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Speaker 2: I feel like, if she has to, you know, really

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I mean you don't secure.

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Speaker 2: Didn't know what you had, and I'm gonna take care

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Speaker 1: So I didn't take him for granted. By the way,

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Speaker 1: my god, nice jeez. But he always told her that

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Speaker 1: At the beginning, I ignored them during things like our kids'

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Speaker 2: Yes, well, yeah, she's trying to like prove that she

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Speaker 1: It never works to wait. I do think it leads

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Speaker 2: Because she's looking for a reaction, is the thing. That's

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Speaker 1: I've been a good person my entire marriage, and what

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Speaker 1: So I started flirting with my ex because I just

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Speaker 1: But I just tell him that I need time. He

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Speaker 2: What this is not? I wouldn't I don't know if

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Speaker 1: She's trying to get her revenge. I guess her petty revenge.

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Speaker 1: yourselves empty advices like you should be the bigger person,

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Speaker 1: that revenge is bad, let it go, let the past

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Speaker 2: I mean, do what you want, ope, if this is

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Speaker 1: It's not you, of course.

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Speaker 4: product that we're selling it like the book, but the

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Speaker 4: sells itself. I'm like, so, what do you do with

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Speaker 4: the book? Oh, you learn how to sell this guy's

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Speaker 1: What, that's kind of cool. I actually fuck with that

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Speaker 1: idea a lot. That's a sick idea. And the book

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Speaker 1: so that's all you need.

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Speaker 4: The book is on this life story that led to

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Speaker 1: That's such a good idea. What's the book called? Try

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Speaker 1: I think I'll just like steal all of her presentsions,

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Speaker 3: That is the longest game, respect to anyone.

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Speaker 1: I just respect the hustle at that point, l Ron

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Speaker 4: The most wild emlem I've seen was an mlem where

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Speaker 1: What, that's kind of cool. I actually fucked with that

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Speaker 4: The book is on this life story that led to

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Speaker 1: That's such a good idea. What's the book called? Try

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Speaker 4: It's a million of the listeners that sells book.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure, Yeah, I'm sure we can find it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I want to find it because I

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Speaker 1: Well, we'll get back on that in a little bit.

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Speaker 1: But you know what else, we're gonna get back on

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Speaker 1: this story. So, my little sister, sixteen, has had her

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, I love it.

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Speaker 6: One of those is not a behavior issue and is

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Speaker 1: I'm after me.

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Speaker 4: My favorite is when you get so stuck being anxious

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Speaker 1: It's in the waves.

440
00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 4: In the waves, you're like wow, wow, oh wow, wow,

441
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:52,120
Speaker 4: I'm not even enjoying this. What's the point to life anymore?

442
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 4: I don't know this thing is where that's where it goes.

443
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,760
Speaker 1: The sad just the cycle, the sad cycle as they

444
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:07,239
Speaker 1: call it. Oh yeah, yeah, busted out. So since the

445
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 1: beginning of this year, her behavior has gotten worse. She's

446
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 1: been frequently lying in doctoring stories, as well as doing

447
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 1: illegal activities in and out of the house with zero consequences.

448
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 1: A few weeks ago, she had called me and told me,

449
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 1: along with everyone else in the family, that she had

450
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 1: bought me tickets to my favorite artist concerts in the fall.

451
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: I obviously questioned it and kept telling her not to

452
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 1: lie to me, but she insisted it was true, so

453
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,240
Speaker 1: I got very excited. So basically, sister buys her these

454
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 1: amazing concert tickets.

455
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 4: Yes.

456
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,880
Speaker 1: Two weeks later, I noticed that she kept buying very

457
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: expensive items such as a PC, new shoes, makeup, more electronics,

458
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 1: et cetera. But I figured it was because she got

459
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 1: a new job and was making better money for the

460
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 1: more expensive items like the PC. She told me it

461
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 1: was a gift from a family member for her birthday,

462
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 1: which was the week prior. She even went as far

463
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,120
Speaker 1: as to fake a phone call was said family member

464
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,879
Speaker 1: to thank them for such a wonderful gift.

