Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.
Speaker 1: She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the
Speaker 1: man of the house, and of course.
Speaker 2: She didn't talk back. She was both.
Speaker 3: Obedient and soft by nature.
Speaker 2: She was a good woman who always made good choices.
Speaker 4: That ship, we're good mom's bad choices to single mom,
Speaker 4: who said, but the patriarchy you shared all.
Speaker 5: Their bad choices and sound out. They weren't so bad.
Speaker 5: After all, we're experts overhairs and your new bestie, sit
Speaker 5: back and I can do a pa. I can do
Speaker 5: all on.
Speaker 2: Mine a lot of time.
Speaker 5: As you guys wish we were doing. I think he
Speaker 5: was a wish we were doing.
Speaker 2: Get drunk kissing on each other. Not really. They ain't
Speaker 2: got a count because Aunt, we don't.
Speaker 6: I can't think of the little any time many of
Speaker 6: our friends have gone out god drunk and kiss on
Speaker 6: each other. We'll do geh with this gay shit to
Speaker 6: men because we're like, I want to take a let's
Speaker 6: take a bath, let's take a shower together, and there's
Speaker 6: no sky ship.
Speaker 5: Happening, but we're just existing her.
Speaker 6: No, I seen bitches get drunk and kill make out
Speaker 6: with each other when you're your twenties.
Speaker 2: No, man, recently, I mean maybe maybe maybe yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe you're fucking twenty nineteen.
Speaker 2: I ain't witnessed. This is in my life, real adult.
Speaker 6: Exactly because bitches get over that road. Yeah, bitches get
Speaker 6: over that like they aren't making out. Bitch, let's go.
Speaker 5: I'm going home, Like, yeah, I know, I know. So
Speaker 5: many niggas ask us this, So what happened? Guys have
Speaker 5: a bigg orgy?
Speaker 6: No, no, which I'll just be like crying and ship laughing, crying, existing,
Speaker 6: skinny dipping.
Speaker 2: That's tight eating good.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 7: Niggas can't have retreats like that because like it would
Speaker 7: be too closed off.
Speaker 6: But that's why they need retreats like this, so they
Speaker 6: feel like it's actually the time in the history that
Speaker 6: now is.
Speaker 5: A fucking it's actually super necessary that they war.
Speaker 8: Wait, let's start historically.
Speaker 5: No, that's not.
Speaker 6: Like this is my brother I rejected that you kill
Speaker 6: you have the murder together and for us to okay.
Speaker 5: We're gonna have to change. You might need to serve retreat.
Speaker 8: Okay, it's a retreat war.
Speaker 6: You might need to might need to serve retreat because
Speaker 6: war is to take over.
Speaker 4: I mean you can include some violence at the retreat.
Speaker 6: Maybe once you can shop down some trees violently, that's
Speaker 6: what I mean, make a wood fire.
Speaker 7: I'll never seeing what the white dudes be going in
Speaker 7: the woods, no offense, engineer, white dudess be going.
Speaker 5: It's been with us for many years, don't you know.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying you gotta let know so you don't
Speaker 2: feel single out.
Speaker 7: You know how the white dudes be going in the
Speaker 7: woods with each other, be like alpha man retreat.
Speaker 2: They be like, I am a man.
Speaker 8: You see.
Speaker 2: I go out there and control all.
Speaker 5: These niggas, shoot some ship up.
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, y'all do what I say. From for
Speaker 2: the next two weeks.
Speaker 7: That what they really be doing to get their ross off,
Speaker 7: Like they just be controlling these wimpy niggas.
Speaker 6: But it depends if the person going there to lead
Speaker 6: is wanting to be the controller or they want to
Speaker 6: control so that they can give the control back to
Speaker 6: the men to feel emotionally safe.
Speaker 7: All right, we got a long way to got.
Speaker 5: You ready, David. Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.
Speaker 5: I'm Erica and I'm Nila. Happy hump Day, bitches, Happy
Speaker 5: motherfucking hemp Day. We're back with another episode of Us
Speaker 5: in Our Girl.
Speaker 4: Cave, except we're joined by a man in.
Speaker 6: Our cave, a man that I have personally stalked very
Speaker 6: closely since since I discovered him, and I've been manifesting
Speaker 6: this personally.
Speaker 5: I said, when he comes to LA, He's coming on
Speaker 5: our couch, and I'm so happy and so proud of him,
Speaker 5: even though he doesn't know me from a Canna paint,
Speaker 5: but I know him and so do you. So today
Speaker 5: we have the one, the only, Deontay Kyle from the
Speaker 5: Grits and Eggs podcast.
Speaker 8: We're here, Welcome, You're here, we are.
Speaker 4: She has sent me many of your videos many a
Speaker 4: time and said, we must have him.
Speaker 5: He's so smart. He's so smart telling the people he's
Speaker 5: black power. We need him on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody tell me. It was like, you'll enjoy him.
Speaker 2: So I was like, all.
Speaker 6: Right, I trust I know he's trying to like, what
Speaker 6: the fuck are these mom's bad choices?
Speaker 5: When I was on the show, I'm like, I.
Speaker 7: Just want to know what, Like, you know, y'all good minds,
Speaker 7: y'all made bad choices. It's like some real human shit.
Speaker 5: It's very human.
Speaker 6: Yes, we're very human and you know what, I think women,
Speaker 6: especially black women, really need spaces where we can feel
Speaker 6: human around black men because I think there's been a
Speaker 6: lot of tying up and you know.
Speaker 5: Avatars we've had to wear.
Speaker 6: So this is I'm happy that you see us as
Speaker 6: human and when you saw our title, you weren't scared
Speaker 6: away because many people are.
Speaker 2: You know, Dad has made bad choices too.
Speaker 4: Speaking bad choices, Have you made any bad choices this week?
Speaker 4: Bad Mom not a bad mom, but a bad mom.
Speaker 2: So good probably you know what I'm saying. It's just a.
Speaker 8: Cyclical, that's cyclical.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're always making bad you know, you.
Speaker 5: Know, just like even our name.
Speaker 4: But good Mom's bad choices is you know, bad choices
Speaker 4: are subjective, right, like some bad choices, like me, smoking
Speaker 4: weed is not a bad choice. That's a great choice
Speaker 4: for me, but for some people they'd be like, that's
Speaker 4: a bad choice. Doesn't necessarily have to be a bad choice.
Speaker 7: I got on Patreon stream and not the whole ship?
Speaker 2: Did you knock over the whole computer?
Speaker 5: Did you did you get to did you get that episode?
Speaker 2: Or is it gone?
Speaker 6: I mean it was a stream so cut off right
Speaker 6: at that moment the end of it what would you
Speaker 6: drink Onny?
Speaker 5: Hey, I'm gonna say, what, what's your drinking choice?
Speaker 2: It's not handy. I've been trying to do too much tequila.
Speaker 5: Why tequila doesn't make you good? Man?
Speaker 2: I just feel like.
Speaker 7: June teenth summertime. Niggas gotta get back on the honey man.
Speaker 7: He's been getting real boogie ever since we've been drinking
Speaker 7: okay roots, Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying, a
Speaker 7: little gresson.
Speaker 4: You know, I discovered yesterday there's like a Henny rita,
Speaker 4: like a henrita.
Speaker 5: Yeah that niggas been drinking Henny Rida is for. Sometimes
Speaker 5: they're pre mixed.
Speaker 4: Oh it's pretty bye Hennis. Yes, by Hennessy. They have
Speaker 4: pre mixed margarita mixed. They made that for because people
Speaker 4: are lazy. They don't even want fresh agreed. They just
Speaker 4: said put it in the bottle favors. Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh that's what they was wrong. That's they little
Speaker 2: rollout with them, three different.
Speaker 5: Three different You saw them? Did you try it?
Speaker 2: No? Where?
Speaker 5: Did you see at the store?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 5: Damn Now, I'm no I want to Yeah, it's just real.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's nasty, man. Just make your own honey reader man.
Speaker 5: So what you put in a honey reader, you be
Speaker 5: more specific, learn juice.
Speaker 8: Whatever, the simple whatever.
Speaker 2: But basically the margarita with Hennessy instead of I'm.
Speaker 5: A real nigga. You know what I like with Hennessey
Speaker 5: apple juice or apple cider splash, and it's like a
Speaker 5: drinks sweet tea. I have had the sweet teet. That's
Speaker 5: good too, That's that's top not.
Speaker 4: But I like tequila apple juice to tequila, like apple.
Speaker 5: Juice with all the liquors are I think because we're
Speaker 5: from l A, we're tequila bitches.
Speaker 4: Our inception of drinking is tequila. My inception of drinking
Speaker 4: was not tequila. Was always drink was sa me too.
Speaker 4: My inception was a vodka and Red Bulls.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, Actually, I just had a flashback. I
Speaker 6: was probably thirteen, but Lord Jeus was vodka and and Baccardi. Remember,
Speaker 6: Oh my god, Wait, did you ever have popov?
Speaker 4: That was a cheap, cheap pop off. Now that's that
Speaker 4: cheap cheap underge you remember it was?
Speaker 2: It was just one called Avana Bitch. I never had
Speaker 2: Havana Bitch, big Cat. That's the name of it. Havana Bitch.
Speaker 5: The vodka, he said, No, he don't know what you're
Speaker 5: talking about.
Speaker 2: I used to be hanging with these young ladies.
Speaker 5: And you want to say white girls, I like my life.
Speaker 2: They ain't trying to catch charge white women.
Speaker 5: I forgot You're you're in Georgia this time.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: Nah, But this was like their little go to ship.
Speaker 7: He was some turned up as girls like like Nissan
Speaker 7: awesomer type girl.
Speaker 2: We just turned to turn. They used to be drinking
Speaker 2: at Vanna, bitch.
Speaker 6: That's why we learned very quickly to retire vodka because
Speaker 6: we couldn't have lasted this long drinking.
Speaker 5: We would have been dead.
Speaker 2: And that should make you aggressive.
Speaker 5: Yeah, vodka is aggressed.
Speaker 4: I was because I have a drinking the Red Bull,
Speaker 4: Oh god, red Bull and the five hour energy bitch,
Speaker 4: oh bit, that's insane, all right.
Speaker 5: I was on crack, are you okay? Yeah?
Speaker 4: It's probably why I don't like coke that much, because
Speaker 4: I already did it hardcore.
Speaker 5: Red Bull and five hour Energy in vodka is crashed.
Speaker 5: I know, I'm a recovered crackage. That's heart. Twenty years ago, Doc,
Speaker 5: I was going crazy.
Speaker 4: Yes, I graduated, I did.
Speaker 5: I did graduate, Sequila. I felt more mature. I've been
Speaker 5: drinking Patron for a long time, since I was like sixteen,
Speaker 5: and it's still never fails.
Speaker 7: I saw the bottle of Patron for my neighbor on
Speaker 7: my eighteenth birthday and got turned turned in the daytime.
Speaker 5: Oh god, only I can't do that now. Daytime drinking sundown.
Speaker 5: It's over. I'm not going anywhere after this. I'm just
Speaker 5: to be careful with what kind of tequila drink.
Speaker 4: Because I was talking to my baby daddy the other
Speaker 4: day and he was telling me about the story that
Speaker 4: we have different recollection of, and it was I drank
Speaker 4: a bottle of ed and apparently I punched in the
Speaker 4: face while he was sleeping. He told me this story
Speaker 4: that I punched him in the face while he was
Speaker 4: in that part by Mexico. Yeah, but I did punched
Speaker 4: him in the face while he was sleep.
Speaker 5: You said, you show it. You guys got faught and
Speaker 5: tore up the hotel. We did, but I don't recall him.
Speaker 4: He said he was in the hammock restfully sleeping and
Speaker 4: I punched him in the face.
Speaker 5: Oh my, that reminds me of bad choices.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 5: Game three of the Knicks.
Speaker 6: I went to drink with my husband, and we were
Speaker 6: drinking tequila and I was drinking Lallo, which is preservative free.
Speaker 6: But I think at some point people switched over the
Speaker 6: shots and I was fine, and then I was not fine.
Speaker 6: And he said that we were in the car and
Speaker 6: that I hit him close fist while he was driving.
Speaker 6: I said that's not true. He said, yes it was.
Speaker 6: And then two minutes later, you said. He said, why'd
Speaker 6: you do that? And I said no, I did it,
Speaker 6: and then he said that I proceeded to start speaking
Speaker 6: Spanish and I haven't been blacked out drunk in years,
Speaker 6: so I was like, I'm sorry. And then I remember
Speaker 6: going back to the house, and I remember when I
Speaker 6: came back because we were having sex.
Speaker 5: And then before he went to oc.
Speaker 4: Feld, he sent back to reality. I came back to reality.
Speaker 6: I had missed like several hours, and then he came
Speaker 6: back and we were having sex and I was like, oh,
Speaker 6: this is fine. And then he looked at me and said,
Speaker 6: I'm about to go to work, but I want you
Speaker 6: to know you blacked out tonight and you punched me
Speaker 6: in my face.
Speaker 5: And I was like, what are you talking about. He's like, yes,
Speaker 5: you did. I was like, I don't recall that.
Speaker 2: So because you're married, what do you mean because it is.
Speaker 4: Great, but also what do you mean like blackout having sex,
Speaker 4: like like it potentially couldn't have been consensual.
Speaker 2: I mean she woke up.
