WEBVTT - Ep 83 "Menoplause" 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.160 We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:12.159 talks back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:15.120 for a new episode that we talked back. It's your 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:18.919 co host a j Holiday. Thank you for tuning in. Hey, y'all, 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:21.040 ask me official tam Bam. I love y'all. Thank you 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:23.520 all for joining us one more time. We got a 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:29.800 guest with us for today, the fabulous Jackie. Fabulous. Hey girl, 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:34.160 Hey girl, thank you for having me. I'm excited, y'all. Listen. 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:37.879 Jackie is a stand up comedian. She's a writer, she's 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:41.720 an actor. She's a producer and motivational speaker who has 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:46.800 been featured on HBOS, That Damn Michael Chi Show, Time, 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:50.400 nar Change. Sorry, I told you I care read. Listen. 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:53.400 The listeners know, they know, they know my heart at 0:00:53.440 --> 0:01:01.120 all right Heart having Hearts, l A Network, and more. 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:05.560 And she currently has um a new special mental Clause 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:11.160 on all your favorite streaming sad Yes, yeah, give her 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:16.720 a proper auction, honey, thank you for joining us, girl. 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:20.080 We want to talk about everything you've done, especially mental Clause. 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:22.080 I watched it and I laughed my ass off. I 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:24.640 was high as hell, and I watched it and it 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:26.840 was so good. I want we have so many questions 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:30.840 for you about the one hour special, but first we 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:32.680 want to talk to each other about We always start 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:34.720 our show with talking to each other about our weekend. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.479 So how was your weekend, this past weekly, this past well, 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:42.360 today is what saturday? You mean last weekend? Last weekend past? 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:48.840 It's Tuesday. My birthday was on Friday. That's why I 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:54.680 turned up. I don't know where, thank you, I don't 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:56.800 know where I am. I just stopped ringing a few 0:01:56.880 --> 0:02:00.000 days ago and got back to work yesterday, you know, Monday. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.280 Comment like, all right, all right, enough of this, back 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:06.919 to being a freshman woman. So last weekend, this past 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:09.440 weekend was great. I was in I live in New York. 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:11.400 That was mine. I was with my guy, you know, 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:15.640 having a wonderful, loving, peaceful birthday. And then I had 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:18.320 shows a lot of shows over the weekend in New York. 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:21.680 So I had a great, a great, blessed, healthy, loving weekend. 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:31.480 That's congratulations, heavy birthday, guy, yo, My man, my man. 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:37.400 J Well, how about your weekend? Girl? She'll be lying, 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.919 she'd be lying every week to be in my business, 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:43.120 Like I don't feel like explaining ship to X or 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:45.560 explaining ship to somebody who think they my boyfriend. Like, 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:47.120 I just don't feel what the hell you? What the 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:49.160 hell you did? You got to explain to any man? 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:53.760 What what you do? You gotta explain ship? Girl? And 0:02:53.800 --> 0:03:00.480 I did a lot of water, water, water, want man 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:08.360 over here? Watermelon. Well, I didn't do ship this weekend, y'all. 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.320 I didn't. I really didn't do nothing. I stayed in 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:12.399 the house. I had been drinking all the whole month 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:15.280 of July, Like I swear, I drank the whole in time. 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:18.160 It was my birthday, July sixteen, and that's where I 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:21.239 drank the whole fucking month. I just needed the talk 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:22.880 to My level was hurt, and I was like, I'm 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:29.040 just gonna drink water at home and watch shows. Being 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:31.840 at home is the best, though sometimes something I remember 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:34.400 being home coming after work on a Friday night and 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:37.760 being in my pajamas, are not showering until Monday morning. 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:42.600 Those are the best weekends where you don't do nothing. Literally, Yeah, no, 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:44.640 I don't know about letting my coaches thank all week 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.760 about staking if you are if you are almost naked 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:50.960 for two days, the vagina is getting a lot of air, 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:57.560 not around anybody activity. That's what my sister would do. 0:03:57.640 --> 0:03:59.880 She'd come home from work Friday and only get back 0:03:59.880 --> 0:04:02.400 in the shower on Sunday selling drugs. That's the type 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:04.960 of your drug dealers, dude. We're having a same on 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:08.240 Friday to Monday. Let me find out Jackie sells drugs. 