1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:01,280 Speaker 1: And you're here. 2 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 2: Thanks for choosing the iHeartRadio and Coast to Ghost Day 3 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: and Paranormal Podcast Network. Your quest for podcasts of the paranormal, supernatural, 4 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 2: and the unexplained ends here. They invite you to enjoy 5 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: all our shows we have on this network, and right now, 6 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: let's start with Chase of the Afterlife with Sandra Champlain. 7 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 3: Welcome to our podcast. Please be aware the thoughts and 8 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 3: opinions expressed by the host are their thoughts and opinions 9 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 3: only and do not reflect those of iHeartMedia, iHeartRadio, Coast 10 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: to Coast am employees of Premiere Networks, or their sponsors 11 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 3: and associates. We would like to encourage you to do 12 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 3: your own research and discover the subject matter for yourself. 13 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 4: Hi. 14 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 3: I'm Sandra Champlain. For over twenty five years, I've been 15 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 3: on a journey to prove the existence of life after death. 16 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 3: On each episode, we'll discuss the reasons we now know 17 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 3: that our loved ones have survived physical death and so 18 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 3: will we. Welcome to Shades of the Afterlife. This episode 19 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 3: will first air around Christmas time. Now I realize you 20 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 3: may be listening to it another time of the year, 21 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 3: so it's not technically a Christmas episode, but you will 22 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 3: hear some advice from mediums in being in contact with 23 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 3: your own loved ones no matter what time of the 24 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:34,839 Speaker 3: year or what occasion. Also, i'll read to you two 25 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 3: special near death experiences that come from our friends at IANS. 26 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 3: If you love reading near death experiences, just go to 27 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 3: IANS dot org. That's the International Association for Near Death 28 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 3: Studies and they have a huge database of stories. And then, 29 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 3: in our final segment together, I'd like to take you 30 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 3: on a little guided imageryence. I'll ask that you have 31 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 3: your eyes closed for this part. Of course, you can 32 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 3: always listen and replay the experience another time. Our first 33 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 3: near death experience comes from a woman who can still 34 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 3: clearly remember what happened to her when she was three 35 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 3: years old. We lived in Toronto, Ontario, and on this 36 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: summer day, I went to the local swimming pool near 37 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 3: our townhouse with my father and my sister. I was 38 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 3: three and my sister was six. We were playing in 39 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 3: the pool for a while when my father said we 40 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 3: needed to get out for fifteen minutes for an adult 41 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 3: only swim. I wasn't very happy about that because I 42 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 3: wanted to stay in the water and I didn't understand 43 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 3: why the adults couldn't swim with us still in there, 44 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 3: So my sister went and sat on our towels by 45 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 3: the deep end while my dad went for a swim 46 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 3: with his friends. I stood looking into the water near 47 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 3: or my sister was sitting and thought about jumping in, 48 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 3: and that I could sink to the bottom and when 49 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: my feet touched I could push myself straight back up 50 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 3: and pull myself out and no one would even notice. 51 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 3: I wasn't sure if that would work or not, but 52 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,119 Speaker 3: before I gave it much thought, I just jumped into 53 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: the water. The second I hit the water, I heard 54 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 3: my sister start yelling for my dad, which was a 55 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 3: good thing because things didn't go as planned. I started 56 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 3: spinning and spinning and couldn't touch anything but water. I 57 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 3: noticed that I was running out of air, and I 58 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: thought for a second, uh oh. Then when I was 59 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 3: on the bottom of the pool, I started to feel wonderful. 60 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 3: I was so relieved that the spinning had stopped. I 61 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 3: got up and kicked something off of my feet, and 62 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 3: I seemed to be able to swim. Now, I figured 63 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: I'd better go to the top and pull myself out, 64 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 3: since that was my original plan. I could see my 65 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 3: sister standing by the side of the pool looking at 66 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 3: something on the ground, and my dad and others were 67 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 3: there looking down too. No one was looking at me, 68 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 3: so I figured they must have seen that I could 69 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 3: swim now and was okay in the water, and they 70 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 3: were busy watching something else. I guessed it must be 71 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 3: fine for me to stay in the water, so I 72 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 3: started to swim around again, but I remembered the look 73 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 3: on my sister's face. She looked scared. I was curious 74 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 3: about what they were all looking at and decided to 75 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 3: swim back up and see. While I was on my 76 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 3: way up there, I saw a swirl of colors in 77 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 3: the water that turned into people. It seemed very odd, 78 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 3: but I was watching this and never ended up going 79 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 3: back up to see what my sister was looking at. 80 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 3: The people I saw all looked familiar. I had seen 81 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 3: them before in nativity scenes at Christmas, except now they 82 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 3: were alive and life sized. It was dark around them, 83 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 3: even though it was a nice sunny summer day, but 84 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 3: not pitch black dark. It was dark like when the 85 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 3: lights are off in your house in the middle of 86 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 3: the day. I focused mainly on Mary who was wearing 87 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 3: a dark blue robe and a lighter veil, but also 88 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 3: noticed a man, Joseph, I assume, in a brown robe 89 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 3: holding a staff. There was a manger, but I didn't 90 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 3: notice if there was a baby in it, and I 91 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 3: don't know if there were more people or animals there. 