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Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 1: talks back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in

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Speaker 1: for a new episode that we talked back. It's your

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Speaker 1: co host a j Holiday. Thank you for tuning in. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: ask me official tam Bam. I love y'all. Thank you

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Speaker 1: all for joining us one more time. We got a

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Speaker 1: guest with us for today, the fabulous Jackie. Fabulous. Hey girl,

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Speaker 1: Hey girl, thank you for having me. I'm excited, y'all. Listen.

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Speaker 1: Jackie is a stand up comedian. She's a writer, she's

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Speaker 1: an actor. She's a producer and motivational speaker who has

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Speaker 1: been featured on HBOS, That Damn Michael Chi Show, Time,

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Speaker 1: nar Change. Sorry, I told you I care read. Listen.

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Speaker 1: The listeners know, they know, they know my heart at

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Speaker 1: all right Heart having Hearts, l A Network, and more.

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Speaker 1: And she currently has um a new special mental Clause

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Speaker 1: on all your favorite streaming sad Yes, yeah, give her

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Speaker 1: a proper auction, honey, thank you for joining us, girl.

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Speaker 1: We want to talk about everything you've done, especially mental Clause.

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Speaker 1: I watched it and I laughed my ass off. I

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Speaker 1: was high as hell, and I watched it and it

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Speaker 1: was so good. I want we have so many questions

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Speaker 1: for you about the one hour special, but first we

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Speaker 1: want to talk to each other about We always start

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Speaker 1: our show with talking to each other about our weekend.

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Speaker 1: So how was your weekend, this past weekly, this past well,

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Speaker 1: today is what saturday? You mean last weekend? Last weekend past?

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Speaker 1: It's Tuesday. My birthday was on Friday. That's why I

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Speaker 1: days ago and got back to work yesterday, you know, Monday.

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Speaker 1: Comment like, all right, all right, enough of this, back

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Speaker 1: to being a freshman woman. So last weekend, this past

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Speaker 1: weekend was great. I was in I live in New York.

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Speaker 1: That was mine. I was with my guy, you know,

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Speaker 1: having a wonderful, loving, peaceful birthday. And then I had

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Speaker 1: So I had a great, a great, blessed, healthy, loving weekend.

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Speaker 1: That's congratulations, heavy birthday, guy, yo, My man, my man.

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Speaker 1: J Well, how about your weekend? Girl? She'll be lying,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like explaining ship to X or

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Speaker 1: I just don't feel what the hell you? What the

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Speaker 1: hell you did? You got to explain to any man?

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Speaker 1: What what you do? You gotta explain ship? Girl? And

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Speaker 1: I did a lot of water, water, water, want man

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Speaker 1: It was my birthday, July sixteen, and that's where I

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Speaker 1: to My level was hurt, and I was like, I'm

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Speaker 1: Those are the best weekends where you don't do nothing. Literally, Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about letting my coaches thank all week

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Speaker 1: not around anybody activity. That's what my sister would do.

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Speaker 1: She'd come home from work Friday and only get back

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Speaker 1: in the shower on Sunday selling drugs. That's the type

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Speaker 1: Do come? You don't go nowhere? If you don't go nowhere, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Why would I clean anything? I might as you be

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Speaker 1: What happened this week? Listen? So based on your your

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Speaker 1: why she wishes parents of college women would take them

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Speaker 1: to freeze their eggs instead of giving them regular gifts

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Speaker 1: and the Underwatch, Mindy is probably saying, I want all

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Speaker 1: very like progressive of today, and today women are freezing

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Speaker 1: and I'm okay with that, I wouldn't say I really

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Speaker 1: old kids. Oh, they're conversations. That's why they can talk exactly.

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Speaker 1: their eggs. They're not concerned with that. Maybe they should

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Speaker 1: That's that's a comment. Should have been doing that now.

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Speaker 1: from that's the talk. What's the other on the real

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Speaker 1: I definitely had me a little call that baby, whirlpool,

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Speaker 1: else happening, all right, listen. So Safari denies being responsible

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Speaker 1: the whole Twitter was going wild because they're trying to

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Speaker 1: the news for some both what does he do? Isn't

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Speaker 1: some bullshit. Nikki's boyfriend, Oh yeah, I did see the

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Speaker 1: It's a it's a dick gate scandal. Somebody got to

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Speaker 1: a side by side comparison of that video from back

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Speaker 1: in the day and what's going on now? Because that

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Speaker 1: video for that. TikTok compared to Dicks. Yeah, you're like,

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Speaker 1: don't understand what's happening since then? I'm so tired and

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Speaker 1: he's I saw another video he's either freestyling or rapping

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Speaker 1: it on the um Charlot Mans the Breakfast Club. He's

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Speaker 1: him wrap they're not very happy about it. I didn't

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Speaker 1: don't know what he didn't have only fans something. Maybe

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Speaker 1: that'll be his claim to fan again, what else happening to? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Channing Crowder compliments, So what's the name of that show?

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Speaker 1: The Pivot podcast? He said that another black man was beautiful?

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Speaker 1: What's the Denzel Ward? Is that okay for another black

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Speaker 1: man to call another beautiful? Like it's beautiful? I think

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Speaker 1: it's beautiful. I liked it because you know, I want

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Speaker 1: I want men to get rid of the they can't

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Speaker 1: you can't be vulnerable with. At what point can't you

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Speaker 1: not just tell your boy man you look good today?

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Speaker 1: Like why no, homo? After that? Exactly? Yeah, they think that. No,

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Speaker 1: I listen. I've heard guys compliment dudes before comedians and comedians.

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Speaker 1: in every other way, you'll be here. You'll be with

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00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 1: them for as long as you can. So you realize

421
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: I needed Dick now right, he's gonna cheat. I'm gonna cheat.

