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Speaker 1: It's time to ask the celo our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Miles in Newark. Miles writes,

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty seven and just ended a long term relationship

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Speaker 1: because my girlfriend cheated on me. We're still friends and

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Speaker 1: I am trying to move on, but she keeps calling

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Speaker 1: me and asking me to give her another chance. I

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Speaker 1: love her, but is she worth another try? Wow?

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. Yeah, and I'm not wanted a man,

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Speaker 2: so I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because she cheated, she slept.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you know, look, it's like this though.

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Speaker 2: It's a difference, man, It's just a difference. It's a

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Speaker 2: double standard.

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Speaker 1: It is a difference.

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Speaker 2: It's a double standard. And that's a horbwe it's a hallwar.

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Speaker 1: Get with somebody, but usually it's the other way around.

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Speaker 1: A woman takes the man back a lot of times,

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Speaker 1: a lot of women are yeah, the men will not Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah. It is a double standard. Sure, and that's it.

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Speaker 1: Look at them, look at the man on the show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is what it is.

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Speaker 2: Thirty seven, Time to move on because you can find

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Speaker 2: somebody ain't gonna do that to you.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. But why is why do you want her

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Speaker 1: to take you back if you've cheated, because the same

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Speaker 1: kind of and we can find somebody else.

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Speaker 3: As were always having this one.

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Speaker 1: Discussion, because this is one that will never go wherever.

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Speaker 3: The other week we hear this right here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well answer the question though, don't don't answer? Can

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Speaker 1: you answer it?

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Speaker 3: Just go by the rules.

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Speaker 1: You don't make me what the rules.

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Speaker 3: Is for the layer of the land. I just tried

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Speaker 3: to a whole bunch of questions that I don't understand,

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Speaker 3: but I don't want to hear it. I can go

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Speaker 3: how many people? How many people in the Bible Shirley

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Speaker 3: had five, six wives? How many of them had five?

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Speaker 1: But it was okay, I mean, look at King Solomon,

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Speaker 1: it was okay back in the day.

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Speaker 3: You go ahead after the I got five six, seven

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Speaker 3: wives over there. But when we came over here, how

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Speaker 3: come we didn't bring that with us? How come we

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Speaker 3: left that over there?

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Speaker 1: And how come women can have more than one husband?

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Speaker 2: I met a guy in Africa. I met a guy

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Speaker 2: in Africa that had five wives, and I met the

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Speaker 2: five wives. I'm sitting there the whole time, going just

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Speaker 2: to five you picked.

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Speaker 3: You know what? Sure? I can.

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Speaker 2: All right, five cracks ated and it's what you came up.

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Speaker 1: We're out of this one movie. Onto tank, Tink Tink

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Speaker 1: in Penola, nobody we have We have since left that one,

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Speaker 1: all right, Tink and Pensacola rights. I dressed very conservatively usually,

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Speaker 1: but I was rushing to church and I wore a

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Speaker 1: low cut blouse. My aunt saw it and said that

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Speaker 1: I should go change. I'm fifty one and married. She's

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Speaker 1: sixty six and a side chick. Can I tell her

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Speaker 1: about herself? Or should I continue to be respectful?

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Speaker 2: To just continue to be respectful. But she's sixty six

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Speaker 2: at the side chick. Go home and change for what?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 2: What they wear to church?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Did you see Tamar singing gospel will Kirk Franklin? She

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Speaker 2: had low cut, short split everything. Yeah, don't judge.

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Speaker 1: Me, you're shit. Yeah he's sick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I ain't, no chick. That's a turkey, that's.

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Speaker 1: Jesus geese.

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Speaker 2: Yeah sad, Oh goodness, all right, that sad. So tinking

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Speaker 2: and hanging off your neck everything.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Jamie and Dover, Jamie writes, I've been

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Speaker 1: married seventeen years and my wife started sleeping naked I

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Speaker 1: don't like it. It doesn't seem clean. I am a

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Speaker 1: neat freak, so I've been changing the sheets more often.

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Speaker 1: How do I get her to at least wear panties

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Speaker 1: to bed? Is that too much to what? Stupid?

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Speaker 2: What? You're just stupidness? Had ye.

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Speaker 3: Created?

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Speaker 2: How can I get at least all wearing panni?

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Speaker 3: What? What?

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Speaker 1: What's not about that? If she's going yeah, said stupid.

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Speaker 2: You don't need no way. You got some issues, dog,

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Speaker 2: you need you need counseling.

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Speaker 1: Oh now you recommend now because he doesn't want his

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Speaker 1: wife naked?

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Speaker 3: Who don't want naked?

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Speaker 1: Woman? You don't want that? I have never heard she's

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out who.

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Speaker 3: Come on, I'm gonna take that now.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna climb in this bed naked with some pannies

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Speaker 2: her pajamas at like mine?

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Speaker 3: Crazy man?

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Speaker 2: You know how fast I see you coming to the bed, niggad?

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Speaker 2: You know how fan when you bury the time you

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Speaker 2: get the covers back, I'm already naked.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got to wait on me.

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Speaker 2: Bro if I fall asleep with a hoodie, said on,

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Speaker 2: and I see you coming to the bed naked by

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Speaker 2: the time you put your foot up on that bed.

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Speaker 2: By the time you pull them covers up, you roll over,

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Speaker 2: kiss me good night. I'm naked too.

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Speaker 1: Hey baby? All right, so he's saying, isn't too much

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Speaker 1: to ask? So you're you're not even doing it's too much? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: come on, stupid, Come on stupid?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one, last one, Celo. This is from Mika and Sacramento.

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Speaker 1: Mika says, I've got two guys that are interested in me,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not over my ex yet. Is it best

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Speaker 1: to date someone to move on? Or is it unfair

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Speaker 1: to waste another man's time? She needs some advice, she says,

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Speaker 1: please advice.

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Speaker 2: Of course, it's unfair to waste their time. Of course

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Speaker 2: it's unfair.

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Speaker 3: And how you ain't.

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Speaker 2: Over him yet? What what you hanging on for? He don't,

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Speaker 2: won't you?

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Speaker 1: You go that part?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Promise you. He over you.

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Speaker 1: And under somebody else.

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Speaker 2: He's sitting nowhere worrying about you. M he done got

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Speaker 2: over you with another you?

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Speaker 1: Oh that part? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So you need to pull yourself together, young lady.

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Speaker 1: Okay and move on. You're telling her to move on

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Speaker 1: to basically yeah, I mean did he gone? Yeah, he's out? Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's just worried about? Waiting the other guys.

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Speaker 3: Hold on part to do When He Loves Gone.

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Speaker 1: You're still watching a barcue video at Johnny Gill's house,

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Speaker 1: aren't you. You're listening Hardy Morning Show