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<v Speaker 1>Whispery scene whispery seen sneak like I leg you just that.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to be like, hey, can you put my

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<v Speaker 1>stuff to the side? An then the tab come out

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<v Speaker 1>of you that I putting your card down because I

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<v Speaker 1>already paid.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all don't got a word right, But why you whispery?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm shamed? What do you mean while am I whispering? Bitch?

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<v Speaker 2>You hosses ordered for lay me? Y'all? Medium rare brussels

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<v Speaker 2>sprous with parmesan truffle, mashed potatoes with extra gru potatoes. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what a grunt is. Of course,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm embarrassed, bitch, I ordered a season saddle with no crewton.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah the fuck? What's up? Y'all? It's your girl, Alex

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<v Speaker 2>p And it's your girl drain and the call and

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<v Speaker 2>you are tuned in to another episode of Pull.

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<v Speaker 1>Mine, where a drunk mind speaks soberthight.

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<v Speaker 2>We ain't got no guests today, We ain't got no

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<v Speaker 2>guests today? Who I just took a shot? Sorry, my

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<v Speaker 2>throat burning? You know what I like when we dress

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<v Speaker 2>like this because it gives our personalities, does he? Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>it's given like bougie. You mean business. You mean business.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna walk into a business meeting right now putting

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<v Speaker 2>somebody in the chest.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't do that. But I'm saying I'm aggress You've

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<v Speaker 1>never bunched nobody the whole time I've known you.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm aggressive. I'm just saying, it's given our personalities. Chill,

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<v Speaker 2>just in the field with it. You feel me, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying. So what's up, girl? Nothing, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>Just it's another week, Just another week. Let me ask

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<v Speaker 2>you a question because I saw somebody post something very

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<v Speaker 2>interesting and I'm not gonna say what it was or

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<v Speaker 2>what it was. I'm gonna just ask you this. If

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<v Speaker 2>somebody is born somewhere and then they move when they're

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<v Speaker 2>a tiny tot anything under the age of I'll stay

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<v Speaker 2>five years old. They're born somewhere and they move when

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<v Speaker 2>they're five, and they're raised in this city, is it

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<v Speaker 2>okay that they claim the city that they were raised

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<v Speaker 2>in from five and above. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think five is a young age, So yeah, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying I think that.

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<v Speaker 1>When I think it's weird when people are adults, like

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<v Speaker 1>move somewhere, when they're adults, and they claim right. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's a little strange because I mean, no, if

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<v Speaker 1>you live somewhere for twenty years, if you live somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>for fifteen years, that's where you're from. Now, if you

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<v Speaker 1>move somewhere when you're five years old, you probably don't

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<v Speaker 1>even remember the place that you originally lived.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. So I just I saw something.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I said, I'm not gonna say it, but like,

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<v Speaker 2>for example, my sister, we were both born in California,

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<v Speaker 2>and my sister moved you know, when we were she

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<v Speaker 2>was about she was five and I was two. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm from Orange Texas. I'm not from California. My sister

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<v Speaker 2>is from Orange Texas. She's not from California. And I

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<v Speaker 2>just think it's so where and people be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't claim from here.

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<v Speaker 1>You were born.

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<v Speaker 2>Here, bookie butt or girl, wherever you were raised at

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<v Speaker 2>where I feel like third grade and I'll even take

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<v Speaker 2>it further, little give you some more years third grade

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<v Speaker 2>and up wherever you at from third grade to your

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<v Speaker 2>senior year in high school, unless you're like an army

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<v Speaker 2>brat and you from all different places, Cause there are

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<v Speaker 2>some people like that where they really not from somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>because they moved around a lot. But third grade to

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<v Speaker 2>your senior year, that's where you're from.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think that y'all are from California because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like wherever you're born, that's where you're from. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's not your worth to seefe, that's where you're from.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like you were raised in Orange.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I claim Orange like I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>give because I mean, you don't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't claim it necessarily either, but I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>is where you're from though, Yeah, but you probably don't

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<v Speaker 1>even remember living there and don't and don't. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>I said she probably don't either. Well she does.

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<v Speaker 2>She remembers our house, and she remembers like our dad

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff like that. But and like I said, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>even give people like to third grade because I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like where you're from is like what really shapes you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't give Callie Girl at all because I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>from there. I wasn't raised there like Orange, Texas really

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<v Speaker 2>raised me, like that's where I became. Oh I'm so sorry, y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought my phone was off. I ain't that unprofessional

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<v Speaker 2>of me. Oh Jesus Christ, but orange like you don't

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<v Speaker 2>raise me. That's where I became who I am. So

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like wherever you're going, wherever you're at, where

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<v Speaker 2>you're going through, like your adolescent stage and all that

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<v Speaker 2>first love, first day, first everything's like, that's where you're from.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to make sure I wasn't tripping. You

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<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying, because you know, people be trying

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<v Speaker 2>to say things about one, two and this and that.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was just making show I wasn't tripping.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't think you were. I think that that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense, Like why would you claim somewhere that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't live for that long and then you don't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, the people be tripping over the city. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody said that to your sister.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they didn't say that to my sister. Okay, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>say what it is. Somebody said that Meg needs to

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<v Speaker 2>stop claiming Houston because she's from San Antonio. Because Meg

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<v Speaker 2>was born in San Antonio, but she was raised in Houston, right,

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<v Speaker 2>Meg moved to Houston when she was very small, Like

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't say, she doesn't hide that. Yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like the girl is from Houston, she was

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<v Speaker 2>raised in Houston.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she was just born in San. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what is she supposed to say that every

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<v Speaker 1>time she do an interview.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even think it's stuff like that be weird

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<v Speaker 1>because like you said, it's like people who was born

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<v Speaker 1>on military basis and stuff and that's where they was born,

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<v Speaker 1>but they grew up somewhere completely different or multiple places.

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<v Speaker 2>But sometimes military people be tricky to military babies because

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<v Speaker 2>like they'll be born in Germany. But like raising you talking,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be like, I'm German girl.

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<v Speaker 1>They are no technique.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean they are, but you know what they be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>But to me, if you're from somewhere, you are like

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<v Speaker 1>that is what you are. You technically German, but.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know nothing about the Germany.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to to be German.

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<v Speaker 2>That where you were born.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like that like somebody that was born

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<v Speaker 1>in America and they might move somewhere else and may

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<v Speaker 1>not know much about American culture because they moved at

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<v Speaker 1>a young age. But like you're American, you not from

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<v Speaker 1>like say they moved to Asia, You're not from Asia.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not age either, you're from there.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like if you spent more years in Asia,

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<v Speaker 2>like you're it's a difference between what is it called

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<v Speaker 2>your what do we talk about all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why my mom is going blank.

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<v Speaker 2>I go off your race and your what is it nationality?

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<v Speaker 2>That's too, that's it's totally.

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<v Speaker 1>Different, right right. But I go based off of people's

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<v Speaker 1>birth certificates. So if your birth certificate say that you're American,

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<v Speaker 1>you're American. If your birth certificates say you're German, you're German.

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<v Speaker 1>It is because I don't feel like even when you

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<v Speaker 1>go to these places, like people that are born in Germany,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't really have a different look or anything than

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<v Speaker 1>people that are born here in America or even like

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<v Speaker 1>to me, the culture isn't really like that much different

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<v Speaker 1>in Germany. Yeah, I don't feel like the culture is chocolate.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'm but I'm okay chocolate. But I'm saying like

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<v Speaker 1>the culture in itself, like I don't feel like the

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<v Speaker 1>culture is like that much different from like American culture.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you were to go somewhere like Tokyo, the

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<v Speaker 1>culture there is completely different from the culture here. If

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<v Speaker 1>you was to go somewhere like Ghana, the culture there

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<v Speaker 1>is completely different than what it is here. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think the culture in Germany is like that much different

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<v Speaker 1>to where it's like I need to say yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The reason I think it's so different because when I

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<v Speaker 2>think about culture, one of the first things I think

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<v Speaker 2>about personally is.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, ain't there where Hamburger's from? Yes, exactly, and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know I love a little Burger.

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<v Speaker 1>You might be German.

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<v Speaker 2>Facts because my parents met on the little But I

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<v Speaker 2>think when I think about culture, one of the first

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<v Speaker 2>things I always think about being a foodie. Girls. I

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<v Speaker 2>think about food, I think about like fashion and things

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<v Speaker 2>like that. So I feel like German culture to me

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<v Speaker 2>personally is very different just from the food they eat.

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<v Speaker 1>They eat sausages, like what is it? What is it called?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the saucyles?

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<v Speaker 2>I used to go the Wiener Schnitzel when I was little.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom loved the hot dog bitch I'll see. We

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<v Speaker 2>used to go to Wiener Schnitzel. But that's when I

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<v Speaker 2>realized I don't like weenie, so I started eating hot

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<v Speaker 2>dogs without the weenie, which is chili and cheese.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I used to eat my hot dogs. I

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<v Speaker 1>hate a Wiener. I hate a w if Shane look

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<v Speaker 1>up at me one more time, freak.

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<v Speaker 2>Like seriercely.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Wieners are just so nasty, like if you

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<v Speaker 1>know what's idiot, Like, it's just all type of like

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<v Speaker 1>bullsh yeah, bullshit.

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<v Speaker 2>That in that sh.

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<v Speaker 1>That exactly what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Bull is what it is. That's what I'll say. I

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<v Speaker 2>think all cultures are so different.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean even you. I mean obviously we've been there

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<v Speaker 1>and I see they speak a different language.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah. But I just feel that's why Europe

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<v Speaker 2>is so it's such an interesting place to me because

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<v Speaker 2>they're so close, but it's whole different cultures that are

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<v Speaker 2>right next door to each other. So I do understand

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<v Speaker 2>what you're saying as far as like the life that

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<v Speaker 2>they live, you know, like the nine to five stuff

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<v Speaker 2>like that, you know, But again, I just be feeling

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<v Speaker 2>like wherever you were raised at is like where you're from.

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<v Speaker 2>Like wherever you were raised at, like, that's where you're from.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care what your birth certificate says, whatever culture

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<v Speaker 2>you were raised in, like or wherever you were at,

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<v Speaker 2>that's where you from. I lived in Houston for ten

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<v Speaker 2>years I'm not from Houston. I'm not from California. I

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<v Speaker 2>was born there. I am from Orange Saxies.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean that's there. But I guess I just

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<v Speaker 1>be thinking about like if somebody like you die and

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<v Speaker 1>y'all bech where he's gonna stay born in any yacht California,

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<v Speaker 1>people gonna.

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<v Speaker 2>Be like I'm gonna say, in my city.

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<v Speaker 1>People gonna be people gonna be like, who the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>is from California?

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<v Speaker 2>But yes they would they My people don't hung up

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<v Speaker 2>there and say no Orange Texas for all.

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<v Speaker 3>None.

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<v Speaker 1>No, they're gonna they're gonna be like, who was born

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<v Speaker 1>in California? Because you never say, but you are, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not you are.

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<v Speaker 2>We should do a poll because what's you think?

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<v Speaker 1>Ta? I think it is where you're raised at Like

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<v Speaker 1>you could be you would say I'm born in this city,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was raised in But you have to prefacee,

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<v Speaker 1>which I feel like if you're from somewhere else and

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<v Speaker 1>then you grew up somewhere, you still have to say

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<v Speaker 1>where are you from?

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<v Speaker 2>No, not necessarily, it depends because I'll say this, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>say somebody was born in America and then they moved

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<v Speaker 2>to Tokyo. Okay, and there they speak Japanese very fluently

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<v Speaker 2>and English is their second language, and then they come back.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like that's a that's when you need

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<v Speaker 2>to say, like, oh, I was born in America, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Japanese. You know what I'm saying. I'm Japanese like

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up, but you know I'm from here, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Japanese.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you Japanese.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. I just feel like, ain't nobody,

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<v Speaker 2>it ain't finna be no Cali bitches at my futures.

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<v Speaker 1>It ain't.

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<v Speaker 2>It ain't gonna be. Nobody might never know. You might

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<v Speaker 2>make some more I'm not making. I am good on friends.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like my circle is good. I know y'all

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<v Speaker 2>be like, oh, Lex, I want to be your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I am good.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a good circle. No Cali bitches, No offense

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<v Speaker 2>is the Cali bitches. I'm just no, not happening.

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<v Speaker 1>You might though you could never say never. You might

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<v Speaker 1>meet somebody and y'all just click, is she be from

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<v Speaker 1>she might be from where you're from?

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck? No no offensing of orange bitches either. Y'all will

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<v Speaker 2>be supporting me enough for me, y'all ain't booked me

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<v Speaker 2>at Spanky's yet, bitch, What the fuck is spank the

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<v Speaker 2>local club?

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<v Speaker 1>It's still oupy?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the only club? Andies I'm playing?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I haven't been there. I only go

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<v Speaker 2>there for Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, Orange, do y'all have a downtown?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Like with skyscrapers.

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<v Speaker 2>The skotscraper was.

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<v Speaker 1>My house beach. I'm weakest, So it's really like Charleston.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, Charleston is nice, but I guess what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying is like, you know, we found out that Charleston

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<v Speaker 1>can't have buildings over a certain height, so they don't

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<v Speaker 1>have any skyscrapers.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no skyscrapers in Orange cause it's like, who's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be in there?

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<v Speaker 1>What you mean the people, bro?

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<v Speaker 2>The people need to say they ass on ground? Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, keep their feet on the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nothing bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But I know my city like it ain't nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just chill. Y'all don't need no hoigh riz in Orange,

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<v Speaker 2>Texas for what. Y'all need to keep that rent like

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<v Speaker 2>the see Houston girl, they need to keep that rent low.

