1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all back, I 2 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: don't have a suit on, looking back to back down, 3 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: giving them move like amazing buck things. And it's true 4 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: good at Steve har listening to move together for ste 5 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: bar Please Bobby, I don't join by join me to 6 00:00:51,200 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: be doing men. You gotta turning them, You gotta turn 7 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: to turn them out, got to turn them out, to 8 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: turn the water the water. Come, come on your baby 9 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: at it. Uh huh. I show will good morning everybody 10 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: you are listening to the voice, come on dig me now. 11 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey Man got a radio show, man, Yeah, 12 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: I do. Steve Harvey got a radio show because I 13 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: can't tell it to you any other way because God 14 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: has been so so very amazing to me. But the 15 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: same God, and there is but one that same God is. 16 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: It can and will be amazing in your life if 17 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: you just allow it to happen. You know, I was somewhere, 18 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: you know, and I was driving on the freeway somewhere, 19 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: and I saw bill board and it was a guy 20 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: in a field on his knees. And on this billboard 21 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 1: it said something to the effect when when you've run 22 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 1: out of answers, Try prayer. That was the billboard. When 23 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: you run out of answers, try prayer. And I was 24 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: I was going somewhere, and I don't even remember I 25 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: go so much. Man, I was just going somewhere and 26 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: I saw this billboard and I thought about that, And man, 27 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: I cannot tell you how true of a statement that is. 28 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: When you've run out of answers, when you don't know 29 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: what to do, when you feel weak, when you are 30 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: at a low point, when things just seem to keep 31 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: happening to you, and you don't understand why prayer is 32 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: an amazing weapon. Prayer is available to all of us. 33 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: Here's a deal. You don't have to go through the 34 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: all of that you're going through alone. See, I'm talking 35 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: to men, women, boys, girls, students, leaders, bosses, employees. I 36 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: don't care what's happening. I don't care what your situation is. 37 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: I don't care if your relationship is all jacked up. 38 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: I don't care if your kids and your relationship is 39 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: jacked up. I don't care if your relationship at work 40 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: is shot. Your coworkers seem to always make you the 41 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: buddy end of the joke. You always somebody always talking 42 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 1: about you behind your back. You're finding it more and 43 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: more necessary to try to hold your head up and 44 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: walk past these people when some days you can't even 45 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: get your chin up off your chest. That are people 46 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 1: out there that are going through, kids that are going 47 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: through being bullied at the school. You got students in 48 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: college who know that they want to have a college degree, 49 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: but their face with some many temptations out there, so many, 50 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: so many things that can sidetrack them. If you're a 51 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: woman out there and you've been alone by yourself for 52 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: so long, and you're just tired of being alone, you 53 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: really want a relationship, you really want to be have 54 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 1: a mate, you want to meet your soul mate, whatever 55 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: it is, whatever it is, Prayer is the answer. You 56 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: are listening to a guy who is a direct recipient 57 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: of prayer. I can't tell you anything that I've gotten 58 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: out of that I didn't pray about. Oh, now, there 59 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: are a lot of things hold on them. Let me 60 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: backtrack a little bit. There are a lot of things 61 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: that have happened in my life that I've gotten past 62 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: without praying, because I think my mama was praying for me. 63 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: And then there's this thing that God has called grace 64 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: and mercy that he just somehow keeps us all waking 65 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 1: up every day without foot on some form or solid 66 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: ground because he's just waiting on us to come to him. 67 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: But y'all, if you can implement prayer into your day 68 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: every single day, and I'm talking about put it in 69 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: there at the top of your day, put it in 70 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: there in the middle of your day, put it in 71 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 1: there when you close your day out, when you're sitting 72 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: at your desk and ain't nobody bothering you, that's a 73 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: good time. Now, Look, you don't have to make no scene. 74 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: You ain't got to let everybody know, Oh I'm spiritual, 75 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: I love God, look at me, Oh I'm down, or 76 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: you ain't got to do none of that. Matter of fact, 77 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: don't do it for that reason, because if that's your 78 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: reason for doing it, that's gonna be your reward. If 79 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: you want somebody to just say, oh, they pray every 80 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 1: you know, they pray at lunch and they had a 81 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: Bible on their desk and they have a bunch of 82 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: highlights in it. If you're sitting it out there so 83 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: people can see that that's what you do, then that's 84 00:06:56,120 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: gonna be your reward. Please know you. That's gonna be 85 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: your reward. What I want you to do is pray. 86 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 1: Ask God for the things the desires of your heart, 87 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: have a faith, believe in them. But pray earnestly. Man. 88 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: I mean, actually go at it with saying, Hey, God, 89 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: listen to me. I can't do this without you. I 90 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: need your help. Listen, man, I know a lot of 91 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: people that pray. I know a lot of it. If 92 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: I told you the rich and famous that I talk 93 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: to that pray constantly, it would amaze you. And that's 94 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: all I'm saying today. I'm saying you got to check 95 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: into that, y'all. Just go check God out. Go check 96 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: him out. You've fend to go through something, man, that 97 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: did You can see the trouble coming. Go talk to 98 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: God about it. Man. Matter of fact, you'd already got 99 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: yourself into trouble. Go talk to God about it. You 100 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: can't see no way out. You're in the situation. You're 101 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: thinking about doing something straight crazy. Pump your brake's partner. 102 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: Slow down a little bit, my man, Slow down, don't don't. 103 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: All you're gonna do is make a situation worse. Go 104 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: over there today and talk to God. Talk to God 105 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: for real. Just look, man, you know what. Man, Sometimes 106 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,679 Speaker 1: I've gone to God and I've just said, Hey, God, 107 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: I don't have a clue. Matter of fact, I'm so 108 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: jacked up right now. God, I don't even really know 109 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: what to ask you for. I just need some help. 110 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: I'm so deep is some mess right now. Not only 111 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: can I not see the way out, I can't see 112 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: my way round. There's a there's a poem calling Victus, 113 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: and the opening line says, out of the night that 114 00:08:55,200 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: covers me black as a pit from pole to pole. 115 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: I thank God's for whatever be from my unconquerable soul 116 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: that This line is so deep. It starts off saying, 117 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: I am in deep trouble. I'm in a pit, black 118 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: as a pit from pole to pole. I'm talking about man. 119 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: From over there to over there. It's pitch black and 120 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: and man, that man, you've been in that situation before, y'all, 121 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 1: because I have. I'm talking about black as a pit 122 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: from pole to pole. God is there. God is available. 123 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 1: God is always standing by. He just wants you to 124 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: come to him. See he's been coming to you a 125 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: whole lot of times. He's presented himself. I can't tell 126 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,319 Speaker 1: you how many times he showed you how good a 127 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: god he is. He's given us all grace and mercy 128 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: without us asking for He's gotten you through some things. 129 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: And you looked at him. Boy, who Man, I don't 130 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: know how the hell? Okay, that's cool. I'm cool. No no, 131 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: no, no no, no, that wasn't cool. That was God. What 132 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 1: you're what you're tripping on? Oh? Man? You know I was. 133 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: I was doing something other day in the man. I 134 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: just came out of my owner. What was that, man? 135 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: I said, Man, that's cool, that's cool. Cool, Hey man, 136 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 1: that was God. That was God looking out for you, 137 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: because you're his child. He would love to hear from you. Pray, man, 138 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: when you out of answers and you don't know what 139 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: to do, pray. If you see some trouble coming, pray 140 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 1: if you already got into it, Pray if you don't 141 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: know the answers, Pray. If you can't see no way out, pray, pray, man, 142 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: Talk to God. Don't make a scene, Just talk to God. 143 00:10:55,559 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: All right? Very important. You show, ladies are gentlemen. Let 144 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 1: me have your attention. Please this hill, believe it or not. 145 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show, It's about to be ignorant. Why 146 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: cause the original crew is Hill Originals. Oh gee, Shirley 147 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: strawbary O g Steve Harvey, come happening, Oh nephew, Tommy 148 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: top tap tap tap, And then there's a me fresh 149 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:46,679 Speaker 1: up the boat? Who be you sing? Me? Ain't nobody 150 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 1: but me? Yeah? Yeah, Okay, I like, can I just 151 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 1: say this just right in the beginning? Come on what 152 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna say this first. I'm sorry Tommy, Okay, 153 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna just say that first before I asked Steve 154 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: on the way and I was listening, of course, to 155 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: the radio and they played the Christmas song but you 156 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: know nat King call Yeah yeah, hell yeah, Christmas, hell 157 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: yeah every year? How the hell you ain't gonna have 158 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: a little time christ Late in the cut at the gate, 159 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: shirt at the gate. I heard it just a couple 160 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: of minutes ago when I was in my car. That's 161 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 1: your girl, though, see I was at the gate every time. 162 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 1: To know how I'm gonna react. I can't help it, 163 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: you can't help it. It just made me chest nuts roasting. Man. 164 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: I still like, you know what, I haven't heard yet? 165 00:12:55,320 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: Christ this Christmas done? Hang on, It's so tough. I'm 166 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: gonna get to know it. That's what I really know. 167 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 1: It's Christmas. Yes, yeah, you see Christmas. I want to 168 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: back out this year of something. I want to unaccepted challenge. 169 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: I was challenged. You all may remember that Christmas tree content. Yeah. 170 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: I want to officially back out. Where are you down? Yeah? 171 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: But this is really I think I should. I want to. 172 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: First of all, I want to compliment the Miles family. 173 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: Wonderful job he's doing, raising his family and exposing them 174 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: to things all around the country, buying them beautiful, giving 175 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: them kids lifestyles that he didn't have it. And the 176 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: Miles family you know that? Did you know who? Okay? 177 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: And you're provide lifestyle for his family and provide a 178 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: beautiful home. The shateau is absolutely squisite and Christmas decorations 179 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: is it's beautiful. He got his cree off. That's what 180 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm here. It's not even decorate. And I'm glad you 181 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: said twenty four because that's exactly what he hold off. 182 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 1: We gotta get out of here when we come back. 183 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: I was crying. All we got to talk about Forbes 184 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: highest paid people on TV. When we come back. We'll 185 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: be back at thirty two after you're listening to show well. 186 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: Steve Forbes magazine has released its top paid TV host 187 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: for twenty eighteen, and the verdict is in all right, 188 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: all right, uh we'll go We'll go this way. Number 189 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: four Ryan Seacress, you know he's with Live with Kelly 190 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: and Ryan and American Idol. Right, seventy four million dollars? 