Speaker 1: Whispery scene whispery seen sneak like I leg you just that.
Speaker 1: I used to be like, hey, can you put my
Speaker 1: stuff to the side? An then the tab come out
Speaker 1: of you that I putting your card down because I
Speaker 1: already paid.
Speaker 2: Y'all don't got a word right, But why you whispery?
Speaker 2: I'm shamed? What do you mean while am I whispering? Bitch?
Speaker 2: You hosses ordered for lay me? Y'all? Medium rare brussels
Speaker 2: sprous with parmesan truffle, mashed potatoes with extra gru potatoes. Bitch,
Speaker 2: I don't even know what a grunt is. Of course,
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed, bitch, I ordered a season saddle with no crewton.
Speaker 2: Yeah the fuck? What's up? Y'all? It's your girl, Alex
Speaker 2: p And it's your girl drain and the call and
Speaker 2: you are tuned in to another episode of Pull.
Speaker 1: Mine, where a drunk mind speaks soberthight.
Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today, We ain't got no
Speaker 2: guests today? Who I just took a shot? Sorry, my
Speaker 2: throat burning? You know what I like when we dress
Speaker 2: like this because it gives our personalities, does he? Yes,
Speaker 2: it's given like bougie. You mean business. You mean business.
Speaker 2: You're gonna walk into a business meeting right now putting
Speaker 2: somebody in the chest.
Speaker 1: You don't do that. But I'm saying I'm aggress You've
Speaker 1: never bunched nobody the whole time I've known you.
Speaker 2: But I'm aggressive. I'm just saying, it's given our personalities. Chill,
Speaker 2: just in the field with it. You feel me, Okay,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So what's up, girl? Nothing, girl,
Speaker 2: Just it's another week, Just another week. Let me ask
Speaker 2: you a question because I saw somebody post something very
Speaker 2: interesting and I'm not gonna say what it was or
Speaker 2: what it was. I'm gonna just ask you this. If
Speaker 2: somebody is born somewhere and then they move when they're
Speaker 2: a tiny tot anything under the age of I'll stay
Speaker 2: five years old. They're born somewhere and they move when
Speaker 2: they're five, and they're raised in this city, is it
Speaker 2: okay that they claim the city that they were raised
Speaker 2: in from five and above. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think five is a young age, So yeah, to me,
Speaker 1: that's fine.
Speaker 2: I'm saying I think that.
Speaker 1: When I think it's weird when people are adults, like
Speaker 1: move somewhere, when they're adults, and they claim right. I
Speaker 1: think that's a little strange because I mean, no, if
Speaker 1: you live somewhere for twenty years, if you live somewhere
Speaker 1: for fifteen years, that's where you're from. Now, if you
Speaker 1: move somewhere when you're five years old, you probably don't
Speaker 1: even remember the place that you originally lived.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So I just I saw something.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I said, I'm not gonna say it, but like,
Speaker 2: for example, my sister, we were both born in California,
Speaker 2: and my sister moved you know, when we were she
Speaker 2: was about she was five and I was two. And
Speaker 2: I'm from Orange Texas. I'm not from California. My sister
Speaker 2: is from Orange Texas. She's not from California. And I
Speaker 2: just think it's so where and people be like, oh,
Speaker 2: you can't claim from here.
Speaker 1: You were born.
Speaker 2: Here, bookie butt or girl, wherever you were raised at
Speaker 2: where I feel like third grade and I'll even take
Speaker 2: it further, little give you some more years third grade
Speaker 2: and up wherever you at from third grade to your
Speaker 2: senior year in high school, unless you're like an army
Speaker 2: brat and you from all different places, Cause there are
Speaker 2: some people like that where they really not from somewhere
Speaker 2: because they moved around a lot. But third grade to
Speaker 2: your senior year, that's where you're from.
Speaker 1: Well, I think that y'all are from California because I
Speaker 1: feel like wherever you're born, that's where you're from. Like,
Speaker 1: if that's not your worth to seefe, that's where you're from.
Speaker 1: But I feel like you were raised in Orange.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I claim Orange like I don't. I don't
Speaker 2: give because I mean, you don't remember.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't claim it necessarily either, but I mean it
Speaker 1: is where you're from though, Yeah, but you probably don't
Speaker 1: even remember living there and don't and don't. That's why
Speaker 1: I said she probably don't either. Well she does.
Speaker 2: She remembers our house, and she remembers like our dad
Speaker 2: and stuff like that. But and like I said, I'll
Speaker 2: even give people like to third grade because I feel
Speaker 2: like where you're from is like what really shapes you.
Speaker 2: I don't give Callie Girl at all because I'm not
Speaker 2: from there. I wasn't raised there like Orange, Texas really
Speaker 2: raised me, like that's where I became. Oh I'm so sorry, y'all,
Speaker 2: I thought my phone was off. I ain't that unprofessional
Speaker 2: of me. Oh Jesus Christ, but orange like you don't
Speaker 2: raise me. That's where I became who I am. So
Speaker 2: I feel like wherever you're going, wherever you're at, where
Speaker 2: you're going through, like your adolescent stage and all that
Speaker 2: first love, first day, first everything's like, that's where you're from.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I just wanted to make sure I wasn't tripping. You
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, because you know, people be trying
Speaker 2: to say things about one, two and this and that.
Speaker 2: So I was just making show I wasn't tripping.
Speaker 1: No, I don't think you were. I think that that
Speaker 1: makes sense, Like why would you claim somewhere that you
Speaker 1: didn't live for that long and then you don't remember.
Speaker 2: You know, the people be tripping over the city. You know.
Speaker 1: Somebody said that to your sister.
Speaker 2: No, they didn't say that to my sister. Okay, I'll
Speaker 2: say what it is. Somebody said that Meg needs to
Speaker 2: stop claiming Houston because she's from San Antonio. Because Meg
Speaker 2: was born in San Antonio, but she was raised in Houston, right,
Speaker 2: Meg moved to Houston when she was very small, Like
Speaker 2: she doesn't say, she doesn't hide that. Yeah, so I
Speaker 2: was just like the girl is from Houston, she was
Speaker 2: raised in Houston.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was just born in San. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know what is she supposed to say that every
Speaker 1: time she do an interview.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: You don't even think it's stuff like that be weird
Speaker 1: because like you said, it's like people who was born
Speaker 1: on military basis and stuff and that's where they was born,
Speaker 1: but they grew up somewhere completely different or multiple places.
Speaker 2: But sometimes military people be tricky to military babies because
Speaker 2: like they'll be born in Germany. But like raising you talking,
Speaker 2: I'll be like, I'm German girl.
Speaker 1: They are no technique.
Speaker 2: I mean they are, but you know what they be doing.
Speaker 1: But to me, if you're from somewhere, you are like
Speaker 1: that is what you are. You technically German, but.
Speaker 2: You don't know nothing about the Germany.
Speaker 1: I don't want to to be German.
Speaker 2: That where you were born.
Speaker 1: Like I feel like that like somebody that was born
Speaker 1: in America and they might move somewhere else and may
Speaker 1: not know much about American culture because they moved at
Speaker 1: a young age. But like you're American, you not from
Speaker 1: like say they moved to Asia, You're not from Asia.
Speaker 1: You're not age either, you're from there.
Speaker 2: But I feel like if you spent more years in Asia,
Speaker 2: like you're it's a difference between what is it called
Speaker 2: your what do we talk about all the time.
Speaker 1: I don't know why my mom is going blank.
Speaker 2: I go off your race and your what is it nationality?
Speaker 2: That's too, that's it's totally.
Speaker 1: Different, right right. But I go based off of people's
Speaker 1: birth certificates. So if your birth certificate say that you're American,
Speaker 1: you're American. If your birth certificates say you're German, you're German.
Speaker 1: It is because I don't feel like even when you
Speaker 1: go to these places, like people that are born in Germany,
Speaker 1: they don't really have a different look or anything than
Speaker 1: people that are born here in America or even like
Speaker 1: to me, the culture isn't really like that much different
Speaker 1: in Germany. Yeah, I don't feel like the culture is chocolate.
Speaker 1: Well I'm but I'm okay chocolate. But I'm saying like
Speaker 1: the culture in itself, like I don't feel like the
Speaker 1: culture is like that much different from like American culture.
Speaker 1: Like if you were to go somewhere like Tokyo, the
Speaker 1: culture there is completely different from the culture here. If
Speaker 1: you was to go somewhere like Ghana, the culture there
Speaker 1: is completely different than what it is here. I don't
Speaker 1: think the culture in Germany is like that much different
Speaker 1: to where it's like I need to say yeah.
Speaker 2: The reason I think it's so different because when I
Speaker 2: think about culture, one of the first things I think
Speaker 2: about personally is.
Speaker 1: Like, ain't there where Hamburger's from? Yes, exactly, and you.
Speaker 2: Know I love a little Burger.
Speaker 1: You might be German.
Speaker 2: Facts because my parents met on the little But I
Speaker 2: think when I think about culture, one of the first
Speaker 2: things I always think about being a foodie. Girls. I
Speaker 2: think about food, I think about like fashion and things
Speaker 2: like that. So I feel like German culture to me
Speaker 2: personally is very different just from the food they eat.
Speaker 1: They eat sausages, like what is it? What is it called?
Speaker 1: Is that the saucyles?
Speaker 2: I used to go the Wiener Schnitzel when I was little.
Speaker 2: My mom loved the hot dog bitch I'll see. We
Speaker 2: used to go to Wiener Schnitzel. But that's when I
Speaker 2: realized I don't like weenie, so I started eating hot
Speaker 2: dogs without the weenie, which is chili and cheese.
Speaker 1: That's how I used to eat my hot dogs. I
Speaker 1: hate a Wiener. I hate a w if Shane look
Speaker 1: up at me one more time, freak.
Speaker 2: Like seriercely.
Speaker 1: And then Wieners are just so nasty, like if you
Speaker 1: know what's idiot, Like, it's just all type of like
Speaker 1: bullsh yeah, bullshit.
Speaker 2: That in that sh.
Speaker 1: That exactly what it is.
Speaker 2: Bull is what it is. That's what I'll say. I
Speaker 2: think all cultures are so different.