92 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 3: Mary and Joseph were staring straight down and I just 93 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 3: looked at them, and I was totally confused about what 94 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 3: they were doing under the water in the pool. Then 95 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 3: it got very bright around them all and they looked up. 96 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 3: Mary smiled at me, and she was so beautiful. What 97 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 3: happened next all seemed to take place in one second. 98 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 3: It's as if Mary's face moved and I could see 99 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 3: behind her eyes was a very bright light, and I 100 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 3: read recognize that light, and in my head I said, ah, 101 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 3: it's you. I knew her and was so happy to 102 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 3: see her again. I felt so much love and remembered 103 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 3: that I was so important. I just wanted to go 104 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,919 Speaker 3: to her, and I did start moving towards her, but 105 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 3: then suddenly I was pulled out of the water and 106 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: was sitting on the side of the pool. I felt 107 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 3: so disappointed. I wanted nothing more than to go to her. 108 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 3: I didn't know who pulled me out of the water. 109 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 3: There was no one behind me, and my dad was 110 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: standing by the fence and was very angry and yelling, 111 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 3: which was so out of character for him. My sister 112 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 3: was staring at me angrily with her hands on her hips, 113 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: while my dad was telling me how selfish I was. 114 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 3: Everything looked so hazy compared to the crisp, bright people 115 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,359 Speaker 3: I had been looking at under the water. It looked 116 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 3: like my dad had big tears in his eyes, but 117 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 3: I thought maybe it was just being in the water. 118 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 3: I felt so confused. Why was my dad mad at 119 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 3: me for being in the water when a minute ago 120 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 3: he didn't seem to care while he was busy with 121 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 3: his friends. When he was done scolding me, he walked away. 122 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 3: I looked at my sister, who was still angry, but 123 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 3: then her face softened and she said, were you scared? 124 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 3: I looked around to make sure my dad wasn't near, 125 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 3: and I shook my head and said, no, it was fun. 126 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 3: Then she yelled at me and said I'd better not 127 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 3: do it ever again. I got down on my knees 128 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 3: near the pool and looked for the people in the water. 129 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 3: I had no idea where they went. I didn't understand 130 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 3: what had just happened. My dad came back and got 131 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 3: upset that I was so close to the water again 132 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 3: and said it was time for us to go home. 133 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 3: While we walked home, he seemed to be back to 134 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 3: his normal, fun dad self again, and I was so relieved. 135 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 3: But when we walked in the house, he went straight 136 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 3: to my mom and said that he thought he had 137 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 3: lost me. He sounded so upset again. I really felt 138 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 3: like he was making a much bigger deal out of 139 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 3: it than it really was. Later, my mom told me 140 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 3: that I really upset him and I better not do 141 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 3: anything like that again. A few days later, we went 142 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 3: to my uncle's for dinner and my aunt started asking 143 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 3: me questions. She showed me pictures and statues of Jesus 144 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 3: and she asked me if I saw him that day, 145 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 3: and I said no. She asked me to point at 146 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 3: who I saw, so I pointed at a nativity scene 147 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 3: and she said, oh, baby Jesus. You saw Baby Jesus. 148 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 3: Then she looked at my mom and dad and said 149 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 3: she died under that water. I didn't understand why seeing 150 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 3: baby Jesus meant that I died as far as I know, 151 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 3: I was very much alive the whole time. No one 152 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 3: ever questioned me about it again. Over the years, I 153 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 3: would think about civic parts of it that baffled me. 154 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 3: What was under the water that I had to kick 155 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 3: my feet off of? I eventually told myself it must 156 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 3: have been a towel that fell into the water. That's 157 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 3: the only thing that made sense. Why did my dad 158 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 3: leave me in the water for a while then get 159 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 3: mad at me for being there? None of it made sense. 160 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 3: My dad hardly ever got upset, and this was the 161 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 3: worst I had ever seen him. I didn't understand that 162 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 3: part until years later. Why did I see people under 163 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 3: the water? And why did it feel so good? As 164 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 3: I got older, I thought I must have hallucinated it, 165 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 3: and maybe the lack of oxygen is what made me 166 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 3: feel good. I didn't understand why I would hallucinate a 167 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 3: Christmas Nativity scene, though, in the middle of summer I 168 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,439 Speaker 3: decided that some of it probably would never make sense. 