WEBVTT - Poppin’ Off on with Raven-Symoné and Miranda Maday

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<v Speaker 1>Hello Sunshine, Hey besties.

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<v Speaker 2>Today on the bright Side, we're popping off on the

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<v Speaker 2>biggest pop culture stories of the week with the co

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<v Speaker 2>hosts of the Tea Time with Raven and Miranda podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>You know them, you love them. It's Raven Simone and

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<v Speaker 2>Miranda may Day. Is it petty to hide shower products

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<v Speaker 2>from your roommate's guests? What's cancel culture insurance? And why

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<v Speaker 2>are some celebrities buying in? And how do you really

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<v Speaker 2>feel about your friend's private wedding vows. It's Friday, January thirty. First,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Simone.

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<v Speaker 3>Voice, I'm Danielle Robe and this is the bright Side

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<v Speaker 3>from Hello Sunshine.

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<v Speaker 1>It is Friday, Simone.

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<v Speaker 4>It is finally Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>And even beyond that, it is almost the end of January,

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<v Speaker 2>and it feels like this has been an eternal January.

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<v Speaker 2>So bring it on February. I'm so excited to see

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<v Speaker 2>what you've gotten store for us.

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<v Speaker 3>January felt like an entire year in itself, truly, truly,

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<v Speaker 3>But we've had so much fun this week. It was

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<v Speaker 3>such a joy to have Neah Rouche back on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Her new book, The Power Pause, is changing the conversation

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<v Speaker 3>around stay at home parenthood. One of my favorite moments

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<v Speaker 3>from the interview was when Nahas shared why she dedicated

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<v Speaker 3>the book to her dad. She talked about how he

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<v Speaker 3>always honored and credited her mom for the immense impact

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<v Speaker 3>in their home and out of their home. It was

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<v Speaker 3>like a really special sort of gentle moment from the interview.

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<v Speaker 2>That makes so much sense because you can see that

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<v Speaker 2>this philosophy that she leads with is so deep in

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<v Speaker 2>her bones and her DNA. And speaking of authors, I

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<v Speaker 2>loved our conversation with Kate Fagan about her new book,

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<v Speaker 2>The Three Lives of katek It is the January pick

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<v Speaker 2>for Reese's Book Club. It's all about a famous author's

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<v Speaker 2>decision to reveal her true identity after kind of being

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<v Speaker 2>this elusive figure for years, and I personally loved listening

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<v Speaker 2>to Kate unpack what it was like for her to

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<v Speaker 2>write a fictional memoir as a primarily nonfiction writer. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>she really had to step up and pushed through a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of deep seated fears that she had about this transition,

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<v Speaker 2>and in the end she realized the things that we

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<v Speaker 2>think are flaws are actually our superpowers.

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<v Speaker 3>She's also really incisive, Like I kept wanting to hear

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<v Speaker 3>what revelation she was going to share next day.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a really great episode.

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<v Speaker 3>And today we're going to continue with the trend of

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<v Speaker 3>greatness and incredible guests because Raven Simone sometimes known as

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<v Speaker 3>Raven Simone, and Miranda may Day are here with us.

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<v Speaker 1>But before we.

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<v Speaker 3>Jump in, it's time to spotlight our favorite moment of

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<v Speaker 3>the week. So this week we're spotlighting the Queen of

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<v Speaker 3>Country herself, Yep, the Queen Dolly Parton, because she is

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<v Speaker 3>headed to Broadway, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Dolly announced just this week that Dolly an original

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<v Speaker 2>musical I set to debut in Nashville actually this summer,

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<v Speaker 2>before heading to New York City next year.

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<v Speaker 4>That's usually not the way things go.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually shows premiere in London on the West End and

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<v Speaker 2>then make their way to Broadway, But the Queen of

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<v Speaker 2>Country is doing it her way, which makes so much sense.

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<v Speaker 2>During a press conference, Dolly said she's quote always wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to do my life story as a musical, adding that

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<v Speaker 2>she wants it to happen while she's still around and

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<v Speaker 2>can make sure that it's executed properly.

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<v Speaker 4>A true control free queen. We love to see it.

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<v Speaker 2>The musical will also feature songs we know and love,

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<v Speaker 2>as well as quote a whole lot of original songs.

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<v Speaker 3>I cannot wait for that. I know tickets are on

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<v Speaker 3>sale now for the summer premiere. So what do you say?

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<v Speaker 3>Are we all taking a trip to Nashville?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh? Yeah, Nashville or Broadway.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling our producers to book us an interview with

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<v Speaker 2>Dolly asap.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Danielle, we be ready to pop off.

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<v Speaker 1>We're so ready.

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<v Speaker 3>We're joined by the hilarious co hosts of the Tea

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<v Speaker 3>Time podcast, Raven Simone and Miranda may Day. Welcome to

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<v Speaker 3>the bright Side.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the bright.

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<v Speaker 5>Side night, Danielle, Hi Simone, Hi, y'all, thanks for having us.

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<v Speaker 1>We missed you, guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, welcome to both of you. Raven.

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<v Speaker 2>We had so much fun having you on solo, and

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<v Speaker 2>now we get the wifey with us.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I feel so special.

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<v Speaker 4>How are we doing this morning? Fam?

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<v Speaker 1>You know we woke up. We're here.

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<v Speaker 7>I ordered a latte a macha late and instead I

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<v Speaker 7>got a cold iced latte, which I didn't know was

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<v Speaker 7>a thing. So you know I'm thriving out here.

