1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: I kicked out my disabled brother because I didn't want 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: to deal with him. 3 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: Now my parents are furious. Am I the a whole? 4 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 3: I think the question is how disabled? 5 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 4: You know? 6 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 3: Are we talking eighty HD yep? Or are we talking. 7 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 2: Temporary pinky to sprain or are. 8 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 3: We talking likes pineapple on his pizza? 9 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: If hey, if that's that is the worst. If that's true, 10 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: then I am on the spectrum. Let me tell you something, 11 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: because I love me some pineapple and you I'm I'm 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: crazy for them pineapple. 13 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: Literally, get out. 14 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 3: I'm kicking you out. 15 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: My cheeks are playing me. 16 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: My limit has been limited, has been exceeded. A limit 17 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: has been exceeded. Sam My cheeks are planted like those 18 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: sweet pineapple trees that give me them delicious fruits. 19 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 2: On my pizza. 20 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm not eating that. Well more for me eating 21 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: your cheeks than pineapple. Okay. So, my brother Terry is 22 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: nonverbal and, according to his specialist, has the intellectual slash 23 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 1: mental capacity of a very young child. Terry can still 24 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: be very difficult to look after. He will experience meltdowns 25 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 1: if something makes him uncomfortable, such as food texture that 26 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: he doesn't like, or he will throw fits if he 27 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: can't have his way. Terry has broken holes into the 28 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,639 Speaker 1: walls during the meltdown slash fits, and I'm honestly afraid 29 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 1: of him whenever he becomes destructive that way because he 30 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: is larger and stronger than me. Dang, that's crazy, Like 31 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: like the mind of a child that like a literally like. 32 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 3: Full forced man. 33 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: Imagine if babies were just like freaking yeah, just had 34 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: like the SpongeBob muscle arms. 35 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 3: Dude. 36 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: I actually I interviewed a woman who was who had 37 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: a son that was like mentally disabled, yeah, and she 38 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: talked about how just hard it is controlling him because 39 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: it was like like six' five mass of like like 40 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: basically could be a linebacker right mentally was you, know 41 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: like a. Toddler, Yeah and so like when you have 42 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: that like like he doesn't know his own strength. 43 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: Of, course so. 44 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: HARD i can only imagine with just hit the, GEM i, guess, 45 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: yeah get super. BODY i became a bodybuilder to take 46 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 1: care of my autistics. 47 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 4: On. 48 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: YEAH i have been parentified by the TIME i was 49 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: about thirteen because my parents expected me to Handle terry's 50 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:24,239 Speaker 1: knees whenever they were busy or needed a, break which 51 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: was a. 52 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 3: DUDE i, mean that's so, tough but like that's kind 53 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 3: of what. 54 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: Happens, Yeah AND i THINK i think the real question 55 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: is what degree is, yeah because if it's like every 56 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: like IT'S i feel like it's kind of, like, hey 57 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: you know what this. 58 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 2: Is this is. Family you, know. 59 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: We're all in this. Together that's that's what family. Does 60 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: but also, like are, like all, right, Son i'm gonna 61 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: watch this three hour football game and kick my feet, 62 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: up beer. OPEN i, mean let's assume that it's not. 63 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: THAT i, mean like like we're both like older, Siblings 64 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: LIKE i had to take care of my sister, sometimes 65 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: AND i, mean obviously this is it would be a lot, 66 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: more BUT i think think it would be so far 67 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: it would be hard to like be mad at the 68 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: parents for that, expectation BECAUSE i think that. Is, yeah 69 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: a lot of times the older siblings are raising the younger. 70 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 2: Ones all about how. 71 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: Much, yeah it's all about it's all about the, level 72 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: WHICH i guess we'll find. 73 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 4: Out. 74 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: YEAH i have been upfront with my parents THAT i 75 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: still hold resentment towards them because of, this and That 76 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: terry should not have been my responsibility to the extent 77 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: that they made Him, okay so it sounds like the 78 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: extent they Went, yeah, yeah too. Much my parents and 79 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: sist their parenting was perfect and are unwilling to alter their. Viewpoints, 80 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: okay maybe maybe they're, wrong maybe they're not on, this 81 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: but to say that your parent think is perfect is Bonker. 