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Speaker 2: Say something, No, that's exactly I just wanted to see.

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Speaker 3: You were gaslighting me. You literally go out of your

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Speaker 2: It was probably you. I mean I literally guessed, like

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Speaker 1: It was like someone else. It was like Christian or something,

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Speaker 2: And I was like, Drew, that's me.

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Speaker 4: That's me as a person. I gaslight and I actually

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Speaker 1: We've gas lit our followers into enjoy being gaslet because

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Speaker 1: Let's rea like phrase that. It's not that we're not important,

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Speaker 2: They don't sit about us.

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Speaker 4: Like it's just not in my car, Like I don't

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Speaker 1: I just realized, like us being here, like being like

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Speaker 2: Oh supposed to be our year. You know what that is?

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Speaker 1: Invite me and because we literally just like we're like,

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Speaker 2: Fucking we're just bitter.

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Speaker 4: We're just bitter, Like, please invite us, please, please please

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Speaker 2: I know one motherfucker from MVT, MVT, MV.

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Speaker 4: MTV is listening to this right now. Bitch, I know

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Speaker 4: you hear me. I'm looking at you in the fucking eyes.

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Speaker 1: You can't even see him. Drews practice that he got her.

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Speaker 1: You have to take her off to the camera literally

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Speaker 4: Her name is Goji. She's in her second stage evolution.

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Speaker 4: One day this week, I'll wake up and she will

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Speaker 2: She was like, I didn't think she could fly. I

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Speaker 1: And so she like ran jumped on top of my car,

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Speaker 4: that's literally a fucking bug, but like no, it like

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Speaker 1: You literally can't let it roam free because out of it.

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Speaker 2: Your Buck's Girl's Girl go Gi. I love Goji.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, while everyone was at the VMA's, we went

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Speaker 2: Bad, and you, I know it's so should you?

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Speaker 1: Playing games with Drew is literally see this, like when

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Speaker 4: So bad, and I win every time, and it's I

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Speaker 2: They're my motors.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I just like, without a doubt, every single

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Speaker 2: What is this bitch doing.

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Speaker 1: I need to change the character I use, I use MONTI.

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Speaker 4: have to you just have to like let it ebb

439
00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 4: and flow with the game and like just let it be,

440
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 4: and when you win, you brag and make everybody mad

441
00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:19,639
Speaker 4: and then they start making bad decision.

442
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:21,879
Speaker 1: The thing is, even when he's losing, he makes me

443
00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 1: pissed and he makes me like because at this point

444
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,399
Speaker 1: I know he's gonna win even if he's losing, so

445
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 1: I don't have an inch of hope when I'm playing

446
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 1: that game.

447
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 2: Literally, literally, I'll be a.

448
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,200
Speaker 1: Hopeless fucking portal of doom for me.

449
00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:35,200
Speaker 4: You'll you'll be like miles ahead of me in the game,

450
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,439
Speaker 4: like winning, and I'll be like like, I just like

451
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 4: I don't feel good, Like I don't even want to

452
00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,880
Speaker 4: play this anymore. And then I come back and win

453
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 4: but everything, or.

454
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 1: You're like you're like, oh, I'm not even stressed because

455
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna.

456
00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 4: Win, or I'm like like I just like haven't even

457
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:49,440
Speaker 4: been trying this game.

458
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,840
Speaker 1: He makes you feel so stupid for winning too. That's

459
00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,360
Speaker 1: what makes it worse is when you are winning, he's like, yeah,

460
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:56,360
Speaker 1: I just like feel bad for.

461
00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:57,679
Speaker 2: You, Like why would I want to win a stupid

462
00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:58,160
Speaker 2: little game?

463
00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:00,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like at this point, like it's so easy, see,

464
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 1: like I don't have to win anymore. And he'll will

465
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:04,840
Speaker 1: get to the end and who have zero stars and

466
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,159
Speaker 1: like three fucking coins and I'll have like three stars

467
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 1: and be like, yes, I fucking won, And then he

468
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:12,600
Speaker 1: gets three bonus stars and wins. I'm I almost just

469
00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 1: knocked your girl down.

470
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,400
Speaker 2: She no, she's she's good. She can be upside down.

471
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think like we're just different. Some girls

472
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,439
Speaker 1: go to the VMA's and walk the carpet. Some girls

473
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,920
Speaker 1: play Mario Party for like the third hour in a row.

474
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,200
Speaker 1: I need to stream it. I'm gonna stream it Thursday night.

475
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:29,960
Speaker 2: And it's also fucking crazy.

476
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna stream Thursday night. Guys, this is

477
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:33,680
Speaker 1: coming out on Friday.

478
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 4: It's also crazy because it's all for me. It's all

479
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 4: avoiding reality. I realize like, oh say, I fully realized that,

480
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 4: Like I.

481
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 5: Am slippy from once my's on the same path.

482
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yesterday I was literally like, I was like, it's

483
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 1: because we didn't play Mario Party. It's because it hit

484
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 1: eight o'clock and I wasn't sitting on the couch of

485
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 1: rotting into the middle playing Mario Party until one am. No.

486
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm fully fully slipping into this scary, scary, uh depression.

487
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 4: I feel good today, but yesterday, I I literally was yesterday.

488
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 1: You know, when we're both in like a rut when

489
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: all the lights on the in the house are off

490
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: all day.

491
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, we like turn the lights on all day like

492
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 4: we just existed in darkness. Uh yeah, it's I feel

493
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 4: better today though, but it's happening. You never know it's happening.

494
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 4: I'm manifesting it.

495
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 1: I was like, I could either be like slipping into

496
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: depression or wake up tomorrow feeling fine. But like it's

497
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: always like in the morning, I'm like, if I wake

498
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 1: up and keep myself a little busy, I'm like, okay,

499
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: I'm okay. And then this second it is nighttime and

500
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 1: I have nothing. If I'm not distracked, I'm like, oh,

501
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:52,879
Speaker 1: why am I?

502
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 2: What's the point? What's the point to all this?

503
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 1: The thing is like, what's even more fucked up is

504
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 1: I think about this a lot, and I don't know

505
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 1: about for you, but something about like I'm trying to

506
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:09,679
Speaker 1: think of how to word this because we were just

507
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 1: talking about like the past two weeks how we were like, yeah,

508
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 1: I feel literally nothing, like I don't feel anything. I

509
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: feel very nominated.

510
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 2: It's all avoiding like that feeling.

511
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all like my brain, like our brains without

512
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: us thinking to us about it. I think going into

513
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: like almost like defending mode of yeah, like avoiding that

514
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,360
Speaker 1: feeling and just being like, oh, like I'm okay. I

515
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 1: just like don't know, like I just don't care like.

