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Speaker 2: It's a really amazing segment.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, at least that's the hope that we're going

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Speaker 1: But this may be the first time in the show's

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Speaker 3: After we read the first two.

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Speaker 1: It was that shocking and surprising and embarrassing. All those emotions,

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Speaker 1: gonna hear why when we do a closure call right

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Speaker 1: after this, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and

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Speaker 1: sometimes in order to move forward in life, yeah, first

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Speaker 2: That's true, Jeff kind of.

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Speaker 1: Like a moonwalk in a way, looking back but moving forward.

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Speaker 2: In a really cool Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's kind of the idea.

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Speaker 1: This segment called closure calls, where, if you haven't heard

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Speaker 2: Some of these get really deep too. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And recently one of our listeners asked for our

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Speaker 3: Her name is Jody.

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Speaker 2: Keep wanting me to do this?

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Speaker 1: Heye, Jody wants to go full Michael Jackson today.

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Speaker 3: So, Jody, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Jody, We're also interested in what brought you here?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's going on in your life that made you

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's so strange. So, my husband and I used

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Speaker 4: Yes, it was everything. And our next door neighbors, the Coopers,

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Speaker 4: the other's passily, went on vacation, everything broke.

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Speaker 3: How jealous are you of those neighbors.

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Speaker 2: No, I love my neighbors. I have the best neighbors.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, you literally like have disputes with them all the time,

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Speaker 2: You're talking about the guy with the abandoned cars right

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Speaker 2: I love that guy too. He's got two kids that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but here's where the twist comes, and it's unfortunate.

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Speaker 4: We basically our house burnt down. Oh my gosh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Wait was it the Coopers that did it? No?

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Speaker 1: No, no, so now we're asking them why.

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Speaker 4: No, they were like, they were really supportive. Actually they

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was awful. But we found a house like

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Speaker 2: Wait did their house burn down to ryh? No, that's weird.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, who's setting all the fires?

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Speaker 4: We did not know. We went over this so many times,

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's so strange, and it's been over four years.

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Speaker 4: And the thing is is that I still think about it,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Well, and like even for me, like

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Speaker 1: But is there any like drama between your families in

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Speaker 3: Fight or maybe an affair that you had with someone.

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Speaker 5: In that house casually drop that one something like that.

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Speaker 3: No? Absolutely no, okay, at least not that you're gonna

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you think your kid may have done something? Like?

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Speaker 5: Kid'll be like, well, my mom said this, and it's

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Speaker 4: They said, I mean, sure, that's the possibility. It's one

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Speaker 2: And everyone's like no, Yeah, why do the Coopers hate you?

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Speaker 5: I would say, maybe they and this is going to

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Speaker 5: because they moved out of the neighborhood. But then I go,

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Speaker 2: See I was staying in the opposite where Maybe they're jealous.

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Speaker 2: Maybe your new situation is that they they always wanted.

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Speaker 5: Probably not about status. I mean they just moved.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Brook won't talk to us because of

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Speaker 1: Sometimes we're not allowed over on her fancy island. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: It's been over four years.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm I'm curious more than anything.

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Speaker 2: It seems like this could be something resolved. I mean

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Speaker 5: I agree with Brooke. I do think if it was

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just get rid of that kid and then everything happen.

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Speaker 3: So we're going to do it.

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Speaker 1: We'll read the answers from your neighbors that ghosted your

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Speaker 1: because I don't know if we've ever done anything quite

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Speaker 2: To move away, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Forty five minutes from where they originally lived. Shortly after,

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Speaker 2: It's not like you've moved even to a different state.

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Speaker 5: I'd say, when my parents only live forty five minutes away.

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Speaker 5: I never saw that, Yeah, because they were away.

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Speaker 1: But it's been very confusing for Jody because she doesn't

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Speaker 3: Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: For this joke, and.

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Speaker 1: We're going to get those in just a second. Brook

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Speaker 1: Do you have any final thoughts.

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's just interesting. You know, you said

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Speaker 2: So I mean, I could see them turning their back

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Speaker 2: It sounds like, right, yeah, they were great. So strange.

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Speaker 1: Well, if your new house burns down, you can always

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Speaker 2: Oh sure, my husband works down there, so just don't mind, Tim,

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Speaker 2: We'll always have a backup.

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Speaker 3: All right, so let's get to the first question.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we wrote It's been almost five years since we

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Speaker 1: but you never responded. Our friendship was so important to me.

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Speaker 1: It makes me so sad that we don't speak anymore.

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Speaker 1: Do you even still live at the same house?

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Speaker 2: Wait, don't we know that because you did the secret

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Speaker 4: I mean that was three years ago though, so I

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Speaker 4: mean she could have moved.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: So the Coopers responded and they said, Hi, Jody, nice

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Speaker 1: Kids are getting bigger, hope you were well.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, Shade, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 5: Know, feel good.