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<v Speaker 2>Eat the boot in, keep the boot in in tect

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<v Speaker 2>Orange is good, and I love my city, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>a country town. I don't believe that high rises should

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<v Speaker 2>be everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I wonder if it's high rise in Acadochi's now.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know because it wasn't a and they had

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<v Speaker 1>a downtown though, but it was like brick roads. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you know, we in a country.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know there's a Lamar in Orange, Lamar orangell College.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's the college. Whole bunch of people then went

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<v Speaker 1>to my school, They went to my high school, went

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<v Speaker 1>to Lamar. Well, they went to Lamar in Beaumont. In Beaumont.

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<v Speaker 2>Lamar's in Beamont, that's the popular one. But Lamar had

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<v Speaker 2>a branch in Orange too, the colleague. Yes, lamarka Lamar

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<v Speaker 2>State Orange, Lamar Orange.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's attached to the one in Beaumont.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, there's like it's a branch off of it, just

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<v Speaker 2>like HCCA.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how HCC had different brandes around Houston. It

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<v Speaker 2>was the same thing with Lamar. They have a Lamar

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<v Speaker 2>and port author too. Okay, go here in Lamar.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>You better get that college education. Don't play with us.

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<v Speaker 2>I see DC girl. Oh, Okay, okay, that's all I

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<v Speaker 2>just had to ask, is like I said, stop playing

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<v Speaker 2>with my girl, mad She's she's from Houston. She gives Houston.

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<v Speaker 2>She just gives Houston. And I feel like, why would

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<v Speaker 2>y'all not want her to be from Houston, Like that's

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<v Speaker 2>a big thing to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Begs from Houston, Like stop because they want to claim

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<v Speaker 1>San Antonio, y'all got the Alamo, y'all got a enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I was about to say that has Celena, y'all

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<v Speaker 2>got the world. What was Selena from Corpus Christie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she was from Corpus Christie. She wasn't from synor tennant.

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<v Speaker 1>I said with San Antonio, gay two things. No, you

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<v Speaker 1>live that down, that's what you don't. Gotta let me

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<v Speaker 1>live it down. And that's what they be saying. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's what they said. They probably still do. He's

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<v Speaker 1>needs probably be in class me. It was areditory the

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<v Speaker 1>whole family. Okay, I'm sorry, but no, they got the

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<v Speaker 1>Alamo and they got Sea World. This is the two

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<v Speaker 1>things to San Antonio, AND's some good tacos. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>need me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all I had. That's all I had to ask, Tad,

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<v Speaker 2>what are we drinking today.

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<v Speaker 1>Technically she is from Senato.

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<v Speaker 2>She was born in San Antonio. That's all. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get Meg on the show so we can ask I

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<v Speaker 2>can ask her myself.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's yeah. I mean she's gonna say she's from Houston.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she's just like you say you from Orange.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't play. You know where I'm from, from California.

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<v Speaker 1>Your birth certificate in your passport, it's right there on

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<v Speaker 1>the past. I said, Orange.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't do me the yeah, leave me alone, you

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<v Speaker 2>fucking bully. I'm wee. Oh okay, we drank what we drinking.

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<v Speaker 1>This one is gonna be called the Forbidden Kiss. This

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<v Speaker 1>is good, okay, ooh okay. Jolly rinchhair a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>like it might be that desert pear syrup that we

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<v Speaker 1>added to it. I think y'all liked that a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit has some cranberry juice in it, a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of lime, and we did for Lex. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of Valka in hers. We got mocktails over here,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we topped it with a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>ginger beer just to kind of give it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>We got bite into it, and then we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>did as a garnish, like a medley of berries, so

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's is different. I have strawberry, raspberry, blueberry. The girls

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<v Speaker 1>have some blackberries and strawberries and raspberries in there, so

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of a cute blend. Just as we prepare

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<v Speaker 1>to go into the month of Love. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>the forbidden kiss. Cheers.

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<v Speaker 2>This is really really juicy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, You're gonna have to remake these that when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm drinking again. Okay, I got you, bat you seeing

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<v Speaker 1>what Honelet now you know that's right?

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<v Speaker 2>That juicy away. Okay. Ever since I was a little girl,

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<v Speaker 2>I've loved being on camera, entertaining myself and everybody around

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<v Speaker 2>me by sharing my thoughts and opinions on anything pop culture.

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<v Speaker 2>For the past few years, I've heard your requests. But

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<v Speaker 2>now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all, let's get

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<v Speaker 2>into the teeth with love lexp Tasty.

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<v Speaker 4>It's gonna be about twenty questions.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of the questions that y'all see me were

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<v Speaker 1>kind of similar, so I've merged some of the questions together,

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<v Speaker 1>and y have gonna let y'all get in my business

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Let y'all be a little a little noisy. I know,

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<v Speaker 4>so I don't normally do that. What did you learn

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<v Speaker 4>from your early commit twenty? I just lost my dad.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm twenty one. I'm not sure how to keep going.

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<v Speaker 4>Any tips on how to keep going?

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<v Speaker 1>It?

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<v Speaker 4>Heydrea asking a genue question. Do you get lived to this? Ohkay?

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<v Speaker 1>This is another question I feel like I answer all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, but I don't mind answering it again. What

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<v Speaker 1>is your take on having a lot of female friends?

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<v Speaker 1>I've never really been the type. Are you making a

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<v Speaker 1>personal YouTube channel because poor Minds is changing or canceled?

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<v Speaker 4>Let me clear the air with that.

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<v Speaker 1>So for the first topic, I wanted to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>toxic positivity and is it hurting our mental health? So basically, like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that you could be positive to the

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<v Speaker 1>point that it's toxic to where it's making people not

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<v Speaker 1>recognize like the real issues that people have to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with on a daily basis, Like, because people are always

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<v Speaker 1>telling other people, No, you gotta be positive, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>have a positive mindset. You can't let stuff get you down,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't be depressed and stressed out. You gotta pray,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta have faith, all of these things that people

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<v Speaker 1>are always telling people when they're going through, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the trials and tribulations their life throw at you. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there a way that you could be being too positive

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<v Speaker 1>to the point that he's toxic.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely. I feel like one thing that I've learned was

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<v Speaker 2>like mental health and dealing with things like that, we

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<v Speaker 2>have to be realistic. So I saw this good example.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was a TikTok I had seen. I

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<v Speaker 2>do not know who said this, Maybe y'all can find them.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate when I reference what people say and I

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<v Speaker 2>can't remember who said it. But basically, this guy was

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<v Speaker 2>talking about life and he was saying, life has up

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<v Speaker 2>and so the reality of it is, of course, we

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<v Speaker 2>want to be happy every day. Is that realistic? No,

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<v Speaker 2>Because life happens. People die, you lose money, you lose

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<v Speaker 2>a job, you lose a friend. It's life. There's no

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<v Speaker 2>way to be It's not normal. To be happy every day.

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<v Speaker 2>God gave us emotions for a reason so we could

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<v Speaker 2>feel all of them. Right, So when you're hooked up

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<v Speaker 2>to a machine, your heart is hooked up to a machine,

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<v Speaker 2>what does it do? It beats.

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<v Speaker 1>And it goes up and down.

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<v Speaker 2>When you're dead, that's when it's steady. So whether it's

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<v Speaker 2>a high up or a high down, think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>A person was happy all the time, say they're on drugs,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what makes them happy all the time. That person

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<v Speaker 2>is losing themselves off of a drug or whatever because

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<v Speaker 2>they're steadily being high because they're off of a drug.

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<v Speaker 1>Or you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>It's or whenever you're sad all the time, it's one

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<v Speaker 2>emotion you're supposed to feel. A life, you have to

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<v Speaker 2>feel all those emotions. So I think it's realistic to

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<v Speaker 2>tell people, yes, be happy, look for the positive things.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what, it's also okay to tell people, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay to be sad today. If you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to get out of bed today, feel that. Go through

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<v Speaker 2>those emotions, but don't stay there because as much as

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<v Speaker 2>you go down, that heart gotta beat, you gotta go

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<v Speaker 2>back up. So I do think it's a it gets

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<v Speaker 2>too much with the online, the self help and all

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<v Speaker 2>that self help books and the self I'm gonna teach

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<v Speaker 2>you how to stop it. Let tell people it's okay

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<v Speaker 2>to feel. It's okay to cry, it's okay to be sad,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay to have these moments, because that's a part

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<v Speaker 2>of life. We're humans. You're gonna feel some emotions. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not realistic to be happy every single fucking day, bro,

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<v Speaker 2>It's just not so. Yeah, I do believe that toxic

0:23:42.680 --> 0:23:47.359
<v Speaker 2>positivity will make people draw people further into depression. To

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<v Speaker 2>be honest, how do you feel?

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree, just because I feel like some people need that,

0:23:55.920 --> 0:24:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Like some people need people around them supporting them, im

0:24:00.200 --> 0:24:03.679
<v Speaker 1>pouring into them, telling them that things are gonna be okay.

0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:06.960
<v Speaker 1>That's what gets some people through things, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I think you have people who just want to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with stuff on their own, which either way, however

0:24:11.480 --> 0:24:13.840
<v Speaker 1>you choose to deal with things, either way, it is fine,

0:24:14.160 --> 0:24:17.520
<v Speaker 1>But I think some people need that, And I don't

0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:22.000
<v Speaker 1>think in telling people to have faith and that things

0:24:22.000 --> 0:24:24.439
<v Speaker 1>are gonna get better and being positive and trying to

0:24:24.440 --> 0:24:27.439
<v Speaker 1>give them a positive outlook, I don't think that necessarily

0:24:27.480 --> 0:24:29.679
<v Speaker 1>means that you're telling them that they can't be sad

0:24:30.440 --> 0:24:33.000
<v Speaker 1>or to not feel their emotions, you know what I mean,

0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:35.240
<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like you can still feel the person

0:24:35.320 --> 0:24:38.000
<v Speaker 1>can still feel their emotions, and then a friend or

0:24:38.000 --> 0:24:39.960
<v Speaker 1>a family member is telling them, you have to pull

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<v Speaker 1>yourself out of these Yeah, because you do. You know

0:24:42.880 --> 0:24:45.119
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, you need to, Like, like you said,

0:24:45.280 --> 0:24:47.800
<v Speaker 1>life is about you have to feel the emotions and stuff.

0:24:47.840 --> 0:24:51.200
<v Speaker 1>But like if you stay in that emotion, a lot

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 1>of things could go wrong, Like when people are sad

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:56.560
<v Speaker 1>and depressed and I feel like they don't want to

0:24:56.640 --> 0:24:59.119
<v Speaker 1>do anything and stuff. Sometimes I think a lot of

0:24:59.160 --> 0:25:01.119
<v Speaker 1>things you can oo's a lot of things in the

0:25:01.160 --> 0:25:05.360
<v Speaker 1>process of like sitting in there. So I think sometimes

0:25:05.359 --> 0:25:08.440
<v Speaker 1>people do need people around them to tell them, like, no,

0:25:09.280 --> 0:25:11.800
<v Speaker 1>you have to get up, you have to pull yourself

0:25:11.840 --> 0:25:14.800
<v Speaker 1>out of these funk because it doesn't last forever. Because

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<v Speaker 1>I think too, when a lot of people go through things,

0:25:18.000 --> 0:25:20.320
<v Speaker 1>they think it's gonna last forever, Like people be thinking

0:25:20.359 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 1>it's to end and it's nice, and sometimes I think

0:25:23.520 --> 0:25:26.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people need that reminder that like this too,

0:25:26.840 --> 0:25:27.440
<v Speaker 1>shell pad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And that's what I'm saying I agree with you

0:25:29.840 --> 0:25:32.080
<v Speaker 2>on that. That's what I'm saying. You do need somebody

0:25:32.080 --> 0:25:36.040
<v Speaker 2>to tell you, hey, don't stay in this. But I

0:25:36.080 --> 0:25:39.520
<v Speaker 2>think with the social media aspect of it, the gurules,

0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:43.119
<v Speaker 2>I'll be seeing these gurus with no degree and no

0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:46.200
<v Speaker 2>nothing like wake up every day and choose yourself and

0:25:46.280 --> 0:25:48.040
<v Speaker 2>choose like, yes, that's what you're supposed to do.

0:25:48.119 --> 0:25:49.200
<v Speaker 1>I do need to hear that.

0:25:49.520 --> 0:25:52.680
<v Speaker 2>But also they're not saying, you know what, it's okay

0:25:52.720 --> 0:25:55.000
<v Speaker 2>to sit in bed sometimes. That's what I'm saying. It's

0:25:55.000 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 2>two sides to it, So yes, tell these people to

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<v Speaker 2>get out of bed, but also tell them if you

0:26:00.280 --> 0:26:03.160
<v Speaker 2>want to have a day to yourself, to be sad

0:26:03.240 --> 0:26:06.240
<v Speaker 2>and to cry, that's okay too. I just think there's

0:26:06.280 --> 0:26:08.760
<v Speaker 2>like two sides of it, and a lot of times

0:26:08.760 --> 0:26:11.959
<v Speaker 2>these people try to push this narrative like I'm happy

0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:14.240
<v Speaker 2>and I'm great all the time. Most of these like

0:26:14.280 --> 0:26:16.800
<v Speaker 2>self help and motivational speakers, they're not telling you the

0:26:17.320 --> 0:26:19.480
<v Speaker 2>hard days that they have. And I think that's what's

0:26:19.480 --> 0:26:22.320
<v Speaker 2>good about our show, cause, bitch, we talk about our wins,

0:26:22.359 --> 0:26:25.320
<v Speaker 2>but we talk about our losses too. It's real because

0:26:25.400 --> 0:26:29.560
<v Speaker 2>life is real. It's not always pictures and Creams No.

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<v Speaker 1>One twelve right, all yeah, I mean in no shade,

0:26:34.040 --> 0:26:36.720
<v Speaker 1>But I think that that shit, like is that not

0:26:36.960 --> 0:26:40.159
<v Speaker 1>like common scenes at this it's a go that everybody

0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:44.119
<v Speaker 1>has bad days. Like literally, it's nobody walking this earth

0:26:44.160 --> 0:26:47.879
<v Speaker 1>that is happy and happy, go lookie and positive and

0:26:47.920 --> 0:26:52.320
<v Speaker 1>in a great mood every single day, Like life happens.