516
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna put because for me, it's like I

517
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 4: don't if I think about it, it'll become my reality.

518
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna push it as far away as possible

519
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 4: and just like do my silly little task in my

520
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 4: video games until it hits full force, which is just

521
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 4: like the worst advice ever, but yeah, just uh, it's

522
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 4: been happening. The happening, the happening.

523
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: Of the depression.

524
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: I literally I do think. Kirshlan was just asking the

525
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 1: other day. He was like, oh, do you guys think

526
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: you have like seasonal depression? And I was like, oh no,

527
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: But then I thought about it. And last year, just

528
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,399
Speaker 1: like this year, around this time, it's always like I

529
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,119
Speaker 1: hit a wall and I'm like, why do I feel

530
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 1: like this? And of course there are always like little

531
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 1: things that I could be sad about, whether it's like

532
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 1: my fucking imposter syndrome attacking me or like any.

533
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 4: Other Oh my god, literally the imposter syndrome has been

534
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 4: hitting I know.

535
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 2: I genuinely think that's why I feel this way.

536
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:31,120
Speaker 4: Like the past like two weeks is like fully just

537
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 4: like not thinking highly of myself at all, like seeing

538
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 4: everybody do everything that I want to do and me

539
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 4: not being able to do it because for reasons I

540
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 4: don't understand. Also, like just not being able to understand

541
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 4: why I'm not in these positions is driving me and

542
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 4: saying I mean I understand like why I'm not because

543
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 4: I literally don't fucking do anything I know.

544
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 1: But then it's like it's like the idea where some

545
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: people were like the only like things standing in your

546
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: way is like you, and I'm like no, because if I,

547
00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: like I think like that, then it becomes a perpetual

548
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: cycle of like I'm the I'm the problem, I'm not enough,

549
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: and I'm standing in my way and it's like, dude,

550
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: these are like as much as I like to think

551
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 1: that I have control over my mood, I don't. It's

552
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: like genuinely probably gonna be something I battle for the

553
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: rest of my life. And it's that's not me being

554
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: like pessimistic and being like this will never end because

555
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 1: again it ebb and flows, and sometimes it's like harder

556
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,959
Speaker 1: to deal with and sometimes I like am so like

557
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: consumed by my day to day life and maybe I

558
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 1: am in a good state that I it's it's doesn't

559
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: even cross my mind and I'm like, oh, I could

560
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: be like this forever, but that's like not true. And

561
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: I think even for people who aren't depressed, like there's

562
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: who don't deal with depression, they have their own battle

563
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 1: of something like that. But it's just like a little

564
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: more intense when it is depression, because like depression is

565
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: followed by like insecurity and like lack of motivation, which

566
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 1: fuels the insecurity, which's a depression.

567
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 2: And it's like these like big visual cycles.

568
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, visious cycles that are like much harder to get

569
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 1: out of than you think. And then especially when you're

570
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: in like a position where a lot of what you

571
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: do is based on like you personally and how you

572
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,479
Speaker 1: portray yourself publicly, it becomes an even tougher game. Especially

573
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: when you see people who are really good at doing it,

574
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: who maybe even express going through the same thing. Then

575
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 1: it can even fucking double down on how should you

576
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: feel because you're like, damn, I know like eighty people

577
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: in this business who talk about suffering from like depression

578
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: and anxiety and all these things, but like how and

579
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: they're also not even medicated for it, So it's like fuck,

580
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: and they're still like doing it.

581
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're still on top of the world.

582
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: And it's like, Okay, so this is just what I'm

583
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: meant to be. It's like for lifers.

584
00:26:55,960 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 4: Me and my depression are for lifers. No, I had

585
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 4: that thought today or I think I put it on

586
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 4: my fence to story last night.

587
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 1: I was like, we both posted on our fences stories

588
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: at the same thun girl.

589
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 2: We were alone in our bedrooms and our fucking feels.

590
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 2: I was like, I was.

591
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 4: Like, please, God damn it. Like I genuinely like this

592
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 4: cannot be for life.

593
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: Like I literally like.

594
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 4: I this this like cycle of like like highs and lows,

595
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 4: like not even highs, just baselines and lows.

596
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: Like I just I really cannot go through this.

597
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 4: I mean, I literally am gonna figure out a way

598
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 4: to fucking deal with it, or it'll just like fix itself,

599
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 4: or I'll literally be do the smartest thing and fucking

600
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 4: medicate myself.

601
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know. I just like was really

602
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 2: I was, I can't do the.

603
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: Like the like dips.

604
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so annoying.

605
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: But I was like I think about this a lot

606
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: because I find myself craving being like fourteen to like

607
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: sixteen again or like thirteen to sixteen again, a really

608
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: odd often not because I'm like I miss being a

609
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 1: teenager or whatever. But I'm like, oh, because I felt

610
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: like such intense emotions through those ages. But the intense

611
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 1: emotions I felt weren't good. It was like really really

612
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: dark spots in my life, and I like crave those moments.

613
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 1: But it's because like.

614
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 2: You get addicted, you get you get addicted to that feeling.

615
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 1: And also, if you're somebody who's like really struggled with depression,

616
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: you have this false sense of what being happy is

617
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 1: in your head. You're like, oh, like happiness. I'm sure

618
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,360
Speaker 1: when when I feel happiness, I'll know it because I'll

619
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 1: be in the moment and I'll feel so fucking good

620
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: and it'll like last for more than like a day,

621
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: and like it'll be like for like months, I'm just

622
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: every day I'm happy and I don't feel like this

623
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: and like this isn't a feeling I have to battle.

624
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 1: But then because like I think about it like a scale,

625
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: like I like to think, like the most intense feelings

626
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: I've ever felt were sadness. And that's why it's really

627
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: hard for me to feel good, is because like my

628
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 1: peak of emotions has been like this intense despair that

629
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: most people, especially by my age, shouldn't have experience. So

630
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: then when I'm in a moment where I'm like, this

631
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: should be happy and like the most fulfilling moment for

632
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 1: me right now at this age, it's not nearly as

633
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: joyous or like as intense as that sadness was, So

634
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 1: it's easy for me to feel like those moments are nothing.

635
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, just like which is fucked up, like fully just

636
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 4: being jaded to like yeah at everything.

637
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I thought you caught a bug.

638
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: Oh no, my phone was falling.

639
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 4: But yeah, like I find myself just like when I

640
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 4: get into these like really low lows like that, I'm

641
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 4: like starting to like dip down into like it feels

642
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 4: like I'm just like life. I'm not experiencing life at all,

643
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 4: Like life is experiencing me.

644
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: I don't know how to word literally, you're going through

645
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: like the motion I call it like survival most yeah.

