1 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: Hello Sunshine, Hey besties. 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 2: Today on the bright Side, we're popping off on the 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 2: biggest pop culture stories of the week with the co 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 2: hosts of the Tea Time with Raven and Miranda podcast. 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: You know them, you love them. It's Raven Simone and 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 2: Miranda may Day. Is it petty to hide shower products 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:23,439 Speaker 2: from your roommate's guests? What's cancel culture insurance? And why 8 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 2: are some celebrities buying in? And how do you really 9 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 2: feel about your friend's private wedding vows. It's Friday, January thirty. First, 10 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 2: I'm Simone. 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 3: Voice, I'm Danielle Robe and this is the bright Side 12 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 3: from Hello Sunshine. 13 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: It is Friday, Simone. 14 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 4: It is finally Friday. 15 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 2: And even beyond that, it is almost the end of January, 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: and it feels like this has been an eternal January. 17 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 2: So bring it on February. I'm so excited to see 18 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: what you've gotten store for us. 19 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 3: January felt like an entire year in itself, truly, truly, 20 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 3: But we've had so much fun this week. It was 21 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: such a joy to have Neah Rouche back on the show. 22 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 3: Her new book, The Power Pause, is changing the conversation 23 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 3: around stay at home parenthood. One of my favorite moments 24 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,919 Speaker 3: from the interview was when Nahas shared why she dedicated 25 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 3: the book to her dad. She talked about how he 26 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: always honored and credited her mom for the immense impact 27 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 3: in their home and out of their home. It was 28 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 3: like a really special sort of gentle moment from the interview. 29 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 2: That makes so much sense because you can see that 30 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 2: this philosophy that she leads with is so deep in 31 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: her bones and her DNA. And speaking of authors, I 32 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 2: loved our conversation with Kate Fagan about her new book, 33 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: The Three Lives of katek It is the January pick 34 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 2: for Reese's Book Club. It's all about a famous author's 35 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 2: decision to reveal her true identity after kind of being 36 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 2: this elusive figure for years, and I personally loved listening 37 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 2: to Kate unpack what it was like for her to 38 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 2: write a fictional memoir as a primarily nonfiction writer. I mean, 39 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 2: she really had to step up and pushed through a 40 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: lot of deep seated fears that she had about this transition, 41 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 2: and in the end she realized the things that we 42 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 2: think are flaws are actually our superpowers. 43 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 3: She's also really incisive, Like I kept wanting to hear 44 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 3: what revelation she was going to share next day. 45 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 1: Was a really great episode. 46 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 3: And today we're going to continue with the trend of 47 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 3: greatness and incredible guests because Raven Simone sometimes known as 48 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 3: Raven Simone, and Miranda may Day are here with us. 49 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: But before we. 50 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 3: Jump in, it's time to spotlight our favorite moment of 51 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 3: the week. So this week we're spotlighting the Queen of 52 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 3: Country herself, Yep, the Queen Dolly Parton, because she is 53 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 3: headed to Broadway, y'all. 54 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: Yes, Dolly announced just this week that Dolly an original 55 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 2: musical I set to debut in Nashville actually this summer, 56 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: before heading to New York City next year. 57 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 4: That's usually not the way things go. 58 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 2: Usually shows premiere in London on the West End and 59 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 2: then make their way to Broadway, But the Queen of 60 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 2: Country is doing it her way, which makes so much sense. 61 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: During a press conference, Dolly said she's quote always wanted 62 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: to do my life story as a musical, adding that 63 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 2: she wants it to happen while she's still around and 64 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 2: can make sure that it's executed properly. 65 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 4: A true control free queen. We love to see it. 66 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 2: The musical will also feature songs we know and love, 67 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 2: as well as quote a whole lot of original songs. 68 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 3: I cannot wait for that. I know tickets are on 69 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 3: sale now for the summer premiere. So what do you say? 70 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 3: Are we all taking a trip to Nashville? 71 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 4: Uh? Yeah, Nashville or Broadway. 72 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 2: I'm telling our producers to book us an interview with 73 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 2: Dolly asap. 74 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 4: All right, Danielle, we be ready to pop off. 75 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: We're so ready. 76 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 3: We're joined by the hilarious co hosts of the Tea 77 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 3: Time podcast, Raven Simone and Miranda may Day. Welcome to 78 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: the bright Side. 79 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: It is the bright. 80 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 5: Side night, Danielle, Hi Simone, Hi, y'all, thanks for having us. 81 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: We missed you, guys. 82 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 4: Hi, welcome to both of you. Raven. 83 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 2: We had so much fun having you on solo, and 84 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: now we get the wifey with us. 85 00:03:59,080 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 6: Oh, I feel so special. 86 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 4: How are we doing this morning? Fam? 87 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,839 Speaker 1: You know we woke up. We're here. 88 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 7: I ordered a latte a macha late and instead I 89 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 7: got a cold iced latte, which I didn't know was 90 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 7: a thing. So you know I'm thriving out here. 91 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 4: Baby. How are you? 92 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 6: I am here you, guys. 93 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 5: I also am to blame for that situation though, because 94 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 5: I read the sign is wake and latte and it 95 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 5: was actually wake and late. Yeah, so it really we're 96 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 5: not We're not thriving or able to read well. 97 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 3: I guess it's so hard to recover from the wrong 98 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 3: coffee order, O preach. I know it shouldn't be, but 99 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 3: it is. It feels like everything's going in the wrong direction. 100 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 3: We're gonna have to correct course. 