422
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 1: I left before I cheated. I'm just trying a girl

423
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 1: where I'm like, when I start feeling like I want

424
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: to wander, I'm like, I'll to the karma is too much,

425
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: I'll leave. I'm like, I gotta break up. I can't

426
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 1: be lusting for every guy and meet because you don't

427
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: get me happy. I'd rather leave you and be alone

428
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: and try over again. Yeah, me too. I would pay

429
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 1: you and jas I've never had no like uh Dick,

430
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: where I was just like, oh this is small, but

431
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 1: he's so nice. Never know, my husband was a very caretaking,

432
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: big guy, smart, intelligent, funny, y had He had everything,

433
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: of course, but what I needed to stay hang in there.

434
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: We hang in there for ten years. You were both

435
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 1: for a dolfriend for a decade, and then we got married.

436
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: And then I realized I've made a mistake. Shames. I

437
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 1: saw you on the Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon. Are

438
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 1: you getting married in September? Was that a part of

439
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: a joke? No, that's real, But September was not a

440
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 1: realistic It was too close to when I right announced it.

441
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:52,239
Speaker 1: So November ten there is the date. Hey, what about you? Two?

442
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 1: Are in love with anyone? Not you? Interview and the interviewers,

443
00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 1: what the hell I love? I want to know if

444
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 1: y'all in love? To girl? Know, when you're in love,

445
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: you want everybody to be in love. It's very corny.

446
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 1: When you're in you're in love, like everybody being loved,

447
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 1: Like me, right, I always want people to be in love.

448
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: So no, I'm not. I was engaged over a year

449
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 1: ago and I'm no long I'm single now, So I'm

450
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: not outside for real, but I'm like a little bit

451
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: outside the door cracked, the door cracked open. I'm on

452
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 1: the porch a little bit, sitting on the student who're

453
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: coming through that type of ship. What she don't but

454
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 1: she don't trust you at all, and she's like everything.

455
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: This girl has a lot everything. I've been single since

456
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 1: two thousand sixteen. Okay, I've been single a minute now.

457
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 1: I'm ready for something real. But it just don't seem

458
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: like realists being available to me. Why, I don't know.

459
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 1: I just keep me. I keep liking the wrong type

460
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 1: of the guy. Say what are you attracting? Like? What

461
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: do you want of the choice as you're making? And

462
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm just lacking the wrong ones. Girl broke, Yeah, but

463
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 1: the wrong ones are always so much fun. That's what

464
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: it is. I'd be having phone phone with these wrong

465
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 1: guys names wronger. That's why you're in there. I'm ready

466
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 1: to be right though. I'm ready to when when you

467
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: are ready and you tell the world the universe you're ready,

468
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: then you see a difference, right, hopefully. Yeah, you gotta

469
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: open yourself up for that stuff. Man, I'm always open listen.

470
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 1: I like being in love. I like it I like,

471
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: I like, I like new dates, I like first dates.

472
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: I like all that ship. I never I look at

473
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 1: it a fun girls who freak out guys and girls

474
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: too about going I'm like going on days with somebody new,

475
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 1: even if you have no plans. But it's fun. You

476
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: get a meal, you get to drink, you have I

477
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: think dates are fun, you get to hang out. Because

478
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: I'm so shure, so I know how to make I

479
00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: know how to make a guy on any day, first

480
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,479
Speaker 1: day blind, they'd fall in love because I know how

481
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: to person, because I know how to focused on you

482
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: know women, what a week, But I know how to

483
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 1: flatter the hell out of a guy and get a

484
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 1: dick marble conversation game. I took a nick on the

485
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: on a damn bike ride. Is ass acting like he

486
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: love now? R If you give them what they want

487
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: and be, you know, fun and frolic with them, that'd

488
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 1: be like, I want to know you be funny too, Funny.

489
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: They love funny funny. Get that dick out. That's that's

490
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: the thing. I don't be wanting the dick out all

491
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,719
Speaker 1: the time. Just laugh with me. Put your dick away, sir. Oh,

492
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: that's that's the problem. When you're beautiful and personality and funny,

493
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: they get they get confused. They're like, this is we're

494
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: having a great time. We should be a tumple and

495
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: you're like, that is not why I'm here, right, go away.

496
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 1: So I saw that in your especial you said that

497
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 1: you had almost had to go back to work, and

498
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 1: he was like, Ship, Oh yeah, yeah, you had left

499
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: corporate corporate environment ten years, like two thousand, tens, twelve. Yeah.

500
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: I worked at cal Tech in Pasadena and I left

501
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: the job because they told me too, and they fired

502
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: the crap out of it. And during the during the quarantine,

503
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: you know, money got tight, and I had all this.

504
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: I was on tour heavy before they told us we

505
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,919
Speaker 1: can't go outside. I did a lot of zoom shows

506
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: and after while, I'm like, I wonder none of us knew.

507
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:31,880
Speaker 1: We were all kind of at home, like I don't

508
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,199
Speaker 1: know what how is my life going to be when

509
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 1: it's so in case I can't go back the full

510
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: time entertainer, let me find I have many skills and

511
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: all that. Ship and I had an interview and the

512
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: lady was like, so you know, what have you been

513
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: doing to that big gas gap? My resume, and I'm like, uh,

514
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: the best I can. What I gotta do, what I

515
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: gotta do, kind of trying to be in the in denial,

516
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: you know, having a good time, having way too much sex,

517
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: not focused on work, ma'am. That so you didn't get

518
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: the job? Assuming No, she was a black lady too,

519
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: and you. I was making her laugh at the interview,

520
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: and I'm like, in my head, I was like, she's

521
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: having a great time. I ain't gonna get this job.

522
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: She was kind of like, it's so funny. And I'm like,

523
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: oh damn it. Skill out now. She's like, you can't

524
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 1: work yet, but you know, do nothing right. He was right,

525
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: I'm alright, go the job to have fun, not to work. Yeah,

526
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: me too. That's why I don't need to work in

527
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: Nobody corporate off me. The last time I had a job.