646
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 4: Exactly, Like it's like okay, wake up, eat, stimulate brain,

647
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 4: go to bed, and then that's like the three things

648
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 4: that I like focus on throughout the day is like okay, like.

649
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 2: I can't.

650
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 4: Feel anything, so like I'm gonna play video games all

651
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 4: day and live in this fake reality all day until

652
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 4: like I figure something, figure it out, which is such

653
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 4: a toxic cycle because you just like because when you're

654
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 4: in when you're just not doing anything, you're not doing

655
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 4: anything to better yourself, and.

656
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: Like yeah, and once you're like leaning into it, it's

657
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: easier for it to consume you. But like you have

658
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: no motivation to not do that. And then again, if

659
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: you're someone who struggled, it like is almost appealing because

660
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: it's just that comfort.

661
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: I was about to say say, it's like when you're

662
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 2: in a.

663
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: Bad relationship and you know you should leave, but it's

664
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: like I have comfort here.

665
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: Like I know this feeling exactly.

666
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 4: I was about to just say, like, and also it

667
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,239
Speaker 4: doesn't help that like it's so comfortable to just like

668
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 4: lay in bed all day and be sad all day

669
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 4: and like it it's just like it's really is like

670
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 4: an addicting feeling where like okay, like I know that

671
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 4: like I'm satisfuck, and I know how it feels to

672
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 4: be satisfuck, and it's just like comfortable to be there.

673
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 4: Like it's just like it's familiar, yeah, which is so.

674
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 2: Fucked up, like literally.

675
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 1: Evil, and I don't know. It's like again it'll it's

676
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: like something that passes. But you know what like for

677
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: me is the like when I get into these like

678
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: funks me calling my depression of funk. I'm like, when

679
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: I get into these funks, but when I get into it,

680
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: probably the worst part for me personally is like those

681
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: false highs I get from like work nine pm. No,

682
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: from like nine pm to like twelve pm is like

683
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: randomly I'll get this spike of energy where I'm like

684
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: that shit was fake, Like I don't feel like that anymore.

685
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: Like I feel so fucking good, Like I want to

686
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: go out, Like I need to leave the house right now,

687
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: Like I like need to get dressed. I'm gonna put

688
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: on an outfit. I'm like, and I'm like in this

689
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: like false like almost delusion of it being lifted, and

690
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: then I like just crash really hard by midnight and

691
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: then I'm like back into it.

692
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 4: I wake up in the first thoughts are negative. Yeah,

693
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 4: that's when it's fucked up. That's when it's fucked up.

694
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 2: Is like literally when the very first thought in my

695
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 2: brain when I wake up in the morning is just negative.

696
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 4: It's like like I always used to like when I

697
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 4: was like struggling with like my mental health like in

698
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 4: high school and shit, I always always like girl like

699
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 4: shut the fuck up, Like like the first like I

700
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 4: don't want to get out of bed in the morning,

701
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 4: Like no, that's just corny, like you have to get

702
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 4: out of bed. But genuinely, like these past like two years,

703
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 4: that's like been like a very big part of like

704
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 4: my depression is just like struggling. First thing in the morning,

705
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 4: like the very first thought that enters my head is

706
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 4: just like negative, Like it's just like it's either like

707
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 4: negative like about my life or negative about like what

708
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 4: I'm doing today, or negative about the people around me,

709
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 4: or like just something like.

710
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: Wanting to flake even if it's important, and being like

711
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: I don't care, like I don't care if this doesn't work,

712
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: like the day we want to the REP Talk convention. Sorry,

713
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: I literally woke up and I was like I don't

714
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: need to go, Like I like I'm doing this for what,

715
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: Like I don't like I don't want to leave my bed,

716
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to leave my room. And then you know,

717
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: what's a fucked up thing that I feel like like

718
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: depression can do to you is convince you that this

719
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: is like a symptom of being like overworked or exhausted.

720
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: So like you you're baring tricks you into being like,

721
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: you know what, tomorrow, I'm just gonna spend the whole

722
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: day laying around not doing anything.

723
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 4: Day today what just like like it's like you haven't

724
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 4: worked at all?

725
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I haven't been doing anything, if anything. I

726
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: like I need to, like I need to find motivation

727
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: to work so that I can have all these things

728
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: that I like dream.

729
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 6: Of, But.

730
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: It seems like such a big task and then I

731
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: like exhaust myself mentally from that weirdly or I don't know,

732
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: it's like my brain is like you need to rest,

733
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: and I haven't done ship. I don't need to rest

734
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: like I rest all night. I don't need to rest.

735
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 1: I'll need to spend a whole day resting. But like

736
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 1: I get tricked by myself into doing that, and then

737
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: it like sparks into something and then next thing I know,

738
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: it's been five days and I like having showered for

739
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: three days, and I'm like sitting around like barely eating,

740
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: and I'm.

741
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 4: Like, oh, oh, this is this is you got me? Depress,

742
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 4: Depress Grande. Got me again, Depress Grande.

743
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: It's Ariana Grande's sister.

744
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: Pressed personality ego her other ego. It's like how Beyonce

745
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 1: has Sasha fears. It also doesn't help them. My fucking

746
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: therapist isn't in town.

747
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 2: I'll be a therapist. Shut the fuck up, I'll be

748
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 2: Come on, talk to me.

749
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: Come on and talk to me. Please open up to

750
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: what therapists did that they would like be arrested.

751
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 4: Can we do like a fake therapy session where I'm

752
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 4: your therapist they don't talk about anything real?

753
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you want to know how they always start

754
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: It puts on your mind. No, that's not how it

755
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: ever goes. It's like I just had Obviously I'm somebody

756
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 1: who has not.

757
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 4: Been No, I have been to therapy in my high

758
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 4: school years. Just don't gnarly situation with that, so I

759
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:27,879
Speaker 4: just avoided it.

760
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, therapy is the best thing of every dog

761
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 1: for my life. Like literally, I buy so much stupid shit,

762
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: and like I was thinking about it this morning when

763
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: I was putting my shoes on, I was like, this

764
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: is one of the best like purchases I've made because

765
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: I didn't really want it, but like I wear these

766
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 1: shoes every single day, and that's exactly how I feel

767
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: about therapy is it's one of those things that I

768
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 1: was like, I didn't want to do it. People were

769
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 1: telling me to do it, and I really didn't want

770
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 1: to do it, but I did it, and now, like

771
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: I literally cannot. I genuinely don't know who the fuck

772
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: or where the fuck i'd be right now.

773
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 2: If I didn't start there six feet under.

