said, so you your

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Speaker 1: I like ice cream, but I feed that. But if

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Speaker 1: single day, my body gonna reflect that. What is it

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Speaker 1: from right here? Oh? I got right here is comfortable,

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Speaker 1: But it's gonna be that? And tell me I heard

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Speaker 1: me to call my nephews, I said, for what? So

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Speaker 1: stay till this dog? I said, not he I got

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Speaker 1: damn long. I had reached that age, that hot stage day. Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: it's gotta be honest. Really, Yeah, I remember my kids,

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Speaker 1: William come see me do that? Oh that's the reason

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Speaker 1: you made it all right? Coming up next more of

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: to stew All, right, Steve. Before we went to break

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Speaker 1: you were we were all making confessions. I don't cook enough.

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Speaker 1: Carlos snapped, Uh, Tommy and the house, Yeah, Tommy, Uh

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Speaker 1: was naked Junior doesn't take his sister's calls. And you, sir, said,

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Speaker 1: you don't like watching your beautiful grandkids. And they are beautiful,

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Speaker 1: they are, And why what is that about your lead?

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Speaker 1: Like watching them? About have a lot of time? She

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Speaker 1: need to look in here. But I don't like pepper

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Speaker 1: pig lass cartoons. I'm looking pigs sitting up in hire, Papa,

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Speaker 1: Let's watch Pepper Pig Papa don't like understand, Papa like

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch, great, Papa. I want to drink of that.

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Speaker 1: You can't drink McCall and don't ask me no damn

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Speaker 1: the grakid Scotch where Marjorie? That's why they'd be having

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Speaker 1: me watching that, Papa. We want a bad time story

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Speaker 1: your papa don't know, no, dude, you know, but they

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Speaker 1: don't be dain't done that kids post to here? Dude?

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Speaker 1: Maybe everyone that's living a fist of sin. Now, you

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Speaker 1: I think you say. Put you up to this? Thia

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Speaker 1: got me to prank you? Man, wow, man oh man,

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Speaker 1: hey man? You all right with me? Brother? I got

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Speaker 1: to ask you something, man, what is the baddest and

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Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the lands, The

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey More on the show What we Think much?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? I'm just ask what y'all think. You know what?

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Speaker 1: We need to doctor? Average licenses? Oh, fake pastors and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Somebody got to do it. Somebody got to do it, baby.

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Speaker 1: All right? Coming up next more of the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, Jay and Junior are here with some

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Speaker 1: pointers for people. Okay, okay, So, no matter what you're into,

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Speaker 1: whether it's drinking alcohol or smoking legally, now this is

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Speaker 1: how you know when you've had enough and it's time

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Speaker 1: to what put put it down down? Yeah, it's time

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Speaker 1: to put it down. Okay. When you got your light

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Speaker 1: on your phone, your light is on your phone and

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Speaker 1: you're looking for your phone it's time to put it down. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's absolutely true. It's in your hand. Junior got one, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and all mine is real. I don't care if he

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Speaker 1: is listening this morning, but this is what he gonna stop.

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Speaker 1: Uh look here, uh if you if you started drinking,

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Speaker 1: oh eu but every time here police siren, you grabbed me.

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Speaker 1: Put the O E down. You don't need to drink

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Speaker 1: this no moment. I'm trying to tear my clothes. Police go,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not going to sit here, dude, this with

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Speaker 1: your jake. He put it down. Okay, all right, it's

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Speaker 1: three o'clock in the morning. You're throwing out of trinking

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Speaker 1: to make Thanksgiving dinner and it ain't even Thanksgiving. It's

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Speaker 1: time to put it down. It's time. It's just Tuesday. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's just too he he gonna know if you say

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Speaker 1: what huh in the conversation, modified time what it's time

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Speaker 1: to put it down? Yeah, you're right, huh what about

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Speaker 1: what what? Huh? I got one? Here we go. If

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Speaker 1: you like what you're smoking on both ends, put it down,

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00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: light it on both ends. Yeah, yeah, you got one up. Okay, Hey,

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Speaker 1: let's tell you something. If I come over your house,

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Speaker 1: and I walked upstairs and you playing PlayStation and you

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Speaker 1: got the headphones on. Dog, whatever you is you're doing,

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Speaker 1: it's time to put that down. You see it down?

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Speaker 1: You talking to her head says put a place that

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Speaker 1: you control in your hands. You smoking? You know this

462
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: happened with a friend of mine. If you're driving. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and we just said that this light and it didn't

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Speaker 1: change greens three times. Yeah we still laugh. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: staring at the winch, you get time for the down.

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Speaker 1: Time put it down. But you you decide to make

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Speaker 1: a cake, and you waiting for the cake to be done.

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Speaker 1: You got all the ingredients in the pan. But what

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Speaker 1: you did when you stuck it in the dishwasher and

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Speaker 1: you're waiting, Yeah, put it down. Time, put it down

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Speaker 1: over there. You don't need the boat, Yeah, I if

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Speaker 1: you don't got hungry and you didn't decide it. You

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Speaker 1: want some pinto beads and you soaking them and you

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Speaker 1: just get them spoon and sit down and start eating. Down.

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Speaker 1: You got to quit smoke, all right, Steve. Let's get

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Speaker 1: to the news, ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne Trip warning everybody.

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Speaker 1: President Biden is condemning. Yesterday morning's assassination of the President

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Speaker 1: of Haiti, Jovan Almoisy. Moisey was shot dead in his

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Speaker 1: home overnight, and the country's first lady, Martimoys was also shot,

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Speaker 1: but she survived. She's now being treated in a Florida hospital,

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Speaker 1: enlisted in critical but stable condition. Forces in Haiti had

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Speaker 1: been calling for Moisy to leave office, saying that his

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Speaker 1: term was up, but his supporters said, well, they wanted

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Speaker 1: him to stay because first of all, they said, he

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Speaker 1: started his term elate and he should serve out the

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Speaker 1: full five years. Haitian officials have declared the country under

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Speaker 1: a state of siege. They've closed the country's international airport. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: Haitian law enforcement killed four suspected assailants in a gun

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Speaker 1: bound yesterday and arrested to others. Despite the lousy weather

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Speaker 1: courtesy of tropical storm els Of the remains of eighteen

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Speaker 1: more bodies were recovered yesterday from the rubble of that

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Speaker 1: collapsed condo in Serfside. That brings a number of confirmed

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Speaker 1: dead to fifty four, with eighty six others still missing

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Speaker 1: or undercounter four. Given the weather, though government Ronda Santacist

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Speaker 1: could have been worse. Clearly this could have been worse,

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Speaker 1: but you're always better to be prepared, and so that's

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Speaker 1: what we did, and we're happy that everyone had all

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Speaker 1: hands on deck over the last couple of days. Rescue

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Speaker 1: teams say there's no sign that any of the victims

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Speaker 1: recovered so far survived the initial collapse. A most tappened

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Speaker 1: later overnight, and they feel that most people were probably

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Speaker 1: asleep in a bit. The mission has now sadly moved

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Speaker 1: from rescue to recovery. Meanwhile, else is making its way

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Speaker 1: through Georgia with New Carolina's Donald Trump's suing Facebook, Twitter,

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Speaker 1: and YouTube over there suspending of his accounts. All three

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Speaker 1: social media platforms dropped him after his supporters attacked the capitol.