101 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 6: Yes, right, what about right now? 102 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 3: Okay, So you guys host the hilarious podcast Tea Time 103 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 3: with Raven and Miranda for listeners who may or may 104 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 3: not be familiar. You have your guest pull topics out 105 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 3: of a teapot and then you spill the tea. 106 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: It gets piping hot sometimes, yes. 107 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 3: Calding Simon and I recently he taped an episode with 108 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 3: you guys, which is going to come out soon. But 109 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 3: I'm a big fan on social I knew about your 110 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 3: pod even before we went on, and you've had some 111 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 3: clips go pretty viral. The ones that I saw recently 112 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 3: were because Raven was kind of spilling the tea herself. 113 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: You've been like, you've been divulging things. 114 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 7: My wife told me it was a safe space, so 115 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 7: therefore I have to trust her as her the contract 116 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:25,799 Speaker 7: of marriage. 117 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 3: Oh wow, not the contract of the podcast. 118 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 6: No, not the contract of the podcast. 119 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:31,799 Speaker 4: Just the marriage. 120 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 1: I just look at her and I'm like, is this okay? 121 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 6: Okay, good? I might go for it, babe. 122 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:36,679 Speaker 1: Well, okay. 123 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 3: When you're in the studio, it's a safe space. And 124 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 3: then it hits the airwaves and all of a sudden, 125 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 3: like People Magazine, New York are all. 126 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: These places pick things up? 127 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 3: Is it cathartic or are you sick of spilling the tea? 128 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:50,719 Speaker 1: I realized that it's not a safe space. 129 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 6: No. 130 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 7: I'm also very aware of what I do spill and 131 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 7: what I don't. I am not totally dissociated at that 132 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 7: moment where I'm just saying whatever, But I do know 133 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 7: that I, you know, with a podcast, as you both know, 134 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 7: and Miranda has informed me that people want to know 135 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 7: who I am and who we are and are our 136 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 7: authentic selves. And I'm from a different generation where we 137 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 7: just lighted the public to get a branding deals. But 138 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 7: there's new ways of surfacing in this generation and I'm learning. 139 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 3: I'm learning, Yeah, I get that. I've really enjoyed it. 140 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 3: I think you're saving the piping hot tea for your book. 141 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 7: I am thank you. 142 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 4: This serious book that we've heard so much about. 143 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: I'm running a back. 144 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 4: I mean, I am. 145 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: Actually it's happening. 146 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 4: I actually have a question for both of you. 147 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 2: We're still kind of in that new phase of the 148 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: new year, and I'm curious if you had any like 149 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: words or intentions that you set for this year, any goals, 150 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 2: and how you're doing with those. 151 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 5: You know, Simon, I'm so glad you asked, because I'm 152 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 5: going to tell you you my wife is not somebody 153 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 5: who is one for the new year, and this I'm not. 154 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 5: And this December twenty twenty four, she was on it. 155 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 5: She was like, we are doing this, and we're doing that, 156 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 5: and we're going to have a ceremony and we're going 157 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 5: to burn and we're going to purge water. 158 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: I was ready to go. 159 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 5: She was ready to go. So we came into this 160 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 5: new year in a new house with this newfound energy, 161 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 5: with every crystal cleansed. Raven was like burning things and 162 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 5: soaking things in water. We were releasing, We were red 163 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:40,119 Speaker 5: and let me tell you, I don't know the world. 164 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 5: It literally has been not it. We have said that 165 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 5: we would like to unsubscribe. We would like a full refund. 166 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 7: I want to coupon. 167 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 6: I need a February first, we're going to say happy 168 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 6: New Year. So yeah, I don't know. 169 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 5: I don't have any positivity to shine right now in 170 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 5: regards to this new I mean, I'm super honest, I'm 171 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 5: uncomfortably honest. It's just like it hasn't been a great time. 172 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 7: I will give us some some positivity. You cannot see 173 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 7: the beauty without a little bit of pain, very true. 174 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 7: So if we didn't have this thing to kind of 175 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 7: help us understand that, I believe February first, April, all 176 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 7: these months we're about to give while I'm out here, 177 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 7: it's about to be amazing. And we only will know 178 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 7: that because of the bullshit that happened in January. 179 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: You got me hyped up in that last second. 180 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 4: I was like ready to throw my arms up. 181 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 1: Let's do it. Let's go you guys. You reboot immediately. 182 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, just a system reboot. But I think to echo 183 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 5: what you're saying. And I know I sounded like such 184 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 5: a negative Nancy, But the truth is is that there 185 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 5: is always beauty in pain, and you can always meet 186 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 5: situations with grace, and there's always learning opportunities. And we're here, 187 00:08:55,440 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 5: we're healthy, we're building, and life isn't always easy. I mean, 188 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 5: people are resilient. Humanity has been through natural disaster and 189 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 5: war and destruction for as long as we've been here, 190 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 5: so we know how to persevere, we know how to 191 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 5: lift each other up. And I think that we also 192 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 5: learn through contrast. Why do you know what bright is 193 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 5: because you know what dark is, So you have to 194 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 5: have both to kind of live in a balanced life. 195 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 6: And despite the. 196 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 5: Devastation that has happened in Los Angeles, it's also been 197 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 5: incredible to see how people rally together and how people 198 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 5: have supported each other and the hope that the communities 199 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 5: have instilled in one another. And I think that, you know, again, 200 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 5: a lot of good can come from hardship. 201 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 4: Absolutely so much gratitude. 