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Speaker 2: I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: I just need it. I just sam my way.

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Speaker 2: I just needs on.

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Speaker 1: I just needs on the stud of fucking waddies. I

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Speaker 2: I just need what's up, y'all? We're back and mom's

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Speaker 2: bad choices. It's your girl Erica and your girl Mila.

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Speaker 3: And uh, sorry that we didn't post yesterday, but I

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Speaker 3: have computer issues. The computer finally broke the fuck down,

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Speaker 3: so got to get that and had to get that

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Speaker 3: fixed and we're back in action five hundred and actually

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Speaker 3: it was six hundred dollars later.

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Speaker 4: How much is an actual less tax I told the

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Speaker 4: ergo and she told me that, I'm Michael. We should

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Speaker 4: definitely were in the wrong field.

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Speaker 3: We should have been preparing laptops because it took me

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Speaker 3: all day. He makes six hundred dollars. He fixed my

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Speaker 3: I'm saying. It takes me five hours to make five

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Speaker 2: That guy mean more. Actually I don't know. Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 2: how was your weekend. How was your Thanksgiving? It was

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Speaker 2: really good. I Oh my god, did I tell you?

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Speaker 4: So we recorded last week went to friend friendsgiving and

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Speaker 2: My grandma lives in Philly. And literally I went home

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Speaker 4: I had not packed one such a clothing and I

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Speaker 4: And cousin Chris was like, You're not going to make

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Speaker 4: my uber turned not around. There was like eighteen minutes

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Speaker 4: the chiefs flight with Spirit, which I absolutely hate.

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Speaker 2: Spirit airline in em made to make in the universe.

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Speaker 2: It's soul plain.

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Speaker 3: I always every time I take it, I'm never flying

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Speaker 4: It's literally like you know what they are like foldable

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Speaker 3: They put they put like a cushion around a fulld out.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know how it's legal.

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Speaker 3: I got to the thing and even I went straight

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Speaker 3: to customer service, like my flight is that.

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Speaker 4: She's like, you're fifteen minutes Like, I was like, so

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Speaker 2: I was like, please, please, just try please.

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Speaker 3: Because the first it's the most helpful I've ever been

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Speaker 3: they're bitches. I'm like, please, just let me take my chance. Please,

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Speaker 4: So she's like she's like walking talking down to somebody

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Speaker 4: like we have one late passenger. Can you take her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. She was like hoping he would say it. She

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Speaker 4: I gave my I gave my credit card so quick, bitch.

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Speaker 4: I never ran so fucking fast. First of all, Eli

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Speaker 3: Though all the black people are on Spirit. And then

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Speaker 4: I left my fucking jacket. Bitch is twenty seven degrees

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Speaker 3: I woke up on Thanksgiving Day with Happy Day, and

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Speaker 4: oh my god, like you get old. And she was exhausted,

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Speaker 3: She's not going to be able to I mean, she

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Speaker 2: That was it? What you guys?

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Speaker 3: We cooked cream of corn, We cooked this cream spinach

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Speaker 3: that she has with these like onions, these crispy onions,

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Speaker 2: That was it? What's those three things?

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Speaker 3: So we did that and then we the lady cooked

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Speaker 3: everything else. Was she there or she pre cooked? She

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Speaker 2: Three years, the same chef, the same the first year.

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Speaker 3: Was another guy, and now the past years has been

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Speaker 2: I mean, these are life goals, Like my mom has

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Speaker 3: Okay, but that's like that she's yeah, so you know

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Speaker 3: it was the food was really good.

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Speaker 3: It's something that she can't cook. She just doesn't enjoy it.

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Speaker 3: She's like me, I don't really enjoy cooking. I'll do it,

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Speaker 3: but I don't really enjoy it. But the turkey was good.

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Speaker 3: We had three different types of turkeys. She made three turkey.

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Speaker 3: We had smoke turkey. Oh, two different types. We had

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Speaker 2: And then we had mac and cheese. I know, we

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Speaker 3: We didn't have maca Jess, you're lying, that's that's a Caucasian.

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Speaker 2: What the fuck? I mean even even Caucasians have mac

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Speaker 2: and cheese. It might it might not be bad.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's probably better because I had a lot

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Speaker 2: It was good.

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Speaker 3: We made the bulk of the Thanksgiving food though, I

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Speaker 3: mean that was that was that That was real deal. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that was Ashley's friend. I think she bought it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was so high. It was so high.

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Speaker 4: That's why I fucking around My home went like I

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Speaker 2: But overall it was cool.

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Speaker 3: Definitely, you know, this Thanksgiving, I definitely did exactly what I.

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Speaker 3: I took multiple moments of silence and like really reflected.

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Speaker 3: I even went outside and smoked a joint because I

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Speaker 3: I did eat meat flexitarian style over here, and my

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Speaker 3: My great, my great cousin. She's like, she's so cool.

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Speaker 3: She's like probably like in she's like in her late fifties.

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Speaker 3: She like used to manage a bunch of artists back

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Speaker 6: It was fun.

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Speaker 3: I smoked with my grandma too. I saw that my

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Speaker 3: on the graund I was like, she was like, what

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Speaker 3: is ever the other ann like you don't have any friends?

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Speaker 3: And I also saw you using airbrush machine to do

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Speaker 3: her make it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, first of all, if you guys have grandmothers

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Speaker 4: or there's any old people randomly playing attention, what the

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Speaker 4: fuck is up with the home Shopping Network?

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Speaker 2: I know you've worked on there, and shit like, is

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Speaker 2: that what she got it? Yes?

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Speaker 3: I love it. But the crazy bitch. When I was

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Speaker 3: leaving four boxes about to tim door, I'm like, what

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Speaker 3: the fuck are you doing? You could send me some money.

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Speaker 3: She's like, it's just slippers. I was like, bitch, there

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Speaker 3: are four boxes, and last time I was there, she

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Speaker 3: had a bunch of shit. She's addicted. Yeah, and then

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Speaker 3: she she doesn't wear makeup. My grandmother is seventy six

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Speaker 3: years old. I'm like, why do you have an air

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Speaker 4: And she insisted that I use it to do her

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Speaker 2: What's it?

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Speaker 2: Oh I've heard of that. Wait, wait on both what

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Speaker 2: And it's for us too. It's a dating site. Your

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Speaker 4: Yeah, She's like, I need companion. Shit, shit, She's like,

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Speaker 4: I thought I told the story. No, Score, I knew this.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, she pulls out She's gonna fucking kill

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Speaker 3: me if she ear mother. She pulls out this crown

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Speaker 4: She thinks it's a curse that men stop working and

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Speaker 2: I think that she's my spirit animal. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Literally, this is exactly who I am. And then she's

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Speaker 3: There are no CDs. It's not my dad, it's that

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Speaker 3: She maybe young, baby, like, bring in forty tons of

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Speaker 2: He was like, put to work. I thought it was great.

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Speaker 3: Okay, good, No, keep it on, baby, Okay, take it

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Speaker 3: Big things not hurt perfect. I tried to explain to.

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Speaker 3: And what else did you do in Jersey? A?

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Speaker 4: It was how of cold, it was rainy. I just

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Speaker 3: I don't know how all these die hard football player

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Speaker 2: I was with my best friend. My best friend is

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Speaker 3: I don't hate because I got lots of best friends

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Speaker 3: now because I can't like they're all best.

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Speaker 3: I'm a very lucky woman. I'm very likable. It's my

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Speaker 3: He's like, can you bring Dallas from Philly to New York?

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Speaker 3: Did you call a village?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we brought We brought him to New York, two trains. Pipeeded.

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Speaker 2: I forgot about this diaper. Shit, I think you did

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Speaker 2: you have extra diccor? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: She had a bag, but I'm like, still, I forgot

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Speaker 3: first of all penises. Yeah, I don't know how to

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Speaker 2: But it was good. We had a good time. I

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Speaker 4: I had a good weekend. It's nice to be on

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Speaker 3: I know, which seems like, wow, how many years a

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: Because I don't even well, I don't have a man anymore.

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Speaker 3: She went from uh, we had a great weekend to

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Speaker 2: An hour ago. It's not funny. Life is changing. Life

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Speaker 3: Life is happening mostly because I have baby daddy issues

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Speaker 2: Like, I know it's not fair to like complain and

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like it's fair for my friends to

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Speaker 2: But they're my friends. They don't fucking have a choice.

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Speaker 3: But for him, I think it was just a bit

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Speaker 4: The baby daddy. He comes with the baby, right. But overall,

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Speaker 4: I just have a lot going on. Me and Erica

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Speaker 2: Be rich first. I mean, it's a lot.