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Speaker 1: Trump has now filed the class action complaint federal court

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Speaker 1: in Florida, accusing Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube of censuring conservative

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Speaker 1: demanding an end to the shadow banning, a stop to

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Speaker 1: the silencing, and a stop to the blacklisting, banishing and

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Speaker 1: canceling that you know so well. The new suits are

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Speaker 1: just the latest moving Trump's long running feud with social

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Speaker 1: media platforms that he uses to wind up his basse.

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Speaker 1: More bad news for former mayor and Trump lay Giuliani

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Speaker 1: Giuliani's law license has now been suspended in Washington, d C.

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Speaker 1: Julyani's law license was suspended in New York remember last

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Speaker 1: month for pushing lies about the presidential election, specifically that

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Speaker 1: Donald Trump wanted and it was all this fortunate stuff

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Speaker 1: going on and sad news. Actress Susanne Douglas has passed.

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Speaker 1: Susanne Douglas featured in several movies like The Inkwell Tap,

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Speaker 1: but she's perhaps best known as Robert Cownsen's wife Jerry

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Speaker 1: on the sitcom The Parenthood. Oh, Suzanne Douglas lost her

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Speaker 1: battle against cancer. She was sixty four. Now back to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening, morning show. We

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Speaker 1: here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show love food, all

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Speaker 1: of us. But there are a lot of foods we

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Speaker 1: think are from other countries that are actually invented in

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Speaker 1: the good old USA. And those are some of the

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Speaker 1: most famous ones. Like Fortune cookies invented right here. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was actually invented in San Francisco by a Japanese

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Speaker 1: American baker. Did not did you notice? I did fortune

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Speaker 1: taste good? They don't taste good. I like them with chocolate,

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Speaker 1: white chocolate on them. They're like, they don't Shirley, excuse me.

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Speaker 1: Our chocolate is the worst thing you could put in

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Speaker 1: your body. I absolutely know that. But it tastes real good.

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. I'm sorry, excuse me. You a

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Speaker 1: very wonderful health reason, and you just do it. I

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Speaker 1: know that I want. I don't eat it now, but

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Speaker 1: yeah I used to, and it's delicious. Orange chicken. How

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Speaker 1: about that one? That's good? Yeah? It was created in

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Speaker 1: Hawaii in nineteen eighty seven by Panda Express chef Andy

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Speaker 1: Ko or Kyle m. I didn't know that. Wow, I

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Speaker 1: didn't know that. See who came up with them noodles?

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Speaker 1: That crustation? Who came up with them? The copy German

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Speaker 1: chocolate cake German? My mama, My mama, Yeah, my mama.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who made it before. I don't know

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Speaker 1: who made it before. Anybody make it? Like Hurdle it

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Speaker 1: lost Vera Harvey, greatest piece of German chocolate cake old

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Speaker 1: the planet. I have German chocolate, but anyway, it has

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Speaker 1: nothing to do with Germany. Uh. It's because of its

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Speaker 1: name Samuel German that it's called German. Black people that

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Speaker 1: perfected it. Oh yes, hello, that coconut. Yeah, we've had

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Speaker 1: a lot taken from us. So hey, the ride of

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Speaker 1: that we took, We took the cake. Okay, okay, I

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Speaker 1: love German, all right. English muffins, English muffins from England,

556
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 1: from England. They were actually invented in New York City

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Speaker 1: in nineteen eighty four by English immigrant Samuel Bass Thomas.

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Speaker 1: They were rich, they were. Let me give you some

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Speaker 1: real dishes that was created right here in America. Okay,

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Speaker 1: come on, what's you guys? Shitless? Yes? Work it out

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Speaker 1: whether they want to be a not fright spam, Yes,

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Speaker 1: hot dogs and pork beans American dish. All right, there

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Speaker 1: you have it you're listening to all right. Sometimes we

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Speaker 1: all find ourselves in a conversation, okay, be a political, scientific, educational, financial,

565
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 1: than hip hop pop culture based conversations where we just

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Speaker 1: have no clue, I mean clue less to what the

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Speaker 1: person is talking about. Okay, So we'll sure to do

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Speaker 1: with sports busted. So do you guys chime in and

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Speaker 1: ask people to to get you up to speed or

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Speaker 1: do you just not in agreement like you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: like I actually get into conversation. I wanted to start

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Speaker 1: with you. Yes, I don't get into conversation like bringing

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Speaker 1: up a subject or you know, I ain't got nothing now,

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Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about it. Engineering making a bridge?

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Speaker 1: Oh man, you know, me and my father Man used

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Speaker 1: to work construction. You know, I used to work on bridge.

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Speaker 1: We had the cracks in the bridge, so I knew

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Speaker 1: all about the structural design over bridge and we called

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Speaker 1: the fracture spaces in it. And I just didn't let that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did you or your father go to engineering school? I

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Speaker 1: mean engineering and a construction company or oh no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Now we work for this company, Frank buddy, Frank Buddy

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Speaker 1: contractor have you ever driven over a bridge? A lot

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Speaker 1: of That's how we knew how they cracked, you know,

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Speaker 1: structural engineering position is what we would take hold was

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Speaker 1: the uprooted problem that diverted the situation into a cracking. First,

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Speaker 1: he sounds good. There's like a board game like the

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Speaker 1: go ahead going car. I was gonna ask him though, surely, so,

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Speaker 1: how would you what would you recommend to update a bridge? Well?

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Speaker 1: I think update is a very bridge. Golden Bride Bridge

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Speaker 1: has been needed updated and repairing. You have been several

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Speaker 1: earthquakes as we wreaking the foundation. But I think what

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have to do is we're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: do a section at the time. I think we're gonna

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Speaker 1: have to break that bridge in half. So we had

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Speaker 1: this one way traffic going one way, and then once

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Speaker 1: you get the one one lane off and then you

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Speaker 1: can do the restructure work on the other side, and

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Speaker 1: then you reinforce it up under with welding beings and

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Speaker 1: how to join them back together. That way they fix

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Speaker 1: that whole thing with you mentioned earthquakes, Um, I was wondering.

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Speaker 1: You know, we're out here in La what do you

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Speaker 1: know that a lot of seismatologists have been on the

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Speaker 1: news lately saying there's a possibility that there could be

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Speaker 1: an earthquake coming up soon? You agree with that? Four

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Speaker 1: point seven? A four point seven? What are you basing

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Speaker 1: that on? Yeah? Because Lands was four point six you predict.