0:26:52.359 --> 0:26:54.919
<v Speaker 1>Things happen, you know what I mean, whether it's you

0:26:55.080 --> 0:26:58.120
<v Speaker 1>losing a job, whether you're going through financial issues, whether

0:26:58.119 --> 0:27:01.040
<v Speaker 1>you're going through a breakup, whether you you lost a

0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:03.320
<v Speaker 1>parent or lost somebody close to you, whether it's a

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:07.199
<v Speaker 1>friendship breakup, whatever. I mean, you could have tripped and

0:27:07.200 --> 0:27:08.720
<v Speaker 1>filled in the hole in front of a whole bunch

0:27:08.720 --> 0:27:11.960
<v Speaker 1>of people down the escalator or some set, and now

0:27:12.119 --> 0:27:14.240
<v Speaker 1>they're ruined JO day because you and Barry. It's like

0:27:15.520 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 1>things happen to everybody, even though and I use that

0:27:19.400 --> 0:27:21.639
<v Speaker 1>last example because I feel like that's something that's not

0:27:21.800 --> 0:27:25.160
<v Speaker 1>so serious, like there's something small that's not really in

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:27.760
<v Speaker 1>the green scheme of things, but it'd be little, so

0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:30.840
<v Speaker 1>sometimes they could fuck YO day up, Like nobody has

0:27:31.000 --> 0:27:33.440
<v Speaker 1>great days five hundred and sixty five days after years.

0:27:33.560 --> 0:27:37.760
<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately, we are in a time where people look up

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:40.439
<v Speaker 2>to these people on social media, and they believe that

0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:42.040
<v Speaker 2>they're being honest and real.

0:27:41.960 --> 0:27:43.520
<v Speaker 1>And well, that's why I need y'all to put child

0:27:43.560 --> 0:27:46.720
<v Speaker 1>thinking caps on. Ain't that what we learn the elementary? Yeah,

0:27:46.760 --> 0:27:49.439
<v Speaker 1>critical thinking, critical usual, critical thinking.

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 2>But you have these people on social media, they follow them,

0:27:52.359 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 2>and these people are posting four or five videos a day,

0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:59.359
<v Speaker 2>and even with relationship goals. They're looking at these couples

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:01.119
<v Speaker 2>and all of a sudden, couple breaks up and the

0:28:01.160 --> 0:28:03.040
<v Speaker 2>girl talking about, oh, he was beating my ass or

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:04.960
<v Speaker 2>he talking about she was cheating on me, and you'd

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:06.040
<v Speaker 2>be like, oh my god.

0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Does that ain't a couple that set up? They try

0:28:08.000 --> 0:28:09.160
<v Speaker 1>pardy act.

0:28:09.040 --> 0:28:11.760
<v Speaker 2>Like they just got out of bed bro the same couple,

0:28:12.080 --> 0:28:17.440
<v Speaker 2>see the same couple that be acting like it's a prank, Like, oh,

0:28:17.480 --> 0:28:19.320
<v Speaker 2>you know what the prank? I hate? I just seen this.

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:20.840
<v Speaker 2>It was a prank and a man had like this

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:23.920
<v Speaker 2>life sized doll laying on him, and she like walked

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:25.959
<v Speaker 2>in and was like beating up the doll. It was

0:28:26.040 --> 0:28:29.240
<v Speaker 2>so lame and cringey, and everybody in the comments was like,

0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:30.880
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, this is so good.

0:28:31.040 --> 0:28:33.640
<v Speaker 1>She loves you, because in what world do a doll

0:28:33.680 --> 0:28:34.520
<v Speaker 1>look like a person.

0:28:35.520 --> 0:28:38.520
<v Speaker 2>But anyways, that was But I say all that to say, though,

0:28:38.600 --> 0:28:41.720
<v Speaker 2>but you do have gullible people on the internet. You

0:28:41.760 --> 0:28:44.200
<v Speaker 2>know what. Keiki Palmer made a good statement the other

0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:46.640
<v Speaker 2>day cause she just came out with this book that

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 2>I actually want to read. But she was basically saying, like, yes,

0:28:52.720 --> 0:28:57.000
<v Speaker 2>what's it called shay Master of Me? So she was

0:28:57.040 --> 0:29:00.640
<v Speaker 2>promoting her book and she was talking about how you

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:03.120
<v Speaker 2>have to realize you are in your bubble. We are

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 2>in a poor crew bubble, so we can only get

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 2>back and feedback what our people see. And we are

0:29:09.320 --> 0:29:11.520
<v Speaker 2>so big in some of these people's world. But it's

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 2>people that don't come on pace to be like, who

0:29:13.160 --> 0:29:16.280
<v Speaker 2>the hell is this? You know what I'm saying. So

0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:19.040
<v Speaker 2>I say all that to say because we look at

0:29:19.080 --> 0:29:21.440
<v Speaker 2>people who look at others like you really believe this

0:29:21.480 --> 0:29:24.040
<v Speaker 2>shit or you're buying that shit. But it's a whole

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:27.440
<v Speaker 2>other world out there. It'd be people that have fifteen

0:29:27.680 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 2>million followers on their Facebook page or their TikTok and

0:29:31.080 --> 0:29:34.200
<v Speaker 2>I have no idea who they are, and they believe

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 2>that they're hanging on to every single person this word,

0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 2>every single word this person says and I'm like, he's

0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:44.160
<v Speaker 2>spewing bullshit and I can see that, but bull snel,

0:29:44.440 --> 0:29:48.000
<v Speaker 2>bull schnitzel, you know what I'm saying. But she made

0:29:48.040 --> 0:29:51.080
<v Speaker 2>a good point of we are in our own little world,

0:29:51.160 --> 0:29:53.720
<v Speaker 2>and you know, sometimes we have to think outside the

0:29:53.760 --> 0:29:56.720
<v Speaker 2>box and put ourselves in other people's shoes to understand

0:29:57.080 --> 0:30:00.400
<v Speaker 2>what they're feeling, what they may be experiencing, and things

0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:04.000
<v Speaker 2>like that. So I think that's important to understand. So yeah,

0:30:04.040 --> 0:30:06.160
<v Speaker 2>some people, really they probably even look at us and

0:30:06.200 --> 0:30:08.720
<v Speaker 2>look at the things that we complain about and think

0:30:08.720 --> 0:30:11.640
<v Speaker 2>it's silly. They probably be like, oh, and even as

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:15.280
<v Speaker 2>extreme as like us losing a parent. Okay, y'all lost

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:17.800
<v Speaker 2>a parent, but look at y'all, some people really look

0:30:17.840 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 2>at us like that, you know what I'm saying. So

0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:21.320
<v Speaker 2>they'd be like, okay, even when.

0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:23.040
<v Speaker 1>You lose one and come make and tell me how

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:23.520
<v Speaker 1>you feel.

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 2>But they probably it'll be probably be somebody who never

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:29.840
<v Speaker 2>had parents, who grew up in a foster home, so

0:30:29.880 --> 0:30:32.720
<v Speaker 2>they like y'all complained about what at least you have

0:30:32.880 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 2>the experience of having a day.

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:36.920
<v Speaker 1>But see, I think that's the problem with people though.

0:30:37.040 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 1>You have to stop comparing traumas like what I went

0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:44.360
<v Speaker 1>through is just as fair as what you went right,

0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:46.280
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, It's just as equal, Like

0:30:46.400 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 1>one is not greater than the other just because you

0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:52.440
<v Speaker 1>never had a parent, they didn't have no daddy around

0:30:52.480 --> 0:30:53.440
<v Speaker 1>when I was growing up.

0:30:53.720 --> 0:30:54.520
<v Speaker 2>Why did she do that?

0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Because she did it.

0:30:57.200 --> 0:31:01.240
<v Speaker 2>Same though experience, I mean, and it was a I

0:31:01.320 --> 0:31:01.760
<v Speaker 2>have one.

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:03.160
<v Speaker 1>But I still like this song.

0:31:03.320 --> 0:31:05.600
<v Speaker 2>You used to sing that when your daddy made I used.

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 1>To sing it from him. But yeah, it's like people

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:15.840
<v Speaker 1>have to stop trying to compare traumas in and be like, oh, well,

0:31:15.840 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 1>what I went through is worse than with you than

0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 1>what you went through. Losing a parent is fucked up,

0:31:20.680 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 1>and not having a parent is fucked up, and it

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:26.320
<v Speaker 1>affects different people in different ways. It was a trauma

0:31:26.360 --> 0:31:28.920
<v Speaker 1>for you, and losing my daddy's a trauma for me.

0:31:29.200 --> 0:31:31.840
<v Speaker 1>Like you can't say that, oh, because we have the

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:34.320
<v Speaker 1>success that we have and we have the things going

0:31:34.360 --> 0:31:36.040
<v Speaker 1>on in our life that we have going on, or

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:40.480
<v Speaker 1>because we look the way we look that we it

0:31:40.520 --> 0:31:42.920
<v Speaker 1>didn't hurt us losing our parents, Like I think that's

0:31:42.920 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 1>a stupid ass mindset.

0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:48.000
<v Speaker 2>But what I'm saying is, but that's but listen, but

0:31:48.040 --> 0:31:49.320
<v Speaker 2>that's what I'll be talking about.

0:31:49.560 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 1>You have to try to not saying.

0:31:52.800 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 2>It's stupid, but just look at where they're coming from, though,

0:31:56.080 --> 0:31:58.440
<v Speaker 2>And I think that's what we have to do sometimes

0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:01.880
<v Speaker 2>being in this position. Only reason I say that.

0:32:02.320 --> 0:32:04.320
<v Speaker 1>What they need to look but I hear you, but

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:07.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it goes both ways, right. They have

0:32:07.760 --> 0:32:10.920
<v Speaker 1>to look at where we're coming from too. I think

0:32:11.000 --> 0:32:14.360
<v Speaker 1>that that's crazy to think the way. I'm never gonna

0:32:14.400 --> 0:32:14.800
<v Speaker 1>not think that.

0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah, I agree with you. But what I'm

0:32:16.880 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 2>saying is, in this situation, if somebody is judging me

0:32:21.000 --> 0:32:22.760
<v Speaker 2>and being like, oh, I don't feel sorry for Lex.

0:32:22.800 --> 0:32:24.760
<v Speaker 2>And I'm not saying people out there feel that way.

0:32:24.880 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 2>We're just speaking hypathetically. But if somebody was out there like,

0:32:28.400 --> 0:32:30.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't feel sorry for Lex Andrea for losing their

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 2>parents because look at their lives that they live at

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:36.000
<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, they're viewing me like this,

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 2>and I am the more fortunate person in this situation

0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:44.080
<v Speaker 2>because I'm not looking at anybody like that. And whatever

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:47.160
<v Speaker 2>trauma that you went through, you're fighting some kind of

0:32:47.160 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 2>demons in your head to look at another person who

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:51.000
<v Speaker 2>is struggling or going through.

0:32:50.800 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 1>Something and looking at them like that.

0:32:52.160 --> 0:32:54.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I say all that to say it's my

0:32:54.480 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 2>job to not judge them or put myself in their

0:32:56.840 --> 0:32:59.959
<v Speaker 2>shoes because they're not there mentally, they're not Their emotional

0:33:00.200 --> 0:33:03.800
<v Speaker 2>intelligence isn't where I'm at yet, so it's my part.

0:33:04.040 --> 0:33:06.840
<v Speaker 2>I feel like, not that it's my job, but I

0:33:07.040 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 2>instead of attacking them or call them crazy, I'm like,

0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:12.120
<v Speaker 2>you know what, I really am praying for you, and

0:33:12.160 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 2>I hope God gives you the grace that He gave

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:16.760
<v Speaker 2>me to grow and learn because I used to be

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:17.320
<v Speaker 2>that person.

0:33:17.520 --> 0:33:18.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I feel like I

0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:21.160
<v Speaker 1>can feel that way about them and then still be like,

0:33:21.520 --> 0:33:25.080
<v Speaker 1>you sound stupid. It's his but I'm still praying for

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:27.800
<v Speaker 1>you and I hope that God give you the peace

0:33:27.840 --> 0:33:30.200
<v Speaker 1>that you need. But get about my goddamn comment.

0:33:30.320 --> 0:33:33.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, no, I feel with that bullshe Yeah, but

0:33:33.280 --> 0:33:34.080
<v Speaker 2>I do think.

0:33:33.960 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>Things could be true at once, because I don't. I

0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:38.600
<v Speaker 1>just have at a point in life where I feel

0:33:38.600 --> 0:33:42.040
<v Speaker 1>like I don't have to be nice or extend grace

0:33:42.120 --> 0:33:45.880
<v Speaker 1>to people that don't extend it to me. But my

0:33:46.080 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 1>thing is, I'm also not going to say anything to

0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:50.960
<v Speaker 1>you either, because I really don't be saying she to people.

0:33:51.000 --> 0:33:52.400
<v Speaker 1>A lot of the time, I'm just gonna block yours

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 1>by blocking.

0:33:54.160 --> 0:33:56.720
<v Speaker 2>I used to not be a blocker. I'm a blocker

0:33:56.760 --> 0:33:59.000
<v Speaker 2>now because it's gotten to the point. Do you know

0:33:59.360 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 2>I tweet I tweeted, I said, I love the fact

0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 2>that Adam Sandler puts his wife in all his movies. Yeah,

0:34:06.080 --> 0:34:08.160
<v Speaker 2>because one thing about it, Adam Sandler gonna cast that

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:09.600
<v Speaker 2>wife baby. I don't care if she's.

0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:10.319
<v Speaker 1>Playing a bell hop.