774
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: Oh, I was like really bad, Like I needed one

775
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: so bad, Like I was. I wasn't like a bad

776
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 1: person or anything, but like I like can't believe I

777
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 1: was functioning like that, functioning with that one. Yeah, I

778
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 1: was like, so whatever, that's a different conversation. But so

779
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: they always go like this. It's like hi, and I'm

780
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: like hi, and then it's like a moment of silence

781
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 1: because I literally never know. I've been doing it for

782
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,760
Speaker 1: like almost three years and I never know how to start.

783
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: She's like hey, she say how are you. Then I'm like, oh,

784
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm good, this is this, this is is like and

785
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: then I just like say all these things yeah, and

786
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 1: then she like, is I dude, I talk so much

787
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: in therapy, Like it's always like, actually, go ahead, like

788
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: speak because but I do that in every conversation I

789
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: like always am talking. It's like, actually something I'm so

790
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: embarrassed of.

791
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 2: You got a lot on your mind?

792
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: No, I just have a big fucking mouth that maybe

793
00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: just shut the fuck up. Like, especially in our podcasting area,

794
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 1: I find myself and I'm like, I'll literally be like

795
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 1: going and realize I've been talking for formatus trait and

796
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: Drew has not gotten a word, and then I'll just

797
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: like get really quiet. But I'm bad at picking what

798
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 1: time to get quiet. Yeah, Like like I don't do

799
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,880
Speaker 1: a good job of passing over the conversation. I fully

800
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: go through every single thought that could be had about

801
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: the topics, and I'm.

802
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 4: Like, and then you take my topics that I wanted

803
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 4: to talk about and then run fourteen miles with him

804
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh.

805
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 1: You know what it is, too is because we plan

806
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: out the topics and then my brain is like on

807
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: full like remember to say it, remember to say it,

808
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: remember to say it. So I have to say it

809
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: because if I don't like it will be gone forever.

810
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, therapy bit go Hi, Hi how are you

811
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 2: are you?

812
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: Way therapist, I'll be the therapist. We have to we

813
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 1: have to range Drew into going back to therapy because

814
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 1: he's had a traumatizing event with therapy and like you

815
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: need to like you need to know that it can

816
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: be a safe space. But that's probably the only time

817
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:12,919
Speaker 1: in my life I've had luck is getting a really

818
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: good therapist on my.

819
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 2: Firstew you got as well. He's a pretty boy.

820
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: He was a piece of shit for like a year

821
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 1: and a half. He was the worst caut ever. Okay,

822
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: I'll be the therapist. Wait, is this our first session

823
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 1: or like how we've been like doing this for a while.

824
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 2: This is our first session?

825
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 1: Okay? Hi? It is how you would say hi on

826
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 1: your first session?

827
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 2: What up? I'd be like, what's up?

828
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 1: Hi? You sounds straight.

829
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: There's a lot to unpack there. There's a lot to

830
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 2: unpack there. Should we go in there? An hour? What

831
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:47,879
Speaker 2: should we do? An hour?

832
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 6: Wait?

833
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 1: Should retur an hour later?

834
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:52,359
Speaker 2: All right? Hi?

835
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: So what brings you in? You said in your email

836
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: to me that this is your first time coming back

837
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:02,319
Speaker 1: to therapy and quite some time. Was there anything that

838
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: maybe sparked that interest?

839
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 2: I just don't believe in therapists.

840
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:09,720
Speaker 1: You know, you may find that a lot of clients

841
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 1: of therapists walk into it with that feeling because there

842
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: is such a harsh stigma on therapy, and there are

843
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 1: many people like yourself who have had negative interactions with therapists.

844
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: But I would like you to know that a part

845
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: of this journey, it would be my job to make

846
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: sure that you feel comfortable and safe in this space

847
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:29,760
Speaker 1: that we're creating together.

848
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 4: Well, I like being touched. I like being held and

849
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 4: comforted physically. Can you do that for me?

850
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: Sadly, that is not something I'm capable of doing. Seeing Okay,

851
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 1: he obviously is a narcissist with like self.

852
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 2: Loath these are talking therapists. Starts talking to.

853
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: Her, So, dude, I literally I was actually talking about

854
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,399
Speaker 1: therapists about how I think the words being throw around

855
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: on the internet are so funny because it's like a

856
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 1: fourteen year old being like, actually, I believe that this

857
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 1: is like signs of being a self loathing, narcissistic.

858
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all shouldn't know that.

859
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 4: Like literally, get off your goddamn iPhone, Get off your iPhone.

860
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,280
Speaker 1: Go down and just like tech, go to a high.

861
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 4: School, go to a high school football game, right, like,

862
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 4: enjoy yourself there without being so introverted, not introverted, but

863
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 4: like introspective and like thinking everyone is looking at you

864
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:30,839
Speaker 4: because no one gets a fuck. Literally, no one gets

865
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 4: a fuck about you. Like I was that person in

866
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 4: high school that like not in a.

867
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 3: Way that it's like you're useless or anything, but like

868
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 3: literally it's like.

869
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: You know what it is, people spend more time thinking

870
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: about themselves than they do.

871
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 4: Think I was about to say what it is is

872
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 4: especially I don't know if this is for everybody, but

873
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 4: for me, the reason why I was so goddamn insecure

874
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 4: was because I was the person judging everybody around me

875
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:59,479
Speaker 4: for what they did, Like everything, every move that someone made,

876
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 4: every every thing someone said, like whatever, it was like

877
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 4: I was.

878
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 2: I was the judgmental person.

879
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 4: And then that made me believe everyone was doing the

880
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 4: same thing to me, when in reality, no one is

881
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 4: looking at you and having these thoughts, and if they are,

882
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 4: that's their fucking own problem.

883
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 2: So like, literally, I don't know.

884
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,359
Speaker 4: I take with that, what you will, like, stop being

885
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 4: so judgmental, and you'll stop being so insecure. And that's

886
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 4: what worked for me is I stopped looking at other

887
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 4: people and giving a shit, And that's perfect.

888
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: I think it's literally just also, don't unless your life

889
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: goal is to be like a therapist or a psychiatrist

890
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: or work in the like that department. You're gonna have

891
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: a very hard time going through life if you look

892
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: at everybody and start throwing on these and yeah and

893
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 1: diagnosing them when in reality, like most people you meet

894
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: will have flaws. Everyone you meet will have flaws. Not

895
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: saying that, like if you genuinely believe somebody is like

896
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: an awful person and like doing bad things to you,

897
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 1: that you should like butt through and be like, well

898
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: they had a hard life or whatever. Not don't do that.

899
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: I don't give them excuse, But don't look at.

900
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: Your high school friends unless they're like genuinely being like

901
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: morally corrupt to you and like hurting you. If your

902
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: high school friend is like maybe not super open about

903
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: like their feelings or like doesn't like give them most

904
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 1: in a friendship, like y'all are still high schoolers. I

905
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 1: was like a I personally gave nothing.

