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Speaker 2: Well, the thing I with iTunes is that every time

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Speaker 2: This is from Mick Miller eighty two, who says I've

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Speaker 2: Thank you Rod and Karen for all you do. Stay safe.

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Speaker 2: Shit for granted, simply the best. This is from Kenny

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Speaker 1: That's the review.

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Speaker 2: This is from Christina Kubatis, who says Rod and Karen

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Speaker 1: Ever do stuff for YouTube? That's exactly why.

441
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 4: I want to get full of nigger nigger, nigger, niggerger posts.

442
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 2: But it's also just not worth it to me, Like

443
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,119
Speaker 2: I know what my mental health call cost is, and

444
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to pay the toll to be YouTube

445
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 2: famous or to even attempt to be YouTube famous because

446
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 2: those people, you know, there's a lot of doxing, death threats, uh,

447
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,639
Speaker 2: you know, all kinds of ship and it's.

448
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 3: A lot of them.

449
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 4: To actually turn the turn the comments off of it was like, nah,

450
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 4: we're not gonna deal with this.

451
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 3: Either you like it or you don't.

452
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 1: But there's only so much you can do when you

453
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 1: turn the comments off.

454
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: That's just like that's that's just saying you talk directly

455
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 2: me on YouTube. But they, like I said, doxing you,

456
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 2: finding you on other social media, all that type of

457
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,159
Speaker 2: ship calling you. You know, we saw them in this

458
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 2: Span had an episode where people was calling him in

459
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 2: live to say racist shit to him, you know, like

460
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 2: the YouTube has and it's happened over the years since

461
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 2: it's not that regulated. But you know, people build health communities,

462
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 2: and so this person makes forty videos about friend and

463
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 2: now there's a whole community of we hate this woman

464
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,439
Speaker 2: and they can reach out. And maybe it's because she

465
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,679
Speaker 2: got the experience the other side of it that she

466
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 2: can see, like like she still has some empathy for

467
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:33,199
Speaker 2: the troll people in a way, at least at the

468
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,199
Speaker 2: time she didn't in the book. And it's kind of

469
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 2: interesting because at the end of the day, I feel

470
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 2: like it's like dealing with a narcissist. The Internet has

471
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 2: the tools, I know, I say this a million times

472
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 2: to make us all be able to behave like a narcissist,

473
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:50,920
Speaker 2: even if you aren't one.

474
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: The tools are right there. You know.

475
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 2: I can harass you, I can twist your words, take

476
00:23:56,640 --> 00:24:00,400
Speaker 2: them out of context. I can gaslight you, I can

477
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 2: shun you. I can form a gang of people to

478
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 2: be my flying monkeys, and we just chastise you and

479
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 2: we call ourselves heroes for doing it.

480
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 1: It's why I'm very, very fucking careful.

481
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 2: Of even the people that I don't like on the

482
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 2: Internet and how I behave around my dislike of them,

483
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 2: because a lot of times you're not looking at it,

484
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 2: but you're you're really starting to form some bad habits

485
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 2: when you know, let's say I didn't like something that

486
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 2: some comedian said. Well, when I'm at tagging them on

487
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 2: Twitter or when I'm joining a Facebook group to talk

488
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 2: shit about them.

489
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 1: Well, those things are not in my behavior pattern.

490
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 2: I don't I cannot like what you said and not

491
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 2: need to like start a lifestyle around it.

492
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 4: Right, I just let people cook like I'm like I said,

493
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 4: there's a certain behavior that.

494
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 3: I don't understand.

495
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 4: If I don't fuck with you, I don't fuck with you,

496
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 4: like I'm like, cool, you can go your way. I

497
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 4: go mind, I don't follow you, I don't look for

498
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 4: you. You don't like But that's me. But some people go,

499
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 4: I don't fuck with you, but they know every increment

500
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 4: everything about your life. They follow you, the obsessed with you,

501
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 4: And I don't function like that. If I don't fuck

502
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 4: with you, I really mean, what are you doing here?

503
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 2: Keep in mind you can also monetize on YouTube the

504
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 2: hatred of people. So it's even so it's even more right,

505
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 2: Like it's bad enough with just social media, right, the

506
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 2: dopamine fixed for our retweets and our likes and our

507
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: face and all this shit, that is enough for a

508
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 2: lot of people to kind of continue like like we

509
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 2: all know people like this, whereas like this person can't

510
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: stand blank, and so anytime Blank breathes, they're making some

511
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: type of content about it and for entertainment purposes. Everyone's

512
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 2: running over there to see what they're gonna say, you know,

513
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 2: and you know, and there can be some comedic stuff

514
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 2: to that. You know, I've done that before as a

515
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 2: joke with like Jimmy Butler, Like you know, like my

516
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 2: joke was like, no matter what he does, I'm gonna

517
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 2: make it. I'm gonna try to act like I'm hating

518
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 2: even you know, I don't know Jimmy Butler, I don't

519
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 2: really actually care, but like but it's like a it's fun,

520
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 2: everyone's in on that joke or whatever. But like if

521
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: I if I started like tagging Jimmy Butler to things,

522
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 2: if I was like trying direct message here, reaching out

523
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 2: to his people's to try to make sure making videos

524
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: on YouTube and shit, trying to make sure he sees me,

525
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 2: I think there's like a level of that that's so

526
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 2: narcissistic and it and this is the part that I'm

527
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 2: coming to and you know, I'm and Frank kind of

528
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:28,120
Speaker 2: gets to it in the book.

529
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: It actually can't be reasoned with oh.

530
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:32,360
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no no.

531
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 4: And she said that you make a career out of this,

532
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 4: which means this is your thing. This is what you do,

533
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 4: and you not doing that means you have literally no

534
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 4: purpose in life for some people, And.

535
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: I'll take it one step further. I actually think.

536
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 2: It's like the heckler at a comedy club who when

537
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 2: the communion gets mad and like cusses them out or

538
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 2: kicks them out. If you ask the heckler, the heckler

539
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 2: feels like I made your show better.

540
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 3: Yes they do, motherfucker. Nobody paid for you. Nobody's paid.

541
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: Who are you?

542
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,679
Speaker 2: No one bought a ticket hoping that moment what happened,

543
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 2: Nobody wanted you know, nobody is gonna high five you

544
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 2: on the way out, like thank you for interrupting what

545
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 2: the comedian was trying to do.

546
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 3: Get paid?

547
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, no one's gonna do that.

548
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 2: But they feel like I did your show a service

549
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: by trying to interrupt what you do for a living.

550
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: And that is to me, the epitome of the troth.

551
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 1: The way did that man gravel before her? Da da

552
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 1: da da dah.

553
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 2: I told her his whole sympathetic life story of you know,

554
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 2: I got laid off, and that's where this anger comes from.

555
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 2: To me, I look at those things and that would

556
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 2: have made me even matter, because I said, because to me,

557
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 2: when you start telling me that, that means you know

558
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 2: where it came from.

559
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: So don't get so, don't try to get with me,

560
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 1: get with a therapist. I don't have nothing to do

561
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: with that. You know this. Oh you know I lost

562
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: my job and my wife left me, and then that,

563
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: you know, I saw your videos and I got balled. No, motherfucker,

564
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 1: don't go somewhere else that don't involve me in your delusion.

565
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: Then the other.

566
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: Part of it is he then flipped it to we're

567
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 2: best friends, we're cool, we're co workers, we're.

568
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 1: Equal, we're peers.

569
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:18,400
Speaker 2: So unbeknownst a friend or whatever, even he by his

570
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:20,360
Speaker 2: hatred of her, he had put her on a pedesel.

571
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 2: So him meeting her, he has to flip this narrative

572
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 2: to his fast it's not all he gonna lose all

573
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 2: his fans, and turned it into yeah, well we met,

574
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 2: she understood. It was cool, you know, and you know,

575
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 2: I let her know how I feel. She let me

576
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: know how she felt, and I said, you know what,

577
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 2: you know, it's cool. We could be friends. Like completely

578
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: flips the dynamic that no video of him groveling, none

579
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: of that shit, and it goes further in the chapter,

580
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: like with them having more of a confrontation, but like

581
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 2: that shit just really fucking like nails it.

582
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: And it's why I don't engage with people that really

583
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: just truly.

584
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 3: Harassed and harassing thing.

585
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 2: Right, Like, there's people who critique, and there's some meriat

586
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 2: to some critique.

587
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 3: It is not all, not.

588
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: All, maybe not even most critique to be fair.

589
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 4: It's a percentage that you go, Okay, that's valid. Most

590
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 4: people you got dismiss.

591
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 2: Like, there's certain people that can reach out to me

592
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 2: and be like, hey, this thing you did I think

593
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 2: is blah blah blah. And if I know them, if

594
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 2: they have you know, good intentions, if it's said in

595
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 2: a certain way, There's there's an energy you can feel

596
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 2: from people who want to see you do better. There's

597
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 2: also an energy you can feel from people that just

598
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: want to talk shit. You know, people that people that

599
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 2: are just trying to make you feel down, people that

600
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 2: want you to feel bad, or people that just honestly,

601
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 2: in this case and in many cases, just want to

602
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: get your attention.

603
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes.

604
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 2: Like they feel like they won because they got your attention.

605
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 2: You were doing fine, you got maybe you guys know

606
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 2: your work, you do you do your job, you know,

607
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 2: you have no problems. Or there becomes this one person

608
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 2: who's like, I'm gonna do this thing until you have

609
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 2: to stop what you're doing and give me attention like

610
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 2: a fucking child. And that's when I will be It's

611
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: not gonna be this conversation where I'll go, I'm satisfied.

612
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 2: This will never happen again. It's that moment where they go,

613
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 2: that little smugness inside of them. It's like, huh, I

614
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 2: got you to stop thinking about whatever you are doing

615
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: and focus on me for a second.

616
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: I want because that's all I wanted. You know, I

617
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: didn't get any money.

618
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: I didn't get any I don't get an extra life

619
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 2: in a video game. I don't get nothing from this

620
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 2: but your attention. And we all know these people, but

621
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 2: people online can make a living being these people.

622
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 3: Yes they can.

623
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 4: And the whole goal is to get you to respond,

624
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 4: and this human nature to want to respond, this human

625
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 4: nature want to want to defend yourself, particularly if you

626
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 4: have a fighting spirit, like if you're the type of

627
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 4: person and you're like, oh, I'm not here for the bullshit,

628
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 4: or if you're the type of person that you want

629
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 4: the truth to be told, or if you have the

630
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 4: type of personality where you want to be heard, people

631
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 4: like that will drive you fucking insane because you go,

632
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 4: this is irrational and this is illogical. But you also

633
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 4: have to decipher for what's worth your time and your energy,

634
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 4: because your time and energy is very, very very precious,

635
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 4: and we have a.

636
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 3: Limited amount of both.

637
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 4: So I've learned over the years, and and for me,

638
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 4: I'm quick to be like, Okay, fuck them and move

639
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 4: on and won't think twice and go on and be

640
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 4: like because I've said this and I will continue to

641
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 4: say this, I've never seen the one person fight ever.

642
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 3: A one person fight, you look fucking ridiculous. You look

643
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 3: ridiculous over there.

644
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 4: Shouting and screaming and hollering by yourself, because it takes

645
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 4: two people for it to be a confrontation. It takes

646
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 4: two people, and if I opt out, it's not a confrontation.

647
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: Well that just shows the kind of fights you've been in.

648
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 2: I've been in physical fights, so one side of fight

649
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 2: is normally a beating.

650
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm just coming from my life.

651
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 4: That's why why don't physical confrontations right, that's why a

652
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 4: lot of times you keep it pushing the fuck is this?

653
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, It's okay? Do you think? Oh?

654
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 2: But that's that's why. I think, that's why I have

655
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 2: the fight and spirit of me. You know, I grew up.

656
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 2: I got in a lot of fights. I didn't win

657
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 2: every fight or anything like that, but physical violence was

658
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 2: just part of the place, you know, part of growing

659
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 2: up in our neighborhood, at least for the.

660
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 1: Boys, you know, and so I would.

661
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: So I think it took me a long time to

662
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 2: learn the skill that you already have, which is essentially

663
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 2: you know.

664
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 1: Plus is, once you're an adult and people ain't gonna put.

665
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 2: Their hands on you, you really don't have to participate

666
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 2: in that back and forth. And that took me a

667
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 2: long time to learn because I was very much mister

668
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 2: who want to smoke. I'll find the time, you know,

669
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 2: you talking shit about me, let me set the record

670
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 2: straight type of shit. And you know, probably and it's honestly,

671
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 2: within the last few years made my life peaceful, you know,

672
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: and then we'll we'll there's certain things that you know,

673
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I still keep a clip in the in

674
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 2: the chamber, I still keep a clip you know what

675
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: I'm saying and inserted just in case. But but honestly,

676
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: a lot of times, h it really took talking to people,

677
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: you you know, justin even which is surprising, I'm sure

678
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 2: the people that listen to the show, But it took

679
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 2: me talking to people I trust, Nick ju Like, there's

680
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 2: a few people, you know, Chris, there's a few people

681
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 2: that I go to where I'm like, Yo, this thing

682
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 2: is happening right now.

683
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: But I see, I'm like, what do you think about this?

684
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 2: Because you know, my mentality, first and foremost is pretty

685
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 2: much to blank on people and be like like like

686
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 2: fuck you, I'm gonna set the record store, You're not

687
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 2: gonna talk shit about me.

688
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

689
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 2: And you know, it really took not doing it to

690
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 2: see the benefits of it, you know, because, like she said,

691
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: Fran had this entire cinematic like happening in her head

692
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 2: of just like I'm gonna show up. I'm gonna point

693
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 2: him in the right direction. I'm gonna let him know

694
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 2: what he had me fucked up. He's gonna understand there's

695
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 2: no logical way he could be right in this situation.

696
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: He's gonna back off and leave me the fuck alone,

697
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 2: and I will go on happily.

698
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: Ever after having told.

699
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 2: Him, you know, yes you fucked up, Yes you better

700
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 2: admit it. Okay, you apologize, we're straight, but we'll never

701
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,280
Speaker 2: be cool. Just letting you know. Now going about your business,

702
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 2: keep my name out of your mouth. That's how it

703
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 2: was in her mind, and I used to do that too,

704
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: Like in my brain it was they will understand, they

705
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: will see how fucked up they had me, realized they

706
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:27,399
Speaker 2: had the wrong one.

707
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: Blahlah blah. And that's just not how it goes.

708
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 2: Because that type of person that pursues someone, that harasses,

709
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:39,720
Speaker 2: someone that trolls somebody, they don't have that in them

710
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 2: to have integrity like that. They wouldn't have been trolling

711
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,399
Speaker 2: you in the first place if they had a level

712
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,919
Speaker 2: of integrity that allowed them to be like rational when

713
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,760
Speaker 2: it came to you. So that was a big lesson

714
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 2: I had to learn too.

715
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 4: And also, I think when you talk about the difference,

716
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 4: also I think with me being a girl, knowing that

717
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 4: I'm not a physically strong person, knowing that if I

718
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 4: enter this confrontation it's a high chance to get my

719
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 4: ass whooped.

720
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:06,280
Speaker 3: I'm not a fighter.

721
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 4: I don't know how to fight, Like, I know this

722
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 4: about me, and so because I know this about me,

723
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 4: going forward, I don't come in with the illusion that

724
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 4: I'm going to win. So I'm like, what can I

725
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 4: do to de escalate this to get to the point

726
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 4: that it doesn't get there? And so for me, that's

727
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 4: kind of where I've always.

728
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: I can see that.

729
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 2: I think the thing is there's a lot of women

730
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 2: who fight too, That's true. It's a lot of women

731
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 2: fighters like and I think to some for a lot

732
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 2: of women, it's exacerbated by the Internet because there isn't

733
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 2: normally a chance that we're gonna physically see each other.

734
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 2: So I can say some mean fucked up shit to

735
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 2: you the same way that everyone's in voting. By the internet,

736
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 2: at times, I can say something completely fucked up to

737
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: you and never have to worry about being in your

738
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 2: space for this to have repercussions.

739
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: So I think it's just your personality type. I don't know.

740
00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 2: I don't necessarily think I think, yeah, Like, I don't

741
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 2: necessarily think it's just about being a woman or not,

742
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 2: because like I said, it's women that top eighty we

743
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 2: all know them where it's just like this motherfucker is

744
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 2: gonna get an ass with it one day, because every day

745
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 2: you look up, like, what the fuck is wrong with

746
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: this person? And it's you know, it's not just men.

747
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 2: You know, men already got a bunch of fuck though

748
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 2: shit happened anyway, But yeah, so it was. But yeah, man,

749
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 2: I it took me a while to learn that lesson.

750
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 2: You know, I used to really think I could like

751
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 2: set the story straight with people that you know, obviously

752
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 2: weren't gonna give me a fair shot to set the

753
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 2: story straight. So why am I even engaging them? And

754
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 2: it extends to the five star review, you know, the

755
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 2: thing that I do. I was like, yo, no more,

756
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 2: you can leave us a five star review and say

757
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: something fucked up about us and we'll just laugh at all. No,

758
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 2: no more, like leave us a five star review and

759
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,720
Speaker 2: be nice about it, or just don't leave one, because

760
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 2: we we every time we read something negative, every time

761
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 2: we let someone call up here or say something like

762
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 2: where it's about something we can even help, like I

763
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 2: don't like your voice or something, All I'm doing is

764
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 2: emboding the next person.

765
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 1: All I'm doing is validating your choice.

766
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 2: All I'm doing is rewarding you. Yeah, I'm just helping

767
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 2: you to stick around, and at the end of the day,

768
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 2: I don't need to be rewarding that, you know. I

769
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 2: see too many people out here that we were taught

770
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 2: very fucked up when we were kids, in my opinion,

771
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 2: but we were kind of taught this thing of all

772
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 2: criticism is good in some kind of way, and it's

773
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 2: a very bad thing to teach kids, because kids, you're

774
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 2: trying to develop their confidence in the first fucking place,

775
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 2: and then to tell somebody that no matter how extreme,

776
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 2: no matter how fucked up something is, no matter, we

777
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 2: have to give some credence to all criticism. I have

778
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 2: a voice inside of my head that already on my

779
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,720
Speaker 2: head all the time. I don't need to add another

780
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 2: course line to the shit. I'm good, Okay, Me and

781
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 2: this motherfucker trying to work it out ourselves. Like the

782
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: last thing I need is some other motherfuckers in here

783
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 2: saying irrational, unreasonable things to me in a harsh way.

