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Speaker 1: this is tesl Figure with straight Shot No Chaser this

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Speaker 1: I always pull you guys in and record my podcast

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Speaker 1: My mother told me she was very old school. Men

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Speaker 1: don't want ready made families. That's what my mother taught me.

427
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Speaker 1: My mother didn't have any children when she married my dad.

428
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Speaker 1: Her mother didn't have any children when she married her dad,

429
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Speaker 1: and so on and so on every generation. So I

430
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Speaker 1: was just raised you don't not to be a baby mama,

431
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Speaker 1: be a wife. Now, sometimes your marriage doesn't work out,

432
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Speaker 1: and that's why I rebuke the name baby mama. I'm

433
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Speaker 1: an ex wife. There is a difference, a huge difference.

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Speaker 1: Any man will tell you there is a huge difference

435
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Speaker 1: with being with a man and marrying a man, and

436
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 1: your relationship didn't work out, and y'all got a divorce

437
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 1: and now you're co parenting as husband, ex husband and

438
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:14,439
Speaker 1: ex wife. Huge difference. Then baby mama, baby daddy, Baby mama,

439
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 1: baby daddy is a very casual way. My ex husband

440
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Speaker 1: calls me his ex wife, and I call him ex husband.

441
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Speaker 1: But that's just because I was raised that way. I

442
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 1: was raised that way that those titles have meaning to it.

443
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Speaker 1: Don't get offended by what I said. I'm just telling you.

444
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: I can't help but tell you how I was raised. Also,

445
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 1: my ex husband. This is our only child. He doesn't

446
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 1: have children by anybody else either, And that was one

447
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 1: thing that we talked about. We don't after we got divorced.

448
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: We're not having children all over the place. We wanted

449
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 1: that to be special, reserved for my child. But I

450
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: believe in things being special and reserved. I'm a big

451
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Speaker 1: believer in that. And again, this is not to anybody

452
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 1: that got baby Mama's baby. I'm not shaming y'all at all.

453
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm just he has my opinion, and so that's that's

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Speaker 1: how I see it. I also think there's something to

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Speaker 1: be said about let's tap into that a little bit

456
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:30,120
Speaker 1: when we talk about black families. Now, many women will

457
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 1: date outside of the race. None wrong with it. Open

458
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Speaker 1: up your I salute them, I encourage them. I yeah,

459
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Speaker 1: you're right. You said you call it my first wife,

460
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 1: not my ex baby Mama. I heard that. Actually he

461
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:50,119
Speaker 1: calls me his forever wife. But we can set that aside,

462
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 1: and he means by that meaning he'll forever have my

463
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Speaker 1: back and he has a woman. By the way, there's

464
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Speaker 1: something I want to also tap into when we talk

465
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: about what you ain't gonna do and how you ain't

466
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 1: gonna do this, and who ain't gonna do this, and

467
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 1: who aint gonna do that. I do think women who

468
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: date outside the race, they do have more privilege or opportunity.

469
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: I guess it's a better word, because they've opened up.

470
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Speaker 1: They're casting, casting a wide net. For me. I only

471
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Speaker 1: date black men. So when the joke is like the

472
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Speaker 1: other day when they said, oh no, you got to

473
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Speaker 1: have money talk to test or you gotta be this

474
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Speaker 1: to talk to tech, I'm a revolutionary. So I only

475
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Speaker 1: date black men. And that's why I always make those

476
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Speaker 1: corrections when people put me in a box, a city

477
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Speaker 1: girl conversation box, because I really do fight for the

478
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Speaker 1: better men of black people every day, and I understand

479
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: the income gap, wealth ratio between black people and white people.