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Speaker 3: I mean I was talking to I was telling Jamila

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Speaker 2: As a mom. Yeah, seriously dating someone.

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Speaker 3: I'm still like navigating dating life and yeah, I am

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Speaker 2: And fuck, there's no fucking rule book to this shit.

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Speaker 2: You know, like you try.

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Speaker 3: Shit and you're like, eh, that's this isn't working for me,

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Speaker 3: And you do, like you do have a lot going on,

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Speaker 3: and aside from like what we're doing, like you're going

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Speaker 2: Understands and supportive, and sometimes it's not even their fault.

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Speaker 2: It's like going on, it's like you just don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's just better to just deal with this ship on

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Speaker 2: And I realized lateral damage.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I realized, like I wanted to be, like

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Speaker 4: And to vent and to have support, but then it's

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Speaker 4: like I can't rely on anyone to I mean, to

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Speaker 4: gonna always want to hear that advice because you don't

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Speaker 4: have any kids. You don't really know what I'm going through,

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Speaker 4: and like you know, not firsthand at least so.

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Speaker 2: And it's long distance, and it's his first time dating

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Speaker 4: He has stated to other people with kids, but I

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Speaker 2: And I think, like.

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Speaker 3: There's no there's no there's no guarantee that your baby

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Speaker 3: about how you deal, how you react to it, you

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Speaker 3: start thinking about, you know, bringing someone else into your

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Speaker 3: when they have to hear me bitch about it, Well,

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Speaker 3: it's not even bitching about it.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's that. But also like it's an ego

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Speaker 4: That's true because like who in reality wants to hear

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Speaker 2: I don't. I'm like, I'm very ego driven.

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Speaker 2: My ego is out of those and like I think.

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Speaker 3: He showed me a picture of another person and I

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Speaker 2: Like it shouldn't be that serious, but I don't. I

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Speaker 3: It's just you have to kind of work on how

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Speaker 2: He does shit and then you get so pissed.

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Speaker 3: But this is what he does all the time, same

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Speaker 3: with me, you know what I mean, same shit with me.

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Speaker 2: Ibian so pissed. I'm like, we need to believe these

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Speaker 4: Tell us who they are, and I know I do,

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Speaker 4: but then like then like that, they go for your jugular.

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Speaker 2: You know, they fuck with you via yours.

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Speaker 3: Yours is yours is definitely a lot more agitating than mine,

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Speaker 2: And I don't envy you, because I'm glad I don't

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Speaker 3: But you're gonna have to figure out some self preserving tools.

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Speaker 3: You are, you want to have a healthy relationship in

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Speaker 2: And you want to have a.

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Speaker 3: Calm mental state when you have to deal with him,

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Speaker 3: because people have to deal with these niggas.

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Speaker 2: For a long time.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I hope I gets at the point

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Speaker 3: Friendship and then something falls back, and like I truly

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Speaker 3: I do believe it's possible with me and him.

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Speaker 2: It's just we're.

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Speaker 3: Still there's still a lot of emotions and love there.

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Speaker 2: But there's always going to do love. Yeah, but there's

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Speaker 2: still some other love. There's some other that thin line,

440
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 2: there's some other love there, and.

441
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 3: There's also some jealousy there, and there's also a lot

442
00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 3: of ego, you know, especially with mind setuation.

443
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 2: And you know how what's going on with him and

444
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 2: you know X, Y and Z.

445
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 3: So it's just yes, baby, tell her not to do that,

446
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 3: tell her no throwing. Okay, we'll go pick it up

447
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,800
Speaker 3: and I put it in a safe place. You don't

448
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 3: know where it is, find it, Go find it, Okay,

449
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: I go look for babe, go look hard.

450
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 2: Okay. Anyway, I'm here for you, I know.

451
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 3: And you know I appreciate you being here for me

452
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 3: and listening to me, bitch.

453
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,439
Speaker 2: I don't understand. And I'm here for you, and I

454
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 2: know you're you've been there for me in.

455
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 3: A lot of like fucked up situations that I don't

456
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 3: even we haven't even talked about on our podcast.

457
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 4: I know I am very grateful for you because sometimes,

458
00:21:58,720 --> 00:21:59,640
Speaker 4: like even yesterday, I.

459
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 2: Was like happy moment.

460
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,439
Speaker 3: I just like sat at the gas station and i

461
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 3: was like, I'm just so mad and I'm like, okay,

462
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 3: I'm better start driving now. And you know, it's like

463
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:14,639
Speaker 3: you gotta cry. Sometimes it gets overwhelming and it rains

464
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 3: and it pours. But you know what, like it does.

465
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 3: Everything happens like that for a reason. It's because like

466
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 3: the universe of God, whatever you believe in, is trying

467
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 3: to tell you, Okay, I'm piling on this all this

468
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 3: shit on you right now because I need you to

469
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 3: sit back and look and sit your ass down for

470
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 3: a second.

471
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 2: I've had multiple things happen like this week.

472
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,199
Speaker 4: And or just in general last couple of weeks that

473
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 4: I just like it's an attempt for people who are

474
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 4: rather insignificant but are in my life like making like

475
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:50,479
Speaker 4: putting their opinions out or saying negative things or whatever.

476
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 2: Baby daddy fucking with me.

477
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 3: And you know, overall, I think the lessness is like

478
00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 3: insignificant people deserve no energy for you know, like none,

479
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 3: and it's it's easy to say it's totally different to

480
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 3: be in the situation, but I mean overall, it's littally

481
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,239
Speaker 3: your choice. You can only control your reaction. And that

482
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 3: is really and even speaking of you know, not even

483
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 3: just insignificant people, like sometimes you just have to take

484
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 3: like you have to be so protective of your energy,

485
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 3: even giving in to people that you love sometimes because

486
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 3: you have to like store it, like when you're when

487
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 3: you're feeling low on energy and low on motivation and

488
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 3: low on life, like sometimes you got to store that

489
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 3: ship up and kind of like go into your little

490
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 3: hermit crab shit, your little cancer shit and like kind

491
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 3: of reactivate. That means, like you know, you love doing

492
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:53,120
Speaker 3: Young Day breaking up, Okay, it's fine, it's okay, baby,

493
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 3: she doesn't. Okay, we'll tell her to put it in

494
00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 3: the trash. Tell HER's dirty, you know, you and Young

495
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 3: Bay like breaking up like this all might just be

496
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 3: a sign that you need to kind of go within

497
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 3: yourself and kind of like not give your energy to people,

498
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 3: even the ones you love, like maybe even friends, like

499
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 3: you might need a break to just be with.

500
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 2: Yourself and like really think about some of the.

501
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 3: Things that they're saying, because there might be truth to

502
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 3: some of the things they're saying, but you can't hear

503
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 3: it because you're annoyed and angry at the situation, at

504
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 3: the cars, the cards that life is dealt you currently.

505
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 2: You know, it's hard to hear critiques. It's hard to sell.

506
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 3: I'm very I'll admit I'm defensive.

507
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 2: I don't. I mean, I don't know where that felt like,

508
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 2: I don't know where that comes from.

509
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 4: Maybe childhood, But I can be defensive and I just

510
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 4: think people are stupid.

511
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:48,639
Speaker 3: So oh my gosh, Luna, that's not your band aid

512
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 3: and you shouldn't put it on you.

513
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 2: It's dirty, Okay, okay. Anyway, So that.

514
00:24:55,800 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 3: Leads us to our topic, which is digmatized and d toxing,

515
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 3: dick tooxing detoxing from the D Yeah, I think in

516
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 3: the last probably I would say week and a half.

517
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 3: I think it started two weeks ago where I just

518
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 3: kind of was like slowly realizing like I need a detox,

519
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 3: Like this is why does why does my mood revolve?

520
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 2: Around penis. Why am I in a good mood if like.

521
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 3: My penis flow or the guy who I'm seeing me

522
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 3: that dictates my as dictating how my mood is. And

523
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 3: it's also like I will not like the last few

524
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,919
Speaker 3: weeks or the last month or two that I've been

525
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,919
Speaker 3: dating this guy, like I will go see him and

526
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 3: not go do shit I should be doing for myself

527
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 3: because I want to spend time with him. Because also

528
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 3: dating with a kid is really difficult and you only

529
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,479
Speaker 3: have minimal amounts of time to see certain people, and

530
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 3: so like you know, would try to prioritize, and sometimes

531
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 3: you're prioritizing it's fucked up, and I feel like mine

532
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,360
Speaker 3: has been fucked up. But the last two weeks, I've

533
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 3: been like kind of like low key off dick, and

534
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm trying to keep it going. I

535
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 3: kind of low you feel like I need to be

536
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 3: cellivate a little bit. I don't know if that's when

537
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 3: when you get some, do you okay? Because this happened.