0:34:10.880 --> 0:34:14.160
<v Speaker 2>He's gonna beat in the motherfucking movie, bitch. And it

0:34:14.200 --> 0:34:16.160
<v Speaker 2>was so many people like y'all are just you're just

0:34:16.280 --> 0:34:19.560
<v Speaker 2>finding this out. You're just somebody literally said to me,

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:22.439
<v Speaker 2>how you reviewing movies and you just found out? Did

0:34:22.480 --> 0:34:24.600
<v Speaker 2>I say, I just found out that Adam Sandler was

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:26.799
<v Speaker 2>putting his wife in movies? Because if you know me,

0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:28.719
<v Speaker 2>you know I talk about movies all day and night.

0:34:28.880 --> 0:34:31.120
<v Speaker 1>And if you did, did you say you was a

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:32.760
<v Speaker 1>motherfucking guru?

0:34:33.360 --> 0:34:36.359
<v Speaker 2>But what movie I did find out? Why is that

0:34:36.480 --> 0:34:40.640
<v Speaker 2>not like just something that I'm saying. I hate when people,

0:34:40.680 --> 0:34:43.279
<v Speaker 2>Oh you just heard this sound, this sound, Oh I

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:44.120
<v Speaker 2>just heard it.

0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 1>Go away from you with these go away from me

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:52.920
<v Speaker 1>with this apollo period. What what do y'all be talking about?

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:53.440
<v Speaker 2>For real?

0:34:53.600 --> 0:34:56.680
<v Speaker 1>Like, I just think people be angry and I'll be

0:34:56.719 --> 0:34:58.120
<v Speaker 1>thinking he's floody a little bit.

0:34:58.239 --> 0:35:00.000
<v Speaker 2>They love to bring their pitchforks.

0:35:00.120 --> 0:35:03.000
<v Speaker 1>They do because it's like, why are you so mad?

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:05.799
<v Speaker 2>Adam Sandler is not gonna put you in Oh my god,

0:35:05.880 --> 0:35:08.480
<v Speaker 2>why are you so upseting? They were like, how you

0:35:08.520 --> 0:35:11.040
<v Speaker 2>didn't know this? He puts his children and his friends.

0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:11.879
<v Speaker 2>Don't forget that.

0:35:12.360 --> 0:35:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I know this.

0:35:13.160 --> 0:35:16.319
<v Speaker 2>I was talking about relationships and stuff, and then I

0:35:16.400 --> 0:35:19.160
<v Speaker 2>was just tweeting about how I love men and women

0:35:19.200 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 2>that are in relationships and they look at it as

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:24.200
<v Speaker 2>a partnership. I was talking about that to someone. So

0:35:24.239 --> 0:35:26.120
<v Speaker 2>that's when I was like, I got on the topic

0:35:26.160 --> 0:35:28.200
<v Speaker 2>of Adam Sandler. One thing about me, I'll be having

0:35:28.239 --> 0:35:30.399
<v Speaker 2>a conversation in real life and it'll remind me of something.

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:32.960
<v Speaker 2>I'll just tweet about it real quick. I know Adam

0:35:33.000 --> 0:35:35.920
<v Speaker 2>Sandler puts all his friends and his kids and everybody.

0:35:36.120 --> 0:35:39.080
<v Speaker 2>I was talking about the love he has for his wife. Yeah,

0:35:39.120 --> 0:35:41.640
<v Speaker 2>because a lot of y'all have wives up and won't

0:35:41.640 --> 0:35:45.440
<v Speaker 2>even buy her a fucking daisy bitch. So yeah, I

0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:52.399
<v Speaker 2>was talking about the love he has nothing, a nothing. Yeah,

0:35:52.440 --> 0:35:52.799
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:35:52.880 --> 0:35:56.719
<v Speaker 1>People just be angry. And that's why I believe you

0:35:56.760 --> 0:35:59.520
<v Speaker 1>can never have too much positive heving the world. No,

0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:03.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't think the world could ever have enough positivity

0:36:03.560 --> 0:36:06.640
<v Speaker 1>because most people are negative as FuG for no reason.

0:36:07.040 --> 0:36:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Listen to the things you just said. God, they could

0:36:10.040 --> 0:36:12.359
<v Speaker 1>have just scrolled past their tweet and I said nothing.

0:36:12.400 --> 0:36:15.480
<v Speaker 1>You know how many times I see some bullshnitzel that

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:20.160
<v Speaker 1>somebody say, that's my new word. You know how I

0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:22.680
<v Speaker 1>see so many you know how many times I see

0:36:22.840 --> 0:36:26.840
<v Speaker 1>shit online that I'd be like, what the FuG is

0:36:26.880 --> 0:36:29.600
<v Speaker 1>this person talking about? Like you sound crazy? Whatever?

0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:31.680
<v Speaker 2>But why do I yes?

0:36:32.000 --> 0:36:35.160
<v Speaker 1>For what? And I'll say, the point in responding to

0:36:35.440 --> 0:36:38.719
<v Speaker 1>every little thing that you see that somebody say and

0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:41.400
<v Speaker 1>you feel like, oh this is stupid. They should have

0:36:41.440 --> 0:36:44.880
<v Speaker 1>known this, or they sound crazy, you don't have to respond.

0:36:44.920 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 1>You could just keep scrolling, y'all negative.

0:36:48.200 --> 0:36:50.840
<v Speaker 2>I agree with you, there's never too much positivity for

0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:51.320
<v Speaker 2>the world.

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:53.280
<v Speaker 1>I do agree with you on that.

0:36:53.160 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 2>Like there's there is a such thing as toxic positivity.

0:36:57.680 --> 0:37:00.399
<v Speaker 2>But on the other end, there's never too much positivety.

0:37:00.440 --> 0:37:03.919
<v Speaker 2>So when I say it's toxic positivity, I think it's

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:07.880
<v Speaker 2>toxic when you're not being honest and when you're telling

0:37:07.920 --> 0:37:10.600
<v Speaker 2>people I wake up every day and I'm happy and

0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:13.839
<v Speaker 2>be honest about your journey to where you are.

0:37:14.400 --> 0:37:15.200
<v Speaker 1>I wake up.

0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:18.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie, y'all know me, bitch, I'll be

0:37:18.440 --> 0:37:20.480
<v Speaker 2>satisfucked right now. My life is.

0:37:22.080 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Since January one till now.

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:26.640
<v Speaker 2>I haven't woke up sad yet, bitch. I ain't gonna

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:28.319
<v Speaker 2>lie st y'all, but y'all know I keep it real

0:37:28.320 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 2>with y'all. I'm gonna keep it real with what's going on.

0:37:31.040 --> 0:37:34.440
<v Speaker 2>So I think when we're talking about positivity, I am

0:37:34.480 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 2>here because of the work I've done. Though, do I

0:37:37.160 --> 0:37:39.440
<v Speaker 2>have my rainy days? Yes? So I think when it

0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:43.359
<v Speaker 2>becomes toxic when you're not honest. It's never too much positivity,

0:37:43.760 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 2>but we need to be honest about how we got here.

0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:50.080
<v Speaker 2>So even if there is a guru talking about be positive,

0:37:50.120 --> 0:37:52.279
<v Speaker 2>wake up happy every day, talk about the journey that

0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:55.160
<v Speaker 2>you did to get there, more so than acting like

0:37:55.239 --> 0:37:58.799
<v Speaker 2>help the people, pump the folks. Baby, I'm looking at

0:37:58.880 --> 0:38:01.400
<v Speaker 2>y'all like, why is you?

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:04.560
<v Speaker 1>And I'm sadis fun and I see the sun? Is

0:38:05.000 --> 0:38:08.520
<v Speaker 1>what I said? What did I say? About comparing. Comparison

0:38:08.640 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 1>is the thief joy people, and that's another word. Stop

0:38:13.160 --> 0:38:17.040
<v Speaker 1>comparing ourselves. Stop looking at other people. I just feel

0:38:17.040 --> 0:38:19.080
<v Speaker 1>like we should. We too deep in the game at

0:38:19.080 --> 0:38:23.560
<v Speaker 1>this point, all of us as a whole, as a community,

0:38:23.680 --> 0:38:25.120
<v Speaker 1>we too deep in the game when it comes to

0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:27.600
<v Speaker 1>social media to still be getting online and looking at

0:38:27.600 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 1>the sheep people post and thinking that there's really their

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:33.279
<v Speaker 1>life all the time. Be for real. We should know

0:38:33.320 --> 0:38:35.960
<v Speaker 1>at this point that like a lot of shit be orchestrated,

0:38:36.000 --> 0:38:40.279
<v Speaker 1>it be calculated, and this is not what's really going on.

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:44.319
<v Speaker 1>And if people are going through downtimes in their life,

0:38:44.320 --> 0:38:47.640
<v Speaker 1>if they are going through you know, trials and tribulations,

0:38:47.640 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 1>they're not going to tell you thank you toy. They

0:38:50.200 --> 0:38:52.480
<v Speaker 1>not gonna tell you about that shit. They just gonna

0:38:52.480 --> 0:38:56.000
<v Speaker 1>show you the good time. And maybe one day, eventually,

0:38:56.040 --> 0:38:58.920
<v Speaker 1>maybe once they through the storm there they'll open up

0:38:58.960 --> 0:39:01.560
<v Speaker 1>and share what they went through. But most people are

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:03.880
<v Speaker 1>not going to share with you in the midst of

0:39:03.920 --> 0:39:08.080
<v Speaker 1>a storm what they going through. So stop looking at

0:39:08.120 --> 0:39:11.040
<v Speaker 1>other people and being like, oh, they so happy and

0:39:11.120 --> 0:39:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sad, or oh they got this and they

0:39:13.239 --> 0:39:15.520
<v Speaker 1>got that and I don't have half the things that

0:39:15.560 --> 0:39:17.880
<v Speaker 1>they have or it looks like they just have everything

0:39:17.920 --> 0:39:21.360
<v Speaker 1>they want. They're so lucky. Nobody is that lucky. We

0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:26.160
<v Speaker 1>all go through shit, everybody, your face, everybody goes through something.

0:39:26.239 --> 0:39:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Everybody is going through and maybe not currently because I

0:39:29.480 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 1>mean everybody has time seeing life where you're not really

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:36.160
<v Speaker 1>going through, but we've all been through something. Nobody that's

0:39:36.239 --> 0:39:39.080
<v Speaker 1>walking God's Green Earth having not went.

0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:44.440
<v Speaker 2>Through bad baby. What's up y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna be doing so much stuf up on there.

0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:01.560
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<v Speaker 1>what the hell.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna be feeling a little tea.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, No, you didn't go everything y'all been

0:40:22.960 --> 0:40:23.399
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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna be doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Right here on Patreon. Yes, y'all ask us for so much.

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<v Speaker 2>and it's gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Minds

0:40:34.400 --> 0:40:37.000
<v Speaker 2>has grown into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have a lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles.

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<v Speaker 2>So make sure y'all tune in September second, it's going down.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks, what's up y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, let's get into the second topic, the

0:41:56.000 --> 0:42:02.880
<v Speaker 2>broke BFF epidemic. So this is the topic about you

0:42:03.000 --> 0:42:06.840
<v Speaker 2>have a friend who is their funds aren't matching yours.

0:42:07.719 --> 0:42:11.600
<v Speaker 2>They're maybe their ambition, their drive to reach the successes

0:42:11.600 --> 0:42:14.279
<v Speaker 2>in matching yours. They y'all go out. They always kind

0:42:14.280 --> 0:42:16.960
<v Speaker 2>of like missing a wallet or when it's time to

0:42:16.960 --> 0:42:18.880
<v Speaker 2>send the cash apps and ZiLs at the end of

0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 2>the meal, they phoned on got service. So how do

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:26.720
<v Speaker 2>we feel about having a friend who is not as

0:42:26.840 --> 0:42:29.640
<v Speaker 2>financially stable as you? How we feel about that?

0:42:33.080 --> 0:42:37.719
<v Speaker 1>I okay, So I've had friends before where like we

0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:41.000
<v Speaker 1>would go do stuff and then when the tab will come,

0:42:41.120 --> 0:42:43.920
<v Speaker 1>they would want to separate their money, or they would.

0:42:43.640 --> 0:42:46.120
<v Speaker 2>Like, I told you cheese sticks and sprite that's all

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:46.319
<v Speaker 2>I have.

0:42:46.560 --> 0:42:51.480
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes for sure, helly so yes, so like I've

0:42:51.520 --> 0:42:53.640
<v Speaker 1>had friends, or they would want to separate their money,

0:42:53.760 --> 0:42:56.319
<v Speaker 1>or like when the tab will come, they wouldn't want

0:42:56.360 --> 0:42:59.239
<v Speaker 1>to split it evenly, or like they cash apps and

0:42:59.239 --> 0:43:03.719
<v Speaker 1>stuff wouldn't be back then. I feel like I extended

0:43:03.760 --> 0:43:06.520
<v Speaker 1>more grace to friends like that because we were younger

0:43:06.520 --> 0:43:07.839
<v Speaker 1>and everybody was just trying to.

0:43:07.760 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 2>Find their way.

0:43:09.080 --> 0:43:12.879
<v Speaker 1>Now that I'm in my thirties, I feel like, don't

0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:16.000
<v Speaker 1>come like we can still be friends. I'm not gonna

0:43:16.000 --> 0:43:19.240
<v Speaker 1>stop being your friend because you having financial issues because

0:43:19.239 --> 0:43:21.120
<v Speaker 1>you going through something, because you don't have to have

0:43:21.160 --> 0:43:24.399
<v Speaker 1>a lot of money to be my friend. But if

0:43:24.440 --> 0:43:26.520
<v Speaker 1>you know you ain't got no money, don't bring your

0:43:26.560 --> 0:43:28.440
<v Speaker 1>ass to this dinner and then be looking at me.

0:43:29.280 --> 0:43:31.759
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not, Or don't bring your ass to a dinner

0:43:31.800 --> 0:43:36.640
<v Speaker 1>where we're doing family style food and you eating, you

0:43:36.760 --> 0:43:39.319
<v Speaker 1>eating off of everybody plate, trying little samples, and then

0:43:39.360 --> 0:43:41.600
<v Speaker 1>when the tab comeing, I ain't order nothing. I just

0:43:41.680 --> 0:43:44.640
<v Speaker 1>had water and cheese steaks.