169 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 3: In two thousand and four, my dad had surgery to 170 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 3: remove a tumor from the side of his face. The 171 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 3: operation was supposed to take about three hours, but the 172 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 3: tumor was more difficult to remove than they thought, and 173 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 3: it took hours longer. His heart stopped for a while 174 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 3: during the surgery, but they were able to get it 175 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 3: going again. When we went to see him afterwards, he 176 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 3: said that during the surgery he was on the ceiling 177 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 3: watching the doctors operate on him, and he saw his 178 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 3: face be cut open by them. I told him that 179 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 3: maybe it was a dream, but after that knew he 180 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 3: may have had an experience like I did. Also, my 181 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 3: dad saw all of this from above, but he had 182 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 3: gone blind a few years prior to that. My dad 183 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 3: unfortunately passed away a month later and never came home 184 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 3: from the hospital. In the summer of twenty twenty one, 185 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 3: my sister and I were talking about that day at 186 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 3: the pool and I said that I must have been 187 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 3: really groggy when I got pulled out of the water. 188 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 3: He was shocked by me, saying that she said, you 189 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 3: weren't breathing at all. You needed to be resuscitated. That 190 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 3: made no sense to me. Months later, when I was 191 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 3: fifty six years old, I stumbled across near death experiences 192 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 3: on YouTube, and it wasn't until I watched quite a 193 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 3: few of them that I realized what actually happened. 194 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 4: That day. 195 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 3: Why I was able to swim if that was actually swimming, 196 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 3: I had kicked my body off my feet, not a towel. 197 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 3: Why when I came to the bottom of the pool 198 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 3: I never had to go up for air. When I 199 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 3: thought I had been pulled out of the water, I 200 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 3: was actually sucked back into my body, which is why 201 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 3: there was no one around me. My dad did have 202 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 3: tears in his eyes because he thought he had lost me, 203 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 3: and no one could see me in the water because 204 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 3: it was my spirit or consciousness that was in there 205 00:11:57,080 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 3: having a great time while my body was beingusitated. It 206 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 3: took fifty three years before it all made sense, including 207 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 3: realizing that my dad really was on the ceiling watching 208 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 3: his own surgery. In my mind, now death is not 209 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 3: scary because we really don't die. In fact, it's going 210 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 3: to be amazing. Reading this story today reminded me of 211 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 3: a man I sat next to on an airplane told 212 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 3: me the story of when his little boy drowned and 213 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 3: was resuscitated. He said he wasn't scared at all because 214 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 3: the big face in the sun was there and told 215 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 3: him he still had a lot of life to live. 216 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 3: The kid grew up and went on making a difference 217 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 3: with young people, making his father very proud. Let's head 218 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 3: off to the break and when we come back, you'll 219 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: hear another near death experience from a man who never 220 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 3: believed in any of this stuff. We'll be right back. 221 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 3: You're listening to Shades of the Afterlife on the iHeartRadio 222 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 3: and Coast to Coast AM Pirinormal Podcast Network. Welcome back 223 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 3: to Shades of the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain and here's 224 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 3: our next near death experience. Diagnosed terminal with cancer and 225 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,559 Speaker 3: in and out of consciousness for several weeks, I had 226 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 3: been told there was no help. I was thirty nine 227 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 3: days into a thirty day life expectancy. I found myself 228 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 3: in an open expanse of darkness. Oddly, it surrounded me, 229 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 3: and even odder was I could seemingly see three hundred 230 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 3: and sixty degrees without turning myne head. I just knew 231 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 3: it was endless. There was a noise, or maybe best stated, 232 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 3: a vibration or humming sound. The noise didn't scare me, 233 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 3: In fact, it seemingly calmed me. Down in the distance, 234 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 3: there was a soft and peaceful, reddish glow. It grew 235 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 3: larger and larger. It seemed red, but as I got 236 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 3: closer it appeared peach colored and pink and even maybe orange. 237 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 3: To this date, describing the colors is difficult for me 238 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 3: because I have never experienced colors so vivid and brilliant, 239 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 3: almost like the phases of a cloud cluttered sunriser sunset, 240 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 3: the way the colors evolve with the sun slipping in 241 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 3: and out and reflecting onto the clouds. I didn't move, 242 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 3: but I could certainly feel the glow getting larger and larger, 243 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 3: as if I were rushing to it without any effort. 244 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 3: There was no tunnel, as some report. The glow of 245 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 3: red now seemed pinkish and orange and was clearly not 246 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 3: a volcano. But as I peered over my toes, there 247 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 3: was no end below. There was no heat or lava, 248 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 3: just a harmonic hum and a specific odor that I 249 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 3: didn't recognize. I remember thinking, I don't ever recall smelling 250 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 3: anything in a dream. The smell I could actually taste 251 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 3: like after a thunderstorm, that crisp but refreshed smell. I 252 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 3: wasn't at all frightened. I wasn't confused either. In fact, 253 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 3: I was at the greatest piece I've ever known, without 254 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 3: any hesitation, A bright light shaped ball or mass appeared 255 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: before me, like a giant ball of light swirling into itself, 256 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 3: rotating in nearly every direction, highlighted by blue streaks. It 257 00:15:55,560 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 3: wasn't perfectly round. It almost appeared jagged and occasionally squeezed 258 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 3: into almost a thick, doughnut shaped structure of pure energy. 