465
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 4: She's an elaborate liar, like this would be a pain

466
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 4: to deal with, but I can like respect.

467
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:17,120
Speaker 1: How she got, she astle she got she's I mean

468
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 1: thinking about it all.

469
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 4: Think of the last story and how they were, the

470
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 4: story of the lady or of the girl who's best

471
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 4: friend and everythy like that was a dumb planning on

472
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,200
Speaker 4: that lie. She was going to find out eventually that

473
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 4: the boyfriend had knocked up her best friend. Yeah, this

474
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,119
Speaker 4: had planning going into it. And this is a sixteen

475
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 4: year old and we're talking about that. That girl's moms

476
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 4: in her thirties or forties.

477
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,640
Speaker 1: This, oh yeah, she's sixteen, Yeah, sixteen year old yeah

478
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 1: planning wow, yeah, hey she's got a future in politics,

479
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: this lady.

480
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 5: Yes.

481
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 1: Literally, While she was having the time of her life,

482
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 1: I was on a completely different path. A week before

483
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: her birthday, my car's engine bleue. I should note that

484
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 1: I'm a college student who works in minimum way and

485
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,439
Speaker 1: it would have been out of my price range to

486
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 1: even try to afford a new engine, so the car

487
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:09,439
Speaker 1: got towed. I was devastated, but my parents and my

488
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: Grandma decided to help me by getting some money together

489
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,439
Speaker 1: about six thousand dollars and gave it to me to

490
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: buy a new car for six k.

491
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 5: Wouldn't you be able to fix a car? How expensive

492
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:20,719
Speaker 5: of a car is he driving?

493
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: Maybe it's not I guess. Maybe it's like, yeah, probably

494
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 1: not worth. It's probably better just to get a new car.

495
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: Maybe the old car was like a pizza junk, too

496
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,679
Speaker 1: much work or whatever. About a week after I noticed

497
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 1: my sister buying these expensive products, I finally found my

498
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 1: dream car. My parents and I went to grab the

499
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 1: money from our safe and go buy the car, when

500
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: we realized about three thousand dollars was missing from the

501
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: envelopes we put together.

502
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 4: Wow, I am impressed at how a sixteen year old

503
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 4: found kid like blow it that quick.

504
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: She knows she only has a little bit of time.

505
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: My dad immediately checked my little sister's bank and found

506
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: a all one hundred dollars to pause it via ATM

507
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,119
Speaker 1: that week. We also found receipts from purchases that she

508
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: made with the remaining cash. When we confronted my sister,

509
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 1: she said she didn't know why she took the money,

510
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: She just.

511
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 4: Did the foresight tick then go also put some in

512
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 4: her ATM or like into her TenneT card master.

513
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 1: I mean, if you really want to be sneaky, what

514
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 1: she should have done is when everyone was out of

515
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 1: the house, just trash the house and bust the locks

516
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 1: to make it look like someone broke in, and then

517
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: steal the money and then insurance can claim it.

518
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 4: Astlen But the problem is that there would be a

519
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 4: police investigation on that one, and then she could get

520
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 4: wrapped up and get in legal trouble, and especially if

521
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 4: she's doing illegal things.

522
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 1: And if that means but she's a miner, she is

523
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 1: a miner, and.

524
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 4: We don't know how a miner, what level of illegal

525
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 4: things she's doing.

526
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 1: And if she has never gotten her prints printed, then

527
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: she might be okay, right because it's not in the database.

528
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 4: Well, I mean so for something like I actually.

529
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: Know also you, but like even if she had her

530
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: prints on it, she's like, yeah, of course I have

531
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: my prints on it. I live here.

532
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 4: Yeah. So for something like this and like a home

533
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 4: break in, usually what they will do. I mean, she'd

534
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 4: have to probably be careful around the safe or just

535
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 4: like wipe it off after, but they will take there's

536
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 4: three separate databases for prince. There's uh like victims of crime,

537
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 4: missing persons, there are prints from like crimes are suspected

538
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 4: to be crimes, or people who have committed crimes, and

539
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 4: then there's a third one for people who like, like

540
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 4: in this situation, you wouldn't know if the print is

541
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 4: the dads or not unless you get the dad's prince

542
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 4: as well, So there's a third database for that. So

543
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 4: she would be in there and would be ruled out

544
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,919
Speaker 4: based off of that same thing with everybody else in

545
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 4: the family. Wow, I know a lot of these things

546
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 4: I wanted to do forensics.