784
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 2: And I think we, you know, people need to understand

785
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 2: that it's you know, it's one of the reasons that

786
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 2: I'm so quote unquote easy on celebrities and singers and

787
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 2: all that shit is because I think most of the

788
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 2: ship that people level at them is irrational.

789
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 1: It's not actually it's not any Yes.

790
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 4: It's illogical and it's irrational. Now, some of it is valid,

791
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 4: don't get me wrong, but a high percentage. Once you

792
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 4: get past what's valid, you get into the irrational.

793
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you get this nigga ate cake for breakfast.

794
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 2: But and then everyone feels they got to have an

795
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 2: opinion on it and they can say.

796
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: It however they want.

797
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 2: The other thing too, man, is as black people, we

798
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 2: don't normally get the benefit of people.

799
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: Having to talk to us nice. Oh we don't know,

800
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 1: and so this is a platform we can say that.

801
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: That's what the fuck is.

802
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 2: Gonna be, you know, and if you and if it's

803
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 2: not that, then we don't want to talk to you.

804
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 2: That's it, because we don't. We're not going around talking

805
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 2: bad or mean about your ass. So how about you

806
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 2: have some consideration and approach us in a way that

807
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 2: you would like to be approached, you know, I think

808
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 2: that's a major thing. You know, it's it's it's like

809
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,879
Speaker 2: we have certain norms in society that if you think

810
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 2: about it, they don't actually make sense. Like a college

811
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,720
Speaker 2: coach being able to grab a young black kid by

812
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: the jersey and yelling his face right, that's a norm

813
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 2: though you're shaking your head, But that's very normalized.

814
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 3: It is yeah, but like yeah, but but but but that.

815
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 2: But if that same kid came to the press conference

816
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 2: after the game and said, I'm transferring schools because you

817
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 2: need to talk to me nice, people would be more

818
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 2: outraged at that than the coach grabbing him. You see

819
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Because that's we normalize that shit, so,

820
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 2: especially as black people, we end up having to take the.

821
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 1: Ship into the stick too often.

822
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,240
Speaker 2: All these people dying from COVID nineteen, black people start dying,

823
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 2: and then it's now we need to start talking about

824
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: That's not what I was gonna say. Now we need

825
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,720
Speaker 2: to start talking about personal respons psibility. Why are you smoking?

826
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 2: Why are you drinking? Why are you fat? Everybody else

827
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 2: been dying with pre existing conditions, All this shit every

828
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: all over the globe. It got to us Van Jones

829
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 2: writing a piece about why we need to take her

830
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 2: personal responsibility for our health. Jerome Adams, a surgeon general

831
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 2: who never brought this shit up before. Now you want

832
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: to talk to do it for your pop pop, don't

833
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 2: smoke you know that kind of shit. So to me,

834
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 2: it's like, you know, and I noticed a tangent off

835
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 2: of what friend was doing. But to me, friends even

836
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 2: the impost for friend to want to confront the person

837
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 2: and talk to him. And obviously she learned a lesson

838
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 2: through this, like no, don't do this again. But even

839
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: at imposts, a lot of that is us, A lot

840
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 2: of that is blackness, A lot of that is you know,

841
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 2: because she also modeled that confrontation off of Lindy West,

842
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 2: who's a white woman who she's a body positivetivity person

843
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,439
Speaker 2: and she's, you know, like I'm you know, I'm living

844
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 2: my fat life out loud or whatever type of person.

845
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,919
Speaker 2: And she had a troll and she met this troll

846
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 2: and they had like a conversation and it went so

847
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: great they the guy understood and took it back and

848
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: realized he was the one fucked up and all the shit.

849
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 2: And I was thinking to myself, even that is some

850
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:15,359
Speaker 2: shit afforded to white people, Like we don't even get that,

851
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 2: so fuck them, you know what I mean, like like

852
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 2: let the shit, don't don't worry about it, and and

853
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 2: I mean don't just go for white people.

854
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: I mean as black creatives.

855
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 2: We should make a carve out a little bit of

856
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 2: space for our shit and be like, no, approach us

857
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 2: with some respect and then we can talk right.

858
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 3: Approach us with care.

859
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 4: And it's one of those things too to where and

860
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 4: like you say, this is just part of my personality,

861
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 4: I think, because like you say, my personality is not

862
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 4: to get into conversation in the first place, because.

863
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 3: I know how I am.

864
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 4: If you do bother me enough where I feel like

865
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 4: I do need to look in your direction, it's not

866
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 4: gonna be pretty for nobody involved. That's all I got

867
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 4: to say, because I have a lot of patience when

868
00:41:58,960 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 4: it comes to that shit.

869
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 3: So I'm like, okay, I've ignored you. I've ignored you.

870
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 4: If I have to stop what I'm doing in glanced

871
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 4: at you and look up at you.

872
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 3: I'm coming with everything. And I know me.

873
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 4: I could be petty, I could be I can harass

874
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 4: the hell out of you. Like I know that about

875
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 4: my personality and I know me, So I'm like, you

876
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 4: know what, before we both out here looking like foods,

877
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna ignore you.

878
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think I've never seen you due

879
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 2: be like that towards somebody, But I think you just

880
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 2: also live in existence that most people just leave either

881
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 2: leave you alone or you know, you you just have

882
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 2: a very you have a very thick wall around you

883
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 2: that just you're like, I'm just not gonna I'm just

884
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 2: not gonna even.

885
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: Participate in this.

886
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 2: Like it's just stuff that would have triggered me, stuff

887
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 2: that has triggered that has made me be like, you

888
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 2: will not be talking about my wife like this. You've

889
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 2: been able to just kind of be like, yeah, what

890
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 2: the fuck is wrong with this part anyway?

891
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: And move on. You know. It's a very healthy thing

892
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: to be able to do.

893
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 2: You know, And like I said, I've modeled after you

894
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 2: in a lot of these ways because I've been like, yeah,

895
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 2: I should be able to like move on a lot

896
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 2: faster and a lot you know, like with a lot

897
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 2: more of my self intact. Because what it made, what

898
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 2: I realized too is you know, we talked about this

899
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 2: a long long time ago on the show, but it

900
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: was like at that time I was looking at lipstick

901
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 2: alle comments on our show and I was like, Jesus,

902
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 2: people fucking hate the show, and I was like, wait

903
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 2: a minute, that's my insecurity to even see that, to

904
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 2: even want to see that, you know what I mean?

905
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 2: That's that means I have some insecurity inside about who

906
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 2: I am and what I do. If I want to

907
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 2: go somewhere where I know the comments are going to

908
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 2: be negative, just so I can like read that shit,

909
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And so if I know

910
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 2: that this is a place that they don't really like anything,

911
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 2: why the.

912
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: Fuck am ILL over there hanging out?

913
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 2: You know, like there's a bunch of other shows that

914
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 2: you know, do better than us, bigger numbers than us,

915
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 2: more successful than us, and they hate that shit too,

916
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 2: So like what did I expect they were like our shit? No,

917
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 2: that means I was emotionally cutting. I went there to

918
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 2: cut myself emotionally and it's not you know, it's not

919
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 2: fair to myself to do that. And if I and I,

920
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,399
Speaker 2: you know, I never went back because it was like, nah,

921
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 2: I love myself, I love.

922
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 1: What we do. I'm sure what we do is good.

923
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 2: I have the best of my intentions, the best you know,

924
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 2: the best hopes whenever we take this mic and you know,

925
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 2: people fuck with it. So like what else do I

926
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: need to validate me? Okay, other than five star reviews?

927
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 2: Y'all keep sending those in.

928
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 4: But other than that, yes, y'all keep sending those in.

929
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 4: But I'm gonna say this that we can move on. Also,

930
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 4: I think too, when you are a person, and this

931
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 4: is part of my personality too, particularly being a woman,

932
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 4: when you have to take a lot, have to take

933
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 4: a lot of comments from bosses, manager, supervisors, comments from

934
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 4: men where you this is, like I said, my personal

935
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 4: but you just have to take a lot. Eventually you'll

936
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,240
Speaker 4: just be like, Okay, it ain't a big deal. It's sad,

937
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 4: but sometimes it's that thing that kind of helps you

938
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 4: navigate life where everything don't trigger you.

939
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:08,399
Speaker 3: Like you be like okay and like the fuck that means.

940
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 4: And you just do do do do do It. Don't

941
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 4: mean that you don't see it. It don't mean that

942
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 4: you're not acknowledging it, because you see it and you

943
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 4: acknowledge it. But I can't stay here with you, And

944
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 4: that's my thing. I can't stay here in this spot

945
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 4: with you forever.

946
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 3: If you want to stay here, you have the option

947
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 3: to stay in here.

948
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 4: I have the option of glancing and continuing to move

949
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 4: on with my life.

950
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:32,919
Speaker 3: I have other ship to do.

951
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's you're like I said, I modeled

952
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 2: after you because you're so good at it, like, and

953
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 2: I think also it's because of how you was raised.

954
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 2: Like I know you keep saying this because I'm a

955
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 2: woman and stuff, But like I said, I know women.

956
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,359
Speaker 2: There's a lot of women that do not operate this way.

957
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 3: No, they don't like.

958
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 1: Trying to start to smoke everything on you.

959
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 3: You talk to them crazy.

960
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 2: I think it's just you have a natural disposition of

961
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 2: being able to let the ship like either roll off

962
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 2: your back or at least to know not to participate

963
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 2: in it because you can't win. So right, you just

964
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 2: like I said, it took a long time for me

965
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 2: to understand it, but you, I mean I learned it

966
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 2: from you essentially, because I mean it was just a

967
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 2: couple of years ago. I was like, I'm gonna do

968
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 2: blank on our show and you was like, don't do

969
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 2: that or whatever, and I was like, I don't see

970
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 2: the wisdom in not doing this.

971
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:27,760
Speaker 1: Lets burn the fuck out of all these motherfuckers. I'm mad,

972
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 1: and I was trying my best.

973
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 3: Y'all, y'all just don't know.

974
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 2: Every day couple, yeah, every day we talked about that ship.

975
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 3: I was like, but rh but but right.

976
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,799
Speaker 2: I was like I was like, I don't care like

977
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 2: you know, but I but that's the thing when you're angry.

978
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 2: When I'm angry, I can pretty much justify anything, which

979
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 2: is why I try not to be angry. Because you know,

980
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 2: one schooler heads prevailed about it, I was like, you

981
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 2: know what, that's the absolute right thing, Like, fuck them,

982
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 2: what's the point, Let's move on.

983
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 3: And also for me and I.

984
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 4: All have a very positive and happy personality, and that's

985
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 4: where I always want to stay. And don't mean things

986
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 4: don't bother me. It don't mean things don't get to me.

987
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 4: But my thing is that you can always smile in

988
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 4: the midst of any situation. Easier said than done at

989
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 4: all times, because you know, we are emotional creatures. But

990
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 4: my thing is that, regardless of internally what I'm dealing with,

991
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 4: I still try to find the positives in everything, even

992
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 4: if it's something positive. As I learned not to do

993
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 4: that shit no more, that's a positive thing. Even if

994
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 4: I learned, you know, I might need to handle it better,

995
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 4: that's a positive thing. Like it is always something positive

996
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 4: to learn out of every situation. But it's not human

997
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 4: nature to go through something and pull out the positives I.

998
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 3: Went through this and everything about it was negative.

999
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 4: But at the end, if you're a better person, you

1000
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 4: have better critical thinking skills, if you learn how to

1001
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,439
Speaker 4: love more, if you learn how to be a better

1002
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 4: human being, and there are some positive things. And I

1003
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 4: think because of that, a lot of shit just rolls

1004
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 4: off because oh, that's gonna fuck with my positivity.

1005
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 3: I'm good.

1006
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 1: Well, I think, I mean that's kind of true. But

1007
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: then also I think a lot of times you come

1008
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: to me with the negative stuff, so I do to

1009
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: you now.

1010
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's not just rolling off completely just unbothered, like,

1011
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 2: but you just you just don't you don't show out

1012
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 2: for the world. And you know, that's you know, like

1013
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 2: I said, that's a that's a huge that's such a

1014
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 2: smart thing to do. It's you know, I was thinking

1015
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,760
Speaker 2: about this today, like I was listening to this podcast

1016
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 2: on the Grillo yesterday actually, and it's called Dear Culture.

1017
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 2: I think they just started. It's like four episodes in

1018
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 2: or something. I don't maybe it's been.

1019
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 1: On for a while now. Anyway, it's really good. I

1020
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 1: really like it. And they had a.

1021
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 2: They had an episode about Black as Fuck, the TV

1022
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 2: show by Kenya Barris and it was really good. And

1023
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 2: they had one of the people on the show that

1024
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 2: he like hated it or whatever. He had made this

1025
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 2: whole Facebook post and gone viral how much he hated it,

1026
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 2: and so they had him on to interview him. But

1027
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:10,240
Speaker 2: then they also interviewed Keny barrass and they also interviewed

1028
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 2: movie like TV critics and all these people too, and

1029
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 2: it was like a pretty in my opinion, it's a

1030
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 2: pretty fair discussion of the show and some of the

1031
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 2: controversy surrounding the show and all of that stuff.

1032
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 1: But the thing that really hit home for me was

1033
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: some people.

1034
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 2: Because they made a point to be like, this person

1035
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 2: that hates this show has like a media company that

1036
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 2: they're you know, they're enterprising, they want to be in

1037
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 2: that industry of some type, you know that whatever, Hollywood

1038
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 2: or whatever, some.

1039
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 1: Type of entertainment. And I thought to myself after the show,

1040
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 1: I was like, man, it's kind of interesting one.

1041
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 2: How much and how often, And like I said, I

1042
00:49:57,920 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 2: had to stop giving people the benefit of doubt or this,

1043
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 2: but how often someone's critiques of people that are way

1044
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 2: ahead of them in the same industry. To me, it's like,

1045
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 2: how often does that feel by some level of jealousy

1046
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 2: m H A lot. You know, it's like if you

1047
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 2: look at.

1048
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 3: What they're saying in their actions.

1049
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 1: Sometimes yes, it doesn't mean they're totally wrong, doesn't mean

1050
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: that criticisms are not valid, but a lot of times

1051
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 1: they have made this out to be the worst thing

1052
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: in the world when they sell it to everybody else,

1053
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: it's like, this is a problem that needs to be stopped.

1054
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: And it's like this person's ahead of you on the track,

1055
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 1: and if somehow the world would decide that they don't

1056
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: fuck with this person, you feel like you would be

1057
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 1: one step closer to where you want to be. And

1058
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 1: that goes with a lot of shit, like I just

1059
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 1: you just see it in every industry.

1060
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 3: You know.

1061
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 2: That's one of the reasons I stopped talking about like

1062
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 2: radio shows and TV shows and shit that you know,

1063
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 2: if like they might be bigger than us, and I

1064
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 2: may disagree with something, but I don't want to turn

1065
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 2: our show into the recap show of what we disagree

1066
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 2: about on their show, shit, right.

1067
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: Because I feel like I feel like that's what I

1068
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: used to do too much.

1069
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 2: So then the other part of it that that I

1070
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 2: thought about is, Okay, say you do want to be

1071
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 2: in that industry, and you know, Kenya Barris is a

1072
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 2: mover and a shaker in that industry.

1073
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 1: You've burning a bridge that don't even exist.

1074
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:20,399
Speaker 2: Yet, you know, because there has to be a way

1075
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:24,320
Speaker 2: to critique this person or to say, you know, this

1076
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 2: is an area I feel like they could improve it

1077
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 2: or could have done something differently without completely being like

1078
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 2: and this person is essentially, you know, the worst, and

1079
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 2: all their work is the worst, And I don't understand

1080
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 2: this person because you know, I was thinking about that

1081
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 2: when I was listening. I was like, you've burned a

1082
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 2: bridge that don't even exist, and won't you know, may

1083
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 2: never exist because people got smaller ears than you think.

1084
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: DoD Like, we've had people that like I heard the

1085
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: show and.

1086
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck you a celebrity, You're not

1087
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: Sonna be listening to shit, you know, Like it's one

1088
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 2: of the reasons I changed, you know, I really was

1089
00:51:58,000 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 2: more mindful of how we talk on the show because

1090
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, yeah, people can hear this.

1091
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you never know who and who's listening on the staff.

1092
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: Every podcast goes through this. By the way, all your

1093
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 2: favorite enough listen to all of all of your podcasts

1094
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 2: that talk culture, listen to when they start out, and listen.

1095
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 1: To how they end up.

1096
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 3: Now, right, it ain't the same when they start out.

1097
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 2: Everybody talks regulars because these are not This is not people,

1098
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 2: This is not a conversation we're really having. Yet you

1099
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 2: don't really understand it at the moment. You just think like, yeah,

1100
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 2: I'm you know, I'm talking about this thing and I

1101
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 2: like talking about or whatever, and then later you're like,

1102
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 2: wait a fucking minute, it's real.

1103
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can slowly see the shift.

1104
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 4: I've seen it on several podcasts like as They got

1105
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:40,959
Speaker 4: Bigger and all that stuff. I've just seen the shift,

1106
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 4: which is not a bad thing a lot of times,

1107
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 4: it's a good thing.

1108
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 2: Meeting the meaning Fronte for me was a big one,

1109
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 2: you know cause I mean I didn't feel like I

1110
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 2: said anything too mean when we talked to Chris la

1111
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:54,839
Speaker 2: With about charity starts at home. But like it never

1112
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 2: would have crossed my mind at Fonte would have listened

1113
00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 2: to that ship. And then it's triperly never would have

1114
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 2: crossed my mind the one day I will get to

1115
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 2: meet this nigga and I'm a huge fan of him,

1116
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 2: so I you know, the last thing I want him thinking,

1117
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 2: is the one album I wasn't fucking with means like

1118
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 2: he ain't shit, you know, but you know, to him,

1119
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 2: he may have taken it that way, and I think

1120
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 2: that's a real that's some real shit, and you can

1121
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 2: only learn that from experience. So anyway, I think I

1122
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 2: think that's you know, that's a major part of it.

1123
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 2: And that's what I thought when I listen to that shit,

1124
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,959
Speaker 2: was like, man like, if you're ever in the room

1125
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 2: and there's you know, you gotta pitch a project to somebody,

1126
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 2: you gotta whatever. Who wants this motherfucker out here existing

1127
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 2: in the world with that's a gatekeeper has all this

1128
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 2: money and power that can just be like nah, not him,

1129
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 2: fuck him.

1130
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you won't even know why, You'll never know.

1131
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 4: You won't even know that their hands are in it,

1132
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 4: because that's the thing.

1133
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 3: You never know who's doing what.

1134
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: And let's keep it real.