Speaker 6: I don't think I can get and I think that, yeah,
Speaker 6: because I'm married. Because I'm married, it's okay.
Speaker 5: And I don't think he realized how drug I was
Speaker 5: because I didn't eat anyway at this big age.
Speaker 6: No, but but I've had a lot of blacked out
Speaker 6: sex that I did not I was not okay with.
Speaker 6: So when he said that to me, I was like,
Speaker 6: oh god, my trauma's returning to my body.
Speaker 5: I am very sorry.
Speaker 9: Y' no, sir, non violent, vulneraball just two weeks ago
Speaker 9: you just said I said that.
Speaker 5: Was a year. I said, I haven't. I don't recalled that.
Speaker 2: I don't mean it's that's very convenient.
Speaker 6: I think the next day he was like, look at
Speaker 6: my lip, and I was like, I don't see ship.
Speaker 6: There was not a fucking mark.
Speaker 5: He was lying. He's like, I bled. I said, now
Speaker 5: you're really fucking lying because there's not a rip skin anyway.
Speaker 5: We are no longer violent. That happened. I don't remember it.
Speaker 5: It didn't happen.
Speaker 2: It didn't and that's crazy. You know that that ship
Speaker 2: don't work.
Speaker 5: I also was like that this is true, Spirits, because
Speaker 5: I was speaking Spanish. I don't remember. I was like,
Speaker 5: I was like, tell me more about this person that
Speaker 5: you experienced. Yeah, but I would.
Speaker 6: I'm very proud to say I have not been blacked
Speaker 6: out drunk and many many, many many years speaking of
Speaker 6: svedka and fucking seventeen year old drinking.
Speaker 5: So it's not something I do often. I have to
Speaker 5: remember to eat first. But back to you, Deontae, since.
Speaker 6: You like to judge a lot, tell us a little
Speaker 6: bit about where you came from and your origin story.
Speaker 5: I know you're from Georgia. I didn't know that you
Speaker 5: were married, though. How did you meet your wife?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 7: We met through like we had mutual friends, so we
Speaker 7: kind of grew up in the same circles.
Speaker 2: We didn't happen to meet until after high school.
Speaker 7: We just had like some mutual friends. You know how
Speaker 7: this shit go, like small town y'all just kick it.
Speaker 7: Me and her just like from the moment we met,
Speaker 7: we could just hold conversation for hours.
Speaker 5: So how long have you guys been together?
Speaker 2: Ten twenty twenty ten, twenty cent.
Speaker 5: So sixteen years?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Wow?
Speaker 8: Wow?
Speaker 5: And you have three kids, boys girls, two boys.
Speaker 2: The oldest two boys in fourteen and twelve, and my
Speaker 2: baby shit girl eight years old.
Speaker 5: Oh nice, you're gonna have more, No you you just
Speaker 5: snipped off.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm off that we didn't know. We didn't do it.
Speaker 2: No more kids. I think you know, it's like time to.
Speaker 7: Live now, you know, you know, I got a successful business.
Speaker 7: They all my youngest eight should be nine years old
Speaker 7: this year. Like, man, I ain't trying to.
Speaker 6: Go back to you out the woods like you were
Speaker 6: right out there some l there's some real down south ship.
Speaker 5: You said, I did my I did my adulthood at
Speaker 5: twenty Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and that's what like, That's what I thought, being
Speaker 7: the grown up was you get a job, you get
Speaker 7: a crib up, get some kids, and yeah that ship
Speaker 7: where we could have we could have slowed down on that,
Speaker 7: got some careers going on or something first, But no,
Speaker 7: it is.
Speaker 2: What it is. We hell know.
Speaker 5: But now look at you. How has the podcast come about?
Speaker 5: Because I know you were in a different field prior
Speaker 5: to this.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was driving trucks. I was over the road
Speaker 7: driving trucks. So it really just started with me making
Speaker 7: content on TikTok and then.
Speaker 5: In the truck.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 7: So once I had built up a decent following, there
Speaker 7: was like I'm kind of smart enough to recognize like
Speaker 7: how people get stuck and I don't want to be
Speaker 7: the person that just make TikTok videos. I was like, shit,
Speaker 7: I need to use this to I need to figure
Speaker 7: out to turn this, how to turn this into like
Speaker 7: a business. And I think, no, podcasting, it is just talking.
Speaker 7: But for the most part, if you got something to say,
Speaker 7: you can really like you can corner off the market.
Speaker 7: So uh yeah, I did the first like ten episodes
Speaker 7: from back of my truck, just audio only.
Speaker 2: I recorded one on my phone.
Speaker 7: That shit was cool. I'm glad I did it because
Speaker 7: now people can go back and see where I started.
Speaker 7: But yeah, we just once I realized like people was
Speaker 7: digging the part, like you know, even with it just
Speaker 7: being audio, I was like, shit, once we got video,
Speaker 7: that's we can market it. And yeah, a big cat
Speaker 7: he helped me do some production camera work. We set
Speaker 7: it up in my dining room. Shit, we've been all
Speaker 7: to the racist ever since that was in twenty twenty four.
Speaker 5: So it's been two years, two years on video, two
Speaker 5: years on video, and then how long was three years audio?
Speaker 5: Three years audio? And then what was it? What would
Speaker 5: you say, like a shift, like when you know, like,
Speaker 5: oh shit, shit, shit has shifted, it's up.
Speaker 2: I don't know, man.
Speaker 7: I think when when my content primarily became podcasts and
Speaker 7: my ship was just going viral all the time, where
Speaker 7: it's like not necessarily that people wanted to come on
Speaker 7: because we're not really guest centered, but just when it's
Speaker 7: like I would start to see like sound bites pop up,
Speaker 7: people's clipping my ship, you know, people was using my
Speaker 7: audio for they content. I was like, oh we on,
Speaker 7: we got this ship, Like once we become we become
Speaker 7: like a part of the cultural zeitgeist, you know what
Speaker 7: I mean.
Speaker 2: It was like, oh, we in there, all we gotta
Speaker 2: do istay consistent.
Speaker 7: That shit happened by like episode thirty, So I was
Speaker 7: already going viral as a content cred which it was easy,
Speaker 7: like to make that transition because it's still content crash
Speaker 7: and it's just different medium. But I just knew it's
Speaker 7: like a shelf life and just holding your phone up
Speaker 7: and making videos.
Speaker 2: I think you can still do that, but you got
Speaker 2: to have something else to go along with it.
Speaker 7: So I was watching people like Kevin on stage, Like
Speaker 7: Kevin Stage, he a comedian and he made TikTok videos
Speaker 7: and he got bookle podcasts and he do production. So
Speaker 7: like that's kind of like my beacon, you know what
Speaker 7: I mean. And I actually got to do a doing
Speaker 7: a podcast with him tomorrow. He was like he was
Speaker 7: actually the person when he came on my show. That's
Speaker 7: when I was like, yeah, we.
Speaker 5: Popping ship because this is who you were at the
Speaker 5: spot used as like a guide.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and he was like one of the first people
Speaker 7: to really like reach out on some if you ever
Speaker 7: needed anything, just hollering me and he meant that shit, yeah,
Speaker 7: Like I could call him and he'll like he'll.
Speaker 2: Give me advice.
Speaker 7: Because when I first quit my job, I was terrified
Speaker 7: for so I called him. He was like, shit, I
Speaker 7: still had doubts every day. I was like, shit, well, shit,
Speaker 7: if you've got doubts, I know I'm good now. But
Speaker 7: it's just like it's a natural thing. This is not
Speaker 7: especially when you come from working like a ninety five.
Speaker 7: That's really safe and secure. Even if it's not fulfilling,
Speaker 7: you can count on it. You know what I'm saying
Speaker 7: this shit, it could be up and down.
Speaker 2: But luckily.
Speaker 7: We got a really strong fan basing, like they really
Speaker 7: support us, and yeah, I can depend on them, so
Speaker 7: I don't really need no corporation.
Speaker 2: And we're just fully independent.
Speaker 4: Would you say that, like, what is most of your
Speaker 4: demographic system? Is it men, women or both?
Speaker 7: It's both? I got like a you know, luckily, I'm
Speaker 7: pretty even I think it was. It started out like
Speaker 7: sixty forty women and now it's like sixty forty men,
Speaker 7: which I like because I think we need more male voices,
Speaker 7: inspiring men besides like Intel, Red Peel.
Speaker 5: Niggas and Yo.
Speaker 6: When I saw you and I started seeing your content,
Speaker 6: I was like, thank fucking god, a man with a
Speaker 6: fucking brain. I was like, thank God for somebody who
Speaker 6: is using their platform to a up black people, to
Speaker 6: be tell the truth, to see like not put down
Speaker 6: black women like I was. So it was such a refreshing,
Speaker 6: fucking breath of fresh air.
Speaker 5: I was very proud, and you would think I was
Speaker 5: your motherfucking cousin, Like yes, nagga.
Speaker 7: That's what we call our folks though, because it feels
Speaker 7: weird calling some of their fans, but it's that's how
Speaker 7: we refer to them, like our cousins.
Speaker 2: Like that's what it is. We are blacked. This is
Speaker 2: just big, big old family, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: But I think another thing is what it made me realize,
Speaker 7: is that a lot of niggas just run to the internet. Yeah,
Speaker 7: because it's like you can't really feel like it, bro No.
Speaker 5: They're just saying ship just to like, it.
Speaker 7: Doesn't really take a lot of intelligence to come up
Speaker 7: with these takes. And it's all the same tapes, takes,
Speaker 7: like they all regurgitate the same shit. So it is
Speaker 7: just a grift and they understand that, like social media
Speaker 7: is just engagement and attention, So whether people mad at
Speaker 7: you or not, it's still attention.
Speaker 2: The algorithm don't see it no different.
Speaker 7: So if people in your comments arguing, they might as
Speaker 7: well be in your comment your comments praising, because the
Speaker 7: same shit.
Speaker 2: It's just numbers, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: And it's all like it's all just driven by AI
Speaker 7: and like algorithm and robotics, so they don't really differentiate
Speaker 7: between positive and negative. And a lot of these dudes
Speaker 7: is like probably just miserable or whatever their job is
Speaker 7: or whatever they may be, and they see it and
Speaker 7: it's like, shit, that's a come up. They don't really care.
Speaker 7: Once you get to the point where you don't really
Speaker 7: care what type of attention you get, you kind of
Speaker 7: cook but they don't give a fuck because it's like
Speaker 7: it translates the money for them.
Speaker 2: It's shortly.
Speaker 6: I just feel like you have to be a certain
Speaker 6: type of nigga or a bitch that like you could
Speaker 6: say whatever, just for attention. You have to be somebody
Speaker 6: who has toggest, who is thriving solely off attention, because
Speaker 6: at some point there for me, that's at some point
Speaker 6: there's a responsibility to your community as a black man,
Speaker 6: as a black woman, Like if you're getting a certain
Speaker 6: level of popularity that you're just saying, what the fuck ever,
Speaker 6: even if it's debilitating to your community that you come from.
Speaker 6: But I was gonna say, like they didn't come in
Speaker 6: there to be responsible, Well that's the problem I have
Speaker 6: a problem with that. Like for me, even if we
Speaker 6: say things all the time that people are not going
Speaker 6: to agree with, we have people in our comments right
Speaker 6: now niggas beating us up about blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck as long as it's I
Speaker 6: feel like it's I.
Speaker 2: Mean, at least you're being genuine.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like genuine disagree.
Speaker 2: With the take of mind.
Speaker 7: It's like that's my real take though, right right, I
Speaker 7: ain't just saying that the rough enough feathers. I think
Speaker 7: the thing is is that it is a form of
Speaker 7: like selling your soul a little bit. Yeah, because it's
Speaker 7: like whatever, whatever the fuck you had going on, you
Speaker 7: gave up, and then you're just like, all right, I'm
Speaker 7: gonna just do this now, you know whatever. Like you
Speaker 7: see them niggas they be kissing white people there and
Speaker 7: then they go to the Trump convention and they can't
Speaker 7: get in that shit be funny.
Speaker 6: As we And that's the other thing. You weren't kissing
Speaker 6: any ass there was. You were saying the thing, and
Speaker 6: I I mean, I'm straight, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: The way I looked at it. For me, it's like
Speaker 2: I'm good, I could drive trucks, right, So I'm not
Speaker 2: really here for like.
Speaker 5: You know, depending on this to make or break your
Speaker 5: whole life.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Like you know, I just wanted a place to
Speaker 7: express because you know, like for my people, it's like,
Speaker 7: damn bro, Like.
Speaker 2: We can't keep up this shit.
Speaker 7: Bro, we don't know what you're talking about, Like, well,
Speaker 7: nothing about the politics you're talking about, Like I don't
Speaker 7: know these history lessons you putting me on like and
Speaker 7: all that. So it was like, all right, I'm just
Speaker 7: I just wanted to have a conversation amongst like minded people.
Speaker 7: And the Internet is vast and I've seen that conversation
Speaker 7: happening on TikTok. I just wanted to be a part
Speaker 7: of it. And it's just so happened it. You know
Speaker 7: what I'm saying, I cut through.
Speaker 8: The way I like to do.
Speaker 5: Shit, what do you think?
Speaker 4: Like, I mean, you've had You've had a lot of
Speaker 4: viral moments, and I guess hot takes. What do you
Speaker 4: think is like the one topic that seems to always
Speaker 4: ruffle people's feathers that you talk about.