547
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: Couldn't it be the perfect crime then for her.

548
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 4: To I mean, I think that she could potentially if

549
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 4: they think that the daughter has a history ceiling and

550
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 4: they're talking to everybody, But that would also depend on

551
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 4: if everybody kind of rats on her and they have

552
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 4: a suspicion. If it's cash, generally it won't get caught,

553
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 4: So she could try to get away with it, but

554
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 4: it is a lot more heat to put on herself

555
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 4: because if she does that, three thousand dollars would be

556
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 4: big enough to actually get tony not a felony, but

557
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 4: you can get a misdemeanor. It's not just like a

558
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 4: little infraction.

559
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: What's a felony? I in some states I thought was

560
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: over ten.

561
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 4: I think felany is ever, I think.

562
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 1: It varies state to stay. I'm pretty sure felony is

563
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: like usually, I think felony in New York is a thousand.

564
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 4: Oh see for Nevada is twelve hundred or more? Less

565
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 4: would be misdemeanor.

566
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So I was on that larceny becomes a felling

567
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: level offense or grand larceny when the value of the

568
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: stolen property exceeds one thousand dollars.

569
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 4: So yeah, I mean she was smart not to escalate

570
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 4: it any further because that could be really bad for her.

571
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: Does that increase with inflation? Like does does the amount

572
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: that needs a thousand? I saw the twelve thou feels like, yeah,

573
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 1: it feels as well.

574
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 4: Sure it hasn't increased in a while. It imagine they

575
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 4: do increase it eventually, because like you got to think

576
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 4: that a hundred years ago, a hundred bucks would have

577
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 4: been like insane, you know, yeah, exactly if people made

578
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 4: like mortgage like that wasn't even people's mortgage shatments.

579
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: You know, No, I know Okay, so there is a

580
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: little bit more a penny, a little bit more to

581
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: this story. So I was still devastated that my own

582
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: blood would steal from me, but my parents more so.

583
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: My dad, whose sister did the same thing, wants me

584
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: to forgive her because she's apologized for it. I told

585
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 1: him hell no, and that she has yet to apologize

586
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 1: to me, and that I have no intentions on having

587
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,919
Speaker 1: her in my life when she's acting like this. My

588
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: dad says she's going through a tough time and needs

589
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 1: our help. So am I the asshole? And there's an update.

590
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 1: I want to add that as soon as my parents

591
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: found out, we took her to return as much as

592
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:02,199
Speaker 1: we could. They were also devastated. So what do you

593
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: think is opda hole for not talking to the sister anymore?

594
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 4: No, but also a little bit. This was a gift

595
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 4: that everyone gave him. It's not like this was money

596
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 4: that he really he or she was really saving for

597
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 4: or earned. It was just kind of given to him

598
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 4: by everybody. So I feel like that.

599
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 1: Means me, I got a gift for six thousand dollars

600
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: and my sibling takes it and blows it on some PC.

601
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: I'm going to be pissed and now I don't have

602
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: a car to get around? How am I going to

603
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 1: go to my job?

604
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 4: Basie To be fair, yes, but I'm like, but also like,

605
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 4: I feel like some of this they were able. They

606
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 4: were looking at nicer cars because they couldn't have afforded

607
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 4: to go to get that nice of a car. A

608
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 4: little bit because it was a gift, like playing Devil's

609
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 4: Advocate a little bit. Here, he's episode because he couldn't

610
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 4: get his dream car.

611
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: With you pro the sisters, I'm not pro the sister.

612
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: I don't you like to steal no wallet? That's my round.

613
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: Watch your wallets? Crazy John, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance

614
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: get over here and trying to take your shit.

615
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 4: I just I think that he needs to take into

616
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 4: account like this affects more than just him and as

617
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 4: much as his family's Like ah, I'm like, this is

618
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 4: also his family's hard with money, and it seems like

619
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 4: everybody else is able to forgive on that.