191 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: What twenty eighteen? U secret? Number three Doctor Phil made 192 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: eighty seven point eight million. What we love doctor Phil too? 193 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: Excuse me? Excuse him scooting? There was some mumbling in 194 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: the background. What was that? See? Oh okay, I didn't 195 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: hear that. Okay, your your girlfriend Tommy. Number two Ellen 196 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 1: eighty seven and a half million got him. This is 197 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: all pretexts, you know, during her most lucrative year. Yet. 198 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go on up to number one. Then we'll 199 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: talk about number five, Number one Stephen the you've told 200 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 1: us this before, Judge Judy, come on, hire one hundred 201 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: fourty seven million dollars pretexts last year, in one year, 202 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: in one year twenty eighteen. What you better come on. 203 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: You'll see it when you get mad. I don't want 204 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: to hear it. I don't want to hear it to me. 205 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 1: She said, I'm talking. She I love that. Okay. Uh, 206 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: we didn't talk about number five. We did not talk 207 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: about number one. Who was number five? Yeah, you may 208 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 1: know him. He hosts a little show called Steve Family Feud, 209 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: A little big shots, Miss Universe. Steve Harvey, number five, 210 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 1: forty four million dollars. Yeah, let me buy five. God, Joe, No, 211 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: he'll tree so tall, so tall. Merry Christmas to us? 212 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 1: Who congratulations? Stick? Do you have all of that? Like 213 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: that's in the bank. It's more than that, isn't it's 214 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: sick mo ain't pockets Steve, It's the blessings of God. 215 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: That's where you where you have to look at it. Okay, 216 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: there's no hate here. There's no hate. There's nothing but 217 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 1: look at God. Look at there's you. There's no hate 218 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:34,880 Speaker 1: from calling. No, no, I'm not hating. Oh no, no, no, 219 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm happy. I'm the only one in the world. Got 220 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 1: a rich uncle. You understand, you're the only one on 221 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: the show. Yeah. Yeah, everybody don't get their own. I 222 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:48,160 Speaker 1: have an announcement to me. What is that announcement? There's 223 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 1: another list? Uh huh, oh here, come my damn? What 224 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 1: is that list? What is that list? Number five. Oh, 225 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:05,360 Speaker 1: come listed, Tommy Zon, do we need a drum roll 226 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 1: at the ready drum roll Ladies and gentlemen. Number two 227 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 1: on the list of look at me now, bet you didn't, 228 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 1: thank God Water the star of the college game show, 229 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: Oh Hi, i Q, What's name is Sean? No? No? 230 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:46,679 Speaker 1: The other show, Lady Gym, a host of Black College Quiz, 231 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: the Star co Star or the Steve Hark to keep 232 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 1: this damn drum rolls gone? Just take time run out again, 233 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: co starter Steve Hardy Martin Show. Yeah, and the Star 234 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:15,640 Speaker 1: or the brand new hit Our Home ready follow also 235 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: the Star already collo you. It has been a good 236 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: year for your nephew. Congratulations. Yeah, people involved their most 237 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: activities in entertaining it actually is. But no, congratulations, it's 238 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: been a good year. You guys should be happy, and 239 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: I take it. Yeah, yeah, definitely. I'm very uncomfortable with 240 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: this entire conversations in the news. Yeah it's Forbes magazine, Steve. 241 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 1: They put everyone who's doing any thing and making a 242 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: certain amount of money on the list. Okay, Simon call 243 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 1: he fell off. He was number five. Oh look at you, 244 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 1: look at number five now. Okay, well let me say 245 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: this about Simon. I can tell you flat out, unequivocally, 246 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: without any reservation, Yes, sir, that the only way that 247 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: this little boy out of Welch was Virginia, the one 248 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: with the studding problem on, the one they said were 249 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: never gonna be nothing, the one that flunked out of school, 250 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 1: the one that was homeless and lived in the car 251 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:46,360 Speaker 1: for three years, that one right down. The only way 252 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: I exist today is because the God I served hello 253 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:57,919 Speaker 1: is a god of upheld promises and truth. If it 254 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 1: was not for his grace and mercy, oh me, yeah, 255 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:09,680 Speaker 1: come on with these facts. I love it right now, man, 256 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,439 Speaker 1: I I ain't I can't even. I can't even. I 257 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,919 Speaker 1: can't clown on this one. I can't take no credit 258 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: for all right. Well, coming up next it is the 259 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: nephew I had to stop just now because almost that's 260 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 1: all right, give him the glory, nephew Tommy up next 261 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: with run that prank back. Right after this, you're listening 262 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: to Steve Morning Show. Coming up next hour, we will 263 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: talk with our friend and family member, our attorney, Benjamin 264 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: Crumpie is out on the front lines again, this time 265 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: in Alabama. All Show in Entertainment News, Quincy Jones legacy 266 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: gets cemented. Plus Oprah will Smith and John Legend will 267 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 1: honor q on b Et. But right now it is 268 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: time for the nephew to run that prank back Nef 269 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 1: King of pranks. What do you have for us today? Well, 270 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: we must go to a funeral Shirley where it is 271 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 1: three minute remarks. Three minute remarks, that's yes, I'm trying 272 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 1: to reach a brother, Keith please, Yeah, this is Keith, Keith. 273 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:28,640 Speaker 1: How you doing? This is Lawrence over at il funeral home. Okay, 274 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 1: we are the ones that have the um doing the 275 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 1: funeral for sister Dolores, and that is uh yourn my understanding, right, yeah, okay, 276 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: And as you know, the funeral is uh this coming Thursday. Yes, 277 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: I'll be that Thursday. I'm giving you a call because 278 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 1: it's been brought to my attention, uh that you were 279 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 1: going to be giving remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely, Okay. 280 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to 281 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 1: print the programs for the funeral and let you know 282 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: that they have taken you off for the remarks because 283 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 1: they say that you're not going to be What do 284 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: you mean taking me off? Well, what I'm saying, is 285 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: they say that you're you're not going to abide by 286 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,639 Speaker 1: the two three minute rule that they have for remarks, 287 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: and they wanted they've they've taken you off? And uh uh, 288 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 1: who who is they? Who? Who come off? Who? Who? 289 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,959 Speaker 1: What's the name is Lawrench? I'm launched, I'm the actual 290 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 1: funeral director lord, and who who told you to take 291 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 1: me off? One of the one of the family members 292 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: I'm assuming is who who made the adjustment? And an 293 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: adjustment that ain't no adjustment, that's that's in the whole program. 294 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: Who else is on the list? I mean there's quite 295 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: a few family members doing different things, uh throughout the funeral. Okay, 296 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 1: so how did you get to my name? Is what 297 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out that they said. Let listen 298 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,360 Speaker 1: to me. Listen, listen to me. Listen to me, brother, 299 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 1: keep listen. Tell me what they said. It is that 300 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 1: you weren't going to abide by the time, you weren't 301 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 1: going to do your remarks in three minutes or less. Listen, listen, listen, listen. 302 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 1: Monty raised me, he put me through college. And you 303 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: think I'm I'm Beenna goes there in her funeral and 304 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: be under two minutes. Well and well, listen to listen, brother, 305 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 1: keep brother, keep listen to me. Normally, when we have 306 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 1: these funerals, people who give remarks, we have them three 307 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:55,120 Speaker 1: minutes or less. Okay, okay, I'll tell you what. I'll 308 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 1: tell you what, mister Lord don't list? Is she loan 309 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:03,440 Speaker 1: the list? We have a sealer. Yes, there's a ceiler 310 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 1: that's singing your name off the list. You take her 311 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: off the list and put me where she's supposed to 312 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 1: be with my current and her time is Bobby jo Bobby, Yes, 313 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:23,360 Speaker 1: Bobby Junior is given remarks. That's that's that's Delores' that's 314 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: mister Lores's son, right, Yes, her son, the one that 315 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: been locked up. He just got out of tail. The 316 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 1: truth be told. He's the one day and then put 317 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: her in the cot. You needn't take him off the 318 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: list too. Give me all that time because I'm i 319 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,119 Speaker 1: gonna take nothing that Keith. Let me let me let 320 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: me just say this to you. I cannot take Cela 321 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 1: or Bobby Junior off. I can't make any alterations to 322 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 1: this program unless they say that. Actually, sir, you already 323 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 1: you already taking you already taking people name off you're 324 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 1: taking my name off. But but they they orchestrated this though, 325 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: who is they? Who is Day? They for having my problems, 326 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: they try to take me off my hocky program? Who 327 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 1: is Day? Sir? I'm not gonna get into a family matter. 328 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 1: But until they say that, you can't matter, sure, I'm 329 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: not gonna. I don't want to. I don't want to 330 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 1: have this turn out to be bad and we want 331 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: to have a great homegoing for sister Deloyd's okay, damn right. 332 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: And if I don't get to say nothing, I guarantees, 333 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 1: I guarantee you it's gonna be a truthful one in there. 334 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 1: Somebody else gonna get things and the call for tooth. 335 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 1: I guarantees that if I don't get to say nothing 336 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 1: that my monkey funeral, Monkey didn't pay for the college. 337 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: I didn't put six thousand indunabal. I bet you, I 338 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: tell you this. I'll tell you this, mister Lord. I 339 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: bet you whether I don't want the program, I'm not. 340 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 1: I bet you, I say, with the fool I want 341 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 1: to I'll bet you that much. You tell Day that 342 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't put me through colleague how to 343 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: put money on the funeral? I called around. A few 344 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 1: ain't putting no money on the Fridal fell In. They 345 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: can't be on the program. Man, keep they when they 346 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 1: decide who who Who's own it? If they changed the format, 347 00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 1: then I will call you back. Who who is vague? 348 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to get. Get you understand who 349 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: is back? Can I can I tell you something and 350 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: I don't want you to get to I rate Okay, ahead, 351 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead, man. I just want to say 352 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 1: this Keith with them. This is nephew Tommy from the 353 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,399 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morty Show. You just got freaked, dude, you 354 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: have gotten freaked by your cousin Bobby Junior. You boom, 355 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: I'm Bobby Junior. Up. I'm kicking Bobby. I know that 356 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: I ain't got found to playing man taking me damn 357 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 1: program Oba. Bobby said, y'all grew up black brothers man, 358 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 1: and you was. You was basically another son of mister Lord's. 359 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 1: That's right, Yes, yes I was. Man. Oh hey, let 360 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 1: me ask you this man, what is the baddest and 361 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land, Steve 362 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Have y'all ever been in yell? You've 363 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 1: been with it with the remarks was actually ten fifteen 364 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: for real, man, you're gonna talk this long? For real. 365 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 1: I met Robert in Um. I think it was sixty 366 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: nine met and after that Robert and I would we 367 00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: went to school to get a second and third grade 368 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: me and a Yeah, now that was third and four. 369 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: If when you have to write down what you gonna say, 370 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: if you up there and you are speaker, it's going 371 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: to be from the heart. You understand. This really should 372 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 1: be for people who really know the person. Yes, if 373 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: you up there and you need paper, yeah, because this 374 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: is not about you. Yeah, come on, now, did you 375 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: really know him or our legs? What we're doing him? 376 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: All right? Thank you enough? You a reminder. Next hour, 377 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: we will talk to our friend and family member, attorney 378 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: Benjamin Crump. Also up next in entertainment news, Quincy Jones 379 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: legacy gets cemented. We'll talk about it right after this. 380 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:47,640 Speaker 1: You're listening to show coming up in twenty minutes, our 381 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: friend and attorney Benjamin Crump will be here to talk 382 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 1: about the goings on in Alabama. But first we're gonna 383 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: get to this. Quincy Jones. Quincy Jones Q gets a 384 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 1: star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Quincy's hand and 385 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: footprints are now set in stone in Hollywood. Congratulations to him. Yes, 386 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 1: he's eighty five years old. He's a music icon, a 387 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 1: legend and all of that. He dipped his hands and 388 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:18,440 Speaker 1: feet and cement yesterday outside of the TCL Chinese Theater 389 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 1: on his very own Walk of Fame star. Congratulations. Yeah, 390 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: that's so big. Yeah, he just not getting Yeah yeah, man, 391 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 1: they could have dug mine him put here down now 392 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: and yeah they still did that part of it too. 393 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,719 Speaker 1: Oh the hands and the feet. Yeah I didn't know that, 394 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: right Yeah. Yeah, Oh no, that's different. Right, Yeah, that's different. 