Speaker 7: Religion, Uh, accountability conversations Somewhere, for.
Speaker 8: Some reason, everybody had that word what accountability.
Speaker 4: I did a pull on Instagram and I said, who
Speaker 4: do you think is more account who you think takes
Speaker 4: more accountability?
Speaker 5: Better or women?
Speaker 4: And most of the people said that men take more
Speaker 4: accountability than women, even the women said that men take
Speaker 4: more accountability than women.
Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, I think I don't really agree either way.
Speaker 7: I don't I don't think anybody. I don't think humans
Speaker 7: take accountability. Yeah, I think I think the accountability like
Speaker 7: men are a little bit more kind of molded to
Speaker 7: be like you got like you ain't a man if
Speaker 7: you're own your ship. So I don't know man that
Speaker 7: that that conversation get tricky, Like I think it need
Speaker 7: to be a little bit more specific about what we
Speaker 7: being accountable to, because you just thought that as a blanket,
Speaker 7: it's like accountable.
Speaker 2: To what.
Speaker 6: I think when you think of when you talk about
Speaker 6: men and women being accountable, you have to first It's
Speaker 6: like it's like saying, like are black people white people
Speaker 6: more accountable? You have to look at the society and
Speaker 6: the standards in which we exist in, right, So, like,
Speaker 6: as a man, there is a benefit of being a man.
Speaker 6: There's a patriarchy, you there's a like there is a
Speaker 6: privilege of being a man in our society. So there's
Speaker 6: a level of accountability that is already cloaked with being
Speaker 6: a man. Just like white people, black people could be like,
Speaker 6: who could be take more accountability? Obviously white people could
Speaker 6: take more accountability with their hand in violence and a
Speaker 6: lot of shit. And like if you're talking about America,
Speaker 6: for instance, But you know, if you're white and you're
Speaker 6: benefiting from the structure, you're gonna be like, well, black
Speaker 6: people need to get to stripe up their boots and
Speaker 6: and stop complaining and victim culture. But of course you're
Speaker 6: gonna say that because you're benefiting from the system. So
Speaker 6: I think the problem is, and this is another thing
Speaker 6: that I kind of fuck with with you, just from
Speaker 6: what I've seen on clips, is that to be an honest,
Speaker 6: existing individual in the society, you have to first examine
Speaker 6: the like the systems so much we existed. If you're
Speaker 6: a man that doesn't accept and understand that the patriarchy
Speaker 6: gives you a benefit that women have not had for years,
Speaker 6: hundreds of years, then you are not actually being accountable
Speaker 6: within the system. And so when women like us talk about,
Speaker 6: you know, the baby mama culture or whatever, the sex
Speaker 6: or being you know, talking about having sex and like
Speaker 6: dating freely as moms or things that men generally don't
Speaker 6: want to hear women talk about, because then we're whore's
Speaker 6: or what's our body count?
Speaker 5: Or we're run through you know. But it's like you
Speaker 5: if you're not a man.
Speaker 6: Who's willing to be like I know, women have not
Speaker 6: had the privilege of being sexually liberated because that's not
Speaker 6: the system we exist in. Then it's hard to talk
Speaker 6: about something like accountability if you're not really looking at
Speaker 6: it as from what it is.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think everybody got their partner, they got to play,
Speaker 7: but I think it do come to a hierarchy of privilege.
Speaker 7: Like of course, like the person that's gone, and especially
Speaker 7: in America, like white man is like, yeah, they created
Speaker 7: the rules this y'all shit. So it's like everything that
Speaker 7: comes with it gonna directly point back to you because you,
Speaker 7: you know, you slighted the hand into your favor, regardless
Speaker 7: of who you had to step on across iude to
Speaker 7: get there. That's that's real white women sitting now. They
Speaker 7: running around the blood man. So it's like that you
Speaker 7: ain't got no rights, but shit, they got the casual
Speaker 7: killing that so it's like you was able to kill
Speaker 7: some shit and get away with.
Speaker 2: It, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: Like I think if you go back in trace to
Speaker 7: the history well understand like where the dynamics playing as
Speaker 7: far as race and gender as we advance in society,
Speaker 7: you know, colorism play a part. I know that, Like
Speaker 7: people may be a little bit more prone to listen
Speaker 7: to me just because I'm like skinning, like that, just
Speaker 7: as a thing I've said talking I've had talking points
Speaker 7: that I know women have.
Speaker 2: Said thousands of a time, but they'll listen to me
Speaker 2: because of men.
Speaker 7: But it's like, yeah, I mean, use that privilege to
Speaker 7: goddamn say something though, right, you know what I mean?
Speaker 7: Like I'm I try to be as responsible as I can,
Speaker 7: but I don't really think it even come down to
Speaker 7: the responsibility.
Speaker 2: It's kind of just my ethic. So it's like who
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 7: You know, if I was if I was gonna be
Speaker 7: on some fuck shit, I'd probably be popular for that too,
Speaker 7: you know what I mean, the same strength, Like if I.
Speaker 2: Wanted to be a red pel nigga, I'll probably be
Speaker 2: just as good as that.
Speaker 7: It's charismatic as I am, but I just that ain't
Speaker 7: who I am, and I ain't I ain't never really
Speaker 7: got on the internet like trying to be somebody, you
Speaker 7: know what I mean. I already felt whole and who
Speaker 7: I was, So it's just much to show up how
Speaker 7: I am. If y'all fuck with me, it's cool. But
Speaker 7: at the end of the day, whether y'all fuck with
Speaker 7: me or not, I get to God damn go to bed,
Speaker 7: and like being myself, I'm comfortable, Like I'm happy with
Speaker 7: who I am. So I think when we talk about,
Speaker 7: like any issues of accountability, it has to be we
Speaker 7: have to specify what we being accountable to for one,
Speaker 7: and if it two, it's like we just have to
Speaker 7: have a firm understanding that. No everybody love accountability until
Speaker 7: this day turn it just is what it is. It's
Speaker 7: like we all want to kind of find a way
Speaker 7: to justify our actions. And it's a it's a it's
Speaker 7: a growing thing too, Like when you take accountability, you're
Speaker 7: actually taking a step towards growth. And it's a vulnerable
Speaker 7: thing because it's like that's as transparent as it gets.
Speaker 7: It's like admitting your fuck up. So admitting the hand
Speaker 7: you played in something that could affect people negatively, like
Speaker 7: you could have harmed somebody life with this shiit knowingly, unknowingly.
Speaker 2: Like that's a hard pill to swallow.
Speaker 7: So I like to give folks grace, but at the
Speaker 7: same time it's just like blatant gold Post movement and
Speaker 7: you know, you know, gaslighting and all this ship. It's like,
Speaker 7: all right, bro, we ain't doing that, you know what
Speaker 7: I'm saying, Like it may not be easy to deal with, but.
Speaker 2: We want the government to be accountable for the ship.
Speaker 2: They do that harmless.
Speaker 7: We want the people in the Epstein files to be
Speaker 7: accountable for their actions and shit like that.
Speaker 2: It's like that shit.
Speaker 7: Trickle down to like if the if the society is
Speaker 7: not doesn't have the ability to type accountability, and the
Speaker 7: people at the top down show I'm not gonna do
Speaker 7: it because they know, like ship, y'all trying to get
Speaker 7: away with some ship too.
Speaker 6: I never thought about it like that in a microcosm
Speaker 6: of the places in which we exist, Like if the
Speaker 6: people at the top are not taking accountability, that's trickle down.
Speaker 2: And the thing is is like this is how we
Speaker 2: learn power.
Speaker 7: So like if the people in power are liars and
Speaker 7: murderers and you know, like they always trying to find
Speaker 7: a loophole, Like if they hold shit is corrupt, then
Speaker 7: you have a corrupted society and we're being taught power
Speaker 7: by corrupt people. So like you learn how to like
Speaker 7: you get money, you get money. You know you're getting
Speaker 7: an entertainment industry. We get money, put people in fucked
Speaker 7: up contracts, Like that's the game. So the game now
Speaker 7: become let me make sure I don't put myself in
Speaker 7: a fucked up contract, but when I'm able to put
Speaker 7: somebody else in, I'll do it. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: So it's like it is really a top down. That's
Speaker 7: the only thing that really trickled down is the behavior.
Speaker 2: The money. Don't never seen them make it to the ball.
Speaker 5: Do you want to put trigger?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Sure, So we have a game on our show called Trigger.
Speaker 5: We're gonna say some words and the first thing that
Speaker 5: comes to mind just respond, okay trigger.
Speaker 2: Religion, hold on, you got that ship, y'all down for life?
Speaker 2: And that's hard ahead.
Speaker 4: Religion control, Feminism, mm hmm, fatherhood.
Speaker 2: Important, uh necessary, foundational love, language, touch, But niggas just
Speaker 2: touched the pride.
Speaker 5: Niggas are you nah?
Speaker 2: Niggas in period?
Speaker 8: Like we you know, the.
Speaker 7: Women are so fucking smart, So it's a woman. She
Speaker 7: really brought down this whole again. I mean, I've been
Speaker 7: preaching this, we're not women are smart.
Speaker 4: It's okay women, we don't always have a man in
Speaker 4: the chair.
Speaker 2: One more. It was just one. Women are so smart.
Speaker 2: So look it's this woman.
Speaker 7: She came the other day and she was like boys
Speaker 7: at a certain age they stop getting kissed, they stopped
Speaker 7: getting hugged. Then they become the nigga. That's where my
Speaker 7: hug at. They do that because they touch the prime.
Speaker 7: So then when niggas get in a relationship, they love
Speaker 7: languages become touched because it's like it's the only time
Speaker 7: they allowed to.
Speaker 2: That's why nigga adapt. They homeboy up ten times before
Speaker 2: they leave.
Speaker 5: They need a hug for real, but.
Speaker 2: Up well, and then it's But the thing is is
Speaker 2: like this is real, deeply human ship to be neat well.
Speaker 7: Women, it's like y'all hug each other. Y'all kiss on
Speaker 7: each other. Y'all, y'all love, y'all fix each other. Hell
Speaker 7: y'all do like y'all nurture each other. Men are like
Speaker 7: the pride of nurturing once we are considered me.
Speaker 5: Because everything touching means gay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I be hugging on my boys. Man, they ain't
Speaker 2: never gonna not know that ship. I don't know.
Speaker 5: I always say that, boy, but what is that about?
Speaker 5: Like mothers?
Speaker 4: Though, like mothers then like with with withdrawing their affection
Speaker 4: for their sons at a certain age.
Speaker 7: I don't think it's I don't think it's that. I
Speaker 7: think I think it's a generational think where you got
Speaker 7: people that's raised by boomers, and boomers are not affectionate
Speaker 7: words and emotions and nothing. So now you've got people
Speaker 7: that's like trying to cope with this one this neat
Speaker 7: but this like thing they used to you know what
Speaker 7: I'm saying, So like now things have to be really
Speaker 7: drastic for them to express love or express affection.
Speaker 2: Or just show care.
Speaker 7: And then you got a whole generation of men that
Speaker 7: was removed from the neighborhood. So you have a whole
Speaker 7: generation of women that are convinced that now they got
Speaker 7: to be the man, and men don't show up, like
Speaker 7: you know, it's all this ship. It's it's fucked up,
Speaker 7: but it's getting better.
Speaker 5: There's an overcompensation that has to happen.
Speaker 6: And women, even when you're in relationship with men, like
Speaker 6: don't hug him, he needs to not cry. And so
Speaker 6: women's will take the back seat, let the man lead
Speaker 6: in that way and then stop hugging little Jojo, and
Speaker 6: then low Jojo really needs to be fucking held. And
Speaker 6: then you go home and get older and beat a
Speaker 6: bitch up because he really needs to be hugged and
Speaker 6: kiss but he doesn't know how to fucking ask for it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so yeah, it's deep.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's it's a layered thing. I think.
Speaker 7: Even like with women, y'all find that within each other
Speaker 7: because oftentimes the only like other affectionate attention y'all get
Speaker 7: is sexualized like for men, because that's the only way
Speaker 7: we know, it's the only time we know we're gonna
Speaker 7: get physical touch is through six. So that's why niggas
Speaker 7: is six six sex sex were really like shit.
Speaker 2: That's why I'm keep going.
Speaker 7: This is why niggas will pay a prostitute just to
Speaker 7: like lay up and hoog, lay up and talk because
Speaker 7: they don't have that, Like, that's intimacy when niggas let intimacy,
Speaker 7: and then you got people that like confuse intimacy with
Speaker 7: six And.
Speaker 6: That's why ever woman either chits out or a woman's
Speaker 6: talking about sex around niggas, even if it's just on
Speaker 6: some friendly shit. They're like, oh, you're trying to know nigga,
Speaker 6: We're just having a conversation. There's no like people are
Speaker 6: so uncomfortable with the end between between like sex and friendship,
Speaker 6: like the platonic intimacy literally does not exist, and so
Speaker 6: men really think any type of love or affection means
Speaker 6: this bitch wants to fuck, when in fact, no, nigga,
Speaker 6: I'm just trying to give you a hugger.
Speaker 5: You asked me a question. I'm answering the question.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I got a.
Speaker 2: Question outside of this.
Speaker 7: It just like a woman's perspective, just like this seems
Speaker 7: extra horny, but it's really not. It's just like you know,
Speaker 7: like niggas is like curiosity, like could you ask your hunger?
Speaker 7: Like I just so I can get this out of
Speaker 7: my head? Can I see your titties? Like platonically?