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:46.200
<v Speaker 2>Cause I had cheese sticks and water bapp you ordered

0:43:46.200 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 2>that for lat me ya it's no you bitch, So

0:43:49.080 --> 0:43:52.440
<v Speaker 2>I played my role. I half family style.

0:43:53.120 --> 0:43:57.800
<v Speaker 1>You is crazy. But no, seriously though, like at this point,

0:43:58.960 --> 0:43:59.760
<v Speaker 1>just don't come.

0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:01.439
<v Speaker 2>Don't come, like keep it real.

0:44:01.560 --> 0:44:03.359
<v Speaker 1>I have all the grace in the world for people

0:44:03.400 --> 0:44:06.080
<v Speaker 1>who keep it real about things like that. Like if

0:44:06.080 --> 0:44:08.680
<v Speaker 1>you like, look, I ain't got it, I can't come

0:44:08.719 --> 0:44:11.239
<v Speaker 1>to the dinner or you know just what, you don't

0:44:11.239 --> 0:44:12.680
<v Speaker 1>even got to tell me you ain't gotty. Like if

0:44:12.680 --> 0:44:14.439
<v Speaker 1>you just say you can't come or whatever the case

0:44:14.440 --> 0:44:17.200
<v Speaker 1>may be cool, but I would prefer you stay your

0:44:17.239 --> 0:44:20.440
<v Speaker 1>ass at home then coming knowing you don't have no

0:44:20.560 --> 0:44:24.360
<v Speaker 1>money and that goes for a trip, that goes for dinner,

0:44:24.719 --> 0:44:27.440
<v Speaker 1>that goes for anything where you're going to need to

0:44:27.760 --> 0:44:32.000
<v Speaker 1>pay for something. Yeah, So I agree with you on that.

0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:35.120
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, it depends on the scenario, because if

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:38.480
<v Speaker 2>we're going to like a group setting and you come

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:41.239
<v Speaker 2>and then you like spring it on me like, oh, Lex,

0:44:41.280 --> 0:44:43.080
<v Speaker 2>I ain't got it. Can you pay my yeah a

0:44:43.160 --> 0:44:46.600
<v Speaker 2>portion that's gonna piss me off, or cause I've had

0:44:46.600 --> 0:44:48.279
<v Speaker 2>this happen to me before. We're like we all at

0:44:48.280 --> 0:44:51.200
<v Speaker 2>the dinner. Ooh I'm about to give y'all a good

0:44:51.440 --> 0:44:55.400
<v Speaker 2>tip of what I do now. But anyways, don't spring

0:44:55.480 --> 0:44:57.279
<v Speaker 2>this shit on me. Now. If I invite you one

0:44:57.320 --> 0:44:59.120
<v Speaker 2>on one and you like, oh, look, Lex, I don't

0:44:59.120 --> 0:45:01.479
<v Speaker 2>got it right now, girl, I got you, yeah, because

0:45:01.520 --> 0:45:03.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie to you. Sometimes I just need

0:45:03.680 --> 0:45:05.080
<v Speaker 2>to get out the house and I want to talk,

0:45:05.120 --> 0:45:06.759
<v Speaker 2>and I just need a friend, and I just need

0:45:06.800 --> 0:45:09.600
<v Speaker 2>to get out the house. And Drea knows I'm an

0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:11.839
<v Speaker 2>at home bitch. So if I'm inviting you to dinner,

0:45:11.960 --> 0:45:13.000
<v Speaker 2>I want to go out somewhere.

0:45:13.040 --> 0:45:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I need it.

0:45:13.520 --> 0:45:15.879
<v Speaker 2>I need to get out the house. So I got you.

0:45:16.680 --> 0:45:20.560
<v Speaker 2>But if you just not, if I tell everybody, hey,

0:45:20.680 --> 0:45:24.160
<v Speaker 2>I'll put it on my card, everybody zell me eighty

0:45:24.239 --> 0:45:27.600
<v Speaker 2>dollars and you zelling me sixty five because you were like,

0:45:27.640 --> 0:45:28.600
<v Speaker 2>oh I didn't order this.

0:45:28.640 --> 0:45:29.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't order that.

0:45:29.360 --> 0:45:29.600
<v Speaker 2>Bitch.

0:45:29.640 --> 0:45:31.400
<v Speaker 1>You got me fucked up. So let me tell you

0:45:31.440 --> 0:45:32.000
<v Speaker 1>what I do.

0:45:33.200 --> 0:45:35.920
<v Speaker 2>Y'all. Please get your note passed out when you go

0:45:36.000 --> 0:45:38.440
<v Speaker 2>on a trip, when you going to dinner, be that

0:45:38.480 --> 0:45:40.080
<v Speaker 2>person that puts it on the car. But guess what

0:45:40.120 --> 0:45:42.560
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna start doing putting it on that cash ap

0:45:42.600 --> 0:45:46.240
<v Speaker 2>card car ain't gonna go through until everybody cash aps

0:45:46.280 --> 0:45:49.480
<v Speaker 2>you and it lands on that goddamn card. So when

0:45:49.520 --> 0:45:52.439
<v Speaker 2>we went to Turks and Caicos, I have my cash

0:45:52.480 --> 0:45:53.040
<v Speaker 2>ap card.

0:45:53.120 --> 0:45:54.799
<v Speaker 1>So if the tab is.

0:45:54.800 --> 0:45:58.400
<v Speaker 2>Five of us, for example, tab five hundred dollars, I

0:45:58.440 --> 0:46:00.759
<v Speaker 2>got my hundred on there. You don't send me your

0:46:00.760 --> 0:46:03.360
<v Speaker 2>one hundred dollars. It's not going through when he swiped

0:46:03.360 --> 0:46:06.640
<v Speaker 2>that bitch until you send it. We finish it at

0:46:06.640 --> 0:46:09.520
<v Speaker 2>this table standing at so what you gonna do? So

0:46:09.560 --> 0:46:11.840
<v Speaker 2>what you're finnah do? So I was at the table

0:46:11.920 --> 0:46:17.279
<v Speaker 2>like this, the funds ain't been received, man, because y'all

0:46:17.280 --> 0:46:19.799
<v Speaker 2>not finna play with people like that no more. So.

0:46:19.920 --> 0:46:24.240
<v Speaker 2>I do think that with the money situation, it depends

0:46:24.280 --> 0:46:27.080
<v Speaker 2>on the scenario. I was always the type of friend

0:46:27.120 --> 0:46:28.879
<v Speaker 2>when I didn't have it, I would I would get

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:31.480
<v Speaker 2>my friends and hands up. I don't got it, I

0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:33.680
<v Speaker 2>don't want, I don't want to go. I don't And

0:46:33.719 --> 0:46:35.839
<v Speaker 2>if I didn't have it, I would, literally I would

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:38.240
<v Speaker 2>be the type of friend like I'm whispering to the waiter,

0:46:39.840 --> 0:46:44.440
<v Speaker 2>how my cheese sticks, put my spriten my cheese sticks.

0:46:45.000 --> 0:46:49.439
<v Speaker 2>I slide my ten dollars, y'all that's on y'all.

0:46:49.760 --> 0:46:52.759
<v Speaker 1>See, I do feel like you shouldn't do that, though,

0:46:53.600 --> 0:46:55.360
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't feel like you should do that.

0:46:55.480 --> 0:46:59.680
<v Speaker 2>But that was also back in the day. Different I'm we're.

0:46:59.520 --> 0:47:02.600
<v Speaker 1>Not talking about you. I'm saying in general. I'm saying

0:47:02.719 --> 0:47:06.839
<v Speaker 1>in general, I don't think people should do that at all. Like,

0:47:07.320 --> 0:47:11.040
<v Speaker 1>if you know that you're gonna go somewhere and you

0:47:11.160 --> 0:47:13.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna want your stuff to be separate, I feel like

0:47:13.200 --> 0:47:14.879
<v Speaker 1>you should say that at the beginning of the night

0:47:15.440 --> 0:47:16.760
<v Speaker 1>before people start ordering.

0:47:16.800 --> 0:47:20.200
<v Speaker 2>She okay, So let me ask you this, though, why

0:47:20.320 --> 0:47:22.399
<v Speaker 2>if they're paying for their stuff, why do they gotta

0:47:22.440 --> 0:47:24.840
<v Speaker 2>let other people know I pay for my stuff already?

0:47:24.920 --> 0:47:27.520
<v Speaker 2>Because I just think that's courteous, especially if it's a

0:47:27.520 --> 0:47:30.040
<v Speaker 2>setting where majority of the time y'all sleep the bial

0:47:30.160 --> 0:47:31.920
<v Speaker 2>At least I can speak for me and my friends.

0:47:32.239 --> 0:47:34.200
<v Speaker 2>Majority of the time when we go out to eat,

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:36.759
<v Speaker 2>we don't be looking at the tab like, oh, I

0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:41.000
<v Speaker 2>order this, I order this, let's put this on separate tabs.

0:47:41.080 --> 0:47:43.680
<v Speaker 1>We just get one bial and we spleitty right. But

0:47:43.719 --> 0:47:45.680
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying is like, Okay, even if it's not

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:49.080
<v Speaker 1>family style, Like, even if it's just like everybody ordering,

0:47:49.080 --> 0:47:52.000
<v Speaker 1>they entrees, they appetizers whatever, because we might order like

0:47:52.040 --> 0:47:53.759
<v Speaker 1>five appetizers and sharing.

0:47:53.800 --> 0:47:57.000
<v Speaker 2>We do that. We definitely everybody might order like two

0:47:57.160 --> 0:47:57.920
<v Speaker 2>or three drinks.

0:47:58.000 --> 0:48:01.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm not clocking who order two drinks and who ordered four?

0:48:01.640 --> 0:48:04.759
<v Speaker 1>We just yes, we just put it all on one

0:48:04.880 --> 0:48:07.920
<v Speaker 1>tab and then we split it. So that's why I

0:48:07.960 --> 0:48:11.319
<v Speaker 1>said that, because if you even if you do only

0:48:11.400 --> 0:48:13.560
<v Speaker 1>order one drink and you order some cheese sticks in

0:48:13.600 --> 0:48:16.480
<v Speaker 1>the water, But if you don't say that prior to

0:48:16.760 --> 0:48:19.080
<v Speaker 1>people starting to order stuff, and then at the end

0:48:19.400 --> 0:48:21.920
<v Speaker 1>people see you getting your tabs separately and then they

0:48:21.960 --> 0:48:25.120
<v Speaker 1>all putting it together. I just feel like to avoid confusion,

0:48:25.200 --> 0:48:28.520
<v Speaker 1>because it's fine, you should just say something because nine

0:48:28.520 --> 0:48:31.040
<v Speaker 1>times out of ten you don't have a person in

0:48:31.080 --> 0:48:33.640
<v Speaker 1>the group that feel some type of way about that. Now, personally,

0:48:33.719 --> 0:48:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't care about this. Shep put your sheet separate

0:48:35.800 --> 0:48:36.360
<v Speaker 1>if you want to.

0:48:36.400 --> 0:48:36.960
<v Speaker 2>Who cares?

0:48:37.480 --> 0:48:40.719
<v Speaker 1>But I have But I'm speaking because I have friends

0:48:40.760 --> 0:48:43.359
<v Speaker 1>who like, they don't be liking this sheep. I don't

0:48:43.400 --> 0:48:45.920
<v Speaker 1>see them get into it with other friends over like

0:48:46.400 --> 0:48:49.560
<v Speaker 1>why she putting stuff separately? She broke and she like that.

0:48:50.440 --> 0:48:56.640
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, like to avoid confused, I feel just put

0:48:56.680 --> 0:48:58.879
<v Speaker 1>it you know, just put it on the No, put

0:48:58.920 --> 0:49:02.600
<v Speaker 1>it on the table for everybody. Start ordering stuff. Hey,

0:49:03.520 --> 0:49:05.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm only ordering I ate before I came. I'm only

0:49:05.800 --> 0:49:08.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna order an appetizer in one glass of wine. I'm

0:49:08.600 --> 0:49:11.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna put a separate tag exactly, and I'm not gonna

0:49:11.640 --> 0:49:13.680
<v Speaker 1>lie if you look.

0:49:13.880 --> 0:49:16.600
<v Speaker 2>I love my girl Kiki, but Kiki orders die.

0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:21.399
<v Speaker 1>Whispery, scene whisper. It seems sneaky, like I let you this, dad.

0:49:21.480 --> 0:49:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I used to be like, hey, can you put my

0:49:23.480 --> 0:49:26.600
<v Speaker 1>stuff to the side an then the tab come out

0:49:26.600 --> 0:49:29.680
<v Speaker 1>and you know, I putting your card down already paid,

0:49:29.760 --> 0:49:32.160
<v Speaker 1>y'all don't gotta work, right, But why you whispery?

0:49:32.440 --> 0:49:36.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm shamed? What do you mean while am I whispering? Bitch?

0:49:36.880 --> 0:49:41.120
<v Speaker 2>You hoses ordered for lay me, y'all medium rare Brussels

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:48.839
<v Speaker 2>sprounce with parmesan truffle, mashed potatoes with extra gro potatoes. Bitch,

0:49:48.880 --> 0:49:52.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what a gun is. Of course,

0:49:52.600 --> 0:49:55.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm embarrassed. Bitch I ordered a season saddle.

0:49:55.520 --> 0:49:56.520
<v Speaker 1>With no crew toon.

0:49:56.719 --> 0:50:00.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah the fuck, I know I'm saying that the day

0:50:00.560 --> 0:50:04.480
<v Speaker 2>but it was different though, so it was easy to

0:50:04.520 --> 0:50:08.040
<v Speaker 2>split tabs restaurants used to split tabs. Now, I mean

0:50:08.080 --> 0:50:09.520
<v Speaker 2>it's a different now. I'm not gonna lie to you.