0:04:08.480 --> 0:04:11.840 Do come? You don't go nowhere? If you don't go nowhere, Okay, 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:14.320 Usually Sunday I feel like, okay, I should probably shower, 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:18.800 but I haven't. Yeah, exactly, if there be a weekends 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:20.560 where I'm like, I don't have anything to do, I 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:22.720 don't have any sex to have, I might as well. 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:25.320 Why would I clean anything? I might as you be 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:29.640 a grown man Monday. Why do you all assume not 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:34.520 everybody be funky as hell? I got i'd. I don't 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:36.719 sweat much. I'm not a sweater. I sweat a lot. 0:04:37.640 --> 0:04:40.600 After after a day, I squad, I'm gonna start smelling 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:42.360 my coochie. I got to go ahead and get me down, 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:46.720 squat down. I'll be like, oh, let me go get 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:52.760 my ass in the smelling During the quarantine, y'all, y'all 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:55.159 stay like you know, chilling for a day or two 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:58.160 at least a day of not caring about that stuff. Yeah, 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:00.520 maybe a day, But after a day, I'll tell you 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:04.480 that squad gonna hit me different. After a day, you 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:10.640 do get kind of tart. Yeah, but those be the 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:12.679 best ones that you have nobody else to worry about. 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:15.599 People watch your shows and get some work done. I 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:18.960 love the whole weekend, but not me too, Me too. 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:21.760 I enjoyed it. Yeah, let's get in the stupid internet news. 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:25.360 What happened this week? Listen? So based on your your 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:30.120 your show, let's talk about Mindy Kaling. Mendy Kaling explains 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:33.039 why she wishes parents of college women would take them 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:37.159 to freeze their eggs instead of giving them regular gifts 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.719 for graduation from college. Do you think about that. I didn't. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:44.440 I didn't know that was a thing that's eggreasing. Yeah, 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:48.599 and the Underwatch, Mindy is probably saying, I want all 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.240 young girls to avoid the lights that I've had where 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:54.080 I've tried to find someone to help me have a family, 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:57.040 And maybe you should take precautions because you know, we 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:59.239 still have the mentality of let me wait to find 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:01.640 a man to have a even though it's changed now, 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:03.680 we still have that mentality and I guess she's like, 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:06.200 why don't we change was this way of thinking we've 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:09.279 had for decades and prepare her to have babies whenever 0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:11.640 she want, with or without a husband. She's a very 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:13.839 you know, she's not a millennium at all, but she's 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:17.719 very like progressive of today, and today women are freezing 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:20.440 everything because they're like, I'm not waiting on a dude, 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:22.400 that's what that's what it is. They're like, I'm not 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:24.919 waiting on a man. That's the mentality. So my thing is, 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:27.520 I do want kids, right, So I'm in my late thirties. 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:30.960 I do want kids, a kid at this point, but 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.040 I don't want the kid without the husband, like I 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:36.080 don't want I want a family. There you go, I 0:06:36.160 --> 0:06:38.080 don't just want a kid, I want a family. So 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:40.240 if I don't get the husband, like I'm not having kids, 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:43.080 and I'm okay with that, I wouldn't say I really 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:49.000 want a microwave baby. But you never know, you never know. 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:52.719 I turned I turned fifty one on Friday, and I'm 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:57.720 of the mentality where I'm like, I would yet down, yeah, 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.520 and I'm like, I don't think I want one. Now. 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:01.680 I've gotten pretty useful life without But if you had 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:03.599 caught me like three or four years ago, for five 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:06.640 years ago, I would have been like, I'll do what 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:08.640 I gotta do to at least have one, Like you're 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:13.040 at least one. Can I have one? Small one? Can 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:15.040 I get a seven year old? I like seven year 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:19.120 old kids. Oh, they're conversations. That's why they can talk exactly. 