1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: Today's tip is about how to enjoy social media responsibly 4 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: without losing hours down rabbit holes that you didn't mean 5 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: to jump into. Every year, new surveys point out how 6 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: much time people spend on social media and messaging platforms. 7 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: One recent report claimed that among people who do use 8 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 1: the Internet, the average was a hundred forty two minutes 9 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: per day, or two hours and twenty two minutes. This 10 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: is quite a bit of time, just for comparison's sake. 11 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,919 Speaker 1: If you use that time to read War and Peace instead, 12 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 1: you'd be done in less than two weeks. And it's 13 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,639 Speaker 1: not a short book. Of course, this time isn't all wasted, 14 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: some is sure, But the amount of time we spend 15 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: on social media is complicated by the reality that these 16 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: days many people do need to be plugged in as 17 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:07,119 Speaker 1: part of their jobs. Maybe they do digital marketing or communications, 18 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: or they work for policy groups that need to be 19 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: aware of the news cycle. Plus plenty of us want 20 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: to know what people in our industries are talking about. 21 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: These are absolutely legitimate uses of work time and preclude 22 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: swearing off social media completely. The problem is that you 23 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 1: might go on Twitter to check what a client's competitor 24 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: is talking about, and then all of a sudden, you're 25 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: watching cat videos. People who use social media professionally are 26 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: no more immune to this than the rest of us. 27 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: So I've been talking lately with people who do use 28 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: social media professionally about how they manage their time. How 29 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: do they focus on the necessary parts of social media 30 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: while skipping the rest. What can the rest of us 31 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: learn from them? The first tip recognize that social media, 32 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: like email, can fill in cracks of time around other things. 33 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,639 Speaker 1: You can check headlines and Twitter or your competitors YouTube 34 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: videos in chunks of ten minutes or less, but you 35 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: probably won't write not ed or a press release, or 36 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: give your direct report a thoughtful critique of her proposed 37 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: strategy in ten minutes. So build your daily schedule around 38 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: the big stuff. You might aim to work on big 39 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: stuff for forty five minutes, and then you could spend 40 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: a few minutes on social channels. Second, put some intention 41 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: into those social media breaks. People who do this professionally 42 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: take the time to curate lists of accounts that they 43 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: find worth following. Yes, There's always the possibility of serendipitous gold, 44 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 1: but you have to scroll through a lot of stuff 45 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: to get there, and it might not be worth the time. 46 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: In any case, if you follow a diverse group of 47 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: thoughtful people in your industry or in your area of interests, 48 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: you will see pretty much anything that's being discussed. The 49 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: nature of social media is that you can rely somewhat 50 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: on other people to do the searching for you. I'd 51 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: add that unless you do have a really good professional reason, 52 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: it's not worth following any accounts that tend to upset you. 53 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: Thoughtful disagreements are fine, but drama and personal attacks aren't 54 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: worth the mental space. Focus on quality. Third, and just 55 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: as important, you also need to identify an end of 56 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: the social media scrolling cycle. Many of us keep going 57 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: until we realize that we've just kept going or something 58 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: interrupts us. People who do this professionally might decide to 59 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: look at a specific group of ten accounts during a check. 60 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: At the end of that cycle, they move on. If 61 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: you have a really difficult time setting an end like this, well, 62 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: then set a timer. Well. I don't recommend snoozing in 63 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: the morning when you're trying to get out of bed. 64 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: Using a nine minute timer for social media breaks could 65 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: be smart. Think of it as using the snooze function 66 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: on your phone for good. Finally, the best way to 67 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: keep social media in check is to be more proactive 68 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: about your leisure time. Cal newport Its book Digital Minimalism 69 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: has a longer discussion of this, if you'd like to 70 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: check that out. It turns out that breaks at work 71 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: are one thing, but the biggest social media binges tend 72 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: to happen at other times, namely at night after the 73 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: kids have gone to bed, or when you're hanging out 74 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: around the house on the weekends when you don't have 75 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: ideas about what else you'd like to do with yourself. 76 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: Social media is a very easy option. You don't have 77 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: to dress up, and you don't have to hire a babysitter. 78 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: But there are plenty of more rewarding ways to spend 79 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: this time. Consider various forms of low energy analog fun, 80 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: like doing jigsaw puzzles or crossword puzzles, coloring and adult 81 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: coloring books, or doing a craft such as cross stitching 82 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: or knitting, or reading. I know that when I'm really 83 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: into a good book, I spend a lot less time 84 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: on Instagram when I don't have a good book, Well 85 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: that's when I actually get that sad message that I'm 86 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: all caught up, which is probably not a noteworthy achievement. 87 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: What do you do to enjoy social media responsibly? Please 88 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 1: let me know. You can email me at Before Breakfast 89 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: podcast at i heeart media dot com. In the meantime, 90 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 1: this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making 91 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to 92 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: hear from you. 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