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Speaker 1: Are you a seismatologist? Buy any chance you have you

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Speaker 1: know anybody that is? No, I'm a quake atologist. Yea,

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Speaker 1: so far, so good. Yeah, anything just anything I couldn't got,

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Speaker 1: can get right with it. In houses, houses, you know

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00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: a lot about house Yeah. I grew up in a

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Speaker 1: housing projectologists I meant seismologists. Seismatologists. That's why I said quake,

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Speaker 1: because I knew you ain't know what you're Go ahead

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Speaker 1: and come. You know you know anything about design and

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Speaker 1: airplanes are absolutely absolutely you mean like the engines and

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Speaker 1: stuff are inside which one, Well, let's go be Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Rose Ross is number one engine manufacturer of jet planes

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Speaker 1: in the world right now, now that I believe, No,

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Speaker 1: that's from you. Yeah, I believe Rose Roats is number

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Speaker 1: one jet manufactured engine parts and motors in the world today.

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Speaker 1: And so whatever I'm picking out the plane, always go

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Speaker 1: Rose Engine. Okay, what's the best um feat to get

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Speaker 1: up um altitude? You want to fly at least thirty

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Speaker 1: three thousand, but if you in the old War substantial plane,

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Speaker 1: you can get up at forty nine thousand, which did

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Speaker 1: at that point you could see the curvature of the Earth.

628
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Speaker 1: I cannot argue this. I guess you're up there in

629
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: heaven almost if nine thousand feet in G five you

630
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: could see the curvature of the Earth ahead the planet,

631
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: so you could see that the world was round. Wow. No,

632
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: and that's a fact I can't argue with you. Because

633
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: I have new ideas about the thirty three thousand altitude.

634
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,320
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you. Up next, it is a

635
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: nephew switching gears with a prank phone call for today.

636
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to sting show coming up

637
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. Right about four minutes

638
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 1: after it is my strawberry letter for today, subject he

639
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: wants me but not the children. Right now it is

640
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: the nephew's turn with today's prank phone call. You got

641
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: king of pranks. Uh, work husband, y'all understand that. Don't

642
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 1: you work? Work? Husband? Wow? I said you did you

643
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: get that? I did you? Yeah? I did. It was

644
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 1: so natural. I didn't even notice it until he didn't

645
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: notice it scared him. He focused and said, now quark

646
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:30,359
Speaker 1: one more time, quirk, husband, it's not the husband where

647
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 1: you have the issues? Yeah, you don't even got to say, husband, quirk?

648
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: Where where where you are? No? I was quirk, husband,

649
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: work stopped blowing for you say it? He went to

650
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: class to class to try to Yeah, he's flung. How

651
00:43:56,320 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 1: long was the class, quirk? Husband? How was that it was? Yeah?

652
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: That was almost there. Yeah, I didn't work husband. You

653
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 1: may start Oh damn, are we gonna hear the plank? Yeah,

654
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: let's play play just playing. You can say playing, you

655
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: can say, you can say husband, this man, man, Hello, Hello,

656
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach out Gary, Gary, who's this? Hello?

657
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: Who is this? Hey? This is Tony Man. I work

658
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: with your wife, Pam. It's your ain't Oh yeah, she's fine,

659
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: she's fine. Man. I'm I'm one of a co workers. Man.

660
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to you. You know, I've

661
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: been working with a quite some time. I'm kind of

662
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: like what they called her work husband. Man. You may

663
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: have heard her mentioned me before, Tony. Wait wait wait, wait,

664
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: back up, back up, because I may be a little sleep.

665
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 1: What did you say a husband? No, no, no, no, no,

666
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: no no no, nothing like that. Man, It ain't one

667
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: husband here, Okay, No, I got that. I'm a work husband,

668
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: you know, you know like that. You know it'll be

669
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 1: just something playful at the job. They'd be saying, work,

670
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Well, you know, just just

671
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 1: something you know, playful. They'd be saying, you know, uh,

672
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 1: when you hang around somebody a lot. This said he

673
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: should work husband or your work wife. You know, something

674
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: like that. But nothing nothing, nothing heavy, nothing heavy at all. Man.

675
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,359
Speaker 1: All right, what's what's up? Man, I mean, what's up? What? Well?

676
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: I was calling man, trying to ask you how long? Um?

677
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 1: How long have you a Pam been married? Wait? Wait,

678
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: what's what's your name again? My name is Tony. Oh okay, um,

679
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 1: we've been married about eight or nine years. I mean,

680
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: what's up? How long do you do? Uh? If you

681
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: don't mind me asking, how much longer do you see

682
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: y'all y'all being married? I kind of do mind you? Okay?

683
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 1: What hold up? How did you get this lumb again? Man? Like? No,

684
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: I got to I got the number out of out

685
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: of Pam's phone, and I wanted to call you myself.

686
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa back out of

687
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: my wife's phone. Yeah, dog, I don't I don't even answer.

688
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: Who do whoa? Why are you in my wife's phone?

689
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: Mah nah, dude, I mean I just got it off

690
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 1: a desk, man. I wanted to. I wanted to, um,

691
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to reach out to you man

692
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: and kind of have like a private conversation with you.

693
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: That's all. First one, Why are you in my wife's phone?

694
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: You calling me? Dude? I mean, this is this? This

695
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: is how this this husband. Thing. This is really it

696
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: is really blowing me right now. No, it's just it's

697
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,800
Speaker 1: just it's a work husband, man, that's all it is.

698
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: What is a work husband? What are you? What are

699
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: you doing with my wife? You know that's just like

700
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,280
Speaker 1: you know, like you know, I'll bring us some coffee

701
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 1: and donuts to the job, or you know, get us

702
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: some lunch and stuff. Man, if because she don't feel

703
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 1: like going. My wife don't even like donut if we

704
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: got a new coffee machine just two weeks ago from

705
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 1: why are you bringing my wife? Who? Hey, man, listen, really,

706
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 1: I really, I basically I just called for this here.

707
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: I loan. I loaned. Do you foresee y'all being married

708
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: to death? Do us part? What do you mean? How

709
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 1: long are we gonna be married? What's your Let me

710
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: is torn? Man? Tony, Tony Tory. I don't give a

711
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: damn you asking me these hold on, let me, let me,

712
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 1: let me call my wife. Hold on, hold on, so Hello, Hello, Hello, Gary,

713
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: He'm Gary. Look tam, you better call me within two minutes.

714
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: Right now, it's ten thirty eight. You better call me

715
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 1: a ten forty and you're black be sleeping outside? Hello Tory? Hello, Yes,

716
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: are you do that? Why are you called her? Man? This?

717
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,479
Speaker 1: This gonna be a conversation me and you having together? Hello?

718
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: On are you talking about you? You want wife's word? Husband?

719
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: It ain't but one husband up in here? What my

720
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 1: land name? And she don't keep it till death? Do

721
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 1: us part? Now? I'm glad you called me on a Friday.

722
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,839
Speaker 1: I'm so glad because I got all weekend to think

723
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 1: about that with an I'm gonna give you because this

724
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 1: out here now, hey, man, way man, all I'm trying

725
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: to figure out how much wrong would do you think

726
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,320
Speaker 1: you want to be married to her? Oh? Yeah, this

727
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 1: who's be't gonna be phenomenal? Are you better get right

728
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: with Jesus on Srinday because I get a dance tea.