906
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, no one knew nothing about me.

907
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I literally not even until I moved to

908
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 1: LA did I even start to kind of open up

909
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 1: to my friends.

910
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 4: This just sparked a crazy thought in my brain. But

911
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 4: like I see a lot of comments like on whether

912
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 4: it's our videos, Josh's videos, your videos, the podcast, Dana's videos, whatever.

913
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 4: It is, Like I wish I had friends like this,

914
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 4: Like I like I long for like friendships like this,

915
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,280
Speaker 4: Like when I was y'all's age, I didn't have friends

916
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 4: like this. Yeah, we did not have just like literally,

917
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 4: like as you mature and get older, you start developing

918
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 4: these relationships with people that have similar interest to you,

919
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 4: and like there's always time to make like fucking long

920
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 4: term relationships. But like I only fuck with two people

921
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 4: from my high school experience, like and that's Hunter and Tag,

922
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 4: Like those are my rider dies, Like those are the

923
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 4: two like people from high school that like know almost

924
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 4: everything about me, Like those are the two people, but

925
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 4: we didn't start getting close until after high school. Like

926
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 4: I was friends with them in high school, but we

927
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 4: didn't know each other until after high school. And I

928
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 4: think that's just like a thought to have in mind,

929
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 4: like obviously, don't stop putting yourself out there and like

930
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 4: trying to make these connections.

931
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,959
Speaker 1: But yeah, I like, I can't speak from experience because

932
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: I didn't have I can't speak from the experience of

933
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: what having close friends in high school how that can

934
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 1: benefit you. But I didn't have that and I it

935
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: never But I guess the difference was it never bothered

936
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: me because.

937
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 6: I almost I knew I wouldn't be able to because

938
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 6: like I had such a busy and like strict home life,

939
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 6: Like I like didn't get to go out with friends

940
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 6: because like my dad was just like always worried about

941
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 6: us getting involved in shit, and like he didn't want

942
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 6: that to happen.

943
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: And also on top of everything, like we had younger

944
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: siblings and my parents worked all the time, so I

945
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: was always home watching my younger siblings. Like there was

946
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: so much happening in my personal life that I like

947
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: couldn't make time for that. And I also did not

948
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 1: crave that at all for some reason, like I was.

949
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 1: I think I've always been like a really funny mix

950
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 1: on YouTube of like being very extroverted but not actually

951
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 1: like it's like this like facade of Like I guess

952
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 1: maybe it's different for us, because like I think I've

953
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: I don't know how to say this about being mean,

954
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: but like I think we work really well together in

955
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 1: social settings, but I think a part maybe I like

956
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: can be solo in social settings a little better than Yeah,

957
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 1: and like I've always done a good job of Like

958
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: I think that's why I like Marvelous missus Maisel so much,

959
00:44:59,920 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: is like I like see myself in that character a

960
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 1: little bit of like being able to get in front

961
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 1: of a crowd and like really thriving off of like

962
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: attention and making strangers laugh and like talking to random

963
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: people and stuff like that. But I would never go

964
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 1: out of my way to do that, like, and I've

965
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: never been like that. I've never been someone to go

966
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 1: out of my way to be put in a social

967
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: setting or like social situation. As I've gotten older, I've

968
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: tried to do that. But as a high school I

969
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: literally could not give a fuck about having friends because

970
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 1: for me personally, I was dealing with so much like mental,

971
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 1: so so much mental like frustrations and like my depression

972
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: and like family life and all this stuff that the

973
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: last thing I wanted was like to one get a

974
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 1: random high schooler involved with my life. Even though I

975
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: was a high schooler, I didn't want to get anyone involved,

976
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: And like I wasn't a very open person, so I

977
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:59,439
Speaker 1: was like all of my friends were very school base,

978
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: and even in school, I wasn't very social because again

979
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: I just couldn't give a fuck, I'm like.

980
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 4: That's another thing to be said, is like all these

981
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 4: like friendships and relationships you have now, like like I'm

982
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:15,839
Speaker 4: only speaking to like young younger people because it is

983
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 4: a completely different and also it's a different experience for everybody.

984
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 4: But like these relationships that you have now are kind

985
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 4: of like forced upon you, like like they're just circumstantial

986
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 4: friendships and whatever, and like you'll find your people like

987
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 4: when you start living life actually, whether that's like before college.

988
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,720
Speaker 2: After I mean during college, or like even after.

989
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 1: Like that's why even in college, you're still in a

990
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: position where like these are people who are like available

991
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 1: to you, and you make the best out of those situations.

992
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 1: And not to say you can't find good friends as

993
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: a situation, but o those situations because I have like

994
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,919
Speaker 1: cyrus Aicard, like like I know a bunch of people

995
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: from high school who I'm still like not the closest to,

996
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,360
Speaker 1: but I like still like hold those relationships to my

997
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 1: heart because I'm like those people. But even that was

998
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: different because like those are like some of the people

999
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 1: who I actually was emotionally vulnerable with, but even that

1000
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 1: was after high school. Like after high school, I built

1001
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 1: those relationships and like after I had myself figured out

1002
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 1: a little more, I was able to turn back and like,

1003
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 1: these are relationships that I like love and like want

1004
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: to cater to. It's just like, dude, you're a kid,

1005
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: Like you don't you have all your life to make friends.

1006
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: And I know that maybe that's not what you want

1007
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: to hear, what you want to hear, especially if like

1008
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 1: the one thing you're craving is that social connection. But

1009
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:38,280
Speaker 1: it's also just like harder when they're social media involved,

1010
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: because when we were fifteen, we weren't seeing like groups

1011
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: like ours, Like we're the same age as most of

1012
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: the other like friend groups on the internet right now,

1013
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 1: so like, and I think a lot of people because

1014
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: we look young, it's easy to like or I don't know,

1015
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know how like our viewers view us,

1016
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: But in my head.

1017
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 4: Sometimes I feel like most of our audiences our age.

1018
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 4: I feel like most of them, at least, like the

1019
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 4: like analytics on my video like say that they're like older,

1020
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 4: which is awesome.

1021
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like maybe because it's like.

1022
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 2: Like they grew up with us, which is so fucking cool.

1023
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, But what I was trying to say is like

1024
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: it's easy to to like believe that you guys should

1025
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: have friends like we do, but you have you also

1026
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: have to think about the odd fucking circumstances me Drew

1027
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 1: and our friends fell into it. It really is not common,

1028
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 1: and it's also really not that common to have friend

1029
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:45,840
Speaker 1: groups like ours. It's just it is a very not

1030
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 1: to be like we're so fucking special because we all

1031
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 1: have our issues and shit. But I've met many, many

1032
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: people who are in friend groups who do not function

1033
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: the way we do. And we just, like Josh said

1034
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 1: it perfectly one time when he was like in a

1035
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: weird way, I think we were all like, without realizing it,

1036
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,280
Speaker 1: looking for the same thing in a group of people

1037
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: and we just got lucky and like all together. Yeah,

1038
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: so really don't even like think you can have this.

