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Speaker 1: Whispery scene whispery seen sneak like I leg you just that.

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Speaker 1: I used to be like, hey, can you put my

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Speaker 1: of you that I putting your card down because I

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Speaker 2: Y'all don't got a word right, But why you whispery?

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Speaker 2: I'm shamed? What do you mean while am I whispering? Bitch?

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Speaker 2: You hosses ordered for lay me? Y'all? Medium rare brussels

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Speaker 2: sprous with parmesan truffle, mashed potatoes with extra gru potatoes. Bitch,

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Speaker 2: I don't even know what a grunt is. Of course,

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Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed, bitch, I ordered a season saddle with no crewton.

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Speaker 2: Yeah the fuck? What's up? Y'all? It's your girl, Alex

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Speaker 2: p And it's your girl drain and the call and

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Speaker 2: you are tuned in to another episode of Pull.

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Speaker 1: Mine, where a drunk mind speaks soberthight.

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Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today, We ain't got no

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Speaker 2: guests today? Who I just took a shot? Sorry, my

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Speaker 2: throat burning? You know what I like when we dress

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Speaker 2: like this because it gives our personalities, does he? Yes,

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Speaker 2: it's given like bougie. You mean business. You mean business.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna walk into a business meeting right now putting

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Speaker 2: somebody in the chest.

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Speaker 1: You don't do that. But I'm saying I'm aggress You've

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Speaker 1: never bunched nobody the whole time I've known you.

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Speaker 2: But I'm aggressive. I'm just saying, it's given our personalities. Chill,

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Speaker 2: just in the field with it. You feel me, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So what's up, girl? Nothing, girl,

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Speaker 2: Just it's another week, Just another week. Let me ask

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Speaker 2: you a question because I saw somebody post something very

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Speaker 2: what it was. I'm gonna just ask you this. If

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Speaker 2: somebody is born somewhere and then they move when they're

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Speaker 2: five years old. They're born somewhere and they move when

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Speaker 2: they're five, and they're raised in this city, is it

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Speaker 2: okay that they claim the city that they were raised

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Speaker 2: in from five and above. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think five is a young age, So yeah, to me,

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Speaker 2: I'm saying I think that.

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Speaker 1: When I think it's weird when people are adults, like

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Speaker 1: for fifteen years, that's where you're from. Now, if you

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So I just I saw something.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I said, I'm not gonna say it, but like,

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Speaker 2: for example, my sister, we were both born in California,

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Speaker 2: I'm from Orange Texas. I'm not from California. My sister

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Speaker 2: just think it's so where and people be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you can't claim from here.

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Speaker 1: You were born.

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Speaker 2: Here, bookie butt or girl, wherever you were raised at

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Speaker 1: Well, I think that y'all are from California because I

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Speaker 1: But I feel like you were raised in Orange.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I claim Orange like I don't. I don't

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Speaker 2: She remembers our house, and she remembers like our dad

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to make sure I wasn't tripping. You

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Speaker 2: So I was just making show I wasn't tripping.

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Speaker 2: You know, the people be tripping over the city. You know.

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Speaker 1: Somebody said that to your sister.

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Speaker 2: say what it is. Somebody said that Meg needs to

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Speaker 2: stop claiming Houston because she's from San Antonio. Because Meg

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Speaker 2: was born in San Antonio, but she was raised in Houston, right,

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Speaker 1: You don't even think it's stuff like that be weird

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Speaker 2: But sometimes military people be tricky to military babies because

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Speaker 1: But to me, if you're from somewhere, you are like

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Speaker 2: You don't know nothing about the Germany.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to to be German.

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like that like somebody that was born

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Speaker 2: But I feel like if you spent more years in Asia,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why my mom is going blank.

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Speaker 2: I go off your race and your what is it nationality?

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Speaker 2: That's too, that's it's totally.

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Speaker 1: It is because I don't feel like even when you

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Speaker 1: Well I'm but I'm okay chocolate. But I'm saying like

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Speaker 2: The reason I think it's so different because when I

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Speaker 1: Like, ain't there where Hamburger's from? Yes, exactly, and you.

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Speaker 2: Know I love a little Burger.

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Speaker 1: You might be German.

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Speaker 2: Facts because my parents met on the little But I

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Speaker 1: They eat sausages, like what is it? What is it called?

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Speaker 2: I used to go the Wiener Schnitzel when I was little.

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Speaker 1: That's how I used to eat my hot dogs. I

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Speaker 1: And then Wieners are just so nasty, like if you

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Speaker 2: That in that sh.

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Speaker 1: That exactly what it is.

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Speaker 2: Bull is what it is. That's what I'll say. I

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Speaker 1: I mean even you. I mean obviously we've been there

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Speaker 2: what you're saying as far as like the life that

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Speaker 2: like wherever you were raised at is like where you're from.

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Speaker 2: Like wherever you were raised at, like, that's where you're from.

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Speaker 2: I don't care what your birth certificate says, whatever culture

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Speaker 2: that's where you from. I lived in Houston for ten

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Speaker 2: years I'm not from Houston. I'm not from California. I

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Speaker 2: was born there. I am from Orange Saxies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's there. But I guess I just

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Speaker 1: be thinking about like if somebody like you die and

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Speaker 1: y'all bech where he's gonna stay born in any yacht California,

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Speaker 1: people gonna.

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Speaker 2: Be like I'm gonna say, in my city.

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Speaker 1: People gonna be people gonna be like, who the fuck

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Speaker 2: But yes they would they My people don't hung up

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Speaker 2: there and say no Orange Texas for all.

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Speaker 3: None.

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Speaker 1: No, they're gonna they're gonna be like, who was born

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Speaker 1: in California? Because you never say, but you are, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not you are.

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Speaker 2: We should do a poll because what's you think?

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Speaker 1: Ta? I think it is where you're raised at Like

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Speaker 2: I have a good circle. No Cali bitches, No offense

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Speaker 2: Fuck? No no offensing of orange bitches either. Y'all will

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Speaker 2: The people need to say they ass on ground? Oh

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Speaker 2: It's just chill. Y'all don't need no hoigh riz in Orange,

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Speaker 2: Well, you know there's a Lamar in Orange, Lamar orangell College.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the college. Whole bunch of people then went

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Speaker 2: Lamar's in Beamont, that's the popular one. But Lamar had

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Speaker 2: a branch in Orange too, the colleague. Yes, lamarka Lamar

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Speaker 1: And it's attached to the one in Beaumont.

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Speaker 2: You know how HCC had different brandes around Houston. It

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Speaker 2: You better get that college education. Don't play with us.

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Speaker 1: Begs from Houston, Like stop because they want to claim

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was about to say that has Celena, y'all

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Speaker 1: I said with San Antonio, gay two things. No, you

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Speaker 2: That's all I had. That's all I had to ask, Tad,

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Speaker 1: Technically she is from Senato.

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Speaker 2: She was born in San Antonio. That's all. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: No, that's yeah. I mean she's gonna say she's from Houston.

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Speaker 1: Your birth certificate in your passport, it's right there on

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Speaker 1: This one is gonna be called the Forbidden Kiss. This

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Speaker 2: This is really really juicy.

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Speaker 1: I mean, You're gonna have to remake these that when

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Speaker 2: For the past few years, I've heard your requests. But

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be about twenty questions.

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Speaker 1: A lot of the questions that y'all see me were

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Speaker 4: Let y'all be a little a little noisy. I know,

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Speaker 4: I'm twenty one. I'm not sure how to keep going.

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Speaker 1: It?

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Speaker 4: Heydrea asking a genue question. Do you get lived to this? Ohkay?

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Speaker 1: So for the first topic, I wanted to talk about

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Speaker 2: Because life happens. People die, you lose money, you lose

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Speaker 2: When you're dead, that's when it's steady. So whether it's

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00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 2: a high up or a high down, think about it.

434
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 2: A person was happy all the time, say they're on drugs,

435
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,399
Speaker 2: that's what makes them happy all the time. That person

436
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 2: is losing themselves off of a drug or whatever because

437
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 2: they're steadily being high because they're off of a drug.

438
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 1: Or you know what I'm saying.

439
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 2: It's or whenever you're sad all the time, it's one

440
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 2: emotion you're supposed to feel. A life, you have to

441
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,439
Speaker 2: feel all those emotions. So I think it's realistic to

442
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,440
Speaker 2: tell people, yes, be happy, look for the positive things.

443
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 2: But you know what, it's also okay to tell people, Hey,

444
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 2: it's okay to be sad today. If you don't want

445
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 2: to get out of bed today, feel that. Go through

446
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:11,879
Speaker 2: those emotions, but don't stay there because as much as

447
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 2: you go down, that heart gotta beat, you gotta go

448
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,640
Speaker 2: back up. So I do think it's a it gets

449
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 2: too much with the online, the self help and all

450
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 2: that self help books and the self I'm gonna teach

451
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 2: you how to stop it. Let tell people it's okay

452
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 2: to feel. It's okay to cry, it's okay to be sad,

453
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 2: it's okay to have these moments, because that's a part

454
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 2: of life. We're humans. You're gonna feel some emotions. It's

455
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:38,360
Speaker 2: not realistic to be happy every single fucking day, bro,

456
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 2: It's just not so. Yeah, I do believe that toxic

457
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 2: positivity will make people draw people further into depression. To

458
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Speaker 2: be honest, how do you feel?

459
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Speaker 1: I disagree, just because I feel like some people need that,

460
00:23:55,920 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: Like some people need people around them supporting them, im

461
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,679
Speaker 1: pouring into them, telling them that things are gonna be okay.

462
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: That's what gets some people through things, you know. And

463
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: then I think you have people who just want to

464
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,439
Speaker 1: deal with stuff on their own, which either way, however

465
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: you choose to deal with things, either way, it is fine,

466
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: But I think some people need that, And I don't

467
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: think in telling people to have faith and that things

468
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 1: are gonna get better and being positive and trying to

469
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,439
Speaker 1: give them a positive outlook, I don't think that necessarily

470
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,679
Speaker 1: means that you're telling them that they can't be sad

471
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: or to not feel their emotions, you know what I mean,

472
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 1: Like I feel like you can still feel the person

473
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: can still feel their emotions, and then a friend or

474
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Speaker 1: a family member is telling them, you have to pull

475
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Speaker 1: yourself out of these Yeah, because you do. You know

476
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: what I mean, you need to, Like, like you said,

477
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: life is about you have to feel the emotions and stuff.