480
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Speaker 1: And this is not even just because I'm only attracted

481
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Speaker 1: to black men sexually and physically. What I'm saying, my

482
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Speaker 1: spirit and who I am in fighting for our race

483
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Speaker 1: means why I can why my my pool is only

484
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 1: for black men. With that said, there are a lot

485
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Speaker 1: of things that black men have had to tackle in

486
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 1: this country, not for everybody, like they like to joke

487
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Speaker 1: about me talking to men with felons, y'all, don't urt

488
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 1: my feelings talking about men with felons. They does hurt

489
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Speaker 1: my feelings at all because the reality of it is

490
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 1: that more men have been in prison than those who

491
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: are in slave since eighteen fifty. So that doesn't bother

492
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Speaker 1: me because a lot of men have misdemeanors and felonies

493
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 1: because black men have been criminalized. So when y'all take

494
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Speaker 1: y'all time and go on go on the Breakfast Club YouTube,

495
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: she only day men with felonies only day, Well, that

496
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Speaker 1: just mean that I only my pool of men, not

497
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Speaker 1: saying all black men have feelings, not what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying is if you only day black men,

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Speaker 1: only day black men, according to the numbers, they might

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Speaker 1: have a misdemeanor, they might have a felony, They might

501
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Speaker 1: have a baby mama, they might have some brokenness. They

502
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Speaker 1: may have a college loan. They may not have no

503
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 1: kids at all, but they may have a college loan.

504
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: They may be on child support, they may come from

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Speaker 1: a single parent household and all the brokenness that comes

506
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Speaker 1: with that. So because my pool is only for black men, yeah,

507
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: I kind of gotta be flexible on some of the

508
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:09,919
Speaker 1: things that y'all like to mock and make fun of

509
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 1: put a two in the chat if you understand that.

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Speaker 1: Matter of fact, let's put up a stat while I'm

511
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: waiting on the tubes, because I know somebody feeling me.

512
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Speaker 1: So when we say that thirty three percent, let's just

513
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: do let's just do the number game. So this is

514
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Speaker 1: why y'all don't be hurting my feelings. And may I

515
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Speaker 1: can't wait. By the way, in the new year, y'all,

516
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go up to the Reverence Club. We'na have

517
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Speaker 1: a full conversation. I've been waiting on the third host

518
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 1: to start. But we can we go buy the numbers?

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Speaker 1: Do y'all mind if we go by the numbers? This

520
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 1: is as of twenty ten. Obviously it's changed since then.

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00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: We know the numbers ain't no better. But three percent

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Speaker 1: of the total US population, fifteen percent of the African

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Speaker 1: American population has served time in prison. People with felony

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Speaker 1: convictions broadly account for eight percent of the overall population

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Speaker 1: and thirty three percent of the African male population. Did

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Speaker 1: y'all not hear that have felonies have felony convictions? Do

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Speaker 1: you believe that every black man that got a felony

528
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:37,199
Speaker 1: did the did the crime? You a fool if you

529
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Speaker 1: believe every black man that has a felony did the crime.

530
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: Ya ain't never heard of being criminalized. You ain't never

531
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: heard of taking plea deals because you can't afford representation.

532
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 1: Y'all ain't never heard of that. So y'all not hurt

533
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 1: my feelings when y'all say she only dating with felies,

534
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 1: Well shit, because I only day black men. So hell

535
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: that if I say I ain't gonna talk to nobody

536
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: that got a felony, I ain't gonna talk to nobody

537
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: that got a misdemeanor, I ain't gonna talk to nobody

538
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: if they credit ain't perfect. I ain't gonna talk to

539
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: nobody who ain't graduated college. I ain't gonna talk about.

540
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 1: Well shit, you done wipe out all the damn near

541
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: all the black men in the in society. And yes,

542
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 1: we know there are black men that went to college

543
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: that don't have no problems and don't have no felonies

544
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 1: and don't have no misdemeanors and that, But guess what,

545
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: he probably don't relate to me, because if you haven't

546
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 1: been ever pulled over and criminalized and possibly got a

547
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 1: misdemeanor A constantly something you probably don't have a lifestyle

548
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 1: that I relate to. And I'm not saying I only

549
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: relate to criminals because by the way, by the way,

550
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: for those of y'all that like to clown about me

551
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: talking to men with felonies, shut out to you vice,

552
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: I see you, baby. By the way, I've never been arrested,

553
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: so let's just be clear about that. I've never been arrested.