259 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 3: As I focused on this center, it began to distort 260 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 3: and glow brighter, with streaks of blue that began to 261 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 3: outline the shape of a face emerging. The mass of 262 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 3: light increased in brightness continually, but yet it didn't make 263 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 3: me squint or shield my eyes. It made me feel 264 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 3: better and more peaceful. As it grew in intensity, Suddenly 265 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 3: there was a face that was definitive and energized. It 266 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:39,119 Speaker 3: was a face of an older man, withered in appearance. 267 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 3: His face appeared and consumed the mass of light. His 268 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 3: hair was longer and had gentle waves, not tight, but 269 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 3: rolling down past what I assumed or shoulders, but unseen 270 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 3: to me. He looked somewhat familiar, or rather felt familiar. 271 00:16:57,040 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 3: There was a burst or vibration from him that I 272 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 3: could feel down to the very core of my body. 273 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 3: That was the most comfort that I have ever felt. 274 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 3: It was like a summer breeze in your face, without 275 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 3: a care in the world. I no longer felt physical 276 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 3: pain as I did in my awake state, which had 277 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 3: been so intense. It was just peace, unlike anything I 278 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 3: had ever experienced. Then there were words. There was no speaking, 279 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 3: as the figure's lips never moved, nor did mine, but 280 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 3: there were words. It was a question, are you ready? 281 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 3: It was vague but decisive, and I felt no ambiguity 282 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 3: in its meaning. My lips didn't move, but I was 283 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 3: able to reply, no, I'm not ready yet. Then more 284 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 3: words came from him, there is something important you still 285 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 3: need to do. And at the same time I felt 286 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,719 Speaker 3: these words, a smile began to form on the man's face, 287 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 3: and more rays of light began to shoot out nearly 288 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 3: every part of his face. I reached for his face, 289 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 3: unafraid but exploring, just without thought, I reached for his 290 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 3: face and placed my hands on his cheeks. I had 291 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 3: originally thought he would have been well out of my reach, 292 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 3: suspended over the expanse, but he was not. I reached 293 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:25,680 Speaker 3: out slowly and deliberately. My body vibrated, and the light 294 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 3: grew again in intensity and brightness. As his smile expanded, 295 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 3: I felt as if I was falling but hadn't moved. Suddenly, 296 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 3: there were valleys and mountains and streams and small specks 297 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 3: of numerous people and animals in the expanse below me. 298 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:48,439 Speaker 3: It was brief, but a complete vision of a peaceful place, 299 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:52,919 Speaker 3: void of definable color, but a great source of peace. 300 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 3: The entire field of view became a white light. I 301 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 3: felt weightless, as in God. There was a sense of speed. 302 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 3: Somehow I felt what seemed like my body was traveling 303 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 3: at speeds bluring my view. Within seconds, I awoke in 304 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 3: my hospital bed. I was scared to suddenly be there, 305 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 3: yet I still felt peaceful. I immediately assumed my encounter 306 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 3: was a dream. But yet somehow, deep inside me, I 307 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 3: knew it wasn't. Within minutes of this experience, I purposely 308 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 3: and incessantly asked to see all of my doctors and 309 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 3: asked them to explain my options and chances of survival. 310 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,880 Speaker 3: I told them I had to live. I told them 311 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 3: specifically that there was something important I was supposed to do, 312 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 3: and that this day marked the beginning of life saving 313 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 3: treatment that would take nearly three years. There were several 314 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 3: hurdles in those years, including a two month stint in 315 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 3: hospice which I miraculously got better, which is still unexplained 316 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 3: by my doctors. Around Christmas of twenty thirteen, close to 317 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 3: the three year point, I neared what appeared to be 318 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 3: the end of my battle. I received a homemade calendar, 319 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 3: as usual at Christmas from my mother, with several photographs 320 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 3: on it. As I scanned the calendar, I came across 321 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 3: a picture of a man. I was instantly weakened and 322 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:27,199 Speaker 3: literally fell back in my seat. I was stunned and 323 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 3: left breathless. That man on that calendar was the same 324 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:35,360 Speaker 3: face in the giant mass of light that I had 325 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 3: experienced at Death's door in my dream. That same face, 326 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 3: but I still didn't know who it was. Once I 327 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 3: could muster the courage to ask the question, I was 328 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 3: told it was my grandfather. He had died in nineteen 329 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 3: fifty six, well before my birth, and as a result, 330 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 3: he had never been part of my life in stories, 331 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 3: and I had never seen any photographs. 332 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:02,120 Speaker 5: There was no. 333 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 3: Possible way I could recognize this man. In the next 334 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:11,360 Speaker 3: few months, I discovered the near death experience ND and 335 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,919 Speaker 3: its history in our society. I was never a believer 336 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 3: in these events, as perceptual prejudice dictated otherwise, although it 337 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 3: was clear to me at this point that I certainly 338 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 3: had one. I compared my recorded after effects to several 339 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 3: lists developed by researchers and scientists. As you can imagine, 340 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 3: the changes I documented were exactly the same as millions 341 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 3: of near death experiencers around the world. This realization happened 342 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 3: almost three years from the actual event, exactly the timeframe 343 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:52,639 Speaker 3: recorded in research, as the time frame the majority of 344 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 3: near death experiencers go through until they're awakening or realization 345 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 3: of the event and acceptance of the same. Without trying, 346 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 3: I had evolved to a higher consciousness, and I had changed. 