1039
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 4: Because yeah, it's unobtainable, Like we're unobtainable.

1040
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 2: Like everything we do and say is just like you

1041
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 2: can't have it.

1042
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: And that's why we'll be hosting the Emmys.

1043
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 4: Yes, that's our announcement for this podcast is We're hosting

1044
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 4: the twenty twenty two Emmys.

1045
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 2: So excited. We're being dressed by Derek Glasglow.

1046
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: Okay, Derek, Okay, why the fuck has said Derek hit us?

1047
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:40,919
Speaker 2: I know, Like, why hasn't Mark Jacobs hit us up again?

1048
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: Send us?

1049
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, to send mister Mark.

1050
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: Mark make we're thinking of you.

1051
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 2: We're the Mark Barbies, Like did you forget about us?

1052
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,919
Speaker 1: We have a picture of Mark up on the wall

1053
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: for the next episode and someone from the team is

1054
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: gonna send it to me. It's gonna be like.

1055
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no no.

1056
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: Take it down. Blow them u one of the pictures

1057
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 1: of him from from under the glass and like put

1058
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 1: it up.

1059
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 2: Like how the fuck do they have that?

1060
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: How do they have Derek glass Glow? That's not his name.

1061
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 4: It's probably like Blasberg or something like that from Louis

1062
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 4: or fashion YouTube.

1063
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 2: Derek, let me know.

1064
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:19,839
Speaker 1: We've even like touched on fashion YouTube. That's why.

1065
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 2: No, that's me.

1066
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,720
Speaker 4: This entire week, I'm like I'm struggling with like okay,

1067
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 4: like I want to be there, but what if I

1068
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 4: contributed to the fashion space? I mean I'm serving looks

1069
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 4: today like I'm giving like what was supposed to be gave.

1070
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 2: Like I hit the Yeah.

1071
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: I think what it is is because we both like

1072
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: are like feel confident about the way we dress, so

1073
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: we just believe we should be there, but that's literally

1074
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,919
Speaker 1: everybody on planet Earth. Like we are no different, Like.

1075
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 4: I think you should be, like I should not be

1076
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,320
Speaker 4: in any of those spaces. But bitch, you have influenced

1077
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 4: the younger generation of fashion so much more than any

1078
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 4: like I will say it with my fucking chest, than

1079
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 4: any other fucking person on the Internet period. What happens

1080
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 4: is these other bigger creators and influencers see the way

1081
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 4: you're dressing, mimic it, tone it down, take it for

1082
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 4: their own, and they get the credit. But I mean,

1083
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,439
Speaker 4: that's just my point of view on it, and I'm

1084
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 4: biased because I love you, and I don't think you

1085
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 4: get the credit you deserve. But thank you don't have

1086
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 4: to take that. You can completely deny and be like, yeah,

1087
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:25,320
Speaker 4: you're completely wrong.

1088
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think like at this point, I'm

1089
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: just like, the Internet is so big and I don't

1090
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: it's gone beyond it's beyond me. So I don't know

1091
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,959
Speaker 1: if like I have, I don't know. It's that weird

1092
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: thing of like I'm not trying to sit here and

1093
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: be like I do things. I don't know. I just

1094
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,360
Speaker 1: think I don't fucking care. I just like and I

1095
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: don't know that I care about wanting flowers for anything,

1096
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: because a lot of shit I do is like I'm

1097
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 1: not doing it with the intention of being like of course,

1098
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: sometimes when I post this something, I'm like, oh, I

1099
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 1: just got this, I should post it so that like

1100
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, like that's part of being an influencer.

1101
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, you like you do a lot of

1102
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's a whole other conversation. I get

1103
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: very nervous about talking about this because I think like

1104
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: every big influencer is like doing their own thing in

1105
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: a way, but like obviously we're all being inspired by

1106
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: very similar things and then being inspired by each other

1107
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 1: even so it like kind of bounces off. But then

1108
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: you get into like the thing of like everybody wants

1109
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 1: to say who did this and who did that? And

1110
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 1: then it becomes like this weird anger thing, like it's

1111
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 1: no longer a thing of like I got this from

1112
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: this person. It's like someone could be like, oh I

1113
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 1: got this from Enya, and then someone who doesn't like

1114
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 1: me could be like fuck her, like I didn't get

1115
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: it from her. Fuck her. Like it's just like all

1116
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: this like rage, but thank you very much, and I

1117
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:49,799
Speaker 1: like am very like flattered when people are inspired by me.

1118
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know that I'm like necessarily catering

1119
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: anything to the world ever. So I'm just like I

1120
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: don't like I just want to be places like I

1121
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 1: just want.

1122
00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 4: To go invite just we're like, just invite us.

1123
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 1: And then every time we talk about going to event

1124
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 1: where like we got belliterally drunk, we stole.

1125
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 4: Something, we're evil, we're obnoxious, demen kill.

1126
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: Me, slay may. Yeah, I just like, bitch, let me go,

1127
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: here go, here go.

1128
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 2: What else is there to talk about?

1129
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 1: I was gonna say something else and then I complete

1130
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 1: left for loot. But I think we I don't know,

1131
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 1: is this our first like serious episode where we talk

1132
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:34,839
Speaker 1: about something like that.

1133
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1134
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:37,399
Speaker 4: We should put a trigger warning in the beginning though,

1135
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 4: we should be.

1136
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: Like depression depress. It's always like like I never I've

1137
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 1: found and I talk about this in like a YouTube

1138
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 1: video that I want to post, but I find I'll

1139
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: say it here too. I find that, like as I

1140
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:01,839
Speaker 1: I don't know that I'm necess growing as like an

1141
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: influencer anymore again, But that's like my imposter syndrome. I

1142
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: like literally think by each year, I'm like less and

1143
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 1: less important, and hopefully by like the age twenty five,

1144
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: I'll just be like nothing to everybody.

1145
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 2: And we can move away and I'll go live in.