1135
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 2: You're not big enough to not do that yourself, Like

1136
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:57,919
Speaker 2: if you like, how many people do you talk shit

1137
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 2: about and can't forgive and can't move past, and if

1138
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 2: you had an opportunity to shut that shit down, you

1139
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 2: would do it?

1140
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: That I wonder, I just think about that shit sometimes,

1141
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 1: like you should never.

1142
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 2: Not be untruthful, but there's a way of delivering the

1143
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 2: truth that doesn't like it might not get all the retweets.

1144
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 2: Know your post won't go viral, Know everybody won't high

1145
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 2: five you, but you know it's something to The delivery

1146
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 2: method is something as well.

1147
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can tell anybody anything as long as you

1148
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 4: do it in the right way. And people don't want

1149
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 4: to hear the right way. They want to hear what

1150
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 4: I said, what I said, Okay, Well I also had

1151
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 4: a respond I also can respond to what you said

1152
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 4: in the manner that you delivered it, and then it

1153
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:39,720
Speaker 4: becomes a problem.

1154
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you speaking the truth though, right, Like, I just.

1155
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:42,840
Speaker 1: Feel like.

1156
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 2: The delivery method says more about meeting it says about

1157
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:48,839
Speaker 2: the person I'm talking about.

1158
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:51,280
Speaker 1: Correct, There's like a certain level.

1159
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:54,439
Speaker 2: Of authenticity and realness that comes across when you listen

1160
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 2: to somebody say hey, you know, like like I wasn't

1161
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 2: a big fan of Queen of Slim. There's a difference

1162
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 2: between me saying that and me being like, lean away

1163
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 2: this trash, right, you know, Like I think there's I

1164
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:08,879
Speaker 2: think there's a difference between me, you know what I'm

1165
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 2: saying like I didn't.

1166
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:11,959
Speaker 1: I didn't like some of the choices in the movie,

1167
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: but I did like this, this, and this about the movie.

1168
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 1: You know. So anyway, that was it. That was a

1169
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: long one. Yeah, Butterfly in the Sky, I could go twice.

1170
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 1: It's high. Take up. Look, is it not a book

1171
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: A reading Rainbow? I can go anywhere, Princeton, no ways

1172
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 1: to grow reading Rainbow. I can be anything. Take up.

1173
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: Look if not a.

1174
00:55:53,280 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 3: Book reading Rainbow, Reading Rainbow. I think we got a

1175
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 3: question the chat.

1176
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I see it. Speaking of I remember this is

1177
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 1: from Nizzle D. Speaking of Nizzle D.

1178
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 2: Okay, speaking of I remember years ago some guy was

1179
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 2: harassing the show and attacking Karen. You had some fiery

1180
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 2: words for the man. If I remember correct, he lost

1181
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 2: his job over it. Did he ever contact you guys?

1182
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: Again? No, he didn't.

1183
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 2: Well, he apologized, but I don't know if he had

1184
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 2: fiery words for Karen or not. I can't remember how

1185
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 2: it went. The Oh you talking about Critter Getter. It's

1186
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:34,880
Speaker 2: been more than one, it's been multiple.

1187
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be that.

1188
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 2: If it's that Critter Getter, dude, then he didn't. I

1189
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,840
Speaker 2: don't think he lost his job, but his people, his

1190
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:44,320
Speaker 2: boss or whatever wrote back saying he wouldn't do it again,

1191
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 2: and he apologized and all that shit, and you know,

1192
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 2: I just ignored the apology or whatever.

1193
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: It's.

1194
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:52,760
Speaker 2: You know, it's my whole point is leave us alone.

1195
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:56,760
Speaker 2: I'm not necessarily a come say it to my face.

1196
00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:58,280
Speaker 2: You know, leave us the funk alone.

1197
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: We just create. We want to be in a good vibe.

1198
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 1: That's it. Another one was that Luky Dog Luky in

1199
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: the Morning thing.

1200
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 2: And when I got done with him, not only had

1201
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 2: he like apologized or whatever, but he uh was like

1202
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 2: like he gave a very thorough fucking apology, I'll put

1203
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 2: it that way.

1204
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,920
Speaker 1: Like his shit was like I'm sorry. I don't know

1205
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: what I was thinking.

1206
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 2: Because he also had a job where he worked with

1207
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 2: kids in like the Baltimore area or DC area or something,

1208
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 2: and he was like a music person in these kids

1209
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 2: and there's a lot of black kids. And I was like, Bro,

1210
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 2: you can't be joking like this, like I'm sorry that.

1211
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 2: You know, you need to get some steam off of shit.

1212
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 2: Freedom speech or whatever. You don't get to like I've

1213
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 2: probably saved you. Let one of these people parents find

1214
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 2: out you're doing this shit, and you do this job.

1215
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 2: But he gave a very sincere, thorough apology, like who

1216
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: knows if he meant it or not, because I didn't

1217
00:57:58,080 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 2: keep up with the rest of his life.

1218
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 1: He's gone on to do whatever he does. But yeah, man,

1219
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: that you know.

1220
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 2: And then I also remember too. What was funny is

1221
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 2: after the the it was either Critic Getter or that

1222
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 2: Luke Dog dude. There were some dudes that were quote

1223
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 2: unquote friends of the show that all of a sudden

1224
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 2: they started talking about us. And at the time I

1225
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 2: didn't really understand because it's like our first time really

1226
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 2: going through a lot of shit. But now I do

1227
00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 2: understand by me getting mad at that Luke Dog shit

1228
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 2: putting it on the show, like really fucking going at him.

1229
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 1: Those people who seemed to be cool with.

1230
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 2: The show, but apparently either they really weren't cool with

1231
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 2: us or they really just wanted to like burn the bridge.

1232
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: I can't remember the names. This is how that's gonna

1233
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 1: kill me. I fuck anyway, Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1234
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 2: They had a podcast at the time, and we went

1235
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 2: on it like it was a I thought we had

1236
00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 2: a good time, and they fucking started talking about us too.

1237
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 2: And now I look back and I'm like, oh, because

1238
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 2: I talked shit about this one person and they saw

1239
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 2: the attention that guess it's.

1240
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 4: A NonStop pattern. And that's the thing that people fail

1241
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 4: to realize.

1242
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 2: Right I was helping it, I was feeling it, and

1243
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 2: I remember at one point talking about the other dudes's podcast,

1244
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 2: I was like, go listen to them like they wanted, Like,

1245
00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 2: if you're just talking about us, to get some listens,

1246
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 2: I'll tell everyone, here's the name of your podcast.

1247
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,200
Speaker 1: God, I can't remember that. This is the name of

1248
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 1: your podcast.

1249
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 2: Go get I hope you get the most downloads ever,

1250
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:39,400
Speaker 2: because if you do, all that is is a testament

1251
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 2: to us being so fucking great at what we do

1252
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 2: that even talking shit about us elevates you somewhat. You'll

1253
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,160
Speaker 2: never be on our level, but it'll help you to

1254
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 2: get the attention that you must want. And what's gonna

1255
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 2: happen is that even those people who go there to

1256
00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 2: hear you talk shit about us will to be turned

1257
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 2: off and be bored, and you'll be right back to

1258
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 2: zero listens or whatever it is. And give it a

1259
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 2: couple of weeks and it'll be right back down to

1260
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 2: people being like, I actually don't these motherfuckers aren't good

1261
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 2: at this podcast.

1262
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 1: I don't like them, so yeah, man, So.

1263
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 4: Well, anyway, we're talking from from experience, you know. And

1264
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 4: it's because I listen to so many podcasts. You can

1265
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 4: hear podcasts go through this and it's just I just

1266
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:25,439
Speaker 4: sit back and just let them go for the ride.

1267
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 4: And a lot of them after a while they changed

1268
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 4: attitude and a lot of times they do the same

1269
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 4: thing we do because there's like, oh, this is some bullshit.

1270
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 3: I have other things that could be put my energy into.

1271
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've definitely had my virtual moments like friend, well,

1272
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 2: I thought maybe if I talk to this person or

1273
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 2: explain my side of this thing on our show, they'll understand.

1274
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 1: But not worth it.

1275
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 2: All right, let's get to the comments on the website

1276
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 2: that ROLLA. Part two was a medium talk that I

1277
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 2: just did with Whitney Robinson. She's an epidemiologist among other things,

1278
01:00:56,120 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 2: and we talked about the coronavirus from epidemiology, pandemic, epidemic

1279
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 2: point of view, m great episode just from Brooklyn shoe bad.

1280
01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:10,919
Speaker 2: Great episode, taking a slight detour. I appreciate hearing about

1281
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 2: a black woman in a science field. My daughter is

1282
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:15,040
Speaker 2: really get at math and science and wants a career

1283
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 2: that will combine the two. I didn't know epidemiologists is

1284
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 2: a career option. Representation matters. Thank you, doctor Whitney.

1285
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 1: It does.

1286
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, a couple of things. One, this is why I

1287
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 2: asked her about, like how did you even get in

1288
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 2: this field?

1289
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 1: And all that stuff? That was definitely part of it.

1290
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 1: But then.

1291
01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 2: Also, you know, you never know who's listening man, you know,

1292
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:39,240
Speaker 2: And and lastly, black people, ain't it funny? She was like,

1293
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 2: doctor Whitney, ain't that what we do? We look, we

1294
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 2: got we got love for you. We will say doctor

1295
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 2: in that first.

1296
01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:49,560
Speaker 1: Name in a hard beat.

1297
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 3: All we earned it.

1298
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope they understand. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, okay, no,

1299
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 2: that's not what I'm saying. You're supposed to say doctor

1300
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 2: their last name. Oh, it's not about earned. It's actually

1301
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 2: some Peo people even take it as overly familiar. But

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01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 2: what I'm saying is black people we do that, and

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: I love us. I love that we do that. It's like,

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01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 1: you know, your aunt introducer to her friend. Now, that's

1306
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: miss so and so. You know, it's just a black thing,

1307
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 1: at least down here, it is so to me. I

1308
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 1: love it, but I know some you know, the Oprahs

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01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 1: of the world.

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01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 2: You don't call me aunties sometimes they get mad about

1311
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 2: that shit and like call me by my last name.

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01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all better hope I don't get no letters in

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01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 4: no degrees. I'm doctor Karen, doctor Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Rego eighteen nineteen leaves a comment on our feedback episode,

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Speaker 2: which was twenty eighty eight. Her name is Karen, and

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01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 2: she's here to say. Rigo says yes. Karen is here

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01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 2: to say, I'm good on any MLK boulevard. Don't put

1318
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 2: yourself down because I'm here for those bars.

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01:02:54,440 --> 01:03:00,600
Speaker 1: Thank you. The poe was can you freestyle rap? Yes, yes,

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01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: but badly?

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01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:02,920
Speaker 4: And no.

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01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 1: Karen, Oh, yes but badly?

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01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 2: Sixteen percent of audiences with Karen yes but badly, seven

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01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 2: percent said yes, and then seventy six percent said no.

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01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:19,960
Speaker 2: And Lakita says, I can't freestyle, but I adore Karen's bravery.

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01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 2: Know you missed one hundred percent of the shot you

1327
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 2: don't take.

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01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I get out there, even if I look like

1329
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 3: a food I get out there.

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01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 2: And I'll say I can freestyle, but I would say

1331
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 2: I can freestyle just yes. And then it might be bad,

1332
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna put that on myself to start.

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01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying, So like, sometimes it is

1334
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:46,640
Speaker 1: probably bad and then sometimes it's actually good. It just

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01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 1: depends on on the day. You know.

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01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 3: Yes, we brought to Taboa, got some fans twenty eighty nine.

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01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 2: Blacks are human too. We got two comments, Evie says,

1338
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:00,040
Speaker 2: and this is when, Yeah, we talked about it. A

1339
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 2: bunch of white supremacy, coronavirus news.

1340
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 1: Bad baby even, he says.

1341
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:07,840
Speaker 2: Those two teams who made the racist TikTok videos the

1342
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 2: embodiment of life comes at you fast. The video was

1343
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 2: pretty fucking racist. But black Twitter says, I was on

1344
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 2: the case, weren't they. The girl in the video issues

1345
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 2: a fake apology I throwing her boyfriend under the bus

1346
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 2: and got expelled to her mission to college rescinded. And

1347
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 2: then she issued another statement saying everyone in the internet

1348
01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:25,560
Speaker 2: ruled her life. No, she ruined her own life, and

1349
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 2: I couldn't bring myself to feel a bit sorry for

1350
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 2: a lot of people make stupid mistakes, but teens today

1351
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:33,160
Speaker 2: have had the Internet long enough to know better. These

1352
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 2: two just thought that their followers would find it funny.

1353
01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 2: And nothing would happen. Fuck these kids and their parents

1354
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 2: who most definitely voted for Trump. Yeah, the only thing

1355
01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 2: I'll say is I saw some screenshots, and I wasn't

1356
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 2: sure if that was all from her account, Like the

1357
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 2: first one was from her account, but then the second

1358
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 2: one had a different user name, So I don't know

1359
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 2: if all those were things she said, or someone was

1360
01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 2: trolling us and made a fake like some fake other stuff,

1361
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 2: or if she made a new account, or like, I

1362
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 2: don't know the whole story. I just knew enough to

1363
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 2: know that, you know, that initial video was just stupid

1364
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 2: enough for me to be like, all right, well, whatever

1365
01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 2: happens to them, happens. Felix says, those French doctors bruh.

1366
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 2: Absolute insanity that people like that have such high positions.

1367
01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:23,680
Speaker 2: I knew that disgusting segment really did the rounds when

1368
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 2: I saw it pop up in my grandparents WhatsApp group.

1369
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 2: The visual reaction from me and basically every African on

1370
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 2: the internet, man so nice. Well, we can all put

1371
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 2: the dash forwards to the side and form votron to

1372
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 2: loudly make ourselves heard. I have so many older relatives

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01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:39,760
Speaker 2: and others with various medical conditions. Just the thought of

1374
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 2: them having to suffer through some neo colonial garbage like

1375
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 2: that was suggested makes me live it. Yeah, I can't

1376
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 2: believe they said that shit on National like.

1377
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 3: Just TV like like it wasn't nothing like ain't just

1378
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 3: the shit we always do.

1379
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 1: Maybe we should inject some Africans, you know, do some

1380
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:00,680
Speaker 1: tests like yo, Mama, like nobody can run off the

1381
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 1: side and with a hook like saying man from Apollo,

1382
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 1: get them out of here the pole. Do you wipe

1383
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: down the food and groceries when you get them home? Now?

1384
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:14,880
Speaker 1: Yes or no? Yes we do. But guess what, Karen,

1385
01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:18,680
Speaker 1: Only fifty of the people in our poll said yes,

1386
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 1: say no.

1387
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 2: Now we read that thing and said you pretty much

1388
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 2: can't get it that way, which is a great point.

1389
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 2: And you know you're they're not wrong. And I will

1390
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 2: admit I'm not a scientist, but I am paranoid.

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01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,919
Speaker 4: So we wipe down everything, We just wipe it down.

1392
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 4: I don't know what we've been outside toll Lord. Did

1393
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 4: you take your clothes off?

1394
01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 3: Did you wash your hands?

1395
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 2: I've been saying from day one where we talked coronavirus

1396
01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 2: on this show, I rather be.

1397
01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 3: Too cautious and then not caustious enough.

1398
01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:52,400
Speaker 1: That is not what I've been saying. That's what Karen

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01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:53,280
Speaker 1: apparently has been saying.

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01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 2: What I was gonna say, Karen is I've been saying

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01:06:56,880 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 2: from day one that I could be reading so much shit.

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01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 1: About coronavirus that I'm paranoid. I've been saying that even

1403
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 1: when I was like when we was at Hornets games,

1404
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, manop going.

1405
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 3: Last one or two games before the seed before it

1406
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 3: got canceled.

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01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember thinking that, And turns out my hunt

1408
01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 2: I should have listened to my gut, cause it was like,

1409
01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 2: you know, coronavirus been in America since you know, last

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01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 2: November or some shit.

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01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, so I maybe some of the things

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01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 1: I was reading was right.

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01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I remember one of the last games he

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01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:30,520
Speaker 4: went to, so I was coughing and I was looking like,

1415
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 4: you know what, I don't know about this?

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01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:36,439
Speaker 2: Right, could have been us. I'm just saying, I come home,

1417
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:42,960
Speaker 2: we wipe off everything, put everything up down, yeah, put

1418
01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 2: the fresh stuff in the containers, and then I even

1419
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 2: take my clothes off and either change clothes or take

1420
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 2: a shower. All that shit, and I you know, if

1421
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 2: it cairs with me. I'll be like, hey, change those clothes,

1422
01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 2: you know, make sure you do this wipe than your phone.

1423
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 1: Like I'm not playing man. Forgive me. It was just

1424
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 1: some final destination.

1425
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:07,080
Speaker 4: It was just trying to get men target.

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01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:08,240
Speaker 3: It was aggressive for me.

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01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, forgive me dog. It was just it was out here. Okay, understand.

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01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 1: But I was gonna say I read two new like

1429
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 1: peer I think they were peer reviewed.

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01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 2: Scientific experiment studies or summer analysis of two of the

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01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 2: places that is spread in China.

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01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:30,120
Speaker 1: One of them was a call center.

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01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 3: You know, and that would make sense that they proud

1434
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 3: in close quarters.

1435
01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:38,639
Speaker 2: And the other one was a restaurant, and they explained

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01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:41,880
Speaker 2: how it worked. And it seems that for the vast

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01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:44,960
Speaker 2: majority of people who are going to get this through

1438
01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:49,240
Speaker 2: community spread or even families fread whatever, it's because you're

1439
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:53,840
Speaker 2: less than six feet apart, and because people are sitting

1440
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 2: in a place for hours without a lot of circulating air,

1441
01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:03,080
Speaker 2: so workplaces, restaurants, sporting events, things like that are gonna

1442
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 2: be real like and.

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01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:06,599
Speaker 1: It was like down to like one meter.

1444
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:08,560
Speaker 2: So like if you said within a meter, which is

1445
01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:11,760
Speaker 2: about three feet of some of these people at the yard,

1446
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:13,639
Speaker 2: a meter maybe at six feet.

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01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 1: Matter of fact, let me look up meter the feet

1448
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 1: for that is not the conversion.

1449
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 2: Well, I'm sorry, I'm a dumbass American. Okay, I didn't

1450
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 2: ask for this.

1451
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 4: Somebody pushed their glasses up right now shift they pocket protected.

1452
01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 1: Didn't nobody ask for this?

1453
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 3: Ship I gotta agree in math rid, I know it's.

1454
01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 1: Somebody from like Australia, Britain, or they smarter than us.