395 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 1: That's that's like, like, what are when the five got? Yeah, 396 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 1: that's what he got. That's what Yeah, he should have 397 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 1: been had. Yes, News thriller stopped. Come on. Yeah. One 398 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: of the greatest producers ever to walk annets. Yes, Snoop 399 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 1: Dogg was there, his daughter Rashida was there, Doctor dre 400 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: Ussher many more came to celebrate Quincy. Steve Goddess really big. Yeah, 401 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: yeah he really deserves that. Yeah. Cool dude too, man, 402 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: really really cool. He has some great stories. He is more. 403 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 1: Here's more Quincy Jones, news Oprah, Dave Chappelle, John Legend, 404 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 1: Stevie Wonder, Fantasia Neo, Jennifer Hudson, all of them will 405 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 1: honor Quincy's legacy with a musical celebration. It's called Q 406 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 1: eighty five Quincy Jones on Sunday, December Night. That's going 407 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: to be on b ET, so make sure you check 408 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 1: that out. I can't wait to see that. Oprah. You 409 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: remember when he met her, he put her in the 410 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 1: movie Color Purple. She wasn't acting, you know, in movies, 411 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 1: before Quincy met her and put her in that movie. 412 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: So they've been lifelong friends since that. I thought the 413 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,200 Speaker 1: promo for this show, it looks fantastic. Yeah, it looks good. 414 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 1: It looks good. You're right, it does. Can't wait, and 415 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: he's got some singers, Fantasia, Jennifer Hudson. Come on, Hey, guys, 416 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 1: I know this is early, but I was thinking the 417 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: New Year's resolutions. And you know how we always do 418 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 1: New Year's resolutions and you end up breaking one, all right, 419 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do mine now. Oh Okay, it's early, 420 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: you're right, but go ahead. My New Year's resolution for 421 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: two thousand nineteen is I ain't gonna say nothing about Timing. Hey, 422 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: that's what I said. I'm gonna just gonna get that 423 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 1: one out to Wait. Now, you're gonna break that in today, right, No, 424 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 1: that's why I said. You know, we always break them, 425 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say mine now in late November. I 426 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 1: still want to see this Christmas trick. No, even if 427 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 1: we ain't compete, I want to see the crip now, Timmy, 428 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,479 Speaker 1: when when will it be decorated? In finish? Let him 429 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: see the day after tomorrow. Okay, you gotta let us 430 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 1: see the tree. Why don't you let him say it? Steve? What, No, 431 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: I don't have tree feeling. Steve, You're not gonna hurt 432 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 1: my tree? What? Oh? You best league? Your wife did 433 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:23,959 Speaker 1: a spectacy. It's beautiful. Oh she bossed it out though. Yeah, 434 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: all right, we gotta get to miss Anne Steve. Ladies 435 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, miss Anne Tripp. Thanks guys, and good morning everybody. 436 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 1: This is a trip with the news. Okay. President Trump 437 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 1: is now saying that he just might pardon former campaign 438 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 1: manager Paul Manaford. According to the New York Post, Trump 439 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: says that a potential pardon for Manaford quote is not 440 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 1: off the table now. Special counsel Robert Mueller. You know 441 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 1: that's the guy looking into the Russian meddling in the election. 442 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 1: He convicted Manaford, who is currently in jail on financial 443 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: malfeasance and tax taxmailfeasance as well. And now Trump is 444 00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 1: accusing Mueller of trying to get the people who worked 445 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: on presidential campaign to alie. Meanwhile, Trump is rejecting and 446 00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,280 Speaker 1: get this, the climate change report issued by his own administration, 447 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 1: courts to the Daily News, Trump speaking to reporters that 448 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 1: the White House early this week said that the National 449 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 1: Climate Assessment was generally fine, but when pressed on its findings, 450 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: the President said, quote, I don't believe it. Without elaborating, 451 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 1: the report warns that if significant steps, for instance, they're 452 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 1: not taken to reduce pollution and find clean alternatives to 453 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 1: fossil fuels like coal, that the US economy will be 454 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 1: down by ten percent of its value by the end 455 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,960 Speaker 1: of the century. The scientific assessment issued by thirteen federal 456 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 1: agencies and released by the White House over the Thanksgiving weekend, 457 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 1: and it lays out in detail how the gradual warming 458 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,839 Speaker 1: of the planet as a result of human activity directly 459 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 1: correlates with the uptick in the natural gas and natural 460 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,839 Speaker 1: disasters that we've seen recently across the US, including those 461 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 1: deadly forest fires in California, and the report authored by 462 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:58,879 Speaker 1: his own administration is repeatedly at odds with Trump, who 463 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 1: has been pushing, you know, for more environmental deregulation and 464 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 1: allowing even more planet warming pollution to be spewed into 465 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 1: the atmosphere. Jury selection continues today in charlotte Ville, Virginia, 466 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: for the murder trial of James alex Field Junior Feels, 467 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 1: a white man accused of ramming his car into a 468 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 1: group of anti racism demonstrators at a white supremacist rally, 469 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: killing one young woman named Heather Higher and injuring several others. 470 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,800 Speaker 1: The court needs sixteen people, twelve jurors and four alternates 471 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,319 Speaker 1: who say they can be impartial in the high profile case. 472 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,440 Speaker 1: Opening statements are scheduled before today is out. If you know, 473 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: we're lucky, we'll see how that happens. Another example the 474 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: perils of simply living while black, this time a black 475 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 1: man in Montgomery County, Maryland. Listen to this. He was 476 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 1: simply bringing his drunk and staggering friend home, but he 477 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,760 Speaker 1: was thrown up against a car and arrested by white cops. 478 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 1: The one white female cop later claim that she'smelled marijuana 479 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,800 Speaker 1: on twenty three year old Samira med However, Metell's Washington 480 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 1: post of that was a complete lie. The European Union 481 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 1: and the UK have agree on the terms of their divorce, 482 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: in other words, the terms of Brexit. We'll see how 483 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:07,799 Speaker 1: that goes. Democrats and House of Representatives have officially nominated 484 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 1: Nancy Pelosi for House Speaker in the next Congress. However, 485 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 1: the veteran congressman was still win a final vote in 486 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 1: the full House in January, and some of the new 487 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 1: bucks in the Congress they say they need new blood 488 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,239 Speaker 1: and stuff like that, So we'll see how that goes. 489 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,719 Speaker 1: Pelos Pelosi, you may remember, was the first woman House 490 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 1: speaker from two thousand and seven to twenty eleven. She's 491 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,840 Speaker 1: going to need a toll of at least two hundred 492 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 1: and eighteen votes when the Democrats officially take over the 493 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: House again two months from now in January. Finally, today 494 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:40,320 Speaker 1: is the customer is Wrong day? Jess you what you 495 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 1: got to be ruled? Sometime? This has been Anne tripping 496 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 1: it back to the Steve Harvey Morning Jail. You're listening 497 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:52,800 Speaker 1: to show. Hey, everybody joining us now is Attorney Benjamin Crump. 498 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,320 Speaker 1: He's a president of the Black Lawyers Association. He's a 499 00:36:56,440 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 1: trusted source of insight on sadly tragic depths, and he's 500 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: been all these deaths have been occurring with our community, 501 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 1: and today always sad to say that he's back with 502 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:13,280 Speaker 1: us to talk about yet another senseless death in Birmingham, Alabama. 503 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:17,280 Speaker 1: Please welcome to the show, Attorney Benjamin Clump. Welcome, Welcome, 504 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 1: we Hey, thank you all so much. Steve Shirley, everybody, 505 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 1: thank you gall so much for allowing us to talk 506 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 1: about these issues that affect our children. And Steve, this 507 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 1: happened in a suburb of Birmingham, Alabama. We all remember 508 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: waking up on Black Friday to the news that there 509 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 1: was a shooting in the Hooper Gallery of Mall and 510 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,320 Speaker 1: the police were proclaiming that they took down the shooter. 511 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 1: They had celebrated this police officer as a hero. They 512 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 1: said that they had stopped a mass shooting and they 513 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 1: were having caused to treat the officer as a hero. 514 00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 1: And this person who was shot was plastered all over 515 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: the media and it was emantic. Fitzgerald Bradford Junior, the 516 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 1: son of Emantic Fitzgerald Bradford Senior and April Pipkins, who 517 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 1: are good people who raised a good kid, served in 518 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:26,399 Speaker 1: the military, never had any criminal history whatsoever. And they 519 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 1: knew right then that that's not the kid they raised. 520 00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 1: They knew it was a lie. They said their child 521 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 1: would never kill anybody, and so they found out on 522 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:40,400 Speaker 1: social media. They never got the courtesy of a phone 523 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 1: call from the authorities, with the police department or anybody 524 00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 1: before they pulled a trigger and brand all this negative 525 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 1: publicity worldwide about their child. And then we've been twenty 526 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,440 Speaker 1: four hours after they reviewed the video at the mall, 527 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 1: even though they hadn't showed it to the family anybody else, 528 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,239 Speaker 1: they made a retraction to say that he did not 529 00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 1: shoot anybody and that they were wrong. They put this 530 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 1: lout and then they tell it over the media and 531 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 1: the family is never ever getting the courtesy of the 532 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:18,800 Speaker 1: police test calling them, going to their house and saying 533 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 1: we made a mistake, we apologize. Edge has been unbelievably 534 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 1: devastating for this family. Thanksgiving would never be the same 535 00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 1: for them again. Yeah, Attorney Club, I'm listening to you 536 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: because I needed to carefully listen because I was out 537 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,920 Speaker 1: of the country and so the pieces of news that 538 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:41,360 Speaker 1: I was able to get was very limited. I'm listening 539 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:45,000 Speaker 1: very intensely for facts as first time, so can I 540 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 1: ask this question. Until there was some social media footage, 541 00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 1: the claim was they had shot the right person at 542 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:59,240 Speaker 1: the mall who had killed two other people exactly. Hey, listen, 543 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: sit tight, We'll be back more. With Attorney Benjamin Crump. 544 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 1: Right after this, we got some really great information. I try, 545 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,680 Speaker 1: We're back, We're back, and we're having an all too 546 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 1: familiar and struggling the same conversation with Attorney Benjamin Crump. 547 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:24,239 Speaker 1: Steve Bay had proclaimed him to be a criminal and 548 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 1: they'd got the right person. And why they made this determination, 549 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:32,320 Speaker 1: we can only speculate it had something to do with 550 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:37,360 Speaker 1: the skin color of this young man, because witnesses have 551 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,919 Speaker 1: come forward to the family, have called my law firm 552 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: and said that he was one of the people trying 553 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,000 Speaker 1: to help save people. He was trying to get people 554 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,959 Speaker 1: away from the shooting out of harm's way. And so 555 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:56,240 Speaker 1: this who were police officer who was off duty work 556 00:40:56,280 --> 00:41:00,719 Speaker 1: in private security for the mall, came upon this and 557 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:05,239 Speaker 1: they said, with the Miller seconds he shot this young 558 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:09,479 Speaker 1: man in the face. He did not say freeze, drop 559 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:13,640 Speaker 1: your women, police officer. He saw this young man, he 560 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,680 Speaker 1: had a gun and he shot. And now Alabama is 561 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 1: an open carry state. Emantic former military person there has 562 00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:29,839 Speaker 1: his carry casill weapons permit. He had every legal right 563 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,520 Speaker 1: to have a gun. In fact, the witnesses said there 564 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,240 Speaker 1: were several people when they heard a shoot and pulled 565 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 1: out their guns. This is the evidence. I can't wait 566 00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,880 Speaker 1: to the video as release so we can see everybody 567 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 1: who put the gun and see, well, why did y'all 568 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: pick this young man to shoot. Out of everybody in 569 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 1: the mall who used their Second Amendment rights, she picked 570 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 1: this young black man and made a decision that he 571 00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:59,479 Speaker 1: does not have the right to have a gun. And 572 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,839 Speaker 1: that gets beyond the point. Let me say this, Steve, 573 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:05,320 Speaker 1: because this really is the crux of the matter. There's 574 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:10,680 Speaker 1: some suggestion by the top leadership in our country that 575 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 1: to stop bad guys with guns to prevent these mass shootings, 576 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:20,840 Speaker 1: what we need or to have the good guys have guns. 577 00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:28,240 Speaker 1: But apparently police in America don't believe that black men 578 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:33,240 Speaker 1: with guns are good guys. We saw that with Jamail 579 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 1: Robinson in Chicago. We saw that with Orlando because still 580 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:43,120 Speaker 1: in Minneapolis, and now we come to Hohover, Alabama with 581 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:49,400 Speaker 1: Amantic Fitzgerald Bradford his nickname is e J and everybody 582 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:53,239 Speaker 1: to want. Steve Harvard said that this was a good kid, 583 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 1: check his record, and his parents keep saying to the 584 00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:01,520 Speaker 1: Hoover Police Department, you've already lied to us one time. 585 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,759 Speaker 1: Don't say no. Mod just released the video and his 586 00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:10,080 Speaker 1: family believes if he did anything bad, they would have 587 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 1: already released that video. Well, yeah, yeah, absolutely, And you 588 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:18,560 Speaker 1: know what, Attorney Crump right now, the problem we keep 589 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:23,840 Speaker 1: having is that all the supposed good guys keep shooting 590 00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:29,799 Speaker 1: the same guys. Ye, that's the problem. Look, and I 591 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,399 Speaker 1: love you, bro, I really do, man, because we need 592 00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:35,799 Speaker 1: people like you to take the torch and keep it 593 00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:40,240 Speaker 1: lit and defend the people who wouldn't get proper coverage 594 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:45,880 Speaker 1: on these issues. But it's the same story every single time. Steve. 