Speaker 1: I mean even you. I mean obviously we've been there
Speaker 1: and I see they speak a different language.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah. But I just feel that's why Europe
Speaker 2: is so it's such an interesting place to me because
Speaker 2: they're so close, but it's whole different cultures that are
Speaker 2: right next door to each other. So I do understand
Speaker 2: what you're saying as far as like the life that
Speaker 2: they live, you know, like the nine to five stuff
Speaker 2: like that, you know, But again, I just be feeling
Speaker 2: like wherever you were raised at is like where you're from.
Speaker 2: Like wherever you were raised at, like, that's where you're from.
Speaker 2: I don't care what your birth certificate says, whatever culture
Speaker 2: you were raised in, like or wherever you were at,
Speaker 2: that's where you from. I lived in Houston for ten
Speaker 2: years I'm not from Houston. I'm not from California. I
Speaker 2: was born there. I am from Orange Saxies.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's there. But I guess I just
Speaker 1: be thinking about like if somebody like you die and
Speaker 1: y'all bech where he's gonna stay born in any yacht California,
Speaker 1: people gonna.
Speaker 2: Be like I'm gonna say, in my city.
Speaker 1: People gonna be people gonna be like, who the fuck
Speaker 1: is from California?
Speaker 2: But yes they would they My people don't hung up
Speaker 2: there and say no Orange Texas for all.
Speaker 3: None.
Speaker 1: No, they're gonna they're gonna be like, who was born
Speaker 1: in California? Because you never say, but you are, but
Speaker 1: I'm not you are.
Speaker 2: We should do a poll because what's you think?
Speaker 1: Ta? I think it is where you're raised at Like
Speaker 1: you could be you would say I'm born in this city,
Speaker 1: but I was raised in But you have to prefacee,
Speaker 1: which I feel like if you're from somewhere else and
Speaker 1: then you grew up somewhere, you still have to say
Speaker 1: where are you from?
Speaker 2: No, not necessarily, it depends because I'll say this, Okay,
Speaker 2: say somebody was born in America and then they moved
Speaker 2: to Tokyo. Okay, and there they speak Japanese very fluently
Speaker 2: and English is their second language, and then they come back.
Speaker 2: So I feel like that's a that's when you need
Speaker 2: to say, like, oh, I was born in America, but
Speaker 2: I'm Japanese. You know what I'm saying. I'm Japanese like
Speaker 2: I grew up, but you know I'm from here, but
Speaker 2: I'm Japanese.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you Japanese.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I just feel like, ain't nobody,
Speaker 2: it ain't finna be no Cali bitches at my futures.
Speaker 1: It ain't.
Speaker 2: It ain't gonna be. Nobody might never know. You might
Speaker 2: make some more I'm not making. I am good on friends.
Speaker 2: I feel like my circle is good. I know y'all
Speaker 2: be like, oh, Lex, I want to be your friend.
Speaker 1: I am good.
Speaker 2: I have a good circle. No Cali bitches, No offense
Speaker 2: is the Cali bitches. I'm just no, not happening.
Speaker 1: You might though you could never say never. You might
Speaker 1: meet somebody and y'all just click, is she be from
Speaker 1: she might be from where you're from?
Speaker 2: Fuck? No no offensing of orange bitches either. Y'all will
Speaker 2: be supporting me enough for me, y'all ain't booked me
Speaker 2: at Spanky's yet, bitch, What the fuck is spank the
Speaker 2: local club?
Speaker 1: It's still oupy?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Is it the only club? Andies I'm playing?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I haven't been there. I only go
Speaker 2: there for Christmas.
Speaker 1: But you know, Orange, do y'all have a downtown?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: Like with skyscrapers.
Speaker 2: The skotscraper was.
Speaker 1: My house beach. I'm weakest, So it's really like Charleston.
Speaker 1: Oh no, Charleston is nice, but I guess what I'm
Speaker 1: saying is like, you know, we found out that Charleston
Speaker 1: can't have buildings over a certain height, so they don't
Speaker 1: have any skyscrapers.
Speaker 2: There's no skyscrapers in Orange cause it's like, who's gonna
Speaker 2: be in there?
Speaker 1: What you mean the people, bro?
Speaker 2: The people need to say they ass on ground? Oh
Speaker 2: my god, keep their feet on the ground.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.
Speaker 2: It's nothing bad.
Speaker 1: But I know my city like it ain't nothing.
Speaker 2: It's just chill. Y'all don't need no hoigh riz in Orange,
Speaker 2: Texas for what. Y'all need to keep that rent like
Speaker 2: the see Houston girl, they need to keep that rent low.
Speaker 2: Eat the boot in, keep the boot in in tect
Speaker 2: Orange is good, and I love my city, but it's
Speaker 2: a country town. I don't believe that high rises should
Speaker 2: be everywhere.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder if it's high rise in Acadochi's now.
Speaker 1: I don't know because it wasn't a and they had
Speaker 1: a downtown though, but it was like brick roads. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know, we in a country.
Speaker 2: Well, you know there's a Lamar in Orange, Lamar orangell College.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the college. Whole bunch of people then went
Speaker 1: to my school, They went to my high school, went
Speaker 1: to Lamar. Well, they went to Lamar in Beaumont. In Beaumont.
Speaker 2: Lamar's in Beamont, that's the popular one. But Lamar had
Speaker 2: a branch in Orange too, the colleague. Yes, lamarka Lamar
Speaker 2: State Orange, Lamar Orange.
Speaker 1: And it's attached to the one in Beaumont.
Speaker 2: Yes, there's like it's a branch off of it, just
Speaker 2: like HCCA.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: You know how HCC had different brandes around Houston. It
Speaker 2: was the same thing with Lamar. They have a Lamar
Speaker 2: and port author too. Okay, go here in Lamar.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: You better get that college education. Don't play with us.
Speaker 2: I see DC girl. Oh, Okay, okay, that's all I
Speaker 2: just had to ask, is like I said, stop playing
Speaker 2: with my girl, mad She's she's from Houston. She gives Houston.
Speaker 2: She just gives Houston. And I feel like, why would
Speaker 2: y'all not want her to be from Houston, Like that's
Speaker 2: a big thing to say.
Speaker 1: Begs from Houston, Like stop because they want to claim
Speaker 1: San Antonio, y'all got the Alamo, y'all got a enough.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was about to say that has Celena, y'all
Speaker 2: got the world. What was Selena from Corpus Christie.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was from Corpus Christie. She wasn't from synor tennant.
Speaker 1: I said with San Antonio, gay two things. No, you
Speaker 1: live that down, that's what you don't. Gotta let me
Speaker 1: live it down. And that's what they be saying. I
Speaker 1: mean that's what they said. They probably still do. He's
Speaker 1: needs probably be in class me. It was areditory the
Speaker 1: whole family. Okay, I'm sorry, but no, they got the
Speaker 1: Alamo and they got Sea World. This is the two
Speaker 1: things to San Antonio, AND's some good tacos. They don't
Speaker 1: need me.
Speaker 2: That's all I had. That's all I had to ask, Tad,
Speaker 2: what are we drinking today.
Speaker 1: Technically she is from Senato.
Speaker 2: She was born in San Antonio. That's all. We're gonna
Speaker 2: get Meg on the show so we can ask I
Speaker 2: can ask her myself.
Speaker 1: No, that's yeah. I mean she's gonna say she's from Houston.
Speaker 1: I know she's just like you say you from Orange.
Speaker 2: I don't play. You know where I'm from, from California.
Speaker 1: Your birth certificate in your passport, it's right there on
Speaker 1: the past. I said, Orange.
Speaker 2: We don't do me the yeah, leave me alone, you
Speaker 2: fucking bully. I'm wee. Oh okay, we drank what we drinking.
Speaker 1: This one is gonna be called the Forbidden Kiss. This
Speaker 1: is good, okay, ooh okay. Jolly rinchhair a little bit
Speaker 1: like it might be that desert pear syrup that we
Speaker 1: added to it. I think y'all liked that a little
Speaker 1: bit has some cranberry juice in it, a little bit
Speaker 1: of lime, and we did for Lex. We had a
Speaker 1: little bit of Valka in hers. We got mocktails over here,
Speaker 1: and then we topped it with a little bit of
Speaker 1: ginger beer just to kind of give it a little bit.
Speaker 1: We got bite into it, and then we kind of
Speaker 1: did as a garnish, like a medley of berries, so
Speaker 1: everyone's is different. I have strawberry, raspberry, blueberry. The girls
Speaker 1: have some blackberries and strawberries and raspberries in there, so
Speaker 1: just kind of a cute blend. Just as we prepare
Speaker 1: to go into the month of Love. So this is
Speaker 1: the forbidden kiss. Cheers.
Speaker 2: This is really really juicy.
Speaker 1: I mean, You're gonna have to remake these that when
Speaker 1: I'm drinking again. Okay, I got you, bat you seeing
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Speaker 1: So for the first topic, I wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: toxic positivity and is it hurting our mental health? So basically, like,
Speaker 1: do you think that you could be positive to the
Speaker 1: point that it's toxic to where it's making people not
Speaker 1: recognize like the real issues that people have to deal
Speaker 1: with on a daily basis, Like, because people are always
Speaker 1: telling other people, No, you gotta be positive, you gotta
Speaker 1: have a positive mindset. You can't let stuff get you down,
Speaker 1: you can't be depressed and stressed out. You gotta pray,
Speaker 1: you gotta have faith, all of these things that people
Speaker 1: are always telling people when they're going through, you know,
Speaker 1: the trials and tribulations their life throw at you. Is
Speaker 1: there a way that you could be being too positive
Speaker 1: to the point that he's toxic.
Speaker 2: Absolutely. I feel like one thing that I've learned was
Speaker 2: like mental health and dealing with things like that, we
Speaker 2: have to be realistic. So I saw this good example.
Speaker 2: I think it was a TikTok I had seen. I
Speaker 2: do not know who said this, Maybe y'all can find them.
Speaker 2: I hate when I reference what people say and I
Speaker 2: can't remember who said it. But basically, this guy was
Speaker 2: talking about life and he was saying, life has up
Speaker 2: and so the reality of it is, of course, we
Speaker 2: want to be happy every day. Is that realistic? No,
Speaker 2: Because life happens. People die, you lose money, you lose
Speaker 2: a job, you lose a friend. It's life. There's no
Speaker 2: way to be It's not normal. To be happy every day.