538
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 4: When I start getting some, I feel like then I'm like,

539
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 4: but then I'm like when I haven't gotten it in

540
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 4: a month, like after that, like hump, I'm not thinking

541
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 4: about it, then I'm good.

542
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,399
Speaker 3: But if I like get said they're like crazy, and

543
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 3: then you know what I mean, like maybe like if

544
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 3: you give the dicktalks and then we don't worry about it,

545
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 3: then we.

546
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 2: Can like stay on that path. Maybe.

547
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 3: I mean I think you know where it started. It

548
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 3: started when Happy Bay wouldn't have sex with me.

549
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Oh, when you're like, oh you can't. Probably

550
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 2: was like your first psychology.

551
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 4: I mean, now you first like like your ego was like,

552
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 4: oh you can with you can withhold for me, but

553
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 4: like could I do the same kind of that?

554
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 3: It was that it was like yo, I like, first

555
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 3: of all, you were supposed to come and see me.

556
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: Did you tell them that he wouldn't give you any

557
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 2: what we talk about that? Oh? I don't know.

558
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 3: Basically, like two weeks ago, like happy Baby was supposed

559
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 3: to come to my house, which is a whole thing

560
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: because like he never comes to see me because I

561
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 3: don't live near.

562
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 2: Him and where I live is not popping and there's

563
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 2: not a.

564
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 3: Lot of shit to do, so he always asked me

565
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 3: to feetff to come to see me, so he didn't

566
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 3: come to see me. I was really annoyed, but I

567
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 3: still wanted to see him, so then I went downtown

568
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 3: to go see him, and then when I got there,

569
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 3: he wouldn't have sex with me, and I was like,

570
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 3: the fuck, like I drove not only did you not

571
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 3: come see me, I drove down here, and you're not

572
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 3: going sex with me. But he was like, I need

573
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 3: to prove to myself that, like, you know, I can

574
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 3: hang out with you and not have sex and you know,

575
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 3: and I was like, okay, like can we do this

576
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 3: another time?

577
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 2: Can we practice this another day? He was like no,

578
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 2: and I respected it.

579
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 3: I understood what he was trying to say, and I understand,

580
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 3: like he definitely has pushed me in our relationship to like,

581
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 3: you know, slow down. You know, I've learned some things

582
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 3: from him. But from that, from that, like after that,

583
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 3: I was like, huh. After I left him, I was annoyed,

584
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 3: But then.

585
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, I didn't. I don't

586
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 2: need to fuck. I'm cool. I did fuck on friends gamming,

587
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,120
Speaker 2: but after even that, like I was like oh.

588
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, But even then I was just like, you know,

589
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 3: I don't I don't need I don't. I just feel

590
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 3: like I'm detaching a little bit from like I think

591
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 3: the initial excitement of me dating.

592
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 2: Him was just like, oh my god, he's so amazing,

593
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 2: which she is.

594
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 3: He's still a great, incredible person, but it was just like,

595
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 3: oh my god, I just became obsessed, obsessive, and now

596
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 3: it's fading down. And also like we have a lot

597
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 3: going on, and.

598
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, there's too much.

599
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 3: I have too much shit to focus on right now

600
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 3: to be focused on Why he's not calling me, why

601
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 3: having had sex? Like why is that dictating what I'm doing?

602
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 3: I have so many other good things happening that if

603
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 3: I focused half my energy then I would be like

604
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 3: I would already been ranged at the opera, Like I mean,

605
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 3: it's just it's a constant thing I think in human

606
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 3: lives or women's life.

607
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:21,719
Speaker 2: Or what are they doing? Stop? What is it? Luna?

608
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 2: What is that?

609
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 3: No?

610
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 2: What is it? I don't know, but I'm gonna say no.

611
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 2: Can you guys just watch the movie? Is it over? Watching?

612
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 3: Go sit down and watch the movie. Put ma Wana

613
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 3: on that. I thought that was the solution.

614
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:41,719
Speaker 2: Is everything?

615
00:29:59,160 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: Okay?

616
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 2: Sorry, we're back. I is in this.

617
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 3: Phase where I'm literally five seconds away from like kicking

618
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 3: her in the head. You're having a lot of patience

619
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 3: you're doing a good job. I'm literally you're having You're

620
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 3: doing a good job.

621
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 2: You really are.

622
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 3: I want to fucking curse her out.

623
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 2: I curry the fuck out. No, I know it, girl?

624
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 3: Why is she crying over every fucking thing? Like, seriously,

625
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 3: I'm going to fucking scream. Does anybody have any advice

626
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 3: about this?

627
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 2: There's no advice. It's just the thing.

628
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 3: I think it's just a phase, like they just go through,

629
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 3: Like I don't know what else I don't Lina's just

630
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 3: like doesn't listen, she doesn't pretend she doesn't hear me.

631
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 2: I'd almost rather that than the cryme. The crying is

632
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 2: like me, I know.

633
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: It drives like driving me crazy, like the I know,

634
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 3: like a fucking meltdown over fucking every god damn thing,

635
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 3: Like are you fucking kidding me?

636
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 2: Right now?

637
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 3: And then I'll tell her to stop crying. You want

638
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 3: to I'm a spank if you don't stop crying. And

639
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 3: then she'll just keep crying and I'm like, are you

640
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 3: And then I'll spank her. And then at the wh

641
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 3: point of spanking her, because she's gonna cry more, and

642
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 3: it's just and she's not even really crying, and.

643
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 2: She's just like she's just making noises.

644
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 3: I know that that's the annoying, like like what they

645
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 3: think is cry. It's so I literally right now just

646
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 3: put my mouth, my hand over her mouth.

647
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 2: I get it. I get it.

648
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 3: You've had alone girl with other people are the same,

649
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 3: like ship, you're not a bad mom because you want

650
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 3: to kick her and pass.

651
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel the same.

652
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 3: I just want to go in the bathroom and I

653
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 3: want to lock her in there and put headphones on.

654
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 2: Anyway, Yeah, back to the topic.

655
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 3: But anyway I guess I've just been saying is that

656
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 3: over the past two weeks, I've been I feel like

657
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 3: I've been like on a like a I've just been

658
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 3: coming to like a lot of realizations. Of Course, I've

659
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 3: always known that, like, yeah, I put too much attention

660
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 3: on then I put too much importance on how you know,

661
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 3: they validate you, how they validate me, and how I

662
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 3: determine my value based on what they how they value me.

663
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 3: But I've kind of got to the point where I

664
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 3: also I feel like I'm feeling more confident in myself.

665
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 3: I have been a very over the last year. It's

666
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 3: been growing and growing and growing, And I think now

667
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 3: that I actually.

668
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: Really like someone, like I don't know.

669
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 3: Like at first I started, I started reverting back to

670
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 3: old shit.

671
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 2: Where I was like obsessed calling me why isn't call

672
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 2: me cok?

673
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 3: And now on the point where I'm just like, you

674
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 3: know what, like I don't give a fuck, Like I

675
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 3: still kind of do give a fuck, but like I

676
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 3: give a lot of fuck less. Yeah, like if you

677
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 3: call me cool, if you don't like right now, he

678
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 3: was supposed to come over tonight and he called me

679
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 3: with some lay mass excuse, and normally I would have

680
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 3: been pissed. I'm just like, Okay, you know, I got

681
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 3: just to do. I got a podcast to record, I

682
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 3: got things to write, I got things to.

683
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 2: Create, Like you know you're doing that all day.

684
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 3: And that's the funny thing about it is that men

685
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: have no problem prioritizing work over women.

686
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 4: Why as women do we have a problem with that.

687
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 4: I want to in that sense, I would.

688
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 3: I don't know why we don't function that way or

689
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 3: if that's just in our minds, but that's a thing

690
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 3: because we're taught as little girls to get married, to

691
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: find a man to cater to.

692
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 2: Them or to them, and you know, if we don't

693
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: have one we're not sure. Yeah, like why don't you

694
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 2: have a man? What's wrong with you?

695
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 4: What's wrong with her? She can't keep a man? Yeah,

696
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 4: I have felt more. I felt way more confident and

697
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 4: way more empowered lately. I mean maybe because like there's

698
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 4: just a lot of things happening. I mean that's another

699
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 4: thing that there's a lot of crazy things going in

700
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 4: my personal life. But I feel so good about the

701
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 4: things that are like coming to fruition and like manifesting,

702
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 4: and like the projects that I've been working on, and

703
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 4: I feel so good about it that it is almost

704
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 4: a sense of validation that like I got shit to

705
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 4: worry about, and it's not you, you know.