595 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:49,880 Speaker 1: It's so profound what you're saying, because when we really 596 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:54,959 Speaker 1: think about it for a second, they always have young 597 00:43:55,120 --> 00:44:00,439 Speaker 1: white men who are confirmed mass killers. The police always 598 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 1: managed to say we were mistaken, we shot him, We 599 00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:09,120 Speaker 1: feel terrible about it, and then they want us to say, well, 600 00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:13,000 Speaker 1: let's have patience, let's let the investigation go. They got 601 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 1: a video of Steve I don't know why, so hard 602 00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 1: and it's gonna take so long for them to investigate 603 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,799 Speaker 1: to tell if the police was wrong and EJ was right. 604 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,560 Speaker 1: What that tells me is that they are stalling for 605 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:29,760 Speaker 1: a reason. Okay, folks to go fund me pages justice 606 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,319 Speaker 1: for EJ. Go fund me A couple of dollars from 607 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 1: everybody you know. You got five, you got ten, you 608 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,360 Speaker 1: got three dollars, two dollars, whatever we can see, and 609 00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 1: let's help this family now. Benjamin Croft Man, listen, Thank 610 00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,480 Speaker 1: you brother, keep up the good fight. Come back and 611 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 1: let us know us the facts come out exactly what's 612 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,919 Speaker 1: going on. I certainly will, Steve. I love you, brother, 613 00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 1: and thank you so much for using your platform to 614 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 1: make a difference in our community. Thank you, soldier, keep 615 00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 1: being the soldier. Man. Appreciate you. Yes, sir, all right, 616 00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of Steve Harvey Morning Show 617 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:07,160 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right? Coming up 618 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:11,640 Speaker 1: at the top, the Strawberry letter, the subject torn between 619 00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 1: my daddy and my man. But right now it is 620 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,920 Speaker 1: the nephew in the building with the prank phone call 621 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 1: for today? What you got the ring? Huh? The rain? 622 00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,719 Speaker 1: Why are you saying it like? Yeah, like the movie. 623 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm trying to make a sound like Lord and Ring 624 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:32,600 Speaker 1: the Rain. I didn't get Lord of the Rings out 625 00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 1: of that running Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a Denise. Yes, 626 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 1: this is she. Hi Denise. My name is Gavin. I'm 627 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:47,560 Speaker 1: I'm actually the head jeweler here, diamond. No, how you doing, 628 00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 1: I'm good. You brought your ring in? What was it 629 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,840 Speaker 1: last week? I actually wasn't here, but you gave it 630 00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 1: to one of my salespersons. And yes, you wanted to 631 00:45:56,040 --> 00:46:00,160 Speaker 1: get it resized as well as get it a praise correct. Yes, yes, yes, 632 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 1: and you don't have to tell him to be a 633 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: bit on my own. Okay, wow, okay, listen, I actually 634 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 1: do the resize of the ring. And first of all, 635 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 1: let me be the first to say, um, congratulations, when 636 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 1: when is your wedding? Thank you? I'm getting married and stuff. 637 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:19,680 Speaker 1: Come there. Well, congratulations to you. Listen. I don't know 638 00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,359 Speaker 1: how to tell you this now as far as your 639 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:24,600 Speaker 1: praiserless concern, I've looked at your ring over and over 640 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 1: and this ring is probably worth maybe fifty dollars. Excuse me, 641 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,440 Speaker 1: I've been I've been in this business for over twenty years. 642 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,600 Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm confused on what you just seeing. 643 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:39,799 Speaker 1: And I understand that what I'm trying to explain to 644 00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 1: you is that I've been in this business for over 645 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,600 Speaker 1: twenty years. I've seen so many different pieces of jewelry. 646 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,000 Speaker 1: And this is something that you that you buy late 647 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:51,600 Speaker 1: night on an infomercial for nineteen ninety nine. This is 648 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:56,160 Speaker 1: a Cubic Zaconian stones and the gold is not real 649 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 1: at all. It's like, wait, wait, you lost me. You 650 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,799 Speaker 1: lost me as much money as my pen make and 651 00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 1: as much money as my father is putting down on 652 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,720 Speaker 1: his wedding or has put down. And you're gonna understand 653 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,640 Speaker 1: everything you're saying. But Denise, honestly, what I need you 654 00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,880 Speaker 1: to do is hold on. Wait no, no, no, no no, 655 00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 1: I need you to hold on because we need to 656 00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,560 Speaker 1: call victims. Wait. Wait man. First of all, I can't 657 00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:24,719 Speaker 1: wait wait wait, wait, wait wait, hold hold hold on 658 00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,719 Speaker 1: because we don't okay you wait wait wait what are 659 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 1: you trying to what you're trying to do? Sir? I 660 00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 1: need I need you to repeat, because what you just 661 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:37,359 Speaker 1: said to me, Okay, I need personal stuff, man, you 662 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,640 Speaker 1: oh you hit it. It's personal now, so I need 663 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:45,840 Speaker 1: you to hold on. Okay, oh she calling man, Okay, 664 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 1: think think hello victim. I wanted to listen to this 665 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,000 Speaker 1: jula that's on the phone. I want you to hit it. 666 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,799 Speaker 1: And he just told me what's the problem. What you mean, 667 00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:56,640 Speaker 1: what's the problem. He gonna tell you what the problem is. 668 00:47:56,680 --> 00:48:00,479 Speaker 1: Gonna hit on, sir, gonna hit on. Hello. Yeah, who's 669 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,680 Speaker 1: this all right? My name is Gavin. I'm from Diamonds. 670 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,719 Speaker 1: And actually your wife, I mean where your fiance rather, 671 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 1: she brought her ring in to actually be resized. Yeah, 672 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,680 Speaker 1: and we we also did an appraisal on the ring 673 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 1: for her. And actually the ring is estimated to be 674 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:21,360 Speaker 1: only in the word of around fifty dollars. Fifty dollars, 675 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 1: said sir. Obviously there's some sort of mistakes, sir. Yeah, 676 00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:32,279 Speaker 1: what you got to say about fifty dollars, that's that's 677 00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:33,920 Speaker 1: got to be some kind of mistakes. And what'd you 678 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:35,960 Speaker 1: say your name was, sir? My name is Gavin. I 679 00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,279 Speaker 1: work here at Diamonds. I'm the head jeweler here. I've 680 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:42,080 Speaker 1: been here for twenty years, and there's there's no way 681 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,120 Speaker 1: that that ring is worth fifty dollars. I know what 682 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,720 Speaker 1: I paid for it. So obviously there's some sort of mistakes, 683 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,800 Speaker 1: because there's not a mistake. I've been dealing with jury, 684 00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 1: I've seen it. I can pretty much look at a ring, 685 00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 1: but I actually went into detail on this one, as 686 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 1: I do all of them, And so I promise you 687 00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:00,880 Speaker 1: this is probably maybe between forty and fifty dollars for 688 00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 1: his workers. No, absolutely not. That's that's impossible. How is 689 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 1: that impossible? He's a jeweler. You heard him say, he's 690 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,000 Speaker 1: been doing it for twenty he's the highest. That impossible. 691 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 1: I don't understand that all the money that my dad 692 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,399 Speaker 1: is putting down on this wedding and you don't pay 693 00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:18,640 Speaker 1: fifty dollars cheap ring. So no, no, no, I did 694 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,360 Speaker 1: not buy a team. This is this is this is 695 00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,400 Speaker 1: obviously some kind of mistake. You didn't got it? Oh, 696 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 1: you show got that right, You show got that right. 697 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,879 Speaker 1: So what you got to say for yourself? Fifty don 698 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 1: You can't I believe that that's right. That's this is 699 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,680 Speaker 1: obviously some kind of mispair. Oh, it is a mistake. 700 00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 1: I'm mispacing me thinking I'm gonna gett married to the 701 00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,640 Speaker 1: man of my dream. I do have the engagement ring 702 00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,360 Speaker 1: that was purchased and bought for your wife. No, I 703 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 1: don't think you. I would think you do. I don't 704 00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,640 Speaker 1: think you have my ring, because if you have my ring, 705 00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 1: you wouldn't be telling me this is worth fifty dollars. 706 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:52,320 Speaker 1: I have the ring that your wife, your fiance brought 707 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,399 Speaker 1: his wife. Yet hold on, hold on, the man trying 708 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,839 Speaker 1: to explain. I'm trying to get to the body. Thank you, 709 00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 1: so you have me. I don't think he has the 710 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 1: right ring. I have the right ring. And what I'm 711 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 1: letting you know, sir, is that this is something you 712 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,959 Speaker 1: buy on an infomercial in the two oclock in the morning. Dude, 713 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:12,040 Speaker 1: you know I ain't buy a damn ring on infomercial. 714 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:15,000 Speaker 1: I bought the ring from a reputable establishment. I have 715 00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:19,120 Speaker 1: the receipt, I have the certificate. So obviously the mistake 716 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:21,520 Speaker 1: is on your And where are the mistakers out here? Sir? 717 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,439 Speaker 1: You bought a piece of jump after he's been doing 718 00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 1: it all these years? How hell he gonna make a mistake? 719 00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 1: What you come off telling me I bought a piece 720 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:30,879 Speaker 1: of jump. I know what I bought. If there's any 721 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,680 Speaker 1: mistakes that's been made, it's on your end, world, it's 722 00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:39,840 Speaker 1: not on my end. Yeah, don't. Don't you want to 723 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,799 Speaker 1: think that my dad has had too much money for 724 00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,960 Speaker 1: this wedding, So your doll gonna pay fifty dollars dollars 725 00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,600 Speaker 1: I tell him this, chill hold on. First of all, 726 00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 1: I don't appreciate you. I want to tell you this. 727 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:52,719 Speaker 1: This is a typical case of you trying to put 728 00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:54,759 Speaker 1: it off on us because you bought a piece of 729 00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 1: stuff for fifty bucks. I have the money. Did you 730 00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,560 Speaker 1: make it? I get fifty dollars worth of a ring? 731 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,440 Speaker 1: Then hold on, let me talk to this. Where you 732 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:07,440 Speaker 1: gonna gets I never heard of it. So your wife 733 00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 1: knows exactly where. She's the one that brought the ring. 734 00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,799 Speaker 1: And I tell you what, I'm gonna come down there 735 00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 1: to see the ring that you're talking about. If it's 736 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,240 Speaker 1: not the ring that I gave my girl, I'm gonna 737 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:20,640 Speaker 1: take seventy six hundred dollars out of your because that's so. 738 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 1: Now you want to jump on me because you bought 739 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,440 Speaker 1: your wife a piece. Come on, and you want to 740 00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:27,560 Speaker 1: put it on me. You you don't tell me what 741 00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,680 Speaker 1: the I don't know what the I spin on the 742 00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:31,919 Speaker 1: ring and you I don't kind of trying to pull. 743 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:33,799 Speaker 1: First of all, I don't appreciate you coming in my 744 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,799 Speaker 1: household trying to mess my and you want to come 745 00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:37,719 Speaker 1: at me with this one. I know the ring better 746 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,920 Speaker 1: be real. No, if I were you, mister Niece, I 747 00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,319 Speaker 1: would not marry somebody that's gonna I'm coming there. I'm 748 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,200 Speaker 1: looking for your pucket and you know what. You don't 749 00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:48,840 Speaker 1: get the ring in a right man, you're gonna go 750 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 1: in it? Could I say one more thing to both 751 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:52,920 Speaker 1: of you? Are better? I tell you what if they did, 752 00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:54,239 Speaker 1: I want to hear me, and you're gonna have some 753 00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,879 Speaker 1: more problems. This is Matthew telling me from the Steve 754 00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:01,160 Speaker 1: orvi In Morning show, y'all just got pranked by Niece's system. 