478
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 1: But like if you stay in that emotion, a lot

479
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: of things could go wrong, Like when people are sad

480
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: and depressed and I feel like they don't want to

481
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 1: do anything and stuff. Sometimes I think a lot of

482
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Speaker 1: things you can oo's a lot of things in the

483
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Speaker 1: process of like sitting in there. So I think sometimes

484
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 1: people do need people around them to tell them, like, no,

485
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: you have to get up, you have to pull yourself

486
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Speaker 1: out of these funk because it doesn't last forever. Because

487
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Speaker 1: I think too, when a lot of people go through things,

488
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: they think it's gonna last forever, Like people be thinking

489
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: it's to end and it's nice, and sometimes I think

490
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: a lot of people need that reminder that like this too,

491
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Speaker 1: shell pad.

492
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's what I'm saying I agree with you

493
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: on that. That's what I'm saying. You do need somebody

494
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 2: to tell you, hey, don't stay in this. But I

495
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 2: think with the social media aspect of it, the gurules,

496
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 2: I'll be seeing these gurus with no degree and no

497
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 2: nothing like wake up every day and choose yourself and

498
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 2: choose like, yes, that's what you're supposed to do.

499
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Speaker 1: I do need to hear that.

500
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 2: But also they're not saying, you know what, it's okay

501
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 2: to sit in bed sometimes. That's what I'm saying. It's

502
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: two sides to it, So yes, tell these people to

503
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 2: get out of bed, but also tell them if you

504
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 2: want to have a day to yourself, to be sad

505
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 2: and to cry, that's okay too. I just think there's

506
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 2: like two sides of it, and a lot of times

507
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,959
Speaker 2: these people try to push this narrative like I'm happy

508
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: and I'm great all the time. Most of these like

509
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 2: self help and motivational speakers, they're not telling you the

510
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 2: hard days that they have. And I think that's what's

511
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: good about our show, cause, bitch, we talk about our wins,

512
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 2: but we talk about our losses too. It's real because

513
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 2: life is real. It's not always pictures and Creams No.

514
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Speaker 1: One twelve right, all yeah, I mean in no shade,

515
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: But I think that that shit, like is that not

516
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,159
Speaker 1: like common scenes at this it's a go that everybody

517
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 1: has bad days. Like literally, it's nobody walking this earth

518
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 1: that is happy and happy, go lookie and positive and

519
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: in a great mood every single day, Like life happens.

520
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: Things happen, you know what I mean, whether it's you

521
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,120
Speaker 1: losing a job, whether you're going through financial issues, whether

522
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Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, whether you you lost a

523
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: parent or lost somebody close to you, whether it's a

524
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 1: friendship breakup, whatever. I mean, you could have tripped and

525
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: filled in the hole in front of a whole bunch

526
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: of people down the escalator or some set, and now

527
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: they're ruined JO day because you and Barry. It's like

528
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: things happen to everybody, even though and I use that

529
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 1: last example because I feel like that's something that's not

530
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: so serious, like there's something small that's not really in

531
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: the green scheme of things, but it'd be little, so

532
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: sometimes they could fuck YO day up, Like nobody has

533
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 1: great days five hundred and sixty five days after years.

534
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, we are in a time where people look up

535
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 2: to these people on social media, and they believe that

536
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 2: they're being honest and real.

537
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 1: And well, that's why I need y'all to put child

538
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 1: thinking caps on. Ain't that what we learn the elementary? Yeah,

539
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 1: critical thinking, critical usual, critical thinking.

540
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: But you have these people on social media, they follow them,

541
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: and these people are posting four or five videos a day,

542
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 2: and even with relationship goals. They're looking at these couples

543
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, couple breaks up and the

544
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 2: girl talking about, oh, he was beating my ass or

545
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 2: he talking about she was cheating on me, and you'd

546
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: be like, oh my god.

547
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 1: Does that ain't a couple that set up? They try

548
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: pardy act.

549
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 2: Like they just got out of bed bro the same couple,

550
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 2: see the same couple that be acting like it's a prank, Like, oh,

551
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 2: you know what the prank? I hate? I just seen this.

552
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 2: It was a prank and a man had like this

553
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 2: life sized doll laying on him, and she like walked

554
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,959
Speaker 2: in and was like beating up the doll. It was

555
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 2: so lame and cringey, and everybody in the comments was like,

556
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 2: oh my god, this is so good.

557
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 1: She loves you, because in what world do a doll

558
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: look like a person.

559
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 2: But anyways, that was But I say all that to say, though,

560
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 2: but you do have gullible people on the internet. You

561
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 2: know what. Keiki Palmer made a good statement the other

562
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 2: day cause she just came out with this book that

563
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 2: I actually want to read. But she was basically saying, like, yes,

564
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 2: what's it called shay Master of Me? So she was

565
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 2: promoting her book and she was talking about how you

566
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 2: have to realize you are in your bubble. We are

567
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 2: in a poor crew bubble, so we can only get

568
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 2: back and feedback what our people see. And we are

569
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 2: so big in some of these people's world. But it's

570
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 2: people that don't come on pace to be like, who

571
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: the hell is this? You know what I'm saying. So

572
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: I say all that to say because we look at

573
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 2: people who look at others like you really believe this

574
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 2: shit or you're buying that shit. But it's a whole

575
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 2: other world out there. It'd be people that have fifteen

576
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 2: million followers on their Facebook page or their TikTok and

577
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 2: I have no idea who they are, and they believe

578
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 2: that they're hanging on to every single person this word,

579
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: every single word this person says and I'm like, he's

580
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 2: spewing bullshit and I can see that, but bull snel,

581
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 2: bull schnitzel, you know what I'm saying. But she made

582
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: a good point of we are in our own little world,

583
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 2: and you know, sometimes we have to think outside the

584
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: box and put ourselves in other people's shoes to understand

585
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 2: what they're feeling, what they may be experiencing, and things

586
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: like that. So I think that's important to understand. So yeah,

587
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 2: some people, really they probably even look at us and

588
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 2: look at the things that we complain about and think

589
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 2: it's silly. They probably be like, oh, and even as

590
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: extreme as like us losing a parent. Okay, y'all lost

591
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 2: a parent, but look at y'all, some people really look

592
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: at us like that, you know what I'm saying. So

593
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 2: they'd be like, okay, even when.

594
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: You lose one and come make and tell me how

595
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: you feel.

596
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 2: But they probably it'll be probably be somebody who never

597
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 2: had parents, who grew up in a foster home, so

598
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 2: they like y'all complained about what at least you have

599
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 2: the experience of having a day.

600
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: But see, I think that's the problem with people though.

601
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: You have to stop comparing traumas like what I went

602
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 1: through is just as fair as what you went right,

603
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It's just as equal, Like

604
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: one is not greater than the other just because you

605
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: never had a parent, they didn't have no daddy around

606
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 1: when I was growing up.

607
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 2: Why did she do that?

608
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: Because she did it.

609
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 2: Same though experience, I mean, and it was a I

610
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: have one.

611
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: But I still like this song.

612
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 2: You used to sing that when your daddy made I used.

613
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: To sing it from him. But yeah, it's like people

614
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: have to stop trying to compare traumas in and be like, oh, well,

615
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: what I went through is worse than with you than

616
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: what you went through. Losing a parent is fucked up,

617
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: and not having a parent is fucked up, and it

618
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: affects different people in different ways. It was a trauma

619
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: for you, and losing my daddy's a trauma for me.

620
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: Like you can't say that, oh, because we have the

621
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: success that we have and we have the things going

622
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: on in our life that we have going on, or

623
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: because we look the way we look that we it

624
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: didn't hurt us losing our parents, Like I think that's

625
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: a stupid ass mindset.

626
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, but that's but listen, but

627
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 2: that's what I'll be talking about.

628
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: You have to try to not saying.

629
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 2: It's stupid, but just look at where they're coming from, though,

630
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 2: And I think that's what we have to do sometimes

631
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 2: being in this position. Only reason I say that.

632
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: What they need to look but I hear you, but

633
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: I feel like it goes both ways, right. They have

634
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: to look at where we're coming from too. I think

635
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: that that's crazy to think the way. I'm never gonna

636
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: not think that.

637
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I agree with you. But what I'm

638
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: saying is, in this situation, if somebody is judging me

639
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 2: and being like, oh, I don't feel sorry for Lex.

640
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying people out there feel that way.

641
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: We're just speaking hypathetically. But if somebody was out there like,

642
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 2: I don't feel sorry for Lex Andrea for losing their

643
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 2: parents because look at their lives that they live at

644
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 2: the end of the day, they're viewing me like this,

645
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 2: and I am the more fortunate person in this situation

646
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 2: because I'm not looking at anybody like that. And whatever

647
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: trauma that you went through, you're fighting some kind of

648
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: demons in your head to look at another person who

649
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Speaker 2: is struggling or going through.

650
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: Something and looking at them like that.

651
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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I say all that to say it's my

652
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 2: job to not judge them or put myself in their

653
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,959
Speaker 2: shoes because they're not there mentally, they're not Their emotional

654
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 2: intelligence isn't where I'm at yet, so it's my part.

655
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 2: I feel like, not that it's my job, but I

656
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 2: instead of attacking them or call them crazy, I'm like,

657
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Speaker 2: you know what, I really am praying for you, and

658
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Speaker 2: I hope God gives you the grace that He gave

659
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Speaker 2: me to grow and learn because I used to be

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Speaker 2: that person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I feel like I

662
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Speaker 1: can feel that way about them and then still be like,

663
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Speaker 1: you sound stupid. It's his but I'm still praying for

664
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Speaker 1: you and I hope that God give you the peace

665
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Speaker 1: that you need. But get about my goddamn comment.

666
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I feel with that bullshe Yeah, but

667
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Speaker 2: I do think.

668
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Speaker 1: Things could be true at once, because I don't. I

669
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Speaker 1: just have at a point in life where I feel

670
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Speaker 1: like I don't have to be nice or extend grace

671
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: to people that don't extend it to me. But my

672
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: thing is, I'm also not going to say anything to

673
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: you either, because I really don't be saying she to people.

674
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Speaker 1: A lot of the time, I'm just gonna block yours

675
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Speaker 1: by blocking.

676
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Speaker 2: I used to not be a blocker. I'm a blocker

677
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 2: now because it's gotten to the point. Do you know

678
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 2: I tweet I tweeted, I said, I love the fact

679
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 2: that Adam Sandler puts his wife in all his movies. Yeah,

680
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: because one thing about it, Adam Sandler gonna cast that

681
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 2: wife baby. I don't care if she's.

682
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Speaker 1: Playing a bell hop.

