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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey Zach, good morning, Welcome to

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Speaker 2: the show.

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Speaker 1: How are you hey, I'm pretty good. Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome, Thanks for being here. So this woman, Brianna,

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Speaker 2: we got to know everything. How did you meet? Tell

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Speaker 2: us about any dates that you've been on, and why

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Speaker 2: you think maybe you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, we met on hinge and like, after

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Speaker 3: chatting a bit, I got her number and I took

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Speaker 3: out for dreams and things.

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Speaker 1: Things were really floored, like pretty quickly.

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Speaker 3: So we went back to my place and she slept over.

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Speaker 1: Okay, uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like a great first date, I thought,

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Speaker 3: And I think that was a good sign, that it.

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Speaker 1: Was like a hookup and a sleepover. I think that

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Speaker 1: was all a good sign.

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Speaker 3: But now she's ghosting me, and I have no idea

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Speaker 3: why she won't respond.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I would agree with you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, normally, a date where everything goes well enough

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Speaker 2: that you wind up back at somebody's place and you

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Speaker 2: guys are messing around like I would normally say that's

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Speaker 2: a good sign and that you might see somebody for

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Speaker 2: a second date after that. But I assume you've called,

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Speaker 2: you've texted and nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just texted. I don't want to call.

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Speaker 3: If she hadn't answer, you didn't answer a.

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Speaker 1: Text, like you could have left if.

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Speaker 2: She wasn't Yeah, I was just gonna say that, like

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Speaker 2: she stayed the night. I mean, even if it was, like,

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Speaker 2: even if the hookup was weird, normally you'd just bail

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Speaker 2: after that. But so I don't know, but it would

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Speaker 2: appear she's ghosting you. And that's where we come in.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call this woman, h Brianna. We're gonna ask

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Speaker 2: some questions. You'll be on the phone at the same time,

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Speaker 2: and the hope is that we can straighten this out

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Speaker 2: and then set you guys up on another date that

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Speaker 2: we pay for. Sound good, Yes, yes, I'm gonna play

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Speaker 2: one song and be right back, Zach. Hang on, all right,

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Speaker 2: bensonbou and it's the Fred Show. Good morning, Hey, Zach.

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Speaker 2: All right, I's called Brianna. You guys met on the

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Speaker 2: dating app Pinge. You you met up drinks Scott Flirty

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Speaker 2: and then back to your place and then you say

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Speaker 2: that you guys hooked up and she spent the night.

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Speaker 2: But since she left the next day. You haven't been

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Speaker 1: You want to know why I do. All right, let's

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Speaker 1: call her now. Good luck, Zach, thank you. Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi is this Brianna? Hey Brianna, good morning. My name

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Speaker 2: is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show.

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Speaker 2: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 2: radio right now. The whole crew is here, and I

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Speaker 2: would need your permission to continue with a call. Is

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Speaker 2: it okay if we chat for a couple of minutes

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Speaker 2: on the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I know it's a little bit strange to get a

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Speaker 2: call from us, but maybe you've heard this before though.

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Speaker 2: It's called waiting by the phone. Calling on behalf of

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Speaker 2: a guy named Zach. I guess you guys met on

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Speaker 2: Hinge and you went on a date and U and

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Speaker 2: that he thought went pretty well.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember this guy? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I remember him very well.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So he didn't get into much detail, but he

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Speaker 2: was very flirty and wound up back in his place,

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Speaker 2: I guess. And he's surprised that he hasn't heard from you.

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Speaker 2: The date says he's texted you haven't responded, so what's

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of shocked.

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Speaker 1: He's surprised.

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Speaker 2: Or kind of shocked almost every time that people are surprised,

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Speaker 2: But uh, what did he miss? What are we missing?

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Speaker 4: So well, like the date did go well, Like the

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Speaker 4: there's somebody in here, and he tells me, Oh, don't

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Speaker 4: worry about it, that's probably just my mom. Whoa, And

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Speaker 4: I was like, what he goes, Yeah, she comes over

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, zach'on grown ass man. But you know Sunday's

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Speaker 2: mom comes over.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I thought he was a grown as man.

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Speaker 2: So mom's in the in the apartment and you're laying

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Speaker 2: in his bed naked.

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Speaker 4: I'm naked in his bed and he says this, and

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Speaker 4: I'm just like what I like, I would like and

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Speaker 4: he's just, well, it's fine, Like no, it's not. And

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Speaker 4: like there's no way for me to get out, and

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you put your clothes on and just pass

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Speaker 2: right by her. I mean, did you guys like chat

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Speaker 4: That's what he's telling me, And I'm just like, I mean,

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Speaker 4: I basically had to was like fine, and I thought, well,

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Speaker 4: it's not like I'll ever have to face this woman again.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, I have a few questions and I'm

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Speaker 2: going to ask Zach those questions because Zach is here.