528
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sitting like, why the funk am

529
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: I hair? Why the funk am I hair? Like I

530
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: knew deep down in my soul this ship is not

531
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: for me. Like I know this is not for me.

532
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: A life of working and ship that is, ship is

533
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: not for me. You know What's funny to the reason

534
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: why I really didn't want the job is because it

535
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: was at the Getty Is it the Getty Museum in

536
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: l A. And you have you got to park your

537
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: car in one place and take a train tram to

538
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: the actual office. Oh and I'm like at the interview,

539
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: I said to her, so it's my car. Does my

540
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: car have to stay in the parking complex because I

541
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: I got to take a train from there to the desk? Scared?

542
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: She's like yeah. And my thought was if I can't

543
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: get to my car for either taking naps, orditions, escaping whatever,

544
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 1: we didn't work here, okay, zac, wait, you don't know

545
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 1: what I want to do. And she's like, no, the

546
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: car is kept over there. I'm like in my head, like,

547
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 1: bab I can't work here, about to be trapping. I

548
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: wonder I would have been in my vehicle? Are you

549
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: ruding by? So that was my saying. I was like, no, no,

550
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: no cars where nom That means I gotta bear my

551
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 1: desk all time. I don't know. I ain't done that

552
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: since the nineties. What who did you get into comedy? Oh?

553
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 1: That's sound was about to ask her, go ahead, boredom,

554
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: just for fun, just I worked in some places on

555
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: in l A. And my girlfriends worked at the job

556
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: and everyone there was an actor, so I was the

557
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: only one who was like, what's that? That was the

558
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: funny ear and they told me try this class. I

559
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: took a writing class and performed the improv and my friends.

560
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: My friends told me to stick with it. To be honest,

561
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: they were like, you're funny, you just figure this out.

562
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: So it was that why I did it after work

563
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: for years until two thousand in town when I got fired,

564
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 1: but for fun, no career aspirations. Didn't know you could

565
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 1: be doing this. I lives in the Bronx, and you know,

566
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: when you're from a small town in any state, it's

567
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 1: always feels like a small town mentality, like how do

568
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: you get out of here to do this? You didn't

569
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: know you could right for work with no goals, And

570
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: that's how it turned out to be, like, oh, I

571
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: could probably make a living in my house with this.

572
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: Who knew exactly? Yeah, I saw I saw some of

573
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: your clips from America's Got Talent? How the hell you

574
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: end up on there? I didn't even know they had

575
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: comedians on shows like that. Oh yes, how well, living

576
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: in l A. Everybody everyone in l A entertainment wise,

577
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: that had taken the decisions. They know who all the

578
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 1: comics are, so when the show came on every year

579
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: they were like, you want to try now, And for

580
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: years that was like not my thing out the reality dude.

581
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 1: And then finally I was like, I need exposure and

582
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: I need to work, so let me try. And I

583
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 1: did it. I did it with a whole like that,

584
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: this just have fun and yeah, because I didn't do

585
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: it with a whole like I gotta win, because anybody's

586
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: gonna win against sucking poodles and camels and opera singers

587
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: and little kids and ship all kind of ship going on.

588
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, who, how would Comedian went over this? That's

589
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: why I did it to help me get work. That's

590
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: that's why. That's why I get it. And here we

591
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: are and here we is. So no, I saw that

592
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: you said that you moved back to the Bronx back

593
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: home and you were living with your mother. That I

594
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 1: never intended. I lived in l A with twenty years

595
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: and when I decided to move back, nothing bad happened.

596
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: Nobody died, Thank you God. I was just bored. I

597
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: wasn't booking. I was auditioning like crazy, not getting shipped

598
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: so I'm like, let me try. It is a change.

599
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 1: I moved back to New York October, fully intending to

600
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 1: live in l A and New York have that life style,

601
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: but COVID was like, what are you doing? So I

602
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: had to move back into the home that I own

603
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: in New York with my mom, my mother, and father,

604
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: the child house I grew up in. And I haven't

605
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: tried to sign a place until like now, I'm really trying.

606
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 1: During I should have moved like when everybody was dying,

607
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 1: because the rent was like three bedroom and now they're

608
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: like three bedroom, five grand. What I will bury my mom,

609
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: we'll live together, matching plots. I will never move. I'm

610
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: not paying my grand rent. So I don't understand what

611
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: iving to live in New York? What the hell? I know?

612
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: I know, and I the York right now. People left

613
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: New York and I left Cali for everywhere else because

614
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: now you with this, you don't have to live anywhere.

615
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: You can live wherever you can, where you where you're comfortable,

616
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: where you're comfortable. So I live in the Bronx because

617
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: I just, you know, had to. And now that we're

618
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: allowed to live our lives again, I'm looking for a

619
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: place with you know, and I don't know whether I

620
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: want to buy. There's nothing to buy. If I wanted

621
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: to buy, ain't nothing, ain't nothing exists. New York State

622
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: lations got sold up. I know they are. They're investing

623
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: all and now we can regular folks can't buy, so

624
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: they want to hold up all these investing properties. It's

625
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 1: stuck right now. So my next step in like every

626
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 1: day for me, is a mystery. I have no idea

627
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen day to day. You better move to

628
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: the mecca. You better move to the mecca of Atlanta.

629
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: There's no room for me. If one's fall apart, it's

630
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: gonna fall apart. There's no there's nowhere to go there.

631
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 1: And I thought about it because I want to be

632
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: around my people, But I'm like where And the crime

633
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: on guys, y'all crime stories are making me cry daily.

634
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: It's terrible. Now, you said, you said you wanted to

635
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 1: do Heroin like living with your mama? Is that like

636
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: the two grown women in the same house. You know what,

637
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: you know what it is. I haven't lived at home

638
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 1: for twenty years, so my mom don't know. Yes, you

639
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: don't know me. You don't know that I like Scotch

640
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: at night and I smoke weed sociality. You don't know

641
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: any of this. So when I moved back home and

642
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: she's like, I'm going through the kitchen, She's on the

643
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: cork and she hears me in the kitchen, and she

644
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: can tell when I'm pouring kool aid or pouring pepsi

645
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: or pouring real ship. She can tell by the sound

646
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:13,359
Speaker 1: of the liquid hit the glast that I'm drinking again.