1455
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:38,080
Speaker 1: That's fine, gonna use.

1456
01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:38,920
Speaker 3: The metric system.

1457
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 1: We learned feet and inches and stupid shit, Yes we did.

1458
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 1: Of course.

1459
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 2: I'd rather learn kilometers and fucking miles and things that

1460
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 2: can easily divisible by ten.

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01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:51,640
Speaker 1: Of course. Anyway, it's about three feet. Uh. But so

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01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: the people that mostly got the got the coronavirus.

1463
01:09:57,800 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 2: Were within three feet of the person that had it,

1464
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:03,639
Speaker 2: so it didn't seem to be this kind of thing

1465
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:07,960
Speaker 2: where you get it from. And they sat close to

1466
01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:11,160
Speaker 2: them for an extended period of time, so it wasn't

1467
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:15,719
Speaker 2: even like, you know, they just walked by and somehow

1468
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:18,080
Speaker 2: got a whiff of a motherfucking coronavirus. It was like

1469
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:20,679
Speaker 2: you you kind of have to be in an area

1470
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,840
Speaker 2: with a person for extended period of time, standing still

1471
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 2: and close.

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01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:29,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, and a lot of jobs, particularly cubicalus.

1473
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:31,360
Speaker 4: I suck to ya mama about this today, and I

1474
01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:34,479
Speaker 4: was saying a lot of jobs have have gotten really cheap.

1475
01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:37,720
Speaker 3: They don't want to buy and invest in cubicles. Cubicles

1476
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 3: used to.

1477
01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 4: Be tall, and they used to kind of box you

1478
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:42,760
Speaker 4: off where everybody was individual. But now everybody want to

1479
01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 4: get to this quote unquote open concept. And the fuck

1480
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 4: is the open concept? There's nothing but a germ disease

1481
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:50,040
Speaker 4: type of thing. Because one person gets sick, next thing,

1482
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:50,360
Speaker 4: you know it.

1483
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:53,040
Speaker 3: Don't wipe that that whole corner. It happens all the time.

1484
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 4: Either they don't have cubicles or either the cubicles are

1485
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:59,639
Speaker 4: really really low, which means somebody get a cold, somebody

1486
01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 4: gets y'all see it in the workplace. So yes, it's

1487
01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:05,760
Speaker 4: gonna be really hard to convince people unless they have

1488
01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 4: to to come back to work where everybody is literally two.

1489
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:10,679
Speaker 3: Feet from each other in these cubes.

1490
01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1491
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 2: So, and I think that helps with the paranoia too.

1492
01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 2: So yes, you can go sit out on your porch,

1493
01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:17,920
Speaker 2: Yes you can.

1494
01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:22,960
Speaker 1: You know, it sounds like even exercising, going for a walk,

1495
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 1: and shit is gonna be fine, you know it's gonna

1496
01:11:25,400 --> 01:11:27,880
Speaker 1: it seems like, at least from what I've read so far,

1497
01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 1: a lot of maybe it'll change, But a lot of

1498
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:34,560
Speaker 1: this stuff is about close contact, and sitting around for

1499
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:37,679
Speaker 1: a periods of extended periods of time doesn't mean which

1500
01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 1: means social distancing is the right thing, right, stay far

1501
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 1: away from people, mask up that kind of shit, you know,

1502
01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:47,720
Speaker 1: doesn't mean open restaurants and sit six feet from each

1503
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 1: other is gonna necessarily be a death sentence that way.

1504
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 1: They even because they even checked the air conditioning to

1505
01:11:53,560 --> 01:11:56,000
Speaker 1: be like, well, maybe it can spread via air conditioning,

1506
01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:59,360
Speaker 1: but they didn't even find any evidence that that was true.

1507
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:02,719
Speaker 1: They did say that like being around the air conditioner

1508
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 1: might have an effect because it does suck the air

1509
01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 1: produticles closer to that area of the restaurant or whatever.

1510
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 1: But they was like even still, the people that got

1511
01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 1: it was people sitting right next to them. Nobody else

1512
01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 1: in the restaurant got it, you know, yeah, and in

1513
01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:22,680
Speaker 1: the office nobody on like a person that had it on,

1514
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:26,479
Speaker 1: like like some people had it, but the most concentration

1515
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:28,559
Speaker 1: of people that had it was on the eleventh floor

1516
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 1: with this one person that they knew for sure was sick.

1517
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:35,639
Speaker 1: So even people like betting in the elevator and touching

1518
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 1: the same buttons, that that wasn't how people got it.

1519
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:40,080
Speaker 3: It was just like you said, a prolonged period of time.

1520
01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, so all right, the poe was Oh we already

1521
01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:45,559
Speaker 1: said with the pol is the comments.

1522
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:48,680
Speaker 2: Brittany says, I wipe everything down before I take it

1523
01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 2: in the house, groceries, bags, et cetera. I'm afraid to

1524
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:53,640
Speaker 2: bring the Jersey side to my kids. I also have

1525
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:56,639
Speaker 2: an underlying condition being a black woman. I know that's

1526
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 2: not a comment. My mother in law thinks I'm doing

1527
01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:01,280
Speaker 2: too much, but I'd rather too much then too little.

1528
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 1: Right, That's how I've justified it. Maybe I'll look crazy.

1529
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:07,400
Speaker 3: But if it get me, it was just meant to

1530
01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:07,760
Speaker 3: get me.

1531
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 1: Like, didn't let me look crazy, okay.

1532
01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 2: Brooklyn Shoema says, I wiped down cans, bottles and the counters.

1533
01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 1: I had the groceries on the refrigerator handles just to

1534
01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 1: be safe. Same, SI's same.

1535
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 2: Wipe it all down, okay, it down, shoulders, chest, pants,

1536
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:30,320
Speaker 2: shoes come out. Felix says, I try to wipe down

1537
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:34,880
Speaker 2: anything I know i'll be touching a lot so snack packaging, bottles, cans,

1538
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:37,840
Speaker 2: plastic covers for things like tissue and whites, just to

1539
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 2: be safe. Can't be too careful. Yeah, and I like,

1540
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 2: take my actually take my bottle or can soda. If

1541
01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be mixing it with a drink, I'll like,

1542
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 2: I just go ahead and open it up and pour

1543
01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 2: it into a cup.

1544
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 1: I don't fuck it. Like I've already wiped off some

1545
01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 1: I've already wiped them off with lights, al everything. I

1546
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:56,519
Speaker 1: still don't care.

1547
01:13:56,640 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 3: Nope, just the case one deside linger around like that.

1548
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 1: It might just be chilling.

1549
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 2: And man says, we have a set up in our

1550
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 2: garage a fold out table with Clox whites to wipe

1551
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:12,560
Speaker 2: everything down, extra plastic bags to throw away packaging and

1552
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:15,760
Speaker 2: any possible contaminated things. For food delivery, we set a

1553
01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 2: TV trade table outside our front door.

1554
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: That's smart. Yah, we should do that.

1555
01:14:21,160 --> 01:14:23,120
Speaker 3: We got one, we do, Yeah, we got one. That

1556
01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 3: way they know where the city.

1557
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1558
01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:27,200
Speaker 2: We ain't using it for nothing because I don't like

1559
01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 2: when they deliver the food to sit on the ground,

1560
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 2: because I'd be like, what if like an enterprise and

1561
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:33,320
Speaker 2: ass vironment runs up in there. I don't know what

1562
01:14:33,479 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 2: these animals is thinking.

1563
01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:36,479
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, that's what I do.

1564
01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:39,000
Speaker 3: It's dusty. I'll wipe it down and put it.

1565
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 2: I've been seeing a little too much stuff on Twitter

1566
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 2: with these animals getting too comfortable now that we're not

1567
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 2: out here.

1568
01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:47,040
Speaker 3: Come on, walk outside. Kyot is staying at you, no.

1569
01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:49,519
Speaker 2: Thank you, like I don't want to look outside. It's

1570
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:52,640
Speaker 2: just like a motherfucking squirrel is just eating my my

1571
01:14:52,800 --> 01:14:53,840
Speaker 2: dumplings like that.

1572
01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:56,920
Speaker 1: Ain't cool. We told you you could do that, right.

1573
01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 1: You know.

1574
01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 3: It's deer near here too.

1575
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:02,519
Speaker 1: Twenty ninety All.

1576
01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 2: On the Side was when we had our man Mike

1577
01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 2: Kenna asked him about eight to ten questions and Mom says, hey,

1578
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:12,920
Speaker 2: y'all don't really like Mike as a guest. Not sure

1579
01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 2: if you had him on before we have. I've been

1580
01:15:15,080 --> 01:15:16,800
Speaker 2: listening for a few years now, but maybe it's an

1581
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 2: episode I missed.

1582
01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:18,240
Speaker 1: It's been a while.

1583
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:21,120
Speaker 2: But anytime you guys think about a guest or something

1584
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:23,360
Speaker 2: you want to hear it, go to the blackoutils dot com.

1585
01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:25,519
Speaker 2: There's a search bar at the top of the screen.

1586
01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:28,240
Speaker 2: You can put in that guest name and then their

1587
01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 2: episodes will come up. I've been listening for years for now,

1588
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 2: But maybe it's an episode I missed. But he was

1589
01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:37,880
Speaker 2: really great, and I really appreciate the conversation y'all had

1590
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:39,519
Speaker 2: about being in your head thinking someone.

1591
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 1: Is upset with you. I think a lot of us

1592
01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:42,280
Speaker 1: struggle with some version of that.

1593
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:45,360
Speaker 2: For me, it's wondering if someone thinks my ideas are

1594
01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:46,800
Speaker 2: bad or if I offended someone.

1595
01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:49,519
Speaker 1: Oh well, welcome to the club, buddy.

1596
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 2: This past month, I found out that there were two

1597
01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:55,519
Speaker 2: people who were upset with me and I never noticed.

1598
01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:57,960
Speaker 2: One messaged me to apologize about it, and I let

1599
01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:00,679
Speaker 2: her know I had no idea what she was talking about. Yeah,

1600
01:16:00,840 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 2: let me tell you something else though about that. That's

1601
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 2: really wild and shit. I'm sure Mike Kaplan if he

1602
01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:09,160
Speaker 2: was here, he would say this in a much longer way.

1603
01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 1: But you were worried.

1604
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:17,439
Speaker 2: It's ironic you worry so much about having pissed somebody

1605
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:18,880
Speaker 2: off or them not liking.

1606
01:16:18,680 --> 01:16:21,599
Speaker 1: You, and then when it happened, you didn't even notice.

1607
01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:25,920
Speaker 2: So that tells you how much anxiety and wasted energy

1608
01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 2: you have because you worried about this thing thinking because

1609
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 2: the reason we worry is like because maybe I could

1610
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 2: pick it up.

1611
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 1: Hey are you, okay, is everything all right? And here

1612
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:35,439
Speaker 1: it is. It happened.

1613
01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 2: So the thing that you thought, you know, worrying about

1614
01:16:38,479 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 2: happening would maybe keep from happening or help you mitigate

1615
01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 2: the harm of such thing happening. It happened anyway, so

1616
01:16:44,960 --> 01:16:46,240
Speaker 2: at at the end of the day, it didn't even

1617
01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:49,639
Speaker 2: really fuck up your life. You didn't even notice. So anyway,

1618
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:51,920
Speaker 2: And that's advice for me to take myself.

1619
01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:52,680
Speaker 1: That's not just for you.

1620
01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:55,920
Speaker 2: That is, you just helped me realize that the other

1621
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,759
Speaker 2: person was my sister who blocked me. Lol, she was upset.

1622
01:16:58,800 --> 01:17:02,680
Speaker 2: I never noticed once she unblocked me. I assume she

1623
01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:05,719
Speaker 2: was busy. It was weird because when I'm upset with someone,

1624
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:06,960
Speaker 2: I let them know, and if I'm.

1625
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:10,479
Speaker 1: Really done with you, you're blocked or unfriended. Enjoyed this episode, man,

1626
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:15,519
Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah. My thing is I don't let everybody

1627
01:17:15,640 --> 01:17:18,120
Speaker 1: know when they've upset me. I won't. I can't evenfront

1628
01:17:18,240 --> 01:17:20,600
Speaker 1: like that. I don't, and.

1629
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:23,400
Speaker 2: Especially with the shit we do for a living, the

1630
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 2: life I lead now, there's too many people that I

1631
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:29,080
Speaker 2: The thing it mostly makes me realize is that it's portant.

1632
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:32,839
Speaker 2: This person is not that important to me. So somebody

1633
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 2: says some wild, crazy shit or something, I normally would

1634
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 2: just either unfriend them, mute them, whatever, because it's like,

1635
01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:45,360
Speaker 2: that's not actually my friend, and the opposite for the

1636
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 2: people that are my friend, I really will stop and

1637
01:17:47,960 --> 01:17:51,639
Speaker 2: be like yo, yoh, like what was this about.

1638
01:17:52,439 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, because, like I said, my time and energy is

1639
01:17:55,320 --> 01:18:00,120
Speaker 4: very valuable. And the thing is, you know, if it

1640
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:02,400
Speaker 4: does bother me. You know, I have a handful of

1641
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:04,679
Speaker 4: people that I will you know, talk to about nothings

1642
01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:06,599
Speaker 4: that that. A lot of times, by the time I've

1643
01:18:06,680 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 4: talked it out, I've hashed it out through my head

1644
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:10,519
Speaker 4: and a lot of times, funny, I've gotten over it

1645
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:12,680
Speaker 4: and I'm like, right, so you oh, they're not done

1646
01:18:12,680 --> 01:18:14,160
Speaker 4: important anyway, you just keep it going.

1647
01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:14,439
Speaker 1: Well.

1648
01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:16,880
Speaker 2: I think it's just very rare that I have someone

1649
01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:20,680
Speaker 2: that hits the right being diagram of being close enough

1650
01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 2: to me that I need to that I feel the

1651
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:26,519
Speaker 2: need to say something to them, right, but also saying

1652
01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:29,760
Speaker 2: some crazy shit like most of the people I'm close

1653
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:34,800
Speaker 2: to just don't do that kind of like wow, ridiculous stuff.

1654
01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 3: We don't keep those people around us.

1655
01:18:37,840 --> 01:18:39,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, So, for the most part, I haven't really had

1656
01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 2: too many conversations with people who I had to be

1657
01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:42,320
Speaker 2: like that.

1658
01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:45,439
Speaker 1: And also because I you know, someone's that close to me,

1659
01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:47,439
Speaker 1: I love and appreciate them and I respect them.

1660
01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:51,719
Speaker 2: I will rather ask why they did something because maybe

1661
01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:54,519
Speaker 2: I'm missing the reasoning, right, I don't just assume I

1662
01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 2: know everything and.

1663
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm right, you know.

1664
01:18:57,080 --> 01:19:00,320
Speaker 2: I think the thing that really was weird for me

1665
01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 2: was realizing a couple of years ago that some people.

1666
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 1: Are just overly familiar, but you're not friends. Right.

1667
01:19:10,040 --> 01:19:13,040
Speaker 2: That was a hard one for me because as an introvert,

1668
01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:15,360
Speaker 2: I don't really get close with a lot of people

1669
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:19,880
Speaker 2: in general. So when I let someone in my circle,

1670
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 2: I feel like that makes us a friend. That means

1671
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 2: we're friends now. But then I, you know, realize over time, like, no,

1672
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 2: that person is not necessarily my friend because in my

1673
01:19:30,920 --> 01:19:34,440
Speaker 2: friendships I do things like me and my friend disagree

1674
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:36,960
Speaker 2: and we can talk it out and joke about it.

1675
01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 2: In my friendships, I never assume the worst of my

1676
01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:43,400
Speaker 2: friends period, you know what I mean?

1677
01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:44,360
Speaker 1: So, like when.

1678
01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:49,759
Speaker 2: Like it, like literally, I can't be bothered by someone

1679
01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:51,479
Speaker 2: being like, hey, you know so and so said such

1680
01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:55,560
Speaker 2: and such. I'll talk to that nigga tomorrow, and like

1681
01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:58,840
Speaker 2: it's no big deal, Like, you know, that's how that's

1682
01:19:58,880 --> 01:20:01,160
Speaker 2: how I do. I mean, people listening to my conversations

1683
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:03,400
Speaker 2: with Justin, that's how we talk all the fucking time,

1684
01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 2: you know, if not more explicit than shit, because you know,

1685
01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 2: we on the mic.

1686
01:20:07,040 --> 01:20:09,000
Speaker 1: So I'm sure that shit that we say.

1687
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:11,400
Speaker 2: About people and without censering the names and stuff that

1688
01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:14,680
Speaker 2: would blow everybody's mind. But yeah, so it's that kind

1689
01:20:14,720 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 2: of shit that you know, I realized, like, oh man,

1690
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:20,800
Speaker 2: this is really important for me from this point on.

1691
01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:25,960
Speaker 2: That defined friendship more specifically. But yeah, I also stay

1692
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 2: in my head, and that's what happened with Mike. Joe

1693
01:20:28,320 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 2: says Mike Kaplin is hilaris. His mind stays working, like

1694
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:33,400
Speaker 2: with the wordplay. Maybe it was an illusion. But when

1695
01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:35,600
Speaker 2: Mike put on the theory that plans were communicating with

1696
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:38,760
Speaker 2: man through consumption, Rob briefly looked like he needed a moment.

1697
01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:41,720
Speaker 2: That was a really deep thought. It was I did

1698
01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:43,200
Speaker 2: need a moment because I was thinking, what have we

1699
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:47,559
Speaker 2: been eating these little, delicious, intelligent motherfuckers. Wouldn't that be interesting?

1700
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:54,559
Speaker 3: It will be? But you are delicious? Yeah, uh, I'm sorry,

1701
01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:56,719
Speaker 3: mister living plant.

1702
01:20:56,920 --> 01:20:57,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1703
01:20:57,120 --> 01:20:59,759
Speaker 2: I always say that because like vegetarian and vegans always

1704
01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:01,679
Speaker 2: kind of had this like we're better than y'all things.

1705
01:21:02,000 --> 01:21:04,559
Speaker 2: But I'm like, what if a plant suffers and feels

1706
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:07,920
Speaker 2: pain where we just don't understand how plants feel pain?

1707
01:21:08,120 --> 01:21:09,840
Speaker 1: So like plants.

1708
01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:12,080
Speaker 3: So they don't stare at you.

1709
01:21:12,280 --> 01:21:15,599
Speaker 2: Ye, plants on some level are just as mass produced

1710
01:21:15,680 --> 01:21:19,080
Speaker 2: and fucked up as animals, but we don't. We'll never

1711
01:21:19,200 --> 01:21:24,360
Speaker 2: understand why ir corn feels, you know, terrible about having pesticides.