Speaker 2: Is that crazy?
Speaker 5: I mean you could ask us to be like okay,
Speaker 5: not child, you mean like woman to woman or man. No,
Speaker 5: No you couldn't because.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what curious curiosity like you girl,
Speaker 2: what look like?
Speaker 5: I think if it was crazy, I think if there
Speaker 5: was somebody.
Speaker 2: I didn't make sexual advance up.
Speaker 6: I think if there was someone who felt genuinely safe,
Speaker 6: and there was a woman who's open and understood that. However,
Speaker 6: I think it's very rare because women, I just told
Speaker 6: my husband this, are so used to protecting themselves around men,
Speaker 6: to the point where if I go to the club
Speaker 6: and I'm making eye contact and I dance on somebody,
Speaker 6: I know how to dance off. I know as soon
Speaker 6: as the nigga gets too comfortable. I know the dance,
Speaker 6: the weave and bob of being a woman, a woman
Speaker 6: who's section when I get sensual, because that's just my existence.
Speaker 6: I know when to beat bob and weave off because
Speaker 6: I know a nigga is getting confused. Even in my friendships,
Speaker 6: even now, I'm like, oh, he's confused about what this
Speaker 6: what this platonic intimacy looks like. And so to save
Speaker 6: myself and to not make things uncomfortable, I know how
Speaker 6: to and retreat.
Speaker 2: How many how many generations away from that shit? I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 8: Sometimes I just be saying, God.
Speaker 2: Like, I just cares what thees look like.
Speaker 6: I think there could be I don't think it's crazy, though,
Speaker 6: I think, but most men can't. Most men don't platonically
Speaker 6: When I see you chittest are in my mind, I
Speaker 6: really be like, because I'll be like, I want to
Speaker 6: see you guys dick. I would say, what is your
Speaker 6: do you have a big dick? As a friend, I
Speaker 6: want to know, like, what does your penais look like?
Speaker 6: But it doesn't mean okay, this is I think it's
Speaker 6: sexual in nature, but it's not like it doesn't have
Speaker 6: to be.
Speaker 2: It's not a sexual advance.
Speaker 5: It's like i'd be, really, you want to cure the
Speaker 5: curiosity because it'd be like.
Speaker 2: Bro, it'd be somemody. Cleveland's just like brother. Never right there.
Speaker 2: Let me just see them, let me finish the whole picture.
Speaker 5: But we're also we're also people. I'm also a woman.
Speaker 6: You come to my house, you even as a platonic friend,
Speaker 6: as a male friend, you might come to my house,
Speaker 6: and my titties are nine times out of the time
Speaker 6: going to be out, if my husband's home, if my
Speaker 6: kids are home, because this is my home and it's
Speaker 6: not a sexual advance. This is how I feel most comfortable.
Speaker 6: But I understand that I don't invite a lot of
Speaker 6: men to my house because I know that most men
Speaker 6: don't have literally in my house be out I'm a
Speaker 6: naked mom, but I know that every nigga is not
Speaker 6: invited into my house unless I know you, because I
Speaker 6: know a lot of niggas think that means something because
Speaker 6: a lot of men don't like they're ground there.
Speaker 5: Their ground is like what.
Speaker 2: Should come from?
Speaker 4: Like I'm sorry, I was just gonna say, I was
Speaker 4: just going to say that, you know, I think that
Speaker 4: it's natural to have a curiosity like a like a
Speaker 4: I guess, like an innocent curiosity around like what someone's
Speaker 4: body looks like. But I will say that generally, like
Speaker 4: if a bitch shows you her titties and they were
Speaker 4: even better than you thought, there's a seed that naturally
Speaker 4: gets planted a deeper curiosity, just like I'm a woman
Speaker 4: and I asked my friend to see his dick and
Speaker 4: it's bigger than I thought. I'm going to be like, huh,
Speaker 4: there's another there's something else, And I think that that's
Speaker 4: a human like a human reaction. I don't necessarily think
Speaker 4: that's like a violation, but I think if my homeboy
Speaker 4: asked to see my titties, am I going to show him?
Speaker 4: It depends on why he wants to see my titties.
Speaker 4: It depends on like I said, like how safe he's
Speaker 4: made me feel in that relationship.
Speaker 7: Right, that's the thing too, it's like how you even approached. Well,
Speaker 7: that's why some things just got to remain curious though, because.
Speaker 6: Even like can't handle the curiosity. Some people can't handle
Speaker 6: knowing knowing the other side of it.
Speaker 5: Some people can't. I could probably I guess like, oh wow,
Speaker 5: that's impressive and keep my and I don't need to
Speaker 5: be like. It doesn't mean you have to go.
Speaker 4: It doesn't mean like you move forward.
Speaker 5: But I just think.
Speaker 4: Like, okay, a naturally as humans, it extends the curiosity.
Speaker 4: Doesn't mean you're gonna act upon it.
Speaker 7: But like even like I think we beyond human ship,
Speaker 7: like we beyond like we've we've been with drawn from
Speaker 7: that that level of intimacy amongst one another, Like you know,
Speaker 7: even the idea like they have like this whole freeom
Speaker 7: nipple movement. It's like you know what I'm saying, But
Speaker 7: there's been cultures that but it's all all like colonial purity.
Speaker 6: Like if titties were out regularly, would you Well, it's
Speaker 6: like because if you're sure your titties will, men are
Speaker 6: going to be tempting.
Speaker 5: Then men are going to you and then rape. It's
Speaker 5: your fault.
Speaker 6: But it's like, but I can put a steak on
Speaker 6: the table and pell my dog to sit, and you can't. Like,
Speaker 6: men are not animals. They know the difference, but they
Speaker 6: have been they've been, they've been socialized to think this
Speaker 6: is how boys act, boys will be boys. No, nigga,
Speaker 6: you have fucking right.
Speaker 3: You you have.
Speaker 2: It's the puritanical ship. It's the it's the it's the upfront.
Speaker 7: I seem very like put together and everything is covered up,
Speaker 7: but up behind close ole niggas raping foes.
Speaker 2: And so then it's like.
Speaker 7: If you take like the Catholic Church, for instance, like
Speaker 7: the stereotype is that the father is molested than the children.
Speaker 7: But this is also like a natural fact, this shit
Speaker 7: be heppening. But because it's like there's no consequences, then
Speaker 7: what does that do to a child? What does that
Speaker 7: do for anybody that wants to that has like those
Speaker 7: sick desires.
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, well, I just go.
Speaker 7: To seminary and then I become a Catholic priest and
Speaker 7: I can got down, get marocks off, and it's gonna
Speaker 7: be accepted because it has been while, and I'll be protected.
Speaker 6: So it's it's like the secrecy, the secrecy that removes
Speaker 6: the human humanness of it all, Like it is kind
Speaker 6: of human to be like I wonder what someone looks
Speaker 6: like naked. It's like a thought comes to your mind
Speaker 6: because we are animalistic, we're all primal in ways. But
Speaker 6: it's the the removal of that even being an option
Speaker 6: to be like even me as a sensual sexual woman,
Speaker 6: like I make children, I'm sexual. If someone is like, oh,
Speaker 6: that's like I feel moved by that a little bit.
Speaker 6: It's not like you're gonna rate me.
Speaker 2: It is literally human.
Speaker 7: Nature biologically right, like together resources and reproduce.
Speaker 2: That's it, Like, like that is it.
Speaker 6: But then there's the human the advancement of like who
Speaker 6: we are as humans, to know the difference between like
Speaker 6: just because I see this in thisness or just because
Speaker 6: I have a certain thought. Let's all let's all think
Speaker 6: about Like we have sex, we watch porn. There's like
Speaker 6: the most sometimes the most naughty things are your fantasy.
Speaker 6: That's what's gonna get you off. It's because it's it's
Speaker 6: forbidden fruit. It's because it's forbidden fruit. It's the thing
Speaker 6: you're told not to do that is actually going to
Speaker 6: heighten the experience. But because we're not even in the
Speaker 6: way the place to have intimate coms and honest conversations
Speaker 6: that it's it's so locked away that then people go
Speaker 6: this other route to actually act on these things.
Speaker 7: They say, it's like kind of like a precursor for
Speaker 7: addiction to It's just the procurement of drugs is the
Speaker 7: you know what.
Speaker 5: I'm saying, because it's like a secret like knowing you Finnah.
Speaker 7: You know, putting a play together, knowing you're meeting your dealing,
Speaker 7: Like you know what I'm saying, it's all done in secrecy.
Speaker 5: Like having an affair in a motel room and getting
Speaker 5: a dis like it's.
Speaker 2: The like you said, it's that forbidding fruit shit.
Speaker 7: Where if we were like I would say, like a
Speaker 7: little bit more sexually liberated as it's a culture, then
Speaker 7: it wouldn't be no big deal because I know girls,
Speaker 7: I grew up with girls to just be like, you
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying, And then once you cooled, then
Speaker 7: it's like don't I'm not looking at her like, oh
Speaker 7: she want to fuck me.
Speaker 2: I'm just like just like showing her off, like that's
Speaker 2: just who she is, you know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 2: I think it's the purre.
Speaker 7: It's that it's that Puritan ship where it's just like
Speaker 7: by keeping everything button up, it makes you a better person,
Speaker 7: but it actually like the play against your biological instincts.
Speaker 7: It's like that curiosity it makes shit worse for real.
Speaker 5: I agree.
Speaker 2: And it's how they cover up. They like dirty D's
Speaker 2: we at, like we all cleaning button up.
Speaker 7: That's the worst ship, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 7: protecting sir, that's police shit. They shut down to catch
Speaker 7: a predator because it's so many fucking police out here
Speaker 7: trying to fuck children, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 7: we gotta shut the ship down, bro.
Speaker 6: The actual thing, finding the people doing the bad everybody
Speaker 6: who's supposed to be saving the Yeah.
Speaker 2: Because they back in the blue, they ain't gonna tackle
Speaker 2: their partner. So it's like, you know that. I think
Speaker 2: it's a layered ship. It is a.
Speaker 6: Religious ship too though, or even that that site all
Speaker 6: these niggas are on and they're telling giving each other
Speaker 6: advice on how to rape their wives.
Speaker 5: I'm like, it's your wife, why are we raping them?
Speaker 5: All they're sleep.
Speaker 7: It's just it's weird. It's just another exercise empower. It's
Speaker 7: and like power is like and just the just the
Speaker 7: rejection like sometimes your wife don't want to do.
Speaker 5: Power is like is the most powerful tool.
Speaker 4: It's bigger than it's bigger than racism, all of it
Speaker 4: because a white person will betray another white person for
Speaker 4: power to do.
Speaker 7: It is that it is because it's all those systems
Speaker 7: are about power, Like patriarchal system is about power. It's
Speaker 7: about governance, Like I don't govern like this. Women like
Speaker 7: like these things that I desire, I want to control.
Speaker 7: So if if there's a matriarchal society, then it's like
Speaker 7: how do I fulfill my desire.
Speaker 5: And infiltrate the society and make myself the center of it?
Speaker 7: Like how do I make it? Because then it's like,
Speaker 7: you know, it's like if women niggas. Niggas think that
Speaker 7: if women treat it me and the way that we
Speaker 7: treat them, they would like that, like the cat calling
Speaker 7: and aggressive nature.
Speaker 2: But like I don't know, man, niggas ain't never been
Speaker 2: a piece of meat before.
Speaker 5: I try to make men feel like pieces of meat
Speaker 5: every so often, just so they know how it feels.
Speaker 5: I kind of like to do that.
Speaker 2: I been a piece of meat, Like I kind of
Speaker 2: like it.
Speaker 6: I kind of like to see the discomfort on the
Speaker 6: nigga's face because I'm like, oh, you've never you've never
Speaker 6: been here before, huh surprise.
Speaker 4: The only difference is is that they can they can
Speaker 4: overpower you. Where the other side is is like men
Speaker 4: don't even realize how their advances become such like violent,
Speaker 4: so such a violent act upon women.
Speaker 5: They think that they're just like casually cat calling in
Speaker 5: the street.
Speaker 4: No bitch, I'm walking on the street alone when I'm alone,
Speaker 4: and you think you're being cute, but now I'm scared.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's like men is to women is like
Speaker 2: police is the niggas.
Speaker 5: Okay, oh my god, that's a good one because like.
Speaker 2: Even like if I know I ain't did shit wrong,
Speaker 2: just the presence of the.
Speaker 5: Police make you feel uncomfortable and you and you know
Speaker 5: you could be able to start talking to me.
Speaker 2: It's like death not Yeah.
Speaker 6: And then you also you also see like if a
Speaker 6: cop is trying to be cool, if a cop is
Speaker 6: on some other ship, and immediately your your whole internal.
Speaker 8: And there literally if you're trying to be cool, right,
Speaker 8: even when.
Speaker 6: A niggas being cool. I've had niggas being like we're
Speaker 6: so smart, so cool, and then something shift. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 6: this niggas actually.
Speaker 4: Happened to me the other day, and it's so funny,
Speaker 4: because like, I want to believe that there's a lot
Speaker 4: of good men in this world, because I do believe there,
Speaker 4: but I do think that we are so sullied by
Speaker 4: just like patriarchy and like you said, like a slave
Speaker 4: to our desires. Like the other day was in my bathing,
Speaker 4: I was at the beach. I was in my bikini,
Speaker 4: just doing my dance and buy my fucking self. And
Speaker 4: then the nigga came up to me and he seemed cool.