82 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: SAMUEL i PERFECTLY i parented. YOU i did not give 83 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: you any, Trauba no. 84 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: Mistakes were made with. You my, side it's. 85 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 3: Impossible raising kids is. 86 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 2: Hard it's just gonna. Happen it's gonna. Happen but not 87 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 2: even people's. Fault my parents were great. PARENTS i love my. 88 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: Parents but they may say they completely. Stop look how 89 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: terrible he. Is look at. 90 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: Him this is the face of. Trauma why do you 91 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 3: Think i'm doing this? Show? 92 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah come, on oh, man that was a. Joke, mischard Missus, 93 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: donner please don't come for. Me you did a fantastic. 94 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: Job parent doesn't watch the. Show maybe maybe her one one. 95 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: Appearance yeah, yeah we'll have to at least like send 96 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: her the time for. 97 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 2: That that'll be. 98 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: GREAT i told THEM i am not going to Be 99 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: terry's caregiver and to not leave him with. Me, unfortunately 100 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 1: my parents know WHERE i. Live what no they're not 101 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 1: just dropping Off. Terry buckle, up, Pal, no buckle. Up, 102 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 1: recently my parents have begun ringing my, doorbell telling me 103 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: to Watch terry and then leaving BEFORE i can say anything. 104 00:04:53,839 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: Back they're literally dig dog the. Human, yeah, okay here's your, Riper. 105 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 2: Mike, bye. Bro what would you rather? 106 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 3: Have would you rather? 107 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: Have, Uh terry or like the classic ding dong ditch 108 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 1: with like a bag lit on fire with poop in? 109 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 4: It? 110 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: Ah, yeah, yeah maybe that, Choice, John i'm judging you 111 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 1: whatever you. DO i don't get to care for a 112 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: flaming poop. Bag like, Literally it's, like, LIKE i think 113 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: the big thing here is, That uh, well you gotta 114 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 1: have to to care for, it like for five seconds 115 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: while you stamp it, out which also genius the fire 116 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: poop back because you have to step on it the 117 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: true unless you're good at Extinguishing yeah, things, Man, yeah 118 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 1: blow job, TECHNIQUE i mean the blow technique minus the. 119 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: Job Then i'd have to cancel my plans and wait 120 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: on the porch With terry until they come. Back he's 121 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: not EVEN i mean he's not even like going, inside like, 122 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: oh it's like watch a movie Or something's just sitting 123 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: there on the, porch just. 124 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 3: Like, wait so, op he won't Let terry inside his. 125 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: HOUSE i don't know if that's it per, se is 126 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: that it. HAPPENS i THOUGHT i thought he was, like, 127 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: okay sitting, outside and like why would he sit? 128 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 2: OUTSIDE i don't. 129 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 3: Know, WELL i guess he Said terry like would punch 130 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 3: holes and. 131 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: Things SO i GUESS i interpreted it as he's literally, 132 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: LIKE i want to be looking at all times to 133 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: the second my parents are. 134 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 2: Back i'm making sure that you. 135 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 1: Know, YEAH i, MEAN i Guess i'm, thinking, LIKE i, 136 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: know this isn't like a necessarily normal. Situation but if 137 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,479 Speaker 1: my sister was dropped, off if my parents ding dong 138 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: ditched me with my, SISTER i would wait on the 139 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,559 Speaker 1: porch until they came. BACK i come. Inside that's the weird. 140 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 1: THING i think it might be the watch a. Movie 141 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: yeah maybe maybe, yeah watch a, movie, yeah come, on 142 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: or maybe get like him a punching bag or. 143 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 3: Something train him up to be Cake Mike tyson over. 144 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 1: Here it's like he was punching, walls but then he 145 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: learned to punch your. Face, yeah he was punching. Walls 146 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: now he's punching your. Balls, yeah he has the mind 147 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: of a, toddler but the build Of Mike tyson going 148 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: to put you. 149 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 2: Down terry the. 150 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: Terrorizer match's let's let's bring him into w w e. 151 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: Ye when they came, BACK i told them all four 152 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: times to stop doing, this but was ignored every. TIME 153 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: i was forced to call out of work for most 154 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: of the. Reasons that's drop. Off that really, Is that's 155 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: that's really messed. Up Now Now op's actually losing, income, 156 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: yes because the parents can't take care Of. 157 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 3: TERRY i feel bad For terry, Though. 