1712
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:25,640
Speaker 1: Stone on it. You know, we'll never understand that.

1713
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:29,720
Speaker 2: So really dark Knight, says dear Karen and husband Mike

1714
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:31,920
Speaker 2: was great and I loved this episode. Near the end

1715
01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:33,640
Speaker 2: of the episode, Rob brought up the knowledge of the

1716
01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:37,719
Speaker 2: protesters in the cider king storm that actually kills people

1717
01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:40,559
Speaker 2: by giving them pneumonia from the coronavirus. If you don't

1718
01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 2: know the concept, you really should look it up or

1719
01:21:42,479 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 2: listen to that part again because it's really apt. Ignorant,

1720
01:21:45,600 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 2: most white folks are out here, ignorant, mostly white folks

1721
01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:52,120
Speaker 2: out here protesting in these streets and are going to

1722
01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:54,960
Speaker 2: get themselves that other people's killed. While arguing that people

1723
01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 2: want to go back to work, if the choice to

1724
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 2: go back to work and die. Listen, I'm stay in

1725
01:21:59,000 --> 01:22:00,840
Speaker 2: my black ass inside at home period.

1726
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:01,200
Speaker 3: Peace.

1727
01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:08,599
Speaker 4: Come on, come on, unless I am absolutely positively forced

1728
01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:09,760
Speaker 4: to mm hmmm.

1729
01:22:10,600 --> 01:22:10,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1730
01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:14,400
Speaker 2: The thing, yeah, that that I came up with that

1731
01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:17,479
Speaker 2: analogy during the show. Well, no, before the show. I've

1732
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 2: been thinking about it. But you know, Mike is a

1733
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:22,080
Speaker 2: great person to voice that kind of thing with because

1734
01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:24,240
Speaker 2: he'll let you kind of expound upon it and think

1735
01:22:24,280 --> 01:22:27,120
Speaker 2: it out with you. But yeah, man, in a weird way,

1736
01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:34,559
Speaker 2: it's like the uh, the government and certain politicians who

1737
01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:37,799
Speaker 2: are doing a good job are all of our immune

1738
01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:41,400
Speaker 2: systems trying to do work, you know, and then these

1739
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 2: anti vacs, anti you know, open up the country. Republican

1740
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:49,280
Speaker 2: pipe people are like the people that come and destroy

1741
01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 2: everything because they think they're destroyed. They're like, no, well,

1742
01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:55,680
Speaker 2: I don't know for sure what they think because some

1743
01:22:55,760 --> 01:22:57,800
Speaker 2: of them are bought and paid for, but on some

1744
01:22:58,040 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 2: level they feel like the the cure for the disease

1745
01:23:02,240 --> 01:23:05,679
Speaker 2: is destroying our body. It's like, that's what the cyto

1746
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:09,240
Speaker 2: King storm is. That's what it does is it's your

1747
01:23:09,600 --> 01:23:14,000
Speaker 2: attack cells. I forget which ones are your tax does

1748
01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:16,560
Speaker 2: think white blood cells maybe, but it's the cells that

1749
01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:19,880
Speaker 2: come in and just go. We don't know which are

1750
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:22,519
Speaker 2: in the infected lung cells. We don't know which are

1751
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:23,479
Speaker 2: the healthy lung cells.

1752
01:23:23,640 --> 01:23:27,040
Speaker 3: Like we came to fight. It's a fight. We killing everybody.

1753
01:23:27,200 --> 01:23:29,880
Speaker 2: They destroy all the cells. And that's what pneumonia is.

1754
01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:34,000
Speaker 2: Everybody get that's what pneumonia is. And that's why our lungs,

1755
01:23:34,760 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 2: that's why people who've experienced this disease sometimes their lungs

1756
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:43,160
Speaker 2: that's basically become inoperable and they have to be on

1757
01:23:43,240 --> 01:23:47,000
Speaker 2: that respirator and stuff. All Right, The poe was, have

1758
01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:49,559
Speaker 2: you ever tried an open relationship? Yes, but it wasn't

1759
01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:52,679
Speaker 2: for me. Yes, and I'm currently in one. Not yet

1760
01:23:52,920 --> 01:23:53,880
Speaker 2: or nope, not for me.

1761
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:56,040
Speaker 3: I've never tried it.

1762
01:23:57,840 --> 01:24:01,320
Speaker 2: Yeah for me, yes, and I'm currently in one. The

1763
01:24:01,439 --> 01:24:05,360
Speaker 2: third person, what oh person people? You mean I got

1764
01:24:05,400 --> 01:24:08,160
Speaker 2: a whole nother family. Can I'm sorry, it's just open

1765
01:24:08,240 --> 01:24:08,840
Speaker 2: on my side.

1766
01:24:08,960 --> 01:24:09,519
Speaker 1: I just didn't know.

1767
01:24:10,920 --> 01:24:16,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a one side open relationship. Many people, a

1768
01:24:16,040 --> 01:24:16,840
Speaker 2: lot of people.

1769
01:24:16,640 --> 01:24:17,200
Speaker 1: Are in these.

1770
01:24:17,320 --> 01:24:18,479
Speaker 3: Can open the window.

1771
01:24:18,560 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 2: Then a lot of people are in these and don't know. Okay,

1772
01:24:21,040 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 2: so just spread the word. Okay, it's not cheating. It's

1773
01:24:24,560 --> 01:24:28,320
Speaker 2: an open relationship on one side secretly. All right, now,

1774
01:24:28,360 --> 01:24:30,080
Speaker 2: I never been in one. I don't think I could

1775
01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:32,240
Speaker 2: do it. I don't think I'm built for that.

1776
01:24:32,800 --> 01:24:35,560
Speaker 1: It's just it's just me. It's not knocking anyone who is.

1777
01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 4: Though.

1778
01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:38,320
Speaker 1: Let's get to these replies.

1779
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:42,599
Speaker 2: Really dark Knight says, props to all of y'all who

1780
01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:44,160
Speaker 2: are interested in an open relationship.

1781
01:24:44,200 --> 01:24:46,160
Speaker 1: I know it isn't for me. I mean, monogamy is

1782
01:24:46,200 --> 01:24:47,280
Speaker 1: hard enough, and I think some.

1783
01:24:47,520 --> 01:24:50,479
Speaker 2: Men would just think of the sex aspect, but that

1784
01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:52,640
Speaker 2: is a small part of the relationship. It seems like

1785
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:55,160
Speaker 2: a lot of demand, a lot of damn work to.

1786
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:59,200
Speaker 1: Keep everyone happy peace. Yeah, it's weird because.

1787
01:25:01,080 --> 01:25:05,160
Speaker 2: It's like the free love sixties, right, remember that, the

1788
01:25:05,280 --> 01:25:07,600
Speaker 2: free love sixties. For those that were old enough to

1789
01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:10,639
Speaker 2: remember it or watching the right documentaries such as Myself,

1790
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 2: the free love era was all this like, you know,

1791
01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:17,200
Speaker 2: we're not gonna let the men tell us who love,

1792
01:25:18,040 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 2: and you know sex is just bodily functioning and all

1793
01:25:20,960 --> 01:25:23,840
Speaker 2: this shit. And then people relooked at that eraror and

1794
01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:27,040
Speaker 2: it's like that was mostly just men fucking any woman

1795
01:25:27,120 --> 01:25:31,920
Speaker 2: they wanted and then having no consequences and no responsibilities

1796
01:25:31,960 --> 01:25:32,519
Speaker 2: to those women.

1797
01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:35,439
Speaker 3: Right, would women actually free. You need a lot of

1798
01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:36,040
Speaker 3: these situations.

1799
01:25:36,160 --> 01:25:40,160
Speaker 2: Some were, but were most of them right, Like, like,

1800
01:25:40,320 --> 01:25:43,840
Speaker 2: while the women may have been making these choices and

1801
01:25:44,000 --> 01:25:46,479
Speaker 2: free to make them, a lot of the men that

1802
01:25:46,600 --> 01:25:49,840
Speaker 2: were benefiting. It wasn't like then women got equality and

1803
01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:52,679
Speaker 2: they were like, yeah, we're just fucking all these young

1804
01:25:52,920 --> 01:25:56,439
Speaker 2: attractive women who happen to just be free spirits. We're

1805
01:25:56,479 --> 01:25:58,599
Speaker 2: just fucking them all, and then we're gonna give them

1806
01:25:58,720 --> 01:25:59,920
Speaker 2: jobs in our corporations.

1807
01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:02,719
Speaker 1: No, it was we're fucking them all and they're they're

1808
01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:05,439
Speaker 1: they're just whores to us. We're not respecting anybody.

1809
01:26:06,680 --> 01:26:08,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, I think anyway, all that to say, I

1810
01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:11,560
Speaker 2: think a lot of times when people pitch open relationships,

1811
01:26:12,280 --> 01:26:15,519
Speaker 2: a lot of men pitch it on this yeah you know,

1812
01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:19,080
Speaker 2: because we animals or we need this, But what they're

1813
01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:21,280
Speaker 2: really thinking is I would like to fuck other people,

1814
01:26:21,360 --> 01:26:23,920
Speaker 2: not you, not you know, because.

1815
01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 4: A lot of times when the woman be like, well, hey,

1816
01:26:25,520 --> 01:26:27,840
Speaker 4: I want my side to be open to a lot

1817
01:26:28,280 --> 01:26:29,480
Speaker 4: of men, have a fit.

1818
01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:33,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, not like like I want you to have other

1819
01:26:33,560 --> 01:26:38,200
Speaker 1: women in involved in our relationship. Maybe you could have

1820
01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:41,439
Speaker 1: some lesbian type sex, but like you can pick the woman.

1821
01:26:41,479 --> 01:26:44,759
Speaker 1: I don't want you to actually be with another person

1822
01:26:44,880 --> 01:26:48,600
Speaker 1: in that type of way, you know, romantically, but I

1823
01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:50,479
Speaker 1: do want to be able to do that shit, you know.

1824
01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:52,760
Speaker 1: So that's a lot of people's version of it.

1825
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:56,000
Speaker 2: Now that's not the only version obviously, that's you know,

1826
01:26:56,080 --> 01:26:58,880
Speaker 2: but those people give it a bad rap because there's

1827
01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 2: so many men that just feel like, this is me

1828
01:27:02,320 --> 01:27:03,600
Speaker 2: fucking other women.

1829
01:27:03,520 --> 01:27:03,680
Speaker 3: You know.

1830
01:27:03,920 --> 01:27:07,040
Speaker 2: I saw a thing on Twitter the other day where

1831
01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:08,840
Speaker 2: they was doing a don't rush challenge, but it was

1832
01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:12,880
Speaker 2: with thropples, like like people with three people in a

1833
01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:16,200
Speaker 2: relationship instead of just two. Okay, every throuble was a

1834
01:27:16,360 --> 01:27:20,280
Speaker 2: dude with two women every time, Like I was like,

1835
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:23,360
Speaker 2: I don't know, y'all, don't see a pattern here? We like,

1836
01:27:23,600 --> 01:27:25,240
Speaker 2: you know, and like each one it was like the

1837
01:27:25,360 --> 01:27:28,120
Speaker 2: man would change it to some clothes that I won't

1838
01:27:28,160 --> 01:27:31,400
Speaker 2: comment on their clothes, but some clothes, and then the

1839
01:27:31,520 --> 01:27:33,800
Speaker 2: two women would come up next to them, and I

1840
01:27:33,960 --> 01:27:37,320
Speaker 2: was like, I don't even see what, Like this doesn't

1841
01:27:37,360 --> 01:27:39,519
Speaker 2: seem like how diversity in these troubles. It seemed like

1842
01:27:39,600 --> 01:27:43,320
Speaker 2: two brown women splitting two splitting a man.

1843
01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:45,840
Speaker 3: Oh oh, so it's not one woman and two men.

1844
01:27:46,479 --> 01:27:49,559
Speaker 1: Everyone was one man, two women. Every last one of them.

1845
01:27:49,720 --> 01:27:54,560
Speaker 3: Yeah they got that. Yeah, so not everybody, but a

1846
01:27:54,600 --> 01:27:55,000
Speaker 3: lot of times.

1847
01:27:56,080 --> 01:27:56,920
Speaker 1: So I just don't think.

1848
01:27:57,360 --> 01:28:01,040
Speaker 2: I think the version of open relationships that a lot

1849
01:28:01,080 --> 01:28:03,719
Speaker 2: of as Dark Knight said that a lot of people

1850
01:28:03,800 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 2: talking about, is to a lot of men, it's just

1851
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:09,679
Speaker 2: me fucking more than one woman and everybody being cool

1852
01:28:09,720 --> 01:28:13,880
Speaker 2: with it, you know, as opposed if you know, if

1853
01:28:13,960 --> 01:28:15,920
Speaker 2: it was two men living in the same house all

1854
01:28:15,960 --> 01:28:19,439
Speaker 2: of a sudden, that that then engender that then hurts

1855
01:28:19,479 --> 01:28:23,240
Speaker 2: their masculinity, their standing, you know, like all that type

1856
01:28:23,280 --> 01:28:26,400
Speaker 2: of shit, which lot of people, Yes, Yeah, but it's

1857
01:28:26,400 --> 01:28:28,600
Speaker 2: because it's not really about that woman being happy and

1858
01:28:28,680 --> 01:28:29,479
Speaker 2: everyone being happy.

1859
01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:31,320
Speaker 1: It's really about what's best for me.

1860
01:28:32,560 --> 01:28:34,800
Speaker 2: Green Eye Bandits says, does it count as an over

1861
01:28:34,840 --> 01:28:37,280
Speaker 2: relationship the other person finds out after the fact asking

1862
01:28:37,360 --> 01:28:41,720
Speaker 2: for XM. Brittany says, I said yes, and it wasn't

1863
01:28:41,760 --> 01:28:44,000
Speaker 2: for me, but only because I couldn't just say yes.

1864
01:28:44,400 --> 01:28:44,960
Speaker 1: I loved it.

1865
01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:46,840
Speaker 2: The only reason I'm nine in one now is because

1866
01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:49,040
Speaker 2: I moved away from that relationship and my fiance is

1867
01:28:49,120 --> 01:28:51,479
Speaker 2: not cool with it. He's just a bit jealous that

1868
01:28:51,560 --> 01:28:53,840
Speaker 2: he's always thinks I'm going to leave him for another woman.

1869
01:28:54,240 --> 01:28:56,040
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that, but I think I would add

1870
01:28:56,240 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 2: one to the relationship get a break sometimes.

1871
01:28:58,600 --> 01:29:03,320
Speaker 1: Lol. Yeah, I think that's gotta be the struggle for

1872
01:29:03,400 --> 01:29:08,160
Speaker 1: by people is the distrust from either gender being like,

1873
01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:11,800
Speaker 1: well that didn't you gonna cheat, You're gonna leave? Well,

1874
01:29:12,240 --> 01:29:13,800
Speaker 1: how do I know you're gonna stay with me and

1875
01:29:13,920 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 1: not pick this other person all the time and stuff

1876
01:29:16,040 --> 01:29:18,640
Speaker 1: like that, And I'm sure there's nightmares about that, but

1877
01:29:18,880 --> 01:29:21,080
Speaker 1: you know that people in straight relationships do that all the.

1878
01:29:21,120 --> 01:29:24,719
Speaker 3: Time, right, Like you can't be buying monogamous like right.

1879
01:29:24,800 --> 01:29:27,800
Speaker 2: But people, I'm saying people in straight relationships people leave

1880
01:29:27,880 --> 01:29:31,880
Speaker 2: them for somebody else all the time anywhere, Like there's

1881
01:29:31,960 --> 01:29:36,160
Speaker 2: no guarantee that if we stay together, like it's like anyway.

1882
01:29:37,080 --> 01:29:39,519
Speaker 2: But yeah, But at the same time, I appreciate you

1883
01:29:39,560 --> 01:29:42,479
Speaker 2: gotta shake your fears honesty, putting it out there and

1884
01:29:42,640 --> 01:29:45,400
Speaker 2: being like, yeah, I'm actually not cool with that, and

1885
01:29:45,479 --> 01:29:48,360
Speaker 2: then letting you make that choice, because to me, that's

1886
01:29:48,400 --> 01:29:51,360
Speaker 2: the only can do, you know, because.

1887
01:29:51,280 --> 01:29:53,479
Speaker 3: Versus saying you cool and getting in and realize that

1888
01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:55,040
Speaker 3: they're not cool with this such.

1889
01:29:54,960 --> 01:29:57,840
Speaker 2: Like you see so many nightmare stories as somebody who

1890
01:29:58,000 --> 01:30:00,680
Speaker 2: says they were cool and one part the couple was

1891
01:30:00,800 --> 01:30:03,840
Speaker 2: never fucking cool, and it's just a slow erosion of

1892
01:30:03,920 --> 01:30:07,680
Speaker 2: a relationship because it's like, eventually it's gonna come out

1893
01:30:07,800 --> 01:30:10,800
Speaker 2: like I don't like this. You're fucking other people that

1894
01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:13,840
Speaker 2: aren't me. I don't like it, you know, I you know,

1895
01:30:14,160 --> 01:30:16,360
Speaker 2: I like people that go we used to have threeesoms

1896
01:30:16,360 --> 01:30:16,840
Speaker 2: all the time.

1897
01:30:17,080 --> 01:30:20,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then the more and more the person got

1898
01:30:20,439 --> 01:30:22,560
Speaker 1: some leverage in the relationship, the less unless you did it.

1899
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:26,200
Speaker 1: Guess what that means. Somebody is not down with this

1900
01:30:26,240 --> 01:30:28,960
Speaker 1: shit at some point, you know, when it's all of

1901
01:30:29,000 --> 01:30:32,360
Speaker 1: a sudden, it's like maybe on your birthday, you know,

1902
01:30:32,479 --> 01:30:35,000
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, okay, this is not this person's not

1903
01:30:35,120 --> 01:30:38,120
Speaker 1: really cool with this as they said they were, which happens,

1904
01:30:38,120 --> 01:30:39,680
Speaker 1: you know, it's the honeymoon period. That's a lot of

1905
01:30:39,680 --> 01:30:42,599
Speaker 1: shit that happens in the honeymoon period that people think, oh, yeah,

1906
01:30:42,600 --> 01:30:44,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be doing this forever. It's like, you know,

1907
01:30:44,400 --> 01:30:44,720
Speaker 1: you won't.