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:22.240 But at nineteen are you thinking about like, for first 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:24.240 of all, and freezing your eggs are expensive. It's not 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:28.720 a cheap process. You gotta have some money. And nineteen 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:30.840 year olds want boot jobs. They don't want the free 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:32.960 day eggs. They don't care about stuff like that. They're 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:35.640 gonna spend their money on procedures. They're gonna spend it 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:38.480 on some other bullshit that don't really matter, not freezing 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:41.080 their eggs. They're not concerned with that. Maybe they should 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:44.520 sell some of their eggs. That's what you needed to do. 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:48.440 That's that's a comment. Should have been doing that now. 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:54.400 Women sell their men sell the sperm. A lot of 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:57.200 nineteen year olds assume I'm going to get married and 0:07:57.320 --> 0:07:59.880 have at least four or five. That's the way they think. 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:03.880 He assumed, And then you hit and then thirty five, 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.320 and you're like, goddamn it, I'm almost forty and I 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:09.360 ain't got nothing, and now I've hat want one. I 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:12.280 gotta buy them exactly at least by that time you 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:14.720 might have the money on your own to do it, right. 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:17.200 I always made jokes I'm gonna buy me a baby 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:22.320 next year. Shit, I don't want to like next year. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:25.600 I don't necessarily want to be pregnant. If I do 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:27.840 have a kid, like, I would definitely have me a 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:30.400 little microwave baby and love that little come in here 0:08:30.400 --> 0:08:35.360 a little yeah. Yeah, you know who had Adrian from 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:40.360 from that's the talk. What's the other on the real 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:45.240 she had a surrog baby baby boy recently. Yeah, it's 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:48.800 all on. It's all online now said five years of 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:53.520 IVF and struggles and stuff. And you know, I nineteen 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:55.679 is too young. I would say by thirty if you 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:59.520 have the financial means, I would say at thirty, at 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:05.400 thirty nineteen, don't let go of hope so early, right right, Yeah, 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:08.439 I definitely had me a little call that baby, whirlpool, 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:16.319 come in a little whirlpool. It's stupid. This is what 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:20.360 else happening, all right, listen. So Safari denies being responsible 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:22.719 for leaking his sex saves that feature his room with 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:28.360 girl Frank uh Cambella mitosmatoes. The person who did this 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:31.120 thing is going to pay, is what he's saying. So 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:33.280 the whole Twitter was going wild because they're trying to 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:37.079 say his dick is not it after that video. But 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:40.760 you know what, I'm me too, girl. He's always in 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:43.040 the news for some both what does he do? Isn't 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.120 he a singer? Like do you want to go make 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:49.120 a song? What does he do? He's always online for 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:55.280 some bullshit. Nikki's boyfriend, Oh yeah, I did see the 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:58.520 video a few years ago of his saw his dick 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:01.559 pick video or dick whatever, and I was like, congratulations. 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:05.400 But after that, I don't care about him, right, I'm 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:07.760 tired to see them all that. I care more about 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:11.760 how his dick is doing and how he's doing and 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:15.840 apparently ain't doing it as good as it was before 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.000 because it don't even look like the same day. And 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:22.920 don't like a difference. That beautiful video from before that 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:25.960 that was him, I assumed Sam, and it was beautiful. 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:33.520 It's a it's a dick gate scandal. Somebody got to 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:35.880 a side by side comparison of that video from back 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:38.079 in the day and what's going on now? Because that 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:40.280 video back in the day was very impressive. I was 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:42.920 proud of him. I might do a Twitter conspiracy video 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:48.160 video for that. TikTok compared to Dicks. Yeah, you're like, 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:49.920 so worry you did you have an accident? Well, I 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:55.199 don't understand what's happening since then? I'm so tired and 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:59.240 he's I saw another video he's either freestyling or rapping 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:05.240 it on the um Charlot Mans the Breakfast Club. He's 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:09.640 wrapping online currently right now, and the guy listening to 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:11.840 him wrap they're not very happy about it. I didn't 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:14.800 turn the volume on to hear it because those these 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:18.240 freestyle in front of their faces were like because I 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:25.480 don't know what he didn't have only fans something. Maybe 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:30.520 that'll be his claim to fan again, what else happening to? Oh? 