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<v Speaker 4>Baby. How are you?

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<v Speaker 6>I am here you, guys.

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<v Speaker 5>I also am to blame for that situation though, because

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<v Speaker 5>I read the sign is wake and latte and it

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<v Speaker 5>was actually wake and late. Yeah, so it really we're

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<v Speaker 5>not We're not thriving or able to read well.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess it's so hard to recover from the wrong

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<v Speaker 3>coffee order, O preach. I know it shouldn't be, but

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<v Speaker 3>it is. It feels like everything's going in the wrong direction.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna have to correct course.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, right, what about right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So you guys host the hilarious podcast Tea Time

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<v Speaker 3>with Raven and Miranda for listeners who may or may

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<v Speaker 3>not be familiar. You have your guest pull topics out

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<v Speaker 3>of a teapot and then you spill the tea.

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<v Speaker 1>It gets piping hot sometimes, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Calding Simon and I recently he taped an episode with

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<v Speaker 3>you guys, which is going to come out soon. But

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a big fan on social I knew about your

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<v Speaker 3>pod even before we went on, and you've had some

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<v Speaker 3>clips go pretty viral. The ones that I saw recently

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<v Speaker 3>were because Raven was kind of spilling the tea herself.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been like, you've been divulging things.

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<v Speaker 7>My wife told me it was a safe space, so

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<v Speaker 7>therefore I have to trust her as her the contract

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<v Speaker 7>of marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, not the contract of the podcast.

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<v Speaker 6>No, not the contract of the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>Just the marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>I just look at her and I'm like, is this okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, good? I might go for it, babe.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>When you're in the studio, it's a safe space. And

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<v Speaker 3>then it hits the airwaves and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 3>like People Magazine, New York are all.

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<v Speaker 1>These places pick things up?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it cathartic or are you sick of spilling the tea?

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that it's not a safe space.

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<v Speaker 6>No.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm also very aware of what I do spill and

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<v Speaker 7>what I don't. I am not totally dissociated at that

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<v Speaker 7>moment where I'm just saying whatever, But I do know

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<v Speaker 7>that I, you know, with a podcast, as you both know,

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<v Speaker 7>and Miranda has informed me that people want to know

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<v Speaker 7>who I am and who we are and are our

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<v Speaker 7>authentic selves. And I'm from a different generation where we

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<v Speaker 7>just lighted the public to get a branding deals. But

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<v Speaker 7>there's new ways of surfacing in this generation and I'm learning.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm learning, Yeah, I get that. I've really enjoyed it.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're saving the piping hot tea for your book.

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<v Speaker 7>I am thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>This serious book that we've heard so much about.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm running a back.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually it's happening.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually have a question for both of you.

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<v Speaker 2>We're still kind of in that new phase of the

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<v Speaker 2>new year, and I'm curious if you had any like

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<v Speaker 2>words or intentions that you set for this year, any goals,

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<v Speaker 2>and how you're doing with those.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, Simon, I'm so glad you asked, because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to tell you you my wife is not somebody

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<v Speaker 5>who is one for the new year, and this I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>And this December twenty twenty four, she was on it.

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<v Speaker 5>She was like, we are doing this, and we're doing that,

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<v Speaker 5>and we're going to have a ceremony and we're going

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<v Speaker 5>to burn and we're going to purge water.

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<v Speaker 1>I was ready to go.

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<v Speaker 5>She was ready to go. So we came into this

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<v Speaker 5>new year in a new house with this newfound energy,

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<v Speaker 5>with every crystal cleansed. Raven was like burning things and

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<v Speaker 5>soaking things in water. We were releasing, We were red

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<v Speaker 5>and let me tell you, I don't know the world.

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<v Speaker 5>It literally has been not it. We have said that

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<v Speaker 5>we would like to unsubscribe. We would like a full refund.

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<v Speaker 7>I want to coupon.

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<v Speaker 6>I need a February first, we're going to say happy

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<v Speaker 6>New Year. So yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have any positivity to shine right now in

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<v Speaker 5>regards to this new I mean, I'm super honest, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>uncomfortably honest. It's just like it hasn't been a great time.

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<v Speaker 7>I will give us some some positivity. You cannot see

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<v Speaker 7>the beauty without a little bit of pain, very true.

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<v Speaker 7>So if we didn't have this thing to kind of

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<v Speaker 7>help us understand that, I believe February first, April, all

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<v Speaker 7>these months we're about to give while I'm out here,

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<v Speaker 7>it's about to be amazing. And we only will know

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<v Speaker 7>that because of the bullshit that happened in January.

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<v Speaker 1>You got me hyped up in that last second.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like ready to throw my arms up.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do it. Let's go you guys. You reboot immediately.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, just a system reboot. But I think to echo

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<v Speaker 5>what you're saying. And I know I sounded like such

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<v Speaker 5>a negative Nancy, But the truth is is that there

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<v Speaker 5>is always beauty in pain, and you can always meet

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<v Speaker 5>situations with grace, and there's always learning opportunities. And we're here,

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<v Speaker 5>we're healthy, we're building, and life isn't always easy. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>people are resilient. Humanity has been through natural disaster and

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<v Speaker 5>war and destruction for as long as we've been here,

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<v Speaker 5>so we know how to persevere, we know how to

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<v Speaker 5>lift each other up. And I think that we also

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<v Speaker 5>learn through contrast. Why do you know what bright is

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<v Speaker 5>because you know what dark is, So you have to

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<v Speaker 5>have both to kind of live in a balanced life.