620
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: Well, but he's also the one who's getting.

621
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 4: A's the one most directly affected. But I mean, yeah,

622
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 4: that was also a headache, like a huge headache for

623
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 4: the parents to deal with. They're also dealing with other

624
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 4: behavior issues more than he is.

625
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: I think that, so should there be a punishment.

626
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 4: There should absolutely be a punishment. I think there should

627
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 4: be a punishment, and she's in the wrong, and I

628
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 4: think he should be mad. But I don't think this

629
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 4: is like no contact forever sort of thing.

630
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I agree. I don't think it's a

631
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: no contact forever. And you know, sixteen not really a

632
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: developed brain. Year olds are, yeah, a little stupid, as

633
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 1: as evidenced by this story. So I think, op, you know,

634
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: cut the system slack, but there needs to be some

635
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: kind of punishment. I feel like she should like payback plan,

636
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: you know, all the money that she gets until it's

637
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: paid back.

638
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, agreed. I think that, like he needs to cut

639
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 4: our a little bit of slack again, because it's not

640
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 4: money that he really worked for and it seems like

641
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 4: everybody else's So it implies to me that there's a

642
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 4: little bit something else going on here. But I do

643
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 4: think that there does need to be punishments. He has

644
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 4: every right to be upset over it, but from the

645
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 4: way it's worded at the end, it sounds like I'm

646
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 4: done with her forever. Yeah, And I'm like that's a

647
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 4: little extreme.

648
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, too much, a little too much. But I think

649
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: I think it would be a totally reasonable thing to

650
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: have Opie's sister pay back everything over the next couple birthdays,

651
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: you know, I agree.

652
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 4: Especially since she has a job. They don't need to

653
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 4: take maybe the full paycheck, but take like half the paycheck.

654
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially until recouped.

655
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 4: Exactly, because we also don't know if the sister's also

656
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 4: paying for her own gas and whatever, has her own expenses.

657
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 5: But I think it should be like a big chunk

658
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 5: of her paycheck should.

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Speaker 4: Be paying back towards that. And it sounds like really

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Speaker 4: only because also in this, some of my thought is

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Speaker 4: it's she didn't take the full six. She took three.

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Speaker 4: She put twelve into her bank account, so there's really

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Speaker 4: only twenty eight hundred that was missing, not six. So

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Speaker 4: like it really isn't a huge huge amount because they'd

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Speaker 4: be able to pull it right out of her bank account.

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Speaker 1: I think it's eighteen hundred, right, Yeah, I don't know. Well, so, yeah,

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Speaker 1: eight three thousand was missing, three thousand was missing from

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Speaker 1: the envelope, and the there was twelve hundred that was yeah,

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Speaker 1: but twelve hundred, no, twelve not twelve hundred in the bank,

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Speaker 1: twelve hundred that was deposited into the bank, so we

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Speaker 1: don't know if it is still remaining there.

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Speaker 4: Got it? Okay, my my. How I interpreted that is

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Speaker 4: it was deposited in and then she spent the cash,

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Speaker 4: is what is So I was like, Okay, well then

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Speaker 4: she's like, it's not like she took a full six

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Speaker 4: of it either, still still super messed.

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Speaker 1: Up, but she only took its three. She took three

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Speaker 1: thousand total, and I think twelve hundred was deposited in

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Speaker 1: her bank account and then eighteen hundred was like spent

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Speaker 1: on random things. But I don't know if the twelve

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Speaker 1: hundred was also like spent like with credit cards or

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Speaker 1: like you know, debit cards or something. So yeah, so

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Speaker 1: that she at least she basically ows or probably yeah,

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Speaker 1: probably at least eighteen hundred.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So that's some of my thought too with this,

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Speaker 4: I should have led with that earlier of like, it's

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Speaker 4: not like she took a full sixth she probably it's

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Speaker 4: probably the eighteen hundred and they were able to recoup

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Speaker 1: Some of that as well, So you're able to recoup

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Speaker 1: and she could probably sell the PC