706
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: I mean just you making the decision to you know,

707
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 2: take a break with young day.

708
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 3: It speaks volumes, I know, like you know, you might

709
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 3: have not have been able to do that like a

710
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 3: year ago, if you guys were, if you guys were

711
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,280
Speaker 3: farther far along in your relationships.

712
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 2: I want to wait for it, or probably wait for

713
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 2: him to initiate it.

714
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you made the initiation because you feel like,

715
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 3: you know what, I am not capable of like doing

716
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 3: this right.

717
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 2: Now for me.

718
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I need me to comment like, well, you know,

719
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 4: maybe you should go out last, you know, go out

720
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 4: and stop spending money drinking and blah blah blah.

721
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 2: And I was just like, yeah, but.

722
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 4: I also just sent money to like come see you.

723
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 4: I also sent money like come hang out with you.

724
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 4: And I'm like, I could have done without that, and

725
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 4: I don't want it to be that way, but it

726
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 4: was like kind of put shed more light on reasons

727
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 4: why I could stop doing that, but I should also

728
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 4: stop doing It's not an assess. There's so much I

729
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 4: spend so much.

730
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 3: First of all, our moms, we have a lot of

731
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 3: shit to do already, you know, wash clothes, make dinner,

732
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:10,280
Speaker 3: getting like an income.

733
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 4: But we have good things going. We're such smart women,

734
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 4: We're so creative. We have like we're in the city

735
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 4: of making shit happen.

736
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 3: And like to even waste even a little bit of

737
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 3: time worrying about pleasing somebody else not myself first is crazy. Well,

738
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 3: you're also already adding the extra layer of stress of

739
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 3: a long distance relationship. I mean it's hard. Those are

740
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 3: really difficult. That's really difficult, like to maintain. Yeah, and

741
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:38,760
Speaker 3: I'm like, is he happy?

742
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 2: Is he?

743
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 4: I know, he's like sick of this, Like I'm constantly

744
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 4: feeling like on edge because I know he really wants

745
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 4: me to move there and it's not as simple for

746
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 4: me to just like drop my life and move somewhere.

747
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 4: And then I'm like, oh, he's not happy, he's not satisfied,

748
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 4: someone's going to take my man, and not that he

749
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 4: made me feel like someone can a cam or he

750
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 4: wasn't like a good guy, because he absolutely is. But

751
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 4: I don't even have time for those type of thoughts,

752
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 4: you know, like it's too much when they're like, I'm

753
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:10,959
Speaker 4: not billionaires.

754
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: I'm not a billionaire, and I can't like until I am,

755
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 2: I can't worry about it right now.

756
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 3: It's like you're living day to day to try to

757
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 3: get through the ship that is being dealt your way

758
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 3: and adding an extra layer of a relationship where you're

759
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 3: trying to please someone and making sure they're okay right now.

760
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 2: You need to make sure you're okay right right now.

761
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 3: You need to make sure Luna's okay, you know, and

762
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 3: that's that's that's the biggest priority. And it's like for me,

763
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 3: same thing, like I got to make sure i ree's okay.

764
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 3: I got to make sure my mind's okay. You know,

765
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 3: I travel so much with work too, Like I got

766
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 3: to check in with her, make sure.

767
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 2: You okay, Like yeah, mom is good, you know.

768
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,720
Speaker 3: And it's just adding the extra layer of like also

769
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,760
Speaker 3: dating a man unless And that's what that's the beauty

770
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 3: of my relationship with Happy Bay though, is that he

771
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 3: has taught me a lot of patience because he he's

772
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 3: very he's not ready for a relationship and he is

773
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 3: a very patient person and he's a very like he

774
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 3: loves to spend time with himself and.

775
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 2: Like he's kind of a hermit.

776
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 3: I want I want to I want to love to

777
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 3: spend time on myself. He's like, I asked somebody did

778
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 3: the other day. He's like, man, I just loved on

779
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: myself all day. He's like it felt good. He's like, people,

780
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 3: you know what someone said to me the day. He's like,

781
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 3: be careful about spending too much time with yourself. You

782
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,879
Speaker 3: might fall in love with it. And he's like that's

783
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 3: the point, and he I know, but he's like, low key.

784
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 2: I feel that way.

785
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 3: I feel like I don't really need to be around people.

786
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 3: And he's like, I'm not saying that to you to

787
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 3: make you feel like I don't want to be around you,

788
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 3: because I absolutely do. I'm just saying like I'm really

789
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 3: enjoying being by myself and working on.

790
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 2: Focusing on the things I want to focus on when

791
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:49,959
Speaker 2: I want to do them.

792
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 3: And I was like, I think he like he's really

793
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 3: planted that seat in my head, and like we have

794
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 3: so much going on, like with what we're with what

795
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,919
Speaker 3: we're trying to do with with you know, our brand, and.

796
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 2: It's a full time fucking job. Girl.

797
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 3: It's more there's two of us and it's like a

798
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 3: four people job.

799
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 7: It's a full time job just to like get you know,

800
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,919
Speaker 7: to the podcast top I think of topics the full

801
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:18,879
Speaker 7: time do I think of Instagram posts the full time

802
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 7: job to you know, connect with you know, our.

803
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 3: Listeners, which is like my favorite thing to do, you know.

804
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 3: I mean not like we love it obviously because we

805
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 3: do it and we're not, but we want to make

806
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 3: sure we connect with you guys and you really feel like,

807
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 3: you know, we're talking to you and we're not brushing

808
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 3: you up, like hey, thanks like a little hard.

809
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 4: I love I love talking to people who hit us up.

810
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 4: I mean that's like really the perk for me. And

811
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 4: then we also have other jobs. Yeah, and also the

812
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 4: jobs that pay are Yeah, it's like.

813
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 3: It's a whole lot. And to add the leather layer

814
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 3: of like, oh I got to also fit you in

815
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 3: my life too.

816
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 2: It's a lot. It's a lot.

817
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 3: Right now, all I want is recreational dick, yeah, like

818
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 3: if you like and for him, like I'm still dating

819
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 3: this guy and not recret He's not it's not so recreational.

820
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 3: But it's like, hey, dog without too much attachment, right,

821
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 3: Like if we don't have sex, is that's possible?

822
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:06,399
Speaker 2: Okay?

823
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,959
Speaker 4: So is that possible? Because that's another thing? How off

824
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 4: like as women can we I mean I have, I have,

825
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 4: but it's hard when you you well you look like

826
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 4: the person.

827
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 2: You didn't really like that person.

828
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 3: Because I had a lot of unattached sex early on

829
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 3: in my singleness.

830
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 2: What do you mean, Oh you're saying general? Yeah, I.

831
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 3: Mean when I worked out single, I had a lot

832
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 3: of unattached sex that didn't mean anything and it was fine,

833
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 3: Like I wasn't worried about them after even the guy

834
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 3: I was dating, like you know, Trumpet Lippey, Like you know,

835
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 3: we wouldn't talk for like a week and a half.

836
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 3: And yeah, you weren't really tripping about him. Yeah, So

837
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 3: it wasn't until the end when like suddenly I took

838
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 3: drugs and then I fell him up because I was

839
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:49,240
Speaker 3: on ecstasy.

840
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that was don't take extacy or someone you

841
00:39:54,400 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 2: don't like that much, But I just I don't. I

842
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 2: just want to.

843
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 3: Have like it's cool, Like I just want to check in,

844
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 3: like be good, be good, let's be kind of like

845
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 3: with the intimate, and then I'll get back back to it,

846
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 3: back to what I gotta do, Like I don't want

847
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 3: you to if you're a distraction in any way, like

848
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 3: I don't have time and and I even almost mean

849
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 3: a good distraction, Like I don't even really have.

850
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 2: Time for that. You cannot distract me period.

851
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 4: But I think you can love, You can like someone

852
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 4: and come to a healthy space with them. But I

853
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 4: think the most important thing, like you said, like.

854
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 3: Happy Bay said, quote of Happy Bay, is that like

855
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 3: to fall in love with yourself first, and the tiny

856
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,919
Speaker 3: someone of yourself makes it so that when someone comes

857
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 3: along who you.

858
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 2: Do genuinely enjoy, if you enjoy them, that you're not.

859
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 4: No matter how much you're interested or really like that person,

860
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 4: or the sex is bomb or the conversation is bomb.

861
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 4: Obviously there's like that one to two week like honeymoon face,

862
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 4: and that should I mean, like there could even.

863
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 2: I think that even is a thing.