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<v Speaker 6>And despite the.

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<v Speaker 5>Devastation that has happened in Los Angeles, it's also been

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<v Speaker 5>incredible to see how people rally together and how people

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<v Speaker 5>have supported each other and the hope that the communities

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<v Speaker 5>have instilled in one another. And I think that, you know, again,

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of good can come from hardship.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely so much gratitude.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm filled with so much gratitude right now, and gratitude

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<v Speaker 2>are officially going to be popping off right now.

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<v Speaker 4>So let's get into this. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to need that clipped out and played as

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<v Speaker 2>our sound effect for this segment going forward. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>first up, I need to hear everyone's opinion on a

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<v Speaker 2>very hot debate on the internet right now. Give you

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<v Speaker 2>a little teaser. It involves roommates, shampoo, and allegations of

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<v Speaker 2>petty behavior.

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<v Speaker 4>Ooh at left g WHOA?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So, an anonymous twenty eight year old woman recently

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<v Speaker 2>took to Reddit's and ib asshole for him?

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<v Speaker 4>Is everyone here familiar with this? Is I am? Now? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>So people go on there and they ask the world

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<v Speaker 2>Am I the asshole in this situation?

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<v Speaker 4>Or is it someone else?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, so we're gonna call her Erica. Erica writes that

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<v Speaker 2>she was away one weekend and while she was away,

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<v Speaker 2>her thirty four year old male roommate invited his female friend,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a little hookup to stay over. No immediate problem, right, Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>when Erica comes back, she notices that the friend had

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<v Speaker 2>used most of her expensive shampoo and conditioner without asking.

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<v Speaker 2>So cut to the next time her roommate had this

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<v Speaker 2>girl stay the night. Erica decides, Hey, I'm gonna get

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<v Speaker 2>out ahead of this, right, I know what's coming.

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<v Speaker 4>So she moves the products to her so that the

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<v Speaker 4>guests wouldn't be able to use them again.

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<v Speaker 2>Smart And so then when the woman comes back, she

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't find the conditioner, and then she asked Erica's roommate,

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<v Speaker 2>and then he confronted Erica about it and said she

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<v Speaker 2>was being rude and petty.

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<v Speaker 4>So was she the angle in this situation or was

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<v Speaker 4>she in the right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting to determine who the villain is here.

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<v Speaker 7>Mm hmmmm, Well, I'm gonna say I had a similar situation.

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<v Speaker 7>M I'm gonna answer your question. I'm going to tell

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<v Speaker 7>you about my situation. Yeah, I think that Erica was

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<v Speaker 7>in the right, thank.

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<v Speaker 6>You, because it's expansive.

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<v Speaker 7>It's expansive, and he was in the wrong for even

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<v Speaker 7>going up to her and saying anything like that, because

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<v Speaker 7>that is not communal shampoo. If your roommates, you know

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<v Speaker 7>what's communal. So my personal story was I was dating

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<v Speaker 7>this guy back in those days, and he was living

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<v Speaker 7>with me at the time, and I went to Spain

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<v Speaker 7>for a little movie that some people know, and I

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<v Speaker 7>bought this Spanish body wash you could only get in Spain,

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<v Speaker 7>and I you know, ladies, we all know you just

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<v Speaker 7>little drops.

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<v Speaker 1>He's savoring it, y savoring it.

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<v Speaker 4>I can feel the pain in my chest. You know

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<v Speaker 4>what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 7>This six foot two hundred and twenty pound grown ass

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<v Speaker 7>man use it and I plotted to break up with

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<v Speaker 7>him after that, and it happened. I broke up with

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<v Speaker 7>this person because he really.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I did, and he used all of it.

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<v Speaker 7>He used all of it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that's crazy. I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Erica is not the asshole in that situation. I think

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<v Speaker 5>that you do not expect your roommate's guest to ever

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<v Speaker 5>use your items, Keristas. I mean that shit is expensive.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like thirty dollars, and I'm a product whore. Like

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<v Speaker 5>if anyone were to come into my bathroom and start

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<v Speaker 5>using my stuff, my wife, my sister, my mother. Excuse me,

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<v Speaker 5>what are you doing? I am not a share in

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<v Speaker 5>that space. So that roommate he needs to buy his

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<v Speaker 5>friend conditioner in shampoo to have in their house, or

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<v Speaker 5>the girlfriend needs to pack her own little sleepover bag

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<v Speaker 5>with her shampoo care. Also, go home and wash your hair.

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<v Speaker 6>Why are you doing that?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, sometimes you might need to wash your hair after

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<v Speaker 7>you spend the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Over with your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I need to clean up.

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<v Speaker 6>Take your business there, she's so good to her house.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the thing, no one wants to use drugstore shampoo.

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<v Speaker 3>It feels okay that day, and then a week later

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<v Speaker 3>you're like, what is.

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<v Speaker 1>Happening in my hair?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel this way in relationships similar to your story.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like when the men I date use my

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<v Speaker 3>expensive shampoo because you don't need it in the way

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<v Speaker 3>that I do. I have shampoo for them and I

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<v Speaker 3>have shampoo for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's fair, that's fair. You think that's balanced or

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<v Speaker 1>are we all being crazy?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 7>No, only only thing about it is men sometimes downgrade

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<v Speaker 7>their beauty products thinking that they don't need it, but

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<v Speaker 7>they need their own for their own world. Yes, And

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<v Speaker 7>I think that Erica should ask for her money back.