Speaker 4: I was like, Okay, he's cool, he's not like making advances.
Speaker 4: We talked and then we sat down for a little while,
Speaker 4: started drinking. That's where things go wrong. Started drinking a
Speaker 4: little bit, and then his homeboy came and.
Speaker 2: Then now.
Speaker 4: Now sudden, now the sun has gone down and I'm
Speaker 4: sitting with them. And at first I was like, we're bros.
Speaker 4: And then and then I'm like, okay, we're not bros.
Speaker 4: Actually actual, I literally I I like consciously took my
Speaker 4: sorong out of my fucking bag and I was like,
Speaker 4: let me cover myself because now I feel nervous and
Speaker 4: I feel like, unfortunately, now now my body is the
Speaker 4: wrong impression because I'm just here at the beach, enjoying
Speaker 4: on the beach. We're not even talking about don't let
Speaker 4: sex come up. We didn't even talk about sex.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: And I was just like, wow, like this could have
Speaker 4: been really great and y'all fucked it up and now
Speaker 4: I have to leave the vibes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, wait, and we're kind of bad. They were
Speaker 2: giving off that like did they start making like sexually.
Speaker 4: They started making comments with my body like damn, like damn,
Speaker 4: like you look, you work out a lot, like you know.
Speaker 2: Just like just little stupid checking you out sexually.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I and then I tried to bring it back.
Speaker 4: And I tried to bring it back like, man, I'm
Speaker 4: so happy to because I was I was on a
Speaker 4: solo trip. I wanted my first little solo vacation, and
Speaker 4: I was just like, I'm so happy to meet, you know,
Speaker 4: men that I can feel safe with.
Speaker 5: Let me remind me i'm here.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I was literally trying to like that and they're like yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: yeah yeah. And then right before I left, it like,
Speaker 4: we're gonna go get our motor bark. You should come
Speaker 4: with us, and we can. You can, you can come
Speaker 4: walk with us to get our bike and then we'll
Speaker 4: you know, ride around to that spot. I'm like, where's
Speaker 4: your bike? It was like on the dark over there.
Speaker 4: I was like, nigga, now, like it's gonna be fine.
Speaker 4: I said no, And you're in a foreign country alone.
Speaker 4: And when I went to so I went to the spot,
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm gonna go to the party, meet
Speaker 4: me over there. I never saw them again, never saw
Speaker 4: them again. I was like, so, what would have happen
Speaker 4: to that? Had I trusted And just when I trust you,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go to the dock and get the motorbike.
Speaker 5: But but this is this is such an important part
Speaker 5: of like gender existence.
Speaker 6: Like I was trying to explain this to Orlando too,
Speaker 6: because he's super sexual, super I say, honey, I am too.
Speaker 5: But the way I have to I've had to exist
Speaker 5: in this world is different from you.
Speaker 6: My My relationship with sex is comfortable, but there's also
Speaker 6: a lot of guards up because I have a vagina,
Speaker 6: and niggas don't know how to act like you could.
Speaker 5: You can walk and round with a dick and be
Speaker 5: just fine.
Speaker 6: I said me, it's a different I have a different
Speaker 6: relationship with sex because I've been traumatized by niggas, so like,
Speaker 6: it's not about my comfort, it's about the reality of that.
Speaker 6: Like I have to be really, really really aware about
Speaker 6: what feels good and what doesn't because just like that,
Speaker 6: something could go left really quickly and then I'm left
Speaker 6: in a fucked up situation.
Speaker 5: So it's like I'm.
Speaker 6: Happy that, like we're having this conversation because I don't
Speaker 6: think men really understand how much they make women feel uncomfortable,
Speaker 6: and also how women are not really empowered to be like, hey,
Speaker 6: you're making me uncomfortable, God forbid, and bitch says the
Speaker 6: R word in front of a nigga, you're making you're
Speaker 6: getting a little raey.
Speaker 5: Can you chill the fuck out?
Speaker 6: Then they're like, oh, bitch, you get into Oh you're
Speaker 6: get into no nigga, I'm getting very clear.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think the.
Speaker 7: Thing is is that you know, if somebody making you
Speaker 7: uncomfortable with the righteous thing to do is like letting
Speaker 7: them know about it. I'm not saying, y'all, I understand
Speaker 7: it's more complex than that. But because then, but making
Speaker 7: them uncomfortable is like just like reflect it's.
Speaker 5: Literally our superpower.
Speaker 6: I've noticed, like making men, not trying to make men,
Speaker 6: make trying to making a man comfortable is going to
Speaker 6: fuck you every time when you put someone else's comfort
Speaker 6: in front of yours, it is going to fuck you
Speaker 6: every time. We need to be trained and I'm uncomfortable, Hey,
Speaker 6: I'm uncomfortable. This is getting a little uncomfortable if you.
Speaker 2: Just say this shit getting a little raypy.
Speaker 5: Okay, we gotta walk away. But then but then niggas
Speaker 5: might get mad, and then that's it, Like.
Speaker 4: Well, that's what we were talking about before we started recording,
Speaker 4: was like like men feeling embarrassed, right, and.
Speaker 6: That's that full embarrassed. They' feel mad and then who
Speaker 6: knows how that will go. It's like we've had to
Speaker 6: babysit men's fucking emotions. They're fragile emotions in that space
Speaker 6: so long that we'd actually rather lay down and just
Speaker 6: like check out and let it happen.
Speaker 5: Like even if you tell niggas no no no, no
Speaker 5: no no no, I'm good. I'm good, I'm good, good.
Speaker 6: They keep asking, and You're like, fuck it because I'm twenty,
Speaker 6: i haven't had a lot of practicing.
Speaker 5: I'm comfortable.
Speaker 6: We've had three shots, and now I feel like I'm
Speaker 6: responsible because I'm here and it's dark and I'm in
Speaker 6: my bathing suit. I gave the wrong impression and now
Speaker 6: I'm just like fuck it instead of just being like, nah,
Speaker 6: I'm good. You know, like it's taking me years to
Speaker 6: get to that point because women have been like unfortunately
Speaker 6: told to make to make people feel okay, make everybody
Speaker 6: feel comfortable. It's gonna be fine at the expense of
Speaker 6: our own comfort.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that shit is that shit does like.
Speaker 7: Kind of increase your chances of being victimized. Is just
Speaker 7: making a nigga feel like the shit he doing is okay.
Speaker 7: But you know, I think there has to be a
Speaker 7: conversation around like our our relationship to sex and like,
Speaker 7: you know, this kind of like entitlement around it. Like
Speaker 7: this is also like why we don't have a healthy
Speaker 7: balance or understanding of like sex and what we desire
Speaker 7: for real, because if you listen to men talk about
Speaker 7: their desires, they contradict each other because it's like you
Speaker 7: want to freak, you want this, this and that, but
Speaker 7: then if she give it up too fast, she'll hope.
Speaker 7: If she make you way too long, it's like she
Speaker 7: being proved. And it's like you gotta kind of decide
Speaker 7: what it is you want because like, if you fuck
Speaker 7: me the first night, it's like ship. He y'all like,
Speaker 7: like ship, we own the same ship, but I had
Speaker 7: that to turn around and fuck somebody the first night
Speaker 7: and they be like, you a nigga that make you?
Speaker 5: Yeah right, exactly.
Speaker 2: Easy too, But it's like we haven't been made.
Speaker 4: But men have this idea around women being receivers and
Speaker 4: y'all being givers. Men have exacting Yeah, it's it's the
Speaker 4: it's the whole, Like, oh, if any key unlocks the door,
Speaker 4: then what's the use of the key?
Speaker 2: All that ship Listen, the thing gives bro.
Speaker 7: It's like we both just susceptible to one't having a
Speaker 7: child to kept contracting the disease. Three feeling shame foe,
Speaker 7: it's an act, it's a consensual decision.
Speaker 2: Then we both leave with the same weight.
Speaker 6: But number three, I don't think men feel shame like
Speaker 6: that in sex. How often have you left the bitch
Speaker 6: that you just met him, like Tam, I should have
Speaker 6: done that ship. Really, I always ask that because I
Speaker 6: feel like men.
Speaker 4: Lying because then I do feel like men feel shame.
Speaker 8: I feel like I feel like not sexually.
Speaker 7: Listen, I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you how
Speaker 7: they know. You know, niggas feel shame. It's because when
Speaker 7: they go to shaming you.
Speaker 8: That's that's what that is, Okay, it's a projection.
Speaker 5: Projection.
Speaker 4: Also, a man's like, a man's value, especially in regards
Speaker 4: to like a woman, a lot of times has to
Speaker 4: do with how big his dick is. So just immediately
Speaker 4: from that, like from the from jump, that's embarrassment. There's
Speaker 4: embarrassment and shame around that. Like there's that, but that's
Speaker 4: only if their dick is small. Yeah, but then big
Speaker 4: dicks that thought their dicks were small because the bitch
Speaker 4: said that the dick was small.
Speaker 2: No, because niggas, I'm gonna tell you what we forget.
Speaker 7: We forget there, like there's an average penis size because
Speaker 7: it's an average like.
Speaker 5: Most people have.
Speaker 7: Most niggas, did you know what I'm saying? This is
Speaker 7: most decks, brother, But what you're doing is watching portant.
Speaker 7: And it's like niggas with abnormally large dicks out here
Speaker 7: that didn't to the point they dick so big.
Speaker 2: This is how they make a living. You did know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I think that's normal.
Speaker 2: It's not.
Speaker 7: But like every nigga ain't walking around with ten to
Speaker 7: twelve inch is a dick Like they're just not what's
Speaker 7: going on.
Speaker 2: So when you.
Speaker 7: Compare yourself, that's like comparing yourself, like in strength to
Speaker 7: a bodybuilder, Like this, what this nigga do?
Speaker 2: Brouh?
Speaker 7: This nigga wake up every day picking up a motherfucking weight.
Speaker 7: If you can lift your own body weight, you decent.
Speaker 7: You doing all right? If you could do a couple
Speaker 7: pull ups, you straight. But you compare yourself to a
Speaker 7: nigga that ain't got no neck because you don't work
Speaker 7: this motherfucking body apart. You see what I'm saying. That's
Speaker 7: not even functional strength. That's just strong to be strong.
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: But I think the thing is is like, yeah, as
Speaker 7: a man, one of my partners telling me this is
Speaker 7: like when we was growing up, and like this has
Speaker 7: been reiterated by men that I respect as a man.
Speaker 7: The only way you're really gonna be comfortable with yourself.
Speaker 7: You accept your dick, You accept your height.
Speaker 8: After that, you good except your dick, except your height.
Speaker 5: How many times have you called your homeboy like, damn, man,
Speaker 5: I shouldn't have fucked this girl last night. It was
Speaker 5: too soon.
Speaker 8: I don't feel good it happened, bro, Because it's the thing.
Speaker 7: You gotta also understand the shame that we live in
Speaker 7: amongst each other, like that the patriarchy shit work both ways, right,
Speaker 7: just like racism harms white people, patriarchal harm men. Because
Speaker 7: this may be a woman that I desire, and now
Speaker 7: I have to categorize her as a freak because I
Speaker 7: gotta protect myself when this could she could really fuck
Speaker 7: with me and we couldn't have like a healthy, long,
Speaker 7: lessing relationship.
Speaker 2: But you don't rush to tell your partners you fucked.
Speaker 8: The first night, right, and now now you fuck your
Speaker 8: the potential ship up.
Speaker 2: But that's where the shame come from. The shame come from,
Speaker 2: Like I don't know what to do with this feeling like.
Speaker 5: I like her, but I didn't. I told I said
Speaker 5: too much.
Speaker 2: Either I said too much or I said something to
Speaker 2: like hide my feelings.
Speaker 5: Okay, but that's the thing too. It's like, well, what
Speaker 5: kind of people are you keeping around you?
Speaker 2: And I think, but that's the thing you talking about niggas. Brother,
Speaker 2: this is me and brother. This is like like I
Speaker 2: hate to be drawn with a wide brush, but that's like,
Speaker 2: this is how niggas act. Man.
Speaker 7: It's not even about what type of people you hanging with.
Speaker 7: It's like what type of men are is society creating?
Speaker 5: There's a lot of there's most most men are under this.
Speaker 7: It's not as mature. And then you gotta think this
Speaker 7: ship start young, bro, so you got you got a nigga. Okay,
Speaker 7: Let's say in a friend group of five, two dudes
Speaker 7: have sex with the same girl. Third dude say he
Speaker 7: have sex with her.
Speaker 5: She's a whore.
Speaker 2: He just said. Everybody's liable to blake because it's alreety two.
Speaker 2: Right now. You gotta fuck this girl and you like her,
Speaker 2: You're a lame you you a tender dickead nigga instead.
Speaker 5: Of it like like her the second time. I know
Speaker 5: what you did.
Speaker 7: But because it also is just a thing where it's like,
Speaker 7: but this is also my friend group too, so I
Speaker 7: dont want to bring no girl around the fuck three
Speaker 7: of the homies because then that's like, that's crazy, you
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying, Like I can't even understand, Like
Speaker 7: I'm not even gonna sit there and say that's okay, Like, man,
Speaker 7: you you got you're gonna have to get rid of
Speaker 7: all your friends, but you gotta choose another girl.
Speaker 5: Bro, are you seeing Teno's down in the bitch that
Speaker 5: you love?