864
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 4: But like, if you can maintain your your focus and

865
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 4: your self press or pressive preservation without getting distracted and

866
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 4: wanting to dive into that person, that's important. But I

867
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 4: think that first comes with diving into your fucking self.

868
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 3: Yes, it's so true, because as women, we can so

869
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 3: easily dive into someone else and distract ourselves from whatever

870
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 3: it is we don't want to work on or that's

871
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 3: too hard to fix or too hard, and then when

872
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 3: it and then when it gets too hard, be like

873
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 3: what I like that? You know, it's just like I

874
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 3: have so much other shit going on. Yeah, and then

875
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 3: you've done that, then you've done no work on yourself

876
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 3: and your back is where fucking want.

877
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I've done that. I've done it a lot,

878
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 2: I've done it a lot. I've done it.

879
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 3: It's all I've ever done, all I've ever done. Honestly,

880
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 3: this is like, I feel like being single has allowed

881
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 3: me to work on myself more so than ever, But

882
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 3: I feel like.

883
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 2: It can also do the opposite. I still have more

884
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 2: work to do.

885
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 3: I was gonna say something, And as far as detoxing

886
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 3: from the dick or detoxing for being victimized, do you

887
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 3: think that you literally have to not have sex to

888
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 3: do that?

889
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 2: I think that you kind of do. I think you do.

890
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 2: I actually I don't know when, but I ever heard a.

891
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 3: Conversation or something on TV or something recently that or

892
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 3: maybe I've read something and yeah, it was like you

893
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 3: have to abstain from sex for a while to understand

894
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 3: to like better understand yourself or something.

895
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:29,760
Speaker 2: Sex.

896
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 4: I think I think we've been miseducated on sex as

897
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 4: like therapy, because there's it could be, it could be

898
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 4: so many cool things.

899
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 2: Like sex can be really manifesting if you're.

900
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,280
Speaker 4: Aligned with your partner enough, and that like that energy

901
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,240
Speaker 4: can really be like forced into like a positive space.

902
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 4: But if you're just delivering that that that energy, that

903
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:58,760
Speaker 4: that intimate energy and that like orgasm energy to nothingness

904
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 4: with no intense, it's a waste.

905
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 3: And I think you have to abstain from it in

906
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 3: order to understand it better and understand yourself better. And

907
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 3: even Eric can tell me earlier when we're in the kitchen,

908
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 3: and I should masturbate more. And I know I always

909
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 3: say this, don't masturbate enough even though I'm super sexual

910
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 3: that You're probably right. I could like learn my better,

911
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 3: my body better, learned to love myself better.

912
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 2: Ye, don't be afraid of it.

913
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 3: You might unlock some shit that you know you only

914
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,879
Speaker 3: can do when you're by yourself, in your most comfortable state.

915
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 3: Because you are alone. No one is there to validate

916
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 3: you or judge you.

917
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,959
Speaker 2: You know what I mean. No one's there to be like, yeah, bitch,

918
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 2: she's so sexy.

919
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 3: Oh yes, you know, and like no one's there even

920
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: to be like, I don't do that, you know what

921
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 3: I mean.

922
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 2: It's just a free for all you on your own situation.

923
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:54,959
Speaker 3: And I've had the best orgasms by myself, the best

924
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,439
Speaker 3: probably I've ever had. I've had a few guys come

925
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:02,280
Speaker 3: close to my solo situationally, but yeah, truly.

926
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 2: I mean it's like, no, I mean not that I

927
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 2: definitely have.

928
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 3: Unhip I had have had uninhibited, uninhibited sex for sure

929
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 3: many times, even like especially when you're comfortable with someone

930
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 3: like my baby daddy or whatever, but and even having people,

931
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 3: but there's something about having sex with yourself that is

932
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 3: just it's just different, and I think you should. I

933
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 3: think you probably really should do that. I think it

934
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 3: maybe might be a step in kind of that d

935
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 3: that detoxing, that dick detoxing for real, because there was

936
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 3: a time where I was like, you know, especially when

937
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 3: like I was feeling really insexual in my relationship after

938
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 3: Iri and I was masturbating, and I was like, you

939
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 3: know what, I don't even need I don't even need

940
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 3: another dick because this is so satisfying. And of course

941
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 3: we do with Purse, we have sex and all that,

942
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 3: but I tell yourself that h like another dick as

943
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 3: in him or another dick as in I don't even

944
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 3: need dick period, is what I felt. Because I was

945
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 3: satisfying myself and it just felt great I could be

946
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 3: done with it.

947
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 2: It was almost like I didn't have to like do

948
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 2: the whole thing afterwards. And then, of course sometimes a

949
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 2: lot of times.

950
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 3: You want that whole thing afterwards. You want the cuddle

951
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 3: the top.

952
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 6: Top ship, someone crying, crying, Oh my fucking god, why

953
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 6: is she fucking crying?

954
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 2: Why? Why she will tell them? She would tell, oh

955
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 2: my god, what did you do to Ira? She figures

956
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,879
Speaker 2: it out before that, what's wrong with irate? What's wrong

957
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:46,240
Speaker 2: with irate? You guys? Do any moms out here have kids?

958
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,280
Speaker 2: What's wrong with irate? Cry for no motherfucking reason.

959
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 3: Never mind, it's okay, never mind, nothing, no nothing.

960
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 2: But what's wrong?

961
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 3: M I mean?

962
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 2: And then on top of all.

963
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 3: This fucking conversation, having fucking one kids, not even kids plural,

964
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 3: it's so fucking draining.

965
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 2: It's fulfilling.

966
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, it's great, but it's so fucking

967
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 3: how the fucking you even have a kid and a

968
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 3: significant other and a passion and a job.

969
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 2: And cook dinner like bitgicant? And then we want to

970
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,320
Speaker 2: have a podcast? What the fuck?

971
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 4: Who would sign up for this? I mean, I love it,

972
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 4: but I'm like, what yo, Like, something has to go.

973
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 2: The dick. Dick's got to go, like we can't well.

974
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 3: Because I feel like it takes up Like I feel like,

975
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 3: you know, you see those charts. I feel like I

976
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 3: feel like the dick takes up like probably.

977
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 8: Like sixty five percent of your brain percent, sixty eight

978
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 8: percent of your brain thought like fifteen percent is like

979
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 8: dreams and aspiration, right, and then like the other like

980
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 8: ten is like I don't know, like date, like I

981
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 8: don't even fucking know.

982
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 3: It's just too it's just too much, it's too much

983
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 3: time ratiating yourself.

984
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 4: And then there's like Instagram kids Instagram Dickney's to fucking go.

985
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, I can't the kids can't go. So

986
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:25,720
Speaker 3: it's either Instagram or both, love you both. Well lucky

987
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 3: Instagram has to kind of be there because we got

988
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 3: to know people.

989
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, Instagram fully go, but can't they

990
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,720
Speaker 2: can go? Are we gonna go on a dick detoks? Okay?

991
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 3: We chat?

992
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 2: Okay? Okakay? How long I wish you could see your

993
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 2: real in space? Right now? She's like, wait, like, let's

994
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 2: hit serious about this seriously? Three months? Ninety days? Yeah,

995
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 2: what are we gonna talk about? I'm just kidding. Totally

996
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 2: ninety days? Wait? Uh December January, February?

997
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 3: Okay, sixty days okay, two months, two months start for

998
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 3: three days?

999
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:07,359
Speaker 2: Are being ambitious? Am I taking myself out of this? Wait?

1000
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 2: One way? You I got dune? I wrote that one

1001
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 2: week now.

1002
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 3: No, I know I'm still dating somebody, but but he's

1003
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 3: down to not I know, he's all he would not

1004
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 3: he would be okay, not fucking and actually honestly, maybe

1005
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 3: it would like make me for sure, see if I

1006
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 3: really like him, that's.

1007
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 2: True, that's very true.

1008
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 3: You know, so forty five days, okay, realistically, what are

1009
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 3: we going to do?

1010
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,879
Speaker 2: Let's do sixty days? Okay, can you guys do it

1011
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 2: sixty days?

1012
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 3: Not well if people are married and ship, your husband's like,

1013
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 3: fuck you bitch.

1014
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 2: Okay, so February first, I guess, yeah, says the twenty eight.

1015
00:48:57,680 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 2: It can be.

1016
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 3: It can be January twenty eight, girl, twenty nine down,

1017
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 3: because after day watch, we'll get to sixty days and

1018
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 3: I'll why would give a fuck? I'll be like, yeah,

1019
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 3: that's fast, Like I'm gonna be I can't go another month? Yeah,

1020
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 3: like whatever's then I got.

1021
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 2: A new vibe, ritor. Baby. You know I love myself.