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<v Speaker 7>I think that they should buy her the shmoo that

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<v Speaker 7>they used. And then by you know what I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 7>do you guys share cosmetics or no?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>None, like not even a face cream.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean sometimes she'll let me use some of her

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<v Speaker 7>face cream in my skin is real dress.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Sometimes I'm like, let me help you out, and

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<v Speaker 6>I did.

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<v Speaker 5>I did use your sun block because I ran out

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<v Speaker 5>of mine, But and then.

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<v Speaker 7>My sun block was her sunblock. She brought me her

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<v Speaker 7>some block for that moment, took it back, So now

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<v Speaker 7>I realized that it was just in.

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<v Speaker 5>Case she read, the only thing I think we kind

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<v Speaker 5>of share are sometimes sense you stole my diaper life.

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<v Speaker 5>You share my diaper life.

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<v Speaker 6>This is true.

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<v Speaker 1>What's a diaper life?

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<v Speaker 6>A diaper?

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<v Speaker 7>A DIAPERA that moment, that moment in the female's life

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<v Speaker 7>that month. Yeah, you know they went into these like

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<v Speaker 7>washable underwears. I can't do that because I'm heavy. I

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<v Speaker 7>have a heavy sisal flow. And so I picked up

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<v Speaker 7>one of the diapers, which are the thorough away ones.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I was just wearing around the house.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, is that a diaper?

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<v Speaker 6>So Raven loves Raven loves a diaper.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a huge female hack. I went, next time

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in heat, I'm gonna wear a diaper.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes you should, and in heat and there's like a

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<v Speaker 7>little sports brand a diaper I totally stopped wearing.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a tampons. Yeah, I just don't wear tampons anymore.

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<v Speaker 7>So back to Erica, don't steal my diapers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this real life.

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<v Speaker 4>The last thing I wanted to say about this story.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a quick fix.

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<v Speaker 2>All the all the roommate has to do is buy

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<v Speaker 2>her some urbal essence panteene Provy until she graduates to

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<v Speaker 2>deserving the expense, you know, like maybe once she becomes

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<v Speaker 2>like a girlfriend or something, then she gets access to it.

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<v Speaker 4>But just buy her a jeep Shampo.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna do a quick break from popping off, but

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<v Speaker 2>we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 4>We're back to popping off with Raven Simonet and Miranda

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<v Speaker 4>may Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we have something else to chat about today.

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<v Speaker 3>We've heard of niche insurance policies, right, so concert pianists

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<v Speaker 3>can insure their hands. There's always been this rumor that

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<v Speaker 3>j Low has insured her dairy air. I was looking

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<v Speaker 3>up more online. A lot of celebrities insure things. Taylor

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<v Speaker 3>Swift allegedly insured her legs for forty million dollars. Clume too, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>allegedly allegedly. Julia Roberts allegedly insured her smile.

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<v Speaker 1>For thirty million.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I heard that too.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's worth more.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyways, there's a new insurance policy in town. It's called

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<v Speaker 3>Cancel Culture Insurance.

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<v Speaker 1>I know so.

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<v Speaker 3>A London based insurance agency just launched a policy called Preempt,

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<v Speaker 3>basically cancel culture insurance. It's designed to protect people from

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<v Speaker 3>reputational damage before things spiral, offering monitoring training and a

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<v Speaker 3>twenty four to seven crisis Hotline to handle negative social

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<v Speaker 3>media and any media coverage that's negative.

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<v Speaker 1>It's basically like your own crisis PR team.

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<v Speaker 3>It seems it even covers misinformation and deep fakes.

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<v Speaker 2>Ravens punning your head down. I can't wait to hear this.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the catch.

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<v Speaker 3>It's meant for people worried about being mischaracterized or taken

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<v Speaker 3>out of context, not for those who've actually broken the

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<v Speaker 3>law or done something wrong. I feel conflicted about this

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<v Speaker 3>because does it incentivize people to behave badly?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Does it give characters on the internet or on the

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<v Speaker 1>news or on the.

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<v Speaker 3>View an incentive to say outrageous things because they'll get

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<v Speaker 3>an insurance check for it?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'd even take it there.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't think about that either. And that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>That's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>We already have unhinged people online.

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<v Speaker 4>That part.

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<v Speaker 1>That part, I don't know if I need more.

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<v Speaker 6>Of it, you know, Yeah, that's so interesting. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's such My initial thought was like, this is such

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<v Speaker 5>a reflection of just where our world has gone. And

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<v Speaker 5>when you think about people who are canceled, I can

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<v Speaker 5>understand for somebody who feels completely misunderstood or something that

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<v Speaker 5>blows out of proportion that wasn't meant to land the

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<v Speaker 5>way it landed. Then you've lost essentially your livelihood and

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<v Speaker 5>your reputation. Right, I can understand that, But the fact

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<v Speaker 5>that you just brought up in y'elle, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>And if that's going to open the floodgates for giving

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<v Speaker 5>more people permission to be off the walls, I mean

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<v Speaker 5>that sucks, But people do anything for a check.

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<v Speaker 7>You went there and I went to Olivia Pope, like

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<v Speaker 7>that is the original quote unquote sure the fixer, and

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<v Speaker 7>it's like that insurance policy is just gonna happen. You're

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<v Speaker 7>just gonna spend that money on a publicist because you're

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<v Speaker 7>gonna have to fix it anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 7>I find it ridiculous. Just watch your mouth and think

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<v Speaker 7>about what you're going to say before you say it,

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<v Speaker 7>because I think you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Daniel. I think they're going to start just taking money.