Speaker 6: Yeah, and say yeah if you like, niggas are too
Speaker 6: busy worrying about other nigga.
Speaker 2: You know what niggas do in situation.
Speaker 7: But y'all, y'all don't be around on nigga like that,
Speaker 7: but be like, yeah, man, I remember when I had
Speaker 7: your old later bench though, like that that nigga fuck
Speaker 7: with you like psychologically.
Speaker 5: Yeah, women don't really do that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but y'all be harbor resentment behind like y'all gotta
Speaker 7: keep y'all. Y'all, y'all won't shame each other, but y'all
Speaker 7: are harbor resentment like she know I really wanted him. Yeah,
Speaker 7: y'all do it's all the same. I think you gotta like,
Speaker 7: you know, like your your significant other can't be the
Speaker 7: crew what it is.
Speaker 2: No, Yeah, that's it can't be crue love.
Speaker 6: Now the nigga. There's some community dick. I you know,
Speaker 6: I prefer some dick to a homegirl. But that's my homie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the resume.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like here, this is a good referral. He's a
Speaker 5: good one.
Speaker 6: He's a good guy, he's respectful. The dick is dicking here.
Speaker 6: Here's the number I tell you gonna call. I've done
Speaker 6: that because I really don't get I'm being honest, but
Speaker 6: like certain niggas are off off limits.
Speaker 2: But men yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 7: Mean I just think I think that there's a lot
Speaker 7: of conversations around ship like that where it's just like,
Speaker 7: you know, this is the whole concept Eskimo Bros.
Speaker 2: That that ship. You know, it's like it's like this
Speaker 2: scale of value.
Speaker 5: What do you think about?
Speaker 4: What do you think about the conversation around about value
Speaker 4: around Okay, so we're single mothers, we're not we're not single.
Speaker 5: She's not single anymore. She's a married woman. But it's
Speaker 5: even conversing around Stepdaddy's man.
Speaker 2: Man, funk out there. Man, somebody had to step up
Speaker 2: to take care of your puss. Sad too.
Speaker 5: There's a lot of conversation around.
Speaker 2: I really have step daddy and no daddy.
Speaker 5: Bro, No, no, I feel you.
Speaker 4: But around a woman's value, specifically a mother's value if
Speaker 4: she has more than one child, like if she has
Speaker 4: children with multiple men, so she got she got more
Speaker 4: than one baby daddy, than her value is decreased.
Speaker 2: I mean it's.
Speaker 7: Definitely like after the second baby, that is definitely some
Speaker 7: po puss management going on.
Speaker 5: But I mean somebody will pussy management. I mean, but
Speaker 5: you don't notice in this conversation.
Speaker 6: You know how many times I've talked to older people like, oh,
Speaker 6: my grandma had four baby daddies, six kids the grandma's
Speaker 6: be having.
Speaker 2: Because they wan't. No shame around that because look they do. No.
Speaker 2: But it ain't even about doing what you had to do.
Speaker 3: Bro.
Speaker 2: Niggas ain't as fucking backb on this day trying to
Speaker 2: make they self seen.
Speaker 7: Niggas ain't walking around bright. Look bro, it's the thing.
Speaker 7: It's a mature adult. If I like you and I
Speaker 7: want to be with you, I'm gonna take whatever come
Speaker 7: with you.
Speaker 8: Period.
Speaker 2: It just is what it is.
Speaker 7: Now we don't have this social media shit like we
Speaker 7: had back in the day. Say yeah, man, you know
Speaker 7: what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I got with Barbara.
Speaker 7: Barbara had three kids when I metal, but shit, I
Speaker 7: had two of my own. Now we're a blended family.
Speaker 2: It is what it is. But shit, as long as
Speaker 2: it was loving that motherfucker, that's the only thing that mattered.
Speaker 7: But now you got you got niggas like for when
Speaker 7: nine times out of ten and nigga like judging you
Speaker 7: on what you got going on in your household. Probably
Speaker 7: ain't gonna puss or got no girl cause niggas don't
Speaker 7: sit I don't know me. I ain't sitting around worried
Speaker 7: about next nigga got going on. Bro, you're happy if
Speaker 7: you're happy, Bro, half at it dog, cause I know
Speaker 7: I'm happy where I'm at.
Speaker 2: So shit, as long as you happy, bro cool? Like,
Speaker 2: who the fuck am I out of judged talking about it?
Speaker 2: Man two?
Speaker 7: Like once you get to a certain add I'm thirty five, Bro,
Speaker 7: you know I on expect nobody to come with no children.
Speaker 7: If you do come with no children, hey man, righteous,
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying. But but but then too,
Speaker 7: if you come to me with no children, don't be
Speaker 7: coming to me talking about your children either. Like if
Speaker 7: I'm out the game, you know what I'm saying, But
Speaker 7: I think it's like people whatever, it's clever, bro like,
Speaker 7: whatever worked for you, whatever make you happy. I think
Speaker 7: the thing is is like a relationship is between two
Speaker 7: people if you poligamist more. But the thing is is
Speaker 7: like whatever make them two people happy. That's what them
Speaker 7: two people need to do. And ultimately, if you come
Speaker 7: into a relationship with some of it and they got children,
Speaker 7: and you looking out for the best issues of your children,
Speaker 7: you the best option for them.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: I think it can be too worried about what other
Speaker 7: people got going on because they ain't got nothing going on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's it, because I can't think of the last
Speaker 5: time I.
Speaker 2: Thought about what somebody else had going on.
Speaker 5: Well, I don't know. There's bitches on the internet with going.
Speaker 2: On what the what's the fucking key word there? Internet?
Speaker 5: Internet?
Speaker 7: That ain't real, man, listen, brou I will attest to this.
Speaker 7: I would attested this as a nigga who has been
Speaker 7: separated and been in these streeks. All these bitches that
Speaker 7: hate men, they be fucking man. All these girls that
Speaker 7: be I'm celibate, be fucking all of them. Everybody came
Speaker 7: with the same line, how am I so fucking blessed
Speaker 7: be that I'm the nigga you don't fuck in the
Speaker 7: last three girls before me will celibate two when I
Speaker 7: have fucked all of them.
Speaker 2: It's like we all having sex. Bro, Everybody on the
Speaker 2: internet is a lot they're lying. You did, know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying.
Speaker 7: Be skeptical of anybody and whatever the fuck their persona is. Brother,
Speaker 7: just take people for what they is. Because all they
Speaker 7: like the heat, that it be the heat man woman haters.
Speaker 7: They be pitching, they be catching, they love like they
Speaker 7: be letting women to grave them. That's they kink, you
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. They got a whole bunch of
Speaker 7: more shit going on. People ain't who they appear to be.
Speaker 2: Bro.
Speaker 7: People just be on that bitch talking because the reality
Speaker 7: is mother figgers want to be accepted. And so they
Speaker 7: go in there and they scattered the internet, and they
Speaker 7: gathered enough information about what general consensus is, and they
Speaker 7: just trying to fit into the general consensus because it's
Speaker 7: a lot more brave to just be on my fucking self.
Speaker 2: And a lot of people ain't like, they ain't courageous,
Speaker 2: They just agreeable.
Speaker 5: They just want to be light, not creative, not courageous,
Speaker 5: and that's boring.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because everybody ain't celibrating. Fucking I don't know what
Speaker 2: we're doing.
Speaker 6: I have a question about the cell of the three
Speaker 6: girls celibate. Since you've come up on this this platform
Speaker 6: and you've obviously gotten super popular in such a short term,
Speaker 6: what has your groupie?
Speaker 5: Should you actually look like? Have bitches been in your
Speaker 5: d ms?
Speaker 2: What? Like? Do you what is that?
Speaker 5: How is that? And how do you communicate that with
Speaker 5: your wife?
Speaker 7: I mean so full disclosure. Were separated up until recently, so.
Speaker 5: Oh congratulations, Yeah, you know we're working it out. Are
Speaker 5: you guys in therapy?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 5: But would you be open to that?
Speaker 7: Yeah, we talked about it. I've been in therapy and
Speaker 7: she been in therapy separately. I think that's what helped. Also,
Speaker 7: you know, it's not like an easy thing to transition back.
Speaker 5: So we still because it's like, well, what you've been
Speaker 5: doing for the last.
Speaker 7: Year, we're still working, I mean, and all that stuff
Speaker 7: has that's been the that's been the toughest thing.
Speaker 2: It's like not even that, just everything gotta come out.
Speaker 6: You've been together for a long time now, you haven't
Speaker 6: been together so what have you done in that period
Speaker 6: we haven't been together and been able to be like, oh,
Speaker 6: this is my friend. Let me just take the take
Speaker 6: it as a like a regular bitch listening to him.
Speaker 6: But he's what he's been going.
Speaker 2: Through or he's you know, the feelings is welcome. Man.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, I'm not like some fucking
Speaker 2: iron man. I get jealous and ship to.
Speaker 7: I mean, you don't want to hear that ship, but
Speaker 7: it's better than no, than nothing, but also to like
Speaker 7: if you want to work on repair and you want
Speaker 7: to be transparent and build trust again, and you know
Speaker 7: that ship comes with just being radically honest.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I think that that's the
Speaker 2: thing that I've been a failure.
Speaker 7: In the past, just trying to finesse and ship like that,
Speaker 7: Like I'm you know what I'm saying, so and the
Speaker 7: interest in not trying to be that same nigga, You
Speaker 7: just got to be honest about it.
Speaker 4: To get comfortable have a really strong relationship with uncomfortable.
Speaker 6: Had your patriarchy come up in those moments where you're like, damn,
Speaker 6: I know I've been fucking pictures, but now she's telling
Speaker 6: me and now I'm like, I.
Speaker 7: Ain't gonna hold you. I ain't never really been that nigga.
Speaker 7: It just never bothered me most to just being in
Speaker 7: the street. You see so much ship.
Speaker 5: It's just like who am so you know women are?
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, like I didn't sat in the trap
Speaker 2: with a girl. She ship. We had two rooms or
Speaker 2: some dupe. One room, she was something place in the other.
Speaker 2: This my dog.
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying. She's a good person. I
Speaker 7: don't really look it up for how she get her money.
Speaker 7: But you know what I'm saying, it's just be like
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not doing right either.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I think it really comes
Speaker 2: down to harming.
Speaker 5: You don't agree.
Speaker 7: Happy I'm taking nigga out the game and this motherfucker
Speaker 7: like I'm taking out the game.
Speaker 5: It's actually humanitarian, actually.
Speaker 2: Doing the community service community, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: Balance, But I never I think also it's just like
Speaker 7: it's just an understanding thing like I've never been like
Speaker 7: this person that just I can't just hold like deep
Speaker 7: grudges with people.
Speaker 2: I can't.
Speaker 7: I never really felt like I know, I got my
Speaker 7: own fun ship and I judged myself before I'm judging
Speaker 7: anybody else. So I never really been on that, like
Speaker 7: I know what's funy and for me, you know what
Speaker 7: I'm saying, Like I know, like for a perfect example,
Speaker 7: like man, we're having this conversation and she was like like,
Speaker 7: they was like, could you have a date a girl
Speaker 7: who had a tinn on?
Speaker 2: I was like that, ain't me a threesome? Yeah?
Speaker 5: I'm like no, train, yeah, baby girl.
Speaker 7: Had derogatory term train whatever. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 7: two girls, two guys, one girl. And they asked me
Speaker 7: and I was like, yeah, but that's like I know,
Speaker 7: I can't fuck with that, Like that's me. It ain't judgment.
Speaker 2: I still fuck with you.
Speaker 5: So if your wife was like one of my my
Speaker 5: one of my fantasies, one of my top fantasy that
Speaker 5: just realized is like I really would like to have
Speaker 5: sex with two guys at the same time. Have you
Speaker 5: had a threesome? Yeah, so you could understand what that
Speaker 5: could be.
Speaker 2: It understand that we're gonna stick that fucking dial on
Speaker 2: the wall.
Speaker 5: That's a good idea. I did that. I did that
Speaker 5: to him.
Speaker 2: I mean, we fulfilled the fantasy, but you're not gonna
Speaker 2: come in here. He's not going to come in here
Speaker 2: for my wife. Man. Look, man, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: We all got lined.
Speaker 4: But what if she came out and said she already
Speaker 4: had done it before and she'd been keeping it from you.
Speaker 4: We're gonna love her less.
Speaker 5: You're gonna exactly this ain't no person. I just I know.
Speaker 4: But but that just that knowing shift something it becomes.
Speaker 4: It opens you up to more love. Because I think
Speaker 4: that that's the problem. It's like we don't we don't really,
Speaker 4: but you know what, women a lot of times it
Speaker 4: is a safety thing. Women have real desires because we're
Speaker 4: a lot of.
Speaker 2: Girls had them desires. Man, that's some sexual ship. Brouh.
Speaker 2: You did what I'm saying, Like our sexual people niggas
Speaker 2: want to girls.
Speaker 5: Two holes for a reason. Guys.
Speaker 6: Man, as someone who like I said, it's like, it's
Speaker 6: I think, like I said, it's not the.
Speaker 8: I mean I told you.
Speaker 5: I was like, I literally was in the moment. I
Speaker 5: was like, this is why they tell you not to
Speaker 5: do this. I was like, this is why I felt like.
Speaker 7: I mean, I think, I mean, if you could imagine
Speaker 7: on the other in the spectrum, it's like I can
Speaker 7: imagine that this.