1022
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, another.

1023
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 4: Part of me like I have a really hard time

1024
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 4: focusing so much so or I think, I mean, I

1025
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 4: don't I know, I don't need meds, but like I

1026
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 4: do like if I can find some natural remedy to focus,

1027
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,760
Speaker 4: like me and Erica, I mean, we both have add

1028
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 4: but mine's on a different level. I could literally be

1029
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 4: in my phone voluntucing specific and like totally get distract

1030
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 4: them doing something totally different.

1031
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 2: So I just think like even the energy, like that

1032
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,760
Speaker 2: energy can be put into Like I can't even.

1033
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 3: Barely finish a book, like I know we post all

1034
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 3: the ship for the book club.

1035
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 2: O'cau see the last chapter and is leaving. It's something insane.

1036
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 2: My purse is a mass, like I just can't fucking focus.

1037
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 2: Well maybe that's.

1038
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 3: Because you you need to eliminate some things from your

1039
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 3: life so that you can narrow them down and decide

1040
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 3: what you want to focus. Hence the Disteah. You know,

1041
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 3: I believe that you can focus. I've seen it without drugs. Yes,

1042
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 3: there's something more deliberate about it. Yeah, it has to

1043
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 3: be deliberate. Yeah, there's deliberate and really aware of.

1044
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: It that there's that saying starved distractions. How do you like? Yeah,

1045
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 2: like like what we're doing. Yeah, you don't feed them.

1046
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 3: They don't have part of me, like part of me

1047
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 3: inside is like get one more right? Wait, maybe we

1048
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 3: should settle the summer the first, you know, New Year's Eve, Christmas?

1049
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 2: Wait, can we start this like next week? Can we

1050
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 2: start this one more time? No? No, we're starting it today.

1051
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 2: We're starting I can schedule that I'm joking. I'm on

1052
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 2: my period. Anyway, it's me too, our bloody asses. I

1053
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 2: know it's a good time to start. Oh my god,

1054
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 2: I'll tell you know, hang out too much?

1055
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 3: Oh god, that would be our cycle on the same

1056
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 3: But anyway, I don't know about y'all, but if you

1057
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 3: have any other tips for detoxing, I mean, what other

1058
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 3: things are there?

1059
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,280
Speaker 2: I think it's just being I think you said being.

1060
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 3: Now, being deliberate, deliberate, Like it's not just gonna happen easily.

1061
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 4: We've got to say no, don't put yourself up positions.

1062
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 4: And I think, yeah, you have.

1063
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 2: To remind yourself what's the endpoint is?

1064
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 3: And like I think also, I think we're gonna see

1065
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 3: how much we get done and be like.

1066
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 2: Oh shit, bitch, all right about to be right.

1067
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 3: But I mean even people like I think also because

1068
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 3: like me and air thanks and literally we've been doing

1069
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:53,280
Speaker 3: this ship for nine months. We've been productive maybe three days.

1070
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 2: Not true, like an all day.

1071
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 3: Oh if like I was productive all day today?

1072
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 2: Okay, how many days we wrote an all day?

1073
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 4: We tried it like three, like four times, like the

1074
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 4: one time at the office that the first time that

1075
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 4: was like six months in here.

1076
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:14,359
Speaker 3: Oh no, this is oh here done it twice.

1077
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 2: That we count that we can count it?

1078
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 3: Oh honestly, honestly, Like, look, we're productive outside of each other.

1079
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 2: It's just not fully. It's not like we're at the office. Well,

1080
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:27,879
Speaker 2: what I was thinking is for people who have full

1081
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 2: time jobs.

1082
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 4: Forty hour job, like forty hours a week, I'm like, Jamilla,

1083
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 4: what if you focused forty hours on your own shit.

1084
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:37,760
Speaker 2: Right, bitch, I'd be complete.

1085
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 3: And actually, because we don't have typical job, we could

1086
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 3: be doing that, right. I mean, I need to put

1087
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 3: forty hours into my own business, and I needed forty

1088
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 3: hours into my businesses.

1089
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 2: That are to be.

1090
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:51,479
Speaker 3: But like, I don't know what the fuck I'm doing

1091
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 3: daydreaming about Dick and watching Instagram and okay and smoke, welling.

1092
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 2: No smoking.

1093
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 3: I go and do things, but so you're watching Instagram

1094
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 3: and literally I don't. But also, having a kid literally

1095
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 3: at like takes away three hours of your day, just

1096
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 3: minus three hours, I mean, and not even feel bad about.

1097
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 3: And that's another thing in my parenting. In my parenting,

1098
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm not being as deliberate as I

1099
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 3: could as I as I had had these fucking super

1100
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 3: fake high hopes as when I was pregnant, what I was.

1101
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 4: Gonna be like, We're gonna have a tutor, a Spanish

1102
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 4: tutor together, We're gonna be boiling, well, I'm gonna be conversating,

1103
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 4: You're gonna know every Spanish, like just ridiculous things.

1104
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 3: That probably I could have, yes, one second coming, Okay,

1105
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 3: even in my parenting. I mean, I just overall, if

1106
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 3: you starve the things that are not contributing to your life,

1107
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,839
Speaker 3: that you're not growing you, I'm sure we'd all.

1108
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 2: Be fucking better people and kids would be too.

1109
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 4: Like I'm you know, I'm trying as hard as I can,

1110
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 4: but it's not as hard as I can, and being

1111
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 4: as hard as a fam would be literally not doing

1112
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 4: all the shit I.

1113
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 2: Don't have to do, and so much of that.

1114
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 4: And I guess, like at thirty years old, finally today

1115
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 4: on November twenty ninth, I'm like, okay, it's go time.

1116
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't feeling bad too. I'm glad we're on

1117
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 2: the same.

1118
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 4: Page, same cycle, same page.

1119
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I just like I was.

1120
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 3: Like thinking to myself, like I was trying to look

1121
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,359
Speaker 3: at it like as a benefit, like oh my god,

1122
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 3: for the first time in your life, like you don't

1123
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:34,760
Speaker 3: really have Like you don't have an attachment to anything

1124
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 3: or anybody. You don't have to feel bad about any

1125
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 3: feelings or anybody really is And like you're looking at

1126
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 3: that as a negative, And why is that a negative?

1127
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:51,320
Speaker 3: You have so much space I can stretch out fucking

1128
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:51,919
Speaker 3: do it?

1129
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 2: Like? Why are what like talking?

1130
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,320
Speaker 3: Why do I like I need someone to like invade

1131
00:54:57,320 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 3: in my space or like attached to my space. I

1132
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 3: worry about my space or how much I'm giving or

1133
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 3: what they're not doing for me.

1134
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:05,879
Speaker 2: You know, I wish so and so would do this more.

1135
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 2: I wish he would.

1136
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 3: You know what am I doing for my fucking style exactly?

1137
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 3: And you know what that shit is? That shit is a.

1138
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 4: Fucking excuse to not be accountable for yourself.

1139
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 2: Well you know a dated baby daddy who wasn't shit

1140
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:20,799
Speaker 2: for this amount of years.

1141
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 4: I did that shit for years, and I mean I've

1142
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 4: done much better since I've left.

1143
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 2: But the point is, even then I would get frustrated, Like.

1144
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 3: You cannot blame the company you keep for the shit

1145
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 3: that you do, and even you have to be responsible

1146
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 3: for the company you keep. They need to be the

1147
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 3: fuck cut out. Sometimes you do and you know, even

1148
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 3: if you start like the people who may not be

1149
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,399
Speaker 3: their long term even we said earlier, like.

1150
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 4: You know, we spent time with our grandmothers over this time,

1151
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 4: and the truth is they are getting older. And I

1152
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 4: lost my mom's mom in like my senior year in

1153
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 4: high school. And I remember then in high school feeling

1154
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 4: like like the last couple of times I had taken

1155
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 4: a Philly, I was so hot in the ass and

1156
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 4: trying to get out on the street that I hadn't

1157
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 4: really spent time with her. And like you know, when

1158
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 4: you're a kid, you't how much choice. And I felt

1159
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 4: guilty about.

1160
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 3: That then, And I don't know at what point that

1161
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 3: that I forgot about that, but like she call my

1162
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 3: grandma back just reminded me.

1163
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 2: Even those are important relationships to cultivate.

1164
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 3: There are questions about you, who are their families were,

1165
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 3: who their parents were That even I realized this trip,

1166
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:32,400
Speaker 3: but I didn't really know because I not spend the

1167
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 3: time with you, and we don't already I don't live

1168
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:34,760
Speaker 3: in the same city.

1169
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 4: As my grandmother, you know. And then there's just so

1170
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 4: much to learn about ourselves, so.