Speaker 2: God gave us emotions for a reason so we could
Speaker 2: feel all of them. Right, So when you're hooked up
Speaker 2: to a machine, your heart is hooked up to a machine,
Speaker 2: what does it do? It beats.
Speaker 1: And it goes up and down.
Speaker 2: When you're dead, that's when it's steady. So whether it's
Speaker 2: a high up or a high down, think about it.
Speaker 2: A person was happy all the time, say they're on drugs,
Speaker 2: that's what makes them happy all the time. That person
Speaker 2: is losing themselves off of a drug or whatever because
Speaker 2: they're steadily being high because they're off of a drug.
Speaker 1: Or you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It's or whenever you're sad all the time, it's one
Speaker 2: emotion you're supposed to feel. A life, you have to
Speaker 2: feel all those emotions. So I think it's realistic to
Speaker 2: tell people, yes, be happy, look for the positive things.
Speaker 2: But you know what, it's also okay to tell people, Hey,
Speaker 2: it's okay to be sad today. If you don't want
Speaker 2: to get out of bed today, feel that. Go through
Speaker 2: those emotions, but don't stay there because as much as
Speaker 2: you go down, that heart gotta beat, you gotta go
Speaker 2: back up. So I do think it's a it gets
Speaker 2: too much with the online, the self help and all
Speaker 2: that self help books and the self I'm gonna teach
Speaker 2: you how to stop it. Let tell people it's okay
Speaker 2: to feel. It's okay to cry, it's okay to be sad,
Speaker 2: it's okay to have these moments, because that's a part
Speaker 2: of life. We're humans. You're gonna feel some emotions. It's
Speaker 2: not realistic to be happy every single fucking day, bro,
Speaker 2: It's just not so. Yeah, I do believe that toxic
Speaker 2: positivity will make people draw people further into depression. To
Speaker 2: be honest, how do you feel?
Speaker 1: I disagree, just because I feel like some people need that,
Speaker 1: Like some people need people around them supporting them, im
Speaker 1: pouring into them, telling them that things are gonna be okay.
Speaker 1: That's what gets some people through things, you know. And
Speaker 1: then I think you have people who just want to
Speaker 1: deal with stuff on their own, which either way, however
Speaker 1: you choose to deal with things, either way, it is fine,
Speaker 1: But I think some people need that, And I don't
Speaker 1: think in telling people to have faith and that things
Speaker 1: are gonna get better and being positive and trying to
Speaker 1: give them a positive outlook, I don't think that necessarily
Speaker 1: means that you're telling them that they can't be sad
Speaker 1: or to not feel their emotions, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like I feel like you can still feel the person
Speaker 1: can still feel their emotions, and then a friend or
Speaker 1: a family member is telling them, you have to pull
Speaker 1: yourself out of these Yeah, because you do. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean, you need to, Like, like you said,
Speaker 1: life is about you have to feel the emotions and stuff.
Speaker 1: But like if you stay in that emotion, a lot
Speaker 1: of things could go wrong, Like when people are sad
Speaker 1: and depressed and I feel like they don't want to
Speaker 1: do anything and stuff. Sometimes I think a lot of
Speaker 1: things you can oo's a lot of things in the
Speaker 1: process of like sitting in there. So I think sometimes
Speaker 1: people do need people around them to tell them, like, no,
Speaker 1: you have to get up, you have to pull yourself
Speaker 1: out of these funk because it doesn't last forever. Because
Speaker 1: I think too, when a lot of people go through things,
Speaker 1: they think it's gonna last forever, Like people be thinking
Speaker 1: it's to end and it's nice, and sometimes I think
Speaker 1: a lot of people need that reminder that like this too,
Speaker 1: shell pad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's what I'm saying I agree with you
Speaker 2: on that. That's what I'm saying. You do need somebody
Speaker 2: to tell you, hey, don't stay in this. But I
Speaker 2: think with the social media aspect of it, the gurules,
Speaker 2: I'll be seeing these gurus with no degree and no
Speaker 2: nothing like wake up every day and choose yourself and
Speaker 2: choose like, yes, that's what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 1: I do need to hear that.
Speaker 2: But also they're not saying, you know what, it's okay
Speaker 2: to sit in bed sometimes. That's what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 2: two sides to it, So yes, tell these people to
Speaker 2: get out of bed, but also tell them if you
Speaker 2: want to have a day to yourself, to be sad
Speaker 2: and to cry, that's okay too. I just think there's
Speaker 2: like two sides of it, and a lot of times
Speaker 2: these people try to push this narrative like I'm happy
Speaker 2: and I'm great all the time. Most of these like
Speaker 2: self help and motivational speakers, they're not telling you the
Speaker 2: hard days that they have. And I think that's what's
Speaker 2: good about our show, cause, bitch, we talk about our wins,
Speaker 2: but we talk about our losses too. It's real because
Speaker 2: life is real. It's not always pictures and Creams No.
Speaker 1: One twelve right, all yeah, I mean in no shade,
Speaker 1: But I think that that shit, like is that not
Speaker 1: like common scenes at this it's a go that everybody
Speaker 1: has bad days. Like literally, it's nobody walking this earth
Speaker 1: that is happy and happy, go lookie and positive and
Speaker 1: in a great mood every single day, Like life happens.
Speaker 1: Things happen, you know what I mean, whether it's you
Speaker 1: losing a job, whether you're going through financial issues, whether
Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, whether you you lost a
Speaker 1: parent or lost somebody close to you, whether it's a
Speaker 1: friendship breakup, whatever. I mean, you could have tripped and
Speaker 1: filled in the hole in front of a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of people down the escalator or some set, and now
Speaker 1: they're ruined JO day because you and Barry. It's like
Speaker 1: things happen to everybody, even though and I use that
Speaker 1: last example because I feel like that's something that's not
Speaker 1: so serious, like there's something small that's not really in
Speaker 1: the green scheme of things, but it'd be little, so
Speaker 1: sometimes they could fuck YO day up, Like nobody has
Speaker 1: great days five hundred and sixty five days after years.
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, we are in a time where people look up
Speaker 2: to these people on social media, and they believe that
Speaker 2: they're being honest and real.
Speaker 1: And well, that's why I need y'all to put child
Speaker 1: thinking caps on. Ain't that what we learn the elementary? Yeah,
Speaker 1: critical thinking, critical usual, critical thinking.
Speaker 2: But you have these people on social media, they follow them,
Speaker 2: and these people are posting four or five videos a day,
Speaker 2: and even with relationship goals. They're looking at these couples
Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, couple breaks up and the
Speaker 2: girl talking about, oh, he was beating my ass or
Speaker 2: he talking about she was cheating on me, and you'd
Speaker 2: be like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: Does that ain't a couple that set up? They try
Speaker 1: pardy act.
Speaker 2: Like they just got out of bed bro the same couple,
Speaker 2: see the same couple that be acting like it's a prank, Like, oh,
Speaker 2: you know what the prank? I hate? I just seen this.
Speaker 2: It was a prank and a man had like this
Speaker 2: life sized doll laying on him, and she like walked
Speaker 2: in and was like beating up the doll. It was
Speaker 2: so lame and cringey, and everybody in the comments was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, this is so good.
Speaker 1: She loves you, because in what world do a doll
Speaker 1: look like a person.
Speaker 2: But anyways, that was But I say all that to say, though,
Speaker 2: but you do have gullible people on the internet. You
Speaker 2: know what. Keiki Palmer made a good statement the other
Speaker 2: day cause she just came out with this book that
Speaker 2: I actually want to read. But she was basically saying, like, yes,
Speaker 2: what's it called shay Master of Me? So she was
Speaker 2: promoting her book and she was talking about how you
Speaker 2: have to realize you are in your bubble. We are
Speaker 2: in a poor crew bubble, so we can only get
Speaker 2: back and feedback what our people see. And we are
Speaker 2: so big in some of these people's world. But it's
Speaker 2: people that don't come on pace to be like, who
Speaker 2: the hell is this? You know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 2: I say all that to say because we look at
Speaker 2: people who look at others like you really believe this
Speaker 2: shit or you're buying that shit. But it's a whole
Speaker 2: other world out there. It'd be people that have fifteen
Speaker 2: million followers on their Facebook page or their TikTok and
Speaker 2: I have no idea who they are, and they believe
Speaker 2: that they're hanging on to every single person this word,
Speaker 2: every single word this person says and I'm like, he's
Speaker 2: spewing bullshit and I can see that, but bull snel,
Speaker 2: bull schnitzel, you know what I'm saying. But she made
Speaker 2: a good point of we are in our own little world,
Speaker 2: and you know, sometimes we have to think outside the
Speaker 2: box and put ourselves in other people's shoes to understand
Speaker 2: what they're feeling, what they may be experiencing, and things
Speaker 2: like that. So I think that's important to understand. So yeah,
Speaker 2: some people, really they probably even look at us and
Speaker 2: look at the things that we complain about and think
Speaker 2: it's silly. They probably be like, oh, and even as
Speaker 2: extreme as like us losing a parent. Okay, y'all lost
Speaker 2: a parent, but look at y'all, some people really look
Speaker 2: at us like that, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 2: they'd be like, okay, even when.
Speaker 1: You lose one and come make and tell me how
Speaker 1: you feel.
Speaker 2: But they probably it'll be probably be somebody who never
Speaker 2: had parents, who grew up in a foster home, so
Speaker 2: they like y'all complained about what at least you have
Speaker 2: the experience of having a day.
Speaker 1: But see, I think that's the problem with people though.
Speaker 1: You have to stop comparing traumas like what I went
Speaker 1: through is just as fair as what you went right,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It's just as equal, Like
Speaker 1: one is not greater than the other just because you
Speaker 1: never had a parent, they didn't have no daddy around
Speaker 1: when I was growing up.
Speaker 2: Why did she do that?
Speaker 1: Because she did it.
Speaker 2: Same though experience, I mean, and it was a I
Speaker 2: have one.
Speaker 1: But I still like this song.
Speaker 2: You used to sing that when your daddy made I used.
Speaker 1: To sing it from him. But yeah, it's like people
Speaker 1: have to stop trying to compare traumas in and be like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: what I went through is worse than with you than
Speaker 1: what you went through. Losing a parent is fucked up,
Speaker 1: and not having a parent is fucked up, and it
Speaker 1: affects different people in different ways. It was a trauma
Speaker 1: for you, and losing my daddy's a trauma for me.