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<v Speaker 7>But the world we live in now, it's all about

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<v Speaker 7>free speech and say whatever you want to it if

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<v Speaker 7>it's your truth. So well, if our leaders can do it,

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<v Speaker 7>why can't the civilians do it?

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<v Speaker 6>Because then you get a TikTok man so.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess this was created for people who feel victimized

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<v Speaker 2>by just the cultural conversation and feel like they didn't

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<v Speaker 2>actually say anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Wrong, right exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I feel like you you went on the

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<v Speaker 2>view you caught flag for saying things that were it

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<v Speaker 2>was completely unfair and blown out of proportion. Would something

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<v Speaker 2>like this have been helpful in that situation?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really need money.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, of course I like money like that, right,

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<v Speaker 7>I know, care what you put in the universe. I

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<v Speaker 7>don't know if money would have fixed the problem and

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<v Speaker 7>the feeling that I went through at the time of

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<v Speaker 7>the things that I said. I also am just talking

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<v Speaker 7>like that right now. I mean, I still got my

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<v Speaker 7>check though. That's the crazy thing. It's just like, I

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<v Speaker 7>maybe maybe you're right, Simone, maybe it would have helped.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't. I don't know how it could have unless

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<v Speaker 7>there was you said, it comes with a what it

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<v Speaker 7>comes with a twenty four to seven.

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<v Speaker 1>Helpline, Yeah, crisis hotline.

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<v Speaker 7>So like, what do I call and cry and they're like, well,

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<v Speaker 7>maybe you don't and apologize if I give you what

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<v Speaker 7>If they give you bad advice, the best advice is

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<v Speaker 7>to just be quiet and apologize.

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<v Speaker 4>And keep your opinions to yourself next time.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Okay, in this vein, I have a psa. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thinking about this since the new year, bring

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<v Speaker 1>decorum back. Oh, we must bring decorum back. I miss it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it keeps people safe.

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<v Speaker 3>I know it's like it feels a little bit old school,

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<v Speaker 3>but in professional settings, decorum is there for a reason.

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<v Speaker 3>You know when Jackie O had that face where she

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<v Speaker 3>was unfhazed all the time because she was a public person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, ring decorum back. When you are on the.

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<v Speaker 3>Airplane and you're in the window seat and it's sunny

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<v Speaker 3>and the shade is up, put it.

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<v Speaker 1>Down, or I agree, saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Wild things on the internet that are explicit and insight violence,

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<v Speaker 3>bring decorum back.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you're right, and I have a I have something

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<v Speaker 7>to say to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Please.

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<v Speaker 7>We are too far along in shock culture to do that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you think so.

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<v Speaker 7>I think that the new generation, maybe maybe not this

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<v Speaker 7>generation that's popping off right now, but if we start now,

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<v Speaker 7>the next generation can. But like you know, there's something

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<v Speaker 7>wrong with today where it's like I need more and

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<v Speaker 7>more and more to get a feeling we are so numb.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes that maybe it'll shock us back into it because

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<v Speaker 7>I agree with you, but decorum.

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<v Speaker 5>Also, I think that people might counter the brain decorum

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<v Speaker 5>back with but that's inauthentic to my experience in that moment. Right, So,

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<v Speaker 5>the window seat, the window seat person. We're not trained

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<v Speaker 5>in our culture to think about the person next to

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<v Speaker 5>us or the person coming after us. And we are

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<v Speaker 5>literally individual like in our own bubble type of people.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's even just think of how we commute. Most

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<v Speaker 5>of us are just you know, isolated in a car

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<v Speaker 5>going from point A to point B. So that idea

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<v Speaker 5>of put your window down is so correct, but I

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<v Speaker 5>think that what you would encounter is this is my seat.

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<v Speaker 5>I paid for it, and I can have it up

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<v Speaker 5>or down. And then you have just constant conflict because

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<v Speaker 5>what you're not thinking of is okay, wait, the sun

0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:49.000
<v Speaker 5>is glaring in. And it's also like cascading onto a

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<v Speaker 5>mother who's holding her a baby and this man and

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<v Speaker 5>this like you're not considering and so it's it's so hard.

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<v Speaker 5>And then people are so in this place of like

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<v Speaker 5>every single individual experience counts, My feelings matter. I need

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<v Speaker 5>to be validated, that there's no sense of community and

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<v Speaker 5>how we all impact each other.

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<v Speaker 7>And that's why I think cancel culture kind of blew

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<v Speaker 7>out a proportion because the people that say whatever they think,

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<v Speaker 7>they whatever they think their experiences, not having decorum, not

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<v Speaker 7>realizing that we are all on this tiny piece of

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<v Speaker 7>land with each other. Like other cultures. Japanese people, they

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<v Speaker 7>are a unit when they move forward. They don't even

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<v Speaker 7>open presence in front of the person in front of

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<v Speaker 7>them because they want to make sure that they have

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<v Speaker 7>their personal experience privately and then go about, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>saying thank you later. But that cancel culture came because

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<v Speaker 7>one person said their truth and another person is not

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<v Speaker 7>okay with it, and therefore you're canceled. And it's so

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<v Speaker 7>disgusting to me. And I think that you're right. If

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<v Speaker 7>we kind of and we kind of go back to

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<v Speaker 7>when manners were really really important, yeah, and like the

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<v Speaker 7>collective was really important, then maybe we would maybe we

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<v Speaker 7>would be a little bit better humanity, maybe we'd be better.