755 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:08,680 Speaker 1: That that's why she ain't got no man to do. 756 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:14,879 Speaker 1: Now that's how I man, Wow, that's how cool talking 757 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,640 Speaker 1: you about to start with? Wow. I think I'm sorry, baby, 758 00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:24,279 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I will make its ring. I 759 00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:28,040 Speaker 1: gotta ask y'all something. What is the baddest radio show 760 00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:36,360 Speaker 1: in theow? But Steve Harve? Wow, that is you know, 761 00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:43,560 Speaker 1: dty dollars. That's how you do you get you get 762 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,120 Speaker 1: a man and his woman on the phone. Just create 763 00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,520 Speaker 1: ignorance and confusion. That's how you do it. Yeah, Or 764 00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,799 Speaker 1: just get you on the phone. Same thing. Yeah, yeah, 765 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,160 Speaker 1: that's what I'm here. Plus your job. I'm here for that. 766 00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:59,360 Speaker 1: You get an a you know, Plus I get you 767 00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:01,319 Speaker 1: an missed there on the phone at the same time. 768 00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 1: Just get some argin going on. I can make it 769 00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:08,440 Speaker 1: happen you too, Call you too, call huh. I get 770 00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,960 Speaker 1: you in toish on the phone. Get some arguing going on, 771 00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:14,399 Speaker 1: and and and and number five on the four lift. 772 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:16,680 Speaker 1: You think I can't get you and ain't margine, I 773 00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:19,680 Speaker 1: get the argan right here. I can promise you you can't. 774 00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 1: But can I get ain't margin by yourself? You allow? No, No, 775 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:29,759 Speaker 1: don't come over here with that state right on over there, 776 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,920 Speaker 1: with your little pranks, with your little people don't know you. 777 00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:37,239 Speaker 1: I know your girl. I can find you. See what 778 00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:41,080 Speaker 1: saved you so far? These people can't locate your I 779 00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:45,319 Speaker 1: know right where. Yeah, behold that knocking a little tree down. 780 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,440 Speaker 1: I know it's gonna be little before Well I shouldn't. 781 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:54,680 Speaker 1: He has a gorgeous he has a gorgeous tree. You 782 00:53:54,800 --> 00:54:01,439 Speaker 1: really yeah, you forgot that. The next all right, listen, 783 00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 1: thank you, nephew, Thank you everyone. Coming up next, it 784 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,840 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter for today. I got you with 785 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:10,319 Speaker 1: this one. Subject torn between my daddy and my man. 786 00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,480 Speaker 1: We'll be back to get after it. Right after this. 787 00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:17,880 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is 788 00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 1: time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice 789 00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:25,040 Speaker 1: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please please 790 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:29,040 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and 791 00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:35,239 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. Buckle up, hold on tight. Here 792 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 1: it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subjects Torn between 793 00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:43,640 Speaker 1: my daddy and my man. Here's Stephen Shirley. I am 794 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,360 Speaker 1: a thirty two year old single mom of a sixteen 795 00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,880 Speaker 1: year old and I still live at home with my 796 00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:52,399 Speaker 1: eighty four year old father. I have never moved out 797 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:54,879 Speaker 1: because I never wanted my daughter to suffer through any 798 00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:58,800 Speaker 1: hardships or go without having the things she wants and needs. 799 00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:01,880 Speaker 1: My dad takes good care of us, so that helps 800 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:05,520 Speaker 1: me save money. Here's a problem. I've been dating a 801 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,520 Speaker 1: man for four years and we have a great relationship, 802 00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,399 Speaker 1: but he is pressuring me to move in with him 803 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:15,160 Speaker 1: with my daughter. Financially, I am not ready to start 804 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,000 Speaker 1: splitting the expenses with him because I have a few 805 00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,600 Speaker 1: small bills to pay off first. My boyfriend keeps telling 806 00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:24,239 Speaker 1: me that it's not a problem because he will take 807 00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:27,239 Speaker 1: care of all the bills. I'm not married to him, 808 00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,200 Speaker 1: and I need to be sure if I can take 809 00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,080 Speaker 1: care of myself and my daughter if things don't work 810 00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,960 Speaker 1: out with this man. There's also a bigger issue that 811 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:38,520 Speaker 1: we need to work out through before I move in 812 00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,560 Speaker 1: with him. He has told me that if we move 813 00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:45,040 Speaker 1: in together, my dad will not be able to come 814 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:48,080 Speaker 1: over to our place to visit. He stated that my 815 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,880 Speaker 1: dad has always been rude to him and makes him 816 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:54,120 Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable, and he will not tolerate it in his 817 00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:57,040 Speaker 1: own home. He also said my dad will not be 818 00:55:57,200 --> 00:56:02,319 Speaker 1: welcome at our family gatherings and outing now my dad, Now, 819 00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:04,520 Speaker 1: my dad has not been the kindest person to my 820 00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:08,120 Speaker 1: boyfriend and my family, but he is still my dad. 821 00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,880 Speaker 1: I don't think I should be considering moving in with 822 00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:14,120 Speaker 1: my boyfriend if this is something that we won't compromise on. 823 00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:17,080 Speaker 1: It seems that he may be a little too controlling, 824 00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,680 Speaker 1: especially if he will be paying all of the bills. 825 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:23,840 Speaker 1: What do you think I should do? Stay or go? Stay? 826 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,279 Speaker 1: I think you should stay with your dad or get 827 00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,279 Speaker 1: your own place if you can't afford it. I mean, 828 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,600 Speaker 1: why would you want to go somewhere with someone who 829 00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:34,399 Speaker 1: feels this way about your eighty four year old dad. 830 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:38,759 Speaker 1: You're not married to this man. You didn't mention that 831 00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,600 Speaker 1: he proposed to you or anything. You're not engaged to him, 832 00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:46,360 Speaker 1: and he could be very much controlling. You've been with 833 00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:49,520 Speaker 1: him for four years now, you say, and he's promising 834 00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,359 Speaker 1: that he'll take care of your small bills, your few 835 00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:56,600 Speaker 1: small bills if you move in with him. I'm just thinking, 836 00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,759 Speaker 1: in four years, why hasn't he helped you already? I mean, 837 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,200 Speaker 1: that could be one of the reasons your dad doesn't 838 00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,400 Speaker 1: like him. I just say, you're a mother. You have 839 00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:08,319 Speaker 1: a sixteen year old daughter. You have to be an 840 00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:10,680 Speaker 1: example for her. I don't think you would once you're 841 00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:13,759 Speaker 1: your sixteen year old, I mean your daughter, you know 842 00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,600 Speaker 1: when she becomes of age. Of course, in a situation 843 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:19,280 Speaker 1: like this, I don't think there's any benefit for you 844 00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 1: right now to move in with this guy. I mean, 845 00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:24,200 Speaker 1: you're thirty two years old, so you have to move 846 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:27,880 Speaker 1: out one day soon, hopefully and be on your own. 847 00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:30,000 Speaker 1: But you should certainly want it to be with the 848 00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:34,120 Speaker 1: right guy, with the right situation, and that would be 849 00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:36,280 Speaker 1: someone who would at least try to work it out 850 00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,320 Speaker 1: with your dad. I mean, not shut him out in 851 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,280 Speaker 1: a vengeful way like this guy's doing. I don't think 852 00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:44,480 Speaker 1: he should turn he should be turning his back on 853 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 1: your dad. That is your dad, after all. I think 854 00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,400 Speaker 1: you should stay where you are for now. You've been 855 00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,560 Speaker 1: saving money, save money to move out on your own. Steve, 856 00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,720 Speaker 1: This is a no goal for me. This is an 857 00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:02,080 Speaker 1: absolute no goal. I don't I don't see what you 858 00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:06,040 Speaker 1: You're thirty, thirty two years old, you got sixteen year 859 00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:09,600 Speaker 1: old daughter you live with, you're eighty four year old father. 860 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,919 Speaker 1: This man that came along, you've been dating for four 861 00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:15,840 Speaker 1: years now. If y'all gonna move in, why don't y'all 862 00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:19,520 Speaker 1: get married? He just wants you to move in, right, 863 00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 1: I didn't see marriage on here. You're right, And then 864 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,640 Speaker 1: you stay with your father because you didn't want your 865 00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:27,640 Speaker 1: daughter to suffer. Your father takes get care of you 866 00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:31,800 Speaker 1: in four years. I agree with Shirley, this dude ain't 867 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 1: helped you in four years with the little bills. Damn, 868 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,760 Speaker 1: I mean most men. I'm sorry, man, but if you're 869 00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,160 Speaker 1: listening as a man and you're talking my man, I 870 00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,600 Speaker 1: ain't gotta help her with her bills, Well you don't 871 00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 1: have to. But can I tell you something technically we're 872 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,880 Speaker 1: supposed to. I don't know where this got lost in 873 00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:56,960 Speaker 1: the good old days, but it's obviously lost because you 874 00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:00,360 Speaker 1: all get together now and want to keep everything separate. 875 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,400 Speaker 1: You joined together with a person to become one. If 876 00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:05,680 Speaker 1: you don't want to become one, quit joining with these 877 00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:10,560 Speaker 1: damn people. Damn that this dude down here wants you 878 00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:12,880 Speaker 1: to pull up ranks. Then then then here he comes 879 00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:16,320 Speaker 1: with his funk ass. Don't tell you after Now your 880 00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:18,480 Speaker 1: daddy didn't put it in, all the hard work, you 881 00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:21,959 Speaker 1: and your daughter. Now when y'all get together, your damn 882 00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:25,520 Speaker 1: daddy can't come over here, can't come over to our play? 883 00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:30,560 Speaker 1: Is it? Dad? Been rude? Tuning? Shelly hit it on 884 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 1: the head. She didn't, She said, your daddy's because let 885 00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:41,080 Speaker 1: me explain something to you. Eighty fol No, eighty four 886 00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:45,160 Speaker 1: year old man. He knows some stuff. He got a 887 00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:48,280 Speaker 1: feeling about your boyfriend first of all four years of 888 00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:51,600 Speaker 1: coming through that he don't like to do because he 889 00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:54,760 Speaker 1: know he ain't about nothing because he eighty four and 890 00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,240 Speaker 1: he know how he should be active and he ain't 891 00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:01,320 Speaker 1: seeing that. So now he don't like him. Eighty folk 892 01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:05,720 Speaker 1: knows something you don't, and it's something about this boy 893 01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:09,440 Speaker 1: he don't like. And he ain't gonna turn his daughter 894 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:13,040 Speaker 1: and his little princess over to these dude that's what 895 01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:16,040 Speaker 1: he don't like it now. Your boyfriend, No, he don't 896 01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:20,160 Speaker 1: like it, and he feel uncomfortable with him not liking him. Now, 897 01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:22,680 Speaker 1: he don't want him over at the house because he 898 01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:25,280 Speaker 1: said he make him feel uncomfortable when he comes. You 899 01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:29,240 Speaker 1: know why make him feel uncomfortable because he's shady and 900 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,720 Speaker 1: old dudes know it and they ain't going to play 901 01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:34,880 Speaker 1: that game that you in their house. He said your 902 01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,800 Speaker 1: dad would not be welcome at our family gatherings and 903 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:42,479 Speaker 1: out it. Hey, man, your daddy, eighty folk, this dude 904 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:45,920 Speaker 1: can't pull his manhood pants up a little bit tighter 905 01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,800 Speaker 1: for however long your daddy got left and at least 906 01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,800 Speaker 1: just be cordier to the man. He might not be 907 01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:56,200 Speaker 1: the greatest to you. But but he might not be 908 01:00:56,320 --> 01:01:00,320 Speaker 1: the greatest to him, but to you and that girl, 909 01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:04,920 Speaker 1: he'd been y'alls everything. And if he can't honor and 910 01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:08,919 Speaker 1: respect the fact that this man then lived eighty four 911 01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,240 Speaker 1: years and then took care of you when obviously you 912 01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:15,400 Speaker 1: had the baby at sixteen, he put you out, he 913 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:20,680 Speaker 1: embraced you. Come on, girl, I got you at her now. Man, 914 01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:24,360 Speaker 1: this is not to do and he just want to 915 01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,800 Speaker 1: move you in. You're scared to go, and the reason 916 01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:30,040 Speaker 1: you're scared to go because you don't feel secure with him. 917 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:36,440 Speaker 1: Oh that's right, you don't feel secure with this guy. Man, 918 01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 1: it's the Strawberry Gold Letter going this move you know why? 919 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:46,280 Speaker 1: Because jam here insecure. I just felt like, you know, 920 01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,520 Speaker 1: no time. It just you know, I've been doing this 921 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter for years, Rachelley, We'll just be doing it. 922 01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:53,560 Speaker 1: Her response, my respont and all of a sudden I 923 01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:58,040 Speaker 1: noticed all my damn response. I gotta stop and address something. 