554
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: I don't have a felony. My credit score stay in

555
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: the seven fifties up six fifty six eighty. If I

556
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: got a couple of inquiries that I've done. I own

557
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: multiple houses. I know how to get the bag. I

558
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: was an ex wife for thirteen years. I got one

559
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: child that I had with my husband for seven years.

560
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: Before I even had the baby, we were married thirteen years.

561
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: I got multiple degrees, and y'all see the pictures. So

562
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: I don't even have to go there. And I'm a

563
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: safe old sexualist dream meaning you can sit right here

564
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: on this live and not look at my face, and

565
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: I can massage your mind. So let's not so, I

566
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: just want to be clear when y'all go in talking

567
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 1: about I date men with fail on these because I

568
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: gotta settle. Who gotta settle, who gotta settle what I'm saying, No,

569
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: we do have to explain the baby. We must explain it.

570
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: I love it when people say, you ain't got to

571
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: explain all of this. Yes, that's why I'm recording a podcast.

572
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 1: I am recording a podcast to explain the baby. I

573
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 1: have a master's in adult education. To educate you. I'm

574
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: here to explain. This is all why I'm here to explain.

575
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: The only people that say that, no disrespect to you.

576
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: But the only people that say that are people that

577
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: can't explain. The only people that say that the people

578
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: that can't present to the receipts. The only people that

579
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: say that are people that feel triggered by my receipts.

580
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: We must explain it. Yes, they must know. They must know.

581
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: I'm not defending myself. Baby, I'm educating. I'm only here

582
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: to educate. I'm not defending myself. I'm actually bragging. I'm

583
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: actually bragging. I'm actually bragging. Actually I'm actually bragging. I'm

584
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: letting these brothers know because most of my colleagues, most

585
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: of the women who are who do the same thing

586
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: that I do, like if you go listen to the

587
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club today and you listen to what Lauren said today,

588
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: you listen with Carrie said today, you listen to ebn

589
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: K womens and said today, if you listen to the

590
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: women who are in my circle, none of them are

591
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 1: talking like this. So I must let I must let

592
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: brothers know that some women in my circle talk like this.

593
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 1: I must let them know that. Everybody like you saw

594
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: me yesterday when Lauren told that brother, they called in

595
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,959
Speaker 1: and said I was gorgeous, and she said, well you

596
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: better have money. I don't come in her Instagram, don't

597
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: come in her chat, and I correct that on the spot.

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00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: Girls speak for yourself. I don't move like that. I

599
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: don't move like that. I don't measure a man by

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Speaker 1: his money. Don't put me on that and let me

601
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: let me let you know some ladies who thinking that

602
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: it's a pick me, It ain't a pick me. Because

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00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: m n k Waye's my girlfriend. She got every right

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00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: as a millionaire, she got every right to say she

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00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: only want a date a millionaire. I am not a

606
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: pick me, not by long shot. What I am saying

607
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: is I can't measure a man by his money. Because

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00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: I only date black men, so that means my options

609
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: are going to be fewer. And I know that based

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00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: upon the income gap ratio and based upon opportunities that

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00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: I may have had that he didn't have, I have

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00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: to be open to the idea that more than likely

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00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,719
Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna make more money than him because of

614
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: the way the situation is set up. But do not

615
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: be confused, and don't think that it's lawyers and doctors

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00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: and y'all have been on my live long enough for

617
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: those of y'all to follow me. Y'all know the good

618
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: doctor that always shoot his shot every time. He's the

619
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: cheap of medicine in his town. So don't get it twisted.

620
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: The men from all sides, all walks of life, shout

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Speaker 1: out to you, baby, I see you little only thanks

622
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: for joining me. Men from all sides of life approach me.

623
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Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, I don't measure an I cannot

624
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: measure a man only by his money because I am

625
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: an activist in real life, not a city girl. So

626
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: I fight for black equality in black black power. And

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00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: so if I understand the income gap ratio, and I

628
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 1: understand that a lot of my brothers may have a misdemeanor,

629
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: may have a fellow according to the record, thirty three percent.