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:34.360 Channing Crowder compliments, So what's the name of that show? 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:39.719 The Pivot podcast? He said that another black man was beautiful? 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:44.320 What's the Denzel Ward? Is that okay for another black 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:49.080 man to call another beautiful? Like it's beautiful? I think 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:51.600 it's beautiful. I liked it because you know, I want 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:54.040 I want men to get rid of the they can't 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:56.800 be vulnerable with women things when it's really your friends 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:58.839 you can't be vulnerable with. At what point can't you 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:01.120 not just tell your boy man you look good today? 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:09.439 Like why no, homo? After that? Exactly? Yeah, they think that. No, 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:14.400 I listen. I've heard guys compliment dudes before comedians and comedians. 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:16.800 It's kind of funny. But when regular guys that they 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.599 they're always worried about this game, and I'm like, no, 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:23.880 is he's attractive? You see him? You see what I see? Right? 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:27.679 Don't like that? Right? It doesn't mean you want to 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:30.440 suck his dick? That you noticed that he's a looking man, right, 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.840 it doesn't mean no. If that was the case, we'd 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:36.200 be second day. I tell so many men all day 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:38.360 every day how attractive they are. I don't want to 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:44.000 touch him. I feel like I feel like older men 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:47.040 are more capable of saying that another man is good looking. 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:54.800 It's the younger ones that are like Paul's. Young guys 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:56.800 are like I like that cut dog, I like that 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:00.679 sharp that's they'll make it be about what they hair touched, 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.000 like I like your shirt, I like I like your kicks. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.280 They won't say like, you're looking really good today. Dog 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:09.080 brown eyes. He was like, man, you got brown eyes. Man, 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:12.720 you're beautiful. Man, you're beautiful. You know what I'm thinking. 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.719 I think that's that's a man probably acknowledging how much 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:18.760 women probably like him. Yeah, these guys pay attention to that. 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:21.400 They're like, you probably get mad bitches. They don't say that, 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.839 but they're thinking that. That's the best they'll do is 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.199 you probably get mad bitches. That's the way they say that. 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:28.760 That's it. That's how they're saying, like, you're attractive, honey, 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:37.480 you cut me bitches everywhere. That's how they do it. Um, 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:42.240 what's next? Ajor? I wanted to say, R I p 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:46.400 to and hat that was a tragedy. Last week she 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:49.360 passed away and it's really weird. Have y'all seen that 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:52.600 video online with her popping up out of the body 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:57.240 bag on a stretcher. Was real footage. That was real. 0:13:57.640 --> 0:14:00.440 That was her And I need a fucking ex planation 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:04.640 right now. Yeah, Like, are we're just supposed to pretend? 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:08.760 Like when you see that? You know? He So this 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:12.560 video was released it it was released by a credible source, 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:16.880 um verified account on Twitter news reporter. So they had 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.840 like the you know, the planes flying over to the 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:23.320 scene of the incident where she crashed into someone's garage, 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:28.200 big fire. They were saying she was basically dead on 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:30.320 the scene initially, and then they said she was in 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:34.480 um stable condition at the hospital. But this video I 0:14:34.560 --> 0:14:36.640 didn't see it until over the weekend, so apparently it 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:39.560 was posted on Twitter on the fifth. But it's a 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.560 video of her zipped up inside of a body bag 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:46.280 and a white body bag, and she pops up. She 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:49.200 pops up, and the firefighter pushes her back down and 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:55.520 they put her inside of the um ambulance. It really happen, 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:00.520 that might happen. Well, first of all, why opened the 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:02.480 bag to be like, hey man, you're good? Like to 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:04.640 ask her? She cool, like why you just but why 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:06.920 did you dip it up in the first place? They 