202 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 2: I'm filled with so much gratitude right now, and gratitude 203 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:51,199 Speaker 2: are officially going to be popping off right now. 204 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 4: So let's get into this. Okay. 205 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 2: I'm going to need that clipped out and played as 206 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 2: our sound effect for this segment going forward. Okay, So 207 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 2: first up, I need to hear everyone's opinion on a 208 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: very hot debate on the internet right now. Give you 209 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 2: a little teaser. It involves roommates, shampoo, and allegations of 210 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 2: petty behavior. 211 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 4: Ooh at left g WHOA? 212 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 2: Okay, So, an anonymous twenty eight year old woman recently 213 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 2: took to Reddit's and ib asshole for him? 214 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 4: Is everyone here familiar with this? Is I am? Now? Yeah? 215 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: So people go on there and they ask the world 216 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: Am I the asshole in this situation? 217 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 4: Or is it someone else? 218 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 3: Oh? 219 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 2: Wow, so we're gonna call her Erica. Erica writes that 220 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 2: she was away one weekend and while she was away, 221 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 2: her thirty four year old male roommate invited his female friend, 222 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 2: you know, a little hookup to stay over. No immediate problem, right, Okay, Well, 223 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 2: when Erica comes back, she notices that the friend had 224 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 2: used most of her expensive shampoo and conditioner without asking. 225 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 2: So cut to the next time her roommate had this 226 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 2: girl stay the night. Erica decides, Hey, I'm gonna get 227 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 2: out ahead of this, right, I know what's coming. 228 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 4: So she moves the products to her so that the 229 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 4: guests wouldn't be able to use them again. 230 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 2: Smart And so then when the woman comes back, she 231 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 2: couldn't find the conditioner, and then she asked Erica's roommate, 232 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 2: and then he confronted Erica about it and said she 233 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 2: was being rude and petty. 234 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 4: So was she the angle in this situation or was 235 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 4: she in the right. 236 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,319 Speaker 1: It's interesting to determine who the villain is here. 237 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 7: Mm hmmmm, Well, I'm gonna say I had a similar situation. 238 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 7: M I'm gonna answer your question. I'm going to tell 239 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 7: you about my situation. Yeah, I think that Erica was 240 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 7: in the right, thank. 241 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 6: You, because it's expansive. 242 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 7: It's expansive, and he was in the wrong for even 243 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 7: going up to her and saying anything like that, because 244 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 7: that is not communal shampoo. If your roommates, you know 245 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 7: what's communal. So my personal story was I was dating 246 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 7: this guy back in those days, and he was living 247 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 7: with me at the time, and I went to Spain 248 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 7: for a little movie that some people know, and I 249 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 7: bought this Spanish body wash you could only get in Spain, 250 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 7: and I you know, ladies, we all know you just 251 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 7: little drops. 252 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: He's savoring it, y savoring it. 253 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 4: I can feel the pain in my chest. You know 254 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 4: what's going to happen. 255 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 7: This six foot two hundred and twenty pound grown ass 256 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 7: man use it and I plotted to break up with 257 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 7: him after that, and it happened. I broke up with 258 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 7: this person because he really. 259 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 6: Yes, I did, and he used all of it. 260 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 7: He used all of it. 261 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's crazy. I agree with you. 262 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 4: It's not okay. 263 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 5: Erica is not the asshole in that situation. I think 264 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 5: that you do not expect your roommate's guest to ever 265 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:42,719 Speaker 5: use your items, Keristas. I mean that shit is expensive. 266 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 5: It's like thirty dollars, and I'm a product whore. Like 267 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 5: if anyone were to come into my bathroom and start 268 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 5: using my stuff, my wife, my sister, my mother. Excuse me, 269 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 5: what are you doing? I am not a share in 270 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 5: that space. So that roommate he needs to buy his 271 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 5: friend conditioner in shampoo to have in their house, or 272 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 5: the girlfriend needs to pack her own little sleepover bag 273 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 5: with her shampoo care. Also, go home and wash your hair. 274 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:09,719 Speaker 6: Why are you doing that? 275 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 7: Well, sometimes you might need to wash your hair after 276 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 7: you spend the night. 277 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 1: Over with your boyfriend. 278 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 6: No, I don't know. 279 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 4: I need to clean up. 280 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 6: Take your business there, she's so good to her house. 281 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 3: Here's the thing, no one wants to use drugstore shampoo. 282 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 3: It feels okay that day, and then a week later 283 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 3: you're like, what is. 284 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: Happening in my hair? 285 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 3: I feel this way in relationships similar to your story. 286 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 3: I don't like when the men I date use my 287 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 3: expensive shampoo because you don't need it in the way 288 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 3: that I do. I have shampoo for them and I 289 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 3: have shampoo for me. 290 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: It's it's fair, that's fair. You think that's balanced or 291 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: are we all being crazy? 292 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 4: Like? 293 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 7: No, only only thing about it is men sometimes downgrade 294 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 7: their beauty products thinking that they don't need it, but 295 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 7: they need their own for their own world. Yes, And 296 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 7: I think that Erica should ask for her money back. 297 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 7: I think that they should buy her the shmoo that 298 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 7: they used. And then by you know what I mean, like, 299 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 7: do you guys share cosmetics or no? 300 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 3: No? 301 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: None, like not even a face cream. 302 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 7: I mean sometimes she'll let me use some of her 303 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 7: face cream in my skin is real dress. 