683
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Speaker 2: He's gonna beat in the motherfucking movie, bitch. And it

684
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 2: was so many people like y'all are just you're just

685
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Speaker 2: finding this out. You're just somebody literally said to me,

686
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Speaker 2: how you reviewing movies and you just found out? Did

687
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 2: I say, I just found out that Adam Sandler was

688
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 2: putting his wife in movies? Because if you know me,

689
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 2: you know I talk about movies all day and night.

690
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: And if you did, did you say you was a

691
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Speaker 1: motherfucking guru?

692
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 2: But what movie I did find out? Why is that

693
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 2: not like just something that I'm saying. I hate when people,

694
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Speaker 2: Oh you just heard this sound, this sound, Oh I

695
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Speaker 2: just heard it.

696
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Speaker 1: Go away from you with these go away from me

697
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:52,920
Speaker 1: with this apollo period. What what do y'all be talking about?

698
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Speaker 2: For real?

699
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 1: Like, I just think people be angry and I'll be

700
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: thinking he's floody a little bit.

701
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 2: They love to bring their pitchforks.

702
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: They do because it's like, why are you so mad?

703
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 2: Adam Sandler is not gonna put you in Oh my god,

704
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 2: why are you so upseting? They were like, how you

705
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 2: didn't know this? He puts his children and his friends.

706
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:11,879
Speaker 2: Don't forget that.

707
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: I know this.

708
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 2: I was talking about relationships and stuff, and then I

709
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 2: was just tweeting about how I love men and women

710
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Speaker 2: that are in relationships and they look at it as

711
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 2: a partnership. I was talking about that to someone. So

712
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 2: that's when I was like, I got on the topic

713
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Speaker 2: of Adam Sandler. One thing about me, I'll be having

714
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,399
Speaker 2: a conversation in real life and it'll remind me of something.

715
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 2: I'll just tweet about it real quick. I know Adam

716
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 2: Sandler puts all his friends and his kids and everybody.

717
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 2: I was talking about the love he has for his wife. Yeah,

718
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 2: because a lot of y'all have wives up and won't

719
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 2: even buy her a fucking daisy bitch. So yeah, I

720
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 2: was talking about the love he has nothing, a nothing. Yeah,

721
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Speaker 2: I don't know.

722
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Speaker 1: People just be angry. And that's why I believe you

723
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: can never have too much positive heving the world. No,

724
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: I don't think the world could ever have enough positivity

725
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: because most people are negative as FuG for no reason.

726
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: Listen to the things you just said. God, they could

727
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 1: have just scrolled past their tweet and I said nothing.

728
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: You know how many times I see some bullshnitzel that

729
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: somebody say, that's my new word. You know how I

730
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: see so many you know how many times I see

731
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 1: shit online that I'd be like, what the FuG is

732
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: this person talking about? Like you sound crazy? Whatever?

733
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 2: But why do I yes?

734
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: For what? And I'll say, the point in responding to

735
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 1: every little thing that you see that somebody say and

736
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 1: you feel like, oh this is stupid. They should have

737
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: known this, or they sound crazy, you don't have to respond.

738
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: You could just keep scrolling, y'all negative.

739
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 2: I agree with you, there's never too much positivity for

740
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 2: the world.

741
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,280
Speaker 1: I do agree with you on that.

742
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: Like there's there is a such thing as toxic positivity.

743
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 2: But on the other end, there's never too much positivety.

744
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,919
Speaker 2: So when I say it's toxic positivity, I think it's

745
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 2: toxic when you're not being honest and when you're telling

746
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 2: people I wake up every day and I'm happy and

747
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 2: be honest about your journey to where you are.

748
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: I wake up.

749
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, y'all know me, bitch, I'll be

750
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 2: satisfucked right now. My life is.

751
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: Since January one till now.

752
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 2: I haven't woke up sad yet, bitch. I ain't gonna

753
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 2: lie st y'all, but y'all know I keep it real

754
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 2: with y'all. I'm gonna keep it real with what's going on.

755
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 2: So I think when we're talking about positivity, I am

756
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 2: here because of the work I've done. Though, do I

757
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 2: have my rainy days? Yes? So I think when it

758
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 2: becomes toxic when you're not honest. It's never too much positivity,

759
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 2: but we need to be honest about how we got here.

760
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 2: So even if there is a guru talking about be positive,

761
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 2: wake up happy every day, talk about the journey that

762
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 2: you did to get there, more so than acting like

763
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 2: help the people, pump the folks. Baby, I'm looking at

764
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 2: y'all like, why is you?

765
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: And I'm sadis fun and I see the sun? Is

766
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: what I said? What did I say? About comparing. Comparison

767
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: is the thief joy people, and that's another word. Stop

768
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: comparing ourselves. Stop looking at other people. I just feel

769
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: like we should. We too deep in the game at

770
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: this point, all of us as a whole, as a community,

771
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 1: we too deep in the game when it comes to

772
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: social media to still be getting online and looking at

773
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: the sheep people post and thinking that there's really their

774
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: life all the time. Be for real. We should know

775
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: at this point that like a lot of shit be orchestrated,

776
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 1: it be calculated, and this is not what's really going on.

777
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 1: And if people are going through downtimes in their life,

778
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: if they are going through you know, trials and tribulations,

779
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: they're not going to tell you thank you toy. They

780
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: not gonna tell you about that shit. They just gonna

781
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: show you the good time. And maybe one day, eventually,

782
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: maybe once they through the storm there they'll open up

783
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 1: and share what they went through. But most people are

784
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 1: not going to share with you in the midst of

785
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: a storm what they going through. So stop looking at

786
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: other people and being like, oh, they so happy and

787
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: I'm so sad, or oh they got this and they

788
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: got that and I don't have half the things that

789
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: they have or it looks like they just have everything

790
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 1: they want. They're so lucky. Nobody is that lucky. We

791
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 1: all go through shit, everybody, your face, everybody goes through something.

792
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: Everybody is going through and maybe not currently because I

793
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: mean everybody has time seeing life where you're not really

794
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: going through, but we've all been through something. Nobody that's

795
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: walking God's Green Earth having not went.

796
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Speaker 2: Through bad baby. What's up y'all?

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be doing so much stuf up on there.

804
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Speaker 2: We're gonna be doing challenges.

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Speaker 1: If you can't go to Bill and Dauche, where the

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807
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Speaker 1: what the hell.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, you didn't go everything y'all been

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be doing it.

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Speaker 1: Right here on Patreon. Yes, y'all ask us for so much.

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Speaker 2: Well, we've been to give it to y'all every single Monday,

815
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Speaker 2: and it's gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Minds

816
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Speaker 2: has grown into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna

817
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Speaker 2: have a lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles.

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Speaker 2: So make sure y'all tune in September second, it's going down.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, what's up y'all?

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, let's get into the second topic, the

843
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Speaker 2: broke BFF epidemic. So this is the topic about you

844
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Speaker 2: have a friend who is their funds aren't matching yours.

845
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Speaker 2: They're maybe their ambition, their drive to reach the successes

846
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 2: in matching yours. They y'all go out. They always kind

847
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Speaker 2: of like missing a wallet or when it's time to

848
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Speaker 2: send the cash apps and ZiLs at the end of

849
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Speaker 2: the meal, they phoned on got service. So how do

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Speaker 2: we feel about having a friend who is not as

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Speaker 2: financially stable as you? How we feel about that?

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Speaker 1: I okay, So I've had friends before where like we

853
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 1: would go do stuff and then when the tab will come,

854
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Speaker 1: they would want to separate their money, or they would.

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Speaker 2: Like, I told you cheese sticks and sprite that's all

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Speaker 2: I have.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes for sure, helly so yes, so like I've

858
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Speaker 1: had friends, or they would want to separate their money,

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Speaker 1: or like when the tab will come, they wouldn't want

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Speaker 1: to split it evenly, or like they cash apps and

861
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Speaker 1: stuff wouldn't be back then. I feel like I extended

862
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: more grace to friends like that because we were younger

863
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Speaker 1: and everybody was just trying to.

864
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Speaker 2: Find their way.

865
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 1: Now that I'm in my thirties, I feel like, don't

866
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: come like we can still be friends. I'm not gonna

867
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:19,240
Speaker 1: stop being your friend because you having financial issues because

868
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: you going through something, because you don't have to have

869
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,399
Speaker 1: a lot of money to be my friend. But if

870
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: you know you ain't got no money, don't bring your

871
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: ass to this dinner and then be looking at me.

872
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, Or don't bring your ass to a dinner

873
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: where we're doing family style food and you eating, you

874
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 1: eating off of everybody plate, trying little samples, and then

875
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: when the tab comeing, I ain't order nothing. I just

876
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: had water and cheese steaks.

877
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 2: Cause I had cheese sticks and water bapp you ordered

878
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: that for lat me ya it's no you bitch, So

879
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 2: I played my role. I half family style.

880
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:57,800
Speaker 1: You is crazy. But no, seriously though, like at this point,

881
00:43:58,960 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 1: just don't come.

882
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 2: Don't come, like keep it real.

883
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 1: I have all the grace in the world for people

884
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: who keep it real about things like that. Like if

885
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 1: you like, look, I ain't got it, I can't come

886
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 1: to the dinner or you know just what, you don't

887
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: even got to tell me you ain't gotty. Like if

888
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,439
Speaker 1: you just say you can't come or whatever the case

889
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 1: may be cool, but I would prefer you stay your

890
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: ass at home then coming knowing you don't have no

891
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 1: money and that goes for a trip, that goes for dinner,

892
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: that goes for anything where you're going to need to

893
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 1: pay for something. Yeah, So I agree with you on that.

894
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 2: So I'm like, it depends on the scenario, because if

895
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: we're going to like a group setting and you come

896
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 2: and then you like spring it on me like, oh, Lex,

897
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 2: I ain't got it. Can you pay my yeah a

898
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 2: portion that's gonna piss me off, or cause I've had

899
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 2: this happen to me before. We're like we all at

900
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: the dinner. Ooh I'm about to give y'all a good

901
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 2: tip of what I do now. But anyways, don't spring

902
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 2: this shit on me. Now. If I invite you one

903
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 2: on one and you like, oh, look, Lex, I don't

904
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:01,479
Speaker 2: got it right now, girl, I got you, yeah, because

905
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to you. Sometimes I just need

906
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 2: to get out the house and I want to talk,

907
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 2: and I just need a friend, and I just need

908
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 2: to get out the house. And Drea knows I'm an

909
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 2: at home bitch. So if I'm inviting you to dinner,

910
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 2: I want to go out somewhere.

911
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: I need it.

912
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,879
Speaker 2: I need to get out the house. So I got you.