924 01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:04,680 Speaker 1: Hold on sid and a bit of black Man. Part 925 01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:07,840 Speaker 1: two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three after 926 01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:13,440 Speaker 1: the hours Fresh. You're listening, all right, Steve, come on, 927 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letter and get Part two of 928 01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:20,000 Speaker 1: your response. Thirty two year old woman got a sixteen 929 01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:23,120 Speaker 1: year old baby, been living at home with an eighty 930 01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:24,920 Speaker 1: four year old father because she didn't want to move out, 931 01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:28,200 Speaker 1: because she wanted her daughter to suffer her dad take 932 01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,880 Speaker 1: good care of him so that helps her save the 933 01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:33,840 Speaker 1: money problem she got. She'd been dating this man for 934 01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:37,960 Speaker 1: four years. She said, they got a great relationship. But 935 01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:42,400 Speaker 1: he's pressuring me to move in with him with my daughter. Now, 936 01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,680 Speaker 1: the ladies say she ain't ready to do that financially 937 01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:49,240 Speaker 1: because she because she ain't ready to start splitting expenses 938 01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:52,080 Speaker 1: with him, because she got a few small bills to 939 01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:55,280 Speaker 1: pay off. And my boyfriend keep telling her, dad ain't 940 01:02:55,320 --> 01:03:00,560 Speaker 1: no problem. See what's gonna making the different for you? 941 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,120 Speaker 1: Now you could have been helping this girl with her 942 01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:07,720 Speaker 1: financial problem, but you didn't. Now you're gonna come move 943 01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:10,160 Speaker 1: in and I'm gonna help you. See, this is a 944 01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:13,720 Speaker 1: dude that always wants something for something, So you gotta 945 01:03:13,760 --> 01:03:19,160 Speaker 1: look at what this is. And your father, he hadn't 946 01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:21,240 Speaker 1: told you that he don't want that you're eighty four 947 01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:24,200 Speaker 1: year old daddy to come nowhere near his house. He 948 01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:27,160 Speaker 1: ain't welcome. He can't come in there. Because he made 949 01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:30,000 Speaker 1: him feel uncomfortable. You know why, they're eighty four year 950 01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:34,640 Speaker 1: old man making feel uncomfortable because eighty four, No, eighty 951 01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:38,439 Speaker 1: four knows some things and he hadn't read this dude, 952 01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,959 Speaker 1: and he don't like the way he head. He ain't 953 01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:45,200 Speaker 1: got enough says to honor the fact that this is 954 01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:47,640 Speaker 1: your eighty four year old daddy. And how much ever 955 01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,800 Speaker 1: longer he got at least let y'all have y'all time together. 956 01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:55,440 Speaker 1: But that don't suit what he wants. So his stand 957 01:03:55,640 --> 01:04:04,520 Speaker 1: it trifling, non compla amising self sinning. He won't all 958 01:04:04,600 --> 01:04:08,560 Speaker 1: to go his way. Well that's not how it works. 959 01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 1: So now you even said your dad ain't been the 960 01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:18,440 Speaker 1: kindest person to your boyfriend because your daddy, No, Now 961 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:20,680 Speaker 1: I don't think I should be considered moving in with 962 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:23,440 Speaker 1: my boyfriend. And this is something that he won't compromise on. 963 01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,320 Speaker 1: You shouldn't. So now you can't have relationship with your 964 01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:29,120 Speaker 1: daddy who has always had his arms open to you 965 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,760 Speaker 1: and your daughter to have relationship, and this dude wants 966 01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:35,520 Speaker 1: you to sever that relationship. Who wants that to happen? Man? 967 01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:39,400 Speaker 1: What decent man? So you gotta ask yourself a couple 968 01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:44,000 Speaker 1: of questions about your boyfriend. Why won't he do anything 969 01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,560 Speaker 1: to make me happy? You've been dating for for years? 970 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:50,920 Speaker 1: Why don't he marry you? Why don't he help you 971 01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:55,400 Speaker 1: with your bills? Now? What is it about him that 972 01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:58,960 Speaker 1: your daddy know that he don't like about it? Now? 973 01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:00,880 Speaker 1: Why is it he don't want want your daddy over 974 01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:03,000 Speaker 1: to the house no more, and don't want your daddy 975 01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,760 Speaker 1: coming to no family gatherers. This is eighty four year 976 01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:10,000 Speaker 1: old man that's been holding the family down his entire 977 01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:15,920 Speaker 1: adult male life. Now hit this, dude, This is not 978 01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:19,520 Speaker 1: a good relationship to get into. If I were you, 979 01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:23,439 Speaker 1: I would say no. And if he can't, at least 980 01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:25,840 Speaker 1: treat your father DC. Even if your father is a 981 01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:32,000 Speaker 1: little rude, he old, So it's okay. Yeah, yeah, I'm 982 01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:34,680 Speaker 1: tell you right now, you're lucky. Wasn't my daddy slick Harvey? 983 01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:40,960 Speaker 1: Let me explain something to you. My father, man, he 984 01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 1: didn't something about See, old dude was at their house. 985 01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:50,760 Speaker 1: They don't play, They don't change nothing at their house. Tommy, 986 01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:53,760 Speaker 1: your daddy was the same way. This is his house. 987 01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:58,280 Speaker 1: My daddy was the same way, this his house, coming 988 01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:03,040 Speaker 1: in here fixing nothing for you. If he don't like you. 989 01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,320 Speaker 1: You're gonna find out about it if you come in 990 01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:10,560 Speaker 1: his house. I had a friend of mine that my 991 01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:15,320 Speaker 1: daddy didn't like. He couldn't come past the kitchen. What 992 01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:20,919 Speaker 1: do you mean, Jeffrey overhill? Jeff stay there by that dough. 993 01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:27,840 Speaker 1: Jeffrey couldn't make it in. No, Jeffrey could not come 994 01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:30,800 Speaker 1: in my house because you know we're a little small house. 995 01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:32,720 Speaker 1: You come through the back door. When you open the 996 01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:35,640 Speaker 1: door to refrigerator, you could touch refrigerator when you open 997 01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:37,800 Speaker 1: the door to the left and behind it. I mean 998 01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:40,280 Speaker 1: you could touch the stove to the left, and refrigerator 999 01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:43,479 Speaker 1: was behind the door. When Jeffrey come in, he come 1000 01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:45,720 Speaker 1: in the kitchen. He can shut the door. Couldn't bring 1001 01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:50,520 Speaker 1: his ass out that kitchen because he ain't like Jeffrey. 1002 01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:56,120 Speaker 1: He's still oh okay, Yeah, my daddy had somebody like that. 1003 01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:58,440 Speaker 1: He ain't like one of my pots. You always get 1004 01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:02,640 Speaker 1: my potet two spoons. They clicked spoons again, and and 1005 01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:05,440 Speaker 1: and you know, my friend be like, what mister, what 1006 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:07,000 Speaker 1: I'm doing this? I didn't know where you had my 1007 01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:10,680 Speaker 1: damn keeps me spoon click, keep them keep clicking them, 1008 01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:16,440 Speaker 1: dawn spoon right there I bet I better hear them 1009 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:19,040 Speaker 1: spoons there time I'm walking in here. Oh, school is 1010 01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:23,360 Speaker 1: just funny, isn't it. Jeffrey Gil stayed by the damn 1011 01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:28,160 Speaker 1: doge I'm talking about bybe four friends come over. Jeffrey 1012 01:07:28,200 --> 01:07:31,440 Speaker 1: come in and he knew. You know, my friends laughed 1013 01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:37,880 Speaker 1: at eight. Gil stay there, stay do mister Harvey. I'm 1014 01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:40,360 Speaker 1: right here, Hey, mister Harvey. How miss Harvey? He miter, 1015 01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:44,360 Speaker 1: you stay your ad by that Doughey, we're being there 1016 01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:47,000 Speaker 1: for ten minutes. They be waiting on me anything. He 1017 01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:49,800 Speaker 1: could not come past that dope, man, don't walk past it. 1018 01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:56,080 Speaker 1: Figerate that was this mark like Jeffrey's parents. Did they 1019 01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:59,880 Speaker 1: know his parents? Na, Jeffrey Jeffrey lived one hundred and fourteen. 1020 01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:06,920 Speaker 1: My dad ain't talking nobody over over there. You know, 1021 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:10,480 Speaker 1: we don't go far, hey man. My daddy was clear, 1022 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:16,519 Speaker 1: we want twelve street people, we want twelve street pick 1023 01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:19,040 Speaker 1: We don't go there. One fourteen. I don't know what 1024 01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:24,280 Speaker 1: they're doing round your bike over there. You can go 1025 01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:27,160 Speaker 1: over there, but there ain't me nobody Mama Dad over there. 1026 01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:29,599 Speaker 1: I don't know them. People don't know what they're doing 1027 01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:40,120 Speaker 1: over there. That's funny. It's the truth, man, they were 1028 01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:44,120 Speaker 1: don't go around now we're on street people were hunted 1029 01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:47,000 Speaker 1: twelve street people. I know there. I know how they 1030 01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:50,800 Speaker 1: keep their yard. I know how the garbage can look. 1031 01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:53,320 Speaker 1: I know when they present a trash out on the curve. 1032 01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:57,000 Speaker 1: I know the people. Yeah, I don't like where they garbage. 1033 01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:58,920 Speaker 1: Can't look over there all being at all up and 1034 01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:04,000 Speaker 1: there the hell of a reason not to lack on 1035 01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:11,000 Speaker 1: your damn garbage. Can't they got dance on? They can't. 1036 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:14,360 Speaker 1: They ain't got no ye ain't got no lead? What 1037 01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:17,559 Speaker 1: the lead? All right? Listen, guys, we you can email 1038 01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:20,599 Speaker 1: us or Instagram. What's your thoughts on today's strawberry letter. 1039 01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:25,920 Speaker 1: We gotta get out of you got to Steve Harvey FM. 1040 01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:28,120 Speaker 1: Coming up in ten minutes from the Talk. It will 1041 01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:34,280 Speaker 1: be our girl, Cheryl Underwood. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1042 01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:41,160 Speaker 1: All right, babies and gentlemen, she underwater. They ain't Harvey man, 1043 01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:44,639 Speaker 1: My only friend that ain't in trouble, ain't in the media. 1044 01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:49,559 Speaker 1: Don't go damn y'all know it? Hey s wrong? Oh, 1045 01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:53,200 Speaker 1: can't have a birthday party for your kids? Man? Oh, 1046 01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:59,519 Speaker 1: Kevin whatever? You know what? That was absolutely ridiculous. Man 1047 01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 1: let that go, which was stee No, he canna have 1048 01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:05,080 Speaker 1: a birthday for what they gotta do with it, and 1049 01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:08,280 Speaker 1: there ain't nothing to do with things, giving enoughing, it's 1050 01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:12,519 Speaker 1: a birthday party for his kid. Man, Damn, we get 1051 01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:17,120 Speaker 1: so mad about everything. Yeah, we ain't mad, but when 1052 01:10:17,280 --> 01:10:18,720 Speaker 1: man steve, but look at it, look at it like 1053 01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:21,640 Speaker 1: that the way that Indians get done. Now, you know 1054 01:10:21,680 --> 01:10:23,559 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's not like when we was younger. 1055 01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:26,640 Speaker 1: We were younger, Westerns was everywhere. We didn't really know 1056 01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:30,000 Speaker 1: that there was gonna be the destruction of a whole civilization. 1057 01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:32,240 Speaker 1: You know, we're just playing a little game. Then whose 1058 01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:36,559 Speaker 1: side is who? Now? If you're playing a custom, Okay, 1059 01:10:36,760 --> 01:10:39,160 Speaker 1: the Indians one that we're right one. If you playing 1060 01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:41,479 Speaker 1: then all of them, then the Indians one that one. 1061 01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,120 Speaker 1: But they don't always win that one. And sometimes when 1062 01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:46,760 Speaker 1: we know better, we do better. I get you, I 1063 01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:49,120 Speaker 1: totally get your point that this is a one year 1064 01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:51,320 Speaker 1: old child don't know nothing about it. That's where people 1065 01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:53,720 Speaker 1: was tripping too hard. Child don't know nothing about child 1066 01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:55,599 Speaker 1: didn't even ask for the birthday party. Well, the one 1067 01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:58,639 Speaker 1: year old didn't throw the party. No, he don't even 1068 01:10:58,680 --> 01:11:02,479 Speaker 1: know what his birthday. No, no, no, no, I needed 1069 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:04,160 Speaker 1: to go to check your cheese. Where a kid could 1070 01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:09,519 Speaker 1: be a kid. And do you really think do people 1071 01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:14,560 Speaker 1: really think that Kevin did this with some ill intent? No, no, 1072 01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:17,640 Speaker 1: that's why that's my guy. Yeah he's not. And I 1073 01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:20,080 Speaker 1: said he you know, I said on talk he my friend. 1074 01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:22,960 Speaker 1: I don't believe he did this purposefully. But you know 1075 01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:26,720 Speaker 1: the world is changing from even things that we casually 1076 01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:29,840 Speaker 1: say and do and then people trip and then we're 1077 01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:32,840 Speaker 1: in the public eye. So they really tripped. You know. 1078 01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:34,760 Speaker 1: It's things we used to do and say when we 1079 01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,680 Speaker 1: was younger that do nobody you don't say nothing, you know. 1080 01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:41,320 Speaker 1: It's it's worse that we can't even use now that 1081 01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:44,519 Speaker 1: have no ill will, But we used them, you know 1082 01:11:44,640 --> 01:11:46,400 Speaker 1: when we was growing up. I can't even use them 1083 01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:49,000 Speaker 1: on the radio because I don't want to destroy everything 1084 01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:51,080 Speaker 1: we build it. You know what I'm saying, this is 1085 01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:54,400 Speaker 1: just the world were end right well to everything people 1086 01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:59,200 Speaker 1: say stuff. But here's a deal. Yeah, you open yourself 1087 01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:02,360 Speaker 1: up for critics and the internet is a playground for 1088 01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:07,120 Speaker 1: the haters in the devil. I don't Kevin Hard, I 1089 01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:10,760 Speaker 1: can show you did this with no ill intent, no 1090 01:12:11,080 --> 01:12:15,680 Speaker 1: forethought about this being Thanksgiving and and and and the 1091 01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:19,000 Speaker 1: Pilgrims and all like this. Right, we got a wead 1092 01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:25,280 Speaker 1: bigger problem than Kevin Hart's damn birthday. And we got 1093 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:31,639 Speaker 1: a man in the White House man that's making tweeting statements. Yes, 1094 01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,920 Speaker 1: I wasn't with this bashion of this brother for this 1095 01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:39,760 Speaker 1: right here. Can't be with birthday party do it. But 1096 01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:42,479 Speaker 1: I think sometimes we as people in the public, out 1097 01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:44,960 Speaker 1: of celebrities, you know, we need to be a more 1098 01:12:45,280 --> 01:12:48,800 Speaker 1: restrained with what we post and what we say. Look 1099 01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:51,760 Speaker 1: at Kim Kardashian talk. She was on stasy when she 1100 01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:54,320 Speaker 1: got married the first time, and she was on ecstasy 1101 01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:56,679 Speaker 1: when she was in the sexty. I didn't know extacy 1102 01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:59,600 Speaker 1: making y'all move like that. Now listen to me. I 1103 01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:08,639 Speaker 1: saw I didn't you Tommy me ray J need an award. 