347 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,679 Speaker 3: I was not a believer in the afterlife. I am now. Obviously, 348 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 3: you can't ignore millions of people who change spontaneously after 349 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 3: a moment like this. It's hard for us to change 350 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 3: anything about ourselves, let alone major shifts in personality since 351 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 3: my awakening. I research, I read, and I learn, and 352 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 3: I learn and I read. It's not all near death 353 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 3: experienced stuff either, very little is. In fact, it's things 354 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:47,199 Speaker 3: like quantum physics, science, epiphanies of life's greatest questions, and 355 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 3: some questions I never even considered asking. Sometimes they flow 356 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 3: with such ease that I often just burst into laughter. 357 00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 3: Most importantly, a love for others simply cannot ignore. Then 358 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:08,199 Speaker 3: there's the calling. We all experience, the same calling to 359 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 3: better mankind in some way. In fact, it seems this 360 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 3: is the only question I can't answer in life. Is 361 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 3: the one thing said in my nd I am supposed 362 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 3: to do something important. This remains the caret I chase, 363 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 3: and I am perfectly okay with it, as long as 364 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 3: I keep working towards bettering mankind in some way. Here's 365 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 3: a short end. When I was shot, I recall walking 366 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 3: through a doorway and a staircase presented itself. I immediately 367 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 3: ascended without thought. On the third step, I hesitated looking 368 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 3: back down, but saw a multitude of souls standing by 369 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 3: what seemed to be a river down below. I turned 370 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:02,479 Speaker 3: and resumed. I assent to the fifth step, where I 371 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 3: became centered within enlightenment. My universe became clear. I could 372 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 3: see beyond time, and there before me passed my life, 373 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:17,199 Speaker 3: the lives of my parents, the lives of my grandparents, 374 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 3: all my accomplishments, failures, wants, needs, and desires, both past 375 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 3: and future. It was very beautiful and a loving experience, 376 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 3: and all thought being as one. As I reviewed the 377 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 3: past and the future, it became clear that all was good, 378 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 3: all was in order. I was at peace within the cosmos, 379 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 3: and then I regained consciousness. Here's another short story. A 380 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,160 Speaker 3: gown named Katie says, my grandfather died at the age 381 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,400 Speaker 3: of seventy three from a heart attack. He had been 382 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,679 Speaker 3: in his garden and asked my grandma to call nine one. 383 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 3: The ambulance arrived and asked if he could climb up 384 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 3: on the gurney himself or not. He said he could. 385 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,919 Speaker 3: Then all of a sudden, his eyes got glassy and large, 386 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 3: as if he couldn't believe what he was seeing, and 387 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 3: then he said Dad, with a huge smile on his face. 388 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,679 Speaker 3: He passed away. We'll be right back with four mediums 389 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 3: letting you know how to get in touch with your 390 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 3: own loved one and an experiential journey. You're listening to 391 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 3: Shades of the Afterlife on the iHeartRadio and Coast to 392 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 3: Coast AM Paranormal Podcast Network. Welcome back to Shades of 393 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 3: the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain and in this segment you're 394 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 3: going to hear from four mediums. Now again, we're recording 395 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 3: this around Christmas time, but I think the advice is 396 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:12,360 Speaker 3: good any time of the year. First will be Scott Billigan, 397 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 3: then Dominic Bogue, then Phil Dyke's, then Carrie McLeod. Here's Scott. 398 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,239 Speaker 6: I think we have to realize that the language of 399 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 6: the spirit is love, and each of us are capable 400 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 6: of love, and therefore we can never lose touch with 401 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 6: the spirit world. You've got to give something over for 402 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 6: the other world to then whisper back. If you can 403 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 6: think of your most powerful happy memory on earth, be 404 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 6: it's within your childhood or in your adulthood, or somewhere 405 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 6: within your timeline when you have felt absolutely the best 406 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 6: you've ever felt, the happiest you've ever been, and think 407 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 6: of that memory very very strongly. And what that does 408 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 6: is creates a power, and that creates a change within 409 00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 6: your atmosphere around you, in your aura. And once you've 410 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,919 Speaker 6: held thought for a few moments, I want you to 411 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 6: then think of the person you're missing today, someone who 412 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 6: now lives and exists within the spirit world, and just 413 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,679 Speaker 6: kind of send the thoughts to them and say, Dad, 414 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 6: Mum or whoever it may be, are you there? And 415 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 6: can you fill me? Can you feel this love that 416 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,400 Speaker 6: I'm sending? And I want you just to become bodily 417 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 6: aware of any kind of static or tingle feeling that 418 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 6: you may have. Ordinarily it may be around your head 419 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,400 Speaker 6: or around the back of you. And when you get 420 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 6: that tingle, just go, I'm aware. And you may find 421 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,680 Speaker 6: that that tingle gets a bit stronger. And sometimes when 422 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 6: it's with myself and people who are following the altered States, 423 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 