913
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 2: But if you just not, if I tell everybody, hey,

914
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 2: I'll put it on my card, everybody zell me eighty

915
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 2: dollars and you zelling me sixty five because you were like,

916
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 2: oh I didn't order this.

917
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: I don't order that.

918
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 2: Bitch.

919
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 1: You got me fucked up. So let me tell you

920
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: what I do.

921
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 2: Y'all. Please get your note passed out when you go

922
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 2: on a trip, when you going to dinner, be that

923
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 2: person that puts it on the car. But guess what

924
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 2: you're gonna start doing putting it on that cash ap

925
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,240
Speaker 2: card car ain't gonna go through until everybody cash aps

926
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 2: you and it lands on that goddamn card. So when

927
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,439
Speaker 2: we went to Turks and Caicos, I have my cash

928
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 2: ap card.

929
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 1: So if the tab is.

930
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 2: Five of us, for example, tab five hundred dollars, I

931
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 2: got my hundred on there. You don't send me your

932
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 2: one hundred dollars. It's not going through when he swiped

933
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 2: that bitch until you send it. We finish it at

934
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: this table standing at so what you gonna do? So

935
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 2: what you're finnah do? So I was at the table

936
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 2: like this, the funds ain't been received, man, because y'all

937
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 2: not finna play with people like that no more. So.

938
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:24,240
Speaker 2: I do think that with the money situation, it depends

939
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 2: on the scenario. I was always the type of friend

940
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 2: when I didn't have it, I would I would get

941
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 2: my friends and hands up. I don't got it, I

942
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 2: don't want, I don't want to go. I don't And

943
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 2: if I didn't have it, I would, literally I would

944
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,240
Speaker 2: be the type of friend like I'm whispering to the waiter,

945
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 2: how my cheese sticks, put my spriten my cheese sticks.

946
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 2: I slide my ten dollars, y'all that's on y'all.

947
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 1: See, I do feel like you shouldn't do that, though,

948
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like you should do that.

949
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 2: But that was also back in the day. Different I'm we're.

950
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: Not talking about you. I'm saying in general. I'm saying

951
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,839
Speaker 1: in general, I don't think people should do that at all. Like,

952
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 1: if you know that you're gonna go somewhere and you

953
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: gonna want your stuff to be separate, I feel like

954
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 1: you should say that at the beginning of the night

955
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:16,760
Speaker 1: before people start ordering.

956
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 2: She okay, So let me ask you this, though, why

957
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 2: if they're paying for their stuff, why do they gotta

958
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 2: let other people know I pay for my stuff already?

959
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 2: Because I just think that's courteous, especially if it's a

960
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 2: setting where majority of the time y'all sleep the bial

961
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 2: At least I can speak for me and my friends.

962
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 2: Majority of the time when we go out to eat,

963
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 2: we don't be looking at the tab like, oh, I

964
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 2: order this, I order this, let's put this on separate tabs.

965
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 1: We just get one bial and we spleitty right. But

966
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is like, Okay, even if it's not

967
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: family style, Like, even if it's just like everybody ordering,

968
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: they entrees, they appetizers whatever, because we might order like

969
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: five appetizers and sharing.

970
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 2: We do that. We definitely everybody might order like two

971
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 2: or three drinks.

972
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 1: I'm not clocking who order two drinks and who ordered four?

973
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 1: We just yes, we just put it all on one

974
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: tab and then we split it. So that's why I

975
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: said that, because if you even if you do only

976
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: order one drink and you order some cheese sticks in

977
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: the water, But if you don't say that prior to

978
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 1: people starting to order stuff, and then at the end

979
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 1: people see you getting your tabs separately and then they

980
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: all putting it together. I just feel like to avoid confusion,

981
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: because it's fine, you should just say something because nine

982
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: times out of ten you don't have a person in

983
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: the group that feel some type of way about that. Now, personally,

984
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:35,760
Speaker 1: I don't care about this. Shep put your sheet separate

985
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:36,360
Speaker 1: if you want to.

986
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 2: Who cares?

987
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 1: But I have But I'm speaking because I have friends

988
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 1: who like, they don't be liking this sheep. I don't

989
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 1: see them get into it with other friends over like

990
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: why she putting stuff separately? She broke and she like that.

991
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: So yeah, like to avoid confused, I feel just put

992
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 1: it you know, just put it on the No, put

993
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: it on the table for everybody. Start ordering stuff. Hey,

994
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: I'm only ordering I ate before I came. I'm only

995
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: gonna order an appetizer in one glass of wine. I'm

996
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: gonna put a separate tag exactly, and I'm not gonna

997
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: lie if you look.

998
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 2: I love my girl Kiki, but Kiki orders die.

999
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 1: Whispery, scene whisper. It seems sneaky, like I let you this, dad.

1000
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 1: I used to be like, hey, can you put my

1001
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 1: stuff to the side an then the tab come out

1002
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: and you know, I putting your card down already paid,

1003
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: y'all don't gotta work, right, But why you whispery?

1004
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:36,280
Speaker 2: I'm shamed? What do you mean while am I whispering? Bitch?

1005
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 2: You hoses ordered for lay me, y'all medium rare Brussels

1006
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 2: sprounce with parmesan truffle, mashed potatoes with extra gro potatoes. Bitch,

1007
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 2: I don't even know what a gun is. Of course,

1008
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed. Bitch I ordered a season saddle.

1009
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: With no crew toon.

1010
00:49:56,719 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 2: Yeah the fuck, I know I'm saying that the day

1011
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 2: but it was different though, so it was easy to

1012
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 2: split tabs restaurants used to split tabs. Now, I mean

1013
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 2: it's a different now. I'm not gonna lie to you.

1014
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 2: When I go to a restaurant, I'm here to eat.

1015
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 2: I don't care one thing about me. I'm very cheap

1016
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 2: still because I am. I like to save my money.

1017
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:18,800
Speaker 2: But one thing I'm always spend money on is food.

1018
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 2: Food is a part of my experience in life. I

1019
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 2: feel like when you taste the different flavors of the world,

1020
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:24,760
Speaker 2: you're living okay.

1021
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: And I'm a tourist, I just booty. So now, yeah,

1022
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: throw that card in the middle.

1023
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 2: And like I said, our friend Kiki Kiki orders six

1024
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 2: appetizers too entree.

1025
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: She don't even eat it all. She just wanna taste everything.

1026
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:39,360
Speaker 2: If you go out to eat with Kiki Bab, you

1027
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 2: got to be ready to throw that card in. I

1028
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 2: think we're all like that, so I think that's okay.

1029
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 2: But I'm very mindful, so I know when we in

1030
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: certain settings. I know it's certain people it's not gonna pay.

1031
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 2: I know when I got it with that cash ap

1032
00:50:58,360 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 2: card up. I'm gonna just say that.

1033
00:50:59,440 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1034
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 2: I know when I gotta do that cash hup. Shiteah

1035
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 2: and hey, y'all, hey, you know what instead of everybody

1036
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 2: laying their cars now, put it on the cashp car

1037
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 2: because y'all ain't finna slide to the waitress.

1038
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 1: Put eighty on this line.

1039
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 2: Walford one on the raft.

1040
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I feel like for trips though, that's just

1041
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: a good idea in general.

1042
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 2: I think I'm putting my bag when I saw this.

1043
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think when people go on group trips it

1044
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 1: should be like that.

1045
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1046
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: It's like when y'all going so smooth, it really was smart,

1047
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 1: Like yeah, when you go to the club or when

1048
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 1: you going out to eat and you on a trip

1049
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: with your friends, I feel like it should be one

1050
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 1: person in charge of pinion.

1051
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:37,800
Speaker 2: And with that commnimize confused.

1052
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: Everybody's seeing this person they money, and this person is

1053
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 1: the person that's gonna pay with cash.

1054
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,919
Speaker 2: And then when you and when you got the cash

1055
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 2: up car, you be feeling like a baller. I'll be

1056
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 2: like I got it, not knowing that everybody paid me.

1057
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:54,439
Speaker 2: But I used to I was doing that the whole

1058
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 2: time in turks Grown. I was like Branda tapped to me,

1059
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:03,359
Speaker 2: I got it, broke, bitches, I would have to get

1060
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 2: payback on everybody. I was in a section full of

1061
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 2: bad bitches yet sending another bottle, and from far away

1062
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 2: it looks like a am. It's because it's black and.

1063
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,399
Speaker 1: It's black and it's hard and they.

1064
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 2: Got my signature on it to it. You know, I

1065
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 2: got a good signature, bitch. Their hope is looking fly.

1066
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 2: But okay, back to the topic. I do feel like

1067
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 2: finances shouldn't come between friendship though, and I can say

1068
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 2: that I can attest for no, no financing.

1069
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: I feel like finances should come can come between any

1070
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: fucking relationship.

1071
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 2: No, I feel like it shouldn't because it now, if

1072
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 2: somebody is using you and they're doing the most, okay,

1073
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 2: I understand. But if it's like somebody's just not up

1074
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,320
Speaker 2: and you're and you're up and they're not up, and

1075
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 2: y'all be having conversations, they're letting you know.

1076
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: I just don't mind.

1077
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 2: Help, like because I used to be that person. So

1078
00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 2: I don't mind helping or doing what I can and

1079
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,359
Speaker 2: as long as they communicate with me. And one thing

1080
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 2: I can say for I have friends that make way

1081
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 2: more money than me, and I have friends that make

1082
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 2: way less than me. I feel like we all just

1083
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 2: it's a community. We all trying to figure shit out,

1084
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. But I think finances are

1085
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 2: tricky because if we would just communicate, none of this

1086
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 2: stuff would even exist.

1087
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 1: Open your mouth and talk not being embarrassed.

1088
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 2: I mean, I agree.

1089
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what I had said earlier too,

1090
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't really matter to me if somebody doesn't

1091
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: have money, like that's not gonna affect our friendship. It

1092
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:35,840
Speaker 1: won't affect our friendship until it's things like that, like

1093
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: feeling like you're using me, feeling like you're trying to

1094
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: be sneaky and get over you borrowing money and not

1095
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: giving it back. Because I consider myself a gracious a

1096
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: generous person too, like I have helped a lot of

1097
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:51,400
Speaker 1: people out over the years. But it's just like people

1098
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: be trying to take stuff for granted though, you know

1099
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 1: what I mean, And then that's when it can become

1100
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 1: an issue in relationship. That's why I said, I feel

1101
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: like finances can fuck up any relationship, whether it's a marriage,

1102
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:11,399
Speaker 1: a partnership, a business partnership, a friendship, a familyship, any

1103
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: of that.

1104
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 2: Shit, a schnittleship, It could fuck up any relationship.