158 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 2: Bro Poor. Terry, yeah my god. 159 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: GOODNESS i lost my temper with my mother when she 160 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: came to Pick terry up and told her that if 161 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: she or my father try to Leave terry with me 162 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: even one more, TIME i will Call Adult Protective services 163 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: and Report terry as. 164 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 3: Abandoned, Dang, op he means. 165 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: Business he's laying down a lot because like, Like terry's 166 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: the one that loses out. Here he, does he. Does 167 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: but also like, DAY i feel, bad, dude that's such 168 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: a complicated. Situation, yeah like having it. Diabeled there's not 169 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: many like win winning scenarios have like many in this. 170 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: SITUATION i don't. KNOW i mean what they and and 171 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: the question might be. Affordability but like the obvious solution 172 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: here is is hire someone to help with. 173 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 3: This, yeah But i'm imagining if they're in this, situation 174 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 3: they probably can't. 175 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 2: Hire what do you? 176 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 4: Do what you? 177 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: DO i, mean LIKE i guess the parents like just 178 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: decide not to have a. Life why don't the parents 179 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 1: like they're both going out? Together WHICH i, MEAN i, guess, 180 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: yeah you deserve to go out. Everyone if you, know 181 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: what if they just told ope in, Advance, yeah now 182 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 1: it's a completely different scenariosrobably not going to want to 183 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,719 Speaker 1: agree to, that like. Now but if they had done 184 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 1: that from the, beginning reasoning, though was op. 185 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 3: Was, like, hey LIKE i don't want to take care Of, Terry. 186 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 1: Yeah you know, Period, yeah, yeah what would you? Do 187 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: i'm curious to hear from from. 188 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 3: Everyone i'm also, curious like if anyone has like a 189 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 3: disabled brothers or sister or, sibling how do, you, like 190 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 3: like do your parents not have lives or like how 191 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 3: do they manage? 192 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 4: That? 193 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 3: Yeah because like the kind of like a serious, question 194 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 3: if you don't have money to take care of this, kid, 195 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 3: like what do you? DO i, mean LIKE i think 196 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 3: like you just wouldn't have a, life right unless you 197 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 3: have like an extended family that you can rely. Upon, 198 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 3: LIKE i don't know how you do. It it's a good. 199 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 3: QUESTION i don't know. 200 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: Question ALTHOUGH i used to work at a special ed, 201 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: center and LIKE i just remember a lot of the 202 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: parents like a special ed center for disadvantage like or 203 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: mentally handicapped, kids, right and a lot of these like 204 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: people are. 205 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 3: Just like burnt. Out it's like like like taking care 206 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 3: of a kid that doesn't need all that extra, help 207 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 3: but imagine all that extra, help like and being low, 208 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 3: income like, yeah a lot so. Tough like these parents 209 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 3: are like saints for for moving through. That but, definitely 210 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 3: but then it's like THEY i mean even then they 211 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 3: have they have them in, school, right so like but 212 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 3: then when they grow, up, now what what do you do? 213 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:26,319 Speaker 2: Now? What? Now? 214 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 4: What? 215 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: Yeah but, yeah if if, anyone we would love to 216 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: hear from you all in the, comments, yeah on your 217 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: thoughts and. 218 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 2: Experiences if you, Haven't if. 219 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 3: You're, subscribed we will read it as we will. Read 220 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 3: make sure to subscribe and we'll read your. Comment we're 221 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,079 Speaker 3: actually going to read of. One we're actually going to 222 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 3: read a comment from one of the last episodes of a. 223 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 3: Subscriber that's right at the end of this. Episode stick 224 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 3: with us to the. 225 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 1: END a few days, later my mom again Dropped terry 226 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: off on my porch and took. Off oh, God, god 227 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 1: still respect, Seriously SO i followed through with my word 228 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 1: AND i called to Report terry as an abandoned disabled. 229 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: Adult oh my, goodness, sucks. DUDE i waited with him 230 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: on the porch until a social worker. Came my parents 231 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: exploded on, me calling me a horrible daughter and. Sister 232 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: they said that they were barely able to Get terry 233 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: back and accused me of only caring about myself and 234 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 1: Wanting terry to be neglected in a public. 235 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 3: HOME i get the parents being, mad AND i Get. 236 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 3: OP i Get op. 237 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:35,119 Speaker 2: Not like kind of maybe deserving a Little. 