6: you may find that that tingle makes you feel a 424 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 6: bit tired, and that tiredness starts to wash a little 425 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 6: bit more deeper with you. But then you can always 426 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,919 Speaker 6: ask whoever you're missing, and you can feel them and 427 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 6: you recognize them. Is to say to that loved one, 428 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,919 Speaker 6: when you introduce me to the others that stand with me, 429 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 6: and you may find that your helper then steps forward, 430 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 6: and that tingle may feel different. You may start to 431 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 6: hear your own voice within your head, and that tiredness 432 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:19,719 Speaker 6: gets a bit more deeper. And it's about learning to attune, blend, 433 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 6: and communicate. The ABC of life in Scott's version is ask, 434 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,919 Speaker 6: beg and cry, because how many times as mediums we 435 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,400 Speaker 6: ask the spirit world, then we beg the spirit world, 436 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 6: and then when it doesn't work, we cry. But that's 437 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,719 Speaker 6: very normal, So try it. When you have a moment, 438 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 6: think of a happy memory which attunes yourself to the power, 439 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 6: and then invite those that you miss and allow them 440 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 6: to blend. And when they blend with you, that's when 441 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 6: you release those thoughts. I'm aware, and I love you still, 442 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 6: and I love you every moment of my life. And 443 00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 6: just on a personal note, everyone, what's talking to you tonight? Sandra, 444 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 6: Dominic and myself all have fathers in the other world, 445 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 6: and it's a painful moment when someone you love that 446 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 6: goes over. 447 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 7: But we also still have mothers. 448 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 6: Here and we've got to squeeze every ounce out of 449 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 6: that time. So I invite all of you to squeeze 450 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 6: as much as you can from every situation, and if 451 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 6: they go to the spirit world, sit quietly and listen, 452 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 6: and therefore you will hear. So that's what I'm going 453 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 6: to offer you, my little lovies, and I wish you 454 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 6: a happy Christmas. As I hand you over to Dominic. 455 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 4: Beautiful Scott, beautiful Ezacha Lake, Scott says, going into that 456 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 4: happy moment or that happy memory from me as a 457 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,640 Speaker 4: medium allows the spirit to see your fault and that 458 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:52,240 Speaker 4: allows that loved one to recognize your thinking of me. 459 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 4: Maybe that thinking turns into you are missing me. How 460 00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 4: do we allow the spirit world to you know that 461 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 4: we are thinking of them or missing them? You know, 462 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 4: you may hear crazy people like myself and Scott and 463 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 4: Steven Sandra say talk to them? So do we talk 464 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 4: to them? You may ask. I invite you as the 465 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 4: festive period comes close. This is just something that I've 466 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 4: done many times on my own. Write a Christmas card 467 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 4: to your loved one, right, a greetings card or a 468 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 4: festive card to maybe your mom, or your son or 469 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 4: your best friend, to maybe is no longer here in 470 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 4: the physical and to spending Christmas in the spirit side 471 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 4: of life. Take a few moments to go into that stillness, 472 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 4: like Scott said, going into that silence and within your thoughts, 473 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 4: so within your mind where every communication begins. Get your 474 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 4: pen and your card and write out the beautiful messages 475 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 4: that you would like to send to them. But don't 476 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 4: just write express the conversations, right, Maybe down the memories 477 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 4: that you had with each other. Maybe write down the 478 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 4: last Christmas that you celebrated. Together. When you're writing, you 479 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 4: are becoming aware of your loved ones naturally without even realizing, 480 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 4: and sending that thought to them by reminiscing and almost 481 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:27,479 Speaker 4: having that heart to heart conversation brings them so close 482 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 4: that maybe your emotions get moved. Maybe other memories will 483 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 4: come from your loved one into your mind, maybe memories 484 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 4: you've forgotten, maybe conversations you forgot you even had. So 485 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 4: take a moment, and that's all it is. Take a 486 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,479 Speaker 4: moment and write that Christmas card out to your loved ones, 487 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 4: and don't forget to sign it at the end with 488 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 4: lots of love. And maybe when the Christmas cards start 489 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 4: to get delivered your friends and your family and maybe 490 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 4: your neighbors, get that Christmas card out that you wrote 491 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 4: for your loved one and put it out underly knowing 492 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 4: that they would have received your thoughts. 493 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 5: Knowing that they would have watched over your shoulder as 494 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 5: you wrote that beautiful message for them, And just know 495 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 5: that they'll be sending that back to you on the 496 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,479 Speaker 5: Christmas when it comes. 497 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:29,040 Speaker 3: And now here's Phil Dyke's then his beautiful wife Carrie McLeod. 