647
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, she finally trying to ask me, like, Jackie,

648
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: is not even noon. And I'm like, Mommy, I am

649
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: what I'm a forty eight nine fifty. You're lucky I'm

650
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: not doing coke in front of you. So you have

651
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: to realize when you move back home, your family don't

652
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: know you at all, joint secretly. And my mom's in

653
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: the bathroom. What's that smell? What's what are you doing?

654
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 1: You smell? You smell smoke. And I'm like, now, your

655
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: mom is Jamaican, she know what you smell it. And

656
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: I didn't denying you know what it is. I'm in

657
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: here watching a TV in my any bitty bedroom. Of

658
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:03,240
Speaker 1: course I'm hot, all right. They just gotta escape Okay,

659
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: so technically how long if you've been doing comedy, then

660
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: it'll be seventeen years and yeah you've been at this, yeah,

661
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: I mean at this uh grinding. But in the last

662
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: since I moved left l A to come to New York,

663
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: a lot of things I've had on my vision board,

664
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: let's have happened. All I did was make a change.

665
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: Sometimes people gotta package it and try something different. And

666
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: as I have moved back to New York, the bookings

667
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: I wasn't getting are happening, the special, the tour and

668
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: talent one after the other. Because I was in l

669
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: A and board and like, how can I get my

670
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 1: career moved? And then I moved And that's how things

671
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 1: are way better now than it used to be. Thank God.

672
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: What advice would you have for like some young people,

673
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:51,240
Speaker 1: young women, especially because comedy is a male dominated industry,

674
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: So what advice would you have for young women trying

675
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: to be out there in the world. You gotta have

676
00:36:56,360 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 1: fixed skin because these comics, whatever race they are, it

677
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: will say things around you, in front of you and

678
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: to you. They'll make you be like where is HR?

679
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: And they're like this your eight? No HR? So you

680
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: gotta get some six skin, because they're gonna try you,

681
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: they're gonna challenge you, they're gonna hit on you. It's all.

682
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: You're got to be comfortable being a woman who knows

683
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 1: who she is and what she wants and and treatment

684
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: like your colleagues, not like you know, I'm a girl

685
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: and all these boys be like, hey, we're doing and

686
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: we're all doing this together. We found and that makes

687
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: men respect you when you're like, hey, I'm one of y'all,

688
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: and nobody fucking and nobody who's stealing, and nobody whatever.

689
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 1: We in this together. And when they get an idea,

690
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: you know. And and I'm one of those where I don't.

691
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: I don't get this to share a lot. But I'm like,

692
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 1: and if you are a woman in comedy and you

693
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: want to start the business, this whole thing is, you know,

694
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: don't date comics, don't whatever. I'm like, I'm a woman.

695
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: I look at these male comics as men first, and

696
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: then you know, and if you're a ground up you

697
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: should be able to do date and whatever whoever you

698
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: want and not have druma. So if you're a female

699
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: wants to be in the world of comedy, have thick skins.

700
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 1: Know how to make your own decisions. Ignore the opinions

701
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: and the veterans opinions. It doesn't apply to your life.

702
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: You know what to take and to apply to you

703
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: and what to be like as you dog. But this

704
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 1: is this is my world, and focus on the funny

705
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 1: because you are going to be objectified, discriminated against. All

706
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: things are gonna happen to you. And if you are

707
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 1: want to break down with the first or second or eleventh,

708
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:27,879
Speaker 1: you know whatever, You're not gonna make it. You gotta

709
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: have thick skin. You gotta be a bad bitch to

710
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 1: do this. What about when you happen to have to

711
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 1: smack somebody right quick? What do you mean, like literally

712
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: to smack another comedian? And you know what, for some reason,

713
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 1: or maybe I know the reason, I don't attract that

714
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,360
Speaker 1: kind of attention. I do attract people who are supportive

715
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: and respectful because I am that way, and people know that.

716
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 1: I think they know low key like I'm from the Bronx.

717
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm not really, I'm not a pussy, but I'm also

718
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 1: I don't but I don't. I don't get challenge. I

719
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,399
Speaker 1: don't do the challenge, and I'm in this for fun.

720
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: I want to make money, make you make lay these laughs,

721
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 1: by myself, a house, marrying my fiance. I just wanted

722
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: the simple, you know, luxuries. So nobody's test me because

723
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: you know, they don't feel like they need to. And

724
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: if they did, I'm prepared. Now. You told one joke,

725
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: and you was like in my twenties and thirties, if

726
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 1: someone said, hey, you gotta suck a dick to get ahead,

727
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 1: you would have been like, no, I'm a woman of integrity.

728
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 1: And then you said, now, well whose though, So my

729
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: question is have you sucked any dick to get ahead?

730
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: No one I did. I did fool around with one

731
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: thinking that it would help, and when it was done,

732
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: he said, girl, you bet on the wrong horse. I

733
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: have no power. Damn. He was a friend of mine.

734
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 1: He is a friend. So it wasn't like suck this

735
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: get a movie. It was somebody who was more advanced

736
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 1: than me in this world. And we were friends and

737
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: hanging down one thing left to another, and after we over,

738
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, So he was like, I ain't get no help.