1146
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: The fucking villages. I'll go live in the pilgrimage. I

1147
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: obviously don't actually want that. I would like to be

1148
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: successful and like be like an actress or some shit

1149
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: at some point, but whatever. As I like get older

1150
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 1: on the Internet, I don't know that I've ever been

1151
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 1: super super open like I think I've done a good

1152
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:40,879
Speaker 1: job of being like very expressive and serious about where

1153
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: I'm at in my life and the things I've experienced

1154
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:46,439
Speaker 1: without being so vulnerable that I feel like everybody knows

1155
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,360
Speaker 1: everything about me. But as I got i've gotten older,

1156
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: I've realized that I really cling on to the idea

1157
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: of privacy because I am not that as open as

1158
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 1: I've become. I'm not that open of a person, and

1159
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: I don't like people knowing everything about me, even like

1160
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 1: people i'm very close to, like I like, I like

1161
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 1: save a bit of myself and like every interaction I have.

1162
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: And as I get older, it's weirdly harder to be

1163
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: a person on the internet for me, because I feel

1164
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,880
Speaker 1: like I'm like giving less and less of myself, which

1165
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 1: makes me feel like people are less and less intrigued

1166
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: with the idea of like keeping up with me because

1167
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 1: the thing I used to give was like myself.

1168
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's like something I've been like over the last

1169
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 4: two years, just like completely just being unrelatable, like not

1170
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 4: on purpose, I just like or kind of on purpose,

1171
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 4: Like I don't want people to know to know these things.

1172
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 4: And I think that's like a huge part of being

1173
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 4: an influencer though, is being relatable and like being vulnerable

1174
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 4: and whatever.

1175
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just like, I'm, yeah, I'm I have a

1176
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: hard time li.

1177
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 2: I just want to be uber a list celebrity.

1178
00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 4: Everyone knows everything about me, even if I don't want

1179
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:02,720
Speaker 4: to too. And then but I also have eighty million

1180
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 4: dollars and can retire for the rest of my life

1181
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 4: and never say anything to anybody and just let people's

1182
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 4: opinions fester about me.

1183
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 1: See, I want like the complete opposite, but kind of

1184
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: like I just want to be like solid enough in

1185
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: grounding and in life and feel like I can do

1186
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:20,959
Speaker 1: what I want.

1187
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't want that.

1188
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like that was really off

1189
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 1: the wall and like probably the most. Like I was, like,

1190
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: we learned something new every day.

1191
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 4: No, I genuinely want to win the lottery and disappear.

1192
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 2: That's my goal.

1193
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 1: I just want to be able to like create good.

1194
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 4: I haven't been manifesting that recently. Actually, I need to

1195
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 4: start manifesting that.

1196
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 1: You were trying to manifest you winning the lottery since

1197
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 1: twenty eighteen, and you did it for two years and

1198
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: it didn't happen.

1199
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 2: I just haven't been buying lottery tickets. That's the thing.

1200
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all know this about me, but

1201
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 2: in my.

1202
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 4: Lifetime, somewhere in my lifetime, I will win the lottery,

1203
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 4: and there's no way around it. It will be. It's

1204
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,360
Speaker 4: just in my cards. I truly believe that it's in

1205
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 4: my cards. And eventually it'll happen. It'll become a reality,

1206
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 4: and I'll be rich over night and y'all will never.

1207
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 2: See me again.

1208
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 4: I'll just move away, and yeah, that's gonna be my

1209
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 4: new life. I'll probably buy, like, I don't know where,

1210
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 4: I'd probably live in the French breeze countryside.

1211
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 2: I'd probably buy a chateau.

1212
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 1: I'll always say that, and it pisses me off. Because

1213
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: I don't want you to live in France because there

1214
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 1: our time difference and like how long it would take

1215
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: me to get to France would like destroy a relationship.

1216
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 2: If that's what happens, that's what happens. Man. For anything

1217
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 2: from my sheep, anything from.

1218
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: My sheep, my sheep, Well, you're a fucking sheep.

1219
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 4: Damn all the people getting vaccines, y'allar sheep, your your

1220
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 4: sheps and ya sheep person.

1221
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, I literally I don't fucking know, man, I could,

1222
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:51,919
Speaker 1: I could talk about this forever, but yeah, I guess.

1223
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 1: Also I've said this before. It's like I got a

1224
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: therapist now. So I'm like, I don't feel the need

1225
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: to like be on Twitter press myself like that openly,

1226
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: although I know like it was a safe face for people,

1227
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 1: but I don't know, as I've gotten older, I'm like,

1228
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: that's not my job, not even that because I like

1229
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: like doing it and not that it's like become embarrassing,

1230
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 1: but I'm just like, again, I like to reserve that

1231
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: for myself. And I also I never wanted to be

1232
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 1: like a situation of people who look at my life

1233
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 1: and maybe want to be where I'm at, and like

1234
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 1: people who maybe look in and feel like I have

1235
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 1: everything they want and see that I'm still struggling mentally.

1236
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 1: I don't want that to be ever like what's it called?

1237
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 1: Not disappointing, but like like just them being like if

1238
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 1: if she can't have it all, if she has it

1239
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 1: all and like still feels like that, what's the point

1240
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 1: of me going on? Like I never want that to

1241
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 1: be like the way it's all.

1242
00:58:56,000 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 4: Oh, that's literally just like brain chemistry. Shit, brain is off.

1243
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 4: Not everyone's is.

1244
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 1: Come on, girl, everybody feels like this, man. But yeah,

1245
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. But again, I also understand that seeing

1246
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: someone like in me and Drew's position and knowing that

1247
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 1: we still struggle could also be like calming for your

1248
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: brain and feel good. Drew's literally getting ready for his

1249
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 1: fucking media and that's why he's like not saying anything

1250
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 1: because he's looking through his goddamn letterbox right now.

1251
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah.

1252
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: All right. With all that being said.

1253
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 5: Doozy man, I know we started it was so fun

1254
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 5: and then got.

1255
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 2: So deep episode.

1256
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 1: Let us know if you like that, But if you

1257
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:45,439
Speaker 1: don't like it, don't fucking say shit, because I'll stop

1258
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 1: the fuck out of you.

1259
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, keep your negative criticisms and thoughts to yourself at

1260
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 4: all times. I genuinely believe that, like, if you don't

1261
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 4: have something nice to say, don't say no.

1262
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes I like to be told if something I'm doing

1263
00:59:57,360 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 1: a stupid I like need that because I like, oh,

1264
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 1: maybe I don't because I always think what I'm doing

1265
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: is stupid. So maybe the last thing I need to

1266
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: be told.

1267
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 2: Is like, yeah, reinforcing that.

1268
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you're dumb. Are you gonna go first?

1269
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 1: Or are you gonna fucking like sit down forever?

1270
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 2: Bitch? I don't know. I haven't watched anything. I don't

1271
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 2: have anything.

1272
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: We watched the Arrival together?

1273
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah Rival?

1274
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1275
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 2: Wait?

1276
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,439
Speaker 1: Did we talk about that in the last episode? No?

1277
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: Maybe we did?