1105
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 1: Because that's the number one reason. Money is one of

1106
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: the number one reason for every breakup across the board.

1107
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 1: When it comes to any relationship, that's one of the

1108
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 1: number one reasons people stop being friends, stop fucking with

1109
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 1: each other. It be over money because then two, when

1110
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: you start getting money, then sometimes people around you start

1111
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 1: feeling entitled to your money, and that's a whole nother time.

1112
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 2: Tell you something, you ain't tired of the shit around here.

1113
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 2: But I always made that very clear, even when I

1114
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 2: worked at Dreams and I had two dollars. You're not

1115
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 2: entitled to these wings, bitch. Don't come in here feeling

1116
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 2: like I'm finna give you no. I've always been that way.

1117
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 2: I draw boundaries.

1118
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: I mean you have to. I feel like that's important.

1119
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 1: You have to draw boundaries with people, because that's when

1120
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: people will try to take evan each of you, you know.

1121
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 1: And I say that from a place of like I

1122
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 1: didn't always draw boundaries with people. I feel like I

1123
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: always been the type of person. If I got it,

1124
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 1: you got it, Like that's always been the type of

1125
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 1: friend that I was, especially when I was younger, like

1126
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: now not so much. I mean, like, if you my

1127
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 1: friend and I fuck with you and I'm doing something

1128
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: and I know you can't pay, or I know you

1129
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: going through some shit, I'll pay your tab or I'll

1130
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,760
Speaker 1: help you out. But as far as just always across

1131
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 1: the board being like I gott e, I gotty, you

1132
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: would now absolutely, And that's well, yeah exactly. And if

1133
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: you're helping everybody out, how you gonna do that. That's

1134
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: why I said, sometimes you got to put people in position.

1135
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: We talked about these on the other episode.

1136
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 2: Circle Small, and that's just for a reason. Yeah, I

1137
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 2: don't need no Kelli bitches Aswing for my money.

1138
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: Okay, or no Orange Beaches.

1139
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 2: Or no or no Houston be nobody, none of you,

1140
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 2: none of you.

1141
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: Bet chess, not you think, because we ain't even ask

1142
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: you what you think.

1143
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 2: I hate.

1144
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: I like my group of friends were the ones that

1145
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: throw our cart in the middle. But I have had

1146
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 1: times in my life where I wasn't the you know,

1147
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 1: I wasn't in this position, and but I would be

1148
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 1: the one like you know, I came before I let

1149
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 1: people know I came before.

1150
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I ate before I came. I'm not in

1151
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 2: it type of thing.

1152
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: But I don't necessarily like to sit there and count everything.

1153
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, just don't come.

1154
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: I would rather just stay home and avoid the embarrassment,

1155
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: avoid any of that.

1156
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 2: And just keep it moving because it's the next one. Yeah,

1157
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna eat.

1158
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 1: I agree, Because then so even if you say you

1159
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: ate before you came, everybody gonna be like.

1160
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you give me, why would you stay your appetite?

1161
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,919
Speaker 1: You know if you know he was going, I'm about

1162
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: to soon, like, we can't be doing this dip and

1163
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, came.

1164
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Speaker 2: Centnaments touching your back.

1165
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1166
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Speaker 1: Okay, y'all. So for the band topic, I wanted to

1224
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: talk about if no for play is needy because I

1225
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: saw a tweet on Twitter and I had read tweeted

1226
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 1: it and it's so crazy because all I.

1227
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 2: Said was no, and he got a whole bunch of resweets.

1228
00:59:58,600 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 2: I guess the girls felt there.

1229
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: So the girl the original tweet, the girl was like,

1230
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: have y'all ever dated a man that was so fine

1231
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: and you was just so physically attracted to him X,

1232
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 1: Y and Z, you didn't need any for play? I said, No,

1233
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 1: never met a nigga the fine. I always need a

1234
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: little head, always always need my couchie scrade.

1235
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1236
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 1: So yeah, so it's like, excuse me, like, no, never

1237
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: met a nigga the fine?

1238
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 2: Ever?

1239
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 1: We need you need for play?

1240
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 2: I think that's.

1241
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 1: Essential when it comes to six. But that's just me now. Obviously,

1242
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: considering time restraints, you may not always have time for

1243
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: for a play, like you know what I mean, if

1244
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 1: you're trying to get a little quickie in before work

1245
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: or before you gotta go to an event church. Maybe

1246
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. If you're trying to get a little

1247
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 1: quickie in real quick then yeah, you might not have

1248
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: time off four play. But like just on a normal basis,

1249
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 1: me and this man don't never be doing four play

1250
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 1: because he's so fine like Cuci just with off the rip. No,

1251
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 1: mm hmmm, I need do be like that sometimes.

1252
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 2: But like a little quickie or a little having fun. Yeah,

1253
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 2: but I always I think. But honestly, I feel like

1254
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 2: it's weird as a woman or a man, whoever, whatever

1255
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 2: you like today, you don't like four play.

1256
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't like to build up. I think it's

1257
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 1: your all.

1258
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 2: Four play is a part of it.

1259
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: I don't know when you said that. I just started

1260
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: to thinking about it. Chris Brown, So he'd be like, beauty,

1261
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 1: because that's what.

1262
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 2: We're doing if we building up. Cause you got me

1263
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 2: fucked up, because what are we doing here?

1264
01:01:59,360 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 1: My love?

1265
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 2: Clearly not you ain't even.

1266
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: You not getting all.

1267
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 2: His love because he eating somebody somebody else coaching it.

1268
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 2: It ain't yours eating No, my coupe, you're not getting

1269
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 2: all that nigga love somebody else. Okay, Again, like I said,

1270
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 2: four play is a part of sex. If you are

1271
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 2: dealing with a man or a woman who is not

1272
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 2: going down on you, not caressing them, teles, I love

1273
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 2: a titty career. I love a titty caress. I love

1274
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 2: when a man just kissed me up around and round.

1275
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 2: Oh sorry, I love to you know, bring it on back. Yeah,

1276
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 2: you're right, you're right. I just feel like four play

1277
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 2: is a part of sex. So I think that is

1278
01:02:50,240 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 2: a little bit childish.

1279
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 1: Whoever tweeted that.

1280
01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 2: I bet you she's like in her twenties early and

1281
01:02:56,720 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 2: she was just trying to say something to im. She

1282
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 2: was trying to say, so I'm to impress the nigga

1283
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 2: that she fucking with who be watching her tweets, And

1284
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 2: she didn't expect Dre and Nicole to answer it and

1285
01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 2: respond to it. Well, I will say to young Cuccie,

1286
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:13,080
Speaker 2: be high so it'd be hot and ready.

1287
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: You really do. It's the person who once had.

1288
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 2: It could still be hot.

1289
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 1: Ch I mean, And it's not old, but it's older

1290
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,439
Speaker 1: like it's season. It's seasoned coochie now like back when

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Speaker 1: I was in my twenties, though it was young hot

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Speaker 1: in like my my early twenties, it was young, hot

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Speaker 1: and ready. Now when you be in your early twenties,

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Speaker 1: I will say it takes minimal effort. Yeah, it takes

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Speaker 1: wayless if to get you there. It's I mean, I

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Speaker 1: kind of get where she coming from. But even back then,

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Speaker 1: I used to be like, yo, open my legs.

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Speaker 2: Oh you thing, put the CATAMOUTI right there.

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Speaker 1: I had to think about it. That's why I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh but God like look, it was always like, so

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Speaker 1: what we're about to do?

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Speaker 2: I just like, rap that engine up. You never start

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Speaker 2: your car, just take off. You start your car, let

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Speaker 2: it rev up.

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Speaker 1: And what happened if your car weren't out of oil.

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Speaker 2: That bitch gonna break down.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna break down, might blow up. Hey oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: you absolutely always need four play. So ladies, stop letting

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Speaker 1: these niggas get away with not eating your kuchie.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I always have thought that was so weird when you

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Speaker 1: girls be like, oh.

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Speaker 2: I deal with a dude.

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Speaker 1: He don't eat my kucci though.

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Speaker 2: And why are you with it? If you see me

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Speaker 2: with a if you see me, if you see me,

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Speaker 2: no that he ate that thing up from the root

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Speaker 2: of touto.

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Speaker 1: Please know he eating fat?

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Speaker 2: Mind? Oh, full meal, full meal. Thanksgiving brunch bitch, but

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Speaker 2: off the bone, TI getting them neck bones and them

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Speaker 2: collar green stags.

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Speaker 1: But as a way, like what do you mean he

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Speaker 1: don't eat it?

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Speaker 2: Fo he beat it? It's such enough out of you

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Speaker 2: and Heath Cliff Way, you couldn't up. I'm not I'm chilling.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying I think that is after crazy. But

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Speaker 2: I mean it goes both ways too. Y'all gotta start

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Speaker 2: sucking that dick too. They do, y'all ain't giving y'all

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Speaker 2: y'all ain't sucking at dick good.

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Speaker 1: But I'm talking about like I used to know people

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Speaker 1: where they would be like, oh, I be sucking my

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Speaker 1: men like dick or whatever. But he don't eat my cucci.

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Speaker 2: Only time that happens if it's that time of the month.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean I feel like sometimes that will happen

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Speaker 1: in a relationship. Yeah, I'm talking about in general across

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Speaker 1: the board, like you always giving him head and then

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Speaker 1: he never give me.

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Speaker 2: Here I'm finning like remy Ma on that video and

1340
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Speaker 2: like I said, way that man.

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Speaker 1: Was giving her head while she was driving. No, remy Ma,

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Speaker 1: don't look at me. I didn't do that.

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Speaker 2: But why do you know A lot like it because

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Speaker 2: it was one of her It was a music I

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Speaker 2: got a reason, and the nigga was giving her head

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Speaker 2: in the video.

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Speaker 1: She was like, but it was obviously you're doing it

1348
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Speaker 1: for real. But the fact that it was even like

1349
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Speaker 2: Re me mine. He was like.

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Speaker 1: She was like, because you know that's.

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Speaker 2: What niggas do, not see m M.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I just always thought that was a crazy

1354
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Speaker 1: thing though, because like, if you get a hit here,

1355
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Speaker 1: he need to eat a little here.

1356
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Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. I really want to show you

1357
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Speaker 2: this clip now.

1358
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Speaker 1: I want to see the clip because I am intrigued.

1359
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I hope it comes up.

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Speaker 1: I wonder how pampoos feel. Oh oh, it's not the video.

1361
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1362
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Speaker 2: but this is a picture of it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead. It's the Bangs.

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Speaker 2: Did you.