Speaker 2: Is like the max you max you mixed pleasure.
Speaker 7: Yeah, because I haven't been being roll and even at
Speaker 7: the same time, like this is in the moment, I'm like,
Speaker 7: but I am the nigga.
Speaker 3: But.
Speaker 8: You feel like your superpowers and so I can understand.
Speaker 7: On the other end, it's not to judge. It's just
Speaker 7: like I think the thing is what is porn though,
Speaker 7: because the visual. It's the visual. It's the visual because.
Speaker 2: Of like how porn is.
Speaker 8: It's like rape in nature.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they like that. They like the like wording his.
Speaker 4: Bitch like yeah, yeah, but but there's a whole if
Speaker 4: you reprogram your mind and mind shift and imagine it
Speaker 4: in a different perspective where your queen is being nurtured
Speaker 4: and taken care of and she's actually controlling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not how that ship is, you know. But
Speaker 2: they need to make some port where.
Speaker 6: The men don't want to see ethical point where women
Speaker 6: are getting their goddess.
Speaker 2: Unlocked to see that man, what's going on?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 5: But also for women there's a there's a there's a
Speaker 5: like an underlying tonight, you're gonna go work up.
Speaker 4: God has worshiped PORNMS safe. It's so funny, sensual and
Speaker 4: sexual sensual.
Speaker 2: No, but it's like too many dicks.
Speaker 8: But that's.
Speaker 5: Why are you about this? Just worry about this.
Speaker 7: Pussy got some of that inemy, though I ain't scared
Speaker 7: to admit that I'd be fucking with the solo. I
Speaker 7: like one because you know, I read this book and
Speaker 7: they was talking about how it really fucked me up,
Speaker 7: like my relationship with porn, and not in a bad way,
Speaker 7: in a positive way, like it's called a billion wicked thoughts.
Speaker 7: And they talk about how like since this is someone's
Speaker 7: professional and how they're making money, then this is a performance,
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So this is not sex.
Speaker 7: This is the performance of sex. This is like the
Speaker 7: it's like entertainment of pleasure.
Speaker 2: It's not real.
Speaker 7: So when when the when the pleasure is real, there's
Speaker 7: like a visceral like we got like and then Nate
Speaker 7: knowing of like knowing when the pleasure is real versus
Speaker 7: when it's faith and that's why I like nigga don't
Speaker 7: like it like girl yeah yeah yeah. So so then
Speaker 7: they was comparing it to like amateur, like watching amateur
Speaker 7: porn solo amateur when girls ex just pleasuring themselves and
Speaker 7: like how the response is different because it's like you
Speaker 7: know that, yeah, they ain't faking the funk.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this is my bad now. I
Speaker 2: don't need no.
Speaker 7: Nigga in being wrong in her little twist. It's a
Speaker 7: real thing right here. She's really doing this ship. But
Speaker 7: I think, you know, all the other ship it's like
Speaker 7: so aggressive, like nigga.
Speaker 4: Be Yeah, I think it's about domination, about power.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and that's how like when we young men, like
Speaker 7: it's like just the verbage around it, beat the police
Speaker 7: up and I'm gonna kill all this cracking, all the
Speaker 7: like verbage around.
Speaker 8: Fucking is like it takes nothing.
Speaker 5: It's nothing about love. Connection about this is.
Speaker 2: Like like nineties like rap music and I'm not rap music,
Speaker 2: but like R and.
Speaker 7: B music, She's like love, I love you, you know,
Speaker 7: and ship like that, this nigga with the Nigga Joe
Speaker 7: Joe shot of niggas make your body scream with my
Speaker 7: sex machine. I said, god damn, but yeah that ship.
Speaker 2: But now saying all that a thousand candles that I've heard.
Speaker 5: So many rap music like I'm fucking pussy, but I't
Speaker 5: eating no pussy. I'm like, what are you gay? You
Speaker 5: don't eat any pussy?
Speaker 3: Like what?
Speaker 8: This is not good?
Speaker 5: This is not fun for me in the club. And
Speaker 5: I'm like, what did he say? Did he say what?
Speaker 2: That's like some prostitution, that's.
Speaker 5: Something like I like pussy. I don't like women. She
Speaker 5: had a blow up off exactly.
Speaker 7: But I'm not saying no, no, I know, I know
Speaker 7: what you're saying, because it's like that is nigga mentality.
Speaker 7: But I think the music that becomes so fucking vulgar
Speaker 7: that there is no sensuality to it.
Speaker 4: Yes, and I would say that even even in the
Speaker 4: female space, there's not a lot of sensual rap bitches
Speaker 4: but I can think of. But but I think that's
Speaker 4: also a part of the programming, Like that that is
Speaker 4: a part of like the the the agenda of separating
Speaker 4: us and making us separate and like taking away the
Speaker 4: connection between.
Speaker 5: Like it's just like taking the black man out of
Speaker 5: the hall home.
Speaker 6: And like when you can when you can make something
Speaker 6: like it's in nature loving, make it violent, then you
Speaker 6: can disconnect the cab.
Speaker 7: Yeah, because like if you really being real life, if
Speaker 7: y'all partner and y'all having sex, like it ain't rap
Speaker 7: shit no.
Speaker 8: It's hopefully not beautiful.
Speaker 5: But also for women, there is a level of safety
Speaker 5: that we have to feel like I want to feel
Speaker 5: like a human. I want to feel like we're best friends.
Speaker 6: I want to feel like if I tell you my fantasy,
Speaker 6: there's not a there's not a possibility that after two
Speaker 6: years of being together, you're going to say, never mind, bitch,
Speaker 6: you done got ran through because I told you about
Speaker 6: this fantasy I had because I like dick, because I'm
Speaker 6: a heterosexual woman. And now like if you'r a homeboy,
Speaker 6: told you, oh, you're dapping him up. But with me,
Speaker 6: they're like women rarely get to be show up in
Speaker 6: their relationships completely one hundred percent raw and human, because
Speaker 6: there's a level of a veil we have to keep
Speaker 6: to keep this illusion that I'm not sexual, even though
Speaker 6: obviously I give birth to.
Speaker 5: Babies, like my whole thing. Like that, there's this there's
Speaker 5: a level of you want a bitch to be your wife,
Speaker 5: but you don't really want to know her all the way.
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying some people.
Speaker 7: I think a lot of it goes back to what
Speaker 7: I was saying earlier, like even with the girls, like
Speaker 7: when they would come off. It's like celibate. It's just
Speaker 7: like a protection of their own sexuality. It's like I abstained.
Speaker 5: Illusion.
Speaker 4: It's also yeah, it's it's fear based, shame based, but
Speaker 4: also like I know that I've maybe so before just
Speaker 4: that you know there is not a chance in which
Speaker 4: I'm going to fuck you, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: or that I mean it sounds.
Speaker 2: Like maybe it wanted to be some little game ship
Speaker 2: like you know, I want you to feel special, but
Speaker 2: also don't lie.
Speaker 6: I've never said I was celibate when I wasn't that yeah, period,
Speaker 6: which is basically my period.
Speaker 2: You right now, it's like that's that's like celibacy.
Speaker 6: That's I think I'm like when I've lied because period,
Speaker 6: I don't want to be an expectations.
Speaker 7: I think another thing is too and I don't have
Speaker 7: these like I don't know, I don't know you know
Speaker 7: what I'm saying, And this ain't got nothing to do
Speaker 7: it even my studies in life now it's just been
Speaker 7: my truth. Like you know, me and my wife, we've
Speaker 7: gone like since you be together with somebody for so long,
Speaker 7: you go through like a few times of like separation,
Speaker 7: you're growing.
Speaker 2: You want to explore you want to do all the shit.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, it's a mutual thing.
Speaker 7: But I just think, like I ain't never had these
Speaker 7: situations where it just felt like I need to just
Speaker 7: put it on so sexually for it. It's just seemed
Speaker 7: to be mutual, right, you know what I mean? And
Speaker 7: then like you know, you know, as you talk to
Speaker 7: people in a listening and it does seem to be
Speaker 7: a severe minority, like niggas is not clear out here,
Speaker 7: so they do be having a goddamn finishing finagle or
Speaker 7: like try to talk their way into sex or be
Speaker 7: so sexually overt. But like to me, even when I
Speaker 7: was growing up, we hanging out with some girls and
Speaker 7: like you're trying to advance the sex situation so fast.
Speaker 5: It's like, right, that's how you get that you don't
Speaker 5: get the pussy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's just like but see that's never I
Speaker 2: don't know that's.
Speaker 4: It's true, because it's saying like it's like especially young.
Speaker 2: Women, not always true.
Speaker 5: Lot of women will feel pressured do it, and.
Speaker 7: I think Nigga be knowing that, and then like when
Speaker 7: they try to do they try to like they try
Speaker 7: to put the sex out there so you know, like,
Speaker 7: this is the expectation.
Speaker 2: This the expectation, and it's like but for me, it's
Speaker 2: always like, let that.
Speaker 5: Ship come to you that they got a fucking finesse
Speaker 5: out of.
Speaker 7: Like I'm gonna keep even you know, sometimes you don't
Speaker 7: want to do this and she'll be like, man, just
Speaker 7: come on, I be like, man straight, because you know,
Speaker 7: I want it to be a mutual thing. That been
Speaker 7: me my whole life. I need that ship to feel reciprocal, essensual,
Speaker 7: and mutual. You know what I'm saying. The second you
Speaker 7: make me feel like I'm doing a little too much chasing,
Speaker 7: are you doing your favorite I'm turned off?
Speaker 5: But why is it not the standard?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Me feel like it's the entitlement, it's the power, and
Speaker 4: it's the lack of disciplining your dick. You don't have
Speaker 4: control over your dick. You think the moment your dick
Speaker 4: gets hard, it's time to fuck.
Speaker 6: But it's also the lack of intimacy. You don't even
Speaker 6: know how to lay in the space of intimacy. You
Speaker 6: don't know how to I do think men just also
Speaker 6: don't have control of their dick.
Speaker 4: Literally urges, It urges that they just automatically think deserve
Speaker 4: to be expressed.
Speaker 7: You know, you do need to be I've been gifts
Speaker 7: here of that too, Like instead of like sitting in
Speaker 7: the intimacy, yeah.
Speaker 5: Tuned up, that's slimmer than.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, we don't get to that. We're gonna get
Speaker 6: to the destination either way. Let's see will expose you though.
Speaker 6: That's why I was just like, let's get up. We
Speaker 6: don't need nothing looking at somebody's eyes. And people get
Speaker 6: uncomfortable because they're a lack of intimacy well you know.
Speaker 7: And like, you know, it's like anything else. It's like
Speaker 7: when the first time you have six that losing your
Speaker 7: virginity is vulnerable.
Speaker 2: It's the first time, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: So like, if you have an experienced true intimacy, it
Speaker 7: could feel like you're doing something for the first time.
Speaker 7: You don't want to feel an experience. You don't want
Speaker 7: to feel that vulnerable with somebody, even though in my experience,
Speaker 7: like you know, a girl really fuck with you, she
Speaker 7: gonna walk through that motherfucker just is what it is
Speaker 7: because she can enjoy herself too.
Speaker 2: But you know, sometimes it's just hard to sit in
Speaker 2: that space.
Speaker 7: Of like being inexperience, not knowing, uncomfortable, where it's like
Speaker 7: this is supposed to be about pleasure, but.
Speaker 2: It's like ship.
Speaker 7: The way they're like Matt simize on your pleasure is
Speaker 7: to get through the moments where you don't know what
Speaker 7: the fuck you're doing, right, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: This is my thought.
Speaker 4: Also, I think I think that men don't really care
Speaker 4: about women's intimacy. So if you don't really care about
Speaker 4: her intimacy, it's about you. They don't really give a
Speaker 4: fuck of how she feels, true, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like men or not here making the young lady come man,
Speaker 2: it's true, just slow down.
Speaker 4: It would all be having better sex if we all
Speaker 4: just cared about each other a little bit more respect Yeah,
Speaker 4: like respecting each other in our wholeness from whatever being
Speaker 4: a hole in the next room to fucking not being
Speaker 4: a hole in the next room. Like just respecting what
Speaker 4: a woman and what a man too like is in
Speaker 4: their wholeness and not saying, well, now you're disposable and
Speaker 4: now you're flash it too.
Speaker 7: Though, if we was just sorry to cut, if we
Speaker 7: was like if we if we just hear, if we
Speaker 7: were just human sexually across the board.
Speaker 2: Where it's like wherever was like.
Speaker 5: Let's just get naked.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't everybody just need to get be like yeah, I.
Speaker 5: Don your your slept from slut Island.
Speaker 7: But you know, niggas to take that round like yeah
Speaker 7: I am a whore and the woman be like it's
Speaker 7: that scarlet lettership like it's like yeah.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 6: But I think more women need to show up in
Speaker 6: their wholeness and show up in their honesty and trust.
Speaker 6: I think the women are so fearful that men.
Speaker 5: Are not going to love them and be with them
Speaker 5: and marry them, that they lie so that they can
Speaker 5: get that title or you know, feel worthy in that way.
Speaker 6: But I feel like if more women showed up as
Speaker 6: themselves and showed up full and be like if you
Speaker 6: can't handle it.
Speaker 5: We have to set the tone because we give us
Speaker 5: the pussy. You know what I'm saying with that movie,
Speaker 5: We have to rescind our pussy.