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:10.080 assumed she was already dead perhaps, And then she was 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.520 naked also, so you didn't have any clothes on. You 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:15.240 could just see her back was beer. And then they 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:19.880 reported her you know, legally dad on the twelfth of August. Yeah, 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:22.840 because the whole like, uh, disconnected life support, that kind 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:26.440 of stuff. I've heard of bad bodies moving and passing 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:28.520 their bowels and all kind of stuff, and maybe the 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:31.480 firefights like look, look they lay down. We already pronounced 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:37.240 you dead. While yo, maybe we're done, already to be 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:41.240 ready to go to lunch. You sold your little bit. 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:46.080 Get out of here. Our shift is over soon. May 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:53.960 Now that was not funny. Yeah, her dad, her dad 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:58.840 was magic and sad and your family, but the firefighters reaction. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:00.760 Where the joke come from? Not am I'm sorry it 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:03.680 passed away. Yeah, I've always kind of liked her. She's 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:05.800 a really good actor. She used to date Ellen. I'm 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:08.680 very I'm sorry if she's gone. And I heard what 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:11.680 she passed away. She had, he had the Sentinel and 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:13.480 some of the drugs. I heard she was drugged up 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:20.000 when she life is like did you see it? Did 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:22.120 you see the video of her driving down the block? 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:25.560 It was invidence she was. He was doing anabe. You 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:27.880 look at your outside your window when your kids playing, 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:31.320 and imagine the car doing I hearted past the mailbox 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:34.000 on your block. It was like that. But just like that, 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:36.240 the black girl who right now is in trouble, the 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:39.200 nurse who killed for a couple of weeks ago, and 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:41.640 she zoomed at a hundred miles our way, through traffic, 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:44.000 and the video looked like that. You just see the 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:48.480 car zooming zooming down like a little alleyway kinda. But 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:52.200 act accidents prior though the one who Yeah, that one 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:55.440 with mental health issues too as well. Yeah, but thirteen 0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:58.680 accidents got who How you still got a license? How 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:00.560 do you still go home and tell your friends? Hey, 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:03.600 another one, They're like, give me the car keys. I 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:07.040 literally have a friend like that. I literally have a Yes, 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:09.639 she has had so many car accidents. I'm like, now 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:13.399 she doesn't drive. Her mom helped her, helped her, her 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:15.600 son get a car, but she can't. She can't drive 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:19.560 the car either. Yeah, they had all these accidents. Some 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:23.320 people really are They drive and they live their life 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:26.639 really like a scared driver. Like some people their license. 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:29.200 They drive, but they're like they're scared of the freeway. 0:17:29.280 --> 0:17:31.880 They're scared of, you know, backing up parking. A lot 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:34.640 of people if they drive, but they're not confident drivers. 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:37.119 I didn't. You can tell a lot about a person. 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:38.920 I think you can tell a lot about a person 0:17:38.920 --> 0:17:41.760 about how they drive. One of my ex is used 0:17:41.800 --> 0:17:43.639 to drive so fucking crazy and that's how he was 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:45.440 in real life. And I would be clutching the damn 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:50.840 door and pressing the fake breaks the whole time. Why 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:55.160 he was driving. Yeah, my my last boyfriend didn't wear 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:58.480 a seat belt and he didn't signal when he changed lanes, 0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:01.040 and he was just a very free for all just 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:03.679 getting the car, let's go, and he was working man. 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:05.399 But I'm like, I was always sitting next to him, 0:18:05.440 --> 0:18:07.280 like how you don't care about none of this and 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:09.360 I ain't ready, I'm not I'm not dying. I don't 0:18:09.359 --> 0:18:11.840 give a you're kicking it. And you know how some 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:15.920 guys who drive, they put their arm rest trying, you know, 0:18:16.240 --> 0:18:19.400 like that's gonna that's not gonna help. Put your hand, 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:24.040 put your hand back, and that's not gonna do. You're 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:25.880 only gonna get to where you're going on one minute 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:29.080 quicker and if that second nothing, Like why are people 0:18:29.160 --> 0:18:32.720 like that? Yeah, that's someone who probably take short cuts 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:34.959 in life overall, to someone who's like, I don't got 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:36.400 time to do it the way you're supposed to, I'm 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:39.680 gonna skip around it. And the absolutely right, I don't. 