739
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 1: I can't help any any help with guta himself. This

740
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 1: is like a decade ago. But I have never I've

741
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: never even and I'm not gonna lie. Part of me

742
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: is like I wish I had been offered. No, won't

743
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: even offer me. Now I'm like maybe, I'm like I

744
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 1: am wron don't assume that I'm gonna be like, oh,

745
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm so offended. I'm going to sue you. I'm like, hey,

746
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: what movie is it? That's what's up. That's why I like, Okay,

747
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to correlate the two. But I've met

748
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: people with power and I've been you know. Part of

749
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: me is like, I mean, if we're both single, or

750
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 1: we can keep this quiet, you never know. I never

751
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 1: have and was like I was open maybe if it

752
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: was a really good opportunity. But now no one ever,

753
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: no one ever hung was at me that way. They

754
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: know they're gonna get a No, I didn't have one.

755
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: I had one. I remember he was playing around. He

756
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: was a producer on some TV show, a popular one,

757
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, hey, watch I had and he

758
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 1: gave me your role on it. I'm real quick speaking

759
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: you row and then he was like I'm like, hey,

760
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: how about a regular I want to be on it

761
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 1: all the time. He's like, well, how about a hand job?

762
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: And I'm like he was yeah, I was like, and

763
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: I said to him, I was like, first of all,

764
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: I'm not saying no, but I need to sign the contract,

765
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 1: get a call time, and actually get the deal done.

766
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: And then I'll do I'm to give your hands out

767
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: in the back of this sing car and I leave

768
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: here and nothing happens. Yeah, I need a contract sign

769
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 1: and the agent was involved and closed the deal, and

770
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: now I'll be like he was a nice creep. He

771
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 1: just asked for a hand job. Hand job, and I

772
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: was like, the way he asked for all was so

773
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: like whack. I was like, I could you have some

774
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: more swaggle with that? I'd have done it. But did

775
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: he get to a roll? Did he get no? No? No? Nothing?

776
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: I wrapped. I said no. He was like all right, No,

777
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 1: I was We weren't really serious because we're friends. But

778
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 1: even though part of him like five percent like would

779
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: you no, you know, they definitely with everything going off,

780
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 1: and then like I was kidding, that's why, that's why

781
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: your man don't never want you to have guys guys

782
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: as friends. Girl. He's so jealous. But I've learned how

783
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 1: to maneuver. I know how to get around that. I

784
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,800
Speaker 1: just lie to him. Now it's easy. I used to

785
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: be I used to be an honesty girl. My ex husband,

786
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: I told him everything in the courtship part in the beginning,

787
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: when I tell you that all that ship came back

788
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: and made me in the ass, I adn't tell him nothing.

789
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: Ever again, I'm like, how was inviting it? Because the

790
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: first one, when I told him everything, he used it

791
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: against me in arguments, and that was part of why

792
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,240
Speaker 1: we got divorced. That that was the part of our demands.

793
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: So that's yeah, if you not love that, I used

794
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: to do that. I don't do that anymore, but you so,

795
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: But don't assign that to yourself. You probably did it before,

796
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 1: but that's like that that was a characteristic of yours.

797
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: Don't say that. Okay, no I did that, but I've

798
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 1: done that. You've done it. Yes, I believe everyone's done it.

799
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: But in the way they try to make it like

800
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: women just always throwing up men's vulnerabilities in their faces.

801
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 1: It's not true. I've never been a man. I've never

802
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 1: been up with a man who didn't you tell them

803
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: some ship. In the midst of an argument, they're saying,

804
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: that's craziest ship back to you, Like, yeah, clay to

805
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 1: win the argument, like what I'm living, Like, what about

806
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: that time where on Friday you came home from work

807
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 1: and didn't wash the pussy again to a Monday morning

808
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: shut up like like my shrong. Yeah, because they love

809
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: nasty ass like that, like they'd be liking you sweat

810
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: they wanted from the gym, just nasty exactly down all day. Yeah, yeah,

811
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,439
Speaker 1: like got watching me. I feel clammy. They wanted girl.

812
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: I just I just figure and then I'm not trying

813
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 1: whether this is a healthy answer to it. But I

814
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: just don't tell him my current anymore. It's just I

815
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,479
Speaker 1: rather not deal with it because I think that most

816
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,799
Speaker 1: men when they really when the men fall in love,

817
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: and my opinion, they fall in love really hard. So

818
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: the idea of you in the past, even even if

819
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 1: he's a healthy guy mentally, he's still like so I

820
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: told this guy when we started getting serious, I'm like, look,

821
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: whatever I did before you, it's none of your business.

822
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna discuss it. You go hold it against me.

823
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 1: If we come across the dude that I whatever in

824
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: the past, I'm gonna let you know maybe or may not,

825
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 1: but it's nothing to do with you and now I

826
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: got a gang because my last selectionship, he fucking he

827
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: hated the fact that I had a life before him

828
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: and during him, and yeah we we didn't. Oh aries

829
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: both of them aries the arias and the new husband's areas.

830
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: So they're both a little bit psychoed to me. I

831
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: I gotta figure that out. I ain't gotta figure it

832
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: out yet. Is it okay for him to have female friends?

833
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:10,919
Speaker 1: Oh before, I'm not gonna lie my current fiance. He's

834
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: so fine that I'm a little I probably would be

835
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: jealous about it. I'm not. I'm I'm not a jealous

836
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 1: person where you can't live your life. But he likes

837
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: to walk around with a tank top. But he's real tall,

838
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: he's a good looking. But it's a little bit more

839
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 1: understanding when they find right. It's when you like, lower

840
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: your standards for a nigger, and he's still do a

841
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: little shit like if you find right. But if you're

842
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: ugli have friends that are women, I'm like, I'm like,

843
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if that you can have. I gotta

844
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 1: know her and be around them. You can't like. And

845
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 1: that's another thing I had to change. I had to

846
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 1: change how I handle my friendship with men because I

847
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: prior to him, I was kind of like, I'll do

848
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: what I want to do, hang out who I want

849
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: to hang out. But now I really care about this

850
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 1: guy's feelings. So my text messages have just gotten appropriate.

851
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,479
Speaker 1: Like in the last week, you would go through my phone.