1278
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 2: Did I think we did?

1279
01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: Did we? Okay, I'm gonna say, dude, I think I

1280
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 1: like said these movies in my last fucking the last episode,

1281
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: I talked, yeah, because I talked about the Farewell, I

1282
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: talked about Arrival. I don't know if I talked about

1283
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: letter Room. But I need to watch Marriage Story because

1284
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 1: the guy from letter Room is in it. What's his name,

1285
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 1: Adam d Elvira?

1286
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 2: Wait?

1287
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 1: Is this the same guy?

1288
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 2: No?

1289
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: Not? No, you're thinking of marriage. Oh did I already

1290
01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:00,040
Speaker 1: said marriage story? I meant to say, like, it's like,

1291
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 1: it's the fuck. Sorry, I'm like, I can't think of

1292
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: the name. Way, it's fucking it's like a look into

1293
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 1: a marriage or something. It's like, not it's marriage story. No, ruh, right,

1294
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 1: fucking kidding me, I can't think of the name. Wait, guys,

1295
01:01:19,160 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 1: marriage HBO Max. It's like on HBO Max scenes from

1296
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 1: a marriage. I need to see scenes from a marriage. Okay, No,

1297
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: Oscar Isaac is so fucking sexy, Like he literally is

1298
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 1: so sexy. Yeah, see, Oscar Isaac is in this is

1299
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:42,440
Speaker 1: in the letter Room too. He looks so fucking sexy

1300
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: in it, and then he looks so he's just sexy.

1301
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 1: But I need to see that movie. But I saw

1302
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 1: The letter Room and he was in that, and not

1303
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: only is he sexy, but it's good and it's a

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01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: short film and it's like thirty minutes long, and he's

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01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 1: so sexy and it's like specifically just him in the

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01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 1: whole movie. So it's just watching like a sexy man

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01:01:58,440 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 1: be sexy.

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01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 2: Ooh nice nice, nice, nice, nice nice. Oh.

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01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,840
Speaker 1: And I started marvelous missus Masel and I literally fucking

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01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 1: love it. And I'm already on season two and they're

1311
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 1: in Paris right now. Spoiler. But I want to go

1312
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: so fucking bad and I'm gonna die.

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01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 2: Mark Jacobs fly us out to Paris.

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01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: JU go go for your thinking.

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01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 4: Um okay, well, since I didn't watch really anything watch um,

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01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 4: I just have a bunch of movies and some I

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01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 4: don't feel comfortable suggesting because they're really gnarly.

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01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 1: Um do you want me to say by music? Yeah, okay,

1319
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: here's my music.

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01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 6: Fuck.

1321
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 1: I I like literally can't remember what I said last week,

1322
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: so I'm scared I'm gonna repeat. But City Moon by Flux, Yeah,

1323
01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: City Moon by Flux, that whole album is really fucking good.

1324
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm just so different and I listen to like like

1325
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: artists on Spotify, was like, no fucking follower, I'm just

1326
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 1: really different. And then hmmm, I like, I'm still such

1327
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 1: a bitch and I'm like gatekeepy as fuck and it's

1328
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 1: so annoying because I like don't want to do that.

1329
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 1: But I love Blossom Deary so fucking much. And I

1330
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: as I was listening to Marvelous missus Masel, they used

1331
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:25,560
Speaker 1: one of her songs and I was like, oh my god,

1332
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 1: I love this so much. And then I realized that

1333
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 1: Marvelous Missus Masel uses like a Blossom Deary song in

1334
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:35,120
Speaker 1: every single episode, and it's literally everything I've ever wanted

1335
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: a show about a fucking female comedian.

1336
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 2: Remember when I told you to watch it and you

1337
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 2: ignored me?

1338
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. And sometimes like I just ignore people

1339
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 1: and it's good for them, Like it's good. It like

1340
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 1: reinforces you that the things you say as a man

1341
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: are unimportant and that's why I do it.

1342
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 2: Wow, seriously, what the heck? What the heck is wrong?

1343
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:59,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, any Blossom Deary song? But baby you're my kind

1344
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: and hey John or my favorite right now? Saving all

1345
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 1: my love for you? Was it like in My Shadows

1346
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: everything on the Blossom Dearies Sings album.

1347
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 2: You have been listening to us so much?

1348
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, Sunday Afternoon, I'm shadowing you.

1349
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 2: Somebody is a Sunday Afternoon, Monday Sunday after.

1350
01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 1: And yeah I'll stop there with music Packed my Bags

1351
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,040
Speaker 1: by Rufus and Choco Tom Yeah, and like because I've

1352
01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:36,160
Speaker 1: been re listening to that. But yeah, I could go

1353
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: on about mus forever.

1354
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 2: Music nerd.

1355
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 4: Okay, So my movie that I say y'all should or

1356
01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 4: that I want you to go watch is House nineteen

1357
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 4: seventy seven, The House.

1358
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 1: I want to keep the cover what I'm thinking of.

1359
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:57,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's like the perfect horror movie ever made.

1360
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 4: It's like kind of campy, it's like it's it's just

1361
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 4: really really good and it's like a great start to

1362
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 4: October spooky, spooky season. And yeah, it was just done

1363
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 4: really well. And if I mean, I'm sure literally everyone

1364
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 4: listening has probably seen it because it's like so known, but.

1365
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 2: Go check it out if you haven't.

1366
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 4: It's House nineteen it's the name of it is House,

1367
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 4: but to find it put in nineteen seventy seven. And

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01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 4: then my music for the week is less Talk, More

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01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 4: Rock by Freeze Pop Botanic Panic by Christopher.

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01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 2: Magdylan Maddigan Madigan It's from the cup Head soundtrack.

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01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 1: And then I literally didn't look what You.

1372
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:56,520
Speaker 4: Touch It by Buster Rhymes because I love the intro

1373
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 4: Touch it bang?

1374
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:00,640
Speaker 2: Is that it man?

1375
01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:02,959
Speaker 1: And it's a man?

1376
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 2: Yep. That's my media for the week.

1377
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 4: Go put it in your playlist, put it on your

1378
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 4: watch list, Get into it, yeah, get into it.

1379
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh.

1380
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: Also, final note Doja Cat is a fucking born to

1381
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 1: be pop.

1382
01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:20,120
Speaker 4: She is the next I mean she's already the eight geirl,

1383
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 4: but she will be solidified in human there she'll be

1384
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 4: like yeah, she'll she'll be around forever.

1385
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 1: You can perform, she can make a hit.

1386
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 4: There's not as there's not many people out right now

1387
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,240
Speaker 4: that I can say that about. But with my whole chest,

1388
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 4: Dojo will be iconic forever pop star.

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Speaker 1: Yea, all right bye, So