Speaker 1: Like you can't say that, oh, because we have the
Speaker 1: success that we have and we have the things going
Speaker 1: on in our life that we have going on, or
Speaker 1: because we look the way we look that we it
Speaker 1: didn't hurt us losing our parents, Like I think that's
Speaker 1: a stupid ass mindset.
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, but that's but listen, but
Speaker 2: that's what I'll be talking about.
Speaker 1: You have to try to not saying.
Speaker 2: It's stupid, but just look at where they're coming from, though,
Speaker 2: And I think that's what we have to do sometimes
Speaker 2: being in this position. Only reason I say that.
Speaker 1: What they need to look but I hear you, but
Speaker 1: I feel like it goes both ways, right. They have
Speaker 1: to look at where we're coming from too. I think
Speaker 1: that that's crazy to think the way. I'm never gonna
Speaker 1: not think that.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I agree with you. But what I'm
Speaker 2: saying is, in this situation, if somebody is judging me
Speaker 2: and being like, oh, I don't feel sorry for Lex.
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying people out there feel that way.
Speaker 2: We're just speaking hypathetically. But if somebody was out there like,
Speaker 2: I don't feel sorry for Lex Andrea for losing their
Speaker 2: parents because look at their lives that they live at
Speaker 2: the end of the day, they're viewing me like this,
Speaker 2: and I am the more fortunate person in this situation
Speaker 2: because I'm not looking at anybody like that. And whatever
Speaker 2: trauma that you went through, you're fighting some kind of
Speaker 2: demons in your head to look at another person who
Speaker 2: is struggling or going through.
Speaker 1: Something and looking at them like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I say all that to say it's my
Speaker 2: job to not judge them or put myself in their
Speaker 2: shoes because they're not there mentally, they're not Their emotional
Speaker 2: intelligence isn't where I'm at yet, so it's my part.
Speaker 2: I feel like, not that it's my job, but I
Speaker 2: instead of attacking them or call them crazy, I'm like,
Speaker 2: you know what, I really am praying for you, and
Speaker 2: I hope God gives you the grace that He gave
Speaker 2: me to grow and learn because I used to be
Speaker 2: that person.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I feel like I
Speaker 1: can feel that way about them and then still be like,
Speaker 1: you sound stupid. It's his but I'm still praying for
Speaker 1: you and I hope that God give you the peace
Speaker 1: that you need. But get about my goddamn comment.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I feel with that bullshe Yeah, but
Speaker 2: I do think.
Speaker 1: Things could be true at once, because I don't. I
Speaker 1: just have at a point in life where I feel
Speaker 1: like I don't have to be nice or extend grace
Speaker 1: to people that don't extend it to me. But my
Speaker 1: thing is, I'm also not going to say anything to
Speaker 1: you either, because I really don't be saying she to people.
Speaker 1: A lot of the time, I'm just gonna block yours
Speaker 1: by blocking.
Speaker 2: I used to not be a blocker. I'm a blocker
Speaker 2: now because it's gotten to the point. Do you know
Speaker 2: I tweet I tweeted, I said, I love the fact
Speaker 2: that Adam Sandler puts his wife in all his movies. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because one thing about it, Adam Sandler gonna cast that
Speaker 2: wife baby. I don't care if she's.
Speaker 1: Playing a bell hop.
Speaker 2: He's gonna beat in the motherfucking movie, bitch. And it
Speaker 2: was so many people like y'all are just you're just
Speaker 2: finding this out. You're just somebody literally said to me,
Speaker 2: how you reviewing movies and you just found out? Did
Speaker 2: I say, I just found out that Adam Sandler was
Speaker 2: putting his wife in movies? Because if you know me,
Speaker 2: you know I talk about movies all day and night.
Speaker 1: And if you did, did you say you was a
Speaker 1: motherfucking guru?
Speaker 2: But what movie I did find out? Why is that
Speaker 2: not like just something that I'm saying. I hate when people,
Speaker 2: Oh you just heard this sound, this sound, Oh I
Speaker 2: just heard it.
Speaker 1: Go away from you with these go away from me
Speaker 1: with this apollo period. What what do y'all be talking about?
Speaker 2: For real?
Speaker 1: Like, I just think people be angry and I'll be
Speaker 1: thinking he's floody a little bit.
Speaker 2: They love to bring their pitchforks.
Speaker 1: They do because it's like, why are you so mad?
Speaker 2: Adam Sandler is not gonna put you in Oh my god,
Speaker 2: why are you so upseting? They were like, how you
Speaker 2: didn't know this? He puts his children and his friends.
Speaker 2: Don't forget that.
Speaker 1: I know this.
Speaker 2: I was talking about relationships and stuff, and then I
Speaker 2: was just tweeting about how I love men and women
Speaker 2: that are in relationships and they look at it as
Speaker 2: a partnership. I was talking about that to someone. So
Speaker 2: that's when I was like, I got on the topic
Speaker 2: of Adam Sandler. One thing about me, I'll be having
Speaker 2: a conversation in real life and it'll remind me of something.
Speaker 2: I'll just tweet about it real quick. I know Adam
Speaker 2: Sandler puts all his friends and his kids and everybody.
Speaker 2: I was talking about the love he has for his wife. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because a lot of y'all have wives up and won't
Speaker 2: even buy her a fucking daisy bitch. So yeah, I
Speaker 2: was talking about the love he has nothing, a nothing. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: People just be angry. And that's why I believe you
Speaker 1: can never have too much positive heving the world. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think the world could ever have enough positivity
Speaker 1: because most people are negative as FuG for no reason.
Speaker 1: Listen to the things you just said. God, they could
Speaker 1: have just scrolled past their tweet and I said nothing.
Speaker 1: You know how many times I see some bullshnitzel that
Speaker 1: somebody say, that's my new word. You know how I
Speaker 1: see so many you know how many times I see
Speaker 1: shit online that I'd be like, what the FuG is
Speaker 1: this person talking about? Like you sound crazy? Whatever?
Speaker 2: But why do I yes?
Speaker 1: For what? And I'll say, the point in responding to
Speaker 1: every little thing that you see that somebody say and
Speaker 1: you feel like, oh this is stupid. They should have
Speaker 1: known this, or they sound crazy, you don't have to respond.
Speaker 1: You could just keep scrolling, y'all negative.
Speaker 2: I agree with you, there's never too much positivity for
Speaker 2: the world.
Speaker 1: I do agree with you on that.
Speaker 2: Like there's there is a such thing as toxic positivity.
Speaker 2: But on the other end, there's never too much positivety.
Speaker 2: So when I say it's toxic positivity, I think it's
Speaker 2: toxic when you're not being honest and when you're telling
Speaker 2: people I wake up every day and I'm happy and
Speaker 2: be honest about your journey to where you are.
Speaker 1: I wake up.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, y'all know me, bitch, I'll be
Speaker 2: satisfucked right now. My life is.
Speaker 1: Since January one till now.
Speaker 2: I haven't woke up sad yet, bitch. I ain't gonna
Speaker 2: lie st y'all, but y'all know I keep it real
Speaker 2: with y'all. I'm gonna keep it real with what's going on.
Speaker 2: So I think when we're talking about positivity, I am
Speaker 2: here because of the work I've done. Though, do I
Speaker 2: have my rainy days? Yes? So I think when it
Speaker 2: becomes toxic when you're not honest. It's never too much positivity,
Speaker 2: but we need to be honest about how we got here.
Speaker 2: So even if there is a guru talking about be positive,
Speaker 2: wake up happy every day, talk about the journey that
Speaker 2: you did to get there, more so than acting like
Speaker 2: help the people, pump the folks. Baby, I'm looking at
Speaker 2: y'all like, why is you?
Speaker 1: And I'm sadis fun and I see the sun? Is
Speaker 1: what I said? What did I say? About comparing. Comparison
Speaker 1: is the thief joy people, and that's another word. Stop
Speaker 1: comparing ourselves. Stop looking at other people. I just feel
Speaker 1: like we should. We too deep in the game at
Speaker 1: this point, all of us as a whole, as a community,
Speaker 1: we too deep in the game when it comes to
Speaker 1: social media to still be getting online and looking at
Speaker 1: the sheep people post and thinking that there's really their
Speaker 1: life all the time. Be for real. We should know
Speaker 1: at this point that like a lot of shit be orchestrated,
Speaker 1: it be calculated, and this is not what's really going on.
Speaker 1: And if people are going through downtimes in their life,
Speaker 1: if they are going through you know, trials and tribulations,
Speaker 1: they're not going to tell you thank you toy. They
Speaker 1: not gonna tell you about that shit. They just gonna
Speaker 1: show you the good time. And maybe one day, eventually,
Speaker 1: maybe once they through the storm there they'll open up
Speaker 1: and share what they went through. But most people are
Speaker 1: not going to share with you in the midst of
Speaker 1: a storm what they going through. So stop looking at
Speaker 1: other people and being like, oh, they so happy and
Speaker 1: I'm so sad, or oh they got this and they
Speaker 1: got that and I don't have half the things that
Speaker 1: they have or it looks like they just have everything
Speaker 1: they want. They're so lucky. Nobody is that lucky. We
Speaker 1: all go through shit, everybody, your face, everybody goes through something.
Speaker 1: Everybody is going through and maybe not currently because I
Speaker 1: mean everybody has time seeing life where you're not really
Speaker 1: going through, but we've all been through something. Nobody that's
Speaker 1: walking God's Green Earth having not went.
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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, let's get into the second topic, the
Speaker 2: broke BFF epidemic. So this is the topic about you
Speaker 2: have a friend who is their funds aren't matching yours.
Speaker 2: They're maybe their ambition, their drive to reach the successes
Speaker 2: in matching yours. They y'all go out. They always kind
Speaker 2: of like missing a wallet or when it's time to
Speaker 2: send the cash apps and ZiLs at the end of
Speaker 2: the meal, they phoned on got service. So how do
Speaker 2: we feel about having a friend who is not as
Speaker 2: financially stable as you? How we feel about that?
Speaker 1: I okay, So I've had friends before where like we
Speaker 1: would go do stuff and then when the tab will come,
Speaker 1: they would want to separate their money, or they would.