0:50:09.520 --> 0:50:11.080
<v Speaker 2>When I go to a restaurant, I'm here to eat.

0:50:11.239 --> 0:50:14.360
<v Speaker 2>I don't care one thing about me. I'm very cheap

0:50:14.480 --> 0:50:16.880
<v Speaker 2>still because I am. I like to save my money.

0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:18.800
<v Speaker 2>But one thing I'm always spend money on is food.

0:50:19.239 --> 0:50:21.360
<v Speaker 2>Food is a part of my experience in life. I

0:50:21.400 --> 0:50:23.760
<v Speaker 2>feel like when you taste the different flavors of the world,

0:50:23.840 --> 0:50:24.760
<v Speaker 2>you're living okay.

0:50:24.880 --> 0:50:28.719
<v Speaker 1>And I'm a tourist, I just booty. So now, yeah,

0:50:28.800 --> 0:50:30.000
<v Speaker 1>throw that card in the middle.

0:50:30.160 --> 0:50:33.320
<v Speaker 2>And like I said, our friend Kiki Kiki orders six

0:50:33.480 --> 0:50:35.360
<v Speaker 2>appetizers too entree.

0:50:35.440 --> 0:50:37.920
<v Speaker 1>She don't even eat it all. She just wanna taste everything.

0:50:37.960 --> 0:50:39.360
<v Speaker 2>If you go out to eat with Kiki Bab, you

0:50:39.400 --> 0:50:41.480
<v Speaker 2>got to be ready to throw that card in. I

0:50:41.480 --> 0:50:44.680
<v Speaker 2>think we're all like that, so I think that's okay.

0:50:45.440 --> 0:50:53.759
<v Speaker 2>But I'm very mindful, so I know when we in

0:50:53.800 --> 0:50:56.799
<v Speaker 2>certain settings. I know it's certain people it's not gonna pay.

0:50:56.840 --> 0:50:58.319
<v Speaker 2>I know when I got it with that cash ap

0:50:58.360 --> 0:50:59.400
<v Speaker 2>card up. I'm gonna just say that.

0:50:59.440 --> 0:50:59.960
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

0:51:00.040 --> 0:51:02.480
<v Speaker 2>I know when I gotta do that cash hup. Shiteah

0:51:02.520 --> 0:51:04.640
<v Speaker 2>and hey, y'all, hey, you know what instead of everybody

0:51:04.680 --> 0:51:06.600
<v Speaker 2>laying their cars now, put it on the cashp car

0:51:06.920 --> 0:51:08.759
<v Speaker 2>because y'all ain't finna slide to the waitress.

0:51:08.920 --> 0:51:10.360
<v Speaker 1>Put eighty on this line.

0:51:10.719 --> 0:51:12.520
<v Speaker 2>Walford one on the raft.

0:51:12.719 --> 0:51:16.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I feel like for trips though, that's just

0:51:16.160 --> 0:51:17.600
<v Speaker 1>a good idea in general.

0:51:18.239 --> 0:51:20.080
<v Speaker 2>I think I'm putting my bag when I saw this.

0:51:20.280 --> 0:51:22.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think when people go on group trips it

0:51:22.800 --> 0:51:23.480
<v Speaker 1>should be like that.

0:51:23.640 --> 0:51:24.040
<v Speaker 2>Anyway.

0:51:24.120 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 1>It's like when y'all going so smooth, it really was smart,

0:51:27.200 --> 0:51:29.239
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, when you go to the club or when

0:51:29.280 --> 0:51:31.359
<v Speaker 1>you going out to eat and you on a trip

0:51:31.400 --> 0:51:34.000
<v Speaker 1>with your friends, I feel like it should be one

0:51:34.000 --> 0:51:35.280
<v Speaker 1>person in charge of pinion.

0:51:35.960 --> 0:51:37.800
<v Speaker 2>And with that commnimize confused.

0:51:38.280 --> 0:51:41.480
<v Speaker 1>Everybody's seeing this person they money, and this person is

0:51:41.520 --> 0:51:43.400
<v Speaker 1>the person that's gonna pay with cash.

0:51:44.040 --> 0:51:46.919
<v Speaker 2>And then when you and when you got the cash

0:51:47.000 --> 0:51:48.520
<v Speaker 2>up car, you be feeling like a baller. I'll be

0:51:48.560 --> 0:51:53.160
<v Speaker 2>like I got it, not knowing that everybody paid me.

0:51:53.200 --> 0:51:54.439
<v Speaker 2>But I used to I was doing that the whole

0:51:54.520 --> 0:51:58.640
<v Speaker 2>time in turks Grown. I was like Branda tapped to me,

0:51:58.960 --> 0:52:03.359
<v Speaker 2>I got it, broke, bitches, I would have to get

0:52:03.400 --> 0:52:07.719
<v Speaker 2>payback on everybody. I was in a section full of

0:52:07.760 --> 0:52:12.680
<v Speaker 2>bad bitches yet sending another bottle, and from far away

0:52:12.760 --> 0:52:16.680
<v Speaker 2>it looks like a am. It's because it's black and.

0:52:16.760 --> 0:52:19.399
<v Speaker 1>It's black and it's hard and they.

0:52:19.400 --> 0:52:21.040
<v Speaker 2>Got my signature on it to it. You know, I

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:23.719
<v Speaker 2>got a good signature, bitch. Their hope is looking fly.

0:52:23.880 --> 0:52:26.960
<v Speaker 2>But okay, back to the topic. I do feel like

0:52:27.360 --> 0:52:31.160
<v Speaker 2>finances shouldn't come between friendship though, and I can say

0:52:31.160 --> 0:52:34.560
<v Speaker 2>that I can attest for no, no financing.

0:52:34.760 --> 0:52:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like finances should come can come between any

0:52:38.440 --> 0:52:39.520
<v Speaker 1>fucking relationship.

0:52:39.800 --> 0:52:43.600
<v Speaker 2>No, I feel like it shouldn't because it now, if

0:52:43.600 --> 0:52:46.920
<v Speaker 2>somebody is using you and they're doing the most, okay,

0:52:47.160 --> 0:52:50.239
<v Speaker 2>I understand. But if it's like somebody's just not up

0:52:50.280 --> 0:52:52.320
<v Speaker 2>and you're and you're up and they're not up, and

0:52:52.400 --> 0:52:54.440
<v Speaker 2>y'all be having conversations, they're letting you know.

0:52:54.760 --> 0:52:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I just don't mind.

0:52:56.239 --> 0:52:58.160
<v Speaker 2>Help, like because I used to be that person. So

0:52:58.200 --> 0:53:01.360
<v Speaker 2>I don't mind helping or doing what I can and

0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:03.359
<v Speaker 2>as long as they communicate with me. And one thing

0:53:03.400 --> 0:53:05.560
<v Speaker 2>I can say for I have friends that make way

0:53:05.600 --> 0:53:07.279
<v Speaker 2>more money than me, and I have friends that make

0:53:07.360 --> 0:53:09.440
<v Speaker 2>way less than me. I feel like we all just

0:53:09.800 --> 0:53:12.040
<v Speaker 2>it's a community. We all trying to figure shit out,

0:53:12.040 --> 0:53:16.000
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying. But I think finances are

0:53:16.080 --> 0:53:18.719
<v Speaker 2>tricky because if we would just communicate, none of this

0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:19.880
<v Speaker 2>stuff would even exist.

0:53:20.200 --> 0:53:22.920
<v Speaker 1>Open your mouth and talk not being embarrassed.

0:53:23.280 --> 0:53:24.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I agree.

0:53:24.080 --> 0:53:26.160
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's what I had said earlier too,

0:53:26.239 --> 0:53:29.120
<v Speaker 1>Like it doesn't really matter to me if somebody doesn't

0:53:29.160 --> 0:53:32.640
<v Speaker 1>have money, like that's not gonna affect our friendship. It

0:53:32.680 --> 0:53:35.840
<v Speaker 1>won't affect our friendship until it's things like that, like

0:53:35.880 --> 0:53:38.200
<v Speaker 1>feeling like you're using me, feeling like you're trying to

0:53:38.239 --> 0:53:42.120
<v Speaker 1>be sneaky and get over you borrowing money and not

0:53:42.239 --> 0:53:45.000
<v Speaker 1>giving it back. Because I consider myself a gracious a

0:53:45.040 --> 0:53:47.680
<v Speaker 1>generous person too, like I have helped a lot of

0:53:47.719 --> 0:53:51.400
<v Speaker 1>people out over the years. But it's just like people

0:53:51.440 --> 0:53:53.640
<v Speaker 1>be trying to take stuff for granted though, you know

0:53:53.680 --> 0:53:55.560
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, And then that's when it can become

0:53:55.680 --> 0:53:58.600
<v Speaker 1>an issue in relationship. That's why I said, I feel

0:53:58.600 --> 0:54:03.320
<v Speaker 1>like finances can fuck up any relationship, whether it's a marriage,

0:54:03.880 --> 0:54:11.399
<v Speaker 1>a partnership, a business partnership, a friendship, a familyship, any

0:54:11.400 --> 0:54:11.719
<v Speaker 1>of that.

0:54:11.719 --> 0:54:16.239
<v Speaker 2>Shit, a schnittleship, It could fuck up any relationship.

0:54:16.280 --> 0:54:18.400
<v Speaker 1>Because that's the number one reason. Money is one of

0:54:18.440 --> 0:54:23.080
<v Speaker 1>the number one reason for every breakup across the board.

0:54:23.120 --> 0:54:24.920
<v Speaker 1>When it comes to any relationship, that's one of the

0:54:25.040 --> 0:54:27.719
<v Speaker 1>number one reasons people stop being friends, stop fucking with

0:54:27.760 --> 0:54:30.319
<v Speaker 1>each other. It be over money because then two, when

0:54:30.360 --> 0:54:33.759
<v Speaker 1>you start getting money, then sometimes people around you start

0:54:33.760 --> 0:54:37.799
<v Speaker 1>feeling entitled to your money, and that's a whole nother time.

0:54:38.000 --> 0:54:41.400
<v Speaker 2>Tell you something, you ain't tired of the shit around here.

0:54:41.400 --> 0:54:44.040
<v Speaker 2>But I always made that very clear, even when I

0:54:44.080 --> 0:54:45.799
<v Speaker 2>worked at Dreams and I had two dollars. You're not

0:54:46.000 --> 0:54:48.880
<v Speaker 2>entitled to these wings, bitch. Don't come in here feeling

0:54:48.920 --> 0:54:51.120
<v Speaker 2>like I'm finna give you no. I've always been that way.

0:54:51.640 --> 0:54:53.160
<v Speaker 2>I draw boundaries.

0:54:53.440 --> 0:54:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean you have to. I feel like that's important.

0:54:55.800 --> 0:54:57.920
<v Speaker 1>You have to draw boundaries with people, because that's when

0:54:57.920 --> 0:55:00.960
<v Speaker 1>people will try to take evan each of you, you know.

0:55:01.040 --> 0:55:02.719
<v Speaker 1>And I say that from a place of like I

0:55:02.760 --> 0:55:05.360
<v Speaker 1>didn't always draw boundaries with people. I feel like I

0:55:05.360 --> 0:55:07.480
<v Speaker 1>always been the type of person. If I got it,

0:55:07.520 --> 0:55:09.719
<v Speaker 1>you got it, Like that's always been the type of

0:55:09.800 --> 0:55:12.480
<v Speaker 1>friend that I was, especially when I was younger, like

0:55:12.560 --> 0:55:15.120
<v Speaker 1>now not so much. I mean, like, if you my

0:55:15.239 --> 0:55:17.840
<v Speaker 1>friend and I fuck with you and I'm doing something

0:55:17.880 --> 0:55:19.920
<v Speaker 1>and I know you can't pay, or I know you

0:55:20.000 --> 0:55:22.080
<v Speaker 1>going through some shit, I'll pay your tab or I'll

0:55:22.080 --> 0:55:24.760
<v Speaker 1>help you out. But as far as just always across

0:55:24.760 --> 0:55:27.080
<v Speaker 1>the board being like I gott e, I gotty, you

0:55:27.200 --> 0:55:32.080
<v Speaker 1>would now absolutely, And that's well, yeah exactly. And if

0:55:32.080 --> 0:55:35.000
<v Speaker 1>you're helping everybody out, how you gonna do that. That's

0:55:35.000 --> 0:55:37.840
<v Speaker 1>why I said, sometimes you got to put people in position.

0:55:38.000 --> 0:55:40.120
<v Speaker 1>We talked about these on the other episode.

0:55:40.000 --> 0:55:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Circle Small, and that's just for a reason. Yeah, I

0:55:43.000 --> 0:55:45.480
<v Speaker 2>don't need no Kelli bitches Aswing for my money.

0:55:45.239 --> 0:55:47.239
<v Speaker 1>Okay, or no Orange Beaches.

0:55:47.120 --> 0:55:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Or no or no Houston be nobody, none of you,

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, y'all. So for the band topic, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about if no for play is needy because I

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<v Speaker 1>saw a tweet on Twitter and I had read tweeted

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<v Speaker 1>it and it's so crazy because all I.

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<v Speaker 2>Said was no, and he got a whole bunch of resweets.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess the girls felt there.

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<v Speaker 1>So the girl the original tweet, the girl was like,

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<v Speaker 1>have y'all ever dated a man that was so fine

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<v Speaker 1>and you was just so physically attracted to him X,

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<v Speaker 1>Y and Z, you didn't need any for play? I said, No,

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<v Speaker 1>never met a nigga the fine. I always need a

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<v Speaker 1>little head, always always need my couchie scrade.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so it's like, excuse me, like, no, never

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<v Speaker 1>met a nigga the fine?

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<v Speaker 2>Ever?