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<v Speaker 1>I love where you guys took this. I totally agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I really bring decorum back. Matters were there for a reason.

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<v Speaker 7>They were there for a reason.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, one area where I really prefer to adhere to

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<v Speaker 2>the traditional way of doing things is weddings. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that we have to have decorum when it comes to weddings.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still shocked that some people don't know that you

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<v Speaker 2>just can't wear white if you're not the bride. But anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>it seems like, you know, a lot of elements of

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<v Speaker 2>decorum have gone out the window, as we've been saying, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to weddings and marriages.

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<v Speaker 4>Though.

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<v Speaker 2>I recently came across an article in the New York

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<v Speaker 2>Times that was titled you are cordially invited to our wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>but not to our vows. And I read that I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, huh, So what this piece says is that

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<v Speaker 2>more and more couples are actually deciding to exchange their

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<v Speaker 2>wedding vows in private, and there are several different ways

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<v Speaker 2>that you can do this. Apparently, so one couple mentioned

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<v Speaker 2>and that they shared their vows silently in front of

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<v Speaker 2>all of their wedding guests, which I'm not exactly sure

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<v Speaker 2>how that goes down.

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<v Speaker 7>We won't We'll have to unpack that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>In another instance, guests watch the bride and groom hand

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<v Speaker 2>each other sealed envelopes one at a time and read

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<v Speaker 2>them silently while everyone watched that sounds awkward to me.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you guys make of this trend? Are you

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<v Speaker 2>pro private vows or pro public vows?

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<v Speaker 1>The vows are my favorite part?

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<v Speaker 7>Really?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, you start crying?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm into. What do I want

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<v Speaker 3>to see the decorum of your wedding?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't want to see the stuff they say all

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<v Speaker 7>the time.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to see the stuff that you mean, like,

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<v Speaker 3>what does this person mean to you? I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to attend a wedding without vows.

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<v Speaker 7>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, Danielle, take your hard stance.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, yeah, I can understand that because personally, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>this is where I stand with him.

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<v Speaker 6>If a couple is like it feels.

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<v Speaker 5>Too intimate and we want to make, you know, promises

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<v Speaker 5>and commitments to one another that just are bound between

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<v Speaker 5>the two of us, that's fantastic. I think you should

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<v Speaker 5>do that. But I think you should have then a

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<v Speaker 5>moment where you give the lighter version to your audience. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>where I think you still can say some form of

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<v Speaker 5>thou like something or some kind of agreed upon I

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<v Speaker 5>promise to da da da da da. Because it is

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<v Speaker 5>an emotional part. It is a beautiful element, and I

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<v Speaker 5>think that it's also beautiful that in front of those

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<v Speaker 5>people you are making this commitment. What I like the

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<v Speaker 5>most about about is you're asking all of those people

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<v Speaker 5>to be your witness to the commitment that you're making

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<v Speaker 5>to another person. And hopefully there's somebody in that crowd

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<v Speaker 5>that will also then help hold you accountable to the

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:50.399
<v Speaker 5>commitment that you just publicly made. So there is a

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<v Speaker 5>public element that is kind of crucial, I think, to

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<v Speaker 5>the commitment that is made in a marriage.

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<v Speaker 4>Are we all grandma's you guys?

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<v Speaker 7>Are we all just I definitely am not a grandma

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<v Speaker 7>because I don't think you should be doing that in

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<v Speaker 7>front of people.

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<v Speaker 4>I really don't.

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<v Speaker 7>I hope that not do your vowels in front of everyone,

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<v Speaker 7>because I don't want anybody in my relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Change my mind. Tell me more, okay.

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<v Speaker 7>So, like I think that the vows should come before

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<v Speaker 7>you get on the altar and just make the altar

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<v Speaker 7>the ceremonial visual for the audience. I think when I'm

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<v Speaker 7>starting to say what I'm gonna, you know, do for

0:27:29.680 --> 0:27:31.040
<v Speaker 7>you and all of that, I think that should be

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<v Speaker 7>in a private setting. I think that we need to

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<v Speaker 7>put marriage ceremonies into a microscope and kind of change

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<v Speaker 7>the way it looks like.

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<v Speaker 6>For me, I think there should.

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<v Speaker 7>Be two type of ceremonies within one day. One the

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<v Speaker 7>vowels that you have with each other in front of

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<v Speaker 7>like whoever you're priest or efficient and maybe your parents.

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<v Speaker 7>But I don't think three hundred people that you sent

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<v Speaker 7>invitations to just to fill up your wedding that the

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<v Speaker 7>game presence should be involved in the intimacy of your relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>Because if y'all get divorced, people go and look at

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<v Speaker 7>you like you're crazy afterwards. So I think that it

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<v Speaker 7>needs to be like private for that moment, because that

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<v Speaker 7>is the truth. That is what you guys are basing

0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 7>your relationship off of. And all those three hundred to

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<v Speaker 7>six hundred or twenty people that come to your wedding,

0:28:23.760 --> 0:28:28.320
<v Speaker 7>that's not their business. In my opinion, personally, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Did slightly change my mind, and I'll tell you why.

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<v Speaker 3>I in listening to you, I was realizing, as an

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<v Speaker 3>audience member at a wedding, it's almost a performance.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a performance, and the vows should not be performative.

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<v Speaker 1>I like your idea.

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<v Speaker 3>If you are in Miranda, if you are inviting everybody

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<v Speaker 3>to your performance of a wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Do a light version.