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:41.840 I don't have a fear of driving just in the 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:44.480 rain and in the dark. That's only like any other time. 0:18:44.520 --> 0:18:47.399 I'm pretty I'm driving pretty fast, but when it's raining, 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:50.440 when it's dark, it's granny for me. Uh, let's go 0:18:50.760 --> 0:18:52.719 to ammercial, y'all. When we get back, we're gonna get 0:18:52.760 --> 0:19:03.960 into Miss Jackie Sauda. All right, all right, y'all. So 0:19:04.320 --> 0:19:07.680 Miss Jackie Fabulous has just done a one hour special 0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:13.000 called Menoplause, and uh, it's so funny, y'all. I was 0:19:13.400 --> 0:19:16.000 high as hell watching it, and I really enjoyed it, 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:18.240 and I had a couple of questions about some of 0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:22.480 the content from this. So I wanted to talk to 0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:26.679 you about first dating outside of your race. You said, Uh, 0:19:27.160 --> 0:19:31.840 you wanted to date a white guy. I never have, no, no, 0:19:32.119 --> 0:19:35.040 my I'm I'm engaged, and he's a very very thorough 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:37.720 black guy. I just I was just I never tried like. 0:19:37.800 --> 0:19:39.920 I feel bad that when I was out there dating 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:41.680 and trying to find whatever it was meant for me, 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:44.879 I didn't. I had a very tunnel vision. You gotta be. 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:48.040 You know, I'm obsester black dude, But I and the 0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:49.919 white guy's never hit on me, and I've never had 0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:52.400 one flirt seriously or really try and make I don't 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:55.400 know what it is. I think I'm cute enough I'm 0:19:55.600 --> 0:19:59.439 fantastic enough, alright, said okay, but they just don't holllight 0:19:59.560 --> 0:20:01.879 me the way you know black guys. Black guy let 0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:03.840 you know, like ay blah blah blah blah. White guys 0:20:03.880 --> 0:20:07.200 are like conversation forever. But no, they don't actually go 0:20:07.359 --> 0:20:09.320 to the next level of do you want to go 0:20:09.520 --> 0:20:12.280 get something to eat? Nothing? Get what was that too? 0:20:14.160 --> 0:20:16.480 I never have I just that those jokes. It's just 0:20:16.520 --> 0:20:18.600 about me. I never tried, and I know what to 0:20:18.680 --> 0:20:20.600 do because I have so many white friends. I know 0:20:20.680 --> 0:20:23.679 how to connect with them, but I don't really want them. 0:20:23.720 --> 0:20:25.960 Hopefully you know, I'll never have to try. But they 0:20:26.080 --> 0:20:28.560 probably never hallowed because you know, the confidence. I think 0:20:28.600 --> 0:20:31.360 black men just have a little bit more confidence the usual. Yeah, 0:20:31.359 --> 0:20:35.720 I think, yeah, I always hear that. But but I'll 0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:37.680 hang out with a white guy used years ago. We'll 0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:41.000 hang out tough for for hours, and they will never 0:20:41.200 --> 0:20:43.200 like cross the line where a black guy will give 0:20:43.200 --> 0:20:48.119 you about an hour and after that whatever. Yeah, but 0:20:48.200 --> 0:20:51.080 white guys will go to every movie, a dinner, They'll 0:20:51.160 --> 0:20:53.080 they'll hang out with you for hours and you're like, 0:20:53.480 --> 0:20:55.879 I have a girl, what's going on? You want to do? 0:20:56.720 --> 0:20:59.640 But they they'll be shy or not. I'm not that type. 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:01.080 I don't know what it is, but I wish I 0:21:01.160 --> 0:21:04.000 had tried more of the world of men before I 0:21:04.160 --> 0:21:06.520 settled down. Do you think that maybe it's you? Do 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:09.359 you think that maybe it's the black men that intimidate 0:21:09.480 --> 0:21:12.360 them from actually approaching black women, because I remember going 0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:14.680 to this this bar used to frequent a lot. It 0:21:14.840 --> 0:21:16.960 was like um, like a top of his little wine bar, 0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:19.720 and it was owned by an Egyptian guy. And he 0:21:19.920 --> 0:21:22.320 told me the reason why he never approached black women 0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:27.160 is because you know that thing about black men having 0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:31.360 all this dick That's what and that's what like intimidated him, 0:21:31.600 --> 0:21:33.400 like he wouldn't be able to please a black woman. 0:21:34.560 --> 0:21:37.040 First of all, that every black guy gotta is packing 0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:42.119 as exactly I don't know. I wish. I wish it 0:21:42.280 --> 0:21:44.960 might be on average, they might have the biggest peace. 0:21:45.040 --> 0:21:47.960 On average, most of them more than often, more often 0:21:48.000 --> 0:21:50.840 than not, they're packing, and by packing I mean above average. 0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:53.360 But are all of them gonna whip out a big 0:21:53.480 --> 0:21:57.600 night surprise cable for you? I wish. I've had so 0:21:57.720 --> 0:22:00.920 many disappointments and I used to be my guy now 0:22:01.119 --> 0:22:04.400 is is he's six four, so he fulfills the stereotype. 0:22:04.600 --> 0:22:06.879 When I had tall guys prior to him, where I'm like, 0:22:07.119 --> 0:22:09.360 you're a big one. It's gonna you know how many 0:22:09.440 --> 0:22:13.720 tall ones I've been like, what is this? You so tall? 0:22:13.800 --> 0:22:17.800 It's a waste of space and air and oxygen, you know, 0:22:18.080 --> 0:22:21.639 big feet, big My and guy arrested my ex husband. 0:22:22.000 --> 0:22:25.320 He was six flour Everything about him with gigantic except 0:22:25.400 --> 0:22:29.000 except what I needed. I cried, but we were together 0:22:29.080 --> 0:22:32.040 for a long time, boyfriend and girlfriend. He overcompensated the 0:22:32.080 --> 0:22:34.920 way you have to. But I but I realized when 0:22:34.920 --> 0:22:36.520 I was with him, I'm like, I probably can't be 0:22:36.680 --> 0:22:39.040 with this guy forever. At some point I'm either gonna 0:22:39.119 --> 0:22:41.440