852
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: You'll be proud of me. You're like, you are really

853
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,399
Speaker 1: growing up. Now there's no there's no you up. There's

854
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: no happy birthday, and there's no you had congrass all

855
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: that with guy that talked before. All good or at

856
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 1: least the two. They're too far down to scroll. You

857
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: can't get him anymore. You'll be like my ex and

858
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: this nigger was all the way back and my goddamn

859
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: Facebook two two thousand nine, I don't even know he

860
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: existed at the time. Every now then they no snoop

861
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: and they will ask you questions and I'm like, how

862
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: the hell where do you get that question from? How

863
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 1: do you hope by that? Because they're snooping, but they're

864
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 1: two jobs to hide it. Well, they don't hide this

865
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: and they don't want they don't want you to know

866
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: that they actually snoop and men snoop them. Look, they

867
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: looked through all your ship, I said, I see him

868
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: over my shoulder. You six floor, I'm five for I'll

869
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: be on my phone and I can feel your fucking

870
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: breath right here. And just like trying to look and

871
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: not look. There's the nosiest. And I'm very good at

872
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: not being nosy anymore because I feel like when you

873
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: search a snoop, you find every every time you find

874
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: a family in Virginia, I don't look until I'm ready

875
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 1: to leave. When I when I when I ready to

876
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: leave you, I'm going through all your ship looking for

877
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 1: a reason, and I'm I don't want to read and

878
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: find out or look about looking exactly what I'm ready like.

879
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm like you, I'm like, I'm getting bored with this guy.

880
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: Let's see what you're doing. I win. I'm the same

881
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: way I look. I'm a incriminating evidence. How did you

882
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: come up with the name? Men? Applause? I was doing

883
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 1: a show on Rhode Island and I was having a

884
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: hot flash on stage sweating and told the audience, Hey,

885
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: that's how you guys know I may get undressed. Congratulations

886
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 1: and you're welcome because I have sweats and this guy

887
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,839
Speaker 1: in the backside of clapping and I said, why am

888
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: the hell are you clapping? And he said, I'm giving

889
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: you men applause. So I said, I am taking that

890
00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:02,919
Speaker 1: name and not giving you a goddamn doctor man name.

891
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: That was nice. So okay. Speaking to women who are like,

892
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: we're a little bit younger, but we ain't that far

893
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: from menopause, what is that like? I don't, well, this

894
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: is my first time probably admitting it, but I haven't

895
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: had my period now and about well over a year.

896
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,240
Speaker 1: I think my body is probably in the next phase

897
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: of life. It's if there's no way to compare it,

898
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: because there's no comparison. Everybody's body is different. You might

899
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: have hot flashes, you might have nothing, you might have

900
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 1: vaginal dryness, you might be normal. Thank god, all I

901
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: have or hot flashes and sweat a little bit. Vagina

902
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: is still very much And so it's really there's no

903
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: way to predict what will happen to you? Is it

904
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 1: depends on your diet, Like if you're somebody who drinks

905
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: a lot, you make up when you drink alcohol, it

906
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: makes it worse. And I keep forgetting, you know, I'll

907
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: have a glass of wine and then have my name

908
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: announced and then get on stage and be like, why

909
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 1: but I feel faint? How are you forgetting change? Okay,

910
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 1: so it's it's your Your diet helps. They're ways to

911
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: come to fix it or to manage it. But everyally

912
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: I'm still learning. I'm new to it, and I know

913
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: I'm not thinking. I'm not on any kind of drug prescriptions.

914
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to be, so I got to look

915
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: for the natural remedies. So far, all I'm doing and

916
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: suffering but playing a natural ways to fix this. You

917
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 1: don't do any sufflashes saying I just vitamins and hair pills.

918
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:35,439
Speaker 1: That's it. I need to I need to try hard.

919
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:39,399
Speaker 1: I'm not trying because it doesn't happen. You're okay, okay

920
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 1: more more more. Honestly, I have lost weight with the

921
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 1: sweating all the time, and maybe I'm low key happy

922
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: with it because I sweat a lot and not in

923
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: a way where it's gross. But you know, my clothes

924
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,720
Speaker 1: are looser, so that's where at night under the sheets

925
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: or whatever, and I'm all it and that's water being

926
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: lost and the majority is looser. So I think I

927
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: want to, like wait till i'm down more kep more

928
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: found twenty five pounds. I'm gonna I'm gonna look for

929
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: something until man, I'm I'm gonna put it out. All right, Well,

930
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 1: let me tell you, you can't be uh leaving there

931
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: pussy on clean for the whole weekend. If you sweat

932
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: like that, you know I really had more clothes, you said,

933
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: the whole week, every one day. And he don't be

934
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 1: showering either. You meet him funking together. That's love right there,

935
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 1: That love which one of us think, don't matter. Baby,

936
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: we love each other. But you had to go up

937
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:45,879
Speaker 1: stopballers time, yall, y'all, we're gonna have to break right quick.

938
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: When we come back, we're gonna see if Jackie has

939
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: a dumb bitch story for us. Okay, dumb bitch stories,

940
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 1: so because we've all been a dumb bitch at least

941
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 1: once or twice, all right, so we have this segment.

942
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 1: It's called dumb bit story, and um, it's where you

943
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: are one of us share time where we got played

944
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: by a man, typically like where you were a dumb

945
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 1: bitch for a guy. Oh god, I don't even Oh

946
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: this story is so embarrassing. But I was, I was

947
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: beyond lived, but I was I was a dumb bitch.

948
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: Who else dumb. Okay um, I'm trying to figure OTW

949
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: Can I tell the story and not incriminate who with it?