238 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah LIKE op didn't ask for, This. 239 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, no not at. All but also, yeah was, it. 240 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 3: Damn, DUDE i, mean LIKE op did did say multiple? Times? 241 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah oh, DUDE i, know no, win no, wins 242 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 1: no zero wins everywhere. AROUND i snapped at them That 243 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: terry would probably be better off in a public group 244 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: home because they're the ones neglecting him for their own. 245 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: CONVENIENCE i mean that that's some. Facts that's some, facts 246 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: but the group homes actually. GOOD i like it. 247 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 2: THERE i CAN'T i can't imagine. 248 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: Nothing about how THE us government maybe if they're not another, 249 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: country but if they're in THE, us LIKE i can't. 250 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 2: IMAGINE i know. 251 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: My hopes are not, high and That i'm not going 252 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: to keep putting my life on pause for their own 253 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 1: personal comfort. Anymore now, people mostly friends with my, parents 254 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: WHO i barely even know or, remembered are bombarding me 255 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: with messages calling me selfish if you have approached me 256 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 1: in public to tell me THAT i don't give a 257 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 1: shit about my brother And i'm ungrateful for all the 258 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: sacrifices my parents made for me And. Terry, Oh i've 259 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: already changed my phone. Number but it's getting that. Bad 260 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: but it's getting so bad That i'm considering applying for 261 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 1: a job transfer and. 262 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 3: Moving oh my, god. 263 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: This is just completely blowing, up like dude, again like 264 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: it's a low. Situation everywhere sucks so much because like 265 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 1: the parents are probably just saying exactly what, happened minus 266 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: like maybe, saying, hey he said he couldn't watch, him 267 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: but it's, like, yeah we dropped him off at what 268 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 1: we Dropped harry off and then OH p called The 269 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: Adult Protective Services like that sounds? Terrible, yeah, yeah it's 270 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: not a good, look it's not, dude this is this like, uh, 271 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: LIKE i feel LIKE i love the ones where are 272 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: it's it's easy on some of these where it's, Like, 273 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: okay this person's obviously the a. Hole, yeah this is 274 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: this is. Tough this one's a little this one's pretty. 275 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: Split so AM i THE a? Hole and are there 276 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: words towards me? 277 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 2: Deserved? 278 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:45,959 Speaker 1: Now we do have an update, here but us take 279 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: a little. Break, everyone everyone in the comment, Section, samuel 280 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: what do we? 281 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 2: Think what do we make of? 282 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: THIS i, mean we've been saying the whole, time like 283 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: this is this? Is this is a really not clear cut. 284 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: Situation it's a lot of Great the parents are the 285 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: a holes for like for, Sure, yeah for dropping Off terry, 286 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: unannounced especially at the cost Of op's. Job Like, op 287 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: he needs the work and that's not fair To ope. 288 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 2: To do. 289 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: That SO i feel like SHE i feel like like 290 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: the parents are the a hole for. That but it's 291 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: also just such a such a hard situation because when 292 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: you have a kid that needs extra, help you go 293 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: to family for that extra. Help and obviously you can't 294 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: just lean completely on that, family but it LIKE i 295 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: understand they need space and time like they like they're 296 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: probably caring For terry all the, time and it's like 297 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: for our healthy, relationship like you need a date night 298 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: exactly because you can you can even, say, oh, well 299 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: like what about one of them watching while the other 300 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: one goes. 301 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 2: Out, well it's like what. 302 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: About the two of about the relationship spending spending time? Together, 303 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 1: Yeah AND i also understand it For op because for 304 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: like From ope's, perspective it's, like, oh like they're just 305 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 1: going to the movies and Dropping terry, off like are 306 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: you kidding? Me, yeah for their work, day like like 307 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: like just for their. Comfort but like you, know the 308 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: comfort is is part of. It SO i, think, ultimately, 309 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: Yes i'm gonna side With op the parents of the a. 310 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: Whole op didn't ask for, this BUT I i understand 311 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: the flack that she's. Getting, yeah for people who don't 312 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: understand how complicated the situation. Is, Yeah and my one, 313 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: QUESTION i, guess and this is maybe a better