WEBVTT - Second Date Update: My Wing Mom

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever been on the way to a date

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<v Speaker 2>and had something happen that almost seems unbelievable and you

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<v Speaker 2>have to tell your date, Hey, sorry that I'm late,

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<v Speaker 2>but a cobra bit me on the subway ride over

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<v Speaker 2>and I had to have a homeless.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy suck out the poison.

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<v Speaker 2>Had that exact story happened to me several times? Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>lots of subway snakes around here lately.

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<v Speaker 1>The city really should do.

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<v Speaker 3>Something about not Google search that term.

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<v Speaker 2>I bring it up because one of our listeners said

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<v Speaker 2>he had a crazy thing happened to him on the

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<v Speaker 2>way to his date, and he's pretty sure it's the

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<v Speaker 2>reason he's not getting a call back.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Ted, So Ted, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, guys man. How are you doing today?

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<v Speaker 5>Do we need to suck out any venom out of

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<v Speaker 5>like a fire or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>She's very eager to do it, So, no poison.

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<v Speaker 1>Different situation that happened on the way to your date?

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<v Speaker 1>What was it?

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<v Speaker 4>It's completely unbelievable. It's a little long, so let me

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<v Speaker 4>just jump right into it. I was going to go

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<v Speaker 4>on a date with a girl named Amy. We met online,

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<v Speaker 4>like you typically do nowadays. And we've been talking for

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<v Speaker 4>a while. I mean, we had great conversation. We really

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<v Speaker 4>liked each other.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're excited, you're looking.

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<v Speaker 4>To so pumped up for this date. So I'm driving

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<v Speaker 4>there and I get a call from my mother and

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<v Speaker 4>she said, Honey, I'm stuck. I'm stranding downtown. My tire

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<v Speaker 4>is blown and I don't have uber or any of

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<v Speaker 4>those stuff like that, So could you come get me?

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<v Speaker 2>So you told us.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I want to stay in the will.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're on the way to a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Though, Yes, but it's my mother. What kind of guy

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<v Speaker 4>would I be if I left my mom's stranded?

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<v Speaker 3>It's true? Okay, So is it gonna make you super late?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you call your date and let her know?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's the thing. Me and Amy had been planning

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<v Speaker 4>this date for weeks and I did not want to

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<v Speaker 4>mess this up. So I had a choice to make.

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<v Speaker 4>So I could just pick my mom up and drop

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<v Speaker 4>her home and be really late and missed out on

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<v Speaker 4>this date. Or I could take mom with me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, we put that in the option.

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<v Speaker 1>That should not be in the option.

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<v Speaker 3>Do I feel like you went with option B?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, laughing, there we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Let us know.

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<v Speaker 4>So here's what happened. Man, I have to take my

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<v Speaker 4>mom with me. It's gonna sound bad, but I made

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<v Speaker 4>my mom sit at another table.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, oh yeah, that's not bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You leave her in the car.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like dogs. You can't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You crack the window for crack the window, turn on

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<v Speaker 2>the AC. You actually brought her into the restaurant with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I did, but we were like separate. So when I

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<v Speaker 4>met Amy at the restaurant, she didn't see that I

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<v Speaker 4>was with my mom, So I said, Mom, sit another table.

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<v Speaker 4>My mom agreed. She understood what was going on.

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<v Speaker 5>But did it change like how you acted knowing that

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<v Speaker 5>your mom could see you in the room?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh totally. And Amy can see that I'm completely distracted,

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<v Speaker 4>Like she could see something off my mind.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she probably thought you were checking out some older

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<v Speaker 5>woman as you're looking.

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<v Speaker 4>Back on my God. Luckily she didn't think that. But

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<v Speaker 4>she just came out and said, hey, is something Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>you look a little distracted.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you can tell you were off and bro, she

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't know you, so that's a bad sign.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, yeah, did you confess?

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<v Speaker 4>So I didn't want to lie to her because we're

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<v Speaker 4>just getting to know one another at all. So I

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<v Speaker 4>just wanted to be honest at that point, and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, listen, this is gonna sound crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pard of that.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, my mom's here at the restaurant and I

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<v Speaker 4>told her what happened, and she thought that was really sweet,

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<v Speaker 4>Like you picked your mom.

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<v Speaker 5>Up, funny you and you were conscious about it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not like you sat down with your mom. I

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<v Speaker 3>love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>So so what happens, Well, what do you expect? Amy's

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<v Speaker 4>a nice girl. So she went over and said, Hi,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm Amy loves Amy.