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Speaker 2: And I apologize Brionna that I forgot to mention that

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Speaker 2: I'm very forgetful. Okay, first of all, why is mom

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Huh?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I mean my mom likes to do it.

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Speaker 3: It's like it makes your happy, Like I am I

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Speaker 3: going to deny her that to like.

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Speaker 1: Come over and like, yeah, okay, fine, I mean she's

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Speaker 2: Know, But like if you knew if it's Saturday and

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Speaker 2: you're bringing a girl home Saturday night, and you know

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Speaker 2: that every Sunday your mom lets herself in to clean

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Speaker 2: you say, hey, you know you probably need to go

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Speaker 2: unless you want to awkwardly meet my mother tomorrow morning

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Speaker 2: kind of thing, like if I knew mom was coming over,

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, we usually like my mom and she

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Speaker 3: makes me breakfast, like she would have made you breakfast

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Speaker 3: in these day, Brianna, Like I could have had like

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Speaker 3: a nice morning, nice Sunday morning with my mom.

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Speaker 2: Could have stayed for a nice omelet or something. Did

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Speaker 2: you know that was that invitation extended to you? Or no?

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Speaker 1: No it was not.

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Speaker 2: Oh so what was the what was the interaction? Like,

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Speaker 4: It was just like I sort of like planned my

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Speaker 4: like stretch the door, like I was literally like mission

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Speaker 1: Miss like I was just like, how do I.

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Speaker 4: And then as soon as I opened the door, like

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Speaker 5: Got me to see them sheets in? They do? I

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Speaker 5: want to pay a little extra attention to the bedroom.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what that is on there. But I mean, Zach, like,

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Speaker 5: this isn't weird for you? Like your mom was watching

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Speaker 5: people that you hooke up with in date. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I realized we're all grown ups here, But like, isn't

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Speaker 3: I mean no, if it wasn't comfortable, I would have

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Speaker 3: asked Brianna to leave so that.

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Speaker 1: But no, what about your poor mom? Is it uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: for her? No?

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Speaker 5: Another one?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, She's like, what's this one's name? All right?

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Speaker 1: So look, Zach, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if it were Saturday, I I and

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Speaker 2: Sunday's coming, I feel like I'd plan differently, But not you.

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Speaker 2: I guess, Brianna, would you give this guy another chance?

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Speaker 2: I mean, everything was going fine until mom showed up

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Speaker 2: to do the dishes or whatever on Sunday morning, which

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Speaker 2: is still kind of a little strange. But would you

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Speaker 2: give another shot? Because it sounds like you guys were

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Speaker 2: fine until then.

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Speaker 4: I mean, okay, here's my thing. The mom thing is

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Speaker 4: the problem. But also like the thought process is a

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Speaker 2: But why does that not click at this I'm sure

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Speaker 2: she's available on another day, right, you know?

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Speaker 1: But maybe not?

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Speaker 2: But you missed a good breakfast I guess a nice

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Speaker 2: So all right, so is that a no, that's just

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Speaker 2: an overall we're not doing that again.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's that's an know for me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Zach?

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Speaker 2: Well, Zach, look sounds like everything was going fine until

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Speaker 2: until Mom showed up. So I don't know, maybe I

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Speaker 2: maybe we would talk about the schedule, maybe Mom can

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Speaker 2: come afternoon or something. I don't I don't know. Maybe,

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Speaker 2: I mean I would have at least shot her at

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Speaker 2: text and been like, hey, I got a guess, like

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Speaker 2: can you come a little later? Or hey, can I

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Speaker 2: do my own laundry this week? Maybe because I'm grown

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Speaker 2: asked me there you go?

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Speaker 3: I mean ivery, so she likes to do it and

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Speaker 3: she's a nice person, like she gets along with everyone.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't think anyone's questioning that. But okay, so

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Speaker 2: it's not going to be a manage Zach, I'm sorry, dude. Hey,

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Speaker 2: he's close with his mom, Brianna, I mean a little

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Speaker 2: maybe a little too close, but he's very close. Is

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Speaker 2: that not a redeeming factor?

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Speaker 4: I think I think it's more like she's a little

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Speaker 4: too close.

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Speaker 2: I see, Okay, fair enough. Look guys, I'm sorry it's

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Speaker 2: not going to work out. Brianna Zach. Thank you both

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Speaker 2: for your time. Best of luck.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you