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Speaker 1: According to all of that, I can be in a

631
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 1: position to say, well, you ain't no man if you

632
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 1: only make X, y Z, so it don't make me

633
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: a pig me. It makes me understand the situation that

634
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 1: brothers are in. But don't get that twisted. That don't

635
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: mean that I am okay with accepting a man that

636
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: don't work, because you do need to work. A man

637
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: that don't work don't eat. What I'm saying is I

638
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: don't expect you don't have to make a million dollars

639
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Speaker 1: just because I do. That's what I'm saying. What I

640
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,239
Speaker 1: want to know is do you get your ass up,

641
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: do you go to work, and more importantly, do you

642
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: take care of your children? And do you take care

643
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: of your children with whatever you do have? Because not

644
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: all men are rich. But at the same time, my

645
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: sisters that go get the bag like me, they got

646
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: every right to say they only want a man they

647
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: got money. That's fine. I'm just telling you that's not

648
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: my get out. That's why I corrected it yesterday on

649
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club on air when she said that don't

650
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: you ain't got no money, don't come to her Instagram chairs,

651
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,719
Speaker 1: don't play them games. Girls speak for yourself. Don't put

652
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: that city girl shit on me, because I am a

653
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: whole activist in the documentary symbol and I'm out here

654
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: fighting for us, and I can't put a measure of it.

655
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: I don't measure a man buy his money. I do

656
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: measure you by your ambition and your hustle, though I

657
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: do measure you if you want more. I do measure

658
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: you to see if you're trying to be more, If

659
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: you take whatever card that's been given to you on

660
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: the table and you're working it as best you can,

661
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: That's what I look at. But I cannot measure you

662
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: by the simple fact that you don't have a podcast,

663
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: or you're not a rapper, or you're not a football player,

664
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Speaker 1: or you didn't go to medical school like you didn't

665
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: go to you know that. And again, if you have

666
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Speaker 1: an we have some challenges, some bruises in your life.

667
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 1: We probably don't a line anyway. We probably don't a

668
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 1: line anyway. Great Christen, somebody asked me or you asking

669
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:18,240
Speaker 1: me about Polly. I support endorse open relationships. I believe

670
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: in open relationships. Shout out everybody's listening. We are doing

671
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: the straight shot, no chase of live podcasts. We go

672
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: all over the place. Those who are just listening, we

673
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: go all over the place. On Fridays, I'd like to

674
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: be a little bit more casual. Somebody as do I

675
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: support open relationships? Absolutely? I do, but it's not for everybody.

676
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: And somebody says, well, what is an open relationship? Well,

677
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: I'll give you my definition. An open relationship is we

678
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: both have a very honest conversation about what contract we

679
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 1: gonna sit down and agree to. Some of you are

680
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 1: in open relationships, you just never agreed to the contract.

681
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: Let me say it again. That went over their head, Lonie,

682
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 1: some of them. Some of y'all are in open relationships,

683
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 1: but you never agreed to the contract, meaning you just

684
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: pret to not see what your man is doing. And

685
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 1: I commend women who have the ability to do that.

686
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have the strength, I don't have

687
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: the I don't have the gift as you will that

688
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: y'all have to pretend like you didn't see that he

689
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: just came in from being out all night long and

690
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: tell you where he was at and all of that.

691
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: Because I'm kind of. I'm a smart I'm a smart chick,

692
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 1: not only in my book smart, but I'm street smart.

693
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: And so I don't I don't like I don't like

694
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: being I don't like being played with. So I'd rather

695
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: we just keep it all the way abuck. And this

696
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: is how we're gonna do it, and we're gonna move

697
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: forward like that. Now, what if I tell you this

698
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: is something my my best friend has a hard time grasping.

699
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: Some men have a hard time grasp Do you believe

700
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: that you can be in an old relationship that's still monogamous?

701
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 1: Do y'all even know what that means? I'll give you

702
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: an example. You know how when they pull you over

703
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: and they say you got the right to remain silent,

704
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: that means that you can be silent or you can

705
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: be quiet, But I like to know I got the right.