304 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, Sometimes I'm like, let me help you out, and 305 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 6: I did. 306 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 5: I did use your sun block because I ran out 307 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 5: of mine, But and then. 308 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 7: My sun block was her sunblock. She brought me her 309 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 7: some block for that moment, took it back, So now 310 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 7: I realized that it was just in. 311 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 5: Case she read, the only thing I think we kind 312 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 5: of share are sometimes sense you stole my diaper life. 313 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 5: You share my diaper life. 314 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 6: This is true. 315 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: What's a diaper life? 316 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 6: A diaper? 317 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 7: A DIAPERA that moment, that moment in the female's life 318 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 7: that month. Yeah, you know they went into these like 319 00:14:55,360 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 7: washable underwears. I can't do that because I'm heavy. I 320 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 7: have a heavy sisal flow. And so I picked up 321 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 7: one of the diapers, which are the thorough away ones. 322 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. 323 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 7: I was just wearing around the house. 324 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: She's like, is that a diaper? 325 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 6: So Raven loves Raven loves a diaper. 326 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 2: This is a huge female hack. I went, next time 327 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 2: I'm in heat, I'm gonna wear a diaper. 328 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 7: Yes you should, and in heat and there's like a 329 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 7: little sports brand a diaper I totally stopped wearing. 330 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 5: It's a tampons. Yeah, I just don't wear tampons anymore. 331 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 7: So back to Erica, don't steal my diapers. 332 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, this real life. 333 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 4: The last thing I wanted to say about this story. 334 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 4: This is a quick fix. 335 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 2: All the all the roommate has to do is buy 336 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 2: her some urbal essence panteene Provy until she graduates to 337 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 2: deserving the expense, you know, like maybe once she becomes 338 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: like a girlfriend or something, then she gets access to it. 339 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 4: But just buy her a jeep Shampo. 340 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 2: We're gonna do a quick break from popping off, but 341 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 2: we'll be right back. 342 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 4: We're back to popping off with Raven Simonet and Miranda 343 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 4: may Day. 344 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: Okay, we have something else to chat about today. 345 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 3: We've heard of niche insurance policies, right, so concert pianists 346 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 3: can insure their hands. There's always been this rumor that 347 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 3: j Low has insured her dairy air. I was looking 348 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 3: up more online. A lot of celebrities insure things. Taylor 349 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 3: Swift allegedly insured her legs for forty million dollars. Clume too, yes, 350 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 3: allegedly allegedly. Julia Roberts allegedly insured her smile. 351 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: For thirty million. 352 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, I heard that too. 353 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: I think it's worth more. 354 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 3: Anyways, there's a new insurance policy in town. It's called 355 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 3: Cancel Culture Insurance. 356 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: I know so. 357 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 3: A London based insurance agency just launched a policy called Preempt, 358 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 3: basically cancel culture insurance. It's designed to protect people from 359 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 3: reputational damage before things spiral, offering monitoring training and a 360 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 3: twenty four to seven crisis Hotline to handle negative social 361 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 3: media and any media coverage that's negative. 362 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 1: It's basically like your own crisis PR team. 363 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 3: It seems it even covers misinformation and deep fakes. 364 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 2: Ravens punning your head down. I can't wait to hear this. 365 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 1: But here's the catch. 366 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 3: It's meant for people worried about being mischaracterized or taken 367 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 3: out of context, not for those who've actually broken the 368 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 3: law or done something wrong. I feel conflicted about this 369 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 3: because does it incentivize people to behave badly? 370 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 2: Like? 371 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: Does it give characters on the internet or on the 372 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 1: news or on the. 373 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 3: View an incentive to say outrageous things because they'll get 374 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,239 Speaker 3: an insurance check for it? 375 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: Oh, I'd even take it there. 376 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 6: I didn't think about that either. And that's interesting. 377 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 4: That's hard. 378 00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 1: We already have unhinged people online. 379 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 4: That part. 380 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,439 Speaker 1: That part, I don't know if I need more. 381 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 6: Of it, you know, Yeah, that's so interesting. I don't know. 382 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 5: It's such My initial thought was like, this is such 383 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 5: a reflection of just where our world has gone. And 384 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 5: when you think about people who are canceled, I can 385 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:22,119 Speaker 5: understand for somebody who feels completely misunderstood or something that 386 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 5: blows out of proportion that wasn't meant to land the 387 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 5: way it landed. Then you've lost essentially your livelihood and 388 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 5: your reputation. Right, I can understand that, But the fact 389 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 5: that you just brought up in y'elle, I don't know. 390 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 5: And if that's going to open the floodgates for giving 391 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 5: more people permission to be off the walls, I mean 392 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 5: that sucks, But people do anything for a check. 393 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,959 Speaker 7: You went there and I went to Olivia Pope, like 394 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 7: that is the original quote unquote sure the fixer, and 395 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 7: it's like that insurance policy is just gonna happen. You're 396 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 7: just gonna spend that money on a publicist because you're 397 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 7: gonna have to fix it anyway. 398 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 2: You know. 399 00:18:56,240 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 7: I find it ridiculous. Just watch your mouth and think 400 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 7: about what you're going to say before you say it, 401 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 7: because I think you're. 402 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 1: Right, Daniel. I think they're going to start just taking money. 403 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 7: But the world we live in now, it's all about 404 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:14,959 Speaker 7: free speech and say whatever you want to it if 405 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 7: it's your truth. So well, if our leaders can do it, 406 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 7: why can't the civilians do it? 407 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 6: Because then you get a TikTok man so. 408 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 2: I guess this was created for people who feel victimized 409 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 2: by just the cultural conversation and feel like they didn't 410 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:31,120 Speaker 2: actually say anything. 