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<v Speaker 3>Now we all are entertained and we feel your love

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<v Speaker 3>and get to still cry with you and then have

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<v Speaker 3>a separate one for the two of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>That's kind of what you said, which is the and

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<v Speaker 5>what I said it is like you have your own

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<v Speaker 5>smaller intimate moment, which is like maybe your parents are

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<v Speaker 5>your efficient or at least have someone bearing witness if

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<v Speaker 5>you need that.

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<v Speaker 6>But I think that that's kind of.

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<v Speaker 4>What we did.

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<v Speaker 5>Like we didn't have a traditional vow ceremony. We had

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<v Speaker 5>written down things on paper that we like, we and

0:29:23.560 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 5>we had marriage journals, marriage journey.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, they lasted like two months. But I do want

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<v Speaker 7>to bring back something that you said simone about somebody

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<v Speaker 7>doing their vows in silence.

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<v Speaker 6>How does that work?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't do.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just staring at your eyes. You can read my

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<v Speaker 7>booins these couple's telepathy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, it got it.

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<v Speaker 1>You should know that this is ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 7>Again, it's about it's about tradition setting, but your version

0:29:50.360 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 7>of tradition, like read the vowels after in the envelope.

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<v Speaker 7>But if you're standing there and i'd like to take

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<v Speaker 7>a moment of silence for vows.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, this is not dead, this is this is life.

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<v Speaker 4>We need to speak.

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<v Speaker 7>We need to, you know, pump some energy into the wedding.

0:30:04.640 --> 0:30:06.800
<v Speaker 7>I need I need hip hop, you know what I mean. Like,

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, I'm just different when I've been to

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<v Speaker 7>like a little reggae.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a little.

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<v Speaker 7>Reggae, you know what I mean. I need a little

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:13.520
<v Speaker 7>you know, hit bumping.

0:30:13.520 --> 0:30:17.320
<v Speaker 5>But I also think it's super individual. Whatever makes the

0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:20.120
<v Speaker 5>people getting married on that day happy, and whatever makes

0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:24.560
<v Speaker 5>them feel celebrated and makes their relationship feel whatever it

0:30:24.600 --> 0:30:26.840
<v Speaker 5>needs to feel on that day, go off. Like if

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<v Speaker 5>you need to have a silent wedding, have a fucking

0:30:28.960 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 5>silent wedding.

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<v Speaker 6>If you want to wear a black party, yeah, like

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<v Speaker 6>where whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't feel like you have.

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<v Speaker 5>To get married in one way at all. I think

0:30:39.200 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 5>you do your thing.

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:40.760
<v Speaker 6>But I think you're right.

0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:44.440
<v Speaker 7>It is a show. You're putting on a show for

0:30:44.560 --> 0:30:47.040
<v Speaker 7>other people, and that does not feel authentic. And we

0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:51.320
<v Speaker 7>are in the you know, generation of authenticity.

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<v Speaker 3>It's time for another short break, but we'll be right

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<v Speaker 3>back with Miranda may Day and Raven Simonet and we're

0:31:03.520 --> 0:31:07.240
<v Speaker 3>back with Raven, Cimo, Neet and Miranda may Day. Okay,

0:31:07.600 --> 0:31:09.160
<v Speaker 3>you guys know, I'm in Jamaica right now. A lot

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:11.560
<v Speaker 3>of my girlfriends are here and some of them listen

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 3>to our podcast. Danielle and my friend Alex was like,

0:31:15.160 --> 0:31:16.720
<v Speaker 3>I love the popping off.

0:31:16.480 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 2>Segments, Like that's my favorite part. I like love the

0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:23.120
<v Speaker 2>celebrity tea and pop culture. So I promised I would

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<v Speaker 2>squeeze in a celebrity tea question.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's go, Yes, let's go.

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<v Speaker 2>What is the most fun celebrity wedding you both have

0:31:31.960 --> 0:31:32.280
<v Speaker 2>been to?

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<v Speaker 7>And why you're so cute? We don't have celebrity friends.

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<v Speaker 5>I was gonna have to say mine when I married

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<v Speaker 5>Raven the celebrity, because that's the only celebrity wedding I've

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<v Speaker 5>ever been to.

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<v Speaker 7>I've been to my best I've been to my best

0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:49.840
<v Speaker 7>friends reading from middle school. I wasn't even invited to

0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:51.800
<v Speaker 7>my best friend's wedding from high school.

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<v Speaker 5>Together, Raven and I have been to four weddings, like

0:31:54.440 --> 0:31:56.720
<v Speaker 5>I think collect if you add like every wedding she's

0:31:56.720 --> 0:31:58.280
<v Speaker 5>been to in every wedding I've been to, it's like

0:31:58.360 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 5>five total.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, like we don't wedding.

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<v Speaker 7>Now, to answer your questions, which celebrity wedding have we

0:32:04.320 --> 0:32:07.000
<v Speaker 7>witnessed on social media?

0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:08.080
<v Speaker 1>Or which we.

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<v Speaker 5>Can we adjust the question to like which celebrity party,

0:32:12.640 --> 0:32:13.760
<v Speaker 5>because have we been to any.

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<v Speaker 2>Good celebrity Yes, that's what I was gonna say, Like

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:17.760
<v Speaker 2>what Hollywood event?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe our celebrities party? Have you been to? That was

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<v Speaker 4>the most fun? The white party? I'm just playing. I

0:32:22.800 --> 0:32:23.120
<v Speaker 4>didn't go.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh god, we need a whole episode on that.

0:32:27.560 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't invited.