498 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 7: As a medium, we can work in many different ways. 499 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 7: Tonight was about impressions, clairvoyants, different things. But as we 500 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 7: work with those impressions, we know there's more than just 501 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 7: a picture that we see. We know there's emotional responses 502 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 7: that react within us. So when we receive information, that 503 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 7: evidence is the feeling within us, emotional states, mental states, 504 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 7: and physical states the directors in the way to use 505 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 7: that information. So we're working within what we call a 506 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 7: spiritual reality. Right now, I'm in what we call the 507 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 7: normal reality, the beta frequency of the mind, where I 508 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 7: can talk to explain things. When we work with the 509 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 7: spirit world, the mind, the consciousness has moved and we're 510 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 7: working with another reality and we're living it and we're 511 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:23,000 Speaker 7: feeling those emotions, and especially this time of the year, 512 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 7: or leading up to this time of the year, when 513 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 7: we start to remember our loved ones and the interactions 514 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 7: and the experiences and those moments we shared, and it's 515 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 7: those impressions that we we call back and it helps 516 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 7: us remember who they were, how they inspired us. So 517 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 7: those emotional impressions and feelings are really important because when 518 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 7: we feel a little bit low, the spirit world or 519 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 7: our loved ones react to that because they feel how 520 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 7: we feel. And when we feel a little bit down, 521 00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 7: they choose to come forward through that love, and that's 522 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,600 Speaker 7: the greatest feeling of all. And when we've lost somebody 523 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 7: and we're in that club that nobody wants to be 524 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 7: part of, that we call grief, their loved ones come 525 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 7: around us. They uplift us. They try and inspire us 526 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 7: through music, through memories, through TV programs, and when we 527 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 7: feel those low states, they want to come in and 528 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 7: not just lifter us. They understand that connection, albeit within 529 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 7: a different consciousness. They don't have the physical limitations we have. 530 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 7: The feelings they have are pure unconditional love. Yes, they 531 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 7: miss us, but it's in a different context because that 532 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 7: love that we have touches their soul still and they 533 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,319 Speaker 7: want to be part of that. That's why we get 534 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 7: the contacts we do tonight and other demonstrations is that 535 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 7: need of love upliftment. So if we can have those 536 00:34:56,160 --> 00:35:01,200 Speaker 7: feelings towards our loved ones, talk to them, joys with them, 537 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 7: they come that little bit closer, and especially as we 538 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,360 Speaker 7: feel them, because just like a mother with a father, 539 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 7: a mother with a daughter or a son, our love 540 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 7: goes beyond those thoughts that we have and they still 541 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 7: reach out, they still come close to us. If we 542 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 7: can hold that in our hearts, especially at this time, 543 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 7: because sometimes we might be on our own, we can 544 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,800 Speaker 7: realize that we're never on our own. They are only 545 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 7: a thought away. 546 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 1: Whether it's the festive season or any other religious or 547 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,880 Speaker 1: family occasion throughout the year, when you don't have somebody 548 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:41,080 Speaker 1: physically here every day, that they're a way that you 549 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:46,000 Speaker 1: would normally celebrate with them can bring onsets of that grief. 550 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 1: I heard once a description of grief that you might 551 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:54,320 Speaker 1: be able to relate to. Grief is like a box 552 00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 1: a cube, and in it is a balloon, and that 553 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 1: balloon is inflated, touching every internal side of that box 554 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 1: or cube, and the inside of that is raw. It's painful. 555 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: Through time, that balloon loses some of it's inflation, so 556 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 1: it doesn't touch all of the sides all of the time, 557 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:26,479 Speaker 1: but boy, when it does, it's just as painful as 558 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: the moment it happened. Now, that's a cost, in some 559 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:35,800 Speaker 1: respects of having loved at a really, really deep level. 560 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 1: So it stands to reason that in order to miss somebody, 561 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 1: we also have to remember somebody I know. I do 562 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 1: this and Phil does this when I feel grief I 563 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 1: also feel thanks and gratitude. It doesn't make the grief 564 00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:00,360 Speaker 1: go away, but it brings more of a balance to 565 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: the emotions. I expose myself to emotions of gratitude, of love, 566 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:11,720 Speaker 1: of smiles, and of happy memories. If you have both 567 00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 1: of those, it connects you, yes, through the love, but 568 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: also through the memories, because if you think about it, 569 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,759 Speaker 1: that's what mediumship is. You meet in the same energetic 570 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: memory as your loved one or friend. Imagine being able 571 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: to do that for yourself. You can you feel and 572 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 1: think memory and your loved ones join you in that 573 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:42,720 Speaker 1: same energetic experience. So whatever day is the share or next, 574 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 1: if you ever feel a pang of grief or the 575 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 1: pain of grief, also remember the gratitude of love and 576 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: the memories that you shared keeps us together. 577 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:54,919 Speaker 4: That it does. 578 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 3: Time for a quick break and we'll be right back. 579 00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,920 Speaker 3: You're listening to Shades of the Apple for Life on 580 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 3: the iHeartRadio and Coast to Coast am hair Normal Podcast Network. 581 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 3: Welcome back to Shades of the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain. 582 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 3: In our last minutes today, I want to do something 583 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 3: experiential to feel that closer connection with our loved ones. 584 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,840 Speaker 3: So find a place to sit where you can close 585 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:45,120 Speaker 3: your eyes for about ten minutes or so, take a 586 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:53,880 Speaker 3: few deep breaths, filling your lungs slowly and then exhaling slowly. 