1104 01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:12,920 Speaker 1: Ray c Ain't nobody saluting Ray ray J. It's that 1105 01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:21,280 Speaker 1: dude for me. Girl. I know I'm old. I know 1106 01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:26,240 Speaker 1: I'm old enough to be your grandma auntie girl. I'm 1107 01:13:26,280 --> 01:13:30,080 Speaker 1: just saying, but listen, when I got married, I was 1108 01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:32,439 Speaker 1: stone coach sober went over to the jests of the 1109 01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:37,200 Speaker 1: peace Cook County, right, downtown in Chicago with Charlie Scrawberries. 1110 01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:41,559 Speaker 1: We went to a tavern for my reception. It wasn't tavern. 1111 01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:44,040 Speaker 1: I didn't hand no hard. I didn't use but thorn, 1112 01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:48,799 Speaker 1: cruel rule. I didn't I didn't use end of the Rainbow. 1113 01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:50,720 Speaker 1: You know what I said. I didn't handle good play. 1114 01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:53,360 Speaker 1: I went to a tavern for my reception. I wasn't 1115 01:13:53,400 --> 01:13:56,200 Speaker 1: on no drugs. Only drug I was on was crown 1116 01:13:56,320 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 1: Row straight straight. I'm drinking that cram, stay all night 1117 01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:08,040 Speaker 1: long like a lot of Richard. Yeah, listen to me. 1118 01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:10,880 Speaker 1: It was the best man. And my job didn't where 1119 01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:13,760 Speaker 1: my job did moving get your children away from the radio? 1120 01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,719 Speaker 1: Can I ask you a question, Yes, ask me a question, 1121 01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:25,519 Speaker 1: Steve Harris, What made Kim Kardashian even mentioned ecstasy in 1122 01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:28,240 Speaker 1: the first place? What made you talking to her sister? 1123 01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:30,519 Speaker 1: And I guess her sister was kind of asking, you know, 1124 01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:32,080 Speaker 1: they put their business on the street, keeping up with 1125 01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:34,200 Speaker 1: the Kardashian you know what I'm saying. So she was 1126 01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:36,080 Speaker 1: talking to her sister, I think one of the Kendall 1127 01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:38,400 Speaker 1: Kylie one of them, and she was talking about how 1128 01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:41,320 Speaker 1: she was wild back in the day and yeah, and 1129 01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:43,760 Speaker 1: then she brought back up the sex take. You know 1130 01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:46,160 Speaker 1: what I really wanted to talk about is why is 1131 01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:48,599 Speaker 1: Tristan still in the family. You know what I'm saying, 1132 01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:51,280 Speaker 1: I'd be mad. I saw you, you got me pregnant. 1133 01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:53,720 Speaker 1: I'm in the hospital having the baby. I find out 1134 01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:56,439 Speaker 1: you at the club kicking it. I'm gonna be mad. 1135 01:14:56,520 --> 01:14:58,880 Speaker 1: Now see I'm walking out. I'm gonna walk out with 1136 01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:00,639 Speaker 1: the with the you know, the down in the back 1137 01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:04,000 Speaker 1: with the bag open, straight booted, all out of the wind. 1138 01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:06,360 Speaker 1: I mean, you're gonna see me at the club and 1139 01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:09,760 Speaker 1: knock some brawls out with an I V bad. Listen 1140 01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:13,560 Speaker 1: to me, I can fight with one. Listen to me. 1141 01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:17,360 Speaker 1: I'm anna twirl that day, gonna I V polls like 1142 01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:22,160 Speaker 1: Bruce Lee and into the dragon. I'm sorry, but you 1143 01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:27,240 Speaker 1: went way back. Yeah yeah, listen. Oh listen to me. 1144 01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm having your baby. I'm mad anyway, car A Surrey, 1145 01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:34,280 Speaker 1: Come on, we're mad anyway. We having somebody baby and 1146 01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:36,960 Speaker 1: you messing around with another bra. I was definitely mad 1147 01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:39,719 Speaker 1: at r Now you're right about that. I was. Listen. 1148 01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:44,680 Speaker 1: I no though she was mad mad, Yeah she was, 1149 01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:46,760 Speaker 1: but she but she needs to be mad enough. You 1150 01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:48,720 Speaker 1: need to get revenge. You need to You don't to 1151 01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:51,760 Speaker 1: sleep with somebody daddy or something. That's that's vengeance. I'm 1152 01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:55,040 Speaker 1: sorry that. Yeah, and then she just had the baby. 1153 01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:58,040 Speaker 1: Just sleep with somebody. Yeah, that hurt your feelings. You 1154 01:15:58,160 --> 01:16:01,960 Speaker 1: sleep with a dude relative or they boy dudes break up. 1155 01:16:02,720 --> 01:16:04,880 Speaker 1: See that's what I'm saying. It's too much stuff going 1156 01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:09,200 Speaker 1: on in the world. Better you better t this up. 1157 01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:13,960 Speaker 1: Listen to me. I come right at that room with 1158 01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:16,600 Speaker 1: a licking stow hat on the bathside of the cigarette. 1159 01:16:21,479 --> 01:16:25,479 Speaker 1: All right. Coming up next is Carla and her reality update. 1160 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:32,680 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to stow all right, it's 1161 01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:36,880 Speaker 1: that time. She is here, Carla with reality update. All right, 1162 01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:43,280 Speaker 1: let's go. Oh, go ahead, girl, go ahead, listen to 1163 01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:47,439 Speaker 1: this Real Housewives of Atlanta, let's go. So Cynthia Bailey, 1164 01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:51,560 Speaker 1: she hosted a bailey Que lot of barbecue, but a 1165 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:53,320 Speaker 1: bailey Que. It was cute. It was four the fourth 1166 01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:56,519 Speaker 1: of July celebration. It was pot luck. The ladies off. 1167 01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:00,680 Speaker 1: You know, they keep ahead, they take, yes, lie, they 1168 01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:19,040 Speaker 1: don't take. In the future, you're gonna stop twenty nineteen, No, well, 1169 01:17:19,120 --> 01:17:23,120 Speaker 1: the season you know they come on. You know TV guy, 1170 01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:30,720 Speaker 1: you know it's tape. They've already taped at the show. Yeah, yes, 1171 01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:34,000 Speaker 1: that's what I meant. Yes, So she called it the 1172 01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:36,760 Speaker 1: Bailey Q. Anyway, while the ladies were there, they were 1173 01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:39,320 Speaker 1: playing games and everything, and they played this game called 1174 01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:43,519 Speaker 1: Past the Peach. So each person that got a peach, 1175 01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:46,720 Speaker 1: you know, the fruit peach, they had to answer questions 1176 01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:50,760 Speaker 1: or pass the peach to the person that they thought 1177 01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:53,400 Speaker 1: the question was about. So one of the questions was 1178 01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:55,839 Speaker 1: who was a big liar? And so your girl Marlowe 1179 01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:59,439 Speaker 1: said from the past. She said, I think it's poor 1180 01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:03,120 Speaker 1: chef of the future. I would say Eva. So Eva 1181 01:18:03,240 --> 01:18:07,679 Speaker 1: got mad and then Candy through shaded Eva. Basically, they're 1182 01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:09,880 Speaker 1: trying to figure out what's up with Eva because she 1183 01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:15,479 Speaker 1: kind of talks about people um to their friends about 1184 01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:18,040 Speaker 1: that person, but then when she kind of gets around 1185 01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:20,960 Speaker 1: that person that she's talking about, she kind of cool 1186 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,479 Speaker 1: with him. So they're trying to figure out what's up 1187 01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:25,840 Speaker 1: with that because Candy pointed it out. And Candy was like, 1188 01:18:26,160 --> 01:18:28,479 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure this out because you talked about 1189 01:18:28,520 --> 01:18:31,360 Speaker 1: this girl Shamia, and now here you are making her 1190 01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:37,559 Speaker 1: play at the party. You putting Bean diplay. Nothing about Nini. Well, 1191 01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:39,720 Speaker 1: she her and Nini are very cool. She wants Nini 1192 01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:42,080 Speaker 1: to be in her wedding. Eva's about to get married 1193 01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:46,000 Speaker 1: and she's asked Nini to be involved. So Nini, it's like, 1194 01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,639 Speaker 1: you know, that's her girl. So she's trying to give 1195 01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:50,479 Speaker 1: her a chance. But you know, they all got a 1196 01:18:50,520 --> 01:18:56,360 Speaker 1: little eyebrow up with Eva. Anyway. Shamari Devote so Ronnie 1197 01:18:56,439 --> 01:19:00,519 Speaker 1: Devote from BBD New edition. His wife is on the show. 1198 01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:07,760 Speaker 1: So now Shamari da Vote told Ronnie's mother, her mother 1199 01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:11,919 Speaker 1: in law, Mama da Vot, that her and her husband 1200 01:19:12,080 --> 01:19:19,599 Speaker 1: had an open relationship at one point. Mama da Vot, Yes, 1201 01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:22,040 Speaker 1: she did, Yes, she did. They were at a bakery 1202 01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:24,680 Speaker 1: and they were doing they're planning, you know, Shamari and 1203 01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,360 Speaker 1: her husband, Ronnie, they have twin boys, and they were 1204 01:19:27,439 --> 01:19:29,479 Speaker 1: playing in the birthday party for the boys and they 1205 01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:32,280 Speaker 1: were tasting cakes and just you know, getting involved in 1206 01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:36,519 Speaker 1: all that. And she said that she told her mother 1207 01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:42,400 Speaker 1: in law that basically Ronnie could date other women, and 1208 01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:46,639 Speaker 1: that she could date other women because she was bi 1209 01:19:46,840 --> 01:19:52,280 Speaker 1: curious what is that she could not date other men 1210 01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:54,760 Speaker 1: though he did not allow her to date other men, 1211 01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:56,200 Speaker 1: but she could do what she wanted to do with 1212 01:19:56,320 --> 01:19:58,920 Speaker 1: other women, right, and you're curious about what it will 1213 01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:02,400 Speaker 1: be like to be with the woman with the woman. Yeah, 1214 01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:05,120 Speaker 1: if you're that's what they called it. By curs, that's 1215 01:20:05,160 --> 01:20:08,200 Speaker 1: what she called I'm fifty one. I don't know none 1216 01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:10,320 Speaker 1: of this film all didn't this new Yeah, just what 1217 01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:12,160 Speaker 1: happened on the show. That's what they're about to say. 1218 01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:14,920 Speaker 1: You by curious too because you kids about other women. 1219 01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:17,679 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna tell you that it ain't gonna be good. 1220 01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna shut that down. Okay, I'm not 1221 01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:26,719 Speaker 1: gonna say that. I'm not gonna say that. You So anyway, 1222 01:20:27,160 --> 01:20:30,320 Speaker 1: this was crazy because Shamari da Vox is sitting there 1223 01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:33,040 Speaker 1: with Mama Davot with her mother in law talking about 1224 01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:36,400 Speaker 1: that they had an open marriage in that you know, 1225 01:20:37,360 --> 01:20:43,639 Speaker 1: Ronnie got busy though with his hall pass well women. 1226 01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:47,800 Speaker 1: He he just went to town. And so the mother 1227 01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:51,680 Speaker 1: in law was like, you know, the advice that she 1228 01:20:51,920 --> 01:20:53,840 Speaker 1: had to her daughter in law because there was some 1229 01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:56,479 Speaker 1: tension to dat. Shamari felt like her mother in law 1230 01:20:56,560 --> 01:20:59,160 Speaker 1: didn't like her at first. It was some shade going on. 1231 01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:06,360 Speaker 1: That was a lot for the mother in law that 1232 01:21:06,560 --> 01:21:11,200 Speaker 1: was a lot to She was just they were just 1233 01:21:11,320 --> 01:21:14,080 Speaker 1: having him home it and she just opened up and 1234 01:21:14,200 --> 01:21:16,200 Speaker 1: she told her mother in law, you know you didn't 1235 01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:20,000 Speaker 1: like me at first. And that ain't moment conversation though, Carl, 1236 01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:23,040 Speaker 1: that ain't moment. I mean you know that's between her 1237 01:21:23,120 --> 01:21:25,160 Speaker 1: and her mother in law. The cameras were rolling and 1238 01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:28,679 Speaker 1: it was there, and then her mother in law, Mama devote, said, well, 1239 01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:30,560 Speaker 1: you opened the door and you let the devil in 1240 01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:35,360 Speaker 1: into your relationship. Because now it's a closed relationship. It's 1241 01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:38,559 Speaker 1: not open anymore. Oh they shut it, you can open 1242 01:21:38,760 --> 01:21:49,519 Speaker 1: close it. Youn't know that. I please my wife. My 1243 01:21:49,640 --> 01:21:53,920 Speaker 1: wife wasn't here, none of this crazy man. You would 1244 01:21:54,560 --> 01:22:00,120 Speaker 1: so Sureley you were a wife. No, ma'am, I wouldn't either. 1245 01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:03,240 Speaker 1: I'm a wife. I'm sure we know Marjorie Harvey would 1246 01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:08,400 Speaker 1: not his relationship and that dough and then your checkbook. Yeah, 1247 01:22:08,840 --> 01:22:11,040 Speaker 1: there you go. You're gonna open up all this you 1248 01:22:11,160 --> 01:22:14,400 Speaker 1: coming here with this foolish jackie mas ain't hear that right? 1249 01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:18,360 Speaker 1: The partner? But what if you could get a haul pass? 1250 01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:21,160 Speaker 1: I'd be scared of it. Now. I don't want it. 1251 01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:23,920 Speaker 1: I don't want it, man, because I don't. I don't. 1252 01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:28,600 Speaker 1: I don't need to start that engine back up. No, no, no, 1253 01:22:28,760 --> 01:22:31,439 Speaker 1: that that dude right there, that was in my past. 1254 01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:34,360 Speaker 1: I need to stay his ass right where he at 1255 01:22:34,520 --> 01:22:38,639 Speaker 1: in my past. Right, he don't need to show back up. 1256 01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:44,840 Speaker 1: Thank you, Man to man was so good. I want 1257 01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:49,479 Speaker 1: to thank you for that honesty that Carla finish. I'm 1258 01:22:49,520 --> 01:22:53,040 Speaker 1: just listening to that. All right. Well, that was it, 1259 01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:55,760 Speaker 1: And you know, we already talked about Keeping up with 1260 01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,640 Speaker 1: the Kardashians. You know, we talked about Kim and the 1261 01:22:58,680 --> 01:23:01,720 Speaker 1: whole RAYJ thing and he ray J disputing what Kim 1262 01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:04,200 Speaker 1: said that she was on exstasy about the sex tape. 1263 01:23:04,200 --> 01:23:07,400 Speaker 1: We talked about that yesterday, So I'll keep watching Keeping 1264 01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:10,000 Speaker 1: Up with the Kardashians. Loving Hip Hop New York is 1265 01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:13,680 Speaker 1: back yesterday. So yes, it's back with Joe Button and 1266 01:23:14,120 --> 01:23:19,240 Speaker 1: Remy Mah and Pappoos. Yeah yea yeah, so that's back. 1267 01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:23,920 Speaker 1: So a lot of shows are back. Oh and don't 1268 01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:29,120 Speaker 1: forget Ready to Love and Ready to Love Ready Nephew 1269 01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:33,799 Speaker 1: Tommy every Saturday night on on ten pm, nine Central, Nephew, 1270 01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:36,560 Speaker 1: how you yelling? I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good. I 1271 01:23:36,640 --> 01:23:39,479 Speaker 1: got the seventh episode coming on this side, and you 1272 01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:42,960 Speaker 1: know it's narrowing down, and man, these women something else 1273 01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:46,840 Speaker 1: and good and and and y'all always ask me something. 1274 01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:49,559 Speaker 1: It'd be ten seconds. All right, Well, we just want 1275 01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:54,599 Speaker 1: to mention and give you a short hit me up 1276 01:23:55,120 --> 01:23:57,200 Speaker 1: my car, go ahead, all right, all right, we'll be 1277 01:23:57,280 --> 01:23:59,680 Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right 1278 01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:06,280 Speaker 1: at did this you're listening to show Beauty mugul Raynell's steward. 