706
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 1: So what that means is in an open relationship, my

707
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: contract is I may not date anybody but you, But

708
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: knowing that you have the right relieves a lot of

709
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: pressure off the relationship. So that way we ain't got

710
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 1: to argue about where you was at and who called

711
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: you and who is that tech. We move all that

712
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 1: on out the way somebody said, not true for me.

713
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,799
Speaker 1: It's true because remember an open relationship, you sitting down

714
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 1: with your woman and deciding what worse for you. Every

715
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: open relationship has different rules. I'm about to really go

716
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: there now, Loni. They ain't gonna be ready for this one.

717
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: It's gonna go way over your head, but it's gonna

718
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 1: hit some of y'all ladies. Do you know? I know

719
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: y'all think, and I'm a very independent woman, by the way,

720
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 1: but do y'all know y'all can't do what men do.

721
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:50,359
Speaker 1: I'm just curious. Do y'all know that you can't ever

722
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: do what men do and still be looked at it

723
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: as a lady? Do you know that there's a difference

724
00:36:55,040 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: between a man and a woman. I'm just curious. I'm

725
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: just curious. Jay seven four, I can't remember your name,

726
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: but you said you tame women. Baby, you ain't got

727
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 1: to tame no woman. She gonna she, she will humbly submit.

728
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: You ain't got to tame women. She's gonna humbly submit

729
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 1: out the gate. Women know when they women know leadership.

730
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,240
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody got to tame nobody when you are a leader,

731
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: and women know. Women know when they in the company

732
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,800
Speaker 1: of a woof. I promise you that a lot of

733
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 1: y'all get my personic confuse on what y'all see in politics.

734
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: That is not how I am in my relationship, not

735
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 1: at all. You ain't got to tame me. We come in, salute,

736
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 1: let me salute, baby automatically, boy down when you in

737
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 1: the presence of a man. So you ain't got to

738
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: take if you got to do all their wrestling entertainment,

739
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: they don't do that in the wilderness. Don't a lion,

740
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: don't tame a lioness, and a lioness is a cold,

741
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: cold blooded hunter. A lion don't even take a lion

742
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: walk up on the scene and everybody gets in position.

743
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: So if you gotta do all their taming, I'm talking

744
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 1: to them now long and they ain't ready for this one.

745
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,879
Speaker 1: If you gotta do all their taming, I don't know, baby,

746
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: some off, some off, some off in their bedroom, some

747
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: off in that talk game. Some may some may't add up.

748
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: Because I promise you y'all remember baby boy, that movie

749
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: when over, when Daddy went in there and handle that biz.

750
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: Oh girl got them got to clean that house. That's

751
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: how it work in real life. You ain't got to

752
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 1: do all their taming, taming for who and for what,

753
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: Taming for who and for what? Baby, were looking were

754
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: looking for leadership. That's the part y'all get y'all really

755
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: get twisted. That's the part y'all really get twitted. You

756
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: ain't got to tame no woman. Baby. We look for lee.

757
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: We sniff it out, sniff it out, Like the line is,

758
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: do we sniff it out? So you you ain't got

759
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: to do if you taming, some may't. Some ain't have

760
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:52,800
Speaker 1: up either you looking for a woman, either you or

761
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: a woman that don't want a relationship you. You're trying

762
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 1: to be You're trying to make a city girl something different,

763
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 1: are you? Some ain't Your kingship ain't on point. That's

764
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying. Baby, take it

765
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: from me. Even though y'all swear y'all know, but y'all

766
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:11,919
Speaker 1: don't nothing about me. Y'all ain't dating me. You ain't

767
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: ver been my man. You don't know nothing about me

768
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 1: and what I'm telling you, even my political persona, which

769
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm the same person. I'm not the same person in

770
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: my relationship with a man, not at all. Because I'm

771
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: only gonna be with an alpha man only, and that

772
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,919
Speaker 1: he's only gonna have it one way, so you ain't

773
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: got to be doing all attainment. She's automatically affigate, she

774
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 1: will submit if you are a leader. Those are just facts.