Speaker 2: Like, I told you cheese sticks and sprite that's all
Speaker 2: I have.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes for sure, helly so yes, so like I've
Speaker 1: had friends, or they would want to separate their money,
Speaker 1: or like when the tab will come, they wouldn't want
Speaker 1: to split it evenly, or like they cash apps and
Speaker 1: stuff wouldn't be back then. I feel like I extended
Speaker 1: more grace to friends like that because we were younger
Speaker 1: and everybody was just trying to.
Speaker 2: Find their way.
Speaker 1: Now that I'm in my thirties, I feel like, don't
Speaker 1: come like we can still be friends. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: stop being your friend because you having financial issues because
Speaker 1: you going through something, because you don't have to have
Speaker 1: a lot of money to be my friend. But if
Speaker 1: you know you ain't got no money, don't bring your
Speaker 1: ass to this dinner and then be looking at me.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, Or don't bring your ass to a dinner
Speaker 1: where we're doing family style food and you eating, you
Speaker 1: eating off of everybody plate, trying little samples, and then
Speaker 1: when the tab comeing, I ain't order nothing. I just
Speaker 1: had water and cheese steaks.
Speaker 2: Cause I had cheese sticks and water bapp you ordered
Speaker 2: that for lat me ya it's no you bitch, So
Speaker 2: I played my role. I half family style.
Speaker 1: You is crazy. But no, seriously though, like at this point,
Speaker 1: just don't come.
Speaker 2: Don't come, like keep it real.
Speaker 1: I have all the grace in the world for people
Speaker 1: who keep it real about things like that. Like if
Speaker 1: you like, look, I ain't got it, I can't come
Speaker 1: to the dinner or you know just what, you don't
Speaker 1: even got to tell me you ain't gotty. Like if
Speaker 1: you just say you can't come or whatever the case
Speaker 1: may be cool, but I would prefer you stay your
Speaker 1: ass at home then coming knowing you don't have no
Speaker 1: money and that goes for a trip, that goes for dinner,
Speaker 1: that goes for anything where you're going to need to
Speaker 1: pay for something. Yeah, So I agree with you on that.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, it depends on the scenario, because if
Speaker 2: we're going to like a group setting and you come
Speaker 2: and then you like spring it on me like, oh, Lex,
Speaker 2: I ain't got it. Can you pay my yeah a
Speaker 2: portion that's gonna piss me off, or cause I've had
Speaker 2: this happen to me before. We're like we all at
Speaker 2: the dinner. Ooh I'm about to give y'all a good
Speaker 2: tip of what I do now. But anyways, don't spring
Speaker 2: this shit on me. Now. If I invite you one
Speaker 2: on one and you like, oh, look, Lex, I don't
Speaker 2: got it right now, girl, I got you, yeah, because
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to you. Sometimes I just need
Speaker 2: to get out the house and I want to talk,
Speaker 2: and I just need a friend, and I just need
Speaker 2: to get out the house. And Drea knows I'm an
Speaker 2: at home bitch. So if I'm inviting you to dinner,
Speaker 2: I want to go out somewhere.
Speaker 1: I need it.
Speaker 2: I need to get out the house. So I got you.
Speaker 2: But if you just not, if I tell everybody, hey,
Speaker 2: I'll put it on my card, everybody zell me eighty
Speaker 2: dollars and you zelling me sixty five because you were like,
Speaker 2: oh I didn't order this.
Speaker 1: I don't order that.
Speaker 2: Bitch.
Speaker 1: You got me fucked up. So let me tell you
Speaker 1: what I do.
Speaker 2: Y'all. Please get your note passed out when you go
Speaker 2: on a trip, when you going to dinner, be that
Speaker 2: person that puts it on the car. But guess what
Speaker 2: you're gonna start doing putting it on that cash ap
Speaker 2: card car ain't gonna go through until everybody cash aps
Speaker 2: you and it lands on that goddamn card. So when
Speaker 2: we went to Turks and Caicos, I have my cash
Speaker 2: ap card.
Speaker 1: So if the tab is.
Speaker 2: Five of us, for example, tab five hundred dollars, I
Speaker 2: got my hundred on there. You don't send me your
Speaker 2: one hundred dollars. It's not going through when he swiped
Speaker 2: that bitch until you send it. We finish it at
Speaker 2: this table standing at so what you gonna do? So
Speaker 2: what you're finnah do? So I was at the table
Speaker 2: like this, the funds ain't been received, man, because y'all
Speaker 2: not finna play with people like that no more. So.
Speaker 2: I do think that with the money situation, it depends
Speaker 2: on the scenario. I was always the type of friend
Speaker 2: when I didn't have it, I would I would get
Speaker 2: my friends and hands up. I don't got it, I
Speaker 2: don't want, I don't want to go. I don't And
Speaker 2: if I didn't have it, I would, literally I would
Speaker 2: be the type of friend like I'm whispering to the waiter,
Speaker 2: how my cheese sticks, put my spriten my cheese sticks.
Speaker 2: I slide my ten dollars, y'all that's on y'all.
Speaker 1: See, I do feel like you shouldn't do that, though,
Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like you should do that.
Speaker 2: But that was also back in the day. Different I'm we're.
Speaker 1: Not talking about you. I'm saying in general. I'm saying
Speaker 1: in general, I don't think people should do that at all. Like,
Speaker 1: if you know that you're gonna go somewhere and you
Speaker 1: gonna want your stuff to be separate, I feel like
Speaker 1: you should say that at the beginning of the night
Speaker 1: before people start ordering.
Speaker 2: She okay, So let me ask you this, though, why
Speaker 2: if they're paying for their stuff, why do they gotta
Speaker 2: let other people know I pay for my stuff already?
Speaker 2: Because I just think that's courteous, especially if it's a
Speaker 2: setting where majority of the time y'all sleep the bial
Speaker 2: At least I can speak for me and my friends.
Speaker 2: Majority of the time when we go out to eat,
Speaker 2: we don't be looking at the tab like, oh, I
Speaker 2: order this, I order this, let's put this on separate tabs.
Speaker 1: We just get one bial and we spleitty right. But
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is like, Okay, even if it's not
Speaker 1: family style, Like, even if it's just like everybody ordering,
Speaker 1: they entrees, they appetizers whatever, because we might order like
Speaker 1: five appetizers and sharing.
Speaker 2: We do that. We definitely everybody might order like two
Speaker 2: or three drinks.
Speaker 1: I'm not clocking who order two drinks and who ordered four?
Speaker 1: We just yes, we just put it all on one
Speaker 1: tab and then we split it. So that's why I
Speaker 1: said that, because if you even if you do only
Speaker 1: order one drink and you order some cheese sticks in
Speaker 1: the water, But if you don't say that prior to
Speaker 1: people starting to order stuff, and then at the end
Speaker 1: people see you getting your tabs separately and then they
Speaker 1: all putting it together. I just feel like to avoid confusion,
Speaker 1: because it's fine, you should just say something because nine
Speaker 1: times out of ten you don't have a person in
Speaker 1: the group that feel some type of way about that. Now, personally,
Speaker 1: I don't care about this. Shep put your sheet separate
Speaker 1: if you want to.
Speaker 2: Who cares?
Speaker 1: But I have But I'm speaking because I have friends
Speaker 1: who like, they don't be liking this sheep. I don't
Speaker 1: see them get into it with other friends over like
Speaker 1: why she putting stuff separately? She broke and she like that.
Speaker 1: So yeah, like to avoid confused, I feel just put
Speaker 1: it you know, just put it on the No, put
Speaker 1: it on the table for everybody. Start ordering stuff. Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm only ordering I ate before I came. I'm only
Speaker 1: gonna order an appetizer in one glass of wine. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna put a separate tag exactly, and I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie if you look.
Speaker 2: I love my girl Kiki, but Kiki orders die.
Speaker 1: Whispery, scene whisper. It seems sneaky, like I let you this, dad.
Speaker 1: I used to be like, hey, can you put my
Speaker 1: stuff to the side an then the tab come out
Speaker 1: and you know, I putting your card down already paid,
Speaker 1: y'all don't gotta work, right, But why you whispery?
Speaker 2: I'm shamed? What do you mean while am I whispering? Bitch?
Speaker 2: You hoses ordered for lay me, y'all medium rare Brussels
Speaker 2: sprounce with parmesan truffle, mashed potatoes with extra gro potatoes. Bitch,
Speaker 2: I don't even know what a gun is. Of course,
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed. Bitch I ordered a season saddle.
Speaker 1: With no crew toon.
Speaker 2: Yeah the fuck, I know I'm saying that the day
Speaker 2: but it was different though, so it was easy to
Speaker 2: split tabs restaurants used to split tabs. Now, I mean
Speaker 2: it's a different now. I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker 2: When I go to a restaurant, I'm here to eat.
Speaker 2: I don't care one thing about me. I'm very cheap
Speaker 2: still because I am. I like to save my money.
Speaker 2: But one thing I'm always spend money on is food.
Speaker 2: Food is a part of my experience in life. I
Speaker 2: feel like when you taste the different flavors of the world,
Speaker 2: you're living okay.
Speaker 1: And I'm a tourist, I just booty. So now, yeah,
Speaker 1: throw that card in the middle.
Speaker 2: And like I said, our friend Kiki Kiki orders six
Speaker 2: appetizers too entree.
Speaker 1: She don't even eat it all. She just wanna taste everything.
Speaker 2: If you go out to eat with Kiki Bab, you
Speaker 2: got to be ready to throw that card in. I
Speaker 2: think we're all like that, so I think that's okay.
Speaker 2: But I'm very mindful, so I know when we in
Speaker 2: certain settings. I know it's certain people it's not gonna pay.
Speaker 2: I know when I got it with that cash ap
Speaker 2: card up. I'm gonna just say that.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I know when I gotta do that cash hup. Shiteah
Speaker 2: and hey, y'all, hey, you know what instead of everybody
Speaker 2: laying their cars now, put it on the cashp car
Speaker 2: because y'all ain't finna slide to the waitress.
Speaker 1: Put eighty on this line.
Speaker 2: Walford one on the raft.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I feel like for trips though, that's just
Speaker 1: a good idea in general.
Speaker 2: I think I'm putting my bag when I saw this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think when people go on group trips it
Speaker 1: should be like that.
Speaker 2: Anyway.
Speaker 1: It's like when y'all going so smooth, it really was smart,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, when you go to the club or when
Speaker 1: you going out to eat and you on a trip
Speaker 1: with your friends, I feel like it should be one
Speaker 1: person in charge of pinion.