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<v Speaker 5>We had to get Amy back on the phone just

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<v Speaker 5>for mommy.

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<v Speaker 4>She does because Amy invited my mom to come back

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<v Speaker 4>to our table and we ended up having dinner together.

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<v Speaker 7>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I am cringing over here.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody else thinks of It's like the sweetest story ever.

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<v Speaker 2>If my mom was on a first date with me,

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't matter if it was an emergency, a sweet

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<v Speaker 2>story that would be the end of the romances. Are

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<v Speaker 2>you supposed to flirt in front of your mom?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I know this is gonna sound nuts, but my mom

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<v Speaker 4>the perfect wingman. Oh my god, she made me sound

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<v Speaker 4>to me, I wanted to date me, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Mom, but okay, so get a little over the top though.

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<v Speaker 5>Did she ask your date questions or did it turn

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<v Speaker 5>into like a presentation about you, mom?

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<v Speaker 1>She may steal your date.

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<v Speaker 4>It turned into like a power point about me and

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<v Speaker 4>how great her son is.

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<v Speaker 2>You think that he dresses well? You should see him kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you feel like there's an okay amount of time

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<v Speaker 3>with mom? Like she could come over for a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>but not like hours.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be all wholesome and zero romance exactly. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how do you think it went? Overall?

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<v Speaker 4>We ended up having a really great time. At the

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<v Speaker 4>end of the day, I actually hug Amy. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>want to kiss her or make out with her in

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<v Speaker 4>front of my mother. Yeah it was nice, and Amy

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<v Speaker 4>said she had a great time. But then I get

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<v Speaker 4>a text the next day out of nowhere. She says,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, I didn't really feel a romantic spark, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, of course she didn't feel a romantic spark.

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<v Speaker 4>I was on a date with you, and my mother like, yeah, weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you feel like you didn't get a fair shot

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<v Speaker 5>to show her the romantic spark.

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<v Speaker 1>Serious, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>If she gives me another chance, I really think I

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<v Speaker 4>can knocket out of the park.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I like this, Yeah, thank you, Crazy, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>at least attempt to get you a second date here.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe your mom needs to show up on all of

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<v Speaker 2>your break down more often less often.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it didn't work out.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, but it didn't work for him, But let's try

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<v Speaker 2>and come back and get you your second date. Update

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<v Speaker 2>with any right after this thank you second date update.

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<v Speaker 8>Stay tuned to TLC the Learning Channel Let's Learn. Coming

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<v Speaker 8>up next, Cake Horse and at nine Super Quick Weddings

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<v Speaker 8>followed by the Divorce Horse.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what's missing from that lineup is the

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<v Speaker 2>new TLC dating show Wing Moms, premiering Wednesdays at nine Central,

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<v Speaker 2>eight Pacific.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely watched the episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Your Mom, Jeff watch.

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<v Speaker 2>Out held Hands while watching that show, because if you

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<v Speaker 2>missed the first part. Real quick our listener Ted had

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<v Speaker 2>to bring his mom along on his first date because

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<v Speaker 2>she got stranded with a blown.

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<v Speaker 1>Tire emergency situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Mom ends up eating dinner with Ted and his date Amy. Afterwards,

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<v Speaker 2>he gets a text from Amy saying she had a

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<v Speaker 2>nice time but just didn't feel the romantic spark there.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I think it's really important to note that his date,

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<v Speaker 5>Amy is the one that invited the mom over to

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<v Speaker 5>the table, like that makes a huge difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know that makes it romantic, you're but the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that she said she didn't feel a romantic spark

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<v Speaker 2>that sucks. But I would be worried if she said

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<v Speaker 2>she did feel the romantic spark with the mom there.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why Ted would like to do a redo without

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<v Speaker 2>his mother there talking him up and tucking his napkin

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<v Speaker 2>into his shirt and wiping the ketchup off.

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<v Speaker 1>Of his face.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why he's here for a second chance, because he

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<v Speaker 2>knows that really happened, didn't it.

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<v Speaker 4>Ted, It did not. It didn't go that far.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, have you told your mom that Amy said that

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<v Speaker 5>it's not gonna work?

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<v Speaker 3>Is your mom disappointed?

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<v Speaker 1>She's kind of invested.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, don't alle she was.