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Speaker 1: One time?

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Speaker 2: And I didn't like it on me. I have a

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Speaker 1: It was way down, bro, It just was.

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Speaker 2: it just looked funny because I have a small forehead, Like,

1374
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Speaker 2: look at my forehead, it's not big, so even contour.

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Speaker 2: I don't contour my forehead anymore. You conter your forehead

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I contour my nose a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So Chinese bangs, I feel like, works on people with

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Speaker 2: like a your forehead and styles like that, but they

1387
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Speaker 1: Baby, the Chinese bang had me in a choke hold.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, I just had it. I need Oh, Nikki, Nikki,

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Speaker 1: tell me nothing. I had a Chinese bang. But what

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Speaker 1: they would be looking all stringy. Yeah, I hate a

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1503
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 2: Residuals is probably one of the best R and B

1504
01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 2: songs I've heard in a good like two three years.

1505
01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:53,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's a good song. It just what

1506
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:57,519
Speaker 1: it came out in the twenty twenty three. Yeah, it's

1507
01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 1: a good song, like a year old.

1508
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 2: And I'm like, have we ever said talking about this?

1509
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 1: No, we haven't, we haven't.

1510
01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:07,439
Speaker 2: We gotta I know, we said, let's get back to

1511
01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:10,160
Speaker 2: the beg and music that he's making, the bigger music

1512
01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:15,280
Speaker 2: that was getting all my love tell me who oh

1513
01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:18,320
Speaker 2: but I am, I'm I'm gonna you know, I gotta

1514
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:21,679
Speaker 2: give you a critique, Chris, I didn't like the video.

1515
01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 2: You should have been heading outside of somebody's house with

1516
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:29,640
Speaker 2: a boombox on your knees and crying. We needed a storyline.

1517
01:15:29,880 --> 01:15:32,760
Speaker 2: If we bring back storyline music videos. You remember how

1518
01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 2: Keith Sweat had no what was it? You know? You

1519
01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 2: want twisted? Do y'all remember the end when she was

1520
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 2: climbing the rail and she got struck by lightning and died.

1521
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 2: I know, y'all don't.

1522
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 1: Well, of course we don't. Leg because that song came

1523
01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 1: out in like nineteen ninety two and I was three,

1524
01:15:50,520 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, you don't even remember.

1525
01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:54,280
Speaker 2: You remember? That's how I told you about it.

1526
01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:58,519
Speaker 1: You remember because you probably seen it recent you want,

1527
01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:01,559
Speaker 1: I remember drew him in my bed at the end.

1528
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 2: She was a lesbian. He thought he was. She was

1529
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:04,479
Speaker 2: cheating with a.

1530
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 1: Man on lines in these music video ray J one wish.

1531
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:12,960
Speaker 1: That's how Chris Brown should have did it. Ray J

1532
01:16:13,120 --> 01:16:13,599
Speaker 1: got it right.

1533
01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:15,240
Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all.

1534
01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:21,160
Speaker 1: In that range was the one who he was for real.

1535
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:23,559
Speaker 2: That's how he be begging for suki.

1536
01:16:24,080 --> 01:16:26,639
Speaker 1: Did you know? Fun fact, this was about the lady

1537
01:16:26,720 --> 01:16:29,479
Speaker 1: they just passed away r I pizza, the young lady

1538
01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 1: from seven oh two. That was his girlfriend, did you know?

1539
01:16:32,680 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 1: I wish? Oh that was some hot tea.

1540
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:41,080
Speaker 2: Yes, I did not know that, but his girlfriend. But

1541
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:43,759
Speaker 2: the thing about Chris is he's such a big global artist.

1542
01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 2: You can remake the video. You still got time and

1543
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 2: we're gonna watch it.

1544
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:50,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, do it do it again, do it again, increase,

1545
01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:55,640
Speaker 1: do it again. We were not pleased. I'm playing it was.

1546
01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 2: It was a good video. I don't know she was

1547
01:16:57,320 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 2: about to say it was a good That's how you

1548
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 2: know he's about to get your perfer.

1549
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:03,599
Speaker 1: I was about because really I believe the song is good.

1550
01:17:03,640 --> 01:17:05,719
Speaker 1: But that's why I stopped myself because I'm like.

1551
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:10,160
Speaker 2: It's a good video because it had it highlighted from

1552
01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 2: his tour and it ended like with him and the girl,

1553
01:17:12,960 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 2: and you know, it was a good video. But I

1554
01:17:15,000 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 2: feel like, give us one more, give us a movie.

1555
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:19,960
Speaker 2: Remember how Michael Jackson did thriller?

1556
01:17:20,240 --> 01:17:24,599
Speaker 1: Give us some movie or what I'm not gonna say

1557
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 1: his name. Oh funk no.

1558
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:31,920
Speaker 2: About something right?

1559
01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:38,439
Speaker 1: That was a movie. That was a movie. It was

1560
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:40,040
Speaker 1: very I want to know.

1561
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:43,000
Speaker 2: I walk off.

1562
01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 1: I know you. Now you want me to be quiet?

1563
01:17:52,080 --> 01:17:57,080
Speaker 2: You know that? God damn it, we're not talking about

1564
01:17:57,080 --> 01:18:01,240
Speaker 2: that right now? All right, So your first segment of

1565
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:04,120
Speaker 2: the week, pour your heart out.

1566
01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:08,400
Speaker 1: Yes, if you have any questions testimonial, send them to

1567
01:18:08,439 --> 01:18:10,919
Speaker 1: ask for Minds at gmail dot com.

1568
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,360
Speaker 2: A S K P O U R M I N

1569
01:18:13,439 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 2: D S at gmail dot com. I'm sorry, real bad.

1570
01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:21,920
Speaker 1: He's only over there. What's that you know that meme

1571
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:30,520
Speaker 1: with that man when he takes the headphones, whole goddamn

1572
01:18:30,520 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 1: episode over there? Like how he needs to insert he

1573
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:36,840
Speaker 1: needs to insert that youth in the fucking video how

1574
01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:38,639
Speaker 1: people can see I'm.

1575
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:43,839
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm sorry. Okay, go ahead, okay. Question number one.

1576
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 1: And for guys in a relationship, it used to date him,

1577
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:50,479
Speaker 1: but you've decided to keep things friendly since he has

1578
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:53,880
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. You still hang out occasionally. He even gave

1579
01:18:53,920 --> 01:18:56,400
Speaker 1: you a birthday gift that seems a bit worn or

1580
01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:59,040
Speaker 1: like something he didn't spend money on. He says he

1581
01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:01,280
Speaker 1: can't find the receipt to exchange it, but I think

1582
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,760
Speaker 1: that's a lie. I don't mean to be ungrateful, but

1583
01:19:03,800 --> 01:19:05,840
Speaker 1: I still feel like bringing it up and don't know

1584
01:19:05,920 --> 01:19:08,960
Speaker 1: how this raise is a question should a guy in

1585
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 1: a committed relationship be giving gifts to another girl even

1586
01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 1: if they're just friends. During our time together, I always

1587
01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,599
Speaker 1: asked him to be honest if he was serious with anyone.

1588
01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:20,920
Speaker 1: Eventually I learned he was indeed serious, but he said

1589
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:23,200
Speaker 1: they weren't official yet, which meant he was involved with

1590
01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 1: both of us at the same time. She clearly has

1591
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,720
Speaker 1: no clue about this situation, but I'm left carrying the

1592
01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 1: weight of it, making it tough for me to maintain

1593
01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:35,400
Speaker 1: our friendship just knowing that it hurts. He apologized, But

1594
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:38,000
Speaker 1: is it just me or does knowing the person that

1595
01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 1: he was dating at the same time hit differently, especially

1596
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:44,120
Speaker 1: because he told me he wasn't. Now he's chilling all

1597
01:19:44,160 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 1: in love while I'm the one hurting trying to be

1598
01:19:46,479 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 1: his friend. I feel heartbroken because he's fine and not

1599
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 1: carrying any and not carrying any burden since she doesn't know. Meanwhile,

1600
01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:57,280
Speaker 1: I'm the one he lied to and I know, so

1601
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,840
Speaker 1: I have to carry the weight. I don't believe in

1602
01:19:59,840 --> 01:20:02,520
Speaker 1: go because it's been done to me and it's unhealthy.

1603
01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:06,240
Speaker 1: How can I let go peacefully? She's beyond Gorge's and

1604
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:08,920
Speaker 1: I am not on her level at all, which makes

1605
01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 1: me feel even worse. I just want to get over him.

1606
01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:16,360
Speaker 1: Any advice and help will be appreciated. Thank you, girls,

1607
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:24,479
Speaker 1: first of all, First and for motherfucking modes. Girl, if

1608
01:20:24,520 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 1: you don't leave that fucking nigga alone, you talk about

1609
01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:32,520
Speaker 1: ghosting him. We don't give a fun and a whole relationship.

1610
01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:36,280
Speaker 1: You can't go somebody that's in a relationship. You just

1611
01:20:36,360 --> 01:20:39,719
Speaker 1: need to block him and move on with your life.

1612
01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:42,720
Speaker 1: And yeah, I'm sure she cute or whatever, but I'm

1613
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 1: sure you cute too, And just because she's cute, that

1614
01:20:46,200 --> 01:20:48,519
Speaker 1: doesn't give him a reason to treat you the way

1615
01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:50,639
Speaker 1: he treated you and to lead you on the way

1616
01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:53,280
Speaker 1: that he led you on. That is not okay. He

1617
01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 1: is not a good person. He does not have good character,

1618
01:20:56,439 --> 01:20:58,479
Speaker 1: and that is why he does not deserve to remain

1619
01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 1: in your life. Then he gave you a gift that

1620
01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:05,800
Speaker 1: he probably gifted to somebody else or probably took back

1621
01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:08,720
Speaker 1: from somebody and gave it to you. Like, girl, he

1622
01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:12,439
Speaker 1: don't care about you at all, and you deserve so

1623
01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:16,600
Speaker 1: much better. Let him be, we sees because he chose to.

1624
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:20,599
Speaker 1: This is what I'm This is my advice. When somebody

1625
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 1: chose another person, let them lay in the bed with

1626
01:21:25,640 --> 01:21:29,040
Speaker 1: the decisions that they made. He made that decision, so

1627
01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:32,519
Speaker 1: he got a state of and then see it ain't

1628
01:21:32,560 --> 01:21:34,559
Speaker 1: no coming back to you now because he had a

1629
01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:37,760
Speaker 1: choice and he made his choice. Let him stay over there,

1630
01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 1: move on with your life, and girl, fuck him.