question 314 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: for well is very much is a better question for 315 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: people who have family or like it's a similar situation 316 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: like this is, like is there ANOTHER i do think 317 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: THAT op did need to kind of like lay down the, 318 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: law but is there a better option that doesn't make 319 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: like tarry the victim as much in the? Situation, yeah 320 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: you know WHAT i, Mean, Like, okay like this is 321 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: being super proactive and maybe more effort THEN op he. 322 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 1: Wants but there's all these people Calling opian. Asshole, right, 323 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: yeah you're terrible for not taking care of your. 324 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 3: Brother Oh i'm. 325 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: Terrible, okay let's let's actually you, know you, KNOW i 326 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: Realize i've been so. Terrible maybe you could fucking help, 327 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: there you, know all these people casting that first, stone you, 328 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 1: know let's actually like maybe it's an opportunity to see 329 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: who cares enough to call me an, asshole and then 330 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 1: let's just fucking loop them in and see if they 331 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: can help care and not like even as, revenge but 332 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: as like, okay like these people obviously. 333 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 3: Care enough to to to like make my. 334 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 1: Life, hell let's have them be involved, Literally and, yeah 335 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 1: it's it's such a brilliant idea because, oh and most 336 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: of these people are the friends of the. Parents, yeah 337 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: so it's, like, hey if you're really truly a friend 338 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: of my. Parents WE i, think, like, also this goes 339 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: to this idea THAT i have of like like or 340 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: it's not an, idea it's an idea of like trauma, dumping, 341 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 1: Right like everyone has trauma and. 342 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 3: Needs to talk about, it. Right but if you're dumping 343 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 3: all of that responsibility and all that heaviness on one, 344 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 3: person whether it be one a partner or a, friend 345 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 3: that's going to be too much for the. Person, Yeah 346 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 3: and SO i think often you need a network of 347 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 3: friends that's either like, friends family relationship that you spread 348 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 3: your drama around a little, bit so you're not just 349 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 3: dumping all of this on one. Person and in the same, 350 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 3: way it seems like these parents have just been dumping 351 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 3: so much on this one kid and haven't really gone 352 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 3: through their network of people who care about, Them, yeah 353 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:38,439 Speaker 3: to see if like there can be support from a 354 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:42,239 Speaker 3: larger group of. People AND i think that's just essentially like, 355 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 3: like don't drump dump all of the shit on one. 356 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 3: Person distribute the. 357 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 1: Shit it's definitely, work but there are other, Solutions i'm. 358 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 2: Sure so let's close it out with the. Updates hello. 359 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 1: EVERYONE i am not sure if anyone is still reading this, 360 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: post BUT i wanted to give a brief update in 361 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: case anyone is still. INTERESTED i did apply for the 362 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: job transfer and was. APPROVED i will be completely moved 363 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: to a new city in a few. Weeks i've only 364 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 1: told a few close friends so they could help me move. 365 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: DISCREETLY i have not told my parents That i'm moving 366 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: or my new, address and my friends know to either 367 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 1: not tell them or. 368 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 2: Give them an imaginary. Address. WOW i wanted to thank everyone. 369 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: For your kind words and. Support smiley. Face so, op 370 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 1: he's just. Leaving, op he's. Leaving totally, Fair totally. Fair, 371 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 1: yeah but, uh we want to know what you, think 372 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 1: and we want to know so much that we want 373 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,239 Speaker 1: to start a new segment where we comments from our 374 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: subscribers from past, videos so make sure to. Subscribe we 375 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 1: have a comment on a video from last. Week my 376 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 1: husband accused me of baby trapping him and it comes 377 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 1: from misdirect a great, Handle great, handle and she, SAYS 378 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 1: i know, RIGHT i, mean bottom, line he abandoned her 379 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 1: with their unborn baby because he felt. Insecure he showed 380 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: he didn't trust or respect, her didn't even talk to 381 00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 1: her about his, issues and then try to blame her 382 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 1: for his. Problems this is not sobody you want as a, 383 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: partner as they are a selfish coward who doesn't view 384 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 1: a relationship as a. Team opie should be furious and 385 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 1: divorce is a completely. 386 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 3: Reasonable course of. Action thank you for being. 