Speaker 2: And with that commnimize confused.
Speaker 1: Everybody's seeing this person they money, and this person is
Speaker 1: the person that's gonna pay with cash.
Speaker 2: And then when you and when you got the cash
Speaker 2: up car, you be feeling like a baller. I'll be
Speaker 2: like I got it, not knowing that everybody paid me.
Speaker 2: But I used to I was doing that the whole
Speaker 2: time in turks Grown. I was like Branda tapped to me,
Speaker 2: I got it, broke, bitches, I would have to get
Speaker 2: payback on everybody. I was in a section full of
Speaker 2: bad bitches yet sending another bottle, and from far away
Speaker 2: it looks like a am. It's because it's black and.
Speaker 1: It's black and it's hard and they.
Speaker 2: Got my signature on it to it. You know, I
Speaker 2: got a good signature, bitch. Their hope is looking fly.
Speaker 2: But okay, back to the topic. I do feel like
Speaker 2: finances shouldn't come between friendship though, and I can say
Speaker 2: that I can attest for no, no financing.
Speaker 1: I feel like finances should come can come between any
Speaker 1: fucking relationship.
Speaker 2: No, I feel like it shouldn't because it now, if
Speaker 2: somebody is using you and they're doing the most, okay,
Speaker 2: I understand. But if it's like somebody's just not up
Speaker 2: and you're and you're up and they're not up, and
Speaker 2: y'all be having conversations, they're letting you know.
Speaker 1: I just don't mind.
Speaker 2: Help, like because I used to be that person. So
Speaker 2: I don't mind helping or doing what I can and
Speaker 2: as long as they communicate with me. And one thing
Speaker 2: I can say for I have friends that make way
Speaker 2: more money than me, and I have friends that make
Speaker 2: way less than me. I feel like we all just
Speaker 2: it's a community. We all trying to figure shit out,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. But I think finances are
Speaker 2: tricky because if we would just communicate, none of this
Speaker 2: stuff would even exist.
Speaker 1: Open your mouth and talk not being embarrassed.
Speaker 2: I mean, I agree.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what I had said earlier too,
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't really matter to me if somebody doesn't
Speaker 1: have money, like that's not gonna affect our friendship. It
Speaker 1: won't affect our friendship until it's things like that, like
Speaker 1: feeling like you're using me, feeling like you're trying to
Speaker 1: be sneaky and get over you borrowing money and not
Speaker 1: giving it back. Because I consider myself a gracious a
Speaker 1: generous person too, like I have helped a lot of
Speaker 1: people out over the years. But it's just like people
Speaker 1: be trying to take stuff for granted though, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, And then that's when it can become
Speaker 1: an issue in relationship. That's why I said, I feel
Speaker 1: like finances can fuck up any relationship, whether it's a marriage,
Speaker 1: a partnership, a business partnership, a friendship, a familyship, any
Speaker 1: of that.
Speaker 2: Shit, a schnittleship, It could fuck up any relationship.
Speaker 1: Because that's the number one reason. Money is one of
Speaker 1: the number one reason for every breakup across the board.
Speaker 1: When it comes to any relationship, that's one of the
Speaker 1: number one reasons people stop being friends, stop fucking with
Speaker 1: each other. It be over money because then two, when
Speaker 1: you start getting money, then sometimes people around you start
Speaker 1: feeling entitled to your money, and that's a whole nother time.
Speaker 2: Tell you something, you ain't tired of the shit around here.
Speaker 2: But I always made that very clear, even when I
Speaker 2: worked at Dreams and I had two dollars. You're not
Speaker 2: entitled to these wings, bitch. Don't come in here feeling
Speaker 2: like I'm finna give you no. I've always been that way.
Speaker 2: I draw boundaries.
Speaker 1: I mean you have to. I feel like that's important.
Speaker 1: You have to draw boundaries with people, because that's when
Speaker 1: people will try to take evan each of you, you know.
Speaker 1: And I say that from a place of like I
Speaker 1: didn't always draw boundaries with people. I feel like I
Speaker 1: always been the type of person. If I got it,
Speaker 1: you got it, Like that's always been the type of
Speaker 1: friend that I was, especially when I was younger, like
Speaker 1: now not so much. I mean, like, if you my
Speaker 1: friend and I fuck with you and I'm doing something
Speaker 1: and I know you can't pay, or I know you
Speaker 1: going through some shit, I'll pay your tab or I'll
Speaker 1: help you out. But as far as just always across
Speaker 1: the board being like I gott e, I gotty, you
Speaker 1: would now absolutely, And that's well, yeah exactly. And if
Speaker 1: you're helping everybody out, how you gonna do that. That's
Speaker 1: why I said, sometimes you got to put people in position.
Speaker 1: We talked about these on the other episode.
Speaker 2: Circle Small, and that's just for a reason. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: don't need no Kelli bitches Aswing for my money.
Speaker 1: Okay, or no Orange Beaches.
Speaker 2: Or no or no Houston be nobody, none of you,
Speaker 2: none of you.
Speaker 1: Bet chess, not you think, because we ain't even ask
Speaker 1: you what you think.
Speaker 2: I hate.
Speaker 1: I like my group of friends were the ones that
Speaker 1: throw our cart in the middle. But I have had
Speaker 1: times in my life where I wasn't the you know,
Speaker 1: I wasn't in this position, and but I would be
Speaker 1: the one like you know, I came before I let
Speaker 1: people know I came before.
Speaker 2: I mean, I ate before I came. I'm not in
Speaker 2: it type of thing.
Speaker 1: But I don't necessarily like to sit there and count everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, just don't come.
Speaker 1: I would rather just stay home and avoid the embarrassment,
Speaker 1: avoid any of that.
Speaker 2: And just keep it moving because it's the next one. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna eat.
Speaker 1: I agree, Because then so even if you say you
Speaker 1: ate before you came, everybody gonna be like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you give me, why would you stay your appetite?
Speaker 1: You know if you know he was going, I'm about
Speaker 1: to soon, like, we can't be doing this dip and
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, came.
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Speaker 1: Okay, y'all. So for the band topic, I wanted to
Speaker 1: talk about if no for play is needy because I
Speaker 1: saw a tweet on Twitter and I had read tweeted
Speaker 1: it and it's so crazy because all I.
Speaker 2: Said was no, and he got a whole bunch of resweets.
Speaker 2: I guess the girls felt there.
Speaker 1: So the girl the original tweet, the girl was like,
Speaker 1: have y'all ever dated a man that was so fine
Speaker 1: and you was just so physically attracted to him X,
Speaker 1: Y and Z, you didn't need any for play? I said, No,
Speaker 1: never met a nigga the fine. I always need a
Speaker 1: little head, always always need my couchie scrade.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so it's like, excuse me, like, no, never
Speaker 1: met a nigga the fine?
Speaker 2: Ever?
Speaker 1: We need you need for play?
Speaker 2: I think that's.
Speaker 1: Essential when it comes to six. But that's just me now. Obviously,
Speaker 1: considering time restraints, you may not always have time for
Speaker 1: for a play, like you know what I mean, if
Speaker 1: you're trying to get a little quickie in before work
Speaker 1: or before you gotta go to an event church. Maybe
Speaker 1: I don't know. If you're trying to get a little
Speaker 1: quickie in real quick then yeah, you might not have
Speaker 1: time off four play. But like just on a normal basis,
Speaker 1: me and this man don't never be doing four play
Speaker 1: because he's so fine like Cuci just with off the rip. No,
Speaker 1: mm hmmm, I need do be like that sometimes.
Speaker 2: But like a little quickie or a little having fun. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but I always I think. But honestly, I feel like
Speaker 2: it's weird as a woman or a man, whoever, whatever
Speaker 2: you like today, you don't like four play.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't like to build up. I think it's
Speaker 1: your all.
Speaker 2: Four play is a part of it.
Speaker 1: I don't know when you said that. I just started
Speaker 1: to thinking about it. Chris Brown, So he'd be like, beauty,
Speaker 1: because that's what.
Speaker 2: We're doing if we building up. Cause you got me
Speaker 2: fucked up, because what are we doing here?
Speaker 1: My love?
Speaker 2: Clearly not you ain't even.
Speaker 1: You not getting all.
Speaker 2: His love because he eating somebody somebody else coaching it.
Speaker 2: It ain't yours eating No, my coupe, you're not getting
Speaker 2: all that nigga love somebody else. Okay, Again, like I said,
Speaker 2: four play is a part of sex. If you are
Speaker 2: dealing with a man or a woman who is not
Speaker 2: going down on you, not caressing them, teles, I love
Speaker 2: a titty career. I love a titty caress. I love
Speaker 2: when a man just kissed me up around and round.
Speaker 2: Oh sorry, I love to you know, bring it on back. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you're right, you're right. I just feel like four play
Speaker 2: is a part of sex. So I think that is
Speaker 2: a little bit childish.
Speaker 1: Whoever tweeted that.
Speaker 2: I bet you she's like in her twenties early and
Speaker 2: she was just trying to say something to im. She
Speaker 2: was trying to say, so I'm to impress the nigga
Speaker 2: that she fucking with who be watching her tweets, And
Speaker 2: she didn't expect Dre and Nicole to answer it and
Speaker 2: respond to it. Well, I will say to young Cuccie,
Speaker 2: be high so it'd be hot and ready.
Speaker 1: You really do. It's the person who once had.
Speaker 2: It could still be hot.
Speaker 1: Ch I mean, And it's not old, but it's older
Speaker 1: like it's season. It's seasoned coochie now like back when
Speaker 1: I was in my twenties, though it was young hot
Speaker 1: in like my my early twenties, it was young, hot
Speaker 1: and ready. Now when you be in your early twenties,
Speaker 1: I will say it takes minimal effort. Yeah, it takes
Speaker 1: wayless if to get you there. It's I mean, I
Speaker 1: kind of get where she coming from. But even back then,
Speaker 1: I used to be like, yo, open my legs.
Speaker 2: Oh you thing, put the CATAMOUTI right there.
Speaker 1: I had to think about it. That's why I was like,
Speaker 1: oh but God like look, it was always like, so
Speaker 1: what we're about to do?
Speaker 2: I just like, rap that engine up. You never start
Speaker 2: your car, just take off. You start your car, let
Speaker 2: it rev up.
Speaker 1: And what happened if your car weren't out of oil.