1908
01:30:46,000 --> 01:30:50,240
Speaker 2: Episode twenty ninety one raised the Barn. Justin w says,

1909
01:30:50,280 --> 01:30:52,040
Speaker 2: a great episode. I really like how you all talked

1910
01:30:52,040 --> 01:30:54,280
Speaker 2: about the media and how irresponsible they are for airon

1911
01:30:54,320 --> 01:30:57,120
Speaker 2: Trump briefings while he lies and tells people to take

1912
01:30:57,200 --> 01:31:00,280
Speaker 2: unproven medicine. The profit motive and the media needs to

1913
01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:03,560
Speaker 2: be fixed if we if we want fair reporting correct.

1914
01:31:04,640 --> 01:31:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I appreciate that.

1915
01:31:05,840 --> 01:31:07,880
Speaker 2: Justin we had someone in the chat that after this

1916
01:31:08,080 --> 01:31:12,040
Speaker 2: works in the media arena and seen, in my opinion,

1917
01:31:12,080 --> 01:31:14,320
Speaker 2: seemed to be taking it kind of like person or something.

1918
01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:15,680
Speaker 1: But I don't know.

1919
01:31:15,840 --> 01:31:18,280
Speaker 2: I've thought about this a lot, and I just feel

1920
01:31:18,400 --> 01:31:21,920
Speaker 2: like it's irresponsible for the media to play that shit.

1921
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:22,120
Speaker 4: Man.

1922
01:31:22,240 --> 01:31:24,240
Speaker 2: They are part of the problem when it comes to this.

1923
01:31:25,560 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 2: Like the other day when he starts talking about people

1924
01:31:29,160 --> 01:31:31,960
Speaker 2: need to inject bleach and inject light into him and

1925
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:36,680
Speaker 2: maybe drink yo put that shit on a delay, like

1926
01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:39,840
Speaker 2: then when he said something, no, take that shit out

1927
01:31:39,880 --> 01:31:42,560
Speaker 2: that we know that's not true. And if some motherfucker

1928
01:31:42,680 --> 01:31:46,360
Speaker 2: dies because they watch CNN and there was no counter

1929
01:31:46,520 --> 01:31:47,280
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

1930
01:31:47,120 --> 01:31:48,519
Speaker 1: We just let this on the air.

1931
01:31:49,520 --> 01:31:53,440
Speaker 2: I would if I worked there, I would feel responsible.

1932
01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:56,840
Speaker 2: If we then brought on Kelly and Conway to argue

1933
01:31:56,880 --> 01:31:59,960
Speaker 2: the pros of drinking bleach, I would also feel response.

1934
01:32:00,240 --> 01:32:01,720
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck if Don Lemon was there

1935
01:32:01,800 --> 01:32:04,439
Speaker 2: to cuts her out, it don't make no difference.

1936
01:32:04,560 --> 01:32:06,360
Speaker 1: She shouldn't even be on there. It's my point.

1937
01:32:06,840 --> 01:32:09,400
Speaker 2: So I think that's what I was trying to get at,

1938
01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:13,400
Speaker 2: and hopefully most people understood that, because I think there

1939
01:32:13,479 --> 01:32:16,960
Speaker 2: is a level of responsibility, of course, of covering the news, like, oh,

1940
01:32:18,400 --> 01:32:19,439
Speaker 2: he has a press conference.

1941
01:32:19,520 --> 01:32:23,160
Speaker 1: Cool, let's actually cover it though, Let's let's bring it on,

1942
01:32:23,320 --> 01:32:25,400
Speaker 1: bring up the relevant clips, and break it down rather

1943
01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:28,559
Speaker 1: than just give this nigga a fucking platform, because uh,

1944
01:32:29,120 --> 01:32:31,080
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like that shit is proud of

1945
01:32:31,120 --> 01:32:32,160
Speaker 1: the problem at this point.

1946
01:32:32,320 --> 01:32:37,960
Speaker 2: So but yeah, you know, it's always with Trump Man.

1947
01:32:38,040 --> 01:32:39,600
Speaker 2: All I gotta do is wait a couple days. That

1948
01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:43,080
Speaker 2: nigga gonna always prove me, right, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1949
01:32:43,160 --> 01:32:46,000
Speaker 2: it's gonna he gonna always prove what I'm like. Trump

1950
01:32:46,160 --> 01:32:48,519
Speaker 2: keeps taking shit to the next level. Literally the day

1951
01:32:48,560 --> 01:32:52,400
Speaker 2: before that, I was like, Yo, it's irresponsible. Okay, cool,

1952
01:32:52,640 --> 01:32:55,640
Speaker 2: you know that's the media. Shouldn't be your fault of that.

1953
01:32:55,800 --> 01:33:00,679
Speaker 2: They okay cool. The next day the niggas like drink bleach. Okay,

1954
01:33:00,880 --> 01:33:02,439
Speaker 2: all right, I don't know what's he gonna say tomorrow,

1955
01:33:03,520 --> 01:33:06,400
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like, like, are y'all like,

1956
01:33:06,640 --> 01:33:09,640
Speaker 2: are we really doing this? Can we can we finally admit, like,

1957
01:33:09,840 --> 01:33:12,320
Speaker 2: maybe it's part of the problem is letting a fucking

1958
01:33:12,439 --> 01:33:17,360
Speaker 2: narcissist psychopath have the fucking room and have all the

1959
01:33:17,400 --> 01:33:20,519
Speaker 2: attention of everybody without even fucking limiting it in any

1960
01:33:20,600 --> 01:33:23,400
Speaker 2: fucking way. Like maybe that does make us part of

1961
01:33:23,439 --> 01:33:25,559
Speaker 2: the problem. Maybe that makes it today?

1962
01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:32,519
Speaker 1: What are what he gonna do tomorrow? This guy, this

1963
01:33:32,720 --> 01:33:39,720
Speaker 1: guy just fishing? What's it taste like? You know what?

1964
01:33:39,800 --> 01:33:41,880
Speaker 3: It tastes like fist to me?

1965
01:33:44,040 --> 01:33:47,679
Speaker 2: And yeah, uh if they say you're editorializing, that's already

1966
01:33:47,720 --> 01:33:50,320
Speaker 2: what the fuck the news does. There was never a

1967
01:33:50,439 --> 01:33:53,719
Speaker 2: time when the news doesn't editorialize what the fuck happens?

1968
01:33:54,520 --> 01:33:57,160
Speaker 2: Zero present have we ever had. There's never been a

1969
01:33:57,280 --> 01:33:59,760
Speaker 2: newscast or they didn't put some level alike and this

1970
01:33:59,880 --> 01:34:03,000
Speaker 2: is what you saw, you know what I mean? Like, so,

1971
01:34:03,360 --> 01:34:06,479
Speaker 2: so gus, go ahead and fucking do your job. If

1972
01:34:06,520 --> 01:34:08,240
Speaker 2: that's the case, then just fucking set up a camera

1973
01:34:08,360 --> 01:34:10,000
Speaker 2: in the White House and we don't need people there

1974
01:34:10,960 --> 01:34:13,760
Speaker 2: do a job. Classic R and B lover says, I

1975
01:34:13,880 --> 01:34:16,439
Speaker 2: voted no on the poll, but I have what was

1976
01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:19,679
Speaker 2: the poll? Oh okay, So instead of comment on the poll,

1977
01:34:20,320 --> 01:34:24,360
Speaker 2: she commented on the site but the poll is what

1978
01:34:24,680 --> 01:34:26,960
Speaker 2: would you have to Would you pay a small fee

1979
01:34:27,000 --> 01:34:28,160
Speaker 2: to see the versus battles?

1980
01:34:28,240 --> 01:34:28,640
Speaker 1: Yes or no?

1981
01:34:29,680 --> 01:34:33,880
Speaker 2: Thirteen percent say yes, eighty seven percent say no. Classic

1982
01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:35,600
Speaker 2: rn B lover says I voted on the Poe no

1983
01:34:35,760 --> 01:34:36,760
Speaker 2: on the poll, but I would.

1984
01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:39,240
Speaker 1: I don't have and refuse to get Instagram.

1985
01:34:39,280 --> 01:34:41,720
Speaker 2: I feel overburdened by Twitter and next to no time

1986
01:34:41,760 --> 01:34:43,800
Speaker 2: I spent on Facebook, so I'm not able to watch.

1987
01:34:43,960 --> 01:34:46,360
Speaker 1: Oh well, yeah, you probably should have. I should have.

1988
01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:48,960
Speaker 2: I didn't know to put that as an option. I

1989
01:34:49,040 --> 01:34:51,040
Speaker 2: don't even have Instagram. I shouldn't be voting on.

1990
01:34:51,040 --> 01:34:51,519
Speaker 1: This, you know.

1991
01:34:53,840 --> 01:34:58,160
Speaker 2: Mark says, I thought about going to see one of

1992
01:34:58,240 --> 01:35:01,920
Speaker 2: those battles, even for free. I saw clips from Teddy

1993
01:35:02,000 --> 01:35:06,639
Speaker 2: Riley versus Babyface for real on Jesus and Marrio even

1994
01:35:06,920 --> 01:35:11,360
Speaker 2: assumed they only showed the messed up parts. If this,

1995
01:35:11,600 --> 01:35:13,600
Speaker 2: If that is how these battles go, No, thank you?

1996
01:35:14,640 --> 01:35:17,040
Speaker 2: Oh well, I thought I expressed it on the show.

1997
01:35:17,120 --> 01:35:19,360
Speaker 2: But my point is if you pay for it, then

1998
01:35:19,479 --> 01:35:22,519
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, you know, the quality jumps, right.

1999
01:35:22,520 --> 01:35:23,080
Speaker 3: Yes, it does.

2000
01:35:23,200 --> 01:35:25,559
Speaker 1: The sound is better. You have engineer.

2001
01:35:25,640 --> 01:35:29,040
Speaker 4: You would have people, even if they remotely doing all

2002
01:35:29,240 --> 01:35:31,960
Speaker 4: the little things that the standards that people say.

2003
01:35:32,680 --> 01:35:35,640
Speaker 1: Right, no websites dropping, They'll be able to hold a

2004
01:35:35,720 --> 01:35:37,559
Speaker 1: capacity that kind of stuff.

2005
01:35:37,600 --> 01:35:41,920
Speaker 2: So you would think that some cable channels might pony

2006
01:35:42,040 --> 01:35:44,400
Speaker 2: up some money to run some of these. ESPN is

2007
01:35:44,479 --> 01:35:48,320
Speaker 2: running horse tournaments. This isn't in their wheelhouse, but TV

2008
01:35:48,439 --> 01:35:52,040
Speaker 2: scene is desperate, Kim Doc says, the nostyal y'all felt

2009
01:35:52,080 --> 01:35:54,679
Speaker 2: every time Babyface came through with another hit was something

2010
01:35:54,720 --> 01:35:56,080
Speaker 2: I haven't felt in such a long time.

2011
01:35:56,479 --> 01:35:57,519
Speaker 1: I'd consider paying for that.

2012
01:35:57,720 --> 01:36:03,040
Speaker 2: Babyface left say Goodbye with Madonna, unbreak My Heart, Baby

2013
01:36:03,080 --> 01:36:06,360
Speaker 2: Baby Baby by TLC and other Monster bops, while Teddy

2014
01:36:06,400 --> 01:36:09,880
Speaker 2: still had no dignity. Remember the time and the rest

2015
01:36:09,920 --> 01:36:12,360
Speaker 2: of the Dangerous album The Keys to These Battle is

2016
01:36:12,400 --> 01:36:16,160
Speaker 2: the monumental song finished off, finish off with everyone knew

2017
01:36:16,240 --> 01:36:20,639
Speaker 2: Neo was coming with uh Irreplaceable and everyone knew Johnta

2018
01:36:20,880 --> 01:36:23,720
Speaker 2: had we belong together in the truck tuck. But the

2019
01:36:23,840 --> 01:36:26,479
Speaker 2: moment when the songs start playing in the chat room

2020
01:36:26,520 --> 01:36:30,160
Speaker 2: and Twitter loser ship and reminisce is what was missing

2021
01:36:30,200 --> 01:36:33,040
Speaker 2: from the Teddy versus Face battle. I'm gonna always be

2022
01:36:33,160 --> 01:36:36,040
Speaker 2: okay with that. Old are our Old R and B

2023
01:36:36,200 --> 01:36:38,840
Speaker 2: uncles tried their best to figure out these internets.

2024
01:36:39,240 --> 01:36:39,599
Speaker 1: They did.

2025
01:36:41,000 --> 01:36:43,840
Speaker 2: Lakiita says, I haven't even engaged in these battles for free.

2026
01:36:44,280 --> 01:36:46,120
Speaker 2: I'm on the I don't care what the fuck everybody

2027
01:36:46,160 --> 01:36:46,559
Speaker 2: else doing.

2028
01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:49,800
Speaker 1: Age suits me. Fine, yeah, I'll hear you. I haven't

2029
01:36:49,840 --> 01:36:54,160
Speaker 1: watched really any but I know it's just not my thing.

2030
01:36:54,240 --> 01:36:56,599
Speaker 1: It's not a you know, it's not a personal slight

2031
01:36:56,680 --> 01:36:57,679
Speaker 1: to anyone involved.

2032
01:36:57,760 --> 01:37:00,800
Speaker 2: I think I'm just glad people haven't fun sitting in

2033
01:37:00,840 --> 01:37:02,320
Speaker 2: the house doing what they're supposed to be doing.

2034
01:37:02,439 --> 01:37:03,439
Speaker 3: That's the thing.

2035
01:37:03,720 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 4: As long as it's entertaining people, I don't have a

2036
01:37:06,200 --> 01:37:08,640
Speaker 4: problem with it, because the thing is a lot of

2037
01:37:08,680 --> 01:37:10,560
Speaker 4: people had a good time, even though you know the

2038
01:37:10,680 --> 01:37:13,439
Speaker 4: first time, you know, all the jokes and stuff, but

2039
01:37:13,600 --> 01:37:15,360
Speaker 4: it was still entertaining to people.

2040
01:37:16,000 --> 01:37:17,120
Speaker 1: How they had a gospel one.

2041
01:37:17,160 --> 01:37:19,160
Speaker 3: Yet I think the way they send the chat room,

2042
01:37:19,160 --> 01:37:20,320
Speaker 3: they're supposed to have one tomorrow.

2043
01:37:20,880 --> 01:37:21,160
Speaker 1: Wow.

2044
01:37:21,520 --> 01:37:27,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm telling you, man, they own it. Twenty

2045
01:37:27,360 --> 01:37:29,920
Speaker 2: two news that no longer matters. We had one comment.

2046
01:37:30,360 --> 01:37:32,080
Speaker 2: Ev He says, fuck Donald Trump.

2047
01:37:32,560 --> 01:37:32,840
Speaker 1: You know what?

2048
01:37:33,200 --> 01:37:34,439
Speaker 3: Agree?

2049
01:37:34,640 --> 01:37:35,120
Speaker 1: I agree?

2050
01:37:35,680 --> 01:37:38,800
Speaker 2: I know, me and all things were on the same page.

2051
01:37:38,840 --> 01:37:41,760
Speaker 2: But today I gotta say this is the day that

2052
01:37:41,800 --> 01:37:44,520
Speaker 2: we that Ev became president.

2053
01:37:45,960 --> 01:37:48,599
Speaker 1: Poe. Who do you see wearing black people? Black? Who

2054
01:37:48,640 --> 01:37:51,840
Speaker 1: do you see wearing masks in public? More often black people,

2055
01:37:52,840 --> 01:37:56,080
Speaker 1: white people? Or I don't go outside.

2056
01:37:57,840 --> 01:37:58,840
Speaker 3: For me open at people.

2057
01:37:59,840 --> 01:38:03,439
Speaker 2: Forty one percent of the audiences black people. I wonder

2058
01:38:03,479 --> 01:38:05,040
Speaker 2: if that's because we're around them more too.

2059
01:38:06,160 --> 01:38:08,200
Speaker 3: I have a tendency to spot them out in crowds.

2060
01:38:08,280 --> 01:38:11,520
Speaker 1: More forty one percent said I don't go outside.

2061
01:38:11,960 --> 01:38:14,360
Speaker 3: Pop baby, you need some sunshine. You're like a plant.

2062
01:38:14,680 --> 01:38:19,040
Speaker 1: Eighteen percent say white people. Let's check out the comments.

2063
01:38:19,280 --> 01:38:22,040
Speaker 2: D Troubadour says, voted white people because I haven't seen

2064
01:38:22,080 --> 01:38:23,439
Speaker 2: another black person since March.

2065
01:38:23,960 --> 01:38:27,560
Speaker 1: This ain't over quite yet. To keep your mask on, Brooklet.

2066
01:38:27,320 --> 01:38:30,559
Speaker 2: Shoebase says, my part of Brooklyn's majority Asia, and many

2067
01:38:30,640 --> 01:38:34,000
Speaker 2: of them wear masks before COVID nineteen. However, a majority

2068
01:38:34,040 --> 01:38:36,559
Speaker 2: of people without masks are thirty to forty something white folks.

2069
01:38:36,640 --> 01:38:39,200
Speaker 2: I only go out every couple of days to stretch

2070
01:38:39,280 --> 01:38:41,559
Speaker 2: my legs, and I only want four or five blocks.

2071
01:38:41,560 --> 01:38:45,439
Speaker 1: There's not many people in the streets. It's pretty off putting. Yeah,

2072
01:38:47,479 --> 01:38:48,479
Speaker 1: I feel I did.

2073
01:38:48,760 --> 01:38:50,519
Speaker 2: I do feel like I see less white people wear

2074
01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:53,360
Speaker 2: a mask though, now, you know, at least on the

2075
01:38:53,400 --> 01:38:55,960
Speaker 2: trips out, like I really was noticing it.

2076
01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:58,680
Speaker 3: The other day, I see more of them.

2077
01:38:58,760 --> 01:39:01,559
Speaker 4: Man, I know you say, I'm by the walking earth

2078
01:39:01,640 --> 01:39:04,120
Speaker 4: in the morning, like that's something that I might start

2079
01:39:04,200 --> 01:39:06,559
Speaker 4: doing just so because yeah, you're right. We went outside

2080
01:39:06,560 --> 01:39:08,600
Speaker 4: afternoon and with the people packed it well, I was like, no, no,

2081
01:39:08,680 --> 01:39:09,800
Speaker 4: I don't think I could deal with this.

2082
01:39:10,280 --> 01:39:10,479
Speaker 7: Yeah.

2083
01:39:10,479 --> 01:39:11,840
Speaker 2: And the other day I went out in the morning

2084
01:39:11,880 --> 01:39:15,160
Speaker 2: and seen people walking in the morning. I was like, damn, Like,

2085
01:39:15,280 --> 01:39:18,720
Speaker 2: it's just getting crowded out here now, Bio Shoe said

2086
01:39:19,160 --> 01:39:19,400
Speaker 2: it is.

