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Speaker 1: He's ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Jenny. Hello, Hi Jenny, good morning.

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Speaker 1: How are you tell us what's going on with this

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Speaker 1: guy Mike in waiting by the phone? What's the deal?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Well, I mean the long story short is that

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Speaker 3: he won't reach back out. And I really thought we

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Speaker 3: were going to see each other again. We met on

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Speaker 3: bumble and our first date was so good and just

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Speaker 3: now I haven't heard from him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so tell us about the date though, Like you met,

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Speaker 1: you chatted, you did the whole thing and changed phone

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Speaker 1: numbers whatever you do on these apps, and then I say,

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Speaker 1: whatever you do, like I don't know, oh I know

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Speaker 1: it well. And then you went on a date. So

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Speaker 1: what was the date?

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Speaker 4: Like, Well, we.

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Speaker 3: Went to get some drinks, but then decided to have

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Speaker 3: dinner afterwards and kind of extend things. And I will

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Speaker 3: say that kwite. A few drinks were served, but we

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Speaker 3: were having fun and like we were both kind of,

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Speaker 3: you know, a little bit under the influence.

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Speaker 2: But anyways, one thing.

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Speaker 3: Led to another and we ended up back at his

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Speaker 3: place where we ended up having even more fun, if

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Speaker 3: you get what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Right, all right, this is a good first day.

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Speaker 3: It was so great. And then the next morning, like

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Speaker 3: I woke up, we exchanged kind of I don't know,

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Speaker 3: sure that I would hear from him again for another date,

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Speaker 3: but I haven't.

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Speaker 2: Let's call him now. Good luck, Jenny, thank you. Hello

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Speaker 2: is Mike.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is Mike.

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Speaker 2: Hey, my good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling

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Speaker 2: from the Fred's Show.

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Speaker 1: The whole crew is here, and I do have to

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Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now

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Speaker 1: and I do need your permission to continue with the

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Speaker 1: call can which you have for just a second on

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Speaker 1: the show.

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Speaker 5: Ooh, this doesn't sound good.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, we'll see. We'll see how you feel about it.

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Speaker 1: But thank you. We're calling on behalf of a woman

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Speaker 1: who says she met you on one of the dating

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Speaker 1: apps and was bumble. Her name is Jenny, and you

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Speaker 1: guys went out. Do you remember Jenny?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I remember Jenny.

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Speaker 2: You remember Jenny? Okay, So what's going on with her?

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Speaker 1: Because she called us and had a lot of nice

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Speaker 1: things to say about you and the date thought everything

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Speaker 1: went well, she thought it was a success, and says

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Speaker 1: that she's reached out to you. You haven't responded, She

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Speaker 1: hasn't heard from you. She feels like she's being ghosted.

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Speaker 1: So what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Boy? It's all right. Well, Jenny, Jenny was very cool.

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Speaker 5: We had a really nice time on the date itself.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how much she told you. I don't

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Speaker 5: want to embarrass her.

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Speaker 1: No, she said that you guys had drinks and then

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Speaker 1: drinks turned into dinner, and then you want to back

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Speaker 2: And she said that she stayed the night. That's what

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, well I didn't. Yeah, I was gonna say.

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to say anything if she didn't. But yeah,

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Speaker 5: that's so. Obviously the date went well and we got

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Speaker 5: back to my place. We had a really nice night.

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Speaker 6: But when we were naked, I noticed she had a

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Speaker 6: tattoo on her abdomen. Okay, it was and it was

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Speaker 6: some words and what looked like an arrow, but like

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Speaker 6: in the dark, it was kind of you know, at night,

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Speaker 6: I couldn't really make it out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I couldn't really see it clearly.

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Speaker 4: And in the morning it was it.

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Speaker 5: Was real clear instead.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, but you could see it in the morning.

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Speaker 5: In the morning it was very clear. It said Adam's

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Speaker 5: cat with an arrow pointed down to her. I don't

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Speaker 5: know what possibly, because that soundly someone to do a tattoo,

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Speaker 5: but like, like, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't know who Adam is, but whoever he is, I'm.

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Speaker 5: Not into it, so I'm not trying to share.

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Speaker 2: His to say that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Jenny, you got to say something. That's Jenny. By

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Speaker 1: the way, Mike, I forgot to mention, I'm very forgetful.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry Jenny. Here, Jenny, who is Adam? And why

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Speaker 3: Okay, so Adam is my ex husband and you know,

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Speaker 3: a long time ago we thought it was funny and

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Speaker 3: I never thought I was going to divorce him, clearly,

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Speaker 3: and it's covered in swimsuits, right, so like who cares.

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Speaker 3: What I'm confused about is like why Mike is so

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Speaker 3: insecure and like juvenile about this and like clearly a prude?

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Speaker 5: Oh I mean, I mean, okay, I mean I don't

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Speaker 5: think I was being a prude. I just listen.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, right, you could.