411 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 4: Wrong, right exactly. 412 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like you you went on the 413 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 2: view you caught flag for saying things that were it 414 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 2: was completely unfair and blown out of proportion. Would something 415 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 2: like this have been helpful in that situation? 416 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: I don't really need money. 417 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 7: I mean, of course I like money like that, right, 418 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 7: I know, care what you put in the universe. I 419 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 7: don't know if money would have fixed the problem and 420 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 7: the feeling that I went through at the time of 421 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 7: the things that I said. I also am just talking 422 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 7: like that right now. I mean, I still got my 423 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 7: check though. That's the crazy thing. It's just like, I 424 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 7: maybe maybe you're right, Simone, maybe it would have helped. 425 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,919 Speaker 7: I don't. I don't know how it could have unless 426 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 7: there was you said, it comes with a what it 427 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 7: comes with a twenty four to seven. 428 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 1: Helpline, Yeah, crisis hotline. 429 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 7: So like, what do I call and cry and they're like, well, 430 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 7: maybe you don't and apologize if I give you what 431 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 7: If they give you bad advice, the best advice is 432 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 7: to just be quiet and apologize. 433 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 4: And keep your opinions to yourself next time. 434 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: Like, Okay, in this vein, I have a psa. I'm 435 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 1: kind of thinking about this since the new year, bring 436 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: decorum back. Oh, we must bring decorum back. I miss it. 437 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: I think it keeps people safe. 438 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 3: I know it's like it feels a little bit old school, 439 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 3: but in professional settings, decorum is there for a reason. 440 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 3: You know when Jackie O had that face where she 441 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 3: was unfhazed all the time because she was a public person. 442 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: Yes, ring decorum back. When you are on the. 443 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 3: Airplane and you're in the window seat and it's sunny 444 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 3: and the shade is up, put it. 445 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 1: Down, or I agree, saying. 446 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 3: Wild things on the internet that are explicit and insight violence, 447 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 3: bring decorum back. 448 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, you're right, and I have a I have something 449 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 7: to say to you. 450 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 4: Please. 451 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,639 Speaker 7: We are too far along in shock culture to do that. 452 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, you think so. 453 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 7: I think that the new generation, maybe maybe not this 454 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 7: generation that's popping off right now, but if we start now, 455 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 7: the next generation can. But like you know, there's something 456 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 7: wrong with today where it's like I need more and 457 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 7: more and more to get a feeling we are so numb. 458 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,360 Speaker 7: Yes that maybe it'll shock us back into it because 459 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 7: I agree with you, but decorum. 460 00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 5: Also, I think that people might counter the brain decorum 461 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 5: back with but that's inauthentic to my experience in that moment. Right, So, 462 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 5: the window seat, the window seat person. We're not trained 463 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:13,439 Speaker 5: in our culture to think about the person next to 464 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 5: us or the person coming after us. And we are 465 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 5: literally individual like in our own bubble type of people. 466 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 5: And that's even just think of how we commute. Most 467 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 5: of us are just you know, isolated in a car 468 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 5: going from point A to point B. So that idea 469 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 5: of put your window down is so correct, but I 470 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 5: think that what you would encounter is this is my seat. 471 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 5: I paid for it, and I can have it up 472 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 5: or down. And then you have just constant conflict because 473 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 5: what you're not thinking of is okay, wait, the sun 474 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 5: is glaring in. And it's also like cascading onto a 475 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 5: mother who's holding her a baby and this man and 476 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 5: this like you're not considering and so it's it's so hard. 477 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 5: And then people are so in this place of like 478 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 5: every single individual experience counts, My feelings matter. I need 479 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 5: to be validated, that there's no sense of community and 480 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 5: how we all impact each other. 481 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 7: And that's why I think cancel culture kind of blew 482 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:16,120 Speaker 7: out a proportion because the people that say whatever they think, 483 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:20,919 Speaker 7: they whatever they think their experiences, not having decorum, not 484 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 7: realizing that we are all on this tiny piece of 485 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 7: land with each other. Like other cultures. Japanese people, they 486 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 7: are a unit when they move forward. They don't even 487 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 7: open presence in front of the person in front of 488 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,199 Speaker 7: them because they want to make sure that they have 489 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 7: their personal experience privately and then go about, you know, 490 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 7: saying thank you later. But that cancel culture came because 491 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 7: one person said their truth and another person is not 492 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 7: okay with it, and therefore you're canceled. And it's so 493 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,400 Speaker 7: disgusting to me. And I think that you're right. If 494 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 7: we kind of and we kind of go back to 495 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 7: when manners were really really important, yeah, and like the 496 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 7: collective was really important, then maybe we would maybe we 497 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 7: would be a little bit better humanity, maybe we'd be better. 498 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 1: I love where you guys took this. I totally agree. 499 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: I really bring decorum back. Matters were there for a reason. 500 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 7: They were there for a reason. 501 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:20,239 Speaker 2: Well, one area where I really prefer to adhere to 502 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 2: the traditional way of doing things is weddings. I think 503 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 2: that we have to have decorum when it comes to weddings. 504 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 2: I'm still shocked that some people don't know that you 505 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 2: just can't wear white if you're not the bride. But anyways, 506 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 2: it seems like, you know, a lot of elements of 507 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 2: decorum have gone out the window, as we've been saying, yeah, 508 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 2: when it comes to weddings and marriages. 