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<v Speaker 4>On the date. Yeah, she's a little disappointed too.

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<v Speaker 5>Back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, please don't involve your mom this much in your

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<v Speaker 2>dating life. I don't know why everybody wants the mom

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<v Speaker 2>to be so involved, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, I wonder you just know she will insert herself

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<v Speaker 3>in the situation. Okay, she sounds adorable.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, it's projecting about how our relationship with our moms are.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, let's give this a shot. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>call Amy right now. Hello, Hi, is this Amy?

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<v Speaker 7>This is Amy.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry to bother you, but you're on the radio

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<v Speaker 2>right now. No, yeah, I know. It's kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 2>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing this segment. It's called a second Date Update. One

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<v Speaker 2>of our listeners named Ted reached out to us because

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<v Speaker 2>he went on a date with you, and I would

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<v Speaker 2>like to see you again.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's really cute.

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<v Speaker 5>There's a really cute reason he really likes you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, Brooke, coming on a little strong here, because well, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>because we know we know Amy that you sent him

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<v Speaker 2>a text saying that you're not interested.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know this is a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>That I'm telling you right now, but I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to get it out of the way because we heard

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<v Speaker 2>the story from Ted. He feels bad about the way

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<v Speaker 2>that the night played out with his mom being there.

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<v Speaker 2>He's worried that that may have been the reason that

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<v Speaker 2>the romantic spark didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, so well, uh, this is You're right, this is

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<v Speaker 7>a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>He did say, I mean, he really applauded how cool

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<v Speaker 5>you were, how you're the one that invited the mom over,

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<v Speaker 5>Like you sounded like super flexible that night, super understanding,

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<v Speaker 5>which was totally awesome.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh thanks, I mean I'll make of a jerk. Oh

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<v Speaker 7>your mom's here. We'll just let us sit in the

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<v Speaker 7>corner and eat soup and you're at us.

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<v Speaker 3>I think a lot of people would do that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 6>A nice night and it was really cool and right,

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<v Speaker 6>but you can you can understand why there wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 6>a romantic spark happening with his mother sitting directly next

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<v Speaker 6>to you.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't able to put his moves on, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, Like that was the text that you sent to him,

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<v Speaker 2>that you didn't feel the spark. We're not sure if

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<v Speaker 2>that's really fair, though, you'd like a chance to like

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<v Speaker 2>do it over again without mom.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, well, so here's the thing. Yeah, there wasn't a

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't feel it romantic chemistry or you know, that spark.

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<v Speaker 7>But that didn't mean that I didn't ever want to

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<v Speaker 7>talk to him again. But then I get this text

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<v Speaker 7>from a number I didn't recognize, and it says you

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<v Speaker 7>should really ate my son.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, mom, text.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you get that text before? After you texted about

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<v Speaker 3>the romantic spark?

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<v Speaker 4>After?

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<v Speaker 3>After?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so he went and are you thinking he went

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<v Speaker 5>and talked to his mom and then the mom stepped in.

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<v Speaker 7>I wasn't true at the time, but then they just

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<v Speaker 7>kept coming.

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<v Speaker 3>And oh god, what else did she say?

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<v Speaker 7>It turned into a complete presentation, her telling him to

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<v Speaker 7>me and after like turn texts. I guess I wasn't

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<v Speaker 7>giving her the answer that she wanted because she called me.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah what wait to teck In?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you text that?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>How okay? Now this is sounding more like my mom.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not wrong. He is going to be mortified.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, Well, because the part of this that you

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, Amy is that Ted is actually listening to

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<v Speaker 2>this phone call right now.

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<v Speaker 1>He's waiting on the other line wanting to talk to you, isn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm dying on the inside for Ted right now.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't even know it.

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<v Speaker 4>Did he put her up to it?

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<v Speaker 1>Or yeah, well he's there, I think Are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I am here. I am dying inside. I am

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<v Speaker 4>so embarrassed. Oh, I had no idea that my mom

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<v Speaker 4>was texting you.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you talk to your mom that you got the

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<v Speaker 2>text from Amy saying that she wasn't interested.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure I mentioned it, but I didn't go into

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<v Speaker 4>detail about it. I mean, oh my god, I know

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<v Speaker 4>my mom. Oh my gosh, she's done this before. My mom.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm on her I'm on her cell phone plan, so

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<v Speaker 4>she has like gotten access to my text messages before.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, she can you text.