1631
01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:46,720
Speaker 2: Fuck that, nigga, fuck him. Let me play devil's advocates.

1632
01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 2: Fuck for that.

1633
01:21:47,560 --> 01:21:48,320
Speaker 1: Let me play.

1634
01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:50,200
Speaker 2: Devil's advocate for a minute, because I'm gonna tell you

1635
01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:54,599
Speaker 2: why you weak as fucked because you were talking to this.

1636
01:21:54,520 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 1: Man knowing he had a game.

1637
01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:59,280
Speaker 2: Eat my black beerry No, because I gotta be real

1638
01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:01,519
Speaker 2: with my ladies. For you were talking to this man

1639
01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:04,759
Speaker 2: knowing he had a situation, and you thought you thought

1640
01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:07,720
Speaker 2: you were finna come into this situation and he was

1641
01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:10,080
Speaker 2: gonna choose you or whatever the situation may be.

1642
01:22:10,600 --> 01:22:12,639
Speaker 1: Only for the letter to go on and you.

1643
01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:15,040
Speaker 2: Talking about she's so beautiful, She's so beautiful, And that's

1644
01:22:15,360 --> 01:22:18,840
Speaker 2: that's when I realized what it was. Right there a

1645
01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:21,799
Speaker 2: lot of men and women I'm gonna stay people in general,

1646
01:22:22,479 --> 01:22:26,000
Speaker 2: y'all don't have confidence about y'allselves, right, So y'all think

1647
01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 2: y'all gonna go in this situation with a man who's

1648
01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 2: dealing with or a woman who's dealing with a nigga

1649
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:32,280
Speaker 2: who got money, or a man who's dealing with a

1650
01:22:32,320 --> 01:22:36,200
Speaker 2: woman who's beautiful, and you feel like that'll raise your

1651
01:22:36,280 --> 01:22:40,519
Speaker 2: confidence up because I can take her nigga. I can like,

1652
01:22:40,640 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 2: for example, I can take Dre and the call I'm

1653
01:22:43,400 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 2: on a date and I'm chilling with Dre and the

1654
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:49,599
Speaker 2: cold nigga, only for him still to be like, oh,

1655
01:22:49,640 --> 01:22:52,560
Speaker 2: I'm not leaving Dre and the cold. So your intentions

1656
01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:54,719
Speaker 2: were wrong from the get go. Anyway, you were using

1657
01:22:54,720 --> 01:22:57,320
Speaker 2: this situation, what it sounds like to me, to boost

1658
01:22:57,400 --> 01:23:00,800
Speaker 2: up your confidence because you felt better about going on

1659
01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:03,800
Speaker 2: a day or hanging out with a man. Oh, you

1660
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 2: sounds like you looking up to his girl. You don't

1661
01:23:06,960 --> 01:23:08,960
Speaker 2: want him, You wanted to match what his girl had

1662
01:23:09,040 --> 01:23:09,439
Speaker 2: going on.

1663
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:13,600
Speaker 1: Well for will to be fair, she said, when she

1664
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:16,200
Speaker 1: started dating him, she did not know he had a girl.

1665
01:23:16,320 --> 01:23:18,759
Speaker 1: She asked him to be honest, and he wasn't being honest.

1666
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:22,240
Speaker 2: But once you found out, you decided to feel hauled.

1667
01:23:22,280 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 1: Asked after that though, once you found out, you stuck there.

1668
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:27,320
Speaker 2: Not only did you stick there, you went and snooped

1669
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:30,320
Speaker 2: and found out who his girl was. And I'm not

1670
01:23:30,439 --> 01:23:33,439
Speaker 2: mad at you for that, but you started putting yourself

1671
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:36,120
Speaker 2: in the competition with this girl who doesn't probably even

1672
01:23:36,160 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 2: know you exist. She don't, she said, And that's what

1673
01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:41,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. We have got to stop doing that to

1674
01:23:41,160 --> 01:23:43,519
Speaker 2: each other as women. I don't give a fuck if

1675
01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:47,080
Speaker 2: she looked like Tommy Pickles. Bitch you when a man

1676
01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 2: tells you he's dealing with somebody.

1677
01:23:48,800 --> 01:23:53,800
Speaker 1: Leaves Tommy Pickles as well, three hairs.

1678
01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:59,360
Speaker 2: Ok the ball bitches be puling. Okay, okay, okay, he

1679
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:01,599
Speaker 2: got it. That's all I got to say, girl, but

1680
01:24:01,680 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 2: move on crazy.

1681
01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:09,439
Speaker 1: Okay, next question, this is mine?

1682
01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:12,840
Speaker 2: Right, m hm Okay, Hey ladies. So I've been dating

1683
01:24:12,840 --> 01:24:15,880
Speaker 2: this guy for the past two years. We've recently talked

1684
01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:19,120
Speaker 2: about getting more serious marriage and kids over the last

1685
01:24:19,200 --> 01:24:22,000
Speaker 2: few months. One day, we were having a conversation and

1686
01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 2: he decided to share something with me that he thought

1687
01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:27,679
Speaker 2: I should know so I wouldn't be blindsided. He shared

1688
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:30,559
Speaker 2: that he made a mistake and slept with his cousin,

1689
01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 2: who isn't really his cousin by blood or marriage. She

1690
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:36,880
Speaker 2: was adopted into the family, shut out to Dreana Cole.

1691
01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:40,559
Speaker 2: He felt I should know because she might be around

1692
01:24:40,600 --> 01:24:44,200
Speaker 2: at family events from time to time and he wanted

1693
01:24:44,240 --> 01:24:47,439
Speaker 2: to be transparent. He reassured me that there was no

1694
01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:50,360
Speaker 2: feelings between them and that it only happened once on

1695
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:53,800
Speaker 2: a drunk night when she came on to him. I

1696
01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:56,439
Speaker 2: was really shocked and upset because it's not like an

1697
01:24:56,479 --> 01:24:59,800
Speaker 2: ex that I'll never see again. This is a relative

1698
01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:02,000
Speaker 2: who I could be in the same room with from

1699
01:25:02,160 --> 01:25:05,640
Speaker 2: time to time. Am I overreacting? Would you want to

1700
01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:06,960
Speaker 2: know if you were in the same room as one

1701
01:25:06,960 --> 01:25:10,639
Speaker 2: of your eskimo's sisters? Would you tell a guy you're dating,

1702
01:25:10,680 --> 01:25:14,800
Speaker 2: if he just shook hands with one of your exes, yeah,

1703
01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:19,280
Speaker 2: I would, I go on, motherfuckers, he did right, Yeah he.

1704
01:25:19,240 --> 01:25:23,880
Speaker 1: Did right by telling you that. But I mean, first

1705
01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:28,280
Speaker 1: of all, this wildest fuck because what how you accidentally

1706
01:25:28,360 --> 01:25:30,960
Speaker 1: sleep with your cause how was adopted? But how was

1707
01:25:31,000 --> 01:25:34,639
Speaker 1: that an accident? Like he didn't know when he slept

1708
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:37,120
Speaker 1: with her? Or did he already know she was adopted

1709
01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:40,280
Speaker 1: your cousin and then he slept with her? Anyways, maybe

1710
01:25:40,280 --> 01:25:41,240
Speaker 1: on a drunken night.

1711
01:25:41,840 --> 01:25:43,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, because that's what I want to know.

1712
01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 1: We did a part two sit as another email in

1713
01:25:49,280 --> 01:26:01,599
Speaker 1: put part two I don't know scandal Eskimo Gate put

1714
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:07,240
Speaker 1: that so anyways, likes, I was saying, how do you

1715
01:26:07,320 --> 01:26:09,400
Speaker 1: accidentally sleep with show cousin? But that ain't the point

1716
01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:13,519
Speaker 1: of the question. I would want to know absolutely. I

1717
01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:16,040
Speaker 1: don't know if I would keep talking to a dude

1718
01:26:16,080 --> 01:26:18,120
Speaker 1: that admitted to me that he slipped with his cousin.

1719
01:26:18,920 --> 01:26:22,840
Speaker 2: That's not what she asked, bitch, that's not what she asked.

1720
01:26:23,040 --> 01:26:26,719
Speaker 1: No, I'm just silly. You ain't gotta ask why it's

1721
01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:32,599
Speaker 1: free this one on the house. I don't know if

1722
01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:35,320
Speaker 1: I always still deal with somebody you told me to

1723
01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:36,840
Speaker 1: tay slip with their goods.

1724
01:26:36,479 --> 01:26:39,599
Speaker 2: But I do believe. Let me tell you something. When

1725
01:26:39,640 --> 01:26:43,000
Speaker 2: I walk in the room, it ain't no nigga that

1726
01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:46,280
Speaker 2: can walk up to my man and be like, yeah,

1727
01:26:46,320 --> 01:26:51,799
Speaker 2: he already knows. And that's why it's just gotta carry

1728
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 2: yourself because anybody in my past, it ain't no man

1729
01:26:55,960 --> 01:26:58,840
Speaker 2: even comfortable enough to walk up to my man on

1730
01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:03,200
Speaker 2: some shit about me either anyway. So he did the

1731
01:27:03,280 --> 01:27:06,040
Speaker 2: right thing by letting you know. But in case you

1732
01:27:06,160 --> 01:27:09,519
Speaker 2: try something funny. So I think it's very important if

1733
01:27:09,520 --> 01:27:12,280
Speaker 2: you're gonna be in a situation where your man or

1734
01:27:12,320 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 2: you're a woman is gonna be in the room with

1735
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:17,760
Speaker 2: an Eskimo sister, because men and women both be trying

1736
01:27:17,800 --> 01:27:20,519
Speaker 2: to be cute and her, Oh oh, I see you

1737
01:27:21,520 --> 01:27:22,200
Speaker 2: keep it cute.

1738
01:27:23,160 --> 01:27:24,120
Speaker 1: I see you too, bitch.

1739
01:27:24,280 --> 01:27:25,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I see you too, bitch. And I know and

1740
01:27:25,840 --> 01:27:28,200
Speaker 2: guess where he at because it wasn't fat, juicy and

1741
01:27:28,240 --> 01:27:29,280
Speaker 2: wet shout out to Bruno.

1742
01:27:31,680 --> 01:27:38,519
Speaker 1: Yo, that's what you need. The title part too, faith.

1743
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:42,040
Speaker 2: Cousin fact, So no, you're not overreacting, but he did

1744
01:27:42,080 --> 01:27:44,600
Speaker 2: the right thing. And yes, I would want to know

1745
01:27:44,640 --> 01:27:46,599
Speaker 2: if I'm in the same room as an Eskimo suits

1746
01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:49,960
Speaker 2: because don't be in my face, like, hey girl, you

1747
01:27:50,040 --> 01:27:56,400
Speaker 2: look staircared. I'll be like, bitch, yeah, keep your distance.