729
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 1: You're gonna meet him Monday morning. Hey, I'm trying to say.

730
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: If I'm taking my wife up there early and I

731
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 1: want to see you black, I'm just trying to got.

732
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is if you didn't want to be

733
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: be mad to any longer than maybe we could work something.

734
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: Now That's all I'm asking, man, was workout, partner. All

735
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 1: we need to work out is be there Monday because

736
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: I'm shoulder. Hell, gonna be there question early Monday, waiting

737
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,800
Speaker 1: for your work husband mine. Okay, look, man, I'm not

738
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: gonna see working. I'm not trying to look I do.

739
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do it. Help a deeper man and

740
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: man conversation with you. Man, all right, you don't call

741
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 1: me trying to boss. You're bringing my wife. Don't. Let's

742
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 1: some coffee and I all open up song. This ain't

743
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: know a deeply conversation. Hey man, I'm her work husband. Dog. Everybody, everybody,

744
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: most people ever work of an all work wife. Man.

745
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: That's that's known in the corporate world. Work husband. You

746
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 1: hear what I'm saying, what a work husband and you.

747
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there Monday eight o'clock. Hey man, I'm

748
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,720
Speaker 1: not gonna say go back. Look, you know what, I'm

749
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 1: gonna just call Pam. I just called Pam. I'm sorry

750
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:20,280
Speaker 1: to call me back in about a minute. In fifteen seconds,

751
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna wait for to call me back. Work husbands

752
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: on a Friday, Okay, Well that's it was just it

753
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: was just a question. Man. I'm just trying to see

754
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 1: if you didn't want to, maybe we could work something

755
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 1: out if I find out if there's any truth to

756
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: anything you're saying. Oh, it's gonna be the late our

757
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: night to night. You ain't nobody's gonna do nothing to

758
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: my baby. I mean, ain't nobody gonna do what? Did

759
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: you just call my wife? Yo? Payment? No? No, man,

760
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 1: I'm doing on Monday and mister work husband, Hey man,

761
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I got one more day I need

762
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: to say to you. Man, No, you ain't I love

763
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 1: to say to me Monday. No, no, No, I got

764
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 1: something else I need to say to you. Are you listening?

765
00:49:57,840 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 1: You better talk to Jesus because I'm gonna be up

766
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 1: there Monday eight. Okay, I got I got one more

767
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: thing I need to say. Got nothing to say to me.

768
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: It's Monday. I do got one more thing to say

769
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: to you. Go ahead, go ahead. I say that you're listening.

770
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 1: I'm listening to this for work, hassage. We're just what

771
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: I want to tell you. I mean, this is nephew

772
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

773
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: pranked by your brother Eric Love that I can't put

774
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: you up to this. I'm so glad that's a joke

775
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: because somebody was about to die. So you all right, man.

776
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: Oh man, that's a good one. You are right. Oh

777
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: I need a drink, man, man, yeah, Man, Hey, I

778
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 1: got one more thing I gotta ask you, man, what

779
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: is the baddest radio show in the lane? Man? This

780
00:50:51,320 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all crazy? All right? What's crazy? Carl?

781
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: Is my work work white? Yes? Yes, boy one. You

782
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: can't say work your word, that's got a Carlos embarrassed.

783
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: You can't say work, that's a work white? What? And

784
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: you're struggling with white. It's time next for the Strawberry Letters.

785
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: Subject he wants me but not the children will do

786
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 1: the letter right after this you're listening to. Right now,

787
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need

788
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 1: some advice on relationships, on work, on sex, on dating,

789
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 1: on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to

790
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Write Steve,

791
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: tell them thank this absolutely correctly. You really don't have

792
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: many options because miss Abbey has paid Oh you mean

793
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: like dear Abbey that used to have the column and

794
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 1: the wow she paids So it's Jess get the paper.

795
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, Well, we could be reading your letter

796
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: live on the air like we're gonna read this one today.

797
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: Come on, nephew, buckle up, hold on tight, we got

798
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 1: it for you. Here. It is the straw Berry letter.

799
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 1: Subject he wants me but not the children. Dear Stephen Shirley.

800
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: I am a forty nine year old female married to

801
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:43,800
Speaker 1: a forty nine year old man. We have five children

802
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:48,320
Speaker 1: and five grandchildren. Here is the problem my current husband,

803
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: he says, I have. I have five children and five grandchildren. Okay,

804
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: not we oh, okay, here is the problem. My current

805
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 1: husband is not the father of my children. I married

806
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: this man when my children were young, so he's been

807
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: in their lives for a very long time. My youngest

808
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: son just graduated from high school and we'll be going

809
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: away for college. So now my husband thinks that we

810
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 1: are done raising children and from now on it will

811
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: be just the two of us. He has said that

812
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 1: that we don't have to worry about the kids anymore

813
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 1: because they are all grown and have their own lives.

814
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: So am I not supposed to So am I'm not

815
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:30,359
Speaker 1: supposed to be involved with my children since they are

816
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,720
Speaker 1: no longer living at home. My children range from ages

817
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: thirty two to eighteen years old. And all five of

818
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:38,920
Speaker 1: them live in different states. I want to see them

819
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,919
Speaker 1: and my grandkids as often as I can. In fact,

820
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: I'd like to move closer to them. My husband does

821
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,280
Speaker 1: not want anything to do with them period. He doesn't

822
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,320
Speaker 1: want to visit them, and he doesn't want them to

823
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 1: visit us. He said that they don't need to come

824
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 1: for the holiday. What the hell he really thinks that

825
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 1: because they are adults, I am supposed to forget that

826
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 1: they exist. I understand that these are our golden years

827
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 1: and we should be enjoying quality time together and traveling

828
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: the world, but our travels should also include trips to

829
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 1: see my children. If he's really serious, I may have

830
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 1: to spend my golden years alone. Stephen Shirley, can you

831
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 1: please help me? Well, your letters started off nicely, so

832
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: I'll put it like this. Your husband, I'm sure, feels

833
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: like he's done his job and it's over. These were

834
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: not his kids. He raised them anyway. He's been in

835
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: their lives since they were really young, so he's done

836
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 1: and not being their biological debt. Like I said, the

837
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: ties are cut. He has no connection really to them.

838
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 1: It seems he cut them off and his concentration is

839
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 1: now on you and you guys the future together. He

840
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 1: wants to live, he wants to live his life, you know,

841
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 1: and do all of those things. But now I think

842
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: that he's being very unrealistic when he says the children

843
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: he doesn't want the kids to come and see you,

844
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:00,919
Speaker 1: or he doesn't want you to go see the kids.

845
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: How is that? I mean, really, that's a bit unrealistic,

846
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:08,920
Speaker 1: especially if it makes you happy to see your kids.

847
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: You're his wife. He should want to see you happy

848
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: and do those things that make you happy. I mean,

849
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:17,279
Speaker 1: it's very unrealistic to say that. He really thinks that

850
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 1: because they're adults, you're supposed to forget that they exist. No,

851
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,400
Speaker 1: that's not the issue, and he knows that's not the issue.