Speaker 4: We have to take our pussies back, bitches, because really
Speaker 4: we do control this ship. So if we get our
Speaker 4: ship together, then they'll have to get there.
Speaker 6: It's just about to get it's just about trusting the
Speaker 6: fact that there are real, real niggas out there that guns.
Speaker 5: We need to get guns because they would make it.
Speaker 2: I was saying, I think when I just said some
Speaker 2: bullshit because.
Speaker 5: I was like, are you proud?
Speaker 1: Real?
Speaker 6: But women did to get like that a nigga calls
Speaker 6: your horn, Okay, I'm desirable, Yeah, well whatever, they like
Speaker 6: me like everybody you know, like I wanted to. So
Speaker 6: I'm having experiences and maybe you're not having more. Women
Speaker 6: need to feel comfortable in men not accepting them and
Speaker 6: just to be comfortable and like you're not my.
Speaker 5: Nigga and that's why and that's good.
Speaker 6: Like I like, even as having a podcast talking about sex,
Speaker 6: there was a time where like we're fucking it for chances, right,
Speaker 6: we're never gonna get want to listen to the episode
Speaker 6: all the time because of real because real niggas recognize
Speaker 6: real niggas.
Speaker 5: You want me to lie, and you want me to
Speaker 5: lie and pretend nigga, I'm not the nigga for you.
Speaker 7: And then you know some some people is just sexually experienced, bro,
Speaker 7: and it's like I don't want to fuck with nobody
Speaker 7: is like green to fucking like I want somebody to
Speaker 7: sexually experience.
Speaker 2: So we can have some fast, have some fun.
Speaker 5: I'm not trying to teach you everything you.
Speaker 7: Like or just like have to pull back from the
Speaker 7: freaky ship, right, I might be honest and super super
Speaker 7: freaky ship and you.
Speaker 5: Can't handle it and that's scary for you. Well yeah,
Speaker 5: because you are ready. Yeah, and you know, man, embrace
Speaker 5: the hor find.
Speaker 4: Your match, you know, sexually, spiritually, all of the things.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 5: But oh wow, we never finished playing trigger.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you can finish, and then we can because I
Speaker 7: could tell, I can see that, I can feel that.
Speaker 2: It's a wrap.
Speaker 4: No, We're we can talk forever. We only got to
Speaker 4: the first fucking one. Okay, religion, Okay, Oh no, we
Speaker 4: did get We got through a few. Okay, mushrooms.
Speaker 2: When necessary.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: White women mm hmm not not my cup of tea black, dangerous, dangerous.
Speaker 5: Have you ever been with the white woman?
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't have sex or some white women,
Speaker 2: but very few. Not my vibe.
Speaker 5: What was what was off smell interesting is not matching
Speaker 5: the pheromount.
Speaker 2: That's what it is.
Speaker 7: Not to say that, like, you know, yeah, just the
Speaker 7: whole Like, I gotta talk to you. I don't know
Speaker 7: what to talk to white people. About white were.
Speaker 2: Acting like, oh.
Speaker 5: What not say that happy that you're okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, I can't deal.
Speaker 5: What's your favorite food?
Speaker 2: Oh black women, Oh black women amazing love that ten
Speaker 2: out of ten would recommend.
Speaker 5: Favorite food.
Speaker 2: I like Indian food.
Speaker 4: Really you love Indian food. Guilty pleasure mm hmm.
Speaker 7: Rick and Morty just a vibe just like being lazy
Speaker 7: as fuck, you know what I'm saying, like laying up
Speaker 7: not doing ship watching.
Speaker 5: Rick and Morty favorite sex position.
Speaker 2: Either I got to like the standard missionary or just
Speaker 2: being a road like a real nice give me and
Speaker 2: my type.
Speaker 5: Let's standing missionary.
Speaker 8: Well, like you might be off the bed, okay, okay.
Speaker 5: I was like, are we standing up together? And that's crazy?
Speaker 2: Nigga got a nigga gotta I got you got like
Speaker 2: a snake.
Speaker 5: Oh my god. After life.
Speaker 2: It should be lit death, not scared care.
Speaker 7: Actually death, like come on, waited, bro, not even like
Speaker 7: you know, it's like one of the things you just
Speaker 7: except you don't get to award it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I live my life to the fullest.
Speaker 5: Until that thing Yolo baby self care.
Speaker 2: Could use more of it.
Speaker 7: Oh twenty one savage, Yeah I remember, yeah, I remember.
Speaker 2: He's like I'm gonna hoe to I just thought that
Speaker 2: was so funny.
Speaker 5: Big guess regret m.
Speaker 2: Lying to people.
Speaker 5: I love big it's accomplishment.
Speaker 2: Podcast.
Speaker 5: Huh part Yeah, good name pet Peeve.
Speaker 2: Oh man, they're fucking loud, just being loud, loud, lying
Speaker 2: as you know.
Speaker 5: That's WoT loud and annoying. Yeah, just loud for no reason.
Speaker 4: Porn category, porn everony solo, every good, maybe it's goddess.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say you some links today forgot essensual.
Speaker 2: Man, don't give me no, don't send me no down.
Speaker 5: Sorry under him?
Speaker 8: You give me your number.
Speaker 5: Were situations we're trying to hook you up.
Speaker 3: Growl.
Speaker 2: You don't even know.
Speaker 5: Get your powers. Best advice you ever got.
Speaker 2: Just take your time, man, take your time.
Speaker 5: Salt or sugar on.
Speaker 2: Grits, so salt, pepper, butter, cheese, sugar.
Speaker 5: It's not dessert for you. It's a meal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, that's savor.
Speaker 4: It's really with eggs and fish.
Speaker 7: And I hold you man, I'm getting to that place
Speaker 7: in my life where like breakfast is not necessarily supposed
Speaker 7: to be for morning, Like it's better than Yeah, it's
Speaker 7: a meal for real, Like, what the fun you waking
Speaker 7: up eating all that ship a lot of goddamn food.
Speaker 2: Start.
Speaker 5: I know I had the bomb ass breakfast today. I'm
Speaker 5: hungry now. I haven't eaten anything so great.
Speaker 2: Really getting into that like two boys?
Speaker 5: Oh wow, high protein?
Speaker 2: You just starting you want to start? I want to
Speaker 2: start my day feeling good. I think I'm I didn't
Speaker 2: need the Fat Boys ship long enough. I'm trying to.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to. I'm trying to turn this franchise around.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, you about to get the body add yadi.
Speaker 4: I don't want to see you with fucking next week
Speaker 4: all skinny ozempic or something.
Speaker 5: No, they don't do that anymore. They trying to reach out.
Speaker 2: To you to do ads. Nigga. No not talking to me.
Speaker 5: Look, man, one thing about me, man, The nigga is
Speaker 5: all Osmpic too.
Speaker 7: We go our natural round brother. Were either gonna die
Speaker 7: fat or we're gonna get this ship together.
Speaker 5: Yeah, DeAnda, do you have an affirmation for our people?
Speaker 2: Stay black?
Speaker 5: Stay black? Baby? I feel that.
Speaker 2: I hope I'm black, y'all cool.
Speaker 5: I appreciate you coming that you opened up and told
Speaker 5: us all your business.
Speaker 2: I ain't sure, man, I'm an open book.
Speaker 5: You're as cool as I knew you were going to be.
Speaker 5: I'm thankful that you came and that I stalked you
Speaker 5: and your d MS and made everybody email.
Speaker 6: You from our team, ask him again. You're always our friend.
Speaker 6: If we're in Georgia, we're gonna holler at you. And
Speaker 6: also if you're here, like anything you need from us,
Speaker 6: we got you for sure.
Speaker 4: I was coming through and before you get out of here,
Speaker 4: I need you to do some wishy ship with us
Speaker 4: real quick, hyn.
Speaker 5: You pull a card please.
Speaker 2: High priest is with this mean she this her, this
Speaker 2: her bad.
Speaker 5: This her this what she is in power?
Speaker 2: This is what she does. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, if
Speaker 2: you ever really needed a reading like she.
Speaker 5: You know, we need to have missus Deanta carl On.
Speaker 5: I know we didn't have a couples on should be
Speaker 5: do remember? Oh yeah, when you come back to l a.
Speaker 2: Ship who knows?
Speaker 5: Okay you ready, hold on, hold on it? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 5: they'll be a live taroor reading. I'm so happy. Oh yeah,
Speaker 5: this is a good one. Turn it up into the speaker.
Speaker 2: Damn man, nigga, not right now? Oh yeah, it's like
Speaker 2: ten o'clock. Hey, what's up matter? Look, I'm with these
Speaker 2: girls and they on their podcast they be pulling cards.
Speaker 2: What this means? What else came with it? And then
Speaker 2: they just pulled one card?
Speaker 8: You pulled that, I pulled this, I pulled this High Priest.
Speaker 3: The High PRIESTSS is a deeply spiritual card, like the
Speaker 3: High Pricess is the.
Speaker 1: It's okay, I'm a little bit so I know what
Speaker 1: it means.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. We recording, were recording, so you get this.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, just be mind for that we recording.
Speaker 1: Like this car can also represents like secrets, and it
Speaker 1: can represent like the subconscious, uh, the unknown.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is also like a card.
Speaker 3: What's going to the deck?
Speaker 2: You the High Priestess?
Speaker 5: What's I don't know, baby, they just got we have
Speaker 5: a spread and he just pulled a card.
Speaker 3: What yes, this what's the last card? It was reversed?
Speaker 5: It was three?
Speaker 1: Okay, So that's why because this word like lately this
Speaker 1: is very much about like spiritual.
Speaker 3: But I'm getting a secretive energy off of it. And
Speaker 3: with the three we couldn't deal with work.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, like she like the highest of the high,
Speaker 3: like that ascended master.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's masterful, she's mastered her like.
Speaker 5: Climate, entering, illuation, divine knowledge and wisdom for your expertise,
Speaker 5: my baby, thank you, Hey girl, Hey, no worry, no worries, girl,
Speaker 5: appreciate you. Next time, it's okay.
Speaker 4: We already told him you got to come back and
Speaker 4: you gotta come on the podcast because your your your
Speaker 4: mama and so are we okay to do that?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Good, yes, come on girl, we'll go have brunch and talk.
Speaker 5: Ship me too. She sure did, she said, pull the
Speaker 5: last card. I just see that the whole deck.
Speaker 2: That's how ship.
Speaker 5: It says, your intuition is your intuitive sense right now
Speaker 5: is providing it with useful information and is assisting you
Speaker 5: into becoming more in touch with your subconscious mind. You're
Speaker 5: doing your thing right now, so it seems very appropriate
Speaker 5: you're you're doing your thing because the people need you.
Speaker 5: We need to hear the messages from the men that
Speaker 5: know that women are human and that are just you know,
Speaker 5: with with the black folks and.
Speaker 6: Doing it's really not it's fucking commentation.
Speaker 7: It's like if we really want to be serious about
Speaker 7: what we say, like want a better community and when
Speaker 7: you know, a better relationship sometimes one another. It really
Speaker 7: just started that simple, like humanize one another. And that's
Speaker 7: like you know me and the women women and men too.
Speaker 7: Is a big thing with women like being a little
Speaker 7: guy now homophone where everything niggas do is gay. So
Speaker 7: it's like you want nigga to be more intuning his
Speaker 7: feelings and then you get into and his feelings like
Speaker 7: it's a nigga like men like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It's just, you know, we got to give each other
Speaker 2: a little bit more grace.
Speaker 7: I understand that we're on the other end of the
Speaker 7: pendulum where y'all are like kind of in a tack
Speaker 7: mode a little bit, but y'all, you know, shit happened,
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: If y'all been on the other end of.
Speaker 7: The where y'all been feeling under attack, the only way
Speaker 7: to like balance that is a swing to the extreme
Speaker 7: or whatever the other side is. So I think we'll
Speaker 7: we'll find ourselves in the center. It just need more
Speaker 7: people being honest and like compassionate, caring about each other
Speaker 7: in a real way and not just caring for whatever
Speaker 7: game we're trying to gain.
Speaker 5: So nice to see you in the center, sir type shit, Well,
Speaker 5: thank you so much for coming on the show. Thank
Speaker 5: you for spending time with us. It's late. I appreciate you.
Speaker 2: Thank y'all for invitement.
Speaker 5: Absolutely, tell our people where they can find you.
Speaker 7: Deontay dot cayle on TikTok and Instagram, This Niggs podcast
Speaker 7: on Instagram and you and if you want to follow
Speaker 7: us on Patreon, it is the Instagra the Grit Names podcast.
Speaker 2: Or for everything, you can go to Deontay Kyle dot com.
Speaker 4: Hey, and we're both on Patreon, so make sure you
Speaker 4: follow our Patreon to patreon dot com slash Good Mom's
Speaker 4: Bad Choices. You know where to find us, hopefully, just
Speaker 4: go to the description and click all the ship and subscribe.
Speaker 5: Subscribe to both podcasts. Yeah, man, be resourceful, man, it's important,
Speaker 5: like use common sense. You might have to click a
Speaker 5: few things. It's okay, I know, I know.
Speaker 4: It seems we're not gonna your algorithm'n aith.
Speaker 5: My algorithm is better because you're on it. Deontay, I'm
Speaker 5: gonna keep it real.
Speaker 2: I appreciate that.
Speaker 5: Thank you guys, see you later.
Speaker 2: Bye,