775
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: So in the scope of open relationship, although you have

776
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: an open relationship, I will warn you, ladies that if

777
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 1: you want to do the tip for tack, what he

778
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 1: do is what I do, and I'm gonna do what

779
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:46,439
Speaker 1: he do, and he go do this, and I'm gonna

780
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 1: go do that. I'm just saying, be warned. Just be

781
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: aware that there might be a loss of respect somewhere

782
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: down the line. And if you don't, don't say, well

783
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,479
Speaker 1: he did it so I can do it. Yep. Alpha

784
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 1: submissive that's a real thing. Yeah, alpha submissive is a

785
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 1: real thing. That means submissive to you. But I can

786
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: still close a business deal. Not everybody can handle it

787
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:19,799
Speaker 1: though you don't have the type of time to be

788
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 1: marrying a man. He absolutely absolutely So that was the conversation. Guys,

789
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: I won't hold you along. If you want to hear

790
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 1: this again, you certainly can go listen to this straight

791
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 1: shot no chase of podcast. We dealt with baby mamas.

792
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 1: How many baby mamas would you deal with? If you

793
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: are coming into a relationship worrying about if he's still

794
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: over there sleeping with that baby mama, you gonna have

795
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 1: a problem, because again, that should never be the concern,

796
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: because that man gonna be where they want to be.

797
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: He could be with another woman he don't have no

798
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,919
Speaker 1: baby with. You can't control I'm gonna say this before

799
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: we get out of it. You can't never control where

800
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: no man gonna be. And that's how they really this

801
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: hard for him to understand when I say that that

802
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: man gonna be where he want to be. He's gonna

803
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: be where he want to be. Have your boundaries, have

804
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: your guidelines on what you will and will not accept.

805
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 1: One thing I know about a man. If I don't

806
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 1: know nothing else, I know he gonna be where he

807
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 1: want to be. That I know, And ain't no baby

808
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: gonna keep him. There, ain't no marriage gonna keep him. There,

809
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: ain't no threatening, no man of fighting, no matter whatever.

810
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,800
Speaker 1: At some point, he gonna get tired, he's gonna move on. Women,

811
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 1: we tend to stay longer than we need to. One

812
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: thing I know about a man, No, it don't take

813
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: when he get tired, he move on. So don't think

814
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: that a baby's keeping him in with that woman. He

815
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: wants to be in that woman's life. And he may

816
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: be telling you, well, I gotta do it because of

817
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 1: the band. No, he want to be in that woman's life.

818
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: Men do what they want to do. Women do what

819
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: they feel they need to do. Feelings when they move

820
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: off feelings. Men do what they want to do. And

821
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: if you ain't took nothing else on this podcast, take

822
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 1: that all right, y'all, y'all have a wonderful day, Happy Friday.

823
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 1: Hope you had a chance to watch the front page news.

824
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 1: If you did not, make sure you tap in next

825
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: week from Page News. Yeah, every day at six am,

826
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 1: seven am on the Breakfast Club always. You can depend

827
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: on me dropping content every week on the Straight Shot.

828
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: No chase of podcasts. I done left, y'all about three

829
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: hundred plus episodes full of game. If you like this,

830
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: you would definitely like the others. Please do them in

831
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: favor and subscribe. I don't ask you all the donations,

832
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: I don't ask you anything at all, but I do

833
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: ask for that one thing. Can you please subscribe? I

834
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: don't need to land my plane baby, if I want

835
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:23,760
Speaker 1: to go on forty five more minutes, I'm the captain

836
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 1: of this ship. I don't have to land nothing. See

837
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: that's where you're getting a twisted. You can get your parachute.

838
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: See I was about to close, but now I got

839
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: to go there. I am the captain of this ship.

840
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: Now what you can do is get that ragged ass

841
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: parachute and jump your ass out the plane. If it's

842
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: taking too long for me to circle the block and landed,

843
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: I was about to land it. But just because you

844
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,280
Speaker 1: said landed, I'm gonna go on another two three minutes.

845
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: I was going in my clothes. But you can take

846
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: you and your and that raggedy ass parachute that you

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Speaker 1: brought on this bitch and jump on out. You could

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Speaker 1: just jump on out, and we ain't gonna circle the

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Speaker 1: block looking for you, and we ain't gonna do it sos,

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Speaker 1: and we ain't gonna say damn what they say overboard.