587 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 3: As you continue need to take those breaths, simply listen 588 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:09,400 Speaker 3: to my words on how we receive information as souls, 589 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:11,719 Speaker 3: whether we are on this side of life or the 590 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:17,800 Speaker 3: other side. We communicate best with our emotions and our imagination. 591 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 3: Our happiest memories and even moments of laughter are like 592 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 3: knocking on the door to talk with our loved ones. First, 593 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,360 Speaker 3: we need to be in the present moment. The human 594 00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 3: mind is not easy to slow down. But as we 595 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:43,240 Speaker 3: continue to take those deep breaths, focus on each breath 596 00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:56,240 Speaker 3: and how it feels breathing in and breathing out. Now, 597 00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:01,360 Speaker 3: scan how it feels being in your body right now. 598 00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 3: If there is any tension or stress, send a deep 599 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 3: breath to that area, and now just let some relaxation 600 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:38,279 Speaker 3: flow into your chest, into your lungs, down into your body. 601 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 3: Let that relaxation flow into your arms, into your legs, 602 00:40:54,239 --> 00:41:02,760 Speaker 3: into your head and neck, through the feet to the toes, 603 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:11,360 Speaker 3: and even down into your hands and into your fingers. 604 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:18,799 Speaker 3: As we continue to take those deep breaths, feel your 605 00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 3: body being supported, whether on a chair or couch. You 606 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:32,320 Speaker 3: may feel the temperature of the air on your skin, 607 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:43,319 Speaker 3: and maybe there's some outside noise around you. Just sit 608 00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:55,240 Speaker 3: and take it all in in this present moment. Now, 609 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,120 Speaker 3: think of a loved one that no longer walks this earth, 610 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 3: one that you have some favorite, happy or fun shared 611 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:15,120 Speaker 3: memories with. You can imagine them sitting right next to 612 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 3: you and greet them however you would greet them in 613 00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:27,600 Speaker 3: the past. Maybe a big smile comes to your face, 614 00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:39,560 Speaker 3: perhaps a hug or holding their hands. Choose a great 615 00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:52,399 Speaker 3: memory of a time together, and remember as much as 616 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 3: you can about it and the joy that it brought 617 00:42:56,239 --> 00:43:09,920 Speaker 3: to you. Where were you, what were you both doing, 618 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 3: Who was there? What was happening that brought so much joy? 619 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:35,319 Speaker 3: Take a moment and recall as much as you can 620 00:43:36,320 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 3: and the wonderful emotions of joy, happiness, laughter. As there 621 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:12,719 Speaker 3: is a big smile on your face right now, your 622 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 3: loved one is by your side. You may wish to 623 00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 3: ask them to hold your hand or put their hand 624 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 3: on your arm, and pay attention to how you feel. 625 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,240 Speaker 3: Perhaps there are some words you have for your loved 626 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:50,759 Speaker 3: one and they have for you. Take a moment and 627 00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:54,440 Speaker 3: talk with your loved one and be in their presence. 628 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 1: M d The river La ne Orbos that would. 629 00:45:46,680 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 3: Lab your loved one continues to live and they can 630 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:14,279 Speaker 3: easily be in the world of spirit while keeping a 631 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:21,400 Speaker 3: close eye on our world. Their love for you is eternal. 632 00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,359 Speaker 3: See that smile on their face as they spend time 633 00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:44,719 Speaker 3: with you, feeling so grateful that you know how to 634 00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 3: connect with them. Now, Imagine an upcoming holiday or birthday 635 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 3: or anne nursery. They tell you they understand that you 636 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:19,560 Speaker 3: miss them, but although you can't see them physically, they 637 00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:24,360 Speaker 3: are still with you in the invisible space around you. 638 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 3: That all you need to do is slow down and 639 00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:37,839 Speaker 3: pay attention. Imagine yourself now on that special day, as 640 00:47:37,880 --> 00:48:16,280 Speaker 3: you continue to feel your loved one's presence, they remind 641 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:25,759 Speaker 3: you that your life here on earth is important and 642 00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:30,239 Speaker 3: to do your best to experience as much as you can, 643 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:41,760 Speaker 3: to be kind to yourself, to be kind to others, 644 00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 3: and know that you will be together again in a 645 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:56,040 Speaker 3: very special and magical place that will make this life 646 00:48:56,320 --> 00:49:13,320 Speaker 3: here on earth seem like it was just a dream. 647 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:18,880 Speaker 3: My friends, our loved ones are by our sides. All 648 00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:25,839 Speaker 3: we need to do is slow down, be present, recall 649 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:33,319 Speaker 3: those emotions and ask them to be with us. Pay 650 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:37,600 Speaker 3: attention in your day to day life. When thoughts and 651 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:42,040 Speaker 3: memories of a past event with your loved one seem 652 00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:46,880 Speaker 3: to come out of the blue, those are their little 653 00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:53,239 Speaker 3: calling cards that they are right here with you. Our 654 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:56,080 Speaker 3: time together on this episode has come to an end. 655 00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:01,359 Speaker 3: Please continue to know your loved one ones are very 656 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:08,399 Speaker 3: real and always part of your life. Remember to come 657 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:13,080 Speaker 3: visit me at weedotdie dot com, join me on our 658 00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:17,880 Speaker 3: free Sunday gathering with medium demonstration, or take one of 659 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 3: our new classes to experience more of the power of 660 00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:27,640 Speaker 3: your soul. I'm Sandra Champlain. Thank you so much for 661 00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 3: listening to Shades of the Afterlife on the iHeartRadio and 662 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:37,160 Speaker 3: Coast to Coast, a paranormal podcast network. 663 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,680 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to the iHeartRadio and Coast to Ghost 664 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,759 Speaker 2: Day and Paranormal podcast network. Make sure and check out 665 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:54,040 Speaker 2: all our shows on the iHeartRadio app or by going 666 00:50:54,080 --> 00:51:00,000 Speaker 2: to iHeartRadio dot com. 667 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:00,359 Speaker 5: Yeah