950
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 1: Who who's in the story with me? No? No, he

951
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: deserves it, but I won't bother I. I went on

952
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: a trip with a guy and we were all we

953
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 1: were only friends. They do different rooms, and when we

954
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 1: got there, he kind of disappeared because he Originally I

955
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: guess he had let a girl know who lived in

956
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 1: the state and he was gonna be there, so he

957
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: was in this room. I remember I heard him in

958
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: his room through the wall, sucking the girl and he

959
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: went there to go that he arranged to visit when

960
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: he came to the state, and it was just me

961
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: this being mad, like why would you. We're not a couple,

962
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: so you ain't gotta do a whole bunch of hiding.

963
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: But in his mind it's for him. It was better

964
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 1: for him to just be deceitful and hide rather than

965
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: be like, hey, Jackie, I'm gonna go, but I got

966
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 1: this girl waiting for me. I've been like, hey, cool,

967
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 1: you know that's how we get down. But I heard

968
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:33,839
Speaker 1: them through the wall, fucking I lost my ship, tried

969
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: to and I heard her sneak out the door that

970
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: they were adjoining rooms, and I opened the hotel room

971
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: door with the intention of going out there to kill her,

972
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,320
Speaker 1: to murder her, him, everyone on that floor. But you

973
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: know that you know that that the wall locked on

974
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 1: the hotel door, that you don't move it aside you

975
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: came open the door. I was like, when I had

976
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: that lockday, I was too mad to move the lock open.

977
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 1: So the rest of the weekend I was like, you

978
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:02,360
Speaker 1: are a piece of ship. But I but I'm a

979
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: dumb I should not have gone because I'm lying in

980
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 1: that I had feelings for this guy. I lied to

981
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 1: him to I didn't. I wanted to go on this

982
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: trip and make it a romantic knowing god fully well

983
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: he cannot do that, does not want to. But I

984
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: went on this trip thinking that he would change and

985
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,760
Speaker 1: we've become this couple, or at least couple for the weekend.

986
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: But instead we went got on a plane, went to

987
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:25,880
Speaker 1: the state. He found the girl fun through in the

988
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: adjoining room. I heard the whole thing. I tried to

989
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: kill him and her. He was like, why are you mad?

990
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: And from that point on, I was kind of like

991
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: realizing that was my that was my last, real, real,

992
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 1: real dumb bitch moment, and that was only it might

993
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 1: have been five years ago, it wasn't that long ago. See,

994
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: that was my dumb bitch moment. Get on an airplane

995
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: with a guy who did not want me picking He

996
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 1: went when we got there, that's dumb. And then you know,

997
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: that was my last example of extra dumb bitch behavior.

998
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,879
Speaker 1: So were you and this guy intimate at all before

999
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 1: you wanted this trip? We were buddies, Okay, that's what

1000
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to ye like, I was trying understand what

1001
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: it feeling it right back, and we were buddy for

1002
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: a long time, reliable blood funk by the friendship first

1003
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: fucking every now and then. So we had this trip

1004
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, we're gonna go on the trip

1005
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 1: and be this fi, gonna our lives away and have

1006
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:20,479
Speaker 1: a great time. But he was like, I'm a boat

1007
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: on this trip. I'm don't suck you too. I'm gonna

1008
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 1: suck her and I'm gonna su her. I'm gonna find her.

1009
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 1: He had y'all fu on the trip at all. No, no, no,

1010
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: it was complete drama. Me like I want I wish

1011
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,799
Speaker 1: he would die. It was the worst. Well, I feel

1012
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: like he was wrong. Why would if you having titches

1013
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: to fund somebody else, don't bring your funk buddy, Like

1014
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:43,399
Speaker 1: I feel like he was wrong for that. He was wrong,

1015
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: he was I was wrong, I was dumb, and he

1016
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: was wrong. It was all a cluster from the beginning.

1017
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: Then the whole thing wasn't mess. You know, I should

1018
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 1: have realized, Jackie, this guy is fun buddy in l A.

1019
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 1: Leave him there. Don't get on the airplane with the

1020
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: fun buddy because there's no commitment. There's no respect, you know,

1021
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: when we get there and then to have the talk.

1022
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: We're buddies. You don't really have to have a talk

1023
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:04,919
Speaker 1: your buddies. But I realized you gotta have a talk

1024
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: with everybody had over communications. How you have success in romance, commitment,

1025
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: sexual only you know, fun buddy friend, You gotta have

1026
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: communication so you know where you're so you're on the

1027
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 1: same page. Right, So y'all, y'all did go like on

1028
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: this trip, right? You ain't pay for the hotel room

1029
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 1: for him to yeah, okay, okay, so it was a

1030
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: work trip, so we we earned money while we were there.

1031
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 1: Be there. Okay, that's kind. But but I chose him

1032
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: because I was the headliner, thinking, okay, I'll bring him.

1033
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:42,959
Speaker 1: He's amazingly funny, but he's a print, so that's okay. Yeah,

1034
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: you out the show my nigga stage. No, he did

1035
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: the show. He was mediover because he was an asshole.

1036
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: The owner was like, your friend, he's has attitude and

1037
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 1: he's not a really nice guy, but he's funny and

1038
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 1: that's all that matters. But it's over. I learned from

1039
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: that point on. I ain't talked to him or seeing

1040
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 1: them pretty much since then. It's kind of, you know,

1041
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 1: severed our friendship, but we're not cool anymore because of that,

1042
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 1: And I'm like, why did he suck it out? He

1043
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 1: was going so well, that's what That's why I'm more mad.

1044
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,319
Speaker 1: I'm more mad that we had a cool fuck buddy

1045
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,840
Speaker 1: thing and it was fun for years and had my

1046
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,399
Speaker 1: reason to end, but because he's a dick, it ended.

1047
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:21,720
Speaker 1: Let me tell you why I ended, Because you wouldn't

1048
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: like with your fiance right now if you were still

1049
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: sucking your fun buddy. Oh look at you. That's Jesus,

1050
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: that's great. You're right. I believe you. If I didn't

1051
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: have to learn to let that guy go through painful experiences,

1052
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be like, Okay, maybe I'm ready for actual

1053
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: respect and love now. And now you gotta go through

1054
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: a lot of frogs to get your care. Have to.