509 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 4: Though. 510 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 2: I recently came across an article in the New York 511 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 2: Times that was titled you are cordially invited to our wedding, 512 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 2: but not to our vows. And I read that I 513 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 2: was like, huh, So what this piece says is that 514 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 2: more and more couples are actually deciding to exchange their 515 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 2: wedding vows in private, and there are several different ways 516 00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 2: that you can do this. Apparently, so one couple mentioned 517 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 2: and that they shared their vows silently in front of 518 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 2: all of their wedding guests, which I'm not exactly sure 519 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 2: how that goes down. 520 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 7: We won't We'll have to unpack that. 521 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. 522 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 2: In another instance, guests watch the bride and groom hand 523 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,360 Speaker 2: each other sealed envelopes one at a time and read 524 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 2: them silently while everyone watched that sounds awkward to me. 525 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 2: What do you guys make of this trend? Are you 526 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,199 Speaker 2: pro private vows or pro public vows? 527 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: The vows are my favorite part? 528 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 7: Really? 529 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,399 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, you start crying? 530 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm into. What do I want 531 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 3: to see the decorum of your wedding? 532 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,120 Speaker 7: I don't want to see the stuff they say all 533 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 7: the time. 534 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 3: I want to see the stuff that you mean, like, 535 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 3: what does this person mean to you? I don't want 536 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,479 Speaker 3: to attend a wedding without vows. 537 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 7: Interesting. 538 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 4: Wow, Danielle, take your hard stance. 539 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:53,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, yeah, I can understand that because personally, okay, 540 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 5: this is where I stand with him. 541 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 6: If a couple is like it feels. 542 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 5: Too intimate and we want to make, you know, promises 543 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 5: and commitments to one another that just are bound between 544 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 5: the two of us, that's fantastic. I think you should 545 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 5: do that. But I think you should have then a 546 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 5: moment where you give the lighter version to your audience. Well, 547 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 5: where I think you still can say some form of 548 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 5: thou like something or some kind of agreed upon I 549 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 5: promise to da da da da da. Because it is 550 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,919 Speaker 5: an emotional part. It is a beautiful element, and I 551 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 5: think that it's also beautiful that in front of those 552 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 5: people you are making this commitment. What I like the 553 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 5: most about about is you're asking all of those people 554 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 5: to be your witness to the commitment that you're making 555 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 5: to another person. And hopefully there's somebody in that crowd 556 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 5: that will also then help hold you accountable to the 557 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 5: commitment that you just publicly made. So there is a 558 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 5: public element that is kind of crucial, I think, to 559 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 5: the commitment that is made in a marriage. 560 00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 4: Are we all grandma's you guys? 561 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:03,360 Speaker 7: Are we all just I definitely am not a grandma 562 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 7: because I don't think you should be doing that in 563 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 7: front of people. 564 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 4: I really don't. 565 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 7: I hope that not do your vowels in front of everyone, 566 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 7: because I don't want anybody in my relationship. 567 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,640 Speaker 1: Change my mind. Tell me more, okay. 568 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 7: So, like I think that the vows should come before 569 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,920 Speaker 7: you get on the altar and just make the altar 570 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 7: the ceremonial visual for the audience. I think when I'm 571 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 7: starting to say what I'm gonna, you know, do for 572 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 7: you and all of that, I think that should be 573 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:32,679 Speaker 7: in a private setting. I think that we need to 574 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 7: put marriage ceremonies into a microscope and kind of change 575 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:40,679 Speaker 7: the way it looks like. 576 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 6: For me, I think there should. 577 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 7: Be two type of ceremonies within one day. One the 578 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 7: vowels that you have with each other in front of 579 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 7: like whoever you're priest or efficient and maybe your parents. 580 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 7: But I don't think three hundred people that you sent 581 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 7: invitations to just to fill up your wedding that the 582 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 7: game presence should be involved in the intimacy of your relationship. 583 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,879 Speaker 7: Because if y'all get divorced, people go and look at 584 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 7: you like you're crazy afterwards. So I think that it 585 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,439 Speaker 7: needs to be like private for that moment, because that 586 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 7: is the truth. That is what you guys are basing 587 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 7: your relationship off of. And all those three hundred to 588 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,400 Speaker 7: six hundred or twenty people that come to your wedding, 589 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 7: that's not their business. In my opinion, personally, you. 590 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 3: Did slightly change my mind, and I'll tell you why. 591 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,239 Speaker 3: I in listening to you, I was realizing, as an 592 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 3: audience member at a wedding, it's almost a performance. 593 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 1: It's a performance, and the vows should not be performative. 594 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 1: I like your idea. 595 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 3: If you are in Miranda, if you are inviting everybody 596 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 3: to your performance of a wedding. 597 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 1: Do a light version. 598 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 3: Now we all are entertained and we feel your love 599 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 3: and get to still cry with you and then have 600 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 3: a separate one for the two of you. 601 00:28:58,640 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: I think that's beautiful. 602 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 5: That's kind of what you said, which is the and 603 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 5: what I said it is like you have your own 604 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 5: smaller intimate moment, which is like maybe your parents are 605 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 5: your efficient or at least have someone bearing witness if 606 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 5: you need that. 607 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 6: But I think that that's kind of. 608 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 4: What we did. 609 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 5: Like we didn't have a traditional vow ceremony. We had 610 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 5: written down things on paper that we like, we and 611 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 5: we had marriage journals, marriage journey. 