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Speaker 1: Now we're gonna let you just go ahead and get that.

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Speaker 1: Go get that. You don't like the way this plane

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Speaker 1: is circling the block, I still got gas. I just

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Speaker 1: I'm Southwest Airlines. I was just about to land on

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Speaker 1: the South now about to take it looping back and

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Speaker 1: go to the west, just because you talk. Just out

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Speaker 1: of spike, y'all, don't land shit. I'm the pilot of

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Speaker 1: this of this plane. Shout out to X. Someingburg being

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Speaker 1: petty putting a pair of parachutes in the thad. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: get his brother a parachute. Get a parachute, and get

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Speaker 1: on up out of here. Y'all look for the parachute

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Speaker 1: the most. Y'all talk another fifteen minutes. I go on

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Speaker 1: another fifteen minutes, just out of spite. You don't tell

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Speaker 1: me what the land I land. When I get good

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Speaker 1: and damn ready, I will drive this car and circle

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Speaker 1: this block, and circle this plane and go back and

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Speaker 1: forth and serve peanuts and all kind of shit. I've

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Speaker 1: run this page. You don't tell me what to do.

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Speaker 1: Get your ass off the plane is if you don't

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Speaker 1: like it. See, I was trying to be nice. Some

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Speaker 1: people come to this just so I can clown. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Put a three in the chatter every time. If I

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Speaker 1: go live, y'all looking at me, go on off, y'all

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Speaker 1: want to go off on? Somebody put a three in

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Speaker 1: the chat. Tell the truth. If y'all really come here

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Speaker 1: because y'all really hoping and praying somebody tried. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: don't tell me what to do. Go tell Joe Biden

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Speaker 1: what to do. Go tell your mammy what to do.

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00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: Go tell your baby mama what to do. You don't

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Speaker 1: tell me what to do. I'm not your woman, and

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Speaker 1: you damn show ain't my daddy. My daddy in the grave,

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Speaker 1: and you ain't my man, So you don't tell me

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Speaker 1: what to do. You sitting there and you listen. Now,

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Speaker 1: with that said, I hope y'all have a wonderful weekend.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you tap in on the Breakfast Club every Monday,

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Speaker 1: Monday through Friday six am, seven am, so that we

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Speaker 1: can give give you the Front Patient News and get

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Speaker 1: in my front page news. I call it the Front

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Speaker 1: Patient News News Bureau because every week I try to

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Speaker 1: drop maybe about five ten extra stories that I didn't

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Speaker 1: get a chance to cover. I only have time to

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Speaker 1: cover fifteen stories a week. Even though y'all be telling

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Speaker 1: me you didn't cover this, it, you didn't cover that,

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Speaker 1: Why you didn't cover it? This isn't when you gonna

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Speaker 1: comever that. Boy, it's so amazing, Angela, you been doing

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Speaker 1: the front page news for thirteen years, and y'all wasn't

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Speaker 1: on her. I ain't seen Nan comment at all in

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Speaker 1: none of the youtubes about the Front Patient News. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm doing the Front Patient News now. All of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: y'all expected to be c span. Y'all want me to

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Speaker 1: be investigative reporters, go down on the ground with every story,

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Speaker 1: get extra information, bring it back to y'all, y'all something else.

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Speaker 1: I guess that means y'all got her expectations for me,

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Speaker 1: I guess. So make sure y'all tap in from Page

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Speaker 1: News you want to hear. I really feel about things

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Speaker 1: come on the podcast. I just don't have that kind

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Speaker 1: of time to address it. I got about two to

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Speaker 1: three minutes to address it on the Breakfast Club. So

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Speaker 1: runway clear, land the plane where I can land it now,

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Speaker 1: because I'm ready to land it. But that's when we

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Speaker 1: sweep your ass upbout the way. That's the bottom line.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, y'all have a great weekend. I'll talk to

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Speaker 1: you later. Peace. Peace. If you like what you heard

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