1171
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 3: Many other relationships to be worried and could trying to

1172
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 3: cultivate than the one that you're trying to the man,

1173
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 3: the temporary, the one that's possibly temporary with true. Even

1174
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 3: this week, I my friend, uh she was I was like,

1175
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 3: I saw you went to the Vucca main concert.

1176
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 2: It was Ashley. She's like gonna and she was like, yeah,

1177
00:56:58,880 --> 00:56:59,919
Speaker 2: my brother. We had so much fun.

1178
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 4: I was like, I need to take my brother to

1179
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 4: actually tamm.

1180
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 2: The model experience.

1181
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:11,440
Speaker 3: Speaking of your model experience, if you want to be

1182
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,720
Speaker 3: a model, are you in the field of aspiring, modeling,

1183
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 3: taking photographs?

1184
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 2: You need to know how to pose, cultivate your Instagram.

1185
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 3: Yes, do you need experience and you don't know where

1186
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 3: to begin. Well, the model experience is when you begin. Honestly, no,

1187
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,439
Speaker 3: really like the model experiences. The ship they do fashion weeks.

1188
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 3: In at LA Fashion Week, you will walk on the runway,

1189
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 3: wear designer clothing, get a fucking photo video, build your portfolio.

1190
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 3: One on one, the coaching training with professional model models, specifically.

1191
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 2: Rio Summers, who was on America's Sextup Model Exposure like

1192
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 2: a huge following.

1193
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 3: And they do modeling for kids too, So you want

1194
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 3: to get your kids, your kids into modeling.

1195
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 2: You don't know where to start.

1196
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 3: They can help you with that, get you you know,

1197
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 3: ready to get an agent and all that.

1198
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 4: So it's pretty fucking awesome, especially if you want to

1199
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 4: get into that and you're if you're in I mean anywhere, Honestly,

1200
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter where you're up right at the model experience.

1201
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 3: See that's and that's my friend actually, And Ashley is

1202
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 3: like she ever since I've known her, Like I met

1203
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 3: her when she was like twenty two in college and

1204
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 3: she was such a fucking hustler. She had a man,

1205
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 3: but she's always been so focused, Like she's one of

1206
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 3: those women that, yes she gets to she's got she's.

1207
00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 2: Like us, and then like a lot of women that

1208
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 2: will get distracted, but she's she has a specialist short

1209
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 2: distraction period, Yes she has.

1210
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 3: She's just very focused on her goals, which is, you know,

1211
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 3: providing a certain lifestyle for her and her family.

1212
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 4: And that's another thing, Like you have to be around

1213
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 4: people then what and being around her.

1214
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 3: Makes me motivated. I was with her today all day

1215
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 3: working and we were just like bouncing that idea.

1216
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 4: I mean to go into her fancy ass house and

1217
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 4: finding new fucking recreation rooms every time we go, like

1218
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 4: this pitch is rich.

1219
00:58:56,960 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 2: She's the famous. I love yeah, I being around.

1220
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 3: I'm happy we're partners that it's definitely pushed me to

1221
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 3: a place where.

1222
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 2: I haven't been in a long time.

1223
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 4: And like speaking of blaming people for not put like

1224
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 4: relationships or houlding you back, I mean, I think, on

1225
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 4: the contrary, the relationships that do push you are super

1226
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 4: fucking important to people who are on the same pageant

1227
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 4: who love you down.

1228
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, you're smart, you're creative. We could do this,

1229
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 3: we can do this. I'm doing this because just simply

1230
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 3: actually being Ashley.

1231
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 4: I went to like her one of her first things

1232
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 4: like three years ago before me and Erka were friends,

1233
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 4: but we were not nearly as close as we are

1234
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 4: right now. But I didn't realize I was at actually

1235
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 4: as event, like promoting me in this mobile spot check

1236
00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 4: that out too. And she's grown so much. And even

1237
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 4: like our other friend Jared was just in Tokyo the

1238
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 4: other night DJing slash performing. He has like a lineup,

1239
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 4: he hustles.

1240
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 3: I am, you know, Danielle, my friend just dropped to

1241
00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 3: like a new bomb ass vintage clothing line, Vintage Souls,

1242
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 3: and I just have dope as friends and if you

1243
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 3: have friends that are bums, You're gonna not be motivated.

1244
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 4: You're not gonna be reminded to be like you know,

1245
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 4: to set your game up. Don't want to be like

1246
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:17,040
Speaker 4: the tenth poor friend. You want to be like the

1247
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 4: tenth rich friend.

1248
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 2: How's that go? The same?

1249
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you have never heard that, if you have

1250
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 4: nine rich friends, she'll be the tenth rich friend. If

1251
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 4: you have nine poor friends, she'll be the tenth poor friend.

1252
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 4: Oh God, I know it's bad, but I mean it's true.

1253
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 3: Like Erica pushes me out of my comfort zone in

1254
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 3: a lot of ways, and it reminds me like, oh

1255
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 3: I am capable of doing this.

1256
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 2: Oh I do need to be doing this.

1257
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 4: Oh this is something I do should do, just because

1258
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:42,440
Speaker 4: she's doing her thing, you know.

1259
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 2: And I love you for that too, and I grow

1260
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 2: and I've learned from you too. There's just this is

1261
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 2: what you need.

1262
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 3: This is why, like, I know you're gonna be okay

1263
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 3: because you're you're you are this person already and you're

1264
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 3: surrounding yourself with people too. I think it's so important

1265
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 3: what we surround ourselves with. But you know what I

1266
01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 3: just thought about, that's also really important that we have

1267
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 3: to start, we have to really attend to not do

1268
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 3: in these sixty days.

1269
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 2: What is?

1270
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: You know?

1271
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 3: I find that women what we do when we get

1272
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 3: together is we talk about that and did we just

1273
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 3: talk about guys like it's the go to how's work?

1274
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 2: Oh cool? So girl, let me tell you this nigga, right,

1275
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 2: or let me tell you know we brought that. No,

1276
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 2: let me recite it. And there's this quote and it

1277
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 2: was really struck me.

1278
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 3: And it was said, pay attention to the.

1279
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 2: The strange joy. You get out of talking about your misery.

1280
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 3: Because you want to tell people about it because you

1281
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 3: get hyped up. You get the validation you want, or

1282
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:47,919
Speaker 3: you don't get the validation, right, you know what I mean?

1283
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 2: It's so like, pay attention to the strange joy?

1284
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 6: What is?

1285
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 3: I got to get the exact quote because when I

1286
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 3: read that, I was like, damn that I've felt that before.

1287
01:01:57,680 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm like, I'm not going to talk.

1288
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call I'm gonna call my friend, I'm not

1289
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 3: even to talk about this negative ship that just happened.

1290
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 3: And then I can't help but talk about it, and

1291
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, why do I even I didn't have to

1292
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 3: do that?

1293
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 2: Or we like to don't have to tell a person.

1294
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 2: I know what I mean.

1295
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 3: Yesterday my friends with Calle me and I was really

1296
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 3: upset with baby daddy, and I was like, am I

1297
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 3: gonna tell this story again? And I did it. I

1298
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:20,080
Speaker 3: mean each time I was like.

1299
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:22,439
Speaker 2: I'm fine, but like still you're right.

1300
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 3: But also the strange joy you get about talking about

1301
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:28,760
Speaker 3: your new dick, the strange joy you get talking about

1302
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 3: like distracting it, It's true.

1303
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 2: I mean, it's just I don't know why it's like, but.

1304
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 4: I noticed it when I'm around woman too, like we

1305
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 4: who are you dating?

1306
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 2: What's thatthing you do? Blah blah blahn? Who are you?

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Speaker 3: What's the last time you fucked your husband? Are you

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Speaker 3: having a healthy sex life?

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Speaker 2: Why not?

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Speaker 3: No? I mean when I when I feel uncomfortable and

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01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 3: I don't know what to talk about, sometimes I'll bring

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Speaker 3: up a guy really like, say you're in an comfortable situation,

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Speaker 3: you've ever met that someone You're like, what's your boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: Here? You have a boyfriend?

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Speaker 3: Or like people that you're familiar with where you don't

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01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,840
Speaker 3: really not really friends with. You just have those people

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01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 3: that talk about.

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01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 2: Lame it is. I mean, I guess the point is.

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Speaker 3: Be careful what you discuss period, and that's people and

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01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 3: things and whatever. Like everything you discuss is ultimately what

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01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 3: you're manifesting.

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01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 2: And even talking to you about the people.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like, I know everybody does this, but like

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Speaker 4: talk to you to Instagram all day and DM it

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Speaker 4: to your group chat like me, you know, evil laugh,

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Speaker 4: you know, but we should talk.