612 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, they lasted like two months. But I do want 613 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 7: to bring back something that you said simone about somebody 614 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 7: doing their vows in silence. 615 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 6: How does that work? 616 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 2: I don't do. 617 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 7: I'm just staring at your eyes. You can read my 618 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 7: booins these couple's telepathy. 619 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,239 Speaker 4: Oh god, it got it. 620 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: You should know that this is ridiculous. 621 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 4: I don't. 622 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 7: Again, it's about it's about tradition setting, but your version 623 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 7: of tradition, like read the vowels after in the envelope. 624 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 7: But if you're standing there and i'd like to take 625 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 7: a moment of silence for vows. 626 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: It's like, this is not dead, this is this is life. 627 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 4: We need to speak. 628 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 7: We need to, you know, pump some energy into the wedding. 629 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 7: I need I need hip hop, you know what I mean. Like, 630 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 7: I don't know, I'm just different when I've been to 631 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 7: like a little reggae. 632 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 4: I'm a little. 633 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 7: Reggae, you know what I mean. I need a little 634 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 7: you know, hit bumping. 635 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 5: But I also think it's super individual. Whatever makes the 636 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 5: people getting married on that day happy, and whatever makes 637 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 5: them feel celebrated and makes their relationship feel whatever it 638 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 5: needs to feel on that day, go off. Like if 639 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 5: you need to have a silent wedding, have a fucking 640 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 5: silent wedding. 641 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 6: If you want to wear a black party, yeah, like 642 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 6: where whatever you want. 643 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 3: Like I don't. 644 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 6: I don't feel like you have. 645 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 5: To get married in one way at all. I think 646 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 5: you do your thing. 647 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 6: But I think you're right. 648 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 7: It is a show. You're putting on a show for 649 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,040 Speaker 7: other people, and that does not feel authentic. And we 650 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 7: are in the you know, generation of authenticity. 651 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 3: It's time for another short break, but we'll be right 652 00:30:53,600 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 3: back with Miranda may Day and Raven Simonet and we're 653 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 3: back with Raven, Cimo, Neet and Miranda may Day. Okay, 654 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 3: you guys know, I'm in Jamaica right now. A lot 655 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 3: of my girlfriends are here and some of them listen 656 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 3: to our podcast. Danielle and my friend Alex was like, 657 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 3: I love the popping off. 658 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 2: Segments, Like that's my favorite part. I like love the 659 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 2: celebrity tea and pop culture. So I promised I would 660 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 2: squeeze in a celebrity tea question. 661 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:27,479 Speaker 4: Let's go, Yes, let's go. 662 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 2: What is the most fun celebrity wedding you both have 663 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:32,280 Speaker 2: been to? 664 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 7: And why you're so cute? We don't have celebrity friends. 665 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 5: I was gonna have to say mine when I married 666 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 5: Raven the celebrity, because that's the only celebrity wedding I've 667 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 5: ever been to. 668 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 7: I've been to my best I've been to my best 669 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 7: friends reading from middle school. I wasn't even invited to 670 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 7: my best friend's wedding from high school. 671 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 5: Together, Raven and I have been to four weddings, like 672 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 5: I think collect if you add like every wedding she's 673 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 5: been to in every wedding I've been to, it's like 674 00:31:58,360 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 5: five total. 675 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, like we don't wedding. 676 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 7: Now, to answer your questions, which celebrity wedding have we 677 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 7: witnessed on social media? 678 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 1: Or which we. 679 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 5: Can we adjust the question to like which celebrity party, 680 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 5: because have we been to any. 681 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 2: Good celebrity Yes, that's what I was gonna say, Like 682 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 2: what Hollywood event? 683 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 4: Maybe our celebrities party? Have you been to? That was 684 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 4: the most fun? The white party? I'm just playing. I 685 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 4: didn't go. 686 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 7: Oh god, we need a whole episode on that. 687 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 1: I wasn't invited. 688 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 6: You can't drop that. At the end, all she wanted 689 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 6: to do was go to a white party. 690 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 1: No one invited me. I'm just playing cot so lucky. 691 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 4: How are you not right now? 692 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 3: Oh my god, seriously, you're so lucky. 693 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 4: I've been to some parties, you guys. 694 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 7: I've been to some parties in Atlanta, here in LA 695 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 7: and I will say it is the freedom that comes 696 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 7: with knowing that everybody is in a precarious situation. 697 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 6: They want some tea, they want some names. 698 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 7: Oh no, I'm not giving no names. I sign an NDA. 699 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 7: But I also don't want people to tell the truth 700 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 7: on me. So I'm gonna have some decorum. 701 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 3: I'm not redacting this any Hattish sorta got canceled for 702 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 3: not having decorum. 703 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: In this situation, I'm not about to not have decorum. 704 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 7: I get so the celebrity parties that I've been to, 705 00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 7: whether I have my phone taken away, whether it's free 706 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 7: drinks flowing like water from the well, whether it's all 707 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 7: kinds of things going down. I think the most fun 708 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 7: I have is when I see someone that I grew 709 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:39,920 Speaker 7: up with totally not on their best behavior, totally enjoying 710 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 7: their civilian life and forgetting that they're worth millions, and 711 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 7: I'm just sitting there like I'm about to, We're about to, 712 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 7: We're about to, We're about to go right now, and 713 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 7: to be able to just be free and be like 714 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 7: I just popped it on this person and this person 715 00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 7: just pomped it on me, and it was just even 716 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 7: instead of when you meet these people at like an 717 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 7: award show or a red carpet, they're so hoity toity, 718 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,800 Speaker 7: they're snooty. But when you get something. 