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<v Speaker 1>We need you need for play?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Essential when it comes to six. But that's just me now. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>considering time restraints, you may not always have time for

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<v Speaker 1>for a play, like you know what I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to get a little quickie in before work

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<v Speaker 1>or before you gotta go to an event church. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. If you're trying to get a little

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<v Speaker 1>quickie in real quick then yeah, you might not have

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<v Speaker 1>time off four play. But like just on a normal basis,

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<v Speaker 1>me and this man don't never be doing four play

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<v Speaker 1>because he's so fine like Cuci just with off the rip. No,

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<v Speaker 1>mm hmmm, I need do be like that sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>But like a little quickie or a little having fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but I always I think. But honestly, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it's weird as a woman or a man, whoever, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you like today, you don't like four play.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you don't like to build up. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>your all.

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<v Speaker 2>Four play is a part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know when you said that. I just started

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<v Speaker 1>to thinking about it. Chris Brown, So he'd be like, beauty,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what.

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing if we building up. Cause you got me

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<v Speaker 2>fucked up, because what are we doing here?

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<v Speaker 1>My love?

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<v Speaker 2>Clearly not you ain't even.

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<v Speaker 1>You not getting all.

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<v Speaker 2>His love because he eating somebody somebody else coaching it.

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<v Speaker 2>It ain't yours eating No, my coupe, you're not getting

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<v Speaker 2>all that nigga love somebody else. Okay, Again, like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>four play is a part of sex. If you are

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<v Speaker 2>dealing with a man or a woman who is not

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<v Speaker 2>going down on you, not caressing them, teles, I love

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<v Speaker 2>a titty career. I love a titty caress. I love

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<v Speaker 2>when a man just kissed me up around and round.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh sorry, I love to you know, bring it on back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're right, you're right. I just feel like four play

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<v Speaker 2>is a part of sex. So I think that is

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit childish.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoever tweeted that.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet you she's like in her twenties early and

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<v Speaker 2>she was just trying to say something to im. She

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<v Speaker 2>was trying to say, so I'm to impress the nigga

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<v Speaker 2>that she fucking with who be watching her tweets, And

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<v Speaker 2>she didn't expect Dre and Nicole to answer it and

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<v Speaker 2>respond to it. Well, I will say to young Cuccie,

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<v Speaker 2>be high so it'd be hot and ready.

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<v Speaker 1>You really do. It's the person who once had.

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<v Speaker 2>It could still be hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Ch I mean, And it's not old, but it's older

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<v Speaker 1>like it's season. It's seasoned coochie now like back when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in my twenties, though it was young hot

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<v Speaker 1>in like my my early twenties, it was young, hot

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<v Speaker 1>and ready. Now when you be in your early twenties,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say it takes minimal effort. Yeah, it takes

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<v Speaker 1>wayless if to get you there. It's I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of get where she coming from. But even back then,

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<v Speaker 1>I used to be like, yo, open my legs.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you thing, put the CATAMOUTI right there.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to think about it. That's why I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh but God like look, it was always like, so

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<v Speaker 1>what we're about to do?

1:04:09.360 --> 1:04:12.360
<v Speaker 2>I just like, rap that engine up. You never start

1:04:12.400 --> 1:04:15.400
<v Speaker 2>your car, just take off. You start your car, let

1:04:15.480 --> 1:04:16.120
<v Speaker 2>it rev up.

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<v Speaker 1>And what happened if your car weren't out of oil.

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<v Speaker 2>That bitch gonna break down.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna break down, might blow up. Hey oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you absolutely always need four play. So ladies, stop letting

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<v Speaker 1>these niggas get away with not eating your kuchie.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I always have thought that was so weird when you

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<v Speaker 1>girls be like, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I deal with a dude.

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<v Speaker 1>He don't eat my kucci though.

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<v Speaker 2>And why are you with it? If you see me

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<v Speaker 2>with a if you see me, if you see me,

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<v Speaker 2>no that he ate that thing up from the root

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<v Speaker 2>of touto.

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<v Speaker 1>Please know he eating fat?

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<v Speaker 2>Mind? Oh, full meal, full meal. Thanksgiving brunch bitch, but

1:04:57.360 --> 1:05:02.640
<v Speaker 2>off the bone, TI getting them neck bones and them

1:05:02.680 --> 1:05:04.080
<v Speaker 2>collar green stags.

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<v Speaker 1>But as a way, like what do you mean he

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<v Speaker 1>don't eat it?

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<v Speaker 2>Fo he beat it? It's such enough out of you

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<v Speaker 2>and Heath Cliff Way, you couldn't up. I'm not I'm chilling.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying I think that is after crazy. But

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it goes both ways too. Y'all gotta start

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<v Speaker 2>sucking that dick too. They do, y'all ain't giving y'all

1:05:25.120 --> 1:05:26.280
<v Speaker 2>y'all ain't sucking at dick good.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm talking about like I used to know people

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<v Speaker 1>where they would be like, oh, I be sucking my

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<v Speaker 1>men like dick or whatever. But he don't eat my cucci.

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<v Speaker 2>Only time that happens if it's that time of the month.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean I feel like sometimes that will happen

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship. Yeah, I'm talking about in general across

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<v Speaker 1>the board, like you always giving him head and then

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<v Speaker 1>he never give me.

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<v Speaker 2>Here I'm finning like remy Ma on that video and

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<v Speaker 2>like I said, way that man.

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<v Speaker 1>Was giving her head while she was driving. No, remy Ma,

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<v Speaker 1>don't look at me. I didn't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>But why do you know A lot like it because

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<v Speaker 2>it was one of her It was a music I

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<v Speaker 2>got a reason, and the nigga was giving her head

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<v Speaker 2>in the video.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, but it was obviously you're doing it

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<v Speaker 1>for real. But the fact that it was even like

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<v Speaker 1>acted out, that is crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Re me mine. He was like.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, because you know that's.

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<v Speaker 2>What niggas do, not see m M.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I just always thought that was a crazy

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<v Speaker 1>thing though, because like, if you get a hit here,

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<v Speaker 1>he need to eat a little here.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, I agree. I really want to show you

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<v Speaker 2>this clip now.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see the clip because I am intrigued.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I hope it comes up.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder how pampoos feel. Oh oh, it's not the video.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, I know somebody got the video. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>but this is a picture of it.

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<v Speaker 1>One time?

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<v Speaker 2>And I didn't like it on me. I have a

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<v Speaker 2>about makeup.

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<v Speaker 2>I learned is that we have to stop want makeup.

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing what it was probably way up people. Remember,

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<v Speaker 2>it just looked funny because I have a small forehead, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>look at my forehead, it's not big, so even contour.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't contour my forehead anymore. You conter your forehead

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<v Speaker 2>if you have a big forehead. You contour your nose

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<v Speaker 2>certain like I contoured my cheeks. I have fat cheeks.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. I contour my nose a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit and my cheeks a little bit, but that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do my chin and all this.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>So Chinese bangs, I feel like, works on people with

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<v Speaker 2>like a your forehead and styles like that, but they

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<v Speaker 2>definitely didn't look good on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby, the Chinese bang had me in a choke hold.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, I just had it. I need Oh, Nikki, Nikki,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me nothing. I had a Chinese bang. But what

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<v Speaker 1>I used to hate about it, especially too because my

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<v Speaker 1>little forehead getting a little shiny, my bangs will always

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<v Speaker 1>get so greasy, and I would be like I could

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<v Speaker 1>never have their hellstyle in like a week or two

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<v Speaker 1>because my bangs would always get so greasy and I

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<v Speaker 1>used to have to wash wash them every day or

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<v Speaker 1>they would be looking all stringy. Yeah, I hate a

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<v Speaker 1>stringy I hate a stringy bang. I hate I hate strings.

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<v Speaker 2>know I'm a big Keyana La Day fan. I love

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<v Speaker 2>that I just love. She has a song called Weakness.

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<v Speaker 2>It came out on her last EP that she dropped,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's just basically about how a nigga just got

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<v Speaker 2>her weak in the knees, bitch, and we love a

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<v Speaker 2>good week in the knees song.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. So yeah, I love Keana.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like one thing that we don't talk about

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<v Speaker 2>enough and music is tone of voice. I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>about this with Shye a little bit because she was

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<v Speaker 2>showing me like some freestyles by Sweety and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>care what y'all say about Sweety, y'all be like, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>she can't rap. She just needs to be pretty. Sweety

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<v Speaker 2>got that tone. She got that tone, so it's I

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<v Speaker 2>don't give a fuck who what's somebody rapping about?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds good.

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<v Speaker 2>We are creatures. They gotta sound good in our ear.

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<v Speaker 2>Same thing with Sexy Red. I don't care what y'all

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<v Speaker 2>say about Sexy Red. It sounds the fuck good. Keanna

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<v Speaker 2>Lede has that voice. It sounds good. Summer Walker, same way,

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<v Speaker 2>she got that tone. Bruh, Sizza, she got that tone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Even look boss Man Dilo, he got that tone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>telling you it's such a major thing when you're making

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<v Speaker 2>music like and Keana Today. She has such a good tone.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel the same way about Aaron Ray. He has

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<v Speaker 2>a good tone. But anyways, Yeah, my bop of the

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<v Speaker 2>week Kiana Today, Weakness fire. Go listen to her EP

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<v Speaker 2>is bomb.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. My BP of the week is about to be

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<v Speaker 1>Residuals because I forgot how good this song.

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<v Speaker 2>It is such a good song.

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<v Speaker 1>This song is so good. Amen. Chris Brown, Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>all about? He won't come out with some hits.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because, like you know, I'm gonna just say this,

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<v Speaker 2>Residuals is probably one of the best R and B

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<v Speaker 2>songs I've heard in a good like two three years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it's a good song. It just what

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<v Speaker 1>it came out in the twenty twenty three. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a good song, like a year old.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, have we ever said talking about this?

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<v Speaker 1>No, we haven't, we haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>We gotta I know, we said, let's get back to

1:15:07.479 --> 1:15:10.160
<v Speaker 2>the beg and music that he's making, the bigger music

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<v Speaker 2>that was getting all my love tell me who oh

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<v Speaker 2>but I am, I'm I'm gonna you know, I gotta

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<v Speaker 2>give you a critique, Chris, I didn't like the video.

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<v Speaker 2>You should have been heading outside of somebody's house with

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<v Speaker 2>a boombox on your knees and crying. We needed a storyline.

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<v Speaker 2>If we bring back storyline music videos. You remember how

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<v Speaker 2>Keith Sweat had no what was it? You know? You

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<v Speaker 2>want twisted? Do y'all remember the end when she was

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<v Speaker 2>climbing the rail and she got struck by lightning and died.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, y'all don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, of course we don't. Leg because that song came

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<v Speaker 1>out in like nineteen ninety two and I was three,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you don't even remember.

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<v Speaker 2>You remember? That's how I told you about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember because you probably seen it recent you want,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember drew him in my bed at the end.

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<v Speaker 2>She was a lesbian. He thought he was. She was

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<v Speaker 2>cheating with a.

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<v Speaker 1>Man on lines in these music video ray J one wish.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how Chris Brown should have did it. Ray J

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<v Speaker 1>got it right.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>In that range was the one who he was for real.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how he be begging for suki.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know? Fun fact, this was about the lady

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<v Speaker 1>they just passed away r I pizza, the young lady

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<v Speaker 1>from seven oh two. That was his girlfriend, did you know?

1:16:32.680 --> 1:16:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I wish? Oh that was some hot tea.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I did not know that, but his girlfriend. But

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<v Speaker 2>the thing about Chris is he's such a big global artist.

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<v Speaker 2>You can remake the video. You still got time and

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do it do it again, do it again, increase,

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<v Speaker 1>do it again. We were not pleased. I'm playing it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a good video. I don't know she was

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<v Speaker 2>about to say it was a good That's how you

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<v Speaker 2>know he's about to get your perfer.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about because really I believe the song is good.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's why I stopped myself because I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good video because it had it highlighted from

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<v Speaker 2>his tour and it ended like with him and the girl,

1:17:12.960 --> 1:17:14.960
<v Speaker 2>and you know, it was a good video. But I

1:17:15.000 --> 1:17:17.519
<v Speaker 2>feel like, give us one more, give us a movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember how Michael Jackson did thriller?

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<v Speaker 1>Give us some movie or what I'm not gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>his name. Oh funk no.

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<v Speaker 2>About something right?

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<v Speaker 1>That was a movie. That was a movie. It was

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<v Speaker 1>very I want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>I walk off.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you. Now you want me to be quiet?

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<v Speaker 2>You know that? God damn it, we're not talking about

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<v Speaker 1>He's only over there. What's that you know that meme

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<v Speaker 1>with that man when he takes the headphones, whole goddamn

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<v Speaker 1>episode over there? Like how he needs to insert he

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<v Speaker 1>needs to insert that youth in the fucking video how

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I'm sorry. Okay, go ahead, okay. Question number one.

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<v Speaker 1>can't find the receipt to exchange it, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lie. I don't mean to be ungrateful, but

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<v Speaker 1>I still feel like bringing it up and don't know

1:19:05.920 --> 1:19:08.960
<v Speaker 1>how this raise is a question should a guy in

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<v Speaker 1>a committed relationship be giving gifts to another girl even

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<v Speaker 1>if they're just friends. During our time together, I always

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<v Speaker 1>asked him to be honest if he was serious with anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Eventually I learned he was indeed serious, but he said

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<v Speaker 1>they weren't official yet, which meant he was involved with

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<v Speaker 1>both of us at the same time. She clearly has

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<v Speaker 1>no clue about this situation, but I'm left carrying the

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<v Speaker 1>weight of it, making it tough for me to maintain

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<v Speaker 1>our friendship just knowing that it hurts. He apologized, But

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<v Speaker 1>is it just me or does knowing the person that

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<v Speaker 1>he was dating at the same time hit differently, especially

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<v Speaker 1>because he told me he wasn't. Now he's chilling all

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<v Speaker 1>in love while I'm the one hurting trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>his friend. I feel heartbroken because he's fine and not

1:19:50.000 --> 1:19:55.120
<v Speaker 1>carrying any and not carrying any burden since she doesn't know. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the one he lied to and I know, so

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<v Speaker 1>I have to carry the weight. I don't believe in

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<v Speaker 1>go because it's been done to me and it's unhealthy.