1748
01:27:56,400 --> 01:27:57,679
Speaker 2: You ain't gotta speak to me. Booth.

1749
01:27:58,080 --> 01:28:00,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't even gotta do all it. It's just

1750
01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:03,680
Speaker 1: so exy trying to be fun so unnecessary they.

1751
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:05,519
Speaker 2: Be trying to be funny. I don't know. I've never

1752
01:28:05,600 --> 01:28:06,080
Speaker 2: been in it.

1753
01:28:06,200 --> 01:28:08,840
Speaker 1: I've never been in a situation like this. I haven't

1754
01:28:08,880 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 1: either where I've had to like be around somebody or

1755
01:28:11,320 --> 01:28:16,960
Speaker 1: be friendly with somebody, did like only like a sister.

1756
01:28:16,720 --> 01:28:18,800
Speaker 2: If it was like it was a dude in our past,

1757
01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:23,800
Speaker 2: and we're like it's funny, like girl, yeah, yeah, laugh

1758
01:28:23,880 --> 01:28:27,719
Speaker 2: at but yeah, so yeah girl. Make sure y'all email

1759
01:28:27,840 --> 01:28:31,559
Speaker 2: us ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. And I

1760
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 2: hope y'all enjoyed this episode. I'm just so excited. We

1761
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:37,160
Speaker 2: have so much in store for y'all. Yes, we do.

1762
01:28:37,320 --> 01:28:41,120
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all shop music Beauty Collection dot com. Make

1763
01:28:41,160 --> 01:28:43,400
Speaker 1: sure you subscribe to my YouTube dra and a call

1764
01:28:43,479 --> 01:28:49,000
Speaker 1: with three e's, And yes, y'all, make sure you subscribe

1765
01:28:49,080 --> 01:28:53,120
Speaker 1: to love lix p and do that next week period

1766
01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:53,839
Speaker 1: by y'all.

1767
01:28:53,920 --> 01:28:58,679
Speaker 2: Y'all, make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow

1768
01:28:58,800 --> 01:29:00,559
Speaker 2: all that good stuff. And let me say before we

1769
01:29:00,600 --> 01:29:04,640
Speaker 2: close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that is

1770
01:29:04,680 --> 01:29:05,799
Speaker 2: connected to poor Minds.

1771
01:29:05,800 --> 01:29:06,400
Speaker 1: It's p O.

1772
01:29:06,600 --> 01:29:11,160
Speaker 2: You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the

1773
01:29:11,200 --> 01:29:14,479
Speaker 2: wrong poor Minds page. If you see at poor minds

1774
01:29:14,479 --> 01:29:16,600
Speaker 2: with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not

1775
01:29:16,720 --> 01:29:20,800
Speaker 2: follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea and the

1776
01:29:20,800 --> 01:29:25,280
Speaker 2: pour minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram,

1777
01:29:25,360 --> 01:29:29,519
Speaker 2: one Twitter, one TikTok. It is p O, you are

1778
01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:31,240
Speaker 2: underscore in my nds, all.

1779
01:29:31,240 --> 01:29:34,240
Speaker 1: Right, And we got a hell a fake Facebook page

1780
01:29:34,360 --> 01:29:37,559
Speaker 1: on the Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing

1781
01:29:37,680 --> 01:29:41,479
Speaker 1: is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of fileput.

1782
01:29:41,040 --> 01:29:43,640
Speaker 2: So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the

1783
01:29:43,720 --> 01:29:44,400
Speaker 2: least amount of.

1784
01:29:44,400 --> 01:29:47,040
Speaker 1: File, but one that's not us got like two hundred

1785
01:29:47,080 --> 01:29:47,759
Speaker 1: and fifty thousand.

1786
01:29:47,800 --> 01:29:50,120
Speaker 2: Y'all, make if you actually look at the content because

1787
01:29:50,160 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 2: the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English,

1788
01:29:53,120 --> 01:29:55,920
Speaker 2: because their capches are like bumba clad? Should men?

1789
01:29:56,040 --> 01:29:57,160
Speaker 1: Should men pay bill?

1790
01:29:58,320 --> 01:29:59,320
Speaker 2: Should men pay bill?

1791
01:29:59,479 --> 01:29:59,719
Speaker 1: Yes?

1792
01:29:59,760 --> 01:30:03,400
Speaker 2: No check answer below block block.

1793
01:30:06,040 --> 01:30:08,720
Speaker 1: Like that's literally with the captions. I'm like, what that

1794
01:30:08,840 --> 01:30:15,440
Speaker 1: d bumba claud claud la la la la La La

1795
01:30:15,640 --> 01:30:19,000
Speaker 1: La La La la la la la.

1796
01:30:20,520 --> 01:30:21,559
Speaker 2: La lo la.

1797
01:30:23,640 --> 01:30:27,639
Speaker 1: A bus this part now, sipsy off this book car

1798
01:30:28,400 --> 01:30:33,280
Speaker 1: about to take this fight so high, say bye bye.

1799
01:30:34,080 --> 01:30:38,120
Speaker 1: We're been here all right now. My girl like, hey,

1800
01:30:38,280 --> 01:30:43,880
Speaker 1: that's my song because I'm feeling fine, so fine, so fine.

1801
01:30:44,400 --> 01:30:47,880
Speaker 3: All the girls I feel me say oh yeah, hell

1802
01:30:48,040 --> 01:30:54,960
Speaker 3: you hear me say oh yeah, good, great, great, don't hate,

1803
01:30:55,120 --> 01:30:58,960
Speaker 3: don't hate the fells feeling you say oh yeah, like

1804
01:30:59,200 --> 01:31:03,320
Speaker 3: and what should you say? Oh yeah good, feeling good, great,

1805
01:31:03,400 --> 01:31:05,360
Speaker 3: feeling girl, look good, look good?

1806
01:31:05,520 --> 01:31:08,760
Speaker 1: Don't hey oh hey? Oh my girls with your hair

1807
01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:12,519
Speaker 1: figs and your nails done, put your hands up and say.

1808
01:31:12,520 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 5: Okay okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, get another one?

1809
01:31:20,800 --> 01:31:21,760
Speaker 1: What it pay for it?

1810
01:31:22,160 --> 01:31:23,080
Speaker 2: But it any air?

1811
01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:28,600
Speaker 5: Say okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

1812
01:31:28,640 --> 01:31:34,879
Speaker 6: Okay, your hands out on my booty to stepping my guccie,

1813
01:31:35,439 --> 01:31:39,360
Speaker 6: And they're like, goga, go go go go.

1814
01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:46,080
Speaker 2: I like the way are shaky? You wanna see me naked?

1815
01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:49,280
Speaker 1: It could be you're not, You're not.

1816
01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:52,360
Speaker 2: You'll know the girls the.

1817
01:31:52,439 --> 01:31:55,600
Speaker 1: Feel me say oh yeah the club you hear me

1818
01:31:55,760 --> 01:31:58,479
Speaker 1: say you're good feeling good.

1819
01:31:59,240 --> 01:32:02,800
Speaker 2: Feeling girl, the.

1820
01:32:02,920 --> 01:32:06,400
Speaker 1: Sail is feeling you say oh yeah, like and what

1821
01:32:06,680 --> 01:32:11,040
Speaker 1: your do say? Oh yeah, feeling good? Goodling great, I

1822
01:32:11,120 --> 01:32:15,760
Speaker 1: look good good. Don't hat my girls, with your hair

1823
01:32:15,960 --> 01:32:19,519
Speaker 1: fixed and your nails done, put your hands up and say.

1824
01:32:19,560 --> 01:32:27,360
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, drink, get another.

1825
01:32:27,120 --> 01:32:29,720
Speaker 1: One, make them pay for it, put it in the

1826
01:32:29,840 --> 01:32:30,559
Speaker 1: air and say.

1827
01:32:30,640 --> 01:32:35,560
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

1828
01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:38,160
Speaker 2: It's happening. Shorty. I'm Suan Paul.

1829
01:32:38,280 --> 01:32:40,600
Speaker 1: Let me hogh lash you. What I gotta do is

1830
01:32:40,680 --> 01:32:43,000
Speaker 1: go a couple of dollars that se by my arm,

1831
01:32:43,040 --> 01:32:45,439
Speaker 1: show my wrists, tell your dad I all pick you

1832
01:32:45,600 --> 01:32:48,080
Speaker 1: up and be take you to the malin all. Here's

1833
01:32:48,120 --> 01:32:50,400
Speaker 1: my number shot in case you want some street frame,

1834
01:32:50,720 --> 01:32:53,120
Speaker 1: look me up. I introduced you to the street game.

1835
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:57,000
Speaker 2: Hey, you be my sweet thing. I love it side.

1836
01:32:57,000 --> 01:33:00,479
Speaker 1: I love your nails and your tight jeans collar play baby,

1837
01:33:00,600 --> 01:33:03,320
Speaker 1: how you love that? A young love? Feeling good and

1838
01:33:03,439 --> 01:33:07,439
Speaker 1: never laid back, running with that goosey, never kneyag and

1839
01:33:07,560 --> 01:33:09,920
Speaker 1: keep my ears to the streets. Is that's where home met.

1840
01:33:11,760 --> 01:33:16,920
Speaker 2: Throw a drinker, throw your hands over fellas that you

1841
01:33:17,000 --> 01:33:19,320
Speaker 2: know we like to get crab, like to see in

1842
01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:23,640
Speaker 2: that for me. Now, Storm, get your hair fixed and

1843
01:33:23,760 --> 01:33:24,599
Speaker 2: your nail done.

1844
01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:26,040
Speaker 1: Get her hands up and.

1845
01:33:26,080 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 5: Say okay okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

1846
01:33:32,000 --> 01:33:35,800
Speaker 1: Gotta drink, get another one, make him pay for it.

1847
01:33:36,240 --> 01:33:37,599
Speaker 2: Put in They ever say.

1848
01:33:37,680 --> 01:33:43,120
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

1849
01:33:44,040 --> 01:33:47,920
Speaker 2: Man, shout out to Nia. That's a fucking pop.

1850
01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:52,280
Speaker 1: They stick like grigs.

1851
01:33:55,400 --> 01:33:59,960
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

1852
01:34:01,280 --> 01:34:03,840
Speaker 1: Yeah it is.

1853
01:34:07,600 --> 01:34:10,880
Speaker 2: Is it