1279 01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:09,400 Speaker 1: We know her as super Scent on the Graham. Of course, 1280 01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:12,800 Speaker 1: she's been waking making waves, big waves as a social 1281 01:24:12,880 --> 01:24:16,360 Speaker 1: media sensation, Steve, since the Vine days. Remember the Vine days? 1282 01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:21,720 Speaker 1: Do it for the Vine? Yeah, no it's not nothing, No, 1283 01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:25,320 Speaker 1: no it's not, but super Scent is happening. In fact, 1284 01:24:25,400 --> 01:24:28,160 Speaker 1: just last year, super launched her own cosmetic line, the 1285 01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:32,280 Speaker 1: Crayon Case. It's a palette resembling a box of crayons 1286 01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:34,920 Speaker 1: that we used to get when we were kids, dedicated 1287 01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:39,080 Speaker 1: to new makeup users. So now fast forward, Supercent hit 1288 01:24:39,120 --> 01:24:42,519 Speaker 1: the jackpot this week on Cyber Monday, when in less 1289 01:24:42,520 --> 01:24:48,799 Speaker 1: than two hours she made get this guy's one million dollars. Okay, 1290 01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:54,000 Speaker 1: so good for her, right sore Craon case. Yes, Uh, 1291 01:24:54,160 --> 01:24:58,360 Speaker 1: now super is thanking everyone for supporting her million dollars 1292 01:24:58,439 --> 01:25:01,160 Speaker 1: day in half an hour, well an hour and a half, 1293 01:25:01,479 --> 01:25:04,559 Speaker 1: you know, so she says, God, thank you. Super Scent 1294 01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,519 Speaker 1: went on to say a B word busted tables and 1295 01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:12,120 Speaker 1: cleansed and cleaned hotel rooms. Don't tell me it's not possible. So, 1296 01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:15,040 Speaker 1: I mean, we're you know, we wanted to point out that, Steve, 1297 01:25:15,120 --> 01:25:18,360 Speaker 1: you just talked about being successful yesterday in your closing remarks, 1298 01:25:18,600 --> 01:25:23,600 Speaker 1: and you know what it's like now, success is not 1299 01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:30,479 Speaker 1: for everybody, and everybody won't be successful. And the people 1300 01:25:31,479 --> 01:25:34,479 Speaker 1: for starters to people that won't be successful are the 1301 01:25:34,520 --> 01:25:40,080 Speaker 1: people who don't believe they'll ever be successful. That's the 1302 01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:43,680 Speaker 1: beginning of it. You have to believe that you can 1303 01:25:43,760 --> 01:25:49,320 Speaker 1: be successful. It merely starts with the hope of being successful. See, 1304 01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:54,439 Speaker 1: so let's not downplay the possibilities of hope. Man, I 1305 01:25:54,600 --> 01:25:57,880 Speaker 1: hope I'll be successful one day. That's the beginning of it. 1306 01:25:58,560 --> 01:26:03,280 Speaker 1: Faith is to substance of things hope for see, it 1307 01:26:03,400 --> 01:26:08,160 Speaker 1: starts out merely as hope. Because this girl bust tables 1308 01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:14,439 Speaker 1: and cleaned hotel rooms and she made a million dollars 1309 01:26:14,520 --> 01:26:18,200 Speaker 1: in one day because she was hoping one day she 1310 01:26:18,439 --> 01:26:21,760 Speaker 1: wasn't busting tables no more. She was hoping one day 1311 01:26:22,040 --> 01:26:24,519 Speaker 1: that she wasn't cleaning the hotel room. And then she 1312 01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:29,160 Speaker 1: believed that she could do better than busting tables or 1313 01:26:29,280 --> 01:26:31,880 Speaker 1: cleaning the hotel rooms. And I'm not saying there's nothing 1314 01:26:31,960 --> 01:26:35,280 Speaker 1: wrong with that. I'm just saying, if that's not where 1315 01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:38,880 Speaker 1: you that happy place for you, you can start the 1316 01:26:39,040 --> 01:26:44,599 Speaker 1: process by hoping for more. Then you start the process 1317 01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:48,920 Speaker 1: by believing that there's more. And that's what she did. 1318 01:26:49,360 --> 01:26:57,919 Speaker 1: And I say right on to a congratulation that salute. Yeah. Yeah. Meanwhile, 1319 01:26:58,280 --> 01:27:02,080 Speaker 1: Carla Black China is as a new bleaching cream. Is 1320 01:27:02,160 --> 01:27:06,559 Speaker 1: that it's really? Yeah? I heard something about she bleached 1321 01:27:06,600 --> 01:27:09,800 Speaker 1: her skin? Did she bleach her scan? Okay, so this 1322 01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:14,360 Speaker 1: is the story. She went to Nigeria with this bleaching cream. 1323 01:27:14,400 --> 01:27:18,040 Speaker 1: It's called white Initia. Is that it? Yeah? And she 1324 01:27:18,120 --> 01:27:20,439 Speaker 1: went to Nigeria with it. She went over there. I 1325 01:27:20,520 --> 01:27:22,760 Speaker 1: guess does she want to sell it over there? She 1326 01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:25,120 Speaker 1: wanted to sell it her and she sold it over there. 1327 01:27:25,640 --> 01:27:29,360 Speaker 1: So yeah, now she's back. Right. People in Africa and 1328 01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:33,600 Speaker 1: bleached they say, well, well yeah, I mean it's not 1329 01:27:34,880 --> 01:27:42,439 Speaker 1: Sammy Sosa. He went he went overboard. Man. Yeah, when 1330 01:27:42,479 --> 01:27:45,320 Speaker 1: I saw him, he scared me. And the before and 1331 01:27:45,439 --> 01:27:49,040 Speaker 1: after picture don't put him side by side. Oh my god, 1332 01:27:49,520 --> 01:27:53,960 Speaker 1: talk about scary. Yeah. Wow. Yeah, that's a lot of 1333 01:27:54,000 --> 01:27:56,439 Speaker 1: stuff going on in the world, it really is. He 1334 01:27:56,880 --> 01:28:00,680 Speaker 1: had beautiful skin color man. Yeah, all right, we'll be 1335 01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:03,120 Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 1336 01:28:03,160 --> 01:28:06,840 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1337 01:28:07,560 --> 01:28:11,840 Speaker 1: Quincy Jones Quincy Jones Q gets a star on the 1338 01:28:11,960 --> 01:28:16,200 Speaker 1: Hollywood Walk of Fame. Quincy's hand and footprints are now 1339 01:28:16,360 --> 01:28:21,080 Speaker 1: set in stone in Hollywood. Congratulations to him. Yes, he's 1340 01:28:21,200 --> 01:28:24,280 Speaker 1: eighty five years old, he's a music icon, a legend 1341 01:28:24,400 --> 01:28:27,200 Speaker 1: and all of that. He dipped his hands and feet 1342 01:28:27,280 --> 01:28:31,600 Speaker 1: and cement yesterday outside of the TCL Chinese Theater on 1343 01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:36,040 Speaker 1: his very own Walk of Fame star. Congratulations. Yeah, that's 1344 01:28:36,120 --> 01:28:41,920 Speaker 1: so big. Yeah, just getting yeah, yeah, man, they could 1345 01:28:41,920 --> 01:28:47,680 Speaker 1: have dug mine him. Put here down now and yeah 1346 01:28:48,120 --> 01:28:50,200 Speaker 1: they still did that part of it too. Oh the 1347 01:28:50,280 --> 01:28:53,519 Speaker 1: hands and the feet, Yeah, I didn't know that, you're right, yeah, yeah, 1348 01:28:53,600 --> 01:28:58,160 Speaker 1: Oh no, that's different, right, Yeah, that's different. That's that's like, like, 1349 01:28:58,280 --> 01:29:01,000 Speaker 1: what are winning five? Guy? Yeah, that's what he got. 1350 01:29:01,200 --> 01:29:06,120 Speaker 1: That's yeah, you should have been head w Yes News 1351 01:29:06,200 --> 01:29:11,800 Speaker 1: Thriller come. Yeah. One of the greatest producers ever to 1352 01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:15,800 Speaker 1: walk the planet. Yes, Snoop Dogg was there, his daughter 1353 01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:19,240 Speaker 1: Rashida was there, Doctor Dre Usher, many more came to 1354 01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:25,200 Speaker 1: celebrate h Quincy, Steve Goddess really big, Yeah, yeah, he 1355 01:29:26,040 --> 01:29:30,040 Speaker 1: really deserves that. A man, Yeah cool, dude too, man, 1356 01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:34,880 Speaker 1: really really cool. Here's some great stories. He is more. 1357 01:29:35,560 --> 01:29:39,280 Speaker 1: Here's more Quincy Jones, News Oprah, Dave Chappelle, John Legend, 1358 01:29:39,320 --> 01:29:43,880 Speaker 1: Stevie Wonder, Fantasia Neo, Jennifer Hudson, all of them will 1359 01:29:43,960 --> 01:29:47,720 Speaker 1: honor Quincy's legacy with a musical celebration. It's called Q 1360 01:29:48,000 --> 01:29:51,840 Speaker 1: eighty five Quincy Jones on Sunday, December Night. That's going 1361 01:29:51,920 --> 01:29:54,800 Speaker 1: to be on e b et, So make sure you 1362 01:29:54,920 --> 01:29:58,120 Speaker 1: check that out. I can't wait to see that. Um Oprah. 1363 01:29:58,240 --> 01:30:00,439 Speaker 1: You remember when he met her, he put her in 1364 01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:03,719 Speaker 1: the movie Color Purple. She wasn't acting, you know, in movies, 1365 01:30:03,800 --> 01:30:05,880 Speaker 1: before Quincy met her and put her in that movie. 1366 01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:09,600 Speaker 1: So they've been lifelong friends since that. I thought the 1367 01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:13,360 Speaker 1: promo for this show, it looks fantastic, it looks good. 1368 01:30:13,479 --> 01:30:16,640 Speaker 1: It looks good. You're right, it does. Can't wait, and 1369 01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:24,000 Speaker 1: he's got some singers, Fantasia Jennifer Hudson. Come on, hey guys, 1370 01:30:24,120 --> 01:30:26,320 Speaker 1: I know this is early, but I was thinking the 1371 01:30:26,439 --> 01:30:29,400 Speaker 1: New Year's resolutions. And you know how we always do 1372 01:30:29,560 --> 01:30:32,960 Speaker 1: New Year's resolutions and you end up breaking one, all right, 1373 01:30:33,080 --> 01:30:36,960 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do mine now. Oh, Okay, it's early, 1374 01:30:37,040 --> 01:30:40,240 Speaker 1: you're right, but go ahead. My New Year's resolution for 1375 01:30:40,320 --> 01:30:43,679 Speaker 1: two thousand nineteen is. I ain't gonna say nothing bout timing. 1376 01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:49,280 Speaker 1: That's why I said, I'm gonna just gonna get that 1377 01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:53,000 Speaker 1: one out to wait. Now, you're gonna break that today 1378 01:30:54,280 --> 01:30:56,680 Speaker 1: year the show, right, No, that's why I say. You 1379 01:30:56,720 --> 01:30:59,479 Speaker 1: know we always break them, So I'm gonna go say 1380 01:30:59,600 --> 01:31:05,000 Speaker 1: mine now in late November. I still want to see 1381 01:31:05,000 --> 01:31:07,559 Speaker 1: this Christmas tree, even if we ain't compete. I want 1382 01:31:07,560 --> 01:31:11,519 Speaker 1: to see the Christmas now tom When when will it 1383 01:31:11,640 --> 01:31:13,840 Speaker 1: be decorated and finished? Why don't you let him see 1384 01:31:14,040 --> 01:31:16,360 Speaker 1: day after tomorrow? Okay, you gotta let us see the 1385 01:31:16,400 --> 01:31:19,439 Speaker 1: tree man. Why don't you let him see it? Steve? What? No, 1386 01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't have tree feeling, Steve, You're not gonna hurt 1387 01:31:22,439 --> 01:31:30,320 Speaker 1: my tree? What? Oh? You best. Your wife did a 1388 01:31:30,439 --> 01:31:35,960 Speaker 1: spectac Yes it's beautiful. Oh she bossed it out though. Yeah. 1389 01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:38,720 Speaker 1: All right, coming up our last break of the day 1390 01:31:38,840 --> 01:31:42,920 Speaker 1: and some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. 1391 01:31:43,280 --> 01:31:45,599 Speaker 1: Right after this, we'll be back at forty nine after 1392 01:31:46,120 --> 01:31:50,920 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Show. All right, Steve, here we are, 1393 01:31:51,080 --> 01:31:54,679 Speaker 1: last break of the day. It's been a good day, yes, yeah, 1394 01:31:55,240 --> 01:31:57,760 Speaker 1: yes it has. And now it's your turn, Steve to 1395 01:31:58,120 --> 01:32:02,479 Speaker 1: leave us with some closing remarks. Enlighten us please. I 1396 01:32:02,640 --> 01:32:04,960 Speaker 1: was talking to somebody today at my house. I had 1397 01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:10,720 Speaker 1: a meeting and as usual, I was just vamping with 1398 01:32:10,840 --> 01:32:12,599 Speaker 1: this guy and we were just sitting there, going over 1399 01:32:12,680 --> 01:32:16,559 Speaker 1: so many things. He's a younger guy. He's really really 1400 01:32:16,720 --> 01:32:19,680 Speaker 1: smart guy. Man, really really smart man, younger to me. 1401 01:32:19,720 --> 01:32:22,280 Speaker 1: He's in his thirties, so, you know, and we were 1402 01:32:22,320 --> 01:32:25,120 Speaker 1: sitting there, we were at my house. We were talking 1403 01:32:26,280 --> 01:32:34,559 Speaker 1: and he said, mister Harvey, what do you think stops 1404 01:32:34,960 --> 01:32:41,320 Speaker 1: most possibilities? And that was an interesting way to do it, 1405 01:32:41,600 --> 01:32:44,639 Speaker 1: you know, instead of him saying to me, what stops 1406 01:32:44,840 --> 01:32:48,720 Speaker 1: most people's dreams or aspirations? He posed it that way, 1407 01:32:49,920 --> 01:32:52,160 Speaker 1: and so it caused me to think when he said 1408 01:32:52,479 --> 01:32:56,479 Speaker 1: what stops most people's possibilities, he caused me to think 1409 01:32:56,520 --> 01:33:00,679 Speaker 1: of it another way. In my response to him, what's 1410 01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:08,559 Speaker 1: kind of different? I said, most people get stopped from 1411 01:33:08,640 --> 01:33:14,720 Speaker 1: their possibilities by focusing too much on the probabilities. And 1412 01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:16,800 Speaker 1: he said, wow, what you mean by that? And I 1413 01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:19,160 Speaker 1: had to catch myself because I was just, you know, 1414 01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:22,120 Speaker 1: just doing me and it just like like a light bulb. 1415 01:33:22,880 --> 01:33:26,200 Speaker 1: You know, when you talk about the probabilities, you always 1416 01:33:26,280 --> 01:33:30,400 Speaker 1: talk about, you know, what can happen in the event 1417 01:33:30,760 --> 01:33:34,479 Speaker 1: of you know, well, if you do this, you know 1418 01:33:35,240 --> 01:33:38,920 Speaker 1: there's a possible the probability you started talking about what 1419 01:33:39,040 --> 01:33:42,920 Speaker 1: can probably happen. You know, you could probably go broke. 1420 01:33:43,479 --> 01:33:46,639 Speaker 1: You know, you could probably get turned down, you could 1421 01:33:46,800 --> 01:33:53,240 Speaker 1: probably end up without anything, you could probably fall flat, 1422 01:33:53,760 --> 01:33:59,200 Speaker 1: you could probably fail. Well, if you keep going through 1423 01:33:59,280 --> 01:34:03,760 Speaker 1: the probable abilities of something, you'll never get started with 1424 01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:08,080 Speaker 1: the possibilities of something. So what I'm saying to you 1425 01:34:08,160 --> 01:34:11,960 Speaker 1: in these clothes and remarks today is if I were you, 1426 01:34:12,080 --> 01:34:14,640 Speaker 1: because this is what I did and I'm not. You 1427 01:34:14,720 --> 01:34:19,000 Speaker 1: know what's crazy about me, man, is I'm I'm usually 1428 01:34:19,120 --> 01:34:23,759 Speaker 1: not the smartest guy in the room. I've gotten myself 1429 01:34:23,920 --> 01:34:29,240 Speaker 1: around people who are better than me in several areas. 1430 01:34:30,560 --> 01:34:34,080 Speaker 1: You know, on this radio show, I have people who 1431 01:34:34,200 --> 01:34:38,599 Speaker 1: are better than me in areas. Shirley has a better 1432 01:34:38,840 --> 01:34:43,439 Speaker 1: voice than I do. Carla has more radio knowledge than 1433 01:34:43,600 --> 01:34:49,080 Speaker 1: I do. Monica Bonds is more technical with bookings and 1434 01:34:49,840 --> 01:34:54,640 Speaker 1: with products and placement and all of this stuff that 1435 01:34:54,760 --> 01:34:58,200 Speaker 1: goes with ads. There are people around me that's better 1436 01:34:58,439 --> 01:35:02,320 Speaker 1: than me. Tommy does pranks better than me. Tommy is 1437 01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:07,800 Speaker 1: a better actor than me. So I'm usually admittedly, and 1438 01:35:07,920 --> 01:35:10,680 Speaker 1: I tell people this and they think I'm kidding. I'm 1439 01:35:10,840 --> 01:35:13,800 Speaker 1: usually not the smartest person in most of the rooms 1440 01:35:13,880 --> 01:35:18,120 Speaker 1: I've gotten in because I've learned to surround myself with 1441 01:35:18,360 --> 01:35:21,479 Speaker 1: people who are better than me in a lot of areas. 1442 01:35:21,920 --> 01:35:25,560 Speaker 1: That way, I don't have to worry about the probabilities. 1443 01:35:25,880 --> 01:35:29,960 Speaker 1: I keep my focus on the possibilities. You got to 1444 01:35:30,040 --> 01:35:33,000 Speaker 1: look at the possibilities in life, because let me tell 1445 01:35:33,040 --> 01:35:36,240 Speaker 1: you something, if I looked at the probabilities, I wouldn't 1446 01:35:36,280 --> 01:35:39,920 Speaker 1: be sitting here today. I'm from Welch, West Virginia, a 1447 01:35:40,160 --> 01:35:42,880 Speaker 1: coal mine in town. I grew up in a holler. 1448 01:35:43,360 --> 01:35:47,200 Speaker 1: The probability is that I ain't supposed to be here. 1449 01:35:47,520 --> 01:35:51,720 Speaker 1: The possibility is that I am. I grew up in 1450 01:35:51,760 --> 01:35:54,000 Speaker 1: the hood on one hundred and twelfth in Superior. The 1451 01:35:54,240 --> 01:35:57,560 Speaker 1: probability is that I'm not supposed to be here. The 1452 01:35:57,800 --> 01:36:02,599 Speaker 1: possibility is that I am I had a severe stuttering 1453 01:36:02,680 --> 01:36:06,439 Speaker 1: problem as a child. The probability of me being here 1454 01:36:06,720 --> 01:36:12,840 Speaker 1: is not good. The possibility is here, I am. The 1455 01:36:13,120 --> 01:36:17,000 Speaker 1: probability of a person being homeless and living in a car. 1456 01:36:17,600 --> 01:36:22,920 Speaker 1: The probability ain't that good. The possibility is here, I am. 1457 01:36:24,479 --> 01:36:27,760 Speaker 1: I am saying to you that whatever situation you are 1458 01:36:27,880 --> 01:36:32,000 Speaker 1: in today, stop looking at the probability. Though this will 1459 01:36:32,040 --> 01:36:34,360 Speaker 1: probably happen. If you do that, that will probably happen. 1460 01:36:34,439 --> 01:36:36,400 Speaker 1: If you do this, This will probably happen. If you 1461 01:36:36,479 --> 01:36:42,320 Speaker 1: do that, damn that. What about the possibility? If you 1462 01:36:42,520 --> 01:36:47,920 Speaker 1: focus on the possibility, it changes your landscape. The view 1463 01:36:48,280 --> 01:36:53,120 Speaker 1: is different from possibilities. It's very different from the view 1464 01:36:53,280 --> 01:36:57,080 Speaker 1: of the probability. The probability causes you to look at 1465 01:36:57,120 --> 01:37:00,680 Speaker 1: the what ifs, The probability causing you to look at 1466 01:37:00,720 --> 01:37:04,479 Speaker 1: the potential failure. The probability causes you to look at 1467 01:37:04,520 --> 01:37:09,280 Speaker 1: the problems. The possibility let you look at the what 1468 01:37:09,560 --> 01:37:16,880 Speaker 1: could be, the what's possible? The Why not me, the man? 1469 01:37:17,080 --> 01:37:22,720 Speaker 1: Why don't I try? That's the possibility, man, It's so 1470 01:37:22,960 --> 01:37:26,519 Speaker 1: much better than the probability. So quit getting hung up 1471 01:37:26,600 --> 01:37:30,800 Speaker 1: on the probabilities. This probably won't work. They probably won't 1472 01:37:30,840 --> 01:37:34,640 Speaker 1: pick me. I probably fail. I probably won't get it right. 1473 01:37:35,080 --> 01:37:38,439 Speaker 1: This probably CAUs me to lose my job. I probably 1474 01:37:38,520 --> 01:37:40,560 Speaker 1: had to quit that to try to do that. I 1475 01:37:40,600 --> 01:37:42,760 Speaker 1: don't think I can quit that. To do that, you're 1476 01:37:42,800 --> 01:37:47,760 Speaker 1: tripping on the probabilities and you're losing focus of the possibilities. 1477 01:37:48,120 --> 01:37:52,120 Speaker 1: And the possibilities is where God is. God is in 1478 01:37:52,280 --> 01:37:58,759 Speaker 1: the possibility, because all things are possible. Through him, all 1479 01:37:59,120 --> 01:38:03,120 Speaker 1: things are possible. With God in your life, all things 1480 01:38:03,320 --> 01:38:08,120 Speaker 1: is possible. With prayer, all things is possible. That's what 1481 01:38:08,280 --> 01:38:12,800 Speaker 1: I learned today. Those are my clothing else star focusing 1482 01:38:12,920 --> 01:38:21,280 Speaker 1: on the possibility. Right, Well, yeah, you don't never stop 1483 01:38:21,360 --> 01:38:34,040 Speaker 1: damn room, y'all have a great weekend. Clothes clothed. Watch 1484 01:38:34,600 --> 01:38:37,479 Speaker 1: for all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, void where 1485 01:38:37,560 --> 01:38:41,040 Speaker 1: prohibited Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen 1486 01:38:41,160 --> 01:38:44,800 Speaker 1: years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit 1487 01:38:44,880 --> 01:38:49,679 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to Steven show