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<v Speaker 3>Phone plan? There is as we shame you for it

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<v Speaker 3>all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, they're just jealous and your's reading your text.

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<v Speaker 4>Apparently she did because I never gave her Amy's phone numbers,

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<v Speaker 4>so that's the only way she'd be able to talk

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<v Speaker 4>to her.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, so Amy, Amy, Ted didn't tell this

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<v Speaker 2>mom to reach out to you.

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<v Speaker 1>She did that totally on her own.

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<v Speaker 4>Amy. I am so sorry that my mom, who likes

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<v Speaker 4>to butt her nose into my business from time to time,

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<v Speaker 4>was over zealous and reached out to you. It was

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<v Speaker 4>uncalled for and it was wrong. I'm so sorry, Amy, Ted.

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<v Speaker 7>Didn't she she called me a bitch.

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<v Speaker 6>Why aren't you apologizing for that?

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<v Speaker 4>Of course, I'm sorry my mother did that. You are

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<v Speaker 4>the complete opposite of a b You are awesome, Amy.

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<v Speaker 4>The bottom line, my mom just wants the best for me. Ultimately, Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>did she go too far? Absolutely, Sometimes she gets fired

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<v Speaker 4>up and she loses it and goes too far, like

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<v Speaker 4>you'll get used to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm kind of going to gives the.

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<v Speaker 1>Tells you that you're gonna get used to somebody's That's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Most women don't get along with their boyfriend's mothers.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook.

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<v Speaker 5>I get along with her well, but you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Call each other the B word every once in a while,

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<v Speaker 1>and not to each other but behind each other's by, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>I love my mother in law. I just need a

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<v Speaker 3>full state separation.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean it's I guess it's better to find out

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<v Speaker 7>in advance what you're stepping into getting really involved with

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<v Speaker 7>somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I do think the mom probably had really

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<v Speaker 2>high hopes for you and Ted being a good couple,

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<v Speaker 2>so she was just reacting to what happened.

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<v Speaker 5>I think you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were the one who was on the mom's side and

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<v Speaker 2>thought it was so cute at the start of this,

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<v Speaker 2>and now you're college moms call people, Okay, that's talk.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that the good thing.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that the good thing is is that this

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<v Speaker 5>is not Ted's behavior, right, this is this is mom's behavior.

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<v Speaker 3>Not in a relationship with Mom. You're in a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>with Ted.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're going to deal.

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<v Speaker 2>With the mom, if she comes back at the Thanksgiving

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<v Speaker 2>dinner table, I'm sure Mom would say I'm sorry for

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<v Speaker 2>what she said and you just have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Meet up with him one more time.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd love to pay for that second meet up if

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<v Speaker 2>you're open to it, Amy.

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<v Speaker 7>I think everything is moving super fast.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, how about just yes to a date, not to Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I guess if we can promise that Mom won't

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<v Speaker 7>be with us.

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<v Speaker 4>In no, she won't, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Won't, No, no, no, Ted is leaving her on the

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<v Speaker 2>side of the road with her flat tire and that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>She's walking home.

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<v Speaker 4>Ted is getting his mom triple a.

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<v Speaker 2>Amy, I think he made a good chow there, giving

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<v Speaker 2>him one more shot.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I'm so happy. Thank you guys, and thank you Amy.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't wait to talk to you alone.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I thought you were saying that about Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, her too. It's looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>You think she was just being nice there at the

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<v Speaker 2>end to get off the call, because we do so

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<v Speaker 2>many of these where the person says yes, but then

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if they're actually going to go out.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think they'll go out again, but really yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>if the mom contacts her again, it's over.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think this is always going to be in

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<v Speaker 2>the back of her head. That is going to be

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<v Speaker 2>the future with the mother. At some day it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to come up again. How do you ever recover from

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<v Speaker 2>you? You have to have an unbelievably amazing relationship with the dad,

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<v Speaker 2>balance friends with the father. He did seem like a

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<v Speaker 2>really nice guy, So maybe his dad is just superman.

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<v Speaker 3>His mom did something right. Yeah, raise a good guy.

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<v Speaker 4>That's true.

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<v Speaker 2>It worked out, she said, yes, and maybe it'll work

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<v Speaker 2>out for you no matter who your parents are.

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<v Speaker 1>Just email the show.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll call that person who's not calling you back, and

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<v Speaker 2>podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey

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