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01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 2: About Oh oh, this is it. This is a kind

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01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 2: of quote. Sorry who shared it.

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01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 3: Observe the attachment to your pain. Observe the peculiar pleasure

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01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:53,959
Speaker 3: you derive from being unhappy. Observe the compulsion to think

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01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 3: or talk about it. The resistance will cease if you

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01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:58,080
Speaker 3: make it conscious.

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01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 2: And we make it conscious. See damn, son, you need

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01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:05,920
Speaker 2: to put that in the storage. I was like, ship.

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Speaker 3: Need to observe the compulsion to think or talk about it.

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01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 3: The resistance will cease if you make it conscious, like damn. Yeah,

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01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 3: but it's hard not to.

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01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 2: But when you can remember that quote, it's going to

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01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 2: be easier. Yeah, that's true.

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01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 6: That's true.

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01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 2: Screenschat. This needs to be like my screen save my screensaver.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, okay, So let's d MS. If you're gonna

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01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 3: attempt to do the sixty day yes, check on each other.

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01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 3: We feel weak, we can hold each other up. We

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01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 3: can encourage masturbation and.

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01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 2: Masturbation and water reading, water Yoda, meditation and working on

1347
01:04:56,720 --> 01:05:00,440
Speaker 2: your ship. Yeah, and remembering that you can get dick again.

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01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 4: Oh, you know I was gonna say, okay, so speaking

1349
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 4: this is highly unlikely that I was gonna say, speaking

1350
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 4: of your quote and the topic, do you think we

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01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 4: can refrain from talking about dick for the next eight episodes?

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01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 2: We should? Okay, Well we have two episodes.

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01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:27,919
Speaker 3: Ooh, I think we don't talk about it on our

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01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 3: other people can't? Yeah, okay, like our guest can they

1355
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 3: want to? But and we can engage in it, well,

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01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 3: we're not.

1357
01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 2: We're not we're not bringing.

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01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 3: We're not initiating it, okay, And we're definitely going to

1359
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 3: allow it to shift away from that in the conversation

1360
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:45,600
Speaker 3: with our guests.

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Speaker 2: We're not going to hold on to that topic. Is

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01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 2: it men curiad or is it dick? But men have dicks? Oh,

1363
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 2: it's the same same, know what. It's all one of

1364
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 2: that idea.

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01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 3: No, I want to see how it goes well, I mean,

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01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 3: I think when we're if we're doing one on one episodes,

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01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:11,920
Speaker 3: we're for sure not talking about Dick, okay, but it's

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01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 3: hard to control that when you have a guest on.

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01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, and I don't want people are are

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01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 2: I going to talk about?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 2: God, yam therapist. You don't want to hear your opinion.

1373
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:28,360
Speaker 3: We're gonna have educational We actually have some really great

1374
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 3: guests coming up, so definitely check out for that.

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01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 2: And yeah, yees.

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Speaker 3: See it, I see sendra horries, send your stories if

1377
01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 3: you have any. If you want our opinion on something,

1378
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 3: because you think we are smart, even if you think

1379
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 3: we're down, you just want to hear OI, gohead shoot.

1380
01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 2: The email our d M.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, our email is Parental Advisory g MBC at gmail

1382
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 3: dot com. Or you just on our website and actually, yeah,

1383
01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 3: go on our website and land up for our mailing

1384
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Speaker 3: list because we send out really bomb newsletters.

1385
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 2: Yes, and you definiely get one.

1386
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 3: And if you have any and if you have any

1387
01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 3: businesses or anything you want to promote on our newsletter,

1388
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Speaker 3: send it over.

1389
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 2: You can discuss some things.

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Speaker 4: Our website is ww dot Good Mom's Bad Choices dot

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Speaker 4: com www dot Okay, I.

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Speaker 2: Said to w Y, we specially really got to you

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Speaker 2: know what choices dot com.

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Speaker 3: Good moms underscore bad choices on the instant, and it

1395
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 3: is time to go. Our kids have four hula hoops

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01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 3: around them and they're doing spins in the one's wearing

1397
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 3: a fucking Spanish salsa dress and one's wearing Byle too too. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: we love you and we hope that you would join

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01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 3: us on this mission.

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Speaker 2: We hope. Oh, we haven't announced it. We do, Oh, yes,

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01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 2: we do. We're having.

1402
01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 3: We're having a cocktail hour. So if you're in La

1403
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:18,120
Speaker 3: Area on December twelfth.

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01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:21,000
Speaker 2: We'll be in Century City at the corner door. Is

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01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 2: that Central City? I believe?

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Speaker 5: So?

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01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:25,680
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't even know. I didn't even know it's there. Crazy, Okay, Yeah,

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01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:26,599
Speaker 2: we'll be at Central City.

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01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 3: All I guess I don't really hang out there, but neither,

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01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 3: but it's cool explore the city with us, kind of

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01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 3: explore seven to nine. Yeah, and then we're also going

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01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 3: to uh, we're going to the going to the party

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01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:40,439
Speaker 3: on Monday.

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01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, going to a party on Monday. If you guys

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01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 2: want to come, It's fun.

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01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 3: You'll have a good great time, bomb music and good

1417
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 3: looking people.

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Speaker 2: Most importantly, and most importantly, we'll be there and we'll

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01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 2: be there. Oh, I did it again. Good looking people

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01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:57,320
Speaker 2: that does not have anything.

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01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 3: I thought have Dick. What I thought about I kind

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01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 3: of just people I'm thinking of Dick. Are there fine

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01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:04,559
Speaker 3: guys there?

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01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 2: I mean there's my guy? Oh God, that does not count.

1425
01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:11,880
Speaker 3: We're talking with people we need about I was thinking

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01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 3: of one peanuts.

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01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 2: Wow, that was very specific.

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01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:18,719
Speaker 4: But you know what, I feel like, we as thirty

1429
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:22,559
Speaker 4: year old plus women shouldn't be like, oh, we're going

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01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 4: to the bar on Monday, because come Monday, bitch, I'll.

1431
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 2: Be like, I think we did that one time, Like

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01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:29,360
Speaker 2: why to do something today? I think we put it

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01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:33,639
Speaker 2: on the package. I'm so tired. No, we're probably really

1434
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 2: doing there on Monday, but.

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Speaker 3: You'll see it in our stories on our on our

1436
01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:40,559
Speaker 3: page if we're going to go. But it's fun either

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01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:41,280
Speaker 3: way either way.

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01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 4: But yeah, sixty days, bitches, can you do it?

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01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 2: De talks from that Dick, get that Yoni balls. I'm

1440
01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 2: gonna get some Yony eggs, the crystal ball.

1441
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:55,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I already do pupils. I feel they need to

1442
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:57,720
Speaker 3: talk to weeding.

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01:09:57,920 --> 01:10:00,600
Speaker 2: Oh, we should find the Korean spot that does a

1444
01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:02,600
Speaker 2: hit bath. Have you done a hit bath? I know

1445
01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 2: what it is, but I've never done it. Yeah, you

1446
01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 2: talk about it. You just sit on this like what

1447
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:09,600
Speaker 2: the thing is?

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01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:12,000
Speaker 4: A hole in it and they like put herbs and

1449
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:13,680
Speaker 4: hot water and you pull like a cape over you

1450
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 4: while you're naked, and you watch a movie and talk

1451
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:18,639
Speaker 4: chit chat and it's like clean touch a vagina.

1452
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,800
Speaker 2: We should go, okay, we.

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01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 3: Should make that out meda All right, Oh, let's go

1454
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 3: climb up the vaginas guys.

1455
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 2: Maybe the next sixty days we'll do.

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01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:31,760
Speaker 4: Some like yoga meete up, some hiking meet ups, just

1457
01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:34,679
Speaker 4: to reinforce our commitment to ourselves.

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01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:37,320
Speaker 3: Ver the next sixty days exactly, I think we should

1459
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 3: do go hiking up.

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01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:43,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, okay, anyway, we're thinking out loud. We hope

1461
01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 2: we're higher, full, wonderful.

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01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 4: Thursday night, good night, and we got we need to

1463
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 4: come with a cool catch line like keep it sexy.

1464
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 2: Be cool catch that is what it will not be. Goodbye.

1465
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 2: You can't ju.

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01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:08,920
Speaker 1: Persney Love, I had loved to Bursney Love.

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01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 2: Let's say something.

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01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:16,599
Speaker 3: Bursney Love Love Love Cosney.

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01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 2: Love wants to go to the men.

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Speaker 1: She's losing County love to