2087
01:39:19,600 --> 01:39:20,960
Speaker 4: More and more people were like, Okay, we can go

2088
01:39:21,160 --> 01:39:23,040
Speaker 4: up the house now. We've been stuck in here for weeks.

2089
01:39:23,920 --> 01:39:26,599
Speaker 2: Mark says, most of the black people I see have masks,

2090
01:39:26,680 --> 01:39:29,719
Speaker 2: except the guys who are too cool for the mask.

2091
01:39:29,840 --> 01:39:33,240
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, also gloves. One man had a giant cross

2092
01:39:33,360 --> 01:39:36,600
Speaker 2: or something. It wasn't for the virus, but still we

2093
01:39:36,720 --> 01:39:38,960
Speaker 2: might have just wanted to floss on some people. Kim

2094
01:39:39,080 --> 01:39:42,400
Speaker 2: Doc says, praying we have to actually praying we get

2095
01:39:42,439 --> 01:39:45,439
Speaker 2: to actually vote in some capacity in November. Every time

2096
01:39:45,520 --> 01:39:48,160
Speaker 2: we say they can't get away with filling the eruption.

2097
01:39:48,280 --> 01:39:50,960
Speaker 2: Bingo car or the Republicans won't let such and such slide.

2098
01:39:51,360 --> 01:39:52,960
Speaker 2: Ship slides and they get away with it.

2099
01:39:53,080 --> 01:39:57,240
Speaker 1: Four more years will send us into a handmade Tales

2100
01:39:57,320 --> 01:39:59,280
Speaker 1: level of society. Definitely possible.

2101
01:39:59,360 --> 01:40:03,880
Speaker 2: Man, somebody got a call fro on Trump, then, Lakita says,

2102
01:40:03,920 --> 01:40:06,599
Speaker 2: at first I saw mostly black people with gloves and masks.

2103
01:40:06,640 --> 01:40:08,960
Speaker 2: Then I started seeing whites do it more, but still

2104
01:40:09,040 --> 01:40:10,960
Speaker 2: not as much as blacks. I was happy to see

2105
01:40:11,000 --> 01:40:13,200
Speaker 2: the people are finally getting it now. But lots of

2106
01:40:13,240 --> 01:40:15,200
Speaker 2: whites and Nebraska see to believe that their whiteness is

2107
01:40:15,320 --> 01:40:18,240
Speaker 2: some kind of shield, touching people talking all close and shit,

2108
01:40:18,320 --> 01:40:20,719
Speaker 2: putting their nashas fingers in their mouth. But that's slowly

2109
01:40:20,840 --> 01:40:24,240
Speaker 2: acting like they have some sense. Oh that makes sense.

2110
01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:28,280
Speaker 2: Though white people would wear it less just because a

2111
01:40:28,320 --> 01:40:31,360
Speaker 2: lot of them vote Republican, So it's a lot, you know,

2112
01:40:31,640 --> 01:40:34,320
Speaker 2: since one party is out here like it ain't even

2113
01:40:34,320 --> 01:40:37,240
Speaker 2: a big deal, then of course those people are out

2114
01:40:37,240 --> 01:40:38,840
Speaker 2: here like, yeah, it ain't even a big deal.

2115
01:40:39,400 --> 01:40:40,400
Speaker 1: That makes a lot of sense.

2116
01:40:41,280 --> 01:40:43,599
Speaker 2: Pheeley says, I only go to the store that our

2117
01:40:43,680 --> 01:40:46,280
Speaker 2: five minutes walks from my house, and most times I'm

2118
01:40:46,320 --> 01:40:49,559
Speaker 2: the only one wearing a mask and gloves. Wow, there's

2119
01:40:49,640 --> 01:40:51,840
Speaker 2: cases in my city in the north, in North England,

2120
01:40:51,920 --> 01:40:55,080
Speaker 2: so I really don't understand that people aren't extra cautious.

2121
01:40:55,120 --> 01:40:56,960
Speaker 2: One time, a lady was out with her two kids,

2122
01:40:57,040 --> 01:40:58,879
Speaker 2: no mask of gloves, and one of the little grimins

2123
01:40:58,960 --> 01:41:01,479
Speaker 2: was coughing and they would not give me space. The

2124
01:41:01,600 --> 01:41:04,240
Speaker 2: mom was begging them to, but I ended up having

2125
01:41:04,280 --> 01:41:06,960
Speaker 2: to turn around and politely asked them to give me

2126
01:41:07,040 --> 01:41:10,840
Speaker 2: some space. Felt so bad having to scold someone else's kids,

2127
01:41:11,280 --> 01:41:12,800
Speaker 2: and the lady was so apologetic.

2128
01:41:13,040 --> 01:41:13,320
Speaker 1: Stuff.

2129
01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:15,479
Speaker 2: If stuff wasn't running out from folks who were in

2130
01:41:15,600 --> 01:41:19,120
Speaker 2: early on, I think there'd be less people out desperately

2131
01:41:19,400 --> 01:41:23,439
Speaker 2: looking for necessities. I'm really lucky my local supermarket was

2132
01:41:23,520 --> 01:41:26,519
Speaker 2: brought brought out by an international company. Though would have

2133
01:41:26,640 --> 01:41:29,800
Speaker 2: died without an array of my array of seasonings and

2134
01:41:29,880 --> 01:41:34,439
Speaker 2: tropical fruits. But we are tropical people feelings, so you

2135
01:41:34,479 --> 01:41:35,880
Speaker 2: gotta do what you gotta do to take care you.

2136
01:41:36,000 --> 01:41:41,480
Speaker 2: So okay, all right, that's all the feedback on the website.

2137
01:41:41,560 --> 01:41:44,600
Speaker 2: Thank you everybody who took the time to leave us

2138
01:41:44,640 --> 01:41:49,120
Speaker 2: some feedback. I believe we have one voicemail at the

2139
01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:52,519
Speaker 2: voicemail line which is seven O four five five to

2140
01:41:52,600 --> 01:41:57,160
Speaker 2: seven zero one eight six seven o four five five

2141
01:41:57,200 --> 01:42:01,680
Speaker 2: to seven zero one eighty six. Oh wait, this is

2142
01:42:01,720 --> 01:42:07,439
Speaker 2: a butt dow. Wow, butts have been blowing us up lately. Okay,

2143
01:42:07,600 --> 01:42:10,559
Speaker 2: let me tell you something. Nobody loves as much as

2144
01:42:10,560 --> 01:42:11,080
Speaker 2: a butt down.

2145
01:42:11,320 --> 01:42:13,240
Speaker 3: Nobody loves us as much as these butts.

2146
01:42:13,400 --> 01:42:15,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I think this is a second week in a

2147
01:42:15,240 --> 01:42:18,439
Speaker 2: row we got a butt down, So shout out the

2148
01:42:18,479 --> 01:42:22,000
Speaker 2: butts out. You know, I've always been an ass man,

2149
01:42:22,240 --> 01:42:24,920
Speaker 2: but you know not that it's like picking a favorite

2150
01:42:25,000 --> 01:42:26,040
Speaker 2: child though, really, isn't it.

2151
01:42:26,920 --> 01:42:30,639
Speaker 1: But uh, I guess they love me back. Okay, Yeah,

2152
01:42:31,479 --> 01:42:34,519
Speaker 1: all up on the request line. All right, let me

2153
01:42:34,600 --> 01:42:37,639
Speaker 1: see what emails we have because you know it'll take

2154
01:42:37,680 --> 01:42:41,400
Speaker 1: forever to look on my huh computer, so I'll.

2155
01:42:41,320 --> 01:42:45,240
Speaker 2: Just check the Gmail forever the blackout tips at gmail

2156
01:42:45,280 --> 01:42:49,280
Speaker 2: dot com. Rebecca Wrights saying blacks are human too. Good afternoon,

2157
01:42:49,360 --> 01:42:51,519
Speaker 2: Roder Karen on the subject of the Vow that Vow

2158
01:42:51,680 --> 01:42:54,960
Speaker 2: pastor No. Not only does he have the audacity to

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Speaker 2: hit the needy up for their stimulus checks, but he

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Speaker 2: showed his face on CNN talking about providing twenty seven

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Speaker 2: buses to round up people want to come to his service.

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Speaker 2: He said he was gonna provide a meal ad service

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Speaker 2: for the poor and his words, these people are so

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Speaker 2: poor they don't have access to the internet. That is

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Speaker 2: why I feel we cannot have service online. And then

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Speaker 2: he's well, then how they gonna give you tars? And

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01:43:16,880 --> 01:43:19,920
Speaker 2: then he said that his flocks were being discriminated against

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Speaker 2: and the ACLU should be looking into it. I'll give

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Speaker 2: credit words due to the reporter pointed out that he

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Speaker 2: doesn't need to collect his flock stimulus checks as he

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01:43:26,880 --> 01:43:28,679
Speaker 2: can apply for relief with the government.

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Speaker 1: The pastor said he didn't want to be a burden

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Speaker 1: on the already.

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Speaker 2: Overwhelmed system and the reported report equipped, but you'll take

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Speaker 2: that exempt status. I was hot after watching that, but

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Speaker 2: then I realized, if you're student enough to fall for

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Speaker 2: this bullshit, then you deserve that fleecing. That pastor needs

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Speaker 2: a serious godly lesson and quick. And did you notice

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Speaker 2: in that video the pastor calling out the challenge was.

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Speaker 1: What was behind him?

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Speaker 2: Man, that was a beautiful yacht. Doc bet he got

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Speaker 2: one of the biggest yachts of his flock.

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Speaker 1: Of his flock.

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Speaker 2: If I got the own, you just straight up vow

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Speaker 2: and there's no place for unrepinned man like that. Not

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01:44:04,600 --> 01:44:07,120
Speaker 2: this in his day, not this day and age. Thanks

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01:44:07,160 --> 01:44:10,040
Speaker 2: Gods for another episode so great. I had to write

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Speaker 2: you an email not to worry, though I'm getting paid

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Speaker 2: to do it.

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Speaker 1: On coming to time. Keep safe, Rebecca, thank you. Yeah

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Speaker 1: that's wild.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even notice that.

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01:44:21,040 --> 01:44:22,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, that do the piece of shit. Man.

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01:44:22,560 --> 01:44:25,599
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, man, And you know I am one,

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01:44:26,080 --> 01:44:28,240
Speaker 2: you know, agnostic atheist, whatever you want to call me.

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01:44:29,680 --> 01:44:35,960
Speaker 2: But I'm telling y'all, man, these motherfuckers got to be atheists.

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Speaker 1: Man. It don't make.

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Speaker 2: Sense how the fucking you beat this evil in the

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Speaker 2: name of God unless you really don't believe in that shit.

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01:44:43,280 --> 01:44:45,040
Speaker 2: And you was like, they're gonna give me money for

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01:44:45,160 --> 01:44:48,920
Speaker 2: saying anything, so I could just keep saying, give me

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Speaker 2: your money. I don't gotta do nothing, Just I just

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01:44:53,040 --> 01:44:55,240
Speaker 2: show up and be like, God, want your money, and

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01:44:55,280 --> 01:44:56,400
Speaker 2: they gonna give it to me.

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, I'll do it for a yacht, you know,

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01:45:01,560 --> 01:45:04,160
Speaker 1: for a product. It was either this or go to

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Speaker 1: school for something.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, Simone says episode twenty eighty eight, Hey,

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Speaker 2: Rod and Karen, I have been trying to stay positive

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01:45:11,920 --> 01:45:13,800
Speaker 2: of being at a distance from my ailing Grandmother and

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01:45:13,880 --> 01:45:14,719
Speaker 2: solo quarantine.

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01:45:14,720 --> 01:45:15,320
Speaker 1: It is hard.

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01:45:15,880 --> 01:45:19,639
Speaker 2: Karen and her burgeoning rap freestyle career made me laugh

2214
01:45:19,760 --> 01:45:23,800
Speaker 2: and clap. Thank you for helping me find joy. Rod

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01:45:24,439 --> 01:45:28,559
Speaker 2: you were great too, but MC Karen was a breakout star.

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01:45:29,560 --> 01:45:32,599
Speaker 2: Y'all have some super talented listeners. There are so many

2217
01:45:32,680 --> 01:45:34,599
Speaker 2: times that I learned something new or laugh really hard

2218
01:45:34,680 --> 01:45:37,519
Speaker 2: during the feedback show those beats with flames. Glad you

2219
01:45:37,560 --> 01:45:40,000
Speaker 2: all staying safe and I appreciate every episode that you

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01:45:40,160 --> 01:45:43,360
Speaker 2: make during these crazy pandemic times. Thank you, hard Emoji,

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01:45:43,439 --> 01:45:47,439
Speaker 2: sim Simma, thanks Simone, thank you, and no, I feel

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01:45:47,520 --> 01:45:50,920
Speaker 2: like that whole episode was about Karen and her great freestyling.

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01:45:51,000 --> 01:45:51,639
Speaker 1: So haha.

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01:45:52,000 --> 01:45:54,840
Speaker 2: I don't think I don't take any There's no need

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01:45:54,960 --> 01:45:57,080
Speaker 2: apologize in me. I don't even think I freestyled or

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01:45:57,920 --> 01:46:00,160
Speaker 2: you know you didn't. Yeah, that was all Care with

2227
01:46:00,240 --> 01:46:00,759
Speaker 2: the bars.

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01:46:02,560 --> 01:46:05,200
Speaker 1: She was so good. I was like, what's left to say?

2229
01:46:07,520 --> 01:46:08,960
Speaker 1: Zizzy says, hey, rider care.

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01:46:09,160 --> 01:46:11,320
Speaker 2: I've been meaning to write in for a while now,

2231
01:46:11,400 --> 01:46:13,920
Speaker 2: but I keep getting distracted. I wanted to thank you guys,

2232
01:46:13,960 --> 01:46:16,800
Speaker 2: in particular for the content during the Corona Apocalypse. It's

2233
01:46:16,840 --> 01:46:18,960
Speaker 2: been hard these days not to let the panic and

2234
01:46:19,040 --> 01:46:21,559
Speaker 2: anxiety overwhelm me, but your coverage has helped me get

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01:46:21,680 --> 01:46:24,160
Speaker 2: more confident about leaving the house to go grocery shopping.

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01:46:24,680 --> 01:46:26,439
Speaker 2: I also wanted to say that I grew with rid

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01:46:26,960 --> 01:46:29,680
Speaker 2: about having faith in your government institutions, because trust me,

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01:46:30,240 --> 01:46:31,800
Speaker 2: you don't want to live in a situation where you

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01:46:31,840 --> 01:46:35,439
Speaker 2: can't trust any public officers. Here in Nigeria, the person

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Speaker 2: in charge of our COVID nineteen response is not a

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01:46:37,800 --> 01:46:41,040
Speaker 2: doctor or scientists of any sort. A majority of the

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01:46:41,120 --> 01:46:44,759
Speaker 2: tests that have been done are actually just politicians getting

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01:46:44,800 --> 01:46:47,200
Speaker 2: tested over and over again, while the virus spreads in

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01:46:47,280 --> 01:46:51,000
Speaker 2: local communities that do not have testing being done. To

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01:46:51,160 --> 01:46:53,919
Speaker 2: make matters worse, the president's chief of staff recently succumbed

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01:46:53,920 --> 01:46:56,640
Speaker 2: to the virus, and he came in contact with a

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01:46:56,680 --> 01:46:58,960
Speaker 2: lot of people before you even submitted himself to testing

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01:46:59,000 --> 01:46:59,880
Speaker 2: and eventually died.

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01:47:00,760 --> 01:47:02,840
Speaker 1: We don't actually know the extent of our exposure to

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Speaker 1: or have a strategy.

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01:47:04,439 --> 01:47:06,719
Speaker 2: We've been under lockdown for a month if my state,

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01:47:07,080 --> 01:47:09,320
Speaker 2: but in other states, like where my mom lives, the

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01:47:09,360 --> 01:47:11,840
Speaker 2: state government refuses to take action because the governor thinks

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01:47:11,880 --> 01:47:12,559
Speaker 2: that will make him.

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Speaker 1: Look weak politically. We are all literally living on a

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Speaker 1: prayer here.

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01:47:16,200 --> 01:47:18,040
Speaker 2: So as long as you guys have some people in

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01:47:18,120 --> 01:47:20,760
Speaker 2: authority who are actually doing their jobs, I think it's

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01:47:20,840 --> 01:47:23,640
Speaker 2: right to keep having faith in them. Our situation in

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01:47:23,720 --> 01:47:26,040
Speaker 2: Nigeria makes it very hard to stay positive, but you

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01:47:26,120 --> 01:47:28,840
Speaker 2: guys are big help. Your updates, your jokes, your level

2262
01:47:28,880 --> 01:47:31,479
Speaker 2: heads make me feel like there might be some light

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01:47:31,479 --> 01:47:33,559
Speaker 2: at the end of this tunnel after all. Keep doing

2264
01:47:33,640 --> 01:47:35,880
Speaker 2: what you're doing, and thank you again, God bless you guys.

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01:47:35,960 --> 01:47:37,560
Speaker 2: I just wish I had the coins.

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01:47:37,240 --> 01:47:39,280
Speaker 1: To go premium, but I had a dream that one

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Speaker 1: day I will make it the TVGT mountain top.

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Speaker 2: Amen, stay safe, head healthy, and please stop talking to

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01:47:49,080 --> 01:47:50,160
Speaker 2: those strangers caring.

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01:47:50,160 --> 01:47:53,840
Speaker 1: You're too precious to us. Love Zenzi, thank you. She's

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01:47:53,880 --> 01:47:56,479
Speaker 1: been doing way better with the talking to strangers guys.

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Speaker 4: Nah.

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01:47:57,560 --> 01:48:01,760
Speaker 2: I also have mostly been like you, stick to my

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01:48:01,920 --> 01:48:04,960
Speaker 2: side during the store because people know leave us alone,

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01:48:05,000 --> 01:48:05,600
Speaker 2: that they see me.

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01:48:05,960 --> 01:48:09,200
Speaker 3: And they do they doing. I'm by myselves holding the store.

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01:48:09,240 --> 01:48:11,120
Speaker 2: And thank God for the mask because now we had

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01:48:11,160 --> 01:48:13,519
Speaker 2: a mask so they can't see Karen smiling at them

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01:48:14,840 --> 01:48:17,760
Speaker 2: trying to get attention and shitk you know.

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01:48:17,920 --> 01:48:19,720
Speaker 3: It's been a smile through the mask, but they can't

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01:48:19,720 --> 01:48:19,960
Speaker 3: see it.