387 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 1: Said direct divorceseboard chit Horse chance in the. 388 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 3: Comments we love reading your. 389 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: Comments please put it in and if you want us 390 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: to read one of those, comments consider. Subscribing do it 391 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 1: baby principle punishes my daughter for kao ing a seven 392 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: year Old, Fine i'll get you. 393 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 3: Fired hey, dude this is better than The Andrew Tate 394 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 3: Jake paul Or Logan paul. FIGHT i want to See 395 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 3: Andrew tate fight someone and including this. Toddler actually they 396 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 3: were talking about that ON h THREE h three. Podcast 397 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 3: yeah is it. HAPPENING i don't think it's. Happening but 398 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 3: they were talking to his co Host mike whatever his name, is, like, 399 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 3: heyah could you make this happen because it's like you're 400 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 3: the co host of his, show like tell, him tell 401 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 3: him to do. THIS i can't Accept Andrew tate. 402 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 2: Show or it. 403 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: Was on THE h three Podcast Logan paul's co host 404 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: was a guest and they were, like, yo tell your 405 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: boy to get the fight set, up and it's like 406 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 1: it just makes so much. Sense, yeah that would be, 407 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 1: huge that would be huge. Huge, okay but tell us 408 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 1: about this kl a seven year? 409 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 2: Old so did you? 410 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 1: Do? So this is my second, story little. BACKGROUND i 411 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: am A iraqi war, vette AND i believe in teaching 412 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 1: the women and girls of my life to defend themselves with. 413 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 1: Impunity i'm Now i'm imagine that girl On, TikTok the 414 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 1: little seven year old where everyone just like clowns on. 415 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: Her she's like a seven year old that teaches self 416 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 1: defense and then someone just like they stitch it after 417 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: she teaches, something and they're, like, so at a very 418 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: young age of four years, Old i've been teaching my 419 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: child to defend. 420 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 3: Yourself, wow, dude this is the crowdy kid over, here that's. 421 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 1: Right So i'm at work one day AND i get 422 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 1: this call from my daughter's. SCHOOL i go outside of 423 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: answer the, phone and the convo goes like this cast 424 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: is me the terminator and is. Principal Hello, TERMINATA i 425 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 1: need you to come back and pick up Baby terminata. 426 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 2: Me CAN i ask what this is? About? 427 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: Exactly HOW i imagine a rocky war. Vet it sounds like, 428 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: yes your child has been in A, yes your child 429 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 1: has been in a little scuffle and needs to leave the, 430 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 1: school premises, Me what do. 431 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 2: You mean she's been in a? Fight what? HAPPENED i mean. 432 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: That is like she's been in a. Fight let me 433 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: give her a. Medal, yes let's see the other. KID i, 434 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 1: mean she wouldn't just pick up a fight out of. Nowhere, 435 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 1: well from what we can, see entitled. Child from what 436 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 1: we can, see entitled kid was running up behind her 437 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 1: and grabbing her. Bootox she apparently warned him to, stop 438 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 1: and when he, wouldn't she knocked him out. 439 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 2: Cold what she knocked him? Out she literally knocked him, 440 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 2: Out holy. 441 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 1: Crap but also LIKE i feel like that it. Bruh 442 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 1: it's like she asked him to. Stop if it was 443 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 1: so like they're like seven or. Whatever if it was 444 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 1: one time and the kid just like ah, boo and 445 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 1: then she's, like, boh that's a, bit that's a bit. 446 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,199 Speaker 1: Much but if he does it and then she's, like, 447 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 1: hey stop, that don't do that, again and then he 448 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 1: does it again and again and multiple. Times, Bruh, okay 449 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: you got what's coming for? You you got you got 450 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: what's coming for. 451 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 4: You. 452 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:40,920 Speaker 1: Thunderdome uh So i'm. 453 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 2: Confused what is happening to the? 454 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:49,360 Speaker 1: Boy, then, well your daughter seems to be the aggressor 455 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 1: and we need to and we need her to, leave 456 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:53,199 Speaker 1: and she is going to be. 457 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 2: Suspended. 458 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: Now my child at the time lived with my ex, 459 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: wife AND i had heard from the AND i had 460 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: heard from my ex that my kid was having an 461 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: issue with this boy for a while, now AND i 462 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:15,239 Speaker 1: knew my daughter had gone, through had, gone AND i 463 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: know that my daughter had gone to tell on him multiple, 464 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: times and no one had come to help resolve the. 465 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 1: Issue so she had to put matters into her own. 466 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 1: Hands kid, vigilante have you ever tasted in ak forty? 