852
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 1: They are grown and they are living their own lives.

853
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: That part is definitely true. But you guys got to

854
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 1: come to some kind of compromise in terms of when

855
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:36,399
Speaker 1: you see the kids and when you go see the kids,

856
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 1: even if you just go by yourself, you have to

857
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 1: see your kids. These are your kids, Steve, you're a parent.

858
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: Now he wants me, but not the children, Okay, that

859
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,319
Speaker 1: I can relate to. I don't want mine either, Dough

860
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 1: God and on any day between the seven of them,

861
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: you can come get just like that. But we are parents.

862
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,919
Speaker 1: You're forty nine, your band's forty nine. You got five

863
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 1: children and five grandkids. He's not the father of the kids.

864
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: Your youngest son just graduated high school going away to college.

865
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: So now your husband thinks that we've done raising children

866
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: and from now on there to just be the two

867
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: of us. He has says that we don't have to

868
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:24,720
Speaker 1: worry about the kids no more because they all grown

869
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: and have their own lives. Okay, are you kidding me?

870
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: You really think that's how it goes? Do you know

871
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: that you are a parent for life. You may not

872
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 1: be a husband or a wife for life, but once

873
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: you become a parent, you're a parent for life. Now,

874
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 1: there are some good ones out there and there are

875
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 1: some bad ones out there. I got it, you, sir,

876
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 1: are about to turn into a bad one because you

877
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,320
Speaker 1: don't get it. You are in your goal in you

878
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 1: And she said that later in the letter. Your kids

879
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 1: are from thirty two to eighteen, all of them live

880
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: in different states, and you want to see your kids

881
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,399
Speaker 1: and your grandkids. Matter of fact, you want to move

882
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 1: closer to him. Your husband don't want nothing to do

883
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:09,040
Speaker 1: with them, pig. He doesn't want to visit them, and

884
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:12,319
Speaker 1: he doesn't want them to visit us. He says, they

885
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: don't need to come for the holiday. That's what the

886
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 1: lady type, don't need to come for the holidays. What

887
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: the hell? What the hell is right? Come home? Man?

888
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: Are you for real? Bro? You're gonna just act like

889
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: you never met these people. He gotta come home. He's

890
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 1: not ready to live on his own. And I got that.

891
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: The kids range from thirty two to eighteen. Man, do

892
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 1: you know how much advice they need? So how much

893
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 1: help they need, financial support they need? Come home, man,

894
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: That ain't how this work. Man, you crazy? And he

895
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: don't want them to visit. He don't want him to

896
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 1: come for the holidays. What the hell? He thinks that

897
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 1: because they are adults, I'm supposed to forget that they exist.

898
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 1: That's the craziest part of them. You gotta be nuts.

899
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't work that way. Come on, man, I understand

900
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: that these are our golden years. You ain't before to nine. Hell, goldie,

901
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: But if that's how you want to look at it, okay, cool,

902
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: And that we should be enjoying quality time together and

903
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 1: traveling the world. Plans should also include trips to see

904
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 1: my children. If he's really serious, I may have spend

905
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:26,479
Speaker 1: my golden years alone. We will be back in kids.

906
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: What you say, Steve's all right, We will be back

907
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 1: at twenty three after with part two of Steve's response too,

908
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: he wants me but not the children right after this.

909
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve. Here we are part two

910
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: of today's Strawberry letter. The subject he wants me but

911
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 1: not the children. Wow. Well, the youngest one and graduated.

912
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: The boy is five kids, none of him. He is

913
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: now he gonna why they graduated? They're gone. We threw

914
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 1: it in they out. He's saying, no, they have their

915
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:08,920
Speaker 1: own lives. They're adults. They should be able to make

916
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: it on their own. I want to see my grandkids

917
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 1: as offer I can. It's what the woman says. In fact,

918
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: I want to move closer to him. My husband doesn't

919
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: want anything to do with them period. He don't want

920
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 1: to visit them. He don't want them to visit us.

921
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 1: He said they don't need to come for the holiday

922
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:29,440
Speaker 1: to him. The ladies said, what to hell, No, we

923
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: don't come for the holidays. What is Christmas? About exactly.

924
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: He really thinks that because they're adults, I'm supposed to

925
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: forget they exist. I understand that these are golden years

926
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 1: and we should be enjoying quality time together and traveling

927
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 1: the world. But I traveled playing to be called trips

928
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 1: to see my children. He's really serious. I may have

929
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 1: spend my golden years along Stephen Sherley. Can you please

930
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: help me? He wants to check out. In essence, he

931
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 1: wants to check out. He wants to say that I've

932
00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: done my duty. I raised these kids to the best

933
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: of my ability. I've contributed, and now they're gone. That's it.

934
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm chilling. I wish that was the case. But honey,

935
01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: why don't you want to see the kids? I mean,

936
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:18,480
Speaker 1: did something happen? We've already seen the kids. Well, yeah,

937
01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 1: you've seen them since they were young, I mean, and

938
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 1: they live their own lives now. I saw all I

939
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 1: needed to see when they was here. I'm tied. I've

940
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: been working, paying bill, putting key to college, and were

941
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 1: covering up dream I bought that born a carbon machine.

942
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: All that old and honey, we appreciated so much. But

943
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: these are my kids. I have to see them on

944
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: the holidays. That's what the holidays are. Four family holidays. Yes,

945
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 1: family like Thanksgiving, like Christmas, like Thanksgiving, like Christmas. We

946
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 1: ain't going down now. I've already made arrangements for them

947
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: to come here. They here here to the house. I'm,

948
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: you know, getting the big Christmas tree and everything. They're

949
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 1: just got ready to We just got rid of the

950
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 1: damn boy. And what the hell are you inviting them

951
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 1: back for? They don't think we won't them. Well, he

952
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:09,680
Speaker 1: has to have somewhere to go when he's out of

953
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 1: school for Christmas break school, don't he downed that one

954
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: of them in a national school. But he I want

955
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 1: him to come home. I missed them. I carried them

956
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 1: for nine months. This is my blood. See, you raised

957
01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,919
Speaker 1: and the kids to be none but chumps. That wrong

958
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: right here. He's a great kid. He's in college now,

959
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 1: he great kid herself. Go and make it. You know

960
01:01:35,600 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna get a job. Wow, I don't understand.

961
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: I mean, you were so good with them when they

962
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: were young and helping me raise them. Now all of

963
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 1: a sudden, it's like, who are they are? I don't know.

964
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 1: You were just counting the day. What do you mean

965
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: you were counting the day till they got out this house.

966
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 1: But you were so good they call you daddy. You're

967
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: not even there that she never gonna call me daddy

968
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: called they can't find that. Well, you know, I just

969
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: wanted to let you know that I really appreciate that

970
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 1: you were there for me, there for my kids. I

971
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 1: know you do, Baby, I appreciate now I want you

972
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: to be here for me. Well, I am here for you,

973
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 1: but I'm also are you all the time? All that

974
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,320
Speaker 1: the mom days over with? No, the mom days are

975
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 1: never over with. They is on what they gonna No,

976
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: they're not they ain't. No, they're not called you keeping

977
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 1: fighting them back, leaving where they act. Girl, these are

978
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 1: my kids and this is my house too. They're coming

979
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: home for the holidays. Okay, I put my foot down.