1055
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 1: We'll choosing you don't have to be sometimes you gotta learn,

1056
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,359
Speaker 1: get the rough lesson. You gotta go. You feel that's

1057
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: so good sometimes, ain't it the hurt? We feel it's

1058
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: so good, So gus the pain. And then and you

1059
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: know why, I'm gonna be real with you, because I'm

1060
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: all about truth now. I did him again after that weekend.

1061
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 1: I know you did, We know you did. We we knew.

1062
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: It's never the dumbest story is never over. And at

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00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 1: the end of the store, etcetera, like like, you give

1064
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: y'all some dumb bitch grace then. But I don't feel

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00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: any shame, really, I was kind of like, hey, I

1066
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: was making decisions based on my I believe that you

1067
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 1: make potensions based on where you are self esteem wives

1068
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 1: in your life period. I always said that that felt

1069
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: low and hungry and thirsty, and I'm like, whatever, please anything,

1070
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: And I picked him because I was there. I would

1071
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: never I wouldn't consider it now at all. But you

1072
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: want you date where you are, exactly where you are

1073
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 1: whatever date means to you. You date where you are. Yeah. Yeah,

1074
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 1: And when you're feeling like you the ship, niggas can

1075
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 1: never see your pussy. No, y'all, just get a migrator.

1076
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 1: I don't even want to be hugging When I feel

1077
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: like I'm the ship. I'm like, Hey, let's pumping outright,

1078
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: monkey playing back. That's why I was selling niggas all

1079
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: we can anything. You can try to damp me or

1080
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 1: hug me monkey pox. Hey, that's all I got for you. Yeah,

1081
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: you can't even touch my elbow, nigga. If you want

1082
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: to keep a cold like many salute, but don't touch me.

1083
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: Don't touch me. Don't touch me. Jab Tell everybody where

1084
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: they can find your one hour special and everything that

1085
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: you're doing. Go to my website at Jackie Fabulous dot com.

1086
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 1: Allegation like like Comedy Special, Menoplause and comedy album is

1087
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 1: also called Menopause, said both out on my website. You

1088
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 1: can get it everywhere, So go to Jackie Capulous dot com.

1089
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 1: It will lead you to the world of me. My

1090
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 1: next show days coming up, uh the album the Special.

1091
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 1: I'll be at the DC Comedy law. It's my first

1092
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 1: or the third, and that's really it. I had fun later.

1093
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 1: I rarely get to do these with black women. I

1094
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 1: miss you white always want me on the podcast. I

1095
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 1: want more podcasts like that. Ye come back then that

1096
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: wants some black people. Oh yeah, and she's at Jackie

1097
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Speaker 1: Fabulous on Instagram. I don't know if you told everything. Yeah,

1098
00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: y'all follow y'all yep, yep, yep. Yeah. You ever coming

1099
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: down to Charlotte or Charleston. We need to come see

1100
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Speaker 1: I did. I did the Comedy House before COVID. Is

1101
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: that South Caroline? That's Columbia, South Carolina. Yeah, yeah, I

1102
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 1: was there, but I'm I'm touring. The tour days are

1103
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: coming up because you know, the special or whatever and

1104
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 1: things come up in the future, so I'll be on

1105
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 1: tour more. But I want the South and black folks.

1106
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: I've been doing more of that and I love it

1107
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 1: and I want more. So Yeah, because they're gonna have it.

1108
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 1: They're gonna have a grill outside the comedy house with

1109
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: the ship and chicken. That was fine. I loved it

1110
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: that when I was there, so I look more to more. Yeah,

1111
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 1: we appreciate you. Come back and see us. Okay, lad

1112
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 1: you think you had a great time, a lot of

1113
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: honest discussion, and I hope I was get in trouble

1114
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 1: after all this. Yeah, just tell your nigga, don't listen

1115
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 1: to this episode. Nothing. I'd be like he'd been like

1116
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: working on I'm like nowhere. I don't like nowhere nowhere.

1117
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: I'm in front of you right now. My next nigger

1118
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 1: gotta be able to deal with this ship. Listen, I

1119
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 1: explaining a motherfucking thing. Okay, you know what my guys

1120
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 1: now he's done on social media. That's why I'm marrying him.

1121
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 1: You know you don't, but you don't like all this

1122
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 1: stuff When you got a guy was like I don't

1123
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 1: do that. I'm like, oh, I mean couple now, But

1124
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:53,919
Speaker 1: then I don't like people who don't have a blue

1125
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 1: like a little footprint online. Now I need to be

1126
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 1: able to see what the funk you got going on?

1127
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: How you interact a little bit it somebody. Some people

1128
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: really don't want to do it, though, And when I

1129
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 1: meet that, I get it. I understand why, Like I

1130
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: kind of respect that I can't do it now, but

1131
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 1: you know when because you know, if I'm if I'm

1132
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 1: jealous and he's fine Instagram, right, keep it real facts, okay,

1133
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 1: all right, y'all listen. If you guys enjoyed this episode,

1134
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: please tune in every Thursday on your heart radio app.

1135
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 1: But wherever the fun you get your podcast that, this

1136
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 1: is your co host a j Holiday and two points. Oh,

1137
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: y'all follow me on Instagram. Keep sending them dumb bit stories.

1138
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:37,960
Speaker 1: All right, So Jackie gave us a great one today.

1139
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 1: We know y'all got them in the bucket, all right,

1140
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 1: head us up at we Talk Back p O d

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01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. Yeah, y'all, it's official tam BAM

1142
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Speaker 1: on Instagram. Y'all please follow me. Also, send us your

1143
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: ask a Black Friend questions. We always enjoy those, so

1144
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 1: y'all send those in and y'all we love y'all. Thank

1145
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: y'all for listening. Guys always, and remember to speak now

1146
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 1: and never hold your motherfucking peace. Doocey fine th