467 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 1: Seven have you ever felt the barrel of a gun 468 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 1: against your? Face it's over, NOW i, HOPE i hope 469 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 1: your seven years were. Good the daughter's voice is the 470 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 1: same as the. 471 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 2: Dads, yeah your life is. 472 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: DONE i also knew that he had been told many 473 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:02,359 Speaker 1: times by other teachers to, stop and he hadn't me, 474 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 1: wait so, Nothing so nothing is happening to the boy 475 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 1: who is essaying my daughter for all of this? Time 476 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:16,479 Speaker 1: essay essay is sexually. Assault that's like the TikTok for it, 477 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 1: well mister. Terminator she did strike him once and knocked him. 478 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: Out she needs to learn violence is not the. Answer 479 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: she needed to bring it up to the attention of a. 480 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: Teacher she, did, though she literally, did and she gave 481 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: this kid. Warning you, know and when the system won't fight. 482 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 2: For, you have to fight the. System. 483 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 1: Okay so What i'm hearing is your school is saying 484 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 1: that it's okay to essay a young, woman and that 485 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 1: the girl in question needs to be the victim of 486 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: essaying over and over and over again or be. 487 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 2: Punished is that the gist of? 488 00:24:55,520 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 1: It, damn my guy is laying it boyering this shit. 489 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: NOW i just hear silence as the principal moles over 490 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: WHAT i have just. SAID i can tell they're trying 491 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: to justify this weak T. BS i compose. Myself so 492 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 1: here's what's gonna happen. Next he literally said it go. 493 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 1: Down that is an exact. 494 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 2: Quote oh my. 495 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: God you can either punish both or punish none of, 496 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: them BECAUSE i promise the last thing you want. 497 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 2: For me is my. Dress as. 498 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 1: The last thing you want is me and my uniform 499 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 1: AND tv reporters showing up blasting your whole school over 500 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:50,640 Speaker 1: this damn bro man's bringing. It he's bringing, it. Dude he's, like, 501 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 1: LIKE i, ALSO i love like the. INTENTION i feel 502 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 1: like he's like the batman of this pre. K. 503 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 2: Yes he's not the man the pre k. 504 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:02,439 Speaker 1: Deserves he's the man the pre k, Meads, NOW i 505 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: can understand that her punching this brat is, unacceptable BUT 506 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 1: i will not, take and he. Will BUT i nor 507 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 1: my daughter will. Take is him not being punished as? 508 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 1: Well DO i make myself? 509 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 4: Clear? 510 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 3: Wow, dude he's even doing the like DO i make myself? 511 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:25,359 Speaker 2: Clear? 512 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 4: Line? 513 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: Man that is like like he feel like he's playing 514 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,880 Speaker 1: this out as a. Movie he's he, yes he's literally 515 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 1: like making like a hostage negotiation right now with this, principle. 516 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 3: Then spend too much time with The taliban. Principle, silence, 517 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:46,360 Speaker 3: dude principles probably like pissage literally. Himself it's just, like, Oh. 518 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 2: I'm sorry with determinator termidate me. 519 00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 1: Uh. Me, also why are you calling me and not 520 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: her mother? Principle, well, uh mister, termineta she told us 521 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:16,640 Speaker 1: to call. You, ah, dude the wife is, like all. 522 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 2: Right you listen to, me and you. 523 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:21,919 Speaker 1: Listen goods in a movie literally is it a. MOVIE 524 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:26,400 Speaker 1: i swear to you And, GOD i will not put. 525 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 2: Up i'm bringing in the big man upstairs on this. 526 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 1: ONE i demand a meeting with, you her, teacher and 527 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,879 Speaker 1: this boy's. Family IF i can't make, it my ex wife. 528 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: Will if this isn't resolved to my, LIKING i will 529 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: bring a holy hell upon this whole stick house you've. 530 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:55,440 Speaker 1: Built do you understand, Me my, god holy hell Stick 531 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:59,159 Speaker 1: i'm Gonna i'm gonna puff and puff and blow this 532 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 1: stickhouse down with my with my with my with the, 533 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 1: assistant with the help of my, assistance with the help 534 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 1: of my other, assistance terror and. 535 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 4: Fury welcome to the gun, show and you're on my, 536 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 4: Kill Lisst, Principal, yes, SIR i feel LIKE i would be. 537 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 2: Scared, Man i'll be shipping my. 538 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 1: Pants it's like a military killers's going like Vigilante harry. School, 539 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 1: also like this preschool principle is probably like a very 540 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 1: chill person. 