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<v Speaker 1>How can I let go peacefully? She's beyond Gorge's and

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<v Speaker 1>I am not on her level at all, which makes

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<v Speaker 1>me feel even worse. I just want to get over him.

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<v Speaker 1>Any advice and help will be appreciated. Thank you, girls,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, First and for motherfucking modes. Girl, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't leave that fucking nigga alone, you talk about

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<v Speaker 1>ghosting him. We don't give a fun and a whole relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't go somebody that's in a relationship. You just

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<v Speaker 1>need to block him and move on with your life.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I'm sure she cute or whatever, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure you cute too, And just because she's cute, that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't give him a reason to treat you the way

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<v Speaker 1>he treated you and to lead you on the way

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<v Speaker 1>that he led you on. That is not okay. He

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<v Speaker 1>is not a good person. He does not have good character,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is why he does not deserve to remain

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<v Speaker 1>in your life. Then he gave you a gift that

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<v Speaker 1>he probably gifted to somebody else or probably took back

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<v Speaker 1>from somebody and gave it to you. Like, girl, he

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<v Speaker 1>don't care about you at all, and you deserve so

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<v Speaker 1>much better. Let him be, we sees because he chose to.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I'm This is my advice. When somebody

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<v Speaker 1>chose another person, let them lay in the bed with

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<v Speaker 1>the decisions that they made. He made that decision, so

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<v Speaker 1>he got a state of and then see it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>no coming back to you now because he had a

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<v Speaker 1>choice and he made his choice. Let him stay over there,

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<v Speaker 1>move on with your life, and girl, fuck him.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck that, nigga, fuck him. Let me play devil's advocates.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me play.

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<v Speaker 2>Devil's advocate for a minute, because I'm gonna tell you

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<v Speaker 2>why you weak as fucked because you were talking to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Man knowing he had a game.

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<v Speaker 2>Eat my black beerry No, because I gotta be real

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<v Speaker 2>with my ladies. For you were talking to this man

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<v Speaker 2>knowing he had a situation, and you thought you thought

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<v Speaker 2>you were finna come into this situation and he was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna choose you or whatever the situation may be.

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<v Speaker 1>Only for the letter to go on and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking about she's so beautiful, She's so beautiful, And that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's when I realized what it was. Right there a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of men and women I'm gonna stay people in general,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all don't have confidence about y'allselves, right, So y'all think

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<v Speaker 2>y'all gonna go in this situation with a man who's

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<v Speaker 2>dealing with or a woman who's dealing with a nigga

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<v Speaker 2>who got money, or a man who's dealing with a

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<v Speaker 2>woman who's beautiful, and you feel like that'll raise your

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<v Speaker 2>confidence up because I can take her nigga. I can like,

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<v Speaker 2>for example, I can take Dre and the call I'm

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<v Speaker 2>on a date and I'm chilling with Dre and the

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<v Speaker 2>cold nigga, only for him still to be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not leaving Dre and the cold. So your intentions

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<v Speaker 2>were wrong from the get go. Anyway, you were using

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<v Speaker 2>this situation, what it sounds like to me, to boost

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<v Speaker 2>up your confidence because you felt better about going on

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<v Speaker 2>a day or hanging out with a man. Oh, you

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like you looking up to his girl. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>want him, You wanted to match what his girl had

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<v Speaker 2>going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Well for will to be fair, she said, when she

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<v Speaker 1>started dating him, she did not know he had a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She asked him to be honest, and he wasn't being honest.

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<v Speaker 2>But once you found out, you decided to feel hauled.

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<v Speaker 1>Asked after that though, once you found out, you stuck there.

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<v Speaker 2>Not only did you stick there, you went and snooped

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<v Speaker 2>and found out who his girl was. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>mad at you for that, but you started putting yourself

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<v Speaker 2>in the competition with this girl who doesn't probably even

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<v Speaker 2>know you exist. She don't, she said, And that's what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. We have got to stop doing that to

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<v Speaker 2>each other as women. I don't give a fuck if

1:23:43.520 --> 1:23:47.080
<v Speaker 2>she looked like Tommy Pickles. Bitch you when a man

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<v Speaker 2>tells you he's dealing with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Leaves Tommy Pickles as well, three hairs.

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<v Speaker 2>Ok the ball bitches be puling. Okay, okay, okay, he

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<v Speaker 2>got it. That's all I got to say, girl, but

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<v Speaker 2>move on crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, next question, this is mine?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, m hm Okay, Hey ladies. So I've been dating

1:24:12.840 --> 1:24:15.880
<v Speaker 2>this guy for the past two years. We've recently talked

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<v Speaker 2>about getting more serious marriage and kids over the last

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<v Speaker 2>few months. One day, we were having a conversation and

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<v Speaker 2>he decided to share something with me that he thought

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<v Speaker 2>I should know so I wouldn't be blindsided. He shared

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<v Speaker 2>that he made a mistake and slept with his cousin,

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<v Speaker 2>who isn't really his cousin by blood or marriage. She

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<v Speaker 2>was adopted into the family, shut out to Dreana Cole.

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<v Speaker 2>He felt I should know because she might be around

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<v Speaker 2>at family events from time to time and he wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to be transparent. He reassured me that there was no

1:24:47.479 --> 1:24:50.360
<v Speaker 2>feelings between them and that it only happened once on

1:24:50.439 --> 1:24:53.800
<v Speaker 2>a drunk night when she came on to him. I

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<v Speaker 2>was really shocked and upset because it's not like an

1:24:56.479 --> 1:24:59.800
<v Speaker 2>ex that I'll never see again. This is a relative

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<v Speaker 2>who I could be in the same room with from

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<v Speaker 2>time to time. Am I overreacting? Would you want to

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<v Speaker 2>know if you were in the same room as one

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<v Speaker 2>of your eskimo's sisters? Would you tell a guy you're dating,

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<v Speaker 2>if he just shook hands with one of your exes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I would, I go on, motherfuckers, he did right, Yeah he.

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<v Speaker 1>Did right by telling you that. But I mean, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, this wildest fuck because what how you accidentally

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with your cause how was adopted? But how was

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<v Speaker 1>that an accident? Like he didn't know when he slept

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<v Speaker 1>with her? Or did he already know she was adopted

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<v Speaker 1>your cousin and then he slept with her? Anyways, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>on a drunken night.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, because that's what I want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>We did a part two sit as another email in

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<v Speaker 1>put part two I don't know scandal Eskimo Gate put

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<v Speaker 1>that so anyways, likes, I was saying, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>accidentally sleep with show cousin? But that ain't the point

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<v Speaker 1>of the question. I would want to know absolutely. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I would keep talking to a dude

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<v Speaker 1>that admitted to me that he slipped with his cousin.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not what she asked, bitch, that's not what she asked.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm just silly. You ain't gotta ask why it's

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<v Speaker 1>free this one on the house. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I always still deal with somebody you told me to

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<v Speaker 1>tay slip with their goods.

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<v Speaker 2>But I do believe. Let me tell you something. When

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<v Speaker 2>I walk in the room, it ain't no nigga that

1:26:43.040 --> 1:26:46.280
<v Speaker 2>can walk up to my man and be like, yeah,

1:26:46.320 --> 1:26:51.799
<v Speaker 2>he already knows. And that's why it's just gotta carry

1:26:51.800 --> 1:26:55.840
<v Speaker 2>yourself because anybody in my past, it ain't no man

1:26:55.960 --> 1:26:58.840
<v Speaker 2>even comfortable enough to walk up to my man on

1:26:58.960 --> 1:27:03.200
<v Speaker 2>some shit about me either anyway. So he did the

1:27:03.280 --> 1:27:06.040
<v Speaker 2>right thing by letting you know. But in case you

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<v Speaker 2>try something funny. So I think it's very important if

1:27:09.520 --> 1:27:12.280
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna be in a situation where your man or

1:27:12.320 --> 1:27:14.000
<v Speaker 2>you're a woman is gonna be in the room with

1:27:14.040 --> 1:27:17.760
<v Speaker 2>an Eskimo sister, because men and women both be trying

1:27:17.800 --> 1:27:20.519
<v Speaker 2>to be cute and her, Oh oh, I see you

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<v Speaker 2>keep it cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I see you too, bitch.

1:27:24.280 --> 1:27:25.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I see you too, bitch. And I know and

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<v Speaker 2>guess where he at because it wasn't fat, juicy and

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<v Speaker 2>wet shout out to Bruno.

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<v Speaker 1>Yo, that's what you need. The title part too, faith.

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<v Speaker 2>Cousin fact, So no, you're not overreacting, but he did

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<v Speaker 2>the right thing. And yes, I would want to know

1:27:44.640 --> 1:27:46.599
<v Speaker 2>if I'm in the same room as an Eskimo suits

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<v Speaker 2>because don't be in my face, like, hey girl, you

1:27:50.040 --> 1:27:56.400
<v Speaker 2>look staircared. I'll be like, bitch, yeah, keep your distance.

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<v Speaker 2>You ain't gotta speak to me. Booth.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we don't even gotta do all it. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>so exy trying to be fun so unnecessary they.

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<v Speaker 2>Be trying to be funny. I don't know. I've never

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<v Speaker 2>been in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been in a situation like this. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>either where I've had to like be around somebody or

1:28:11.320 --> 1:28:16.960
<v Speaker 1>be friendly with somebody, did like only like a sister.

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<v Speaker 2>If it was like it was a dude in our past,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're like it's funny, like girl, yeah, yeah, laugh

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<v Speaker 2>at but yeah, so yeah girl. Make sure y'all email

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<v Speaker 2>us ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. And I

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<v Speaker 2>hope y'all enjoyed this episode. I'm just so excited. We

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<v Speaker 2>have so much in store for y'all. Yes, we do.

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<v Speaker 2>close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that is

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<v Speaker 1>It's p O.

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<v Speaker 2>You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong poor Minds page. If you see at poor minds

1:29:14.479 --> 1:29:16.600
<v Speaker 2>with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not

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<v Speaker 2>follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea and the

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<v Speaker 2>pour minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram,

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<v Speaker 2>one Twitter, one TikTok. It is p O, you are

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<v Speaker 2>underscore in my nds, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, And we got a hell a fake Facebook page

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<v Speaker 1>on the Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing

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<v Speaker 1>is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of fileput.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the

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<v Speaker 2>least amount of.

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<v Speaker 1>File, but one that's not us got like two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and fifty thousand.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all, make if you actually look at the content because

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<v Speaker 2>the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English,

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<v Speaker 2>because their capches are like bumba clad? Should men?

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<v Speaker 1>Should men pay bill?

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<v Speaker 2>Should men pay bill?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>No check answer below block block.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's literally with the captions. I'm like, what that

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<v Speaker 1>d bumba claud claud la la la la La La

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<v Speaker 1>La La La la la la la.

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<v Speaker 2>La lo la.

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<v Speaker 1>A bus this part now, sipsy off this book car

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<v Speaker 1>about to take this fight so high, say bye bye.

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<v Speaker 1>We're been here all right now. My girl like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my song because I'm feeling fine, so fine, so fine.

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<v Speaker 3>All the girls I feel me say oh yeah, hell

1:30:48.040 --> 1:30:54.960
<v Speaker 3>you hear me say oh yeah, good, great, great, don't hate,

1:30:55.120 --> 1:30:58.960
<v Speaker 3>don't hate the fells feeling you say oh yeah, like

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<v Speaker 3>and what should you say? Oh yeah good, feeling good, great,

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<v Speaker 3>feeling girl, look good, look good?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't hey oh hey? Oh my girls with your hair

1:31:08.960 --> 1:31:12.519
<v Speaker 1>figs and your nails done, put your hands up and say.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, get another one?

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<v Speaker 1>What it pay for it?

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<v Speaker 2>But it any air?

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<v Speaker 5>Say okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, your hands out on my booty to stepping my guccie,

1:31:35.439 --> 1:31:39.360
<v Speaker 6>And they're like, goga, go go go go.

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<v Speaker 2>I like the way are shaky? You wanna see me naked?

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<v Speaker 1>It could be you're not, You're not.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll know the girls the.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel me say oh yeah the club you hear me

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<v Speaker 1>say you're good feeling good.

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<v Speaker 2>Feeling girl, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Sail is feeling you say oh yeah, like and what

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<v Speaker 1>your do say? Oh yeah, feeling good? Goodling great, I

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<v Speaker 1>look good good. Don't hat my girls, with your hair

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<v Speaker 1>fixed and your nails done, put your hands up and say.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, drink, get another.

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<v Speaker 1>One, make them pay for it, put it in the

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<v Speaker 1>air and say.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's happening. Shorty. I'm Suan Paul.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me hogh lash you. What I gotta do is

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<v Speaker 1>go a couple of dollars that se by my arm,

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<v Speaker 1>show my wrists, tell your dad I all pick you

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<v Speaker 1>up and be take you to the malin all. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>my number shot in case you want some street frame,

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<v Speaker 1>look me up. I introduced you to the street game.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, you be my sweet thing. I love it side.

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<v Speaker 1>I love your nails and your tight jeans collar play baby,

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<v Speaker 1>how you love that? A young love? Feeling good and

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<v Speaker 1>never laid back, running with that goosey, never kneyag and

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<v Speaker 1>keep my ears to the streets. Is that's where home met.

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<v Speaker 2>Throw a drinker, throw your hands over fellas that you

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<v Speaker 2>know we like to get crab, like to see in

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<v Speaker 2>that for me. Now, Storm, get your hair fixed and

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<v Speaker 2>your nail done.

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<v Speaker 1>Get her hands up and.

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<v Speaker 5>Say okay okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotta drink, get another one, make him pay for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Put in They ever say.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, shout out to Nia. That's a fucking pop.

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<v Speaker 1>They stick like grigs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it