980
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 1: That's get the hill. Then we're fighting them back over

981
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:50,479
Speaker 1: for the holidays. It's just being here. We ain't gonna

982
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 1: we ain't gonna be able to put a tree up.

983
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 1: We're gonna put a tree up right over there. But

984
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 1: when are you you put a trip over there? And

985
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 1: then all these people coming to the house were gonna

986
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: be decorated. It's just five kids and five grandkids and

987
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 1: there's ten people. Look at the little room. Well, then

988
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 1: maybe we need a bigger house because I'm not getting

989
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: rid of my kids. Bigger house. Yes, it's a bigger house. Girl,

990
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 1: the girl. We can finally out all the people out

991
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 1: of here only here. We need a bigger house. It's

992
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 1: just for a few days during the holiday's. Honey, you

993
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 1: don't want to sing Christmas carols? Yeah, no matter fact

994
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 1: I won't. Just how stage saying side so they they're

995
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 1: already outgrowed it. And who's gonna we need a bigger house?

996
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: Who's gonna help me cook? That's what we love doing that,

997
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:43,520
Speaker 1: me and the girls cooking together, well, preparing Christmas dinner

998
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: and Thanksgiving dinner. Huh, you ain't helping. We're gonna stop

999
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 1: your damn joe a woman and the matter that you

1000
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:58,680
Speaker 1: donna try to slide in and you can cook. We're

1001
01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 1: gonna end it. Damn st woman in the letter can

1002
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: cook the letter try to slide in? And who's gonna

1003
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 1: help you cook? That? We've been trying to find out

1004
01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: some two thousand what the little Mexican man? What his

1005
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: name is? There? Nest and net the black dude? S

1006
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 1: are you Steve, are you still the man in the letter?

1007
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 1: Make up your mind? I'm not man in the letter,

1008
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: but what you try to slide in with a cooking

1009
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 1: compliment by yourself? And I ain't gonna let you do it? Now?

1010
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: Surely you can't cook? Who gonna help me cook? Anybody?

1011
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 1: I'm speaking as the woman in the letter. All Right,

1012
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,760
Speaker 1: we gotta go, We gotta get out of here. Email

1013
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: us or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter

1014
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey, f Ammer, you can go to my girls.

1015
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: Surely you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

1016
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 1: time to play comedy, Rue Latin and roulette. Let's go Bert, Yeah,

1017
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 1: you want to explain it quickly? Jay four subjects. Put

1018
01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 1: him on the wheel, spun the wheel where it stop.

1019
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 1: We'll do the damn dang. All right, here we go.

1020
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: Things people say who don't watch television things and know

1021
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 1: it all will say tuff you say when you break

1022
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: something that doesn't belong to you. And movie roles Tommy

1023
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 1: could definitely play spend the wheel. Well, we know where

1024
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 1: to hit, but we know where it go. What happened

1025
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 1: by mistakes? Promise you movie Roles. Tommy definitely could. Let's

1026
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 1: go oh j Team Tommy, come on, he could play

1027
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:53,600
Speaker 1: the home Honey was a Boy, No, The Hope All

1028
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 1: Grown Up, Team Jesus movie Roles Nephew. Tommy could play

1029
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 1: thing on a Thing too in the Doctor six movie.

1030
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 1: I could play Steve Harvey. I can play I'll tell

1031
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 1: you what you could play better though, the Gary Coleman

1032
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 1: story about the story of the Jolly Green Giant. Keep

1033
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 1: me Tall, Jake, keep me talld Jake? Who he gonna be?

1034
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 1: Wanted the shoes? Let me see who I could play.

1035
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 1: I could play Kareem abdul Jaba in the Cream of

1036
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:39,400
Speaker 1: Build the Bab movie. You're gonna be his socks. You're

1037
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 1: getting up there? Go ahead? Uh, Emanuel Lewis The Beginnings,

1038
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, come on, what's the story of the

1039
01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:58,919
Speaker 1: fifty foot Man? Come on, Jake movie? Right? Remember Checking?

1040
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: The movie Checking? Tommy gonna play the biopick documentary of Checking.

1041
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: He gonna bust out of a box and everything. Were

1042
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: you killing Junior? I could play because you know I

1043
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 1: know him to kill O'Neill life story. Yeah, okay, yeah,

1044
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 1: you're ready for what you really gonna play though, bubbles

1045
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 1: my years with Michael. These are movie roles that Tommy

1046
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 1: definitely could play. All right, we'll be back with more

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01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this.

1048
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve, here we are

1049
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 1: please in liken us tell us whens. The last time

1050
01:07:54,320 --> 01:08:06,760
Speaker 1: you cut grass? Your own grass? Honestly speaking, probably had

1051
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 1: you said, uh oh last summer custom glass? Probably thirty

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01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:21,960
Speaker 1: years ago, not thirty years ago. It's possible, No, for real,

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01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 1: eighty five, nineteen eighty five, it's custom glass. There's no

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01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: way he could do it now though, because it's your

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01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:36,480
Speaker 1: big Yeah, when did they see his ass out? There's

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01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 1: going back homeless after that. Then after I got out

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01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 1: of homelessness, I had an apartment. I ain't had to

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01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,799
Speaker 1: cut no glass. My first house I bought in ninety

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01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:56,799
Speaker 1: first house I have my own, I bought it ninety

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Speaker 1: five ninety six, nineteen ninety five, nineteen ninety six in

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Speaker 1: plain On, Texas. That was my first time owning. All

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01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 1: were falling now. My first house was like amazing. That

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01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 1: was my first house. God is good man, Yeah yeah,

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01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,240
Speaker 1: come on, and that's just real talk. I just ain't

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01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 1: cutting of glass all right, thank you, Tommy, come on

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01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 1: any of them, tom Man, Come on, baby Jane. Last

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01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 1: time customer, I got more better than that here, Sherley,

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01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: when you ever customer ever? Ever? I wouldn't even know

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01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:54,720
Speaker 1: the first so nine it ain't so crazy, Tommy. When

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01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 1: the last time custom grass? Come on? Come on rich boys,

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01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,560
Speaker 1: all right, jaw long, I can't cut rather got that

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01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 1: b D. Steve Wright? What you got for? Yeah? When

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01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 1: the last time you actually been on the phone arguing

1074
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 1: with somebody about a light? When the last time you

1075
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:18,640
Speaker 1: did that and ask him how much is here light be?

1076
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: And what is it? But where the pad? You had

1077
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:28,000
Speaker 1: to go down there? You don't know what that what

1078
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 1: you're talking about? I ain't And last time I walked

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01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:37,000
Speaker 1: in my house and wasn't no lightsnesse. I want to

1080
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 1: hear this old back when I was cutting grass and

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01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 1: eighty five turning point. Boy, when the last time you

1082
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:53,680
Speaker 1: stood out at a pump and pump gas you that

1083
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 1: ain't bad? I actually did that about two years ago.