719 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,280 Speaker 1: Many celebrities girl. 720 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 7: And it's like it's but it's anybody at. 721 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 5: One of the best celebrity parties that we have been to, 722 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 5: and I can give names that is actually Tiffany haddishes 723 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 5: and Tiffany throws a great game night party she does 724 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 5: and she has people. Everyone has to bring a dish, 725 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 5: and she has an entire house. It's potluck spades. It's 726 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 5: like pot but she changes it every month and she 727 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 5: does it monthly, and it's she has a house. It's 728 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 5: entirely empty except for the food and the games that 729 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,600 Speaker 5: come into it. So every room there's like a different 730 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 5: game going down. You got spades over here, you got 731 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 5: another card game over here. She has a bouncy house 732 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,920 Speaker 5: in the backyard. Everybody brings a. 733 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 6: Dish and you just go. 734 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 1: That is so fun. 735 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:51,919 Speaker 6: It's really fun. 736 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:56,359 Speaker 7: There's anything like a daytime. It starts we day, but it. 737 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 6: Starts in the day and it goes into the night 738 00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 6: and it just what about you too? 739 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:00,600 Speaker 4: About you two? 740 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 3: I've been to some good ones, right party, Yes, the 741 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 3: corn but do sell. So this is probably weird nowadays 742 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 3: to share. But back in the day, I went to 743 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:19,320 Speaker 3: a Halloween party that uh, it was like very celebrity filled. 744 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 3: My best friend doesn't know any celebrities, like she's one 745 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 3: of those, so she kept asking Jessica Alba to take 746 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 3: photos of her and then saying, this doesn't look good. 747 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 4: The lighting is not right. 748 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:28,840 Speaker 6: Can you do it again? 749 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 4: I love it? 750 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, she kept rolling her eyes. 751 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 6: Oh my god, Jessica. 752 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,240 Speaker 3: But ultimately the party became an after party at Elon 753 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 3: Muff's house. Everyone they took the phones like you had 754 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 3: to put your phones in those bags. 755 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 4: It was. 756 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,399 Speaker 1: It was an unbelievable night. 757 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 7: That's awesome. 758 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 6: It was a good one, okay, Daniel. 759 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,400 Speaker 4: I'm sure that house was wild. 760 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:53,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was really. 761 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 3: There were like naked mermaids and glitter all over the house, 762 00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 3: like in the pools. 763 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:03,439 Speaker 7: Yes, please, yeah, wow, yes, it was one. We'll talk 764 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 7: about that offline where the decorum is no longer that 765 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 7: that's one place where I'm good with decorum. 766 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, offline, offline with your friends, yes, exactly. 767 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,240 Speaker 7: What about you, Siman? Was that was that bomb party 768 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 7: you went to? 769 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:16,839 Speaker 4: You know what? 770 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 2: Unfortunately we are out of time you guys, guys, I 771 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 2: love you so much. 772 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 4: Say that a lot. 773 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 6: I really love you guys, We love you. 774 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 7: I love you both. 775 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:28,439 Speaker 4: I love you guys too, and I missed you. 776 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 2: And can I get us on a group chat so 777 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,120 Speaker 2: we can finally schedule something. 778 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,799 Speaker 7: Yes please, and we can have a party of our own. 779 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 4: And then we'll have stories. 780 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that's the theme of the party. 781 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 3: No decorum aloud. All right, thanks for joining us today, guys. 782 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:45,800 Speaker 7: Thanks for love you, guys. 783 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 2: Thank you. 784 00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,960 Speaker 3: Raven Simone is an Emmy Award winning actor, singer, producer, 785 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:55,280 Speaker 3: and director. She's also the host of the game show Scrabble. 786 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 3: Miranda Mayde is the co host of the podcast Tea 787 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,359 Speaker 3: Time with Raven and Miranda. It's available wherever you get 788 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 3: your podcasts. 789 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:08,399 Speaker 4: That's it for today's show. 790 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,320 Speaker 2: On Monday, we're joined by the Master of Nuance, herself, 791 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 2: author and my good friend, Britt Baron. She's here to 792 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 2: talk about her new book and how we can all 793 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,439 Speaker 2: navigate tough topics with the ones we love. 794 00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,920 Speaker 3: Listen and follow The bright Side on the iHeartRadio app, 795 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 3: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The bright 796 00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 3: Side is a production of Hello, Sunshine and iHeart Podcasts 797 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 3: and is executive produced by Reese Witherspoon. 798 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 2: Production by Arcana Audio. Our producers are Jessica wenk Amy 799 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 2: Padula and Laura Newcomb. Our senior producers, It's a Hintania. 800 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,200 Speaker 2: Our engineer is PJ. Shaham Matt. 801 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 3: Arcana's executive producers are Francis Harlowe and Abby Ruzka. Arcana's 802 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,800 Speaker 3: head of production is Matt Schultz. 803 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 2: Natalie Tulluck and Maureen Polo are the executive producers for 804 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 2: Hello Sunshine. 805 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 3: Julia Weaver is the supervising producer, and Ali Perry is 806 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 3: the executive produce for iHeart Podcasts. Tim Palazzola is our showrunner. 807 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,719 Speaker 3: This week's episodes were recorded by Graham Gibson and Joel Morales. 808 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 2: Our theme song is by Anna Stump and Hamilton Lighthouser. 809 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,280 Speaker 2: Special thanks to Connell Byrne and Will Pearson. I'm Simone Boyce. 810 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 2: You can find me at Simone Boyce on Instagram and TikTok. 811 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 2: And I'm Danielle Robe on Instagram and TikTok. 812 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,320 Speaker 1: That's ro O b A Y. 813 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 4: We'll see you Monday, y'all keep looking on the bright side.