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01:48:20,040 --> 01:48:22,560
Speaker 2: It's been a lot safer lately, guys, So you know,

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01:48:22,840 --> 01:48:25,640
Speaker 2: just y'all keep praying for us, though I'm taking it

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01:48:25,680 --> 01:48:28,320
Speaker 2: one day at a time, you know, try to take

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01:48:28,360 --> 01:48:29,559
Speaker 2: her to the stuff where we don't have to get

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01:48:29,600 --> 01:48:32,880
Speaker 2: out the car, you know, the car wash something like that.

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01:48:34,040 --> 01:48:34,160
Speaker 1: Uh.

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01:48:34,680 --> 01:48:37,439
Speaker 2: Feedback show this from Trey, who says, hey, riding Karen,

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01:48:37,880 --> 01:48:39,880
Speaker 2: just wanted to send you to a big thank you.

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01:48:40,000 --> 01:48:42,600
Speaker 2: As my feedback show comments, thanks so much for the

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01:48:42,640 --> 01:48:43,719
Speaker 2: premium discount offer.

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01:48:43,760 --> 01:48:45,639
Speaker 1: I went ahead and took advantage of it and signed

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01:48:45,680 --> 01:48:46,320
Speaker 1: up for premium.

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01:48:46,439 --> 01:48:48,000
Speaker 3: Hey, hey, welcome to the club.

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01:48:48,080 --> 01:48:49,720
Speaker 1: I didn't even know trade wasn't. I don't know. I

2296
01:48:49,760 --> 01:48:51,280
Speaker 1: always assumed you was premium trade.

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01:48:52,080 --> 01:48:53,640
Speaker 2: I was going to do this back in March for

2298
01:48:53,720 --> 01:48:55,560
Speaker 2: my birthday came up, and then the rona head and

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01:48:55,600 --> 01:48:56,440
Speaker 2: my mom started.

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01:48:56,160 --> 01:48:57,040
Speaker 1: Focusing on all the things.

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01:48:57,120 --> 01:49:00,519
Speaker 2: Obviously nothing wrong with that, but anyways, ain't so much

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Speaker 2: for that, and I can't wait to get started listening

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01:49:02,640 --> 01:49:04,160
Speaker 2: to the backlog a premium shows.

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01:49:04,200 --> 01:49:05,160
Speaker 1: Thanks trace win dude.

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01:49:06,320 --> 01:49:10,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, to be honest or just to

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01:49:11,080 --> 01:49:14,080
Speaker 2: elaborate a little bit more, h that was an idea

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01:49:14,160 --> 01:49:16,800
Speaker 2: that Karen had really to to do the sale Karen

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01:49:16,840 --> 01:49:21,720
Speaker 2: is such a businesswoman, you know, like like like I

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01:49:21,840 --> 01:49:23,479
Speaker 2: know how to do a lot of technical stuff, but

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01:49:23,560 --> 01:49:24,439
Speaker 2: Karen's always like.

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01:49:24,479 --> 01:49:25,360
Speaker 1: We could do this, you know.

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01:49:25,680 --> 01:49:28,000
Speaker 2: And sometimes I do come up with stuff too, you know,

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01:49:28,560 --> 01:49:30,519
Speaker 2: like I think I came up with the Black Friday

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01:49:30,600 --> 01:49:35,800
Speaker 2: cal and and uh Cyber Monday sale, and that was

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01:49:35,880 --> 01:49:39,000
Speaker 2: a thing that I wasn't even sure we could do

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01:49:39,120 --> 01:49:41,000
Speaker 2: that on our site, but I figured it. I was

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01:49:41,080 --> 01:49:43,360
Speaker 2: like I kept thinking about it for years and I

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01:49:43,479 --> 01:49:45,360
Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is how we can do it.

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01:49:46,000 --> 01:49:48,280
Speaker 2: And so that was, you know, it was cool to

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01:49:48,360 --> 01:49:51,600
Speaker 2: be able to do that. And I and I know

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01:49:51,920 --> 01:49:55,000
Speaker 2: like in this time, like there's people that you know,

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01:49:56,040 --> 01:49:58,320
Speaker 2: they're trying to save some money, you know, maybe the

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01:49:58,439 --> 01:50:01,479
Speaker 2: premium already, and they're like, well, if I switch over

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01:50:01,560 --> 01:50:03,639
Speaker 2: to this one hundred dollars a year, that's basically eight

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Speaker 2: dollars a month, and for eight dollars a month, I

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01:50:07,080 --> 01:50:09,880
Speaker 2: can swing this, but you know, paying the full price,

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01:50:09,960 --> 01:50:12,400
Speaker 2: I can't anymore. Because I know a lot of people

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01:50:12,439 --> 01:50:15,360
Speaker 2: that that are premium. They actually some of them don't

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01:50:15,360 --> 01:50:18,120
Speaker 2: even listen to shows. They just love and support us

2330
01:50:18,160 --> 01:50:20,680
Speaker 2: and want to make sure that we're here, you know,

2331
01:50:20,880 --> 01:50:22,360
Speaker 2: because we do put out a lot of content, so

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01:50:22,400 --> 01:50:24,160
Speaker 2: they might not even have time to listen all that shit.

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01:50:24,240 --> 01:50:27,080
Speaker 2: But they just want to make sure that we're that

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01:50:27,200 --> 01:50:28,760
Speaker 2: we're here and stuff. And I know that this is

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01:50:28,760 --> 01:50:31,439
Speaker 2: about to be a difficult time and people, you know,

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01:50:31,520 --> 01:50:32,200
Speaker 2: people might have to.

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01:50:32,200 --> 01:50:34,160
Speaker 1: Make some decisions and cut some things.

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01:50:34,800 --> 01:50:37,800
Speaker 2: Uh so I just want to, like, I just like

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01:50:37,960 --> 01:50:40,920
Speaker 2: what Karen's who It was her idea, but I just

2340
01:50:40,960 --> 01:50:42,559
Speaker 2: thought it was such a great idea because it will

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01:50:42,640 --> 01:50:46,880
Speaker 2: provide some people the ability to like have some economic.

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01:50:46,520 --> 01:50:49,280
Speaker 1: Relief and all this. And then, of course, you know,

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01:50:49,360 --> 01:50:50,960
Speaker 1: we made it a joke, you know, because all these

2344
01:50:51,000 --> 01:50:52,280
Speaker 1: commercials on TV are like.

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01:50:53,439 --> 01:50:58,760
Speaker 2: Right now, Ford pickup truck for your stimulus check. You know, yeah,

2346
01:50:58,880 --> 01:51:00,920
Speaker 2: you know it's they really just want your money. They

2347
01:51:00,920 --> 01:51:03,600
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about you. But with us, it's like,

2348
01:51:03,720 --> 01:51:05,320
Speaker 2: if you already had this bill and you want to

2349
01:51:05,400 --> 01:51:08,479
Speaker 2: reduce it, here's a way. But also if you don't

2350
01:51:08,560 --> 01:51:11,960
Speaker 2: have this bill and you want to listen to premium

2351
01:51:12,000 --> 01:51:13,720
Speaker 2: shit because you stuck at home, and now what if

2352
01:51:14,040 --> 01:51:14,759
Speaker 2: there's nothing.

2353
01:51:14,560 --> 01:51:17,879
Speaker 3: Else to do, nothing else to do, So now you're like, hey.

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01:51:17,760 --> 01:51:19,120
Speaker 1: I would love to be able to listen to all

2355
01:51:19,160 --> 01:51:21,800
Speaker 1: this shit. Y'all got that, you know, because I got the.

2356
01:51:21,880 --> 01:51:22,439
Speaker 3: Time, right.

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01:51:22,520 --> 01:51:25,040
Speaker 4: I hear y'all talking about just in the pregame and

2358
01:51:25,160 --> 01:51:26,960
Speaker 4: all this other stuff, and I would love to hear

2359
01:51:26,960 --> 01:51:28,400
Speaker 4: your movie reviews and all that stuff.

2360
01:51:28,479 --> 01:51:29,120
Speaker 1: Now you can't.

2361
01:51:29,400 --> 01:51:32,200
Speaker 2: So anyway, that's what happened, guys. So thank you and

2362
01:51:32,320 --> 01:51:35,080
Speaker 2: thank you for signing up every time I and I

2363
01:51:35,160 --> 01:51:37,080
Speaker 2: get an email every time a new person signs up.

2364
01:51:37,200 --> 01:51:40,200
Speaker 2: And I can't stress enough. If you have any issues

2365
01:51:40,240 --> 01:51:42,639
Speaker 2: on the site, you have any issues with your logging,

2366
01:51:42,840 --> 01:51:47,519
Speaker 2: any issues seeing the premium page, any issues figuring out

2367
01:51:47,560 --> 01:51:51,400
Speaker 2: how to get the RSS fees to work, email me

2368
01:51:51,560 --> 01:51:53,320
Speaker 2: the black guy who took at gmail dot com.

2369
01:51:53,840 --> 01:51:54,680
Speaker 1: We'll figure it out.

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01:51:54,800 --> 01:51:57,680
Speaker 2: I've walked so many people through this shit at this point, y'all, like,

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01:51:58,479 --> 01:52:02,640
Speaker 2: it's not You're not a bother, Okay, Like I know,

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Speaker 2: we're I know. It's the staff of one essentially when

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01:52:05,560 --> 01:52:08,320
Speaker 2: it comes up the staff. When it comes to I,

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Speaker 2: I know, and some people I do.

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01:52:10,600 --> 01:52:12,160
Speaker 3: The other ship is one.

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01:52:12,400 --> 01:52:12,600
Speaker 6: I know.

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01:52:12,720 --> 01:52:15,200
Speaker 2: If you if you're thinking like me, then you're a

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01:52:15,320 --> 01:52:18,000
Speaker 2: person that I don't want to be a bother.

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01:52:18,240 --> 01:52:20,640
Speaker 1: I don't You're not being a bother. You're not a

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01:52:20,720 --> 01:52:21,400
Speaker 1: paint of the ass.

2381
01:52:22,479 --> 01:52:24,920
Speaker 2: If I can walk care through, I have years of training.

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01:52:24,960 --> 01:52:28,280
Speaker 2: I have walked care through so many technical things. There's

2383
01:52:28,360 --> 01:52:31,040
Speaker 2: no way he can be worse than that. Okay, so ah, y'all,

2384
01:52:31,200 --> 01:52:31,840
Speaker 2: and I'm bad.

2385
01:52:32,320 --> 01:52:35,400
Speaker 3: I done went from you know what is a cookiead

2386
01:52:35,520 --> 01:52:37,680
Speaker 3: to being able to do a ring right.

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01:52:37,840 --> 01:52:40,280
Speaker 1: So I'm just saying we you know, we can get

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01:52:40,320 --> 01:52:42,000
Speaker 1: there together. I'm not gonna fuss at you. I'm not.

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01:52:42,640 --> 01:52:45,280
Speaker 2: I'm not like these uh, these other blacks on Twitter

2390
01:52:45,360 --> 01:52:48,799
Speaker 2: that have businesses that then take screenshots of y'all's emails

2391
01:52:48,880 --> 01:52:51,880
Speaker 2: and tell everybody how much they hate having customers who

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01:52:51,920 --> 01:52:52,439
Speaker 2: give them money.

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01:52:52,479 --> 01:52:55,160
Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people. Good customer service, so

2394
01:52:55,600 --> 01:52:57,479
Speaker 1: you know, I worked in corporate America. I know you

2395
01:52:57,560 --> 01:53:00,760
Speaker 1: can't be talking to your customers all crazy if they money. No, sir,

2396
01:53:01,000 --> 01:53:02,960
Speaker 1: email me if you have an issue and I will

2397
01:53:03,040 --> 01:53:03,920
Speaker 1: figure it out together.

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01:53:03,960 --> 01:53:06,000
Speaker 2: I try to get back to people as fast as possible,

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01:53:06,040 --> 01:53:08,920
Speaker 2: but you know, sometimes a nigga got sleep and eating shit.

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01:53:09,040 --> 01:53:11,400
Speaker 1: But you know we'll figure it out, guys. So thank

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01:53:11,439 --> 01:53:13,519
Speaker 1: you to everybody who took the time to sign up.

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01:53:13,600 --> 01:53:16,519
Speaker 2: Period COOLi Hi is the name of this one from

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01:53:16,640 --> 01:53:19,280
Speaker 2: MLN who says, watch COOLi Hi, you will not be disappointed.

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01:53:19,800 --> 01:53:22,960
Speaker 1: Y'all think on this too much. I mentioned I have

2405
01:53:23,120 --> 01:53:24,840
Speaker 1: not seen COOLi high or school days.

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01:53:25,280 --> 01:53:26,360
Speaker 3: Now I see school days.

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01:53:26,439 --> 01:53:26,960
Speaker 1: I don't.

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01:53:27,040 --> 01:53:29,759
Speaker 3: I probably have seen Coolie Hi. I don't remember because

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01:53:29,760 --> 01:53:32,280
Speaker 3: that's been so long ago. I think I have, not sure,

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01:53:32,360 --> 01:53:34,000
Speaker 3: but I know for a fact i've seen school days.

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01:53:34,360 --> 01:53:37,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I'd be too young.

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01:53:37,800 --> 01:53:39,120
Speaker 3: I didn't know what the hell was happening.

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01:53:40,120 --> 01:53:40,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think.

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01:53:40,800 --> 01:53:41,439
Speaker 4: I know.

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01:53:41,520 --> 01:53:44,240
Speaker 2: I haven't seen either one, or if I have, I

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01:53:44,360 --> 01:53:48,559
Speaker 2: definitely don't remember. So uh, it's just a missing hole

2417
01:53:48,640 --> 01:53:52,320
Speaker 2: in my blackness, y'all. Okay, call me ken your barras apparently,

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01:53:52,760 --> 01:53:56,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, not black enough for you, niggas. I'm ungrateful, niggas.

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01:53:56,320 --> 01:53:56,880
Speaker 1: I just kidding.

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01:53:56,920 --> 01:53:59,160
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure I got some black holes too. I've

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01:53:59,160 --> 01:54:01,519
Speaker 4: never seen a why. Yeah, it's some black shit I missed.

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01:54:01,840 --> 01:54:04,880
Speaker 1: Everybody do, man, But whenever someone brings up there, that's

2423
01:54:04,920 --> 01:54:07,120
Speaker 1: when everybody goes crazy. It's funny.

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01:54:07,439 --> 01:54:10,120
Speaker 2: At this point, I'm at this point, it's becoming enough

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01:54:10,200 --> 01:54:13,840
Speaker 2: for me to just like, like low key don't want

2426
01:54:13,880 --> 01:54:17,280
Speaker 2: to watch it because of how it makes people feel.

2427
01:54:18,200 --> 01:54:21,240
Speaker 2: Because I know, because I know everyone got them, and

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01:54:21,320 --> 01:54:23,800
Speaker 2: this can be part of my personality is that I

2429
01:54:23,960 --> 01:54:27,680
Speaker 2: have these are my two you know, it's like, oh,

2430
01:54:28,040 --> 01:54:30,240
Speaker 2: you never seen a feel of a black hat or

2431
01:54:30,280 --> 01:54:32,680
Speaker 2: some shit, and it's like it's like it's like it's

2432
01:54:32,760 --> 01:54:34,800
Speaker 2: like pouring for me to look in a black person's

2433
01:54:34,880 --> 01:54:37,640
Speaker 2: face when they see that out that my blackness is

2434
01:54:37,720 --> 01:54:41,640
Speaker 2: incomplete when I let them know, like you know, I

2435
01:54:41,680 --> 01:54:45,040
Speaker 2: don't know whatever, just some iconic black I've never seen

2436
01:54:45,120 --> 01:54:47,320
Speaker 2: you Jack City. I mean I have a million times,

2437
01:54:47,400 --> 01:54:50,120
Speaker 2: but if I could just see, maybe I'm gonna make

2438
01:54:50,200 --> 01:54:52,080
Speaker 2: up some so I can look at people's face just

2439
01:54:52,120 --> 01:54:54,440
Speaker 2: to fuck with them, like they could be like if

2440
01:54:54,440 --> 01:54:56,160
Speaker 2: my my brother's keep it and not just turning them

2441
01:54:56,200 --> 01:54:57,240
Speaker 2: like what are you talking about?

2442
01:54:58,080 --> 01:55:00,640
Speaker 1: Am I brother's keep it?

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01:55:00,760 --> 01:55:00,880
Speaker 4: You know?

2444
01:55:01,160 --> 01:55:05,640
Speaker 1: From the movie? What movie? New Jack City? What is

2445
01:55:05,720 --> 01:55:06,200
Speaker 1: that about?

2446
01:55:06,320 --> 01:55:09,080
Speaker 2: Like I did just look at their face explode because

2447
01:55:09,120 --> 01:55:11,280
Speaker 2: they'd be like, how the nigga that's black not know

2448
01:55:12,160 --> 01:55:12,640
Speaker 2: this ship?

2449
01:55:12,800 --> 01:55:13,200
Speaker 4: Like I was.

2450
01:55:13,400 --> 01:55:15,280
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm that would be my new thing. That's gonna

2451
01:55:15,320 --> 01:55:18,920
Speaker 1: be my new thing, pretend not to get people's fucking

2452
01:55:19,040 --> 01:55:22,800
Speaker 1: references and ship. All right, y'all, We'll talk to y'all later. Man,

2453
01:55:23,200 --> 01:55:27,000
Speaker 1: until next time. I think, Oh tomorrow, I guess.

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01:55:26,840 --> 01:55:32,200
Speaker 2: Will be Jail Covid, who's fireside craps uh Volume two,

2455
01:55:32,320 --> 01:55:35,840
Speaker 2: The Deuce is available for pre order on iTunes right

2456
01:55:35,920 --> 01:55:37,360
Speaker 2: now our pre ordered mine.

2457
01:55:38,960 --> 01:55:39,600
Speaker 1: And then.

2458
01:55:40,960 --> 01:55:43,640
Speaker 2: I put feelers out to several other people about being

2459
01:55:43,720 --> 01:55:47,600
Speaker 2: on the show, So we'll we'll, we'll find out soon

2460
01:55:47,680 --> 01:55:50,840
Speaker 2: who else is coming on. But yeah, figure, if everyone's

2461
01:55:50,840 --> 01:55:52,080
Speaker 2: stuck in the house, you might as well see if

2462
01:55:52,080 --> 01:55:52,880
Speaker 2: we can get some guests back.

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01:55:53,120 --> 01:55:55,840
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, until next time. I love you.

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Speaker 4: Why