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Speaker 2: It did feel like when you get the text k

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Speaker 5: I'm anowledged, but I'm not really How do you feel?

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Speaker 3: How do you feel about that answer?

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Speaker 2: Exactly?

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Speaker 3: Trying to blow you off.

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Speaker 2: I like how you were saying you were so sad

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Speaker 2: Because it they did respond to the rest of the questions.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and this isn't an auto reply. They're all different.

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Speaker 5: Just like she said, I am out of the office, right,

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Speaker 2: Know who's actually writing us? Is it the other mother

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: more clarification. We said, after being so close for so long,

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Speaker 1: it's always been confusing to me why you stopped responding

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure if something happened or what changed. Is

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Speaker 5: This is only the second question. That's like the question

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Speaker 4: I'm so interested to see how they're gonna respond.

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Speaker 3: You know, this is the crux of what we're trying

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Speaker 2: And you and our producer wrote that question really well.

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Speaker 2: I'm serious because he helps her with all of this.

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Speaker 2: I think it's really well written. Yeah, I mean the

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Speaker 5: Producers a funny guy, so I thought you were making

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Speaker 1: No, so let's get to the answer that they wrote

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Speaker 1: back for the reason that they cut you out. They wrote, well,

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Speaker 1: it's pretty simple, Jodie. Oh, we donated two thousand dollars

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Speaker 1: to your family's go fundme with the expectation it would

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Speaker 1: Apparently one of the neighbors said, you got a breast

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Speaker 5: That looks so bad.

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Speaker 4: Oh whoa, Oh, okay, look, this is what I can

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Speaker 4: It gave me confidence.

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Speaker 2: You use the GoFundMe money to do a breast and

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Speaker 3: I mean we did.

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Speaker 4: I don't. I don't really want to like get into this.

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Speaker 2: Really like but that's the whole it's the whole reason

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Speaker 2: we gonna ignore that? Yeah, well you got to show

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Speaker 2: off your new boots so much. It's cold out.

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Speaker 1: The coopers are accusing you of taking the money that

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Speaker 1: they gave you to like rebuild your new life in

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Speaker 2: Well not just them my bed. I mean, if it's

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Speaker 4: We used a majority of the gofund me to get

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, what did you use the insurance money to

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Speaker 4: That went into it? It was very expensive getting a

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Speaker 4: new I mean we literally lost every single thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's like we did deserve a trip to Like my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if it makes you smile, it makes you happy,

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Speaker 1: I guess it's worth buildings.

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Speaker 2: Stuff ask after this because we had no idea.

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Speaker 4: You know, I honestly don't think we need to. I think,

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Speaker 5: The same Jeff. I was like, I don't know if

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Speaker 1: Sorry, but this is how it works. We go through

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Speaker 1: Let's finish the segment. For everybody listening that tuned in,

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Speaker 1: it says question three. I'm not sure if you heard,

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Speaker 1: but i left my nine to five job and I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping you'd consider contributing to it as money.

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Speaker 2: Question are you joking?

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Speaker 4: I just jody, yeah, but that is my job now.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't know that she was going to say

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Speaker 4: what she just said, girl, Well you used fun raise. No,

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Speaker 4: I was just trying to give him an update on

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean working with charity is a really good

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Speaker 3: If it actually does go to the charity.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's sending teachers to the book.

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Speaker 5: Getting the surgery.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's hear what the Coopers wrote back to that

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Speaker 1: ask for money for your charity. They said, as stated before,

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Speaker 1: I hope you're well, Yeah, but no, we will not

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Speaker 5: Now we see why the first I hope you're well

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Speaker 3: And now I understand what you didn't want us to

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Speaker 2: They put charity in quotes.

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Speaker 1: Are yet We're almost done. We have to do the

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Speaker 1: fourth and final question that you sent to them. We

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Speaker 1: do have to, we wrote, it's been way too long

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Speaker 1: and we miss you guys so much. We'd love to

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Speaker 2: After we know what we know?

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Speaker 1: We said, do you think you'd be up for it?

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Speaker 1: And the Coopers wrote back, as.

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Speaker 3: Stated multiple times before, I hope you are well this yeah.

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Speaker 5: Being left on red.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, thank you.

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Speaker 2: That's it, Jody, Joe.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like you got some closure from that?

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Speaker 1: You did?

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Speaker 4: I want to hang up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I just I wouldn't try to hit up the Coopers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just make some new friends. Probably maybe no

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure they'd like to see a Christmas card of

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Speaker 1: you and like what all that money went towards, So

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Speaker 1: maybe that would be kind of nice.

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Speaker 2: That's not funny, jaf.

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Speaker 3: But okay, anyway, I think that's funny. Anyway, Hopefully that

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Speaker 3: helped you out, Jody. That's your closure.

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Speaker 1: Calls Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning