1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: On the Bechdel Cast. 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 2: The questions asked if movies have women and them, are 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,399 Speaker 2: all their discussions just boyfriends and husbands, or do they 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 2: have individualism? It's the patriarchy, zeph and best start changing 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 2: it with the Bechdel Cast. 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 3: Hey, Jamie, Hey, Caitlyn, biz. 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 4: Wha, it's me a secret b wait a second with 8 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 4: a secret life? 9 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 3: Is that a metaphor for something? I bet it is. 10 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 5: I honestly thought you were going to take a completely 11 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 5: different route. 12 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 4: Wait what did you think I was going? 13 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 5: Oh goodness, I thought you were gonna go like the 14 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 5: darker route with like with like t ray don't ask 15 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 5: me why. 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,279 Speaker 4: No, I wait, like that guy. I mean, we'll talk 17 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 4: about it, but. 18 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:48,959 Speaker 5: We'll talk about it. 19 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 3: Also, the fact that he's played by real life piece 20 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 3: of shit Paul Bettany or just like, oh wait, I 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 3: don't know about oh my, he's I mean, short story, 22 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 3: we'll tell you the show is in a second. But 23 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 3: he's Johnny Depp's best friend. And there was I was 24 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 3: like following that case very closely two years ago now, 25 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 3: and yeah, there's a lot of texts between him and 26 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 3: Johnny Depp that came up in court that were sort 27 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 3: of Paul Bettany being like, I agree, she's horrible and 28 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 3: like and much worse. So you know, this is your 29 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 3: public bulletin to. 30 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 5: Paul Bettany and Nate Parker suck. 31 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 32 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, we talked about Nate Parker on the last episode 33 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 4: that you were on four. 34 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 5: It's true. 35 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 3: Also Nate Parker is playing I think a horrible character too. 36 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 3: Like they're both at very least the two real life 37 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 3: bad men in this movie also play bad men in 38 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 3: the movie I don't know two thousand and eight. I 39 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 3: don't know. Yeah, we'll talk about it. 40 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 4: They're telling on themselves. I think in their performances. 41 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: They're like I can relate. 42 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 4: Hello, everyone, Welcome to the Bechdel Cast. My name is 43 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 4: Caitlin Durda, my. 44 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 3: Name is Jamie Loftus, and this is our podcast where 45 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 3: we take a closer look at your favorite movies using 46 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 3: an intersectional feminist lens. And today we have I just 47 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 3: want to get I mean, we already sort of started 48 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 3: this breeze. Yeah, let's bring our guess. Is this her 49 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:20,679 Speaker 3: third fourth appearance? I can't even third? My gosh, wow. 50 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 5: Thank you ell so much for that. Oh my goodness. 51 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 3: Pat Trick hat Trick Hat trick. We've done it. 52 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 4: So the movie is The Secret Life of Bees. The 53 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 4: guest is They were the seventh Poet Laureate of Portland, Maine. 54 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 4: You can check out their poetry collections Judas and Suicide, 55 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 4: Refused a Second Date, and What's So Wrong with a 56 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 4: Pity Party? 57 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:43,119 Speaker 1: Anyway. 58 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 4: You can also see their work in LGBTQ, Nation, Stylist, 59 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 4: and Full Stop, as well as interviews in Black Girl Nerds. 60 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 4: And you've heard her on our episodes on Perks of 61 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:58,559 Speaker 4: Being a Wallflower and Beyond the Lights. It's Maya Williams. 62 00:02:59,000 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: Welcome. 63 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 5: Thank you for having me back, and thank you all 64 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 5: for your patients, for how there's always a crappy masculine 65 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 5: presenting person. 66 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 4: In the movies we have, I mean, for your patients. 67 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 4: Oh god, it is kind of inevitable. Yeah, unfortunately. 68 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, but every single. 69 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 3: One I know in three very different movies too. 70 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. 71 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 4: Tell us about your relationship with Secret Life of Bees. 72 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 73 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 5: I read The Secret Life of Bees in the eighth 74 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 5: grade after I saw it in the movies with my family, 75 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 5: and I remember I remember this being like a comfort 76 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 5: movie at some point, and then I revisited it when 77 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 5: my first book came out because of its analysis on 78 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 5: like religion and black communities and suicidality, and I had 79 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 5: the opportunity to talk about it on the podcast Black 80 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 5: Girl Film Podcast. I am not a black girl, but 81 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 5: I will always support Black girls as a former black girl, 82 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 5: and so there's some things that I'll definitely repeat from today. 83 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 5: But I'm especially excited to talk about the religious landscape 84 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 5: from this book because I have book commentary and film 85 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 5: commentary notes to get. We're back on commentary's baby. 86 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 4: Yeah nice, So you have read the book? I have, Yeah, 87 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 4: good to know because I have not, but I have 88 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 4: read the Yeah. We would never read a book on 89 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 4: this podcast. As we've said, I did read the Wikipedia synopsis. 90 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 4: So I feel so you've been very prepared to discuss 91 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 4: I mean, I think Mayo Wee can agree they basically 92 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 4: read the book. 93 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: Proud of you, Jamie. 94 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 4: What about you? What's your relationship with the movie? 95 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 3: I also don't have a relationship really with this at all. 96 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 3: I was like, where do I remember this title? From 97 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 3: the airport? This was like a major Like this book 98 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 3: probably to this day is like at the airport. It's 99 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 3: at the airport, it's upfront, and you're just like someday 100 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 3: I'm gonna know what happens in these books that are 101 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 3: at the airport. And today was the day I learned 102 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 3: about what happened in this book that's at the airport. 103 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm very excited to discuss it. I 104 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 3: have like some interesting I'm excited to talk about, like 105 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 3: movies of this era too, because I feel like there 106 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 3: are two movies that and I don't mean to like compare, 107 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 3: I mean that have like a similar through line of 108 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 3: that came out within a couple of years of each other. 109 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 3: That are all movies that take place in the civil 110 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 3: rights era that I believe are all based on source 111 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 3: material by white writers that are ultimately somehow about white 112 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 3: teenage girls. I was also thinking of a movie I love, 113 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 3: but Harspray Very Guilty of This and The Help, which 114 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 3: I haven't seen but I double checked. So this was 115 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 3: very much like something that was in media at this time, 116 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 3: and I was kind I mean, I was torn because 117 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 3: I think the performances in this movie are really lovely 118 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 3: and I am not immune to the powers of baby 119 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 3: Dakota Fanning. I think like that scene with her at 120 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 3: the end is pretty incredible for a thirteen year old, 121 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 3: but it just it just felt like I don't know. Ultimately, 122 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 3: I was like, why is this movie about her? Like 123 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 3: it was just I don't know. 124 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, for sure. 125 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, Jennifer Hudson just won an oscar 126 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 3: and where and she disappears for half the movie? Like 127 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 3: make it make sense? And I'm excited to talk about 128 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 3: the production of this movie because I was, I mean like, 129 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 3: I mean, this is the second Gina Prince Bythwood movie 130 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 3: we've covered with Maya, but I think the fourth on 131 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 3: the show overall, because we've also done there with a 132 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 3: Woman King and love and basketball. Oh right, yes, yes, yes, 133 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 3: So this was this was not my favorite of hers, 134 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 3: and I was also like, I wonder what And then 135 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 3: I looked into like why there was an eight year 136 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 3: gap between her first and her second movie. I think 137 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 3: that there's a lot to say and I did a 138 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 3: little bit of research there. So I'm excited to talk 139 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 3: about like the context of how this film came together. 140 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:06,679 Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know. I was like a little 141 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 3: conflicted because there were some scenes, in some moments in 142 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 3: this movie that really got me. And I think if 143 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 3: I saw it when it came out I would it 144 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 3: would have also been a comfort movie. 145 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. I hadn't seen this movie before. I hadn't read 146 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 4: the book, as I said, so this was my first. 147 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 3: But you read the Wikipedia page, but I read the 148 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 3: log it on Goodreads. You did it. 149 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 4: It's true. I'm an academic, I'm a scholar. I'm a 150 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 4: genius for having done that. And yeah, I wasn't totally 151 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 4: sure what to expect. And because of how my brain works, 152 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 4: when I hear the title of this movie, I confuse 153 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 4: it with Akila and the b Oh. 154 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 3: I was confusing it with a Secret Life of Pets. 155 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 4: I mean, yes, that too, Okay. 156 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 5: Brittany from the Black Girl Film podcast also said that, like, like, 157 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 5: oh no, it's not pet. 158 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 4: It's a different movie. And now I know that. 159 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 3: We still haven't covered Aequila in the Bee No, but 160 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 3: we should. There will come a day. 161 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 4: Yes, so I was kind of confusing Secret Life of 162 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 4: Bees with that movie, but now I know the difference 163 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 4: and Secret. 164 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 3: Life of the American Teenager. Like, oh yeah, anyways. 165 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 5: True, anything with the title the Secret blank blank blank, 166 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 5: if it doesn't have to do with pets, as you 167 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 5: pointed out, Jamie, like it has to like it has 168 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 5: to do with something about like some struggle with womanhood 169 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 5: or girlhood. 170 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 3: Oh that's true. 171 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 4: I mean a woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets. 172 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 3: The secret life of Titanic. Oh yeah, that's really interesting. 173 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 3: I hadn't ever connected that, but you're totally right, that's bizarre. 174 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 3: I also we this is also my earlier this week 175 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 3: we covered b movie, so. 176 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 5: We've just excited for that episode. 177 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 3: Is on the brain this week. And I also, I mean, 178 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 3: I can't decide if I am being overly like I 179 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 3: wish the movie just said this, but I'm like, bees 180 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 3: are a matriarchy. The community in this movie is a matriarchy. 181 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 3: Why aren't we talking more about it? 182 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 5: The book is more explicit about it, and like, okay, 183 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,959 Speaker 5: and in the commentary they talk about how like, oh, 184 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 5: this is one of the few film sets where we 185 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 5: got to work with a bunch of women not only 186 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 5: on camera but behind the camera. But but yeah, in 187 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 5: the book there are all these like epigraphs about about 188 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 5: the matriarchy of bees and how like you don't need 189 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 5: the male bees until you need to reproduce and stuff 190 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 5: like that. 191 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 3: Yeah that's like, yeah, the I mean we were talking 192 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 3: about it the other day, like the male bees, you know, 193 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 3: fuck and then their dicks explode and then they're gone, 194 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 3: and you're. 195 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 4: Like, yeah, they die, all right, and they serve that 196 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 4: one purpose. 197 00:09:55,880 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 3: How I feel anyways. Yes, okay, so we're all kind 198 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 3: of coming from slightly different places here. Yeah, I'm excited 199 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 3: to talk about it. 200 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 4: There's lots to talk about. Let's take a quick break 201 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 4: and then we'll come back for the recap. B We're back. 202 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 4: W Yeah, I'll watch out. 203 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, at least, here's what I'll say for 204 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 3: Secret Life of Bees. It is the best movie about 205 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 3: bees we've covered this. 206 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 5: Week, and I believe it. 207 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, at least. Uh, you know, I have gripes with 208 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 3: this movie, but it is not about a capitalist, patriarchal 209 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 3: conception of bees starring a zionist bee. So you know, 210 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 3: not a high bar to clear, but you know, we're. 211 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 4: The saying, yeah, this one is far better at least. Okay, 212 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 4: So here's the recap of Secret Life of Bees. I'll 213 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 4: place a content warning at the top here for anti 214 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 4: black racism and violence, child abuse, domestic abuse, and suicide 215 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 4: and suicidal ideation. So we open on a scene where 216 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 4: a four year old girl, Lily is hiding in a 217 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 4: closet while her father is being abusive to her mother. 218 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 4: A gun is dropped in front of Lily and she 219 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 4: picks it up and shoots it by accident, killing her mother. 220 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 4: We cut to ten years later. It's nineteen sixty four. 221 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 4: Lily is about to turn fourteen. She's played by Dakota Fanning. 222 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 4: She lives on a peach farm with her father t Ray, 223 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 4: played by a piece of shit Paul Bettany, who is 224 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 4: still cold and cruel. For her birthday, all Lily wants 225 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 4: is for him to tell her what her mom was like. 226 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 4: And all he has to say about Lily's mom is 227 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 4: that she was obsessed with saving bugs, and Lily seems 228 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 4: to have the same kind of fascination with insects. Bees 229 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 4: seem to be just kind of like swarming to her 230 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 4: and they're drawn to her. 231 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 3: I do like the literary concept of being a bug 232 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 3: girl as like a hereditary trait. 233 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:21,439 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, true. 234 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 5: Well with her mom it was cockroaches, and we'll get 235 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 5: into why that is and like and yet. 236 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 3: With Lily it's bees, Yeah yeah, and roach girl is hardcore. 237 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 4: I mean, wouldn't be me. I'll say that I do 238 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 4: not like bugs. 239 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:41,599 Speaker 5: My OCD and bugs are not impatible. 240 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 4: Not a big fan myself, But that night, Lily goes 241 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 4: outside and digs up a box where she keeps some 242 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 4: of her mom's belongings, including an illustration on a small 243 00:12:55,400 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 4: plaque of wood that depicts a black virgin Mary and 244 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 4: baby Jesus and it says Tiberan on the back, which 245 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 4: is the name of a town in South Carolina where 246 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:14,079 Speaker 4: they are. Tray finds Lily outside at night and reprimands her. 247 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 4: He makes her kneel in dry grits. 248 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,719 Speaker 3: He also thinks that she's been like having sex with 249 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 3: someone too, that's he implied. 250 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 4: Yeah for sure, Yeah, yeah yeah, and so he's, you know, 251 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 4: abusively punishing her. We also meet their housekeeper, Rosaline, played 252 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 4: by Jennifer Hudson of Cat's Fame. 253 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 3: Of course, like Cas Jennifer Hudson, fun fun Jennifer Hudson. 254 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 3: In fact, she stays at the hotel that my fiance 255 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:52,719 Speaker 3: works at. Your fiance, my fiance, and she is very 256 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 3: nice the end. 257 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I love that. 258 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 259 00:13:55,960 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 4: So President Johnson has just signed the Civil Rights Bill 260 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 4: into law, which makes it easier for black people to vote. 261 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 4: So Rosaline and Lily go into town. So that Rosaline 262 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 4: can register to vote, but on the way, three white 263 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 4: men harass and attack Rosaline, but because of anti black racism, 264 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 4: Rosaline is the one who is arrested. Back home, t 265 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 4: Ray and Lily argue. Tiray tells her that before her 266 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 4: mother died, she had left Lily and that the night 267 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 4: that she was shot, her mother had come back only 268 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 4: to collect the rest of her things before leaving forever, 269 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 4: and Lily refuses to believe this and wants to think 270 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 4: that her mom was coming back to take her with her. 271 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 4: So Lily runs away from home. 272 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 5: And writes a note that says something like liars like 273 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 5: you sure, rotten Hell. 274 00:14:56,520 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 3: I that was like, yeah, I appreciated that. No, and 275 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 3: I was like, good for you. 276 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 4: I mean, not to keep invoking Titanic, but it's similar 277 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 4: to the note that Rose leaves to cal where she's like, 278 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 4: now you can keep both of us locked in. You're safe. 279 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 3: I know, but like, but I do like that this 280 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 3: like it also feels so like I don't know, it 281 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 3: just very empowering to see her be like bye dad, 282 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 3: rotten Hell. You're like, whoa fuck? Yeah, because she's right. 283 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. So she runs away. She goes to the hospital 284 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 4: to collect Rosaline, who is there recovering after having been 285 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 4: beaten before she's sent to jail, so they escape together 286 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 4: and they head to that town of Tiberon. They stop 287 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 4: for some food and Lily sees all of these jars 288 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 4: of honey that have that same label on them that 289 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 4: she's seen before, that same image of the Black Mary 290 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 4: and Jesus that was on the wood in the box 291 00:15:56,680 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 4: of her mother's belongings, and the shopkeeper explains that a 292 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 4: black woman named August Boatwright makes this brand of honey 293 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 4: and it's the best honey in South Carolina. 294 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 3: August but the boat right, sisters, is so literary, you're 295 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 3: just like, it's good, good literary names. 296 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 4: So Lily and Rosaline find August's big pink house amazing, 297 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 4: and they knock on the door and Lily tells August 298 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 4: played by Queen Latifah and her sisters June and May 299 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 4: played by Alicia Keys and Sophie Okonado that they need 300 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 4: a place to stay. But Lily lies and says that 301 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 4: both of her parents have died and she and Rosaline 302 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 4: are on their way to stay with her aunt, and 303 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 4: they'll work for August until they can afford a train ticket. 304 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 4: June is suspicious of this story and she doesn't like 305 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 4: the idea of them staying understand, but August is more 306 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 4: kind of like warm and sympathetic, so she's like, sure, 307 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 4: you can stay in the honeyhouse and cook and help 308 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 4: with the bees. So Lily and Rosaline settle in. August 309 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 4: starts to show Lily the ropes of bee keeping, and 310 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 4: Lily really takes to it. She is not afraid of 311 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 4: bees or anything. And it made me wonder and I 312 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 4: forgot to look this up, but I'm like, I wonder 313 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 4: if like Dakota Fanning is or is not afraid of bees. 314 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 4: I wonder if Queen Latifa is or is not afraid 315 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:35,440 Speaker 4: of bees. 316 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 5: Oh so Queen Latifa, Tristan Wilds, who plays Zach, and 317 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 5: Dakota Fanning each had to go through bee keeping training 318 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 5: for the film. 319 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:47,959 Speaker 3: Yeah. I also read that Gina Prince Bythwood is deadly 320 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 3: afraid of bees as well. Yes, And it was like 321 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 3: they had to sort of all get through it together 322 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 3: of like, Okay, if I can be near the bees, 323 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 3: that you could be near the bees. And I guess 324 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 3: that there's only there's only one cgi shot of bees 325 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,719 Speaker 3: and I don't think I would have been if I 326 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 3: had directed this movie, I would not have been that brave. 327 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:05,959 Speaker 3: I'm like, na, you know it's gonna know, no, it's 328 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 3: gonna be yeah. 329 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 4: And I didn't even notice what was cgi and what 330 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 4: yeah wasn't so that good job there, But I am 331 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 4: I am so afraid of bees. I would not ever 332 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 4: be in a b movie me neither. I'll say that. 333 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. I want to be brave. I our 334 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 3: our friend Alex who was recently on the show, used 335 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 3: to be a bee keeper, and like, some day, some 336 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 3: day I'll be. But yeah, I know, I'm terrified of them. 337 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 4: They're so scary. 338 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 5: Love their work though exactly, I don't want to be 339 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 5: scared of them, and because of their work and and 340 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 5: I just just a yeah, and I know they were 341 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:44,120 Speaker 5: here first. I'm still afraid of them. 342 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 3: I'm not trying to get in their way, I'm not 343 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 3: trying to disrupt them. 344 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 4: But it's just like I would never kill a bee, 345 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 4: let's be clear. I mean they're important to the world. 346 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 3: I got my first beasting last year, which is like 347 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 3: wild that it took that long, Oh my god, but 348 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 3: it was when I was in Yeah, I was I 349 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 3: was at the beach and it like it was trying 350 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 3: to sting me in and so I swatted and then 351 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 3: but it was just like no, no, this is I'm 352 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 3: literally dying on this hill and it stung me in 353 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 3: the middle of my forehead. It was so bizarre. Yeah, 354 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 3: oh my gosh. Look much like many people in this movie, 355 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 3: I've learned to forgive and move on. But yes, a 356 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 3: difficult be experience. 357 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 4: Okay, so we learn more about the sisters, the boat 358 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 4: right sisters and their lives. June is with this guy 359 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 4: named Neil played by Nate Parker, also real life piece 360 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 4: of shit, who wants to marry her, but she doesn't 361 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 4: want to be married, so she keeps saying no. 362 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 5: And in the books she got left at the altar 363 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 5: by a different man. 364 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 3: Interesting, Oh so that's why. 365 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, And like, there's even a deleted scene where I believe, 366 00:19:57,320 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 5: I believe Rosaline like tries to call her out and say, like, listen, 367 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 5: you need to need to live your life. I know 368 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 5: your husband left you at the altar or whatever, but 369 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 5: you need to get over yourself or whatever. But that 370 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 5: scene got deleted. 371 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 3: Interesting. I don't know if I would like that better 372 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 3: or worse. I feel like if they removed that plot point. 373 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 3: I wish they had changed the ending for this character because. 374 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 4: I find it very frustrating. 375 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 3: In my notes, I wrote, like, so help me if 376 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 3: she marries this guy at the end, and spoiler alert, 377 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 3: sure enough, she does. 378 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 4: She does it. Yeah, so that's June. She also plays 379 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 4: the cello. 380 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 5: And Alicia Keys studied the cello. 381 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 3: Yes, gosh, I didn't even know has Alicia Key's been 382 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 3: in other movies. I didn't know that she had a 383 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 3: like she has been in other movies. 384 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 5: Really, Oh my goodness, And okay, I knew that, and like, 385 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 5: oh my gosh, I'm blanking. I'm blanking on the title. 386 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 5: Oh no, I just I just saw this with my 387 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 5: friend with my best friend a month ago. She and 388 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 5: Taraji p Henson play in the very silly action movie 389 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 5: and they're a lesbian couple and it's so entertaining, Like, 390 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 5: oh my god. They're not the main characters of the story. 391 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 5: There are other characters in it. Ryan Reynolds is in 392 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 5: it and stuff. Ray Leota was in it. 393 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 4: She was in smoking aces, smoking aces things. 394 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 3: That's it. 395 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 4: That's the one. Okay, wow, good for her. Yeah, she's 396 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:24,160 Speaker 4: in a few things, big fan. So that's June. May 397 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 4: is very sensitive and deeply empathic. She breaks down crying 398 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 4: quite often. We learned that she had a twin sister, April, 399 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 4: who died when they were younger, which was incredibly devastating 400 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:41,439 Speaker 4: for May. 401 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 5: There's very necessary context that they meant that they left 402 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 5: out from the book about April, and they don't even 403 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 5: touch upon it in the commentary either, which makes me 404 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 5: very upset in either commentaries that I watched for this. So, 405 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,439 Speaker 5: April and May are twins, and then there is an 406 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:04,159 Speaker 5: incident of at a candy store and she expresses upsetness 407 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 5: with her father about it, and then her father's like, 408 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 5: that's life, April, You're gonna have to put up with it. 409 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 5: And then so then April just feels so much of 410 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 5: the weight of the world after that incident, to the 411 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 5: point where she takes a gun and takes her own life. 412 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 3: Wow. 413 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 5: And so when we talk about May later, there's a 414 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 5: part of the book where June says, it's just like April, 415 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 5: and it makes me this really upset that they took 416 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 5: out that context from the movie. Yeah, And granted, like 417 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure some of it has to do if 418 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 5: like Gina Prince Fyke would saying things like we shouldn't 419 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 5: have to over explain ourselves, which they talked about a 420 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 5: little bit in the and the commentary about certain plot 421 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 5: points such as like June's backstory about being left at 422 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 5: the altar. But yeah, I hate it. 423 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 3: That the adaptation changes sound so bizarre, like I don't 424 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 3: need what is even the I guess it's yeah, like 425 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,640 Speaker 3: we have to quote unquote keep it light, and it's like, well, 426 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 3: in that case, she's a different text. Yeah, I don't know, right. Interesting. 427 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 3: I also just wanted to really quickly shout out Sophie 428 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 3: Okinado because she is like so unbelievably accomplished. She's been 429 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 3: nominated for every award under the sun. I saw her 430 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 3: most recently in Janet Planet. 431 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,639 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, but she's. 432 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 3: Also she was like nominated for an Oscar for her 433 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 3: performance in Hotel Rwanda. She's won a Tony. 434 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 4: She's like such a good movie. 435 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 3: She's done everything. But I feel like people don't really 436 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,160 Speaker 3: talk about her very much. I feel like she usually 437 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 3: plays supporting roles, So just shout out to her. 438 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 4: Definitely. Yeah, so we learned this about her character May, 439 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 4: and Lily has also discovered that May wedges these little 440 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 4: pieces of paper in a stone wall behind the house, 441 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 4: and it's her writing her like feelings on the paper 442 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,719 Speaker 4: and putting him in the wall. So we learn these 443 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 4: things about the sisters. We also see them often discussing 444 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 4: things like racism and depression that they observe and experience 445 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 4: at the hands of white people. So there's a number 446 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 4: of conversations to that effect throughout the movie. Then Lily 447 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:16,159 Speaker 4: meets Zach played by Tristan mac Wilde's. This is August's godson. 448 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 5: Who is Adele's love in. Tristan, Hello, I'm sorry I 449 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 5: keep inter. 450 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 3: Rept Oh my god, no, can't wait. Fun fact. Never 451 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 3: never would have known. 452 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think. I never watch music videos, so 453 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 4: I didn't know that. 454 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 3: He wasn't seen that one in years. 455 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 4: So Zach is close to Lily's age, I think a 456 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 4: couple years older because he has a driver's license and drive, 457 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 4: so he's at least sixteen. 458 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, in the book he's sixteen. By the time this 459 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:50,879 Speaker 5: was being filmed, Dakota Fanning was thirteen going on fourteen 460 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,400 Speaker 5: and Tristan was eighteen going on nineteen. 461 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:58,439 Speaker 4: Oh oh that is yeah, then that's upsetting based on 462 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 4: something that happens later, which is the kiss on screen. Okay, 463 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 4: well we'll go back to that. 464 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 5: Yes we will. 465 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 4: So Zach helps August with bee keeping as well, and 466 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 4: he and Lily become friends. He tells her that he 467 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:20,239 Speaker 4: wants to be a lawyer when he grows up. She 468 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 4: wants to be a writer. They're vibing, but a. 469 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 5: Quick, quick thing. Yeah, how okay? How is it that 470 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 5: the same girl who is willing to watch things about 471 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,479 Speaker 5: like the Civil Rights Act passing with Rosaline not know 472 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 5: who third Good Marshal is. 473 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's ok. 474 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:42,240 Speaker 4: There's a lot to discuss about. 475 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 3: That, and it's it is like one of the things 476 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 3: that I feel like, you can you know, however well intentioned, 477 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 3: like if you can feel that like a white lady 478 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 3: wrote the source material, because sometimes it just feels like 479 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 3: very broad in a way that like is like this 480 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 3: young white girl learns about racism, which is also basically 481 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,719 Speaker 3: Hairspray and The Help. It's like, why can't it just 482 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 3: be about Roslyne? Unfortunately? I mean I don't even dislike 483 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 3: the character of Lily. I don't dislike her journey. I 484 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 3: think that there is it's a very but it just 485 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 3: feels like she overshadows so much of what is it? Like, 486 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 3: I think you could write her out of the movie 487 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 3: for sure, pretty easily. It just feels like there's two 488 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 3: different stories that Yeah, Roslyne and the sisters are just 489 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,919 Speaker 3: like not getting the amount of narrative real estate that 490 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,400 Speaker 3: they deserve exactly. 491 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 5: And then the commentary, Gina talks about how in the 492 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 5: in the scene where she's first having breakfast with the 493 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 5: boat right sisters, she was all like, we really wanted 494 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 5: to showcase Lily being taken care of for the first time, 495 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 5: where she's not making food for her father instead others 496 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 5: are making food for her. And I have such mixed 497 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 5: feelings about that because I'm like, if you really want 498 00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 5: to show a loving, collaborative thing when you have this 499 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 5: young white girl as the as the centerpiece, you could 500 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 5: have made the scene where they're cooking together, right and 501 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 5: that being loving, Because yeah, I'm not a big fan 502 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 5: of like all these black women, with the exception of June. 503 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 5: June is like I don't have time for this, but 504 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,399 Speaker 5: like a lot of these black women being like, oh 505 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,120 Speaker 5: are you okay, Let's make you food and da da. 506 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 3: Da, Right, Yeah, I agree, which is it's just like 507 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:26,880 Speaker 3: such a media fixture of this decade. 508 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 4: Right because at the end of the day, it's still 509 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 4: a story about black characters like servicing the white main protagonist. 510 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 3: And raising her and yeah, you know, and that just 511 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,400 Speaker 3: obviously doesn't sit well. And then you're also like, it's 512 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 3: not that I don't want Lily to be loved and 513 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 3: cared for it, but like, why was this the narrative solution, 514 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 3: Like you're saying, Maya, there's like simple things that the 515 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 3: story could have done to I don't know, rectify it. 516 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe it's not a completely solvable thing, but. 517 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:06,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll discuss that further as well. So it's been 518 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 4: about a week since Lily has arrived at the Boatwright 519 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 4: House and June continues to be skeptical. She's like, why 520 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 4: are you still here? Lily's just like haha, idkay, And 521 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 4: then she asks about the honey jar label that depicts 522 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 4: a black virgin Mary and baby Jesus and August. With 523 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 4: the help of her church friends. 524 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 5: The Daughters of Mary. 525 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, they have their own religion. 526 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 3: Question Mark. 527 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 4: I wasn't super clear on that, but I'll touch. 528 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 3: On that when we get It's like, we have the 529 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 3: right guests. 530 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 4: So August tells a story about an enslaved man who 531 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 4: had come across this wooden figure of a woman who 532 00:28:55,600 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 4: God sent to protect him. August now has this wooden figure. 533 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 4: You're in her home and they touch her heart and pray, 534 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 4: and Lily's about to go do this like touching the 535 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 4: wood figure's heart, but memories of her past and her 536 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 4: mother's death come flooding back and she faints and. 537 00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 5: June stops playing the cello right then and there, Yeah, 538 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 5: I like, don't I don't want you touching her? 539 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 3: I yeah, I was like, I have a lot of 540 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 3: empathy for Lily. But yeah, my note there was like, 541 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 3: it's not about you right now, Lily, chill out there. 542 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 3: You traumatize thirteen year old how dare you? 543 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 4: And Lily, you know, recovers. Things continue on as they 544 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 4: had been. She's you know, crushing on Zach and wants 545 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 4: to smooch him on the face. Then there's a scene 546 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 4: where they harvest purple honey and she licks it off 547 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,479 Speaker 4: Zach's finger, and I was so scandalized by that scene. 548 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 549 00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 5: In the commentary, they had talked about like, so do 550 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 5: we portray this do we not portray this? D Dakota 551 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 5: Fannings's mom was there that day and she was like, 552 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna look at the screen. They decided to 553 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 5: do it because it was it was a scene from 554 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 5: the book. 555 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 4: So well, now that I know that he was legally 556 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 4: an adult and she was thirteen, I'm like even more 557 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 4: horrified by it. 558 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 3: And that's like a production issue too, It's like that's 559 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 3: on the production to make sure that that doesn't happen. 560 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's you know, awful, but that happens. And 561 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 4: then there's a scene where Lily and August tend to 562 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 4: the bees, but they're not flying around their highs like usual. 563 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 4: They're inside the hive and August says, yeah, bees have 564 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 4: a secret life that we don't know anything about, and 565 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 4: we're like, that's basically the name. 566 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 3: Of the movie. 567 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 4: Then there's a scene where there's like a water hose 568 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 4: fight and June kind of like finally loosens up and 569 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 4: plays with them, but then she breaks down crying because 570 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 4: she and Neil recently broke up because because. 571 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 3: He calls here a bitch. 572 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like she's like, I don't want to be married 573 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 4: and he's like, well, you're a selfish bitch. Then and 574 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 4: he leaves, so a horrible character. 575 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 3: And then you're like, surely we won't be seeing him again. 576 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 4: Well JK. 577 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:20,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 578 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 4: Then one night Lily asks May if she knew a 579 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 4: woman named Deborah Owens. This is Lily's mother, although Lily 580 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 4: doesn't mention this, but she sees May luring cockroaches with 581 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 4: Graham crackers and marshmallows the same way that t Ray 582 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 4: had described Lily's mother as doing. So she makes this 583 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 4: connection and May says, yes, I knew Deborah. She stayed 584 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 4: in the Honeyhouse many years ago, and she was the 585 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 4: sweetest person. The memory of Deborah makes May tear up, 586 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 4: and she leaves. But now Lily has confirmation that her 587 00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 4: mother stayed in this house. So the next day, Zach 588 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 4: invites Lily to go into town with him, and while 589 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 4: they're hanging out, Lily relays this information of yeah, my 590 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 4: mom stayed here, but I didn't tell anyone because I 591 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 4: was afraid the truth would wreck everything. And he's like, 592 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 4: you know, empathetic towards that, And then they go to 593 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 4: the movies together in a segregated theater, but Lily and 594 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 4: Zach sit together which. 595 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 5: In the colored section, not the white section. 596 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 4: Right, yes, and these racist men come in and abduct Zach. 597 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 4: So Neil and this other man who's like a family 598 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 4: friend go out looking for Zach. August and June decide 599 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 4: not to tell May that Zach is missing because they 600 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 4: think it'll be too much for May to handle emotionally, 601 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 4: but May finds out anyway. It does gravely affect her, 602 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 4: especially because they all know that when a black person 603 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 4: is taken like this, they often never come back. May 604 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 4: go out to her wall spends several hours there. Then 605 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 4: they can't find her, so August, June, Lily, and Rosaline 606 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:12,479 Speaker 4: go looking, and they discover May's body in a stream, 607 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 4: after having died by suicide, and everyone is devastated. Sometime later, 608 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 4: against all odds, Neil and that family friend find Zach 609 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 4: and they bring him back, and so there's a tearful reunion. 610 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 4: Neil and June seem to rekindle their relationship in that moment, 611 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 4: and you're like, no, Jim, get away from him. You're 612 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 4: so close. Then August finds May's suicide note, which says 613 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 4: that it's her time to go, but it's the rest 614 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:50,160 Speaker 4: of the family's time to live, so don't mess it up. 615 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,400 Speaker 4: And it's such a heart wrenching moment in the movie. 616 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 4: They hold a funeral from May, and then Lily shows 617 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 4: a picture of her mother to August and August is like, yeah, 618 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 4: I knew her and I figured out that you're her daughter, 619 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 4: and Lily breaks down crying. She feels that she's to 620 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 4: blame for what happened to Zach and May, that she's 621 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,719 Speaker 4: to blame for her mother's death, saying that she's unlovable, 622 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:22,879 Speaker 4: and August tells Lily that she's not unlovable. There's love 623 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 4: all around her. And then August reveals that she used 624 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:30,360 Speaker 4: to be Lily's mom's nanny when Deborah was a child, 625 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 4: and that August knew Deborah most of her life. And 626 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 4: she describes Deborah and Tray's relationship early on that he 627 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 4: wasn't abusive at first, but Deborah fell out of love 628 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 4: with him after a while, married him anyway because she 629 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 4: was pregnant with Lily, and then Deborah left him after 630 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 4: a few years and came to stay with August in 631 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 4: the honeyhouse, and Lily's like, and she brought me with 632 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:02,759 Speaker 4: her right and August as no, sorry, she came by herself. 633 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 4: So it seems like what t Ray had said about 634 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 4: her mom leaving Lily might be true, which of course 635 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,880 Speaker 4: upsets Lily, and she goes to the honeyhouse and smashes 636 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:14,240 Speaker 4: a bunch of jars of honey. 637 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,880 Speaker 3: I really, I mean, I want to talk about it 638 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:22,880 Speaker 3: more fully. I really appreciated parts of this scene, especially 639 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 3: with I don't know. I was trying to put myself 640 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 3: in august shoes of like what would I tell a kid? 641 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 3: And I found her like honesty very touching, even though 642 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,880 Speaker 3: it was painful, where it was like, I really appreciate 643 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 3: about her character that she doesn't you know, like she's gentle, 644 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 3: but she doesn't sugarcoat stuff, and she treats Lily like 645 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,439 Speaker 3: an adult in that moment, which you know isn't always 646 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 3: the right call, but it's I just I don't know. 647 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 3: I was really surprised at that choice, and I really 648 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 3: liked it because I feel like when you're that often 649 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 3: adults will just you know, bullshit, yachd because I think 650 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 3: you can't handle something. And even though it's painful, I 651 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:12,319 Speaker 3: was like, Wow, that was like a really powerful and 652 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,080 Speaker 3: risky thing. 653 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 4: That was really cool for sure. So later Lily and 654 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:22,719 Speaker 4: Zach have a conversation he says how angry he is 655 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:28,240 Speaker 4: about what happened to him, and Lily is basically like, well, 656 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,120 Speaker 4: just make sure your anger doesn't become you know, like 657 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,320 Speaker 4: hatefulness and violent, and then they talk about their future 658 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 4: plans again they kiss. As we alluded to, there's kind 659 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 4: of some more moments of like tying up of loose ends, 660 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:49,200 Speaker 4: where Rosaline says that she successfully registered to vote. June 661 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,280 Speaker 4: is like, hey, Neil, if you ask me to marry 662 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:57,560 Speaker 4: you again, I'll say yes. They get engaged. You're like 663 00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 4: that no, and then there's a knock on the door 664 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 4: and it's Lily's dad, t Ray. He had figured out 665 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 4: where she was. He demands that Lily come back home 666 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 4: with him. He's being very aggressive and violent. 667 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,800 Speaker 5: Whereas she's being like, oh, won't you come in to 668 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 5: have a seat if you want to like ooh like 669 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 5: the need to be polite. 670 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 4: Like them, Yeah, right, Well, because she doesn't know how 671 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 4: he's gonna behave, and it turns out he blake. He 672 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:28,280 Speaker 4: behaves horribly. 673 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 3: He's still a bad guy. 674 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:33,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's still horrible. Lily refuses to go with him, 675 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,840 Speaker 4: and August is like, yeah, I know, Lily has a 676 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 4: home here as long as she wants, so, you know, 677 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 4: t Ray realizes he has lost this battle and he 678 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 4: goes to leave, but before he does, Lily asks him 679 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 4: if it's true that when her mother came back, like 680 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,879 Speaker 4: back home to Tray's house, if she was only coming 681 00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,799 Speaker 4: back for her things like he said, or if it 682 00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:03,240 Speaker 4: was something else, And he's like, no, she was coming 683 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:07,279 Speaker 4: back for you, Lily. He drives off out of her 684 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 4: life forever, and Lily embraces her found family slash found 685 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 4: Mothers of August, June, and Rosaline. She writes about this 686 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,880 Speaker 4: experience and puts the notebook that she wrote it in 687 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 4: on May's wall, and that's how the movie ends. So 688 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 4: let's take another quick break and we'll come back to discuss. 689 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 3: And we're back, and we're back. 690 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,879 Speaker 5: So in the books ending, yes, it's August, Rosaline and 691 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,799 Speaker 5: the daughters of Mary crowding around t Ray going like, 692 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 5: you're not gonna take this girl with you. And I 693 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 5: assume that because like there's not as much character development 694 00:38:58,360 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 5: in the film, and like you can only do so 695 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 5: much in a films. It's the it's the three main moms, 696 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 5: and I'm and I'm okay with that. But what she 697 00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 5: asks Tray before he leaves, because some somewhere along in 698 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 5: the book this whole thing she's not only is she 699 00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 5: trying to figure out like whether or not her mom 700 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 5: came back for her, she's also trying to figure out 701 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,000 Speaker 5: did I really kill my mom? Because all I remember 702 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,279 Speaker 5: is the gun going off. So she asked t Ray, 703 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 5: did I really kill my mom? And he's like, I 704 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,319 Speaker 5: know you don't want to hear this. I know you'd 705 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 5: want it to be her who did it to herself, 706 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 5: or me who did it, But it was you and 707 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 5: it wasn't your fault. And then he takes off. 708 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, which again is like another I don't know, just 709 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,880 Speaker 3: like a very unsugarcoated truth for Lily. 710 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:49,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, the movie's ending feels much more like hollywoodified. 711 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's really interesting. I mean, yeah, it does 712 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 3: feel like a very I mean in a lot of ways. 713 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 3: I think all the way from like the Nate Parker 714 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,359 Speaker 3: character back and they're going to get married, and that is, 715 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,400 Speaker 3: you know, a Hollywood signifier of a happy ending. And 716 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 3: the mean guy goes away, but not before she knows 717 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,440 Speaker 3: that she I guess there's so many places to start. 718 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 3: I was kind of I don't know, I was thinking about, 719 00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:20,400 Speaker 3: this movie is a lot about mothers and mothering, et cetera, 720 00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,839 Speaker 3: and I feel like a lot of like there are 721 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:28,240 Speaker 3: missed opportunities in there. But I guess the hollywoody ending. 722 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 3: Not that I wanted Willy to be abandoned by her mother, 723 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,439 Speaker 3: but I thought it was getting like in that scene 724 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 3: where we're just talking about with Lily and August, like, 725 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,839 Speaker 3: I thought it was getting at something that we don't 726 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,719 Speaker 3: see in movies very often, which is that like mothers 727 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 3: are not inherently, you know, naturally gifted, amazing perfect parents. 728 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 3: And because the movie goes out of its way to 729 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 3: make it clear that Deborah had a lot of struggles 730 00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:00,360 Speaker 3: with mental health, she was abused, yeah, and you know, 731 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 3: was like set up to not really be able to 732 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 3: be a good parent to Lily. But I feel like 733 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 3: we so often see characters that you know, in spite 734 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:12,160 Speaker 3: of whatever they're going through, being a mother is a 735 00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,319 Speaker 3: quality that will transcend any struggle you've had, and that 736 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,880 Speaker 3: is like so often not true. And I not that 737 00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:24,240 Speaker 3: it's a great thing, but I always think it's interesting 738 00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:27,520 Speaker 3: when imperfect mothers are shown in movies. But it felt 739 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 3: like the ending kind of undercut that was like, no, 740 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,759 Speaker 3: she actually was a perfect mother. I don't know. I 741 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,839 Speaker 3: don't know. I just thought that they're you know, I 742 00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:37,719 Speaker 3: feel like I sound mean for being like I wish 743 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,879 Speaker 3: Lily was abandoned, but I feel like we don't hear 744 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:41,240 Speaker 3: stuff like that very often. 745 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, and like, and August does tell Lily about how, 746 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 5: like depress people often do things that they may not 747 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 5: comprehend at times, they may because they may not feel 748 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,319 Speaker 5: like themselves. And they talk about this briefly about May 749 00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 5: about how like, oh, a lot of doctors just told 750 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 5: us to institutionalize her, so we made the whaling wall 751 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 5: instead so we don't have to put her away. In 752 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 5: the book, they talk about that for May, and they 753 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:11,600 Speaker 5: talk about that for for Deborah too, out how they're yeah, 754 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 5: so yeah, this's for for white women and black women 755 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:19,279 Speaker 5: who are like I'm struggling. It's like, just we'll put 756 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,840 Speaker 5: you away for a minute to calm down. 757 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 3: God, I'm curious in general. Yeah, because you've written about 758 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:32,360 Speaker 3: mental health and depression so extensively, Maya, how do you 759 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,719 Speaker 3: feel like this this movie does with those topics? 760 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:40,279 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I because like I talked about this 761 00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 5: in the Beyond the Lights episode about how how I 762 00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:47,399 Speaker 5: wish Gina Prince Backwood had more space to do more 763 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,279 Speaker 5: about mental health in her and her film work, because 764 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,839 Speaker 5: that is a topic that she's so interested in. And 765 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 5: when it came to filming May's suicide scene, in the commentary, 766 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,959 Speaker 5: they said they only did it and in one take 767 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 5: because some of it had to do with like all 768 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,600 Speaker 5: of the actresses being in the water longer than they 769 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:11,279 Speaker 5: were supposed to, as well as Dakota Fannings hours like 770 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,880 Speaker 5: she can only be kept until like nine pm. And 771 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:15,759 Speaker 5: at the same time, it's like, I'm grateful that that 772 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 5: scene was only done in one take because of like 773 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 5: the actor's mental health and that, and that the scene 774 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 5: turned out well. And this was also before a time 775 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 5: because now we see movies whenever there's content about suicide 776 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,120 Speaker 5: at the end credits, there's all like, if you're if 777 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,120 Speaker 5: you're ever, if you have a loved one is struggling 778 00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:36,799 Speaker 5: with suicidality, call this number, And no one thought to 779 00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:39,120 Speaker 5: do that at the time, in like two thousand and seven, 780 00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,319 Speaker 5: two thousand and eight. So I just I just think 781 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,799 Speaker 5: a lot about how for its time, it was so 782 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:48,920 Speaker 5: meaningful to see, uh, to see a black family struggle 783 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:53,480 Speaker 5: with suicidal loss and to struggle with it during a 784 00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,760 Speaker 5: time such as the Civil rights era even And there's 785 00:43:56,880 --> 00:44:01,360 Speaker 5: this scene where May has more time the wall to cry, 786 00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,399 Speaker 5: and I like that scene, and I like the Gina 787 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 5: Prince Bythewood really wanted that scene. And at the same time, 788 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,680 Speaker 5: we don't spend enough time with may or May and 789 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 5: Rosaline's friendship either, and that makes me upset. I wanted 790 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,640 Speaker 5: more time with that. There's so much there to talk about, 791 00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,000 Speaker 5: and there's so much there to talk about when it 792 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 5: comes to religiosity and mental health too. In the book, 793 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 5: they also talk about how how not only there's the 794 00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:32,239 Speaker 5: Whaling Wall, there's also there was one time she was 795 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,840 Speaker 5: watching the news to the point where she was like 796 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:36,480 Speaker 5: hitting herself in the face, and they decide to carry 797 00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,239 Speaker 5: her and put her in a bathtub, and they're like, 798 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 5: just watch the troubles away. And it's like they're using 799 00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,480 Speaker 5: the tools they have at that time. And I have 800 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,120 Speaker 5: a lot of respect for that. I love that the 801 00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 5: Whaling Wall is so public in their backyard. I love 802 00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 5: that people can see it, and I love the visibility 803 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 5: of it, the visibility of that sadness, while also at 804 00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 5: the same time I have so many questions about what 805 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 5: my therapist once called spiritual passing, where you're like, well, 806 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:05,680 Speaker 5: everything's fine because God has me. Everything's fine because I'm 807 00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 5: writing to God now and that's okay, rather than actually 808 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:12,880 Speaker 5: sitting with the sadness. So I do have so many 809 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,400 Speaker 5: follow up questions about whether or not that was a 810 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 5: discussion able to be had at the time or and 811 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,960 Speaker 5: also to be fair when talking about this on the 812 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 5: Black Girl Film Club, like it could be that like 813 00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:28,319 Speaker 5: maybe maybe that was the best way for May so 814 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:29,920 Speaker 5: that she could spend time on her own. Maybe that 815 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,400 Speaker 5: was the best way, like because maybe she's not a talker, 816 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 5: Maybe maybe she does need to cry and just write 817 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:39,720 Speaker 5: it out. So yeah, I get how when I was younger, 818 00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:43,960 Speaker 5: how this movie was a comfort movie for me, while 819 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,239 Speaker 5: also at the same time, as I get older, just 820 00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 5: continuing to have questions about the tools that we have 821 00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:53,040 Speaker 5: to take care of ourselves versus how to use them 822 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,320 Speaker 5: or do we need to come up with more tools 823 00:45:56,000 --> 00:46:00,000 Speaker 5: and things of that nature, and how and how much 824 00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:05,720 Speaker 5: lateiency can we give for the time putting the phrase 825 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 5: the time in air quotes. People can't see me, they 826 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 5: can hear me. 827 00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:13,240 Speaker 4: No, but one thing that really struck me was how 828 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:18,520 Speaker 4: supportive her sisters were and how they gave her space 829 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 4: to emote and grieve and do anything else she needed 830 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 4: to do with her emotions. And there were never any 831 00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:32,760 Speaker 4: moments of judgment or as it's May being May again, 832 00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:33,360 Speaker 4: you know, and. 833 00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,759 Speaker 5: She still chose to leave, and she still chose to 834 00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 5: take her life. Yeah, even with all that support, Yeah 835 00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:39,120 Speaker 5: for sure. 836 00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,800 Speaker 4: But it was like really heartening, I think to see 837 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 4: an example on screen of family members supporting another family 838 00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 4: member who you know is prone to depression and you know, 839 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:55,319 Speaker 4: a very empathic person who feels so deeply and for 840 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 4: them to be supportive and patient and all that, Yeah, 841 00:46:58,360 --> 00:46:59,839 Speaker 4: I was really nice to see. 842 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,680 Speaker 3: I mean, and particularly and this isn't like harp done 843 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 3: or should it have been, but just how you know, 844 00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:10,239 Speaker 3: you think about like in the mid century, how horrifically 845 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 3: both black patients and women were treated in institutions where 846 00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,960 Speaker 3: it's just like it's a it's very very clear that 847 00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,239 Speaker 3: given the options at the time, this is by far 848 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,759 Speaker 3: in May's best interest, in the family's best interests, and 849 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,600 Speaker 3: that that is never you know, called into question, because 850 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,280 Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes there is the like, well would 851 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,440 Speaker 3: she be quote unquote better off. And it just like 852 00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,920 Speaker 3: always irritates me when talking points like that come up. 853 00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:39,000 Speaker 3: But it's just very matter of fact. It is very 854 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,440 Speaker 3: clear that this is the right environment or you know, 855 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 3: the best environment available. I love May Yeah, and I also, 856 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:51,040 Speaker 3: I mean, I think that this ties to a larger 857 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,400 Speaker 3: point that we've already referenced. But I also is bummed 858 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 3: to not see her and Rosalie's friendship develop more because 859 00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:01,040 Speaker 3: I was bummed that we didn't see more Rosaline, Like 860 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:07,840 Speaker 3: it's so frustrating. I mean, the thing that, in really 861 00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,520 Speaker 3: any context, not that I'm like more character should interact 862 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,479 Speaker 3: with Lily, but even Roselyne isn't interacting with Lily as much. 863 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:15,480 Speaker 3: By the end of the movie, Like I feel like 864 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,440 Speaker 3: she kind of gets it's we are told but not 865 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:22,200 Speaker 3: shown that she is now a part of the boat 866 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:26,319 Speaker 3: right sisters family unit, but I don't. Yeah, and I'm 867 00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,399 Speaker 3: glad that happens, But again, yeah, I feel like we're 868 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:32,680 Speaker 3: told that more than we see that grow. There's a 869 00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 3: part of me that's like, why doesn't Rosaline get to 870 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:36,719 Speaker 3: learn how to do be keeping, you know, just in 871 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 3: the way that we can like kind of write Lily 872 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:42,920 Speaker 3: out of this story. Yeah, Like I think the story 873 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,839 Speaker 3: favors Lily so much that Roselyne kind of gets lost 874 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:49,840 Speaker 3: in the shuffle, which is a shame because like I 875 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,560 Speaker 3: actually do I think in a lot of movies that 876 00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:55,959 Speaker 3: take place in this era where it's like the little 877 00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 3: white girl needs to learn about racism. 878 00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,600 Speaker 5: And it doesn't help that like sum sumanc kid like 879 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,560 Speaker 5: has said that wrote that some of Rosaline's mannerisms is 880 00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:08,799 Speaker 5: inspired by her own nanny that she grew up with. 881 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:13,359 Speaker 3: Oh wow, Yeah, it's just really bizarre to me. Yeah, 882 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 3: because it's like I understand at the beginning of the 883 00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 3: movie what Rosaline and how Rosaline and Lily, you know, 884 00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:22,680 Speaker 3: rely on each other to some extent. Lily needs an 885 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 3: adult in her life who cares what happens to her, 886 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 3: and I mean Rosaline it seems like also needs someone 887 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 3: in her working environment who is kind to her. Like 888 00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,719 Speaker 3: I understand their bond, but it seems like as the 889 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:41,480 Speaker 3: movie goes on, Rosaline's connection to anybody just feels more tenuous. 890 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,600 Speaker 3: And then she shows up to be like this is 891 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,799 Speaker 3: a great situation for me, and like I believe you, 892 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,799 Speaker 3: but I haven't, Like I don't get all iver really 893 00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,680 Speaker 3: is you really only see her kind of cooking. 894 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:56,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, Rosaline's arc is going from certainly working for, 895 00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:59,959 Speaker 4: if not living with, this white family. I don't would 896 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:01,799 Speaker 4: It's not even clear if she lives there or not. 897 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:03,400 Speaker 5: In the books she does not. 898 00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 4: Okay, we don't even know in the movie. The movie 899 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 4: doesn't really care enough about her character exactly. But either way, 900 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 4: she spends a lot of time at this Owens household 901 00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:19,960 Speaker 4: taking care of Lily, so much of her life is 902 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:24,360 Speaker 4: tending to white people, and she goes from that situation 903 00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:28,399 Speaker 4: to now living among other black women and that very 904 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:32,400 Speaker 4: drastic change in dynamic. That's a far more interesting story 905 00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 4: to me, exactly. 906 00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:37,800 Speaker 3: It just seems like two different stories. Yeah, yeah, I 907 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:39,920 Speaker 3: mean I think Lily's story is interesting. I just don't 908 00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,360 Speaker 3: think it belongs in this movie. It just feels like 909 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,320 Speaker 3: a different movie. 910 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:49,239 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, So yeah, I definitely clocked Rosaline's narrative importance 911 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,400 Speaker 4: diminishing as the story goes on. 912 00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,600 Speaker 3: Which happens to Jennifer Hudson. That's the story of Jennifer 913 00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,319 Speaker 3: Hudson's life, And because she's also in the Sex and 914 00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,480 Speaker 3: the City movie, she's like the most poorly written characters 915 00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,719 Speaker 3: of all time. And you're just like, she just won 916 00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 3: an oscar for fuck's sake. 917 00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,800 Speaker 4: Anyways, exactly, Yeah, that's nuts. 918 00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,959 Speaker 5: In the commentary, she talks about how uh what side 919 00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,680 Speaker 5: by she I mean, Gina Prince Bythewood. She she talks 920 00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:18,759 Speaker 5: about how she's like so at first we see Rosaline 921 00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,839 Speaker 5: like very very nervous around t Ray and like not 922 00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,680 Speaker 5: as outspoken, and then like she becomes more outspoken by 923 00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:27,560 Speaker 5: the end, like especially when she says, well, I guess 924 00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:29,960 Speaker 5: I'm back now at Tray and I'm like, no, give 925 00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:33,239 Speaker 5: us more, right, more, I want more. I want more 926 00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 5: scenes like when she was telling Lily off in the forest, right, 927 00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:38,399 Speaker 5: like that's that's that's what I want more. 928 00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 3: She had a strong establ I mean, and it's horrific 929 00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:46,800 Speaker 3: seeing the racist abuse of that character endoors of course, 930 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:48,320 Speaker 3: and also there I don't know if either of you 931 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:51,919 Speaker 3: saw that. There there's a weird anecdote production anecdote about 932 00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 3: Gina Prince Bythewood like basic like had. 933 00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,800 Speaker 5: Oh the method acting bullshit, that's. 934 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 3: Right, they met that. Yeah, they had a bunch of 935 00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:07,240 Speaker 3: white actors harassed Jennifer Hudson in like a convenience store 936 00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,799 Speaker 3: and call her the N word and like all of 937 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:14,200 Speaker 3: this like pretty nasty stuff, and but genafrinces Bythewood sort 938 00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,760 Speaker 3: of was like, well, she had just won an Oscar, 939 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:18,680 Speaker 3: so she had to understand what it was like to 940 00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:21,279 Speaker 3: feel not respected. And I was like that kind of 941 00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 3: I don't Yeah, that's she's a great actor. You don't 942 00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:27,360 Speaker 3: need to like yeah exactly. 943 00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,239 Speaker 5: She said that in the commentary too, and she and 944 00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:34,520 Speaker 5: also in the fight scene, Jennifer Hudson is doing her 945 00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:38,320 Speaker 5: own stunts and like, actually does get punched in the face. 946 00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,920 Speaker 5: And I don't like that. I don't find that impressive. 947 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:44,800 Speaker 5: I don't like, no, found that so impressive. 948 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,160 Speaker 3: And I'm like, no, I know, I want to chuck 949 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,080 Speaker 3: it up. I want to share that. Yeah, because I 950 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:51,960 Speaker 3: have that quote here and I had to read it 951 00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:55,120 Speaker 3: twice and be like what this is from? And I'll 952 00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,240 Speaker 3: be quoting from it for other reasons. But an interview 953 00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,279 Speaker 3: that Gena Prince Bythewood did with Essence at the time 954 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 3: this came out, she said, we had very little rehearsal time, 955 00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:05,880 Speaker 3: and Jennifer was coming off the whole Oscar experience and 956 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,879 Speaker 3: was in a whole other world so she could get 957 00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 3: in Risally's head. I set up an improvisation and hired 958 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,759 Speaker 3: some white actors to be in a drug store and 959 00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 3: told her in Dakota to meet me there. I told 960 00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,360 Speaker 3: them it was an improvisation, but I didn't know Jennifer 961 00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,719 Speaker 3: thought it was real. My only direction to her was 962 00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,480 Speaker 3: to not hit anybody. The shopkeeper followed her around and 963 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 3: accused her of stealing. When Jennifer would ask for help, 964 00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,680 Speaker 3: another one would turned around in answer to Dakota. The 965 00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,720 Speaker 3: third guy used the N word, and I saw Jennifer's 966 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,480 Speaker 3: had whip over to him, and I got scared for 967 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:33,640 Speaker 3: a second. She said all she remembered was to not 968 00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,640 Speaker 3: hit anybuddy. When I talked to them afterward about what 969 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 3: they got out of it, Jennifer said the hardest thing 970 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,600 Speaker 3: was feeling invisible. It was great bonding for Fanning in 971 00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,920 Speaker 3: Hudson and I was just like, no, that's like, that's 972 00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,440 Speaker 3: deeply fucked up to Jennifer Hudson. And I also think 973 00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,200 Speaker 3: it's pretty weird to do to a child actor too. 974 00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:54,600 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, she Dakota. Fanning is actually kneeling in real 975 00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:56,319 Speaker 5: grits in the film. 976 00:53:56,440 --> 00:54:02,840 Speaker 4: Oh, which yeah, seems very painful. Yeah, so okay, weird 977 00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:06,000 Speaker 4: choices directorially. 978 00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, and Gina Prince Bythewood was was all like, oh, 979 00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 5: I need to I need to kneel in the grit 980 00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,120 Speaker 5: so that I know, like if I if I can 981 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:15,200 Speaker 5: handle it, Shirley Dakota can handle it. 982 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:20,960 Speaker 3: But Gina, you're an adult, like right. Anyways, the production 983 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:22,640 Speaker 3: around this movie, I mean, do you mind if I 984 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,759 Speaker 3: take a quick side quest. So something I thought was 985 00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:30,160 Speaker 3: interesting was this movie, It May Not Chalk You was 986 00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:31,080 Speaker 3: originally going to be. 987 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:34,800 Speaker 6: Directed by a white director date white man, Yes, David 988 00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:38,319 Speaker 6: Gordon Green, which also is like, I can't imagine a 989 00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:42,279 Speaker 6: weirder like Dan and McBride's best friend. Do we really 990 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,800 Speaker 6: think he's the best suited for this? Like I like 991 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:45,719 Speaker 6: his work, but like. 992 00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:50,000 Speaker 3: What the why would you do that? Anyways, Gina Prince Bythewood, 993 00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:53,640 Speaker 3: this is her first movie after Love and Basketball, but 994 00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 3: it came out eight years later, And I feel like 995 00:54:55,520 --> 00:55:01,279 Speaker 3: this so often happened to directors of color, to women directors, 996 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,640 Speaker 3: and specifically this is like reeks of kind of misogynore 997 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:09,000 Speaker 3: in terms of getting a good second project. What I 998 00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:12,000 Speaker 3: think is interesting is I believe she originally turned this 999 00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 3: down because she's pretty picky with the project she wants 1000 00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:17,239 Speaker 3: to do as is her right. She had taken some 1001 00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:20,839 Speaker 3: time off to have her kids. But what she'd been 1002 00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:24,319 Speaker 3: working on for five or so years that never ended 1003 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,640 Speaker 3: up happening was an adaptation of this really long book 1004 00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:33,320 Speaker 3: about mental health and about bipolar specifically. Let me find 1005 00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,040 Speaker 3: the title of I Know This Much Is True by 1006 00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:39,800 Speaker 3: Wally Lamb. I'm not familiar with it. I don't know 1007 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,920 Speaker 3: if you are. The description is it's a nine hundred 1008 00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,880 Speaker 3: page epic tale about an unhappy house painter and his 1009 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 3: institutionalized identical twin brother, a paranoid, schizophrenic and like Gina 1010 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,399 Speaker 3: Prince Bythewood, I guess she grew up. I know, we've 1011 00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,680 Speaker 3: talked about her extensively on this show, but she was 1012 00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:59,719 Speaker 3: adopted and grew up in a white family and had 1013 00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:02,799 Speaker 3: a bipolar brother. So this book really resonated with her. 1014 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:06,920 Speaker 3: She wanted to make it, she wrote to the author, 1015 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:10,360 Speaker 3: she got permission, It took years, but then when it 1016 00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:15,840 Speaker 3: finally came to Fox. This is from a DGA article 1017 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,720 Speaker 3: from like fifteen years ago. When the brass at Fox 1018 00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,040 Speaker 3: two thousand demanded an A list actor to play the 1019 00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:23,440 Speaker 3: dual role. The projects fell apart because none of the 1020 00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:25,480 Speaker 3: movie stars approach would say yes to working with a 1021 00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:31,040 Speaker 3: relatively new director, which feels very telling to me, And 1022 00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 3: the fact that so it seems like, you know, even 1023 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:37,799 Speaker 3: though she speaks highly of this film, it just anecdotally 1024 00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,680 Speaker 3: doesn't seem like this was her first choice for her 1025 00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:44,440 Speaker 3: second film, and that this movie was made for a 1026 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,759 Speaker 3: smaller budget than Love in Basketball. It was made for 1027 00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:49,320 Speaker 3: eleven million dollars and every actor had to take a 1028 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:51,600 Speaker 3: pretty major pay cut to be a part of it, 1029 00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:56,320 Speaker 3: which I feel like is so often true in movies 1030 00:56:56,400 --> 00:57:00,400 Speaker 3: that spotlight black women specifically. I mean, I think we 1031 00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,840 Speaker 3: most recently talked about this in relation to the Color 1032 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:08,080 Speaker 3: Purple musical film of like how These there was a 1033 00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:12,719 Speaker 3: huge salary issue with how undervalued the black actresses were, 1034 00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:16,040 Speaker 3: But in any case, it just felt, I don't know, 1035 00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 3: I felt frustrated for even though I have notes for 1036 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:23,480 Speaker 3: Gina Princepipot on this movie, I was frustrated for her that, Like, 1037 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,880 Speaker 3: I mean, I think if you put a white male 1038 00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:28,680 Speaker 3: director in her shoes, they have no problem getting first 1039 00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:32,120 Speaker 3: of all, their second movie, but also their second movie 1040 00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:37,920 Speaker 3: on source material of their choosing exactly, And I you know, 1041 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:41,160 Speaker 3: I wish she had gotten to make the movie that 1042 00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:44,120 Speaker 3: she wanted to make because after love and basketball, she 1043 00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,560 Speaker 3: should have been able to do fucking anything, and the 1044 00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,440 Speaker 3: fact that she wasn't is just very you know, state of. 1045 00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:55,280 Speaker 4: The industry for sure. I and we've alluded to the 1046 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:58,280 Speaker 4: overall narrative, and we're like, why is it about this 1047 00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,479 Speaker 4: white girl, or if it is, if it's a movie 1048 00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:05,880 Speaker 4: about a young white girl and her you know, journey 1049 00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:09,920 Speaker 4: figuring out what did happen with her mom, and you 1050 00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:15,479 Speaker 4: know that narrative, why is it nestled into this other 1051 00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 4: story about these black women that movie right, rite that too, 1052 00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:25,480 Speaker 4: So that is an issue in and of itself. I 1053 00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:29,840 Speaker 4: do think that this movie does handle some things well 1054 00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:36,440 Speaker 4: as far as identifying the varying degrees of micro and 1055 00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:40,200 Speaker 4: macroaggressions directed toward black people and the different ways that 1056 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:44,680 Speaker 4: racial prejudice can manifest, because we see many examples of that. 1057 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:50,600 Speaker 4: And I did appreciate at least that this movie does 1058 00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:56,400 Speaker 4: portray a white protagonist that like is a participant in 1059 00:58:56,560 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 4: the racial prejudice and that like it gives her room 1060 00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:04,640 Speaker 4: to grow. I think a white director would have been 1061 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:09,560 Speaker 4: inclined to be like, oh, well, sure there's racism, but 1062 00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:14,600 Speaker 4: my protagonist who is a white child who grew up 1063 00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:19,120 Speaker 4: in the Jim Crow South. She has no racial what 1064 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,760 Speaker 4: the hell. She understands everything about white supremacy and how 1065 00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:27,120 Speaker 4: it oppresses and marginalizes black people because like white fragility 1066 00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:29,800 Speaker 4: makes it so that white people have a very hard 1067 00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 4: time acknowledging their participation and complicity in white supremacy. So 1068 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:39,160 Speaker 4: this movie being directed by a black woman, she's able 1069 00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 4: to very easily identify those things, and it does make 1070 00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:46,360 Speaker 4: for I think a better and more authentic movie than 1071 00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:49,640 Speaker 4: it would have been if it had been directed by, 1072 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:53,240 Speaker 4: for example, David Gordon Green. So those are some things 1073 00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:57,240 Speaker 4: that I think are handled better. 1074 00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:02,200 Speaker 5: Sure, Like even in the Tiny Thing to like they're 1075 01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:06,800 Speaker 5: all referred to as as miss, whereas in the book 1076 01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:11,280 Speaker 5: they're not. So that's it's it's a tiny thing, but 1077 01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:13,440 Speaker 5: it still makes a huge impact. But also at the 1078 01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:18,240 Speaker 5: same time, like Lily doesn't call Rosaline miss until after 1079 01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:21,200 Speaker 5: she says like she's a registered voter, which I take 1080 01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:21,680 Speaker 5: issue with. 1081 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:27,080 Speaker 3: What it's true, Yeah, And I mean I don't know. 1082 01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:30,960 Speaker 3: I mean, one one movie can't take on everything. But 1083 01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:34,040 Speaker 3: it's again, it's like, I feel like we got some 1084 01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:37,680 Speaker 3: strong stuff towards the beginning of the movie that kind 1085 01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:41,959 Speaker 3: of goes away where you know, again from Rosaline who's 1086 01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:45,280 Speaker 3: kind of bailed on, it felt a little like okay, 1087 01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:48,120 Speaker 3: that like her happy ending is like I'm going to 1088 01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:53,440 Speaker 3: vote for Lyndon Johnson and you're like, like, okay, better 1089 01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:54,400 Speaker 3: than the alternative. 1090 01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:55,440 Speaker 5: But like. 1091 01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,960 Speaker 3: It just felt a little like, you know, YadA YadA, 1092 01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:02,440 Speaker 3: we're at the beginning, we're getting more complex stuff from her, 1093 01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:07,280 Speaker 3: where you know, it felt more grounded in like, you know, 1094 01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:10,720 Speaker 3: I would never buy that Dakota Fanning's character didn't have 1095 01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:13,800 Speaker 3: a lot of internalized racism based on her upbringing, but 1096 01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:16,480 Speaker 3: I did buy that she wouldn't understand that the civil 1097 01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:19,640 Speaker 3: rights bill being passed doesn't mean everything is better overnight. 1098 01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:23,400 Speaker 3: And I liked that moment with Rosaline where she's like, yeah, 1099 01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:26,360 Speaker 3: technically maybe, but it's a piece of paper and like, 1100 01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:28,640 Speaker 3: I don't know, like it felt like we were being 1101 01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:32,000 Speaker 3: set up for more complex conversations that ended up happening. 1102 01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:37,120 Speaker 4: Sometimes. There's another one that worked for me, where it's 1103 01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:42,200 Speaker 4: this scene where Rosaline is attacked by the white men 1104 01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:47,800 Speaker 4: and they're demanding that she apologize and Lily is begging 1105 01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:51,480 Speaker 4: for her to comply with this request and to apologize, 1106 01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:56,920 Speaker 4: and Rosaline refuses, and then she is arrested, and then 1107 01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:01,200 Speaker 4: a little later, Lily says something like, well, yeah, you 1108 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 4: were foolish for, you know, pouring your tobacco spit on 1109 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:07,400 Speaker 4: that white man, and even more foolish for not apologizing 1110 01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:12,200 Speaker 4: if apologizing would have saved your life, And Rosaline's response is, 1111 01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:16,479 Speaker 4: I know you don't understand this, but apologizing to those 1112 01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:18,840 Speaker 4: men would have just been a different way of dying, 1113 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:22,160 Speaker 4: except I would have to live with it. But then, 1114 01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:27,080 Speaker 4: like after that, any of those more nuanced conversations like 1115 01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:32,640 Speaker 4: kind of don't happen at least between at least with Rosaline, 1116 01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:37,440 Speaker 4: because she just sort of disappears mostly from the movie. 1117 01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:41,760 Speaker 3: One thing I appreciated that I think, just again we 1118 01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:45,960 Speaker 3: are we don't often see represented in movies is a 1119 01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:51,360 Speaker 3: black family that is like a middle class, upper middle class. 1120 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:55,760 Speaker 3: I mean, their house fucking rocks. I don't know what 1121 01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:59,280 Speaker 3: that white class that is in nineteen sixty whatever, But. 1122 01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,200 Speaker 5: The book they explained that they're dad was a dentist. 1123 01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,640 Speaker 3: Okay, but yeah, I mean I think that that you know, 1124 01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:09,880 Speaker 3: to this day is still a fairly underrepresented class. And 1125 01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:12,320 Speaker 3: so it is. It was it was nice to see. 1126 01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:17,560 Speaker 4: Another example of like Lily's racial prejudice is she's like, wow, 1127 01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:21,960 Speaker 4: I've never seen black people who are so cultured and right, I. 1128 01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:25,040 Speaker 3: Know, like Rosaline, mean, while Rosaline sitting right there, I 1129 01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:27,280 Speaker 3: would have been like like. 1130 01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:32,320 Speaker 4: But then but then Rosaline is like, actually, neither have I. 1131 01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,360 Speaker 5: And yeah, there's even a part where Rosaline's all like, 1132 01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:38,880 Speaker 5: I ain't never I have never heard of it. And 1133 01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:41,520 Speaker 5: I'm like, you didn't have to change anything, you don't 1134 01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:43,880 Speaker 5: change anything. But at the same time, I feel like 1135 01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,840 Speaker 5: that comes from comes from the book. Like I feel 1136 01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:50,680 Speaker 5: like like we just see a lot of Lily's internalized 1137 01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:54,160 Speaker 5: thoughts about Rosalne in a way that just that just 1138 01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:58,000 Speaker 5: makes me mad. Like she like wrote, Rosaline just does 1139 01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,960 Speaker 5: not give a crap, and that's seen a lot more 1140 01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:03,720 Speaker 5: in the book. And Lily's all like, oh my god, Rosaline, 1141 01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:05,880 Speaker 5: I wish you'd care more. I wish you'd like not 1142 01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,760 Speaker 5: like do that in front of the boat, right sisters 1143 01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,240 Speaker 5: or whatever. And she's internalizing all of this, and I 1144 01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:13,920 Speaker 5: think some of that carried into like how to portray 1145 01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:16,120 Speaker 5: her in the movie, and I wish that didn't happen. 1146 01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:21,280 Speaker 3: Interesting, gosh, it's Rosaline was done dirty Jennifer Hudson in 1147 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:24,520 Speaker 3: two thousand and eight, Like, it just was not fair, 1148 01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:29,720 Speaker 3: not a fair time to our friend Jennifer Hudson and 1149 01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:31,760 Speaker 3: the fact that she'd have to wait until it's twenty 1150 01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:34,720 Speaker 3: nineteen to play her greatest role in Cats. You mean 1151 01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:36,240 Speaker 3: of Grizabella the glamour Cat. 1152 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:37,440 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, of course. 1153 01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:40,120 Speaker 5: Wait when did when did Aretha come out? 1154 01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:41,160 Speaker 4: Oh? 1155 01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:44,520 Speaker 3: Aretha? I think Aretha came out afterwards. But I was 1156 01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:46,480 Speaker 3: also just being an asshole. Cats as hard. 1157 01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:51,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, we imagine if we were like Jennifer Hudson's 1158 01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 4: greatest performance in the greatest movie of all time Cats, 1159 01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:00,040 Speaker 4: although she she is the best, I mean she she 1160 01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:02,200 Speaker 4: has a great performance. You think she's in a way 1161 01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:04,440 Speaker 4: better movie than she's actually in, which is like, how 1162 01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:05,160 Speaker 4: was she to know? 1163 01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:08,120 Speaker 3: But yeah, she's They didn't know that, they weren't gonna 1164 01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:14,080 Speaker 3: edit out her human body, like couldn't have known? 1165 01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:19,720 Speaker 4: Yeah. Can we talk about June and her relationship with Neil? 1166 01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:21,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate it. 1167 01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:27,800 Speaker 4: I hate it. It's him constantly asking her to marry him. 1168 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:32,640 Speaker 4: She says, no, I don't want to be married now 1169 01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:36,560 Speaker 4: or ever. Like you mentioned, Maya, the movie deletes the 1170 01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:41,000 Speaker 4: context for why. But even if honestly I appreciated that 1171 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:43,600 Speaker 4: there was no context, Like I didn't mind that that 1172 01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:47,640 Speaker 4: context wasn't there, because people are allowed to not want 1173 01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:50,200 Speaker 4: to get married and to not have true, you know, 1174 01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:54,360 Speaker 4: any traumatic backstory that informs that they can just say, 1175 01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:56,400 Speaker 4: like I don't want to get married. So I actually 1176 01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:59,120 Speaker 4: was like, hell, yeah, June, you don't want to get married. 1177 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:02,800 Speaker 4: And she doesn't have to give a reason, and a 1178 01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:05,040 Speaker 4: lot of people around her are like, you're so scared. 1179 01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:06,680 Speaker 4: What are you so scared of? And she's like, I'm 1180 01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:09,160 Speaker 4: not scared. I just don't want to get married. But 1181 01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:12,840 Speaker 4: Neil keeps like pestering her. He then calls her a 1182 01:06:12,880 --> 01:06:15,640 Speaker 4: selfish bitch, and then they break up about it and. 1183 01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:16,920 Speaker 3: He never apologizes. 1184 01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:20,920 Speaker 5: He never apologizes, And Gina Prince Bythewood had talked about 1185 01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:24,400 Speaker 5: like while directing Alicia. She said something along the lines 1186 01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:27,880 Speaker 5: of like, oh, it's so oh, it's amazing. How how 1187 01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,040 Speaker 5: even though she's very firm and talking about how she's 1188 01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:32,640 Speaker 5: not scared of anything, you can see the fear in 1189 01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:33,560 Speaker 5: her eyes. 1190 01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,760 Speaker 3: And like, and this is the couple we're rooting for. 1191 01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:38,400 Speaker 4: Are you to disagree? 1192 01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 5: Because like a lot of that just come from and again, 1193 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:42,160 Speaker 5: I know I talked about this in the Beyond the 1194 01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:44,840 Speaker 5: Lights episode, like it just goes back to like Gena 1195 01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:48,280 Speaker 5: Prince Bythewood's view of romantic relationships in a way where 1196 01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:52,920 Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, ah, buddy, And like there's a scene 1197 01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:58,320 Speaker 5: where where Lily sees June and Neil kissing, and I 1198 01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:02,880 Speaker 5: bring this up because this is connected back to Lily 1199 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:07,840 Speaker 5: and Zach's kiss scene and how Gina Prince Bithwood said 1200 01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,680 Speaker 5: in the commentary, she was like, it was nice to 1201 01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:13,400 Speaker 5: portray this form, this form of this form of innocence. 1202 01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:15,640 Speaker 5: It was nice to do this at the at the 1203 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:20,480 Speaker 5: Wailing Wall because of because after Lily and May's scene 1204 01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:22,800 Speaker 5: where they talk about kissing that's not in the book 1205 01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:26,480 Speaker 5: but was an addition added to the story, and then 1206 01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:30,520 Speaker 5: talked about like oh, she she caresses Zach's face, similar 1207 01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:35,200 Speaker 5: to how June caress is Neil's face, and it's like it's. 1208 01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:38,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, don't don't talk about my friend Zach like that, 1209 01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:43,880 Speaker 3: like that's Zach. Is seems like a really nice, a 1210 01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:45,000 Speaker 3: nice kiss. 1211 01:07:45,640 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 5: And I also just I'm getting very bored with like 1212 01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:53,000 Speaker 5: people asking actors what was it like kissing your co 1213 01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:56,120 Speaker 5: star because like there's a commentary with Queen Latifa and 1214 01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:59,760 Speaker 5: Dakota fanning the producers and Gina, and both Queen Latifa 1215 01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:02,840 Speaker 5: and Gina asked Dakota, what's going through your mind? And like, 1216 01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:05,800 Speaker 5: to paraphrase what Dakota said, she was just like had 1217 01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:06,640 Speaker 5: a job to do. 1218 01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:12,280 Speaker 3: Child, he should be illegal, Like I I also, yeah, 1219 01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:14,960 Speaker 3: I always think that, especially when you ask a child 1220 01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:18,040 Speaker 3: like that, it is like the creepiest thing one could 1221 01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:21,360 Speaker 3: do in that situation, especially like, hey, that. 1222 01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:26,479 Speaker 4: Right, especially when and I only just learned this about 1223 01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:31,240 Speaker 4: an hour ago, that she was kissing. You said he 1224 01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:34,960 Speaker 4: was eighteen going on nineteen the actor, yep, and she's 1225 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:39,160 Speaker 4: thirteen certain going on fourteen. Yeah, let's not do that. 1226 01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:45,200 Speaker 4: Don't cast an actor who is that much older if 1227 01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:47,479 Speaker 4: you do insist on having an on screen kiss like that. 1228 01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:53,240 Speaker 4: But also like is it necessary she's a choy, Like right, 1229 01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:53,880 Speaker 4: let's not. 1230 01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:56,799 Speaker 3: There can be yeah, like there you can get across 1231 01:08:56,880 --> 01:09:02,720 Speaker 3: their bond without doing that. Like, yeah, this was a bummer. 1232 01:09:02,520 --> 01:09:04,880 Speaker 4: To go back to June and Neil real quick to 1233 01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:08,360 Speaker 4: just like close the loop on that. So he calls 1234 01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 4: herselfish bitch. They break up. She changes her mind for 1235 01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:15,280 Speaker 4: reasons that are not clear. You could maybe say that 1236 01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:18,280 Speaker 4: maybe it had something to do with what May had 1237 01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:20,880 Speaker 4: said in her suicide note, where she's like, you know, 1238 01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:23,880 Speaker 4: it's it's my time to go, but your time to live, 1239 01:09:24,360 --> 01:09:26,719 Speaker 4: implying that the only way to live as a woman 1240 01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:29,400 Speaker 4: is to get heterosexually married to a man. 1241 01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:31,880 Speaker 3: A person doesn't like it. 1242 01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:35,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, And granted August does say like, oh, there was 1243 01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:37,280 Speaker 5: a time I was in love and like I loved 1244 01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:39,240 Speaker 5: him enough to marry him, but I loved my freedom 1245 01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,040 Speaker 5: more so I like, so I appreciate that contrast, and 1246 01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:44,160 Speaker 5: at the same time, it again, it just doesn't help, 1247 01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:46,160 Speaker 5: like like this idea of like. 1248 01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:50,040 Speaker 1: Come on, June, Mary Neil, marry yeah, like let him 1249 01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:53,080 Speaker 1: wear you down so much that, for reasons that aren't clear, 1250 01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:55,840 Speaker 1: you change your mind even though you were so like 1251 01:09:56,040 --> 01:10:01,200 Speaker 1: headstrong about not getting married prior to this, and it. 1252 01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 3: That really has struck me of like why is August 1253 01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:08,599 Speaker 3: able to have that grace? But I feel like June 1254 01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:13,720 Speaker 3: is like often presented as like being cold and like 1255 01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,080 Speaker 3: mean for not wanting to get married, and August is 1256 01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:19,760 Speaker 3: not portrayed that way, even though their reasoning sounds basically identical. 1257 01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:22,639 Speaker 3: So I just thought that was like bizarre mud. 1258 01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:27,240 Speaker 4: And then, as we've alluded to, and we talk more 1259 01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,479 Speaker 4: about this on the Beyond the Lights episode, I don't 1260 01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:31,880 Speaker 4: think it's we don't need to like rehash it in 1261 01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 4: a lot of detail. But and will place another trigger 1262 01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:39,799 Speaker 4: warning here for rape and sexual assault. But Nate Parker 1263 01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:43,160 Speaker 4: is a rapist. He raped a woman in the late 1264 01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:47,160 Speaker 4: nineties while he was in college. He denied it, charges 1265 01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:49,240 Speaker 4: were eventually dropped. He was able to go on to 1266 01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:54,320 Speaker 4: have a an acting career, and for some reason he 1267 01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:59,840 Speaker 4: gets cast in movies despite this being pretty easily accessible knowledge. 1268 01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,960 Speaker 3: So who can say why? Who can say why these 1269 01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:03,439 Speaker 3: things have. 1270 01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:05,840 Speaker 4: Who does it have something to do with? I don't 1271 01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:14,439 Speaker 4: know the patriarchy anyway, you whispering patriarchy if we if 1272 01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:16,519 Speaker 4: if we whisper it, it'll go away. 1273 01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:23,000 Speaker 5: Welcome, welcomed to my smar gonna talk about the patriarchy. 1274 01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:26,880 Speaker 3: Caitlin, is the patriarchy in the room with us right now? 1275 01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:28,920 Speaker 4: It's behind me, isn't it. 1276 01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:35,280 Speaker 3: Yes? So yeah, yeah, it's every male character except I 1277 01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:39,680 Speaker 3: mean it's it's so because I in my notes, I 1278 01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:41,200 Speaker 3: was like, at least we have Zach. But then the 1279 01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:44,719 Speaker 3: casting age disparity is like, well kind of we don't 1280 01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:48,240 Speaker 3: I like the character, Uh yeah, really really good character. 1281 01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:54,000 Speaker 5: Zach's mom was Lafonda in Napoleon Dynamite. 1282 01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:59,920 Speaker 3: And whah my god, that's but I want to be 1283 01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:00,599 Speaker 3: I share. 1284 01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:01,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you. 1285 01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:06,280 Speaker 3: I have not thought about Napoleon Dynamite in so long. 1286 01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:08,200 Speaker 4: I feel like it's another movie we need to cover. 1287 01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:10,720 Speaker 3: I know, but I'm almost afraid to. I was like, 1288 01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:11,479 Speaker 3: what there? 1289 01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:14,920 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, could. 1290 01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:16,679 Speaker 3: It possibly have aged? Well? I don't. 1291 01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:18,360 Speaker 5: I just don't think. 1292 01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:19,760 Speaker 4: Only one way to find out. 1293 01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:23,280 Speaker 3: I used to have a vote Pedro shirt and an 1294 01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:28,760 Speaker 3: I Love Lamp shirt. I mean, yeah, I was. I 1295 01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:34,320 Speaker 3: don't want to talk about it. Yeah yeah, but yeah. 1296 01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:38,879 Speaker 4: I mean Zach as a character is a character I enjoyed. 1297 01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:42,680 Speaker 4: And you know, the interactions between him and Lily or 1298 01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:48,719 Speaker 4: another example of her like harboring these racial prejudices, because 1299 01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:51,559 Speaker 4: there's that scene where they're talking about their future hopes 1300 01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:54,720 Speaker 4: and dreams and she's like, oh, yeah, are you going 1301 01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:57,040 Speaker 4: to be a professional football player? And he's like, why 1302 01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,519 Speaker 4: do white people always think that the only way black 1303 01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:03,680 Speaker 4: people can be successful is to play sports? And he 1304 01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:06,519 Speaker 4: says he wants to be a lawyer, and she's like, oh, really, 1305 01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:09,040 Speaker 4: I've never heard of a black lawyer before. And then 1306 01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:13,240 Speaker 4: he's like Thurgood Marshall hello, and she's like, yeah, I 1307 01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:17,720 Speaker 4: don't know him, and it's just another way of like 1308 01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:22,080 Speaker 4: her being isolated and not knowing about the world. 1309 01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:24,519 Speaker 3: I'd say, see, I kind of had a different read 1310 01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:29,599 Speaker 3: of that scene where where I do like appreciate that 1311 01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:32,439 Speaker 3: you know she again, it's like she's not made out 1312 01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:36,160 Speaker 3: to be immune to racism, because that would make no 1313 01:13:36,240 --> 01:13:40,400 Speaker 3: sense given her lived experience. It just feels like sometimes 1314 01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:44,400 Speaker 3: in like this subgenre of movies that like Zach was 1315 01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:47,679 Speaker 3: there in that moment to teach her about racism, I mean, 1316 01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:50,640 Speaker 3: versus to have it be more of like a character development. 1317 01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:52,760 Speaker 3: And I feel like that is like so common to 1318 01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:57,840 Speaker 3: movies that managed to center a young white person. Is 1319 01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:02,800 Speaker 3: that like a lot of the black characters like struggles, ambitions, 1320 01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:06,560 Speaker 3: whatever it may be, is like they're there to characterize, 1321 01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,439 Speaker 3: but they're also there to be like, guess what you naive, 1322 01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:14,240 Speaker 3: Dakota Fanning, they're good. Marshall exists. 1323 01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:19,080 Speaker 5: Another thing I'll point out, the boat right sisters are 1324 01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:23,839 Speaker 5: older in the book then than who is casted to 1325 01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:28,439 Speaker 5: portray them. In the film, and granted they sort of 1326 01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:31,519 Speaker 5: kind of age Queen Latifah up, but not by much. 1327 01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:36,000 Speaker 5: So I just find that fascinating around how much of 1328 01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:40,559 Speaker 5: it had to do with having to sell a movie 1329 01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:44,040 Speaker 5: and having like Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith be 1330 01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:46,840 Speaker 5: be producers on it and like and stuff like that 1331 01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:50,360 Speaker 5: or Yeah, but I'm also aware that like Gina Prince 1332 01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:53,639 Speaker 5: Bythwood and Alicia Keys are our friends, so that's sort 1333 01:14:53,680 --> 01:14:56,680 Speaker 5: of connected to like, Alicia Keys is casting in the 1334 01:14:57,080 --> 01:14:57,479 Speaker 5: in the. 1335 01:14:57,360 --> 01:15:00,040 Speaker 3: Film, but she's really good in it. I really I 1336 01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:01,720 Speaker 3: liked her performance. 1337 01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:06,439 Speaker 4: Absolutely, But another examples fantastic of you know, Hollywood favoring 1338 01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:14,519 Speaker 4: younger women. Yeah, what else we got? Fulk I mean, 1339 01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:23,080 Speaker 4: as you mentioned Maya, the book draws a clearer metaphorical 1340 01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:28,280 Speaker 4: parallel between the lives of bees and what the women 1341 01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:32,000 Speaker 4: in the story you're experiencing. But the movie is just like, 1342 01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:36,760 Speaker 4: here are the logistics about how bee keeping works, and 1343 01:15:36,800 --> 01:15:40,040 Speaker 4: it's far less like thematic and metaphorical. 1344 01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:42,599 Speaker 3: The only moment where it really comes back is when 1345 01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:47,759 Speaker 3: may is sort of foreshadowing her own death by talking 1346 01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:52,320 Speaker 3: about worker bees. Where that was like the only moment 1347 01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:55,599 Speaker 3: where it felt like making an explicit connection to this 1348 01:15:55,720 --> 01:16:00,840 Speaker 3: community of women, to the beemmunity. 1349 01:16:01,080 --> 01:16:03,479 Speaker 5: It's one of the few epigraphs from the book that's 1350 01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:04,120 Speaker 5: that's said. 1351 01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:08,000 Speaker 7: In the movie Oh no kidding, Okay, Yeah, And also 1352 01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:13,240 Speaker 7: going into MHM is now where I do the big 1353 01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:14,519 Speaker 7: religion deep. 1354 01:16:14,400 --> 01:16:20,960 Speaker 5: Dive play, Okay, because the because again the the bees 1355 01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:25,360 Speaker 5: are connected to the religious landscape as well. So so Sue, 1356 01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:28,879 Speaker 5: my kid had been spending a lot of time writing 1357 01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:31,920 Speaker 5: non fiction before she wrote fictional books. And she has 1358 01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:38,520 Speaker 5: written a lot about progressive, progressive spirituality, the divine feminine. 1359 01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:41,519 Speaker 5: I will unpack that and like in a minute, because 1360 01:16:41,520 --> 01:16:44,040 Speaker 5: I have mixed feelings about that. But but yeah, this 1361 01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:47,559 Speaker 5: is her first fictional book. And she has been doing 1362 01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:51,160 Speaker 5: this project for years of like looking up different artistic 1363 01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:54,439 Speaker 5: sculpt sculptures of like different Madonnas of different racial identities 1364 01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:57,519 Speaker 5: and different cultural backgrounds. And she and then she did 1365 01:16:57,640 --> 01:17:01,040 Speaker 5: find a piece from a ship that was supposed to 1366 01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:06,200 Speaker 5: embody the Virgin Mary and which letter to write this 1367 01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:09,880 Speaker 5: book and letter to like think about her own time 1368 01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:12,320 Speaker 5: during the Civil rights movement at the age of fourteen, 1369 01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:16,400 Speaker 5: and also what I like about the Secret Life of 1370 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:18,680 Speaker 5: be is it It's one of the few film representations 1371 01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:23,519 Speaker 5: I've seen of black folks within within practicing Catholicism, because 1372 01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:28,680 Speaker 5: usually it's it's in Protestant Pentecostal churches or like or 1373 01:17:28,680 --> 01:17:31,200 Speaker 5: if there is Catholicism represented, it's because they go to 1374 01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:34,479 Speaker 5: a Catholic school. It's not because they're necessarily Catholic or 1375 01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:38,800 Speaker 5: they're of of Afrolatin X descents as to why they're 1376 01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:43,960 Speaker 5: practicing Catholicism, and with with this practice with the daughters 1377 01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:48,679 Speaker 5: of Mary, the ship head that they that they call 1378 01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:51,880 Speaker 5: Mary had been in the boat Right's family for quite 1379 01:17:51,880 --> 01:17:56,679 Speaker 5: some time, like the book describes their mom even talking 1380 01:17:56,760 --> 01:17:58,960 Speaker 5: to her going like going like, oh my goodness, you 1381 01:17:58,960 --> 01:18:00,800 Speaker 5: should have had a girl, have been a lot less 1382 01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:05,800 Speaker 5: trouble and stuff like that, and uh. And their so 1383 01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:10,600 Speaker 5: their mom is Catholic and their dad is an Orthodox Eclectic, 1384 01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:14,559 Speaker 5: which is a denomination that leans more specifically to Eastern 1385 01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:18,840 Speaker 5: Christianity rather than Western Christianity. And also they even the 1386 01:18:18,840 --> 01:18:23,519 Speaker 5: book also talks about Rosaline's spiritual background too, like she 1387 01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:27,040 Speaker 5: she engages in an altar work that that lily is 1388 01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:30,360 Speaker 5: fascinated by Antiray is like, no, don't don't mess with 1389 01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:34,080 Speaker 5: that food, with that voodoo shit, which is very racist 1390 01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:38,240 Speaker 5: of him to say. And and at first Rosaline's not 1391 01:18:38,439 --> 01:18:41,080 Speaker 5: into the Daughters of Mary thing, but she eventually gets 1392 01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:42,479 Speaker 5: into it, even though she just most of the time 1393 01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:45,080 Speaker 5: just sits there. And I think she's only like touched 1394 01:18:45,600 --> 01:18:46,200 Speaker 5: the heart of. 1395 01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:47,400 Speaker 4: Mary one time. 1396 01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:54,000 Speaker 5: And and they also talk about the connection with with 1397 01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:57,320 Speaker 5: bees as part of their religious tradition too, like they 1398 01:18:57,439 --> 01:19:01,320 Speaker 5: talk about like so this So the scene in the 1399 01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:07,160 Speaker 5: movie where August puts the black covers on the bee hives, 1400 01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:10,320 Speaker 5: that's the only thing from the book that they show. 1401 01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,400 Speaker 5: And apparently it wasn't written in the script, but Gina 1402 01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:14,920 Speaker 5: Prince Bithwood wanted a shot of that before they were 1403 01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:18,840 Speaker 5: before they were done. I'm glad that shot exists. And 1404 01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:21,920 Speaker 5: so when it comes to death rituals, honey used to 1405 01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:26,360 Speaker 5: be used for embalming. They used to shape tombs in 1406 01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:30,679 Speaker 5: the shape of bee hives when when early Christians were 1407 01:19:31,000 --> 01:19:34,200 Speaker 5: hiding from from Romans. Not only was there like the 1408 01:19:34,240 --> 01:19:36,560 Speaker 5: fish symbol, there was also there were also bee symbols. 1409 01:19:37,000 --> 01:19:38,840 Speaker 4: Oh okay, And in. 1410 01:19:38,840 --> 01:19:41,840 Speaker 5: The book, August says covering the hives was supposed to. 1411 01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:44,720 Speaker 8: Keep the bees from leaving. You see, the last thing 1412 01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:47,160 Speaker 8: they wanted was their bees swarming off. When a death 1413 01:19:47,200 --> 01:19:50,439 Speaker 8: took place, having bees around was supposed to ensure that 1414 01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:54,800 Speaker 8: the dead person would live again. She also says, back 1415 01:19:54,840 --> 01:19:57,960 Speaker 8: when the Christians hid from the Romans down in the catacombs, 1416 01:19:58,000 --> 01:20:00,680 Speaker 8: they used to scratch pictures of bees the walls to 1417 01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:03,920 Speaker 8: remind each other that when they died, they'd be resurrected. 1418 01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:09,160 Speaker 5: And she said, and she also says something about about 1419 01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:12,759 Speaker 5: how like this figure came from came from a ship, 1420 01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:17,280 Speaker 5: and the people wanted to believe about the Virgin Mary's 1421 01:20:17,320 --> 01:20:22,679 Speaker 5: spirit within that, within that figure and see and see 1422 01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:26,479 Speaker 5: themselves in in that figure, because because she says something 1423 01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:30,600 Speaker 5: along the lines of how people deserve a God that looks. 1424 01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:35,320 Speaker 4: Like them, which gets referenced to some extent in the 1425 01:20:35,479 --> 01:20:40,080 Speaker 4: movie where the label of the honey jars has black 1426 01:20:40,160 --> 01:20:43,479 Speaker 4: Virgin Mary and baby Jesus. And there's a part where 1427 01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:48,840 Speaker 4: Lily is like, what's that about? And June says something like, 1428 01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:52,240 Speaker 4: you mean, like, why is Mary black? Or why is that? 1429 01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:58,280 Speaker 4: And that's that's what prompts the scene where August and 1430 01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:01,280 Speaker 4: the is it the daughters of Mary? 1431 01:21:01,760 --> 01:21:05,439 Speaker 5: The Daughters of Mary, it's the it's how they're described 1432 01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:07,760 Speaker 5: in the book I recognize that they don't say that 1433 01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:08,400 Speaker 5: in the movie. 1434 01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:09,559 Speaker 4: They probably do. 1435 01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:14,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, in the in The Daughters of Mary, sugar girl 1436 01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:17,400 Speaker 5: has a husband named Otis who's mostly quiet and just 1437 01:21:17,439 --> 01:21:17,920 Speaker 5: sits there. 1438 01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:20,720 Speaker 4: More men should be like this. 1439 01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:24,439 Speaker 5: It's easy to get rid of Otis in the movie. 1440 01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:29,719 Speaker 5: But yeah, when going into like the whole divine feminine 1441 01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:33,600 Speaker 5: thing that sumanc Kid talks about, Like, like on one end, 1442 01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:37,200 Speaker 5: I appreciate that the progressiveness of it because of how 1443 01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:42,360 Speaker 5: often women are under underrepresented in religious and spiritual conversations. 1444 01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:46,240 Speaker 5: But then at the same time it crosses into like 1445 01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:52,080 Speaker 5: turfy territory, trans exclusionary radical feminism type territory and doesn't 1446 01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:55,559 Speaker 5: make a lot of room for for religious or spiritual 1447 01:21:55,800 --> 01:21:59,200 Speaker 5: trans folks. I remember in the Color Purple episode, y'all 1448 01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:03,720 Speaker 5: talked about Alice Walker siding with JK. Rowling and like 1449 01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:07,439 Speaker 5: she's also she's also a spiritual writer, and like she 1450 01:22:07,439 --> 01:22:12,160 Speaker 5: she came out with an apology question mark, I don't 1451 01:22:12,200 --> 01:22:14,840 Speaker 5: know how I feel about it, And also like I'm 1452 01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:18,160 Speaker 5: too scared to look into like how sumanc kid feels 1453 01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:23,559 Speaker 5: about trans people. I'm too nervous. But yeah, but yeah, 1454 01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:29,720 Speaker 5: typically like whenever there are folks specifically women with some 1455 01:22:29,840 --> 01:22:33,000 Speaker 5: form of a Christian background, even as they tried to 1456 01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:37,600 Speaker 5: make it progressive or try to lean into womanhood of 1457 01:22:37,640 --> 01:22:40,800 Speaker 5: it by by calling things like the divine feminine. I 1458 01:22:40,800 --> 01:22:43,600 Speaker 5: do get scared at times, where as far as like 1459 01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:45,000 Speaker 5: like like I don't I don't want to take your 1460 01:22:45,040 --> 01:22:47,360 Speaker 5: journey away from you. And at the same time, if 1461 01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:50,400 Speaker 5: you're if you're divine feminine doesn't include trans people, I 1462 01:22:50,400 --> 01:22:54,320 Speaker 5: don't know how I feel about that. So yeah, that's 1463 01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:58,000 Speaker 5: those Those are all my notes and feelings about the 1464 01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:01,680 Speaker 5: religious landscape of Yes, this movie, in the book that 1465 01:23:01,720 --> 01:23:02,479 Speaker 5: inspired it. 1466 01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:06,400 Speaker 4: That's very interesting, most if not all of that gets 1467 01:23:06,479 --> 01:23:09,200 Speaker 4: left out of the movie, Like all of that right 1468 01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:15,280 Speaker 4: kind of historical context and b significance isn't really in 1469 01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:18,880 Speaker 4: the movie. It's just Queen Latifa being like, yeah, and 1470 01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:21,880 Speaker 4: then we put smoke on the bees to masks they're 1471 01:23:21,920 --> 01:23:27,160 Speaker 4: pheromones and calm them down, which the movie gets wrong. 1472 01:23:27,880 --> 01:23:31,320 Speaker 3: They're like smoking the bees, they're killing us, and it's 1473 01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:33,479 Speaker 3: like all the bees have like emphysema, and you're like, 1474 01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:35,880 Speaker 3: it's not it's just not. 1475 01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:42,080 Speaker 4: In conclusion, being movie sucks. But yeah, there is there 1476 01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:43,920 Speaker 4: chemicals in this In the smoke. 1477 01:23:44,080 --> 01:23:46,040 Speaker 5: Is that the problem or is it just a matter? 1478 01:23:46,080 --> 01:23:46,960 Speaker 5: They're like, Oh, it's smoke. 1479 01:23:47,280 --> 01:23:50,800 Speaker 4: They're suggesting it's like tobacco smoke in B movie. 1480 01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:55,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're acting like it's cigarette smoke. It's so Terry 1481 01:23:55,360 --> 01:24:01,200 Speaker 3: Seinfeld IQ of zero, Like it's just yeah. 1482 01:24:01,280 --> 01:24:04,160 Speaker 5: The producer, one of the producers of this movie kept 1483 01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:07,439 Speaker 5: getting letters from people saying that they wanted Queen Latifah 1484 01:24:07,479 --> 01:24:08,559 Speaker 5: to adopt them. 1485 01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:11,240 Speaker 4: Seeing this movie. 1486 01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:13,360 Speaker 3: Who could relate? Who could relate? 1487 01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:14,040 Speaker 1: You know? 1488 01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:17,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, does anyone have anything else they'd like to discuss 1489 01:24:18,080 --> 01:24:19,799 Speaker 4: about the Secret life of Bees? 1490 01:24:20,880 --> 01:24:25,120 Speaker 3: I think that's everything that I had it. I don't know. Ultimately, 1491 01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:28,519 Speaker 3: I'm like it was. It feels very much a product 1492 01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:29,160 Speaker 3: of its time. 1493 01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:33,559 Speaker 4: To me, you could parse out different parts of this 1494 01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:36,320 Speaker 4: story and isolate them and they should just kind of 1495 01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:41,240 Speaker 4: be their own thing. And the fact that they're overlapping 1496 01:24:41,400 --> 01:24:47,000 Speaker 4: just means that the narratives of the black women suffer 1497 01:24:47,080 --> 01:24:51,719 Speaker 4: for it. So yeah, uh, Well, the movie does pass 1498 01:24:51,880 --> 01:24:58,200 Speaker 4: the Bechtel test for sure for large swaths of the 1499 01:24:58,240 --> 01:25:04,479 Speaker 4: movie between many different characters, so no problems there. As 1500 01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:06,920 Speaker 4: far as our Nipple scale, though, where we rate the 1501 01:25:06,960 --> 01:25:11,200 Speaker 4: movie on a scale of zero to five nipples. Examining 1502 01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:19,320 Speaker 4: the movie through an intersectional feminist lens, Hmmm, I'm kind 1503 01:25:19,320 --> 01:25:21,559 Speaker 4: of leaning toward like a two and a half or 1504 01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:26,640 Speaker 4: three for the reasons that we've discussed throughout the episode 1505 01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:29,240 Speaker 4: and like what I was just talking about as far 1506 01:25:29,280 --> 01:25:33,760 Speaker 4: as like, yes, the black characters are important narratively, but 1507 01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:36,679 Speaker 4: at the end of the day, it's still very much 1508 01:25:36,720 --> 01:25:43,599 Speaker 4: a story about a white girl's journey with like black 1509 01:25:43,680 --> 01:25:49,080 Speaker 4: characters as the backdrop, almost and there's nothing inherently wrong 1510 01:25:49,160 --> 01:25:50,679 Speaker 4: with a story about a white girl. 1511 01:25:51,160 --> 01:25:53,240 Speaker 3: You know, loved the substance. 1512 01:25:56,160 --> 01:26:00,880 Speaker 4: Exactly, but yeah, it's it's a It's what we've already said. 1513 01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:03,640 Speaker 4: It's just like, let you know, these other characters have 1514 01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:08,080 Speaker 4: their own story. I'll give it three nipples, one to 1515 01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:16,600 Speaker 4: Queen Latifah, one to Jennifer Hudson, and one too Sophie 1516 01:26:16,840 --> 01:26:21,160 Speaker 4: Oknado nice the end, I'm gonna go three as well. 1517 01:26:21,320 --> 01:26:24,400 Speaker 3: I mean, I love Gena France Bythwad. This movie did 1518 01:26:24,439 --> 01:26:29,160 Speaker 3: not super work for me, but I think a lot 1519 01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:33,000 Speaker 3: of that is connected to the source material as well. However, Yeah, 1520 01:26:33,080 --> 01:26:36,519 Speaker 3: I mean, even just like some of the directing choices 1521 01:26:36,560 --> 01:26:40,479 Speaker 3: she made, putting Jennifer Hudson through that bizarre or a 1522 01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:44,840 Speaker 3: deal like without making sure that even if she did know, 1523 01:26:44,880 --> 01:26:46,960 Speaker 3: it was fake, Like, I just Jennifer Hudson should have 1524 01:26:46,960 --> 01:26:49,360 Speaker 3: had the opportunity to be like no, thanks, Like you 1525 01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:52,080 Speaker 3: don't need to teach me what racism is for sure. 1526 01:26:52,200 --> 01:26:54,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, just because I've won an oscar doesn't mean I'm 1527 01:26:54,760 --> 01:26:58,080 Speaker 4: immune from racism, Like what even? 1528 01:26:58,600 --> 01:27:00,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I also think that that's that's a really 1529 01:27:00,600 --> 01:27:03,280 Speaker 3: weird situation to put a kid in as well, Like 1530 01:27:03,800 --> 01:27:08,439 Speaker 3: it just yeah, like some of her her choices I 1531 01:27:08,479 --> 01:27:11,040 Speaker 3: have questions about. But I also feel like, as we've 1532 01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:14,040 Speaker 3: talked about with Gina Prince Bythewood before, that she has 1533 01:27:14,080 --> 01:27:17,920 Speaker 3: never gotten the opportunities that she's deserved, especially the earlier 1534 01:27:17,960 --> 01:27:20,000 Speaker 3: in her career. You go, but we talked about this 1535 01:27:20,040 --> 01:27:23,200 Speaker 3: on the Woman King episode where it was just completely 1536 01:27:23,240 --> 01:27:27,320 Speaker 3: snubbed at the Oscars for her work, And so, you know, 1537 01:27:27,720 --> 01:27:29,519 Speaker 3: I think that while I don't agree with a lot 1538 01:27:29,520 --> 01:27:33,719 Speaker 3: of the choices she's making here, I also think she's 1539 01:27:33,760 --> 01:27:36,639 Speaker 3: put between a rock and a hard place constantly because 1540 01:27:36,640 --> 01:27:38,280 Speaker 3: she wasn't able to make the movie she wanted to, 1541 01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:43,960 Speaker 3: And that is also deeply unfair. Yeah, in terms of 1542 01:27:43,960 --> 01:27:47,160 Speaker 3: being a product of its time, a civil rights era 1543 01:27:47,400 --> 01:27:51,240 Speaker 3: story adapted from a work of a white writer that 1544 01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:55,920 Speaker 3: centers a white teenager, very popular thing to do in 1545 01:27:55,960 --> 01:28:00,040 Speaker 3: this stretch of five years. And while I think that 1546 01:28:00,080 --> 01:28:04,240 Speaker 3: Lily is a you know, fairly well written character all 1547 01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:07,880 Speaker 3: things considered, and it's not that I dislike her, again, 1548 01:28:07,920 --> 01:28:11,479 Speaker 3: it just feels like this, but but her being centered 1549 01:28:11,520 --> 01:28:16,280 Speaker 3: in the story means that the majority black cast becomes 1550 01:28:16,280 --> 01:28:20,080 Speaker 3: supporting characters, and that just doesn't feel right at all. 1551 01:28:20,520 --> 01:28:23,080 Speaker 3: So I'm going to give it three nipples. I'm going 1552 01:28:23,120 --> 01:28:27,240 Speaker 3: to give one to Jennifer Hudson, and I'm going to 1553 01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:30,200 Speaker 3: give one to Jennifer Hudson and dream Girls, and we 1554 01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:32,400 Speaker 3: to give one to Jennifer Hudson and Cats. 1555 01:28:32,920 --> 01:28:36,080 Speaker 4: Dream Girls another movie we have to cover. Wow, so 1556 01:28:36,200 --> 01:28:37,000 Speaker 4: much to do the. 1557 01:28:37,040 --> 01:28:39,720 Speaker 3: Last time, the last time I dream Girls. This is 1558 01:28:39,800 --> 01:28:45,080 Speaker 3: so loser coded. After my junior prom when you're supposed 1559 01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:47,639 Speaker 3: to like go out and like get drunk and kiss, 1560 01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:52,160 Speaker 3: they were like, hey, for any any loser kids, you 1561 01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:54,559 Speaker 3: can come back to the high school cafeteria and we're 1562 01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:59,120 Speaker 3: going to show dream Girls on DVD. And I've watched 1563 01:28:59,200 --> 01:29:01,680 Speaker 3: dream Girls and drank milk. I was like, it was 1564 01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:05,599 Speaker 3: so fucking pathetic. Anyways, I liked the movie, but I 1565 01:29:05,680 --> 01:29:10,160 Speaker 3: just that movie I associate with being like a gigantic loser. 1566 01:29:13,160 --> 01:29:16,880 Speaker 4: Wow, I love that story. Thank you so much, Maya. 1567 01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:17,639 Speaker 4: What say you? 1568 01:29:21,240 --> 01:29:23,320 Speaker 3: Maya's still recovering from what a loser I was in 1569 01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:24,880 Speaker 3: high school. No. 1570 01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:28,360 Speaker 5: But but here's the thing though, when you cover dream 1571 01:29:28,360 --> 01:29:32,719 Speaker 5: Girls on this on this podcast, non loser status. 1572 01:29:32,479 --> 01:29:35,519 Speaker 3: Right, I mean step into the bad side. I step 1573 01:29:35,560 --> 01:29:37,680 Speaker 3: into the bad side is just like and I love 1574 01:29:37,720 --> 01:29:39,880 Speaker 3: that song so much. That was my favorite song at 1575 01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:45,000 Speaker 3: the time, dream Girls. Anyways, Anyways, I will. 1576 01:29:44,640 --> 01:29:49,439 Speaker 5: Give this movie three and a half nipples because I 1577 01:29:49,479 --> 01:29:53,439 Speaker 5: do love that May's portrayal in the movie is a 1578 01:29:53,479 --> 01:29:56,640 Speaker 5: lot better than the book. And again, a lot of 1579 01:29:56,640 --> 01:29:59,240 Speaker 5: it just has to do with like Lily's fourteen year 1580 01:29:59,280 --> 01:30:02,439 Speaker 5: old voice talking about things she doesn't understand and using 1581 01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:05,240 Speaker 5: ablest language about May in a way that I didn't like. 1582 01:30:05,360 --> 01:30:08,000 Speaker 5: So I love that there is. Even though more space 1583 01:30:08,080 --> 01:30:10,000 Speaker 5: could have been given to May, I do love that 1584 01:30:10,439 --> 01:30:13,439 Speaker 5: May does get some space and even some original content 1585 01:30:13,560 --> 01:30:16,160 Speaker 5: added to her character in the in the hair braiding 1586 01:30:16,200 --> 01:30:21,920 Speaker 5: scene with Lily and I, Oh my gosh, I June 1587 01:30:21,960 --> 01:30:25,559 Speaker 5: deserved so much better and some of the behind the 1588 01:30:25,560 --> 01:30:27,880 Speaker 5: scenes details they talk about, like we wanted to make 1589 01:30:27,960 --> 01:30:32,280 Speaker 5: June a more accessible character, and that made me mad, 1590 01:30:32,400 --> 01:30:34,760 Speaker 5: especially when it came to like how more context would 1591 01:30:34,760 --> 01:30:39,000 Speaker 5: have made her a more accessible character. And like another 1592 01:30:39,080 --> 01:30:43,839 Speaker 5: thing in the book, she plays music for for people 1593 01:30:43,960 --> 01:30:46,840 Speaker 5: for the dead, whether they're dying in hospice or like 1594 01:30:47,120 --> 01:30:52,479 Speaker 5: or like they're playing she's playing at funerals, and she 1595 01:30:52,560 --> 01:30:54,720 Speaker 5: used to work as a mortician, and like and not 1596 01:30:54,760 --> 01:30:58,000 Speaker 5: having a history about like having that history when it 1597 01:30:58,040 --> 01:31:01,200 Speaker 5: comes to like having a younger sister die by suicide 1598 01:31:01,200 --> 01:31:03,599 Speaker 5: and then in your adult life having a sister died 1599 01:31:03,640 --> 01:31:06,280 Speaker 5: by suicide is like would have been incredible context to 1600 01:31:06,400 --> 01:31:07,760 Speaker 5: give Are you kidding me? 1601 01:31:08,360 --> 01:31:11,479 Speaker 3: I sorry? I was like, I just realized my brain 1602 01:31:11,520 --> 01:31:13,040 Speaker 3: is soup because I was like, I was like, the 1603 01:31:13,080 --> 01:31:16,760 Speaker 3: Grateful Dead weren't were they performing? Then she worked with 1604 01:31:16,920 --> 01:31:20,519 Speaker 3: the dead, like as in the Bodies, not not the band. 1605 01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:24,400 Speaker 4: I was like, do people refer to the Grateful Dead 1606 01:31:24,479 --> 01:31:25,320 Speaker 4: as the dead? 1607 01:31:25,880 --> 01:31:28,519 Speaker 3: Yes? I only know that because my brother is a 1608 01:31:28,600 --> 01:31:29,400 Speaker 3: huge dead head. 1609 01:31:29,800 --> 01:31:30,479 Speaker 4: He's a dead head. 1610 01:31:30,640 --> 01:31:34,400 Speaker 3: Oh he is. And I think I'm going to this 1611 01:31:34,479 --> 01:31:37,679 Speaker 3: is I think I'm going to a concert with him 1612 01:31:37,760 --> 01:31:38,720 Speaker 3: for his birthday. 1613 01:31:39,680 --> 01:31:40,599 Speaker 4: A Dead concert. 1614 01:31:41,120 --> 01:31:44,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're supposed to be twelve hundred hours long. I 1615 01:31:44,640 --> 01:31:49,040 Speaker 3: can't wait, can't wait. Oh my gosh. Wow, Well, I'm 1616 01:31:49,080 --> 01:31:51,200 Speaker 3: sure my brother would be proud of me. I was like, whoa, 1617 01:31:51,280 --> 01:31:53,479 Speaker 3: the Grateful Dead should have been in that movie. That's wild. 1618 01:31:53,960 --> 01:31:59,920 Speaker 5: Anyways, all the performances are fantastic. It makes me so 1619 01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:04,400 Speaker 5: uncomfortable watching watching some of the special features continent of 1620 01:32:04,439 --> 01:32:08,160 Speaker 5: like Paul Bettany and Nate Parker being like the the 1621 01:32:08,400 --> 01:32:12,960 Speaker 5: nice guys and like when like, clearly they're not so nice, 1622 01:32:13,040 --> 01:32:16,400 Speaker 5: and it makes me uncomfortable. There are many things I 1623 01:32:16,439 --> 01:32:18,919 Speaker 5: love about this movie. There are many things I continue 1624 01:32:18,920 --> 01:32:21,439 Speaker 5: to interrogate about this movie. So I'm gonna give it 1625 01:32:21,479 --> 01:32:24,759 Speaker 5: three three and a half. And I often I notice 1626 01:32:24,840 --> 01:32:27,920 Speaker 5: I've been noticing this. I tend to make people share 1627 01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:30,599 Speaker 5: a nipple and then the event for the half one 1628 01:32:30,640 --> 01:32:35,519 Speaker 5: one person gets okay. So I'm gonna give one nipple 1629 01:32:36,080 --> 01:32:39,920 Speaker 5: for Queen Latifa and Alicia Keys to share one nipple 1630 01:32:40,280 --> 01:32:45,080 Speaker 5: to be shared between Jennifer Hudson and Sofio Canido. I'll 1631 01:32:45,120 --> 01:32:49,920 Speaker 5: give a nipple for Oh my gosh, I'm blinking. I'm 1632 01:32:49,920 --> 01:32:55,040 Speaker 5: blinking on the actual actress's name, Oh, the one in 1633 01:32:55,240 --> 01:33:01,559 Speaker 5: Zachary's mom Laonda from Napoleon Time. Oh yes, I know, 1634 01:33:02,040 --> 01:33:04,080 Speaker 5: I'm going to look up her name. I need to, 1635 01:33:04,400 --> 01:33:05,439 Speaker 5: I need to get this right. 1636 01:33:05,640 --> 01:33:07,760 Speaker 4: Her name is Chandrella Avery. 1637 01:33:07,880 --> 01:33:10,760 Speaker 5: Thank you. I'm gonna give a nipple to Chandre Chandrella 1638 01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:16,160 Speaker 5: Avery and Sandra Hernandez, the costume designer. Oh, I love 1639 01:33:16,280 --> 01:33:20,839 Speaker 5: all of the boat Right's sister's dresses, especially that purple 1640 01:33:21,120 --> 01:33:25,280 Speaker 5: dress that August wears when talking one on one to 1641 01:33:25,360 --> 01:33:29,800 Speaker 5: Lily with like her Debor's Box of Things. And then 1642 01:33:29,880 --> 01:33:34,360 Speaker 5: the final half nibble to India Ari for her song 1643 01:33:34,479 --> 01:33:36,240 Speaker 5: beautiful in the movie. 1644 01:33:37,400 --> 01:33:40,160 Speaker 3: Lofe Maya. Thank you so much for coming back. 1645 01:33:40,360 --> 01:33:42,439 Speaker 5: Thank you so much for having me back. We still 1646 01:33:42,479 --> 01:33:44,479 Speaker 5: need to do something on Dear Evan Hansoon. 1647 01:33:44,960 --> 01:33:45,960 Speaker 3: I know y'all are. 1648 01:33:45,880 --> 01:33:48,479 Speaker 5: Like, oh no, but I'm over here like, oh yeah. 1649 01:33:48,840 --> 01:33:52,679 Speaker 4: It's time, it will happen. I still have never seen 1650 01:33:52,680 --> 01:33:55,240 Speaker 4: that movie. I don't know what it is. 1651 01:33:55,680 --> 01:33:57,680 Speaker 3: So Caitlyn, I think you'll think it's I mean, it 1652 01:33:57,720 --> 01:33:58,559 Speaker 3: is kind of funny. 1653 01:33:58,880 --> 01:33:59,240 Speaker 4: Okay. 1654 01:34:00,200 --> 01:34:02,679 Speaker 3: Ultimately that of a comic guy who's. 1655 01:34:02,479 --> 01:34:06,160 Speaker 4: In it would later go on to be in does 1656 01:34:06,200 --> 01:34:10,920 Speaker 4: that movie called Band Camp Theater camph Theater Camp Theater Camp, 1657 01:34:11,320 --> 01:34:12,479 Speaker 4: which I enjoyed very much. 1658 01:34:12,560 --> 01:34:13,720 Speaker 5: So it's a fun mover. 1659 01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:16,160 Speaker 4: Yes, Maya, thank you so much for joining us. Come 1660 01:34:16,160 --> 01:34:19,560 Speaker 4: back anytime. Thank you for Dear Evan Hanson. 1661 01:34:20,800 --> 01:34:23,920 Speaker 5: Or any other movie or listen, listen, I'm I'm willing 1662 01:34:24,040 --> 01:34:28,120 Speaker 5: to wait for Dear Evan Hanson if need be, we'll no, 1663 01:34:28,240 --> 01:34:31,320 Speaker 5: it's it's always an honor talking about films with y'all. 1664 01:34:31,360 --> 01:34:34,120 Speaker 5: So thank you very much for letting me come back. 1665 01:34:34,479 --> 01:34:36,120 Speaker 3: Course, thank you so much for coming back. 1666 01:34:36,280 --> 01:34:40,280 Speaker 4: Where can people check out your work? Follow you on 1667 01:34:40,320 --> 01:34:42,759 Speaker 4: social media? Plug anything you'd like to plug? 1668 01:34:43,080 --> 01:34:50,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I am on Instagram, Blue Sky and Twitter at 1669 01:34:50,280 --> 01:34:54,040 Speaker 5: e M M dubb one sixteen, so M doub sixteen. 1670 01:34:54,520 --> 01:34:58,800 Speaker 5: I have a website Maya williamspoet dot com. M A 1671 01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:01,800 Speaker 5: y A Williams Poe dot com. You can buy either 1672 01:35:01,800 --> 01:35:05,559 Speaker 5: one of my poetry collections from that website, or you 1673 01:35:05,600 --> 01:35:09,360 Speaker 5: could read any of my other published work, whether it's 1674 01:35:09,360 --> 01:35:14,240 Speaker 5: poetry or essays or stuff like that. So yeah, I 1675 01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:17,600 Speaker 5: have a chatbook out now called What's So Wrong with 1676 01:35:17,600 --> 01:35:22,680 Speaker 5: a Pity Party Anyway? Via a garden party collective, my 1677 01:35:22,920 --> 01:35:25,240 Speaker 5: best friend came out with a book called The Space 1678 01:35:25,320 --> 01:35:30,559 Speaker 5: Between Men, Yes, through Penguin Random House. Miaus Willis wrote 1679 01:35:30,560 --> 01:35:34,679 Speaker 5: The Space Between Men would highly recommend this beautiful poetry collection, 1680 01:35:34,960 --> 01:35:41,519 Speaker 5: which also touches on suicidality, gender, spirituality, mythos for folks 1681 01:35:41,560 --> 01:35:42,439 Speaker 5: who are interested in that. 1682 01:35:43,120 --> 01:35:43,599 Speaker 3: Amazing. 1683 01:35:43,640 --> 01:35:45,160 Speaker 4: We'll have to check that out. 1684 01:35:45,200 --> 01:35:46,800 Speaker 5: Oh I forgot one more thing. I'm so sorry, I 1685 01:35:46,800 --> 01:35:47,400 Speaker 5: forgot one more thing. 1686 01:35:47,400 --> 01:35:47,960 Speaker 4: Oh please. 1687 01:35:48,479 --> 01:35:51,960 Speaker 5: I am open for poetry commissions if you are looking 1688 01:35:51,960 --> 01:35:54,479 Speaker 5: for a poem for an upcoming event or for a 1689 01:35:54,479 --> 01:35:58,920 Speaker 5: loved one. I also audio record poems for performances such 1690 01:35:58,920 --> 01:36:02,760 Speaker 5: as drag performances, less performances, theater performances. So if you 1691 01:36:02,800 --> 01:36:05,200 Speaker 5: were interested in that, you can email me at Maya 1692 01:36:05,240 --> 01:36:08,120 Speaker 5: Williams one six at gmail dot com or use the 1693 01:36:08,120 --> 01:36:09,559 Speaker 5: context form and my website. 1694 01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:11,400 Speaker 4: Thank you, Oh my gosh, that's so I love that 1695 01:36:11,439 --> 01:36:16,040 Speaker 4: you do all of those performances. You can follow us 1696 01:36:16,160 --> 01:36:22,320 Speaker 4: on Instagram at Bechdel Cast. 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