Speaker 2: That bitch gonna break down.
Speaker 1: It's gonna break down, might blow up. Hey oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you absolutely always need four play. So ladies, stop letting
Speaker 1: these niggas get away with not eating your kuchie.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I always have thought that was so weird when you
Speaker 1: girls be like, oh.
Speaker 2: I deal with a dude.
Speaker 1: He don't eat my kucci though.
Speaker 2: And why are you with it? If you see me
Speaker 2: with a if you see me, if you see me,
Speaker 2: no that he ate that thing up from the root
Speaker 2: of touto.
Speaker 1: Please know he eating fat?
Speaker 2: Mind? Oh, full meal, full meal. Thanksgiving brunch bitch, but
Speaker 2: off the bone, TI getting them neck bones and them
Speaker 2: collar green stags.
Speaker 1: But as a way, like what do you mean he
Speaker 1: don't eat it?
Speaker 2: Fo he beat it? It's such enough out of you
Speaker 2: and Heath Cliff Way, you couldn't up. I'm not I'm chilling.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I think that is after crazy. But
Speaker 2: I mean it goes both ways too. Y'all gotta start
Speaker 2: sucking that dick too. They do, y'all ain't giving y'all
Speaker 2: y'all ain't sucking at dick good.
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about like I used to know people
Speaker 1: where they would be like, oh, I be sucking my
Speaker 1: men like dick or whatever. But he don't eat my cucci.
Speaker 2: Only time that happens if it's that time of the month.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean I feel like sometimes that will happen
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Yeah, I'm talking about in general across
Speaker 1: the board, like you always giving him head and then
Speaker 1: he never give me.
Speaker 2: Here I'm finning like remy Ma on that video and
Speaker 2: like I said, way that man.
Speaker 1: Was giving her head while she was driving. No, remy Ma,
Speaker 1: don't look at me. I didn't do that.
Speaker 2: But why do you know A lot like it because
Speaker 2: it was one of her It was a music I
Speaker 2: got a reason, and the nigga was giving her head
Speaker 2: in the video.
Speaker 1: She was like, but it was obviously you're doing it
Speaker 1: for real. But the fact that it was even like
Speaker 1: acted out, that is crazy.
Speaker 2: Re me mine. He was like.
Speaker 1: She was like, because you know that's.
Speaker 2: What niggas do, not see m M.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just always thought that was a crazy
Speaker 1: thing though, because like, if you get a hit here,
Speaker 1: he need to eat a little here.
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. I really want to show you
Speaker 2: this clip now.
Speaker 1: I want to see the clip because I am intrigued.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I hope it comes up.
Speaker 1: I wonder how pampoos feel. Oh oh, it's not the video.
Speaker 2: Hold on, I know somebody got the video. Oh my god,
Speaker 2: but this is a picture of it.
Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead. It's the Bangs.
Speaker 2: Did you.
Speaker 1: One time?
Speaker 2: And I didn't like it on me. I have a
Speaker 2: very small forehead. So so let me tell y'all something
Speaker 2: about makeup.
Speaker 1: It was way down, bro, It just was.
Speaker 2: It looks so dumb. So one thing about makeup that
Speaker 2: I learned is that we have to stop want makeup.
Speaker 2: I was doing what it was probably way up people. Remember,
Speaker 2: it just looked funny because I have a small forehead, Like,
Speaker 2: look at my forehead, it's not big, so even contour.
Speaker 2: I don't contour my forehead anymore. You conter your forehead
Speaker 2: if you have a big forehead. You contour your nose
Speaker 2: if you have like a big nose, like, you contour
Speaker 2: your chin if you have a long chin, like there's
Speaker 2: certain like I contoured my cheeks. I have fat cheeks.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I contour my nose a
Speaker 2: little bit and my cheeks a little bit, but that's it.
Speaker 1: I don't do my chin and all this.
Speaker 2: I don't need all that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So Chinese bangs, I feel like, works on people with
Speaker 2: like a your forehead and styles like that, but they
Speaker 2: definitely didn't look good on me.
Speaker 1: Baby, the Chinese bang had me in a choke hold.
Speaker 1: Oh god, I just had it. I need Oh, Nikki, Nikki,
Speaker 1: tell me nothing. I had a Chinese bang. But what
Speaker 1: I used to hate about it, especially too because my
Speaker 1: skin is like Willie, like even right now, like my
Speaker 1: little forehead getting a little shiny, my bangs will always
Speaker 1: get so greasy, and I would be like I could
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Speaker 2: A abou about a bow about bow. Okay, so y'all
Speaker 2: know I'm a big Keyana La Day fan. I love
Speaker 2: her down. I feel like, Oh, I just wish I
Speaker 2: had the money to invest in everybody in the world
Speaker 2: that I just love. She has a song called Weakness.
Speaker 2: It came out on her last EP that she dropped,
Speaker 2: and it's just basically about how a nigga just got
Speaker 2: her weak in the knees, bitch, and we love a
Speaker 2: good week in the knees song.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So yeah, I love Keana.
Speaker 2: I feel like one thing that we don't talk about
Speaker 2: enough and music is tone of voice. I was talking
Speaker 2: about this with Shye a little bit because she was
Speaker 2: showing me like some freestyles by Sweety and I don't
Speaker 2: care what y'all say about Sweety, y'all be like, uh,
Speaker 2: she can't rap. She just needs to be pretty. Sweety
Speaker 2: got that tone. She got that tone, so it's I
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck who what's somebody rapping about?
Speaker 1: It sounds good.
Speaker 2: We are creatures. They gotta sound good in our ear.
Speaker 2: Same thing with Sexy Red. I don't care what y'all
Speaker 2: say about Sexy Red. It sounds the fuck good. Keanna
Speaker 2: Lede has that voice. It sounds good. Summer Walker, same way,
Speaker 2: she got that tone. Bruh, Sizza, she got that tone.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Even look boss Man Dilo, he got that tone. Yeah,
Speaker 2: telling you it's such a major thing when you're making
Speaker 2: music like and Keana Today. She has such a good tone.
Speaker 2: I feel the same way about Aaron Ray. He has
Speaker 2: a good tone. But anyways, Yeah, my bop of the
Speaker 2: week Kiana Today, Weakness fire. Go listen to her EP
Speaker 2: is bomb.
Speaker 1: Yeah. My BP of the week is about to be
Speaker 1: Residuals because I forgot how good this song.
Speaker 2: It is such a good song.
Speaker 1: This song is so good. Amen. Chris Brown, Okay, what
Speaker 1: all about? He won't come out with some hits.
Speaker 2: No, because, like you know, I'm gonna just say this,
Speaker 2: Residuals is probably one of the best R and B
Speaker 2: songs I've heard in a good like two three years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's a good song. It just what
Speaker 1: it came out in the twenty twenty three. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: a good song, like a year old.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, have we ever said talking about this?
Speaker 1: No, we haven't, we haven't.
Speaker 2: We gotta I know, we said, let's get back to
Speaker 2: the beg and music that he's making, the bigger music
Speaker 2: that was getting all my love tell me who oh
Speaker 2: but I am, I'm I'm gonna you know, I gotta
Speaker 2: give you a critique, Chris, I didn't like the video.
Speaker 2: You should have been heading outside of somebody's house with
Speaker 2: a boombox on your knees and crying. We needed a storyline.
Speaker 2: If we bring back storyline music videos. You remember how
Speaker 2: Keith Sweat had no what was it? You know? You
Speaker 2: want twisted? Do y'all remember the end when she was
Speaker 2: climbing the rail and she got struck by lightning and died.
Speaker 2: I know, y'all don't.
Speaker 1: Well, of course we don't. Leg because that song came
Speaker 1: out in like nineteen ninety two and I was three,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you don't even remember.
Speaker 2: You remember? That's how I told you about it.
Speaker 1: You remember because you probably seen it recent you want,
Speaker 1: I remember drew him in my bed at the end.
Speaker 2: She was a lesbian. He thought he was. She was
Speaker 2: cheating with a.
Speaker 1: Man on lines in these music video ray J one wish.
Speaker 1: That's how Chris Brown should have did it. Ray J
Speaker 1: got it right.
Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all.
Speaker 1: In that range was the one who he was for real.
Speaker 2: That's how he be begging for suki.
Speaker 1: Did you know? Fun fact, this was about the lady
Speaker 1: they just passed away r I pizza, the young lady
Speaker 1: from seven oh two. That was his girlfriend, did you know?
Speaker 1: I wish? Oh that was some hot tea.
Speaker 2: Yes, I did not know that, but his girlfriend. But
Speaker 2: the thing about Chris is he's such a big global artist.
Speaker 2: You can remake the video. You still got time and
Speaker 2: we're gonna watch it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, do it do it again, do it again, increase,
Speaker 1: do it again. We were not pleased. I'm playing it was.
Speaker 2: It was a good video. I don't know she was
Speaker 2: about to say it was a good That's how you
Speaker 2: know he's about to get your perfer.
Speaker 1: I was about because really I believe the song is good.
Speaker 1: But that's why I stopped myself because I'm like.
Speaker 2: It's a good video because it had it highlighted from
Speaker 2: his tour and it ended like with him and the girl,
Speaker 2: and you know, it was a good video. But I
Speaker 2: feel like, give us one more, give us a movie.
Speaker 2: Remember how Michael Jackson did thriller?
Speaker 1: Give us some movie or what I'm not gonna say
Speaker 1: his name. Oh funk no.
Speaker 2: About something right?
Speaker 1: That was a movie. That was a movie. It was
Speaker 1: very I want to know.
Speaker 2: I walk off.
Speaker 1: I know you. Now you want me to be quiet?
Speaker 2: You know that? God damn it, we're not talking about
Speaker 2: that right now? All right, So your first segment of
Speaker 2: the week, pour your heart out.
Speaker 1: Yes, if you have any questions testimonial, send them to
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Speaker 2: A S K P O U R M I N
Speaker 2: D S at gmail dot com. I'm sorry, real bad.
Speaker 1: He's only over there. What's that you know that meme
Speaker 1: with that man when he takes the headphones, whole goddamn
Speaker 1: episode over there? Like how he needs to insert he
Speaker 1: needs to insert that youth in the fucking video how
Speaker 1: people can see I'm.
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm sorry. Okay, go ahead, okay. Question number one.