541 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 2: Generally this is a preschool. 542 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:48,040 Speaker 1: Principal, yeah and like we're going preschool princip are going. 543 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: Up preschool principal going up against literally like a death. 544 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 3: Machine they're not going to. Win they're not gonna. 545 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 4: Win. 546 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: Me good call my. EX i let her know the 547 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: time and. Date we will coordinate from. There he literally 548 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: speaks in such. Dude he speaks in. Movie he speaks 549 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,240 Speaker 1: fluent action. MOVIE i hang up and call my. Ex 550 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 1: she agrees with, me AND i go bout to work 551 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 1: AND i go back to work about a week. 552 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 3: Later wonder if the ex is, Grateful, like is she, 553 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 3: like is she like happy this is? 554 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 2: HAPPENING i THINK i think she's, like we go. 555 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 1: Again the, Germinator oh, god, wow went up another principal's. 556 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 1: Office i'm imagine it like he goes to. McDonald's the 557 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 1: order gets, wrong and he's, like you got my order. 558 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 2: Wrong you have two. 559 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 1: Options either you change it to a double, double to 560 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 1: a double mccheeseburger with extra, fries Or i'm gonna blow 561 00:29:53,680 --> 00:30:00,320 Speaker 1: up this operation. Sky you see this, timer it's pound 562 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: down from. Sixty you have exactly fifty seven seconds to 563 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 1: make my double, mccheese or the whole place is gonna fucking. 564 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 1: Blow you won't like me When i'm angry or, hungry 565 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 1: and when i'm, Hungry i'm, angry so you basically just 566 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 1: won't like me When i'm. Angry and that's Why i'm 567 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: just like seeing his wife like. 568 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 3: The terminator and alliby. 569 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 1: Alone so about a week, later there's a, meeting but 570 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: UNFORTUNATELY i have work and my ex has to go 571 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 1: in for. Me from WHAT i am, told this boy's 572 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:41,800 Speaker 1: family tries to play it. 573 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 2: Off oh you know blas me, boys? 574 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 3: Bro why said always the freaking line. 575 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 2: He's just browing out my, dude. 576 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 1: Like literally slapping cheeks without. Consent Good, god you can't 577 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: just also like you shouldn't let that fly as a. 578 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 1: Parrot like it's like, No like it's, like, okay, dude 579 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 1: somebody like that kid needs to be. Reprimanding shes doing 580 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: that like sirius. REPERCUSSION i would. 581 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 2: Have been, like why didn't the teacher stop him? Before 582 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 2: you know WHAT i? 583 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: Mean uh? Oh and then the family turns it on 584 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: them and tries to get them, expelled get the daughter, expelled. 585 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 2: Insane. 586 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 3: RIDICULOUS i, mean they like she did ko their. 587 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 1: Son this is, True BUT i THINK i think what 588 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 1: op saying is totally. 589 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 2: Fair punish both of them because they. 590 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: Can't they can't just be, like all, right Little, susie 591 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 1: here's your reward for knocking out Little bobby last. Year 592 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: like they can't quite do that because then they'll just their. 593 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: Kids they'll just start slapping each, other but punish both of. Them. Uh, 594 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 1: now there are times WHEN i remember WHY i married my, 595 00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 1: ex and this is one of. Them she proceeds to 596 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 1: tell them that the last thing any of them want 597 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: is for me to get any more involved. 598 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 2: THAN i already. Am the. 599 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 1: Terminator you don't want him coming back For terminator two judgment, 600 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: day and that IF i have, TO i will bring 601 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: it all burning. 602 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 4: Down. 603 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: BRO i love how the wife is, Like, yo this 604 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 1: guy's fucking. Crazy he will bring your. 605 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 3: School to a. Halt he. 606 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 2: Will it will be in. Flames even, better every brick. 607 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: Dismantled outcome was both of them were suspended for four 608 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 1: days and the boy moved to a different. Class that's, good, 609 00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 1: yo he's. Scared AND i never got a call like that. 610 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 2: Ever. Again terminator strikes. Again moral of the. 611 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: Story my kid was a badass and got a cake 612 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 1: for sticking up for herself AND i and lots of 613 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 1: love from both me and my. 614 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 3: Ex and now SHE'S k AND o SHE'S k and 615 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 3: now she's the entire. 616 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 2: School but now she's become a vigilante in the. 617 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 1: Night super seven year old punching burglars in the fucking. 618 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 3: Face, dude what a what a. Legend, wow