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<v Speaker 6>You can't drop that. At the end, all she wanted

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:32.200
<v Speaker 6>to do was go to a white party.

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<v Speaker 1>No one invited me. I'm just playing cot so lucky.

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<v Speaker 4>How are you not right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, seriously, you're so lucky.

0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:41.880
<v Speaker 4>I've been to some parties, you guys.

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<v Speaker 7>I've been to some parties in Atlanta, here in LA

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<v Speaker 7>and I will say it is the freedom that comes

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<v Speaker 7>with knowing that everybody is in a precarious situation.

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<v Speaker 6>They want some tea, they want some names.

0:33:00.680 --> 0:33:02.840
<v Speaker 7>Oh no, I'm not giving no names. I sign an NDA.

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<v Speaker 7>But I also don't want people to tell the truth

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:05.760
<v Speaker 7>on me. So I'm gonna have some decorum.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not redacting this any Hattish sorta got canceled for

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<v Speaker 3>not having decorum.

0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:15.320
<v Speaker 1>In this situation, I'm not about to not have decorum.

0:33:15.600 --> 0:33:17.720
<v Speaker 7>I get so the celebrity parties that I've been to,

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<v Speaker 7>whether I have my phone taken away, whether it's free

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<v Speaker 7>drinks flowing like water from the well, whether it's all

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<v Speaker 7>kinds of things going down. I think the most fun

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<v Speaker 7>I have is when I see someone that I grew

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<v Speaker 7>up with totally not on their best behavior, totally enjoying

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<v Speaker 7>their civilian life and forgetting that they're worth millions, and

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just sitting there like I'm about to, We're about to,

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<v Speaker 7>We're about to, We're about to go right now, and

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<v Speaker 7>to be able to just be free and be like

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<v Speaker 7>I just popped it on this person and this person

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<v Speaker 7>just pomped it on me, and it was just even

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<v Speaker 7>instead of when you meet these people at like an

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<v Speaker 7>award show or a red carpet, they're so hoity toity,

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<v Speaker 7>they're snooty. But when you get something.

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<v Speaker 1>Many celebrities girl.

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<v Speaker 7>And it's like it's but it's anybody at.

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<v Speaker 5>One of the best celebrity parties that we have been to,

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<v Speaker 5>and I can give names that is actually Tiffany haddishes

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<v Speaker 5>and Tiffany throws a great game night party she does

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<v Speaker 5>and she has people. Everyone has to bring a dish,

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<v Speaker 5>and she has an entire house. It's potluck spades. It's

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<v Speaker 5>like pot but she changes it every month and she

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<v Speaker 5>does it monthly, and it's she has a house. It's

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<v Speaker 5>entirely empty except for the food and the games that

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<v Speaker 5>come into it. So every room there's like a different

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<v Speaker 5>game going down. You got spades over here, you got

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<v Speaker 5>another card game over here. She has a bouncy house

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<v Speaker 5>in the backyard. Everybody brings a.

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<v Speaker 6>Dish and you just go.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so fun.

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<v Speaker 6>It's really fun.

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<v Speaker 7>There's anything like a daytime. It starts we day, but it.

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<v Speaker 6>Starts in the day and it goes into the night

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<v Speaker 6>and it just what about you too?

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<v Speaker 4>About you two?

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<v Speaker 3>I've been to some good ones, right party, Yes, the

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<v Speaker 3>corn but do sell. So this is probably weird nowadays

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<v Speaker 3>to share. But back in the day, I went to

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<v Speaker 3>a Halloween party that uh, it was like very celebrity filled.

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<v Speaker 3>My best friend doesn't know any celebrities, like she's one

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<v Speaker 3>of those, so she kept asking Jessica Alba to take

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<v Speaker 3>photos of her and then saying, this doesn't look good.

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<v Speaker 4>The lighting is not right.

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<v Speaker 6>Can you do it again?

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<v Speaker 4>I love it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, she kept rolling her eyes.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, Jessica.

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<v Speaker 3>But ultimately the party became an after party at Elon

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<v Speaker 3>Muff's house. Everyone they took the phones like you had

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<v Speaker 3>to put your phones in those bags.

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<v Speaker 4>It was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an unbelievable night.

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<v Speaker 7>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>It was a good one, okay, Daniel.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure that house was wild.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was really.

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<v Speaker 3>There were like naked mermaids and glitter all over the house,

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<v Speaker 3>like in the pools.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, please, yeah, wow, yes, it was one. We'll talk

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<v Speaker 7>about that offline where the decorum is no longer that

0:36:06.840 --> 0:36:09.000
<v Speaker 7>that's one place where I'm good with decorum.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, offline, offline with your friends, yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 7>What about you, Siman? Was that was that bomb party

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<v Speaker 7>you went to?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what?

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<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately we are out of time you guys, guys, I

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<v Speaker 2>love you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>Say that a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>I really love you guys, We love you.

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<v Speaker 7>I love you both.

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<v Speaker 4>I love you guys too, and I missed you.

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<v Speaker 2>And can I get us on a group chat so

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<v Speaker 2>we can finally schedule something.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes please, and we can have a party of our own.

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<v Speaker 4>And then we'll have stories.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, that's the theme of the party.

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<v Speaker 3>No decorum aloud. All right, thanks for joining us today, guys.

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<v Speaker 7>Thanks for love you, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>That's it for today's show.

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<v Speaker 2>On Monday, we're joined by the Master of Nuance, herself,

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<v Speaker 2>author and my good friend, Britt Baron. She's here to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about her new book and how we can all

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