Speaker 1: And for guys in a relationship, it used to date him,
Speaker 1: but you've decided to keep things friendly since he has
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. You still hang out occasionally. He even gave
Speaker 1: you a birthday gift that seems a bit worn or
Speaker 1: like something he didn't spend money on. He says he
Speaker 1: can't find the receipt to exchange it, but I think
Speaker 1: that's a lie. I don't mean to be ungrateful, but
Speaker 1: I still feel like bringing it up and don't know
Speaker 1: how this raise is a question should a guy in
Speaker 1: a committed relationship be giving gifts to another girl even
Speaker 1: if they're just friends. During our time together, I always
Speaker 1: asked him to be honest if he was serious with anyone.
Speaker 1: Eventually I learned he was indeed serious, but he said
Speaker 1: they weren't official yet, which meant he was involved with
Speaker 1: both of us at the same time. She clearly has
Speaker 1: no clue about this situation, but I'm left carrying the
Speaker 1: weight of it, making it tough for me to maintain
Speaker 1: our friendship just knowing that it hurts. He apologized, But
Speaker 1: is it just me or does knowing the person that
Speaker 1: he was dating at the same time hit differently, especially
Speaker 1: because he told me he wasn't. Now he's chilling all
Speaker 1: in love while I'm the one hurting trying to be
Speaker 1: his friend. I feel heartbroken because he's fine and not
Speaker 1: carrying any and not carrying any burden since she doesn't know. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: I'm the one he lied to and I know, so
Speaker 1: I have to carry the weight. I don't believe in
Speaker 1: go because it's been done to me and it's unhealthy.
Speaker 1: How can I let go peacefully? She's beyond Gorge's and
Speaker 1: I am not on her level at all, which makes
Speaker 1: me feel even worse. I just want to get over him.
Speaker 1: Any advice and help will be appreciated. Thank you, girls,
Speaker 1: first of all, First and for motherfucking modes. Girl, if
Speaker 1: you don't leave that fucking nigga alone, you talk about
Speaker 1: ghosting him. We don't give a fun and a whole relationship.
Speaker 1: You can't go somebody that's in a relationship. You just
Speaker 1: need to block him and move on with your life.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I'm sure she cute or whatever, but I'm
Speaker 1: sure you cute too, And just because she's cute, that
Speaker 1: doesn't give him a reason to treat you the way
Speaker 1: he treated you and to lead you on the way
Speaker 1: that he led you on. That is not okay. He
Speaker 1: is not a good person. He does not have good character,
Speaker 1: and that is why he does not deserve to remain
Speaker 1: in your life. Then he gave you a gift that
Speaker 1: he probably gifted to somebody else or probably took back
Speaker 1: from somebody and gave it to you. Like, girl, he
Speaker 1: don't care about you at all, and you deserve so
Speaker 1: much better. Let him be, we sees because he chose to.
Speaker 1: This is what I'm This is my advice. When somebody
Speaker 1: chose another person, let them lay in the bed with
Speaker 1: the decisions that they made. He made that decision, so
Speaker 1: he got a state of and then see it ain't
Speaker 1: no coming back to you now because he had a
Speaker 1: choice and he made his choice. Let him stay over there,
Speaker 1: move on with your life, and girl, fuck him.
Speaker 2: Fuck that, nigga, fuck him. Let me play devil's advocates.
Speaker 2: Fuck for that.
Speaker 1: Let me play.
Speaker 2: Devil's advocate for a minute, because I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 2: why you weak as fucked because you were talking to this.
Speaker 1: Man knowing he had a game.
Speaker 2: Eat my black beerry No, because I gotta be real
Speaker 2: with my ladies. For you were talking to this man
Speaker 2: knowing he had a situation, and you thought you thought
Speaker 2: you were finna come into this situation and he was
Speaker 2: gonna choose you or whatever the situation may be.
Speaker 1: Only for the letter to go on and you.
Speaker 2: Talking about she's so beautiful, She's so beautiful, And that's
Speaker 2: that's when I realized what it was. Right there a
Speaker 2: lot of men and women I'm gonna stay people in general,
Speaker 2: y'all don't have confidence about y'allselves, right, So y'all think
Speaker 2: y'all gonna go in this situation with a man who's
Speaker 2: dealing with or a woman who's dealing with a nigga
Speaker 2: who got money, or a man who's dealing with a
Speaker 2: woman who's beautiful, and you feel like that'll raise your
Speaker 2: confidence up because I can take her nigga. I can like,
Speaker 2: for example, I can take Dre and the call I'm
Speaker 2: on a date and I'm chilling with Dre and the
Speaker 2: cold nigga, only for him still to be like, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm not leaving Dre and the cold. So your intentions
Speaker 2: were wrong from the get go. Anyway, you were using
Speaker 2: this situation, what it sounds like to me, to boost
Speaker 2: up your confidence because you felt better about going on
Speaker 2: a day or hanging out with a man. Oh, you
Speaker 2: sounds like you looking up to his girl. You don't
Speaker 2: want him, You wanted to match what his girl had
Speaker 2: going on.
Speaker 1: Well for will to be fair, she said, when she
Speaker 1: started dating him, she did not know he had a girl.
Speaker 1: She asked him to be honest, and he wasn't being honest.
Speaker 2: But once you found out, you decided to feel hauled.
Speaker 1: Asked after that though, once you found out, you stuck there.
Speaker 2: Not only did you stick there, you went and snooped
Speaker 2: and found out who his girl was. And I'm not
Speaker 2: mad at you for that, but you started putting yourself
Speaker 2: in the competition with this girl who doesn't probably even
Speaker 2: know you exist. She don't, she said, And that's what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. We have got to stop doing that to
Speaker 2: each other as women. I don't give a fuck if
Speaker 2: she looked like Tommy Pickles. Bitch you when a man
Speaker 2: tells you he's dealing with somebody.
Speaker 1: Leaves Tommy Pickles as well, three hairs.
Speaker 2: Ok the ball bitches be puling. Okay, okay, okay, he
Speaker 2: got it. That's all I got to say, girl, but
Speaker 2: move on crazy.
Speaker 1: Okay, next question, this is mine?
Speaker 2: Right, m hm Okay, Hey ladies. So I've been dating
Speaker 2: this guy for the past two years. We've recently talked
Speaker 2: about getting more serious marriage and kids over the last
Speaker 2: few months. One day, we were having a conversation and
Speaker 2: he decided to share something with me that he thought
Speaker 2: I should know so I wouldn't be blindsided. He shared
Speaker 2: that he made a mistake and slept with his cousin,
Speaker 2: who isn't really his cousin by blood or marriage. She
Speaker 2: was adopted into the family, shut out to Dreana Cole.
Speaker 2: He felt I should know because she might be around
Speaker 2: at family events from time to time and he wanted
Speaker 2: to be transparent. He reassured me that there was no
Speaker 2: feelings between them and that it only happened once on
Speaker 2: a drunk night when she came on to him. I
Speaker 2: was really shocked and upset because it's not like an
Speaker 2: ex that I'll never see again. This is a relative
Speaker 2: who I could be in the same room with from
Speaker 2: time to time. Am I overreacting? Would you want to
Speaker 2: know if you were in the same room as one
Speaker 2: of your eskimo's sisters? Would you tell a guy you're dating,
Speaker 2: if he just shook hands with one of your exes, yeah,
Speaker 2: I would, I go on, motherfuckers, he did right, Yeah he.
Speaker 1: Did right by telling you that. But I mean, first
Speaker 1: of all, this wildest fuck because what how you accidentally
Speaker 1: sleep with your cause how was adopted? But how was
Speaker 1: that an accident? Like he didn't know when he slept
Speaker 1: with her? Or did he already know she was adopted
Speaker 1: your cousin and then he slept with her? Anyways, maybe
Speaker 1: on a drunken night.
Speaker 2: I don't know, because that's what I want to know.
Speaker 1: We did a part two sit as another email in
Speaker 1: put part two I don't know scandal Eskimo Gate put
Speaker 1: that so anyways, likes, I was saying, how do you
Speaker 1: accidentally sleep with show cousin? But that ain't the point
Speaker 1: of the question. I would want to know absolutely. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I would keep talking to a dude
Speaker 1: that admitted to me that he slipped with his cousin.
Speaker 2: That's not what she asked, bitch, that's not what she asked.
Speaker 1: No, I'm just silly. You ain't gotta ask why it's
Speaker 1: free this one on the house. I don't know if
Speaker 1: I always still deal with somebody you told me to
Speaker 1: tay slip with their goods.
Speaker 2: But I do believe. Let me tell you something. When
Speaker 2: I walk in the room, it ain't no nigga that
Speaker 2: can walk up to my man and be like, yeah,
Speaker 2: he already knows. And that's why it's just gotta carry
Speaker 2: yourself because anybody in my past, it ain't no man
Speaker 2: even comfortable enough to walk up to my man on
Speaker 2: some shit about me either anyway. So he did the
Speaker 2: right thing by letting you know. But in case you
Speaker 2: try something funny. So I think it's very important if
Speaker 2: you're gonna be in a situation where your man or
Speaker 2: you're a woman is gonna be in the room with
Speaker 2: an Eskimo sister, because men and women both be trying
Speaker 2: to be cute and her, Oh oh, I see you
Speaker 2: keep it cute.
Speaker 1: I see you too, bitch.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I see you too, bitch. And I know and
Speaker 2: guess where he at because it wasn't fat, juicy and
Speaker 2: wet shout out to Bruno.
Speaker 1: Yo, that's what you need. The title part too, faith.
Speaker 2: Cousin fact, So no, you're not overreacting, but he did
Speaker 2: the right thing. And yes, I would want to know
Speaker 2: if I'm in the same room as an Eskimo suits
Speaker 2: because don't be in my face, like, hey girl, you
Speaker 2: look staircared. I'll be like, bitch, yeah, keep your distance.
Speaker 2: You ain't gotta speak to me. Booth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't even gotta do all it. It's just
Speaker 1: so exy trying to be fun so unnecessary they.
Speaker 2: Be trying to be funny. I don't know. I've never
Speaker 2: been in it.
Speaker 1: I've never been in a situation like this. I haven't
Speaker 1: either where I've had to like be around somebody or
Speaker 1: be friendly with somebody, did like only like a sister.
Speaker 2: If it was like it was a dude in our past,
Speaker 2: and we're like it's funny, like girl, yeah, yeah, laugh
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