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Speaker 5: Come up with a better story for it, too, Like

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Speaker 5: you know, you could just say, like, listen, I was

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Speaker 5: really religious when I was you order to ease, I

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Speaker 7: That was Why the lord, what does that have to

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Speaker 7: do with anything? I mean, I don't There's a few

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Speaker 1: One you're permanently branded by with another man's name who's

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Speaker 1: no longer in the picture too. It's sort of the

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Speaker 1: whole process and the thought behind it, and the fact

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Speaker 1: that you think it's funny. Now you might think that's funny.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't seem to think that's funny. Anyone not named

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Speaker 1: Adam is probably not gonna think that's funny.

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Speaker 3: Well, I thought it was funny once upon a time, right, like,

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Speaker 3: but now it's just whatever. It's part of my past. People,

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Speaker 3: you know, get tattoos that unfortunately don't have meaning later

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Speaker 3: in their life, like everyone does this. I just don't

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Speaker 3: get why that's enough that you would ghost me.

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Speaker 2: Does your ex husband have a tattoo? There is Jenny's

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Speaker 2: bat in an arrow? I mean, it's a fair question.

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Speaker 1: Was there was there a reciprocal tattoo of any kind

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Speaker 1: or or is it?

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Speaker 2: Is it just Adam's case?

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Speaker 3: This is I don't think this is a fair question.

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Speaker 3: What I'm hearing is that Mike is really insecure because, Okay,

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Speaker 3: Adam exists, My ex husband exists with or without a tattoo,

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Speaker 3: So does his existence bother you? And like every other

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Speaker 3: lover I've had, Well.

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Speaker 2: Is there a tattoo for all of them?

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Speaker 1: It's not.

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Speaker 5: It's not every other because yeah, you didn't get a

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Speaker 5: testoo for all of them, so clearly the other ones

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Speaker 5: you had, like I don't know how many tattoos. I

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Speaker 4: I think you should just find some other guy named Adam.

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Speaker 5: I mean, just be like looking for an Adam, you know.

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Speaker 4: Like you could, and then you could just amend the tattoos.

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Speaker 4: Is Adam too?

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Speaker 1: Is I just I just think it's every single time

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Speaker 1: that you're in that area of another peron, right, it's

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Speaker 1: like commemorating a person who was once It's like, I

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Speaker 2: And then then it comes.

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Speaker 1: To the other part of it, which is the part

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Speaker 1: that you think it's funny, and not everyone's gonna think

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Speaker 1: that's funny, you.

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Speaker 2: Know what I mean, Jenny, I mean.

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Speaker 3: Paying no, I keep saying I thought it was funny

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Speaker 3: once upon a time. All I'm hearing is insecure men. Okay,

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Speaker 3: if you can't handle that, that's not my problem. Be

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Speaker 2: Wait, didn't you say you thought the tattoo was funny?

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Speaker 2: Why are you all serious? Now? Yeah, I mean at

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Speaker 2: the time, so remove married, you know, just get it

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Speaker 2: lasered off. It's not his can anymore? So why is it?

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Speaker 2: Is Adam still hitting nicky?

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Speaker 3: I don't need to get it lasered off. It's covered

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Speaker 3: in swimsuits.

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Speaker 6: No one should carew Eventually, if you meet somebody and.

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Speaker 7: You have a relationship with relationship with somebody, they're gonna be.

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Speaker 2: Like, hey, what are you gonna do about this situation?

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Speaker 1: You could you cross out Adam and Mike like it?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean you had to know this could potentially.

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Speaker 3: Happen, you know, because also I'm not marrying Mike, like

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Speaker 3: we're Jenny Moore actually dating. Why do I have to

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Speaker 3: alter my body for him?

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Speaker 2: That's right? I mean, all right, well what you made

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Speaker 2: a good point? Do you know she's out here dating?

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Speaker 2: You don't know who can? That's gonna be nickt.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, how about just the line we fill it in,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, with a nice sharpie or something,

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Speaker 1: you know it comes off.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Look, hey, Jenny, you can do whatever you want to

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Speaker 1: your own body. Get whatever tattoos you want. I just

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Speaker 1: think you got to you got to think that other

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Speaker 1: men might not love looking at that as you move

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Speaker 1: forwards other insecure.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, maybe maybe just find a guy who

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Speaker 5: needs glasses so you can't read it when he's up,

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Speaker 5: you know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's that's an option.

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Speaker 3: Turned off by how funny you think you are, Mike,

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Speaker 3: So I'm just good. I'm not well.

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Speaker 2: He turned off by how many you thought you were?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 5: You thought you're pretty funny too once upon a time.

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Speaker 1: So okay, the whole thing, I mean, it didn't offend

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Speaker 1: him enough not to do it, but he's offended now.

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Speaker 2: So it always happens like you're there.

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Speaker 5: I didn't know what was I didn't know what was

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Speaker 5: there at night.

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Speaker 2: You have a flashlight hands, so yeah, I understand the.

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Speaker 5: First thing in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Now, I was like, oh, all right, Adam's a lucky guy.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like her. He was every Adam's gonna start texting

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Speaker 2: us now, Yeah, yeah, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jenny, I'll find you add him right now? Would

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Speaker 1: you like another Adam?

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Speaker 3: I'm all set. I think I figured this out.

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Speaker 2: She's not happy