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01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 1: Two years Yeah, I was driving I was taking I

1085
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 1: got a Cadillac Man, an old car, and I was

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01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:09,439
Speaker 1: driving it and I looked down and I right at

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01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 1: the gas station and it sputtered and I had never

1088
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 1: put gas in it. So I whipped into the gas

1089
01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 1: station right quick, and my car ran out of gas

1090
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 1: at the gas pump. Wow, but hit the problem I

1091
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:23,680
Speaker 1: had though. I said that that at gas with a

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01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:29,360
Speaker 1: drop top nineteen forty Cadillac, I'm sitting there and couldn't

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01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:34,519
Speaker 1: find the gas cap for thirty minutes. I had the

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01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 1: call to dude and work for me and asking where

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01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 1: is it? Dam the gas cap on the nineteen forty

1096
01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 1: is under the tail, like you had to be laughing at. Yeah, man,

1097
01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:47,800
Speaker 1: you lift up the tail like, this's horizontal. You lift

1098
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 1: up the tail like, and the gas the gas cap

1099
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 1: is under the tail, like, How to hell would I

1100
01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:56,680
Speaker 1: know that? I was got that thirty minute touching you

1101
01:11:56,720 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 1: for had the trunk open all caniment You should see

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01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:03,800
Speaker 1: me with that, But I had, but I had to

1103
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 1: handle in my head. Yeah, just walking around a call

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01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: wow yeah wow, nineteen eighty five. I can't wait ahead

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01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 1: in front. All right, we'll be back with more of

1106
01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:22,680
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after. You're listening to

1107
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:29,640
Speaker 1: the Steven Show. All right, Carla, um me and just

1108
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:32,880
Speaker 1: some you know, just some random girls were talking. Um

1109
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:37,240
Speaker 1: we this question came up. It's like, because you know,

1110
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:39,080
Speaker 1: we were taught to make up the bed when we

1111
01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:40,960
Speaker 1: get out, make up the bed. No when it wants

1112
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 1: to come home to an unmade bed. But it's difficult

1113
01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:47,080
Speaker 1: if you're married, or if you live with someone you

1114
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 1: sleep with them. What if you have to get up earlier.

1115
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 1: So the question is whose responsibility is it to make

1116
01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:55,680
Speaker 1: up the bed? You know, no more of that. Just

1117
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 1: because you're a woman and you're in charge of the house,

1118
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:02,400
Speaker 1: you make it up. Excuse me, no, right right right right, yeah,

1119
01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:05,760
Speaker 1: But in our house it's whoever is last, whoever gets

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01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 1: up last. If I get up first, then you know,

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01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 1: Nesto has to make up the bed and he makes

1122
01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:13,559
Speaker 1: it up really well. I must say, oh, really well,

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Speaker 1: Nesto needs to call my husband because he ain't making

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01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:21,720
Speaker 1: up the bed like that. He will get now, you know,

1125
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:23,760
Speaker 1: because we have to be to work so early. Of

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01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:27,360
Speaker 1: course we I get up first, but he gets up

1127
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:29,320
Speaker 1: early too. He'll go to the gym and all that

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01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:32,200
Speaker 1: to make sure I'm up. And but now, child, I

1129
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 1: got to come right back in there and make up

1130
01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:38,640
Speaker 1: the bed. Just sad, just sad. But let me let

1131
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 1: me I've fussed and nagged enough. Okay, he ain't gotten

1132
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:45,760
Speaker 1: it just right? All right, hey, listen, follow us, yes,

1133
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:48,000
Speaker 1: follow us on social media. I'm on the Gram at

1134
01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 1: my Girl Shirley and I'm at Lips by Carla. Don't worry,

1135
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 1: we'll post our bedrooms. I'll post the bed yeah, all right,

1136
01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:02,439
Speaker 1: all right. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

1137
01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: Show Makeup You're Bad coming up in thirty three minutes

1138
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 1: after the hour right after this you're listening to show.

1139
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 1: We here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show love food,

1140
01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 1: all of us. But there are a lot of foods

1141
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 1: we think are from other countries that are actually invented

1142
01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 1: in the good old USA. And those are some of

1143
01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 1: the most famous ones. Like fortune cookies invented right here. Yeah,

1144
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: it was actually invented in San Francisco by a Japanese

1145
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:39,519
Speaker 1: American baker. Did not I did? They don't taste good.

1146
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 1: I like them with chocolate, white chocolate on them, and

1147
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:50,680
Speaker 1: they're good. They don't know surely, surely excuse me. Our

1148
01:14:50,800 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: chocolate is the worst thing you could put in your body.

1149
01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:56,479
Speaker 1: I absolutely know that. But it tastes real good. That's

1150
01:14:56,520 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. I'm sorry, you a very wonderful health reason,

1151
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 1: and you just destroyed it. I know that I don't

1152
01:15:08,520 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 1: eat it now, but yeah I used to, and it's

1153
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:15,080
Speaker 1: delicious orange chicken. How about that one? That's good? Yeah?

1154
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 1: It was created in Hawaii in nineteen eighty seven by

1155
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:24,599
Speaker 1: Panda Express chef Andy Ko or Kyle Cool. I didn't

1156
01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:31,680
Speaker 1: know that. I didn't know who came up with them,

1157
01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: that custation. Who came up with them? They can copy it.

1158
01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:48,400
Speaker 1: German chocolate cake, my mama, Mama, yeah, my mama. I

1159
01:15:48,400 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 1: don't know who made it before. I don't know who

1160
01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 1: made it before. Anybody make it like Hurdle it lost

1161
01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 1: Vera Harvey, greatest piece of German chocolate cake on the planet.

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01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: I have German chocolate. But anyway, it has nothing to

1163
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:08,719
Speaker 1: do with Germany. Uh, it's because of its name Samuel

1164
01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 1: German that it's called German. Black people that perfected it.

1165
01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:22,160
Speaker 1: Oh yes, hello that coconut. Yeah, we've had a lot

1166
01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:28,880
Speaker 1: taken from us, so hey, ride of that we took,

1167
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 1: we took. Okay, okay, I love German k all right.

1168
01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 1: English muffins English muffins from England, from England. They were

1169
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:44,680
Speaker 1: actually invented in New York City in nineteen eighty four

1170
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:49,680
Speaker 1: by English immigrant Samuel Bass Thomas. They were rich, they were.

1171
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:54,759
Speaker 1: Let me give you some real dishes that was created

1172
01:16:54,880 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 1: right here in a mirror. Okay, come on, what's you guys? Shitlands? Yes,

1173
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 1: work it out, whether they want to be a night

1174
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 1: fright spram Yes, hot dogs and parking beans American dish.

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01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 1: All right, there you have it. All right, we're coming

1176
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:22,439
Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. As

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01:17:22,439 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 1: a matter of fact, this is our last break of

1178
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:27,560
Speaker 1: the day. Steve's closing remarks. You don't want to miss it.

1179
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 1: It's been a good day. We'll be back at forty

1180
01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:35,719
Speaker 1: nine after the hour right after this. You're listening to show.

1181
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:38,600
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, Here we are last break of the

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01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:42,880
Speaker 1: day on this Thursday. UM, take us home with some

1183
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:46,280
Speaker 1: closing remarks. I think the best way for me always

1184
01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:51,400
Speaker 1: is to just be open and honest about my own

1185
01:17:51,520 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 1: experiences in my own life. Somebody asked me yesterday, It said, man,

1186
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 1: how do you do it? How do you keep going

1187
01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:12,880
Speaker 1: when things seem to be going so contrary to I'm

1188
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 1: sure the way you wanted to go? And of course,

1189
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 1: you know I always kind of have an idea what

1190
01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:23,600
Speaker 1: people are talking about, even though I don't address the

1191
01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:28,080
Speaker 1: majority of it. But the question was a sincere question,

1192
01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:30,559
Speaker 1: and they weren't saying it to me to be mean

1193
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 1: or to get a conversation started. They were seriously asking me, man,

1194
01:18:35,560 --> 01:18:39,479
Speaker 1: how do you keep going? How do you manage to

1195
01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:44,400
Speaker 1: just show up and do your job anyway? When so

1196
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 1: many things around you seem to be swirling, so many

1197
01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:56,360
Speaker 1: things being said, conversations anything. I said, Well, here's the deal.

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01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 1: I have been able to survive all the things in

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01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:08,240
Speaker 1: my life because of my faith. I'm just being honest

1200
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:12,880
Speaker 1: with you. If God did not love me the way

1201
01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:18,000
Speaker 1: he does, if God did not give me an extend

1202
01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:23,040
Speaker 1: to me his grace and his mercy the way he does,

1203
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:27,920
Speaker 1: I don't know how I would make it. But because

1204
01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:35,080
Speaker 1: I have this unwavering faith, the belief in things that

1205
01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 1: I cannot see, because I understand that He covers me.

1206
01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:47,600
Speaker 1: I understand that Isaiah fifty four seventeen exists. I understand

1207
01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:50,600
Speaker 1: that Isaiah forty three one in two exists. That I

1208
01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:53,599
Speaker 1: can walk through the waters and rivers and not drown,

1209
01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:57,680
Speaker 1: and walk through fire and will not be burned, Nor

1210
01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 1: what kindling set upon my clothing. Understand that no weapon

1211
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 1: formed against me shall prosper. I understand that there are

1212
01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 1: principalities at work all the time. I understand that the

1213
01:20:12,960 --> 01:20:17,480
Speaker 1: devil's job is to rob me and you of our destiny,

1214
01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:23,679
Speaker 1: and he would challenge that any way he can. If

1215
01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:26,320
Speaker 1: he can't get through to you, he will get through

1216
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:30,200
Speaker 1: to someone you love. If he can't get through to you,

1217
01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:34,000
Speaker 1: he will get through to somebody you care about. If

1218
01:20:34,080 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 1: he can't get through to you, he'll come through a

1219
01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:39,639
Speaker 1: co worker. If he can't get through to you, he'll

1220
01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:42,920
Speaker 1: come through a supervisor. If he can't get through to you,

1221
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:47,240
Speaker 1: he'll use social media and ego find a way to

1222
01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:52,240
Speaker 1: get to you, to shake your faith. The thing that

1223
01:20:52,439 --> 01:20:57,240
Speaker 1: maintains me in all of it is my unwavering faith

1224
01:20:57,360 --> 01:21:02,599
Speaker 1: in him. That God's promises are true. That he promised

1225
01:21:02,640 --> 01:21:06,320
Speaker 1: never to leave me, that he promised that he would

1226
01:21:06,400 --> 01:21:11,720
Speaker 1: be that and ever present presence in my life. That

1227
01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:18,800
Speaker 1: he would always never forsake me. That when it looks

1228
01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:21,800
Speaker 1: like it's going all wrong, that He is behind the

1229
01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:25,719
Speaker 1: scenes working on my behalf and behind the scenes working

1230
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:30,880
Speaker 1: on your behalf. That relationship that I formed over the

1231
01:21:31,080 --> 01:21:34,560
Speaker 1: years with God, that I've tightened up this year is

1232
01:21:34,600 --> 01:21:38,280
Speaker 1: the reason I can stand and face all of my

1233
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:42,800
Speaker 1: trials and tribulations and stand strong and still go to

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01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 1: work and keep a smile on my face and keep

1235
01:21:45,280 --> 01:21:49,360
Speaker 1: moving forward. The fact that I handle my triumphs and

1236
01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:53,439
Speaker 1: my tragedies the exact same way. The fact that you

1237
01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:56,839
Speaker 1: can't look at me and see no signs or struggle

1238
01:21:57,000 --> 01:22:02,720
Speaker 1: on me, it is because of my unwavering faith. The

1239
01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:06,240
Speaker 1: reason my faith is able to stay so strong is

1240
01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:09,599
Speaker 1: because I've discovered in my sixty two years of living

1241
01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:14,200
Speaker 1: that God has kept me even in moments when I

1242
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:15,760
Speaker 1: didn't know how I was going to be able to

1243
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:20,479
Speaker 1: keep myself. Because when you have a relationship with God

1244
01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 1: and you leaning on his promises, and all of his

1245
01:22:24,200 --> 01:22:27,320
Speaker 1: promises are true, what do you have to worry about?

1246
01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 1: What can man do to you? If God is with you,

1247
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:38,000
Speaker 1: who can be against you? Who? What problem or what

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Speaker 1: person can you name or come up with as greater

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Speaker 1: than God? I can't. I can't think of anything. What

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Speaker 1: problem do you have that's bigger than God? I can't

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Speaker 1: think of anything. What situation do you think that God

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Speaker 1: can't bring you through? If you look back on your

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Speaker 1: life and realize that He's brought you through every other

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Speaker 1: one you've ever been in. Every situation I've ever been in,

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Speaker 1: God has cleared me through that one. He's done the

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Speaker 1: same thing for you. Just look back. Name the one

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Speaker 1: thing that God hasn't brought you through. Name it. If

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Speaker 1: He ain't bought you through it, He's currently pulling you

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Speaker 1: through it right now. You know how I know that's

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Speaker 1: true because you can hear me. God is a very

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Speaker 1: present help in the time of trouble. The reason I

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Speaker 1: have relationship with God is so when I get in

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Speaker 1: moments like these, I don't have to introduce myself to it.

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Speaker 1: He has heard me before. I have called Him on

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Speaker 1: a daily basis when it's going good and when it's

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Speaker 1: going bad. So when it go bad and I show up,

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Speaker 1: he recognizes me that I am his in his mind.

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Speaker 1: That's why I can keep my head up. Y'all do

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Speaker 1: the same. Y'all have great weekend. Those are my clothes,

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Speaker 1: are remarked. I'm already dropped him, Mike. Y'all have a

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Speaker 1: great Yes, yes, yes, now did for all Steve Harvey

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